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We invite you and your family to join us at Coventry Meadows Campus for our 2017 Art and Music Fest. Visit with friends, while listening to music, viewing art, watching live demonstrations, enjoying food trucks and wine tasting. What a neat event to show your mom you love her this Mother’s Day weekend! E E R M

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Ray Balogh, Lauren Caggiano, Shannon Rooney, Nicole Leigh Shaw, Cathy Shouse, Barb Sieminsk i, Julie Young

Congratulations to... cover artist Janet Lynch

E the Cover

Describe the inspiration behind your cover ar twork?

I love the idea of angels being messengers of inspiration and encouragement. I often add wings to the women that I paint for this reason. I also like to tr y out a variet y of different ar t techniques in my mixed media work, such as the crackling and sanding in this piece to give it more of a vintage feel

About Janet

Ar t is…

Ar t is personal, a thing of beaut y that enhances our lives with enjoyment, and touches our souls As an ar tist, it is a vehicle of self-expression, growth and a means to discover what I am creatively capable of.

What inspires you?

Want to put your art on our front cover?

What inspires me most about the mixed media ar t that I create is combining women-oriented ar t work, with the textual component of an affirmation, an encouragement, or an inspirational quote. These mantras add another layer of interest or relatabilit y Most of the time, these are little “notes to self ” that I imagine, by vir tue of our sisterhood, that other women can connect with

Your biggest suppor ter(s):

My mom was always my biggest suppor ter, but she passed away before I began making ar t My fiance, Mark, is by far my number one suppor ter, display-maker extraordinaire and faithful ar t show roadie But truly, anyone who enjoys my ar t work is my suppor ter.

Why you read glo:

When I found my first copy of glo, it felt a bit like I had discovered buried treasure The format, the feel of the ear thy paper that it is printed on and the ar t work made for instant intrigue. I love that it is by women, for women and about women’s interests. The fact that it is local makes glo even more essential I have always loved that glo highlights different local ar tists’ work on the cover and the ar tist profile is what I always read first

Anything else you would like to add?

As a kindergar ten teacher by day and an aspiring ar tist by night, weekends and whenever else I can capture the time, I am a bit of a late bloomer as a maker, having just begun painting three years ago in my 50s I want to encourage women of all ages to believe that it is never too late to discover and explore a new passion in life. And for that my hear t is grateful.

Where else can we find Janet Lynch’s Hear t Werk?

Creative Women of the World, downtown For t Wayne Paper Moon, downtown Roanoke https://www.facebook.com/Hear tWerkMixedMediaAr t/ a

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The Nitty Gritty: glo front covers are open to female ar tists Submissions from all original 2D media (digital ar t photographs are OK) are welcome. Ar t work must be photographed at a high-resolution (300+ dpi) for reproduc tion Content should reflec t a woman or women Cover ar t selec tions are made at the discretion of glo staff. For cover placement, the ar tist will receive credit and added exposure via introduc tor y copy and published photograph in a question and answer sec tion

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glo’s Lake Lovin’

Don’t miss the JUNE issue of glo an issue dedicated to lake lovin’ for the ladies.

Consider it a ladies guide to lake life From water fun to lake looks to learning about all the special lake treats ‘n eats, we’ll cover it all.

What better way to k ick off summer than to celebrate lake life in lady style?

This (and much more) is coming your way in the June issue of glo a

From the executive editor

Y“ou look like fluff.

But you’re made of steel.”

This was one of the greatest compliments I’ve ever received. And since it came from the voice I k now best on the planet, it meant that much more This lady knows me And yet, she still loves me

She’s my amazing mom.

The month of Mother ’s Day is a time for deep emotion, isn’t it? We honor and celebrate the amazing ladies who brought us into this world Those who nur tured with a gentle touch, who gave selflessly of themselves, who loved and suppor ted unconditionally and who protec ted with the fierceness of the most power ful warrior Mother Bears protec t their precious cubs

Simply put, a mother ’s love is profound.

I was raised watching my mother as a gorgeous, poised, intelligent woman. While my dad was the domineering one, Mom stood by. Watching. Aler t Always aware And truly, the strength of our household was fully, totally and completely Mom She made the world go ‘round and kept it spinning She was and is both my ver y best friend and the toughest gal I k now

Melinda Nick las

Cell: 219-510-3449

1-866-580-1138 vm Ext: 2481 mnicklas@the-pa per s com

Lynn Blanchard

Cell: 260-804-4475

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Women’s strength has such interesting depth. And it ’s not just my family. I t ’s the ladies in your family. I t ’s your girlfriends. I t ’s you. We are nur turers by nature but we are so much more We are inspirations We are protec tors We are watchers, doers, inventors and shakers And we’re not afraid to shake it in the k itchen to our favorite tunes even in front of the k ids’ friends

We are real.

I t is topics and celebrations like these within this issue Check out our Mother ’s Day Gift Guide, see tips for healthy living as we age and don’t miss the special sec tion on destination weddings See glo’s own beautiful Lynn on her wedding day There’s this and so, so much more within this issue.

Look in the mirror ladies Admire your beauty that shines from within Recognize your strength Feel pride in your beautiful influence on your children Let ’s thank our moms for their wisdom And for their steel strength

Hey, it runs in the family

Happy Mother ’s Day to all glo readers. You’re a blessing. ”

Sue Rawlinson srawlinson@the-papers com

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Girlfriends Celebrate

“Sue, Celebrating my dear friend, Connie (friends of 30 years!) on her birthday Joining in is her daughter and two granddaughters Fun was had by all Thank you, God, for girlfriends!” Kindest regards, Marilyn Marilyn, Jessica, Connie, Rebecca and RoEnna

Friends Forever

We met many years ago, and we have had many trials and tribulations of life even states between us that has never made our friendship fade in the least Adam and Lonnie have been by our sides through EVERYTHING (and none of us are leaving this friendship anytime soon!).

From left are Adam Rice, Deanna Lanese, Eve Gardner and Lonnie Gardner

Sometimes a hug says it all.

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Treat Yourself!

Head-to-Toe Spa Trea tments

By Shannon Rooney

The per fec t gift for Mom or yourself is a day away from responsibilities. Treat yourself to a special session at a local spa and you’ll come out refreshed and relaxed You can also recreate spa treatments at home with a few beaut y and wellness tools Either way, a periodic break from daily duties is essential for us all

Whether you’re massaging away muscle ache or giving your face a fresh glow, these treatments will help you feel and look your best

Set the Tone

Create a feeling of luxur y at home with some simple essentials Clean, fluffy towels, scented candles and low lighting set a relaxing atmosphere Consider investing in an aromatherapy diffuser or a salt lamp, both of which can help relieve stress And, don’t forget the wine

Work it Out

Give your body some time to repair. Both massage and aromatherapy can help According to Amanda Tokos, multi-unit owner at Massage Envy, some of the company ’s best sellers are, “Definitely our aromatherapy blends, which relieve stress, inflammation and pain with essential oils ex trac ted from herbs, flowers and fruits; and our enhanced muscle therapy, which treats deep muscle pain with concentrated warming and cooling therapies ”

Nourish Your Skin

Belle Santé Medical Spa offers a couple of especially relaxing treatments for sk in. “ We have microdermabrasion, which gently exfoliates and removes dead sk in cells, so you come in with dr y, dead sk in and after wards, your sk in just glows, ” said licensed esthetician Carrie Johanningsmeier Belle Santé also offers HydraFacial, which uses water instead of a diamond tip to remove dead sk in I t ’s a great way to get rid of dead sk in after winter and come out with that fresh-faced glow. To nourish a dr y scalp, tr y a Moroccan oil mask and enjoy a scalp massage. Your hair will thank you.

Re-h ydra te and Fortify

Spas usually provide guests with water and snacks in their waiting rooms and you can easily mimic your favorite spa treats at home Chill water and add vitamins with slices of fruits like lime, lemon or cucumber Include a sprig of mint, which has one of the highest levels of antioxidants in any food Antioxidants prevent or stop cell damage, for tifying your body against viruses. If you prefer a hot drink, mint tea or green tea will provide similar benefits. Add some lemon for vitamin C

Try Something New

Massages and facials never get old, but tr y changing up your routine and you may benefit in unexpec ted ways “Our stone therapy is often overlooked during spring and summer, but it has many benefits for relaxation and treatment of sore muscles, ” said Tokos To enhance a typical massage session, she recommends Essence Aromatherapy Blends, which are incorporated into the massage session by infusing the essential oil with lotion at the time of the appointment. Tr y a sugar foot scrub to exfoliate tired feet and get sandal-ready. a

Resources:

5 Elements Spa S alon Boutique and Barber Lounge, For t Wayne, 260 969 6955, 5elements-spa-salon com Belle S anté Medic al Spa, For t Wayne, 260.436.6900, bellsantemedspa.com Massage Env y, For t Wayne, 260 489 3689, locations massageenv y com/in/for t-wayne S outhwest Hair and Day Spa, For t Wayne, 260.459.2739, southwesthairspa.com

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“Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do, but how much love we put into that ac tion ” –Mother Teresa

Limitless love might best describe the hear t of Trac y Downey. That ’s why Mother ’s Day is an ex tra big deal for her rural Ossian household. Downey is mother to eight children, three of whom are biological and five of whom she and her husband adopted from China

The idea of adopting was not new to Downey. “I began think ing about it as a teenager, ” she said In the mid-2000s she and her husband researched the countr y of China as a place from which to adopt

When she found daughter Angel on a waiting list, Downey sent Angel’s photo to her husband (who works at Wells Fargo). Both felt instantly that the two-year-old living in an orphanage, half a world away, was meant to be par t of their family In March 2009 they traveled to China to complete the adoption

Since then, the Downeys have returned to China twice, each time returning with two children as new members of their family Sons Corban and Tegan arrived first, while Esther and Xavier arrived in the U S with their new parents in spring 2016

Several of the children from China have bir thmarks on their faces called congenital nevus Facial bir thmarks on Angel and Tegan have been surgically removed, but Corban and Xavier have more ex tensive bir thmarks that doc tors say may be almost impossible to remove

“I t didn't matter to us about the bir thmarks, ” Downey said “ We don't feel there is anything

abnormal… we point out how we each are the same and different They are loved, no matter what ”

And life challenges and difficulties? They don’t phase Downey and what matters most is, ver y simply, family. “Some things in life may not make sense, but we will stick together as a family I appreciate the sacrifice their bir thmothers made to enable us to love them ”

Yet, there’s more. As if raising and nur turing eight children wasn’t enough, this mega-mom also has a master ’s degree in social work and works fulltime with clients at DaV ita Dialysis Center in For t Wayne A testament to mak ing time for what ’s impor tant, Downey is a beautiful example of giving back to this life O f always mak ing room for more, if it means a life of love And what a remark able way to live and what a hear t that epitomizes what can only be described as true, motherly love. a

Front row: Logan-gray sweatshir t; Tegan-black glasses on slide; Esther-pink jacket sitting; Angel-blue shir t, sitting; Tracy Downey-pink shir t, front right; Jason-beard; Kailey-pink shir t on slide; Corban-gray shir t, sitting; Xavier-red shir t; Michael not pic tured

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At an age when many young women struggle to find their identit y, Lindsey Clark already has solid footing. The 18-year-old student at Indiana Universit y-Purdue Universit y For t Wayne is faith-filled and not shy about sharing her religious beliefs

“My faith in Jesus Christ affec ts ever ything I do, ” she said “I t has changed the way I treat others, how I view life, where I find my purpose, my identity and my hope ”

Speak ing of identity, music has been par t of her life since she can remember Singing had been a longtime passion, but she didn’t star t learning the instrumental side of music until given a guitar by her grandparents for Christmas, at age 9 From there, she was hooked.

Her early fascination with musical instruments led to an everevolving quest as a musician with two years in a guitar club, playing clarinet for five years in the high school marching band all in addition to a love for strings of guitar and violin.

Even in just eighth grade, her mother mentioned a new strings club star ting up at the school “My mind immediately raced to a video that I had seen just days before on America’s Got Talent featuring a group called “‘Nuttin’ but Strings’, ” she said. “I thought they were absolutely amazing with how well they captivated the audience's attention while showing their passion. I loved the idea of having the oppor tunity to be like that and enter tain people while having fun.”

She still carries with her the belief that music can be a catalyst for change, especially when combined with God’s love. “I tr y to center my passion of music around Jesus because without Him, I'm nothing good, and I just want to show the world how great He is and how much fun it is to really live in an understanding of how deeply He loves us, ” she said

Look ing to the future, she said her ideal career would be a “ministr y that connec ts music and people’s stories together to draw others closer to God ” To that end, she is look ing into double majoring in both business and music She trusts that whatever decision she makes will be the right one because it ’s God’s plan

“ Throughout this big decision, I am praying that God will use my life for Him in whatever career He leads me to, ” she said

Whatever direc tion life takes Clark, we’re confident it ’ll be the right one.

By Lauren Caggiano

BEACHIN’ BLISS

Romance and a view to die for Those are just a few of the perks a destination wedding has to offer What more could a gal ask for? Lynn Blanchard and her husband, Dan, are relishing in their beautiful island wedding this winter in Jamaica, and they wouldn’t have it any other way.

The couple, who met socially, tied the k not on Jan 26 at the all-inclusive Sandals South Coast Jamaica As both are beach lovers, a destination wedding seemed appropriate and fitting. Escaping the cold Indiana weather wasn’t a bad idea, either. While it was a typical winter day in the M idwest, Blanchard and her husband-to-be basked in the sun and in the pristine waters of the Caribbean. In fac t, she was at the beach just a few hours before the ceremony

Blanchard described the ceremony as an “intimate affair.” They limited the guest list to two close friends. I t was simple but sophisticated. Her bouquet was minimalistic but tasteful. The resor t coordinated the officiant and the details of the ceremony. A photographer captured the magic of the afternoon. Blanchard said she cannot say enough good things about the wedding planner and the Sandals team They made things seamless and easy, even when planning the details of the day from thousands of miles away

The Dress and Dreamy Details

O f course, par t of the fun of planning your dream day is the search for the dress. In her words, it was a “ver y beachy style” dress from David’s Bridal, with long lace and a sheer slip underneath She said it was exac tly what she wanted and she k new right away it was “the one ” Multi-talented, she did her own hair and makeup All other vacation attire came from For t Wayne’s own Urban She-K Boutique The couple found their rings at Will Jewelers in For t Wayne The ceremony went off without a hitch and they were able to enjoy the rest of their stay in paradise

There was plenty to take in during their week long getaway, said Blanchard The couple enjoyed outdoor ac tivities like paddle boarding and snorkeling, as well as fine dining and nightly enter tainment She said they especially appreciated the backdrop of the nature preser ve and the miles of beaches. As she put it, “I woke up to sunshine and beautiful weather ever y day.”

Blanchard said she’d recommend a destination wedding to anyone wanting to simplify and make the day a little more personal I t can also be costeffec tive because you don’t have a lot of the expenses that come with a traditional wedding. She also recommends leaning on the right people to make planning the trip a little less stressful. She worked with an agent at Covington Travel, who was a huge help

“ We had about a month to book ever ything and she was able to push ever ything through, ” said Blanchard.

Indeed, sometimes the most beautiful things come together at the last minute.

DESTINATION DETAILS

Many destination wedding couples allow about 8-12 months of planning typically, said Christie Rans, an agent with Edger ton Travel in For t Wayne However, if you prefer to go the spontaneous route, there are destinations where you can be married within 24 hours of arrival. Examples of such destinations include Jamaica, Las Vegas and the Cayman Islands.

The locale is simply a matter of preference and budget. Jamaica is a popular wedding destination said Rans, because there is less paperwork and no bloodwork is required, along with places such as the Cayman Islands and St. Lucia.

Rans advises brides to do homework For example, if your budget is restric tive, consider

Mexico or the Caribbean Readers should k now that Mexico and the Dominican Republic require translation of legal documents into Spanish. Mexico requires a blood test and to be in the countr y for at least four business days before your marriage. “For places such as this, it may be easier to be married in the states and have a symbolic ceremony at the resor t, ” said Rans

Regardless of whether it ’s planned months or days in advance, a travel agent can facilitate the process “ Work ing with a travel agent lends to less stress and a more carefree wedding, ” said Rans “ Your travel agent plans your and your guests’ travel arrangements and follows through until the end Once the travel arrangements are made, the wedding is taken care of by the resor t wedding planner ”

I t ’s a matter of just adding the beach, wedding and of course romance Don’t forget the presence of close friends and family, too. “Destination weddings are beneficial if you have family all across the countr y ; you just meet at the resor t, ” Rans said. “ They are usually more intimate because there are fewer guests, most often the most impor tant people to the bride and groom ”

Along with a smaller wedding often are fewer expenses. Many resor ts are ver y accommodating to wedding par ties, she said, offering discounted (and sometimes even free) wedding ser vices And as Rans reminds readers, “you’ve already purchased your air fare, so you can stay longer after the wedding and already be on your honeymoon ”

Fem Stat #80

The average number of guests at a destination wedding = 75.

Fem Stat #79

Destination weddings account for nearly one in four of all weddings.

DRESSES + ACCESSORIES

The per fec t destination wedding calls for the per fec t dress and accessories to set the tone. According to Autumn Par ton, owner of One Fine Day bridal boutique in For t Wayne, brides have more options than ever today for bridal apparel and accessories. She said brides today typically opt for more “fitted, lightweight and flow y ” choices, with straps for destination wedding ceremonies

Fem Stat #81

The average budget for a destination wedding = $22,443. Wow!

Light fabrics that do not cling to the body are best for outdoor nuptials. Materials like linen, chiffon, organza and even cotton blends or lace are light but still look tasteful. After all, there is nothing worse than sweat marks on the back and front of a gown. You can go for prac ticality without sacrificing sophistication

Ladies shouldn’t feel limited by color, either. Champagne, blush and cream are feminine and soft shades that tend to flatter most sk in tones. Bridesmaid dresses in neutral colors are also trending, said Par ton. She’s seeing both shor t and long styles in demand. Speak ing of flattering, she said a simple but classy updo off the neck is a nice touch to take into account humid weather

Accessories

What ’s a dress without some accessories to accent it?

Par ton said live flowers are favorite touches as are traditional veils Shoe choice will really var y according to the physical backdrop. Most brides aren’t ac tually getting married on the beach, she said but under a canopy or similar struc ture So shoe choice is really up to you choose what looks and feels best for the occasion If you go the beach route, some decorative flip flips or sandals are a safe bet

Bottom line: A destination wedding is the occasion to plan your day your way I t ’s your time to shine and have all eyes on you So don’t be shy O wn it, enjoy and be married a

Resources:

Covington Travel, For t Wayne, 260 432 5995, covingtontravelinc com

David’s Bridal, For t Wayne, 260 484 7343, davidsbridal com

Edger ton’s Travel, For t Wayne, 260 497 8747, edger tonstravel com

One Fine Day, For t Wayne, 260 483 8000, onefinedaybridalandgown com

Urban She-k Boutique, For t Wayne, 260 444 5993, urbanshe-k com

Will Jewelers, For t Wayne, 260 432 5126, willjewelers com

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Mother’s Day Gift Guide

Happy Mother’s Day, glo Country

It ’s the day designated just for her. It ’s when we show Mom how much she’s loved. How deeply she’s appreciated. And how much she’s adored.

We all want to make her feel adored on her special day—and what better way to spread a loving smile than with a gift from the hear t?

Take a peek at this issue’s collec tion of gift ideas for the mom in your life and all available at retailers near you. a

Souper G ifts

CWOW is introducing For t Wayne to a new line of tasty dr y soup blends, cook ie mixes and other food items produced by women in the US. Women's Bean Projec t is a human ser vices organization designed to provide a safe work environment where impoverished or recovering women can learn the sk ills required for gainful employment A beautiful and delicious win/win? Yes, we think so!

Creative Women O f The World 125 W Wayne St , For t Wayne | 260 267 9048 gocwow.org

Wrapped For Her

This locally handmade leather wrap bracelet by LeMyers Design is available in black, tan, caramel, beige and hand-painted colors I t ’s a fabulous, ever yday leather bracelet she’ll love A per fec t gift for Mom, your friends and a little treat for yourself! You can't beat the ar tistr y you'll find in these locally made wrap bracelets

Lyn-Maree's Boutique

209 N. Main St., Auburn | 260.908.1391 lyn-marees com

B eautiful Traditions

Star t a precious tradition of pearls whether for Mother ’s Day, her bir thday, a first recital or years of love with this Orienta Star t-Her Neck lace®. I t grows with each addition and becomes a cherished keepsake, lasting into the nex t generation.

Blossoms Sweet As Mom

Treat her to unique, local, estate-grown wine This blend is both delicate and sweet a lot like Mom Days are getting longer, temps are warming and spring is in full blossom. Celebrate Mom and the change of seasons with this great blend of Concord and Steuben Grapes. $12.95/bottle

Countr y Heritage Winer y & Vineyard 185 Count y Road 68, LaOtto | 260 637 2980 countr yheritagewiner y com

She’s A Gem

Lace + Arrow is excited to carr y Gorjana Power Gemstones a per fec t gift for Mom (or moms-to-be). These gemstones give positive energy, with each carr ying its own special meaning and positive intention. Make Mom feel special with the per fec t positive piece of jewelr y or give multiple pieces and help layer on positive vibes for the moms in your life Picture Credit: Gorjana

Eichhorn Jewelr y Inc.

130 N S econd St , Decatur | 800 589 2621

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Lace + Arrow

301 W Jefferson Blvd , #105, For t Wayne | 260 449 9090 laceandarrow.com

Busters

By Nicole Leigh Shaw

Time is a tricky dimension

Procrastinators know this ver y well If you’re putting off doing something, like bathing the family dog or organizing the cupboard, all the time that comes before the thing you have to do rockets past until there’s no time left to get anything done so you might as well give up on the whole thing and see what ’s on Netflix. But, after a while, that dog is really going to stink and you won’t be able to find any matching lids for your Tupper ware

What ’s a procrastinator to do?

Here are some procrastination busters for even the most devoted foot draggers

Use Timers. Don’t have a timer? You need one. If you struggle setting time limits for your ac tivities, get in the habit of using a timer. I t can be the real deal, a clanging egg timer in the k itchen or your smar tphone Set a limit on how much time you’ll spend doing any one thing, then move on to the nex t projec t when the timer goes off

Too Many Projec ts. Do you tr y to shoehorn 32 hours’ wor th of stuff into a 24-hour day? The

best way to get nothing accomplished is by letting a too-long list intimidate you You can’t make your days longer, but you can make your to-do list shor ter. Prioritize your list on a sheet of paper, then rip off the bottom third of the list and tuck it into a drawer for later (or the trash). Not only does your work load feel like less, you’ve also set the most impor tant items at the top

Shoebox Method. This is an alternative to the to-do list. If you can’t par t with a third of your list, tr y this. Put each task on a single notecard and put the notecards into a shoebox. Open the box and pull a card out at random When it ’s done, rec ycle it and grab the nex t card No list

means never having to feel like you can’t get ahead Plus, rec ycling the card when you’re done smacks of accomplishment

Hire Help. I t would be nice to rent a carpet cleaner and finally deep clean the living room floor yourself, but if you’re overbooked, it might be time to hire a professional While they clean your carpets, use that newly opened calendar space to take on some other chore

Avoid Prep-Crastination. I t would be great if your spice rack were labeled with color-coordinated Washi tape or if you had a great day planner for keeping your schedule But if preparing to get things accomplished (color coding or shopping for the per fec t calendar) takes more time than getting things accomplished, stop while you’re ahead.

Social Media Blackout. Facebook can wait So can Instagram, Pinterest, Snapchat, Twitter, LinkedIn and email Use social media as a reward for accomplishing something on your must-do agenda. Oh, and while you’re online, remember to set that egg timer so that you don’t overstay your internet vacation. a

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WildSide

Which pet is right for you?

By Cathy Shouse

Pets can be one of the great joys of life except when they ’re not. Just ask a mom shuddering as the long bony tail t witches on Stuar t Little, the rat her four th-grader “won” from the school science experiment Or talk the apar tment-dweller down from the ledge when the pooch ate the sofa because there’s no yard to romp in.

A success stor y : Author Traci Douglass of For t Wayne is 100 percent compatible with Clara, her 11-year-old Pomeranian “She’s seven pounds of attitude and sass, ver y motherly and nosey, ” Douglass said “She’s a ver y doting writing companion ”

So, are there secrets to finding the per fec tly matched pet?

The veterinarian is in: Linda Parker, DVM, of Aboite Animal Hospital, offered some insights

ALL DOGS, BIG AND SMALL

Big: Mastiffs are usually gentle giants They have laid back personalities, and usually don’t realize how big they are A mastiff needs an owner that doesn’t expec t too much ac tivity from their pet, and that sometimes enjoys tak ing it easy Mastiffs should be socialized with people and

other dogs at a young age, which is true for all dogs.

Small: Chihuahuas are small and mighty They have small bodies but big personalities and tend to be a little more ner vous in situations they haven’t been exposed to before They need an owner who will socialize them well when they are young to avoid this.

In-between: Pit bulls, labs and golden retrievers are happy, friendly dogs that have never met a stranger

Th e we l l- dre s se d c a ni ne

Looking for unique gift ideas for Mom? Or just want to find something unique for your four-legged BFF?

Enjoy some ideas from Adrianna Hensley of Pink Poodle in Fort Wayne:

• Hats with brims that display college team logos

• Sunglasses for dogs

• Crystal-embellished collars backed with leather and nylon

• Iced treat for birthdays, like pup cakes and birthday cakes

"I own a pit/cocker spaniel mix named Minnesota and she gets dressed up with a cute collar and flower that attaches to her collar," Hensley said. But before dressing up your canine, keep their comfort in mind. "Dogs sweat through their feet. If they aren't used to wearing clothes, they will try to get the clothes off It just depends on the dog.”

Hint: If running is your thing, a high energy dog like a V izsla would be a good fit.

WE ARE SIAMESE, IF YOU PLEASE: C ATS

Different cat breeds come with different personalities, just like dogs

Siamese cats are ver y vocal; they should be paired with an owner who enjoys a good chat.

If you're look ing for a calm cat to cuddle, a ragdoll is the way to go

Maine coon cats are outgoing and friendly

ON THE WILDER SIDE

“I do see reptiles, including snakes, lizards and tur tles, as well as small mammals like gerbils, ” Parker said “If low maintenance is the goal and you want a pet that only needs fed once a month or so, a snake might be the pet for you If you live in a small space, a ferret, hamster or gerbil might make a nice companion

“ There are tons of different types of lizards Common pets are bearded dragons, anoles, geckos and iguanas They are most commonly kept in terrariums Some require live insec ts to be fed There are also lots of tur tles that can be pets such as red ear sliders and painted tur tles Some tur tles can carr y salmonella, though, so hand washing after handling is impor tant They usually stay in aquariums as good water filtration is impor tant The proper light source and humidity are impor tant for any reptile.

So which pet fits your wild side? a

Get-it Guide

Read my lips

By Julie Young

Just as the per fec t accessories can make or break your outfit, the right lip color can make or break your face Choose correc tly and your hair, skin and lips will come together in a coordinated look. Choose wrong and you may appear overpowering and overdone If you are ready to achieve flawless lips, tr y some new produc ts and a few professional tips.

Classic combinations

When it comes to choosing lip color, it ’s important to take your hair, sk in tone and natural lip color into consideration in order to find a shade that suits you. As a general rule, women with dark hair and a warm sk in tone should look for shades of red that have a brown base and contain keywords such as “deep, ” “golden” and “coral” to help as guides If your complexion is on the cooler side of the spec trum, then you will want to seek out colors with a little more bite such as shades with “cherr y, ” “plum” and “burgundy ” in their name (i e L’Oreal Paris Infallible Le Rouge in Bold Bordeaux)

Blondes who have warm sk in colors can get away with lipsticks with a citrus edge such as orange, coral reds and copper If your sk in is a little cooler, soften the look with muted shades that include names such as dusty rose, light red, plum, pink or anything with a blue base.

Redheads are a little more complicated since their sk in and hair color can encompass a wide

range of ginger hues. Warmer complexions should tr y bright shades of orange and reds while those with cooler complexions should look into blue-toned reds, which are k nown for making teeth look whiter (i e Elizabeth Arden Exceptional Lipstick in Wild Winterberr y)

Anything goes

While it is still common to choose a lip color based on the classic combinations outlined above, today ’s professionals say anything goes when it comes to finding the per fec t lip shade

Tori Schneider, a cosmetologist with Southwest Hair & Day Spa says what really matters is finding a look you feel comfor table with and then rock ing it for all that it ’s wor th

“ We are seeing a lot of ombre looks which is a darker color on the outside that goes into a lighter shade in the center of the lip If someone

is not fond of bold colors, then they can tr y our M irabella velvet lip pencil, which will give them full color but is still lightweight and feels like Vaseline on your lips ”

Quick fixes

For those who are not used to wearing lip color, Schneider suggests finding a great neutral that is only slightly brighter or deeper than your natural lip color And if you are one of those people who hate to reapply your lipstick throughout the day, she suggests using lip liner to color on your lips so that a hue will remain after the shine fades.

“Another cool thing M irabella offers is a clear lip liner for those who don’t want to outline their lips but have trouble staying in the lines, ” she says. “I t keeps ever ything where it should be and helps the color go on easier.”

No matter what formula you choose to follow when look ing for lip ser vice, be sure to tr y as many options as possible before settling on a style.

“ You have to tr y on ever ything; other wise, how will you k now what looks best?” Schneider said. “Lipstick can be expensive, but you get a lot for your money and it lasts forever. Shouldn’t it be something you love?” a

Resources:

S outhwest Hair & Day Spa, For t Wayne, 260 459 2739, southwesthairspa com

As We Age:

Ti p s f o r h e a l t h y l i v i n g

By Barb Sieminsk i

As a child, all you wanted was to be an adult taller and stronger and older What were you thinking, you now wonder? With the wisdom you currently have, you’d probably like to par tially reverse that childhood wish

I t ’s a fac t of life that we grow older, not younger. But the milestones of aging can be helped along the way with a visionar y road map. Here we’ve listed some things to expec t at the different stages of your life’s journey and we’ve also conferred with some local exper ts who offer tips for optimal living

• The 20s and 30s, your childbearing years, are a great time to begin a fit lifestyle with a healthy diet, which reduces the risk of hear t disease and other chronic health issues Exercise regularly and maintain an appropriate weight Increase your longevity by choosing abundant fruits and veggies, whole grains and low-fat dair y produc ts. Take supplements such as omega-3 fats, folic acid and others as recommended by your doc tor. Some no-nos include no smok ing, limited alcohol and no illegal drugs Wear your seatbelt, have a medical checkup ever y 2 years Protec t your sk in and eyes from sun damage with a sunscreen SPF of 15+ and get enough sleep K ate Sedlaczek NP-C of Forefront Dermatology notes that signs of aging begin to appear on the face and chest, including wrink les, dullness, increased pore size, spider veins and acne in our 30s and 40s “ Ways to help slow this aging process include using produc ts that help new cell regeneration such as creams containing Retinol and V itamin C. Chemical peels are great for a quick, refreshed look and botox helps with exist-

ing wrink les as well as preventing new ones Be mindful of sk in cancer prevention measures your daily sk in care routine should consist of makeup or moisturizing creams that contain SPF Per form monthly self-checks and visit your physician for an annual screening ”

• The 40s bring menopause What fun to finally say goodbye to those monthly sanitar y protec tion produc ts, right? Continue exercising and eating a healthy diet Also, keep your vision healthy You should be able to read the fine print on medicine labels with reading glasses Wear sunglasses; too much sun exposure can cause catarac ts. Also, Andrew Hogue, O.D. of Leo Family Eye Care stressed that eyestrain from tech devices is real. “ We stare at the screen for longer periods of time before we remember to blink, ” said Hogue “Red, irritated eyes bring patients in and we’re treating them with synthetic tears, and have newer and better designs in contac t lenses to hydrate the eyes with Also, I’d have ever y patient especially post-Lasik and late 30s & early 40s ladies wear anti-fatigue lenses such as Eyezen and Prevencia coating for best reduc tion of fatigue and prevention of retinal stress ”

• For women in their 50s, 60s, 70s (and better!), continue the optimum habits you hopefully began in your more youthful years “ Women at these ages can par ticipate in community wellness programs for exercising and using the NuStep machines, which help keep them mobile and increase their strength and endurance so they will be able to per form their daily ac tivities, ” said Mercedes Gozun, registered physical therapist at Coventr y Meadows Health Care “Using these machines along with daily exercise habits will also prevent them from having falls Good joint health comes from ac tivity not inac tivity ” Post-menopausal women need about 1,600 calories per day, according to the U S Depar tment of Agriculture, which recommends 1 5 cups of fruit, 2 cups of vegetables, 5 ounces of grains, 5 ounces of protein-rich foods and the equivalent of 3 cups of fat-free milk in dair y produc ts daily.

More detailed information can be found online for each age group, and now that you have a glimpse of what your upcoming years can be, enjoy the ride. a photos: shutterstock com

Resources:

Coventr y Meadows Healthc are, For t Wayne, 260 432 4848, ascseniorcare com

Forefront Dermatology, For t Wayne, 260 387 0509, forefrontdermatology com

Leo Family Eye Care, Leo, 260 627 2669, leoeyecare com

Life Care Center of For t Wayne, For t Wayne, 260 422 8520, lifecarecenteroffor twaynein com

De-lish Breakfast Casserole May’s Recipe

By Sue Rawlinson

This delicious, hot breakfast casserole is a fantastic blend of cheese, eggs and sausage and a fan favorite in my household. Per fec t for busy morning celebrations, prep this casserole the night before, pop in the oven first thing in the morning and it ’ll be hot ‘n fresh when your morning guests arrive (or arise)

It ’s per fec t for a Mother ’s Day brunch and it ’ll fill your home with delicious scents of home cooking. Then pair with cinnamon rolls, a bowl of fresh strawberries and Mom’s favorite coffee and she’ll be set for a great day of celebration.

Happy Mother ’s Day to glo moms, near and far.

Ingredients:

1 pound sausage

2 cups milk

1 teaspoon dr y mustard

6 beaten eggs

Direc tions

1 Preheat oven to 350 degrees

2 cups shredded cheddar cheese

1 teaspoon salt

3 slices white bread, torn into pieces

2 In a greased 13x9 casserole, break up bread, covering bottom of casserole

3 In sk illet, brown and break up sausage

4 Drain sausage and dump in large bowl that has eggs and milk in it

5 Add cheese, mustard and salt Stir together and pour over bread

6 Bake at 350 degrees for 45 minutes

Note: If casserole was prepped night before and refrigerated overnight, increase cook ing time to 55 minutes. a

Bottoms-up! Bottoms-up!

Mother’s Day Cheers: Strawberry Mint Sparkler

By Sue Rawlinson

Mom’s coming over for brunch and this is a per fec t beverage to treat the day ’s queen Tast y and sparkling, this spring cocktail is a great selec tion for your favorite gal. It looks lovely, it ’s refreshing and yet it ’s not too sweet. Besides, Mom is sweet enough just as she is, isn’t she?

Yield: Makes one drink

Ingredients

5 medium, ripe strawberries

½ oz simple syrup (see below for direc tions to make your own; it’s easy)

Direc tions

½ oz. club soda

1 For simple syrup: combine 1 cup water with 1 cup sugar in small saucepan Warm over medium heat, stirring constantly until sugar dissolves Cool before using Note: make simple syrup the day before and keep sealed in airproof container in the fridge

2 In cocktail shaker, combine strawberries, simple syrup and lime juice Muddle until strawberries are completely dissolved

3. Add mint leaves and tap gently with muddler about five times. (If touched too much, the mint leaves will taste bitter.)

4. Add vodk a into shaker and fill with ice. Shake until well chilled (about 30 seconds).

5 Fill a glass with ice and add club soda

6 Strain cocktail into glass and stir gently

7 Garnish with lime, strawberries and/or mint leaves

Note: for those who like drinks a little sweeter, use Sprite instead of club soda a

A s akus a

By Melinda Nick las

Calling all sushi lovers in For t Wayne!

Asakusa Restaurant is the place to be if you’re a sushi lover or even just kind of like sushi Asakusa will transform that like into love

Kevin and I make it a point to eat here for lunch at least once a week, and dinner is a ‘must ’ a few times a month Yes, we’re regulars

The Atmosphere

Stepping inside Asakusa, it ’s an inviting, warm atmosphere great for a romantic dinner yet also fitting to hold a professional lunch date

The restaurant name itself claims it is Japanese sushi, so the décor reflec ts the beautiful Japanese style.

The Food

For lunch I enjoy the lunch special, which is a house salad with ginger dressing paired with clear soup The spic y tuna roll is my favorite No,

wait I t ’s the California roll Or, maybe it ’s another variety as they ’re all my favorites Forks are available, but I always use chopsticks You could say I’ve mastered chopsticks since I’m there to practice so frequently

Ever y bite at Asakusa is amazing and delightful even before I load on the wasabi and soy sauce

The Staff

Always friendly and timely, you can count on a welcoming smile when you walk in. a

If you go: Asakusa

6224 Lima Road, For t Wayne 260.490.6888

Monday-Thursday 11 a m -2 p m and 4:30 p m -9 p m ; Friday, 11:30 a.m.-2 p.m. and 4:30 p.m.-10 p.m.; Saturday, 11:30 a m -10 p m ; Sunday, 4:30 p.m.-9 p.m. 6401 W Jefferson Blvd For t Wayne 260.432.9888

Monday through Thursday, 11 a m -9 p m ; Friday, 11 a m -10 p m ; Saturday 11:30 a.m.-10 p.m. asakusasushibar.com

glo-roscopes

may 2017 glo-roscopes

By Julie Young

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

May is your month and you are set to bloom like the poppy you are Your intentions and attitude give you the ability to move through the world with poise and confidence, mak ing positive and long-lasting changes wherever you go. Histor y has its eye on you, Taurus.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

Like an orchid, there is a myster y to you that people cannot resist. Unfor tunately, that means you are often misunderstood. If you allow the one you love to look behind the cur tain, they will see what makes you ex tra special and they will be honored that only they k now the “real you ”

Cancer ( June 21 - July 22)

Society likes convention and when something bucks tradition, they don’t k now how to handle it You are like the bird of paradise: a beautiful bloom that is often mistaken for a weed Stick to your style and show the world that you can be the showstopper of their garden They will change their minds

Leo ( July 23 - August 22)

Just like a sunflower, you are a ray of light You follow the brightest star in our galax y and you radiate its warmth However, when the sun goes down, your mood drops with it and the contradic tion can be off-putting Take care in what you say or do because there is a world of difference between day and night.

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

Thoughtful and reflec tive, you are a morning glor y that never leaps before it looks. You k now when there is something amiss in your relationship, but you typically will not panic. Analyze the situation and work to right the ship. Strength and determination will keep you on course.

Libra (September 23 - Oc tober 22)

Roses represent truth and you have the uncanny ability to cut to the chase and see the meaning behind the message and expose hidden evidence Use this power judiciously this month, dear Libra If you dig too deep, you may not be happy with the things you uncover

Scorpio (Oc tober 23 - November 21)

Like a chr ysanthemum, there are a lot of layers to your soul You are intellectually adept but you are sensual as well and this will bode well for your relationships Perhaps a summer romance is in the offing Perhaps your current relationship will move to the nex t level. Allow yourself to fall in love.

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

Like the fast growing narcissus, you have a daily influence on people you meet. You are deep, philosophical and simple with few needs. You will be blessed with good luck all month long so go ahead and take a few chances. Just don’t get carried away or you will wilt before the season ends

Capricorn (December 22 - Januar y 19)

Simplicity is its own reward and if there is any flower to describe you it is the timeless carnation You take life as it comes, so k now how to be satisfied with what you have and see the ever yday miracles most of us miss You k now how to make each day better and there is a friend who needs your positive vibes

Aquarius ( Januar y 20 - Februar y 18)

You are a beautiful water lily, adding a splash of color in the pond of life People can’t help being drawn to you and your distinc tion fills you with pride Show your appreciation for those who suppor t you and open your hear t to someone new Love will build a bridge that will bring you together

Pisces (Februar y 19 - March 20)

Like the honeysuck le, you have a strong effec t on others You entice others with your style and grace and if you have a job inter view this month, you will most likely get the job. People can’t resist your energy and it is sure to improve the current work environment, so why not go for it?

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

Just like lavender fills the meadows, you dot the landscape with your natural beauty You make the simplest outfit look like haute couture and you k now how to make the ordinar y ex traordinar y Expand your mind, seek out new sources of inspiration and make an unexpec ted change I t will work out better than you imagine a

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M a y

By Ray Balogh

5 | Friday |

“Under the Streetlamp”

2, 9, 16, 23, 30

| Tuesdays |

“Little River Ramblers”

Hike and explore the interesting plants and wildlife of Eagle Marsh Sponsored by Little River Wetlands Project Free admission 9 a m -11 p m , Arrowhead Prairie parking lot, 8624 Aboite Road, Fort Wayne 260 478 2515, info@lrwp org, lrwp org

4 | Thursday | The Midtown Men

Four original stars from Broadway’s Jersey Boys star in a concert experience celebrating the music of the ‘60s with top-shelf choreography and incredible vocals $58/$45/$35 7:30 p m , Honeywell Center, 275 W Market St , Wabash 260 563 1102, honeywellcenter org

4, 11, 18, 25 | Thursday | Learn to Manage Your Chronic Disease

Increase awareness and ability to self-manage diabetes and chronic disease Curriculum includes managing pain, fatigue, depression and frustration; increasing fitness and self-confidence; healthy eating tips and more 12:30 p m -3 p m , 1649 Spy Run Ave , Fort Wayne Call 260 422 8520 to register

5 | Friday | People’s Choice Chefs Cook Off

Country BBQ cook off fundraiser for Oak Hill Farm includes live music by Autumn Grey $15 adults, $10 ages 6-10, free for children 5 and under 5 p m -8 p m , Roanoke Cottage Event Center, 9524 U S 24 North, Roanoke 260 672 8199, facebook com/oakhillfarm

5 | Friday | Downtown Wabash First Friday

Celebrate the Wabash community with musicians and artisans alike playing music in the streets Food trucks, music, specials and more Free admission 5 p m -8 p m downtown visitwabashcounty com

Concert celebration of classic hits of the American Radio Songbook from the 1950s-1970s, featuring tight harmonies and slick dance moves

$56/$36/$29 7:30 p m , 125 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne 800 745 3000, fwembassytheatre org

5 | Friday |

“Evening Hike for Frog Calls”

Learn to identify local frogs by their calls Hike led by LRWP’s preserve and program assistant Dani Bradtmiller Boots recommended Free admission 8 p m -9 p m , Eagle Marsh barn, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne 260 478 2515, info@lrwp org, lrwp org

5-6 | Friday-Saturday | Herb and Perennial Plant Sale

Early Americana music, hand-arts display, wool spinning demo, refreshments, memberships, bake sale, plant sale, perennial “diggings” on the back lawn 10 a m -4 p m Friday, 9 a m -noon (basement only) Saturday, Historic Sweeney Homestead, 1424 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne 260 637 8622, settlersinc org

6 | Saturday | Clint Black

Country singer-songwriter Clint Black has written, recorded and released more than 100 songs, had more than two dozen #1 singles and sold more than 20 million albums worldwide $100/$56/$36 7:30 p m , Honeywell Center, 275 W Market St , Wabash 260 563 1102, honeywellcenter org

6, 13, 20, 27 | Saturday | South Side Farmers Market

Market features 100 stands of produce, hand-crafted items, antiques, fresh baked goods, eggs, local honey, hormone-free pork and chicken Master gardeners on hand to answer questions Free admission 7 a m -1 p m , 3300 Warsaw St , Fort Wayne 260 456 8255 or 260 456 1228, southsidefarmersmarket com

7 | Sunday |

Monthly Flea Market

Hot food available, sponsored by the Adams County Coin Club 8 a m -3 p m , Riverside Center, 231 E Monroe St (Highway 224 East), Decatur Contact Carla at 260 517 8182, facebook com/decaturindianafleamarket

7 | Sunday |

“Ever After Pop-Up Shop”

Pop-up market to support Destiny Rescue Free admission for shopping; tickets required for motherdaughter Cinderella tea party Parking $5 main lot, $8 preferred lot Noon-7 p m , new conference center lobby, Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave , Fort Wayne 260 482 9502, memorialcoliseum com

11 | Thursday |

“Breakfast on the Marsh: Become a Friend to Mason Bees and other Native Pollinators”

For 50 years and older A light breakfast will be served Call to preregister Free admission 8:30 a m9:45 a m , Indiana Wesleyan Education & Conference Center, Room 102/104, 8211 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne 260 478 2515, info@lrwp org, lrwp org

13 | Saturday | Plant Sale

Master Gardeners will be selling hanging floral baskets, vegetable plants, annual bedding plants and perennials Free admission 9 a m2 p m , Noble County Fairgrounds Floral Hall, 580 N Fair, Kendallville For more information, call 260 854 3668, ext 18

13 | Saturday | “Freedom from Food Obsession”

Overeaters Anonymous workshop Free admission 1 p m -4 p m , Unity Spiritual Center, 3232 Crescent Ave , Fort Wayne 260 704 0453

13 | Saturday | Forest Bathing Walks

Based on the Japanese art of shinrin-yoku $15 per person or $25 for mother and daughter 9 a m -noon or 1:30 p m -4:30 p m , Salamonie Lake, 3691 New Holland Road, Andrews Registration required, call 260 468 2127

18 | Thursday | Pink Out

Gain valuable information about breast cancer, schedule a mammogram; health and wellness fair, cruise-in, parade, speakers, tribute ceremony, balloon release Free admission 4 p m -8 p m , James Cultural Plaza, downtown Auburn 260 333 7710, trikappaauburn org

17 | Wednesday | “Short Hikes for Short Legs: Turtles”

Hands-on activity in the barn, then hike to look for turtles and signs they live on the marsh Boots recommended Free admission, open to children 3-5 accompanied by responsible adult 9 a m -10 a m , Eagle Marsh barn, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne 260 478 2515, info@lrwp org, lrwp org

19 | Friday | Historic Auburn Art Show

Exhibit will run until June 30 Artist reception 6 p m - 8 p m , Auburn Atrium MarketPlace Commons,106 W 6th St , Auburn For more information, call Nina Bennett at 260 927 1326

20 | Saturday | Annual Plant Swap

Plant drop-off, preview and swap Free admission 1 p m -2 p m dropoff and preview; 2 p m -3 p m swap, parking lot at 518 N Wabash St , Wabash; rain location 551 N Miami Street Garden Talk: Bad Bugs 1:15 p m -1:45 p m , 551 N Miami St , Wabash 260 563 1020, charleycreekgardens org

23 | Tuesday |

“Turtles of Eagle Marsh”

Celebrate World Turtle Day with hike led by LRWP’s director of preserves and programs Betsy Yankowiak Boots recommended Free admission, open to children 3-5 accompanied by responsible adult 6:30 p m8 p m , Eagle Marsh barn, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne 260 478 2515, info@lrwp org, lrwp org

23 | Tuesday |

Practicing Christian Healing Today

Attend a great event and hear guest lecturer, Mary Alice Rose, speaking on the topic of “Practicing Christian Healing Today ” 7 p m , First ChurchChrist, Scientist, 4242 Buesching Drive, Fort Wayne 260 436 8338, ask for Julie Clancy (at Jophiel) for further information

26 | Friday |

“Color to the Classics”

Relax and color to live piano jazz by Dave Latchaw Bring your own materials or purchase for $5 at the door Refreshments, door prizes, devotional, freebies 10 a m -noon, First Assembly of God, 1400 W Washington Center Road, Fort Wayne Call Nancy at 260 227 2716 for reservation a

Would you like to submit an event to be considered for glo s To-Do List? Our deadline is the 6th of the month prior to publication E-mail us your event 40 words or less to: rbalogh@thepapers com Please type ‘To-Do List’ in the subject line Or you may mail info to glo P O Box 188 Milford IN 46542

The Winner Real

AMA ZING LOVING STRONG HAPPY SELFLESS GRACEFUL

By Julie Young

When I was a little girl, my mother and I engaged in a bizarre ritual each evening that can only be described as a cross bet ween a friendly competition and an all-out war

I t went something like this: Each night when my father pulled into the driveway, my mother would announce his arrival and declare that she would be the first to greet him when he walked through the door Never one to back down from a challenge, I would race into the k itchen and wriggle my three-year-old self through the Juliesized space between her legs in order to plant myself in front of her when my father appeared

I got the first hug ever y time

As proud as I am of my undefeated record in this par ticular spor t, you had to give credit to my mother for the way she handled ever y loss While I gleefully recounted my vic tor y to anyone who

would listen, my poor mother had to contend herself with the consolation prize of putting my father ’s Thermos in the sink and hanging up his coat She didn’t seem to mind getting beat by a toddler, and if I didn’t k now any better, I would say she ac tually wanted me to win.

As if losing to me ever y night was not enough, Mom also had a tendenc y of tak ing a backseat to my grandmother, especially after my grandfather died and Grandma wasn’t as ac tive as she used to be. Not long after I moved out, Mom and Dad got into the habit of tak ing my grandmother out to dinner with them ever y Friday night, and ever y Friday night, my mother insisted on waiting in the car while Dad collec ted his mother at the door and saw her safely inside at the end of the evening She sat across the table from the dynamic duo as the two of them chatted happily throughout the meal and, more often than not, she was left to put on her own coat while my dad helped his mother with hers

Yet, Mom harbored no resentment at her second place position in my father ’s life In fac t, she told

me many times she was proud that my dad and I had a close and loving relationship until the day he died She delighted in the fac t that although he was no longer a little boy, Dad was still the apple of his mother ’s eye. By encouraging a strong bond between Dad and the “other women” in his life, Mom believed it made her relationship with him even stronger. And believe me, my father k new who the real winner was in his life and how without her, he would be nothing

“I have always loved you…marr ying you made my life complete You are the best thing that ever happened to me and I have received ever ything from life that anyone should because of you, ” he wrote to her in 1987

This month, as we honor the women who brought us into the world, let us not only recall the ways in which they “lost ” so that we could win, but the selfless ways they put someone else’s needs ahead of their own and how so often they dimmed their own light in order to let someone else shine Happy Mother ’s Day! a

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