Tanglewood/River Oaks Buzz - September 2015

Chuy Benitez, Alexis Trevalise and Christian Wendenburg

Ghost Bikes

by Jennifer Oakley

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PUBLISHER’S NOTE We photographed this month’s bicyclingin-Houston story early, in the spring, to coordinate residents’ schedules and to avoid an outdoor session in the summer heat.

However, in the months that followed, we learned the tragic news that several residents in our communities had lost their lives in separate bicycling accidents, one of which occurred while cycling to a memorial bike ride in honor of another cyclist who died. We considered cancelling the article out of respect to the families, but instead staff writer Cheryl Ursin reworked the story with an emphasis on safety. As it happens, freelance writer Jennifer Oakley came to us about that time with an idea to write a story about Houston Ghost Bike, a non-profit organization that builds white-bike memorials in honor of bicyclists who have been killed in collisions with autos, including the Buzz residents so many of us have been mourning. We hope this issue inspires adventures and awareness on our roads. michael@thebuzzmagazines.com

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On our cover: Chuy Benitez, Alexis Trevalise and Christian Wendenburg (from left) gather at the Ghost Bike honoring David Rosenfeld.

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Your letters, thoughts, opinions August issue hit home I love The Buzz! I especially love the one that arrived today [August 2015], as it featured such a special family, The Germains [Tackling Grief: Living life jelly side up, by Cathy Gordon]. Having just retired from Congregation Beth Israel, I was privileged to know this wonderful family. There are no words descriptive enough for Dana and her personal strength.

Thank you for highlighting and to Cathy Gordon for her sensitive handling of this family.

On a more somber note, I am in shock reading the words “Condolences to the Family of Sarah Pesikoff.” I had no idea she passed away, nor had I read anything in the Houston papers. Dr. and Mrs. Pesikoff have been wonderful to my family, so I will reach out to them immediately. Thank you for that tribute as well.

Kathy Cohn Knott

Appreciated school-safety story I wanted to thank you for the fun of being a part of your magazine [Playing It Safe: Preventing crime on campus, by Andria Frankfort, August 2015]. I didn’t realize Cole and I would be on the cover [of The Tanglewood/River Oaks Buzz]. What a wonderful surprise! And so many readers, who are also friends of mine, have sent me nice notes and copies of this month’s edition.

It has been a pleasure getting to know you. And I appreciate the article you allowed me to be a part of. One of the notes I got was from an acquaintance who is a former Israeli Special Forces member who now works with the U.S. government, local police, the U.N. and many other entities around the world (private and public) who have to think about security.

He was pleased with the article and said schools can be a “soft target.”

Bringing the issue of school safety to our community is important! What could be more important than keeping our children safe? So, on behalf of our community, thank you for raising awareness around this issue.

Tama Lundquist Editor’s note: Thank you to Tama, who detailed in our article how she has a safety plan in place for her son Cole, a student at Lamar High School. We want to give a shout out to an event Tama is co-chairing. The Houston PetSet’s 11th Annual Fierce & Fabulous Soiree, which helps fund local animal-welfare organizations, will be Sept. 11 at The Astorian. For tickets, see www.houstonpetset.org.

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exchanges [Travel Buzz: Youth exchanges shape lives, by Tracy L. Barnett, August 2015]. More kids and parents should really look into this. It’s not for everybody, but the impact it has is tremendous. Most American kids and parents, too, seem to be in this American bubble and have no clue on what is going on in the world, nor do they realize how good we have it here. Thanks again for all your support.

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by Andria Frankfort, July 2015] in the July Buzz (my mom saves them for me!), and I was so happy to see the great book recommendations. I’m always looking for new books. It was also great to see the coverage of Katherine Center and her newest book, Happiness for Beginners. She’s a dear friend AND a great writer!

Katherine Seger Weber Editor’s note: If you are looking for a good book and missed this story, go to thebuzzmagazines.com, where all current and past stories are available and searchable. (Also, we’re fans of local writer Katherine Center too.)

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by Cheryl Ursin, staff writer

Let’s Ride Bicycling in Houston

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hat’s not to like about cycling? When you bike rather than drive, you cut down on pollution and traffic.

While you are doing that, you are exercising in a particularly beneficial way, one that’s easy on the joints and burns a relatively large number of calories, about 500 per hour even at moderate speeds.

And you can get places while you exercise. Jeff Horowitz, a 55-year-old attorney, commutes to work from West U to downtown, an eight-mile ride. Igor Cherches, a neurologist from Bellaire, bikes to work five miles on the Brays Bayou trail, “a great place to start your day and get your thoughts together,” he said. Regina Garcia, who bikes about three miles to El Meson, the Rice Village restaurant she and her husband Pedro own, reports that it takes about 15 minutes, the same amount of time it would take to drive.

And biking is just fun, in a way that brings back childhood memories. “I rode my bike to school until I could drive,” Horowitz remembered. “When I was a teenager, we’d ride on Brays Bayou all the way to Hermann Park. At 14, I rode my bike to my first job, at the Astrodome.” (He sold peanuts.)

“As a kid, your bike was your car,” remembered Tyler Garcia, who grew up in New Jersey.

Still an avid cyclist, Garcia, a counselor at Houston Community College, is one of the volunteer administrators of HTX Bike Social, a Facebook page with over 1,900 members, which lists group rides and cycle-friendly events happening around Houston.

Cycling can be dangerous, a fact brought home recently when five cyclists in Houston died in a single month. According to surveys, one of the most common reasons people give for not biking is concern about safety. And Houston, in particular, does not currently have a good record. According to The 2014 Bicycling and Walking in the United States Benchmark Report, done by the Alliance for Biking & Walking, out of the 52 largest cities in the U.S., Houston ranks 37th when it comes to bicyclist/pedestrian fatality rates.

Many factors account for this, from the design of our streets to our drunk-driving laws to how educated both drivers and cyclists are about safety.

BLAST TO THE PAST For Jeff Horowitz, cycling brings back happy childhood memories of biking at age 14 to his first job at the Astrodome, where he sold peanuts.

The good news for cyclists is that the City of Houston, in conjunction with a number of grassroots organizations such as BikeHouston and the Houston Parks Board, is working to make Houston more bike-friendly. The Bayou Greenways 2020 project is on schedule to create a network of 150 miles of hike and bike trails along the city’s bayous, connecting the city’s parks, with the Brown Foundation, Inc. and the Wortham Foundation most recently pledging grants, $2 million and $1.6 million respectively, to the project.

And for the first time in 20 years, the city has implemented a Bicycle Master Plan, which looks to establish safe bike routes that people can use to get all over the city. In March, it opened the first protected bike lane in Houston, crossing downtown on Lamar, from Sam

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Houston Park to Discovery Green. This brightgreen lane, separated from cars by humps, allows cyclists, going in either direction, to get across downtown Houston more safely.

So, what do you need to know to bike in Houston?

First, know there are different types of bikeriding, from mountain-biking on the trails in Memorial Park to “training rides” on super-light road bikes over long distances, most often outside of Houston proper, often to get ready for events such as the BP MS 150, the two-day bike ride in April, from Houston to Austin, that raises money for the National MS Society. And there are more sedate bike rides, usually on sturdier, slower bikes, even on old-fashioned beach cruisers, the type of bike Pee-wee Herman rode, just for fun on the city’s ever-growing system of

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HAPPY NEW YEAR The Kvetchers cycling group, including (from left) Darrell Rosenthal, Mark Mucasey and Jeff Horowitz, use a shofar, a religious musical instrument made from a ram’s horn, to start their morning rides and celebrate Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, during September.

street and bayou trails.

If you want to try out cycling before buying a bike, you can use Houston B-Cycle, the city’s bike-sharing program, or rent a bike for the day from a bike shop. Also, yes, you can bring that old bike that’s been sitting out in the garage to a bike shop to see if it’s worth a tune-up. Often, especially if you’re just starting out, it is.

There’s no reason you can’t do several types of cycling. Roy Camberg, a River Oaks attorney and triathlete, regularly goes for training rides on his triathlon bike (specially designed to take the stress off certain muscles in the rider’s legs, to save them for the triathlon’s final event, a run) and also rides Houston’s bike trails, using mountain bikes, with his wife, Ellie Beard, on the weekends.

Second, bike shops often sponsor regular group rides, for all levels of experience. These rides can be found on the stores’ websites and also often on the website for the nonprofit BikeHouston. Regina Garcia is a founding board member of BikeHouston. She is also a certified bike instructor, through the League of American Bicyclists, one of approximately 70 in Houston who teach one-day classes on how to cycle safely on city streets and in groups.

Her safety tips, and those of other experienced cyclists, are not always what you might expect. For instance, Garcia feels safe riding at night, pointing out there is often less traffic. “Of

course, have a good set of lights on your bike,” she said, “but it’s also easier for you to see cars, particularly coming from behind, because they have their lights on.” And while cyclists are, of course, cautious about cars (“They weigh tons, you weigh pounds,” said one cyclist) and potholes, they are also concerned about expansion joints, spaces between the slabs of concrete of the road that allow the concrete to expand and contract without cracking. An expansion joint can catch the tire of a bicycle, sending its rider over the handlebars.

Many cyclists prefer riding in groups. “A group becomes an entity in itself, like a school of fish,” said Darrell Rosenthal, a member, along with Jeff Horowitz, of The Kvetchers, a group named after the Yiddish word for “complain.”

“In a group, you are more visible and cars treat you with more respect,” Rosenthal said. And if you have an injury or a problem with your bike, you’re not alone.

Plus, there’s the social aspect. “When you are riding with 20 guys on a Sunday morning, there’s a certain rhythm: You talk to one guy, then the group shifts and you’re talking to another guy. It’s a really relaxed way to socialize,” said Horowitz.

The camaraderie of biking with a group can be quite touching. When one of The Kvetchers stopped showing up for the group’s rides, though

he had been training for the upcoming MS 150, other members discovered that his father had died, and, in keeping with Jewish tradition, the man had been going to synagogue every day to pray, a practice he would do for a full year.

“He told us that he wouldn’t be able to do the MS 150 that year,” said Mark Mucasey, an architect from Bellaire. “We told him we would make sure we always had at least 10 men at every bike ride [the minimum necessary to form a minyan and hold a service]. For four months and for each day of the MS 150, we did this with him for his father so he could ride with us.”

There are some things to know when riding in a group: Pass on the left, saying, “On your left,” if you are going to be close, announce when you are slowing or stopping, and call out hazards, such as pot holes. Tyler Lopez recommends beginners bring a tube (easy to fold and carry) that fits your bike’s tire in case you get a flat. Though you might not yet know how to fix it yourself or have the tools, other cyclists are usually happy to help.

When looking for a bike ride to join, bear in mind the different types. Online listings make clear what to expect by listing the speed of the ride: 18 miles per hour and above is fast, 14-16 is moderate, and 12 is mellow. Some gung-ho rides will specify that they are a “drop ride,” meaning that, if you can’t (continued on page 10)

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you behind. The description of one recent casual ride, on the other hand, directed you to “leave your Lycra at home.”

Training rides are long-distance (30-70 miles) rides done on road bikes. These usually take place on routes outside of town, such as in Fulshear or Chappell Hill. Training riders look for routes where they can go fast, sometimes over 20 mph, safely for long distances. “You really need to ride distance to get ready for the MS 150,” said Brad Patt, a 50-year-old plastic surgeon.

“My favorite routes are from Katy to Bellville, around Montgomery/Lake Conroe and Coldspring on Lake Livingston,” said Cherches, who has cycled for about 20 years.

There are organized bike rides, supporting various charities, every weekend, especially from January until April, before the MS 150. These events are referred to as “supported rides,” since they feature routes closed to traffic, rest stations with water and snacks, bike mechanics and SAG (support and gear) wagons, vehicles to transport riders stymied by injuries, bike problems or just plain fatigue.

The more laid-back social rides posted on HTX Bike Social run the gamut. There are women-only rides, family-friendly rides, night-time rides, even rides with a group called “The Rusty Riders,” for owners of vintage beach cruisers. These rides, set up by volunteers, might feature a stop at the midpoint of the ride to see an art exhibit and then end at a restaurant for dinner.

When it comes to planning your own routes, there’s more to it than hopping on your bike and going. Garcia goes over how to plan your routes in her class. “You wouldn’t do the same route as you would driving,” she said. If the most direct route would take a traffic-heavy street, such as Kirby, “a good rule of thumb is to look one street over,” she said. When she first planned her com-

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THE MORE THE MERRIER “Cycling is definitely social,” said Brad Patt, (center) riding with Darrell Rosenthal (left) and Igor Cherches. “The MS 150 is not a race; it’s a ride.”

mute to work, she rode it on off-times, to check it out, before she did it on a weekday morning.

Mark Mucasey plans routes for The Kvetchers. One route had them going over the Fred Hartman Bridge, a suspension bridge over the Ship Channel in Baytown. His routes always feature options: While the group is together for most of the ride, as they near the end, a rider can choose to go a shorter route (shaving 10 miles off the trip) or a longer way, with both routes ending at the same destination. When riding in town, that would be a restaurant for breakfast that is no more than three miles from anyone’s home. When riding out of the city, it’s a good barbecue restaurant.

Mike Skelly’s favorite in-town ride goes from

Market Square, east on Buffalo Bayou to Lockwood, then down Navigation to the Ship Channel and turning basin, then back up Brays Bayou to Columbia Tap and back downtown.

Skelly, who is involved with both BikeHouston and the Houston Parks Board, began riding around the bayous with friends years ago and leads monthly tours, through BikeHouston, of some of the bayou trails. “It’s a great way to explore the city and make friends,” he said.

MORE ONLINE See this story at thebuzzmagazines.com for bike-ride routes and links to biking websites, including Houston’s bike-share system, Houston B-Cycle – the red rental bikes in the racks throughout central Houston.

How to drive safely with cyclists My husband and I were stopped at a light on Shepherd. It was rush hour, there was construction, and a cyclist pulled up alongside us, dwarfed by the cars and trucks.

“Man,” said my husband, an avid cyclist himself. “He’s as fragile as an egg out there, isn’t he?”

When it comes to crashes, “we don’t call them ‘accidents,’” said Michael Payne, executive director of BikeHouston, “because they are usually the result of someone not following the rules.” Payne estimated that about two-thirds of all bike fatalities are the result of a motorist’s mistake and one-third the cyclist’s.

Here’s advice from both BikeHouston and the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) about how to protect the safety of fellow road users, including cyclists: Don’t speed.

Don’t drive under the influence.

Don’t use your cell phone or otherwise distract yourself.

According to the latest data available from the NHTSA, nationwide in 2013, 3,154 people were killed and an estimated 424,000 people were injured in crashes involving distracted drivers.

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And not using your cell phone means not using even a hands-free system and not texting even when you are stopped at a light. Multiple studies have shown that using a cell phone while driving leaves the driver as impaired as being drunk, and hands-free systems do not lessen that impairment. And texting is worse. According to A Deadly Wandering, a book by New York Times reporter Matt Richtel, it can take drivers 10 to 20 seconds to reorient themselves to what’s going on around them after they’ve finished sending a text, which is a lot of time to be moving when you haven’t registered that cyclist in front of you.

Give cyclists as much room as possible. In May 2013, the City of Houston passed the Safe Passing Ordinance, which requires motor vehicles to keep a distance of more than three feet when passing cyclists and other “vulnerable road users,” such as pedestrians, and at least six feet when trailing them.

Take care not to turn into the path of a cyclist, including when you are taking a right on red.

Watch for all types of road users, including bikes, when parking, backing up and pulling out, and look out for passing traffic before opening your car door.

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NEIGHBORS

by Jennifer Oakley, contributing writer

Ghost Bikes White bicycles memorialize riders people started listening to what we had been saying for years,” Chuy says.

“As an artist, I look at the Ghost Bikes as a functional installation: They are both a memorial and a warning sign. And, they are conceptual pieces that are supposed to jump out and surprise you, which is why they are all white.”

Houston Ghost Bike volunteers join the group via Facebook, and the numbers have mushroomed to 1,730 recently following several cycling fatalities.

“I only joined the group following DAVID'S BIKE Houston Ghost Bike members John Lucci, Christian Wendenburg, the death of Mason Courtney, Alexis Trevalise and Chuy Benitez (from left) pay tribute to David Rosenfeld at the Ghost Bike in his honor at Bissonnet and Newcastle, where he was [Meyerland resi- hit by a car in May on his way to the Jon Trevalise Memorial Bike Ride. dent] David the accident that claimed his father’s life. “My Rosenfeld. I didn’t know David, but he was a good dad and I spent thousands of miles together on friend of several of my friends, and it scared me to bicycles. We rode the MS 150 together eight think an experienced cyclist was hit and killed in times. We rode the Tour du Rouge from daylight on Bissonnet so close to my house,” says Houston to New Orleans three times. And every West U attorney Stacy Humphries. “I think the time now that I see a Ghost Bike it makes me memorial bikes are like public sculpture, and they sick to my stomach for that poor family. I fully also make an excellent tribute and reminder that support 100 percent the placing of these bikes we all need to be more aware on the road.” as a memorial and as a reminder for a topic of “I think it is a way to keep their spirit alive,” discussion and as a call to action.” says Jeff Friedman, a recreational bicyclist and The death of David Rosenfeld has struck a owner of Distinctive Life Cremations and particularly difficult chord for both Alexis and Funerals. He didn’t know Rosenfeld but still will Chris Trevalise. “I found out that David never forget his death. “I don’t think I will ever Rosenfeld took the time to leave his family to drive by the corner of Newcastle and Bissonnet honor my dad [in the second annual Jon again the same way.”

Trevalise Memorial Bike Ride], and when he got Chris Trevalise can’t drive by that corner – or to the corner of Newcastle and Bissonnet he was any place with a Ghost Bike – without re-living

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white bicycle affixed with a small plaque and colorful plastic flowers stands upright and still, chained to a signpost on the side of Shores Drive in Galveston.

It is a bittersweet sight for West U resident Alexis Trevalise, a painful reminder of where her husband, Jon, was riding his bicycle when a distracted driver hit him on Easter in 2014.

A year ago, Alexis would not have wished for this memorial. But these days, she sees her husband’s Ghost Bike as a place of healing, where she, family and friends can go and pay their respects to Jon. “At first I did not want to remember the accident. I was angry, and it was hard for me,” says Alexis. “But then I talked to my sons, and I realized the Ghost Bikes are there to make people aware of how many deaths there are, and I think it is a great idea.”

The Ghost Bike movement started in 2003 in St. Louis, Missouri. (According to the New York City Ghost Bike website, now there are more than 212 Ghost Bike groups worldwide.) Ten years after its creation, the movement made its way to Houston. Richard Tomlinson, who grew up in the Meyerland area, began Houston Ghost Bike after Chelsea Norman was struck by a car and killed while riding her bicycle home after she left work at the Whole Foods on Waugh Drive in December 2013.

“I got five or six people to join me,” said Tomlinson, who is a retired printer, “and I came up with a system that winter where I collected bikes and painted them and then I put them on a trailer and started putting them out.”

He placed the first Houston Ghost Bike in March 2014 on Old Katy Road in memory of bicyclist Cisco Rios, and as of the end of July, his group had set 62 bikes in the Greater Houston area. Volunteers collect donated bicycles, coat them with white paint and add plaques with the rider’s name and date of death.

“My objective is to get people in cars to stop hitting people on bikes,” Tomlinson says.

St. John's School faculty member and competitive cyclist Chuy Benitez has been a member of Houston Ghost Bike since its start. “Suddenly the whole cycling community had a voice, and

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hit by a car. Now he has a Ghost Bike on that corner. Now he and my dad both have Ghost Bikes. Hopefully people will pay attention.”

In Houston, the land of the car, cyclists have to be especially vigilant. “In May 2013, the City of Houston passed an ordinance that states that motor vehicles must give a 3-foot clearance when passing cyclists, and commercial vehicles are required to give a 6-foot clearance,” said Tomlinson. “If all cyclists and all motorists did their part and followed the laws that are in place, everyone on the road would be much more predictable, and there would be less chance for conflict.”

“It’s like that bumper sticker that says ‘Share the Road,’” says Larchmont resident and private investigator Christian Wendenburg, a triathlete.

“I am 150 pounds, and my bike is 18 pounds, and going up against a 3,500-pound car – well that is a losing battle, unfortunately. If you see a Ghost Bike then it’s a visual reminder that hopefully makes an impact – there should be no reason why we can’t all share a little bit of the space on the road safely.”

As a longtime cyclist who commutes to work on his bike each day, Memorial-area resident John Lucci is passionate about the mission of Houston Ghost Bike. “I am hoping they will raise awareness that we are out here.”

Mason Courtney, the volunteer who made the Ghost Bike for Jon Trevalise, spent hours

GHOST BIKES Houston Ghost Bike founder Richard Tomlinson stands among Ghost Bikes he painted to memorialize cyclists who died while riding their bikes on Houston-area roads.

cleaning, prepping and painting it. Then he took the bike to the Galveston location where Jon was hit. “Jon was very respected and very well thought of, and I felt like it was a duty I had to do,” he says.

For Alexis Trevalise, it has been a painful year and a half. “I go by David Rosenfeld’s bike every day, and I put flowers there for both David and

Jon now,” she says. “And so many people drive

by Jon’s Ghost Bike, and they will then text me and let me know they stopped and said a prayer or put flowers on the bike, and that is really special. It shows that he is not forgotten.”

To volunteer or donate bikes, money or supplies, see the “Houston Ghost Bike” group on Facebook or go to houstonghostbike.org.

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NEIGHBORS

by Eric Uzick, contributing writer

Fall Festivals F

all in Houston is like spring in the north.

Finally, we can venture out of the climatecontrolled homes and offices we’ve been hiding in without keeling over.

To make your lovely weekends even more memorable, we offer these ideas.

Advocare Texas Kick-Off: Texas A&M vs. ASU

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Playtime in Houston’s best season

When: Saturday, Sept. 5, 6 p.m.

Highlights: Kick off the football season as the Texas A&M Aggies play the Arizona State University Sun Devils in an SEC/PAC 12 showdown.

Location: NRG Stadium Price: Tickets start at $70 Details: lsse.net/events/advocare-texas-kickoff

9th Annual Fiestas Patrias When: Sunday, Sept. 13, 1-5:30 p.m.

Highlights: Fiestas Patrias, a Mexican national holiday, commemorates the call to end Spanish rule in Mexico. The celebration will feature live music, dancing and Mexican food.

Location: Traders Village, 7979 N. Eldridge Price: Free, $4 parking Details: tradersvillage.com/houston

Running of the Bulls 5K Run/Walk When: Sunday, Sept. 20, 8:15 a.m.

Highlights: This fifth annual 5k winds throughout NRG Park with interactive water stops. There to cheer you on will be the Texans mascot Toro and cheerleaders. All participants will cross the finish line on the floor of NRG Stadium. Also a kids 1k.

Location: NRG Stadium Price: Starts at $35 Details: houstontexans.com/community

Houston Scream Festival When: Oct. 1-31; Monday-Thursday, 8-10:30 p.m.; Friday-Saturday, 8 p.m.-12 a.m.

Highlights: This haunted house and activity zone offers plenty of scares, paintball with zombies, live bands, horror movies, carnival games, wandering characters and costume shopping.

TEXAS-SIZED WELCOME The 55-foot-tall Big Tex says howdy to more than 2 million visitors to the State Fair of Texas in Dallas every year. The fair starts the last Friday of September and ends 24 days later.

Location: 1500 Elton St., near Hobby Airport Price: $35 Details: houstonhauntedhouses.com

Original Greek Festival When: Oct. 1-4. Times vary.

Highlights: Weekend of Greek food, traditional music, dancing and folk art.

Location: Annunciation Greek Orthodox Cathedral, 3511 Yoakum Blvd.

Price: $5 for adults, free for 12 and under Details: greekfestival.org

ZiegenBock Music Festival When: Thursday, Oct 1, 12:30-11 p.m.

Highlights: Annual music festival featuring country music. There will be three stages of live music, plus autograph sessions and food vendors.

Location: Sam Houston Race Park, 7575 N

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Sam Houston Pkwy. W. Price: $25-30 Details: ziegenbockfestivalhouston.com

Texas Contemporary When: Oct. 2-3, 11 a.m.-7 p.m.; Oct. 4, 12-6 p.m.

Highlights: Texas Contemporary calls itself a “contemporary and modern art fair that brings the country’s best galleries to the area’s discerning collector base.” It connects artists and enthusiasts with dealers and offers artist panels.

Location: George R. Brown Convention Center, 1001 Avenida De Las Americas Price: To be determined Details: txcontemporary.com

The Houston Italian Festival When: Oct. 8-11. Times vary.

Highlights: Participate in such activities as

the adult bocce tournament, the grape stomp contest, the classic car show and the pastaeating contest.

Location: 3800 Montrose Blvd.

Price: $8; kids 12 and under free Details: houstonitalianfestival.com

Houston Poetry Festival When: Oct. 9, 7:30 p.m.; Oct. 10, 2 p.m.; Oct. 11, 2 p.m.

Highlights: Celebrating its 30th year, the Houston Poetry Festival is one of the longestrunning festivals of its kind. Visitors will be able to hear poetry from established poets as well as submit their own poetry in a juried contest. The festival welcomes those new to poetry, with workshops and classes.

Location: Willow Street Pump Station, University of Houston-Downtown, 811 N. San Jacinto Price: Free Details: houstonpoetryfest.info

Trill Comedy Festival When: Oct. 9-11 Highlights: This festival, which features over 100 comedic performers, showcases national and local performers in improv, sketch, stand-up and film. Comics will hold workshops for those new to the comedy scene.

Location: Station Theater, 1230 Houston Ave. Price: To be determined Details: trillcomedy.com

Bayou City Art Festival Downtown When: Saturday, Oct. 10-Sunday, Oct. 11, 10 a.m.-6 p.m.

Highlights: The Bayou City Art Festival features the work of hundreds of artists from across the country, along with food trucks and activities.

Location: Hermann Square Park, 900 Smith St. Price: $10 Details: artcolonyassociation.org

2015 Korean Festival When: Saturday, Oct. 17, 11 a.m.-9 p.m.

Highlights: The Korean Festival (K-Fest) was created to unite the Korean community in Houston and showcase Korean culture. There will be traditional food, Taekwondo demonstrations and performances of both traditional and modern Korean music.

Location: Discovery Green Park, 1500 McKinney St. Price: Free Details: koreanfestivalhouston.com

Wings Over Houston Airshow When: Saturday, Oct. 17, 8 a.m.-6 p.m.; Sunday, Oct. 18, 8 a.m.-5 p.m.

Highlights: See demonstrations by military aircraft, civilian performances in stunt planes and up-close looks at retired aircraft.

Location: Ellington Airport, 510 Ellington Field Price: $25-30 Details: wingsoverhouston.com

Full Moon Fest When: Friday, Oct. 23, 5:30 p.m.

Highlights: This annual Halloween celebration will feature pumpkin decorating, face painting and costume contests. Stay after the celebration for a movie in the park.

Location: Colonial Park Pavilion, 4130 Byron, West University Price: Free Details: westutx.gov or call 713-662-7420

Tents in Town When: 3 p.m. Saturday, Oct. 24 through 10

a.m. Sunday, Oct. 25 Highlights: Camp out with your family at Bellaire Town Square. Each camper will receive a T-shirt, dinner on Saturday night and breakfast on Sunday morning.

Location: Bellaire Town Square, 7008 South Rice Ave. Price: Each campsite, $60; plus each adult, $30; each child, $15. Benefits Patrons for Bellaire Parks Details: bellaireparks.org

International Quilt Festival When: Thursday, Oct. 29-Sunday, Nov. 1.

Times vary.

Highlights: Browse award-winning quilts, quilting machinery, sewing tools and antique quilts. Participate in a raffle for a chance to win a quilt made by Kimmy Brunner.

Location: George R. Brown Convention Center, 1001 Avenida De Las Americas Price: $9-12; children 10 and under free Details: quilts.com/home/shows/viewer.php ?page=FallFestival

Day of the Dead/Dia de los Muertos Celebration When: Saturday, Oct. 31, 10 a.m.-5 p.m.; Sunday, Nov. 1, 12-5 p.m.

Highlights: Dia de Los Muertos (Day of the Dead), one of the oldest Latin American customs, honors those who have passed in a festive way that celebrates life.

Location: National Museum of Funeral History, 415 Barren Springs Drive Price: $7-10 Details: nmfh.org/exhibits/dayOfDead/info.php Editor’s note: To see more events and to submit your own, click on “Events” at thebuzzmagazines.com.

Worth the drive Texas State Fair – When: Sept. 25-Oct. 18; 7 a.m.-9 p.m. Sundays-Thursdays; 7 a.m.-10 p.m. Fridays-Saturdays Highlights: Experience the essence of the Lone Star State at the Texas State Fair, with traditional Southern music, food and carnival games.

Wave hello to 55-foot Big Tex. Location: 3921 Martin Luther King Jr. Blvd., Dallas • Price: $14-18 • Details: bigtex.com Austin City Limits – When: Oct. 2-4 and Oct. 9-11; 11 a.m.-10 p.m.

Highlights: Started in 2002, this respected music festival is partially responsible for Austin being dubbed “The Live Music Capitol of the World.” This year’s lineup includes, among other top acts, Drake, Florence + The Machine, Foo Fighters and The Strokes.

Location: Zilker Park, 2100 Barton Springs Road, Austin • Price: 1-day pass, $90; 3-day pass, $225-250 • Details: aclfestival.com Texas Renaissance Festival – When: Saturdays-Sundays Oct. 10-Nov. 29, plus the Friday after Thanksgiving Highlights: Enjoy live theater, falconry demonstrations, food, music, and shopping at this sprawling festival with its own permanent grounds in the woods.

Location: 21778 FM 1774, Todd Mission, about an hour northwest of downtown Houston • Price: Starting at $26 • Details: texrenfest.com 38th Annual Scarecrow Festival – When: Saturday, Oct. 10: 9 a.m.-6 p.m.; Sunday, Oct. 11: 9 a.m.-5 p.m.

Highlights: Bring in the fall in classic Southern style. More than 250 vendors sell everything from home décor to jewelry, along with countrystyle food and live entertainment.

Location: 9220 Poplar Street, Chappell Hill, about an hour west of downtown Houston • Price: Free, $5 parking Details: chappellhillmuseum.org/scarecrow.html

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by Andria Frankfort, staff writer

A Grand Love In praise of grandparents “I’m just really lucky to have them.”

That’s what Lorn McLaren, 15, says of his grandparents, Olga and Theron McLaren, as they and Lorn’s brother Duncan, 12, drive back from a summer trip to New Orleans.

Olga, a longtime first-grade teacher at St. John’s School, and Theron, a retired engineer, “waited a long time” for grandchildren from their only son, and they’ve relished every minute since.

When the boys were young, Olga set up a playroom in her attic filled with “all the things that were developmentally correct,” collected during her years of teaching. And she has kept journals for the boys since the days they were born. “I wanted them to see all the things they have done from my perspective,” she says. “I’m on the third volume.”

Olga and Theron also started a tradition with the boys: weekly sleepovers with dinner at Grotto, pancake and egg breakfasts, “garage saleing” and a trip to House of Coffee Beans.

“I once was at a gymnastics class when a woman said hello to Lorn,” Tevia McLaren, the boys’ mom, says. “He was maybe 5 and said hi.

She was a regular at House of Coffee Beans and knew Lorn from his Saturday mornings there!”

In addition to making friends, the boys learned to bargain, asking, “How much do you want for this?” at garage sales, followed immediately by, “Would you take 25 cents?”

“As my children grew up, their [grandparents’] phone number was by the phone, and both boys could call at any time to ask to be picked up or spend the night or be taken to Baskin-Robbins, and over would come my in-laws.”

Studies show that when children report sharing close relationships with their grandparents, they also report greater academic and social competence, increased self-confidence, lower levels of depression and increased levels of maturity. Involved grandparents serve as role models and confidantes, and, echoing the sentiment, “It takes a village,” they support parents, decreasing stress in children’s worlds.

But grandchildren and their parents aren’t the only beneficiaries of such a supportive relationship. “When my father-in-law had bypass sur-

TAKES A VILLAGE Theron and Olga McLaren began taking their grandsons (from left) Duncan and Lorn McLaren on overnight trips when they were very young. Here, the boys are 3 and 6, with their grandparents at the ranch Olga's father built.

gery, my mother-in-law put pictures of [the boys] all over his ICU recovery area to remind him why he had to live,” Tevia says.

Avril Danziger, a retired kindergarten teacher, says her relationship with her nine grandchildren (four in Houston, ages 10 to 16) is “the greatest enrichment I could ever wish for.

“I’ve always had a granny day from the time Emma was 10 months. I would take her for a day, and then when each one came along, I would do it with them. With four children, I knew they needed one-on-one time with somebody, and that was going to be me.”

Once the children started school, ‘granny day’ became the day when Avril would pick up one grandchild from school, take them home for homework, let them choose an activity, then do dinner and bathtime before taking them home to parents Susan and Paul Danziger. The activity could be anything from a baking project to a trip to Target.

“If all four wanted to bake, I’d bake four days a week,” Avril says. “Or I’d take them to Target.

Only a granny can stand around for two hours while they look at every doll or every nail polish or whatever.

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“The two younger ones still have a granny day, and the two older will call when they have time and say, ‘I need a granny day.’ It’s usually when they need more nail polish or something like that. Whatever it takes.”

The Jinks family takes grandparent-grandchildren relationships a step farther. “Grandma and Grandpa moved in next door when our kids were little,” (they’re now 15 and 12) says Caroline Jinks. “Being so close gives the children and the grandparents security. It keeps the grandparents young to look out the window and see the children running and jumping in the pool with their friends.”

EllaDee Jinks (a.k.a. Grandma) says, “We just love having the kids pass through all the time.

We took down the fence and it’s just one big yard in the back. There’s hardly a day goes by during the summer that they’re not in the pool, and we get to know their friends.”

From seeing the children off at the bus on their first days of school to checking in every afternoon, EllaDee says, “They are a part of our daily life. We share so much we’re like one family in two houses. That adds a lot of joy to my life.”

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WORKING TOGETHER EllaDee Jinks taught her grandson West Jinks how to operate the riding lawn mower and care for their shared backyard.

NEIGHBORS

by Tracy L. Barnett, staff writer

Scout Trek Weathering the storm

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he Philmont Ranch, a vast wilderness near Cimarron, New Mexico, is the Boy Scouts of America’s premier high-adventure camp, and has been singled out by Backpacker Magazine for its “high mountain splendor.”

“They may meet only one other group of Scouts on the trail in an entire day of hiking,” according to the magazine. “Even in the most crowded destinations, each Scout group camps in isolation, out of sight and sound of all other groups.”

It’s a landscape that commands respect and caution. A flash flood this summer swept four Scouts into the river, taking the life of 13-yearold Alden Brock of Sacramento, Calif. Troop 46, which calls its base St. Luke’s Methodist Church of River Oaks, weathered that storm in a camp just down the trail from the tragedy, but didn’t learn of it until later.

For Christopher Gray, assistant scoutmaster of Troop 46 in the River Oaks area, the survival training he and other leaders had had as young men helped them weather the storm.

Accompanying Christopher and his son, Bellaire High School student Jackson, on this epic journey were Assistant Scoutmaster Daniel Krall and son Mitchell, a former HSPVA student; Assistant Scoutmaster John Kelly and son Christian Kelly, also of Bellaire; Alex Lee of St. Thomas High School; Scott Stegink of Lamar; and Will Partridge, who has since moved to Colorado.

The group prepared for the 12-day trip in true Boy Scout style – with exercise, gearing up, medical checks and planning. The boys, from 14 to 16, were experienced hikers who had done smaller trips; they knew how to cook on camp stoves, purify water and build a fire. “The kids were in charge; the adults are just the chaperones,” said Gray. “They read the maps, they figure out the route, they navigate, they organize cooking and setting up the tents.”

They set off for Philmont on Friday, June 19, and by Monday they were on the mountain with their big packs, hiking up to Deans Cutoff Camp.

On the third night they hiked up to Pueblano Ruins, where the boys roped a sawhorse and used a cattle brand to brand their hats. Day Four they made their way up to Baldy Town, a once-

ON THE TOOTH OF TIME Scaling this geologic formation was a high point of the journey. From left, standing: Scott Stegink, Jackson Gray, Will Partridge. Seated, middle row: Christian Kelly, Alex Lee, Mitchell Krall, Daniel Krall. Seated, foreground: John Kelly and Christopher Gray.

bustling gold-mining town, now a staffed base camp with a commissary at 10,000 feet located at the base of Baldy Mountain, the ranch’s highest peak. They explored the nearby French Henry Camp, allegedly the site of an ancient Aztec mine, and got to pan for gold; then they left their packs and tents in Baldy Town and, newly lightened of their loads, continued on up, summiting Baldy Mountain at 12,441 feet.

“Some of us were struggling with altitude issues,” said Gray. “We got hailstones, and it was white everywhere you could see with hail.”

The boys took it in stride and set up camp that night in Baldy Town. The next day, Day Six, they hiked to the Head of Dean Camp, and that’s the night it rained so hard that it flooded the entire camp. They awoke to a watery world and found that the hike they’d planned was no longer possible because the bridges were washed out.

Little did they know that just down the trail, another group of Scouts had endured a night of horror that would make their own pale in comparison. Those boys were swept into the floodwaters of North Ponil Canyon around 4:30 a.m.; three were rescued by members of the camp staff, but they couldn’t get to Alden in time. A memorial service in Sacramento for the fallen Scout,

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who was remembered as a courageous, skillful and highly beloved lad, was attended by 800.

In the next six days the Houston Scouts’ rerouted hike would take them rock climbing, trail building and hiking up on Urraca Mesa, a windwhipped highland redolent of spooky legends dating to indigenous inhabitants and Mexican vaqueros. They swapped ghost stories around the campfire. They camped at the foot of a towering formation called the Tooth of Time and in the morning, scaled it and had breakfast on top, surveying the green forests.

The boys made it home and declared the expedition a great success. The high point for Christopher was “seeing the kids work together as a group – cooking meals, pitching tents, organizing how things would get done. I learned the boys were capable of planning and organizing and taking the lead in these sorts of events, and the boys learned they could do it, as well.”

Grateful to be home safe, all took home a lesson they will not soon forget: one of the fragility of life in the face of nature’s fury.

Editor’s Note: See page 24 for writer Tracy L. Barnett’s Travel Buzz account of an ambitious father-daughter mountain trek.

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by Sharon Albert Brier, staff writer

Rumor Has It Secret celebration. It was just another workday for Marilyn Saks. However, her friends knew that she would be totally surprised when she walked into Masraff’s restaurant and found them wearing hats to celebrate her 60th birthday. Coworker Kath Blanco led her in.

She was given a signed cigar purse with a collage of photos of her and friends. The gals shared about the special moment that the pics represented. Perhaps the biggest surprise was when hubby Steve Saks arrived with flowers for a pop-by. In the surprise shout-out were Marcia Alexander, Margie Schneider, Connie Senter and Debbie Goldgar.

Alpacas are smaller than llamas.

Although Andrew Gardener and his former roommate from Emory University, Bruce Brodsky, have taken an annual hike since 2012, their first international trek together was to Machu Picchu. Andrew admits it was a physically grueling adventure, primarily due to the altitude. They hiked the Lares Trek on the way to Machu Picchu. In the eight days they met other worldly travelers, slept in tents and ate alpaca. Ancient civilization is good for a short time.

Devilish dinner. Staci and Quang Henderson’s poolside was heavenly for a Saints and Sinners party. Partiers choose to dress as either style. On the Saints side, Staci was in a long white gown, Matt Burrus was disguised as the Pope, and Layla Asgari and Taft and Dana McWhorter wore angelic white. On the Sinners side, Quang, Craig and Anika Jackson, Justin Hellyer and Laith Mahmood were in devilish red attire or evil black. Guests picked to sit at either the red or white side of the table. They were served a five-course dinner based on Bible scriptures as interpreted by Chef Ricky Arredondo. Leafy green (Adam and Eve) apple salad started the meal, which ended with devil’s food cake over raspberry purée. Sinfully delish.

Ten schoolgirls. A milestone birthday for Karen Nakfoor was arranged by Dorothy S. Paterson at Carrabba’s on Karen’s real birthday, July 15. Her big 60th was cheered by friends, mostly from her former schools, T.H. Rogers jun-

ior high, Lee High School and The University of Texas.

Karen received a beautiful red leather bag from the group, which blended great with the red dress that she wore that day. Many memories were shared. In the group were Cathy Smith, Margaret Pfeiffer, Helen Perry and Terry Harmon.

Chatty and fun. The Art of A-MAZE-ING Andrew Gardener finds his way in Machu Picchu.

Conversation and Celeste and Bruce Davis look forward to a Kickoff will be mid September at the home of spring wedding.

Gerald and Joyce Lott. The chairs for the AOC Winning hand. Patti Miller and Barbara luncheon Nov. 2, Deborah Colton and Evelyn Sheldon were at Mah Jongg when Barbara menLeightman, are thrilled to honor Olga Bush and tioned a fabulous trip to Asia that she and hubby Denise and Phillip Bahr for their contribution Joe were taking. It was the same cruise that Patti to cultural arts. Among the 32 conversationaland Danny Miller would be on. Highlights were ists at AOC will be Jana Arnoldy, philanthroVietnam beaches, dinner at the home of former pist; Denman Moody, wine expert; Ryan Ambassador Henry Cabot Lodge, and Hong Pontbriand, former Cleveland Browns player; Kong and Bangkok shops. At the Raffles Hotel Cynthia Sinatra, international lawyer; Pamela in Singapore they had the famous Singapore Wright of the Wright Pawn & Jewelry Co. and Sling drink created there 100 years ago Carolyn Faulk, lifetime Houston Livestock Pay it forward. Steve and Kaye Horn Show and Rodeo vice president. For luncheon are avid financial fans of Texas A&M, as implied tickets, call 713-681-1331. by their $2 million contribution to name the flag Common bonds. A day in Aspen started room as part of the Memorial Student Center with a tennis match between Joseph Cohen and (MSC) fundraising campaign. Steve says his Lindsay Davis. Love! Later came a talk by artist education there led him to be mentored by the Alec Soth and a hike to ACES, Aspen Center legendary Wayne Stark, who oversaw the buildfor Environmental Studies. As Lindsay walked ing of the MSC when Steve attended A&M. In up to a lookout deck, Joseph seized the moment case you are wondering the name of the room: to propose. To celebrate they picnicked there Stephen R. Horn ’79 Flag Room. with a medley of Lindsay’s favorites. Joseph’s cousins, Mindy, Steve and Alex Brown, helped with the coup. By the way, Joseph’s modern-art See Rumor Has It at thebuzzmagazines.com for exhibition of Propositions is debuting at De additional photos. Have some good news to share?

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by Annie Blaylock McQueen, staff writer

Buzz Baby

First-birthday parties

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his summer, my husband and I survived planning and pulling off our twins’ first birthday party.

Our original idea was to have a small, intimate gathering with family only. However, our list grew, and before we knew it, we were booking our neighborhood clubhouse, arranging for a snow-cone truck, setting up James Coney Island and sending out invitations to over 50 people.

The party was a success, and even though I wanted to pull out my hair setting it up, I don’t regret throwing a huge bash to celebrate their big milestone.

Let’s admit it. A first birthday party isn’t really for the 1 year old. It’s for the parents. It’s to celebrate more sleep-filled nights (most of the time), the end (for some) of buying formula and (hopefully) surviving a year without having to call 911.

Global programs manager Lauren McCulloch and her husband Wyatt, a commercial real estate broker, have two daughters, Lyla, 3, and Lexi, 11 months.

For Lyla’s first birthday, they decided to make it easy and intimate, so they invited only family.

“Well, that ended up being about 50 people,” said Lauren. “It was a little hectic.”

That didn’t stop them though. The following year, they hosted a Mickey Mouse Clubhousethemed party for Lyla’s second birthday. They even rented a gymnastics truck to park in front of their house to entertain the kids.

Lauren, who was nine months pregnant at the time, says she made the mistake of searching for party décor ideas on Pinterest. “By the time it was all over with, I had created 100 pink and white hot dog trays with a stencil, stationary and a hot glue gun. The red and white [hot dog trays] that you can buy in bulk on Amazon just weren’t good enough,” she said, laughing. “It was so silly, but it sure was fun.”

This September, they’ll host yet another

birthday party for Lexi, who turns 1 in early October.

Lyla’s birthday is in September. “We are just going to do a two-for-one-special and have one big joint party for both of them,” said Lauren. “We will have a bunch of family in town [for Lexi’s baptism that weekend], so they’ll be able to make it.”

Lauren says that doing the birthdays together will save her extended family a lot of FIRST-BIRTHDAY BASH When Lyla McCulloch turned 1, her parents, Lauren and b a c k - a n d - f o r t h Wyatt, threw a big party at their house. travel, and it will They picked the theme, which was “hoppy also save her sanity in planning two parties in hour,” as it was close to the Easter holiday. less than a month.

Custom invitations were mailed, and Dawn set The couple also says no more house parties. up bunny decorations all over the house.

It’s at the neighborhood pool this time. “Lexi More than 40 family and friends attended. won’t know that she got ripped off until she’s “The party had a great start. Pearce took a nap older. I’m sure she will need therapy because I beforehand so she was happy and smiling and deprived her of such an important milestone,” enjoying all the attention,” said Dawn. said Lauren, laughing.

When it was time for the smash cake, guests The menu for big first birthday parties often surrounded Pearce in her high chair on their isn’t as simple as peanut butter and jelly sandback patio and started to sing Happy Birthday. wiches. Some parents, like Alex and Anthony “Mike rushed out holding the cake with the Heins, hired caterer Taco Cart by Don Julio for burning sparkler candles. The cake slid right off their daughter Annabel’s first-birthday bash at the cake stand onto the deck,” said Dawn. their home in May. Fajitas normally aren’t on “Everyone gasped, and my father-in-law quickly the menu for babies, but the adults enjoyed it. screamed, ‘3-second rule!’ and scooped up the The smash-cake session is usually the highdestroyed cake and put it back onto the stand.” light of a first birthday party. A smash cake is a They placed the cake in front of Pearce, and she baby-sized version of the big cake, and parents dug in. often let the baby dig into it hands and face first Dawn says everyone continued to sing and after everyone sings Happy Birthday. laughed about the fallen cake, which is still a Dawn Persia, a mom of two, and her husband story they tell. “It made her birthday party so Mike, vice president of Scout Petroleum, threw much more memorable than if it had all worked a big party at their house when their daughter out as planned.”

Pearce turned 1 last April.

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by Tracy L. Barnett, staff writer

Travel Buzz Father-daughter mountain climb

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oy Scouts and Girl Scouts may leave their badges, hats and uniforms behind along with their graduation caps, but the spirit and the skills last a lifetime, as Hal Means and Shane Kimzey would be quick to tell you. These two very grown-up Boy Scouts had taken their sons, James and Christopher, on Scouting expeditions, but this summer, the tales they brought back from a father-daughter expedition were enough to bring out the Scout in anyone.

Hal, a marketing professional, and Shane, a house attorney at CenterPoint Energy, found that their Scout training came in handy when their daughters decided they wanted to climb some of the world’s highest peaks.

It all started when Charlotte Means, then a sixth grader at St. John’s School, was reading a book called No Summit Out of Sight, the true story of Jordan Romero, the youngest person to climb the seven highest peaks in the world.

Means was so inspired that she proposed climbing Mount Everest – after all, Jordan Romero had done it when he was 13, she reasoned.

Hal was impressed with his daughter’s initiative but proposed starting with a peak a bit closer to home: Mount Whitney in California, the highest peak in the lower 48 United States. It turned out Charlotte’s brother Christopher, also a Boy Scout, and mother Aline were otherwise occupied for the days they had a permit to climb Mount Whitney, so she asked if she could invite friend and neighbor Reagan Kimzey, then a seventh grader at Pershing Middle School, and her father Shane. That’s how the idea for the fatherdaughter trek was born.

Training for high-mountain climbing in the flatlands of Houston was no easy feat. They settled on the Ho Chi Minh Trail in Memorial Park, a mountain biking trail with plentiful ups and downs, stadium stairs, and the hill surrounding the Miller Outdoor Theatre. They also enjoyed the Japanese garden near the theater – “It was really pretty and it kind of reminded us of hiking at Mount Whitney,” Charlotte said later.

Shane and Hal, both Eagle Scouts, already had abundant gear; Shane had climbed Kilimanjaro several years ago. They borrowed hiking poles from a friend to help with the steep climbing and

FROM BELLAIRE TO THIN AIR Reagan Kimzey, Shane Kimzey, Hal Means and Charlotte Means (from left) take a break from their father-daughter climb of Mt. Whitney to catch their breaths and a few memories.

the descent, and they stocked up on moleskin and other first-aid supplies, iodine tablets for the water, rain gear and other incidentals.

“We each got a good pair of boots, and everyone broke in their boots really well before the trip so there would be no blisters,” said Hal. The fathers and daughters got to the trailhead and began hiking at 5:30 a.m. “It was pretty dark, and it was cold,” recalled Reagan. “When the sun started coming up you could see the sunrise through the mountains, and that was pretty cool.”

They climbed under a steadily rising sun, coming to a pretty, green valley blooming with wildflowers with a clear stream running through it and a waterfall.

“The landscape was like Narnia meets Lord of the Rings,” said Hal. Mt. Whitney’s western slope lies in Inyo National Forest, and the trekkers marveled at the giant Sequoias, some of the largest trees in America. Deer, chipmunks and an abundance of birds made their appearance. The girls were particularly charmed by the enormous, notched, log bridge that crossed a swampy area – “they were like human Lincoln logs,” commented Charlotte.

They made steady progress throughout the morning, climbing switchback after switchback.

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the altitude began to take a toll.

“When we got to 11,000 feet, the altitude started really getting to us,” said Reagan. “I didn’t think I was going to be able to go on. I was not being able to focus, and my head was really hurting.”

They sat down and ate lunch somewhere between the 11,000 and 12,000 mark, and Hal was suffering as well. “I was feeling nausea, dizziness, and a headache – it was pretty bad. I had felt it a little earlier but you just rest, drink water, eat a little bit and keep going. There was a point I was so dizzy I had to stop, because I didn’t want to fall.”

The other three continued and were closing in on the 12,000 mark when they decided it was time to turn back.

“It turned out to be a bit farther than we thought,” said Shane. “We finally realized it would be too far to get there and back in one day.

It just wasn’t in the cards for that day. For safety’s sake and practicality, we decided that was far enough…. Mountain climbers have a saying: ‘Going up is optional, coming down isn’t.’”

Reagan was the one who took it the hardest.

“It was really frustrating,” she said. “We thought we only had 3 miles to go, and then we found out it was 5 miles. We thought we’d come so far when we hadn’t.”

Shane was quick to put things into perspec-

tive. “The girls climbed higher and farther than they’d ever climbed before,” he said. “For their ages, it was incredibly amazing.”

The girls had barely made it down before they began planning their return. “We know now where the campgrounds are and where to start out and what time,” said Reagan. “I think we could do it if we took two days. We all want to go to other mountains, too; instead of making us not want to do it, it made us want to do it even more.”

The trip included a drive through Death Valley, 282 feet below sea level, at the opposite extreme from Mount Whitney. “We got contrasts that were astounding,” said Hal. The group learned not to count on technology; cell phone apps to measure altitude and distance don’t necessarily work at that altitude, and they agreed it’s better to rely on good old-fashioned maps and compasses and know-how from guidebooks.

Reagan, who has asthma, knew that training was key, but so was attitude. “You have to know what you’re up against; you have to train and do what’s required. But you also have to know that you can do it,” she said. “I learned a lot about myself on this trip – I learned I can do a lot more than I thought I could.”

Charlotte agreed. “It was an amazing experience – and like Mr. Kimzey said, it’s not the destination, it’s the journey.”

HAPPY TRAILS AT 12,000 FEET Charlotte Means (at left) and Reagan Kimzey take a break above the treeline on the Mt. Whitney Trail, happy and proud of their progress.

“I agree,” chimed in Reagan. “We had some fun – and we learned that you don’t have to make it to the top to succeed.”

Editor’s note: See page 18 for Travel Buzz writer Tracy Barnett’s account of a local Boy Scout troop’s challenging trek in New Mexico.

Gearing Up - Be Prepared Most Scouts would agree that selecting the right gear is an important part of being prepared. For the Kimzeys and the Means, REI was a good starting point – both the store and the website. Here are their tips: BOOTS: Hal, Charlotte, and Shane all got theirs at REI: Lowas (Hal), Salomons (Charlotte) and Garmonts (Shane – they survived Kilimanjaro, Mt. Washington in New Hampshire and Mt. Whitney among others). Reagan’s were Columbias from Academy (so a bit cheaper, but they did the job). The key is to get boots that are comfortable, provide good ankle support, are not too heavy, have plenty of extra space at the end of the toe box (extremely important when descending!) and are well-broken in. It also helps if they’re waterproof, as Hal discovered when he slipped into one of the icy streams and submerged a foot. Extra socks are a must.

POLES: Adjustable trekking poles are extremely helpful.

PACK: A good-sized day pack to carry plenty of water, food, first aid kit, rain gear, and cold weather gear. Some people like to have insect repellent, as well.

PLUS: On Mount Whitney, you had to have a “wag bag” – something the National Park Service provides for you to hike out solid human waste.

Shane also shared the “Classic 10 Essentials” for hiking from REI.com – the classic version, plus the updated version. The original 10 Essentials list was compiled in the 1930s by The Mountaineers, a Seattle-based climbers’ group. In 2003, the group updated the list to a “systems” approach rather than listing individual items (for example, map and compass now fall into the Navigation “system.”)

Classic Ten Essentials 1. Map 2. Compass 3. Sunglasses and sunscreen 4. Extra clothing 5. Headlamp/flashlight 6. First-aid supplies 7. Firestarter 8. Matches 9. Knife 10. Extra food

Updated Ten Essential “Systems” 1. Navigation (map and compass) 2. Sun protection (sunglasses and sunscreen) 3. Insulation (extra clothing) 4. Illumination (headlamp/flashlight) 5. First-aid supplies 6. Fire (waterproof matches/lighter/candles) 7. Repair kit and tools 8. Nutrition (extra food) 9. Hydration (extra water) 10. Emergency shelter

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FOOD

by Amanda Ellison Harwerth, contributing writer

Cooking Buzz Summer dining al fresco Cooking Buzz is produced in partnership with the Junior League of Houston, a women’s charitable and education organization founded in 1925.

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cooking article? Those close to me will look twice to believe that I am writing a cooking article. While I am the lady of the house, I am not the lady of the kitchen.

It is my amazing husband, Craig, who is the established “master chef” of our family and friends. He will whip up Steak Diane with Truffle Risotto on a random Tuesday night. My family thinks it’s hilarious that I once refused to make iced tea because I didn’t want to “cook.”

Fast-forward a few years and a few kids, and now this kitchen novice is trying to conquer her fear of being a kitchen nightmare.

This summer I have focused on light but hearty summertime recipes for a dinner party al fresco or a weeknight family meal. I picked up the Junior League of Houston’s Peace Meals, and the results have not been a letdown.

For starters, I mix up the White Wine Sangria, a cool, fruity, fresh drink that is perfect for guests (or Daddy!) to sip on the patio on a hot summer evening. The kids love it when I make a second batch using lemon-lime soda.

The sangria is beautiful served in clear-glass pitchers on the table outside to act as colorful complements to my casual centerpieces.

The Butter Lettuce, Pomegranate and Walnut Salad is a simple, light start to the meal.

To make things even easier, I buy pre-packaged pomegranate seeds or sometimes substitute dried cranberries.

Most people in the South think of grilling steak or chicken when dining al fresco, but I love Sea Scallops and Orzo with Cherry Tomatoes. It looks impressive, but is surprisingly easy to prepare. I make basil chiffonade by simply rolling up fresh basil like a cigar and slicing into thin green ribbons to add a pop of green with the bright red tomatoes.

My son loves carrots, so we are always looking for new ways to prepare them, and the Balsamic Glazed Carrots are a variation on a favorite, hearty but not heavy.

Finally, I treat myself by preparing the

Blackberry Raspberry Crisp – crunchy on top and sweet, warm berry goodness in the middle. If you’re like me and prefer a higher crisp-to-berry ratio, double the “crisp” portion of the recipe. I pair the dessert with vanilla ice cream to cool off my guests on a hot evening. I also like to substitute whatever berries are in the house as a great way to salvage ripening fruit and surprise the family with a spe- SEAFOOD FOR BEGINNERS Sea Scallops and Orzo with Cherry Tomatoes looks cial dessert. impressive but is surprisingly easy to make.

I’ve learned that 2 ⁄3 cup freshly grated Pecorino Romano cheese presentation is just as important as preparation.

1 ⁄3 cup fresh basil chiffonade I like to use blue and white plates, napkins and serving pieces, which add an element of crispness Cook the orzo according to package direcagainst the summer heat. I use tall vases with tions. While the pasta cooks, heat 1 tablespoon sunflowers, as they can withstand the evening of the olive oil in a large skillet over mediumheat with grace, and the height adds drama. I high. Sprinkle ½ teaspoon salt and pepper evenscatter decorative citronella candles around the ly over the scallops. Sauté scallops for 3 minutes table for function as well as ambience. on each side or until done. Remove the scallops I hope this inspires others to be fearless in the from the pan and set aside. Drain the excess liqkitchen. If I can do it, anyone can. uid from the pan and add the remaining 1tablespoon of olive oil. Add the onions, garlic and Sea Scallops and Orzo with Cherry red pepper, and cook for two minutes, stirring Tomatoes frequently. Stir in the pasta and scallops, and From Peace Meals continue to cook for 1 minute or until heated 1 cup dry orzo pasta through. Remove from heat, season with the 2 Tbsp. olive oil, divided 3 remaining salt and pepper and stir in the toma⁄4 teaspoon coarse salt, divided 1 toes, cheese and basil. ⁄4 tsp. freshly ground pepper, divided 1 lb. sea scallops 1 cup chopped sweet onion For other mentioned recipes, click on 4 cloves garlic, minced 1 Categories/Recipes at thebuzzmagazines.com. To buy ⁄4 tsp. crushed red pepper a cookbook, see www.jlh.org or call 713-871-6608.

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SPORTS

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by Todd Freed, staff writer

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fter Herb Kunz was promoted to defensive coordinator for the Bellaire Cardinals in January, the last thing he expected was to then begin the season as the Cardinals’ new head football coach. But when Trey Sissom unexpectedly left Bellaire this summer to become the new head coach at Fort Bend Travis, Kunz was chosen to replace him.

“I think it’s an outstanding situation,” said Kunz, who’s been coaching high school football for the past 20 years. “Bellaire has a standard of excellence that’s very attractive. I’m excited about our kids and our coaching staff. Coach Sissom and Trey Herrmann before him did a great job of building up the program, and the next step we’re looking towards is having success in the playoffs.”

Kunz is especially looking forward to the return of wide receiver Courtney Lark, who has committed to play college football at TCU. Another top returning player is senior linebacker Donovan Stiner, who’ll play college football at Baylor University. “I’m looking at Donovan and Courtney to provide a lot of leadership for our team,” said Kunz.

After losing 11 players to the college-football ranks, the Lamar Texans will be looking to reload this football season. A state finalist three yeas ago, Lamar posted a lofty 11-1 record last year. “We have a smaller senior class than usual, but I’m still pretty optimistic about the season,” said Texans head coach Tom Nolen.

The Texans’ biggest high-profile player is senior offensive tackle Dixie Wooten. The 6’5”, 310-pound senior has committed to play for the University of Houston next year. Meantime, 6’3”, 265-pound center Brian Bourgeois has a college offer from Davidson, but is also looking at several Ivy league schools as well as Rice University. Another highly regarded returning player is three-year starting defensive back Logan Latin. In the backfield, juniors Owen Holt and Carlton Smith are competing for the starting quarterback spot left by the departure of quarterback J.W Ketchum, who is playing college football at Baylor.

If history is any indication, the Texans should again be a powerful force, having won five con-

LIKE AN EAGLE Wide receiver Landon Malouf is one of several returning offensive weapons for a St. Thomas Eagles team that has its sights set on winning a TAPPS State Championship.

secutive district titles and earned a playoff berth in 28 of the 30 seasons Nolen has coached at Lamar. “We’ve got a great school, with a really good football program and a stable coaching staff,” said Nolen.

After defeating rival St. Pius to win this summer’s TAPPS 7 on 7 State Championship, the St. Thomas Eagles have their sights set on winning a state title when it matters most this coming fall. “We definitely have the makings of one of our best teams here at St. Thomas,” said head coach Tim Fitzpatrick. “At the skills position, we have all our players back. We should have a pretty potent offensive attack.”

Leading the offense is senior quarterback Michael Keating, who threw for over 1,800 yards while rushing for another 900 yards last year. Running back William Heck, who rushed for 900 yards despite being slowed by a highankle sprain late in the season, is back this season, as is fellow running back Walter Hinckley.

The Eagles also welcome the return of standout receivers Landon Malouf and Drew Guidroz, as well as highly touted Episcopal transfer Jhanmon Ausbon. The 6’4” junior has already committed to Baylor University.

In volleyball, the Memorial Mustangs are looking to build upon last season’s undefeated district championship. Memorial went 12-0 in

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district and 28-9 overall, but was eliminated from the playoffs in the first round by Jersey Village.

“I think we’ll be a better team defensively,” said Memorial head coach Beth Gammill. “I know we’ll have a stronger back row. As a whole, I really like what I see from the girls as far as their work ethic and how well they play together as a team.”

The Mustangs team is led by senior middle blocker Maddie Phillips, who will play Division 1 college volleyball at Lipscomb University.

“Maddie has a really quick arm swing and is extremely agile at the net,” said Gammill. “She’s just a great player.”

Other returning starters include senior outside hitter Amanda McCloskey and junior libero Alexis Pratt. “Amanda is a very smart, hard-hitting player with great court vision, while Alexis is a tremendous defensive specialist who can dig the ball out of nowhere. She’s just all over the court,” said Gammill. “This is just a really fun team to coach.”

Editor’s Note: Todd Freed is the Emmy Awardwinning co-host and producer of the KUBE SportsZone, which airs Saturday and Sunday at 6 p.m. on Channel 57-KUBE. To submit high school sports news for possible inclusion in SportzBuzz, please email todd@thebuzzmagazines.com.

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by Angie Frederickson, staff writer

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elcome to SportzBuzz, Jr., a column spotlighting neighborhood athletes in elementary and middle school.

Tournament champs The Spring Branch-Memorial Sports Association 8U Aces softball team won the gold bracket tournament. After being undefeated during the regular season, the girls brought home the championship win in the playoffs.

The winning Aces attend Rummel Creek Elementary and Memorial Drive Elementary. Pictured (top photo, top row, from left) are coaches Aaron McGuire, Wes Briggs, Doug Chamberlain and Pat Jackson, with players (middle row, from left) Audrey Hilberth, Hailey Tacker, Ashley Jones, Evynn Stallwitz, Carolyn Briggs, Emma Jackson, Georgia Clark, (front row, from left) Audrey Freeman, Kaitlyn McGuire, Anna Lee Kulka, Allison Moss, Isabelle Coates and Elizabeth Chamberlain.

Tae Kwon Do medalists The Spring Branch Tae Kwon Do team attended Nationals, in Fort Lauderdale, and won 15 medals. Twelve Memorial-area students, of various belt levels, and two coaches came home with medals in forms and sparring.

Masters James Mutters and Lino Sandival led the students to victory.

Teammates included (middle photo, top row, from left) Isaiah De La Garza, Ashley Aldeza, Skyler Rauen, Brielle Rauen, Zackary Danek, Hayley Renshaw, Kiara Sandoval, Bianka Sandoval, (bottom row, from left) Matt Speros, Thomas Ochoa, Ivan Valle, Dolan Fernandez, Allison Girard, Isabella Hargett, Jordan Fowler and Jorge Lopez.

10-year-old All Stars The Post Oak Little League (POLL) 10-year-old All Stars (bottom photo) placed second out of more than 200 Little League teams in the East Texas state tournament in Tyler. The boys practiced every day leading up to district play, where they beat Bellaire, Westbury, First Colony and West University and brought home the district banner. Next, they played in the sectional tournament and then advanced to the East Texas state tournament for the first time in Post Oak Little League history, for the 10-yearold division. After a tough initial loss, the boys came back to win the next two games. POLL lost the championship game, but players and parents are proud of their performance. Each boy committed to practicing every day for 57 days leading up to the tournament. The team included (top row, from left) coaches Eric Anderson, Blake Benton and Chris Spears and players (second row, from left) Anthony Barzilla, Harrison Lawrence, Wells

Anderson, (third row, from left) William Crawmer, Zidane Allan, Brooks Benton, John Dearing, Gardner Watson, Dylan Le, Elijah Marrero, Alex Jinnette, (bottom row, from left) Ethan Spears and Pierce Frisco.

Editor’s note: Send your best high-resolution photos and behind-the-scenes stories about young local athletes, in both team and individual sports, to SportzBuzz, Jr. at info@thebuzzmagazines.com. Include all contact info, names, ages, grades and schools. Featured athletes must live in Buzz-circulation neighborhoods. Items will be published on a space-available basis.

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NEIGHBORS

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by Annie Blaylock McQueen, staff writer

Buzz About Town Health and wellness

Rotary Club of University Area members enjoyed hearing Lan Bentsen (pictured with 2014 Rotary Club president Irene Hickey), son

of the late U.S. Sen. Lloyd Bentsen, deliver his message that “good health is good business.”

Shape Up Houston is a non-profit organization formed to address obesity. The Shape Up Houston and Rice University Kinder Institute Houston Mayoral Forum on Urban Health and Wellness is scheduled for Sept. 17, 7 -9 a.m., at 6500 Main Street. It’s open to the public and will also be streamed live. See shapeuphouston.org/ page/Resources/Community-Events.

Camp Mystic traditions Olivia Grobmyer, an eighth grader at St. John’s School, and her cousin Elizabeth Fisher, an

eighth grader at Grady Middle School (pictured, from left), spent their sixth summer in a row at Camp Mystic for Girls in Hunt. They are continuing the family tradition, as their mothers, sisters Melissa Grobmyer and Amanda Fisher, attended Mystic in the 1970s and 80s, and

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Elizabeth’s great-great aunt Pauline Sternenberg attended in the 1920s. Olivia and Elizabeth spent the month of July horseback riding, canoeing, and earning medals in riflery and archery.

Lamar ties Lamar High School Alumni Association board members recently met for a long meeting to go over important tasks and upcoming action items. They included Paula Porter Morris, Linda Ittner (LHS staff), Brad Wright, Ashley Mattson Rushing, president Bill Stewart, Beth Ruffing, Daniel Woodson, Alison Ayres Bell, Josh Chaffin and executive director Fran Callahan. Did you attend Lamar? The board members said they are always looking for great pictures of favorite memories from Lamar – old and new, especially reunion pictures. Send pictures in JPEG format to Lamarhsalumni@hotmail.com.

Bed heads No candles in bed, please. Michael Pearce (pictured, with arms out) was awakened on his birthday when 10 friends jumped in his Tempur-Pedic vibrating bed to wish him many more. After the initial shock wore off, brunch was served to the pajama-clad group

by Chef Brandon Greigore of Dig & Serve.

Guests donned custom-made party hats, and guess who wore the rhinestone crown? The

surprise party was planned by Anika Jackson, Staci Henderson, Dena Winkler and Justin Hellyer. Pictured are Hellyer, Pearce, Jackson, Winkler, Nancy Almodavar, Sheldon Kramer, Matt Burrus, Jill Shull and Henderson.

Golden girl Angel, a Golden Retriever therapy dog with the nonprofit organization Faithful Paws and a frequent visitor to Memorial Hermann Southwest Hospital, was honored during a ceremony at City Hall.

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and Mayor Annise Parker proclaimed July 21 as “Angel the Therapy Dog Day” in Houston. During a recent visit to the hospital, Angel visited Dana Jerrols.

Jerrols was receiving treatment for cancer and said Angel and her friends reminded him of his dog at home. He said the visit made him feel better already. Faithful Paws volunteers include Connie Richards, Dell and Denise Bryant, and founder Kathy Bilnoski.

The Houstonian Club welcomed more than 500 supporters, who gazed up at the last blue moon until August 2018. The event brought in over $2,000 to benefit The Thread Alliance, a nonprofit that works to prevent child abuse by increasing awareness and volunteerism in communities. See thethreadalliance.org.

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Once in a blue moon

Jacqueline Hance, Sheila Aron, Steve Hance, Joyce Nimetz and Dr. Gary Nimetz (pictured, from left) helped raised awareness for child abuse under a blue moon (an extra full moon) at the “Once in a Blue Moon” pool party at The Houstonian Club. The Thread Alliance and

opportunities involved. Tootsies in West Ave and fashion blogger Megan Silianoff are hosting a kickoff party on Sept. 16 to celebrate the launch of the “Susan Scarf,” designed by Manoosh in collaboration with the Susan Poorman Blackie Ovarian Cancer Foundation.

Kathy Bracewell (pictured) of Agate Ranch + Marfa jewelry company and Anna Wilson of Manoosh will be there too. The scarf is teal, which is the national ovarian cancer color, and it features a painting by Houston-based abstract artist Marilyn Biles. The painting was created in honor of Blackie, who passed away last year.

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Gabe Canales, Julianna Padilla, Taro Alexander and Carolyn Farb (pictured, from left) mingled at the inaugural Stuttering Association for the Young George Springer AllStar Bowling Benefit at Lucky Strike Houston.

Astros player Springer, along with celebrities and 200 fans, helped raise more than $100,000.

Proceeds from the event will send children from families-in-need to Camp SAY, a summer camp for young people who stutter. Springer, who stutters, hosted the Bowling Benefit to establish the George Springer Kids Fund, which provides financial aid to help children from all backgrounds attend Camp SAY. Some stars in the mix included Adam Dunn, Laurette Veres, Brett Dolan, Mark Berman, Rob Todd, Tara

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and Reed Looper, Guy Yount, Miss Texas 2015 Sarah Marie, Javier Bracamonte and SAY board member Brandon Guidry.

Friends gathered Miya Shay (pictured, with Gene Wu) and 11 friends got together and threw a shower for

Lamar High School graduate Lauren Soliz and Chris Canonico, who are expecting a girl this month. The other co-hosts included Jessica Michan, Megan Newton, Kim Padgett, Katie Sherborne, Corbett Parker, Thomas Davis, Jerry Peruchini, Sonia Soto, Catarina Gonzales, Marissa Taler and Monica Aizpurua.

Over 50 guests enjoyed the baby-shower activities, including writing personalized messages on diapers and creating a thumbprint tree, where each guest inked a thumb and created branches of a tree.

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MAJOR DREAMS Gardner Watson, a fifth grader at The Kinkaid School, was on the All-Stars team in the Post Oak Little League.

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Time to play ball

y favorite thing to do is to play baseball. I have been playing baseball for almost my whole life. This was my third year to play at Post Oak Little League. I have played two years in the Pee Wee division and one year in the Minors division.

Every year has been so much fun, especially this year because my team made it to the championship. I have met so many new friends and families from my teams and just around Post Oak. Everyone goes up there to cheer on friends and watch other games even when they’re not playing.

This was my second year to be picked for the All-Stars traveling team. It was really exciting because we made it all the way to state in Tyler.

All my teammates were so nice and always cheering you up when you were down. We worked so

hard and had practice almost every day for the past two months. We always wanted to go to practice. We got there early and we left late.

My coaches, Coach Eric Anderson, Coach Blake Benton and Coach Chris Spears, were so nice and hardworking. They always believed in us from the very beginning. They helped us learn so much about how to play better baseball and work together as a team. My teammates were all really good baseball players and never gave up even when we were down in a game.

My whole team gave up going to camp and on family vacations just so we could keep playing together this summer. This year, in the regular season, I played shortstop and pitcher, and on the All-Stars I played second base and pitched in a few games. I have learned as a fielder that it

is always important to know where to go with the ball before every pitch.

I plan to play baseball all the way through Post Oak and in high school and my dream someday is to even play in the Major Leagues. I love Post Oak Little League and can’t wait for baseball season next year!

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DINING GUIDE

by Dai Huynh, staff writer

Where to eat outside

Greater Houston Convention and Visitor Bureau/Photographer Julie Soefer

This Month in Dining

BRENNER'S You can dine with a view at Brenner's Steakhouse on the Bayou, a two-story hideaway along picturesque Buffalo Bayou.

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utdoor dining is on everyone’s mind when temperatures start to drop. Granted, humidity is still high in September, but it’s nothing that Texans can’t handle with rosé wine or sangria.

Patio pioneers Backstreet Cafe, Brennan’s of Houston, El Pueblito, Original Goode Co. Barbeque, Brasil and Tiny Boxwoods lead the pack, but the city is jam-packed with al fresco options, including the following: Go for people watching: El Big Bad’s patio overlooks Travis and Prairie, and when the 5 o’clock bell rings, downtown workers pour onto the streets like ants. Suddenly, the city comes alive, with birds chirping above the second floor of El Big Bad balcony, where there are about 65 seats, most of TANGLEWOOD/RIVER OAKS BUZZ SEPTEMBER 2015 38

them occupied during happy hours. Chef Jonathan Jones is in charge of the comida, and he does so with finesse – as always – from the butternut squash empanada to the slow-roasted goat with pickled veggies. (419 Travis Houston, 713-229-8181).

Go for craft beers: The Hay Merchant patrons can fork into homemade bratwurst, boiled shrimp, sweet-and-spicy pig ears and gargantuan chicken-fried steaks while sipping a cold brew at this Westheimer attraction. Long picnic tables, fashioned from refurbished wood, line the patio with a view of downtown. Here, an eclectic Texas tavern menu is paired with 80 craft beers on tap, including five cask ales. (1100 Westheimer, 713-528-98050).

Go for the views: Brenner’s Steakhouse on the Bayou boasts one of the most scenic views inside the Loop. No wonder it’s coveted by so many brides. Perched above a wooded retreat along Buffalo Bayou, this upscale steak-andseafood restaurant has a back deck that affords a view of a quaint, white gazebo, cascading waterfall and lush foliage. The idyllic scene makes a post-meal stroll a must. (1 Birdsall St., 713-868-4444).

Go for Sunday breakfast: Maria Selma Restaurant is an atypical Houston restaurant in the sense that most diners are on the patio rather than inside, even in the hottest months.

This is because owner Rene Hidalgo successfully re-created a patio reminiscent of palapas in Acapulco. A beautiful thatched roof keeps diners cool while they sip frozen margaritas and chow down on huevos con chorizo sausage.

(1617 Richmond Ave, 713-528-4920).

Go for late-night bites: The expansive upstairs patio at Rosemont Social Club blends two worlds. Marvelously cool, the open-air expanse above Uchi restaurant in the heart of Montrose is furnished with red-orange chaise sectionals that scream South Miami Beach while swaying palms and ornate canopies bring to mind sand-swept Morocco. Here, hipsters toast with Veuve Clicquot rosé and nibble on flatbreads, artisanal cheeses and meats along with hand-crafted cocktails. (910 Westheimer, 832-530-4698)

Restaurant Listings $ (under $10) $$ ($11-$30) $$$ ($31-$60) $$$$ (over $60) Prices include drink, tax and tip per person

along with abundantly friendly service and a homey vibe. Every meal begins with complimentary bruschetta and ends with a gracious smile. In between, there are simple, satisfying antipasti.

Many customers order pastas as their entrées, but for those who must have meat, consider the deftly prepared osso buco – an occasional special – or the grilled angus fillet. Dinner Mon.-Sat. 2311 Bissonnet, 713-521-1155. anticarestaurant.com. $$$

Arnaldo Richards’ Picos Dai Huynh is a James Beard food-journalism award winner and longtime restaurant writer. Her visits to restaurants in our Buzz Dining Guide were anonymous, and she paid for her meals to maintain objectivity. We’d love your thoughts too. Write to info@thebuzzmagazines.com with your own dining opinions and suggestions. Also, you can contribute in the Comments section under the online version of this story at thebuzzmagazines.com.

Antica Osteria Regional Italian Neighborhood: Southhampton Antica Osteria, in a vintage brick house, attracts an eclectic mix with its warm, old-fashioned feel.

There are Turkish movie stars, socialites, ingénues, young lovers, media types and, even, parents with well-behaved children. The attractions are the well-prepared pastas; spaghetti carbonara lush with cream and pancetta makes the strongest impression,

Regional Mexican Neighborhood: Upper Kirby Many remain nostalgic about the old Pico's location on Bellaire. But upon entering the new locale, it's hard to fault owner Arnaldo Richards for moving into this graciously appointed, hacienda-inspired space made warm and inviting with coral tablecloths, ceiling beams and dark furniture.

His food, too, has been tweaked, often with winning results. The tomato salsa sings. The ranchera salsa smolders with charred tomatoes. The chicken consommé soup is still a cure for the blues, swimming with pulled chicken, onion, cilantro, Mexican rice and avocado. A dash of Serrano pepper provides a mild, welcome kick. And his signature huachinango a la Veracruzana (red snapper) is elegantly draped with an exquisitely light tomato sauce flavored with green olives, capers and chiles güeros. Lunch & dinner Mon.-Sun. 3601 Kirby, 832-831-9940. picos.net. $$

BRC Gastropub London-inspired gastropub Neighborhood: Rice Military Lance Fegen marinates his chicken in a honey brine prior to encasing the moist interior with a crisp, nutty crust. Short-rib brisket burgers evoke contented sighs while fried oysters are light but forcefully flavored in this wood-paneled masculine beer haven with engaging feminine touches, such as flamboyant wallpapers inspired by the glossy Viceroy, a boutique hotel in Santa Monica.

Lunch & dinner Mon.-Sun. 519 Shepherd Drive, 713-861-2233. brcgastropub.com. $$

Brooklyn Athletic Club Modern American Neighborhood: Museum District Food and play go hand-in-hand at this concept influenced by Shepard Ross’ childhood in Brooklyn, where bocce ball highlighted family gatherings. The fork-tender pork osso buco and robust pasta and meatballs are made more enjoyable watching friends challenge each other at croquet. Lunch & dinner Tues.Sun. 601 Richmond Ave., 713-527-4440. thebrooklynathleticclub.com. $$

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for Cajun and classical French, elements that can found throughout the menu. Lunch & dinner Mon.-Sat. 2736 Virginia Street. 713-5689196. cornertablehouston.com. $$$

Étoile Authentic French Neighborhood: Galleria area When several talented French chefs urge you to try the food at Étoile, it’s hard to dispute their keen taste for the food of their homeland.

Just as they said, the flavors here are true, and owner-chef Philippe Verpiand and wife Monica Bui have created an alluringly warm showcase for a hearty coq au vin and tender sole meunière with lemon caper sauce, fingerling potatoes and roasted cauliflower – both brunch items. Briny mussels flavored with tomatoes and onions are served with homemade pomme frites and garlic aioli. The beauty of this place is almost everything is made from scratch, including the crusty baguettes. Lunch and dinner Mon.-Sun. 1101 Uptown Park Blvd., 832668-5808. etoilecuisine.com. $$ CANOPY One of Canopy's offerings is grilled, tandoori-spiced salmon with lentil-basmati pilaf, tomatoes, sautéed spinach and mango-ginger chutney. (continued from page 39) arrives, Houston’s motor

shifts into idle, and Canopy greets its favorite meal – brunch. The austere space with blond furniture bubbles with conversations as Claire Smith’s reliable kitchen sends out baby-spinach salads with pulled chicken that is peppy with a dessert-wine vinaigrette, apples and roasted red grapes. Try, too, eggs benedict on sweet potato English muffins and an earthy four-mushroom pot pie. Breakfast, lunch & dinner Mon.-Sun. 3939 Montrose, 713-528 6848. canopyhouston.com. $$

Neighborhood: Rice Village Like Coppa Ristorante Italiano, this casual rendition applies the principles of Italian cooking by allowing ingredients to speak with minimum interference. Chef Brandi Key’s clarifies ingredients and judges flavors finely. Pizzas shine. Creamy burrata shimmers with peppery extra-virgin olive oil. Spaghetti carbonara crackles with black pepper and the creaminess of raw eggs and Parmesan cheese. Calabria chili and Meyer lemon brighten shrimp linguine with parmesan cream. Lunch & dinner Mon.-Sun. 5210 Morningside, 713-5223535. coppaosteriahouston.com. $$

Caracol Mexican coastal cuisines Neighborhood: Galleria Hugo Ortega is largely credited with introducing Houstonians to the foodways of Mexico. His namesake restaurant, Hugo’s, on Westheimer captivates with interior specialties, while Caracol showcases Mexico’s lilting coastal cuisines.

Ceviches and crudos shine against a snow-white interior dressed with deep-sea creatures by renowned illustrator Charley Harper. Jalapeño and ginger give great spark and crunch to conch, while scallops combined with sweet mango, papaya and lime crudos dance merrily between sweet, salty and tangy. A house favorite is oysters smoked in a wood-burning domed oven, then drizzled with a luscious chipotle butter. The menu leans toward seafood, but there are meatier options, such as bone-in short rib with cocoa nib and roasted duck with pumpkin seed sauce. Lunch & dinner Mon.-Sun. 2200 Post Oak Blvd., No. 160, 713-622-9996. caracol.net. $$$

Coppa Osteria Artisanal pastas and pizzas

Corner Table Contemporary American Neighborhood: Upper Kirby The Paleo Diet – a nutritional regimen centered around eggs, nuts, pasture-raised meat, fresh fruit and vegetables – is no longer a fringe movement. It has charged into the mainstream, spawning how-to books and glossy magazines.

There are restaurants inspired by Paleo, including Corner Table, a multi-faceted space that boasts a luxe wine room reminiscent of France's Louis XIV era, a live-music lounge and a cozy mixology room with a speak-easy vibe. At the center is the restaurant, which shines even brighter with a culinary rising star at the helm.

Currently, Corner Table's kitchen is under the watch of New Orleans transplant Brandon Lampert, whose signature dishes include rainbow trout with brown lemon butter and pistachio. Another crowd favorite is braised short ribs with French onions and potato au gratin.

Lambert – who worked for James Beard Awardwinning chef John Besh and Food Channel iron chef Masaharu Morimoto – has a soft spot

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Hugo’s Regional Mexican Neighborhood: Montrose Tex-Mex was the game in town until risk takers such as Hugo’s owner-chef Hugo Ortega set out to educate Houstonians about the food of his motherland. Many traditional Mexican establishments have failed, but not the highceiling, palatial Hugo’s, with such comida tipica as a soulful off-the-menu oxtail soup, earthy moles and snapper tamales fragrant in banana leaves. Perennial favorites are the wood-grilled rib-eye steak and baby pig roasted in banana leaves, not to mention pan-fried grasshoppers, which taste like popcorn and are delicious when paired with a blanco tequila. The crown jewel is Hugo’s Sunday brunch – a majestic cornucopian spread, worth every peso. Lunch & dinner Mon.Sun. 1600 Westheimer Road, 713-5247744. hugosrestaurant.net. $$$

Local Foods Chef-driven gourmet deli Neighborhoods: Rice Village; Upper Kirby Hand-crafted sandwiches and salads from chef Dylan Murray draw a diverse crowd.

Savor duck confit smothered with melted brie, aioli and cranberry preserves on wheat bread.

Shrimp-and-crab on ciabatta with green goddess dressing is another must-try. Sandwiches come with two sides that include Tuscan kale with golden raisins and potato chips speckled with Old Bay seasonings. Lunch & dinner Mon.-Sun. 2424 Dunstan, 713-521-7900.

Local Foods Upper Kirby, Lunch & dinner Mon.Sun., 2555 Kirby Drive, 713-255-4440. houstonlocalfoods.com. $$

NEW LISTING! North Italia Modern Italian Neighborhood: Galleria area

Following the success of True Food, Phoenix-based Fox Restaurant Concepts has launched another winning venture with this reasonably priced Italian eatery, where community dining is part of the appeal, along with homemade pastas and pizzas. A soaring space lit by bulbous overhead lighting and wellcoiffed customers, North Italia manages to captivate and nurture our love affair with Italian cooking. Dishes to try include the seasonable vegetable salad, the highly touted bolognese, fig-and-prosciutto pizza, ricotta gnocchi with braised beef short ribs with horseradish crema, and Italian donuts. Call ahead for reservations or avoid peak hours if you hate to wait. North Italia, with a view of the kitchen behind floor-to-ceiling glass, is packed and loud during prime times. But that's part of the fun. Lunch & dinner Mon.-Sun. 1700 Post Oak Boulevard, Suite 190, 281-6054030; northitaliarestaurant.com. $$

NEW LISTING! The Republic Smokehouse and Saloon Texas barbecue Neighborhood: Midtown The 2007 demise of Williams Smokehouse, which occupied a wood-paneled cottage in Acres Homes, left a void. Williams’ meaty, tender, oak-smoked pork ribs never disappointed. Now the folks behind Hearsay and

Mr. Peeples have lured Cedric Williams, the youngest of Willie Williams' three sons, to fire up its state-of-the-art pit at Republic Smokehouse and Saloon in Midtown. Against a fancy honky-tonk backdrop and red neon lights, Cedric continues to honor the family tradition with his blend of seasonings, which also can be found at Kroger stores. Give his gigantic 1.5 pounds of slow-smoked beef short ribs a try. Lunch & dinner Mon.-Sun. 1910 Bagby Street, Suite 100, 832-925-8871; republicsaloon.com. $$

Seasons 52 New American Neighborhoods: Highland Village/Memorial Seasons 52 is reminiscent of Houston's on Kirby, with similar synergy and dimly lit decor.

There are multiple booths, each with its own lamp for an intimate, yet casual setting. The interior is well thought out, unified like most chains, but more upscale. Seasons 52 is motivated by seasonal ingredients, like a chef-driven restaurant, changing its menu quarterly along with showcasing new weekly specials. A plus?

Nothing on the meal is more than 475 calories.

It also has gluten-free and vegetarian menus.

Consider the Winter Vegetarian Tasting with quinoa-citrus salad, soft black-bean taco, seasonal roasted vegetables and an amazingly innovative, yet simple cedar-roasted tofu. There is the

standard grilled rack of lamb, roasted chicken and stellar flat-bread pizzas. The mini desserts in a cup are sensible, diminutive, four or five bites at most. Try the pecan pie with vanilla mouse or carrot cake with cinnamon honey. Lunch & dinner Mon.-Sat. Locations: Highland Village, 4410 Westheimer Road, 713-621-5452; CityCentre, 842 W. Sam Houston Parkway, 713-464-5252. seasons52.com. $$

Triniti Contemporary American Neighborhood: Upper Kirby Eye-catching modern architecture aside, chef Ryan Hildebrand and his kitchen staff, which includes talented chef de cuisine Greg Lowry, manages to bridge wildly inventive cuisine (check out the nightly eight-course tasting menu) with updated steakhouse classics, such as a perfectly seared garlic-thyme prime New York steak accompanied by a roster of sauces. You can choose up to three, such as the samba-sake butter or whole grain mustard.

The menu also features accomplished desserts, such as the hazelnut mousse. Lunch Fri.-Sun. & dinner Wed.-Sat. 2815 South Shepherd. 713-527-9090. trinitirestaurant.com. $$$$

MORE ONLINE See thebuzzmagazines.com for all reviewed restaurants. Use our restaurant finder to search by area, cuisine and price.

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Immigration physical provider Not a good fit?

The United States Citizenship and Immigration Services require that an applicant filing for adjustment of status to that of a permanent resident must submit form I-693 completed by a designated civil surgeon.

Dr. Leslie Nowitz has been on the roster of civil surgeons for a number of years. His staff is trained to facilitate immigration physicals efficiently and as timely as possible in order to verify the good-health criteria and meet requirements set forth by the USCIS. The form I-693 requires that the applicant undergo a medical examination, as well as provide proof that there is no evidence of communicable disease. This requires that there is no active tuberculosis and proof of immunization against mumps, rubella and measles (1 shot) and varicella (chicken pox). In addition, the applicant needs to be current with tetanus, diphtheria, and whooping cough (1 shot).

Proof of immunization is accomplished by either legal proof of prior immunization, having two immunizations, or showing antibody resistance on blood work.

All the above seems complicated, but is easily accomplished in two office visits (the second visit is to evaluate the results of the tuberculosis screen and any blood-test results).

Our office is equipped to do all of this, and it can be accomplished with a same-day appointment if required.

Dr. Leslie Nowitz, Primary Care for Adults and Adolescents, UT Physicians Bellaire Family Medicine Clinic, 5420 Dashwood, Suite 100, Houston, Texas 77081, 713.218.8175

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Dog behavior often changes over time. So what happens if, after a period of time, your dog is no longer a “good fit” for his doggie daycare program? Perhaps your dog was too energetic, and the excitement escalated into bad behaviors. Or perhaps your dog became possessive of the swimming pool or a dog toy. Whatever the reason, it might only indicate that your beloved companion is no longer a good fit for that particular daycare program. So what should you do? First, gather information from the current doggie daycare staff regarding what changed in your pet’s behavior.

Second, find out if something else at the doggie daycare program changed.

For example, did they add more dogs? Did they add a new dog that your pet did not like? Third, does the play group change every day? If so, your pet may not enjoy the stress of trying to make friends with different faces each day. Finally, find out what type of dogs your pet likes to play with. Armed with all this information, you might investigate other doggie daycare programs. Remember to share all the information you gathered from the current daycare staff. Be frank and honest. Don’t hide behaviors that may not flatter your pet. A good daycare program needs all that information to help determine if your best friend is a good “fit” for their playful pooches.

Rover Oaks Pet Resort, 2550 West Bellfort, Houston, Texas 77054, 713.662.2119, www.roveroaks.com

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Joint debts in divorce

Does the shoe fit?

Clients often are frustrated when they realize that, after getting a divorce, you may be financially tied to your ex-spouse if you had joint debts. The decree of divorce will detail who is responsible for debts in both names (i.e. mortgage, credit cards, loans, taxes, etc.), but if the person ordered to pay the debt does not pay, then the creditor will come after you to pay the debt and may not care if the decree details a different agreement.

If both parties’ names are on a credit card, they will not allow one person to be removed.

The best course of action is to agree to pay off joint debts and close the accounts to avoid receiving calls from collection companies if your ex does not pay the debt. The person keeping the home should refinance so you are no longer on the mortgage. If this can’t occur, you can protect yourself with a deed, but need to make certain one of these options is done to break ties with your spouse.

K. Nicole Voyles, a partner at Jenkins & Kamin, L.L.P., a full-service, boutique, family-law firm, has been recognized as a Super Lawyer for 2014 and 2015 and Texas Rising Star by Texas Super Lawyers for 2008, 2011, 2012 and 2013. Jenkins & Kamin, LLP, Two Greenway Plaza, Suite 600, Houston, Texas 77046, 713.600.5500, www.jenkinskamin.com

Foot problems typically develop in early adulthood and get worse as the foot spreads with aging. For many people, bunions run in the family. In people with leg length discrepancies, bunions usually form in the longer leg.

Women are especially prone to developing bunions. Years of wearing tight, poorly fitting shoes, especially high-heeled, pointed shoes, can bring on bunions. Such shoes gradually push the foot bones into an unnatural shape.

To keep your feet in their best shape, follow Dr. Weinstein’s shoe buying tips: 1. Always buy shoes in the afternoon hours, as our feet tend to swell as the day goes on. 2. Shop for shoes with the type of sock or stocking that you plan to wear with them. 3. Measure your shoes to fit the longest toe, being sure that you have at least ¼ to ½ thumb’s width at the end of the shoe. 4. Never squeeze your foot into a shoe for the sake of fashion. 5. Have your foot measured each time you buy a new pair of shoes, as our foot size tends to change as we age. 6. Don’t buy shoes only by the size marked. Each shoe designer will fit differently. 7. Never buy shoes hoping they will stretch with wear. Chances are, they won’t. 8. Walk around in your new shoes to be sure they fit and are comfortable. 9. Always check your feet for blisters that can form from improperly fit shoes.

Bellaire Podiatry/Nail Laser Center of Houston. Dr. Barry P. Weinstein, 4909 Bissonnet, Suite 120, Bellaire, Texas 77401, 713.721.5500, www.BarryWeinsteinDPM.com

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Mythbusters: allergy edition In the Internet Age, it’s hard to avoid hearing about the latest health trends. When it comes to allergies, there is a lot of misinformation out there.

You should always be skeptical when you see a social media post about allergies. Let’s debunk some common allergy myths you may have heard.

Myth #1: Consuming local honey or bee pollen can prevent allergies.

Consuming local honey or bee pollen does not have any benefit in treating allergies. You may have heard that eating honey made by local bees will help you deal with allergies by feeding you small amounts of the local pollens you are allergic to, allowing your body to form a tolerance to these allergens, similar to the way that allergy shots work. However, bees make their honey from flower pollen, and very few people are actually allergic to flower pollen.

The vast majority of people who have pollen allergies are actually allergic to the pollen from trees, grasses and weeds, not flowers. Therefore, consuming local bee pollen or honey will not improve your tolerance to the most common allergens in your local environment.

Myth #2: Using a humidifier in your bedroom will help you breathe easier at night.

Using a humidifier in your bedroom is probably one of the worst things you could do if you are allergic to dust mites, which many people are. Dust mites are microscopic insects that commonly live in our carpet and mattresses. They survive off of our skin cells and water absorbed from the air. If you make your room more humid with a humidifier, dust mites will thrive there.

What you really need if you’re allergic to dust mites is a dehumidifier.

Myth #3: You can outgrow your allergies.

While children with food allergies often outgrow their food allergies, unfortunately this usually isn’t the case with airborne allergies like pollen and mold.

Myth #4 My mom is allergic to cats, so I am probably allergic to cats too.

While the tendency to be allergic is often inherited, you don’t actually inherit the specific allergies that your parents suffer from.

Myth #5: Moving to another climate will get rid of your allergies.

If you’re allergic to dust mites, you can’t outrun this allergy. While dust mites do prefer humid climates, they’re still going to be present in even the driest climates. Eventually you will also become sensitized to the local pollens wherever you move. So don’t move to Arizona just yet.

The moral of the story is that it’s always better to speak with a board-certified allergist about how to deal with your allergies instead of trusting your health to the hands of Facebook or Dr. Google.

No one nose allergies like we do.™ Note: Information contained in this article should not be considered a substitute for consultation with a board-certified allergist to address individual medical needs.

Allyson Gelman, MPAS, PA-C, The Allergy Clinic, 7707 Fannin, Suite 100, Houston, Texas 77054, 713.797.0993, *1200 Binz, Suite 180, Houston, Texas 77004, 713.522.9911, www.allergyclinic.com, *Operating as Houston Allergy & Asthma Clinic

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by Andria Frankfort, staff writer

Back Porch

Wrapping and gabbing

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o much changes when kids leave for college. I miss my children already, and one hasn’t even hit her stride in middle school.

This is not just about the space kids leave behind. What about the friendships we’ve made with other parents? The ones who we love to be with but don’t necessarily see outside school hallways and extracurricular events?

A group of moms who call themselves Wrappers and Gabbers have handled the dilemma supremely. They get together once a month to “wrap” care packages for their far-away children, creating the perfect chance to “gab” in the process.

“We’d been sitting on the bleachers for four years together, and we knew [when our boys graduated] that we were never going to see each other,” says Vaughan Clark, the group’s ringleader, whose youngest son Anderson is a sophomore at Sewanee. “For some of us, this was our middle or last child, so we did Wrappers and Gabbers so we could stay in touch.”

Eleven moms of 11 former Episcopal High School lacrosse players joined the group. “The boys were pretty close,” says Kristin Wallis, whose son Garrett is a sophomore at Baylor.

“They were a special little group, and all went on their senior trip together to Europe. I knew that once the kids left high school I wasn’t going to see the parents all the time. This is a great way to catch up and find out what the boys are up to.

The moms don’t hear. They’re boys, you know.”

Each mom agrees to host a month of Wrappers and Gabbers. As hostesses, they provide 11 12x12x12 boxes, pens, cute paper, stickers – and dinner. “We mostly gab,” Vaughan says.

Upon arrival, the hostess has pre-assembled the empty boxes. Each mom brings 11 of something to pack in the boxes, and they pass around paper so that everyone can send each boy a personal note. “We pop all the stuff in the boxes, then we have dinner and chat and chat and chat,” Vaughan says. “After dinner we quickly wrap everything up, and everyone mails their own box.

“We’ve sent underwear, flashlights, coin purses with laundry money,” she says.

“They mostly like getting the food,” Kristin says. “And so do the roommates.” Edibles included chips and salsa (bubble-wrapped),

WRAPPED UP A group of moms called Wrappers and Gabbers get together monthly to send their college boys care packages wrapped in boxes decorated to be a little bit embarrassing.

candy (“a staple,” according to Kristin) and, once, even a red-velvet cupcake in a mason jar (that one got everyone’s attention).

Treats were seasonal, too. “We’d do whatever was the theme of the time,” says Bridget Wade, whose son Will is a sophomore at The University of Oklahoma. “So for Valentine’s we’d send Valentine candy. For finals, we sent notecards for studying and study snacks. For St. Patrick’s Day I found some boxes at Target with clover leaves all over them and got a bunch of those. The Spring Break box was really fun. We did footballs and visors and sunscreen and beach towels.” Kristin says, “They really loved those beach towels.”

The care packages even helped the boys keep up with college football during the season, with the addition of Sports Illustrated magazines.

In true mom fashion, the Wrappers and Gabbers decorated the outsides of the boxes, knowing that most of the boys would have to pick up their packages at a mail room and carry them home to dorm rooms across campus. “We’d use stickers and write stuff all over them like, ‘Go,

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Will Wade!’ so when they got the box it was this embarrassing thing,” Bridget says. Vaughan says, “It’s just a little bit mortifying.” And Kristin says, “Maybe we shouldn’t have done that, but we did.”

Being boys, the emptied boxes stayed in dorm rooms. But that worked out: Will said the best thing was that he loaded up the boxes with books when it was time to go home in May. For moms thinking of following the Wrappers and Gabbers lead, Vaughan suggests keeping the count to 12 or less. “It’s kind of tortuous to buy 20 of whatever,” she says. She adds, “I want to be clear that this was not my original idea.” She was asked to join a Wrappers and Gabbers group when her oldest son Lyon was a college freshman. “He’s married now, and that Wrappers and Gabbers group gave him a shower.” They’ve done the same for all the boys getting married.

“It’s long-reaching,” she says.

“We’re all in different directions now, but on occasion we’ll get together and just have dinner.” All because their boys brought them together years ago.