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%\ 1,&+2/(77( &$5/621 6WDII :ULWHU â&#x20AC;&#x153;When we got married, we made a promise to work it out no matter what,â&#x20AC;? Lee Utterback stated. When she and her husband, Dale, made that commitment, they stuck to it. They have been married 63 years. In 1956, the couple met on a blind date and played a few rounds of miniature golf with two other couples. They seemed to hit it off and so they continued to see one another. Eventually Dale asked Leeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s father for permission to marry her and the couple married in 1957. Their ďŹ rst
daughter was born in 1958 and a second daughter four years later. Dale worked in a tool and die job for 47 or 48 years. In his four years in the Navy, he grew to enjoy working in the machine shop. Lee had a few different jobs working as a bookkeeper, with Penn-Harris-Madison schools and as a cake decorator. They both lived in the Mishawaka and South Bend area before moving to Granger for more than 50 years. Now they reside at the Primrose Retirement Community in Mishawaka. The move was a difďŹ cult one for Dale after living in the same home for more than 50 years. However,
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they both enjoy the view and scenery from their current residence. Daleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s retirement was also an adjustment for the couple since he was home all the time. Without a hobby, he felt lost, so Lee helped him by giving him duties at home. He would also go out and do the yard work. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Between us we get the job done,â&#x20AC;? Lee stressed. While the Utterbacks have had their ups and downs and experienced their hard times like everyone, Lee commented dealing with it together has never been hard. Early on in their relationship, they made the decision together to never get
into debt over their heads, meaning credit cards were hardly ever used. They believe this agreement has helped them to avoid some ďŹ nancial stress. Lee also credits Daleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mother with training him well so Lee doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have to pick up after him. The couple complements each other well. While Dale is more reserved, Lee is sociable and outgoing. Since at Primrose she has started doing watercolors and has joined a group of ladies who crochet for St. Margaretâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s and hats for babies. While Dale enjoys watching ball games, Lee will Continued on page 3
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