Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M.
THE PARISH OF SAINT MARY A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time
One Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, NJ 07722 Phone: 732-780-2666 Fax: 732-780-0394
Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch Deacon: John Wedemeyer
Trustees: Bill LaMorte Irene Weller
Parish Office hours Mon. - Thurs. 8:30 am - 7:30 pm Open Sunday 9 am - 12 noon. Parish Membership: New Parishioners are welcome to register at the office at any time. New Parishioner Orientation (quarterly) - will be held March 3, 11 am Contact Parish Office at parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org Registration is required. Sacraments: Eucharist Detailed Mass times listed on page 2 Penance & Reconciliation Saturday 3 pm or by appointment. Marriage Contact the Parish Office one year in advance for information & guidelines. Baptism Contact the Parish Office for information & required paperwork three months in advance. There are no Baptisms during Advent or Lent, please plan accordingly.
Happy New Year!! We wish you health, happiness, much peace and many blessings throughout the Christmas Season and in 2019. Rev. Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee & Parish Staff Visit our Website: www.stmaryscoltsneck.org
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Mass Intentions for the Week December 31 - January 6 For * Requested by
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Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill:
Monday, December 31 – Church 9 AM Seventh Day within the Octave of the Nativity of the Lord; St. Sylvester I: New Years Eve Antonia Mortillaro * Lorraine Lee
5 PM Vigil Wall Family * Fredda Family
Tuesday, January 1 - 10 AM Church The Octave of the Nativity of the Lord; Mary, the Holy Mother of God; World Day of Prayer for Peace; New Years Day Luis Menconi * Moldaver Family Carmen Peirano * Rev. Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee, Staff & Parishioners
Wednesday, January 2 - 9 AM Chapel Ss. Basil the Great and Gregory Nazianzen Maureen Bertodatti * Joan Werres The Intentions of Peter Barry * Tom and Becky Lupo
Thursday, January 3 - 9 AM Chapel The Most Holy Name of Jesus Mae Valenziano * Tracy and Michael Borut Special Intentions * Suzanne Schlesinger
Friday, January 4 - 9 AM Chapel St. Elizabeth Ann Seton; First Friday Adam Carrier * Lisa and Fred Claps Special Intentions * Suzanne Schlesinger
Saturday, January 5 - 4 PM Church St. John Neumann; First Saturday Solemnity of the Epiphany Pro Populo George Mavrookas * John and Susan Murphy William Gurkas * Jean Gurkas
Sunday, January 6 – Church The Epiphany of the Lord
8 AM Gordon Mast * Patricia Pecoraro Maureen Bertodatti * Helene Boedart Mary Lou Hammer * Tina Woodward
Irene Baron Eileen Beckley John Beckley Sal Castro Ted Damen Logan Dayton John DeStefano Lynette Colaco-Desouza Kaitlin Donahue Nagle Susan Endlicher James Liam Engel James Fiedler Emily Gioacchini Bob Golar Edward Habrack Tom Hudak
To add a family member to the sick list for 8 weeks, please call or e-mail the Parish Office. Thank you!
732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Lifelong Catechesis Week December 31 - January 6 READINGS FOR THE WEEK
10 AM Edith Gold * Arlene Garito and Family Ruth Fiedler * Rita and Michael Duenas Edna and Wright Poinsett * Susan Levine
12 PM Robert A. McNamara * McNamara Family Robert J. Hannan * Mangan Family Caleb J. Weller, Jr. * Weller Family
Carl Johnson Theresia Kopp Bridget Korn Lori Lettieri Donna Lodi Vincent Loretta Pauline Madzin Leonidas Mavrookas Mary Joan McNamara Stellanne Scalia Owen Shoemaker Christine Shrewsbury Angelo Stanco Lauren Vinci Irene Weller
Monday: Tuesday: Wednesday: Thursday: Friday:
1 Jn 2:18-21; Jn 1:1-18 Nm 6:22-27; Gal 4:4-7; Lk 2:16-21 1 Jn 2:22-28; Jn 1:19-28 1 Jn 2:29 -- 3:6; Jn 1:29-34 1 Jn 3:7-10; Jn 1:35-42
January 6 - Solemnity of the Epiphany Is 60:1-6; Eph 3:2-3a, 5-6; Mt 2:1-12 Questions for Deeper Reflections: Question for Children: In your life, who helps you to see Jesus in other people such as a classmate or a friend? Question for Youth: The star guided the Magi to Jesus. What are the people or events who have guided you in your relationship with Jesus? Question for Adults: How this past week did you demonstrate -Lifelong Catechesis God’s love at home and at work?
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Parish Office: 732-780-2666 parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bulletin Deadline: Electronic format by 12 noon Thursday of the prior week (10 days before). parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bulletin Editor: Catherine Love Liturgical, Music & Worship Ministries Contact: Andrew J. Macirowski Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org Principal Cantor Contact: David Maliakel Adult Faith Formation & Religious Education Contact: Jim Bridges FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org Temporal Administration, Stewardship & Outreach Contact: Edwin A. Sevillano TemporalAdmin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Parish Office will be closed the following dates during Christmas Season Closing at noon Monday, December 31, 2018 Closed Tuesday, January 1, 2018 Closing at 6:15 pm Thursday, January 10
Sanctuary Lamps Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or Christ Chapel. These intentions are on a weekly basis starting with the Sunday. The suggested donation for Sanctuary Lamp is $25.
Upcoming availability Church & Chapel Feb 2019, March 2019, April 2019 Chapel 1/6 - 1/12, 1/13 - 1/19, & 1/20 - 1/26
Church Agnes & Nick Pellicone Pellicone Family
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Pray for Our Military SN Colton Boag, USCG Chief Blake Conley, USN Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army Major Douglas Coppola, US Army SN Christian Houlihan, USN Pvt Michael John Mento, US Army 1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army 2nd Lt. Ryan Tanguay, US Army Staff Sergeant Stephen Witherow, USAF Lance Corporal Edward Zarzecki If there is a family member you wish to be placed on the list, please call the Parish Office at 732-780-2666. Please include rank and branch of service.
EMERGENCY CLOSING INFORMATION In the event that the Parish Office is closed and Religious Education classes or Masses must be cancelled due to inclement weather, loss of power, etc., we will attempt to keep you informed as follows: Updated outgoing announcements on our main
telephone line Parish-wide email sent to all families whose email address is on file Notification on website stmaryscoltsneck.org Thank you Parish Staff
Rest in Peace Please remember in your prayers, those who have recently died. Vincent Cerullo Mafalda “Muffy” Coseglia
Chapel Stella & Agrippino Culosi Pellicone Family
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Andrew J. Macirowski Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org
HOME IS WHERE THE FAMILY IS The idea, dream, and reality of family is so strong and durable that we use it to describe all that is best about human gatherings. We speak of the family of nations, of our church and parish families. The greatest compliment we can pay a friend or gracious host is to say that we feel at home with them, we feel part of the family. Families are the first crucibles in which love is tested and tempered. Jesus himself was one of three people who lived in the shadow of each other. This family, like our own, did not always get it right, but they always tried to. These three amateurs were on holiday, and one of them got lost. Two were worried sick and took great measures to find the third, a boy after all, who was seeking the meaning of his calling. He found his vocation--to do his Father’s work--but he also returned home with his parents. Copyright (c) J. S. Paluch Co.
Beloved, we are God’s children now; what we shall be has not yet been revealed. -- 1 John 3:2a
Saint Mary's Windows: Reminders of God's Love and Presence - Lucille Castro The twelve stained-glass windows that surround our worship area show images of Mary throughout the centuries. Learning about the stories that the windows depict can help us appreciate Mary's connection to people as the loving Mother of God's Family, the Church. Mary reminds us that God is always with us. - The full description of all the stained-glass windows can be found on the Parish website under Information and Church History The Holy Family at Nazareth This window is a reminder that Mary, Joseph, and Jesus shared life together. It is easy to imagine that this family never experienced life's ups and downs; however, this Family was very real. Like all families, they had household tasks, family responsibilities, community interactions, as well as physical and emotional challenges as part of their life. As we look at this picture we can remember that God is with us in our daily lives as we face these everyday experiences. We can also use this window as a reminder to pray for families, especially those who are experiencing difficulties.
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Worship Ministry Schedule: December 31 & January 1: Mary, Mother of God January 5 - January 6: The Epiphany of the Lord Altar Server Monday, 4:00 PM Mary, Mother of God Tuesday, 10:00 AM Mary, Mother of God
Saturday, 4:00 PM (Church)
Sunday, 8:00 AM (Church)
Sunday, 10:00 AM (Church)
Sunday, 12:00 PM (Church)
EMs of Holy Communion
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Mark Hines William Hines Jonathan Stubbs
Rosemarie Estephan - Center Cup Emily Santangelo - Organ Host Helene Lind - Center Host Frank Baker - Tabernacle Host Susan Murphy - Organ Cup Louise Habrack - Tabernacle Cup Susan Baker - Alternate
Alicia Mendez
Bruno Savo
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Maureen Staub - Center Cup Michael Staub - Organ Host Lisa Aldridge - Center Host Michael Stivala - Tabernacle Host Martha Leonhardt - Organ Cup Gail Hall - Tabernacle Cup Jane Slattery - Alternate
Rita Duenas
Christopher Aquinas
David Maliakel
Allen Montefusco Christopher Montefusco Alessandra Zilinski
Barbara Moskal - Center Cup Dawn Reinhardt - Center Cup Sandra Montefusco - Organ Host Joseph Merante - Center Host Mary Aiello - Tabernacle Host Maureen Geiger - Organ Cup Heide Lohn - Tabernacle Cup Amy Orrico - Alternate
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Julia Cullen
Diane Dragone
Jennifer Garcia
Leigh Gavinelli John Orrico Greg Penczak Jack Zumba Charlie Gavinelli Allan Ryan Jamie Steiner NOT FILLED
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Michael Zarraga
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Fernando Pinguelo
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Mass for Life will be celebrated at the Cathedral in Trenton at 9:30 am on January 22, 2019. Immediately following Mass, the congregation will be invited to process to the Statehouse for the annual Rally for Life, organized by New Jersey Right to Life. The Rally for Life will begin at 11:00 am and end at approximately 1 pm.
Maria Greenstein
John Grabowski Jim Davis Bob Lind Frank Sikorskas NOT FILLED NOT FILLED Michael Boliver George Watts James Pifer Jim Boliver NOT FILLED NOT FILLED NOT FILLED
January 22, 2019 will mark the 46th anniversary of the Roe v Wade decision which legalized abortion in our nation. This year, the annual March for Life in Washington, D.C. will be held on Friday January 18, 2019.
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Dr. Jim Bridges Pastoral Coordinator of Faith Formation and Religious Education FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Confirmation Prep Grades 7 & 8 Next few sessions Date Group Time 12/30/2018 1/6/2019 1/13/2019 1/20/2019 1/27/2019 2/3/2019
No Class B A No Class B A
New Year's Eve 5-6:30 p.m. 5-6:30 p.m. January 21 - MLK Birthday 5-6:30 p.m. Super Bowl - 3:30 pm Class
ATTENTION: On-Line Religious Education Students Deadline for 50% completion of the program is the first week of January. Please help your child to be up-to-date and not fall behind with his/her work. Any questions, please contact us at ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org as soon as possible!
www.onefamilyinmission.org The Missionary Childhood Association (MCA) was founded in France in 1843 by Bishop Charles de Forbin Jansen. Its purpose is to encourage all children to be aware of the needs of children living in mission diocese through the world and support them both spiritually and sacrificially. Today it is in 110 countries and helps make Jesus known to children all over the world. Under its banner “children helping children”, monies raised through schools are directed towards self-help programs involving the building of schools, the provision of health and nutrition programs and medications, school fees, and teaching and learning resources.
Religious Education Registration for 2019-2020 (Summer, Fall & Online) will need a My Own Church portal login to register. My Own Church This new online tool lets you update your family’s records on the web! It’s convenient. It’s secure. It’s as easy as 1, 2, 3! The My Own Church Button may be found on the parish website
www.stmaryscoltsneck.org Located under the Parish Resources Block. Select The Parish of Saint Mary, Colts Neck from the dropdown menu (fourth from the bottom), and fill in the required information. Questions? See the help page link or call the parish office. Over the last 2 weeks MCA mite boxes have been distributed to RE students & families. Students should make a sacrificial offering each week during the Advent & Christmas seasons. At the end of the holiday break, a check in the amount collected should then be made out to 'St Mary Parish' writing MCA in the memo line and brought to their FIRST class back in January. Alternatively donations can be made online at https://giving.parishsoft.com/ smcn selecting MCA/Missionary Childhood Association from the fund pull down menu. St Mary Parish in turn will send one check to the Missionary Childhood Association. Thank you for your generosity with the Catholic Missions!
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Quo vadis… My Dear Parishioners: Today we celebrate the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph. The familiarity of family can sometimes blind us to see the goodness in each other. This feast reminds us to open our eyes and be “astonished” at the goodness of each other rather than anxious about our own concerns. Families grow in strength when each person in the family—from parents to the smallest child and including anyone extended the hospitality of the family—is treated as one dedicated to God and, therefore, holy. This is challenging when sometimes all we can see is each other’s faults. It takes a great deal of self-emptying to get beyond the normal, everyday annoyances that are part of family life and see others as both gift and consecrated to God as we are. Mary and Joseph were not free from family struggles; after all, they lost Jesus on a trip! But they did not give up until they found him. Neither does God give up on us! Many thanks to all those who have helped us prepare our parish church for the Solemnity of Christmas. Inside and outside all has been done with loving care and in good taste. Thanks to all of our Liturgical Ministers for the sacrifices that you have made and continue to make so that our parish worship might truly be a sacred action of the Christian Community. Some generously served more than one Mass so that we could be properly staffed at all of the Masses for the convenience of our parishioners and guest. These days are wonderful opportunities for families to gather and to tell stories, for visiting, and for dining (that is not just eating
to nourish our bodies…but taking the opportunity to eat slowly and enjoy company and conversation together). The liturgies during the Christmas Season (25 December through the Feast of the Baptism of the Lord) are times of great grace and opportunities for reflection. I think of those who have gone before us and the sacrifices they have made for us. I am truly grateful for all of the sacrifices we are making in order to provide for the needs of our community. A special thanks to all those who have made their 2018 Christmas Gift to our parish this year. This collection is a major source of income for our community each and every year, but more so this year as we continue the important work of ministry. I am grateful to you for your kind and generous sharing. If you have not, please do so this coming week. We will provide you with a report of this collection at the conclusion of the Christmas Season. I invite you to pray in a special way for those who are sick and homebound during this Christmas Season. They hold a special place in our community and our common prayer. Masses have been scheduled for New Years Eve and New Years Day. Please consult the bulletin and plan to participate as we honor the Blessed Virgin Mary on the Octave day of Christmas. May God continue to bless all of our families. Let us pray in a special way for all expectant families. Have a great week. Let us remember one another in prayer. Buona Domenica. Buon Natale, Feliz Navidad, Merry Christmas. Peace. Father Jeff
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Sharing Our Treasure 16 December Third Sunday of Advent Weekly Sacrificial Stewardship
$18,610
Envelope Contributions
$12,725
Electronic/Online Contributions
$ 4,478
Loose Contributions
$ 1,407
Avg. Contribution per Household this week $42.16 # of Contributing Households # Registered Parishioner Households
1,264
THANK YOU for the Sacrificial Stewardship Offerings as we support the ministries, programs and facilities of our parish. May God Bless you for the sacrifices that you make.
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2018 Christmas Collection: We will provide you with a report of this collection at the conclusion of the Christmas Season. We are grateful to all who contributed; if you have not yet participated, please do so this coming week so that we can offer a timely proper accounting to you.
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For end of the year charitable giving opportunities, please consult your financial advisors. Consider our parish for your end of year charitable gift.
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We are upgrading our Online Giving system. Getting started is easy-just visit our website.
h ps://giving.parishso .com/smcn No fee will be charged to you. You will also be saving the parish the cost of printing and mailing offering envelopes. And you won't have to remember to write checks or stop by the ATM on Sundays! Plus earn cashback, miles, or points when using your credit card! Also if you still want to place something in the offertory basket, just pick up our “I GAVE ONLINE" cards at the Parish Office and use them at collection time. NOTE: If you have not migrated from myowngiving.com please do so soon as it will only work until March 31, 2019. You will need to create a new account with ParishSOFT Giving, schedule a recurring gift, and cancel your account with the legacy system. Please call the Parish Office at 732-780-2666 if you have questions or need assistance. No worries, old and new donations will be merged in your parish contribution record for the end of year tax statement!
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“Light Up a Memory” Thank You As our beautiful tree sparkles during the rest of the Christmas season, it will remind all of us about the many loved ones (both living and deceased) represented by the lights and of the kindness and generosity of so many people. Our sincere thanks to everyone who participated in any way – especially: Father Jeff for leading the special ceremony David Maliakel and the Choir for the beautiful music Delicious Orchards, Dunkin Donuts and the Reinhardts for their generous donations of cider, donuts and cookies “Jack the Clipper” for installing the lights May the “Light of the World” bless all of you and your loved ones, during this holy season and all of 2019. Co-chairs: Freda O’Doherty and Molly Aiello Committee: Ann Marie Dayton, Carol Donahue, Angela Kinlin, Susan Monaco, Catherine Love, Muriel Rogers, Jane Slattery, Maureen Valenziano, & Lorraine Walsh
The Martha Mary Guild Will Feature “CASA” in January On Wednesday, January 9, 2019, in Madonna Hall, a representative of CASA, Court Appointed Special Advocates ,will explain more about the wonderful work they do for children, who could very easily be “lost in the system” without CASA. The presentation will begin at 12:30 p.m., after Guild members and welcomed guests have their lunch (BYOL- Bring Your Own Lunch) and dessert - provided by the Guild. The rosary will be prayed in the Chapel of the Spiritual Center at 11:30 a.m. Note to members: Kindly bring warm hats, scarves and/or gloves which will be distributed to CASA. Below are pictures portraying the Guild members’ generosity in December – the baby gifts for Birthright and Christmas gifts for our “Adopt-a-Family”, with some Board members who shopped and wrapped. Thank you again for your kindness.
The following is a list of the Martha Mary contributions to Birthright- December 2018: 4 diaper bags, 9 pillows, 11 packages of various sizes of Pampers, 7 boxes of Baby Wipes, 9 toys (knitted, crocheted or otherwise), 11 bottles of shampoo, 16 blankets, 4 sweaters, 1 jacket, 51 pajamas, 1 six pack of formula, 3 pair of shoes, 9 3 piece outfits, 8 bibs, 12 pairs of socks, 22 onesies, 1 coat, 1 snowsuit, 30 shirts, 11 2 piece sets, 13 hats, and 12 washcloths
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The Saint Mary Parish Advent Pancake Breakfast was held on Sunday, December 16, 2018. No Little event… It surely was a wonderful fun filled community building event for all ages!! 515 tickets were sold for the event . THANK YOU to Catherine Love and Edwin Sevillano for overseeing this year’s Advent Pancake Breakfast and coordinating all the details and volunteer participation. A special shout out to the men running the kitchen. We had several new faces work the griddles. We wish we could list every volunteer (90+) by name because without each and every one of you this event is not possible!! Thank you to the community business owners who contributed products and/or discounts to the event: Ronstan Paper Company, Perkins, Eli’s Hot Bagels, Dunkin Donuts, Mueller’s Bakery, Holiday Meats and Maureen and Michael Staub for providing us with the inflatables, costumes and crumb cake. Your generosity of product and discounts was greatly appreciated and helps us to provide breakfast at a reduced price!!