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GLAM + STYLE Fashion: 2024 Hair Trends............................................................................. 8 Wellness & Beauty: Women’s Heart Health........................................ 10
COMMUNITY FOCUS She glows’ : Gladys Cato ............................................................................ 12 He glows’ : Amos Norman........................................................................... 14 glo Girl’ : Grace Schoegler ........................................................................ 15
FEATURES Feature Focus: Black History Month...................................................... 16 Feature Focus: Dating App Safety.......................................................... 18 On Her Nightstand: Heather Puff.......................................................... 20 Motherhood: Improving Health Outcomes for Black Mothers and Babies ....................................... 22 Dream Trips: Journey Through Egypt ................................................. 24
SHOPPING Shop Local ........................................................................................................ 26
HOME LIVING HOME Feature: Color of the Year: Peach Fuzz .................................. 28 HOME Feature: Kitchen Backsplash Trends ........................................ 30 DIY: Alexandra’s Kitchen Makeover ........................................................ 33 I Am Home: Kathryn Lemish...................................................................... 34
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From the executive editor Dear glo Readers, As we dive into February, we are reminded of the significance of Black History Month. It is a time to honor, appreciate, and celebrate the rich tapestry of African American history and culture. Black History Month is not just a reflection of the past; it is a call to action. It is an opportunity to amplify voices that are often marginalized and to acknowledge the ongoing struggle for equality and justice. This month, let’s commit to learning, listening, and uplifting the narratives that have been historically overlooked. Check out our main editorial about Black History Month and the events being hosted throughout the month in our community. We also share the inspiring stories of two individuals who are impacting thousands in our region through their servant leadership. Be sure to check out our He Glows and She Glows features this month. February is also the month of love, and we LOVE our advertisers and partners. They enrich our neighborhoods and shape the character of our communities. There has never been a more crucial time to rally behind local businesses. They are run by passionate individuals who invest not just in commerce, but in the well-being of the places they call home. Choosing to support local businesses is an act of solidarity and an investment in the prosperity of our neighborhoods. Let’s show them love. Throughout this issue, pay special attention the businesses who support local storytelling by advertising with us. Let them know you appreciate them and that you saw their ad in glo! With gratitude,
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GLAM + STYLE | Fashion
4 2 20HAIR TRENDS By Holli Hattery
What better way to start the year fresh than with a new haircut or style? 2024 will be a fun year for hair trends with perms, fun accessories, and shorter cuts in style.
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Women are chopping those long locks this year and focusing more on either mid-length styles right above the shoulders or short bobs. Shorter hair is great for hair health and is easier to maintain and style. And, according to “Vogue,” simpler, more natural styling and holistic hair health are also in this year. Put down those heating tools and look for alternative styling techniques to keep your hair healthy.
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Keeping hair healthy requires a lot, and some of that is the color you choose. While rainbow colors have been popular over the last few years, natural hair color is coming back. Expect to see people growing out those more artificial looking colors. With shorter hair and simpler styling comes the chance to add in some fun accessories. Headbands are back, including those vintage looking thick headbands from the sixties and the comb style headbands that reigned in the nineties. Perms are also back in style and not just for the ladies. Men have jumped on the perm bandwagon and are trading in their straight, sleek locks for some curls. Brandon Casiano is a dual licensed hairdresser and barber who has learned from some of the best mentors across the country. Getting his start in Orange County, California, he recently returned home to this area, and he’s sharing the men’s hair trends that he’s seeing for this year.
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He says that a low taper fade with curly hair is a cut that he does every day. “I call it the Tik-Tok haircut or the influencer haircut,” he shared. “Nearly all high school and middle school kids request this.” Casiano said that sea salt sprays for extra volume are also popular with the younger crowd. It’s a high alkaline product and expands the hair shaft. Most use a round brush or a denman brush with a blow dryer to achieve the style they’re wanting. The textured pompadour is also popular. The pompadour is shorter in the back and on the sides and longer and stacked on top. This is a great choice for men who are rocking that facial hair. While perms and curly hair are trending, Casiano said that he’s seeing much less in the realm of man buns, undercuts, and mullets. 2024 hair seems to be trending with 2024 fashion — the nineties are still pushing in, reigning supreme in fashion and hair styles. To schedule with Casiano check out his website on Booksy.com. a
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GLAM + STYLE | Wellness & Beauty
A Woman’s Guide to Heart Health By Dr. Rudy Kachmann
It’s essential for women to take charge of their cardiovascular health. While heart disease is often associated with men, it is a leading cause of death among women, as well. This article aims to empower women with valuable insights and practical tips to promote a heart-healthy lifestyle.
Heart Health
Understanding the Risks: Contrary to popular belief, heart disease doesn’t discriminate based on gender. Women are just as susceptible, and in some cases, face unique risk factors. Hormonal changes, pregnancy complications, and conditions like polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) can impact heart health. It’s crucial for women to be aware of these factors and take proactive steps to mitigate risks. The Role of Nutrition: A heart-healthy diet is the foundation for overall well-being. I encourage women to adopt a balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins. Omega-3 fatty acids, found in fish and flaxseeds, can contribute to a healthy heart. Limiting bad fats, trans fats, and sodium is equally important in maintaining optimal cardiovascular health. Regular Exercise: Physical activity is a key component of a hearthealthy lifestyle. As we mentioned in our article published in the December 2023 issue of glo, “sitting for two to three hours has been found to be like smoking a pack of cigarettes, increasing your risk of cardiovascular disease.” Women should engage in regular aerobic exercises like brisk walking, jogging, or swimming. Strength training is also beneficial for maintaining muscle mass and supporting overall cardiovascular health. Find activities you enjoy to make exercise a sustainable part of your routine.
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Stress Management: Chronic stress can take a toll on the heart. Women often juggle multiple responsibilities, leading to increased stress levels. Implementing stress-management techniques such as mindfulness, meditation, and yoga, can have a positive impact on both mental and heart health. Regular Check-ups and Screenings: Regular health check-ups are essential for early detection and prevention of heart-related issues. Women should schedule routine check-ups with their healthcare providers. Key screenings, including blood pressure, cholesterol levels, and blood sugar, can provide valuable insights into heart health. The Importance of Sleep: Adequate sleep is a fundamental pillar of good health. Lack of sleep has been linked to an increased risk of heart disease. Women should prioritize getting 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night to support their overall well-being. Heart health is a journey that every woman should embark on with commitment and dedication. By understanding the unique risks, adopting a heart-healthy diet and lifestyle, managing stress, and prioritizing regular check-ups, women can empower themselves to lead heart-healthy lives. Remember, a healthy heart is a key to a vibrant and fulfilling life. a Shutterstock.com
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COMMUNITY FOCUS | SHE glows
she glows’ GLADYS CATO By Julie Young | Photo by Eva Toscos
Over the past 40 years, “Miss Gladys” Cato has educated approximately 800 students and touched countless lives. As a pre-school teacher at the Early Childhood Alliance’s (ECA) downtown learning center, she is marking the milestone by looking back on her career and all that she has accomplished. “I became a pre-school teacher because I love children,” she said. “I love supporting them academically and socially in a nurturing environment.” Miss Gladys got her start working with young children at another facility when she saw an opportunity to be a substitute at the ECA. After serving in that capacity, a full-time position opened up, and she was hired. The rest, as they say, is history. In Miss Gladys’ classroom, children ages 3 to 5 learn through play, creativity, and music. While they work on academic skills like letters and numbers, they also work on fine motor skills, social skills, and more through games, stories, and experimentation. She learns which students are visual learners, oral learners, and tactile learners and helps her class adapt to those pupils with special needs. They also learn how to interact with each other so that they will continue to be successful in the classroom through kindergarten, grade school, and beyond. “I teach them how to solve their little problems using their words and how to help one another voluntarily when they have the opportunity to do so,” she said. “At other times, they are the ones teaching me. Honestly, they are like little engineers coming up with things that I wouldn’t know how to start building. They are just so creative.” Miss Gladys is not only a teacher at the ECA, but a parent whose children, grandchildren, and now great-grandchildren have all gone through the program. She believes that community plays an essential role in a child’s growth and development and that the most important determinant of quality early education is the caregiver. In fact, she has been part of the ECA family for so long that she is now on her second generation of students and some parents have made her promise not to retire until their kids are through. “I said I would do my best,” she said. Of course, no teacher does it alone, and Miss Gladys is quick to highlight the support she receives from the administration, assistants, parents, and other teachers that make her career a pleasant one. She said the key to her success is having respect for the student, patience in the classroom, and the consistency to help each lesson sink in. It always feels good to have a former student return for a visit, or to greet a familiar face while welcoming the next generation of learners. As she reflects on her four decades of service, she said it has been a dream come true. “I achieved my goal of working with kids and it has really meant a lot to me,” she said. “It hasn’t always been smooth sailing, but when you see them do well … it’s worth it.” a 12 | FEBRUARY GLO 2024 |
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COMMUNITY FOCUS | HE glows
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AMOS NORMAN By Gabby Hunicutt | Photo by Eva Toscos
Amos Norman, District Executive Director of Renaissance Pointe YMCA, says that the driving force behind his life is being connected to something larger than himself. “The more involved in the community that you decide you want to get, the more you see the impact you can make,” shared Norman. He has worked in the nonprofit community for more than 20 years and continues to serve beyond his full-time role at the YMCA. Norman grew up in a small town in South Carolina, just outside of Myrtle Beach. During his childhood, his family traveled back and forth to Fort Wayne for his father’s job. After high school, he stayed in Fort Wayne and attended University of Saint Francis for social work. Following college, he entered the nonprofit sphere as the Director of Operations at the Boys & Girls Clubs of Fort Wayne. After ten years with the Boys & Girls Clubs, he took up his current position at the Renaissance Pointe YMCA, which allows him to help people from all walks of life and all ages as they attain their goals and gain a sense of belonging. His role at the YMCA provides him with a unique opportunity to see the results of his work daily and become part of the lives of thousands of individuals. In addition to working at the YMCA, Norman is involved with several other local organizations, like Fort Wayne Trails, IU School of Social Work, and Fort Wayne United. “It’s a blessing and an honor to be able to serve when people believe in you enough to be a leader of an organization and help them strategically,” said Norman. His secret to being able to give so much of himself? Aligning with organizations that are doing purposeful work. He shared that it’s common for people to feel burnt out or frustrated when the work they’re doing doesn’t feel impactful, but working with organizations who are changing the landscape of the community has the opposite effect. Passing along his infectious message of community betterment, Norman said, “it’s a big city, but it’s small enough that your moves matter.” a
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GRACE SCHOEGLER Age: 17 By Stacie Ball | Photo by Leaha Meinika
Leo High School senior Grace Schoegler shows prowess living in harmony with others. Using her voice as her means of expression, she beautifies the lives of those around her in song, ignites supporting fans, and advocates for children and animals. She sings praises to the programs that taught her to be an inspiration to others. Singing as a soloist since age 7, Schoegler auditioned for the Leo Varsity Jazz Choir and was honored to enter as a Freshman. Her choir has won ISSMA Gold at State for ensemble the last two years and jazz choir one year. The young vocalist is also involved in her church worship team and participates in the Leo High School drama productions. Now she is using her talents to raise awareness and advocate for those in need. Recently crowned Miss Central Indiana Teen, Schoegler commended the pageant for what she has learned and accomplished. “Participating in pageants has helped me build my confidence,” she explained, “Part of the work of a titleholder is to volunteer, inspire younger girls, and promote a Community Service Initiative. I am excited to spend almost a year advocating and raising funds for the ‘She Has a Name Campaign’ (supporting Destiny Rescue). Their mission is to prevent sex trafficking and rescue trafficked individuals.” Schoegler also utilizes her voice at Komets Hockey Games. Last year, she interacted with the mascot Icy and the crowd by being one of Icy’s handlers. This year, she is hyping up the crowd with in-game contests and serving as an alternate emcee. In five years, Schoegler hopes to have a Bachelor’s degree and work for a zoo or aquarium. Volunteering at the Fort Wayne Children’s Zoo has piqued her interest in working with dolphins and other marine animals. The animal enthusiast has already racked up over 300 volunteer hours at the zoo. Currently working as an interpreter, she enjoys being on the microphone, revealing fun facts, or answering questions about giraffes, stingrays, and kangaroos! Balancing school, choir, worship team, pageant work, emceeing, and volunteering is no simple task. Schoegler noted that her parents taught her to use a digital calendar to manage everything. “I put my entire schedule on it to keep us all informed,” she explained, “I prioritize my schoolwork first and then fit everything else around that.” Beyond being organized, Schoegler encourages youngsters to pursue their interests early through volunteerism. She believes that exploring her interests at a young age and becoming involved played a sizable role in helping her make decisions for her future. “I think this will help me as I enter college and my career,” she resolved. She hopes to inspire other kids to give things a try. Those interested in living life to the fullest and serving others, consider taking a page from Schoegler’s songbook! She uses her talents and hobbies to spread joy to others and fully optimizes her time. What a great way to spread love this Valentine’s Day! a | FEBRUARY GLO 2024 |
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FEATURE | Feature Focus
A Time to Reflect, Honor, and Educate By Amber Bouthot
February is Black History Month, which provides our community time to honor the rich history, achievements, and contributions of African Americans to our community and our country. It traces its roots back to the pioneering efforts of Dr. Carter G. Woodson, a distinguished African American historian, educator, and author. In 1926, Dr. Woodson initiated “Negro History Week” during the second week of February, coinciding with the birthdays of Abraham Lincoln and Frederick Douglass. His vision was to ensure that the often-overlooked contributions of African Americans were recognized and celebrated, promoting a more inclusive understanding of American history. In the decades that followed, mayors of cities across the country began issuing yearly proclamations recognizing “Negro History Week.” By the late 1960s, thanks in part to the civil rights movement and a growing awareness of Black identity, “Negro History Week” had evolved into Black History Month on many college campuses. President Gerald Ford officially recognized Black History Month in 1976, calling upon the public to “seize the opportunity to honor the too-often neglected accomplishments of Black Americans in every area of endeavor throughout our history.” The significance of Black History Month extends beyond a reflection on the past. It serves as reminder of the struggles, triumphs, and resilience of the Black community throughout history. From the horrors of slavery to the Civil Rights
Movement, from the arts and sciences to sports and politics, African Americans have played an integral role in shaping the tapestry of our nation. Through education and awareness, we can bridge gaps in understanding and promote a more inclusive and equitable society. Black History Month also challenges us to acknowledge the ongoing struggles for racial equality and justice. It prompts us to engage in meaningful conversations about systemic racism and to work collectively towards dismantling the barriers that persist in our society. It is a call to action, inspiring us to advocate for change, amplify marginalized voices, and create a future where diversity is celebrated and embraced. As we celebrate Black History Month, let us not confine our reflections to just one month of the year. Instead, let this be a catalyst for year-round commitment to learning, understanding, and appreciating the diverse histories that have shaped our world. By doing so, we contribute to the ongoing journey towards a more inclusive, tolerant, and united community. a
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Local Events: Sit In Commemoration: Black History Month Allen County Public Library February 1 2pm – 5pm Pontiac Branch 1pm – 5pm Shawnee Branch 4pm – 5:30pm Little Turtle Branch 5:30pm – 6:45pm – Hessen Castle Branch
February 3
10am – 11am Waynedale Branch Commemorate the Greensboro Four with a showing of the documentary “February One: The Story of the Greensboro Four” and donuts.
Butterfly Creations with Charlotte Smith Allen County Public Library February 1, 6pm – 7:30pm Main Branch February 5, 4pm – 5:30pm Main Library February 8, 6:30pm – 8pm Waynedale Branch February 12, 6:30pm – 8:30pm Tecumseh Branch February 13, 4pm – 5:30 pm Little Turtle Branch February 19, 4pm- 5:30 pm Hessen Castle Branch February 22, 4pm – 5:30pm Shawnee Branch February 27, 4:30pm – 6pm Pontiac Branch February 29, 4pm-5:30pm Aboite Branch Celebrate Black History Month with artist Charlotte Smith as you create a beautiful butterfly artwork. Butterflies appear in African-American art and folklore, including the folktales collected by Zora Neale Hurston. They often symbolize transformation and balance. Artist Charlotte Smith will show you how to make your own beautiful paper roll butterfly artwork. A simplified version of the project will be available for younger children.
Free Breakfast Allen County Public Library February 3 10 am – 11am Pontiac Branch 10:30am – 12:00pm Hessen Castle Branch February 10, 10am – 11am Dupont Branch & Pontiac Branch February 14, 10am – 11:30am Georgetown Branch
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10am – 12pm Shawnee Branch 10am – 11am Pontiac Branch February 24, 10am – 11am Pontiac Branch Attend a free breakfast to celebrate the Free Breakfast for School Children Program. In January 1969, the Black Panther Party began the Free Breakfast for School Children program in Oakland, CA to cook and serve food to poor inner-city youth. The program was such a success that by the end of the year, the Panthers had set up kitchens across the nation, feeding 10,000 children every day before school. Join us to celebrate this important social program and learn more about the Black Panthers.
Black and Gold Gala Walb Student Union Classic Ballroom at Purdue Fort Wayne February 16, 7pm – 10pm https://www.pfw.edu/events/black-and-gold-gala Celebrate Black Excellence by joining BSU for their Black and Gold Gala. Free Tickets required to attend this event and can be picked up in The Multicultural Center Walb 118.
Black History is American History Walb Student Union room 118, Purdue Fort Wayne February 19, 1 – 3pm February 20, 10am – noon February 21, 3pm – 5pm February 22, 10am – noon February 23, 11am – 1pm Come and watch a Black History movie and take a Black history quiz for treats.
Eat to the Beats Walb Student Union International Ballroom, Purdue Fort Wayne February 27, 6pm – 8pm Celebrate Black History Month at the 3rd annual Eat to the Beats. This year will feature Jamaican food. Prof. John Buteyn will direct the PFW musical students who will provide the music for the event. The event will be Catered by Smile More Catering. Free Tickets are required for this event and will be available in the Multicultural Center located in Walb 118.
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FEATURE | Feature Focus
Navigating the
g n i t a D l a t i g i D Landscape: A Guide to Ensuring Your Safety on Dating Apps By Amber Bouthot
Dating apps have revolutionized the way we connect with potential partners. While these platforms offer exciting opportunities to meet new people, it’s essential to prioritize safety in the ever-evolving landscape of online dating. Here’s a comprehensive guide to empower women with the knowledge and tools they need to enjoy the benefits of dating apps while prioritizing their safety.
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Craft a Secure Profile:
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Creating a safe online dating experience begins with your profile. Consider using a nickname or an initial for your display name and avoid sharing personal details like your home address or workplace. Opt for general location settings rather than providing specific coordinates to protect your privacy.
Verify Profiles:
Before engaging in conversations, take a moment to verify the authenticity of the profiles you encounter. Look for verified badges or linked social media accounts. While these measures aren’t foolproof, they can provide an additional layer of assurance.
Take Your Time:
Building a connection takes time, and it’s crucial to move at a pace that feels comfortable for you. Be wary of individuals who pressure you into sharing personal information or meeting in person before you’re ready. A respectful and patient approach is a key component of a healthy online interaction.
Video Calls Before In-Person Meetings:
Prioritize video calls as an intermediary step before meeting someone in person. This not only helps you establish a more genuine connection but also allows you to confirm the identity of your potential date. Choose a well-lit and public space for your video calls.
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Inform a Trusted Friend: Always inform a trusted friend or family member about your plans, including the details of your date, meeting location, and estimated return time. Having someone aware of your whereabouts provides an additional layer of security and peace of mind.
Choose Public Meeting Spaces:
When transitioning from online to in-person interactions, opt for public spaces for your initial meetings. Choose well-trafficked restaurants, coffee shops, or parks to ensure a safe and comfortable environment.
Trust Your Instincts:
Your instincts are powerful tools when it comes to online dating. If something feels off or uncomfortable, trust your gut and take the necessary steps to protect yourself. Whether it’s blocking a user or reporting suspicious behavior to the app, prioritize your well-being.
Secure Your Personal Information:
Avoid sharing financial information or sensitive details with someone you’ve just met online. Be cautious about clicking on external links and report any suspicious activity to the dating app’s support team. Safety should always be a top priority. By adopting these guidelines and remaining vigilant, women can navigate dating apps with confidence. Remember, a secure and enjoyable dating experience starts with setting boundaries and prioritizing your safety every step of the way. a Shutterstock.com
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FEATURE | On Her Nightstand
On Her Nightstand By Wendy Stein
What have you been reading recently? I just finished “A Mother’s Reckoning: Living in the Aftermath of Tragedy” by Sue Klebold. The book is written by the mother of one of the Columbine massacre shooters, and recounts her life in the aftermath of the shooting. It’s been an interesting read for me. I was almost the same age as her son, and very clearly remember watching Columbine play out on live TV in my high school classroom, watching kids the same age as me running for their lives and hanging out of windows. Now, I’m the parent of a teenager in high school, and I recently had a small, private meltdown over construction at her school’s entrance which leaves it without multiple check-in points temporarily. The juxtaposition of those perspectives has been jarring. The author does a nice job of recounting the years after Columbine from her perspective. I was disappointed that she never addresses why it is that straight white men seem to commit these mass shootings far more than other populations but settled on explaining the shooting as a product of “brain health.” Aside from that, I recommend the book. I’m currently reading, “For Goodness Sex: Changing the Way We Talk to Teens About Sexuality, Values, and Health” by Al Vernacchio. So far, it seems to offer good advice on raising teens to have healthy relationships with romantic partners and themselves. It really focuses on getting away from the heteronormative way we tend to talk about sex, love, and relationships to ensure that sex and relationships are equitable for all people, which I appreciate.
Heather Puff Heather Puff lives in Fort Wayne with her husband, 3 kids, 2 cats, and a dog. She writes grant proposals and manages grants for non-profits. In her free time, she enjoys reading, sewing, and bringing down the patriarchy.
Are there any books you have read that you want others to know about? “The Book Thief” — this book is historical fiction, set in Nazi Germany during WWII, and the stories told through the main character are heart-wrenching and poignant. “The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks” — this is a wild true story of how one woman’s cells live on forever in medical research and health care implementation while her family still lives in economic despair, generations later. It explores important themes surrounding the medical discrimination people of color have faced for decades, and how this contributed to Henrietta’s family getting nothing while medical and biotech companies made millions. This book will make you angry, but maybe it should. Side note: The Lacks family recently received a settlement from a biotech company. a
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FEATURE | Motherhood
Improving Health Outcomes
for Black Mothers and Babies By Jennie Renner
It is hard to talk about statistics that reflect the dismal state of infant and maternal mortality, especially for the Black community. But we must address this difficult subject if we are going to have any chance of changing the tide on this health disparity. In 2021 in the United States, the Infant Mortality Rate (IMR) was 5.44 infant deaths per 1,000 live births. The rate in Indiana was 6.75, ranking the Hoosier state as the 10th worst in the country. (The provisional data for 2022 places us even higher on this list.) Infant mortality is defined as the death of a baby between birth and one year of age.1
from the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), Black women are two to three times more likely than white women to die from pregnancyrelated causes.4
The infant mortality rate for Non-Hispanic (NH) Black babies has historically been worse than for other racial demographics in our country. Nationally the rate in 2021 was 10.55 and in Indiana it was more than double the NH White rate at 13.2.2
One of those organizations here in NE Indiana, Healthier Moms and Babies, has a mission to reduce infant mortality and improve the outcome of pregnancies in our community. A report they released in 2023 on infant mortality in Allen County, said that “many factors contributing to our community’s high infant mortality rate are preventable through healthcare, education, and programming.”
And in 2022, the Indiana University Public Policy Institute reported that Indiana has the third highest maternal mortality rate among all reporting states at 44 deaths per 100,000 live births. Maternal mortality is defined as the death of a mother during pregnancy or up to one year after childbirth, due to a cause related to pregnancy or a mother’s pre-existing condition that was made worse by pregnancy.3 The story for Black women is worse regarding maternal mortality, too. According to data
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Nationally, at the state-level, and locally, there are many institutions and organizations who have been working to turn these sad statistics around, and some progress has been made.
“The leading cause of infant mortality is preterm birth. And there’s so many different reasons for preterm birth,” said Executive Director Paige Wilkins, but she pointed to stress as a contributing factor in a lot of cases. “Stress, I think, is so critical … There’s a lot of really good research out there about stress and social determinants of health and how it impacts birth outcomes.” According to the CDC, “social determinants of health (SDOH) are the nonmedical factors that influence health outcomes. They are the conditions in which people are born, grow, work, live, and age, and the wider set of forces and systems shaping the conditions of daily life. These forces and systems include economic policies and systems, development agendas, social norms, social policies, racism, climate change, and political systems.” Kathy Detweller, Director for Perinatal Services at Parkview Health, agrees that the SDOH are a big part of the equation when it comes to health outcomes for Black families. Parkview employs a
multidisciplinary approach to infant and maternal health. They have nurse navigators and other RNs, social workers, community health workers, and physician care teams who all work together. Britte Nihart, MSN, RN is the Supervisor of the Women’s and Children’s Nurse Navigation Team at Parkview Health and is also the Allen County Fetal and Infant Mortality Review (FIMR) Coordinator. FIMR is a community-based process that reviews fetal and infant deaths and identifies factors that contribute to them.
Locally, the Indiana Minority Health Coalition of Allen County recently updated their education materials to include maternal mortality. HealthVisions is offering Certified Community Health Worker (CHW) training six times this year. CHW training is for people who are members of or have a close understanding of a community. Their familiarity with the community allows them to serve as an intermediary with healthcare and social service providers, improving outcomes for care.
“Women don’t have the support systems that they used to have,” said Stallings said he thinks there is greater awareness of the issues Nihart. “Some of the women say they don’t have a single other person affecting Black families, but we still have work to do. He is encouraged, though, by publications like Glo addressing this difficult subject. they can count on.” “The needle still hasn’t quite moved where it should be, but there are That’s where programs like Associated Churches’ Journey Beside more people invested and wanting to know, ‘why is this not changing?’” Mothers might be able to help. The program has volunteers who become mentors, offering emotional and practical support, education, he said. “... those things give me hope.” and companionship to mothers on their journey.
So what can you do to help?
Another local organization trying to improve outcomes for Black mothers and babies is HealthVisions Midwest. Their focus is on reducing health disparities and empowering underserved communities to live healthier.
Read more about Black infant and maternal mortality. Learn about unconscious biases and educate yourself about health disparities. Make a donation or volunteer with one of the many organizations in our community who are trying to make a difference. a
In November 2023, Maternal and Infant Mortality was the topic of their For Further Information: monthly Aspire webinar. Cassius OA Stallings, wellness coordinator Healthier Moms & Babies: healthiermomsandbabies.org for Health Visions, was responsible for facilitating the program. The HealthVisions Midwest: hvusa.org episode features Associate Professor and Maternal-Fetal Medicine Aspire: Together for Tomorrow: Maternal and Infant Mortality Awareness Hour, November 17, 2023 Specialist Lauren Dungy-Poythress, MD, from the Indiana University youtube.com/watch?v=mdhhGomOeAk Associated Churches Journey Beside Mothers: associatedchurches.org/journey-beside-mothers School of Medicine. She said Black women face unique social factors Indiana Infant Mortality Department of Health info: affecting maternal health, including discrimination, implicit biases, https://www.in.gov/health/mch/data/infant-mortality/#2021 and being ignored. “The stress of being black in society can take a The Indiana Capital Chronicle: indianacapitalchronicle.com, physical toll during pregnancy and childbirth,” she said. search infant and maternal mortality. She cited a report that found problems are amplified by unconscious Indiana Minority Health Coalition: https://www.imhc.org/ biases that are embedded in the medical system affecting the quality Centers for Disease Control (CDC): cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/ of care. maternalinfanthealth/infantmortality.htm Racism Harms Health: racismharmshealth.berkeley.edu “They identified 33% of black women who said they had been 1. https://www.in.gov/health/mch/files/2021-Infant-Mortality-and-Morbidity.pdf Source: Indiana Department of discriminated against because of their race when going to a health Health, Maternal & Child Health Epidemiology Division [February 2, 2023] Original Source: Indiana Department of doctor or a clinic, and almost one in four, or 21%, said that they Health, Vital Records, ODA, Data Analysis Team 2. www.in.gov/health/mch/data/infant-mortality Created by Maternal and Child Health Epidemiology, October 2023 actually avoided going to a doctor or seeking health care due to the 3. Indiana University Public Policy Institute. (2022). https://policyinstitute.iu.edu/doc/maternal-mortality-brief.pdf concerns of racial discrimination.” 4. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/hestat/maternal-mortality/2021/maternal-mortality-rates-2021.htm
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FEATURE | Dream Trips
Journey Through Egypt By: Lindsey Sharp
Experiencing the world helps us appreciate it—the diversity in culture, the value of difference in thought, the inherent value in varied relationship, and the integral role perspective plays in how we view the world.
Cue glo’s “Bucket List” series, where trips across the globe taken by our friends and neighbors are celebrated and shared so we all may learn from their experiences and be encouraged to plan our own. Megan Ryan and Alex Cornwell embarked on what can only be deemed a journey through Egypt — and they took every opportunity they could to fully engross themselves in its culture, people, and miraculous beauty.
Q: How did you pick Egypt? A: More famous than just about any other civilization throughout
history, Egypt has been a source of fascination for as long as we can remember. So, whenever we would talk about where we might hope to travel next, Egypt was on the list, but truthfully it was just a faint dream. That is, until we took our first trip after the pandemic to the island of Cozumel, Mexico. As newer scuba divers, we were looking to tour some of the most incredible reefs and wildlife in the world. After our first dives, we lucked into lunch and drinks with the owners of the scuba company (Cozumel Adventures). As the week went on, we became better friends with them and even their friends who were all around our age. Long story short, a few months after leaving the island, they invited us to join them and ten of their friends on a weeklong liveaboard dive trip in the middle of the Red Sea off the coast of Egypt. Knowing that part of the world can be touch-and-go, we first looked at safety. Then we explored what sites we could see and what there was to do and experience. Imagine spreadsheet tabs filled with 24 | FEBRUARY GLO 2024 |
everything from common tourist sites to unique cultural oddities, to some of the most naturally beautiful places in the world.
Q: How long were you there? A: We ultimately landed on being in the country for a month, but
knew we wouldn’t be able to see and do everything on our list.
Q: How did you break up the trip so you could see as much as possible? A: Destination 1: Diving deeper into the dream-like beauty of
western Egyptian deserts by safari 4x4, witnessing the awe-inspiring remnants of Egypt’s time long ago under the sea — including whale bones in the middle of the desert.
Destination 2: Visited many of the most famous sites of the trip through Cairo, such as the Pyramids, the Ancient Museum, the Khan Al Khalili Market ,and a private sail-driven cruise on the Nile River, with one of the most culturally-interesting stops of the trip: a visit to “Garbage City, which is a community of people in Cairo who literally live among garbage. Trash from all over the city is brought to their home and their job is to sort, dry, and then resell it for their income.
Destination 3: Embarked on a week-long trip via liveaboard yacht out of Hurghada, Egypt, where we met up with the friends we made in Cozumel and dove at many reefs in the literal middle of the Red Sea. Destination 4: We continued our path south through the desolate tropical communities along the Nile River, staying near the border of Sudan on the cliffside of the Nile in Aswan, Egypt, where we took a small break and worked remotely for a few days.
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Q: Favorite lesson you were reminded of from the trip? A:People are inherently good everywhere, even in the poorest
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Even a month wasn’t long enough for us. However, if you are limited on time and want to focus on the big highlights, Egypt can be visited for a much shorter amount of time. Expect to pay between USD$25-100 per night for a hotel and around USD$50 per person for a full-day guided tour.
Q: Any advice for travel to this region? A: Be sure to research and understand the historic sites in
advance so you have context as to what the guides are talking about. It was a safe trip for us, but with the recent changes in the region, it’s wise to be careful. Tipping is a culture, and it opens doors to tip well. Remember that Egypt is a developing nation that has an average personal income of $3,000 per year. Don’t be surprised if people come up to you asking for “help,” a tip, or to try to take pictures with you. You’re a celebrity there just by being an American. a
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When the sun goes into hiding this time of year, the colors inside the home can be a source of refuge. If a fresh look is in order, consider advice from Pantone. The company specializes in colors and has announced the 2024 color of the year: Peach Fuzz.
According to Pantone’s website, “Peach Fuzz echoes our desire to nurture ourselves and others. It’s a velvety gentle peach tone whose all-embracing spirit enriches mind, body, and soul.” Sign us up, right? Here are some ideas for incorporating Peach Fuzz into the home. Cindy Friend, an interior designer for thirty years, offered these suggestions. “I think it could be beautiful used as a creative accent wall color or used as accessories through art and rugs. It could be used for painting a wall or through a fabric selection,” Friend said. Friend offers full renovation services, as well as small decorating services. Her clients sometimes choose colors that are their personal preference in addition to those that may be promoted seasonally or for a year. “Each project is so unique, but most people tend to stay neutral,” she said. “I think a mix of both creates a personal touch with a sprinkle of popular trends.” Nedra Hiday had a business degree, then returned later to study interior design. “I always loved houses and decorating, even as a young girl.... I had attended Indiana Purdue Fort Wayne (IPFW) for a year and a half at age 56 when a contractor friend asked me to decorate a country club his business was constructing,” Hiday said. “After that, I was asked to help in the planning and design of a creative arts and commerce building. This followed with helping in the design and decorating of a large expansion at my church. I never
returned to get that American Society of Interior Designers degree, which I have always regretted.” As one example, Hiday envisioned an elegant room, such as a living room, featuring the color of the year. “The walls would be painted Peach Fuzz with soft ivory draperies or window treatments,” she said. “In the décor would be accents of marble and pearlized items. A deeper shade in the same color would be used in pillows and I would introduce a soft light green, either by airy plants or pillows. Candles would also be a nice addition and provide more ambiance.” Consulting with someone can help shape a dream into a pretty reality. “This is a place they will be spending a great deal of time and must be a place they love to come home to,” Hiday said. “Some clients know exactly what they want. Sometimes, one must modify…Color is of vital importance. It is the basic background you are using to create the room’s portrait.” That old phrase, “Nothing risked, nothing gained,” applies to colors. Besides, miscues aren’t final. “Paint is very forgiving; one can always repaint,” Hiday said. Who knows? Your reward may be making your winter months just “peachy.” a
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By Bethany Beebe
Love the idea of a little extra beauty in your home that brings value, too? Show love to your kitchen with a new backsplash; February is the month of love, after all. Backsplashes can add a bit of trendy freshness to this often-used room. This year, trends are seeing mixed materials that are bold in design, according to “House Beautiful.” Stone is also a dominating trend. Rich color and visible, dramatic veining are on point, as well. These statement stones can be complemented with a mixed-finish textured stone or mosaic with a colorful presence, paired with a simple countertop. Another trend is the use of sustainable materials. Planet-friendly offerings like tile that are glazed with industrial metal waste-derived glaze are now on the market and lauded by “House Beautiful.” Use of such material can be included in a mixed-material decorating scheme, which can make for a unique and memorable space. If mixing materials makes you nervous, adding small details to the backsplash might be more your taste. One example is carving into the stone, creating a border line, for example, and giving dimension if the border is a higher relief than the center section of the stone. On the other hand, high-end designers also say less can be more. Using the same material for the counter and the splash is becoming more mainstream, “House Beautiful” suggests. If following the modern art deco trend is your style, you might consider a geometric pattern in tile. Or, more generally, a tile with a pattern can be employed. 30 | FEBRUARY GLO 2024 |
Locally, Classic Marble & Stone is an option for this design investment. Carolyn Johnson of Classic said that theirs is a stone fabrication company, and they work with local designers, like Beth Stoller. If stone is not in the budget, “local tile shops such as Eagle Tile or The Tile Shop are great sources for tile selections,” she said. “Since we are [a] stone fabricator, we often send customers there unless they want a full-height splash out of the countertop material up to the cabinet or range hood.” Johnson said that once the project starts, the process generally requires a business day or two and can range in cost from $1,200 to $3,500. Those in their “forever home,” tend to renovate every 10 to 15 years, but that “projects selecting more timeless options may keep them for a longer time … .” As she said, “trends can vary, but most keep splashes pretty neutral and light.” a
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Every month, we highlight do-it-yourself projects from our readers. Do you want to see your project featured in our magazine? Email ambouthot@the-papers.com. This month’s Reader DIY comes from Alexa Keefe. Alexa was born and raised in Fort Wayne, and she loves it here. She’s married and is currently a stay-at-home mom. “Being a mom is mostly what I do,” she said, “and I wouldn’t have it any other way.”
I have the “how hard could it be” gene. So, I love doing things myself and I kind of enjoy running into unexpected problems and overcoming them. Did I mention I enjoy a project?
She loves cooking and being with family. Doing projects at home is her “me time” and something she truly enjoys. No matter how big or little, she always has a little project going on.
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What was your inspiration for this project? My inspiration for this project was to add more color to my home. When we moved in, everything was grey, and I knew that little by little, we would add color and our home would be a reflection of us.
What was the most challenging aspect? Without a doubt, the drywall. It was just very tedious, and grouting was not my favorite either.
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How long did it take you to complete? This project took a little less than a month to complete.
Was the project easier or more difficult than you expected? It was harder than anticipated. When ripping out the prior backsplash, it took a lot of the dry wall out. We had to re-drywall the areas where there was too much damage. I also switched out all of the outlets for rubbed bronze ones so they would not stand out against the new back splash.
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HOME LIVING | I Am Home
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Kathryn Lemish By Casey Auer | Photos provided
“The power of finding beauty in the humblest things makes home happy and life lovely” – Louisa May Alcott There are countless ways one can describe home. The nuances of home are often coated with variations of warmth, humor, poetry, and, more often than not, nostalgia. Kathryn Lemish describes home as a place “where you feel comfortable, accepted, and grounded. It is where your people — your family and friends — are. Where you have your roots — or choose to have your roots.” Lemish grew up in Kendallville and graduated from East Noble High School. She attended IPFW and IU Bloomington before earning her bachelor’s degree from Texas Woman’s College in Denton, Texas. After graduation she remained in Texas for two years before returning home to northeast Indiana. For several years, Lemish could be found arranging music and teaching marching bands and winter drumlines in the area. She now serves as Vice President in Retail Solution at Lincoln Financial Group, where she has been working diligently for nearly 24 years. She chose to take root in Huntertown where she lives with her daughter, Amelia (13), and her daughter Nora (18) when she’s home from Ball State where she is currently a freshman. Chirp! Chirp! When asked of all the places she could have chosen to spend her day-to-day life, why Fort Wayne, she replied, “Because it is close to my family and friends. Fort Wayne has all the ‘big city amenities’ in a safe city without the big city traffic and costs of living. Here we have a wonderful zoo, a thriving arts scene, a fantastic trail system, beautiful parks, and Fort Wayne is culturally and historically rich. Also, while Fort Wayne itself is a good-sized city, we’re also within 2-3 hours of several other larger cities, so it’s not difficult to visit and still come back home.” When she is not working or spending time with her children, Lemish dedicates her time and talents as an active member in the community. She was formerly on the board of the much beloved Johnny Appleseed Festival. She has served two years as Board Chair for the Fort Wayne Children’s Choir, has participated as a member of the Charitable Contributions Committee for the Lincoln Financial 34 | FEBRUARY GLO 2024 |
Kathryn and Amelia Foundation for the Fort Wayne location, and she is currently working with a group of people in the community on Native American culture opportunities. “People care for each other here,” Lemish states. “It makes my kids crazy, but I rarely go somewhere without seeing people that I know, which seems counterintuitive of a city this size. My family and I have enjoyed so many events and activities around Fort Wayne — from the ballet, Fort Wayne Children’s Zoo, Tin Caps games, to the Philharmonic, many events at the Embassy Theatre, Botanical Gardens, Fort Wayne Museum of Art, Science Central, etc. No matter how old my kids are or what time of year it is, there’s always something to see, do, and experience here.” a
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1 | Thursday |
Dancing Through the Decades
Headwaters Park Ice Rink Get ready to skate, dance, and enjoy music from the 1960s through the 1990s. Grab your friends and dress up in an outfit inspired by your favorite decade! Tickets: General admission and skate rental fees apply. Time: 5 pm More Ice Rink Events: bit.ly/RiverfrontFW
1 | Thursday |
Happy AF Hour
The Workspace at Paper Mill, 118 West Columbia St. Discover your new favorite alcohol-free (AF) indulgence at Happy AF Hour, where Swizzle unveils a curated collection of the finest wines, beers, and spirits. Celebrate the launch of Swizzle – your new source for quality AF beverages in Fort Wayne. Event features a hand-selected assortment of the best AF wines, beers, and spirits, plus hors d’oeuvres Tickets: $20, Time: 5:30 pm – 8:30 pm https://www.facebook.com/ swizzleAFmarket
1–4 | Thursday – Sunday |
Fort Wayne RV & Camping Show
Allen County War Memorial Coliseum Shop in indoor comfort while finding your Spring and Summer getaways. See hundreds of new RV’s on display. Times: Thursday, February 1, 11 am - 8 pm, Friday, February 2, 11 am - 8 pm; Saturday, February 3, 11 am - 8 pm; Sunday, February 4, 11 am - 5 pm https://rvshows.org/fort-wayne-wonderlandrv-camping-show/
2 | Friday |
Karaoke Jam Nights
Park Foundation Pavilion at Promenade Park Sing, shine, and socialize on first Fridays at Promenade Park’s Karaoke Nights! Sing with your friends and the park community at these free events! Time: 6:30 pm – 8:30 pm https://www.facebook.com/even ts/545248054465462/545248064465461/ 36 | FEBRUARY GLO 2024 |
2 | Friday |
Fort Wayne Philharmonic: The Romance of the Brahms Part 1
Auer Performance Hall at PFW Music Center The Romance of Brahms is a mini festival celebrating the genius of this great voice of the nineteenth century. Spanning the next two Philharmonic seasons we’ll hear all four of his era defining symphonies in two Masterworks Special concerts. Tickets: $23 - $81, Time: 7:30 pm https://fwphil.org/events/the-romance-ofbrahms-part-1
2–4 | Friday – Sunday | Almost Maine
First Presbyterian Theater Welcome to Almost, Maine, a place that’s so far north, it’s almost not in the United States. One cold, clear, winter night, as the northern lights hover in the star-filled sky above, the residents of Almost, Maine, find themselves falling in and out of love in unexpected and hilarious ways. Directed by Todd Sandman-Cruz. Tickets: $22/Adults, $20 60 and older, $18 Students 24 and under Times: Friday 7:30 pm, Saturday 7:30 pm, Sunday 2 pm https://tickets.artstix.org/TheatreManager/1/ login?venue=240
3 | Saturday |
Fort Wayne Philharmonic: Byron Stripling’s Mardi Gras
Auer Performance Hall at PFW Music Center The French Quarter comes to Fort Wayne! Conjuring the spirit and swagger of Louis Armstrong, trumpeter Byron Stripling leads the Mardi Gras Parade of music that made the Crescent City famous. Tickets: $27 - $86, Time: 7:30 pm https://fwphil.org/events/byron-striplingsmardi-gras
3,1 0,17,& 24 | Saturdays | YLNI’s Winter Farmers Market
The Olde East End Building The YLNI Farmers Market provides a fun outdoor shopping experience and connects the community with local vendors. Customers can find select produce, baked goods, crafts, jewelry, honey, and so much more! Time: 9 am – 1 pm www.ylni.org/ylni-farmers-market
3, 10, 17, & 24 | Saturdays | Ft. Wayne’s Farmer’s Market
The future Fransiscan Center, 500 E. State St., Fort Wayne The Ft. Wayne’s Farmers Market hosts a constantly changing variety of products, including meat, produce, farm products, baked goods, jewelry, artisan crafts, food trucks, and much more! Time: 9 am – 1 pm ftwaynesfarmersmarket.com/
8 | Thursday |
Historic Hand Arts Class: Grandma’s Sewing Basket
Settlers, Inc., 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd “Old time” sewing tools and accessories, refreshments, and program with needle case craft. Cost: $20 settlersinc.org
8–11 | Thursday – Sunday | Fort Wayne Boat Show & Sale
Allen County War Memorial Coliseum The Boat Show features more than 52 exhibitors, including Marine Dealers from all over Indiana and Michigan, together in one place. Tickets: $10/Adults; Free/Kids 12 and under Times: Thursday, 3:00 pm – 8:00 pm; Friday, 3:00 pm – 8:00 pm; Saturday, 11:00 am – 8:00 pm; Sunday, 11:00 am – 3:00 pm https://www.fortwayneboatshow.com/
9 | Friday |
Fort Wayne ChocolateFest 2024
Ceruti’s Diamond Room, 6601 Innovation Blvd. ChocolateFest 2024 is a fun and entertaining fundraiser hosted by the Kiwanis Club of John Chapman Foundation! It features three all-you-can-eat chocolate dipping stations with white, dark and milk chocolate, chocolate desserts, a full dinner, and a make your own sundae bar. This event also includes a silent auction and this year, Al Parr’s Creole Candy Band. Tickets: $60 Time: 6 pm- 9pm https://www.visitfortwayne.com/event/fortwayne-chocolatefest-2024/41487/
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22 | Thursday |
Auburn City Steakhouse, 203 Main Street Put on your favorite mask for an evening full of fun and to celebrate Northeast Indiana’s Hospitality Industry! Event includes heavy hors d’oeuvres, two drink tickets and live entertainment during the event! There will also be a silent auction. Tickets: $75, Time: 7 pm – 10 pm https://www.facebook.com/ NortheastIndianaHospitalityAssociation/
Metea Park, 8401 Union Chapel Join the 25th Anniversary of Special Olympics Polar Plunge®! You’re invited to be part of this incredible milestone and make a splash with us! Sign up today! After splash bash at Cedar Creek Church of Christ. Times: Registration 10am – 1:30 pm; Plunge 11 am – 1:45 pm https://secure.e2rm.com/p2p/ location/385638/en-CA
Embassy Theatre For the last thirty-two years, THE PEKING ACROBATS® have redefined audience perceptions of Chinese acrobatics. They perform daring maneuvers atop a precarious pagoda of chairs and display their technical prowess at such arts as trick-cycling, precision tumbling, juggling, somersaulting and gymnastics. Tickets: $21 - $45.50, Time: 7:30 pm https://fwembassytheatre.org/events/ peking-acrobats/
Masquerade Ball
Special Olympics Polar Plunge
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10 | Saturday |
The Color Purple The Musical
Auburn Cord Duesenberg Museum Presented by Eckhart Public Library. Raise a glass to all things prohibition for an evening of dancing, hors d’oeuvres, access to the Auburn Cord Duesenberg Automobile Museum, a cash bar with period themed cocktails, and a special exhibit exploring the city of Auburn’s history during the era. Period appropriate dress is encouraged but not required. Tickets: $40/individuals, $75/couples Time: 6 pm – 10 pm https://automobilemuseum.org/events/ museum-programs/the-bootleggersball-2024
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Arts United Center Presented by the Fort Wayne Civic Theatre. This musical adaptation of Alice Walker’s Pulitzer Prize-winning novel (and the popular 1985 Steven Spielberg film) spotlights Celie, a downtrodden young woman whose personal awakening over the course of 40 years forms the arc of this epic story. Tickets: $35/Adults, $30/Seniors, $22/Youth Time: Fridays & Saturdays 7:30 pm; Sundays 2 pm https://www.fwcivic.org/thecolorpurple
9–14 | Friday – Sunday |
Fort Wayne Ballet – Love Notes 2024
Arts United – Parkview Physicians Group Artslab Love Notes is the date night to remember! TABLES FOR TWO: Couples will enjoy a private stage-side table, complimentary wine, roses, specialty chocolates and light appetizers for two while they indulge in the most famous love duets in the ballet repertoire. Tickets are $150 per couple; Limited seating available Time: Friday & Saturday, 7:30 pm; Sunday, 2 pm https://fortwayneballet.org/ performances/2023-2024season/
10 | Saturday |
Fort Wayne Philharmonic: The Sound of Innovation
Union Street Market @ Electric Works Discover a mesmerizing evening of symphonic brilliance as the Fort Wayne Philharmonic presents “The Sound of Innovation” at the iconic Electric Works in downtown Fort Wayne. Tickets: $50, $75 includes a tasting box of food from select merchants at Electric Work’s Union Street Market, and one drink ticket Time: 7:30 pm https://ticketing.fwphil.org/1126/1129?z=0
Bootlegger’s Ball
The Peking Acrobats
24 | Saturday |
Down the Line 18: 90s Grunge - Seattle Sound
Embassy Theatre Down the Line was initially established to offer a meaningful opportunity for local musicians to play legendary music on the renowned, historic Embassy stage. Down the Line 18 will feature four local bands paying tribute to iconic music legends from the 90’s Grunge – Seattle Sound scene. Tickets: $20, Time: 7 pm https://fwembassytheatre.org/events/ down-the-line-18-90s-grunge-seattlesound/
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24 | Saturday |
Promenade Park Have a Valentine’s Day filled with puppy love and sweater snuggles! Bring your furry valentine in their best winter attire for a FREE photo and sweet treat. Photos will be posted on Riverfront’s Facebook page to determine the winner of our Paw-sitively Adorable Pup Contest. Tickets: FREE, Time: 6 pm – 8 pm https://www.facebook.com/RiverfrontFW
Arts United – Parkview Physicians Group Artslab Fort Wayne Ballet family shows are little-kid friendly and fun for all ages. Thirty-minute performances are followed by a creative movement experience and craft activities for a full-hour experience. Born from a flower, this little girl is no larger than a thumb! First kidnapped by toads and then promised in marriage to Mr. Mole, Thumbelina escapes them all to find her Flower Prince. Tickets: $15, Time: 10 am & 12 pm https://tickets.artstix.org/ TheatreManager/6/login?event=4000
Valentine’s Day Doggie Sweater Party
16 | Friday | Casino Night
Turnstone, 3320 N. Clinton St. Fort Wayne’s favorite fundraiser, Casino Night! Hosted by Turnstone, proceeds to this event will go towards supporting Turnstone’s programs, services, and mission to empower people with disabilities. This evening is full of food, drinks, a variety of games, and other fun activities! Tickets: $75, Time: 6 pm – 10 pm https://turnstone.org/about/events/casinonight-2024
17 | Saturday |
Weather the Fort
The Landing, Columbia Street Spend the afternoon downtown Fort Wayne enjoying live music, food & drinks, winter activities, fire dancing. This event is family friendly. Tickets: FREE, Time: 3 pm – 8 pm https://www.weatherthefort.com/
Fort Wayne Ballet – Thumbelina
28 | Wednesday |
Bryan Adams with Dave Stewarts Eurythmics Songbook
Allen County War Memorial Coliseum Bryan Adams has the reputation of being one the most exciting live musicians in the world. He has 17 studio albums including his latest album “So Happy It Hurts” (nominated for a Grammy), “Pretty Woman – The Musical”, Classic pt. I and pt. II. Tickets: $25 - $149.50, Time: 7:30 pm https://www.ticketmaster.com/ event/05005F6904E95725
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51st Annual
The 2024 Fort Wayne Home & Garden Show is poised to transform the landscape of home and garden enthusiasts’ experiences with an array of captivating exhibits and features. Presented by Windows, Doors and More, the Fort Wayne Home & Garden Show will bring over 650 exhibitors to the Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, February 29 - March 3, 2024.
HOME & GARDEN SHOW
“The momentum after our 50th Anniversary celebration last year has built into what should be an amazing 2024 show! Exhibit space sold out months ago, and we’re excited to bring some brand-new features to the Fort Wayne community!” says show owner Becky Williamson. This year’s Fort Wayne Home & Garden Show is proud to announce a variety of show features that will leave attendees inspired and informed. For a full list, visit the website. A portion of all ticket proceeds and revenue will be donated to Community Harvest Food Bank in conjunction with a food drive. All showgoers are encouraged to bring a non-perishable food donation to the show to receive a $2 off general admission discount (cannot be combined with other discounts). The 2023 Fort Wayne Home & Garden Show donation to Community Harvest Food Bank totaled $25,000 in cash + volunteer hours and food drive donations from the show!
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Make plans to attend the largest home & garden show event in the tri-state area! Featuring over 650 exhibitors offering home improvement products & services, indoor & outdoor furniture, decor, plants, flowers, hot tubs, fire & water features, gourmet food, kitchenware, and thousands of more products! Plus expert gardening seminars, a parakeet encounter, educational animal shows, mini-pig races, chainsaw carving demos & family entertainment!
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Located at the War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Avenue, Fort Wayne, IN 46805. Show dates for 2024 are February 29 through March 3. Show hours are Thursday & Friday 11a–8p, Saturday 10a–8p and Sunday 11a–5p. Ticket prices are $12 at the door, $8 for Seniors 62+ and free for kids 14 & under. $2 off discount coupons are available online at Home-GardenShow.com. Parking at the Coliseum lot is $8.
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