Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M. Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee
THE PARISH OF SAINT MARY A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time
One Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, NJ 07722 Phone: 732-780-2666 Fax: 732-780-0394
Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch Deacon: John Wedemeyer
Trustees: Bill LaMorte Irene Weller Parish Office hours Sunday 9 am – 12 noon Mon. & Tues. 8:45 am – 7:30 pm Wed. & Thurs. 8:45 am – 6:00 pm No office hours on Fri or Sat.
Parish Membership: New parishioners are welcome to register at the office at any time. New Parishioner Orientation - will be held Feb. 23, 11 am Contact Parish Office at parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org Registration is required. Sacraments:
Eucharist Detailed Mass times listed on page 2 Penance & Reconciliation Saturday 3 pm or by appointment. Marriage Contact the Parish Office one year in advance for information & guidelines. Baptism Next Baptismal Class TBD Contact the Parish Office for information & requirements three months in advance. There are no Baptisms during Advent or Lent, please plan accordingly.
Recycle Last Years Palms A receptacle has been placed in the gathering space & by the Parish Office to collect old palms. They are to be burnt, & the ashes are to be used Ash Wednesday for the imposition of the ashes.
Religious Education Registration Dates for 2020 - 2021 Summer Intensive: currently ongoing ends March 31 Fall RE Classes: April 1 - May 31 All families seeking to enroll in Religious Education need a My Own Church (MOC) portal login. See page 7 for more information.
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Mass Intentions for the Week of February 8 - February 16 For * Requested by Saturday, February 15 – 4 PM Church William Gurkas * Rosalyn Gurkas Joseph Merck * Barbara Saake Margery Voit Delaney * Rorie and Jack Coppola Sunday, February 16 – Church Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time 8 AM Philip Mascaro * Mascaro Family John Brenner * Eileen and Michael Stivala Vincenzo Verga * Liz Brady 10 AM
Pro Populo Deacon Anthony Mustillo * Gruenling Family Eleanor Coleman * Carol and Frank Donahue
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James Pellicano * Gabbard Family Joseph Nicholas D’Amadeo * Anthony Bisignano Mrs. Inez Fieramosca * Family Baptism following the 12 noon Mass Marcus Gregory Connelly Luka Jaxon Zrno Evelina Frances Marano Giavana Reese Dugo Alessia Eva Santos Monday, February 17 – 9 AM Chapel Lillian Corcoran * Francine and Joe Corcoran Tuesday, February 18 – 9 AM Chapel Tom Walsh * Maureen Beyer Rev. Monsignor James J. McGovern, D.D. * Rev. Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee, Staff and Parishioners Wednesday, February 19 – 9 AM Chapel Maria Pellicone * Norma Lieberman Thursday, February 20 – 9 AM Chapel Bill O’Doherty * Freda O’Doherty Mario Sessa * Sessa Family Friday, February 21 – 9 AM Chapel Maria C. Rappa * Carmela Marsillo Olga Pereira * Aida Pereira Saturday, February 22 – 4 PM Church Intentions of Lisa and Bill Aldridge * Tom and Angela Kinlin Intentions of Leonidas Mavrookas * Suzanne Schlesinger Peter and Marion DiSciullo and Vera Kaney * DiSciullo Family Sunday, February 23 – Church Eucharistic Sunday, Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time 8 AM Brian Patrick Wade *Neil and Jane Slattery DeStefano/Albruno Families * Mr. & Mrs. Franceschetti 10 AM
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John Barlotta * Vazzana Family Pauline Madzin * Susan and Neal Brunner and Family Francesco Valenti * Tagliavia Family Pro Populo Irene Fimiani * Parker Family Eva Grant * Balbo Family
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Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill: Marcela Abril Kathleen Amatel Fr Bill Bausch Eileen Beckley Susan Condon Blake Conley Logan Dayton John DeSimone John DeStefano Kaitlin Donahue Nagle Tom Fadale James Fiedler Emily Gioacchini John Grabowski Edward Habrack Tom Hudak
Theresia Kopp Bridget Korn Lori Lettieri Donna Lodi Leonidas Mavrookas Mary Joan McNamara Walter Moeller Kevin O’Shea Stanley Rembisz Paola Richmond Owen Shoemaker Seneida Tomasetti Nancy Vida Cecilia Vilca Lauren Vinci
To add a family member to the sick list for 8 weeks, please call or e-mail the Parish Office. Thank you! 732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Welcome to the newest members of our Saint Mary Parish family who was Baptized recently: Oliver Gabe Robbins
Sanctuary Lamps Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or Christ Chapel in memory of a loved one who has died or to honor a living person. The suggested donation for Sanctuary Lamp is $25. Upcoming availability Church: 3/22 - 3/28, 3/29 - 4/4, & 4/5 - 4/11 Christ Chapel: 2/16 - 2/22
CHURCH John Christopher Dickinson- Pancila Family
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Parish Office: 732-780-2666 parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bulletin Deadline: Electronic format by 12 noon Thursday of the prior week (10 days before). parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bulletin Editor: Catherine Love Liturgical, Music & Worship Ministries Contact: Andrew J. Macirowski Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Principal Cantor Contact: David Maliakel Adult Faith Formation & Religious Education Contact: Dr. Jim Bridges FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org
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PRAY for Military & First Responders SN Colton Boag, USCG LCpl Devon Francis Chrzan, USMC Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army Major Douglas Coppola, US Army Lt. Mary Herman, USN SN Christian Houlihan, USN Ensign Jason Joseph Howe, USN SPC Michael John Mento, US Army PV2 Nicholas Poskonka US Army Captain Richard Savo, US Army 1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army 1st Lt. Ryan Tanguay, US Army SSgt Stephen Witherow, USAF LCpl Edward Zarzecki, USMC If there is a family member you wish to be placed on the list, please contact the Parish Bulletin at 732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org. Please include rank and branch of service.
Temporal Administration, Stewardship & Outreach Contact: Edwin A. Sevillano TemporalAdmin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Lifelong Catechesis February 17 - February 23 Monday: Tuesday: Wednesday: Thursday: Friday:
Readings for the Week Jas 1:1-11; Mk 8:11-13 Jas 1:12-18; Mk 8:14-21 Jas 1:19-27; Mk 8:22-26 Jas 2:1-9; Mk 8:27-33 Jas 2:14-24, 26; Mk 8:34 — 9:1
Sunday, February 23- Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time Lv 19:1-2, 17-18; 1 Cor 3:16-23; Mt 5:38-48 Questions for Deeper Reflections: Question for Children: What can you do at home or at school to show that you follow Jesus’ Commandments? Question for Youth: Do you think Jesus was serious when he said to love your enemies? Why or why not? Question for Adults: Have you ever told someone to do something for his/her own well being? Do you accept God’s laws in the same - Lifelong Catechesis spirit of love and concern?
BAD COMPANY People who live solely for themselves are eventually corrupted by their own company. —Anonymous
Next weekend Feb. 22/23 will be Pledge Sunday for the 2020 Annual Catholic Appeal for the Diocese of Trenton. Each year the Bishop seeks the support of all of the members of the diocese to further the work of our ministries. Each of us has a vital part in all we do in Christ’s name, and each of us can share in all we do with a gift to the Annual Catholic Appeal. Our single Act of Faith propels the works of love that build up our Church. You make that happen with a generous gift to the ACA.
St. Augustine once said, “God gives where he finds empty hands.” As Christians, we are called to do the same. We come to the altar with empty hands. We are filled with Christ and we are asked to share Christ with all we meet. Thank you for your support!
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Andrew J. Macirowski Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Eucharistic Day On February 23, we will hold a Eucharistic Day here in our Parish. An outline of the day is as follows: 12 Noon Mass: At the conclusion of Mass, the Blessed Sacrament will be exposed and processed to the main altar. Throughout the afternoon, there is time for quiet adoration in the true presence. This is an excellent time to come spend time with the Lord Jesus in his house, to pray, to meditate, and to open your heart to his grace. At 3 PM, the chaplet of divine mercy will be prayed. In the prayers of the chaplet, we offer to God the Father the body and blood, soul and divinity of the Son, in atonement for our sins, and for mercy on the whole world. Aptly prayed at 3 o’clock, the hour of mercy, and the time of the expiration of our Lord on the cross, it is a simple but powerful form of prayer. Following the chaplet, there will be an additional period of silent adoration. At 3:50 PM, there will be a short organ interlude. At 4 PM, Vespers (evening prayer) will be prayed. Worship aids will be available so that the community may pray together. Vespers will conclude with benediction and the reposition of the Blessed Sacrament. We are offering this opportunity for our parish community to give thanks to the Lord for what we have, to offer our prayers for those in need, and to adore the lord in His Holy Presence. It is the hope of our staff that many of our parishioners will avail themselves of this invitation to come and spend some time with our Lord in prayer.
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Due to Cold & Flu Season Distribution of the Precious Blood (Chalice) at all daily and weekend Masses is discontinued until the Second Sunday of Easter. Thank you for your cooperation! During the Sign of Peace use your judgement on whether to share with just a wave.
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Co-Hort Schedules February 26 - ASH WEDNESDAY St. Catharine of Genoa, 108 Middletown Rd., Holmdel Masses: 9:00 am 7:30 pm Prayer Services: 12 Noon 5:00 pm
St Leo the Great 50 Hurleys Lane, Lincroft
St. Gabriel, 100 N. Main St., Marlboro
St. Mary Parish, 1 Phalanx Rd , Colts Neck
Masses: 9:00 am 7:30 pm
Mass: 9:00 am
Mass: 9:00 am
Prayer Service 4:30 pm
Prayer Services: 7:00 am 12:10 pm 6:00 pm 7:30 pm
Prayer Services: 12:15 pm 4:00 pm 5:30 pm 7:00 pm
Worship Schedule: February 22 - February 23: Seventh Sunday in Ordinary Time Altar Server
Saturday, 4:00 PM (Church)
Sunday, 8:00 AM (Church)
Sunday, 10:00 AM (Church)
Sunday, 12:00 PM (Church)
EMs of Holy Communion
Reader 1
Reader 2
Cantor
LWD Fernando Pinguelo
Usher
Mark Hines William Hines Christopher Montefusco
Emily Santangelo - Organ Host Sandra Montefusco - Center Host Susan Murphy - Tabernacle Host
Carl Simone
Charles Young
Marybeth Jacobson
Server Needed Server Needed Server Needed
Joyce Flynn - Organ Host Mike LaCava - Center Host Maureen Staub - Tabernacle Host
Kathy Maher
Reader needed
Colleen Swain
Eva Garcia Valeska Yaninas Danek Yaninas
Steve Stanley - Organ Host Helen DeCerce - Center Host Maureen Geiger - Tabernacle Host
Julia Cullen
Anthony Bongiorno
David Maliakel
Jennifer Garcia
Leigh Gavinelli John Orrico Greg Penczak Jack Zumba Charlie Gavinelli Allan Ryan Jaime Steiner
Jonathan Stubbs Server Needed Server Needed
Eucharistic Ministry needed - Organ Host Patricia Balbo - Center Host Patricia Gesner - Tabernacle Host
Jennifer Stubbs
T Mullin
Magnificat Choir
Liturgy of Word needed
James Dolan Joe Mancino Joseph Rinaldo William Starce Usher needed
John Grabowski Jim Davis Bob Lind Frank Sikorskas Usher needed Usher needed George Watts James Pifer Jim Boliver Usher needed Usher needed
Way of the Cross Lenten Fridays: Feb. 28, March 6, 13, 20, 27, April 3, & Good Friday, April 10 St. Catharine of Genoa
St. Gabriel
Fridays during Lent at 7:30 pm
Fridays during Lent 7 pm, Good Friday, April 10, at 8 pm Living Stations of the Cross
St Leo the Great St. Mary Parish
Fridays during Lent at 7:30 pm Good Friday, April 10, at 3 pm Outdoor Stations of the Cross (weather permitting)
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Quo vadis‌ My Dear Parishioners: Today we celebrate the Sixth Sunday in Ordinary Time. We continue to be taught through the scriptures the practice of authenticity. That is, we, as Catholic Christians, are to strive for transparency and to avoid all temptations of cunning or deceit. We are to seek to find the Lord in the everydayness of daily living. We are to recognize the sacramentality of relationships and our leadership role in family life, civic community and church. When we abrogate these responsibilities we are not living the paschal mystery as we ought. These are all part of what it means for us to become more Christ-like, better witnesses to our faith, stronger ambassadors for Christ. I mentioned last weekend that there has been a surge in new parishioner registrations in our parish. I was chatting with some local leaders and they too commented that home sales in 07722 have picked up since last summer. This is a good sign for our community and a wonderful tribute to all of you. I have been noticing some new faces as I stand in the gathering area each week. Accordingly our mass attendance continues to increase steadily. We are receiving requests for greater involvement in our parish ministries. These are all positive indicators that our parish continues on a healthy trajectory as we continue the mission of building the church in our midst. There are others who have not completed the Parish Registration Process by participating in the New Parishioner Orientation. The registration process is not completed until the NPO. Please note that until NPO participation is verified, families are unable to create a portal to register for parish ministries and programming (i.e Religious Education). I encourage all those new parishioners to complete the process so that we can
welcome you and provide the very best for you and your family. Please visit our parish website for lots of information. We have posted our Stewardship Report for Calendar Year 2018 and Fiscal Year 2018-2019. This is provided to better inform you, our parishioner stakeholders, how we are serving the needs of our community. Thank you for your involvement, prayer and sharing. There is also information regarding Faith in Our Future recommendations that have been announced by His Excellency, The Most Reverend Bishop of Trenton. Recently our Co-hort 13 has been modified. Saint Benedict Parish, Hazlet has moved to another co-hort with parishes in the Bayshore area; Saint Leo the Great Parish has moved into the Co-hort 13 configuration of parishes. We welcome Saint Leo Parish into our co-hort and look forward to working together. Next weekend we will Kick-off the 2020 Annual Catholic Appeal. Our Parish Goal is $75,000.00. I invite you to consider what your gift might be this year. His Excellency, The Most Reverend Bishop of Trenton will invite us all to participate in this necessary programming to continue to support the many programs and ministries provided for and overseen by our Diocese of Trenton. Don’t forget that we will observe a Eucharistic Day next Sunday. I encourage you to come and spend some quiet time in prayer. Parents this is a great catechetical opportunity for you to be with your children completely unplugged from all the noise and distraction of daily living. Think about it. It is my hope that this is a grace-filled time for us. Have a great week. Let us remember one another in prayer. Happy Sunday. Peace. Father Jeff
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Dr. Jim Bridges Pastoral Coordinator of Faith Formation and Religious Education FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org
2020-2021 Religious Education Please anticipate your needs and complete the process in a timely manner so that we might provide for the needs of all our children & families. The registration process, including all payments, must be completed before student placement is secured.
Summer Intensive - Grades 1 - 6: Tuition $300/child* Classes run Monday through Friday for 2 weeks from 8:30 am -12:30 pm. Admission is on a first come first serve basis. Classes close as they fill. We encourage you to register early. Summer Intensive 1: July 13 – 17 & 20 – 24
Summer Intensive 2: August 3 – 7 & 10 - 14
Registration began February 2, 2020 at 9 am and ends March 31, 2020 at 12 noon An Early Registration Discount of $50/ child ends March 1, 2020 at 12 noon. (Full payment must be completed by 12 noon March 1st to qualify for the discount) Registrants after close date (March 31) will be subject to availability and a late fee of $50/child. * Cancellations are subject to a $10 processing fee. * NO REFUNDS for Summer Intensive Tuition after Classes have started (the Catechists have been hired).
Fall and Online - Grades 1 - 8 : Tuition $250/child^ Registration begins April 1, 2020 at 9 am and ends May 31, 2020 at 12 noon. Grades 1 & 2: Two year First Penance & Reconciliation and First Eucharist Preparation. Grades 3 - 6: Faith and Life On-Line Program Grades 7 & 8 : Confirmation Preparation ^Cancellations are subject to a $10 processing fee. ^NO REFUNDS for Fall Tuition after 5 classes have been completed.
Outline of Process for completing RE Registration Present Families please use your existing Login information Obtain a My Own Church (MOC) Login.** All families seeking Religious Education must be registered parishioners (having completed the entire process) and have a My Own Church (MOC) portal login. The process to create a MOC portal login and receive a temporary password can take a few days. This interface is not mobile device friendly and has been known to have emails blocked by several of the email providers. Request student(s) session & class through the MOC portal Once request is received by RE office, it will be verified and processed, then, an invoice will be created for payment, and be emailed back to family. This email/Invoice will include a web link to make payments through the Online Giving interface. Submit payment through the Online Giving link provided in invoice email. Please note, a student’s placement is not regarded as certain until payment is made. A final verification will be sent to confirm enrollment and that the process is complete. ** New to My Own Church (MOC). The My Own Church Button may be found on the parish website www.stmaryscoltsneck.org under the Parish Resources Block. Select The Parish of Saint Mary, Colts Neck from the organization dropdown menu (fourth from the bottom), and fill in the required information. Questions? See the help page link or call the parish office.
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Rice Bowls will be distributed next weekend
Sharing Our Treasure February 9 Third Sunday in Ordinary Time Weekly Sacrificial Stewardship
$ 16,905
Envelope Contributions
$ 9,432
Electronic/Online Contributions
$ 6,409
Loose Contributions
$ 1,064
Avg. Contribution per Household this week $ 43.05 # of Contributing Households # Registered Parishioner Households
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368 1,059
Included in this week’s offertory will be the collection for the appeal Catholic Churches in Eastern Europe. THANK YOU for the Sacrificial Stewardship Offerings as we support the ministries, programs and facilities of our parish. May God Bless you for the sacrifices that you make.
Wednesday, February 26 is Ash Wednesday Ash Wednesday Offertory Envelope can be found in the quarterly mailing of envelopes, or extra envelopes may be found on the tables inside the Church. Online givers can make their Ash Wednesday donation at bit.ly/2OoATHe Next AGAPE Sunday, February 23 after the 8 & 10 am Masses Join fellow parishioners after Sunday Masses for donuts, bagels, coffee/ beverages and fellowship in the Parish Hall. Agape is also an opportunity to meet ministry leaders, sign up for programs and learn more about parish life.
We are called Join our faith community—and more than 14,000 Catholic communities across the United States— in a life-changing Lenten journey with CRS Rice Bowl. Pick up your family’s CRS Rice Bowl from the Gathering Space or AGAPE next weekend February 23, 2020. During the 40 days of Lent, we will reflect on the challenge of global hunger and how it affects our human family. Go on the CRS website, www.crsricebowl.org to learn all about Rice Bowl. Put your Lenten offerings in your Rice Bowl, count them at the end of Lent, make a check to St. Mary Parish for the total amount and drop it in the collection Basket. Alternatively you can make your donation using our online giving platform. < https://goo.gl/VFak28 >
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Prayer Shawl Ministry Wed., February 19 at 10 am in Room 11 Members meet once a month on the 3rd Wednesday (10-12 noon) of the month, but attendance is not mandatory. We accept donations of yarn and new members are always welcome. Come join us for prayer, work and fun. Ministry Contact: Kathy Adleman kathya23@optonline.net
Learning, Loving, and Laughing!
FUTURE GENERATION
EARLY LEARNING CENTER Are you looking for a safe, loving, educational and nurturing environment where your children will get the attention and care that they deserve? Give Future Generation a call! Located at The Parish of Saint Mary 1 Phalanx Road, Colts Neck 732-780-0135 jessica@fgkids.org
Saint Mary Parish Sewing Circle Next meeting is February 25 The ministry meets in Meeting Room #11 twice a month (Meetings are held the 2nd and 4th Tuesday of each month from 1- 3 pm. CONTACT for more information: Kathe Flanagan at kjflan@aol.com
Little Lenten Books to be distributed next weekend
It can be very easy to focus on our own thoughts and desires as we navigate through life. It can be easy to forget to turn to God and seek His wisdom and guidance as we make both day-to-day and future decisions for our families. Are we able to keep God and His desires for us and our family at the center of all we do? -Mr. Daniel Waddington
What are Lenten Little Black Books? If you are not already familiar with them, LBBs are wonderful Lenten companions, based on the scriptural meditations and writings of the late Bishop of Saginaw, MI, Ken Untener. The LLBs are meant to be enjoyed in 6 minute intervals each day of Lentthe left hand page has a variety of quotes, information, and timely thoughts. The right hand page is a walk through Luke’s Passion narrative, a few verses at a time, with explanations and reflections along the way. You may begin to use these terrific little books for Lent through Easter Sunday! Enjoy!
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Celebrating the Spiritual Reading “Tuesday Group”
On Tues., Jan 14, the “Tuesday Group” met at La Cashina for a wonderful lunch and an opportunity to thank Sr. Fran and Treasure for their wonderful leadership every Tuesday. What is the “Tuesday Group”? We are a group of women that meet together on Tuesdays at 10 a.m. for spiritual reading, discussion, praying and fellowship. Sr. M. Francis Lomeo, RGS (Sisters of the Good Shepherd) and Treasure Herman take turns leading the group. With Sr. Fran, we read an inspirational book (selected by the group) and discuss it. With Treasure, we use “At Home with the Word” and “Exploring”, which follows the weekly gospels and incorporates thoughtful questions for the group to ponder and discuss how this particular gospel applies to our own lives. Treasure always includes excerpts from Fr. Bausch’s books that correspond to the topic. Then there is prayer time, where everyone has the opportunity to offer their intentions. We “wrap it up” around 11:45 and go to lunch together. It is a close-knit group, and everyone (new joiner or old member) is made to feel welcomed, loved and prayed for!
(hymn portraying Mary’s suffering during the crucifixion)
on Sunday, February 23, 2020 at 4 pm at the Church of St. Anthony of Padua, 121 Bridge Avenue, Red Bank. (732-747-0813). Admission $10.00. Tickets available at the church or at the door. Church is handicapped accessible.