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FROM THE
EDITOR
It’s hard to believe we’ve made it to August! I hope your summer has been filled with family, fun and friendships.
This month, The Grand Season’s focus is on the issue of family estrangement. I’ve seen a lot of social content trending about adult children going “no contact” with their parents for all kinds of reasons. If you’re one of these parents, I cannot imagine the pain you must feel. Hopefully, the tips in this issue will give you the courage to move forward.
Despite the crazy heat, I’d like to encourage you to spend a little time each day pursuing something you love, whether it be writing, crafting, cooking, exercising or coloring.
Also, if you find your home is in need of a little TLC, I hope you’ll reach out to one of our amazing advertising partners—you’ll not only receive incredible craftmanship, you’ll support the local economy.
Savor each day,
Melissa Whitton Editor/Associate Publisher
GROWTH
LEAN IN
Losing your relationship with your adult child isn’t something any parent imagines. It’s understandable to feel powerless when there’s no contact or chance to negotiate. Figuring out how to move forward isn’t straightforward. Here are some suggestions:
1. Get Support
Being cut off by your child, with no way to understand or resolve things, is hard. That’s why staying connected to others who love and understand you is so important. In addition to friends and family, consider joining a support group.
2. Don’t Cut Off in Response
You’re not the one ending the relationship—your child is. Don’t respond by cutting them off. Continue reaching out to express love and your wish to repair things. Send birthday or holiday messages, and brief notes or emails. Share warmth and compassion as you live your life.
3. Don’t Feed the Anger
Anger is natural, but not helpful. Step back and try to understand the estrangement. What patterns played out in your family? Viewing things more factually can make it feel less personal.
4. Listen to Your Child Without Defending Yourself
If your child opens up, listen with an open heart. Hear their perceptions, even if you disagree. Look for truths, and be willing to reflect on yourself. Criticism is hard, especially if your intentions were misunderstood. Your child may hold on to blame to manage anxiety. Simply hearing them can mean a lot.
5. Focus on Yourself, Not Your Child
If communication returns, you’ll be better able to learn from the past and build a healthier relationship. Focus on your growth, not changing your child. Let go of resentment. Understand their need for distance—and forgive.
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DINING GUIDE
Dill planted near tomatoes will draw caterpillars away from the fruits. And it’s delicious.
Potato salad will have more flavor if you whisk together all the dressing ingredients and add it to the potatoes when they are warm. The potatoes absorb the ingredients better and the flavor will develop even more during refrigeration.
Here’s a great recipe for an icy treat. Freeze orange juice or apple juice in ice trays. Throw a handful in the blender for a fruit slush that can’t be beat on a hot day.
Rubbing alcohol can be used to remove ball point pen from most upholstery.
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HEALTH A REMINDER
How Long Does Cooked Meat Last in the Fridge?
Chicken Refrigerator: 3-4 days
Freezer: 2-5 months
Turkey Refrigerator: 3-4 days
Freezer: 2-5 months
Beef
Refrigerator: 3-4 days
Freezer: 2-5 months
Pork
Refrigerator: 3-4 days
Freezer: 2-5 months
Ham Refrigerator: 3-4 days
Freezer: 1-2 months
Precooked hot dogs
Refrigerator: 7 days
Freezer: 1-2 months
Bacon
Refrigerator: 3-4 days
Freezer: 1 month
Preserved Sausage
Refrigerator: 3 weeks
Freezer: 2-3 months
Fish Refrigerator: 2-3 days
Freezer: 1 month
Deli Salads
Refrigerator: 3-5 days
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There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are the messengers of overwhelming grief, of deep contrition, and of unspeakable love.
Washington Irving
Grief can be the garden of compassion. If you keep your heart open through everything, your pain can become your greatest ally in your life’s search for love and wisdom.
Rumi
Queen
Aeschylus
Anne Morrow Lindbergh
