Noble Savage Barbershop is an upscale, old-world class gentleman's barber shop that offers today's progressive man a haven to unwind, relax and experience the latest trends in the art of grooming in a masculine, lounge-style atmosphere.
The barber shop is a sacred space for men; it should provide an environment of care, comfort, and style. Newly opened in Bay Shore, Noble Savage Barbershop was designed to offer luxury grooming and spa services for men who want more than just a cut.
OUR VISION
The original idea for Noble Savage was actually conceived over fifteen years ago by two of the partners who were co-workers for many years. Working in the service industry, they both were well aware that good customer service was invaluable. While they enjoyed a good visit to the barber, they’d often agree they felt the overall experience was lacking; there was no place a guy could go to get a manicure/pedicure, facial, or his hair dyed and feel comfortable while having it done. The idea of a one-stop-shop for men was appealing to them. Discussions about one day opening an improved, full-service barber shop that offered salon-style amenities lead to the development of a mutual vision: to reinvigorate the barber shop space as one where men can come for a haircut, shave, spa treatment or other grooming service.
The vision took shape when they met their third partner… and the dream soon became a reality. While each partner brought something different to the table, the trio all shared a common vision. In fact, all three
were very much involved in the concept, design and building of the place.
THE EXPERIENCE
Noble Savage Barbershop is a gentleman’s retreat.
“It’s a place to relax and unwind,” mentions Cesar Torres, one of the partners. “It’s a place one can come and escape the day-to-day madness.”
Back in the day, a barber shop was known not only for a haircut and a shave, but also as a place to fraternize with friends and chew the fat. At Noble Savage, gentlemen can experience the atmosphere of a traditional, classic barber shop, and also enjoy the convenience and luxury of salon services in those surroundings. Boldly redefining
today’s barber shop, Noble Savage has kicked open the salon door, making services that are typically available to women now accessible to men, and provided in an environment that men feel completely comfortable in. The idea that facials, hair coloring, manicures and pedicures are just for women is a thing of the past. Men want to look their best; more and more men are scheduling services to achieve just that.
Recognizing that there were more salon services and spa treatments they wanted to be able to offer customers, the trio decided to partner with a well-established medical spa and wellness clinic. All Noble Savage spa treatments are administered on premises by professional, licensed aestheticians.
“To make a fine gentleman, several trades are required, but chiefly a barber.”
- OLIVER GOLDSMITH
In addition to their various benefits, facials, manicures, pedicures and massages are just simply relaxing. They do it all…even teeth whitening. Walk in like a savage, walk out like a nobleman.
To help eliminate common frustrations among many barber shops, Noble Savage has a hostess at the front desk who greets customers and will happily offer assistance with selecting services. Customers are also offered espresso, tea, a soft drink, or, for gentlemen of legal age, an alcoholic drink at their time of service.
Cocktails aside, Noble Savage is absolutely family-friendly and also caters to small savages. It is fast becoming quite the hot spot for stylish haircuts for boys of all ages. And, of course, women are also always welcome.
THE VIBE
The shop, situated neatly between Tullulah’s and Mitsui Japanese Restaurant on Fourth Avenue, has a “Dodge City in the late 1800’s” vibe to it, with their name ornately written in bold black letters across a clean wooden plank background.
The interior is reminiscent of an old-time look, with leather upholstery and wrought iron décor. Exposed brick and a striking image of the Brooklyn Bridge emit a more sleek, urbane atmosphere, which complements the old-time feel.
There are plans to add a lounge area to the space where customers can enjoy a complimentary cocktail or beverage prior to, or after, a scheduled service. Fitted with comfortable seating and large screen TVs, it will be a place to relax, read a magazine, or just share conversation.
Of course, characteristic of any worthy barber shop, there’s no shortage of personal advice to be offered when needed from this fellowship. They pride themselves on creating a community-friendly place, where customers feel more like family, and look forward to visiting regularly.
“We are proud to be a part of such a vibrant community and look forward to building longlasting relationships with our customers,” remarks Torres.
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4 Essentials for Long Island Men from Drew Patrick Spa
Must Go
What's Happening
14 Fairs & Fests
15 Adventures at Sea / Live Music Concerts
16 Outdoor Music Venues
Must Know
6 Ride in Style Cool BMW Updates
10 Spotlight on Arglye Grill & Barrique Kitchen
Best Friends & Partnerships
18 Lobster Roll Obsession Our Favorites
19 Brewed by the Bay Local Breweries on the South Shore
21 Yoga & Meditation What Men Don't Know About Yoga
As every gentleman knows, it’s ladies first, and so it was, our last issue celebrated women. Welcome, ladies and gents, to our summer issue… this one we dedicate to the guys.
We had lots of fun working on this issue, speaking to all our local businesses with our Long Island men in mind. We learned about the many quality products and services that are available to men.
A little fashion, new BMW models, coastal breweries, music venues…the list goes on. I’m pretty confident that you will find something that grabs you as you flip through the pages.
We are excited for you to read our cover story about Noble Savage Barbershop, which is not just any barber shop, it’s a gentleman’s retreat.
Our coastal magazine is committed to the neighboring towns surrounding the Great South Bay, and we love inspiring all our readers to enjoy living or visiting where we live.
We have all the essentials for summer: beautiful beaches, dockside dining, charming downtowns, and most important, really nice people.
In the summer, skin often gets darker while the hair becomes lighter; the sea gets bluer, music gets louder, drinks become colder. The Island we call home is at its best, and we are incredibly fortunate to enjoy island living.
To all the men, women and children who live, play or work in our area, enjoy summer by the bay.
See you at the beach!
COOL BMW UPDATES FOR HOT SUMMER FUN
BMW is all about refinement and excellence, so it’s no surprise that the German automaker is rolling out some updated models for your summer driving pleasure. These cool new BMWs have hot tech and luxurious touches that will truly make your summer shine.
Now take a look at what you have to look forward to on your next road trip—or drive to the store.
BMW 3 SERIES SEDAN
The BMW 3 Series Sedan boasts some aesthetic upgrades — like new Citrine Black metallic, Oxide Grey metallic, Frozen Dark Grey metallic, and Brilliant White metallic exterior color options. This exciting machine also comes in three new interior design packages, two of which feature leather trim with five color options.
BMW 5 SERIES
Thanks to a new V8 engine option and a plug-in hybrid mode, there’s a BMW 5 Series for every style of driver. The new V8 sports an optimized crankcase, larger turbochargers, and a maximum output of 530 horsepower and 750 lb-ft of torque. The plug-in hybrid variant gets a longer driving range and available intelligent all-wheel drive.
BMW M4 COUPE AND CONVERTIBLE
These sleek cars now come standard with the M Competition package. It includes a six-cylinder in-line engine with M TwinPower Turbo technology, which delivers 450 horsepower, an Adaptive M suspension system with electronically controlled dampers, a specialized configuration for the Dynamic Stability Control system, the Active M Differential, an M Sport exhaust system, and some aesthetic tweaks, like specially designed seats.
BMW is one of the world’s leading auto manufacturers when it comes to blending performance and luxury. This summer, witness the glory of these new vehicles at Habberstad BMW of Bay Shore, the place to find the coolest BMW updates perfect for Long Island’s hottest season.
These high quality, all weather Riomar Waterman mocs will take you from the beach to the boat to dinner without missing a beat.
Perfectly styled, TABS Bermuda shorts are designed for "stepping into summer" and come in a variety of colors to remind you to take a vacation from neutrals this summer.
FASHION MEETS FUNCTION
FROM DREW PATRICK SPA
Preppy meets beachy with ease in johnnie-O comfy, stylish 1/4 zips and pullovers. Great for the boat and beach.
Toast to the good life on your sailboat, yacht or from home, with Rolf School of Fish 14oz. Double Old Fashion Glasses. Coastal drinkware at its finest.
Timeless and stylish, these Old Kentucky Home Hammered Mule Mugs by Twine add rustic elegance to any bar or table.
Style meets function with needlepoint hats and belts that reflect your personality by Harding Lane.
Jack Black All-Over Wash is a travel bag essential for one-anddone when visiting friends this summer. This multipurpose, sulfate-free wash cleans and hydrates while being gentle enough for face, hair, and body.
Celebrate everything you love in a Fish Hippie t-shirt and shorts. Escape the mundane; find balance and be yourself in their casual style.
Rolf glassware makes every day a special occasion. Serve up a cool, spiked lemonade in Rolf's unique, affordable cut glasses.
Best Friends & Partnerships
While mixing friendship and business can be a recipe for disaster, some partnerships have all the right ingredients for success. Long-time friends and business partners of Argyle Grill and Barrique Kitchen and Wine Bar, Greg Bartolotta, Keith Hart, Dante Paganini & Billy Wolfe shared their story and secrets for success with us.
THE LIST: Can you tell us how long you’ve known each other and how you got together to start the business?
GREG: We all go way back to the early 80’s working in the hospitality business. In 1990, a mutual friend introduced Keith and I. Back then, I was a partner in a nightclub in East Meadow. Billy was bartending at Uncle Sam’s/Spit night club in Levittown, where Keith was previously the promotional manager, and then selling roses in all the local night clubs. When Uncle Sam’s closed, Keith was looking for a place to store his roses at the end of the night. Every Friday and Saturday night between 2am-4am, Keith would meet 20 or so “Rose Girls” at my night club to store the remaining roses. Obviously, we spent many late nights together, and formed a friendship that has lasted a life time.
Keith went on to manage John Anthony’s in Babylon, where he met Dante, who did the planning and design for both John Anthony’s and Coco’s in Huntington, and also reunited with Bill, who was bartending there.
Fast forward to the late 90’s, Bill was living in Babylon Village and noticed a building on Deer Park Avenue that was for sale. It housed a bar called Stillman’s.
Bill pitched the idea to Dante and Keith to purchase the building and put a new restaurant in the village. At the time, I still had the nightclub in East Meadow and was also partners in a restaurant called Hemingway’s in Wantagh. While visiting Babylon village, several times I noticed on any given night 10-20 people standing outside Kotobuki, the neighboring restaurant to Stillman’s, waiting for a table. It didn’t take long for me to realize this would be a great location for a restaurant…just the over flow from Kotobuki alone would be good business.
Bill, Keith and Dante decided to purchase of the building. At the time, they were all greats in the night club industry, but had limited restaurant experience, although Bill was an incredible host and cook in his own right. Keith asked me if I would be interested in partnering with them and I jumped at the opportunity.
In 1999 we purchased the building and built The Argyle Grill & Tavern. We will soon celebrate 20 years together
THE LIST: Why do you feel you make such good business partners?
GREG: We each had a specialty. Dante, the great designer. Keith promotions. Bill hospitality. And myself, the business aspect of the restaurant. Our businesses would have never succeeded if it was not for each of our individual efforts and select skill sets.
Our focus was to build a restaurant that had a great bar, not a bar that served good food. The restaurant was priority. We have gone on to open up two additional restaurants… Corbin and Reynolds located in Long Beach, which we sold in 2008, and Barrique Kitchen and Wine Bar in 2009 that we still own and operate along with The Argyle.
THE LIST: What’s your secret for keeping both the business and friendship successful?
GREG: The success of The Argyle has changed all our lives. What makes a great team/partnership is how we have welcomed each of our individual successes over the course of this partnership. We were friends first, and will continue to be friends for the rest of our lives, sharing individual milestones over the years. We have always found a solution for every problem as a team. Effort on all the partners has never lacked, we all want each of us to succeed and be happy.
THE LIST: If you guys had a night out or some time off together, where would you go, what would you do?
GREG: We love going to the Caribbean every winter… St. Martin, Anguilla and St. Bart’s. Locally, we chill on Fire Island, mostly Ocean Beach. We shoot over on Billy’s boat for dinner and sunset.
Retiring 3 years ago, original partner Dante Paganini still remains good friends with the group.
THE ARGYLE
MIGHTY MUSSEL MONDAYS
Big Bowl of Steamed Mussels served with Garlic Bread & Shoestring Fries with Chefs Pairing of a Glass of Wine $23.00 without Wine $17.00 (available after 5pm)
SEAFOOD TOWER TUESDAYS
Chilled 1 ¼ Lb. Lobster, Seared Tuna Carpaccio, 4 Shrimp, 4 Clams on the Half Shell, 4 Oysters on the Half Shell & Jumbo Lump Crabmeat served with a Trio of Sauces $34.00 (available all day)
WINE DOWN
WEDNESDAYS
½ Price Select Bottles Available All Day in our Bar and Dining Room (with the purchase of an entrée)
LOBSTER TAIL THURSDAYS
Cup of Lobster Bisque and Twin Lobster Tails or Surf & Turf with Potato & Vegetable $31.95 (available after 5pm) specials not available on holiday or during Long Island restaurant week
graduations and corporate events. Come and check it out!
Water View Dining
Outdoor Deck Dining
Indoor Dining - Climate Controlled
Upper level
Upper-Deck Rooftop Bar | Raw Bar
Reserve Rooftop For Private Cocktail Parties
Monday - Thursday
Light Fare Kitchen | Live Music (check website for schedule)
Come by land or by Sea
100’ floating dock to provide even more boat parking!
Open 7 Days
Happy Hour: Monday-Friday 4-7
Serving Lunch & Dinner: Mon-Sat, 11:30am-10:00pm
Dinner All Day: Sunday, 11:30am-10:00pm
Catering Available
2019 Summer Schedule
Our play times are Fridays & Saturdays 7 to 10 PM and Sundays 4 to 7 PM
JULY
4th of July
THURSDAY 7/4 Jet Stream
FRIDAY 7/5 That 70’s Band
SATURDAY 7/6 Run For Cover
SUNDAY 7/7 Pamela Betti Band
FRIDAY 7/12 Tradewinds
SATURDAY 7/13 Souls On Board
SUNDAY 7/14 The Hambones
FRIDAY 7/19 Ikabar Krane
SATURDAY 7/20 The Byrne Unit
SUNDAY 7/21 Three’s Accompany
FRIDAY 7/26 JET STREAM
SATURDAY 7/27 WILD HONEY
SUNDAY 7/28 SOUL PURPOSE
AUGUST
FRIDAY 8/2 Tradewinds
SATURDAY 8/3 The Byrne Unit
SUNDAY 8/4 Suburban Brother’s
FRIDAY 8/9 Spectrum Band
SATURDAY 8/10 4 Shades of Gray
SUNDAY 8/11 John Jason Band
FRIDAY 8/16 The Blend
SATURDAY 8/17 Pamela Betti Band
SUNDAY 8/18 Rapid Fire
FRIDAY 8/23 Souls On Board
SATURDAY 8/24 RUN FOR COVER
SUNDAY 8/25 Decadia
FRIDAY 8/30 Tradewinds
SATURDAY 8/31 Gypsy Fellons
SEPTEMBER
SUNDAY 9/1 Soul Purpose
Labor Day
MONDAY 9/2 Chuck Evans Band
Fairs & Fests
Every summer, Great South Bay local communities throw some of the best street fairs and music festivals around…so you can enjoy a fabulous summer by the Bay!
TUESDAYS, JULY 2, 16, & 30, AUG. 13 • 5:00-9:30PM
Alive by the Bay Festival Series Main Street, Bay Shore. Outdoor BBQ, great food & drinks, craft beer, arts & crafts, vendors, live music, kid activities, and a health & wellness area.
WEDNESDAY, JULY 3 • 1:00-4:30PM Children’s Main Street
July 4th Celebration
The Band Shell, Main Street, Bay Shore. Sponsored by Bay Shore–Brightwaters Public Library.
THURSDAY, JULY 11 & 25, AUG. 8
5:00-9:30PM
Alive after Five Main Street, Patchogue Village. Patchogue’s annual summer street fair with live music, food trucks, crafts, vendors and entertainment for the whole family.
THURSDAY, JULY 11
Babylon Beautification
Society Hosts BBQ by the Bay Babylon Village Pool, Fire Island Avenue S. Enjoy lobster tails, chicken, sausage, burgers, hot dogs, salads, desserts, unlimited premium beer, wine and soft drinks. Catered by the Babylon Village Meat Market. Live music by The Mangos. Proceeds will help fund Railroad Area Beautification Project. $75pp 21 and older - No children will be admitted. Photo ID required. For tickets go to babylonbbs.org.
FLYNN’S FIRE ISLAND
dinner cruise has been rocking the Great South Bay for more than 30 years. Music plays as the Moon Chaser - a party boat with two decks, dance floor and cash bar - sails to Flynn’s on Fire Island.
Live music, a festive atmosphere and an all-you-can-eat lobster buffet awaits at Flynn’s along with barbecued ribs, chicken, baked clams and more. Reservations at Flynn’s are required about two weeks in advance.
THURSDAY, JULY 18 & THURSDAY, AUG. 29 • 5:00-9:00PM
Babylon Village Block Party Deer Park Avenue, Babylon. Outdoor dining, live music, vendors, artisans, entertainment for the kids, and family fun for all!
JULY 26, 27 & 28; AUG. 2, 3, & 4 10:00AM-3:30PM Sagtikos in Bloom Juried Art Show Sagtikos Manor Historical Society and the Babylon Citizens Council on the Arts (BACCA) will be presenting an indoor art show featuring local artists during the manor house tours (house tour admission applies). Interested artists should contact the BACCA office, 631.587.3696.
FRIDAY-SUNDAY, AUG. 9-11
Sayville Summerfest Rides, games, live music, art exhibits, food, vendors, and a classic car show.
SATURDAY, AUG. 10 • 6:30PM
FI Lighthouse Barefoot Black Tie Gala FI Lighthouse. Includes a premium open bar,
catered dinner, live music from Tradewinds, majestic waterfront views, and a silent auction with 100% of the proceeds benefit the Fire Island Lighthouse. Tickets are limited! Visit fireislandlighthouseevents.com for more info.
SATURDAY & SUNDAY, AUG. 10-11
Ocean Beach Community Fund Fine Arts & Crafts Show Village Green, Ocean Beach, Fire Island. An extensive variety of handmade arts and crafts including jewelry, pottery, photography, candles, glass, hand knits and many more items.
SATURDAY, AUG. 17
Town of Babylon Beach Blast Overlook Beach, Babylon. A family-fun-filled afternoon of events including rides, games, face painting, music, and their famous Ice Cream Eating Contest. Topped off with their annual fireworks extravaganza at dusk.
SUNDAY FUNDAY King Wellington and DJ Epic Reggae Dance Party starts at 3pm
Adventures at Sea
SATURDAY & SUNDAY, JUNE 29 & 30 • 11:15AM-1:00PM
Sunken Forest Tour Sunken Forest, Fire Island (Sailor’s Haven ferry from Sayville). Explore Fire Island’s centuries-old, globally-rare holly maritime forest and its special blend of barrier island ecology during this guided 1.5 mile tour.
SUNDAY, JUNE 30
25th Annual Amityville Duke of Fluke Tournament
Comb’s Bait & Tackle, 74 Merrick Road, Amityville. Being held in memory of Denise Witchey, the driving force behind the tournament since its inception, who passed away earlier this year. Music, raffles, and awards ceremony and BBQ from 3:00-6:00pm during weigh-ins. Prizes for 1st-24th place.
FRIDAY, JULY 19 • 7:00AM
Maggie Fischer Memorial Cross Bay Swim Spectators can watch and cheer the 100 swimmers from Gilbert Park in Brightwaters. The swim serves as a chief fundraiser for the Hospice Care Network’s Bereavement Program and also goes toward a scholarship at St. Anthony’s in Maggie’s memory
SATURDAY & SUNDAY, AUG. 10-11 • 10:00AM-1:00PM
Snapper & Crab Derby Captree State Park, Ocean Parkway, NY Fishing Pier. Annual tournament held to encourage children 16 years old and younger to discover and enjoy fishing. Prizes are awarded to the heaviest snapper and crab caught. “Catch and Release” is encouraged. Awards ceremony at 1:30 pm each day.
SUNDAY, AUG. 11 • 6:00PM
Coastal Kitchen Sunset Cruise on the Moonchaser Live Music by The JHaus Band, open bar, plenty of great food and fun! For more info visit www.coastalliny.co
block party
All residing guests will be eligible to receive a 15% discount on all dining purchases at Henley’s during lunch and dinner. THE “Block Party “ RUNS TuEsday to Thursday EACH WEEK. We think it’s a great way to reward our loyal patrons and provide a gathering place for neighbors to share some laughs, drinks and grub together.
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LIVE MUSIC Outdoor Concerts
Babylon Village Free Summer Concert Series
FRIDAY EVENINGS • JUNE 28AUG. 30 • 8:00 PM Argyle Lake Park Gazebo. A perfect way to kick-off the weekend.
Long Beach Free Summer Concert Series JULY 2AUG. 29 • FOUR NIGHTS A WEEK • 8:00PM Riverside Blvd. Beach, Long Beach. Showcases a variety of music from classic rock to country. Bring a beach chair or blanket.
Summertime in the Park Concert Series at the Bay Shore Band Shell Presented by the Islip Arts Council with support from the Bay Shore Chamber of Commerce & BID. Program is subject to change. Free Brown Bag Lunch Concert Series TUESDAYS, JULY & AUGUST (STARTING JULY 9) • 12:30PM Bring your lunch and enjoy
a music filled afternoon.
The Bay ShoreBrightwaters Symphonic Band Concerts
WEDNESDAYS, JULY & AUG. • 7:30PM Enjoy classics, show tunes, pop music and more.
Summertime in the Park Concert Series at the Bayard Cutting Arboretum, Great River SUNDAYS, JULY & AUG. (STARTING JULY 21) • 2:00PM Presented by the Islip Arts Council with support from the Natural Heritage Trust, NYS Office of Parks, Recreation and Historic Preservation.
Town of Babylon Summer Concert Series at Tanner Park, Copaigue WEDNESDAYS AND FRIDAYS, JUNE 28 – AUG. 7 • 7:30PM The best tribute bands
covering music from the Beatles, Queen, Bruno Mars, Chicago and more.
The Fest 2019
WEDNESDAY, JULY 3 • 6:00PM Long Island Community Hospital Amphitheater at Bald Hill, Farmingville. Country music line-up featuring Lee Brice, Chris Janson, Caylee Hammack, and Drew Baldridge.
Great South Bay Music Festival THURSDAY-SUNDAY, JULY 18-21 Shorefront Park, Patchogue. Features approximately 60 performers representing various music genres. Artisan market with handcrafted goods, a diverse food court, beer and wine tent, and a KidZone for the little ones.
Islip Arts Council Philharmonic Concert in the Park SATURDAY, JULY 13 • 8:00PM Heckscher
State Park, East Islip. $10.00 parking fee. Celebrate the 50th Anniversary of the Apollo 11 Moon Landing with ''Lunar Landing Symphony'' at LI’s premiere free summer concert under the stars conducted by David Stewart Wiley. Artisan fair & food truck rally with fireworks spectacular at conclusion of concert.
LI Bluegrass & Roots Music Festival SATURDAY, AUG. 17 • 12:00-7:00PM Tanner Park, Copaigue. The 16th Annual Long Island Bluegrass & Roots Music Festival is 7 hours of continuous music in a beautiful setting on the Great South Bay. Bring a lawn chair and bug spray. Sleeping Beauty at Tanner Park SATURDAY & SUNDAY, AUG. 24 & 25 • 7:30PM Tanner Park, Copaigue. Presented by Lumiere Ballet of Bay Shore at the. Don’t forget your lawn chair and bug spray!
LET THE MUSIC PLAY
Outdoor Music Venues
Flynn's Fire Island Sunday Funday
Reggae with King Wellington & DJ Epic flynnsfireislandny.com/new-events
Heritage Club at Bethpage - Party in the Park
Under the Stars weather permitting Every Wednesday Night (no event July 3rd)
The LakeHouse
Bay Shore. Fridays, 3:30-6:30pm by outdoor fireplace lounge weather permitting, or inside in Taproom if raining facebook.com/TheLakeHouseRestaurant
Nicky's on the Bay
Bay Shore. Fridays & Saturdays 7-10pm • Sundays 4-7pm nickysonthebay.com, see calendar p13
Oakdale Yacht Club Tiki Bar
A seasonal Tiki Bar & Grill located at the Oakdale Yacht Club. Occasional Thusdays and Weekends. For full schedule of play dates oyctiki.com/events-1
Salt Shack
Everyday at 6pm • Sundays at 5pm At Cedar Beach, Ocean Parkway Babylon saltshackny.com/events
Mansion at Timber Point - Beach Bum Monday Great River. Every Monday Night. For all dates lessings.com
Seafood Fest at the Beach Pavilion at Sunken Meadow State Park, Fort Salonga. Live Music Every Wednesday
BBQ, Boots, & Brews
Pavilion at Sunken Meadow State Park, Fort Salonga. Live Country Music Every Thursday
LOCAL BANDS TO FOLLOW
Bobby Digital bookbobby.com/events
Rich Mahogany therichmahoganyband.com/events
Milagro Santana Tribute Band milagrolive.com/schedule
That 70’s Band that70sbandlive.com/schedule.html
Tradewinds tradewindstheband.com/events-1
The No Request Band facebook.com/norequestband/
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Lobster Roll Obsession!
And for the love of Lobster Rolls, we are on a quest to find our favorite places to get one.
This delicious summertime seafood delicacy has developed a cult-like following. Here’s a list of south shore places that get a double-thumbs-up from our tasting team… and we’re just getting started. We have officially kicked-off the “Summer 2019 Lobster Roll Challenge”; our goal is to try lobster rolls from all over Long Island in quest of our favorites.
Here is our list so far…no doubt it will be getting longer:
THE LAKEHOUSE 35 Maple Avenue, Bay Shore thelakehouse.com
SALT AND BARREL 61 W Main Street, Bay Shore saltandbarrel.com
WHITE CAP FISH MARKET 20 Main Street, Islip whitecapfish.com
CLAWS SEAFOOD MARKET 20 Montauk Hwy., W. Sayville clawsseafoodmarket.com
PORTER’S ON THE LANE 19 Bellport Lane, Bellport portersonthelane.com
KINGSTON’S CLAM BAR 130 Atlantic Avenue, W. Sayville kingstonsclam.com
B&B FISH & CLAM CO. 179 Merrick Road, Amityville bnbfish.com
POPS SEAFOOD SHACK & GRILL 15 Railroad Place, Island Park popsseafoodshack.com
View Restaurant, Oakdale
Brewed by the Bay
There’s been a boom of breweries opening on Long Island for the past decade. Our south shore is home to many great options for delicious craft beers. Here is our list of local hopped-up breweries to visit this summer. The craftsmen behind these establishments all share a passion for creating inventive products to be shared and enjoyed with our coastal communities.
GREAT SOUTH BAY BREWERY
25 Drexel Drive, Bay Shore | greatsouthbaybrewery.com
VIBE: The big warehouse space of Great South Bay has two tasting rooms set right in front of the workshop, which resembles a chemistry lab full of vats, bottling machines, ingredients, speaker systems, and skateboards. It is immediately evident that the guys behind the sliding garage door that separates the spaces have a ton of fun while brewing. There is also an outdoor patio section complete with lots of tables, games, and stools to hang with friends and catch some sun. They accommodate big groups and intimate couples alike. Sports are broadcast from a projector bigger than any TV on Main Street, and the bartenders are friendly and will guide you to the right pour to match your mood.
SEASONAL BREWS: Mango Starfish Blonde Ale made with fresh mango puree…crisp and refreshing for summer; Kiwi Kettle Sour, which is made with the Brewer’s Collective (a small independent brewery also located in Bay Shore); Shake Shake Senora, a Milkshake IPA brewed with bananas and coconuts; and of course their award winning Belgian Saison is always on tap.
CHEWS: Food trucks are always on premises. They rotate, but you’ll find Chiddy’s Cheesesteaks, Royal Elite BBQ, and Big Black Food Truck on any given day.
Owner’s favorite thing to eat with beer: “Definitely pizza.”
BONUS: Monday is Game Night, Bingo on Wednesdays, and there’s Trivia on Thursdays. Weekends occasionally have live music. The brewery is also available to host private events, be it an intimate gathering or party of up to 90 guests.
DESTINATION UNKNOWN BEER COMPANY (DUBCO)
One S. Chicago Avenue, Bay Shore destinationunknownbeercompany.com
VIBE: Away from the main road, it’s off the beaten path and feels like a “destination unsure” for any first-timers trying to find it. Inside the large industrial warehouse, the long wooden bar is a magnet for beer drinkers, and there are tables inside the intimate but inviting tasting room. The outdoor area is full of picnic tables and lights for night time. Pet-friendly, dogs are welcome, weather permitting, in their outdoor area.
SEASONAL BREWS: Waikiki Wheat, a 4.8% wheat beer brewed with hibiscus flowers and guava make this a nice, easy drinking beach beer. Gilgo Gose, a fruity 5.0 % gose, is slightly tart with a mild salinity. Their base beer is brewed with different fruit additions; passion fruit and guava are popular ingredients for the summer batches.
CHEWS: Enjoy Taco Tuesdays with the Big Black Food Truck, which is also on premises on Wednesdays, and rotating food trucks on Fridays and sometimes Saturday and Sunday.
Owner’s favorite thing to eat with beer: “We love fresh seafood that is locally sourced. Lobster Rolls and fish tacos pair really well with
our summer series of beers.”
BONUS: There is a Monday Night Corn Hole League, Tuesday Run Club and Trivia Night, and live acoustic music every Friday in the summer.
VIBE: Newly opened, it has a fresh, modern vibe with lots of tables and chic décor in the large open space, including a “school bus lounge”. The sleek white bar offers an abundance of tap beer as they are trying out new recipes. There’s an outdoor patio area and, weather permitting, they open the garage door that connects the indoor space to the patio for easy access to the food trucks.
SEASONAL BREWS: Already popular are their Hibiscus IPA, Cosmic Blonde Ale, and Cosmic Berry Blast Ale, which begins with a base 4% blonde ale then raspberries and wild strawberries are added to the recipe prior
to kegging. The result is a light refreshing beer that isn’t too fruity. They are currently crafting a Lavender Saison that’s nearly ready for tapping, and plenty of juicy New England IPAs are also in the works.
CHEWS: The schedule rotates, but there is always a food truck on premises.
Owner’s favorite thing to eat with beer: “Without a doubt fish tacos.”
BONUS: Secatogue is kid friendly until 7pm each night, and dog friendly in their outdoor area.
OTHER BREWERIES BY THE BAY TO VISIT THIS SUMMER:
The Brewers Collective 1460 N. Clinton Ave., Bay Shore thebrewerscollective.com
Small Craft Brewing
66 Merrick Rd., Amityville smallcraftbrewing.com
BrickHouse Brewery & Restaurant
67 W. Main St., Patchogue brickhousebrewery.com
What Men Don’t Know About Yoga
Interest in Yoga and Meditation has been rising steadily since the mid 90’s, with an uptick particularly in the last decade. Yet, it is still common to walk into some yoga classes and find mostly women. How do we explain this imbalance? Even today, popular culture portrays yoga as a superbendy experience where meditating hippies can touch their nose to their toes or contort themselves in some inconceivable way. Looks nice on Instagram, but not as practical as going for a jog, or as relaxing as staying in to watch the game.
Despite this imbalance in classes, yoga has sparked the interest of many men these days.
So, what should men know about yoga?
We find that what keeps men from jumping on board is the misperception that yoga is just “passive stretching”; that yoga is not physically demanding, and that men feel they are not flexible enough. However, men who attend classes realize it is very physically challenging
and requires a lot of strength. In addition to the numerous physical benefits, such as injury prevention, enhanced strength, weight loss, and better balance and flexibility, it is a push toward a better overall lifestyle. Still, there is another hidden secret: the ultimate goal of yoga is to take you to a place where you are comfortable in your own skin; where you become aware of how you react to life situations, and where you can find a path of inner peace. Yoga provides the movement and breath that creates detachment from stressful thoughts. It is a recipe for living a life which has no other requirement except to just show up.
We are happy to have our studio filled with both men and women, not only as members but also as instructors. Want to challenge yourself guys? Give yoga a try!
Oh, and one more thing…want to know why Sting, at 67 years old, is still smoking hot?
Because he hasn’t missed a day of yoga in 20 years! Just sayin’.
Samantha Buser & Toni Panariello, Co-owners, The Welcome Mat Yoga and Wellness
Mirror, Mirror on the Wall
This is an Ocean Beach horror story that ended well, but people still talk about the screaming. It began innocently enough when a well-meaning husband decided to build an outdoor shower. Since he was a carpenter by trade, and highly motivated to showcase it to prospective clients, the wife knew the outdoor shower would be top notch and done in a timely fashion. She was thrilled, and showed him how much when he took a coffee break.
When the last nail was driven in and the shower was completed, the husband thumped his chest with pride. The wife gave him his moment in the sun, but jumped in the shower first. When they were both clean and refreshed, smelling like lavender, he returned to the Bluefish he was cleaning and she went back to chopping garlic for the linguine aglio e olio planned for dinner.
One day the husband came home with a 3’ by 6’ piece of mirror left over from a job. He attached it
to the back wall of the shower and also mounted a mirrored medicine cabinet to the front wall of the shower. The effect was similar to a dressing room where those held hostage are forced to look in the rear view mirror and then endure a full frontal assault. The husband, born with armor, forgot that his wife didn’t have the same defenses.
Sweaty from all the manual labor, the husband jumped in the shower and patted himself on the back while scrubbing it. The mirror, as usual, was friendly, and he was delighted to be able to shave and do a full body scan for ticks at the same time. When he emerged from the shower with a towel slung low around his hips, like a gun holster, the wife couldn’t help but smile at his cowboy-like swagger.
When it was the wife’s turn to shower, she hesitated. She had always battled with mirrors, but never with an oversized one, naked, and in direct sunlight.
BY ANNIE NILAND
The mirror took no prisoners. She took a deep breath and stepped in. The neighbors heard a scream, followed by a chain of expletives that would make a sailor blush. The old salt two doors down chuckled.
That night at dinner, the husband enjoyed his carbs as usual, careful to avoid eye contact with the wife as she tore through leaves of kale with a vengeance. Life went on. The wife learned to shower with her eyes closed.
When the 4th of July exploded, a line-up of guests and family arrived needing food, amped up hydration, and sand removal. The outdoor shower was a hit with the men and kids. The women?
Not so much. Barely dry, hair still dripping, they headed towards the Chardonnay for comfort.
It took many summers for the wife to learn a life-changing lesson from her husband…an over-sized mirror in an outdoor shower wasn’t the enemy. With his dutiful support, she eased up on the war against herself.
However, ticks will always be formidable foes. So, from that point on she was careful to check her body thoroughly, especially in the new folds that weren’t there in her 20’s and 30’s.
Occasionally, she still screams in the outdoor shower, but it’s only when someone turns on the kitchen faucet and the hot water bails, or if under close scrutiny while facing off with the mirror, she discovers a tick.
That’s her story and she’s sticking to it.
Annie started writing her column, Raging Gracefully, because she’s committed to the idea that regardless of how old one becomes, raging as opposed to simply aging, is the new paradigm for stalling Father Time. If we all get behind her ideology maybe Mother Nature will agree. We are counting on that.
Dogma
Millie D. Yorkie, PHD
Our advice offering, wet nosed resident expert on human behavior.
Dear Dr. Mil,
The other day my humans took me to the beach at Corneille Estates in Fire Island. As usual, I had a blast chasing balls, frolicking in the ocean, and stealing treats from open beach bags. Everyone had plenty to drink, but I was left high and dry. SOS!
Thirsty
Dear Thirsty,
I’ll post an article on FaceBark about proper hydration for dogs at the beach and update humans about the importance of using sunscreen specifically designed for us dogs, especially on the oh-so-fair breeds with light skin or white fur or hair. Zinc and PABA are toxic to canines when ingested and therefore a no-no since most of us dogs are lickers. Thanks fur the heads up.
I got your back!
Dr. Mil
Ghost of the Nightingale
Written by West Islip locals, Pat and Diana Gorman, Ghost of the Nightingale is receiving outstanding reviews. A harrowing story of a young man who survived the Warsaw Ghetto in Nazi occupied Poland during World War II only to find himself corralled onto a train bound for Treblinka, the Nazi extermination camp designed for mass murder. An emotional tale with an unusual twist that weaves together two unlikely lives.
“Pat had recurrent dreams. The contents were disturbing. He literally saw himself in the middle of a death camp.”
The LIST: We were fascinated to hear about how this story came to be written. Can you please tell us a little about how this story came to be.
Diana: For several years, Pat had recurrent dreams. The contents were disturbing, and would wake him. Pat is a light sleeper who often wakes in the middle of the night, so I thought nothing of it until he started telling me about his dreams. The bits and pieces he could remember became unmistakable references to WWII and the Holocaust. At some point, he realized his dreams were taking him to a Nazi death camp. He literally saw himself in the middle of a death camp.
The LIST: Do either of you have a connection to WWII?
Diana: Our Dads both volunteered to serve in WWII. While Pat always had a great interest in WWII, it was shortly after his mom’s death in 2009 when he began to remember snippets of his dreams and realized they were taking place during the Holocaust.
Pat: Diana’s grandparents immigrated here from Poland and Hungary. Radio free Europe allowed them to listen to Hitler’s speeches. Her mom, Viola, told us of arguments her parents had over Hitler. My dad was in Germany at the end of the war and picked up some Yiddish. While my dad never wanted to talk about the war, I wish I had tried harder to get him to speak to me.
The LIST: So when did ‘the dreams’ become ‘the book’?
Pat: I came to the realization that we needed to somehow document these dreams. One morning, I told Diana that I had something we could do together. She will tell you that writing a book about the Holocaust was not one of her top guesses. However, we both agreed that these dreams, this story – needed to be shared.
The LIST: Can you tell us how it was to write together as a married couple?
Diana: Writing a book with someone isn’t easy, however, it was a great way to build our relationship. We are very different with very different perspectives, yet our shared passion to tell this story persevered and I think our relationship grew stronger.
Pat: We were drawn to WWII movies and documentaries, but had to keep ourselves in check to temper the grief and sadness. While writing “Ghost”, we shared a journey, not only through one of history’s darkest times, but through differences in perspectives, styles and sometimes a single word. The process gave us new knowledge and an array of emotions that can never be forgotten; emotions we continue to feel on a daily basis. We have a unique bond from making this journey together.
What better way to unwind than a day at the beach, or in your own back yard oasis, lost in a really good book. Here are a few of our favorites that include highly reviewed debuts from local south shore authors. Pour yourself a tall, cool drink, grab your sun hat, and enjoy getting lost for a few hours…
OTHER GOOD READS FROM LOCAL AUTHORS
Sitting in the Silence by Bay Shore resident and Interfaith Reverend Barbara Brownyard. Simple reflections set alongside beautiful photos of benches (some you may recognize) that invite you to sit in silence for a moment and feed your soul.
Shipwreck of Hopes by Brightwaters local Angela Reich. A perfect beach read for Long Islanders as this historical fiction novel travels between the south shore of Long Island and a revolutionary war-torn Italy during the mid-1800’s. The story is centered around the wreck of the Elizabeth, which ran aground on a sand bar 100 yards off Fire Island in 1850. A suspenseful tale of treacherous seas, murder, deception, and fate.
The Great South Bay by written and illustrated by Bayport resident Jeanine O’Grady. A wonderful picture book and tool for teaching children about the importance of protecting our beloved bay for future generations.
TWO OF OUR FAN FAVORITES
Becoming by Michelle Obama. An intimate, powerful, and inspiring memoir by the former First Lady of the United States. NY Times Bestseller, Oprah’s Book Club Pick, and NAACP Image Award Winner. “ I have the audiobook and l love listening while walking” JL
Searching for Sylvie Lee by NY Times Bestselling author Jean Kwok. A deeply moving, suspenseful drama that untangles the complicated bonds between two sisters and their mother in a Chinese immigrant family. When the eldest daughter disappears without a trace, family secrets emerge. It is a profound exploration of the many ways culture and language can divide us and the impossibility of ever truly knowing someone—especially those we love.
COOL NEW BUSINESSES TO KNOW
Perhaps by a flash of inspiration, or something they’ve been thinking about for years, here are new innovations we love and we think you will too.
Hometown Flower Co. is Long Island’s first mobile flower truck and digital florist, sourcing directly from local flower farmers across the island and delivering straight to homes and businesses. Founded by two Long Island natives, husband and wife, Marc Iervolino and Jaclyn Rutigliano, this mobile flower truck (nicknamed Baby Blue) pops up at farmers markets, events, and local business throughout the island.
hometownflowerco.com | @hometownflower
First of its kind! Grab a ride in the Fire Island Pedicab instead of walking from Robert Moses Field 5 to the FI Light House or to Kismet. They can also get you to beach access from Burma Road. Owner Justin Galbraith has been walking that 2 mile stretch since he was 12 and always thought there could be a better way to get in and out, especially when you have things to carry. Just call, text, or reserve ahead on their website for a one way or round-trip ride. One thing to note, they stop service when the park closes.
Apt84 is a school bus converted into a unique "Business on Wheels" developed with the concept of using "mobile experiences" as a fun way for people and businesses to connect. Apt84's vision is called the "Skoolie Experience". This one-of-a-kind beautiful, tiny beach apartment on wheels is available for wine/brewery tours, pop-up shops, weddings, festivals, private events and photo shoots.
“Looking at today's business landscape” says Catherine Ovejas, founder of Apt84 Inc., “I noticed a need for more ways for people to connect in real life.”
(631) 683-8810 | @Apt84
Local Farmers Markets
Different Days and Times, All Fabulous! Featuring Seasonal Fresh Fruits and Vegetables, Artisanal Foods, Flowers, Baked Goods, Cheeses, Coffee and more.
Amityville Farmers Market Saturdays, 9am-2pm 911 Memorial Park Railroad Avenue & Broadway Babylon Village Sundays, 8am-1pm Rain or Shine Live Music, 10am-12pm North side of Train Station Parking Lot
Bounty by the Bay Farmers Market Fridays, 3pm-7pm Main Street Band Shell Bay Shore
Islip Farmers Market Saturdays, 7am-12pm Town Hall Parking Lot Main Street
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At a time when there are so many supporters for women, we want to make sure our male counterparts know we are here for them too. Cancer does not discriminate + men go through the same harrowing challenges when battling cancer. Hey guys, we got you covered!
Dirty Dozen & Clean Fifteen
In case you're not familiar with the Dirty Dozen and Clean Fifteen, here's a little background, as explained by the Environmental Working Group (EWG), which is a non-profit activist organization.
The Dirty Dozen is a list of the 12 fruits and vegetables that contain the highest concentrations of pesticides, for which the EWG recommends buying organic. The Clean Fifteen is a list of 15 fruits and vegetables that contain the fewest concentrations of pesticides, which the EWG believes are the safest foods to buy conventionally.
Dirty Dozen
Strawberries
Spinach
Kale
Nectarines
Clean Fifteen
Avocados
Sweet Corn
Pineapples
Onions
Papayas
Apples
Grapes
Peaches
Cherries
Sweet Peas
Eggplants
Asparagus
Kiwis
Cabbages
Pears
Tomatoes
Celery
Potatoes
Cauliflower
Cantaloupes
Broccoli
Mushrooms
Honeydew
Melons
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