Glo - March 2017

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Award-winning journalist, former NBC News anchor, and international correspondent who fought her way to the top, and doesn’t take any lesson for granted. Her passion drives her life’s work and will inspire you.

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The “ Fresh ‘ n Free-Spirited”

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Ron Baumgar tner | rbaumgar tner@the-papers com

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director of marketing Kip Schumm | kschumm@the-papers com

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graphic designer Maymie Ank rom

marketing assistants Darlene Eichelberger

contributing writers Ray Balogh, Beth Behrendt, Lauren Caggiano, K ayleen Reusser, Shannon Rooney, Nicole Leigh Shaw, Cathy Shouse, Barb Sieminsk i, Julie Young

Congratulations to... cover artist Samantha Fulk

E the Cover

Describe the inspiration behind your cover ar twork?

As a small-town teenager, I often find myself dreaming of bigger and better things. My aspiration at the time I was creating this painting was to move to a big cit y and live my own life as an independent woman.

About

S amantha

Ar t is…

Ar t, to me, is an expression of one’s mind thoughts, feelings, opinions, etc. Essentially, it is a physical representation of what we see in our heads and how we want to por tray it to others.

What inspires you?

I am often inspired by my day-to-day emotions. When something is weighing me down, I paint out my frustration. However, when something has made me incredibly happy, I create bright, color ful works. It all depends on how I feel when I star t a project.

Your biggest suppor ter(s):

As a young, aspiring ar tist, many people have graciously suppor ted me the past few years My friends and family have always recognized my ar tistic abilit y and have encouraged me to seek a future in ar t. My high school teachers have also been great suppor ters and my ar t teacher, Shanna Fleet wood, always made me excited to learn new media

Why you read glo:

Growing up, I would have breakfast with my grandparents ever y Saturday morning at our favorite local diner and my grandmother would always bring me t wo things: a box of crayons and a Glo magazine She recognized my passion for ar t early on and supplied me with this magazine for inspiration. a

Want to put your art on our front cover?

To submit your entr y, send ar t as an e-mail attachment to srawlinson@the-papers com or send a produc tion-ready image on a CD via mail to: glo Magazine, Attention: Sue Rawlinson, PO Box 188, Milford, IN 46542.

The Nitty Gritty: glo front covers are open to female ar tists Submissions from all original 2D media (digital ar t photographs are OK) are welcome. Ar t work must be photographed at a high-resolution (300+ dpi) for reproduc tion Content should reflec t a woman or women Cover ar t selec tions are made at the discretion of glo staff. For cover placement, the ar tist will receive credit and added exposure via introduc tor y copy and published photograph in a question and answer sec tion

Cover ar t is cropped to 10” wide x 13” high. Submitted cover ar t should be sized as 10 5” wide x 13 25” tall and, when possible, please allow 4.5” at top of ar t work for glo masthead placement The ar t chosen will confer rights to the cover image only as it relates to the publication and glo The ar tist shall retain all other rights.

Don’t miss the April issue of glo dedicated to ALL ladies. Learn the best beauty basics for your best glow from the inside out.

From natural remedies to sassy style and habits for happiness, we’ll have it all covered. Beautifully.

All coming in the April issue of glo!

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From the executive editor

I“was in trouble kind of a lot.

I t wasn’t my fault I was curious Or that I had an uh-may-zing imagination Or that I’d leap from balconies, fight boys and pretty much be drawn to thrills like a mosquito to a bug zapper

Nope, not my fault

If questioned, the nonchalant response was easy-peasy : Blame my brother “Dave did it.” Then I’d walk away passively.

Mom wasn’t fooled.

Recently, I moved to a new home As par t of the moving process, I scoured through boxes of life’s memories I found several dusty sheets of handwritten sentences. “I promise to make ever y effor t to be polite and k ind to Dave.” And so it read for another 99 lines. In cursive. Ugh.

Thus was Mom’s (completely brilliant) punishment Write sentences or she’d make me watch an opera Double-ugh Madama Butter fly, I promise I’d appreciate you more now than then.

I think of the promise I wrote (100 times) for being a jerk to my brother When you’re a pigtailed punk, forced promises are pretty empty But how refreshing, as an adult, that promises hold so much more meaning, right?

They ’re words of hope They ’re aspirations Promise means there’s a brighter world, there’s improved oppor tunity, there’s deeper goodness and k indness just around the bend

Sometimes we just need to get out of our own way

If I were to write my sentences today, they ’d read: “I promise to be good to myself I promise to believe in my abilities I promise to be k ind and gentle I promise to be a better person tomorrow than I was today ”

How would your sentences read?

I t ’s easy for life’s trials to pull us down. For the world’s downers to deflate our spirit. For the naysayers to ex tinguish our hopes and dreams.

Don’t let them.

Write your own sentences; make a promise to yourself Then take ac tion.

Growing is all about hope I t ’s about promise I t ’s self-love

March is a time to restar t and recharge So breathe again Refresh your life and reboot your purpose

Freshen your look, freshen your home and toss away yesterday ’s dir t… but hang on to (and perhaps dust off ) the lessons of yester year

Happy March readers Thanks for being with your friends at glo … ”

Sue Rawlinson srawlinson@the-papers.com

Dear Sue,

Haven’t spoken with you for some time I had a painting in glo You were so kind Well I’m still around much to everyone’s surprise. I’ll be 80… still teaching an art class once in a while the cancer is really kicking up a fuss again so I’ve been writing again to keep my mind busy Enclosed you will find something I wrote and painted on Just wondered if you might be interested in it? See ya’ around the playground, kid Sherryjean Rorick (edited for length)

Miss SherryJean, absolutely I'll share your words and indeed, I do hope someday we meet on the playground And when flowers arrived not long ago at your doorstep, they were to remind you that beauty still surrounds, that people care... may they have provided a moment or two of comfort from me Thank you for writing Readers, enjoy her powerful words –Sue (edited for length)

We want to hear from you and since we can’t all meet for coffee (although we’d LOVE to), let ’s chat in print

Do YOU have thoughts, ideas, suggestions for Sue? Tell her what you think about glo. What do you love and what can we improve upon? You matter!

Facebook or email Sue at srawlinson@the-papers.com www.glo-mag.com a

Freshen Look:

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By Shannon Rooney

Funky New Cuts, Bright Makeup and Bold Nails

Tired of the same old look? Shoo winter out the door once and for all with spring’s bold beaut y trends. Brights are in this year, as well as plent y of metallics If you’re looking to update your hairst yle or beaut y routine, we’ve got some helpful hints from local exper ts. You’ll learn how to embrace an edgier look while staying on trend

Boldly Going

Color ful lips and highlighted cheeks are in this spring just in time to take your monochromatic winter look up a notch. To emphasize your cheeks, sweep one of spring’s bright pink hues up toward your temples Top with a shimmer y highlighter for ex tra shine For an ‘80s-inspired “draping” look also hot right now lightly apply that same blush along your brow ridge and down over the eyelids

For a bold look on your lips, tr y color block ing. Swipe one lip with cherr y red and the other with hot pink This will plump up your lips and give them ex tra depth Rosy pink shades are also in more of that ‘80s influence and bright red lipstick in a matte finish will always be a bold standard

The Hair and Now

Many of this spring’s cuts and styles are naturally edgy “Personally I see blunt bobs, lobs and long layers to be on major trend again this spring, ” said Ashley Hopper, owner of The H Society Salon at For t Wayne Sola Salons “ They ’re fresh and really versatile They also get your hair prepped for the summer by removing dr y, damaged ends ” To achieve an edgier look, Hopper said, go bold “Undercuts are still hot, but can be more tamed and modern. For a tight crop, just removing some weight in the back of the neck can do wonders and also give a chic and feminine look.”

The spring runways were filled with ‘80s-inspired hair as well, including big dramatic curls and slicked-back ponytails. No matter which style you choose, Hopper said, color can help you make that style pop. Hot colors for spring include rose gold and anything with a metallic glint

Sparkle and Shine

For the latest nail trends, check out the Facebook page for Queen Nails Bar and Spa in For t Wayne I t ’s filled with the latest looks by owner Rosy Doan and her technicians “ We do all k inds of trendy stuff, ” said Doan Number one in trends for spring are chrome nails, which are finished with a mirrored shine Combine the bold polish with a trendy cut like stiletto nails,

Your nail ar tist can add ex tra bling to your mani cure too Doan said gems are popular accents as well as shattered glass nail ar t, which, she said, “gives that illusion of glass” in the nail Colored mylar paper or ver y thin pieces of plastic are pressed into a gel manicure and then given a couple top coats to seal. The resulting effec t is an edgy geometric look with lots of shine. To stay abreast of the trends, Doan said it ’s helpful to see what ’s happening on Pinterest and Instagram a photos: shut erstock com

Resources: The H S ociety S alon at For t Wayne S ola S alons, For t Wayne, 260.255.5469, solasalonstudios.com

ueen Nails Bar & Spa, For t Wayne, 260 432 0702

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By Beth Behrendt | Photo by Leaha Meinika she

Nicole Leigh Shaw

Like many women, Nicole Leigh Shaw ’s path to finding her passion and her profession has been meandering There were the sidetracks of having children (she has four, all under the age of 12). And the moves. During 16 years (so far) of marriage, her husband’s career took them from New Jersey to Nor th Carolina to B oston to Atlanta and, finally, to For t Wayne, where they ’ve lived for seven years

Her work through this time has evolved from newspaper journalist to academic journals editor to Mom blogger to published humorist to T V writer to freelance writer What nex t?

Attending seminar y to become a licensed and ordained minister in the United Church of Christ

Shaw, though raised an ac tive and devout Catholic, said the first ink lings of her calling occurred from involvement in Vacation Bible School at the family ’s Methodist church in Georgia, as there, she shared Bible stories with children I t was then when she’d embraced the beauty of scripture

Soon after this realization, the family moved to For t Wayne After visiting various churches, they found that Peace United Church of Christ was right for their family As their church involvement grew, Shaw began delivering the children’s message on Sundays Her passion for children’s ministr y led others at the church to suggest she become their direc tor of Christian education. Her success in this area then led a church board member to ask if she’d considered becoming a licensed minister. Then, another suppor ter suggested she may want to be ordained. “I’ve had to have people tell me what it is I want to do nex t, ” she laughed “Luck ily, I’m blessed with a great mentor at Peace, Pastor Christen Pettit M iller ”

“ When we show our true selves to others, we evangelize by example. Ever ybody is heard in our church community. You get to k now them; and when you k now someone, you have no choice but to love them Then you are doing what Christ wants us to do ”

“I’m still a humorist. I’m tr ying to uncover and share with others the humor in the Bible, ” said Shaw “I believe that humor and humanity are inex tricably linked Humor is one of our control valves to let the pain out ”

“I’m like a daily archeologist for God. Look ing for and finding God in the secular, ” she continued “I love [the musical group] Twenty One Pilots Their song ‘Ride’ has become my theme song for seminar y : ‘Oh, I'm falling, so I'm tak ing my time on my ride ’ And the chorus, ‘I've been think ing too much (Help me) ’ Who else would he be look ing to help from, except God?” a

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Madeline Roebel

By Lauren Caggiano | Photo by Leaha Meinik a

It ’s not ever y young woman who knows what she wants to be when she grows up For Madeline Roebel, 19, there was no question that a place in the fashion world was her destiny.

“ When I was a little girl, I would make dresses out of sheets and steal my mom’s heels, ” she remembers fondly.

Fast for ward several years and this first-year college student is at Indiana University-Purdue University For t Wayne pursuing a marketing degree and has plans to continue her education at the Fashion Institute of Technology in New York City. She hopes to enter the workforce someday, well-rounded and savvy, with the k nowledge of how to design and create but also market produc ts, forecast trends and run a company, she said

Roebel is no stranger to the business world, having been lovingly raised within a business family

“Both of my grandfathers were entrepreneurs and have now gone on to different investment projec ts, ” she said. “My father is a business investor as well. I t was inspiring growing up around people who once had nothing and took risks to star t something to suppor t their family ”

Speak ing of inspiration, Roebel is no stranger to success. She’s already won her share of awards and is an example to other young women to chase their dreams.

As a sophomore at Homestead High School, she won best in state for fashion design in the Family, Career and Community Leaders of America’s STAR competition, then went to nationals and was awarded a bronze medal at nationals in San Antonio, Texas.

At the end of her sophomore year, she received Homestead’s first-ever distinguished fashion designer academic award for contributions to the school at nationals. She continued that momentum her junior year, winning best in state for entrepreneurship in the FCCLA STAR competition, followed by a silver medal at nationals in Washington, D C

“For this competition I had to create a business plan, ” she said. “I created a business plan for my own company I want to star t, Madeline Roebel Luxur y Designs. Then at the end of my junior year I received another award from Homestead High School, which was the entrepreneurship academic award for my fur ther contributions to the school ”

Today, Roebel is a busy college student with a bright future ahead and a contagious sense of enthusiasm.

“I just want to inspire people to find their passion and turn that into their profession, ” she said. “My mom always said if you don't wake up excited and happy to go to work, you're doing the wrong thing with your life.”

Spring Break Babes Spring Break Babes

By Nicole Leigh Shaw

Spring break makes us feel like Cinderella: we can’t wait to get to the ball, but realize we are woefully unprepared to show up looking like a princess Here’s glo’s handy guide for Spring Break Babes: The Look, The Luggage and The Landing Look great, pack wisely and hit the hot spots.

The Look: What ’s your body type? That ’s a perennial question when we star t think ing about spring break getaways and the accompanying swimwear But here’s a different approach Instead of tr ying to decide which suit flatters your figure, think about what you need to be ac tive and comfor table on the beach, spa-side at a mountain resor t or dipping into an indoor pool We’ll break down some prac tical and fashionable must-haves

Sun is ever ywhere, even in late winter and early spring That ’s true if you’ll be sk iing or in the sur f. If you’re savvy, you’ll scoop up a pair of shades like Oak ley ’s XL sunglasses. They ’re great for protec ting your eyes from the slope glare, and have a sophisticated look that ’s less “spor ty ” and more “fashion ” These chameleon sunglasses are good for ever yday and beachside use, too

The Landing: You’ve got the look and the luggage, now where will you land?

S edona, Ariz. Here you can see the Grand Canyon, experience sunny and stunning vistas, and even get in some gambling bet ween stargazing

Jackson Hole, Wyo. You can still ski here in the spring, and while Aspen may get all the notice, this best kept secret of the Tetons has a lot to offer Charleston, S.C. Historic cit y meets nearby beaches. You can have your sand and your nightlife, all in one welcoming southern locale.

New Harmony, Ind. If you want a spring break that helps you relax and unwind in a quieter way (aka, no Florida rumpus), tr y this ar tsy destination.

Route 66. Make your own day trip during a staycation by hitting up par t of this historic roadway and letting the day take you where it will.

I t ’s also a good time to get your sk in in a sun-k issed way Jerico Sanders, salon direc tor at Eclipse Tanning, says even last minute types can grab some color “ The quickest way is to tan in a UV bed and follow-up with a spray tan, you’ll be good and golden for a week.” In fac t, it can take less than an hour for a week ’s wor th of color. If you’ve got more time, give yourself two weeks, popping into the tanning salon for several days each week, to achieve a tan that will last through spring break. Sanders also says prepping for your tanning treatment is a must “Come freshly cleaned, no lotions, deodorants, perfume or body sprays You need freshly exfoliated and showered sk in Remember that your sk in is the canvas, ” she said

What to do with your sun-k issed sk in? Show some shoulder. Cut-out shoulders and off-the-shoulder looks are huge right now. From flow y tank-style tops per fec t for the beach trip, to warm sweaters with a circle of exposed shoulder, you can tr y this trend in any destination

Sun-k issed look? Check. Hot fashion? Check. Now slip in an ex tra pair of shoes on your pack ing list Flip-flops with a sturdy sole are always impor tant, whether you’re on the beach or wandering the pool deck But this spring has wrapped up ank les in mind as espadrille-esque shoes flood the runway This means you can score a fashion win with a relatively unbulk y shoe (think flats with ribbon ties that lace up the ank le) so you can pack an ex tra pair for nights out.

The Luggage: Speak ing of pack ing, bye-bye black bag just like ever yone else’s Kristin Pack nett, owner of Opal & Ruby Gift Emporium, is swooning over cinda b’s new spring and summer bags “Lots of colors! Loud and fun, like spring break, ” she said She’s par ticularly fond of the “Per fec tly Peacock ” pattern. “I t ’s a nice, light turquoise, ” Pack nett said. But if you’re a traditionalist, she recommends the brand’s sophisticated black styles.

on a pattern, you’ll need to settle e like the ‘rolly ’ I t ’s per fec t for your and accessories ” And in that roller r must-haves for ever ything from cs to sunglass cases to hydrating water bags from Tote + Able. nett loves that these items are soft, llapsible and in the case of the majority of the weather resistant cinda b pieces, machine washable

Spr ing Clean Like a Boss

By Barb Sieminsk i

CLUT TER-BUSTERS

It ’s a job you either love or hate spring cleaning And it ’s not just the junk drawer or magazine piles, or the garage or your mudroom. It ’s prett y much an overhaul of your house. But you, too, can vanquish the clutter (and you’ll feel amazing when it ’s out of the way):

• Take one task at a time and don’t waver from it If you star t emptying the k itchen junk drawer, don’t take something from there and put it in another room then veer off course with other chores on the way back, completely forgetting the original drawer.

• If you’re pressed for time, tr y concentrating on de-cluttering just 15 minutes a day. Baby steps…

• In de-cluttering a room, leave a work ing space in the center and star t on one side and work your way to the other Do one drawer or shelf at a time, and de-clutter one entire room before star ting on the nex t

• When cleaning out your closet, toss out anything you’ve outgrown or not worn in a year ’s time and earmark it for the Salvation Army or Goodwill (or even to your church’s drama depar tment) Keep handy a large k itchen bag or 33-gallon trash bag for the clothes and shoes.

Take the bag to your car for the nex t trip out

• If you have (literally) thousands of family photos and mementos, gather them in one spot (k itchen bag again) and keep in one place until you can leisurely devote the time (hours!) to taking a sentimental journey, tossing duplicates and unwanted pics Ditto with the k ids’ outgrown toys

• Ready to re-gift? Perhaps you received duplicate gifts for a bir thday or Christmas, and it ’s too late for returns Books, cook ware, games and

small furniture in top condition make nice gifts or donations as well Just make sure the gift doesn’t go back to the person who gave it to you!

• Don’t forget to clean out your medicine cabinet. Toss expired prescriptions, old toothbrushes, empty Band-Aid boxes (replace them now before you need them), and under the sink, say ‘sayonara’ to old cleaning supplies and replace them before needed Stack bottles, cans, mops and brooms neatly in the pantr y

What produc ts picks would we recommend? Enjoy just a few :

CLEAN MACHINE COLOR SPLASH

Modern technology has made it easier than ever to clean and to be clean Dishes, clothes, cars, personal hygiene items and all else make more sparkle than ever before. All in all, we’re a far cr y from hand-washing our laundr y with a washboard in the stream

• Selec t Mirror & Glass Cleaner lives up to its claim that it does not leave a film or streak ing; it ’s fantastic on glass Use on your cell phone’s plastic window case, too

• Ox y-clean spray and pods for laundr y I t ’ll clean the hardcore stains in your life

• Computer air duster spray is great for the gunk in your keyboard and on your mouse and

Some painters transform the sun into a yellow spot; others transform a yellow spot into the sun (Picasso)

The advent of the gentle season is upon us, and we’re going to spray vivid shades of colors all around as we bid an eager farewell to snow y climes!

Spritzing up your home is a delightful reward for your spring cleaning labors especially when open windows bring in soft breezes and birdsong

Have a sofa or chair that has seen better days? Recover it or have a professional do it, and go wild with a vibrant color in jewel tones If you go with a bright solid shade for your prize loveseat, bench or couch, think of all the geometric, flower y and just plain wild couch pillows

other elec tronics. For those of us who make our livelihood on the computer, we go through it pretty fast.

• Moist heat I hate cleaning my microwave, but by using moist heat you can get it clean pretty fast by putting a cup of water in a glass measuring cup inside the microwave, then heat for one minute on high. The steam loosens food scraps, allowing them to be cleaned out easily.

• A telescoping microfiber mop is a handy gadget for ceiling corner cobwebs and ceiling trim, high light fix tures and baseboards This mop is so narrow you can dust behind the sofa without moving the furniture.

• Have a little lint in the lighting? Employ a lint roller to dust those lampshades

that will contrast delightfully with it Niche Market Furniture in New Haven has some intriguing throw cushions that will go with many shades mix them up, toss them on beds or on the floor of bright sun porches

A vibrant striped ottoman (emerald, ultramarine violet) just begs to be placed near an antique brass drum or faux ficus tree for a cool contrast.

Add some different-sized round mirrors framed like golden sunflowers. These can be used in the living room, bedroom and bathroom – or even in the garage. Want a nautical touch? Check out some metal anchor mirrors and hang them in your den or in the galley of your sailboat

Take your cue from natural colors in nature with sea-blue bedspreads, weathered wood bathroom cabinets, orange or burnt sienna pic ture frames

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in all shapes to hold those special images from your family tree.

Personalize your space with living room wall quotes in a variety of fonts, colors, designs and stickers or vinyl These items number in the thousands, all the way from thoughtful sayings to humorous.

Celebrate spring in multihued colors Go wild this year with loud shades or soft pastels that shout happily in the sunshine! a photos: shutterstock com

Resource: Niche Market Furniture, New Haven, 260 749 8181, nichemarketfurniture com

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Tips to

By K ayleen Reusser

Spring is often viewed as the season for new life and cleaning the house. Why not use this time of year to tackle internal ‘spring cleaning’ of the mind and soul as well?

M ichelle Weidenbenner is a life coach and award-winning author from Warsaw, who helps people uncover their purposes in life She emphasizes beginning with a renewal of the inner self.

Weidenbenner offers these eight tips to help a person’s life glow :

Establish a positive attitude. Star t each day by listing in a journal three things to be thankful for (Note: This is good advice at the end of the day to encourage rest with a comfor ted mind )

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Stop the inner negative voice. Note what ex ternal fac tors trigger the path to internal doom-and-gloom Does seeing a happy family bring thoughts of estrangement from loved ones? Switch that channel by listening to upbeat music. Pray for the relationships. Sing a favorite hymn of faith. Read the journal entries listing good things happening in life. See Tip 1.

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Establish a growth mindset A person can only give others what is readily available. If a positive mindset of purpose is not present, a person can’t lead others, which could sabotage a path to success. Learn something new by tak ing a class. Join a club. Volunteer.

Make an effor t to laugh. Laughter burns calories and it ’s contagious. Buy silly string and ac t goofy. Watch Laurel and Hardy videos. Dress like the 1980s and lip-sync to favorite music videos. Ask a friend to watch a favorite comedy at home where each k nows upcoming punch lines then shout them out together! Have fun

Reflec t on past experiences. New experiences help us grow, but reflec ting on what happened long ago accentuates the process Examine experiences from the past day, week and month What went well? What could

Recite affirmations. A good way to get a star t on negativity is to memorize positive affirmations and pull them out when needed. They could be scriptures from the Bible, famous quotes or sayings on a wall plaque Choose one per week to focus on improving in a cer tain area

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Create a positive inner circle of friends. Mom k new best, ‘Birds of a feather flock together ’ Say goodbye to friends who always complain or suck the ox ygen from the air in a room with rants Granted, some friends need a listening ear, but make an effor t to spend time with people who exhibit admirable charac teristics and aspirations

Create self-growth challenges. Read inspiring books by authors like leadership guru John Max well Listen to podcasts or positive talk shows that encourage self-growth ITunes is a good source for podcasts on a myriad of subjec ts a

Resource:

Michelle Weidenbenner, Warsaw, MichelleWeidenbenner com

I n s i d e y o u r

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workdays are here again!

By Barb Sieminsk i

The lotter y folks must have lost your address or you’d surely have received your $206 million by now. Looks like you’ll have to continue your five-day work week (sigh) in your little cubicle or your home office

But hey, why not ex tend your home ‘spring cleaning’ to your ho-hum office, simultaneously giving your workspace a fresh, new face? Check out our ideas for doing just that after first wiping down your desk and shelves with citrus-fragranced dust spray, getting the fingerprints off your computer screen and elec tronics (use elec tronics multi-surface wipes and air duster spray) and cleaning out messy drawers The most tedious task (yawn) is finding a tidy way (twist-ties, color-coded binder clips, etc ) to corral all those pesk y elec tronic cords beneath your desk so you don’t inadver tently k ick them loose What a relief when it ’s done!

Tack a large binder clip to the wall for hanging headphones and ear buds Use self-adhesive hooks and binder clips on the wall to lift bright mesh pencil cups ver tically off your work area it ’s less mess on your desk and more color on the wall Splurge for a color ful mouse pad, or better yet, have your favorite photo imposed onto your mouse pad for a personal touch.

Keep happy times and people displayed in a digital photo or video frame, placed on your desk for mental breaks

Check out indoor water falls for a soothing background There’s a BluWorld Water fall Grande, priced at $4,995 but we think you’ll be happier with a scenic tabletop water pump and rock fountain waterfall for $39 or a stacked-rock tabletop model with multi-colored LED lights at $55 Check out local stores and online to see what you can find.

Stand a potted (or faux) ficus plant in the corner to give it an outdoor atmosphere, especially when paired with a water fall to make the winter outside vir tually disappear If it ’s a home office, consider adding a feathered officemate. Buy a bird for company ; their singing can soothe away a day ’s stress.

Display vibrant wall posters of treasured vacation spots or an individual philosophy

Designate a snack drawer for your midday nibbles trail mix, energy bars, cook ies, fruit juice and more And for the ultimate office touch: check Amazon for an adjustable under-the-desk hammock for raising your tootsies when you need to put your feet up

Ah, bliss you’re prac tically at home now in your own happy office! a

2) Let girls truly rule.

Shedding your obligations to tend to others can be a shock, but be self-indulgent for once. No more tamping down your wishes, or having to herd k ids or husbands.

* Tr y South Carolina’s Charleston or Savannah and Tybee Island in Georgia for antiques, to soak up southern hospitality and food plus veg out on the island before the summer crowds arrive.

* Las Vegas offers Food Network chefs with restaurants, ziplines, male dancer shows (if that ’s your thing!), great musical venues and more headliners. Plus gambling, of course.

* For the adventurers with more expendable cash, look into traveling to China and Tibet, Finland for the nor thern lights, Rio de Janeiro combined with Iguassu Falls of Argentina or New Zealand.

By Cathy Shouse

S eeing gal pals on Facebook enjoying a getaway can bring mixed emotions You tell yourself your usual travel plans are fine Any way, you don’t have the money, or the time, or maybe your inner introver t holds you back from a girls’ getaway.

But to star t the fun girls’ trip you’ve always wanted, simply channel your inner Cindy Lauper Then follow up with a well-executed plan

Tripping

Tips for girls who just want to have fun!

1) Avoid the Thelma and Louise syndrome. Selec t compatible friends so you won’t repeat movie charac ters Thelma and Louise’s troubles, which caused them to drive their car off a cliff Nobody needs that “Consider budget, interests, lifestyles, sleeping habits, eating and drink ing, so that you are somewhat closely matched, ” said Mona Will, a travel agent for 35 years at Grueninger Travel in For t Wayne. “ The last thing you want is traveling with someone who is like a ball-and-chain around your ank le They go to bed at 2 a m and sleep in until 10 a m , and you're up and at it at the crack of dawn, for example ”

Or, keep it closer to home There are so many hidden gems and hideaways, many of which are as close as Florida “I t ’s a big world out there and it's fun having new experiences and adventures, ” Will said, “but my busy women clients have also rented a vacation home on a Florida beach to chill out.”

3) Get professional help as needed.

Five or fewer is a good number for traveling Mak ing plane reser vations online at home, like usual, may not cut it for your awesome girls’ getaway, though Fork ing over a little ex tra cash for a travel agent can be a wise choice to ensure smooth travels for all

4) Make friends with the calendar.

By planning ahead, say six months or so, ever yone has a better chance of planning for costs involved, time off work, arrangements at home and more.

Misstep 1: traveling with someone outside of your tribe. Don’t do it. Enough said

Misstep 2: not budgeting sensibly.

There’s nothing worse than being into day 3 of a 7-day trip and realizing with your current spending pattern, you'll have to drink tap water and eat peanut butter crackers for the remaining days

Misstep 3: calling a travel agent to undo what you booked online

An agent gets paid only when they make the original book ing a

Resource: Grueninger Travel, For t Wayne, 260 482 8251, grueninger travel net

Your Best Summer Body Now

Your Best Summer Body Now

By Lauren Caggiano

They say summer bodies are made in the winter, so now is the time to think about getting yours swimsuit-ready.

Food First

V ick i Eber, a lifestyle and wellness coach with Full Circle Wellness in For t Wayne, offers some insight into the role diet plays in slimming down First, she noted there is really no holy grail when it comes to nutrition I t really comes down to common sense and being in tune with your body

“Ever yone has a different response to food, so being aware of what foods you are consuming and what body response you have is important, ” she said

M indfulness is another fac tor. Eber advises clients to take their time eating and slowing down to enjoy food, instead of eating mindlessly and on the go.

Stress!

Stress is another often-overlooked variable I t can be a major source of weight gain especially around the midsec tion as it increases the stress hormone cor tisol, she said

“Cor tisol increases our fight or flight response, ” she said. “ We crave more unhealthy junk food items and our appetite increases. With that increased stress response of fight or flight, our bodies tend to store for feast of famine ”

Stress also has some other nasty effec ts, like suppressing the immune system and digestive process. To counterac t this, Eber suggests regular, consistent meals along with regular ac tivity. Speak ing of ac tivity, it can

increase metabolism, especially in tandem with a balanced diet of protein, grains, dair y, fruits and veggies

The word “balanced” is key here, as Eber warned: “If we are constantly eating bread, cheese, meat and fatty items, all of which taste absolutely wonder ful, we are not providing enough of the essential nutrients our bodies need from fruits and vegetables “

Be Realistic

Eating healthfully is the end game, but we also must be realistic Allow yourself a treat ever y now and then or else there is risk of overindulging later, Eber said Moderation is key A general rule of thumb is to avoid over-consuming foods that conver t to sugars, such as white breads, pastas and rice

Flush Often

Just as impor tant as what we eat is what we drink Water intake is important, as it flushes out fat and toxins Sodas and sugar y drinks should be avoided, as Eber said they can cause bloating and weight gain

Finally, Eber reminds readers that there’s so much more to health than look ing good in a bik ini Having a healthy relationship with food is one of the best gifts you can give yourself long-term

“Diets don't work for ever yone, ” she said “Cer tain fitness regimens don't always work for ever yone You have to customize to your own needs, your own body, your own mind Ask for help if you feel stuck ” a

Resource: Full Circle Wellness, For t Wayne, 260.499.1314, reachfullcircle.com

March:

By Ray Balogh

Women’s Histor y Month, celebrated in March, highlights the contributions women have made in the advancement of our nation.

Annual recognition of women dates back to 1911 with the first International Women’s Day. Since 1988 U.S. presidents have issued annual proclamations declaring March as Women’s Histor y Month.

This year ’s theme is “Honoring Trailblazing Women in Labor and Business” celebrating the following honorees:

Kate Mullany (1845-1906) organized more than 300 fellow laundresses to form the nation’s first all-female union. They went on strike and within five days compelled the laundr y owners to increase wages 25 percent

Lucy Gonzalez Parsons (1853-1942), labor organizer, founded the Industrial Workers of the World In 2004, Chicago named a park in her honor

Addie L. Wyatt (1924-2012), an ordained minister, par ticipated in the March on Washington and the march from Selma to Montgomer y, Ala

Barbara “Dusty” Roads (1928-) filed the first anti-discrimination complaint in the United States, protesting American Airlines’ mandator y firing of female flight attendants at the age of 32.

Norma Yaeger (1930-) was the first woman stock broker admitted to the floor of the New York Stock Exchange The brokerage firm she founded traded millions of dollars daily.

Lilly Ledbetter (1938-) took her grievance of pay discrimination against Goodyear to the U.S. Supreme Cour t Her arguments resulted in the 2009 Fair Pay Ac t, which ex tended the statute of limitations for filing discrimination cases

Rebecca Anderson (1940-) was the founding direc tor of Handmade in America, a nonprofit that strengthens communities and enhances economic development. She was named a top 20 visionar y by U.S. News and World Repor t

Barbara Hackman Franklin

(1940-) was one of the first women graduates of Har vard Business School. Ser ving under five presidents, she garnered more than $1 billion in contrac ts from her historic China trip.

Alexis Herman (1947-) was the youngest director of the Women’s Bureau in Labor Depar tment histor y and the first African-American woman to lead the depar tment

Andra Rush (1952-) borrowed $5,000 from her parents and created Rush Truck ing Corporation, now with 1,100 trucks and 700 drivers

Yvonne Walker (1959-) represents 95,000 California workers as president of SEIU Local 1000.

Maggie Lena Walker (1864-1934) was the first African-American woman in the United States to char ter a bank. She also ser ved on the board of National Association of Colored Women

Nina Vaca (1971-) founded Pinnacle Group, a workforce solutions enterprise, with $300. One of the nation’s fastest growing companies, Pinnacle took in more than $1 billion in revenue in 2015

March 2-5 at Memorial Coliseum

A Hoosier mother-daughter duo that has taken HGT V by storm, an antiques appraiser ex traordinaire, a couple of self-proclaimed “Grillologists” and hundreds of home and garden exper ts are on their way to the Summit Cit y for the 44th annual For t Wayne Home & Garden Show

The event runs Thursday, March 2, through Sunday, March 5, at the Allen Count y War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Avenue, For t Wayne.

The featured presenters’ line-up includes:

• Karen Laine and Mina Starsiak, a k a Two Chicks & a Hammer, the stars of the hit HGT V show “Good Bones ” V iewers tune in to see the Indianapolis mom-anddaughter discover run-down homes and work their magic to transform them into stunning urban dwellings They ’ll share their secrets with the For t Wayne audience

(Friday, March 3, at 2 p m and 6 p m ; Saturday, March 4, at noon and 4 p m )

• Dr. Lori, a Home & Garden Show favorite who returns by popular demand The star of Histor y Channel’s hit series “The Curse of Oak Island, ” Discover y ’s “Auc tion Kings” and a regular on Fox Business’ “Strange Inheritance, ” Dr Lori will be on hand to offer one free antique appraisal per person, per show time

( Thursday, March 2, and Friday, March 3, at noon and 7 p m ; Saturday, March 4, at 11 a m and 6 p m ; Sunday, March 5, at noon and 3 p m )

• Self-proclaimed, n recognized “Grillolo Mad Dog & Merrill to enter tain and ed back yard grilling enthusiasts with their finer points of food-on-theflame

( Thursday, March 2, Friday, March 3, and Saturday March 4, at 1 p.m., 3 p.m. and 7 p.m.; Sunday, March 5, at noon and 2 p.m.)

Hours + Tickets

Show hours are 11 a m to 9 p m Thursday and Friday ; 10 a m to 9 p m Saturday, and 11 a m to 5 p m Sunday Admission is $10 for adults, $6 for seniors 62-plus Children under 15 years of age are admitted free Park ing in the convenient, well-lit Coliseum lots is $5 per vehicle Tickets are available now through Ticketmaster, or can be purchased at the Coliseum box office.

On Thursday, March 2, and Friday, March 3, show visitors who bring a canned food donation for Community Har vest Food Bank will receive a $1 admission discount Or, log on to the show ’s website, home-gardenshow com, to download a $2 off admission coupon good for adult tickets. The canned food donation and discount coupon can be combined on Thursday and Friday for a $3 discount on adult show admission. Seniors bringing a canned food donation on those days will receive the ex tra $1 off their already-discounted ticket price of $6.

Complete information about the 44th For t Wayne Home & Garden Show is available at home-gardenshow.com. Also follow the show on Facebook and Twitter.

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Lucky Key Lime Cheesecake Squares March’s Recipe

By Sue Rawlinson

CRUST:

¾ cup crushed graham crackers

½ cup crushed vanilla wafers

Direc tions

Preheat oven to 350 degrees

Combine graham cracker and vanilla wafer crumbles.

Cut in butter until crumbly.

Press into greased 9 x 9 glass casserole dish.

Bake for 12-15 minutes, until slightly golden.

Set aside to cool

8 ounces cream cheese, softened

1⁄2 cup white sugar

1 egg

Direc tions

• Beat softened cream cheese, sugar and egg until smooth with elec tric mixer.

• Add lime juice, lime zest and cornstarch until smooth

• Spread mix ture evenly over baked crust

• Bake at 350 F for 25 minutes

• Cool on wire rack

• Chill in refrigerator for at least 1 hour before cutting into squares to ser ve a

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By Sue Rawlinson

To call it a shake is a tad of blarney (It ’s not made of mint and ice cream ) This shamrock surprise is ac tually a smoothie a really healthy, delicious smoothie, that is.

Loaded with vitamins, it ’ll star t your day with a boost of energy and in the Emerald Isle’s shade of green, we think it ’s a luck y way to star t your annual Irish day

Ingredients

• 1 cup vanilla almond milk

• 1 frozen banana (or 1 ripened, non-frozen)

• 1 tub, or ½ cup vanilla yogur t

• ½ cup baby spinach leaves

• ¼ teaspoon mint ex trac t

• ice cubes (use more ice cubes if banana is not frozen)

• ½ scoop vanilla protein powder, optional

Direc tions

1 Combine all ingredients in a blender

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By Lynn Blanchard

For those who haven’t yet heard the buzz, The Golden is a farm-to-fork restaurant, located on Harrison Street in downtown For t Wayne Big Cit y dining? Meet downtown For t Wayne.

The Ambiance:

This was my first time at The Golden I have heard other people mention how amazing the food was and they were right! I would highly recommend The Golden. I t ’s just a great atmosphere with great food

The interior of The Golden has an industrial, modern look The ambiance is similar to what you would find in a larger city I t ’s cer tainly a unique, funk y feel for those look ing for a different experience than many other restaurants in For t Wayne

The Food:

My waitress first told me about their handcrafted beers and cocktails (if handcrafted beers are your thing, you’ll love The Golden!). I opted for their signature drink, The Golden This drink has turmeric-infused vodk a with lemon the combined flavors were refreshing and unique I star ted my meal with the confit chicken wings crispy on the outside and juic y inside with an array of citrus and cilantro flavoring For my entrée, I chose the McGolden a two-beef patty with beer cheese and dijonnaise on a honey bun I t came with a side order of hand-cut french fries and their homemade ketchup. All of the flavors combined gave this burger a unique and satisfying taste I t was delicious!

The Ser vice:

When I first walked into The Golden, I was immediately welcomed by both the hostess and Carmen McGee (sommelier and wife of Aaron Butts, chef and owner) My waitress immediately followed she was prompt and friendly a

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Dinner : Tues.-Thurs., 5 p.m.-10 p.m.; Fri. and Sat., 5 p.m.-11 p.m. Brunch: Sundays, 10 a m -2 p m

Left to right: Aaron Butts, Lynn, Sean Richardson, Carmen McGee

glo-roscopes: March 2017

By Julie Young

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

Love isn’t black and white, nor is it a rainbow of colors In reality, it ’s 50 shades of gray (not the book!) Communication is key to relationship success, so the sooner you figure out if you’re talk ing in charcoal or slate, the better off you will be Don’t let things go unsaid

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

You have your work cut out for you this month, so gather your luck y charms, keep your nose to the grindstone and have faith that ever ything will work out I t won’t hur t for you to rely on a bit of the blarney as well You may have to talk your way out of a difficult situation

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

The Irish say, “Family is a grand thing” and ‘tis a for tunate person who has so many relations nearby. Treat your sibling, soulmate or better half this month to an outing that will demonstrate how much you care. Don’t put it off until tomorrow. Life is too shor t.

Cancer ( June 21 - July 22)

Do you feel like you always need a pot of gold to get ahead, dear Cancer? In reality, you need to work smar ter and not harder When you do what you love, the money will follow Dream big dreams, put your passion to work and you will come out on top!

Leo ( July 23 - August 22)

All that glitters is not gold, lion hear t, but you are often distrac ted by all things bright and shiny Don’t be fooled by fake riches Cherish what has real value love, family, friends and memories Those things are wor th far more than gold-plated watches or glass diamond rings

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

No one loves a par ty more than you and you always find a reason to celebrate! When life feels like it is “march”ing all over you this month, then it is time to k ick up your heels, do a jig and raise a glass. Par ty on!

Libra (September 23 - Oc tober 22)

You have the luck of the Irish and that is evident whether you win the raffle or take first prize This month, you are in danger of getting your scales out of balance but you will have to ride out the storm before your luck y stars realign and get you back on track

Scorpio (Oc tober 23 - November 21)

Your gift for gab has the ability to influence others in a number of ways, but you must wield that power responsibly Choose your words carefully, encourage gently and always honor the trust that is placed on you Your words have more impac t than you think

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

For tunate is the person who takes the time to get clarity on a situation before tak ing ac tion. Examine all of the angles and then proceed with caution. I t will make all of the difference. Remember to look before you leap.

Capricorn (December 22 - Januar y 19)

You’ve been through a lot lately, but greener pastures are waiting for you so break away from all that is barring you from getting to them You are in control of your destiny, no one else

Aquarius ( Januar y 20 - Februar y 18)

Ever y little thing you do is magic I t ’s as if you have a leprechaun in your pocket This month, make some wishes come true for those less for tunate and remember : your k indness will be returned tenfold Spread that good for tune around

Pisces (Februar y 19 - March 20)

They say all life is a game of luck, but real luck is the moment in which preparation meets oppor tunity You may have that moment this month Keep swimming and look for that opportunity ; it could be the key to mak ing all your dreams come true! a

“ A b e s t f r i e n d i s l i k e a f o u r - l e a f c l o v e r ; h a r d t o f i n d a n d l u c k y t o h a v e .

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M a r c h

By Ray Balogh

2 | Thursday | Rainbow Fish

A Honeywell Foundation educational outreach student matinee All tickets

$6 10 a m and noon, Honeywell Center, 275 W Market St , Wabash 260 563 1102, honeywellcenter org

2-5 | Thursday-Sunday | Fort Wayne Home & Garden Show

Adults $10/seniors (62 and older)

$6/children (under 15) free Parking

$5 main lot, $8 preferred lot Noon-9

p m Thursday through Saturday; noon-5 p m Sunday, Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave , Fort Wayne

260 482 9502, memorialcoliseum com

3 | Friday | Downtown Wabash First Friday

Theme: Throwback Friday

Experience downtown Wabash through different eras Travel to participating businesses for a chance to win a $300 gift basket Food trucks, music, specials and more Free admission 5 p m -8 p m downtown visitwabashcounty com

5 | Sunday | Monthly Flea Market

Hot food available, sponsored by the Adams County Coin Club 8 a m -3 p m , Riverside Center, 231 E Monroe St (Highway 224 East), Decatur Contact Carla at 260 517 8182, facebook com/decaturindianafleamarket

5 | Sunday | Pippin

Musical filled with acrobatics, wondrous magical feats and soaring songs Winner of four 2013 Tony Awards, including Best Musical Revival $58/$45/$35 7:30 p m , Honeywell Center, 275 W Market St , Wabash 260 563 1102, honeywellcenter org

7 | Tuesday | Mamma Mia!

Lively jukebox musical based on the songs of ABBA $65/$50/$30 7:30 p m , 125 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne 800 745 3000, fwembassytheatre org

9 | Thursday | Spring Fashion Show

Lace & Arrow and Idlehour Boutique

showcase spring styles on the runway Beverages, treats and discounts available Proceeds to benefit SCAN Inc Tickets available at eventbrite com 6 p m -9 p m , RJE Business Interiors, 301 W Jefferson Blvd , Suite 105, Fort Wayne

10 | Friday | 43rd Annual Honors Band and Choir

The county’s most talented students from Northfield, Southwood, Wabash and Manchester high schools will perform Free admission 7:30 p m , Honeywell Center, 275 W Market St , Wabash 260 563 1102, honeywellcenter org

12 | Sunday |

Manchester Symphony Orchestra

Professional, community, faculty and student musicians will present Brahms’ Requiem $15 adults; free for youth (18 and under), Manchester staff and students 3 p m , Honeywell Center, 275 W Market St , Wabash 260 563 1102, honeywellcenter org

14, 21 | Tuesday | “The Power of Positive Relationships”

Learn strategies to develop the type of healthy, positive relationships you want in an educational, lively, fun forum led by mentor, speaker and international bestselling author Alena Chapman $2/person 7:00 p m , Chappell’s Covington Plaza, 6928 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne alenachapmanlife com

15 | Wednesday | Fort Wayne Artists Guild

Artist Nazar Harran, a graduate of Baghdad University, will demonstrate abstract painting focusing on composition and design Free admission 6:30 p m , 1601 St Joe River Road, Fort Wayne fortwayneartistsguild org

16 | Thursday | Introduction to Foam Rolling Workshop

Enjoy drinks, treats and discounts and experience the benefits of pilates under professional guidance at Pure Movement Pilates Studio 5:30 p m -8 p m , Idlehour Boutique, 526 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne 260 420 1000, idlehourboutique com

6 | Thursday | n Family Singers

sically trained musicians perform ical, jazz, gospel and contempotunes General admission seat$12 in advance, $15 day of show Doors open at 6:30 p m , show at 7:30 p m , Eagles Theatre, 106 W Market St , Wabash 260 563 3272, honeywellcenter org

18 | Saturday |

St. Patrick’s Day Party

Celebrate St Patrick’s Day with food, beer and music Be sure to wear green Free admission Noon-4 p m , Harley-Davidson of Fort Wayne, 6315 Illinois Road, Fort Wayne 260 489 2464, harleydavidson com

21 | Tuesday | Book Launch Event

Meet international bestselling author, mentor and speaker Alena Chapman at the launch of her new book, “The Prison Effect ” Pre-order a copy at the event and receive an amazing gift Free admission 6 p m , Chappell’s Covington Plaza, 6928 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne alenachapmanlife com

23 | Thursday |

Guided History Tour and Lunch

Settler member and educator Linda Huge will lead a tour of the Historic Swinney Homestead and Allen County Courthouse, lunch at the Homestead Ages 14 and older Proceeds support maintenance of the Homestead $25 (reservation and payment by March 16) 10 a m -2 p m , Historic Sweeney Homestead, 1424 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne 260 747 1501 or 260 747 1229, settlersinc org

23 | Thursday | Serving Our Seniors Lunch and Learn

Guest speaker to be determined Free admission 1 p m, Life Care Center, 1649 Spy Run Ave , Fort Wayne RSVP to Diana Mohr at 260 449 6806, lifecarecenteroffortwaynein com

24-26 | Friday-Sunday |

Lucky Duck Consignment Sale

$10/person Friday (no children or strollers), free admission Saturday and Sunday Parking $5 main lot, $8 preferred lot 5 p m -9 p m Friday, 9 a m -5 p m Saturday, 9 a m -3 p m Sunday, Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave , Fort Wayne 260 482 9502, memorialcoliseum com

25 | Saturday | Shop Small Saturday

Check out the new spring arrivals and shop small in downtown Auburn Free admission 10 a m -5 p m , but hours may vary by business Sponsored by Downtown Auburn Business Association 260 925 3113, daba4auburn org

25 | Saturday |

21st Annual Puttin’ on the Ritz Live music, gourmet edibles and tempting treats, complimentary beer and wine, cash bar available, live and silent auctions Proceeds benefit

Active 20-30 Club $50/person (21 and over only) 7 p m -11 p m , Fort Wayne Museum of Art, 311 E Main St , Fort Wayne 260 441 2030

25-26 | Saturday-Sunday | Shipshewana on the Road

Vendors from the iconic flea market visit Fort Wayne Adults $4, children (12 and under) free Parking $5 main lot, $8 preferred lot 9 a m -6 p m Saturday; 10 a m -5 p m Sunday, Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave , Fort Wayne 260 482 9502, memorialcoliseum com

27 | Monday | ONCE

Enchanting boy-meets-girl musical, winner of eight 2012 Tony Awards, including Best Musical $60/$40/$25 7:30 p m , 125 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne 800 745 3000, fwembassytheatre org

29 | Wednesday | Marquee Gala Fundraiser

Featuring Billy Porter, award-winning stage performer, film and television actor and vocal coach Winner of 2013 Tony Award for best actor in a musical $250/person 5 p m , 125 W Jefferson Blvd , Fort Wayne 800 745 3000, fwembassytheatre org

30 | Thursday | STOMP

Percussive hit show with two new full-scale routines utilizing props like tractor tire inner tubes and paint cans $45 main floor, $35 balcony 7:30 p m , Honeywell Center, 275 W Market St , Wabash 260 563 1102, honeywellcenter org

30-April 2

| Thursday-Sunday | Riding Academy First Class

Learn how to ride a motorcycle Contact the dealership for more details and to reserve a spot in class $299 Hours vary, Harley-Davidson of Fort Wayne, 6315 Illinois Road, Fort Wayne 260 489 2464, harleydavidson com a

Would you like to submit an event to be considered for glo s To-Do List? Our deadline is the 6th of the month prior to publication E-mail us your event 40 words or less to: rbalogh@the-papers com Please type ‘To-Do List’ in the subject line Or you may mail info to glo P O Box 188 Milford, IN 46542

Francine’s Friends Mobile Mammog raphy Schedule

3/2 Kroger - 218 E. Pettit Avenue

3/3 Kroger - 1125 W. State Street

3/6 Anytime Fitness - 2934 E. Dupont Road

3/13 Kroger - 821 Lincoln Highway, New Haven

3/15 Charis House - 431 Fairmount Place

3/17 Parkview Physician Group Family Prac tice - 10515 Illinois Road

3/18 O wen’s S outh – 1245 S. Jefferson, Huntington

3/20 Parkview Warsaw - 1355 Mariners Drive, Warsaw

3/22 IPFW - 2101 E. Coliseum

3/23 LifeCare Center of For t Wayne - 1649 Spy Run Avenue

3/24 Health Visions - 2135 S. Hanna

3/25 S alem Manor - 1221-1225 E. Coliseum

3/27 Leo Jr.-Sr. High School - 14600 Amstutz Road, Leo

3/28 Kroger - 6002 St. Joe Center Road

3/29 Eden Worship Center - 4095 S. 900 W., Topeka

3/30 For t Wayne Housing Authority - 7315 S. Hanna

3/31 Parkview Physician Group Family Prac tice - 8175 W US 20, Shipshewana

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Parting With the Past

By Julie Young

At the beginning of the year, I made a big decision to reorganize my life Now, I’m not talk ing about a simple spring clean or installing a new storage system to contain my sprawling stash of “stuff ” I mean a comprehensive, conscientious overhaul of the way I live and the things I surround myself with In shor t, I am par ting with the past, prioritizing the present and focusing on the future.

I’m not going to lie; it is a time-consuming and emotionally draining process In the past few

months, I have purged my closet of the items I no longer wear and those I never wore. I have eliminated a number of books from my librar y that I simply had to buy in hard back (and at full price) the day they were published and I have tossed out the toys I was hanging onto “just in case” one of the k ids wanted to play with them again Yes, I realize my sons are 27 and 20 and it ’s safe to assume they no longer have need of them, but if you saw Toy Stor y 3 well then, you feel my pain

If this isn’t enough, I also pledged to cook dinner nearly ever y night, keep a clothing journal

in order to get the most out of my wardrobe and to unplug from my iPad/elec tronic device at least one night a week The first two have been relatively easy but the last one is a bit like detoxing from an addic tion If you tr y this yourself, you can expec t to experience a few withdrawal symptoms and plenty of setbacks

So why am I doing any of this? I’m in a new season of life and I’m mak ing broad sweeping changes I t ’s refreshing, but it ’s also a doubleedged sword My mother warned me about this several years ago, but I didn’t believe her She said there would come a point at which I would be able to have a simpler and more orderly lifestyle, but I thought she was craz y I could not imagine a time in which I was not ensconced in a whirling vor tex of entropy Chaos and I went together like peanut butter and jelly. I suspec ted we would be together forever. I was wrong.

While it is nice to have a home that stays relatively clean most of the time, I miss the little fingerprints that used to smudge up ever y surface. Although there is serenity in a homecooked meal for two, it pales in comparison to those frozen family feasts we used to consume on the fly. And while it is nice not to have to buy new clothes and to unplug from the vir tual world from time to time, it comes with the realization that ever yone has finished growing and you are no longer required to be a phone call or a tex t away

“Julie, when you come home and realize ever ything is exac tly as you left it it will be the saddest day of your life, ” Mom told me

As with most things, she was right and it happened sooner than I ever thought possible. Yes par ting with the past opens up on a fresh new beginning, but it also closes the chapter on the previous stor y the one you didn’t k now was over until you found yourself book mark ing the last page a

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