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The Bride Guide | Simple Secrets of Success

The simple secrets of success

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ou’ve found your Prince Charming, you’ve got the ring and now you have the exciting, although slightly daunting, task of planning the wedding of your dreams.

With all the girlish excitement you would expect from the most enthusiastic of bridesmaids we set to work on The Bride Guide. From the venues to flowers, the dress to transport and hair and make-up to jewellery, we’ve got it covered.

While it’s easy to get swept up in the WOW factor of the wedding, and to see it more as a party, don’t forget that it is ultimately a celebration of your love and commitment to each other. Make the decisions together, chose things that really represent the two of you as a couple and above all enjoy the ride.

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In an attempt to help take away some of the stress of planning a wedding we’ve put together The Bride Guide… with advice from the experts, so you can enjoy the magic of planning your big day. The advice that all experts agree on is to carry out in-depth research and book everything in plenty of time. (12-18 months seems to be standard) We’ve even thought about your Something Old, Something New, Something Borrowed and Something Blue.

So what are you waiting for?

Have a flick through and begin planning your Day to Remember!

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DATES FOR YOUR DIARY WEDDING EVENTS Friday Jan 30 - Twilight Wedding Event, Rockcliffe Centre, Rockliffe. 6:30pm - 10pm

Sunday Feb 1 - Enchanted. Sands Centre, Carlisle. 1pm - 5pm Sunday Feb 8 - The Crown Hotel, Weatherall. 12:30 - 4pm Sunday Feb 15 - The Shepherd Inn, Rosehill Estate, Carlisle.11:30am - 6pm Sunday Feb 22 - Armathwaite Hall, Derwent Water. Noon - 4pm Sunday March 1 - Hallmark Hotel, Carlisle. 11am - 3pm Sunday March 1 - Greenhill Hotel, Wigton. 11am - 3pm Sunday April 26 - Askham Hall, near Penrith. Noon - 5pm Sunday April 26 - Cumbrian Wedding Fair, Carlisle Racecourse. 10:30 - 3pm

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The Bride Guide | New Wedding Fair

It’s just what you need for your wedding … or prom

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HERE’S the dress, the hair and makeup, the entertainment, and the venue; all important decisions to make when planning your big day, but luckily Cumbria’s largest wedding and prom fair is here to help!

Enchanted, organised by The Wedding Warehouse, who specialise in wedding and prom dresses, will be held at The Sands Centre, Carlisle, on Sunday February 1.

The fair will be split into two sessions, the Bridal Fair being held from 1pm – 5pm, with the Prom Fair running from 6pm-8pm.

Confirmed exhibitors include Cumbrian Classic Wedding cars, Stoneybeck Inn and Jopsons Jewellers. There will also be a catwalk on which models will showcase a range of dresses.

Rebecca Ferguson, from The Wedding Warehouse, said: “We wanted to bring something new to Cumbria, after such brilliant feedback from the Prom Fair that we did last year and the demand for a wedding fair. We decided to combine the two and do something a bit different and exciting.”

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offer you’ll, hopefully, find everything you need for your big day… whether it’s your wedding or your prom.

You can register for your free tickets today. They can be picked up from The Wedding Warehouse, or alternatively you can just turn up on the day. Register for your free tickets via the website, or by email to: info@enchanted cumbria.co.uk There are spaces available for businesses interested in exhibiting at Enchanted. Contact The Wedding Warehouse either via email or phone for more information.

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The Bride Guide | Something Old

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ET back from the road, barely visible through the trees stands one of Carlisle’s best kept secrets, Kirklinton Hall.

Built in the 1680s as a family home Kirklinton has been added to by every generation that has lived there. Having been a private home, a girl’ school, an RAF base and country house and casino in the 1960s Kirklinton Hall has taken many forms in its long life but all that remains is the beautiful architecture from by gone generations.

Kirklinton’s most exciting period is its 20th century history, when it was a country hotel and casino. Rumour has it that farmers would travel from miles around to have a flutter at the casino and mingle with dancing girls and many a field was lost and won around the tables of Kirklinton.

Having been abandoned in the 1960s by the casino owner, who was fleeing from his debts, Kirklinton’s days as a casino were to be its last days of glory until its potential was recognised in the 1980s by the McDermotts: a husband and wife who, living in a caravan in the courtyard tried to restore the house.

Although the McDermott’s were fruitless in their mission to restore this once grand building their erection of concrete lintels within the ruin saved the striking architecture from the front of the house.

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for future generations the ideal time to take advantage of Kirklinton Hall is now.

It is the perfect blank canvas against which to create the day of your dreams.The dramatic Victorian twiddles, gardens full of roses and butterflies and the grounds by the river are perfect for a reception marquee. A wedding at Kirklinton Hall requires, imagination, an ability to see the bigger picture and creativity, ideal for couples looking for somewhere totally unique.

For those looking for a church service St Cuthbert’s Church, is nearby. By kind permission of the Rector, St Cuthbert’s Church is available to all denominations of the Christian faith for wedding services.

New to Kirklinton Hall is a Yurt which provides quirky accommodation in a stunning setting to spend your wedding night, in absolute peace and tranquillity. There is plenty of space for guests wishing to camp, but Kirklinton also has links and special rates for local hotels.

Inside the Hall, the team have worked hard to install basic flooring, roofing, lighting and heating while keeping it rustic and with the ruin standing out proudly. Unlike many hotels, Kirklinton has avoided set wedding packages. They offer basic packages to help guide you and from there they can tailor quotes to suit your plans.

Kirklinton Hall has a wedding coordinator on hand to make sure your perfect day goes without a hitch. They can also

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The Bride Guide | Something New

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ROM the first time we put net curtain over our heads, as little girls, we dream of what our wedding will be like, who we will marry, and what we will wear.

But when faced with rails of white, cream, ivory and gold, beaded corsets, strapless dresses, sweetheart necklines, fishtails, net skirts, satin, lace and silk how do you find The One? Jodie Armstrong from Belle Wedding Boutique told us how to go about finding “The” Dress.

Brides underestimate just how far in advance it’s necessary to start looking. Jodie said: “We say start looking for the dress 1218 months before the wedding, which includes your planning and research.”

It’s because ALL wedding dresses, unless bespoke, need to be sent away for alteration… whether it’s an adjustment to the hemline or the bust.

Most brides have a couple of fittings; one when the dress arrives in store and one or two with a seamstress, but it ultimately depends on how much work needs to be carried out. Many bridal shops say the absolute latest to find the dress is eight months ahead.

Jodie fully understands the stress of planning because she was planning her own wedding when opening Belle Wedding Boutique, three years ago. “People thought I was mad but I just took it in my stride.”

She advises research before shopping: “There’s no point

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trekking around shops that don’t stock the style you like, I would list your favourite designers and check which stores stock them. Equally, it’s important to go to bridal shops with an open mind.You need to be aware that what you like the look of on screen, or in a magazine, won’t necessarily suit your body. It’s different for everyone some women have a very good understanding of their body shape; others need a bit more help.”

Most bridal shops advise an appointment and operate on an appointment-only basis. Jodie said: “It means we can give the bride the time and attention she needs. We can’t always give that if they walk in; they may be turned away if all the fitting rooms are full.”

Jodie also recommends brides to think about their underwear when going to try on wedding dresses. It’s important to choose underwear you feel comfortable being seen in.

She also suggests wearing hair similar to what’s proposed on the big day. “If you’re thinking of wearing it down then do so when you’re looking for your dress; if you’re thinking about wearing it up then even just taking a bobble or a clip can help.

Hair and make-up make such a difference to the overall look.”

Trends for spring/summer 2015 are very vintage, with a country feel. Think designers such as Jenny Packham. Lace backs are also very popular for 2015 as well as straps. Jodie said:“Most brides coming in at the moment don’t want strapless dresses.”

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Ten times better for banquets

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HE Gilsland Spa Hotel, on the outskirts of Brampton, has seen its banqueting trade more than double in the past few years thanks to the opening of The Orangery.

The new facilities have allowed the hotel to host conferences and banquets for up to 300 guests.

The hotel’s managers, Les Thompson and Tracy Clegg, are pleased that the extension has seen it gain a reputation for being one of the top conference and banqueting facilities on the Cumbria / Northumberland border.

The investment represents a significant improvement in the hotel’s previous conference facilities, which meant it could only accommodate up to 30 delegates.

Les Thompson, the hotel’s general manager, said: “We are very excited about the future of the hotel, as the opening of The Orangery has given us a premier facility to hold weddings, conferences and events.”

The hotel, partly owned by the Co-operative Group, is set in 140 acres of manicured gardens, grounds and woodland and dates from the 1700s, when it was known as The Shaws.

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The Bride Guide | Something Borrowed

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HE “Something Borrowed” of wedding folklore is usually taken to mean an item worn by previous brides. Sometimes it holds memories, always good luck and above all sentiment.

It could be your dear mother’s necklace; a ring that doesn’t fit or a button from grandma’s cardigan, Dawn Holden from Dawnies Buttons and Beads can incorporate it into a beautiful arrangement that you can keep forever or hand down as a family heirloom.

She told us: “I try so hard to make the bouquets special and personal to the customer.” Despite having only been running her business for a year, Dawn has already attracted a massive client base with her utterly personal and unique bouquets.

Having used bouquets with broaches, rings, necklaces and even earrings, there’s no piece of jewellery Dawn can’t incorporate. She said: “I try to never turn down a bride. I will stay up all night to finish a piece if I have to’’

The first bouquets she ever made where for herself. She has a love for the sea, so she made one her first bouquets using shells and beach-like colours. Then she started to experiment with other objects. When she decided that she didn’t want to use one she made more and discovered she had a talent for this.

After her first year Dawn seems to be getting more and more excited about her creations, she said: “I get so excited when a bride brings me a bag full of broken, old jewellery. I start to think of all the things I could do with it.”

Having been a florist for many years Dawn has all the knowledge needed to create these amazing additions to your wedding.

Every wedding should have the couple’s own personal touch to it. By incorporating you’re borrowed treasures into your bouquet, you have the opportunity to keep them forever, surrounded by the memory of your special day.

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Just stop at Jopson’s…

N O jewellery can outshine you on your wedding day, the biggest day of your life, but once the celebrations are over and the dress has been put away, the one thing that remains as a visual sign of your commitment to each other is the ring.

Jopson’s Jewellers, of Carlyle Court, stock over 80 designs of engagement rings and have 80-100 styles of wedding rings by the award winning Raphael Collection and Brown and Newirth.

Jopson’s understand that choosing a wedding or engagement ring, as the most symbolic wedding purchase you will make, is a special time for a couple and have created a VIP area within the shop so the bride and groom can make their decision in private.

The majority of brides are choosing diamond encrusted wedding bands, as a way of incorporating an eternity ring into the wedding band.

For brides with an unusually shaped engagement ring Jopson's offer a wed fit service which means any wedding

band can be made to fit perfectly against the most unusual engagement ring and at no additional cost.

Stephen Jopson explained: “You want something that complements a diamond not something that drowns it out.”

New to Jopson’s is Diamonfire, a high quality range of bridal jewellery which will complement your dress and wedding ring.

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The Bride Guide | Something Blue

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RADITIONAL weddings demand the elegance of a classic or vintage car.

The bride’s arrival for the ceremony and happy couple’s arrival at the reception are magic moments that are perfectly complemented by a classic or exotic car.

Their popularity never wanes and their inclusion also adds kudos to the style and drama of the occasion. Cumbria Classic Wedding Cars have recently added a really stunning classic to their line-up. The beautiful Beauford pictured, name of Alfie, was bought by the family-run company after eight months and almost 2,000 miles of searching.

But the long search was well worth it for Sharon Lambert and Edgar Wills, the father and daughter team who run Cumbria Classic Wedding Cars, because the car is very special… for a number of different reasons.

Built in 2006, and registered in 2007, it had originally been a show demonstrator for its manufacturers.

The name “Alfie” accompanied the car from its previous owner. It had been given as a tribute to her late father, whose inheritance had been used to buy the car from Beauford. Then after seven years of touring the country it was reluctantly decided to sell.

When Sharon finally tracked down Alfie, she decided against erasing the name on the car’s side. “It adds character, she said. “We have had people calling and asking ‘Is Alfie available'? He suits the name and people like to know he has history,’ ’ added Sharon.

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classic exterior and interior. The car has an open top, which makes it fantastic for summer and it also has a roof which means Alfie is perfect all year round.

But the Beauford is just one of eight cars that Cumbria Classic Wedding Cars have available for wedding hire. The others include; Rolls Royces, Daimler limousines, a classic Triumph Herald, which once starred in ITV series Heartbeat and yet another stunning vehicle is their 1932 black over cream coloured Hillman Minx, a really rare gem when it comes to vintage vehicles.

But it’s the Beauford that gets most brides excited, said Sharon. “We decided to get one because brides love them; they provide great photo opportunities and they never stop turning heads’’.

And Cumbria Classic Wedding Cars have had amazing feedback from their clients. People endlessly compliment the company on its customer service and stunning vehicles.

Running primarily in North Cumbria and the Lakes, they have nevertheless had requests from South Cumbria and northwards to Gretna Green.

This family-run business is one that really adds a special something to weddings as their many testimonials show.

Clients heap praise on Sharon, Edgar and their excellent chauffeurs for the way in which they help create a fantastic day and they in turn pride themselves on the wonderful feedback they get for the fine service they give.

Cumbria Classic Wedding Cars do all they can to ensure that all of their customers receive a professional, personal and friendly service and they work amazingly hard to provide something special on the big day.

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The Bride Guide | Beauty Tips

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ITH the excitement and promise of the Big Day comes big pressure for each bride to look her best… but with the right treatments you can say goodbye to that pressure.

The Guide has teamed up with some of our lovely local beauticians to find out how to look your most radiant!

Nearly every bride thinks she’ll get into shape before the

wedding. Some do; some don’t, but Banks Health and Beauty has the answer… in the form of laser lipo.

Laser lipo can be used to slim your arms, chest, stomach, hips, back, thighs and buttocks. It breaks down fat cell membrane into liquid, making it easier for the body to remove. The treatment is painless and you’ll see results after your session. The number of sessions needed depends on the individual but the results are sustainable when combined with healthy diet and exercise.

Some brides consider tattoo removal an imperative.Those wearing a strapless or thin-strapped dress, often want to wave goodbye to shoulder tattoos they regret from their youth.

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But, if you’d rather not take advantage of these advanced treatments then regular facials, four to eight weeks before the big day, can work wonders, as Debbie Davidson, from B Beautiful, Carlisle explained: “Facials prep the skin and we can address any concerns or blemishes and ensure that the skin is in the best condition possible,” (perfect for both mother and bride).

Most brides want a fresh-faced, dewy look, emphasising lips and eyes; but a vintage look, emphasising dark lips, has become popular.

When seeking a make-up artist Debbie advises a trial session. “Look for a quality therapist, well presented and qualified. You should ask to see a portfolio and testimonials.”

Any good make-up artist will assess your regular look. If you wear dark eye make-up then stripping you of it isn’t going to make you feel comfortable; it’s important that you look like you… but at your best.

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Stoneybeck Inn

Have the beauty of Blencathra as a bridal backdrop

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INDING the perfect wedding venue can be a stressful process. Stoneybeck Inn can eliminate those worries and fears because you don’t get much more perfect than this!

Situated just outside of Penrith, This beautiful venue is the perfect setting for a memorable day. With the stunning backdrop of the Blencathra fells, the view is nothing short of beautiful.

The fabulous setting will provide the lucky couple with fantastic photograph opportunity. And it isn’t just the setting that should get you excited.

With four suits to hold licenced civil ceremonies, specifically designed to cater for different wedding sizes, you have a

fantastic alternative to a registry office.

You’re reception will also be taken care of, in one of the 3 dining suits available. Whether you want a small intimate meal or a large reception party, Stoneybeck will do all they can to cater for your celebration.

With the smallest dining area holding up to 20 guests and the largest 150 guests along with a fully stocked bar.

No matter how big or small your wedding party, Stoneybeck can cater for everyone and anyone.

If you think that this beautiful venue could be the place for you to host your big day then visit Stoneybeck Inn’s website: www.stoneybeckinn.co.uk

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Feature The Bride | From Guide Colombia |Greenhill to Cumbria Hotel

Have a great day at

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hoosing a venue for your wedding is a daunting task, it’s the first and biggest decision you will make and it sets the tone for the rest of the wedding.

With the Lake District on its doorstep; large grounds, stunning views and a rural location, an ideal venue is The Greenhill Hotel, Wigton.

Built in 1804 as a private residence The Greenhill Hotel is a beautiful, elegant red sandstone mansion set in nine acres of parkland, offering quiet and privacy for the most important day of your life.

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whether it’s arranging a photographer, florist, chair covers, a string-quartet or an ice sculpture, in order to make your special day memorable forever!

Under the guidance of this professional team, you need have no further worries about your wedding day hospitality. Malcolm Scott, manager of the Greenhill Hotel said: “Our success and reputation for weddings has been built on professional, friendly service and with attention to detail. Our dedicated team will help and guide you from your initial enquiry to the departure of the last guest on your wedding day.”

• The Greenhill Hotel is available for weddings and wedding receptions every day of the week. It is advisable to contact us as soon as possible for an available date.

Greenhill Hotel - Red Dial, Wigton, Cumbria, CA7 8LS Tel: 016973 43304, E-Mail: info@greenhillhotel.co.uk

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Say it with Flowers

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hether it’s a posy of roses or something more elaborate and brightly coloured the bouquet completes the bridal ensemble.

Elaine Forrester, from Forester’s Flowers, tells us what to look for in a florist and what’s “in” for 2015.

She said: “Table-centres are becoming really creative and I love it! I did a wedding between Christmas and New Year and the table centres were jam jars and logs – if you told me 25 years ago I’d be doing table centres with jam jars and logs I’d have thought that you were joking!

Elaine has 25 years’ experience and now specialises in wedding flowers. She said: “Some brides choose the flowers first while others will bring a bridesmaid’s dress with them.

They might bring a pink dress and say they want pink roses, well there are a hundred shades of pink roses whereas it’s my job to know which the correct shade is.”

“For 2015 bouquets will be very rustic and vintage, dresses are following the vintage feel with lots of lace, so a lot of brides want their flowers tied with lace.”

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Although most florists will deal with three or four weddings for a weekend, Elaine advises you start looking for a florist 12-18 months before the big day.

To keep the cost of your flowers down choose flowers that are in season: “Obviously price is key but find someone who can give you time, who can sit and have a coffee with you, while you talk through your ideas. I’ve met so many lovely people and by the time the wedding day comes around I feel like I’m their friend.”

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Wedding Photographer Tips | The Bride Guide

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UCH like finding the perfect dress, getting the ideal photographer requires research and plenty time. Here Kelly Clarke, from Imagery photography, Carlisle, gives us the low-down on who to put behind the lens on your wedding day.

It’s vital that you get it right. You get one chance only. Once your wedding day is over that’s it! All you have left of the day are your photos and your video.

Kerry Clarke, who has years of experience as a photographer, said: “I’ve come across so many brides recently who just didn’t have a budget and who chose the cheapest photographer… and they’ve been devastated with their photographs.”

“Look into the photographer before you book them; look at as much work as possible and ask to see at least several weddings that they’ve photographed.

have good relationships with the venue. I try to find out where I can and can’t go.”

“If I’m doing bride-getting-ready shots then I go and get the bride excited, if not I go and find the groom and the groomsmen.”

Kerry can take up to 700 photographs during a wedding and aims to have them edited by the time the bride and groom return from honeymoon. “I like the photographs to tell a story from the beginning to the end of the day,” she said.

A photographer, like a venue, can only do one day at a time so book them early. When we spoke to her before the end of last year Kerry had already had numerous enquiries about summer weddings!

Research is essential, she said: “Don’t be afraid to ask questions and find out how many weddings a photographer has done. Things like social networks are great at putting things up such as: ‘Can anyone recommend a good photographer’. Some hotels may suggest photographers in their bridal packages, but don’t just assume they’re good, first look at their work.”

Every photographer has a different style. Some are very traditional; others more dynamic. Kerry suggests you think hard about the kind of photos you would like in your album.

“If my couple see a picture they like I ask them to send me a snapshot of it. I never copy a photo but we can take the idea and make it our own. It also means that I’m on the same wavelength as my couples and know exactly what they want.”

“I can’t stress enough how important a good photographer is; they have to be right.”

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Salon Elysee | The Bride Guide

Brides’ favourite

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alon Elysee, in St Cuthbert’s Lane, Carlisle is a particular favourite with brides to be.

And one of our most popular treatments with brides is our Universal Contour Wrap, which guarantees a minimum sixinch loss and leaves your skin beautifully soft.

Let us prepare you for your special day with our Big Day Wedding Collection, with a facial of your choice, manicure, eyebrow shape, trial make-up and, of course, make-up on the day… or we can help you to design a bespoke treatment package especially for you. Please call the salon for further details.

At Salon Elysee we can offer you treatments to suit every skin type, as well as most skin problems together with a welcoming and relaxing environment to help you unwind and de-stress.

We also offer more advanced treatments including our new Bio Surface Peel, a professional chemical peel and our very

popular Bio-Ultimate Platinum treatment which visibly reduces the signs of ageing and lifts and tones sagging muscles.

Salon Elysee also provides relaxing treatments such as massages, hand and feet treatments, please browse our on line brochure to see our full treatment list.

Our salon was founded by Elizabeth Weir, 31 years ago, and it is now owned by Chris and Jacqui Weir and managed

by Debbie Crossley, who leads a dedicated team of professional therapists.

•Salon Elysee is at 14, St. Cuthbert’s Lane, Carlisle, CA3 8AG Tel: 01228 528222

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The Bride Guide | Mother of the Bride

WHAT EVERY BRIDE'S MUM DESERVES T HE mother of the bride is the most important lady at a wedding… after the bride of course!

Her outfit should be elegant and complement the colors of the bridal party, which is exactly where Vanda Fisher, of Tillys, Burrowgate, Penrith, comes in. With 17 years of experience Vanda really is a dream come true for any bride’s mother who is struggling to find the perfect outfit.

Vanda said: “The golden rule for the mother of the bride’s outfit is ‘Be true to yourself, wear something that makes you comfortable and makes you look good. Usually they will come shopping for her outfit with the bride and nine times out of ten the bride has a colour scheme in mind.”

“It’s often easier to fit a mother of the bride when she’s more open minded, because she may not necessarily suit the colour that bridesmaids are going to wear. We can advise her and find a colour that complements her

colourings and the wedding colours. It’s another once in a lifetime outfit that she will want to get right,” explained Vanda.

“For the last three years, a dress below the knee and short jacket has been the trend and will stay in the collection for 2015, although this may not be to everyone's taste. There are still long dresses with sleeves, and matching jackets, using luxurious fabrics combined with uncomplicated designs and fit which will complement the collection.”

Vanda established Tillys after struggling to find an outfit for her own Mum. “We wanted an outfit, budget wasn’t an issue but we just couldn’t find the right one for the occasion.

Stocking a comprehensive collection of European designers in a variety of styles with sizes up to 28 Vanda’s mission is to ensure that every one of her customers enjoy, rather than endure, the experience. To that end Tillys can make the occasion special with stunning accessories and elegant detail to complete a perfectly polished ensemble with fascinators, hats, shoes, handbags and jewelry.

With so many years’ experience Vanda and her team have wide-ranging experience and advice to offer so you can relax, the search for the perfect wedding outfit for that perfect day is finally over and Vanda said: ‘There is no greater reward when a Mum’s rejoice is’ “We’ve found the perfect outfit” Tillys also offer an alteration service with final fitting, which is recommended to take place three weeks prior to the wedding date.”

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eautiful and radiant, every bride stuns as she walks down the aisle but she doesn’t wake up looking like that.

Make-up artist to many a bride, Bridget Foster, gives us an insight into what goes on behind closed doors on the morning of a wedding.

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8am: I roll up to the venue; these can vary from hotels to family homes to lodges. I’m quite familiar with the hotels now so I know what to expect in terms of space, light and room temperature. I try to ignore the strange look on every ones face as I drag my huge kit into the room. The first thing I do is find somewhere suitable to set up; I need light, a good chair and preferably a table.

Beauty Friday NIGHT: Check my brushes have dried properly, pack them away and double check I have everything including enough eyelashes, and anti-bacterial baby wipes. I double check the venue and its postcode and tap it into my sat nav, ready for the morning.

SATURDAY 6am: It’s still dark when my alarm goes off. I get myself ready and make sure my hair and my own make up is done properly, the back of my head and my arms will probably be in the wedding photos so I make an effort.

6.45: I check my kit again, load up the car and I’m off.

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I’ll be stealing cushions and un-plugging kettles to get the best light and make the most of the space. I can see all the dresses hanging up, which helps me get into the theme and colour of the wedding. The hair stylists often arrive at the same time but we rarely get a chance to speak as we are both too busy with our own job.

8.15: Ready to go, I roll up my sleeves: “Who’s first?” The bridesmaids look at each other hoping one of them will go first, I’m the only person in the room that knows time will fly and my schedule is tight. The majority of bridesmaids don’t really need a trial and probably won’t have had one, as we’ve never met I’m aware most are anxious.

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something out; she just can’t settle at first. Once I have her still and moisturised I often give her a mini facial to make her relax and almost zone out. The photographer arrives about this point. We often know each other but I try to ignore them hovering behind me with a camera.

10.15: Typically the florist arrives as I’m about to apply a false lash with my tweezers.

For me the first bridesmaid is the most important client, apart from the bride, because she’s the first person the others see you work on, and therefore gain your trust. With all bridesmaids I need to ask what sort of make -up they wear generally. I just want to know what you normally look like with make up on, if any at all. Do you wear much eye make -up, do you wear a foundation or tinted moisturiser?

11.00: Bride is done and the mother of the bride is next, she’s always excited and a breath of fresh air as I get to do a slightly different look incorporating the colours of her outfit into her make-up. During this time the bride and bridesmaids are getting into dresses.

11.30: Nerves have kicked in and the girls come for lips and a touch up. The room looks like a bomb site! Once I’m done I try to pack away as quietly and as quickly as I can so the bridal party can enjoy their time together. I often get along with the bridal party and often feel very much a part of the group. Make up is such a personal thing and as a make-up artist you really do get to know your client for that very short space of time.

Beauty 8.45: Done, (I leave lips until last minute as the girls eat and drink) I hold onto my mirror and step back. Happy? The bridal party is eager to see and the reaction is good. NEXT! 10.00: Four bridesmaids done, and someone notices the time. The pace and atmosphere in the room accelerates. Where are the flowers? When is the photographer arriving? I tend to re-tidy my work area awaiting the most important person: The Bride.

She sits down, as soon as her bottom hits the seat she remembers something and turns to ask a question or sort

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On my way out I pass a few blokes in suits, I’ll lift the huge case into my boot, get home and catch up on my sleep.

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bridget foster Footer will go here Make Up & Hair Artist www.bridgetfoster .co.uk

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The Bride Guide |Finesse Bridal Services

Look like a million dollars for

just a few hundred pounds

T

he dress, after the venue, is probably the costliest item of any wedding, on average ranging from £1,000 upwards… but it doesn’t have to be that way.

Finesse Bridal Services, of Middlegate, Penrith, is the perfect answer to any bride’s dress and budget concerns, with over 200 pre-loved dresses – all in excellent condition – and with dress prices starting from as little as £125 you could still have the dress of your dreams… even on the tightest of budgets.

Finesse Bridal Services is an extension of Finesse Jewellery, which sells antique and vintage jewellery and has been run by the Lister family for over three years. The move towards wedding dresses and bridal accessories came when a customer brought in a tiara and set of bridal jewellery which she asked them to sell. They sold it incredibly quickly; word spread and not long after they were inundated with tiaras and bridal jewellery.

The Lister family owners of both Finesse Jewellery and Finesse Bridal Services said: “People began asking if we’d be able to supply wedding dresses as well so decided to look around and see what was available and how costs and quality compared.”

“Unlike a lot of outlets we are independent and have designer dresses of various names. From vintage to an original Thelma Madine (creator of many a gypsy wedding dress) and

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including model dresses that have only been worn by shop mannequins. Dresses come in every size, style and length so you are quite likely to find ‘the one’.”

The Lister family and manageress Lisa have created a friendly, relaxed atmosphere in which to conduct your search. They said: “Let’s be honest, the day is about the dress and you want to have fun choosing it. That’s what we’re about. Bring your, mum your sister, your bridesmaids and a bottle of wine… and try on as many dresses as you like!”

“Our very first bride came in to buy her tiara, just as we were starting to bring in dresses. It was a Monday, and she was getting married that Friday at Gretna, a real love story.

She saw “that” dress on a mannequin in the shop and fell in love with it.

“It fitted like a glove; we had a perfect cathedral-length diamante veil t go with it and a tiara that echoed the design on the dress. We lent her a bouquet for that ‘something borrowed’ and hoop and underskirt. She also bought two white gold wedding bands. Cost of items new was £2,500; cost from Finesse Bridal Services £640… and she looked a million dollars.”

Finesse can kit you out from top to toe and ever ything in between. They also hire bouquets and underskir ts for the dresses.

While Finesse does not do fittings and alterations they do recommend a seamstress and can put you in touch.

Finesse Bridal Services & Finesse Jewellery, are at 43, Middlegate, Penrith, CA11 7PT, Tel: 01768 895 244 Website: www.finessejewellerypenrith.co.uk

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Bridal hair trends spring / summer 2015

By Trae Corbett www.facebook.com/brownshair

As a bride, you are undeniably at the centre of your wedding; you want to look and feel your absolute best on your big day.With an endless list of things to plan and organize your hair might be the last thing on your mind but it shouldn’t be.

It needs almost as much consideration as the dress.

Here Trae Corbett head stylist at Browns of Lockerbie and Dumfries tells us about the latest trends in bridal hair and how to find the perfect stylist.

WITH the arrival of spring so begins the most popular season for tying the knot and having worked with many brides over the years, either as part of the party, or in my role as stylist, I know just how much effort goes into feeling and looking perfect.

First things first… research!

If you have a regular stylist who you trust, great! If not, you want to investigate salons in and around the area you have chosen for your big day. Most wedding venues will have some recommendations but I always advise checking them out, at least online, to get an idea of their background. Look for hair-up specialists and experience in backstage and editorial work.

It’s essential to have a trial with the stylist to give you piece of mind. Also when deciding on the look of your hair I find it always best to do this once you have your dress; that way your stylist can tailor the style to complement not only you but the whole look.

This spring sees a whole array of designs, but one thing remains consistent with the hair… effortlessly done but with a beautiful polished finish.

This “effortless” hair was featured on the runways by well-known fashion houses such as Marchesa, Temperley London and Vivienne Westwood.

The key to these trends is all in the texture of the hair.

Gone are the corkscrew curls and in is the slightlydented bend of the hair.

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This can be achieved my wrapping random mid-sections of hair around the barrel of an opened tong, it’s important that the hair is first primed with a good holding product, a favorite of mine is Bumble and Bumble’s thickening hairspray, applied and dried into the hair. This provides a firm grip so there is less tendency to coat the style in hairspray at the end, as this takes away the naturalness of the look.

Hair is then pulled back into a ponytail using the fingers only. You can modify this by adding in a natural parting, or not, but the key is that it is not scraped back too tightly; you want to create an effortlessness look.

Secure this using elastic cord, which also allows you to stretch areas of the hair out without risk of it collapsing.

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Essential checklist Research your salon Pick your dress Have a trial Build the right texture in your hair Keep it loose and breezy Have a wonderful day!

Twist and sweep the ponytail around its base, pinning sections depending on the length. This will determine the end result.

Finally gently pull some areas of hair out around the hairline to create that soft, ethereal look.

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