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Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann takes part in a listening session at the St. Lawrence Catholic Campus Center on April 19. Dioceses throughout the world have been encouraged by the Vatican to conduct listening sessions in preparation for the October 2018 Synod of Bishops on “Young people, faith and vocational discernment” and report back their findings.
‘WE WANT TO BE WANTED’ Young adults respond to pope’s invitation for input
By Moira Cullings moira.cullings@theleaven.org
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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Are you a young adult disconnected from your Catholic faith? Do you feel upset with the church or detached from its teachings? Pope Francis wants to hear from you. And the Catholic Church is listening. In preparation for the October 2018 Synod of Bishops on “Young people, faith and vocational discernment,” the Vatican released a series of questions addressed specifically to young adults. Dioceses throughout the world have been encouraged to conduct listening sessions using those questions
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“I WOULD CHALLENGE THE CHURCH TO PRESENT ITSELF NOT DIDACTICALLY BUT EXPERIENTIALLY — AS AN EXPERIENCE OF LIFE.”
to gather feedback from that demographic from both within and outside the church. Diocesan leaders will summarize the responses into reports, which will eventually be sent to the Vatican. The Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas hosted two sessions — the first on April 19 at St. Lawrence Catholic Campus Center at the University of Kansas in Lawrence and the second
on April 27 at St. Agnes Church in Roeland Park with St. Paul’s Outreach. Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann and members of the archdiocesan evangelization division sat in to hear what young people in our archdiocese had to say. Do you feel the Catholic Church understands your life? Most of the young people in attendance had a similar take on this question. “I don’t know if I would say the church overall understands what each individual person is going through,” said one young man. Because everyone is unique, it’s difficult for the church to recognize the struggles and needs of young people, he continued. Many agreed that priests and parishioners should work on reaching out to young people to learn more about their lives and better understand
their situations. But one of the ways the church does do a good job of listening, said participants at both sessions, is through its mercy. “No matter what you’re going through or what you’ve done, the church is always inviting you back in,” said one woman. “I’d also answer that there’s a lack of understanding of that mercy and a lack of communication toward people our age to fully understand and accept the love the church teaches,” she added. What are the main challenges young people have in the U.S.? Some of the biggest problems this generation faces revolve around navigating their place in a society that is constantly changing — and doing so while maintaining a strong faith. >> See “YOUNG” on page 6
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Yoga trades union with Christ for union with the cosmos
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he recent decision by Benedictine College not to offer recreational yoga classes next fall has sparked some controversy. The criticism generally falls into two categories: 1) Yoga classes just involve stretching and strengthening exercises with no religious content. So what is the problem? Or 2) Not offering yoga classes is disrespectful to Hinduism and Eastern mysticism, thus harming interfaith relations and dialogue. Yoga has become very popular in secular American culture. It is probable that many Leaven readers have participated in yoga classes, possibly finding the exercise routines physically beneficial and emotionally calming. So what is the big deal? Originally, yoga was not an exercise and relaxation program. It was developed as part of Hindu spirituality. Hinduism itself is difficult to define, because there is no central authority or founding figure or official creed. Hinduism is based on the Vedas, the world’s most ancient religious text. Hinduism is polytheistic, thus holding that there are many gods. Yoga is considered one school of authentic Hinduism. The word yoga means: “to yoke together” or “to bind.” With what does yoga seek to bring us into union? For some practitioners of yoga, it is a vehicle or tool to bind them to one or more of the Hindu gods. For a Christian, this is highly problematic, since there is only one God. For other devotees, the goal of yoga is
LIFE WILL BE VICTORIOUS ARCHBISHOP JOSEPH F. NAUMANN to unite oneself with a “higher reality” or what might be termed “infinite consciousness.” This presents another set of problems for the orthodox Christian because it is a form of pantheism, where everything is considered divine and there is no distinction between spiritual and material realities. There are several major traditions of yoga, all of which developed out of this pagan spirituality. The most popular and prevalent tradition in the United States is Hatha yoga that focuses principally upon physical postures and breathing techniques. If a Catholic finds that participation in such a yoga class helps them physically to gain flexibility and strength and emotionally to become calmer, is there really an issue? There could be! Most yoga practitioners do not know about the intent or motivation of their instructor or guru. The positions in yoga originally had a spiritual meaning. Several yoga positions were developed as a means of physically inviting a god/ demon to be in union
with you. Some yoga centers actually have images of Hindu gods, which should make you more wary of the intent of the instructor or guru. However, if there are no such images to Hindu divinities at a yoga center and the instructor sincerely disavows any intent or attempt to introduce participants to a particular spirituality, is there any possible reason for concern? Before responding to that question, I wish to preface it by stating that I do not believe it is possible for a demon to enter a person without some sort of invitation or consent. I also believe we should recognize and even celebrate common ground that we have with adherents to other religions. We can learn from positive practices of those in other religious traditions. For instance, we can learn from the ascetical practices of other religions that seek to provide a path to liberate ourselves from disordered attachments to material things or human relationships. We can find inspiration in the fidelity to prayer by adherents of other religions, and express admiration for their sincere desire to encounter God. Nevertheless, I question the prudence of participating in yoga
classes when you can receive the same benefits from other exercise or fitness programs. There is an even more serious concern for a Catholic college to offer yoga classes to its students. Even if the college is confident that students are not being introduced to a non-Christian spirituality by a campus yoga class, they run the danger of giving students the impression that all yoga classes are harmless. Dominican priest Father Ezra Sullivan, in a series of articles about yoga, summarizes the results of an Australian national survey published in The International Journal of Yoga. Father Sullivan observed: “Although most respondents commonly began yoga for reasons of physical health, they usually continued it for reasons of spirituality. In addition, the more people practiced yoga, the more likely they were to decrease their adherence to Christianity and the more likely they were to adhere to nonreligious spirituality and Buddhism. In other words, whatever their intentions may have been, many people experience yoga as a gateway to spirituality disconnected with Christ.” At best, the spirituality of yoga attempts to bring its practitioners into some sort of communion with an impersonal universe. To give up the joy and peace resulting from a personal friendship with Jesus for some impersonal union with a cold and unloving cosmos is a trade you do not want to make. If you want some of the physical and emotional benefits
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that some experience from yoga exercises, I suggest that you Google Pietra Fitness. There you will find a Christian alternative with none of the risks. For those who think Christians choosing not to practice yoga is an insult to Hindus, I think the opposite to be true. To call something yoga that has been stripped of the spirituality that is its inspiration and foundation, I consider a much
more serious affront to the devout Hindu. The most recent Pew study of religious practice in the United States saw the number of “nones” — Americans who claim to be spiritual and have no religious affiliation — continue to grow. If you want to decrease the chances of your son or daughter from becoming a “none,” then do not sign them up for yoga class.
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ANYTHING BUT ORDINARY Military chaplain finds life overseas challenging, but rewarding
By Joe Bollig joe.bollig@theleaven.org
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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — As a military chaplain, Father Brian Klingele has gone to some very interesting places and seen some very interest-
ing things. But he can’t talk about them. “Sadly, some of the things I’ve seen and done, I can’t share,” he said. Having enjoyed the blessings of liberty for hundreds of years, Americans are often blissfully unaware of how difficult are the lives of Christians living in some corners of the world. The American military, for the sake of America’s vital interests and for the support of its allies, must go to these regions. And when they do, they bring along chaplains for American troops. Sometimes, “what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas,” so to speak, for the sake of security and international relations. But Father Klingele did speak about a couple of experiences while on a visit to Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann in April. He is the only active duty archdiocesan military chaplain. Once, he was celebrating Ash Wednesday for Catholic military on a base in an unnamed country when some Catholic nonmilitary civilian contractors showed up. Because Christianity is illegal in these countries — and a hint of Christianity could cause one to be beaten or arrested — the civilians rolled up their shirtsleeves and received ashes on their arms. In another instance, he ended up at a place that had no hosts or wine for the Mass. Father Klingele teamed up with kitchen personnel to make his own hosts, using a Gatorade cap and a paper clip as tools. He procured a bottle of wine from a discreet civilian contractor, since alcohol of any kind was illegal in that country. Father Klingele, who was ordained for the archdiocese in 2002, was given permission by Archbishop Naumann to enter the chaplain program of the U.S. Air Force in 2012. He trained at Maxwell Air Force Base in Montgomery, Alabama, in 2012, and then at Fort Jackson in Columbia, South Carolina, in 2013. Although he holds the rank of captain, making reference to oneself or others in the chaplain corps is frowned upon. The practice is to refer to military clergy as “chaplain” or the title common in one’s faith, i.e., Father, Rabbi, Pastor, Imam and so on. His longer-term assignments, called a “permanent change of station,” have included Offutt Air Force Base near Omaha, Nebraska, and Ramstein Air Base near Kaiserslautern, Germany. “Besides those, I’ve had two deployments in the Middle East, each of those a little over half a year,” said Father Klingele. “And I also had six missions, called TDY, or temporary duty. Those were to Africa.”
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Father Brian Klingele, an archdiocesan priest serving as a military chaplain, has found that practicing Catholicism in the military has many unique challenges.
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“THERE WERE FIVE PLACES I’VE BEEN WHERE I WAS THE FIRST PRIEST TO CELEBRATE MASS. IT WAS A TREAT FOR THOSE PEOPLE. IT COULD BE UP TO SIX MONTHS AT A TIME BEFORE THEY COULD HAVE A PRIEST PRESENT AND MASS. IT WAS A BIG DEAL FOR THEM. Sometimes American military chaplains serve Catholics in foreign militaries. For example, he once celebrated a baptism in Italian. “I studied in Rome at the North American College,” he said. “I picked up enough Italian to get by.” How many languages does he know? “I don’t know any of them well,” he said with a laugh. “English, maybe, but that’s debatable.” All chaplains belong to a specific unit. He is expected to serve the personnel in his unit, but with limitations. He cannot “sub” for the rabbi or imam, for example.
He cannot offer Catholic sacraments to non-Catholics. He can, however, offer counseling and referrals to other faiths’ chaplains. Likewise, chaplains of other faiths refer Catholics to Father Klingele. “I take care of all the pastoral needs of Catholics — the sacraments and education,” he said. “But as a chaplain, I have different units I’m responsible for, to visit and counsel them, and provide support for the things they need chaplain-wise in their unit or workplace.” He respects other faiths, but it’s not his job to promote them. As a member of the military, he’s expected to learn and practice a number of skills — such as how to quickly don a chemical warfare suit. He’s also expected to live in rustic conditions, such as a tent, for months at a time. He’s expected to be fit enough to be deployed. He is not, however, expected to learn war-fighting skills. That would be against the Geneva Conventions and the rules of the U.S. military. Being a pastor in the military is quite different, in some aspects, from being a conventional pastor. Catholics share worship facilities with other faiths. This means the chapel must be reconfigured for every Mass — and forget about permanently fixed statues, crucifixes, confessionals, tabernacles and votive candles. The military has no Catholic schools — something Father Klingele misses. The population is highly transient, and faces the stress and difficulties of long and multiple deployments
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and separations. The “flock” also tends to be very young, mostly age 18 to 25. There are older noncommissioned officers and officers and their families, but most couples tend to be young and with small children. Catechesis of children can be difficult because of the transience. But at least he doesn’t have to worry about capital campaigns. “A lot of priests worry about money and meetings,” he said. “We don’t worry about money as much, and we have a ‘leaner’ footprint. We don’t have a large staff. We may be it. We mostly have volunteers and maybe one paid position.” There is a shortage of Catholic chaplains, especially in remote areas and places where Christianity is illegal or severely restricted. “There were five places I’ve been where I was the first priest to celebrate Mass,” he said. “It was a treat for those people. It could be up to six months at a time before they could have a priest present and Mass. It was a big deal for them. There’s definitely a big need.” Currently, Father Klingele is on his way to his next assignment at Kunsan Air Base in South Korea. He’ll serve as long as his focus is on service, and the archbishop is content to have him in the military. “I don’t have any grandiose schemes of a long career [in the U.S. Air Force],” he said. “The archbishop has blessed me to serve now, and the Lord is blessing me to do some good things.”
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El Centro of Topeka expands services to immigrants By Bob Hart Special to The Leaven
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OPEKA — Long the first point of contact for Spanishspeaking families in need, El Centro here has expanded its services with an important approval from the U.S. Justice Department. After three years of planning and preparation, the organization’s executive director Lalo Munoz has been granted the authority to function as an attorney in matters of immigration, through the department’s Recognition and Accreditation Program. “As Catholics, we are called to welcome the stranger with love and compassion,” Munoz said. “Immigrant families are not much different than we are. They want to provide for their families, just as we do.” Working with local attorneys, who provide their collaboration without charge, Munoz will now be able to provide legal services across an array of immigrant family concerns. “One of our biggest issues right now is preparing families for the worst, while hoping for the best,” he explained. “They need to be prepared in case of emergency. For example, who will care for their children if they must leave the country?”
Growth and trust El Centro was founded in 1972 by Father Ramon Gaitan, OAR, then pastor of Our Lady of Guadalupe Church in Topeka, to serve the local Spanish-speaking population. When Father Ramon was transferred to a parish in Kansas City, Kansas, in 1976, he founded a second branch of the organization with the same name. El Centro of Topeka has grown to the point where, last year alone, it provided 1,400 interpretations, 300 document translations and 200 free medical screenings. The new immigration services will further increase its impact on the local community, Munoz said. “We have built trust in the community over a period of more than four decades,” he said. “We help individuals and families in very vulnerable situations at critical, sensitive times. These added services will allow us to do so more effectively.” The new Immigration Assistance Clinic adds a third area of service to El Centro’s scope. The organization, which receives funding from the annual Archbishop’s Call to Share campaign, will continue to provide its Community Resource Program, which includes interpretation and translation services,
Swim lessons offered LEAVENWORTH — The University of Saint Mary here offers Red Cross swim lessons for children ages 4 and up. Daytime classes run two weeks, with daily lessons Monday through Thursday (Tuesday through Friday, May 30-June 2). Evening classes meet twice a week for four weeks. All classes (except Level 1) meet for 45 minutes and will be held in Berchmans Hall indoor heated pool (USM main campus at 4100 S. 4th St. Visit the website at: stmary.edu/ Aquatics to view the schedule or to print registration forms. Call aquatics director Janet Loewenstein at (913) 682-5151, ext. 6622, for details.
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Griselda Martinez, administrative assistant for El Centro of Topeka, and Lalo Munoz, executive director of El Centro, stand outside the El Centro office. along with community referrals in matters of housing, food assistance and emergency situations; and its Mobile Health Clinic, providing basic, preventative screenings. In addition to its support from Call to Share, El Centro receives funding from Blue Cross Blue Shield, the Entrepreneurial and Minority Business Development Council, Kansas Health Foundation and Kansas Leadership Center, among others. In 2014, El Centro joined with MANA de Topeka and Topeka LULAC Council 11017 to create the Latino Leadership Collaborative, a community-based program designed to dramatically increase leadership capacity in the Latino community.
English documents and messages from teachers, once she learned the language herself. She recalls being “treated badly” when first attending school, since she only spoke Spanish. “It wasn’t nice,” she said. “I was bullied and chased. I had gum put in my hair.” With those painful memories in mind, she strives to be a friendly and welcoming face to El Centro clients, particularly immigrants, who may be apprehensive about first reaching out for help. “We’re here to serve everybody,” she said. “I want people to know that they don’t need to be afraid to ask us anything. If we can’t help, we’ll find them someone who can.”
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Griselda Martinez, administrative assistant for El Centro of Topeka, is also active in efforts to increase voter registration among the Spanish-speaking population. “With the people who are able to vote, we help them to become citizens so they can,” she said. Martinez said she has been acting as an interpreter since childhood, helping her Spanish-speaking parents understand
Munoz, a Topeka native who has three young children with his wife Veronica, said the assistance El Centro provides to immigrants isn’t just a matter of compassion. It’s also good for the long-term health of the community as a whole. “Having a community that is inclusive is important, especially as you begin to look at changing demographics,” he said. “Seventy-five of the 105
Sandy (DeCelles) and Joe Horvat Sr., members of Holy Spirit Parish, O ve r l a n d Park, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary with a luncheon at Johnny Cascone’s Italian Restaurant on May 6 with family and friends. The couple was married on May 6, 1967, at Curé of Ars Parish, Leawood, by Father Carl Zawacki. Their children are Joseph Anthony Horvat Jr. and Christopher Lee Horvat. They also have four grandchildren.
Lydia and Jim King, members of Holy Trinity Parish, Lenexa, will celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary this summer with a family vacation in Colorado. The couple was married on May 13, 1967, at St. John the Evangelist Church in Kansas City, Kansas. Their children are: Jon King, Debbie Pfeifer and Gail Flood. They also have 11 grandchildren.
What is the Department of Justice’s Recognition and Accreditation Program? A representative is “accredited” and may assist aliens in immigration proceedings when the Office of Legal Access Programs (OLAP) gives permission to a specially qualified non-lawyer to represent noncitizens on behalf of a recognized organization. A fully accredited representative may represent noncitizens before both DHS and the Executive Office for Immigration Review (EOIR), which includes the immigration courts and the Board of Immigration Appeals (BIA). SOURCE: U.S. DEPARTMENT OF JUSTICE WEBSITE (WWW.JUSTICE.GOV)
counties in Kansas have decreasing populations, and we know that growth in the Catholic Church is in large part due to immigrants. How do we sustain our communities and be prosperous, with a strong and growing future? One of the best ways is to be welcoming.”
Bowling fundraiser set TOPEKA — Soul Reason will hold its first “Bowl for Sneakers-Thon” on May 20 at 3:30 p.m. at Gage Bowl here, located at 4200 S.W. Huntoon. Sole Reason is a local charity that collects and distributes new sneakers to the less fortunate youth of the Topeka. All proceeds will support the organization. Tickets are $10 and include two games of bowling and shoes. There will also be a raffle for K-State, KU, Royals and Chiefs items, as well as gift certificates to local restaurants. To register or for more information, call Jerry at (785) 338-2965 or send an email to: sole_reason@yahoo.net.
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Runners provide witness to pro-life cause By Moira Cullings moira.cullings@theleaven.org
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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Runners all over the country formed the shape of a cross as they covered 5,545 miles for the pro-life cause. Starting March 1, participants walked and ran 5K legs both on the cross course and remotely for the annual A-Cross America Relay, which ended April 9 as all four arms of the cross met on Palm Sunday in Kansas City, Kansas. The group is known as the LIFE Runners, and the relay’s purpose is simple. “It is putting our faith into action, witnessing to the sanctity of all human life,” said Theresa Dorrell, LIFE Runners events coordinator. “The relay is also a redemptive way of healing for those who have experienced abortion or in any way participated in abortion — whether it be a parent, significant other or abortion worker,” she said. Relay runners completed over 12 million steps in total. Sporting jerseys that read “REMEMBER The Unborn,” the group hoped to spread the message that all life is precious. The relay here began with a Palm Sunday Mass celebrated by Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann at the Cathedral of St. Peter in Kansas City, Kansas. After participants completed the relay, they held a peaceful prayer rally at Planned Parenthood in Leawood, then joined up with the 40 Days for Life participants for a closing rally at the Center for Women’s Health in Overland Park. Dorrell and the LIFE Runners are grateful to have support from the archbishop, who is a member of the group, as well as their chaplain, Father Scott Wallisch. “[Father Wallisch] understands the struggles and frustrations runners go through with injuries and illnesses, and also the elation of accomplishments and goals runners experience,” said Dorrell. Although Father Wallisch was unable to make the Palm Sunday relay, he enjoys attending other group events and being part of the movement. “The pro-life cause has always been very important to me,” said Father Wallisch.
LIFE Runners members pray over Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann after receiving a blessing from him the day of the A-Cross America Relay.
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“I KEPT HAVING TO ASK MYSELF, ‘WHAT ARE YOU DOING IN THIS BATTLE? HOW ARE YOU GOING TO STAND UP FOR THE DIGNITY OF LIFE?’
“In many ways, the pro-life movement had a big influence on me to go into the priesthood,” he said. Growing up in St. Louis, Father Wallisch was involved in the pro-life movement throughout his childhood and
eventually during his time at the University of Kansas. “The more I was involved, the more I saw the battle between the culture of life and culture of death,” he said. “It helped me to very much see how much evil has influenced the world and enticed us to live in the midst of a throwaway culture, as Pope Francis would say,” he added. Father Wallisch’s passion for the cause left him feeling unsatisfied. He needed to do more. “I kept having to ask myself, ‘What are you doing in this battle? How are you going to stand up for the dignity of life?’” he added. “The more I prayed about it and thought about it, the more I came to understand that I was maybe called to be a priest, and that’s how I was supposed to
get into that battle,” he continued. LIFE Runners seems to be the perfect medium for Father Wallisch, as well as its members — people at all fitness levels — to put their pro-life beliefs into action through the sport they love. “The only requirement [for membership] is to wear the jersey in public — to the grocery store, work, school — to create awareness for the unborn,” said Dorrell. The group attends meetings and local pro-life events throughout the year and participates in a national race each fall. By putting its message on the road, the group hopes to create awareness for the unborn and the dignity that’s inherent in each human life, said Dorrell. For more information on LIFE Runners, go online to: www.liferunners.org.
Statement regarding archdiocesan transition from Girl Scouts to American Heritage Girls By Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann Archbishop of Kansas City in Kansas
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fter several consultations with the Presbyteral Council and with the recommendation of our office for youth ministry, I have asked the pastors of the Archdiocese to begin the process of transitioning away from the hosting of parish Girl Scout troops and toward the chartering of American Heritage Girls troops. Pastors were given the choice of making this transition quickly, or to, over the next several years, “graduate” the Scouts currently in the program. Regardless of whether they chose the immediate or phased transition, parishes should be in the process of forming American Heritage Girl troops, at least for their kindergartners, this fall. The decision to end our relationship with Girl Scouting was not an easy one. Over a period of many years, our archdiocesan youth ministry staff spent hundreds of hours researching concerns regarding the policies of both the international and
the national Girl Scouting organizations. In addition, they have spent hundreds of hours in dialogue with Scouts, parents, pastors and national Girl Scouting representatives regarding our concerns with disturbing content in materials and resources developed and promulgated by the national organization. I personally have been in conversation with national and local Girl Scout leaders regarding my concerns about the new direction of national Girl Scouting reflected in the content of their program materials. Eventually, it came down to this. Our greatest responsibility as a church is to the children and young people in our care. We have a limited time and number of opportunities to impact the formation of our young people. It is essential that all youth programs at our parishes affirm virtues and values consistent with our Catholic faith. To follow Jesus and his Gospel will often require us to be countercultural. With the promotion by Girl Scouts USA (GSUSA) of programs and materials reflective of many of the troubling trends
in our secular culture, they are no longer a compatible partner in helping us form young women with the virtues and values of the Gospel. The national organization, for example, contributes more than a million dollars each year to the World Association of Girl Guides and Girl Scouts (WAGGS), an organization tied to International Planned Parenthood and its advocacy for legislation that includes both contraception and abortion as preventive health care for women. Margret Sanger, Betsy Friedan and Gloria Steinem are frequently held up in materials as role models for young Scouts. These as well as many other “role models” in the GSUSA’s new manuals and web content not only do not reflect our Catholic worldview but stand in stark opposition to what we believe. While I am grateful that offensive and completely age-inappropriate material was recently removed by GSUSA from portions of their Journey series of manuals in response to concerns raised by the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas and
others, it is disturbing such an intervention on our part was necessary. We prefer to partner with youth organizations that share our values and vision for youth ministry, not ones that we have to monitor constantly to protect our children from being misled and misinformed. American Heritage Girls, a program based on Christian values, we believe is a much better fit for our parishes. I encourage you to read more about the American Heritage Girl program by going to its website at: www.americanheritagegirls.org. For more information about the history of and issues surrounding our Girl Scouting decision, go online to: www.archkck.org/ scouting-home. On a final note, I want to express my appreciation for the many extraordinary Girl Scout leaders of the archdiocese who have served so many so well. We look forward to having as many of them as are willing join us in leadership roles as we take this new step into the formation of our girls. I will always be grateful for their exceptional service.
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TOOLS FOR FAMILIES Growing as Disciples of Jesus
Why we (don’t) experience Jesus in our home
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n the days after Jesus’ resurrection, he appears to a number of people. We don’t know all the accounts, but those we know specifically have similarities. Mary Magdalen is outside the tomb. The Emmaus travelers are discussing ARTWORK BY NEILSON CARLIN, 2015 Jesus. The apostles are gathered in mourning and fear. In all these cases, the risen Jesus comes to those both: a) available; and b) attentive to him. It’s much the same today. • How are we being available (and unavailable) this Easter season? • How are we being attentive (and inattentive) this Easter season? — Mike Dennihan, School of Love
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Theresa Gross provides feedback to a question during the April 27 listening session at St. Agnes Church in Roeland Park as Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann, and to his left, Deacon Dana Nearmyer, archdiocesan evangelization division secretary, listen in.
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St. John the Baptist, Greeley Address: 427 S. Prairie Phone: (785) 448-1686 Pastor: Father Adam Wilczak Mass time: Sunday, 8 a.m. Email: hasjparish@centurylink.net Website: www.hasjparishes.com MORE PHOTOS AND A VIDEO TOUR of this church can be seen online at: www.theleaven.org
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Drug and alcohol abuse are common issues in the United States, yet they are issues that most of the participants feel the church does little to address. Another dilemma is the pressures that come from social media. One woman argued that the digital world often leaves people feeling bored and isolated. “Being overly connected, but not really having any intimacy in relationship [is a problem],” she said. It causes her to ask, “Does anyone really know me?” Feeling lonely and on the outskirts of the church is common among this generation — especially after college. “You’re in high school or college and then there’s young married couples,” one woman said. “But where is that in between?” Participants agreed the church does a lot to guide high school and college students in the faith through youth groups and Bible studies, but community is much harder to find in the real world. What
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Musical events fill May
Bishop Miege High School took part in the Turner invitational March 27. Leaven photographer Jay Soldner caught the action. Go online to: www.theleaven.org to see his photos.
TOPEKA — The Most Pure Heart of Mary Schola Cantorum will be singing or hosting three different concerts in May. A musical reflection on the holy rosary (in honor of the 100th anniversary of Fatima) will be performed on May 7 at 3 p.m. at Most Pure Heart of Mary Church, 3610 S.W. 17th St., Topeka, and on May 13 at 6 p.m. at Holy Angels Church, 15438 Leavenworth Rd., Basehor. Cost for both performances is a freewill donation. Also, the Notre Dame Folk Choir, a nationally recognized ensemble, will be giving a concert at Most Pure Heart of Mary Church on May 26 at 7 p.m. Tickets are $10 for adults and $5 for children (children 5 and under are free).
outside of the church have the most success? St. Paul’s Outreach, Credo in Topeka, FOCUS and Catholic Challenge Sports are the groups that participants named most frequently as successful outreaches to their generation. Participants also agreed that small group Bible studies and Theology on Tap events are effective ways to reach their generation. The opportunity for spiritual direction and retreats is key and both groups of participants said they should be more readily available. What do young people want from the church? Most of the young adults want a relationship with the church. “In Catholic education, [we should] facilitate an encounter with Christ before we try to teach the rules,” one woman said. Many in attendance also desire acceptance. They don’t want the church to change its teachings, but to be more accepting of all individuals.
One of the men discussed how his generation desires experiences and adventure, encouraging the church to promote the faith as an encounter with Christ. “I would challenge the church to present itself not didactically but experientially — as an experience of life,” he said. It’s also important to this generation that parishes are more welcoming and make a greater effort to include them in activities and events. “At the parish level, young adults are almost like this forgotten middle child,” said one young woman. “We’re the future of the church, and we’re the ones that are not being invested in.” Ultimately, many within this generation desire one thing from the church. “We want to be wanted,” said one young man. “The deepest desire of [many] young people,” he continued, “is to be fully Catholic and fully alive. “We want to be invited into the Catholic Church. We want to be noticed.”
Benedictine recommended by Newman Guide ATCHISON — Benedictine College here is recommended in the 20172018 edition of The Newman Guide to Choosing a Catholic College, a publication of The Cardinal Newman Society that recommends the best Catholic colleges, universities and higher education programs for excellence in Catholic education. The complete listings can be found online at: TheNewmanGuide.com. Benedictine College has had 19 straight years of enrollment growth — 43 percent in the last seven years — and opened 10 new residence halls and three new academic buildings in a decade, as well as Mary’s Grotto and two new chapels. Daily Mass attendance at the college has
increased to about 625 students, the college was consecrated to Mary, and the Sacred Heart of Jesus statue was enthroned in the center of campus. Benedictine College has been recommended by the Newman Society in every edition of the guide since it began publication. Founded in 1858, Benedictine College is a Catholic, Benedictine, residential, liberal arts college located on the bluffs above the Missouri River in Atchison. The school has also been named one of America’s Best Colleges by U.S. News & World Report magazine as well as one of the top Catholic colleges in the nation by First Things magazine.
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Members of the Retrouvaille board of directors pray before starting their planning of the June 2-4 meeting. They are (from the left corner, counterclockwise): Paul Satterfield, Tony Tomasich, Jackie Tomasich, Teresa Hale-Lespier, Tracy Satterfield, Sonia Louisa and Ryan Louisa.
Program helps revitalize troubled marriages By Marc and Julie Anderson mjanderson@theleaven.org
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ANSAS CITY, Kan. — Between 1990 and 2015, the divorce rate among adults in the United States age 40 to 49 rose at least 14 percent. That’s according to a recent article by the Pew Research Center in
Washington, D.C. Paul and Tracy Satterfield, parishioners of Holy Spirit Church in Overland Park, are determined to help couples rediscover the joy of marriage. They serve as coordinators of the Kansas City Retrouvaille community, which helps couples struggling in their marriages. Five years ago, while in their late 40s, the Satterfields were at a breaking point. “We had the divorce papers filled out, and we started talking to lawyers,” Paul said. The court encouraged them to make one last reconciliation attempt. “He convinced me to go to Retrouvaille,” Tracy said. “That became a huge healing point for me and him — individually, and for us as a couple.” The Satterfields said their weekend experience in October 2012 brought them hope. Plus, they discovered other couples face similar struggles. “Everybody there has been broken,” Tracy said. During the weekend, three presenting couples shared their stories of finding hope, forgiveness and healing. As an attending couple, the
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“LOVING IS A DECISION. WHEN WE SAID, ‘I DO,’ WE DIDN’T SAY ‘I DO UNTIL I’M TIRED.’”
Satterfields were not asked to share, but worked on their own marriage. “You work together with your spouse on your challenges,” Tracy said. “Loving is a decision,” Paul said. “When we said, ‘I do,’ we didn’t say ‘I do until I’m tired.’” Tracy said she forgot to rely on Paul. “I forgot to let my husband take care of me,” she said. “We all need to be needed.” Ryan and Sonia Louisa, members of Prince of Peace Parish in Olathe, said they, too, had forgotten to live life together. In 2013, the couple had been married around 15 years. Ryan was 37, and Sonia was 36. “Over a period of time, we had started to lead a ‘married singles’ life,” Sonia said. They separated for about three months. “I started going to a therapist,” Ryan said. “At that point, we had gone through divorce proceedings, including two court dates. The therapist said, ‘Ryan, you need to try Retrouvaille.’ I brought it up to Sonia.” >> See “COUPLES” on page 7
What is Retrouvaille? Retrouvaille International is a nonprofit, volunteer peer ministry. The program began in 1977 in Quebec City. In the late 1970s, a group of Marriage Encounter presenters identified a need for a program to help hurting couples in their marriages. The worldwide ministry has active communities throughout the United States, Canada, Central America, South America, Africa, Europe, the Caribbean and the western Pacific. The Retrouvaille program helps husbands and wives put the pieces of their marriages back together and rebuild loving relationships. Many couples may be separated or divorced and simply want to try again. Retrouvaille is a French word meaning “rediscovery.” The program is Catholic in origin and helps couples of all faiths or couples with no faith background. It is a practical program about improving communication, building stronger marriages and helping couples rediscover the love they had for each other. Presenters are couples who share their personal stories of marital struggles and the tools they utilized to rediscover their love for each other. Retrouvaille follows a three-phase process of an initial weekend, post-weekend sessions and monthly support meetings. SOURCE: HELPOURMARRIAGE.COM
Couples credit Retrouvaille >> Continued from page 7 Sonia reluctantly accompanied Ryan on the weekend. “I didn’t think Retrouvaille would work. I had never heard of it,” Sonia said. She and Ryan were proven otherwise. Ryan learned he was supposed to protect his family. “We are the protectors of our family. We are the providers for our family, and we go out and try to do that,” he said. He had made sure everyone’s material needs were met, he continued, but he forgot about communication. “I learned that weekend of being able to put my thoughts together collectively and tell my wife my feelings,” he said. Sonia said she, too, learned more that weekend than she ever thought she would. “With Retrouvaille, you realize you both have played a part in the marriage going wrong,” Sonia said. “It’s learning to work with each other’s greatest assets and not their deficiencies. You are on the same team, and you forget that after being married so long,” Ryan said. Most importantly, the couple realized God had called them to this vocation. “We’re here for each other,” Ryan said. “We came together for a reason.” Harry and Teresa Lespier, also members of Prince of Peace, said their initial Retrouvaille weekend started their healing. During the post-weekend sessions, they learned to work together. Married in 2004, the couple was in turmoil four years later. “We’re a little different than most couples,” Teresa said. “We are both on our second marriages, and we have a blended family.” Both Harry and Teresa brought children to their marriage, and they also have a child together. Parenting proved to be challenging. At the time the couple attended their weekend in 2008, they had been in counseling for more than two years. “Counseling did not help us to become the cohesive, strong couple we needed to be. That is the one thing Retrouvaille gave us,” Teresa said. After their weekend, the Lespiers started attending the six post-weekend sessions. “There is a specific session called Family of Origin,” Harry said. “It focuses on the family in which you grew up and how it can influence you individually as well as your marriage.” As a result of that session, Harry
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“COUNSELING DID NOT HELP US TO BECOME THE COHESIVE, STRONG COUPLE WE NEEDED TO BE. THAT IS THE ONE THING RETROUVAILLE GAVE US.”
Paul and Tracy Satterfield, parishioners of Holy Spirit Church in Overland Park, survived a rough patch in their marriage thanks to Retrouvaille.
Retrouvaille’s track record
Characteristics of couples served by Retrouvaille
Consequences of divorce
• At least 86 percent of couples who participate are still married five years after their initial Retrouvaille weekend.
Primary faith: Catholic and Protestant Education: At least 90 percent have completed at least some college or have attained a degree of some type ranging from an associate’s degree to a graduate degree. Marital history: Approximately 70 percent of couples are in their first marriage, while 30 percent are in a second marriage Age: Most couples range in age from 32 to 49. However, the program ministers to all couples, regardless of age. Children: Most couples have at least two children living at home. Household income: The average household income ranges between $50,000 and $125,000.
• Higher occurrences of teen pregnancy • Higher suicide rates • Higher teen suicide rates • Increased teen promiscuity • Higher rates of dropping out of school • Greater incidences of generational divorce • Increased use of alcohol and drugs • Higher incidences of arrest and violence • Diminished household income
• More than 95 percent are likely to recommend Retrouvaille to a struggling couple among their family and friends. • More than 96 percent consider the Retrouvaille weekend experience as time well spent.
knew he needed to change some of his behaviors. “Being a man, you’re very reluctant to have someone tell you that you should do something,” he said. “I think I was one of those individuals. That was a myth. I feel totally different today.” For Teresa, the biggest advantage she sees to Retrouvaille is a sense of community. “You will find a community that totally supports marriage and acknowledges that marriages have rough spots and that you can get through those,” she said. The community aspect also appealed to Greg and Kelly Wekowitch, members of Church of the Ascension
in Overland Park. The couple, married for 22 years, credits Retrouvaille with saving their marriage. At one point, Greg was deployed to Iraq for 14 months while Kelly, at home, took care of their two daughters. The two communicated via email, letters and phone calls. According to Greg, it was almost as if they were dating again, but their lives were changing. “I stopped being a wife while he was gone,” Kelly said. She became involved in numerous volunteer activities at the church and at her girls’ school. After Greg returned home, the
couple reconnected, albeit, briefly. “When he came home, after a few weeks, it was back to a normal busy life,” Kelly said, adding she continued volunteering. “None of that stopped when he came back,” she said. Now she feels as though she didn’t take time to be Greg’s wife. Meanwhile, Greg worked long hours. “There was lots of separation, both emotionally and from a time perspective,” Greg said. One day, in 2007, Greg packed a bag. Neither knew if he was coming home. Kelly made a life-changing phone call. “I called our priest, Father Joe
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Cramer, and the first word out of his mouth was Retrouvaille,” she said. The two attended a weekend as soon as they were able. “Kelly and I really had a chance to share in a way that we hadn’t in a long, long time. We asked for and received each other’s forgiveness,” Greg said. They also each received the sacrament of reconciliation. “I had hope that God was there, guiding us, and Retrouvaille was giving us the tools to rebuild the brokenness of our marriage,” Kelly said. During the post-weekend sessions, the Werkowitches said they, too, worked on communication and conflict management. “If someone tells a guy, ‘You need to communicate more,’ you don’t always know what to do,” Greg said. “Part of what you learn in Retrouvaille is what that means in practical terms.” The couple also studied the Catholic Church’s vision for marriage. “I remember thinking, ‘Wow! This is what I actually want for marriage,’” Greg said. That vision showed him a beauty [to marriage] “that I hadn’t given much thought.” During their study, the two learned birth control was a barrier to physical intimacy. They stopped using contraception. They now have three boys referred to as their “Retrouvaille babies.” The couple now often serves as a presenting couple during post-weekend sessions. One of the talks they’ve given
is about sexual intimacy and intimacy. Calling it the “most uncomfortable talk to give,” Kelly said she hopes other couples have learned from it. Kelly has given up most of her activities, choosing instead to focus on their marriage and ministering with Greg through Retrouvaille. Greg said, “We knew staying involved would ultimately help us.” Staying involved is also important to Katie and Adam Haag of Burlington. The couple said the monthly support meeting is a priority. They seldom miss it. Members of St. Francis Xavier Parish, the couple has been married nearly six years. A few years ago, the two separated. Katie and their son moved to Wichita. Without Retrouvaille, they said there is no way they would be living under the same roof. “I heard about Retrouvaille from a priest in confession,” Adam said. That was in 2015, while attending the annual Men under Construction retreat. “When I read about Retrouvaille, it was like an answer to a prayer that I had had for the last year,” he said. Long before the couple’s son was born in 2013, Adam said he was not steering his life in a positive direction. Often feeling despair, Adam said he “spiritually was not there.” He is a lifelong Catholic, but he was not spending spend much time in prayer or faith formation. In 2014, after a particularly tense evening, Katie walked out, taking their son. It wasn’t necessarily something new, but this time, Adam said, felt different. After she left, Adam did some soul-searching. He read and prayed about what it meant to be a husband and father, spending time with other Christians and was led to that men’s retreat. Eventually, he and Katie met to talk. Katie informed him of her impending move. In order to protect his parental rights, Adam filed for divorce. The court imposed a visitation schedule. Every other weekend, Adam and Katie met so Adam could spend time with their son. One weekend, he approached Katie about Retrouvaille. “I wasn’t quite ready yet,” she said, although she agreed months later to give it a try. The weekend was a new start. Katie learned Adam wasn’t the only one to blame. “I had to take responsibility for my part in it,” she said. The couple attended the post-weekend sessions and continued to hone their new skills. “It sounds cliché. We’re a team now,” Katie said. “Mother Church has an answer for people who are hurting. That is so beautiful to me,” Adam added.
Should you consider Retrouvaille? How do you know if you and your spouse might benefit from Retrouvaille? The program’s leaders suggest answering the following questions prayerfully and honestly in the silence of your heart(s). Do you seem to talk a lot about your problems without reaching a solution? Have you thought about marriage counseling? Have you been in counseling together without making much, if any, progress? Has there been any infidelity in the marriage in the form of a physical affair, an emotional affair or an online relationship? June 2-4 Do you often fight or disagree Registration deadline: May 31 without ever resolving the conflict? Oct. 27-29 Are there anger issues in your Registration deadline: Oct. 24 relationship that seem out of control? Has there been verbal Registration fee for either event: or emotional abuse in the rela$100* tionship? Location: Kansas City, Kansas Have you grown apart, or are To register for either weekend: you doing things alone instead of Call Jerry and Kim Bronder at (800) as a couple? 470-2230 or (816) 505-0510. Have there been challenges Send an email to: 2017@ in your marriage as one or both retrouvaille.org. of you struggle with addiction Complete the online registration recovery? (Gambling, alcohol, process at: www.retrouvaille.org. drugs and pornography are but *No couple is ever denied an oppora few.) tunity to heal their marriage due to Have you been under financial financial difficulty. strain? Or has one of you recently suffered a job loss? Do you face negative interference from in-laws or extended family? Are you living apart due to work, or do you have a long-distance or weekend relationship? Do you have challenges with child-rearing or blended family issues? Are you as a couple dealing with a lack of intimacy or passion or with sexual problems? Do you often experience feelings of guilt about the way you speak to or treat your spouse? Do your personalities, cultural differences or temperaments cause conflict in your marriage? Has one partner “fallen out of love” with the other or seem unhappy in the marriage? Has dealing with depression, psychological trauma or illness caused strain and stress in your marriage? Has caring for a parent, child or other family member caused stress for one or both partners?
Upcoming Retrouvaille Weekends
The Process of Retrouvaille Retrouvaille follows a three-phase process.
PHASE 1: The Retrouvaille weekend experience
The program begins with “a weekend experience in which couples are helped to reestablish communication and to gain new insights into themselves as individuals and as a couple.” Weekends are typically held at a retreat center. This part of the program is presented by three couples and a priest. The presenting team has “experienced disillusionment, pain and conflict in their own lives and offer hope as they share their personal struggles of reconciliation and healing.”
PHASE 2: The post-weekend sessions The second phase, most couples say, is the most important. The post-weekend sessions include a series of two-hour talks by additional couples and expand on the concepts explored during the initial weekend. The majority of couples find this to be the stage during which growth and healing takes place.
PHASE 3: Monthly support (CORE) The final phase is a monthly small-group support meeting. CORE stands for Continuing Our Retrouvaille Experience. The monthly meeting continues to reinforce the communication tools learned in the earlier phases of the program. CORE allows for casual and supportive interaction with other couples that have participated in Retrouvaille. SOURCE: HELPOURMARRIAGE.CO
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Cardinal calls Democrats to challenge their leadership By Catholic News Service
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make her own choices about her body and her health. That is not negotiable and should not change city by city or state by state.” Perez went on to say in an April 21 statement: “At a time when women’s rights are under assault from the White House, the Republican Congress, and in states across the country, we must speak up for this principle as loudly as ever and with one voice.” Perez’s statement came after a DNC “unity tour” rally in Nebraska, where another DNC leader and Sen. Bernie Sanders, I-Vermont, appeared April 20 with a former state senator, Heath Mello, the Democratic mayoral candidate in Omaha. The DNC tour was sharply criticized by pro-abortion groups for joining forces with Mello, who sponsored a 2009 state Senate bill
requiring that women be informed of their right to request a fetal ultrasound before having an abortion. “The actions today by the DNC to embrace and support a candidate for office who will strip women — one of the most critical constituencies for the party — of our basic rights and freedom is not only disappointing, it is politically stupid,” NARAL Pro-Choice America President Ilyse Hogue said in an April 20 statement. Sanders responded to the criticism by saying different views on abortion within the party were natural. Perez took this a step further saying he fundamentally disagreed with “Mello’s personal beliefs about women’s reproductive health.” On NBC’s “Meet the Press,” April 23, House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi,
D-California, was asked if a Democratic politician could be pro-life. “Of course,” she said, adding that she has “served many years in Congress with members who have not shared my very positive — my family would say aggressive — position on promoting a woman’s right to choose.” Dolan, who offered prayers at the Democratic and Republican national conventions in 2012, had strong words for the Democratic party in his April 26 statement saying the party’s “platform already endorses abortion throughout the nine months of pregnancy, even forcing taxpayers to fund it; and now the DNC says that to be a Democrat — indeed to be an American — requires supporting that extreme agenda.”
45 people saved from tornado’s fury in hallway of Texas church
By Mark Pattison Catholic News Service
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“THE WHOLE TIME THAT WE WERE IN THERE AND WE WERE HOLDING THOSE DOORS, I FELT THAT JESUS WAS OVER US . . . WHISPERING TO ME, ‘IT’S OK, I’VE GOT YOU.’” Hughes said she and her husband both tried to pull up weather radar on their cellphones without luck. Then Hughes made the decision to tell teens and adults to move to the church hallway. The decision, she said, was based on “this instinct when you learn when you’re a child — you go to the hallway and you cover your head.” There was some grumbling by the teens but everyone complied, Hughes remembers. “It’s the innermost place of the building,” she said of the hallway. “Everything else had exterior walls. On my way, I went around and I locked all the exterior doors to the building — just one little extra step to keep the wind from ripping them open.” Thirty seconds after Hughes got into the hallway after completing her rounds, “ my husband said, ‘It’s hitting.’ He saw the roof of the sanctuary rip off — one piece. We saw the doors fly
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A statue of Mary is seen in the ruins of St. John the Evangelist Church in Emory, Texas, April 30, after a tornado hit the area a day earlier. open into the sanctuary space. My husband grabbed the door and he held on with everything [he had] to the other,” Hughes said. “What I saw was people covering each other, comforting each other — parents covering small children, teenagers huddling together. We began to pray.” The parish’s deacon, Marcelino Espinosa, was at one end of the hallway as he began a rosary; Hughes was at the other end beginning the Divine Mercy chaplet.
“We didn’t have this horrible fear, we felt protected,” she told CNS. “The whole time that we were in there and we were holding those doors, I felt that Jesus was over us . . . whispering to me, ‘It’s OK, I’ve got you.’” She added, “I described it . . . as a Passover. The tornado came, and it hit us with full force and it was over.” After a quick assessment of the damage, the group decided to stay put as another storm was bearing down on them. Firefighters coming after the second storm advised them to evacuate as the combination of a downed power line and a gas leak threatened catastrophe, Hughes said. Once outside, they saw the church was destroyed — except for the hallway. The pastor’s house nearby was spared, save for a damaged backyard fence. “It’s a miracle,” declared the pastor, Father Victor Hernandez. “People could experience the hands of God protecting them.” He was not at the dinner, having been summoned to celebrate Mass in Pittsburgh, Texas, about 75 minutes from Emory. On his drive back, “I heard the sirens go off and I wanted to be with my community,” he said. Parishioners celebrated Mass as usual April 30, but outside on parish property. “We’re going to come out of this stronger than ever,” Father Hernandez said. “We are going to have a new building and church, which was not in our plans. We are going to move bigger and faster.”
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Unmask violence posing as holy, pope tells leaders in Egypt By Carol Glatz Catholic News Service
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AIRO (CNS) — Calling his visit to Egypt a journey of “unity and fraternity,” Pope Francis launched a powerful call to the nation’s religious leaders to expose violence masquerading as holy and condemn religiously inspired hatred as an idolatrous caricature of God. “Peace alone, therefore, is holy, and no act of violence can be perpetrated in the name of God, for it would profane his name,” the pope told Muslim and Christian leaders at an international peace conference April 28. Ecumenical Patriarch Bartholomew of Constantinople was in attendance. Pope Francis also warned of attempts to fight violence with violence, saying “every unilateral action that does not promote constructive and shared processes is, in reality, a gift to the proponents of radicalism and violence.” The pope began a two-day visit to Cairo by speaking at a gathering organized by Egypt’s al-Azhar University, Sunni Islam’s highest institute of learning. He told reporters on the papal flight from Rome that the trip was significant for the fact that he was invited by the grand imam of al-Azhar, Sheik Ahmad el-Tayeb; Egyptian President Abdel-Fattah el-Sissi; Coptic Orthodox Pope Tawadros II; and Coptic Catholic Patriarch Ibrahim Isaac Sedrak of Alexandria. Having these four leaders invite him for the trip shows it is “a trip of unity and fraternity” that will be “quite, quite intense” over the next two days, he said. Greeted with a standing ovation and a few scattered shouts of “viva il papa” (long live the pope), the pope later greeted conference participants saying, “Peace be with you” in Arabic. He gave a 23-minute talk highlighting Egypt’s great and “glorious history” as a land of civilization, wisdom and faith in God. Small olive branches symbolizing peace were among the greenery adorning the podium. Religious leaders have a duty to respect everyone’s religious identity and have “the courage to accept differences,” he said in the talk that was interrupted by applause several times. Egypt is the land where God gave Moses the Ten Commandments, which include “Thou shalt not kill,” the pope said. God “exhorts us to reject the way of violence as the necessary condition for every earthly covenant.”
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Pope Francis embraces Sheik Ahmad el-Tayeb, grand imam of al-Azhar University, at a conference on international peace in Cairo April 28. The pope was making a two-day visit to Egypt. “Violence is the negation of every authentic religious expression,” he said. “As religious leaders, we are called, therefore, to unmask the violence that masquerades as purported sanctity and is based more on the ‘absolutizing’ of selfishness than on authentic openness to the absolute.” “We have an obligation to denounce violations of human dignity and human rights, to expose attempts to justify every form of hatred in the name of religion and to condemn these attempts as idolatrous caricatures of God.” God is holy, the pope said, and “he is the God of peace.” Christians, too, must treat everyone as brother and sister if they are to truly pray to God, the father of all humanity, the pope said. “It is of little or no use to raise our voices and run about to find weapons for our protection,” he said. “What is needed today are peacemakers, not fomenters of conflict; firefighters, not arsonists; preachers of reconciliation and not instigators of destruction.” The pope again appealed for people to address the root causes of terrorism, like poverty and exploitation, and stopping the flow of weapons and money to those who provoke violence.
“Only by bringing into the light of day the murky maneuverings that feed the cancer of war can its real causes be prevented,” he said. The pope and Sheik el-Tayeb embraced after the sheik gave his introductory address, which emphasized that only false notions of religion, including Islam, lead to violence. The grand imam expressed gratitude for the pope’s remarks in which he rejected the association of Islam with terror. The sheik began his speech by requesting the audience stand for a minute’s silence to commemorate the victims of terrorism in Egypt and globally, regardless of their religions. “We should not hold religion accountable for the crimes of any small group of followers,” he said. “For example, Islam is not a religion of terrorism” just because a small group of fanatics “ignorantly” misinterpret texts of the Quran to support their hatred. The security surrounding the pope’s arrival seemed typical of many papal trips even though the country was also in the midst of a government-declared three-month state of emergency following the bombing of two Coptic Orthodox churches on Palm Sunday. The attacks, for which Islamic State claimed
responsibility, left 44 people dead and 70 more injured. Egypt Prime Minister Sherif Ismail and other Egyptian officials warmly greeted Pope Francis on the airport red carpet after the pope disembarked from the plane. They walked together, chatting animatedly, to the VIP hall of Cairo International Airport, then the pontiff was whisked off to the presidential palace to meet el-Sissi at the start of his brief 27-hour visit. Pope Francis repeated his calls for strengthening peace in his speech to hundreds of officials representing government, the diplomatic corps, civil society and culture. “No civilized society can be built without repudiating every ideology of evil, violence and extremism that presumes to suppress others and to annihilate diversity by manipulating and profaning the sacred name of God,” he said. History does not forgive those who talk about justice and equality, and then practice the opposite, he said. It is a duty to “unmask the peddlers of illusions about the afterlife” and who rob people of their lives and take away their ability to “choose freely and believe responsibly.”
Belgian church apologizes for role in mistreating mixed-race people By Jonathan Luxmoore Catholic News Service
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XFORD, England (CNS) — Belgium’s Catholic Church has apologized for its role in mistreating mixed-race people, who were born in colonial times to European fathers and African mothers and later taken away for adoption. “The history of many metis, born of a Congolese, Rwandan or Burundian mother and a white father [serving] in one of these countries, is an obscure episode of Belgian colonization,” the bishops’ conference said in an April 26 statement. “These children were long designated pejoratively as ‘mulattoes,’ while
the colonial authorities, both civil and ecclesiastical, considered them a real problem. . . . We express regret for the part played in this by the Catholic Church.” The statement was published after an official church apology was delivered by Bishop Johan Bonny of Antwerp during an April 25 symposium in the Belgian Senate. It said many mixed-race people had been placed in orphanages and boarding schools run by Belgian religious orders, permanently cutting them off from their families. “This was the beginning of a sorrowful separation and long search,” the bishops said. “All the good intentions and motivations behind their placement in institutions led to an alien-
ation, which was even greater given their origin and true identity.” While colonial segregation was in force, up to 20,000 people were believed born to white fathers and African mothers in Belgian-ruled Congo, Rwanda and Burundi. Many were forcibly fostered by Catholic orders and sent to Belgium for adoption in 1959-62 without their mothers’ consent. In 2016, the Metis de Belgique association, representing mixed-race adoptees, appealed for state recognition of their mistreatment and discrimination. The bishops’ conference statement said all organizations with historical documents, including birth and marriage certificates, were asked to make them available to researchers, and it said the church counted on the Belgian
government to find solutions. Jesuit Father Tommy Scholtes, spokesman for the bishops’ conference, said information was being sought from church groups in Rome and Africa for help in establishing the true identity of mixed-race citizens and would be coordinated by the Belgian church’s family commission. “It took till last year for this issue to be raised — and the church wishes to apologize for the whole of society, not just for itself,” Msgr. Scholtes told Catholic News Service April 27. “Although no firm statistics are available, we know a lot of these children came from Catholic missions, who did good charitable work but failed to preserve [the children’s] identity,” he added.
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CLASSIFIEDS EMPLOYMENT Freelancers needed - Great for retired journalists, and writers/photographers looking to supplement their income! The Leaven, the official newspaper of the Archdiocese of Kansas City in Kansas, is looking for freelance reporters and photographers to assist staff in covering this busy beat. Story and photo shoots are assigned on an as-needed basis. Applicants from all parts of the archdiocese welcome. For freelance reporting, a working knowledge of the Catholic Church and excellent writing and reporting skills are a must. Actual professional journalism experience is a plus. For photography, a diverse portfolio with a working knowledge of the Catholic Church is required; experience in low-light photography and professional photojournalism experience is a plus. To be considered for freelance reporting, send a letter of interest, a simple resume and published clips or links to what you’ve written. To be considered for freelance photography, send a letter of interest, a simple resume and samples of your work or a link to an online portfolio. Send all materials by email to: freelancefor leaven@gmail.com.
English teacher - Rockhurst High School is accepting applications for a full-time teacher of English. Successful candidates should hold a master’s degree and be certified. If you are interested in joining our community, send your letter of interest, resume/cv and completed application (available online) to Mr. Scott Duschen, assistant principal for academic affairs, at: sduschen@rockhursths. edu. Teacher assistant - Special Beginnings, Lenexa, is seeking full- or part-time after school teacher assistants at all locations. We are looking for a teacher assistant candidate who has an excellent work ethic, heart for children and a willingness to learn more about early childhood education. Experience and/or education is a plus, but we will train the right candidate. Teacher assistants will work with the lead teacher to care for and educate the children. Primary responsibilities include assisting the lead teacher with: care and supervision of children, lesson plan implementation, parent communication, and cleanliness and organization of classroom. Starting hourly pay ranges based on experience and education. Pay increases are based on job performance. Opportunities for advancement are available, as the company prefers to promote from within. Apply by sending an email to: chris@specialbeginningsonline.com or in person at 10216 Pflumm Rd., Lenexa, KS 66215. Looking for something new? - Use your administrative skills to help a developmental optometrist change people’s lives. Monday - Thursday, 11 a.m. - 6 p.m.; summer hours vary. No health benefits. A background in Word, Excel, QuickBooks, customer service and medical office experience helpful. Send resume to: Dr. Beth Basin, 13600 Washington, Kansas City, MO 64145 or send by email to: bbazin@visiondevelop.com. Teachers’ aide positions - St. Ann Young Child Center in Prairie Village is interviewing for the 2017-18 school year. Aide positions for preschool and Kids’ Day Out. Hours are from 9 a.m. - 2:45 p.m. Monday - Thursday and 9 a.m. - noon on Friday. Great for moms with kids in school! An aide’s position for the afterschool program: Monday through Friday from 3 - 5:30 p.m. We are also looking for substitutes. Competitive pay. Great environment to work. For more information, call Tati at (816) 716-4676. Full-time openings - Padre Pio Academy in Shawnee, which offers a classical curriculum, has full-time openings for the 2017-18 school year. For more information and details, contact Joanne at (913) 530-6553. Pastoral associate for justice and life - St. Francis Xavier Jesuit Parish, Kansas City, Mo., seeks a pastoral associate for justice and life. Oversees social justice ministries and direct service programs; creates formation and education programs on social justice and Catholic social teaching topics; manages budget; oversees volunteers; manages the food pantry; and meets one-on-one with clients seeking help with emergency assistance. Requirements: bachelor’s degree (MA preferred) in theology, social work or social sciences; preferred experience in parish social ministry or social justice work. Full description is online at: www.sfx-kc.org. Applications due May 10. Send cover letter, resume, three references to: search@sfx-kc.org. Theology teacher - Bishop Miege High School is seeking a theology teacher for the 2017-18 school year. Send letter of interest and resume to Mariann Jaksa at: mjaksa@bishopmiege.com. Drivers - Special Beginnings Early Learning Center is seeking part-time drivers for its school-age program located in Lenexa. Candidates must be able to drive a 13-passenger minibus, similar to a 15-passenger van. CDL not required, but must have an excellent driving record. Candidates would pick up children from area schools and then work directly with them when arriving back at the center. Experience preferred. Must have strong work ethic and the ability to work with children. Insurance provided. Background check will be conducted. Great opportunity for retired persons or those seeking a second job. Job responsibilities include: ensuring safety and well-being of children who are being transported at all times, including loading and unloading. Driving short, round-trip routes to elementary schools in Lenexa/Olathe area. Summer only: Driving short, roundtrip routes to two Lenexa city pools. Maintaining mileage log. Keeping interior of vehicle clean. Apply by sending an email to: chris@specialbeginningsonline.com or in person at 10216 Pflumm Rd., Lenexa, KS 66215.
Child care workers - John Paul II Preschool/Child Care, 71st and Metcalf, Overland Park, is seeking fun-loving, energetic individuals, age 18 or over, to work with our school-age children this summer. Responsibilities include: interacting with children during indoor and outdoor play; supervising on field trips; serving snacks; and helping to maintain the classroom space. Great job for a college student! We also have permanent positions available for experienced child care providers working with our younger children. Hourly wage based on education and experience. Contact Donna at: dhogue@arch kckcs.org for more information or to apply. Physical education teacher - Rockhurst High School is accepting applications for an FTE physical education teacher. Participation in athletic co-curricular coaching is an expectation of the position. Interested persons should submit a letter of interest, resume and completed application (application is available online at: www. rockhursths.edu) to Mr. Michael Dierks, athletic director, at: mdierks@rockhursths.edu on or before May 18. Sales professional - We respect your many years of experience; we value and need your wisdom. We only ask if you are “coachable”? If so, Catholic Cemeteries of Northeast Kansas has openings for sales trainees in our Johnson, Shawnee and Wyandotte County area cemeteries. An excellent earning of $40K to $50+ in commissions is legitimate income potential for the first year. Training allowance your first 30 days, then draw commission with bonus opportunities. Medical, life, dental, optical, prescription, 401(k) plans, etc., are some of the many perks our employees receive. Excellent opportunities for women and men interested in a sales career and in helping people. Advancement opportunities are available for hard-working and focused individuals. Must be willing to work some evenings and weekends when our client families are available to see us in their homes. Once you learn our formula for success, your schedule is determined by you. Please email your resume and contact information to: dvanthullenar@cathcemks.org or fax to (913) 353-1413. Building attendant - Savior Pastoral Center has an immediate opening for a night and weekend part-time building attendant. On-site lodging is provided as the individual is required to live at the center. This position is responsible for hospitality, security and light custodial duties. The ideal candidate will have some customer service experience. Work hours vary and average 15 – 20 hours per week. Mail cover letter, resume and application (available at: www.archkck.org/jobs) by May 9 to: Human Resources, Building Attendant Search, 12615 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, KS 66109 or send by email to: jobs@archkck.org. A complete job description can be found at: www.archkck.org/jobs.
SERVICES Agua Fina Irrigation and Landscape The one-stop location for your project! Landscape and irrigation design, Installation and maintenance. Cleanup and grading services It’s time to repair your lawn. 20% discount on lawn renovations with mention of this ad. Visit the website at: www.goaguafina.com Call (913) 530-7260 or (913) 530-5661 Bankruptcy consultation - If debts are overwhelming you, seek hope and help from compassionate, experienced Catholic attorney, Teresa Kidd. For a free consultation, call (913) 422-0610; send an email to: tkidd@kc.rr. com; or visit the website at: www.teresakiddlawyer. com. Please do not wait until life seems hopeless before getting good quality legal advice that may solve your financial stress. WATKINS TEAM Honest, reliable home selling for over 50 years Parishioner of Queen of the Holy Rosary, Overland Park Doug (913) 593-6362 | watkinsd@reecenichols.com Dirk (913) 219-2965 | dirkw@reecenichols.com Reece Nichols Real Estate Professional window cleaner - Residential only, fully insured. Over 40 years experience. Free estimates. Contact Gene Jackson at (913) 593-1495. Rodman Lawn Care Lawn mowing, aeration, verticutting, fertilizing Hedge trimming, mulching, leaf removal, gutter cleaning Fully insured and free estimates John Rodman (913) 548-3002 Mike Hammer local moving - A full-service mover. Packing, pianos, rental truck load/unload, storage container load/unload, and in-home moving. No job too small. Serving JoCo since 1987. St. Joseph, Shawnee, parishioner. Call Mike at (913) 927-4347 or send an email to: mike@mikehammermoving.com. Speedy Guzman Moving and delivery Licensed and insured Anytime (816) 935-0176 Doll dresses - First Communion dress sets for 18” or American Girl dolls. Includes dress, veil, shoes, tights and cross necklace. Full line of doll clothes and accessories in south Johnson County. Call Patty at (913) 3459498.
Tree Trimming Tree Trimming/Landscaping Insured/References Free Estimates/Local Parishioner Tony Collins (913) 620-6063
HOME IMPROVEMENT Swalms organizing - downsizing - cleanout service – Reduce clutter – Any space organized. Shelving built on-site. Items hauled for recycling and donations. 20 years exp.; insured. Call Tillar at (913) 375-9115. WWW. SWALMSORGANIZING.COM. EL SOL Y LA TIERRA *Commercial & residential * Lawn renovation *Mowing * Clean-up and hauling * Dirt grading/installation * Landscape design * Free estimates Hablamos y escribimos Ingles!! www.elsolylatierra.com Call Lupe at (816) 935-0176 The Drywall Doctor, Inc. – A unique solution to your drywall problems! We fix all types of ceiling and wall damage — from water stains and stress cracks to texture repairs and skim coating. We provide professional, timely repairs and leave the job site clean! Lead-certified and insured! Serving the metro since 1997. Call (913) 768-6655. Local handyman - Painting int. and ext., staining, wood rot, power wash, decks, doors and windows, masonry, hardwood floors, gutter cleaning, water heaters, toilets, faucets, garbage disposals, ceiling fans, mowing and more!! Member of Holy Angels Parish, Basehor. Call Billy at (913) 927-4118. DRC Construction We’ll get the job done right the first time. Windows - Doors - Decks - Siding Repair or replace, we will work with you to solve your problems. Choose us for any window, door, siding or deck project and be glad you did. Everything is guaranteed 100% (913) 461-4052 www.windowservicesoverlandpark.com drcconswindows@gmail.com Concrete construction - Tear out and replace stamped, stained or colored patios and drives. Retaining walls, footings, poured-in-place safe rooms, excavation and hauling. Asphalt drives and lots. Fully insured; references. Call Dan at (913) 207-4371 or send an email to: dan deeconst@aol.com. Kansas City’s Premier Deck, Fence & Concrete - We repair, power wash and stain wood decks and fences. We power wash and seal concrete drives, walkway, pool decks and more. Call Brian at (913) 952-5965. Member of Holy Trinity Parish. Thank you for another great year - Through your support, my family has been blessed and my business has grown. We do windows, trim, siding, doors, decks, interior and exterior painting, wood rot, bathroom renovations, tile and sheetrock. If you need work done around your home, we can do it. Josh (913) 709-7230. HARCO Exteriors LLC Your Kansas City fencing specialists Family owned and operated (913) 815-4817 www.harcoexteriorsllc.com NELSON CREATIONS L.L.C. Home remodeling, design/build, kitchens, baths, all interior and exterior work. Family owned and operated; over 25 years experience. Licensed and insured; commercial and residential. Kirk and Diane Nelson. (913) 927-5240; nelsport@everestkc.net STA (Sure Thing Always) Home Repair - Basement finish, bathrooms and kitchens; interior & exterior repairs: painting, roofing, siding, wood replacement and window glazing. Free estimates. Call (913) 491-5837 or (913) 579-1835. Email: smokeycabin@hotmail.com. Member of Holy Trinity, Lenexa. Handyman/remodeler - Quality service with references. Kitchens, baths, tile, painting, garage doors and openers, decks and wood rot repair. Call Jeff at (913) 915-4738. Rusty Dandy Painting, Inc. – We have been coloring your world for 40 years. Your home will be treated as if it were our own. Old cabinets will be made to look like new. Dingy walls and ceilings will be made beautiful. Woodwork will glow. Lead-certified and insured. Call (913) 341-9125. Custom countertops - Laminates installed within 5 days. Cambria, granite, and solid surface. Competitive prices, dependable work. Call the Top Shop, Inc., (913) 962-5058. Members of St. Joseph, Shawnee.
CAREGIVING Caregiving - We provide personal assistance, companionship, care management, and transportation for seniors in their home, assisted living or nursing facilities. We also provide respite care for main caregivers needing some personal time. Call Daughters & Company at (913) 341-2500 and speak with Laurie, Pat or Gary.
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Looking for assisted living at home? - Before you move, call us and explore our in-home care options. We specialize in helping families live safely at home while saving thousands of dollars per year. Call today for more information or to request a FREE home care planning guide. Benefits of Home - Senior Care, www.benefits ofhome.com or call (913) 422-1591.
FOR SALE Residential lifts - New and recycled. Stair lifts, porch lifts, ceiling lifts and elevators. St. Michael’s parishioners. KC Lift & Elevator at (913) 327-5557. (Formerly Silver Cross - KC) Book sale - The 23rd annual book and bric-a-brac sale will be held on May 12 and 13 at the Turner Baptist Church, 701 S. 55th St., Kansas City, Kansas. Proceeds go to the Shepherd’s Center of Kansas City, Kansas. For sale - Single crypt at Resurrection Cemetery in Lenexa. Holy Family Mausoleum, St. Joseph corridor, tier D, #13. Valued at $6850, selling price is $6250 including opening and closing. Holy Spirit parishioner. Call (913) 642-1017. For sale - Tandem vault located at Mt. Calvary Cemetery in Kansas City. Patio II, tier C, crypt 105. Eye level with peaceful view and surroundings. Includes perpetual care. Current market value over $12,000. Selling price is $10,000. Call (913) 208-2703. For sale - Three individuals plots located at Mt. Calvary Cemetery in Kansas City. Located in section 3, old lot 195, spaces 10, 11 and 12. Current value is $2070 per space. Selling price is $1600 per space or $4500 for all three. Call (913) 208-2703. For sale - Double niche at Resurrection Cemetery in Lenexa. Holy Family Mausoleum, Jesus Son of God corridor, tier A. Includes bronze diamond companion urn. Current price $6690, selling price $5000. Call (913) 8976433. For sale - Original oil and watercolor paintings; framed lithographs; three framed WWI fighter planes; signed, framed Spencer Tracy photo; Native American figurines; collectible dolls and gnomes; 1950s ceramics and ceramic cats; designer purses of all sizes; pewter; cast iron pots and pans; old cookbooks; Tom & Jerry bowls and mugs; pro-life angels; Fitbit; Garmin; jewelry. Downsizing, help a veteran. (913) 579-0279.
WANTED TO RENT Wanted to rent - Retired nurse is looking for move and would like to do work in exchange for rent. Is willing to pay up to $700 per month, or a combination of above. Will consider moving outside the metro area. Needs privacy and quiet. Call (913) 579-5276.
WANTED TO BUY Will buy firearms and related accessories - One or a whole collection. Honest evaluation and top prices paid. Contact Tom at (913) 238-2473. Member of Sacred Heart Parish, Shawnee. Wanted to buy - Antique/vintage jewelry, lighters, fountain pens, post card collections, paintings/prints, pottery, sterling, china dinnerware. Renee Maderak, (913) 631-7179. St. Joseph Parish, Shawnee Wanted to buy - Cucina LLC is an entity that buys commercial real estate. Lou Serrone, a member of Good Shepherd, and Tom Disidore, a member of St. Agnes, are members of Cucina LLC. Tom and Lou are licensed brokers in both Kansas and Missouri. If you are a seller of commercial real estate, call Lou at (913) 219-9924. Wanted to buy - I buy antiques and collectibles Vintage and Native American jewelry Navaho and Oriental rugs Old postcards and photographs Coca-Cola signs and old silverware Call (913) 593-7507.
BOYS CAMP Camp Kapaun Catholic boys camp. Sports, team building, virtue growth, spiritual formation, Boys ages 9 - 14. June 4 - 10, Conception Abbey, Missouri Email Victor Rodriquez at: vcrodrc@gmail.com
Wagner’s Mud-Jacking Co.
Specializing in Foundation Repairs Mud-jacking and Waterproofing. Serving Lawrence, Topeka and surrounding areas. Topeka (785) 233-3447 Lawrence (785) 749-1696 In business since 1963 www.foundationrepairks.com
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CALENDAR POLSKI DAY CELEBRATION All Saints Parish 809 Vermont, Kansas City, Kansas May 6 from 11 a.m. - 7 p.m.
There will be a parade, polka bands, dancing, Polish food, a Polish Mass and Polish items for sale. New volunteers are always a welcome addition to help staff the event. Donations are welcome as well. Profits from the event help preserve the historic All Saints Parish, School and parish grounds. For more information or to volunteer, call Cathy Kolenda-Smith at (913) 721-0081.
SPRING FLING SINGLES DANCE Curé of Ars Parish (school cafeteria) 9410 Mission Rd., Leawood May 6 from 7:30 - 11 p.m.
The cost to attend the dance is $20 at the door. The cost includes meat hors d’oeuvres, snacks, desserts, wine, beer, soda and water. Drive around to the lighted parking behind the school. For more information, call (913) 649-5770.
BLISTERS FOR SISTERS WALK-A-THON St. Thomas More Parish 11822 Holmes Rd., Kansas City, Missouri May 6 at 9 a.m.
The day begins with registration followed by a short walk, Mass and lunch. The day is an opportunity to thank the Sisters for their work in the community. For more information, go online to: www.kansascityblistersforsisters. org.
OPEN HOUSE FOR MISS FAY Church of the Nativity 3800 W. 119th St., Leawood May 13 from noon - 2 p.m.
Come celebrate Miss Margaret Fay’s 100th birthday and honor her years of teaching students at Bishop Ward High School.
A DECADE OF THE ROSARY IN SACRED MUSIC Holy Angels Parish 15408 Leavenworth Rd., Basehor May 13 at 6 p.m.
This concert in honor of the 100th anniversary of Our Lady’s apparitions at Fatima will be performed by the Most Pure Heart of Mary Schola Cantorum children’s choir. The suggested donation is a freewill offering.
100-YEAR ANNIVERSARY OF OUR LADY OF FATIMA Most Pure Heart of Mary Parish 3601 S.W. 17th St., Topeka May 7, various times
A rosary will be recited 30 minutes prior to each of the 7:30, 9:30 and 11:30 a.m. Masses. A presentation will be made by the head guardian who travels with the statue in O’Connor Hall after the 11:30 a.m. Mass to allow time for questions. Refreshments will be served following each Mass in O’Connor Hall. For more information, call Beverly Brown at (785) 272-2187 or Peggy Longstaff at (785) 383-2254.
RETROUVAILLE Savior Pastoral Center 12601 Parallel Pkwy., Kansas City, Kansas June 2 -4
Retrouvaille provides help for marriage problems/difficulties/crises. The program offers hope that it is not too late for a better marriage. For more information, contact the registration team at (800) 470-2230 or visit the website at: Help OurMarriage.com.
Honoring Our Lady of Fatima Pilgrim Virgin Tour
100th Anniversary - 1917 -2017 May 5th - Sacred Heart /5501 Montecello Rd., Shawnee, KS 66226 May 6th - St. Francis Xaiver / 214 Juniatta, Burlington, KS 66839 May 7th - Most Pure Heart of Mary/1800 SW Stone, Topeka, KS 66604 May 8th -St. John the Evangelist /1229 Vermont, Lawrence, KS 66044 May 9th -St. Gregory / 1310 Carolina St., Marysville, KS 66508 May 10th - Holy Spirit / 11300 W. 103rd, OP, KS 66214 May 11th - Holy Name / 16 S. Iowa, Kansas City, KS 66103 May 13th -Cathedral of St. Peter/416 N. 14th ,Kansas City, KS 66102 May 13th - St. Michael/14251 Nall Ave., Leawood, KS 5 p.m. Mass May 14th - St. Michael/14251 Nall Ave., Leawood, KS, 66223 May 15th - Cure’ of Ars /9401 Mission Rd., Leawood, KS 66206 May 16th - Ascension / 9510 W. 127th, OP, KS 66213 May 17th - Prince of Peace / 16000 W. 143rd, Olathe, KS 66062 May 18th - St. Paul / 900 S. Honeysuckle, Olathe, KS 66061 May 19th -Holy Trinity/13520 W. 92nd, Lenexa, KS 66215 May 20th -Divine Mercy /555 W. Main St. Gardner, KS Mass 5 p.m. May 21st -Divine Mercy /555 W. Main St. Gardner, KS 66030
NATIONAL PILGRIM STATUE OF OUR LADY OF FATIMA St. Francis Xavier Parish 214 Juniatta St., Burlington May 6 at 8 a.m. St. John the Evangelist Parish 1234 Kentucky St., Lawrence May 8 at 7:30 a.m. St. Gregory the Great Parish 1310 Carolina, Marysville May 9 at 7:15 a.m. Holy Spirit Parish 11300 W. 103rd St., Overland Park May 10 at 6:45 a.m. Holy Name Parish 16 S. Iowa St., Kansas City, Kansas May 11 at 8:30 a.m.
Come join in prayer and veneration of the statue blessed by Pope Paul VI and to honor our Heavenly Mother on the 100th anniversary of her appearances at Fatima.
‘GROWING IN AWARENESS OF THE QUR’AN’ Precious Blood Renewal Center 2130 St. Gaspar Way, Liberty, Missouri May 17 at 6 p.m.
The evening will begin with a soup supper. The talk, presented by Biagio Mazza, will be: “Growing in Awareness of the Qur’an: How Does It Relate to the Bible?” The suggested offering is $20. Register online at: info@pbrenewalcenter. org or by calling (816) 479-0698.
BOWL FOR SNEAKERS-THON Gage Bowl 4200 S.W. Huntoon, Topeka
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May 20 from 3:30 - 6 p.m.
Tickets cost $10 each and include two games of bowling and shoes. There will also be a raffle for K-State, KU, Royals and Chiefs items, as well as gift certificates to local restaurants. All proceeds go toward providing new sneakers for area kids in need. We need bowlers and businesses or individual sponsors for this bowling event. For more information, go online to: www.solereason. net.
WRITER’S WORKSHOP Keeler Women’s Center 2220 Central Ave., Kansas City, Kansas Wednesdays in May from 11 a.m. - 12:30 p.m.
This writer’s workshop will be presented by Kari O’Rourke. The first session will be held May 3. Learn how to make your voice be heard.
CAMP KAPAUN Conception Abbey 37174 State Hwy. W, Conception, Missouri June 4 - 14
This is a Catholic boys camp featuring sports, team-building, virtue growth and spiritual formation. For more information, send an email to Victor Rodriquez at: vcrodrc@gmail.com.
CELEBRATE RECOVERY St. Pius X Parish (Youth Room) 5500 Woodson, Mission Thursdays at 7 p.m.
Celebrate Recovery is a Christ-centered recovery program for all who are struggling with the disease of addiction. For more information, call Joe at (913) 228-8279 or send an email to: joequinn@sbcglobal.net. Information will be kept confidential.
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COMMENTARY FOURTH WEEK OF EASTER May 7 FOURTH SUNDAY OF EASTER Acts 2: 14a, 36-41 Ps 23: 1-6 1 Pt 2: 20b-25 Jn 10: 1-10 May 8 Monday Acts 11: 1-18 Pss 42: 2-3; 43: 3-4 Jn 10: 11-18 May 9 Tuesday Acts 11: 19-26 Ps 87: 1-7 Jn 10: 22-30 May 10 Damien de Veuster, priest Acts 12:24 – 13:5a Ps 67: 2-3, 5-6, 8 Jn 12: 44-50 May 11 Thursday Acts 13: 13-25 Ps 89: 2-3, 21-22, 25, 27 Jn 13: 16-20 May 12 Nereus and Achilleus, martyrs; Pancras, martyr Acts 13: 26-33 Ps 2: 6-11 Jn 14: 1-6 May 13 Our Lady of Fatima Acts 13: 44-52 Ps 98: 1-4 Jn 14: 7-14
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y office at The Leaven was robbed recently. It happened sometime after Easter. Since there wasn’t a paper that week, I didn’t come into the office until the Friday after Good Friday. That’s when I discovered that almost everything in my office was gone. The table there was cleared, as was the desk area around my computer. The crook was very selective. He left my computer untouched, but grabbed every scrap of loose paper. Strangely, the recycling bin by my desk was practically overflowing with stuff that the robber apparently didn’t want. The robbery was definitely an inside job. Knowing that I wasn’t going to be in for a few days, one of my staff — oh, let’s just call him Todd — decided to help me out of my disorganization by tidying things up a bit. Anticipating a move like this sometime, I hung a tiny, tasseled pillow from the doorknob to my office that reads: “Please don’t clean up my mess. You’ll confuse me and screw up my world.” Like everyone else at The Leaven, he paid no attention to those words. Honestly, my office looked fantastic. But
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FATHER MARK GOLDASICH Father Mark is the pastor of Sacred Heart Parish in Tonganoxie. He has been editor of The Leaven since 1989.
it threw me for a loop. What my staff didn’t know is that I’ve secretly been conducting an experiment in the name of science. Although I’m actually a very neat, precise and incredibly organized person, I “let things go” at my Leaven office in order to gather concrete proof for a theory on productivity and creativity. In a Jan. 21, 2016, blog post on the Rodale’s Organic Life website, Chris Michel wrote an article entitled “The Surprising Health Benefits of Clutter.” Its subhead read: “Before you start purging, find out whether that messy desk is actually good for you.” Taking that idea even
further is a book by Tim Harford called “Messy: The Power of Disorder to Transform Our Lives.” In a review published on the book’s dust jacket, New York Times bestselling author Adam Grant wrote: “Harford shows that if you want to be creative and resilient, you need a little more disorder in your world. It’s a masterful case for the life-changing magic of cluttering up.” Yes, I confess that I’ve been an anonymous colleague of Harford, providing him with empirical evidence for comments on the inside dust jacket that say that the book “celebrates messiness in our lives: why it’s important, why we resist it and why we should embrace it instead. Drawing from research in neuroscience, psychology and social science, as well as captivating examples of real people doing extraordinary things, Tim
Harford explains that the human qualities we value — creativity, responsiveness, resilience — are integral to the disorder, confusion and disarray that produce them.” Furthermore, messiness is actually essential to our life of faith. Could that be why Jesus himself is known as the Mess-iah? Didn’t he make a mess of things while he walked this earth? He messed with the minds of the religious leaders of his time, who had reduced faith to a mere following of seemingly endless rules. Jesus messed with those considered sinners and outcasts, people of little importance — tax collectors, prostitutes, lepers, the poor — and brought them hope and healing. He messed with people’s image of God as merely one who punishes sin “down to the third and fourth generation” by revealing a God of compassion, mercy and love. Jesus messed with all the boxes that people had placed God in and turned things upside down, where “[God] has cast down the mighty from their thrones, and has lifted up the lowly. He has filled the hungry with good things, and the rich he has sent away empty.” At World Youth Day
2013 in Brazil, Pope Francis encouraged participants to make a “mess.” Matthew Warner has fully embraced that idea in his little book “Messy & Foolish: How to Make a Mess, Be a Fool, and Evangelize the World.” There, he writes: “It’s time to make a mess. It’s time to change the world. And we are just the fools to do it.” Todd — I mean, the unknown Leaven thief — has brought me back a box, chock full of my stuff. Slowly but surely, my office and its bare surfaces are getting back to “normal.” My physical clutter, I hope, is actually a reflection of my deep desire to make a significant mess in the world for the Lord. We march through this season of Easter with our eyes set on Pentecost and the coming of the Holy Spirit, that wind that shakes things up and, in a sense, brings holy chaos to order by shattering all the restrictions that we’ve placed on God. That Spirit sends us, full of courage and joy and creativity, to disrupt our tired world as “mess-engers” of the good news of the kingdom. May God bless this mess!
Jesus reveals his divine identity with use of ‘I am’
n our day and age, proving your identity has become more and more important . . . and more cumbersome. It may be necessary to show a photo ID to vote, a passport to enter the country, a password to log onto a computer. Just who are you? In John’s Gospel, Jesus frequently asserts his identity by a phrase beginning with the words, “I am.” We hear an example of that in Sunday’s Gospel reading, Jn 10:1-10. He tells us twice: “I am the gate for the sheep.” Several verses later, he amends that to say, “I am the good shepherd” (Jn 10:14). John’s Gospel stands out for these phrases of
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FATHER MIKE STUBBS Father Stubbs is the pastor of Holy Cross Parish in Overland Park and has a degree in Scripture from Harvard University.
identity beginning with the words, “I am.” Jesus will tell us: “I am the bread of life” (Jn 6:35);
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The only way to give an authentic witness of Christ’s death and resurrection is by sharing the Gospel with humility, Pope Francis said. Christians who preach must resist the temptation of power, pride and worldliness, which can lead to “preaching a wa-
“I am the light of the world” (Jn 8:12); “I am the way, the truth and the life” (Jn 14:6); “I am the vine (Jn 15:5). Even in the recent Passion reading that we heard on Good Friday, Jesus responds to a question with the words: “I am” (Jn 18:5). These sayings of Jesus offer us valuable insights into Jesus’ char-
acter, his purpose, his mission on earth. And even the way that they are framed — by the words “I am” — tells us something very significant about Jesus. The phrase “I am” harkens back to the incident of the burning bush in Ex 3:14. In response to Moses’ question concerning the identity of this mysterious voice which has spoken to him out of the burning bush, “If they ask me, ‘What is his name?’ what am I to tell them?” God replies, “I am who am.” In other words, the phrase “I am” constitutes God’s personal name. In using that phrase to describe himself, Jesus is revealing his divine identity, just as surely
tered-down Gospel without strength, a Gospel without Christ crucified and risen,” the pope said April 25 during morning Mass in the chapel of Domus Sanctae Marthae. “Why is this humility necessary?” he asked. “Precisely because we bring forward a proclamation of humiliation; of glory, but through humiliation.”
as God did from the burning bush. The frequent occurrence of these “I am” phrases in John’s Gospel reinforces Jesus’ fundamental identity as God. By learning something about Jesus’ identity, we also learn something about ourselves. After all, if he is the good shepherd, then we are the sheep. If he is the bread of life, then we are the ones who are nourished. If he is the light of the world, then we are the ones who see. If he is the way, then we are the ones walking on the journey. All that Jesus is, tells us something about who we are and what we are to do.
The pope reflected on the day’s reading from the First Letter of Peter (5:5-14) in which the apostle calls on the early Christian communities to be vigilant and resist the devil who “is prowling around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” — CNS
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Kids’ sports should support, not sabotage, family’s values
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tudies show that involving your child in youth sports has tremendous lifelong benefits — from promoting healthy physical activity to aiding in social and cognitive development. A good program should also play an important role in a child’s moral and spiritual growth. Yet youth sports are experiencing a hidden crisis. While millions of children still participate, a 2016 report by the Aspen Institute’s Project Play initiative shows the number of kids ages 6-12 engaged in a healthy level of active play is actually down to just 26 percent of the population.
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PETER J. PISCITELLO Peter J. Piscitello is the executive director of the archdiocesan Catholic Youth Organization. He can be reached at: pete@cyojwa.org.
Furthermore, participation in nearly every single team sport is down across the country from 10 years ago. The
downward trend is consistent with ages 12-17. Why is this? I would propose two key issues. First, families have more things than ever competing for their time. Technology inside the home provides many options, but promotes a sedentary lifestyle. Outside the home, there are thousands of
options from entertainment to the academic, each promising to provide incomparable value. While there are many great ways to spend your time, it’s also harder than ever to decide what’s best for you and your child. Second, the trend toward early specialization is a real problem for today’s kids. Children are now encouraged to choose a single sport from an early age, often participating many days a week year-round. Driven by business considerations of manufacturers and clubs, the cost of youth sports has become prohibitive for many families. Others have paid the price to enter a system that actually has negative
effects on mental and physical health, as well as skill development. As families, we need to promote the healthy development of well-rounded children. First, take a moment to step back and assess what your priorities are as a family. Make sure that any activity fits within your family’s ability to live a balanced, healthy life centered on Christ. I would encourage you to make physical activity one of these priorities by involving your children in youth sports. However, allow them to try different sports each season, limiting to just one sport at a time. You’ll find that, long term, your family benefits spiritually, mentally
and physically from this approach. Our CYO is committed to this balanced approach and has several different youth sports available throughout the year. With a focus on developing your child’s faith, character and skill, we invite you to see how these distinctly Catholic programs can provide a wonderful experience for your child. We’re also looking for parents to promote CYO values by volunteering as coaches and administrators. Visit your parish or go online to: www.cyojwa. org to learn more about how you can join this movement! Registration for the 2017-18 year begins in early May.
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magine your 10 favorite family photos from this upcoming summer. You might ask, “How can I imagine my 10 favorite family photos from this upcoming summer if it hasn’t happened yet?” The answer, of course, is that memories — like family vacations, celebrations and outings — are often much better experiences with a little forethought and prayerful planning. Our Pinterest page, Archdiocese of KCK Parents, is full of great ideas for amazing family memories. There are “boards” full of ideas for activities, short and long
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DEACON DANA NEARMYER Deacon Dana Nearmyer is the lead consultant for the archdiocesan office of evangelization and Catholic formation of youth.
trips, and fun things to
do around the house. It is a free source of ideas as you are planning out your summer. A couple of weeks ago, my oldest daughter and son-in-law had their first child, our first grandbaby. That was a very special memory.
In that same week, my middle daughter celebrated her confirmation. This was also a wonderful and holy memory. Again, in that same week, my youngest daughter celebrated her birthday. My boys — not to be left out — had a college soccer game in Atchison for the oldest, and the youngest boy played three soccer games in St. Louis. It was a week of many pictures and fabulous memories, but it is very easy to rush through weeks like this. It is easy to forget someone’s feelings and to forget that each conversation that we have
can close or expand the distances between us. We need to pray a lot in these busy, blessed times that we will really listen to each other and that we will speak sweetly and kindly to each other. Both our Parent Resource Page — www. archkck.org/ecatparent ing — and our Pinterest page offer top-shelf Catholic resources on how to communicate in ways that bring people closer together, even in very tough situations. We offer worldclass camps (like Camp Tekakwitha) and service experiences (like Prayer in Action and Catholic HEART Workcamp) and
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Archdiocesan 50th Wedding Anniversary Celebration Church of the Nativity/Leawood, KS June 4, 2017 at 2 p.m. Archbishop Joseph F. Naumann invites couples celebrating their 50th Wedding Anniversary in 2017 to a Golden Anniversary Mass in their honor with reception following. To receive your invitation from Archbishop Naumann, please call the Marriage & Family Life Office at (913) 647-0345.
many other wonderful activities featured on our Youth Formation and Activities Page at: www. archkck.org/ecatyouth. We encourage you to take your family to Family Camp or one of our economical Family Days at Prairie Star Ranch in Williamsburg. We encourage you to plan memorable activities, short and long trips, and fun things to do around the house this summer. But don’t forget to cover these activities in prayer, listen to God about what your family needs. My prayer time nearly always tells me to slow down and really listen.
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Connecting Olathe students with resources to succeed Prince of Peace parishioner Heather Schoonover fosters community relationships with the Olathe School District
By Laurie Bollig Special to The Leaven
Olathe students warmed by Prince of Peace outreach
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LATHE — With the exception of a few years, Prince of Peace parishioner Heather Schoonover has lived here her entire life. “I feel like an Old Settler at times,” the Olathe South High School graduate joked. Since 2006, Schoonover has worked in the Olathe School District’s community development department. She is adept at matching an army of volunteers with several of the district’s key programs, including the Adopt-A-School program, Volunteers Serving Schools and the McKinney-Vento “students in transition” program. “You have to share the story,” explained Schoonover. “In a school district, you could have a student driving a very nice car to school and, in the same classroom, there could be a student who might not know where they’re going to be tonight. “I think some people don’t understand that.” Approximately 28 percent of the student population in the Olathe district receives free or reduced lunches through federal programs. By the end of the 201617 school year, at least 400 students will have been identified as homeless. Teachers, counselors, nurses and even lunchroom workers help Schoonover identify students in need. And then her staff and partners kick into gear. “We connect the dots, making sure . . . that they have free breakfast and lunch, [and] making sure they have assistance with transportation to and from school, because sometimes the families may not have a car.” She and her staff could not do what they do without assistance from civic organizations, faith-based groups and businesses in her hometown. These organizations have embraced the school district and the role they can play in filling gaps wherever they occur. Whether it’s the local Rotary Club, a Lions Club, a social service agency or a church, Schoonover is always listening to her partners. “You have to learn what their bandwidth
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From left, Heather Schoonover and Pam Wolfe work together to train people as part of the Volunteers Serving Schools program within the Olathe School District. is and what their passion is because in true partnerships, it’s only going to be beneficial if it’s win-win for both.” It would be difficult to keep a lot of projects going without volunteers. Schoonover said a perfect example of community involvement — and a program that likely wouldn’t exist without it — is the weekend backsnack project, which assures more than 1,000 children leave school on Fridays with food to sustain them. “We do not have funding nor do we have the staffing to implement a project like that. So for students who are food
‘The Wednesday Wars’ By Laurie Bollig Special to The Leaven
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ne of my favorite books is a young adult book called “The Wednesday Wars,” by Gary Schmidt. It’s about a seventh-grader who meets every Wednesday with a teacher he is sure has it in for him. How ironic, then, that when I signed up as a mentor for the Volunteers Serving Schools program through the Olathe School District, I was assigned a seventh-grade girl that I would meet with every Wednesday. This cute little girl came to the relationship with some scars that weren’t visible. Her father wasn’t in the picture. Her family spent some time without a permanent home. And like just about every 12-year-old girl I know, she had issues with confidence and self-esteem. “God,” I said on that first drive to the middle school, “make sure I don’t screw this up.” My weekly mantra was: “Don’t judge. Just listen.” We get along great. She talks. I listen. I offer her a little unsolicited advice now and then. Our meetings are not without their challenges, though, and sometimes I remind myself it’s not my place to parent her, but to help her feel comfortable in her own skin. I’ve learned a lot in eight months, and I’m hoping she feels the same way. If nothing else, we’ve provided each other with a steady lunch companion, and I’ll look forward to reconnecting with her next September. Interested in being a volunteer mentor in the Olathe School District? Contact community liaison Heather Schoonover at (913) 780-8233.
insecure in the home — although we are providing the free breakfast and lunch during the school day — they are not going to succeed in the classroom without a project like that.” Prince of Peace Parish has stepped up to provide a major service to the district. “The parish as a whole during July has done a gift card drive to bring hope and dignity to these students in transition,” Schoonover said. “Those parish members may never see that student who is struggling, but what they are giving them is a gift so they can get a brand-new outfit for pictures on the first day of school.” Students from St. Thomas Aquinas in Overland Park and St. James Academy in Lenexa have organized activities that directly benefit students in Olathe. Catholic Charities is a key resource Schoonover works with when parents need transitional housing, food or other basic necessities. “It’s like you toss a stone, and it’s a ripple effect that people across the community are helping each other,” she said. Involving faith-based organizations in a public school district was necessary, according to Dr. Erin Dugan, assistant superintendent for Olathe Public Schools. “Faith-based organizations are important in this community — no one’s blinked an eye. They are part of a larger initiative that says that public schools are going to need a lot of community partners to take care of the whole child. We no longer can do it alone,” Dugan said. Schoonover, a single mother of three children, says faith is important in her line of work. “In any job you have to have strong faith,” she said. “There are some days you feel like you hit a home run and you are able to connect on a good resource for a school or a student, but there are days that I do take it home.
nnette Bentzinger and her family started Fleece 4 Friends 10 years ago. Twice a year, her sons — Paxton, Alex and Jacob — gather their friends and others from Prince of Peace Parish in Olathe and make no-sew fleece blankets for those in need. Fleece 4 Friends has focused on supporting the Olathe School District’s outreach program for the last three years because of the great need and through the connection with Heather Schoonover — also a member of the parish and the community liaison for the school district. The Prince of Peace community has made blankets that go directly to the homeless and displaced students in Olathe, literally right down the street from the church — children who need warmth and softness in a world that often leaves them cold and lacking, both literally and figuratively. “It is overwhelming that there are so many students in need. Some are displaced and staying on the couch of a friend, and some are living on the streets,” Bentzinger said. “Heather has a beautiful way of touching the lives of those students in need with her loving heart and encouraging words of hope. “The fleece blanket is an added gift of warmth for them, and we are so happy to offer this work of mercy. It is no surprise that parish members, especially students, turn out for this event that gives to other teenagers like them that are in a bad situation.” Interested in helping with this ministry? Visit the website at: www. fleece 4friends.org.
“Truly, it is faith. But that other thing is a strong blessing that our partners — [who] when you share a need — some things just fall into place.” Schoonover recalled a recent situation in which a child in the district needed a bed. “When an email goes out and it’s taken care of in 24 hours, it’s like you see little miracles happening within your community,” she said. To know Schoonover is to know a person filled with compassion. To see her at work is to see that compassion play out daily, serving the needs of Olathe’s students by connecting them with people and resources throughout the community who can help them achieve a successful future. Dugan said Schoonover is one of the rock stars behind the district’s highly successful programs. “Heather is someone that speaks from her heart,” said Dugan. “She makes the stories real because they are real, and then she seamlessly asks for what she needs. “Heather also does a really nice job of talking about what’s unique about our Olathe community and how we take care of each other,” Dugan concluded. “The sense of community is probably what you pick up from her first. She loves it here.” If you are interested in a partnership or volunteer opportunity with the Olathe School District, call (913) 780-8233.