Sunday Bulletin for January 27, 2019

Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M.

THE PARISH OF SAINT MARY A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time

One Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, NJ 07722 Phone: 732-780-2666 Fax: 732-780-0394

Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch Deacon: John Wedemeyer

Trustees: Bill LaMorte Irene Weller

Parish Office hours Mon. - Thurs. 8:30 am - 7:30 pm Open Sunday 9 am - 12 noon.

Parish Membership: New Parishioners are welcome to register at the office at any time.

New Parishioner Orientation (quarterly) - will be held March 3, 11 am Contact Parish Office at parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org Registration is required.

Sacraments: Eucharist Detailed Mass times listed on page 2 Penance & Reconciliation Saturday 3 pm or by appointment.

Marriage Contact the Parish Office one year in advance for information & guidelines.

Baptism Contact the Parish Office for information & required paperwork three months in advance.

There are no Baptisms during Advent or Lent, please plan accordingly.

Saturday, 2 February Presentation of the LORD

Candlemas Day 9 am Mass in the Church

Religious Education Registration Dates Abbreviated Summer Intensive: February 1 - noon March 31 Fall RE Classes: April 1 - noon May 30

Sunday, 3 February Memorial, St. Blaise, Bishop & Martyr

All families seeking for Religious Education must have a My Own Church (MOC) portal login.

Blessing of the Throats at all Sunday Masses

Visit our Website: www.stmaryscoltsneck.org

See Pages 6 & 7

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Mass Intentions for the Week January 28 - February 3 For * Requested by Monday, January 28 - 9 AM Chapel St. Thomas Aquinas Henry Lohn * Al and Heide Lohn Mafalda Coseglia * Tom and Angela Kinlin

Tuesday, January 29 - 9 AM Chapel Konstantine Bogdanos * Martha Mary Guild John Tirpak * Carl and Marilyn Simone

Wednesday, January 30 - 9 AM Chapel Suzanne Pyron * Ken Rogers Family Lori Turkaly * Darryl Turkaly

Thursday, January 31- 9 AM Chapel St. John Bosco Barbara Dougherty * David Findel Stephen Caruso * Tom and Angela Kinlin

Friday, February 1- 9 AM Chapel First Friday Anthony DeSimone * Joann and Robert Buhler Edith Iannelli * Joseph, Cindy and Matthew Iannelli Saturday, February 2 - Church The Presentation of the Lord; Blessing of Candles; First Saturday; World Day for Consecrated Life 9 AM Marion Panebianco * Richard and Marie Innocenzi 4 PM Pro Populo Ed Eastman * Verga and Eastman Family Stephen Petrovcin * Laura and Thomas Tiefenthaler Sunday, February 3 – Church Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time 8 AM Ronald Snyder * Susan and Bob Monaco Jean Brock * Joe and Tami Minichini Robert Arcoleo * Joe and Tami Minichini 10 AM Cory Aufiero * John and Amy Orrico Albert Addler * Dolores Addler John Tirpak * Freda O’Doherty 12 PM Robert A. McNamara * McNamara Family Victor Norulak * Weller Family Mr. and Mrs. Alphonse Stoia * Sophia and Ralph

Rest in Peace Please remember in your prayers, those who have recently died.

Michael Coleman

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Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill: Irene Baron Fr. Bill Bausch Eileen Beckley John Beckley Ted Damen Logan Dayton John DeStefano Lynette Colaco-Desouza Kaitlin Donahue Nagle Susan Endlicher James Liam Engel James Fiedler Emily Gioacchini Edward Habrack Tom Hudak

Carl Johnson Theresia Kopp Bridget Korn Lori Lettieri Donna Lodi Vincent Loretta Pauline Madzin Leonidas Mavrookas Mary Joan McNamara Stellanne Scalia Owen Shoemaker Christine Shrewsbury Angelo Stanco Lauren Vinci Irene Weller

To add a family member to the sick list for 8 weeks, please call or e-mail the Parish Office. Thank you!

732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Lifelong Catechesis Week January 28 - February 3 READINGS FOR THE WEEK Monday: Heb 9:15, 24-28; Mk 3:22-30 Tuesday: Heb 10:1-10; Mk 3:31-35 Wednesday: Heb 10:11-18; Mk 4:1-20 Thursday: Heb 10:19-25; Mk 4:21-25 Friday: Heb 10:32-39; Mk 4:26-34 Saturday: Mal 3:1-4; Heb 2:14-18; Lk 2:22-40 Sunday, February 3 - Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time Jer 1:4-5, 17-19; 1 Cor 12:31 -- 13:13; Lk 4:21-30 Questions for Deeper Reflections: Question for Children: What ways do you show God’s love to someone who is lonely or hurting?

Question for Youth: Who are the people in your life who mean the most to you? How do you show them how important they are to you?

Question for Adults: What is a way you show members of your -Lifelong Catechesis family your love for them?

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Parish Office: 732-780-2666 parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bulletin Deadline: Electronic format by 12 noon Thursday of the prior week (10 days before). parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bulletin Editor: Catherine Love Liturgical, Music & Worship Ministries Contact: Andrew J. Macirowski Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org Principal Cantor Contact: David Maliakel Adult Faith Formation & Religious Education Contact: Jim Bridges FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org

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PRAY for Military & First Responders SN Colton Boag, USCG Pvt Devon Francis Chrzan, USMC Chief Blake Conley, USN Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army Major Douglas Coppola, US Army SN Christian Houlihan, USN Pvt Michael John Mento, US Army 1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army 1st Lt. Ryan Tanguay, US Army Staff Sergeant Stephen Witherow, USAF If there is a family member you wish to be placed on the list, please call the Parish Office at 732-7802666. Please include rank and branch of service.

Temporal Administration, Stewardship & Outreach Contact: Edwin A. Sevillano TemporalAdmin@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Sanctuary Lamps

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As a subscriber you will receive a Print Edition (delivered to your mailbox 26 times a year for only $29) There is a Monitor subscription envelope in the Offertory Envelope quarterly mailing.

Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or Christ Chapel. These intentions are on a weekly basis starting with the Sunday.

The suggested donation for Sanctuary Lamp is $25.

Upcoming availability Church & Chapel 2/17 - 2/23, 2/24 - 3/2, & 3/3 - 3/9 Chapel 2/3 - 2/9 & 2/10 - 2/16

Church Joan LaVance Linda Dickinson Pancila

Please consider a subscription!

Christ Chapel Online giver & want a subscription?

Order through New Saint Mary Online Giving, link... https://goo.gl/YEbzkv

Intentions of Louis Mavrookas Suzanne Schlesinger

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Andrew J. Macirowski Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist

Why should we sing at Mass? ...A very important question that has fortunately simple answers. We should sing at Mass because the Universal Church points us to do so. One of the driving reasons behind the reforms of the Second Vatican Council was for “Full and active participation in the Mass”.

What does this mean? … This means attentive listening to the word of God during the liturgy of the word. This means that when we say “Thanks Be To God”, we truly mean it. This means that when we respond to the Word of the Lord in the psalm, we sing its antiphon or refrain with our whole voice and heart. We watch, listen, and respond in song to the priest during the prayers of the Communion Rite. The Mass is not a spectator sport. We MUST participate.

The singing of the Ordinary, (the parts of the Mass that do not change weekly: the Gloria, the Eucharistic Acclamations, etc) is of utmost importance and these parts are to always be sung at EVERY Mass.

The singing of the Propers of the Mass (the parts that change: the psalms, the communion antiphon, etc) is a tradition as old as the organized Church itself, and it is one that we carry on today.

The singing of the hymns (a tradition borrowed from our Protestant brethren, who borrowed it from the Catholic tradition of singing hymns at the Liturgy of the Hours), although optional, is still important, as the hymns that are chosen for a particular day are meant to re-affirm the teachings of the readings from the day, or the nature of the liturgical season.

Don’t know the hymn or song? Listen to the first verse or two and join in later.

Think the instruments might be too loud? Not if the entire congregation joins in the singing.

Can’t carry a tune in a suitcase? Sing anyway, for the Lord will hear and be glad.

CAN carry a tune in a suitcase? Join the choir!

Andrew J. Macirowski, Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist

Altar Server Training February 17 & 24 Any young people of the parish who have received their First Holy Communion or older who would like to be trained as an altar server, there will be training sessions held on February 17 and 24, following the 10 am Mass, in the Church.

Email Andrew worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org to sign up.

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Worship Ministry Schedule: February 2 - February 3: Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time Altar Server

Saturday, 9:00 AM Presentation of the Lord (Church)

Saturday, 4:00 PM (Church)

Sunday, 8:00 AM (Church)

Sunday, 10:00 AM (Church)

Sunday, 12:00 PM (Church)

EMs of Holy Communion

Reader 1

Reader 2

Cantor

LWD

Usher

NOT FILLED NOT FILLED NOT FILLED NOT FILLED

NOT FILLED - Center Cup NOT FILLED - Organ Host Barbara Schaflin - Center Host NOT FILLED - Tabernacle Host NOT FILLED - Organ Cup NOT FILLED - Tabernacle Cup NOT FILLED - Alternate

Barbara Schaflin

NOT FILLED

David Maliakel

NOT FILLED

Anthony Buzzetta Michael Buzzetta Alexander Lennon

Susan Murphy - Center Cup Justine Buzzetta - Organ Host Monty Matrisciani - Center Host Susan Baker - Tabernacle Host Helene Lind - Organ Cup Trudy Matrisciani - Tabernacle Cup Emily Santangelo - Alternate

Michael Zarraga

Dering Sprague

Magnificat Choir

Maria Greenstein

NOT FILLED NOT FILLED NOT FILLED

Gail Hall - Center Cup Rosanne LaCava - Organ Host Paul Osmulski - Center Host Martha Leonhardt - Tabernacle Host Susan Osmulski - Organ Cup Lisa Aldridge - Tabernacle Cup Mike LaCava - Alternate

John McCrae

Anthony Bongiorno

David Maliakel

Gabriella Penczak Valeska Yaninas Tesya Yaninas

Edward Moskal - Center Cup Dawn Reinhardt - Center Cup Dolores Addler - Organ Host Sue Fitzpatrick - Center Host Richard Yaeger - Tabernacle Host Helen DeCerce - Organ Cup Joseph Merante - Tabernacle Cup Maureen Geiger - Alternate

Matt Yaninas

Stanley Drusdow

Bridget Farrow

Jessica Ward

Leigh Gavinelli John Orrico Greg Penczak Jack Zumba Charlie Gavinelli Allan Ryan Jamie Steiner NOT FILLED

Tommy Zita NOT FILLED NOT FILLED

Patricia Gesner - Center Cup NOT FILLED - Organ Host Irene Weller - Center Host Anna May Schellenberger - Tabernacle Host Lee Gesner - Organ Cup Patricia Balbo - Tabernacle Cup Maria Gerbino - Alternate

Richard Gerbino

T Mullen

Marybeth Jacobson

Fernando Pinguelo

James Dolan Joe Mancino Joseph Rinaldo William Starce NOT FILLED

John Grabowski Jim Davis Bob Lind Frank Sikorskas NOT FILLED NOT FILLED Michael Boliver George Watts James Pifer Jim Boliver NOT FILLED

The annual celebration of World Marriage Day is on Sunday, February 10, 2019, and National Marriage Week is from February 7 through February 14.

At this special time of year, we recall that it was at a wedding, a joyful celebration of marriage, that Jesus performed his first miracle. In Cana of Galilee he launched his ministry and started on his road to the cross. Marriage is so fundamental to our faith that it is often called the primordial sacrament.

It is an efficacious sign of Christ’s love for his bride, the Church.

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Dr. Jim Bridges Pastoral Coordinator of Faith Formation and Religious Education FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Religious Education Registration (Summer, Fall & Online) will need a My Own Church (MOC) portal login to register. www.stmaryscoltsneck.org

New Bible Study - 10 sessions The Prophets: Messengers of God’s Mercy Join us in a study on the prophets, presented by Thomas Smith! Each week, you will come to know a prophet from Scripture and learn how his message sheds light on our faith and our lives.

In getting to know these messengers of God, you will read Scripture and the Catechism, while answering thought-provoking questions and powerful reflections. Plus, you will learn practical ways to apply the messages of the prophets in your own life.

Dates: Time: Fee:

2/12 - 4/17 Tues 7:30 pm or Wed 10 am $30 to cover materials

CONTACT Dr. Jim Bridges faithformation@stmaryscoltsneck.org Register online https://goo.gl/4ACyng

Confirmation Prep Grades 7 & 8 Next few sessions

All families seeking Religious Education must be registered parishioners and have a My Own Church (MOC) portal login to be able to register for any of The Parish of Saint Mary Religious Education offerings.

The process to create a MOC portal login and receive a temporary password can take a few days. This interface is not mobile device friendly and has been known to have emails blocked by several of the email providers.

PLEASE give yourself time to complete the process BEFORE RE Registration Opens. New Users please use the My Own Church

Button

found on the parish website

NOTE: Select The Parish of Saint Mary, Colts

Neck from the dropdown menu (fourth from the bottom). Registering from a mobile device is not supported. Please use a computer. Existing Users please find the login you

Date

Group Time

1/27/2019 2/3/2019

B A

5-6:30 pm Super Bowl - 3:30 pm Class

2/10/2019

B

5-6:30 pm

created last year.

My Own Church is for existing registered parishioners. If you wish to join the Parish please call the Parish Office at 732-780-2666.

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Religious Education Registration Dates Abbreviated

Outline of Process for completing RE Registration

Summer Intensive: February 1 - March 31 Fall RE Classes: April 1 - May 30

1. Once MOC login has been received, submit a request for student(s) and grades required.

Summer Intensive classes are for students entering grades 1-6. Classes run Monday through Friday for 2 weeks from 8:30 am -12:30 pm. Admission is on a first come first serve basis. Classes closed when they fill. We encourage you to register early.

Summer Intensive 1 : July 22 – 26 & 29 – August 2 Summer Intensive 2 : August 12 – 16 & 19 - 23 Summer Tuition remains the same as last year, $300 per student.  Summer Registration starts February 1, 2019.  There is an Early Registration discount of $50 per student, for those that complete the full process including payment before February 28, 2019 at 12 noon.  Summer Registration will end on March 31, 2019 at 12 noon.

Fall Religious Education programming are for students entering grades 1 - 8. st nd  Tuesday evening classes for 1 & 2 graders th th  Sunday evening sessions for 7 & 8 graders rd th  Online program for students in 3 to 6 grade.

Fall Tuition remains the same as last year , $250 per student.  Fall Registration starts April 1, 2019.  There is an Early Registration discount of $50 per

student, for those that complete the full process including payment before April 30, 2019 at 12 noon.  Fall Registration will end on May 30, 2019 at 12 noon.

2. Once request is received by RE office, it will be verified and processed, then an invoice will be created for payment, and be emailed back to family. This email/Invoice will include web link to make payments through our Online Giving portal.

Please note, a student’s placement is not regarded as certain until payment is made. A final verification will be sent to confirm placement and that the process is complete.

Payments will only be through the Saint Mary Online Giving (NO PAYPAL or checks).

The Saint Mary Online Giving is not the same interface/portal as My Own Church where sessions and grades are requested.

All cancelations are subject to a $10 processing fee.

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Quo vadis…

My Dear Parishioners: Today we celebrate the Third Sunday in Ordinary Time. Living the paschal mystery means that we continually look for the poor, captive, blind, and oppressed among us. We don’t have to look very far! “Today this passage has been fulfilled” is now true only when we ourselves respond to those around us who need a nourishing, strengthening, joyful word. This means that God’s word isn’t something we only hear on Sunday, but becomes a living word in our hearts, inspiring us to be in our very selves living gospels. As we gradually grow into being anointed by the Spirit, we, like Jesus, are the fulfillment of the Scriptures.

Our Pastor Emeritus Father Bausch has been hospitalized since Christmas Day. Recognizing his need for privacy and the avoidance of contact with others to shield him from germs etc…I waited for several weeks to visit him. We had a short but very enjoyable visit. He looks very good and is regaining his strength. With his permission I share with you that he has been diagnosed with “acute leukemia”. Father Bausch is most grateful for your many prayers and remembrances. While he enjoys visits, I encourage you to be mindful of his need for personal space during this time. As I write this he is being evaluated for some complications of the heart. He expects to transition from the medical center back home where there is a care facility, and, when/ if needed, hospice care. Father Bausch approaches his 90th Birthday 3 March 2019.

Let us give thanks to God for such a priest of God who continues to serve through his prayer even in his time of infirmity. I will keep you posted as I am able.

Saturday, 2 February we will bless candles to be used for the Sacred Liturgy celebrated in our parish. Those wishing to bring candles from their homes to be blessed are encouraged to do so. Please join us for this liturgy at 9:00 am in the Church.

Each year 3 February is the optional memorial day of Saint Blasé, bishop and martyr. It is customary that the faithful come to the church to have their throats blessed. We will bless throats at the conclusion of each Mass on Sunday, 3 February.

I encourage you to keep this wonderful custom by prayerfully participating in the celebration of Eucharist.

The Season of Lent begins in early March this year. Start thinking now about how you might enter into this time of prayer and penance.

Make time for some private prayer and devotion. Consider celebrating the Eucharist more frequently by participating in daily Mass celebrated in the Lenten Chapel. The Way of the Cross is another opportunity for meditation on the Lord’s Passion and Death. Please mark your calendar for Sunday, 7 April at 3:00 pm in order to participate in our Parish Lenten Penance Service. We will have 15 or so priest confessors for your convenience. Our parish staff members and liturgical leaders will be reaching out to parishioners for participation in the Liturgies of Holy Week, The Triduum, and Easter. Please be open to participating so that we might continue to include as many parishioners as possible.

Have a great week. Let us remember one another in payer. Happy Sunday. Peace.

Father Jeff

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Sharing Our Treasure January 20 Second Sunday in Ordinary-Time Weekly Sacrificial Stewardship

$15,810.80

Envelope Contributions

$9,566.00

Electronic/Online Contributions

$4,828.80

Loose Contributions

$1,416.00

Avg. Contribution per Household this week $39.01 # of Contributing Households # Registered Parishioner Households

369 1,241

Additionally, because of your contributions, we were able to send $1,000 to the appeal for Latin America THANK YOU for the Sacrificial Stewardship Offerings as we support the ministries, programs and facilities of our parish.

May God Bless you for the sacrifices that you make.

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Sign up for Online Giving and stop using offering envelopes!

It is convenient, secure and eco-friendly! You will also be saving the parish the cost of printing and mailing you envelopes. And you won't have to remember to write checks or stop by the ATM on Sundays! Plus earn cashback, miles, or points when using your rewards credit card!

Besides you can pick up our “I GAVE ONLINE" cards at the Parish Office and use them at collection time.

To start, visit https://goo.gl/w4oTes from your smartphone, tablet or PC, or scan the QR code below.

End Of Year Contribution Statement

Saint Mary Parish Online Giving is powered by

If you wish to receive an official statement, in paper form, of your 2018 contributions, please provide a self-addressed stamped envelope to the parish office by mail or drop it in the collection basket by January 27, 2019. Requests will be processed & mailed by the end of January.

Please do not make your request by phone.

NOTE: Apps are also available for both iOS and Android devices:

NOTE: 2018 total contribution accounting may be retrieved from each family’s My Own Church Portal.

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The Vatican Cookbook

An official tax statement can also be requested and sent by email. parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org

A unique collection of exceptional recipes from simple to sublime, everyday staples to holiday feasts.

For sale at the Parish Of ice. A perfect gift for cooks and foodies! Only $35.

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In celebration of L O V E join us for

Post Valentine Day Dance Friday, February 15, 2019

10 January Martha Mary Meeting

Two huge bags were filled with hats and gloves and scarves which the wonderful women of Martha Mary brought to our meeting about CASA. Copresidents Ginny and Rorie are pictured left.

Love is in the Air… Madonna Hall 7:00 pm-11:00 pm Tickets: $5.00 per person— $40.00 table of eight (No sales at the door.

Must be purchased in advance) Tickets on sale at the Parish Office or online at goo.gl/A1GMxb Plan with friends to fill a table of 8 and plan your table menu— appetizers, dinner, or dessert you choose! We supply the venue, atmosphere, music (DJ), water, tea /coffee.. BYOB & BYOF.

No partner? Bring your friends who enjoy line/group dancing!

Attire: Dressy Casual Come with dancing shoes! communitybuilding@stmaryscoltsneck.org

LOVE IN OUR WORKS Our Lord does not care so much for the importance of our works as for the love with which they are done.

--Teresa of Ávila

Program coordinators Barbara Schaflin and Kathy Adleman are pictured with CASA representative and guest speaker Lauren Waldman and also Barbara Matuscak who is a member of MMG and also a CASA volunteer. Pictured on right.

Catholic Childcare Center is open at The Parish of Saint Mary Now enrolling via Rolling Registration register your child for the childcare program anytime during the year when your child We serve children from 2 - 13.

Once children are school age there is before and after care as well as summer camp. reaches the age of admission.

Availability: Open Monday - Friday,

6:30 am - 6:30 pm, Full/Part time scheduling options

Jessica Pierz, Director 732-780-0135 jessica@fgkids.org

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