THE PARISH OF SAINT MARY
Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M.
A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time
One Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, NJ 07722 Phone: 732-780-2666 Fax: 732-780-0394
Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch Deacon: John Wedemeyer
Trustees: Bill LaMorte Irene Weller Parish Office hours Sunday 9 am – 12 noon Mon. & Tues. 8:45 am – 7:30 pm Wed. & Thurs. 8:45 am – 6:00 pm No office hours on Fri or Sat.
Parish Membership: New parishioners are welcome to register at the office at any time. New Parishioner Orientation (quarterly) - will be held August 25, 11 am Contact Parish Office at parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org Registration is required. Sacraments: Eucharist Detailed Mass times listed on page 2 Penance & Reconciliation Saturday 4 pm or by appointment. Marriage Contact the Parish Office one year in advance for information & guidelines. Baptism Contact the Parish Office for information & required paperwork three months in advance. There are no Baptisms during Advent or Lent, please plan accordingly.
AGAPE Sunday, August 25 after the 8 & 10 am Masses Join fellow parishioners for donuts, bagels, coffee/beverages & fellowship in the Parish Hall & the courtyard (weather permitting).
Twenty‐ irst Sunday in Ordinary Time
August 25, 2019 Labor Day weekend there will be an Abbreviated Weekend Mass Schedule Saturday, August 31 - 5 pm (4 pm Penance & Reconciliation) Sunday, September 1 - 10 am (No 8 am or 12 noon)
LABOR DAY - Monday, September 2 - 9 am Mass in the Church
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Mass Intentions for the Week August 24 - September 1 For * Requested by Saturday, August 24 – 5 PM Church St. Bartholomew William Gurkas * Jean Gurkas Frank Gagliardi * Ryan Family Salvatore Sgroi * Jeanette and Ed Melardo Sunday, August 25 – Church 21st Sunday in Ordinary Time 8 AM Pro Populo Angelina Jean Brock * Ed Brock Maureen Bertodatti * Joan Werres 10 AM
Gregory Voit * His Family Daniel McGarry * Patricia Bench Gesner Elysee * Yaninas Family
12 PM
Dennis Gerard Dolan * Sue White Victor Russomanno * Carol and Alexandra Ward Walter Brickowski * Linda and William Stagliano
Baptisms following the 12 noon Mass Luna Serafina Rose Mezzapella Monday, August 26 – 9 AM Chapel St. Monica Leo Kedzierski * Mr. and Mrs. John F. Connors and Family Tuesday, August 27 – 9 AM Chapel Tom Telesca * Michele Telesca and Family Jeffrey Marino * Lynn Belena Wednesday, August 28 – 9 AM Chapel St. Augustine Dr. Thomas Pastorello * Rorie and Jack Coppola Paola D’Angelo * John Bonello and Family Thursday, August 29 – 9 AM Chapel The Passion of St. John the Baptist Irene Baron * Angela and Tom Kinlin Michael Poirier * Laine Hickey Chern Friday, August 30 – 9 AM Chapel Rose Lunz * Maureen Beyer Michael Poirier * Laine Hickey Chern Saturday, August 31 – 5 PM Church Blessed Virgin Mary Rose Rimmele * Barbara Saake Lori Ann Romer * Diane Carnevale Rose Celecki * Parker Family Sunday, September 1 – Church Twenty-second Sunday in Ordinary Time; World Day of Prayer for the Care of Creation 10 AM Pro Populo Sergio and Francisco Dos Santos * Dos Santos Family Oliviero DeGrassi * Arianna Vig
(No 8 am or 12 noon)
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Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill: Roger Barnett Fr. Bill Bausch Eileen Beckley Susan Condon Ted Damen Logan Dayton John DeStefano Dominick Dibrino Tom Fadale James Fiedler Emily Gioacchini Edward Habrack Tom Hudak Theresia Kopp Bridget Korn
Lori Lettieri Donna Lodi Harry Macholl Pauline Madzin Leonidas Mavrookas Mary Joan McNamara Kaitlin Nagle Stanley Rembisz Paola Richmond Owen Shoemaker Christine Shrewsbury Dering Sprauge Seneida Tomasetti Lauren Vinci
To add a family member to the sick list for 8 weeks, please call or e-mail the Parish Office. Thank you!
732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Welcome to the newest members of our Saint Mary Parish family who was Baptized recently: Julian Lucas
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Parish Office: 732-780-2666 parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bulletin Deadline: Electronic format by 12 noon Thursday of the prior week (10 days before). parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bulletin Editor: Catherine Love Liturgical, Music & Worship Ministries Contact: Andrew J. Macirowski Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org Principal Cantor Contact: David Maliakel Adult Faith Formation & Religious Education Contact: Dr. Jim Bridges FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org Temporal Administration, Stewardship & Outreach Contact: Edwin A. Sevillano TemporalAdmin@stmaryscoltsneck.org
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PRAY for Military & First Responders SN Colton Boag, USCG Pvt Devon Francis Chrzan, USMC Chief Blake Conley, USN Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army Major Douglas Coppola, US Army SN Christian Houlihan, USN Ensign Jason Joseph Howe, USN Pvt Michael John Mento, US Army Pvt Nicholas Poskonka US Army 1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army 1st Lt. Ryan Tanguay, US Army Staff Sergeant Stephen Witherow, USAF Lance Corporal Edward Zarzecki If there is a family member you wish to be placed on the list, please contact the Parish Bulletin at 732780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org. Please include rank and branch of service.
The Parish Office will close Thursday August 29 at 1 pm, for the Labor Day Weekend. The Parish Office will reopen Tuesday, September 3 at 8:45 am.
Lifelong Catechesis Week August 26 - September 1
Sanctuary Lamps Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or Christ Chapel. These intentions are on a weekly basis starting with the Sunday. The suggested donation for Sanctuary Lamp is $25. Upcoming availability Church & Christ Chapel: 9/8 - 9/14, 9/15 - 9/21, & 9/29 - 10/5 Christ Chapel: 9/1 - 9/7 & 9/22 - 9/28
Church Hipocrates Pieratos Mr. and Mrs. Nicholas Pellicone
Monday: Tuesday: Wednesday: Thursday: Friday:
Readings for the Week 1 Thes 1:1-5, 8b-10; Mt 23:13-22 1 Thes 2:1-8; Mt 23:23-26 1 Thes 2:9-13; Mt 23:27-32 1 Thes 3:7-13; Mk 6:17-29 1 Thes 4:1-8; Mt 25:1-13
Sunday, September 1 - 22nd Sunday in Ordinary Time Sir 3:17-18, 20, 28-29; Heb 12:18-19, 22-24a; Lk 14:1, 7-14 Questions for Deeper Reflections: Question for Children: Jesus tells us that we should treat everyone as a guest. Who do you tend to shun or not be nice to? Question for Youth: God asks us to do for others without hope of repayment. This past week, what did you do for someone else for which you won’t be repaid? Who are the people most in need of your generosity? Question for Adults: Who are the people living near you that you would find it most difficult to invite to a meal in your home? Or to invite to be part of your life? -Lifelong Catechesis
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Andrew J. Macirowski Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Liturgical Vessels Chalice - The chalice is the cup that holds the wine that becomes the Precious Blood of Christ. No ordinary cup, the chalice is made from fine materials, befitting the role in which it plays during the consecration and afterwards. Chalices that have held the Precious Blood during Mass must be purified before being used again. The chalice used by the priest and other concelebrants is often, but not always, different than others, either taller, more ornate, et cetera. Paten - From the Greek patané, meaning “plate”, the paten hold the unconsecrated hosts that become the Body of Christ. As is true of the chalice, the paten is made from fine materials, and also must be purified after use. The paten is brought forth during the offertory procession as a gift from the faithful. Ciborium - Or the plural, ciboria, this vessel is usually bowl-shaped or otherwise cylindrical in nature and often has a veil or other covering, and is used to reserve the Blessed Sacrament in the tabernacle. Flagon - A pitcher of varying sizes, which holds the sacramental wine to be presented at the offertory. Usually made of glass so that the wine can be seen by the faithful. Unlike the other vessels mentioned so far, this one does not require purification, as the wine contained within does not undergo transubstantiation. Why do the vessels change during the year? The short answer is: because we should if we can. The more complete answer: The changing of the vessels shows a progression of solemnity. The vessels used at Mass can often vary in design, level of ornate detail, decoration, etc. If a parish is in possession of more ornate vessels, they should be reserved for Solemnities, especially Christmas Day through its octave, and Easter through its octave. In this parish, we use wooden vessels for Lent, as it is a penitential season and the norms of the Universal Church dictate that less decoration should be used. For Ordinary Time, we use silver. For Advent, Christmas and Easter, we use gold. For the Solemnities during Christmas and Easter, we have Father Griffin’s chalice, which is gold and contains more detail and decoration than the other gold presider’s chalice. Worship Ministry Schedule: August 31 - September 1 Twenty-second Sunday in Ordinary Time Altar
Saturday, 5:00 PM (Church)
Sunday, 10:00 AM (Church)
EMs of Holy Communion
Reader
Reader
Cantor
LWD
Usher
Anthony Buzzetta Michael Buzzetta Patrick Dickinson
Suzanne Schlesinger - Center Cup NOT FILLED - Organ Host (sub req.) Helene Lind - Center Host Justine Buzzetta - Tabernacle Host Frank Baker - Organ Cup Susan Baker - Tabernacle Cup Linda Dickinson-Pancila - Pres Cup
Alicia Mendez
Bruno Savo
NOT FILLED
Fernando Pinguelo
John Grabowski Jim Davis Bob Lind Frank Sikorskas Joe Mancino
Valeska Yaninas Tesya Yaninas NOT FILLED
Sue Fitzpatrick - Center Cup Heide Lohn - Organ Host Maureen Geiger - Center Host Barbara Moskal - Tabernacle Host Edward Moskal - Organ Cup Amy Orrico - Tabernacle Cup Mary Aiello - Pres Cup
Michael Zarraga
Matt Yaninas
David Maliakel
Jennifer Garcia
Leigh Gavinelli John Orrico Greg Penczak Jack Zumba Charlie Gavinelli Allan Ryan Joe Walsh
Fall/Winter Mass Schedule Change: The Saturday night 5 pm Mass will move to 4 pm starting Saturday, October 5, 2019. Penance and Reconciliation will move from 4 pm to 3 pm Saturday. (this schedule will run through Palm Sunday Weekend). Please prepare for this adjustment. Note: this schedule change will not include the addition of an evening Sunday Mass.
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The 2020 Mass Intention Book will open on Monday, September 16 Currently, we are accepting appointments for scheduling multiple date specific Mass Intentions within the 2020 year. Appointments dates and times are:
Monday, September 16, 2019 from 4 pm – 7 pm Tuesday, September 17, 2019 from 10 am – 12 noon AND 2 pm – 4 pm Call and speak to a live person to make an appointment (no messages accepted) between 8:45 am –7:30 pm, Monday & Tuesday, 8:45 am - 6 pm, Wednesday & Thursday, or Sunday 9 am – 12 pm, with the parish office 732-780-2666. Please complete the form on the reverse side prior to coming to your appointment (please write legibly and provide pronunciation where necessary). Additional forms are available in the parish office or on the website. Please be sure to have several options for your desired dates so we can accommodate you properly. Two intentions are accepted for weekday Masses and three intentions are accepted for weekend Masses, except for Ash Wednesday, Christmas, Easter and the Sacred Triduum. It is appropriate for you or the family of the deceased to attend the Mass when celebrated. The suggested stipend for a Mass intention is $10.00 and has been set by the N.J. Bishops in the Province of Newark. Stipends can be paid by cash, check, or credit card. Every effort will be made to satisfy all requests, however in some cases the intention availability for a date you are requesting may be filled before your appointment and you will be asked to choose another date.
After initial Mass Book opening, requests may be submitted using this multiintention form or a Mass Request Envelope. Availability of dates is on a firstcome first served basis. The members of the Mass Book team do not have authority to make exceptions, so please do not ask them to do so.
Sanctuary Lamps Consider donating the Sanctuary Lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or Christ Chapel in memory of a loved one who has died or to honor a living person. These intentions are on a weekly basis starting with the Sunday, therefore a new request will be published each week in the bulletin. There will be a total of 104 Sanctuary Lamp Intentions: 52 weeks of the year for each of the Christ Chapel & Church lamps. The suggested donation for a Sanctuary Lamp is $25.
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Quo vadis… My Dear Parishioners: Today we celebrate the Twenty-First Sunday in Ordinary Time. We all claim to know Jesus; after all, we are for the most part faithful church-goers who weekly eat and drink in his company. This gospel warns us that this isn’t enough. There is an urgency about our paschal mystery living; we don’t have forever to make up our minds to respond to God’s offer of salvation. Each day we must take up our own cross, die to self, and live for the sake of others. This is how we enter through the narrow gate and how we get to know Jesus intimately enough to receive salvation: we must live and act like Jesus. Becoming least is a metaphor for dying to self; this is what Jesus asks: that the first become the last. Yes, what limits the scope of salvation is not God’s reach but our response. Our Summer Session Religious Education Module II is completed. We have received great feedback from parents and families from both Modules I & II. I am grateful to all those who help us provide the very best for our children and young people as they discover the rich traditions of our Catholic Faith. We have many returning catechists for this program and one or two new ones each year. I am grateful to these teachers for sharing their gifts so generously for our young parishioners. Please think about gathering your clothing items for the Martha Mary Clothing Sale. The ladies work very hard in putting this together. The efforts help to benefit charities in support of women’s and children’s issues. Please consult the bulletin for more details.
We are beginning to put together cost estimates for some of the projects this coming fiscal year. You should begin to notice some work in the coming weeks. Unexpectedly, another a/c compressor needed to be replaced in our back building where the offices and meeting rooms are located. We will be replacing ceiling tiles and light fixtures in some areas this year and other areas in the years to come. Upgrading to the LED fixtures saves operational costs and maintenance costs by not replacing bulbs or ballasts. Later in the fall we will continue with pruning some trees and re-locating others to help prevent moss and mold growth on the exterior by allowing sun light to penetrate. Walking with Purpose Bible Study/Faith Formation for women begins in a few weeks. This has been a major part of our Adult Faith Formation plan. So many have grown in their faith and chosen to become more deliberate about matters of faith in their home and here in our community. Ladies, check it out. Additionally, we will continue offering traditional Bible Study for adults in our parish and co-hort 13. Thanks to all those who oversee these programs. My family gathering was great last weekend. This week my very good friend Fr. Kevin Huber, Pastor of Queen of All Saints Parish, Michigan City, IN & Chancellor for the Diocese of Gary, IN will be here for a few days. We met in August 1983 and have continued a close friendship. Just a reminder that we have an abbreviated Mass schedule Saturday and Sunday of Labor Day Weekend. Please check out details in the bulletin. Have a great week. Let us remember one another in prayer. Happy Sunday. Peace. Father Jeff
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Dr. Jim Bridges Pastoral Coordinator of Faith Formation and Religious Education FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Unpack the Mysteries of Revelation 11 sessions: Sept. 17 - Dec. 4 Tuesdays at 7:30 pm Wednesday at 10 am NO Cost to Parishioners
Register
study materials ($26.95)
Register through the Parish Office or onlin
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CONFIRMANDI Those receiving Confirmation October 18th RETREAT: Sunday, September 22, 2019 Walking With Purpose is a Catholic Bible study created just for women supported by small group discussion. Courses offered this Fall are available 12 noon - 1:30 pm and 7:30 pm. Link for more information and registering can be found at: https://stmaryscoltsneck.org Look for Walking with Purpose LOGO on right Upcoming Fall 2019-2020 programming: Opening Your Heart (for all new to WWP) Keeping in Balance (for returning participants) Fearless and Free (for advanced participants) Contact: Linda Dickinson-Pancila Lindad16@optonline.net
Confirmandi will have a retreat that starts with parents and students attending the 12 noon Mass. Afterwards the retreat continues with the Confirmandi until 4:30 pm. Confirmation Practice is October 6 starting with parents, students, & sponsors attending the 12 noon Mass. Prayer for the Confirmandi Pray that our Confirmation candidates ready themselves for the strength of the Spirit, the power of Prayer and the force of Faith.
Religious Education Orientations · Online Religious Education (grades 3 - 6) & Confirmation Preparation Classes (7&8): Orientation starts with 12 noon Mass in the Church Sunday, September 15 · Grade 1 & 2 - Orientation and Classes: 4:30 & 5:50 pm in the Theatre on Tues., Sept. 17
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August 25, 2019 CORPORATE MATCHING GIFTS
Sharing Our Treasure August 18, Twentieth Sunday in Ordinary Time Weekly Sacrificial Stewardship
$ 13,630
Envelope Contributions
$ 8,401
Electronic/Online Contributions
$ 4,520
Loose Contributions
$
709
Avg. Contribution per Household this week $ 39.39 # of Contributing Households # Registered Parishioner Households
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328 1,101
Included in this week’s offertory will be the collection for the Catholic University. THANK YOU for the Sacrificial Stewardship Offerings as we support the ministries, programs and facilities of our parish. May God Bless you for the sacrifices that you make.
Many firms and corporations offer matching gift programs to benefit religious organizations, charities and other nonprofits to promote philanthropy amongst their employees. St Mary Parish is a registered charitable organization with the IRS and is also listed in GuideStar which is required by some of the corporate matching gift programs. Please consult with your employer to sign up for their matching gift program. If you have any question or need help signing St Mary Parish for corporate matched contributions, please contact Edwin at the Parish Office, 732780-2666 x312. Thank you for your support!
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The 2019 Annual Catholic Appeal is well underway. To date, there is $40,116 pledged by 171 parishioners. That is approximately 53% of our goal of $75,000. (the Avg. gift is $235) The support from parishioners like you helps sustain the important ministries across the Diocese of Trenton. Thank You! There’s time to pledge! Take an envelope from the credenzas in the church, complete and place in the Sunday collection basket, bring to the parish office or donate online by going to https://www.dioceseoftrenton.org/aca-donate-page
THANK YOU for your continued support!
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The Martha Mary Guild’s Annual Sale which is always the weekend after Labor Day. We need men’s, women’s and children’s clothing, shoes and accessories. The “Boutique” sells the name brands and new items. There is also a need for linens in good condition.
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Fr. Victor 60 years of priestly ministry On Sunday Sept 15, come to Mass at 10 am to pray with Fr. Victor and join us for refreshments to follow.
Donations are accepted in Madonna Hall, August
24 - September 2. Sale dates: - Thursday, Sept. 5, 10 am – 6 pm - Friday, Sept. 6, 10 am – 5 pm - Saturday, Sept. 7, 9 am – 1 pm
For more information, call Ien Yoe at 732-761-1515.
We will also be seeking help preparing for and running the Sale. Initial set up will be Sunday, August 25 following the 12 noon Mass. Teen volunteers there are Service Hours Available! An Invitation to All Women of St. Mary The Martha Mary Guild welcomes all women of our parish to join us for endearing friendships, fun trips, interesting meetings, service to our parish & community and of course, blessed spirituality. Membership forms will be available in the Gathering Space, the Parish Hall, on-line, and e-newsletter. Kindly return the membership form by September 9, 2019 in order to be listed in the Directory. Questions? Carol Donahue 732-946-2461 Martha Mary Guild is having a trip to see Tootsie on Broadway Wed. , Sept. 25, 2019. $115.00 includes the price of the ticket and the bus, which will leave St. Mary’s at 9 am sharp. Lunch arrangements are on your own. Please call Co-Chair Mary Ellen Griffin at 732239-0688 and she will tell you where to mail your check, which will be made out to the Martha Mary Guild.
Bishop’s Wedding Anniversary Blessings October 6, 2019 - 3:00 pm Mass Couples celebrating their
1st, 25th or 50th Wedding Anniversary during the 2019 calendar year
Mass will be held at the Co-Cathedral of St. Robert Bellarmine in Freehold. Couples must register through their home parish; the registration deadline for all anniversary couples is September 15, 2019.
Contact Andrew J. Macirowski to register at Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Fall 2019 The New Day - Bereavement Support Group held by - Ministry of Consolation Invites You…to participate in a nine week program for those who are grieving the death of loved ones and want to work through the tasks of grief in a structured way using the New
Day Journal, A Journey from Grief to Healing. The sessions include readings, reflection, sharing and journaling. The program will meet at 7:30 pm in the Spiritual Center’s Chapel. Starting: Tuesday, September 17, 2019 Ending: Tuesday, November 12, 2019 For information & pre-registration: Marilyn Simone at 732-.547-4668