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ON THE COVER Ellie Eschback and Gordon Choate wanted a simple yet elegant wedding. See how they accomplished that in our “Real Weddings” story. And read how other local couples made their wedding dreams come true as well.

Photo by Halle Morgan Photography

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CONTENTS

66 FEATURES

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66 • BEAUTY

74 • PHOTOGRAPHY

81 • REAL WEDDINGS

Finishing Touches

Vantage Point

Local Love

Keep these tips in mind to achieve your dream, big-day look

Seeing the big day through an important lens

First comes love. Then comes marriage. And in between? A whole lot of planning for the big day

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Say YES to an Amazing Smile.

Did you know the 91% of brides would like to change something about their smile?

At Walding & Associates, we can help you achieve your picture-perfect smile. We have an experienced dental team with the knowledge and skills to provide you with a beautiful, healthy smile on your big day – and for years to come.

Smile down the aisle!

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94 94 • TASTE

The Perfect Match Local inspiration to pull off a fabulous wedding cocktail hour

102 • ADVICE

The Way to the Aisle Our 2020 Wedding Vendor Advice Guide

112 • GUEST TIPS

Best Wedding Guest

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The advice to guide you through being the best wedding guest

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DEPARTMENTS

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26 • MASTHEAD

30 • CONTRIBUTORS

34 • METRO

28 • EDITOR’S NOTE

32 • LETTERS

52 • GREATER LAKELAND

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122 • HISTORY

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ove is not cancelled” is one of the most trending topics on the internet this year.

This message is dedicated to all the couples with 2020 wedding plans, engagement plans, and celebrations of love affected by COVID-19.

As the wedding industry and couples from all over the world continue to navigate through these tough times, we remain hopeful that we will soon be on the other side of the pandemic.

In this issue of The Lakelander, we celebrate love by featuring real weddings, collaborating with industry professionals to inspire you and your future spouse with ideas for your big day. And, most importantly, we are reminded that, “Love is not cancelled.”

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C O N T R I B U T O R S THE WRITERS AND PHOTOGRAPHERS THAT MAKE THE LAKELANDER

“Local Love” written by Caite Hamilton, pg. 81

TIFFANI JONES CAITE HAMILTON A Shenandoah Valley native, Caite Hamilton brings more than a decade of experience in publishing to her position as staff writer of The Lakelander, having served as a magazine editor in Charlottesville, Virginia, for publications covering food, shelter, weddings, and more. She moved to Florida two years ago after marrying her childhood sweetheart, Brian, and transitioned to full-time freelance work, creating and editing content for digital and print clients.

As a new face to the team, what are you most excited about in your role at The Lakelander?

Working as a magazine editor for the last 13 years has taught me that there’s no better way to get invested in or to learn about your community than to work for (and read!) its local publication. That’s what makes me most excited to be working with The Lakelander.

What has been your favorite article to write and why?

Too many to name! In general, any story I get to write about a small business owner is at the top of my list. Both of my parents are entrepreneurs, so hearing about someone’s new project or what they’re psyched about gets me psyched, too.

How do you overcome writer’s block?

If I’m having trouble, I’ll give up on whatever it is I’m writing and come back to it when the deadline is

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looming a little larger. The pressure of a ticking clock usually kicks something in my brain into high gear.

Tell us a bit about your favorite moments from your own wedding day.

We got married in the backyard of my husband’s childhood home. As I walked down the aisle, Brian met me halfway and we walked the rest of the way together. When we got to the “altar” (a giant hexagon he and his dad constructed), everyone erupted in applause. And another favorite detail: We didn’t offer dinner to guests — just a buffet of 18 different cakes.

Where are your go-to spots in Lakeland?

You’ll find me (and Brian) working at Concord Coffee more mornings than our budget should reasonably allow, and on weekends we head downtown for the farmers market and to stop in at a few of our favorites: Pumpernaks and Twenty Seven.

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DAN AUSTIN Dan Austin is a Florida native photographer. He specializes in a unique style that combines the spirit of his subject with a detailed attention to lighting. Through this, Dan achieves a unique and well-thought-out aesthetic that can be seen in his images. danaustinphotography.com See the masthead on pg. 26 for a list of all contributing writers and photographers.

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MARRIAGE IS ESSENTIAL Holding love close in the era of social distance

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hat if we told you that, in some way, the global COVID-19 pandemic is a reminder to the wedding industry that love transcends all?

This year, couples from all over the world continue to make the heartbreaking decision to cancel, postpone, or adjust their wedding plans.

Elaine Welteroth—the New York Times best-selling author, Project Runway judge, and former editor in chief of Teen Vogue—is one of those brides. Like many brides this year, Elaine and her now husband, Jonathan Singletary, drastically changed their wedding plans to comply with COVID-19 regulations and protect the health of their family and friends. The reflections along the way from Elaine’s wedding day are what 2020 is all about.

In a recent interview with Vogue, Elaine recaps her love story with Jonathan, a story that begins when they were both around 12 years old meeting through church and growing up in Northern California. This wasn’t love at first sight; it wasn’t until February 2014 that there was a love interest between the two. After dating for two and a half years, in December 2016, Jonathan proposed to Elaine at a family holiday dinner.

When the couple started the weddingplanning process, they went through a few location ideas and finally settled on the rolling hills of San Diego. The wedding was to take place on Sunday, 5-10-20, which became a meaningful date for Elaine and Jonathan. After all, it was Mother’s Day. The couple’s wedding plans became a tribute to their mothers, and the date became significantly special. Sunday

was also the day they’d met as kids.

“The couple envisioned every detail with the help of their wedding planner, Mindy Weiss. An elevated...Sundaygospel-brunch wedding with elegantly plated soul food and a festive black-tie dress code.” (Vogue) As the world tried to navigate the impact and global spread of COVID-19, it soon became clear that Elaine and Jonathan’s dream wedding wasn’t going to happen. They both felt overwhelming waves of denial, but as reality started to set in, they were reminded of the meaning of their wedding, their chosen date, and their three-and-a-half-year-long engagement.

Elaine was inspired by the online messages saying, “Love Cannot Be Cancelled,” and she and Jonathan were determined to tie the knot on their special date of 5-10-20.

LOVE CANNOT BE CANCELLED Within weeks, the couple completely changed their wedding concept to a virtual wedding. They traded the Bay Area’s rolling hills for their Brooklyn stoop and had most of their guests tune in virtually, except for a handful of local guests, including their mothers.

Elaine and Jonathan’s Brooklyn stoop decor featured a whimsical floral arch that framed the front door and was the centerpiece for their virtual wedding. The couple was challenged to find creative ways to observe the social-distancing guidelines in place by Governor Cuomo, including maintaining six feet of distance at all times. Elaine created a standing

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chart and wrote guests’ names on the sidewalk in chalk to ensure everyone was six feet apart. In-person guests danced in the street and on the sidewalk while keeping a distance from one another. The couple shared their DJ song list with their virtual families so that they too could celebrate from afar.

In the midst of chaos, we are all reminded of what truly matters, what it means to truly celebrate love. For Elaine and Jonathan, it became more about setting aside the ideals and getting back to the rawness of why they were getting married and what it meant for them to continue this journey when circumstances seemed imperfect and chaotic.

Elaine’s motto for her virtual wedding was, “Do the best you can with what you have.” And that’s exactly what she did to make her wedding day “nothing short of magical.”

Historically the term “wedding reception” was coined because of the literal meaning of “reception:” the action of receiving something. The couple receives their community for the first time as a newly married couple; likewise, their friends and family receive the newlyweds as a married couple.

Elaine and Jonathan’s wedding did just that. “The wedding became a communal effort. Whether it was jumping in to DJ, or donating a piece from their own closet to help us pull our wedding looks together, everyone in our tribe contributed something special to the celebration,” Elaine says.

The wedding industry has had an opportunity to truly slow down and help couples reflect and prioritize the aspects of their wedding day that are meaningful to them. We are reminded that love transcends all.

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WHERE TO NEXT The only thing more stressful than planning your wedding is planning the honeymoon of a lifetime, whatever that means for you. Whether you and your future spouse are outdoorsy and

adventurous, foodies who love to indulge in the local cuisine, or somewhere in between, we’ve compiled a list of destinations near and far that are guaranteed to fulfill all of your honeymoon fantasies.

Roll Right Up to the Party From open bars to food trucks, mobile vendors are ready to park and serve up the wedding scene.

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Let Us Accessorize VINTAGE TOUCHES

Pairing the perfect wedding jewelry to complement your bridal look

Much like when designing a room, any outfit (or décor) is going to be even more interesting and well-rounded with a vintage piece or two thrown in. And, between our local Etsy marketplace and stores like Pumpernaks and 360 Unlimited, there’s no, well, limit to the timeless pieces you can find to accessorize your big day, from clutches to cufflinks. Here are a few of our favorite spots for hunting.

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This iconic spot on South Florida Avenue is more than costumes and retro accessories. It’s also a great place to source the kind of special pieces you’ll be able to pass down. A recent visit revealed a selection of beaded cardigans from the 1950s (for those chilly winter wedding send-offs).

Open only on Saturdays, this downtown hole-in-the-wall packs a punch with an overflowing selection of odds and ends. Check here for delicate vintage fascinators with millinery flowers and netting.

An opal brooch, a dainty pearl bracelet, a vintage Samsonite luggage set — the selection of wedding accessories from our local Etsy retailers spans decades and design styles. Translation: There’s a little something for everyone.

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BLING THINGS When it comes to jewelry, Lakeland couples are all about tradition, says Taylor Saunders of Gaines Jewelers. In her 13 years in the business, there’s been only one true shift in preference — and a pop star may be to blame.

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Ever since Justin Bieber got engaged, Saunders says, oval-shaped diamonds, like the one he bought Hailey Baldwin, have come back “in full force.” Part of the appeal, she suspects, is that it’s a shape that makes the diamond appear bigger.

As far as diamonds go, Lakeland couples are becoming more and more interested in labgrown and conflict-free diamonds. Saunders says Gaines works to educate its customers but doesn’t encourage lab-grown stones as they don’t hold a lot of resale value.

While rose gold is gaining steam nationally, and interest in yellow gold has picked up locally over the last three years, Saunders says white gold still reigns supreme in our area. “It’s just classic,” she says.

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BEFORE YOU GET TO “ON SPIRITUAL FRIENDSHIP”

by Aelred of Rievaulx

“LOVE POEM”

by Linda Pastan

Like most details pertaining to your big day, your ceremony is just one more way to show off your personality as a couple.

We asked some local professors from Southeastern University and Florida Southern College to provide their favorite unconventional passages to consider including in your lineup of readings (or even borrowing a few lines for vows!).

“WILD GEESE”

by Mary Oliver You do not have to be good.

You do not have to walk on your knees for a hundred miles through the desert repenting.

You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.

Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.

Meanwhile the world goes on.

Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain are moving across the landscapes, over the prairies and the deep trees, the mountains and the rivers.

Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air, are heading home again.

Whoever you are, no matter how lonely, the world offers itself to your imagination, calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting over and over announcing your place in the family of things.

“The understanding, unconditional, inclusive love that Oliver describes in this poem depicts what marital love should look like: belonging with one another.”

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I want to write you a love poem as headlong as our creek after thaw when we stand on its dangerous banks and watch it carry with it every twig every dry leaf and branch in its path every scruple when we see it so swollen with runoff that even as we watch we must grab each other and step back we must grab each other or get our shoes soaked we must grab each other “Passages like ‘Love Poem’ avoid hyperbole and focus on things that matter, like holding each other, talking with each other, having each other’s back through hard things, relating to each other as real human beings.

Including texts like these in wedding ceremonies could help lay as a foundation a healthier, more fitting, and ultimately more fulfilling understanding of what love and relationships are and can be.”

Paul Corrigan, Associate Professor of English at Southeastern University

A friend is sometimes called the guardian of love, or as some prefer, the guardian of the soul itself. Why? Because a friend in loyal silence protects all the secrets of my spirit. A friend bears and endures, as far as she can, anything wicked she sees in my soul. A friend will rejoice with my soul rejoicing, grieve with it grieving, and feel that everything that belongs to a friend belongs to herself.

Friendship is that virtue through which, by a covenant of sweetest love, our very spirits are united, and from many are made one.

“A marriage, for all the many other things that it is, is at root a kind of friendship.

Theologians and philosophers have written some probing and beautiful reflections on friendship over the centuries, and I wish they were more widely used in wedding ceremonies. I especially love Aelred’s vision because of the way it portrays a friendship (and thus a marriage) as a practice of care for another person’s spirit — protecting, enduring, rejoicing, grieving, loving.”

Brian Hamilton, Assistant Professor of Religion at Florida Southern College

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Grooms and their groomsmen need love, too!

It’s no secret the bride is the belle of the ball on her wedding day, while grooms, along with their closest friends, are often overlooked.

While they might be perfectly fine not being the center of attention, a thoughtful gift could certainly make them feel special.

Still, when searching for a gift for this forgotten bunch, it doesn’t take long to realize they might not be the easiest group to shop for.

So, we’ve done the work for you! We curated a list of great finds for groomsmen and the groom. These gifts won’t fail you, and we’re pretty confident that those on the receiving end will take full advantage of them.

The best part? They’re all from locally owned shops and boutiques.

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OLD FLORIDA ROMANCE he purpose of a styled shoot is threefold: They allow vendors to push the limits and create something fresh; it helps build the vendor’s portfolio with images of styles they’d like to be creating more of; and, for couples planning a wedding, they provide tons of inspiration.

“Effective styled shoots are ones that bring something new to the table — a unique design element, a color palette that isn’t seen very often, etc.,” says Emily Waters of Treasury Rentals, who styled this vintage, tropical, Florida-inspired shoot.

“We loved the idea of playing off vintage colors and patterns, natural tones, lush tropical greenery, and orange details (because of our history in citrus farming),” Waters says. “We also love designing with bold color palettes, and this was right in our wheelhouse.”

A word to the wise: Not all styled shoots are created equal.

Waters strives to style shoots that are attainable for couples, meaning the items are available for rent, and the elements included are affordable. “If elements aren’t accessible for full events, it can be misleading for couples and ultimately be a letdown as event inspiration,” Waters says. In other words, “Do your research.”

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Says planner Alyssa Chamberlin, “It encompasses everything I wanted to showcase that this space could become for a wedding or reception: the texture of unique florals combined with sleek, modern ghost chairs, soft white pipe and drape, a peek of original brick, warmth from the table linen, and the perfect pop of blue in the napkins and place settings.”

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STAY BODY POSITIVE It’s way too easy to beat up ourselves when we step on the scale and don’t see the number we’ve worked so hard for, especially as the wedding day gets closer and closer. Along your journey, discover the things you already love about yourself, and know that you’ll be the most beautiful person in the room, no matter what.

BE CONSISTENT Once you find the sweet spot in your fitness journey, stick with it. Whether it’s cutting out certain unhealthy foods and/or embracing strength training, develop a plan (ideally with a professional trainer) that you can realistically keep up with.

DISCOVER WHAT’S BEST FOR YOU Everybody is different, and every body is different. Most brides have a “goal weight” in mind, but you also have a unique way to reach yours. Fall in love with your journey of not just looking your best but finding new and healthy habits that can last past your “I do.”

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Your engagement photos are the first peek your friends, family, and guests get of you as an affianced couple and, more importantly, the first glimpse they get of the tone of your upcoming wedding. Are you traditional? Outdoorsy? Sentimental? Here are three local couples who got it right.

BOK TOWER GARDENS This one’s a no-brainer. An iconic Singing Tower and 250-acre garden with classic Florida flora from camellias to creeping figs (not to mention the site serves as a refuge for more than 100 bird species which sometimes find their way on grounds) means the nearly 100-year-old property provides a beautiful backdrop, as it did for Desiree and Chris’ snaps.

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PUBLIX What says “Central Florida” more than Publix? It’s not traditional by any means, but Alexandra and Dylan knew they wanted to return to the site where they first met — the aisles of the grocery giant. Turns out, it’s a hidden gem for engagement photos: All of that colorful produce adds whimsy and charm.

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Big Day Budgeting So, you’ve just gotten engaged (congrats!). First things first: Work out your budget.

Shanna Trudell with Be Tru Events says that budgeting is one of the most important things you can do when you start the wedding-planning process. Two foolproof ways to get it right? “Know your realistic guest count before making any big decisions,” she

Treat Yourself Wedding planning is no small feat, and prepping for the big day can be immensely stressful. However, when the wedding is on the horizon and the planning is coming to a close, it’s important to allow yourself to relax and be excited for the nearing marriage. One of the best ways to calm those prewedding jitters is by taking advantage of a day at the spa. With the best local spas offering a variety of services, there are plenty of ways to ease those nerves and treat yourself.

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We asked her to give us a breakdown of wedding costs, as well as a few big-day hacks if your budget is tight.

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Cut Corners Two ways to pinch some pennies? Trudell says to display the menu or program in a frame instead of printing one for each guest, and use loose greenery instead of pre-assembled garlands.

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BUILDING A LOCAL REGISTRY Putting together your wedding registry is arguably one of the most fun parts of wedding prep. It’s important to create a registry that reflects the needs (and wants) of you and your partner, filled with all of your quirks and personal touches. So, we’ve put together a list of the best registry apps and some unique local businesses to consider when filling your lists.

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y the time the Strang family decided to turn their grandparents’ house into a wedding venue, it had been sitting empty for years and in some amount of disrepair. Their grandmother had designed the home in 1942, and, after she passed, they were at a loss for what to do with it. One thing they knew: The property, including the surrounding acreage that had served the family’s citrus business, Gapway Grove Corporation, shouldn’t be sold for parts.

“We had a developer contact us wanting to buy the land and the house and wanting to tear the house down,” says Eve Strang Bass. “It was going to be a golf course or 4,000 tiny little ugly houses.

We wouldn’t even think about that.”

Then, inspiration struck: Bass helped her daughter plan a wedding on the property, and the

idea for Adams Estate as a wedding venue was born.

“When we decided to make it the wedding venue — just letting our imaginations run wild — we realized that there really isn’t a destination wedding spot locally,” Bass says.

The four siblings — Bud Strang of Winter Haven development firm Six/Ten, architect Max Strang, Gapway Grove President John Strang, and Eve — dreamt big, building cottages up the neighboring hill for guest accommodations (and occasional Airbnb rentals), renovating the boathouse to serve as a second venue on the property, and breaking ground for a commercial pool overlooking Lake Alfred, a spa, a conference space with extra lodging, and, eventually, a structure they’re calling Reynolds Hall, which will allow for indoor weddings of up to 150 people.

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The bridal suite spans the entire second floor.

It seems they’ve thought of everything, though Bass admits her daughter’s wedding served as a kind of cheat sheet.

“I got to experience [the property] first-hand, thinking, ‘We need this’ and ‘We need that,’” she says. Once they decided to turn Adams Estate into a venue, one thing they definitely needed was a space for the bride and her bridesmaids to get ready for the big day. Accordingly, the whole second floor of the main home was converted into various suites for the bridal party to eat, hang out, and get their hair and makeup done. There’s even what they call a “quiet room,” with a bed for anyone to lie down if they’re feeling overwhelmed by the events of the day.

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“BASS HELPED HER DAUGHTER PLAN A WEDDING ON T H E P R O P E R T Y, AND THE IDEA FOR A D A M S E S TAT E A S A WEDDING VENUE W A S B O R N .”

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Outside, the team has created a small garden area for ceremonies, and a terrace where two large hickory trees once stood. (Bass can remember her grandfather paying her a penny for every nut she could pick up from the yard.) With its views of the lake, this area serves as a picturesque reception spot, but the whole property is fully customizable, with rooms in the house for buffets, cocktail hours, and even dinner tables for smaller weddings.

Bass, who recently sold her longtime Winter Haven business, The

Shop, to be Adams Estate’s general manager full-time, says one of the best parts of the project has been getting to work with her brothers.

And she thinks her grandmother would be proud of what they’ve been able to accomplish together.

“My grandmother was very family-oriented, but she was also a very good business woman,” Bass says. “I think she would be very happy to know how much joy there is out here. Because who doesn’t have a good time at a wedding?”

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By keeping a few key tips in mind, it’s not hard to achieve your dream big-day look.

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Celestial. Ethereal. Radiant.

Lovely. These are just a few of the words that Patricia Uiterwyk and her team at Venue Salon used as inspiration for this styled hair shoot (more on that later), but she says the starting point isn’t much different for real-life brides. It all comes down to inspiration.

“Pictures say it all,” Uiterwyk says. “Most brides today have Pinterest or screenshots of what they are attracted to.” Often, the stylist will also have a lookbook (or an Instagram feed) on hand with examples of their past work, which provides an opportunity “to show our own work on hair that may be similar to theirs.”

Also recommended: Plan ahead. Uiterwyk says Venue’s stylists might talk through options like extensions, or a new color or cut for the big day. “If given time, we can grow into what they’re looking for,” she says. “We also may recommend, based on their hair goals, coming in for color, deep conditioning, shine service, or dusting (a haircut that only focuses on the very split ends).”

Cassidy’s look — a boho flower crown and natural curls — started a few days before the shoot, with a deep conditioning and color treatment to bring a cooler tone

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to her hair. The look took four hours split over two sessions, so in addition to discussing the time commitment to achieve your desired look, you should also ask your stylist about what’s realistically achievable (both for your particular hair and their level of expertise) and whether it will last the length of the ceremony and reception.

Venue offers complimentary trial sessions for its guests, but Uiterwyk says to get referrals and try several stylists before committing. Between the trial and the actual event, you’ll be spending plenty of time together.

“Brides have to love what is created for them and feel confident,” Uiterwyk says. “What’s sexier than a confident woman?”

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(photo, left) Eyes were the focus of Jessica’s look (“We want the eyes to draw in the lucky person walking down the aisle,” Uiterwyk says). A cluster lash with wispy tips accompanied a smokey shadow with a hint of teal under the liner (plus a “smidge” of glitter). A plummy pink lip with a glossy lip topper is the perfect sidekick. venuesalon.com

Floral headdress by Bloom Shakalaka bloomshakalaka.com

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For Cassidy’s look, Uiterwyk says Venue’s stylists were inspired by the headdress Bloom Shakalaka created. (“It gave us all the bohemian vibes with a little edge,” she says.) They added an ethereal gold leaf to her eyeshadow to pump up the romance, and a nude lip. Natural curls complete the look. venuesalon.com

Floral headdress by Bloom Shakalaka bloomshakalaka.com

THE EXTRA ST YLE A few more tips to make the most of your styling sesh: •A rrive to your appointment with clean, dry hair.

• Wear a button-down shirt for easy disrobing later.

•B ring someone with you who can learn how to remove your veil and preserve your hairstyle post-ceremony.

•C onsider getting a facial a

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week before the wedding or a blow-out the day of the rehearsal dinner. The effects will still be felt on your big day.

DRESS FOR SUCCESS Each of the brides in this article wears dresses and robes provided by Southern Swan Bridal, an appointment-only boutique. Owner Olivia Jacoby

designs many of the gowns herself, including the ones seen here, and says that she strives to create a memorable experience for the brides she serves, from designing to dress-fitting.

“We truly believe that when you treat the bride, her family, and her gown selection with the sanctity and reverence that it deserves, you become not just ‘the store that sold me my gown’ but an experience she will always remember,” Jacoby says.

In addition to her custom work, the designer carries lines from Pronovias, Madeline Gardner, and Carrafina, and robes from Robed with Love, from which five percent of the profits supports the fight against sex trafficking nationwide.

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J. Cisneros of Woodlund Salon found inspiration from a recent trip to New York Fashion Week for his look. He utilized a natural-texture braiding technique, intertwined to create a unique bridal look. “The look was created with softness and intricacy,” he says.

For makeup, artist Naime De La Cruz focused on complementing the model’s blue eyes, with coppery earth tones. woodlundsalon.com

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The inspiration for Laesha’s look was the model herself, says Kaitlin Laing of A Cherished Bride. “Laesha has these killer cheekbones that give her face gorgeous width,” Laing says. For her hair, she created an illusion of height with slickedback sides and volume through the top. Makeup artist Jessica Pipkin accentuated Laesha’s eye shape by pulling the shadow beyond the eye and giving her a thick lash.

“The combination gave her an effortless beauty,” Laing says. acherishedbride.com

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Seeing the big day through an important lens

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Written by

Photography by

Annalee Mutz

Tiffani Jones

There are many important people who will surround you on your big day. From your bridal party to your future spouse, this day is filled with individuals who have played a significant role in your life and will play a significant role on your wedding day.

In addition to these individuals, there’s another person who will also play an important role on this day. They’ll be the one who will handle the most cherished moments and give you the ability to look back on this day with deep fondness. They are the storytellers and memory keepers, and they will be with you every step of the way: the wedding photographer.

Wedding photographers get to see every aspect of a wedding and provide a unique perspective of the big day. From the hiccups to the hoorays, photographers have seen it all and can be a valuable resource in the wedding planning process, too.

Local photographer Tiffani Jones first started shooting weddings in 2009 while working full-time as a registered nurse.

More than 10 years later, she’s now a full-time photographer with over a decade of experience documenting dozens of couples’ big days. She’s here to glean

some insight on what to expect from your wedding photographer and give some overall advice on weddings, too — all from a photographer’s perspective.

How should couples start searching for their wedding photographer?

By the time most couples hire a photographer, they have set their wedding date and booked their venue. If working with a planner, ask about photographers they recommend, keeping in mind the aesthetic of photography you gravitate toward. If you are not working with a planner, try searching your wedding venue and see how photographers have photographed other weddings at your venue.

What important elements should couples consider when choosing a wedding photographer?

Aesthetic, experience, reviews, trust, and budget. Since budgets for weddings hugely vary, you will see price ranges for photographers also vary. Remember that old saying: “You get what you pay for.” Additionally, the photographer’s personality has to gel with the couple’s.

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When should couples first meet with their photographer?

One to one-and-a-half years.

Yes, that soon! Most photographers are booking one to two years in advance, and the early bird gets the worm, so to speak. So, if you really love a particular photographer, book them right away to save your date!

Best questions to ask your wedding photographer?

1. How long have you been professionally shooting weddings?

2. Do you have backup equipment if something malfunctions?

3. How do you back up the files after the wedding to ensure they will be preserved before delivery to the client?

4. W hat if the photographer gets sick, injured, etc.? Will there be a replacement to cover the wedding?

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Top tips for working with your photographer?

Relax – I know that’s easier said than done but just enjoy being with one another, and your family and friends. If you do, you’ll forget there are even cameras around!

Communication – Have you ever heard the saying, “You don’t know what you don’t know?”

Well, that is true especially when it comes to photographing weddings. I generally send out an online questionnaire one month prior to the wedding.

This gives me a lot of logistical and personal information that helps me better serve my couples. From “Do you have any personal things that bother you about yourself in pictures?” to “Are there any family dynamics that I need to be aware of ?”

There’s nothing worse than a couple saying they hate the way they look in their pictures.

Your photographer isn’t a mind reader; tell them what you are self-conscious about so they know how to photograph you at your best. We want to make clients happy!

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H O W T O P H O T O G R A P H Y O U A T Y O U R B E S T .”

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“YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER ISN’T A MIND READER; TELL THEM

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W E D D I N G A N D P R O V I D E A U N I Q U E P E R S P E C T I V E O F T H E B I G D A Y.

WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHERS GET TO SEE EVERY ASPECT OF A

What are your thoughts on “first look” photos?

I think first looks are a personal choice. I never push my clients into doing one. The only times I’d suggest one is if the ceremony is close to sunset (photographers need light) or if the couple wants all photos completed before the ceremony.

Should couples hire a wedding planner?

Yes, yes, and a resounding YES! I know a lot of people think that it’s not a necessity, but I really feel like my couples can enjoy their day without having to deal with all the unforeseen logistical nightmares that can happen on a wedding day.

For example: You’ve planned

a romantic outdoor garden reception under the stars, and it starts storming during your ceremony and the reception space is all set up. Who is going to have a rain backup plan?

Who will implement the plan?

This is one example where an experienced wedding planner turns into a super-powered superhero!

What tips would you give to someone planning a destination wedding?

From a photography aspect, reach out to your top photographers and ask them if they do destination weddings. If so, ask them what their travel fee is to document your day. If that option is out of your budget, try

researching local photographers.

What would be your overall top tips for couples as they plan for their wedding day?

1. Be willing to be flexible during your wedding day.

As much as we professionals like everything to go perfectly, there are certain aspects of the day that we can’t control, like the weather. Know that your team is working very hard for you.

2. Enjoy the people who are attending. This is one of the only times in life you’ll have everyone you have emotionally vested in one room. How awesome is that?

Tiffani Jones iamtiffanijones.com/contact

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First comes love, then comes marriage.

And in between? A whole lot of planning for the big day.

Written by Caite Hamilton

Consider the following six weddings a real-life Pinterest board.

Each is bursting with enviable ideas to borrow for your own celebration, from an elegant color palette to an unexpected catering choice.

SAY “CHEESE” After the ceremony, the couple’s photographer took the whole bridal party downtown for a quick photo session. “We all went to the street and strutted our stuff,” Ellie says. “She got some amazing pictures that we love.”

SWEET AND SIMPLE Ellie Eschbach and Gordon Choate September 26, 2019, at The Sommer Building Photography by Halle Morgan Photography

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Simple yet elegant. That was the order of the day for Ellie and Gordon, who wanted their lateSeptember wedding at The Sommer Building to be one of ease and warmth. For the couple, that meant making choices based not on traditions, but on their own personal preferences.

HERE AND THERE

They eschewed a sit-down dinner, instead opting for passed hors d’oeuvres and charcuterie platters. They bought a cake from Publix and filled the dessert table with multiple choices (for people, like Gordon, who don’t care too much for cake). They chose the wedding colors — dark green, navy, and white — simply because, well, those are their favorites.

Event Planner: Bethany Thomas Officiant: Elijah Hollis Catering: Frescos Flowers: April Hamilton Cake: Publix DJ: Michael Steiner Bride’s Attire: Jessi Rae Bridal Shoes: Sonoma Groom’s Attire: Nathan’s Men’s Store Rings: Wilson Diamond Brokers Hair and Makeup: Melissa Kinsey Videographer: KAL Visuals

Location and price were the deciding factors for the couple when it came to their venue. The Sommer Building owners were so accommodating, Gordon says, they even handled the wedding invitations.

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But their most cherished detail? The vows.

“We wrote our own vows, and they brought us both to tears,” Gordon says. Take, for example, something Gordon said to Ellie: “I vow to accept all your quirks — like putting my cups in the dishwasher before I’ve finished using them, or losing all rational thoughts and emotions when you see something so cute, you have to squish it.”

ON THE VINE Flowers were a big priority for Ellie, who wanted a big bouquet with a lot of greenery and vines. The final product included lavender, white flowers, eucalyptus, and vines.

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T H E D E TA I L S Event Planner: B lue Skies Weddings and Events Garden Ceremony: Hollis Garden Church Ceremony: St. Joseph Catholic Church Reception: Haus 820 Officiant: P hong Nguyen (garden ceremony), Father Nam Hai (church ceremony) Catering: Hao Wah Flowers: Bride’s mom Music: DJ Spynfamous Bride’s Attire: Custom-made in Vietnam Shoes: LuLu’s Groom’s Attire: T raditional Vietnamese ao dai, made in Vietnam (tea ceremony), The Black Tux (other events) Groomsmen’s Attire: The Black Tux Bridesmaids’ Dresses: LuLu’s Rings: Blue Nile Makeup: Angelica Chrysler Beauty Videographer: B en Blondel of Wayfarer Film Co. Reception Décor: Cindy’s Floral

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PETAL PUSHERS Teresa wasn’t too picky about the flowers. All she knew was that she wanted white flowers in a bed of green leaves for the bouquets. She left the rest up to her mom.

“Lucky I did,” she says. “They turned out amazing.”

DOUBLE THE TROUBLE Teresa Dao and Hoang Huynh October 4-5, 2019 Photography by Meche Ausina

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A wedding so nice, they did it twice. That’s what one might say of Teresa and Hoang’s two-day event. They kicked off the celebration with a traditional tea ceremony — a Vietnamese ritual in which the bride and groom serve tea to their future in-laws as a sign of respect — at their parents’ houses, followed by a vow exchange at Hollis Garden. On day two, they were married at St. Joseph Catholic Church

MAKING IT For special DIY touches, Teresa’s mom and older sister fashioned the bouquets for the bride and the bridesmaids, while Hoang’s dad and cousin made the arch that stood behind the officiant for the garden ceremony.

before attending their reception at Haus 820.

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It was a jam-packed weekend, but that only created more opportunities for making memories. Teresa will never forget her favorite one: the moment Hoang surprised her with a choreographed dance to Korean pop song “Call Me Baby” by EXO. Along with his groomsmen — who all practiced separately in St. Petersburg;

Gainesville; and Asheville, North Carolina — Hoang pulled off a seamless performance in front of their 450 guests.

“This was my favorite moment because it made me admire Hoang that much more,” Teresa says.

“Despite our very hectic two-day wedding, he willingly chose to burden himself with this extra stress while also managing the wedding festivities, just to see me happy.”

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WHAT A KNOCK-OUT “Teresa and I met under pretty standard circumstances — through mutual friends, parties, and school functions,” Hoang says. “I remember showing her no mercy when she was the last girl standing in a dodgeball fundraising event.”

The two were friends on Facebook, so Hoang messaged Teresa to apologize “for hitting her square in the face,” which started a months’-long conversation until he built up the courage to ask her on a lunch date.

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SCHOOL ROMANCE After their first meeting during the homecoming dance at George Jenkins High School, Courtney and Brent dated a few years before going their separate ways.

“Inevitably, in a town the size of Lakeland, we would run into each other a few times over the years,” Courtney says. “Despite being apart, we never forgot about each other.” They were married almost 16 years after that first dance.

WHERE THE HEART IS Courtney Athans and Brent LaPonsey February 16, 2019, at Rocking H Ranch Photography by Lindsey Cassidy

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Having lived in Lakeland most of their lives, Courtney and Brent knew Swan City would play an important role in their big day, from the locale to the overall vibe. They picked a date in February, which happened to fall right in the middle of orange season. that we were out in the gorgeous Florida landscape,” Courtney says. Creating that feeling of home was even more important to the couple while they were planning, as shortly after they got engaged, they moved to Atlanta for work.

“We chose to decorate using oranges and magnolias — two items that are distinctly Southern, and definitely Lakeland,” Courtney says.

The fruit and flowers (plus a few books, since both Courtney and Brent are avid readers) covered the reception tables, which sat beneath Spanish moss trees strung with lights.

“The open sky, the rustic barn, the old house, and the sprawling grounds never let us forget

Says Courtney, “We wanted to revel in everything we loved and missed about our home, and I think that we got exactly that in every aspect of our wedding.”

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PRETTY PETALS

Ceremony Venue: St. Joseph Catholic Church Officiant: Fr. Glenn Lopez Catering: Mission BBQ Flowers: T aylormade Floral & Event Design Cake: A Piece of Cake by Maggi in Auburndale Music: DJ Mini Bride’s Attire: E va’s Bridal International (Chicago, Illinois) Shoes: Badgley Mischka Groom’s Attire: Van Heusen Rings: Kay Jewelers Hair: Josh Vasquez Makeup: C hristie Thornsberry (bride), Kortne Fagundo (bridesmaids) Videographer: C layton Cassidy at Devoted Films Linens: M arilyn’s Linens and Rentals Alcohol: Spunky Spirits Seating Chart: Stationery Loft

Taylormade Floral & Event Design helped Courtney realize her vision for simple, natural arrangements.

Both the bouquets and tablescapes included plenty of greenery, white flowers, and, of course, magnolias.

SPECIAL DETAILS To keep her mother, who passed away 10 years ago, close to her throughout the day, Courtney wore her veil and used a blue makeup bag that once belonged to her mom as her “something blue.”

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COLOR STORY Taking a cue from their own neutral wardrobes, the couple chose all black for their wedding party attire. “The theme of our wedding was definitely dark and moody,” Rhiannon says.

ONLY YOU Rhiannon Matthews and Elijah Ray October 7, 2018, at Haus 820 Photography by Brandon Burridge of The Portos

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The wedding of Rhiannon and Elijah is a textbook lesson in “you do you” for your big day. The couple, who met in a criminology class at Southeastern University, left no detail unpersonalized, starting with Rhiannon walking down the aisle to a violin version of their favorite rap song and their Boba tea cocktail hour, to the chicken wing food truck and Volkswagen photo-booth bus send-off.

Let’s back up. Chicken wings?

“Chef Marcus from Gertrude’s Low Country Wing Truck went above and beyond to ensure the food service was smooth,” Rhiannon says. “Elijah and I decided to have that because we love wings, and we only wanted things that we love to be at our wedding.”

And, during dinner, another personal touch: Motown videos on the projector.

“The whole day was us,” Rhiannon says. “I loved that.”

T H E D E TA I L S Officiant: Travis Lowe Day-of Coordinators: A ngelina Colhouer and Samantha of The Apostolic Wife Catering: G ertrude’s Low Country Wings Food Truck Flowers: Thistle + Weeds Floral Co. Cake: J’aime Cakes Bride’s Attire: Alfred Angelo Groom’s Attire: Amazon Rings: Olive Avenue Jewelry Hair: Schatzi C Makeup: Ariel Amir Videographer: Janeya Caryn Boba Tea: Green Island Tea and Yogurt Photo-booth Bus: WildHearts Photo Bus Color Palette

PICTURE PERFECT

DIY-NOT?

Elijah’s favorite moment was hopping into the photo-booth bus — a vintage Volkswagen outfitted with a sofa and camera — “knowing that our hard work and planning turned out amazing.”

Rhiannon says she considers the whole wedding DIY’d, since she and Elijah planned it on their own. Almost everything was thrifted or purchased on Facebook Marketplace.

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A MOMENT LIKE THIS After the ceremony, the couple drove to Lake Mirror for photos.

They count the car ride among their favorite moments of the day.

“It was the first time we were able to escape the noise after saying ‘I do,’” Connor says.

They knew all that was left to do was celebrate.

T H E D E TA I L S Event Planner: Abigail Smart Events Officiant: Ian Thomas Catering: Affordable Catering Flowers: Sarah Stewart Designs Cake: Publix Music: Chris Grainger of Graingertainment Bride’s Attire: Truly Forever Bridal Shoes: ModCloth Groom’s Attire: Macy’s Groomsmen’s Attire: Macy’s Bridesmaids’ Dresses: Birdy Grey Rings: Jeff Hogan Fine Jewelry Hair: Made by Marissa Dela Cruz Makeup: B utterfly Makeup by Olivia Aguirre Videographer: Randall Productions Bartending: T ucker’s Southside Package & Lounge Rentals: Premier Party Rentals Plant Rentals: Johnson Plant Rental

ALL THE RIGHT NOTES Jennifer Cunningham and Connor Lockhart May 25, 2019, at Haus 820 Photography by Nate Chappell

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The best advice Connor and Jennifer received after they got engaged was this: “Guests generally care about three things: the food, the music, and how you made them feel.” The first was easy (they served chicken with a choice of sauces).

The second and third were a bit more complicated.

PLANT LIFE Instead of using drapery to separate the ceremony space from the reception, the couple hired Johnson Plant Rental to create a wall of plants. After the ceremony, the plants were redistributed around the room. “It added so much beauty and greenery throughout the large space,” Connor says.

Their main goal was to make guests feel comfortable — and ready to dance all night.

Since music is their love language, that became the day’s most prominent detail.

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“Music was the biggest part of our wedding day, and that’s reflective of our personal lives as well,” Connor says. From the ceremony music (Jennifer walked down the aisle to “Always” by Tyson Motsenbocker, which was

playing when they got engaged) to the first dance (which Connor wrote and recorded himself), music took center stage.

The couple even curated their own playlist for the cocktail hour.

“We didn’t get to experience it first-hand, but the ability to share something so immensely special with our guests in such a subtle fashion was very fun,” Connor says.

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T H E D E TA I L S Event Planner: A lluring Events Venue: Grand Island Mansion Officiant: B enny Robles Sr., father of the groom Catering: Bella Bru Desserts: Go West Baking and Events Flowers: The Posh Posey Music: DJ Kid Nemesis Bride’s Attire: Galia Lahav Shoes: Jimmy Choo Groom’s Attire: D olce and Gabbana Groomsmen’s Attire: M ilano Exchange Bridesmaids’ Dresses: v arious designers Rings: Scott Shear Hair: Rikke Gajda and Sara Starr Hair Makeup: Miss Marissa Artistry Videographer: C lassic City Films

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EVERY LITTLE THING Attention to detail was the word of the day. Breathtaking flowers were placed throughout the 24,000-square-foot estate. Perhaps the most notable arrangement was on the side of a ridge just beside the outdoor ceremony area; it formed an intricate, monogrammed “R” which matched the monogram on their wedding invitation.

WORTH THE TRIP Melody Morales and Benny Robles Jr. August 17, 2019, at Grand Island Mansion, Sacramento, CA Photography by XSiGHT

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Lakeland residents Benny and Melody Robles love to travel. “It’s the ultimate adventure. Plus, every trip exposes you to new types of people, different ways of living, and opens up your mind,” Melody says.

“So, without hesitation, we decided upon a destination wedding.” The couple chose California because Melody had a great deal of family on the West Coast.

Planning a wedding from 3,000 miles away required a lot of help — and a stroke of luck. “I Googled ‘Sacramento wedding planners’ and ended up going with the first one who called me back,” Melody says.

TOWERING SWEETS Not surprisingly, the Robles had a larger-than-expected cake — 12 tiers, in a variety of flavors, that rose to a whopping seven feet tall.

Brandy West of Go West Events and Bakery said that it was the largest wedding cake her team had ever created.

Wedding planner Aubrey Silva of Alluring Events was not scared by the Robles’ vison — they wanted the most exciting wedding and reception possible.

Formal, but fun. Luckily, between the couple and the planner, there was no shortage of ideas.

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As the 300 guests from around the country filed in, classical musicians set the tone. Despite the formality of the surroundings, the ceremony was

lighthearted and whimsical.

The father of the groom, Benny Robles Sr., officiated and offered an upbeat message of love, sharing many of his ideas in both English and Spanish. “It was my idea to have him officiate,” Melody says. “I wanted him to have a special part in our ceremony.

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UNFORGETTABLE: THE VENUE The bride and her mother had discovered the venue of choice years earlier when the two were looking for a dream destination for Melody’s Quinceanera celebration. The largest private estate in Northern California, Sacramento’s Grand Island Mansion, built in 1920, is a spectacular Italian Renaissancestyled villa. Even if you have never been there, you have probably seen its picture. It has provided the setting for films and music videos, hosted events attended by well-known guests (think President Ronald Reagan), and has frequently been featured in magazines, including National Geographic, Architectural Digest, and more.

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THE PERFECT M ATC H Local inspiration to pull off a fabulous wedding cocktail hour

Written by Charmaine Patterson Photography by Dan Austin Styled by Emily Waters

You made it through the formalities of the wedding ceremony, and now you and your guests are ready to let down your guard. That’s where the long-awaited cocktail hour comes in to shake things up. It’s arguably the best part of a wedding celebration (and potentially the most fun to plan!) as it serves as entertainment for your guests while you prepare to dance the night away.

With so many options to choose from for the tasty bites your guests can enjoy while sipping on a complimentary drink, it’s easy to wonder which one will be the biggest hit.

We asked Cem Demirhan, the executive chef of downtown Lakeland’s Nineteen61 for the perfect pairings of wine and hors d’oeuvres for a wedding cocktail hour. The restaurant has catered local weddings since the fall of 2015. While it specializes in Latin American and Southern cuisine, these cocktails and hors d’oeuvres are guaranteed crowdpleasers for any wedding-guest list.

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A Southern Romance La Chulita (The Cutie) & Blackberry Cryo Popcorn

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The French raspberry liqueur in this cocktail paired with the Blackberry Cryo Popcorn sampler makes it a great option for romantic-themed weddings.

Whether your wedding décor is florals galore or all things pretty in pink, this pairing is a visual and tasty accent to make your wedding day complete.

Demirhan says, “The La Chulita was paired with the Blackberry Cryo Popcorn for its fresh infusion of berries. In the recipe, we use Chambord liqueur as one of our base ingredients to elevate those berries. While the La Chulita is a light and refreshing cocktail, it pairs well with the Blackberry Cryo Popcorn because of its creamy and smooth texture that doesn’t overpower the cocktail.

The combination of berries complements each other not only in taste but texture as well.”

La Chulita: 2 raspberries 1.5 oz Sevilla .5 oz French raspberry liqueur 1/3 oz orgeat .5 oz lime 1/4 oz fee foam 2 dashes plum bitters .5 oz simple syrup (optional)

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Out to Brunch 61 Pisco Sour & Aerated Apple Sorbet

Brunch wedding themes are gaining more popularity with each wedding season, and anything sorbet is practically synonymous with them. The tart and sweet combination of the cocktail will certainly get your guests’ attention in a complimentary way. This is also an option for a bridal shower brunch or a postwedding event.

“I would suggest pairing the 61 Pisco Sour with the Aerated Apple Sorbet,” Demirhan says.

“The sour taste in the cocktail makes it perfect for the tart and sweetness of the sorbet. The initial bite into the sorbet hits your palate with the intensity of the green apple. As it begins to dissolve in your mouth you discover the natural tartness from the green apple, followed by a sweet flavor from the natural sugars in the actual apple. The Pisco also worked very well as a palate cleanser after the consumption of the sorbet that blended both flavors together for a smooth finish.”

61 Pisco Sour: 2 oz acholado pisco 1 egg white 1 oz lime 1 oz simple 4 dashes angostura bitters

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Stunning Rustic El Jefe (The Boss) and Salmon Tartare

If you’re taking advantage of Lakeland’s rustic and rural features for your wedding, the El Jefe cocktail with the Salmon Tartare is a wow factor for your taste buds. The citrus and lemony combination for the hors d’oeuvre, paired with the banana liqueur and dashes of blood orange bitters, can pay homage to Florida in a subtle way.

“The El Jefe and Salmon Tartare are a great combination,” says Demirhan. “The smoky notes from the Maestro tequila pairs well with the natural smoky notes from the Aji Panca Marinade used for the raw salmon. The orange bitters also used in the cocktail pair well with the citrus notes from the lemon mustard aioli, and the slight taste of bitterness from the Dijon mustard makes for a smooth finish. The avocado mousse then hits your palate with fresh notes of citrus and creamy finish that also work well as a palate cleanser and provides an opportunity for your palate to discover new distinguished tastes in each bite.”

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El Jefe: 2 oz maestro humito 1/3 oz banana liqueur 1/3 oz agave 2 dashes blood orange bitters 2 dashes angostura bitters

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VENUES

Union Hall is a premier event venue located in Dixieland just a 1/2 mile south of downtown Lakeland. Our space boasts original 1920’s exposed terracotta brick walls, high open ceilings, concrete bar tops, and simple, yet tasteful art deco accents. A blank canvas to be painted by your vision for your ideal wedding. unionhallevents.com | 863.288.0372

When sourcing a venue, you may want to ask about package pricing. Some venues offer this service to provide an easier route to wedding planning. What’s included in the package price is critical, such as rent, catering, parking, and service staff). The RP Funding Center is one such venue with a professional services team that can deliver a stress-free wedding day package.

Spectra’s Executive Chef, Casey Ryan, Pro Chef Certified by the Culinary Institute of America, will create a custom menu based on your tastes, dietary needs, and budget.

When planning a wedding, you want to pick a venue as unique as your relationship.

Whether choosing an outdoor oasis or an indoor area that you can customize, it is all about what speaks to you.

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Cleveland Heights Clubhouse

Enter through the picturesque garden gates and step into a city-chic space with brick walls and romantic chandeliers.

Light reflects from the high ceilings to the concrete floors, enhancing a romantic, warm, and aesthetically thrilling experience. venue650.com | 863.287.3814

The Cleveland Heights Clubhouse is nestled on a beautiful 27-hole golf course located in Central Lakeland. Operating within the Clubhouse is the 1916 Irish Pub and Second Plate Catering. It is set up to provide first class dining as well as spacious banquet rooms, the revitalized facility can now accommodate groups from 20 to 250 people. Our event hall has tall ceilings, an inviting patio lounge area, and glowing dance floor. Elegant, spacious, and conveniently located. The perfect place for your next event and wedding! clevelandheightsgolf.com | 863.834.2377

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1. Don’t skip the trial; it will allow you and your stylist to go over realistic expectations for the day. The look you want may require extensions or some additional color to really get the wow factor you are going for. As far as makeup, you want to make sure you feel comfortable with the look you think you want.

2. Get a contract signed so you know what the cost of your hair will be, and you are aware of any additional fees such as travel or on-site fees.

3. In addition, post Covid-19 there are some key points brides should keep in mind. Businesses may have space/people limitations. Most businesses, including wedding venues, salons, and restaurants may have capacity limitations. If you are bringing people with you to get quotes and trials for your wedding, you may need to mention if Mom or bridesmaids can attend as well.

Most service-industry businesses are now by appointment only. If you don’t have an appointment, you may want to schedule one and find out their policies. You want to know about cancelation fees beforehand. venuesalon.com | 863.644.0102

Dr. Faeza Kazmier, Watson Clinic Thinking about a light peel or laser resurfacing for the perfect wedding glow?

Consider having a trial run a couple of months prior to the big day. This way you’ll know how your skin does. Then plan a refresher treatment at least two weeks prior to your special day to optimize your results. Make sure to wear sunblock after the treatments. watsonclinic.com/kazmier | 863.680.7676 104

If you’re on a smaller budget, look at different times of day for your wedding. A morning/brunch wedding or late dessert wedding can be less expensive than a sit-down dinner. Most importantly, always have a Plan B for an outside wedding, especially in Florida!

2sistersevents.com | 863.698.6978

At the start of your wedding-planning process, Perfect Day Productions recommends you sit down with your future spouse and immediate family to discuss guest count. Your guest count determines several important details and costs for your big day. After your guest count is finalized, you can then find a venue to accommodate the number of guests and obtain pricing for catering, which are some of the largest expenses. pdpweddings.com | 863.608.1945

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Shopping for a wedding dress can be stressful. Bring a group of people who know your vision and style. Less is also more. In the end, when a lot of different opinions are being said, it will be harder to commit to one dress. Bring a small group of people who will make the moment as magical as possible.

We are blessed in Florida with gorgeous landscapes, waterfront views, and an average of 237 sunshiny days every year. It’s no wonder outdoor weddings are so popular here. Of course, even with the odds in your favor, there is always a chance that Mother Nature won’t cooperate with your plans. Your wedding day is too special to chance, so I always recommend that couples plan for a 100% chance of rain on their wedding day.

I couldn’t count the number of phone calls we receive for last-minute tent orders when rain is in the forecast. Unfortunately, by that time, it is usually too late. Our tents or our crews are already booked, and we aren’t able to fulfill the request.

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Your unique wedding flowers should embody all the emotions passionate to your heart — with a romantic hint of true love — in order to create the desired atmosphere you’ve always dreamed of for your wedding day.

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Good food is all the better when shared with family and friends.” We offer southern catering services and the best hospitality.

Let Fred’s Market or Johnson Barbecue take care of all of the details when it comes to preparing, dining, and serving you and your guests on your special day. fredsmarket.com | 863.603.7080

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JEWELERS

A wedding band is something that is worn for a lifetime… so make sure to choose a style of band that can blend with your everyday wear. While you shouldn’t be afraid to try something trendy, make sure the wedding band you choose is something you will want to wear for a long time.

With all that being said, you can always upgrade or redesign your wedding band down the road for an anniversary or special occasion. wdbdiamond.com | 863.686.6060 106

Perfect Day Productions

offers planning, coordinating, design, and decorating services. Our goal is simple: to give you the perfect day through creative and personalized service designed to bring your vision to life.

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GUEST TIPS

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Wedding season is in full swing, and receiving an invitation in the mail is a pretty exciting event.

Two people in your life have found a forever kind of love and they want to celebrate with you.

Just the thought of the beautiful occasion you’re set to witness can spark a special sense of happiness.

At the same time, it’s important to remember the role of a wedding guest and do what you can to make the experience as seamless as possible for the bride aand groom.

From RSVPing on time to silencing your phone before the ceremony, it’s easy to accommodate the couple in seemingly small ways as you prepare for the event.

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RSVP ASAP The first thing you’ll want to do after receiving an invitation is RSVP by the requested deadline.

A rule of thumb is to only RSVP for yourself unless you’ve been given the green light to invite a plus one or children. It’s also the perfect time to let the bride and groom know of any food allergies.

If the couple knows you and your potential guests are a guaranteed “Yes” or “No,” seeing the number of confirmed guests sooner than later alleviates lots of pressure. The guest count determines everything from the seating arrangements to the cost for vendors. So even though it may seem trivial, your RSVP matters.

The guest count determines everything from the seating arrangements to the cost for vendors. So even though it may seem trivial, your RSVP matters.

CONSIDER THE DRESS CODE Figuring out what to wear to a wedding can be a fun, or overwhelming, experience. An easy place to start is the wedding theme.

You can typically find this on the invitation, but if not, keep in mind the location, what time of year, and what time of the day the wedding is held. For formal ceremonies like “black tie” or “white tie,” women can opt for a gown while men are suggested to wear a tuxedo.

If it’s a brunch-themed wedding in the spring or summer, female guests can wear a floral or pastelcolored dress, while male guests can wear a shirt and tie or light suit. A universal rule is for female guests to avoid wearing white or any related colors like off-white and ivory. When it seems like you have nothing to wear, it doesn’t hurt to keep it simple.

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STICK TO THE REGISTRY It’s understandable to want to pick up something that you’re convinced the future newlyweds will love or need as their lives unite. Still, unless it’s on the registry, it might not be their taste, or they could very well already have it. Purchasing an item that’s not included in the registry runs the risk of the couple not liking it and having to go through the awkward hassle of returning it. The safest option is to trust their judgment and select an item they’re guaranteed to appreciate.

WHAT TO WRITE Not sure what well wishes to send the bride and groom?

Whether you’re signing the guest book or stumped on what to write inside of the “Congratulations” greeting card, begin by knowing that the newlyweds will be happy with any message you send them.

It doesn’t have to be a lengthy letter. If you know the bride and/ or groom well, feel free to include something that’s special to your relationship with them, like a funny joke or a memory. If you’re not familiar with the couple, it’s OK to keep the message short and generic with phrases like “Congratulations on tying the knot!” or “Wishing you a lifetime of love and happiness.”

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DURING THE CEREMONY It’s always best to be on time, or roughly 20 minutes early. The idea of sneaking in and grabbing a seat in the back might not work out as smoothly as one thinks.

It’s also helpful to put your phone on vibrate or silent before the ceremony begins to avoid any distractions. If the wedding isn’t unplugged and cell phones are allowed, consider waiting until after the ceremony to snap pictures and record footage. If you do decide to take pictures during the ceremony, make sure the flash and sound are off.

Refrain from posting on social media until the bride or groom get a chance to share their special moment.

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HISTORY

A window display shows wedding gowns and bridesmaids gowns at Edwards-Macy, a women’s clothing and bridal shop on East Main Street.

Date: Circa 1990s

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