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We made it through another busy holiday season. By now, you’ve likely put your holiday décor away (no judgment from me if you haven’t), as we prepare to hunker down and wait out the rest of winter. I think that’s why I love Valentine’s Day so much. It breaks up an otherwise monotonous Midwest winter. When I was a kid, my mom always made sure we woke up to a special treat on Valentine’s Day—to this day, she still sends a card. I have a vivid memory of rounding the corner into the kitchen of the house I grew up in to find large gift baskets for my brother and me at our respective seats at the counter. Of course, Valentine’s Day was one of my favorite days of the school year, too—all those cute and creative cards from teachers and classmates. Picking out the perfect cards was so much fun. Now that I have little ones, I get to relive that joy all over again. Last year, I found some super cute Valentine’s cards online that said “You Brighten My Day,” and they came with some adorable sunglasses. This year, I’ve asked Annabelle what she wants to get for her friends at school, and she said “mermaid stickers,” so wouldn’t you know, I found some cute cards that say, “Valentine, You’re Fin-tastic.” They will be perfect for all her little friends. This issue is full of Valentine’s goodness for you: from our gift guide to our feature on Love Languages. Of course, we have our always inspiring She Glo(w)s, He Glo(w) and Glo Girl features, as well as important editorial about preventing skin cancer and keeping your finances in order. As always, we designed this issue just for you. If you have a story idea, I’d love to hear it. Email me anytime at ambouthot@the-papers.com.

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More style, less stress By Lauren Caggiano

Many are calling 2019 the year of minimalism, as we saw exhibited in the popularity of Marie Kondo’s tidying up method. Why not carry those sensibilities into 2020, with a new way to approach curating your personal style? shutterstock.com

Enter the capsule wardrobe. A capsule wardrobe is a practice of editing your wardrobe down to staples that fit your lifestyle and body right now, mixing them up regularly, and shopping less often and more intentionally. The key word here is “intention.” Because when being mindful, the process of buying new clothes or getting dressed slows down and becomes more conscious. For example, a small collection of items, including clothing, jewelry, accessories and shoes, encourages you to wear your favorite things every day. A smaller wardrobe can be interpreted as an act of rebellion of sorts. We live in a culture that places value on more. Oftentimes that results in a closet full of clothes that we may never wear or even like. So in this way, a smaller more genuinely you wardrobe is the way to go. But how small is small? Minimalist expert and author Courtney Carver of “Be More With Less” 8

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has a few recommendations. She said it’s critical to find and hone your own style and care less about societal norms. From here, she suggests picking 33 items (including shoes, accessories, and jewelry) for each season. If you have a different wardrobe for work, you may want to do two smaller capsule wardrobes to encompass more items. Kelly Benton, a working mother of two in Fort Wayne, was an early adopter of the capsule wardrobe. She said the benefits derived were mainly psychological in nature. “It really took away the guilt of getting dressed every day,” she said. “My weight has fluctuated a lot over the years, but I find it hard to get rid of clothes that are too small. When I set up my capsule wardrobe, I put everything that was too small or didn’t fit in a bin and put it out of sight. When I went to get dressed every day, I knew

that I’d be happy with any item I chose, and that it would fit me well. No more staring at my closet and being reminded that I used to be a smaller size.” She also felt more disciplined when out shopping. “I’m more intentional about purchasing only clothes that I love,” she said. “When I’m in a dressing room wondering whether I should buy an item, I ask myself ‘do I LOVE this?’ If the answer is no, it goes back on the rack. I also learned what colors and patterns I’m really drawn to.” On that note, Benton has some words of advice: “You don’t have to stick to a certain number of clothes, but make sure you absolutely love every piece. If you put your other items away and don’t miss them after a couple months, donate them (without sorting through them first!).” a

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GLAM + STYLE | Beauty + Spa

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What’s the secret to turning heads in 2020? Local beauty experts share insights into how to elevate your image this year.

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A new cut can take your hair game to the next level. Jade Jackson, cosmetologist and nail technician with Southwest Hair & Day Spa, said styles of yesteryear are making a comeback. For example, the retro 1960s modified shag with fringe is hot. The jawline bob, worn in blunt and jagged-edge styles will dominate lookbooks, too. Wanting to go shorter? No worries. Jackson said pixie styles, from shagged to blunt and worn curly or straight, are having a moment. The same can be said for “the lived in french twist” reminiscent of the 1990s. Think looser rather than overly coiffed. Speaking of the 90s, she said it’s high time to embrace big scrunchies again -- much to the delight of VSCO girls. Beyond cut, color is another way to showcase your personality and accentuate your skin tone and eyes. “Silver trends continue in many variations,” said Jackson. “We also expect to see rooted beige tones, ginger colors, fiery red and red highlights.”

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For those wanting a more natural, subdued look, she said creamy chocolate browns are flattering and on-trend. Color shampoos, such as Pureology Best Blondes or Redken Graydiant, support the longevity of color, she added.

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Michelle Childs-Fernandez with the Hair Dept. has similar comments. She said 2020 will be the year of texture. Think the “rugged edgy look” of the 1990s. A shag and even a lob

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(long bob) with or without bangs can soften things up. Long stick straight hair made possible with extensions is all the rage, too. If you’re looking to your impact with color, Fernandez said icy tones are popular, but know that these tones require a special shampoo and conditioner for upkeep. She expects to see requests for honey blonde, because it’s a warmer alternative to the platinum look made popular by Lady Gaga and Gwen Stefani and the like in recent years. Going lighter doesn’t have to mean traditional either. Soft pastels like lilac and pink haven’t lost their appeal, according to Fernandez. You can even opt for dark pastel roots to add more dimension. Caramel and copper tones, either used in all-over color or highlights, provide a noticeable yet understated look. In general, the best cut and color combination is one that makes you feel most confident. Remember your stylist has your best interest at heart, so don’t be afraid to ask for advice. He or she can make sure you leave the salon feeling and looking like a million bucks. Own it, girl! a

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In some ways, Irene Paxia was born to lead Amani Family Services, a Fort Wayne-based social service organization that partners with immigrant and refugee families in Allen County. With dual citizenship in Italy and the United States of America, she knows firsthand the challenges — and joys — of merging different cultures. While Paxia grew up speaking Italian in her native country of Italy, she later grew to love English, the native language of her mother, a United States citizen living abroad. “I saw my mother’s struggle as she loved two countries: Italy and the United States,” said Paxia. As a child, she saw how hard it could be to navigate life in a new country. “I knew that my mother gave up a lot to live in Italy. Because of her, I believe that I don’t belong to just one country. I belong to the world.” But it wasn’t just Paxia’s dual citizenship that prepared her to lead Amani Family Services. Extensive training in French and Spanish, along with a master’s degree (Laurea) from the University of Bologna, Italy, in International Relations, provided the groundwork for a life-changing experience in sub-Saharan Africa, where she worked on an international peace mission as a translator.

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“I was really unprepared to see the war in the Congo. I left with a keen sense of obligation to take the words of those who pleaded for help to the rest of the world,” she said. That opportunity came, not just as the executive director of Amani, but also after extensive experience with the Red Cross and Office of Housing & Neighborhood Services for the City of Fort Wayne. And while neither Paxia nor her husband planned on living in Fort Wayne, she is glad to call this city home.

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“I feel fortunate to live in Fort Wayne and for the support the community has given our organization,” she said. Formerly Crime Victim Care, an organization founded in 2006, Amani serves more than 1,500 families and individuals from around the world who call Allen County home. Trained staff members work as cultural brokers, provide peer support groups, and partner with SCAN to provide families with home-based, weekly meetings to help them grow stronger. They also provide access to master’s level counseling and help clients who might be living in a violent home develop a safety plan.

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“I feel that I was called to serve this organization,” said Paxia. “I always tell people when they talk to me that we really do focus on the positives. Our name, which means peace in Kiswahili and aspirations or wishes in Arabic, really captures the spirit of our work in Allen County.” Amani also provides a nod to the language spoken by founder Dr. Saneta Maiko, originally from Kenya. “The new Amani brand has changed our name from what we were against to what we are for: fostering a spirit of belonging in Allen County. This is truly a great community.” a

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Manchester University student Katie Green is working hard to provide equal opportunities for students, regardless of their socio-economic status. From her experiences in student teaching to organizing a successful book drive, she is determined to provide educational resources for all. Green is passionate about everything she does. She is an Elementary Education Major with specializations in High Ability and Mild Interventions and spends countless hours visiting classrooms for her field placement hours. She has played on the Women’s soccer team for four years, serving as Captain for two years. Additionally, she has two campus jobs, attends regular meetings for the Student Education Association, and assists the university by talking to prospective students. Through her classes, visitation hours and student teaching, Green noticed a discrepancy in the materials and opportunities provided to her students. “It is no secret that areas that have higher incomes tend to have nicer schools, resources and higher paid teachers,” Green said, “Why is it that the students in these areas deserve more/better resources than students who may be living below the poverty level?”

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Fed up with inequality, Green contacted her local library and organized a book drive. The purpose was to provide books for the library and raise money for children’s programs. Green used social media, as well as the marketing expertise of her university athletic department, to promote the event at a football game and a double-header soccer game. The book drive was a huge success, ultimately collecting 640 books for the library. Green was ecstatic to present the books while reading a soccer story to the children. “I am constantly doing things, but they are all things I love to do,” Green explained when asked how she accomplishes so much, “I find a way to manage it all because of my passion for teaching, playing soccer and helping others.” She credits her professors, coaches and bosses with being flexible and helping her to achieve her goals. Her detailed planner also keeps her organized and able to accomplish her numerous activities. In five years, Green hopes to be teaching in her own classroom and working on her master’s degree. She dreams of one day becoming a principal, giving her the ability to impact a larger number of students. Finally, her passion for literacy and love of children’s literature has motivated her to write her own children’s book, a task she hopes to begin soon. “Students, no matter their gender, race, culture or socioeconomic status, deserve to have a quality education that puts them on the path for success,” Green expounded. “That path does not always mean college, but the idea is that they deserve equal resources in order to achieve THEIR own goals.” a

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Down the way where the nights are gay / and the sun shines daily on the mountaintop/ I took a trip on a sailing ship / and when I reached Jamaica I made a stop… Drop by the Fort Wayne Rescue Mission and you just might hear the strains of “Jamaican Farewell” echoing through the halls if Senior Pastor Donovan Coley, CEO of the Rescue Mission, is exercising his vocal chords as he works.

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Currently, Coley is involved in the Rescue Mission’s new 80,000 square-feet facility that will be finished this summer. “It will be called Fort Wayne Rescue Mission Ministries,” he said, and added that the new facility will be more than a shelter. “We will be moving from a 114-bed facility and the additional use of cots to a 325-bed facility” he explained. “The community will be served by a state-of-the-art Community Resource Center for city residents made up of the poor, near homeless and homeless who will be given access to resources by a number of approved agencies. An outreach emergency shelter will be available for up to 25 individuals who are not ready for admission to a recovery program but who need crisis intervention.

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Born in Kingston Town, Jamaica, Coley, who came to Fort Wayne in 1982, has sung in operas, choirs and in solo performances. After enrolling in Jamaica Theological Seminary, he came to the Fort Wayne Bible College, which became Taylor University, to continue his education. He then obtained his Master of Arts degree in Christian Studies at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School.

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“A third significant use of the building will be to house Indiana Wesleyan University courses that will directly benefit the residents and staff of The Rescue Mission at a discounted rate. “There will be a Parkview Clinic, as well, staffed by nurses and social workers for use by Rescue Mission Program residents, including a ‘Green Space’ on the third-floor balcony. “Since 1903, we have chosen not to accept government funding to support the work of the Rescue Mission, as to freely share the hope, love and Gospel of Jesus Christ unhindered. However, we consider ourselves to be a community resource and will partner with government agencies for the good of society as a whole. This calls upon us to maintain a good working relationship with City officials. The Rescue Mission partners with City government and other agency partners to be the warming and cooling shelters for the City of Fort Wayne.” When asked what saddened him, Coley said, “The callousness by which we devalue human life from the womb to the tomb. As a person of African descent, I am brought to tears when I see the vast injustice and inequality meted out to people of color that still stains the American fabric and psyche.” Coley has been married to Grace for 37 years and is blessed with 4 adult children, 2 sons-in-law and “the 2 cutest grandchildren on the planet.” “I am a strong believer in the Westminster Shorter Catechism’s answer to the question, what is the chief end of man? The answer is simply: ‘To glorify God and to enjoy Him forever.’ This has shaped my thinking and actions for many years,” he said. a | FEBRUARY GLO 2020 |

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Valentine’s Day by Jaclyn Youhana Garver

When it’s time to pick a treat for your sweet or your bestie this Valentine’s Day, there’s no need to look anywhere but your own backyard. Fort Wayne and northeast Indiana are home to so many specialty shops and boutiques, which is ideal when it’s time to pick out that perfect something.

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“Plus, shopping local supports our home,” said Michael Galbraith, president of Fort Wayne’s Downtown Improvement District. “We want to ensure that we preserve what makes us such a great place to live, work and play,” he said. “When we support one another by shopping local, we invest in the future of our shared community, and we make a commitment to embrace what is uniquely us.” Here are some of our favorite spots to shop local this Valentine’s Day:

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Poptique Popcorn, with locations in Columbia City and Fort Wayne, can be as customized as you like. Does your significant other have a major sweet tooth? Opt for Frosted Cinnamon Roll or Birthday Cake popcorn. Can you always find your best friend with his hand in a bag of salty chips? He might like Dill Pickle or Buffalo Hot Wing. Poptique’s website boasts 20 flavors, so you can select a gift as traditional (Cheddar Cheese) or creative (Cotton Candy) as you like. Plus, Poptique packaging can be personalized. Select a custom gift tin, or put your own photo on a bag.

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Pick up a gift certificate to let your girlfriend or wife choose what she needs, come prepared with her size or even browse Barbara’s other gifts, including jewelry, loungewear and handbags.

Lyn-Maree’s Boutique in Auburn has an ever-changing selection, and its stylists can help you select a perfect gift, such as a handbag in her signature color or a cozy sweater with her new favorite pair of earrings. Nearly one full wall of the store is devoted to gold and silver baubles, so whether she prefers bold, statement jewelry or small, classic pieces, you’ll find something in her taste. a

Resources: Barbara’s New Beginnings, Fort Wayne, 260.432.9939, barbarasnewbeginnings.com Eichhorn Jewelry, Decatur, 260.724.2621, eichhornjewelry.com Lyn Maree’s Boutique, Auburn, 260.333.0238, lyn-marees.com Poptique, Fort Wayne and Columbia City, 877.633.5400, store.poptiquepopcorn.com

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by a spouse who never praises you but gives you undivided attention and plans daylong, shared activities.

FEATURE | Feature Focus

Want to know your love language—and that of your significant other? Look no further than Chapman’s website, 5lovelanguages.com. Here, you can take a brief “love language” quiz, learn more about each love language and gain practical tips on how to shower that special someone with love in a way that is deeply personal and highly fulfilling. Otherwise, you might just be speaking Mandarin to someone whose native tongue is Swahili. No matter how compelling your message, they may never receive the full impact of your words. To prevent such miscommunication, here’s a quick 4-1-1 on the five languages of love:

WORD OF AFFIRMATION This person thrives on praise. Insults can leave this person feeling worthless, but kind, encouraging words bring life and joy.

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ACTS OF SERVICE Mopping the floor might not be romantic to you, but offering to ease the burden of someone who speaks this love language will make them feel valued in ways that diamonds never will.

LANGUAGES by Mary Jane Bogle

Whether we’re living as singles or are deeply committed to a lifelong partner, everyone longs for meaningful connections. Making those connections and keeping them strong, however, are two different stories entirely. Most people have experienced that magnetic pull to another person, only to discover that the passion fades with time. But what if you could renew that spark without the angry silences, confused conversations or hurt feelings? The answer, of course, is that you can. You just need to learn how to speak a new language. While that task might sound overwhelming, learning the five basic love languages is actually much simpler than your days in high school French, Spanish or German class. First developed by marriage counselor Gary Chapman in 2007, the “love language” concepts have saved countless relationships and spun off to include books for couples, singles, military families, kids and teens. 22

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According to Chapman, different people express love in different ways. Whether through Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time or Physical Touch, most people prefer at least one love language to all the others— and that’s where things get interesting. Most of us give love the way we want to receive it. Unfortunately, few relationships match love language to love language, which means you might be showering your significant other with gifts, when what they really want is for you to offer to do the dishes or clean up the playroom. Likewise, you might long for encouragement and words of affirmation, only to be frustrated

RECEIVING GIFTS For this person, it’s not just the gift but the care and thoughtfulness behind it that matter most.

QUALITY TIME Turn off the TV, ignore the phone and put the rest of the world on hold if you want to touch this person’s heart.

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FEATURE | Health

Reducing Your Risk of

Skin Cancer By Hillary Knipstein

Sunscreen is the last thing on many women’s minds during the cold winter months. A frightening experience with skin cancer has thrust sunscreen—and associated preventive care measures-- to the top of glo account executive Melinda Musselman’s priority list.

Although Musselman has always been diligent about applying sunscreen and staying out of the sun, she started prioritizing a careful watch on existing moles and yearly skin exams as part of her preventative health routine as she entered her 40’s. She’s lucky she did. She noticed a mole, which a biopsy confirmed was melanoma. Because of her diligence, her physician was able to quickly address the issue with a quick, relatively non-invasive procedure.

Area dermatologists agree. Anne Elhassnaoui with Fort Wayne Dermatology indicates that full body skin exams are the key tool for detecting skin cancer. Although everyone could benefit from these routine exams, those with a personal or family history of skin cancer, or those with a history of tanning should consider them a priority. The screen itself is painless and involves the provider visually examining skin and feeling any existing lesions.

“It’s crazy to think that if I had let it go, it could have been a lot worse,” she said. Indeed, according to the Skin Cancer Foundation, more than two people in the United States die of skin cancer every hour.

While scheduling regular exams is key, some warning signs require immediate attention. If you notice new or changing moles or bleeding lesions, see a dermatologist right away, so that the area can be examined (and possibly removed or biopsied). Detecting skin cancer early has huge benefits, including a better cosmetic outcome and a reduced chance of spreading. Treatment for skin cancer can include chemo creams, scraping or excision (cutting out affected areas of skin).

After this experience, Musselman has become a sort of evangelist for the prevention and early detection of skin cancer. In addition to other measures, she visits her dermatologist for an exam every six months, religiously applies (and re-applies sunscreen), wears a hat, and stays out of the sun when she can. “It’s a simple thing to do. Just be diligent,” she advised.

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While detecting skin cancer as early as possible is important, it’s only half of the battle. Taking steps to reduce the risk of skin cancer is even more crucial. Elhassnaoui recommends the following daily practices to reduce risk factors: • Try to stay in the shade between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m. • Avoid tanning and sunburn. • Never use UV tanning beds. • Cover up with clothing, including hats and sunglasses. • Use a broad spectrum (UVA/UVB) sunscreen with an SPF of 15+ every day. For extended outdoor activity, choose a water-resistant sunscreen with an SPF of 30+. Any general sunscreen with an SPF of 30+ will do the job. However, for a full-body sunscreen, Elhassnaoui recommends the CeraVe brand. Additionally, some facial moisturizers have sunscreen built in. Elhassnaoui recommends SkinMedica Total Defense and Repair, SkinMedica Mineral Defense or Jan Marini Antioxidant SPF. While you’re imagining warmer weather this winter (or waiting for that self tanner to dry), take some time to schedule a routine skin exam with a derphotos: shutterstock.com matologist. Your life may depend on it. a

Resource: Fort Wayne Dermatology, Fort Wayne, 260.436.8000, fwderm.com

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FEATURE | Finances

EDITION

By Cathy Shouse

When we think of Valentine’s Day, we first think of romance with our significant other. Yet the holiday has endless possibilities to extend love to our children, parents, siblings and friends. So, what can we give? Cards, candy and baked goods are always fun. Yet, why not give something of more value? By giving ourselves the gift of sound finances, our loved ones benefit a great deal, as well. That’s because issues with money can be a factor in all of our relationships. It’s well-researched that money problems strain marriages. But there’s more to consider.

Ric Runestad, president, CEO and investment advisor at Runestad Financial Advisors, LTD, shared his thoughts: As we enter the month of February, we are doing a restart on our New Year commitments. For many people, that means arranging their finances to allow themselves to get ahead instead of simply falling further behind. February is the shortest month, but it is also a very cold month. This may be a good time to save money for times when it makes sense to do more activities, such as during the summer. Just as a box of chocolates comes with many different flavors, not all investors are the same. Each of us finds ourself in a unique situation. We need to assess where we are, why we are there, where we want to be, and how we can get ourselves to that place. For many people, that will mean having to become more judicious in our purchases. “Do I really need this, and if so, should I save up until I have the money to buy it or should I just put it on credit?” One of the best tactics for financial self-control is simply to question in detail why it is that we want to part with our money to buy something. Just remember, there is nothing sweeter than having your financial house in order. It gives you peace of mind and the confidence to do the things you want to do in life. Regardless, the most important thing in life is our relationships. Investing in them during this wintery time is always the way to get the best long-term returns. a

Who do we go to when we need a loan? Maybe friends and family members. When we’re invited out to dinner or a movie, will we be able to pay our own way?

Five benefits of better money management: • Less stressful everyday living • Better role modelling and influence on others • Reduced worry on our behalf by loved ones • More optimistic outlook • Possibility of helping others financially

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When the opportunity came up for Courtney Rawlinson to go to Japan, she hesitated. It had never been a place she’d been interested in visiting, but her boyfriend’s family invited her. They have longtime family friends there, and the more they discussed their trip, the more excited she became. Now? “It was the coolest thing I’ve ever done,” she said. She spent two weeks in October touring three Japanese cities: Tokyo, the country’s capital; Kyotango, 250 miles west of Tokyo; and Kyoto City, Japan’s former capital and one of the country’s largest cities.

SHRINES Japan famously boasts an estimated 80,000 shrines, and Rawlinson visited Fushimi Inari Taisha, a famous Shinto shrine in southern Kyoto. The shrine is made up of a series of thousands of arches — called torii gates — that snake up Mount Inari.

THE CITIES Tokyo is a city of more than 37 million people, nearly 4 ½ times the population of New York City. Which might make it unexpected that Rawlinson noted the city’s cleanliness. “There was no litter anywhere,” she said. “There were no trashcans. People would not eat and walk or drink and walk. They would go sit down somewhere to do that so they wouldn’t have trash.” Her trip’s highlight, she said, was Kyotango. The countryside provided beautiful scenery, a mixture of the beach and mountains. The city isn’t terribly populated, she said — not even 52,000 people, about a fifth the population of Fort Wayne.

THE FOOD Everything you’ve heard about the seafood in Japan is true. “It was the freshest seafood I think I’ll ever have in my life,” she said. “Kind of puts sushi in the States to shame.” Rawlinson especially loved monja, a mixture of egg, cabbage and seafood —even though it’s not the most appealing looking. A “Time Out Tokyo” story about how to eat monja, or monjayaki, shared a photo and asked, “We know what you’re wondering — did we steal this photo from Martha Stewart’s recent Twitter stream of unappealing food pics?” Go ahead and look it up — you’ll see what they meant.

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AN EYE-OPENING TRIP Rawlinson studied abroad in Ireland in college, and she has been to Cancun, but neither overseas trip prepared her for Japan. The culture is exceedingly different from America’s, as is what is deemed polite, Rawlinson said. The Japanese Times discusses the word teinei, Japanese for “polite.” Its meaning goes far beyond the English definition because it applies to more than people’s actions. “In Japanese, you can treat a fragile item ‘politely,’ meaning ‘gently’ or ‘with care,’” according to the Times. “A birthday present should be wrapped ‘politely.’” The writer of the piece, Amy Chavez, even noted that recently, a friend complimented her cat for using her litter box so politely, meaning “clean and orderly.” Even though there was an obvious language barrier, Rawlinson said she could communicate with some Japanese speakers. “That part was very surprising: that you know so little but you can kind of relate and have things in common,” such as the importance of family, she said. “They try to show they respect American culture, and we did the same thing to them.” a

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This exclusive event will feature a Greek-themed night of food booths from your local favorites, wine tasting and interactive activities. Food stations are being provided by Fort Wayne favorites like Bistro Nota, Casa’s, Club Soda, Salsa Grille, Hoppy Gnome, Portillo’s, Courtney’s Bakery, Pembroke Bakery and Zianos. Club Soda is supplying the cash bar.

Enjoy activities throughout the evening – including a “She Nailed It” and “He Nailed It” nail-pounding competitions with exciting prizes. A fun interactive night is planned to include 11 community female leaders called Goddess Contractors and handpicked teams who will rehab items to be voted on and auctioned off the night of the event. Some of these Goddess Contractors include Brenda Gerber of Greater Fort Wayne, Inc.; Kim Carpenter of First Federal; Stephanie Veit of Hagerman; and Robin Mack of Vera Bradley. Tickets for ReStore Your Passion are no longer available as the event is SOLD out. For more information, visit https:// habitatgfw.com/restore-your-passion/. ReStore Your Passion fundraises for Habitat’s Women Build campaign that engages and empowers women through volunteering, fundraising and advocacy on behalf of hardworking families seeking affordable homeownership. The 2020 Women Build will run April 18 through May 30. a

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We are gearing up for another successful Women Build in 2020 and want YOU to come alongside Habitat for Humanity to build community together. Women Build engages and empowers women through volunteering, fundraising and advocacy on behalf of hardworking families seeking affordable homeownership through Habitat. If you are interested in putting together a team of five ladies to help out during Women Build April 18 through May 30 or support through sponsorship opportunities,e-mail womenbuild@habitatgfw.com for more information.

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ALL ABOUT YOU | TO-DO LIST

Februaryto-do list . . . By Ray Balogh

1- March 1 | selected dates | Pokagon Toboggan Run Quarter-mile refrigerated run. Sleds available firstcome, first-served. $13/hr. per toboggan; $7 entrance fee (in-state), $9 (out-of-state). 5:30 p.m.-9 p.m. Friday, 10:30 a.m.-9 p.m. Saturday, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Sunday. Open 11 a.m.-5 p.m. President’s Day, Monday, Feb. 17. 450 Ln 100 Lake James, Angola. 260.833.2012, tobogganrun.com.

2 | Sunday | Mather Sunday Lecture Series Anthony L. Conley “War as a Tool for Group Uplift: African Americans and War, Part II, 1941-1975.” Free admission. 2 p.m., The History Center, 302 E. Berry St., Fort Wayne. 260.426.2882, fwhistorycenter.com.

2 | Sunday | Flea Market Nearly 100 indoor vendors, hot food available. Sponsored by the Adams County Coin Club. 8 a.m.-3 p.m., Riverside Center, 231 E. Monroe St. (Highway 224 East), Decatur. Contact Carla at 260.517.8182, facebook.com/decaturindianafleamarket.

4,11,18, 25 | Tuesday | “Little River Ramblers” Hike and explore the interesting plants and wildlife of Eagle Marsh. Bring binoculars for a close-up view. Sponsored by Little River Wetlands Project. Free admission. 9 a.m.-11 p.m., Eagle Marsh barn, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne. 260.478.2515, info@lrwp.org, lrwp.org.

6 | Thursday | Volun-beer Help Little River Wetlands Project clean seeds collected from the marsh. 6 p.m.-8 p.m., Hop River Brewing Company, 1515 N. Harrison St., Fort Wayne. 260.478.2515, lrwp.org.

7 | Friday | First Friday Live entertainment, food, kid’s activities, shopping, evening specials and more. Free admission. 5 p.m.-8 p.m., downtown Wabash. 260.563.0975, wabashmarketplace.org.

8 | Saturday | Artisan Craft Market Local artisans, professional artists, gourmet cupcakes, handmade items, more. 9 a.m.-1 p.m., Riverside Center, 231 E. Monroe St., Decatur. 260.724.7171, decaturin.org.

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8,15 | Saturday | Eagle Watch Listen to a short program on Indiana’s bald eagles and caravan to Indiana’s largest documented winter roost and watch the eagles come in for the evening. Free admission. 3 p.m. until dark. Meet at the Upper Wabash Interpretive Center, Salamonie Lake, 3691 S. New Holland Road, Andrews. 260.468.2127, in.gov/dnr/parklake.

13 | Thursday | “Breakfast on the Marsh: Through the Eyes of Doc and His Carvings” Guest speaker: Little River Wetlands Project’s longtime friend, Dr. Lawrence Wiedman, who has been carving for more than 37 years. For 50 years and older. A light breakfast will be served. Call to preregister. Free admission. 8:30 a.m.-9:45 a.m., Indiana Wesleyan Education & Conference Center, Room 102/104, 8211 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. Register with Aly Munger at a.munger@lrwp.org or 260.478.2515, lrwp.org.

13 | Thursday | “Homespun Fun: Rag Dolls and Teddy Bears” Hand arts program. 9 a.m.-11:30 a.m. Registration and refreshments 9 a.m.-9:30 a.m. $20 includes project materials. Swinney Homestead, 1424 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. Reservations at 260.432.7314 or 260.747.1501, settlersinc.org.

15 | Saturday | “ECK Wisdom on Soul Travel” First class of a three-month book discussion (second class March 14, third class to be announced). Where do you go when you dream or daydream? Learn about Soul Travel, a natural process that opens the door to the incredible universes where we truly live and have our being. Presented by Eckankar. Free admission, free book while supplies last. 11 a.m.-12:30 p.m., Meeting Room B, Allen County Downtown Library, 900 Library Plaza, Fort Wayne. 260.466.3823, eckankar.org.

15 | Saturday | “Public Hike: Winter Hike” Join Beth Ricketts and Indiana Native Plant Society to experience the winter season in the wetlands. Dress for the weather, waterproof boots recommended. Free admission. 2 p.m.-3:30 p.m., meet at Boy Scout office parking lot, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne. 260.478.2515, lrwp.org.

15 | Saturday | Big Band Sound Music of Glenn Miller, Duke Ellington, others. $10. 7:30 p.m.-9 p.m., Stroede Center for the Arts, 319 Wayne Ave., Defiance. 419.784.3401, defiancearts.org.

19 | Wednesday | “Short Hikes for Short Legs: Animals in Winter” Learn about all the animals that tough out cold Indiana winters. Free admission, open to children 3-5 accompanied by responsible adult. 9 a.m.-10 a.m., Eagle Marsh barn, 6801 Engle Road, Fort Wayne. 260.478.2515, lrwp.org.

20 | Thursday | Town and Gown: Presentations about Defiance History “Friends in High Places: Highlights from the Correspondence of DC President Kevin McCann,” presented by Barb Sedlock, Defiance College archivist. Free admission. 7 p.m.-8 p.m., Schomburg Auditorium, Defiance College, 701 N. Clinton St., Defiance, Ohio. 419.782.0746, defiance.edu. Would you like to submit an event to be considered for glo’s To-Do List? Our deadline is the 6th of the month prior to publication. E-mail us your event 40 words or less to: rbalogh@the-papers.com. Please type ‘To-Do List’ in the subject line. Or you may mail info to glo, P.O. Box 188, Milford, IN 46542.

Botanical Observatory • “Dog Days of Winter” garden exhibit (through April 12), regular admission • Saturday, Feb. 8, Doggie Daze Craze, 10 a.m.-3 p.m. Regular admission Adults $5, children (3-17) $3, children (2 and under) free. 10 a.m.-5 p.m. Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday; noon-4 p.m. Sunday; closed Monday. 1100 S. Calhoun St., Fort Wayne. 260.427.6440, botanicalconservatory.org.

Embassy Theatre • • • •

Wednesday, Feb. 5, “Fiddler on the Roof,” 7:30 p.m., $70/$50/$35 Thursday, Feb. 13, Pink Droyd, 7 p.m., $39/$25 Wednesday, Feb. 19, The Metta Quintet, 7:30 p.m., $15 Wednesday and Thursday, Feb. 26 and 27, “Star Wars: A New Hope” in concert, 7:30 p.m., $75/$55/$45/$25 125 W. Jefferson Blvd., Fort Wayne. 800.745.3000, fwembassytheatre.org.

Memorial Coliseum • Thursday-Sunday, Jan. 30-Feb. 2, Fort Wayne RV and Camping Show, 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Thursday through Saturday, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Sunday • Tuesday, Feb. 4, Korn & Breaking Benjamin with special guest Bones UK, 7 p.m., $89/$79/$69/$59/$39 • Saturday, Feb. 8, WMEE Baby Fair & Family Expo, 9 a.m.-3 p.m., free admission • Thursday-Sunday, Feb. 13-15, Fort Wayne Boat Show, 3 p.m.-9 p.m. Thursday and Friday, 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Saturday, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Sunday • Thursday, Feb. 20, Winter Jam Tour Spectacular 2020, 7 p.m., $15 donation at the door • Saturday, Feb. 22, Fort Wayne Women’s Expo, 10 a.m.-5 p.m. • Thursday-Sunday, Feb. 27-March 1, Fort Wayne Home & Garden Show, 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Thursday through Saturday, 11 a.m.-5 p.m. Sunday • Thursday-Sunday, Feb. 27-March 1, Disney on Ice presents “Dream Big,” 7 p.m. Thursday and Friday; 11 a.m., 3 p.m., 7 p.m. Saturday; 1 p.m. and 5 p.m. Sunday, $50.50/$40.50/$3 5.50/$30.50/$15.50 Parking $6 main lot, $10 preferred lot. Allen County War Memorial Coliseum, 4000 Parnell Ave., Fort Wayne. 260.482.9502, memorialcoliseum.com.

Honeywell Center • • • • •

Friday, Feb. 7, The Simon & Garfunkel Story, 7:30 p.m., $45/$35 Sunday, Feb. 16, Northeast Indiana Premier Bridal Spectacular, 1 p.m.-4 p.m., $5 Tuesday, Feb. 18, “Riverdance” 25th Anniversary Show, 7:30 p.m., $100/$60/$50 Wednesday, Feb. 19, “Dog Man the Musical,” 10 a.m. and noon, $10 Friday and Saturday, Feb. 28 and 29, “The Invention of Morel,” an opera composed by Stewart Copeland, 7:30 p.m., $20 general admission Ford Theater, 275 W. Market St., Wabash. 260.563.1102, honeywellcenter.org.

Niswonger Performing Arts Center • Saturday, Feb. 1, Winter Dance Party, 7:30 p.m., $35/$30/$25 • Friday, Feb. 14, “The Greatest Love of All: A Tribute to Whitney Houston” starring Belinda Davids, 7:30 p.m., $55/$45/$35 • Sunday, Feb. 23, An Evening of Love Songs with Jim Brickman & Melissa Manchester, 7:30 p.m., $65/$55/$45 • Saturday, Feb. 29, Little Texas, 7:30 p.m., $45/$40/$35/$30/$25/$20 10700 SR 118, Van Wert. 419.238.6722, npacvw.org.

Fort Wayne Museum of Art

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PPG New Haven – 1331 Minnich Rd, New Haven DeBrand Fine Chocolates – 10105 Auburn Park Dr, Fort Wayne Manchester University – 604 E College St, North Manchester Cardinal Family Medicine – 225 Hauenstein Rd, Huntington Cedarville Elementary – 12225 Hardisty Rd, FW 46845 Prince Chapman Academy – 4808 E Paulding Rd, Fort Wayne New Haven Jr/Sr High School – 1300 Green Rd, New Haven Hamilton Community School – 903 S Wayne St, Hamilton Mainstream Boutique – 4210 W Jefferson Blvd, Fort Wayne Parkview Noble Center for Healthy Living – 401 E Diamond St, Kendallville Shindigz – 101 Carroll Rd, South Whitley Georgetown Place – 1717 Maplecrest, Fort Wayne

Exhibitions • Glass Sculpture from the Collection (ongoing) • Planes, Trains & Automobiles: Classic Toys and Americana (ongoing) • More Than Four Walls: Photographs by Lucy Bell Seaton (through Feb. 16) • David Shapiro: Transcendent Abstractions (through Feb. 16) • Margaret Burroughs: Faces of My People (through Feb. 23) • Theotokos: Contemporary Visions of Mary by Elly Tullis (through March 8) • Beginning Saturday, Feb. 22, Woolgatherers: Paintings by Heather Day (through May 31) Adults $8, students (pre-K through college) $6, seniors (65 and older) $6, families $20, free admission for veterans and veterans’ families, free general admission 5 p.m.-8 p.m. every Thursday. 10 a.m.-6 p.m. Tuesday, Wednesday, Friday, Saturday; 10 a.m.-8 p.m. Thursday; noon-5 p.m. Sunday (closed Mondays), 311 E. Main St., Fort Wayne. 260.422.6467, fwmoa. org.

Shipshewana Blue Gate Theatre • Saturday, Feb. 1, Mylon Hayes Family, 2 p.m., $19.95 show, $37.95 dinner and theater • Friday, Feb. 7, Darryl Worley, 7 p.m., $44.95 show, $62.95 dinner and theater • Saturday, Feb. 8, The Return — The Ultimate Beatles Experience, 2 p.m. and 7 p.m., $34.95 show, $52.95 dinner and theater • Thursday-Saturday, Feb. 13-15, Valentines Celebration with Ken Davis, 7 p.m. each night, $139.50/couple dinner and theater • Friday, Feb. 21, Doug Kershaw, 7 p.m., $39.95 show, $57.95 dinner and theater • Saturday, Feb. 22, Mark Schultz, 7 p.m., $29.95 show, $47.95 dinner and theater • Friday, Feb. 28, Karen Peck & New River, 7 p.m., $24.95 show, $42.95 dinner and theater • Saturday, Feb. 29, Mark Trammell Quartet, 4 p.m., $24.95 show, $42.95 dinner and theater 175 N. Van Buren St., Shipshewana. 888.447.4725, thebluegate.com. a | FEBRUARY GLO 2020 |

FEBRUARY 2020

By Julie Young

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

It’s time to find a new relationship, my dear Aquarius. Let’s face it, you’ve been babysitting someone who is never going to grow up, and you can no longer make excuses for their immature behavior. You can do better.

Are you in a relationship rut? This Valentine’s Day, get a little experimental. A little creativity can go a long way, and if you give yourself permission to play, the passion will follow; provided everyone is on board.

Pisces (February 19 - March 20)

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

You may not “love” going out, but there are a number of reasons to do something special for Valentine’s Day. Don’t miss out on all of the festivities. There could be a romantic surprise waiting for you when you least expect it.

Aries (March 21 - April 19) When you stay in the same lane for years, the result is a small and not very creative existence. This month, let your heart be your guide, and you may discover a whole new world that you never noticed before. Life can be a richer experience than you ever imagined.

Taurus (April 20 - May 20) When you do what you love, the benefits follow. If you are stuck in a professional rut, then it is time to make a change. Retrain for a career that will give you the satisfaction (and paycheck) you deserve, or take on a new responsibility in your current position. Make a move toward fulfillment.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

Every rose has its thorn, so when you accept that bouquet on February 14, be sure to look for the hidden dangers. Though the outside package may appear perfect, no one is without his or her flaws. Look before you leap.

Libra (September 23 - October 22) You’ve been wondering if the person you are seeing is the right one for you and this month, you will get an answer. Don’t ignore the obvious and go forward with confidence, as a couple or as a solo act.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21) You have to learn to love yourself before you can give your heart to another. Past pains still sting and no one wants to bring old baggage into a new relationship. You may still be in a winter of discontent, but things will look up in the spring. Be ready for big changes.

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

When it comes to your love life, don’t make the same mistake over and over. Recognize the pattern you tend to fall into and avoid those relationships once and for all. Your soul mate is waiting.

Adventure is in the air this Valentine’s Day, so throw caution to the wind and make it a night to remember. No matter if you are zip lining, planning to make it out of an escape room or dining in the dark, have fun and remember to laugh about the memories you will make.

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

If there is a power struggle in your love life, then it’s time to make an adjustment. You don’t have to be in control all the time. Learn to let go a little and you may be surprised how liberating it can be. Pick your battles and remember, you can’t win them all. 34

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Good things come to those who wait, so while you may be impatient for the big question this Valentine’s Day, it may not happen. Let the question “pop” in its own time and we promise, it will be the most romantic day (or night) of your life. a

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