The Memorial Buzz - April 2024

Jo Anne Baskin and her grandchildren

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Baseball, Scored with Love

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Your letters, thoughts, opinions From a proud grandmother I'm so proud of Kelsey’s exceptional skills and determination to stay in shape and progress as the goalie she has become [Going for Gold: Kelsey Bing’s journey to the Olympics by Pooja Salhotra, March 2024]. It’s been very exciting to tell my friends and neighbors that she is going to the Olympics in Paris. People I haven’t talked to in a long time have called to congratulate me for having a granddaughter who will be in the Olympics.

Kelsey's engineering job plus all of the field hockey training, traveling, and games is an amazing accomplishment. I’m so happy that through all of this work and dedication, the Olympic trip will make her dream come true.

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Importance of the arts I wanted to express my gratitude for the work you are doing highlighting the amazing student artists in the Houston area. Works of Rodeo Art [by Karen Vine Fuller, March 2024] was such a great read. I was so thankful that one of my students from Second Baptist School, Lucy Brown, was able to win a gold medal as an 8th grade student with her work Cows Galore. Art is so important in our society and I hope that more people begin to see how much talent the city of Houston has to offer. Let us never forget, you can’t be smart without art.

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Inspirational story Amazing story [Heart to Heart: Perhaps love is just waiting to be noticed by Cindy Gabriel, Feb. 2024]. It gave me chills. I think you are right: love is the answer.

The bully is most often louder than bullied. We will stand together in love.

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Story will be forever cherished I can’t begin to express how touched Steve [Palmer] and I were by the beautiful story you did on us [Forever Valentines: Love and laughs, 51 years later

by Cathy Gordon, Feb. 2024]. Although I must admit I originally thought it was going to be a short blurb among a group of other love stories, we had so much fun reliving 50+ years of memories with your warm and engaging writer, Cathy Gordon. Within minutes of meeting her, we felt like we had known her our entire lives and found ourselves spilling out unfiltered details in response to her insightful questions. What a gift she has with words!

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NEIGHBORS

by Cindy Gabriel, staff writer

Eclipsed!: A Love Story Will she, or won’t she?

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t was late in the Summer of 1967. Ellen Hart, 15, a Dallas girl, was spending the summer with her brother Paul Hart and his bride Phyllis at their Houston apartment on Stella Link right across the street from Lipp Dry Cleaners. That day, she walked across the street with her brother with some laundry.

Mike Peck, 16, was working a summer job at Lipp Cleaners, thanks to his aunt and uncle owners, Harold and Libby Lipp. “He was dreamy looking,” said Ellen. Mike seemed mutually smitten as he and Ellen exchanged flirty “hi’s” in a moment that ended all too soon.

The next day, feeling particularly charitable, Ellen decided to pick up her brother’s cleaning for him. Let’s just say that the visit lasted longer, including a tour of the dry-cleaning building, where somewhere between men’s shirts and women’s dresses, Ellen got her first kiss.

Soon Ellen was back in Dallas, finding occasional letters from Mike in her mailbox. (Yes, even teenagers wrote letters back then.)

Then, due to some realignment of the stars, Ellen’s parents decided to move to Houston, enrolling her in Bellaire High School, the same school as Mike. But alas, this is no fairytale.

Ellen decided Mike wasn’t her type. “He was in the Science Club and I was more artsy. I liked hanging around the motorcycles and the guys who smoked.”

So nerdy Mike went on to become an international lawyer, while artsy Ellen moved to California and started a luxury leather goods company. Both married other people. Many moons later, it was 2009, the heyday of Facebook. Mike and Ellen, both single again, rediscovered each other.

Ellen was starting to feel the pull of Texas once more after several visits to a second brother, Teddy Hart, and wife Linda’s ranch in La Grange. “There is nothing like a night sky on a Texas ranch,” said Ellen.

Mike was commuting between Houston and Baghdad, when Ellen invited him to a “friends only” visit to Teddy and Linda’s ranch.

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so fascinating. He had lived all over the world. We both loved everything about the sky, the stars, the planets, astronomy. We watched meteor showers laying on the grass of my brother’s ranch.”

It took Mike six STAR DAZED Mike Peck, Ellen Hart, Denise Jacobs, and Frank Hillbolt at the 2017 eclipse months of sky- viewing site, Glendo Lake, Wyoming, wearing eclipse T-shirts designed by “artsy” Ellen. watching to get All of the wildlife knew something was happening. that second kiss. Then he would consistently The sky got hazy, but not like anything I had ever hear Ellen’s “no” to his proposals. seen in my life. Everything got silent, like I never Yet, in time, the pair found a house on knew before. It was eerie and silent and strange and some land called Seven Acres (not the senior peaceful and beautiful. It was like everything real living center, just a home for a seasoned coujust disappeared. The world stood still for like three ple), in a spot between La Grange and Round minutes. And we stood still.

Top, that was actually seven acres with an art Except for one minor detail at the peak of the studio for Ellen. eclipse.

Mike continued to work abroad while Ellen At the very moment two hot air balloons came up became a realtor in the Round Top area. “Each over the horizon. Mike said, “Are you ever going to full moon, we played Harvest Moon by Neil marry me?” And I said, “I am.” He kissed me, and Young and danced in our wide-open pasture,” Denise said, “What just happened?” I said, “I think said Ellen.

I have just been eclipsed.”

When “The Great American Eclipse” was Later, over dinner, Denise asked Ellen when anticipated for 2017, Mike and Ellen knew this wedding would occur. “I don’t know,” they would go somewhere to see it. They menEllen stalled. “When’s the next eclipse?” Mike tioned it to their couple friends, Frank Hillbolt kept prodding. and Denise Jacobs, over dinner one evening.

Finally, a favorite song of Mike and Ellen’s Their response was quick and enthusiastic: came to mind, September by Earth Wind & Fire.

“Let’s do it.”

Do you remember, 21st night of September? So, on They picked a viewing site parking lot in the 21st of September of 2020 (in the middle of Cheyenne, Wyoming. “We flew into Denver, Covid), Mike and Ellen held an impromptu rented an SUV and started driving.” The roads Zoom wedding. Ellen’s beautiful three-band ring to the viewing site were so jammed that they has a black ring of diamonds, surrounded by two decided to take an early exit and see where fate white diamond rings, symbolizing that eclipse took them. moment. Maybe this is a fairytale after all.

“We wound up at a beautiful spot called Glendo Lake. We practically had the whole lake Editor’s note: April 8, 2024 will bring us another to ourselves,” Ellen said. Here is Ellen’s descriptotal solar eclipse, Texas’ first in the path of totality tion of the eclipse: in 146 years. Read this month’s Travel Buzz, When the eclipse happened, right before it hapCountdown to Totality: Houstonians prepare for pened, all of the waterfowl took off at the same time rare solar eclipse, by Tracy L. Barnett, for more. and all you could hear were feathers and fluttering.

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FOOD

by Andria Dilling, staff writer

Salad Season Keeper recipes

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mily Webster called her brother Merrick Egan in Dallas. “You’re not gonna believe it,” the interior designer told her brother in her thick New Orleans accent. “They wanna do a story on Gangee Salad!”

Named after their New Orleanian grandmother Elaine Gelpi (“I’m not even sure what last name to give you, because she was a widow four times,” Emily says), the Gangee Salad is simply shredded iceberg lettuce dressed with olive oil and vinegar, salt and pepper. “We called her Gangee,” Emily says, “because I guess my oldest cousin Ellie couldn’t say Granny, and Gangee came out. It’s kind of terrible, but that’s what we called her. We’d have to tell people, ‘Not gangrene, Gangee. But she was Gangee to everybody who knew her.”

Gangee died about 20 years ago, but her legend lives on. “She was precious, just a dream,” Emily says. “I asked her why she kept getting married, and she said, ‘Well I was just never gonna be anybody’s girlfriend!’”

She was adored by her eight grandchildren. “I would get on that streetcar every afternoon after school and go to her house,” Emily remembers.

“Right off St. Charles, near Tulane.” Gangee was Emily’s mother’s mother; Emily’s mom still makes Gangee Salad, too: “It’s all my brother wants every time he comes over,” Emily says.

“We’d go to Commander’s [Palace], Galatoire’s, and all the grandchildren would say to the waiters Can you make me a Gangee Salad?

And the waiters would say I have no idea what that is. And Gangee would just smile. She had so much pride in introducing herself as Gangee with that little Shirley MacLaine twinkle in her eyes.”

Gangee always used Regina White Wine Vinegar, but Emily says it’s hard to find these days. “It was kind of sweet, so sometimes I’ll even use balsamic vinegar,” Emily says. “The salad was so good because it’s a little bit tangy, a little bit sweet, you get a little bit of every taste.”

Emily has played with the formula over the years, switching to romaine lettuce – “I wanted to make it a little more sophisticated” – and adding cherry tomatoes, hearts of palm, avocado, blue cheese, and “almost a full bag of bacon bits.” But the simple dressing remains, as does MEMORIAL BUZZ APRIL 2024 10

A SALAD LEGACY Emily Webster's grandmother “Gangee” lives on in the simple salad her family requests again and again.

the family’s love for Gangee Salad.

“My Ellie loves a Gangee Salad,” Emily says of her college freshman. Of her sixth grader, she says, “Claiborne’s not quite into it yet, but maybe eventually.”

Gangee Salad 1 head iceberg lettuce, thinly sliced Regina White Wine Vinegar (or another brand) Olive oil Kosher salt

Freshly ground pepper Toss the lettuce with vinegar, oil, salt, and pepper to taste.

Emily’s Chopped Salad 3 heads romaine lettuce, cut into bite-sized pieces 1 avocado, cut into small pieces 10-ounce carton cherry tomatoes, cut into halves 14-ounce jar hearts of palm, cut into small pieces 5 ounces blue cheese (continued on page 12)

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FRESH AND EASY At right: A customizable orzo salad is one that Lacy Price makes for big groups, changing the recipe to fit the season and her mood. Top left: Ingredients for Lacy’s orzo salad, based on the Tri-Colore Orzo recipe from Giada de Laurentiis. Bottom left: Emily Webster’s beloved Gangee Salad. (continued from page 10) crumbles

2.5-ounce bag bacon bits Balsamic vinegar Olive oil Kosher salt Freshly ground black pepper Toss well and serve, dressing with vinegar, oil, salt, and pepper to taste.

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ah jongg instructor Lacy Price also grew up learning how to cook from her grandmother, Sally Reeder, who lived in Midland.

Sally moved to Houston a few years ago and will celebrate her 100th birthday next month; she’s not cooking as much these days. But Lacy says, “A big part of our experience visiting her was in the kitchen. She was a fabulous cook.”

Lacy is a cookbook collector: “In the age of Pinterest and the internet, it’s kind of an oldschool thing,” she says. Her most-prized book is an unpublished one that contains her grandmother’s handwritten recipes, many of them missing some secret ingredient in order to keep the recipe’s magic to herself. “It’s been fun to MEMORIAL BUZZ APRIL 2024 12

pass down to my 16- and 18-year-old girls, watching them enjoy cooking and wanting to make the recipes for their friends.”

A favorite salad that is solidly a part of Lacy’s repertoire is Giada de Laurentiis’ Tri-Colore Orzo. “I kind of made it once probably 10 years ago and now make it all the time by memory,” Lacy says of the recipe she thinks she found on the Cooking Channel (although it’s been so long she doesn’t remember for certain).

“It’s an easy go-to for feeding a large group of people,” Lacy says about the pasta salad. “It’s filling, it uses fresh ingredients, it’s fairly inexpensive, and you can multiply it. It’s easy to double or triple. You can make it ahead and serve it cold.

“And everybody likes it.”

Lacy makes different variations of the same recipe, depending on her mood and the season. “You could do more Mediterranean and use cucumbers, tomatoes, and red onion, or I like to use roasted vegetables like butternut squash in the winter.” A simple vinaigrette pulls it all together, which is exactly why Lacy loves to cook: “It brings everybody

together,” she says.

Giada de Laurentiis’ Tri-Colore Orzo 1 pound orzo pasta 3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil, plus ¼ cup 2 cups fresh arugula (about 3 ounces) ¾ cup crumbled ricotta salata cheese (Lacy like to sub in feta) ½ cup dried cherries 12 fresh basil leaves, torn ¼ cup toasted pine nuts 3 tablespoons lemon juice 1 ½ teaspoons salt 1 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper Bring a large pot of salted water to a boil over high heat. Add the pasta and cook until tender but still firm to the bite, stirring occasionally, about 8 to 10 minutes. Drain the pasta and put it on a large cookie sheet. Drizzle the pasta with the 3 tablespoons olive oil, toss, spread out, and set aside to cool.

Once the orzo is cool, transfer to a large serving bowl. Add the remaining ingredients and toss gently to combine.

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SPORTS

by Annie Blaylock McQueen, staff writer

Scored with Love

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aseball scorekeeping – the method of tracking a baseball game by hand in a scorebook – has become a second language for grandmother-of-four Jo Anne Baskin, also known as “CC” by her grandkids.

The practice, which dates to the late 1870s, involves using a scorebook or scorecard to record every play and event that occurs during a game.

The scorekeeper sits with a pencil or pen and intently watches the game, ready to document the action as it unfolds. Professional baseball leagues hire official scorers to keep an official record of each game, but some baseball fans, like Jo Anne, score by hand as a hobby.

Jo Anne is an involved grandmother, attending up to six baseball games each week with her husband of more than 50 years, Coy, known as “CPop” to the kids. To score a game, each player’s performance, including hits, walks, strikeouts, and defensive plays, is tracked using a system of symbols and shorthand notation. The scorekeeper marks the progression of each inning, noting the outs, runs scored, and base runners’ movements. In addition, the scorekeeper records any occurrences, such as pitching changes, substitutions, or controversial calls by umpires.

It is not just about wins and losses in baseball for Jo Anne. It is about the love of one of America’s favorite sports – one that started in her own childhood in Texas in the 1950s while listening to the Houston Buffaloes (the minor league team affiliated with the St. Louis Cardinals) on the radio.

Recollections of the old Buff Stadium in Houston’s East End (used by the team from 1928-1961, which later became a Finger Furniture store, with a showroom built around home plate, until 2013) give Jo Anne a nostalgic feeling. Her allegiance to the sport stretches from Little League to the Astros, particularly her favorite player, Jose Altuve.

“They did not have organized softball or baseball for girls when I was growing up,” said Jo Anne. “But I played with the boys in my neighborhood from age 9 to 13.” This might have been foreshadowing for her granddaughter, Taylor Baskin, 11, who last year made Post Oak Little League history by (continued on page 16) MEMORIAL BUZZ APRIL 2024 14

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A grandmother's dedication to baseball and family

KEEPING SCORE Grandmother-of-four Jo Anne Baskin (pictured), attends all of her grandchildren's baseball games, keeping score by hand in her baseball scorebooks. Pictured are her grandchildren: (front) Jake Baskin, 17, who plays right field and catcher; (back row, from left) Peyton, 13, who plays pitcher, third base and first base; Wyatt, 15, who plays short stop, pitcher, and third base; and Taylor, 11, who plays catcher, pitcher, and first base.

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FOR THE LOVE OF THE GAME Grandmother Jo Anne Baskin has been scorekeeping baseball by hand since the 1970s. Pictured, top left: An example of Jo Anne’s scorebook; bottom left photo: Jo Anne and Taylor scoring together when Taylor was younger; right: A recent photo of Jo Anne and Taylor Baskin, 11, who plays for Post Oak Little League. Last year, Taylor made Post Oak Little League history by becoming the first girl to make an All-Star team. (continued from page 14) becoming the first girl

player in POLL to make an All-Star team.

Jo Anne, a retired assistant principal, rarely misses a game for her four grandchildren. The games take place all over Houston, and some are out of state. Regardless of their geographic location, CC and CPop can be found in the stands, Jo Anne with a scorebook in hand. She has become a staple on the fields of Post Oak Little League (POLL), nestled near the Galleria area, where her grandchildren have played.

Jo Anne has been self-taught in her scorekeeping through decades of learning her style.

She purchases her scorebooks from Academy Sports and Outdoors and keeps separate books for each grandchild. She has stacks of filled books at home. “They are somewhere up in the attic,” said Jo Anne, in a light-hearted tone.

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Jo Anne and Coy were high school sweethearts and married in 1971. Together, they raised two children, son CL and daughter Chrissy. CL has four children with wife Ashley, all of whom play baseball. Jake, 17, and Wyatt, 15, both play baseball for St. Thomas High School, and formerly Post Oak Little League, son Peyton, 13, plays for POLL, and daughter Taylor, 11, plays for poll.

Last year, Taylor had wrapped up a stellar regular season. At the end of the season, the Baskin baseball schedule was busy, and Ashley said they did not make plans to attend the tryouts for the All-Star team for Taylor. A girl had never made it before.

“We did not want her disappointed,” said Ashley.

They were at another game of one of the boys when CL got a phone call from one of the coaches. “He was asking why Taylor wasn’t there for the All-Star tryout,” said Ashley. “CL

politely said, ‘We didn’t know she would even be considered.’ The coach said, ‘We need Taylor, and we need her bat.’”

CL hung up the phone, quickly left the game, and scooped up Taylor to head to the tryouts.

They made it in time, and Taylor demonstrated her skills, hitting, and fielding with precision.

She earned her spot on the All-Star team, making POLL history.

Ashley said Jo Anne’s support helps push Taylor through the tough moments. “When she cheers, she always says the right thing,” said Taylor.

Taylor’s favorite phrases she hears Jo Anne say from the stands are: “rock and fire,” “it just takes one,” “you’ve got this!” and “yes! yes! yes!”

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ewind to the early days of Jo Anne’s scorekeeping hobby, in (continued on page 18)

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FAMILY FIRST Grandparents Jo Anne and Coy Baskin (pictured) rarely miss a baseball game for their grandchildren, Jake, Wyatt, Peyton, and Taylor Baskin. They attend on average six games a week or more between their four grandchildren and have traveled out-of-state for games. (continued from page 16) 1975, when Coy was a

Houston police officer: The officers would frequently meet up after work under the lights at Memorial Park to play recreation league softball games. “One day, Coy handed me a scorekeeper book, and asked if I would keep track of the game,” said Jo Anne.

“What I liked about Jo Anne keeping the scorebook was that I did not have to rely on what I thought had happened during the game,” said Coy. “So many times, you thought you might have remembered the play happening in a certain way. I could go back and review any of the plays that had taken place during the game.”

Jo Anne recalls the memories of the kids at the field under the lights; when the police officers played, she would sit and score games, and CL and Chrissy would play pick-up baseball games with the other police officers’ kids. “It would be 11 at night after the officers got off work, and they were running around the field playing,” said Jo Anne.

CL’s childhood involves many baseball memories, where his parents were a constant at his own Little League games. “I remember my mom always being there, a scorebook in hand and her distinct voice cheering our team on,” he said.

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innings and ask who the other team had coming up,” said CL. “She would not only tell me 5, 6,7, but she would include what they did in their previous at-bat.” CL experienced the same conversations continued when he coached his own kids in Little League, years later. “I would look to her and ask who is up next and how many pitches our pitcher had thrown,” he said.

And she did not just keep score at her kids’ games. CL remembers watching Jo Anne at Astros games, popcorn in one hand and a scorebook in the other.

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uring her grandkids’ games, Jo Anne maintains a low profile, quietly sitting high in the stands. “I like to have something to do with my hands during the game,” she said. There have been times when coaches have come to her to ask questions during a game. “There have been times when the coaches, my son being one of them, ask where the batter hits the ball,” said Jo Anne. She sometimes records notes about the day’s weather or notable moments that take place.

But her scorebooks mean more to her than just who won the game. From Little League to professional baseball games, scorekeeping has become her other language. “In my opinion, her scorebook is her diary,” said CL. “It is where she is at a place she loves, which is any ballpark, chronicling

a game she loves and watching, cheering and surrounded by the people she loves most.”

Jo Anne’s kindness and giving spirt are reflected in her dedication to the grandchildren.

“She does the things that matter that go unnoticed,” said grandson Peyton. “She makes us laugh when we have had a bad game and reminds us that baseball is a great game, it’s a privilege to play it, but is still just a game.”

Jo Anne’s daughter-in-law Ashley Baskin relies on Jo Anne and Coy’s moral support for her kids. She recalled a time they traveled to Alabama to watch a tournament. “They brought a sense of home and security especially when things got tough,” said Ashley. “Hearing their voices, and being a sounding board at dinner, made all the difference,” said Ashley. For Jake, they did the same for travel ball and travelled all four years of Jake’s summer All-Star games and were faithful members of the parent and grandparent group.

“They bring a cooler of drinks to every game,” said Ashley. “We meet up after the game at their car and they give them a hug and have cold drinks and candy.”

Jo Anne has fully embraced her role as the family's designated scorekeeper. “When I score the plays, I will show where the ball is hit,” she explains, her fingers tracing (continued on page 20)

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THROUGH THE YEARS The Baskins are a dedicated baseball family. Grandmother Jo Anne Baskin has been self-taught in baseball scorekeeping and tracks all of the games in her baseball scorebooks. Pictured are (top photo) the Baskin family including grandparents Jo Anne and Coy Baskin, parents Ashley and CL Baskin (at right) and children (from left) Jake, Wyatt, Peyton, and Taylor, at Post Oak Little League in 2018. Bottom left: Jo Anne, with young Taylor and Wyatt, keeping score at Jake's Little League games when her son CL was coaching; bottom right: grandparents Coy and Jo Anne Baskin are the kids’ biggest fans. (continued from page 18) invisible arcs in the air. “In

this way, as the game goes on, I can tell where the batter has a tendency to hit the ball,” said Jo Anne.

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immense amounts of happiness. “I could go on and on about the joy I have been blessed to have watching my husband, my son, and my grandkids play this wonderful American game,” she said.

Jo Anne’s influence reaches far beyond the scorebook. Her presence in the stands is a source of comfort and reassurance for her family. One that extends beyond the boundaries of the diamond.

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SPORTS

by Cheryl Ursin, staff writer

In It to Win It World-class taekwondo athletes

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aybe you did taekwondo, the Korean martial art, as a child. Maybe you put your own kids into taekwondo classes.

After all, it’s a great activity: it’s physical exercise, it’s a mental challenge, it teaches discipline and coordination, it burns off energy, and it’s fun.

And maybe you remember the rows of students, arranged by belt color, in their dobocks (uniforms), practicing their patterns. At a certain level of proficiency, they get to spar. If they stick with it, they get to test periodically to show their skills and knowledge and move up in belt colors.

But that’s just one part of taekwondo.

“There are two different worlds of taekwondo,” explains Master Gianni Giambi of the Houston Center for Taekwondo. (The title of “Master” denotes that Gianni has attained the level of fourth-degree black belt or higher.)

“The traditional world is where you learn the art of taekwondo; it’s where everyone starts.”

Then, there’s the sport of taekwondo, where athletes compete at sparring. You can compete locally, in your state, nationally, internationally, or even, since 2000, at the Olympics. At the international level, all the competitors are black belts.

Two members of the Houston Center for Taekwondo’s G-Force team, 16-year-old Naomi Alade and her 15-year-old brother Joshua, have attained the upper levels of their sport internationally and are eyeing the Olympics.

Their parents, Oladapo “Dap” and Kiyetta Alade, started their two oldest children in taekwondo when Joshua was three and Naomi was four. “Like a lot of folks, we started them in it because it was a good after-school activity, it was exercise, it developed their coordination, it worked off their energy,” says Dap. They started at Young Brothers Taekwondo, Gianni’s father’s school. Mark Giambi is a Grand Master or ninth-degree black belt. It was Mark who brought up the possibility of Naomi and Joshua moving to Gianni’s dojang (school) to train on a competitive team. “He kept saying, ‘I’m telling you: they’re really good,’” remembers Dap. At first, the Alades weren’t sure they wanted to do that. “I mean, I could see they were a little more coordinated than the other kids, but they were only five and six,” says Dap. The Giambis MEMORIAL BUZZ APRIL 2024 22

BY DEGREES Siblings Joshua and Naomi Alade are among the best taekwondo athletes in the world. The tenth graders at Carnegie Vanguard (Joshua skipped a grade) are both members of Team USA, the team that represents the United States in international sports competitions.

convinced the Alades to allow Naomi and Joshua to compete at one event, which they both won. The Alades decided to try the classes at the Houston Center to see if Naomi and Joshua liked them.

“Well, they loved them,” says Dap. These days, the two Carnegie Vanguard tenth graders (Joshua skipped a grade) are among the most highly ranked taekwondo athletes in the world. Both are members of Team USA, the team

that represents the United States in international sports competitions, Naomi since 2019 and Joshua since 2022. Joshua is currently in the junior division (ages 15-17). Naomi is allowed by the sport’s rules to compete in both the junior and the senior (ages 18-32) divisions for a time. In fact, just this past February, she competed for the first time in the senior division at an international competition, the Canada Open in Vancouver, and won the gold in her weight class. (continued on page 24)

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SWIFT KICKS Top: Joshua and Naomi demonstrate some kicks. Bottom photos: Joshua and Naomi in their final matches when they both won gold at the National Championships in Jacksonville, Fla. in July 2023 (left photo: Joshua in red; right photo: Naomi in blue). (continued from page 22) Although she is competing

(and more often than not, winning) against the best women taekwondo athletes in the world, when it comes to qualifying for this year’s Olympics, she is just a hair’s breadth too young: Taekwondo athletes have to turn 17 years old by August to compete at the 2024 Summer Olympics in Paris. Naomi turns 17 in December.

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for 2028,” he declares.

Competitive taekwondo is not as big a sport in the U.S. (yet) as it is in other parts of the world. “In this sport, if you are an aspiring Olympian in the U.S., you have to travel,” says Dap. “And when you first do, even though you were dominating the national competitions in the U.S., you’ll get your eyes opened when you’re in Europe and Asia.” The level of competition internationally is so much higher. In a

tournament, athletes compete in one-on-one matches. As long as they are winning (the competitions are single elimination), they might compete in three or four matches in a day. Each match is three rounds. Each round is 90 seconds (for the junior division) or two minutes (for the senior). “And that feels like a long time when you’re facing someone who is trying to kick you, particularly in the head, as hard as they can,” says Dap, who competed a (continued on page 26)

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himself both as a kid and again as an adult when Naomi and Joshua started doing it.

Although taekwondo competitors do punch each other, the focus is really on kicking. They wear a padded helmet, a torso protector, shin and forearm guards as well as sensing socks and gloves when competing.

As in fencing, taekwondo equipment is wired with sensors that record when a kick or punch connects with the opponent and with what force.

Judges also watch. As in boxing, a taekwondo fighter can win by knockout, either actually knocking their opponent down or just stunning them so much that they can’t continue to fight after the referee gives them an eight-count.

Otherwise, a fighter wins a round by earning more points than his or her opponent. A punch to the torso is worth one point. (No punches to the head are allowed). A kick to the head receives more points (three) than a kick to the torso (two), and a spinning or rotating kick, where the fighter spins in the air before landing the blow, earns more points (four points if to the trunk and five if to the head). Generally, whoever wins two out of three rounds wins the match.

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try to sense patterns,” explains Dap. Taekwondo fighters try to lull their opponents into thinking they know what’s coming next, so they can land a kick their opponent didn’t expect.

What is it like to be an elite taekwondo athlete? Naomi and Joshua practice four to five times a week, usually after school, year-round.

“To be really good, you have to put in the work,” says Joshua. “You have to work hard to get where you want to be.”

“It is a microcosm of how life works,” agrees his dad. “It’s about discipline and dedication.

You do what you need to do.”

And now that they are competing internationally, they travel – a lot. “We try to keep it to two competitions a month,” says Dap. “And at first, that was very daunting, a whirlwind.” He and Kiyetta have settled into taking turns traveling to competitions with Naomi and Joshua.

Recently, Kiyetta went to Vancouver with Naomi, then the following weekend, Dap went with Naomi and Joshua to Reno, Nevada.

Gianni also goes with them. A taekwondo athlete is required to have a coach, preferably their coach, in their corner at competitions. The entire Alade family, including 10-year-old Faith and 9-year-old twins, Elijah and Isaiah, made a vacation out of a recent competition in Costa Rica. Joshua and Naomi have been to Turkey, Uzbekistan, Bosnia, Bulgaria, the Netherlands, Belgium, and Mexico to compete. Future trips

on the books include Brazil and Korea.

“The kids enjoy the travel. They’ve got a lot of cool stamps in their passports,” says Dap. “We’ve been to places we might not ever have gone but they were pretty cool.” They were in Bulgaria for almost two weeks for a competition and Uzbekistan for almost a week. Naomi and Joshua especially liked Uzbekistan, where the event’s organizers arranged tours for the athletes and their families with local college students as their guides.

Gianni points out that at such elite levels, “Parental involvement and investment is so important. It’s a gigantic advantage.” The Alades do a great job, Gianni says, in a role where it can be hard for parents, caught up in the excitement, to be a positive force and not a negative one for their children. Gianni remembers a study where researchers asked elite athletes what the worst part of their experience was growing up in their sport. “Ninety percent of them said it was the drive home with their parents,” he says. In another study, a researcher pointed out that the parents of athletes have “a great potential for positivity,” but also, even though well-intentioned, parents can “be a considerable negative influence.”

“Parents don’t always realize how perceptive their kids are of them,” says Gianni. “That raised eyebrow. Those crossed arms.”

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A FAMILY AFFAIR Clockwise, from top left: Naomi and Joshua both won gold at the U.S. Grand Prix Final in 2022; Joshua and Naomi on the day they were awarded their second-degree black belts in 2017; Naomi with Coach Gianni Giambi when Naomi won at the Pan American Championship in 2019; and the Alade family at Naomi and Joshua's eighth-grade graduation from Veritas Christian Academy in 2022. Pictured (top, from left) Dap, Naomi, Joshua, Kiyetta; (bottom, from left) Isaiah, Faith, and Elijah. Joshua was both the youngest member of the class and its valedictorian. (continued from page 26) Alades tried taekwondo

and decided it wasn’t for them. (They play soccer.)

Naomi and Joshua are close and are each other’s biggest supporters. The siblings spend a lot of time together: at school, at the dojang, on their travels. They cheer each other on at competitions.

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Naomi replied, “My younger brother, Joshua,” and Joshua answered, “My big sister, Naomi.”

“You do need a certain mindset to do a combat sport, to go into fights where someone’s going to kick you in the face and in the body as hard as they can over and over again,” says Dap. Both Naomi and Joshua are serious students.

They both want to be doctors like their parents.

They say juggling all the things they want to do, and do well, is all about time management.

And Naomi and Joshua thrive on the challenge and the competition of their sport.

“I like it because I’m good at it,” says Joshua with a quiet smile.

“It does feel pretty good to be up on that podium,” agrees Naomi with a grin.

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SPORTS

by Michelle Groogan, staff writer

Raising the Bar The art of pole vaulting

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ed Mucher doesn’t call himself a thrill seeker, but most afternoons, the Memorial High School senior is catapulting himself into the air using a 14-foot, 165pound flexible pole. As a member of the MHS pole vaulting team, he remembers how he happened upon the track and field sport when he was at Spring Forest Middle School.

“I was on the track team and our coach was like, ‘we need pole vaulters.’ I knew I wasn’t fast enough to do the running events and not strong enough to do the shotput and discus. So I said, ‘let me just try this’ and it turned out to go my way,” said Ted, who also plays varsity soccer for MHS. Since then, Ted has been a two-time district champion in pole vaulting and a regional qualifier. An injury kept him out of competition for most of last year, but this year, he has reached a new personal record of 13 feet. He credits his success to all of his coaches, but one in particular is someone he sees during his own time: the highly sought-after, world-renowned pole vaulting coach, David Butler, at Rice University.

“He’s very different from any other coach I've ever had,” said Ted. “I could tell that he knew a lot by the way he was coaching me. So I just kept coming back week after week, year after year and then the work started showing and I won district in eighth grade.”

David Butler is called the Zen master of the pole vault. He has coached world-champion athletes and has mentored Olympic champions including the current world-record holder and gold medalist Mondo Duplantis. At the age of 70, his passion for the sport keeps him coming back to the pit... a giant blue mattress flanked by a steel shipping container full of equipment in a far corner of the track at Rice University.

It’s where he has spent the last 24 years teaching his technique, 22 of those years as a volunteer assistant coach for Rice.

“This event will beat the crap out of you. You have to be a sprinter, a gymnast, a weightlifter, an acrobat all at the same time. The body is getting pressed and the other side of the body is getting stretched and there’s a lot of pounds of force on the jump off the ground and you’re carrying a pole that is five meters long and it's heavy,” said Coach Butler.

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TAKE OFF Ted Mucher, a senior at Memorial High School, makes the heart sign before jumping at a meet at Clear Brook High School. Ted makes the gesture to show his appreciation for those who love and support him in both varsity sports, track and field and soccer.

Pole vaulting involves a highly complex and technical approach. Athletes must sprint down a runway, stick the pole precisely, and then use it to propel themselves and clear a bar while using contortionist moves, twisting and bending. Coach Butler sees it as beauty and artistry.

He had an early appreciation for ballet, and took some dance classes in college. He started to understand dance sports athleticism and ended up minoring in dance in college.

“I see any movement-oriented endeavor as a work of art. Let’s face it, we appreciate the beauty of Michael Jordan dunking. We take pictures

of it and slow it down because this is something that’s beautiful and effortless. I think that when you have an athlete that goes to the top level, what they're doing is quite beautiful.”

Ted’s mom, Dorina Mucher, described the uneasiness she felt when she learned her son wanted to try pole vaulting in middle school.

“I'm a pediatrician, so I was a little apprehensive about having a middle school gym coach train my son in pole vaulting. It scared me to death, as you can imagine,” said Dorina. “I heard through the grapevine that there was a Rice coach that was holding training sessions on (continued on page 32)

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ABOVE AND BEYOND Top photo: Coach David Butler with Rice University athlete Javier Alatorre at the conference championships in Birmingham, Ala. Bottom left: Ted Mucher flies high on the pole vault and plans to continue jumping in college. Bottom right: Coach Butler, just back from speaking at an athletic conference in Pingtung, Taiwan, coaches Rice University pole vaulting champion Alex Slinkman, who is a National qualifier and holds a world ranking in pole vault. (continued from page 30) Sundays. And so we start-

ed going there on Sundays. And now he’s a senior and he is very competitive at the pole vault, and that's all because of Coach Butler.”

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down on paper. He wrote The Pole Vault: A Violent Ballet, 240 pages detailing “everything pole vault.”

“In pole vaulting there has to be a certain violence in your mind that you're not going to back off and be afraid. And at the same time, you have to allow yourself to relax and not try, which is the essence of all sports,” said David.

Former student athlete, Ally Daum, graduated from Memorial High School in 2000 and Rice University in 2004. She is now an ER

physician in Houston. She remembers wanting to learn the pole vault but was told in the late ’90s it was not a girls sport. Coach Butler was there escorting Ally and other high school teammates to the UIL board in Austin and successfully petitioned the board to create an equal girls event the following year.

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REACHING NEW HEIGHTS Top photo: Rice University senior Alex Slinkman is ranked top 10 in the NCAA. He holds a personal record of 18’6” in the pole vault.

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heights and break their own PRs. People come to him from all over the world and he goes over the world teaching his techniques,” said Ally.

Rice University senior, Alex Slinkman, is ranked in the world's top 100 for Men’s Pole Vaulting. He remembers being a nimble kid, always climbing things and pretending to be ninja-like. He met Coach Butler at a summer camp in his home state of Virginia. He approached Coach Butler and predicted he would pole vault for him at Rice one day.

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helped me mature as a person, as an athlete, as an artist. And he has taught me to hone my skills to pursue what I want,” said Alex. “He has funneled my passion to where it actually produced results. He’s like my best friend.”

Coach Butler is considered one of the top technical minds in the field with more than 50 years of coaching experience, but what he does for the students is above and beyond a glorious moment of flight. It is to make them better at problem solving and figuring out life for themselves and it starts with specific instructions for the summer.

“I don’t want them to jump in the summer. I

want them to climb rocks, ride bicycles, swim and dive. Take ballet and do yoga,” said Coach Butler.

“That’s because when they come back, and they start learning again, they can learn faster.”

Ted Mucher says Coach Butler has been more than a pole vaulting coach to him – he is also a life coach.

“He tells us, ‘I want you to mess up and find out what's wrong with it and correct it and then do what you can to fix it,’” said Ted. “I'm so glad I have a great coach like him in the area. Even if I don’t vault in college, I can just always still talk to him because he's such a good guy.”

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ummer camps can provide a special opportunity for growth, a place for kids to discover new interests and skills, meet new friends, and flourish as individuals. Buzz-area residents are fortunate in that Houston is home to many types of summer camps, programs, and classes to choose from, including specialized sports, arts, and educational programs for all ages. Additionally, many overnight camps are located just a car or bus ride away.

Choosing the right camp for your child depends on your child’s personality, interests, summer schedule and other factors. This directory is not intended to be an exhaustive list of all camps. Instead, our goal is to provide readers with a snapshot of each camp and program, as a starting point in the research process.

Note: View the 2024 Summer Camp Directory online at thebuzzmagazines.com/summer-camp-directory.

Please check back as new camps will be added frequently.

Alliance Fencing Academy Summer Fencing Camp Est. 2004 Ages: 5-14 Co-ed • Day Camp 1117 Upland Dr., Houston, Texas 77043; 1544 Sawdust Rd., Suite 304, The Woodlands, Texas 77380 713-410-6655 • inform@alliance-fencing-academy.com • www.alliance-fencing-academy.com Camp Director: Andrey Geva, U.S. Olympic and National Coach Summer Fencing Camp at Alliance is an opportunity for your children to have fun exploring one of the original and foundational sports of the modern Olympic games while picking up technical and competitive skills that will last them a lifetime. Renowned instructor and Olympic team coach Andrey Geva and his highly trained coaching staff provide a fun, safe, and exciting setting for kids to learn the sport of competitive fencing. Houston summer camp dates: June 3-7, June 24-28, July 15-19, July 22-26, July 29-Aug. 2 and Aug. 5-9. The Woodlands summer camp dates: June 3-7, July 15-19, July 29-Aug. 2.

ARTS Summer Camp Est. 2004 Ages: 6-18 Co-ed • Day Camp 114 N Live Oak St., Fayetteville, Texas 78940 979-378-2113 • programs@artsforruraltexas.org • artsforruraltexas.org/summercamps Camp Director: Tory Farley For 20 years, Arts for Rural Texas (ARTS) has enriched lives through art and art education with an emphasis on children's programs. During the summertime, ARTS has a weekly ARTS Summer Camp open to all children, 1st-12th grade, for $100/week, from June 3-July 26. Our camps offer opportunities for your school-aged child to have fun while learning and practicing visual and performing arts. The camps are located at the Schmid ARTS Annex in Fayetteville, the Schulenburg ARTS Campus in Schulenburg, Create Space in Columbus, the Texas Quilt Museum in La Grange, and the Performing Arts Center in La Grange.

Battle Bots and Drones Robotics Summer Camp Est. 2012 Ages: 4-16 Co-ed • Day Camp 4007 Bellaire Blvd., Suite KK, Houston Texas 77025 713-454-7004 • KidsRoboticAcademy@gmail.com • KidsRoboticAcademy.com Camp Director: Dee Memon Set the path of building robots and programming for PK-12. We offer STEM-themed, hands-on activities. The week ends with a friendly battle-bots minicompetition. Join Robotics specialty camps for competitive programs. Some famous camps include EV3 BattleBot, REV-Bot, Tetrix-Bot, VEX-Bot, Arduino-Bot, Blockly, Java Programming, Python Programming. We offer options of full-week and half-week day camp, with sessions running May 28 through Aug. 16. The option of select days is available. Register by May 1 to receive a 10 percent discount on a full-week camp.

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Camp Bulldog Est. 2021 Ages: 4-12 Co-ed • Day Camp 2203 North Westgreen Blvd., Katy, Texas 77449 713-290-9025 • Jordan.Packman@houston.nae.school • nordangliaeducation.com/bis-houston/outstanding-experiences/summer-camp Camp Director: Jordan Packman The British International School of Houston’s summer camp, known as Camp Bulldog, encourages your child to continue to grow through a variety of exciting summer skill-building activities. Camp Bulldog has been thoughtfully designed for kids from ages 4-12. Magical experiences and “aha” moments are frequent when your child is surrounded by caring friends and staff who encourage them to try new activities and explore beyond what they ever imagined possible.

Creator Camp Est. 2021 Ages: 6-13 Co-ed • Day Camp Memorial: 12535 Perthshire Rd., Houston, Texas 77024; Montrose: 1800 Sul Ross St., Houston, Texas 77098 713-417-9025 • support@creatorcamp.org • creatorcamp.org Camp Director: Cazden Morrison Creator Camp is on a mission to change Texas kids’ relationship with technology, transforming them from consumers to creators! Ages 6-13. Camps start at $159! Hands-on media classes in YouTube Production, Filmmaking, Animation, Music, Roblox, & Minecraft Coding. We’ve taught thousands of kiddos in the Houston area and are thrilled to teach even more this summer! All of our teachers are industry experts, and help our students discover what they’re truly passionate about.

Discovery Camps at The Health Museum Est. 1962 Ages: 5-14 Co-ed • Day Camp 1515 Hermann Dr., Houston, Texas 77004 713-521-1515 • camps@thehealthmuseum.org • thehealthmuseum.org Camp Director: Kennethia Rideaux School is out, but learning (and fun) is in! Unleash the power of science through Discovery Camps at The Health Museum. Your child will engage in science, technology, engineering, and mathematics (STEM) activities, such as dissecting real animal organs, exploring veterinarian science, simulating surgery on a patient simulator, and finding your inner chef, all while learning about medical science and the human body. Kids have intelligent fun, make friends, and make the most out of their school break.

Elite University Summer Camps Est. 2005 Ages: 5-13 Co-ed • Day Camp Camp Midtown: First Lutheran Church, 1311 Holman St., Houston, Texas 77004 Camp West University: St. Vincent de Paul Catholic School, 6802 Buffalo Speedway, Houston, Texas 77025 832-350-6194 • contact@elitemusicfinearts.com • www.elitesummercamps.com Camp Director: Jeré Fernandez Elite University Summer Camps is proud to serve the Houston communities of the Medical Center, West University, Museum District, Midtown, and River Oaks with two convent locations. Elite USC provides the very best in STEM, art, culinary arts, horseback riding, water sports, and outdoor activities.

West U Camp dates: June 10-July 19. Midtown Camp dates: June 10-Aug. 19.

Girl Scouts of San Jacinto Summer Camp Est. 1922 Ages: 5-17 Girls • Day Camp and overnight camp Casa Mare: Seabrook, Texas; Misty Meadows Ranch: Conroe, Texas; Camp Agnes Arnold: Conroe, Texas 713-292-0300 • customerservice@sjgs.org • www.gssjc.org/summercamp Camp Director: Mariah Balmer Get ready for awesome new and returning sessions at Misty Meadows Ranch, Casa Mare, and Camp Agnes Arnold! The horses, sailboats, and lake are waiting for you! (continued on page 38) MEMORIAL BUZZ APRIL 2024 37

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Holy Spirit Episcopal School Summer Camps Est. 1962 Ages: K-8th grade Co-ed • Day Camp 12535 Perthshire Rd., Houston, Texas 77024 713-468-5138 • Basketball and Multisport Camps: llander@hses.org; Cheer and Dance Camps: swilliams@hses.org; Math Camps: rdriver@hses.org • hses.org Camp Director: Basketball and Multisport Camps: Leveil Lander; Cheer and Dance Camps: Shelia Williams; Math Camps: Rachel Driver Holy Spirit Episcopal School offers Basketball Camp, a Multisport Camp, and Cheer and Dance Camps that provide fun, establish athletic competition, develop self-esteem, teach sportsmanship, improve motor skills, and strengthen discipline. HSES also offers a Middle School Math Preparation Camp to review and sharpen skills for 5th grade, including fundamentals and problem solving, and Dancing with Decimals Math Camp for incoming 3rd and 4th graders that focuses on multiplication, division, fractions, and decimals. HSES Camp Dates: Basketball Camp, June 3-6, 9 a.m.-12 p.m.; Multisport Camp, June 10-14, 9 a.m.-12 p.m.; Cheer and Dance Camps, Session 1: June 17-20, 8 a.m.-12 p.m. and Session 2: July 22-25, 8 a.m.-12 p.m.; Middle School Math Preparation Camp, June 24-27, 9 a.m.-12 p.m.; Dancing with Decimals Math Camp, June 10-13, 12:30-3:30 p.m. Camps are $150 per session. Email registration: Basketball Camp and Multisport Camp: llander@hses.org; Cheer and Dance Camps: swilliams@hses.org; Math Camps: rdriver@hses.org.

Houston Christian Summer Camps Est. 1998 Ages: 4th-8th grade Co-ed • Day Camp 2700 W. Sam Houston Tollway N, Houston, Texas 77043 713-580-6000 • twheeler@houstonchristian.org • houstonchristian.org/camps Camp Director: Teddy Wheeler Houston Christian High School is excited to offer Summer Athletics Camps as well as host Camp Invention. Rising 4th through 8th graders with additional sessions for high school students can join our highly acclaimed coaches and program directors for unforgettable experiences. Basketball Camps, June 3-6; Track Camp, June 3-6; Camp Invention at HC, June 10-14; Baseball Camp, June 10-13; Myles Jones Pro Lacrosse Camp, June 10-14; Camp Invention at HC Week #2, June 24-28; Lacrosse Camp, July 15-18; Volleyball Camp, July 29-31. To register, visit our camp website.

Houston Elite Cheer Summer Camp Est. 2013 Ages: 3-13 Co-ed • Day Camp (all day or half day sessions) 1800 Sherwood Forest St., Ste. B2, Houston, Texas 77043 713-464-1445 • houstonelitecheer@yahoo.com • houstonelitecheer.com Camp Director: Lakeyn Johnson Join HEC for a jam-packed week of exciting and challenging activities. Summer camp will include gymnastics, cheerleading, tumbling, arts and crafts, games, water days, obstacle courses, and more! Our goal is for campers to have loads of fun while promoting fitness. May 28-Aug. 9. Full days: 9 a.m.-4 p.m. Morning half-days: 9 a.m.-12:30 p.m. Afternoon half-days: 12:30-4 p.m.

Houston Yacht Club Summer Sailing Camp Est. 1957 Ages: 6-18 Co-ed • Day Camp 3620 Miramar Dr., Shoreacres, Texas 77571 281-471-1255 • sailing@houstonyachtclub.com • houstonyachtclub.com Camp Director: Paul Barnes Sailing camp is an opportunity for youth to learn to sail. Our goal is to create lifelong sailors. Kids sail small boats single-handed or in pairs while US Sailing certified instructors coach from small power boats. We use Optimist, Sunfish, C420, and ILCA-Laser dinghies with opportunities to try keel boats during camp. For sailors passionate about the sport, we offer a full year race team that competes regionally and nationally.

iKids Camp Est. 2007 Ages: PreK-5th grade Co-ed • Day Camp Locations in West U and River Oaks 713-665-5200 • support@ikidsinc.com • www.ikidsinc.com Camp Directors: N/A iKids Inc. is your one-stop, out-of-school shop, offering the flexibility you need with the care you can trust. Providing enriching programs essential to your child’s development since 2007.

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J Camps Est. 1960 Ages: 3-16 Co-ed • Day Camp 5601 S. Braeswood Blvd., Houston, Texas 77096 713-729-3200 • mbell@erjcchouston.org • www.erjcchouston.org/camp Camp Director: Hollie Buza J Camps is the Evelyn Rubenstein JCC’s day camp program for children in preschool through grade 9 with options for art, culinary, dance, gymnastics, sports, tennis, theatre, and so much more! We provide a Jewish summer camp that supports every camper’s social emotional growth as they form friendships, gain independence, build confidence, and find joy in each day through a Jewish lens!

Kidventure Day Camp Est. 1994 Ages: 3-16 Co-ed • Day Camp 2501 Central Parkway, Suite B2, Houston, Texas 77092 (camp office) 713-960-8989 • houston@kidventure.com • kidventure.com/houston-summer-camp Camp Director: Neira Galan For three decades, Houston families have made Kidventure the summer day camp of choice for their children. Kidventure is more than just a summer of fun. It’s a summer of opportunity. That opportunity is one to grow in confidence, create friendships, and be a part of something special. And now, that’s needed more than ever. With 16 Houston locations, there is no more memorable, rewarding, and convenient camp option anywhere. Pick and choose your weekly schedule from June 3-Aug. 9, 2024 for any of our age-appropriate camps including our Discoverers (ages 3-5), Explorers (1st grade-5th grade), and Leads (6th-9th grade). Make this summer one your child will remember forever.

Kidventure Overnight Camp Est. 1994 Ages: 8-16 Co-ed • Overnight camp 11701 FM 2244, Suite 240C, Austin, Texas 78738 (camp office) 512-263-8992 • overnight@kidventure.com • kidventure.com/overnight-camps Camp Director: Mollie Bent Being a part of Overnight Camp is more than just an adventure; it’s a life experience. The opportunity to climb to new heights, paddle a river, fly through the air, and do it all with your new best friends is unlike any adventure. For 30 years, Kidventure Overnight Camp has been a Texas tradition for thousands of kids. Now, more than ever, our kids need camp. Camp allows our kids to build real friendships, gain confidence, become more independent, and dream big. This is the real power of Kidventure Overnight Camp. Choose from three Overnight Camps including Safari (ages 8-12), Quest (ages 8-12), and Echo (ages 13-16). Make this summer the adventure of a lifetime for your child.

Rice Athletics STEM Camp Est. 2016 3rd-5th grade Co-ed • Day Camp 6100 Main St., MS548, Houston, Texas 77005 713-348-5648 • njg2@rice.edu • RiceOwls.com/STEMLetics Camp Directors: Nancy Gealow, M.Ed. The Rice Office of STEM Engagement and Rice Athletics offer week-long day camps during the summer for current 3rd-, 4th-, and 5th-grade students.

These day camps are designed to keep students both mentally and physically active during the summer. Students explore different forms of energy, physics, mathematics, computer science, and engineering through active exploration activities in the classroom and on the playing field.

Saint Thomas’ Episcopal School Radiant Summer Est. 2024 Ages: Kindergarten-8th Grade Co-ed • Day Camp 4900 Jackwood St., Houston, Texas 77096 713-666-3111 • info@stes.org • www.stes.org/radiantsummer Camp Director: N/A Saint Thomas’ Episcopal is pleased to offer Radiant Summer – an enriching summer experience for kindergarten-8th grade students. This comprehensive summer academic program is designed to meet many student needs: enrichment, acceleration, review, and strengthening of basic skills. (continued on page 40) MEMORIAL BUZZ APRIL 2024 39

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Second Baptist School Summer Camps Est. 2021 Ages: K-6th grade Co-ed • Day Camp 6410 Woodway Dr., Houston, Texas 77057 713.365.2310 • summercamps@secondbaptistschool.org • secondbaptistschool.org/summercamps Camp Director: Ashleigh Manion SBS is thrilled to offer a variety of arts and sports summer camps for campers entering grades K-6. Weekly summer camps are offered May 28-June 13, 2024, with morning (9-11:30 a.m.) and afternoon (12:30-3 p.m.) sessions available. Each camp will be led by our highly acclaimed teachers and coaches as they work alongside campers with excellence and expertise. We look forward to your camper joining us on campus for a fun-filled summer.

Spanish, French, Mandarin Chinese & Sign Language Camps Est. 2011 in Houston, 1995 in Mexico City Ages: 3-5 and 6-11 Co-ed • Day Camp Multiple locations in the Houston area 281-565-1388 • info@languagekids.com • languagekids.com Camp Director: Vanessa Simpson Childhood is the best time to learn another language, and it has never been so much fun. Make the most of your child’s summer with our engaging immersion camps in Spanish, French, Mandarin Chinese, Sign Language, and English. With more than two decades of language teaching experience under our belt, we are masters at teaching languages to children in fun and innovative ways. Multiple locations and extended schedules. In-person and virtual options. Payment plans are available.

SPX Summer Camps Est. 2010 Ages: Grades K-12 Co-ed • Day Camp 811 W. Donovan St., Houston, Texas 77091 713-692-3581 • jeff.feller@stpiusx.org • www.stpiusx.org/summercamps Camp Director: Jeff Feller Summer camps at St. Pius X High School offer a variety of athletic and fine art experiences during the summer months of June and July. The expert coaches and faculty at SPX coordinate these fun activities for all participants to grow in skills and knowledge while making new friendships in the process.

From theater to baseball, there is a camp opportunity for everyone!

St. John the Divine Vacation Bible School Est. 1943 Ages: 4 years through 5th grade Co-ed • Day Camp 2450 River Oaks Blvd., Houston, Texas 77019 713-622-3600 • dlawson@sjd.org • sjd.org/vbs Camp Director: Deanna Lawson, Director of Children’s Ministry St. John the Divine Vacation Bible School is here to love kids, love families, and share the hope of Jesus. Join us this summer, July 29-Aug. 1, 2024, 9:30 a.m.-12:30 p.m.

Summer at Camp Regis Est. 1991 Ages: 3-14 Co-ed • Day Camp 7330 Westview Dr., Houston, Texas, 77055 713-682-8383 • pweikel@theregisschool.org • theregisschool.org/life-at-regis/summer-programs Camp Director: Pam Weikel MEMORIAL BUZZ APRIL 2024 40

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Summer at St. Mark’s Est. 2015 Ages: 2 years-rising 8th grade Co-ed • Day Camp 3816 Bellaire Blvd., Houston, Texas 77025 713-667-7030 • jrush@stmes.org • stmes.org/summer Camp Director: Juli Rush The Summer at St. Mark’s Day Camp includes Adventure Routes like Movement, The Arts, and STEAM, which include activities like tae kwon do, break dancing, yoga, sewing, creative writing, drama, robotics, e-sports, and more! This year’s overall theme is Self-Discovery at St. Mark’s, and each week of our seven-week camp gives campers the chance to dive into unique experiences, water play, and “Here Trips.” Hours are 7:30 a.m.-5:30 p.m.

Middle-school students can complete our popular Counselor in Training Program where they receive leadership training, service learning, and advanced specialty camp classes. Check out stmes.org/summer for our full description of each week’s theme and to register!

Summer Camps at The Village School Est. 1990 Ages: Pre-K3-8th grade Co-ed • Day Camp 13051 Whittington Dr., Houston, Texas 77077 281-496-7900, ext. 4011 • vssummer@thevillageschool.com • thevillageschool.com/summer Camp Director: Adreanna Gantt The Village School's Summer Camp 2024 will feature 8 weeks of fun! Camp begins May 28 and runs through July 19, 2024. It is open to all Houston area students (Village and non-Village). Each weekly theme includes water activities, arts & crafts, sports, games, and awesome experiences! In addition, Summer Camp 2024 will host 4 weeks of Athletic camps that include: Racket sports, Basketball, Football, Volleyball, Soccer, Dance, Swim, Lacrosse, Fitness Fun and PE Games, all taught by coaching professionals. Our camps are designed to be full or part day, so campers can join us for a combination of day and athletic camps depending on schedules. For more information, contact Camp Director Adreanna Gantt.

SUMMER@STH – Aquinas Academy Est. 2009 Ages: 3rd -12th graders Co-ed • Day Camp 4500 Memorial Dr., Houston, Texas 77007 713-864-6348 • carol.mandola@sths.org • summer.sths.org Camp Director: Carol Mandola Our extensive summer offerings provide an array of academic, enrichment, athletic, and original credit and credit recovery (high school only) camps for students. Our mission is to provide an experience which sparks curiosity and ignites passion while improving core skills through a wide range of fun yet challenging activities in the classroom, in the lab, or on the field.

Yorkshire Academy Summer Program Est. 1984 Ages: PreK-6th grade Co-ed • Day Camp 14120 Memorial Dr., Houston, Texas 77079 281-531-6088 • randel@yorkshireacademy.com • www.yorkshireacademy.com Camp Director: Callie Randel Yorkshire Academy’s Summer Program offers one-stop summer-camp shopping June 3-July 15, 2024. With over 40 enrichment camps, there is something for everyone. Work the right side of your brain in the morning and the left side of your brain in the afternoon, and switch the next week. Yorkshire Academy’s enrichment camps include offerings such as filmmaking, golf, Harry Potter camp, coding, dance, circus arts, Minecraft, tennis, theater, soccer, engineering, and more. This is a community-wide program that attracts campers from beyond just West Houston and Katy.

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by Sharon Albert Brier, staff writer

Rumor Has It Unwelcome guest. Lauren, Chris, Avery, Nicholas, and Elle Rutherford celebrated mom Lauren’s birthday, which fell over a holiday break. A new destination for them was specifically to the One&Only Mandarina resort in Mexico for four days. They ziplined for the first time through the tropical jungle and had many hikes and sightings of a raccoon species called coatis. A fave spot was the infinity pool overlooking the stunning private beach. To their surprise, the family encountered a curious coati that entered their villa in search of food. Chris shooed it out of the room, and they all had a laugh.

Ghostly but not ghastly. Laurie and Kevin Foxx took a quick, last-minute trip to New Orleans to meet friends. Laurie brought her Ghost Meter sensor, purchased late one night on Amazon. Since then, it has travelled with her all over several continents providing fun surprises. As they stepped off the elevator at the Four Seasons Hotel onto the 13th floor, the Ghost Meter buzzed immediately. They later learned from the Cajun Queen on a pedicab for a ghost tour that there were several deaths in the building before it was transformed into the Four Seasons. As they rode through the Quarter, the Ghost Meter was unusually active. They were surprised that it did not go off at the Anne Rice house. No horror there.

Mardi Gras and a birthday. Friends rallied around Mardi Gras at Café Annie to celebrate Phyllis Raul’s birthday, Feb 11. Plenty of beads were on hand along with hair bling, candies, and pink carnations. Joanne Naponic gave a beautiful To your health and prosperity and time to enjoy it toast in Spanish as most of the friends are in the Pan American Round Table organization and speak at least three languages. No King cake was served but gal pals on hand were Rosana Scearce, Joanne Naponic, Kim Forbes, JoAnne Downes, Yanne Moreno, Josie Kaplow, Fiona Toth, and Susan Huston. What was for dessert? Boston Cream Pie. Sage is a soothing color. As a nod to that colorful wisdom and tribute to the Sage family name, Helen Sage Perry wore a sumptuous green gown to wed B. Douglas Simpkins, Jr. The couple in their golden years was introduced a year ago by friends John Young and Pat MEMORIAL BUZZ APRIL 2024 42

Holmes. Five days after a romantic trip to Europe last year, Doug proposed. They married Feb. 17 at Second Baptist’s old sanctuary officiated by Dr. Edwin H. Young with a dinner and dance at River Oaks Country Club. New York singer Alan H. Green sang two solos and a duet with friend Alisa Pederson.

Immediate relatives Phillip Simpkins and Jack, Will, and Holden Perry were attendants with 12 other family members and friends.

Fifty-two out of 86 Sage family members attendPARADISE The Rutherford family – parents Chris and Lauren with children Avery, ed. All shades of sage.

Nicholas, and Elle – celebrated Lauren’s birthday in Mexico.

Tail-wagging Maggiano’s Little Italy and filled in by members. time. Jane Wood, a Certified Master Naturalist In the crowd wearing red, pink, or yellow amongst and American history buff, gave a presentation the mostly black attire, were Roz Cooley, Connie to the First Tuesday Women’s Club at the home Dalton, Barbara Files, Kimberly Gartner, of Harriet Lester. “If only all history teachers Sandra Hotze, Sharon Roarke, Nancy could make learning history this interesting,” Rommelmann, and Mala Salvador.

Sue Shefman remarked. Jane spoke about the Incredible and practical art. The Lewis and Clark National Historic Trail from solar photovoltaic interactive public artwork, The 1804-1806. Since a Newfoundland dog was part Arch of Time by Berlin-based artist and architect of the story, she brought 11-month-old, 130Riccardo Mariano, was introduced at Roland and pound, Ri. Stacy Kipp, Ri’s owner, shared that Karen Garcia’s home as a PowerPoint to share the Old West Newfoundland Rescue Club information about the magnificent art project to (ownc.org/rescue) provides rescue and placethe public. The 100-foot-tall triumphal arch is a ment of Newfoundlands who would otherwise time-measuring device that creates a thread be homeless. Ri spoke with a wagging tail. between the celestial and the terrestrial by beamViva Italian Style. Clever larger-thaning sunlight onto the ground plane of a public life-sized cut-outs of the David statue, the park. Aptly fascinated were Philamena Baird, Colosseum, the Leaning Tower of Pisa, and a Paula Sutton, Bill Gross, Victor Kendall, Brett Venetian gondola were photo opps for the 76 Hobby, Jacquie Baly, and Craig James. guests and members of the Memorial Drive Garden Club Annual Friendship party, hosted by Jane and Jerry Clark. The weather was perfect as See Rumor Has It at thebuzzmagazines.com for guests found seating outside poolside on the patio. additional photos. Have some good news to share?

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by Annie Blaylock McQueen, staff writer

Buzz Baby

Outdoor spring activities

Buzz Baby is a column about life with little ones.

Writer Annie McQueen is a mother of four children under the age of 9.

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Mom-of-two Angela Currie’s go-to spot for her 2-year-old train-loving son, Jon, and his big sister Jill, 4, is a classic Houston outdoor space, Hermann Park (6001 Fannin St.). The train is very close to their school, The Rise School, so it has become the perfect after-school activity.

As soon as they pull into the parking lot and Jon hears the train at the park, he gets excited. The train loops around the park and takes off near the ponds and paddle boats. “Jon loves the Hermann Park train, and then heading to the Zoo after the train,” said Angela.

They do a loop around the Zoo to see their animals (Jon and Jill’s favorites are lions and tigers), sometimes stopping for a sweet treat to cool down. Another favorite spot for the Currie family is the Houston Arboretum & Nature Center (4501 Woodway Dr.). “We enjoy walking all of the trails and playing at the park there,” said Angela. After they take in the outdoor nature, they check out the lizards and snakes on display inside the nature center.

Aside from these well-known Houston spots, their family frequently visits the green space at Stomping Grounds (1223 W. 34th St.), an outdoor space with food spots and more, near Garden Oaks. “The kids run around the green space after ice cream,” said Angela. They also like to check out the local live music over an outdoor meal there.

In the area, they also love Oak Forest Park (2100 Judiway St.), an all-inclusive park built with funds raised through the campaign “More Than 1Way 2Play” and designed to be a park for all abilities. “We are grateful for this park for our daughter, Jill, who has Down Syndrome,” said Angela.

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Ln.),” said Angela.

They brought bubbles and balls and set up a blanket amongst the trees SOAKING UP THE SUN Siblings Jon and Jill Currie (pictured) enjoy springtime activities outside such as exploring Houston Arboretum and Nature Center and its in the Eastern Nature Playscape.

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In addition to parks and splash pads, Houston When visiting a park suitable for babies and offers many stroller-friendly trails that are great to toddlers, it is helpful to find one that is fully or take younger children on a walk or run. Check out partially fenced, which provides a secure envithese trails: ronment where little ones can roam freely. This Nature Discovery Center, Russ Pitman is especially helpful for parents of multiples or Park - 7112 Newcastle St. with small children close in age. Artificial turf Meander through woodlands, wetlands, and adds a layer of safety, ensuring curious mouths prairies on a mile-long loop. Explore the nature remain free from grass, rocks, or sticks. play area halfway through the trail.

Seymour Lieberman Exer-Trail at Memorial A few more parks to check out include: Park - 6501 Memorial Dr. Evelyn’s Park Conservancy - 4400 Bellaire Blvd.

Memorial Park has approximately 30 miles of Playgrounds for wide range of ages, butterfly trails, including the flat and wide Seymour gardens, splash pad, on-site restaurant, expanLieberman Exercise Trail, a 3-mile flat trail persive green space. fect for a stroller walk or run.

Fire Truck Park - 3743 Garnet St. Rice University Running Trail - 6100 Main St. Renovated playground with Fire Truck This is a 3-mile running trail on a shaded flat themed play structures. path around Rice University.

Levy Park Conservancy - 3801 Eastside St. Terry Hershey Park - 15200 Memorial Dr. Recently rebuilt with a splash pad, commuExplore the picturesque Terry Hershey Park nity gardens, and more. along the walking trails, offering bayou views River Oaks Pumpkin Park - 3600 Locke Ln. and benches to rest.

Fully fenced playground on five acres, with a Marvyn Taylor Exercise Trail at Hermann lighted sports field, scenic hiking trail.

Park - 2145 N MacGregor Way A 2-mile trail loop around scenic Hermann Splash pads offer a refreshing haven for water Park, near the Zoo and museums. play. Here are some local favorites perfect for springThe Paul Carr Jogging Trail Park - Heights time splashing: Blvd. at W. 18th St. Bellaire Town Center Family Aquatic A 2-mile trail, featuring art installations and Center - 7008 Fifth St. benches for resting. Stop by Donovan Park after Miniature water park with various amenities a walk. for kids of all ages.

Mercer Arboretum and Botanic Gardens Gateway Fountain at Discovery Green 22306 Aldine Westfield Rd., Humble 1500 McKinney St. Visit the Children's Garden, near acres of Massive splash pad adjacent to Discovery trails surrounded by plants, flowers, trees, and Green in downtown. paths perfect for a stroller hike and kid-friendly Ervan Chew Park (Dunlavy Park) - 4502 nature walk.

Dunlavy St. Surrounded by oak trees, this park includes With spring, new adventure blossoms for picnic areas and basketball courts. young children. So, grab your sunscreen, and our Jaycee Park Splash Pad - 1300 Seamist Dr. guide, and head outside to soak it in.

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Buzz Reads

Five picks for April

Buzz Reads is a column about books by reviewer Cindy Burnett. Each month, Cindy recommends five recently or soon-to-be released titles.

American Daughters by Piper Huguley (historical fiction) – Piper Huguley’s latest novel, American Daughters, charts the unlikely and secret friendship between Alice Roosevelt, President Teddy Roosevelt’s daughter, and Portia Washington, daughter of educator Booker T. Washington. When the two men developed a friendship, their daughters were unexpectedly brought together in 1901 and began a lifelong relationship that triumphed over race and politics.

This relationship was kept under wraps due to the time period and drama that result from President Roosevelt’s and Booker T. Washington’s interactions with each other, but Huguley relies on both research about the two women individually as well as the time period to develop a story of what it would have looked like and how it would have impacted their views of what was happening with respect to race relations in the early 20th century.

I found it fascinating to evaluate how much has changed from this time period compared to our current one and to see what has not. American Daughters is a timely read that will have readers thinking about what we all have in common versus focusing on our differences.

The Husbands by Holly Gramazio (speculative fiction) – This delightful and unique debut novel explores the possibilities and ramifications of endless choice. Lauren, an unmarried young woman on a night out with her friends, arrives home to find a random stranger ensconced in her flat, claiming to be her husband. While she doesn’t know this man, the photos on her phone and her friends say otherwise. While Lauren is trying to come to terms with this altered state, the new husband goes up into the attic to change a lightbulb and promptly disappears with a new man taking his place. Realizing that her attic is providing her with an endless supply of different husbands, Lauren begins to evaluate how to decide when enough is enough after swapping out a large number of husbands. I loved the concepts explored in this book including finding an ideal mate, settling, exploring choice, and so much MEMORIAL BUZZ APRIL 2024 46

more. And I loved the humor infused throughout. The Husbands will appeal to readers who like clever and thoughtprovoking reads as well as those who enjoy creative premises.

The Secret Lives of Booksellers and WHAT TO READ This month's selections include a clever tale about choice, two historical-fiction titles, a nonfiction book about the importance of bookLibrarians: True Stories sellers and librarians, and a thriller about a girl who goes missing. of the Magic of Reading What Happened to Nina? by Dervla

by James Patterson and Matt Eversmann (nonMcTiernan (mystery/thriller) – With echoes of fiction) – This gem is perfect for anyone who recent real-life cases, What Happened to Nina? loves books and the way in which they bring peotakes the reader on a whirlwind journey following ple together. The authors spent countless hours Nina’s disappearance. Together since they were interviewing booksellers and librarians, as well as 16 years old, Nina and Simon attend separate colothers in literary-related jobs including leges and occasionally struggle to spend enough researchers, archivists, teachers, and more. The time with each other. When the couple takes a result is a compilation of anecdotes and stories weekend trip to the country, only Simon returns, about how these individuals began their careers claiming that Nina went off to see friends. But and/or the impact their role has had on them and why can no one reach her? Her disappearance others, heartwarming or humorous anecdotes draws intense media focus, and people begin specabout their stores/libraries, and how book banulating on social media about where she is and ning is impacting bookstores and libraries. What what might have happened. In an effort to proI particularly loved about the book is that each tect Simon, his parents launch a malicious social chapter has a unique voice and viewpoint to it; I media campaign targeting Nina and her family. felt like I was sitting with each individual and lisMcTiernan chose to have the four parents and tening to their particular story. Some resonated the police detective relay the tale, each character more than others with me, but every chapter was slowly disseminating important details about engaging and interesting and reminded me why I what is unfolding. I loved hearing from each parlike to read. ent, and she inhabits each character so persuaThe Underground Library by Jennifer Ryan sively. While I didn’t like certain individuals, I (historical fiction) – Inspired by true events, The did understand what motivated them to take the Underground Library follows three young women actions that they each did, and I was forced to in London during World War II, Sofie, Katie, and reflect repeatedly about what I might do in such Julie. They meet at the Bethnal Green Library, a situation. What Happened to Nina? is a thoughtright before the German bombs destroy the roof provoking and cautionary tale. of the library. Forced to seek shelter underground, they decide to bring the library into the Editor’s note: Southside Place resident Cindy Underground Station as well and succeed after Burnett also writes our weekly Page Turners colsome pushback. The story is a celebration of umn at thebuzzmagazines.com. She hosts the libraries, librarians, and books as well as the manaward-winning Thoughts from a Page Podcast, is ner in which Londoners survived extreme hardco-creator of the Houston literary event series ship and how they endured. Ryan vividly depicts Conversations from the Page, runs the Instagram life underground and brings to life fascinating account @thoughtsfromapage, and regularly speaks aspects of World War II that I had not been privy to groups about books. to before.

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by Tracy L. Barnett, staff writer

Travel Buzz

Countdown to Totality: Houstonians Prepare for Rare Solar Eclipse

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For Ike, it’s his first eclipse, and he has no idea what to expect. For Joe, it’s quite likely to be his last. And for the first time, it will be close to home: the line of totality passes over his ranch in Pearsall.

It all started for Joe, a retired salesman and part-time rancher, in 1991, when he heard about an upcoming trip scheduled by the Houston Museum of Natural Science to Oaxaca to see the eclipse. It would be an unusually long eclipse, plunging parts of Mexico and the Caribbean into darkness for almost seven minutes. Joe found a contact who helped him set up his own itinerary and he invited his buddy Scott Langdale, and Scott invited his girlfriend, Lynne Covey. Thus began Joe’s tradition of colorful, off-the-beatentrail itineraries assembled with the help of a personal contact from the destination country.

The trio booked flights to Mexico City and on to Oaxaca City, renting a car and driving over the mountains to explore the Oaxaca coast, from Puerto Ángel to Puerto Escondido. Then they headed back up to Oaxaca City in the culture-rich highlands. Monte Albán, the archaeological site that contains the remains of an ancient Zapotec metropolis, would be the impressive site of their first total solar eclipse.

“We were hooked, and set our sails on that day for what has become a lifetime pursuit,” Joe recalls in his brand-new self-published book, The Lucky 7. That seven minutes set him on a course that took him on seven adventures in more than a dozen different countries, as far-flung as Romania, Zambia, and Turkey. What they all had in common was an opportunity to gather with friends and family and immerse themselves in new cultures and landscapes – and then, the unmatchable experience of a total solar eclipse.

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he explained. “It starts when you see ‘first contact,’ when the moon first touches the sun. And it goes from there… It's unimaginable.

Your heart starts beating, your hair stands on end, and you have this feeling you want to cry – it’s just spectacular.”

Ike, for his part, is excited, but a little bit skeptical; he doesn’t have a good sense of how it will be. Like hundreds of thousands if not millions of others, the Diamonds will be traveling to the Hill Country to see three minutes of totality. They’ll be camping out at Camp Young Judaea near Wimberley.

“I'd imagine that, like, when I see it, it'll look a ECLIPSE CHASERS With the ancient Zapotec city of Monte Albán, Oaxaca, Mexico as a backdrop, Joe Keathley, Lynne Langdale (then Lynne Covey) and Scott Langdale lot like night. I see point skyward as the great eclipse of 1991 begins. why it's interesting don’t know what you’re doing,” he said. It will because this is a rare solar eclipse, but I don't see be a very different experience for him than his why it's such a big deal.” previous eclipse adventures. “Not only will there His mother, Farell, laughed. “It’ll blow his be no exotic road trip but it will be passing over mind,” she predicted. It will be her first eclipse 12 million people in the cities of San Antonio as well, but she’s heard enough to know. and Austin, Waco, Dallas and Fort Worth, plus Joe, for his part, will be joining family and all the people that will be packed into the Texas friends on his ranch in Pearsall, and will be takHill Country.” ing plenty of provisions for a long stay, as he’s Dr. Carolyn Sumners, vice president of astronanticipating unprecedented traffic conditions. omy at the Houston (continued on page 50) “This one is going to be a madhouse, if you

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SOUTH OF THE BORDER Three of Joe Keathley’s eclipse adventures were in Latin America and the Caribbean. Top: Joe and crew stop for a group photo in the village of Coroico in the Andean foothills of northern Chile. Joe is second from the right, with his hand on wife Pat's shoulder. Right: Joe captured the "diamond ring" effect that occurred during the 1991 eclipse. Middle: Preparing for the big event at Monte Albán in 1998. Bottom: Joe and friends on the beach on the island of Grande-Terre, Guadeloupe, French West Indies. (continued from page 48) Museum

of Natural Science, explains that Houston will reach 94 percent of totality. What makes this eclipse so different from others in our lifetimes is that it will be passing over major populations; indeed, it’s the first time Texas has experienced totality since 1878, and it’s the last time until 2045, “so for most Texans, this is ‘the’ Texas eclipse,” she said.

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ty, she recommends having your site identified ahead of time and leaving well before the actual eclipse event to reach a point somewhere along the 115-mile band of totality.

The eclipse will enter North America around Mazatlan, on Mexico’s west coast, crossing the border into Texas near Del Rio, sweeping across the state, and leaving at Texarkana before crossing through a wide swath of the Midwest and

the Northeast. In Texas, the Hill Country will be Ground Zero, with Austin and Waco right on the centerline; the western half of San Antonio will be included, as will much of Dallas/Fort Worth.

As with all solar eclipses, Sumners warns, it is important not to look directly at the sun without eclipse glasses or a good filter because the intensity of the light can (continued on page 52)

ECLIPSE SAFARI Clockwise from upper left: Joe checks out the progress of the eclipse with a filtered telescope during the group's African adventure in 2001; the Africa group poses for an eclipse shot; hot air balloons over Cappadocia, Turkey in 2006; the group sets off in a balloon of their own to see Cappadocia's fairyland landscape from above. (continued from page 50) burn the retina, causing

permanent damage to the vision.

The museum is offering an eclipse outing at LoneHollow Ranch in the Texas Hill Country.

For those who will be in Houston, the museum will host a viewing event through the whole range of the eclipse, with a wide range of safe viewing options: eclipse glasses, pinhole projectors, telescopes equipped with special filters.

That said, there’s nothing like totality, as those who have seen it agree.

“The temperature will drop, and you’ll say, ‘This is weird,’” said Sumners. “The sky won’t look right, the air won’t feel right, the ground won’t look right; everywhere that shadows are being cast, they will be eclipse shadows.”

That’s what Joe and his band experienced time and again: first in Oaxaca, in 1991, and then in Northern Chile in November of 1994. At Monte Albán, he befriended Tekla and Richard Sanford, a couple from California who are wine producers, MEMORIAL BUZZ APRIL 2024 52

and they kindled a lasting friendship. Richard mentioned he knew of a place in Northern Chile that would be ideal to watch the next eclipse. So the group quickly decided to meet in La Paz, Bolivia, and take the opportunity to explore the two neighboring countries.

This time, Joe’s wife Pat joined him, along with his brother Mo, friends Scott and Lynne, and other friends. In subsequent years, their daughters Kim and Kelly would join them, as well. With the help of a native of La Paz that Joe found through his networks, he planned an itinerary taking them through the Andean highlands of Lake Titicaca and the tropical lowlands to the south, shopping for weavings among the Aymara ladies with their little bowler hats and petticoats and pollera skirts.

Then it was a flight over the Andes to Arica, the northernmost town in Chile, on the Pacific Coast. And then it was up into the Andes to the town of Copaquilla near Putre, Chile, where it

hadn’t rained for 100 years. That’s where they would watch Eclipse No. 2.

Their travels in subsequent years are detailed in his book. The book is rich with Joe’s color photography of the places he has visited in his eclipse sojourns, revealing his deep love for culture and for the humanity of his subjects – as well as his love for a good party, especially a good eclipse party.

Sun, sea, and sand provided the backdrop for their next eclipse in the French West Indies on the island of Guadeloupe, in 1998; the serendipity of the island’s traditional Carnival celebration was the cultural icing on the cake. They wouldn’t have to wait long for the 1999 eclipse, which was epic; they flew into Germany, rented a car, drove through Austria and Hungary, and ended up on Romania’s Black Sea for the big event. The accountant for Joe’s company, who was from Romania, helped plan that itinerary.

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TOWARD TOTALITY Clockwise from upper left: Ike and Farell Diamond are looking forward to seeing their first eclipse on April 8; Joe and the eclipse chasers celebrate the big event in August 2017 at the Wild Dunes Resort in South Carolina; this time, Joe's two granddaughters and the grandchildren of their friends were able to join them; Joe was able to capture photography of seven eclipses between 1991 and 2017, and now at the age of 83, is preparing to photograph what he believes will probably be his last one. (continued from page 52) eclipse of less than only

one minute,” commented Joe. He forgot to focus his lens, but at the very last moment he remembered and got one good shot.

Africa followed, in 2001, beginning with a bow hunt in South Africa. They followed that with a luxury safari camp in Zambia on the lower Zambezi River, where the moans of hippos and the cries of bush babies sang them to sleep.

An astronomer who worked at the Hubble Telescope accompanied the group on that eclipse day, bringing his gear with him to give them all the inside scoop on the celestial event.

It was five years before Joe found himself planning a Turkey itinerary – this time with the help of a Turkish astronomer he found on the Internet. Their tour included an unforgettable hot-air balloon ride over the fairy castles of Cappadocia, tours of an ancient Roman city with an amphitheater, and a front-row seat to the eclipse on the Mediterranean coast in Antalya.

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It wasn’t until 2017 that Joe and Co. decided to set off for another eclipse adventure – this one, for the first time, right in the USA. “We have now grown from three in Mexico to 14 on the beach in South Carolina,” he reported in his book’s last entry; this time, they were joined by four grandchildren.

Once again Joe called on a friend from his chosen spot – in this case, Charleston, S.C. – and the friend did not let him down. Their 2017 eclipse was at the Wild Dunes Resort, perfect for their wild and crazy gang. Lots of fine dining was on the itinerary, along with sightseeing along the Mt. Pleasant coastline, and mostly, enjoying each other.

Looking forward to Eclipse 2024 is bittersweet.

On the one hand, it’s a small miracle that the line of totality will be crossing his ranch, and many friends and family will be joining him there. But there’ll be no road trip, his favorite part of all of his adventures until now. The roads will be too packed for any kind of spontaneous tourism.

“I’ll be 84 this fall, and things change,” he mused. “You can’t look forward to things because of the things that happen physically. If my wife could still travel, though, I'd probably be planning another one.”

One thing’s for sure, though. After spending many hours combing through his 1,200 slides (not to mention the countless prints), reading through his and Pat’s notes, finding a designer and writing and rewriting the draft of his book, he can finally sit back, grab a beer, and relax.

It’s been one heck of a ride. And, to be sure, it still is.

“Even if you can’t see totality, everyone in Houston will be able to see a part of the eclipse,” Joe said. So get your eclipse glasses, go outside and see something you may never see again.”

Editor's note: For another out-of-this-world eclipse story, read Eclipsed! A Love Story: Will she, or won't she? by Cindy Gabriel, also in this issue.

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or the first time since 2013, the St. Thomas Eagles are state wrestling champions, capturing the TAPPS state title by a 14-point margin over second-place Dallas Bishop Lynch.

“Our wrestlers performed to the best of their ability,” said St. Thomas wrestling coach Mike LeHolm. “Every single one of our guys matched or exceeded their seeding going into the tournament. Everything came together at once and was a total team effort. It was incredible.”

The Eagles boasted a trio of state champions with junior Roberto Pacini (113 lbs.), freshman Joshua Guzman (150 lbs.), and junior Trace Langin (285 lbs.) all capturing gold medals.

Pacini and Guzman were also qualifiers for the Prep Nationals.

In addition, the Eagles had five runner-up finishers at the state meet in freshman Logan Koteras (106 lbs.), junior Jacob Prochaska (144 lbs.), senior Boyd Quinlan (157 lbs.), senior David Grattan (175 lbs.), and sophomore Italo Chavarria-Mendez (190 lbs.).

For LeHolm, the championship was especially rewarding after coming within one point of the state title in 2019 and then another runner-up finish in 2022 for the Eagles sixth year head coach. “It was a big win for our program,” added LeHolm. “It just seems like everything we’ve been working towards the last six seasons has come to fruition. I have a great coaching staff, which includes my brother and even several volunteers.

We were able to get the kids to believe they can do it and they went out there and won the title.”

The Mavericks won the SPC title by a lofty 74-point margin while remarkably placing a finalist in 13 of the 14 weight-divisions. Five Mavericks won individual SPC championships including Braden Lane (115 lbs.), Mason Lum (126 lbs.), Nico Sturgis (144 lbs.), Yahya Mir (165 lbs.), and Noah Jamison (215 lbs.) The remaining finalists for St. John’s included Cameron Baird, Spencer Arouty, Jet Ligums, Barrett Mossman, Michael Mann, Henry Denham, Sebi Rodriguez, and Wyatt Childers.

“It truly was a remarkable year for our entire team,” added Paul. “My assistant coach Danny Henderson and I have been together here for 18 years. Along the way we’ve won ten SPC Championships, seven Prep State Championships, and six State Dual championships.”

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“It’s the fourth year in a row we’ve won all three of those major state-wide championships so that’s amazingly special,” said Mavericks head wrestling coach Alan Paul. “I don’t think that’s ever done before by another school. The strength of our team is our cohesiveness. We have a strong culture of togetherness. We had 47 wrestlers on our roster this year, which is our biggest team ever.”

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DYNASTY ON THE MAT The St. John’s wrestling team put forth another dominating season in route to winning the SPC Championship, the Prep State Duals Championship and the Texas Prep State Championship. It’s the fourth straight year that St. John’s has won all three of those major state titles.

t was a double-dose of basketball championships for the Episcopal Knights with both the Knights boys and girls teams winning SPC 4A Championships.

For the Knights girls team, it marked their first basketball championship in 36 years having wrapped up the title with a 66-54 victory over rival Kinkaid in the SPC tournament final. “It’s just a testament to the girls and the hard work they put forth starting back in early summer,” said Knights girls basketball coach Chelsea Bass.

“Our goal from day one was to win the championship and to win it all in our home gym made it all the more special.”

In the championship final, the Knights were led by a sensational game from McDonald’s AllAmerican Me’Arah O’Neal. The daughter of NBA Hall of Famer Shaquille O’Neal, the Knights senior capped off her high school career with a 28point outing in the title game. “From the very start the goal was to win an SPC Championship,” said O’Neal. “It was pretty much all that Coach Bass talked about and to grind through the season and get the championship meant everything.”

On the boys side, the Knights victory over Dallas St. Mark’s in the SPC tournament final marked its second SPC championship in the last three years. “We as coaches always have groups that we feel special with and this is mine,” said Knights head coach Wayne Jones. For his part, Jones also picked up a monumental 700th career victory this past season.

“This senior group has been incredible from day one. They came in during the Covid year and had their season cut short. They still ended up playing in three straight championship finals while winning two SPC titles. I couldn’t be any prouder of these guys.”

Editor’s note: Todd Freed is the host and executive producer of H-Town High School Sports, which airs Saturday at 10:30 p.m. on CW39 and Monday-Thursday on AT&T SportsNet SW. To submit high school sports news for possible inclusion in SportzBuzz, please email todd@thebuzzmagazines.com.

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elcome to SportzBuzz Jr., a column spotlighting neighborhood athletes in elementary and middle school.

Gold Bracket champs The Spring Branch-Memorial Sports Association Freshman Bulls basketball team won the Coleman Chaos Gold Bracket Championship after an exciting and memorable undefeated season. After winning all ten games in the regular season and three games in the final playoffs, the Bulls made it to the final game of the Gold Bracket playoffs, defeating the Heat to earn the title of Gold Bracket Champions. The final score in the game was 40-34.

The team was made up of kindergarten and first-grade boys from Wilchester Elementary School. The buddies had fun together and worked incredibly as a team, averaging 44 points per game in the regular season and 42 points per game in the post season. The Freshman Bulls were under the leadership of coaches Ben Bredthauer and Matt Danna. Pictured (from left) are coach Bredthauer, players Oliver Luberger, Stevie Zhang, Grady Higgins, Cade Luton, Cullen Weinstock, Ben Candler, Logan Bredthauer, Hayes Danna, and coach Danna.

Go Swiftie Diamonds Meet the Swiftie Diamonds. This group of basketball playing buddies finished their season in Kingdom Basketball on a strong note. Many of the girls, now in third grade, have played together for a few seasons. The girls started the season in unison with a double header and a double win. Their improvement over the course of their time together was demonstrated on the court. Pictured (front row, from left) are players Grace Henry, Livi Jackson, Madi Jurkash, Rylee Marshall, Vivienne Schreiber, Cleo Hodges, Cathryn Schlosser, Ava Drum; (back row, from left) coaches David Marshall and Foster Schlosser.

Rising star Bowen Landry, a sixth grader at Western Academy, is a rising star in youth sports. Representing Team USA in baseball, he was a starting pitcher in Taiwan, contributing to their victory over Chinese Taipei and earning the gold medal. His talent extends to football, as a member of the Banditos Deleon, the country’s top select team. With a record of 56-1 last season, including a flawless 19-0 start this year, Bowen's baseball team reigns as National Champions. He was recognized as a Perfect Game All-American and a standout at the Perfect Game Select Festival. Bowen was an SBMSA all-star in football.

Editor’s note: Send your best high-resolution photos and behind-the-scenes stories about young local athletes, in both team and individual sports, to SportzBuzz, Jr. at info@thebuzzmagazines.com. Include all contact info, names, ages, grades and schools. Featured athletes must live in Buzz-circulation neighborhoods. Items will be published on a space-available basis.

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Avoiding guardianships of the estate Few parents expect to die before the children are adults, but it happens.

The consequences are horrible, less so if the parents plan.

When one parent dies, the survivor is the natural guardian of the person for minor children. On Dad’s death, Mom doesn’t need a court order to take Junior for his shots. However, Texas does not recognize a natural guardian of the estate, not even Mom. If Dad left anything to Junior, e.g., life insurance, a court order is required for Mom or anyone else to collect and manage it for the minor child. Until then, that inheritance is stranded, and friends and family have to use their money, not the decedent’s, to care for Junior.

Without the least estate plan, the judge typically appoints a guardian of the estate to manage the minor’s money. A guardianship is the most feared proceeding known to the law. The surviving parent has priority, then grandparents and great-grandparents, then next of kin. It’s not automatic, and an application and hearing are required. Once appointed, the guardian has to post a bond, file an inventory, get the court to approve a budget and investment plan, and do an annual accounting. Lawyers, CPAs, and fees are involved, and every year until the ward turns 18 and the guardianship terminates, at which point Junior blows the money anyway. What freshman won’t enjoy being the richest kid in the dorm?

A declaration of guardian for children isn’t required, but parents often sign one, if only to give someone younger or better than Grandma priority.

The form doesn’t avoid a guardianship, it just preempts Grandma.

Best practice is to avoid guardianship of the estate in the first place.

Make any gift to Junior subject to a contingent trust for minor and incapacitated beneficiaries. This doesn’t fit on many beneficiary designation forms. The trust terms are usually set out in a Will, making it a “testamentary” trust. Like the Will, it can be revoked any time until you die; the money’s yours until then, not Junior’s. Better yet, extend the trust to age 25 (or later), so Junior will be more mature than at 18.

Beneficiary designations trump Wills.

After making the Will, change any beneficiary designations from Junior to “The Trustee(s) named in my Will.” Technically, this disinherits Junior, so his trustee can collect the funds without a guardianship. If you make the right Will but forget to change the designations, Junior gets the money anyway, and it may either be stranded until he’s 18 or else decimated by an expensive, avoidable guardianship.

We write wills and go to probate court. Foreign nationals and international families welcome.

Russell W. Hall, J.D., LL.M. (Tax), Board Certified – Estate Planning and Probate Law, Texas Board of Legal Specialization, 6750 West Loop South, Suite 920, Bellaire, Texas 77401, 713.662.3853, bellaireprobate.com/blog

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PLUG IN TO REALITY Sisters Olivia and Emma Mankarious, who attend Memorial High School, started to notice the negative impact of the online world when their younger sister joined social media platforms. Olivia and Emma encourage others to power off phones when they're with family or friends and focus on being present.

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ur generation was raised with smartphones. For many of us, they were in our hands before or during middle school.

Social media, the foundation of our daily lives, has both positive and negative effects on teens today. On one hand, it serves as a powerful and expansive tool for establishing connections, maintaining friendships across distances, and allowing friends and classmates to stay up-to-date on each other’s lives. The ability to share experiences, photos, and thoughts fosters a sense of community and furthers the relationship amongst friends. However, the constant exposure to curated and often unrealistic versions of one’s lives on platforms such as Instagram and TikTok more often than not generates unattainable standards and rids one of a feeling of belonging.

The saddest part about all of this is that, the majority of the time, we don’t realize the negative toll these platforms take on our mental and physical health. It wasn’t until our younger sister began to enter social media platforms that we realized its negative effects. Unfortunately, the online world is impossible to avoid; it’s necessary, but also not great for the youth of our community. We watched as she became engrossed in her following count, her appearance, and online image. This prompted discussions with friends on how being online has affected them.

When asked about their screen time daily average, the overwhelming majority reported that they spent over five hours a day on their phones, with the largest chunk of that time being spent on some form of social media (majority responded

with TikTok being their #1). After getting to know what platforms our friends were spending the most time on, we asked if they had noticed any negative effects. More than one person brought up the unfortunate reality that the more time they spent on social media, the worse their mental health, confidence, and even grades got.

To try and help solve this ever-present dilemma, we have both agreed to power off cell phones when we ae with our family or friends and focus on being present. We encourage others – teens or adults – to join us.

Want to be a Buzz Kid? Email approximately 350 words, a high-resolution photo and caption to info@thebuzzmagazines.com. Or mail it to The Buzz Magazines, 5001 Bissonnet, Suite 100, Bellaire, Texas 77401.

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Hives: chronic vs. acute Have mosquito bite like bumps without mosquitoes buzzing around?

Randomly flaring up with itchy welts on and off for six or more weeks? You may have “chronic” hives.

“Acute” hives occur commonly, go away on their own within a few weeks.

They can be due to a reaction to a food or medicine. Sometimes they are tied to a viral illness.

“Chronic” hives, by definition, happen on and off for six weeks or longer. These more protracted hives may last minutes, hours, or sometimes days before fading away only to return. The process of fading and recurring can go on and on.

First assumption is one might be allergic to something in their environment, diet, or medication list. That could indeed be the case.

However, in many/most cases of hives that come and go for six weeks or longer, the hives are actually random (not due to a specific external trigger).

Chronic hives are common. They may happen to two to four percent of the population. Researchers for years have looked to find the cause. For the last decade-plus, data suggests most of the cases are actually an auto-immune condition. The body makes a protein that recognizes a “self” molecule as “foreign” and triggers the immune system to release chemicals such as histamine that cause the itching and swelling. (In fact, some patients with hives will also have swelling to a more extensive degree leading to a swollen lip or hand, for example.)

Fortunately, most patients with acute hives get over them on their own.

Unfortunately, chronic hives can linger and make life miserable. Chronic hives can go away on their own as well. However, not knowing when, and thus hav-

ing to suffer while waiting, is miserable.

Unfortunately, chronic hives are common.

Luckily, since they are common, lots of research attention has been and still is being paid to them and their treatment. Because of all this research, we have learned when, where, and how to focus our investigative approach and treatment.

There are several currently available treatments (some simple, some more complex) that can be very effective. Additional new treatments are being studied and might come to be available for patient use in the near future.

Until there is a cure, we focus on symptom relief and using the safest medicines possible.

If you think you have allergic hives or autoimmune hives, the doctors and staff at The Allergy Clinic can help you sort things out and make a treatment plan for you.

No one nose allergies like we do.™ Note: Information contained in this article should not be considered a substitute for consultation with a board-certified allergist to address individual medical needs.

Anthony J. Weido, M.D., The Allergy Clinic, 7707 Fannin, Suite 100, Houston, Texas 77054, 713.797.0993, *1200 Binz, Suite 1400, Houston, Texas 77004, 713.522.9911, www.allergyclinic.com, *Operating as Houston Allergy and Asthma Clinic

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Neighborhood Tails Henry, age 3, Goldendoodle Hi y’all! My name’s Henry, and if I’m not your friend already, I’d like to be friends soon. I love getting to know people, dogs, and even cats (although cats don’t always seem to want to play with me as much as I want to play with them). Playing catch is the best and my favorite treat is peanut butter. I don’t really like to eat vegetables, but I like to see them and sniff them when I go to the Memorial Villages Farmers Market with my family on Saturdays. It’s so fun to see people smiling at me, and a lot of them even call me “good dog,” which I am, most of the time. Except when there are squirrels. It’s so hard not to want to run after them and ask them to play. If you see me on a walk in the neighborhood, be sure to say hi!

Got a cute critter? Email a picture of your pet with approximately 150 words to info@thebuzzmagazines.com or mail it to The Buzz Magazines, 5001 Bissonnet, Suite 100, Bellaire, Texas 77401.

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Yorkshire Academy Yorkshire Academy, a private school located in the Memorial area, was established in 1984 with its primary goal being to create an environment in which children can develop to their fullest potential at their own individual rate.

Yorkshire’s tag line, “A Little School Making a Big Impact,” rings true. Yorkshire provides top-notch academics, stellar enrichment classes, and a nurturing environment which makes students feel welcome and secure. Yorkshire strives to develop the whole person, guiding each child with experiences to enhance his or her own self image, whether it be excelling within dynamic classrooms, singing and dancing in amazing musical productions, earning a first-place academic competition ribbon in math, or mastering the latest technology in the computer lab. Yorkshire students graduate with all the tools necessary for middle school success.

Yorkshire’s after-school enrichment program offers classes as diverse as coding, yoga, chess, piano, tae kwon do, golf, and dozens more. Its summer program consists of academics, over 50 enrichment camps, theme-based camps for little ones, and full-time care. These programs are open to the community and attract families from all over the Houston area.

Visit www.yorkshireacademy.com for more information or call 281-5316088 to schedule a personal tour.

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Say hello to our new Docs! Importance of communication Hold onto your teddy bears because PurePediatrics just upped our game! Help us give a warm welcome to our two amazing new doctors, Dr. Sara Curtis and Dr. Roshni Sambasivan! These amazing doctors trained at Texas Children’s Hospital and are now bringing their expertise to provide exceptional concierge pediatric care to your families at our Memorial and Bellaire locations. And the best part? These docs are all about making healthcare a VIP experience for everyone. No more waiting around like a lost toy at the bottom of a toy box!

With our concierge service, you have direct access to your pediatrician day and night, so that you can breathe easy knowing we’ve got your back.

We know your time is valuable, so we've ditched the long wait times and replaced them with easy access/same-day appointments and even housecalls! Our extended appointment times allow us to give your child the unique, personalized care they deserve. You’re not just a number to us. You are a part of our family. So join us, and let us show you how we care for your family differently.

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When Marjorie and Jim (not their real names) started showing signs of failing health, their daughter Susan sat down with them to discuss what kind of care they wanted if the time came when they weren’t able to fully take care of themselves. They didn’t want to leave their home, and they had enough insurance and assets to cover the cost of private, in-home caregivers.

Susan found it uncomfortable bringing up the subject, but if she hadn’t, she wouldn’t have known her parents’ wishes or that they could financially afford what they wanted.

Marjorie and Jim were relieved that Susan had asked them; it allowed them to feel comfortable that they could direct their future care.

This scenario illustrates how essential communication is between adult children and their parents. Having this conversation when your loved one is still able to tell you what they want allows that loved one to maintain some control of their lives if they later become impaired but still cognizant.

That feeling of control and respect is critical for their continued mental and physical well-being.

But there’s another part to this story: Susan’s two siblings were opposed to what Susan told them their parents wanted. Next month, we’ll talk about that.

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Buzz About Town Memorial Markettes Spring Show

Brad Coleman Photography

Join the Memorial High School Markettes dance team (pictured) for the 2024 Spring Show, Can’t Stop the Feeling, on Friday, April 26 at 7 p.m. and Saturday, April 27 at 4 p.m. This fan-favorite, annual event features lyrical, jazz, pom, tap, contemporary, kick, and hip-hop routines and will have you dancing in the aisle.

Grab your favorite dance enthusiast and get tickets before it sells out. Pictured are team members: Yara Aljarrah, Isabella Allon, Ally Arnold, Marilyn Beasley, Ava Brosch, Torie Caesar, Goldie Chandler, Nicola Christenson, Lena Christian, Adaire Cramer, Olive Forrest, Janie Frederickson, Sariya Gamez, Evelyn Gilman, Zoey Gilman, Mary Jordan Green, Hadassah Hernandez, Stella Lee, Peyton LeFevre, Paige Lindsay, Ella Meloy, Myra Mock, Elise Ng, Chloe Nguyen, Sophie Nguyen, Abigail Noyes, Gwyneth Parrish,

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Chloe Phan, Kamila Rueda, Reese Scarborough, Juliana Siwek, Shaylee Svoboda, Carina Swanson, Emma Wells, Aubrey Willburn, Emery Willburn, Meaghan Williams, Sloan Winkler, Caroline Wolfe, and Charlotte Wolfe. Reserved-seat tickets are available at memorialmarkettes.com.

Bow Wow West Event co-chairs Dr. Vasant Garg, Shirin Alavi, and Saied Alavi (pictured, from left; not pictured: Dr. Kim Tran) welcomed animal lovers to the 11th annual Interfaith Ministries Wags & Whiskers brunch and pet fashion show. The sold-out event benefited the Animeals program, which provides pet food, toys, and preventive vet care supplies to the pets of homebound seniors in Interfaith Ministries’ Meals on Wheels program. Dressed in western wear, supporters gathered at the Hotel ZaZa-Museum District

and raised more than $113,000. The Bow Wow West-themed event featured a celebrity pet fashion show, lunch, and silent auction. Walking the catwalk for Interfaith Ministries were Roger Applewhite and Keyser Soze, Ivonne Camarena and Don Cheto the cat, Beth Clark and Yeti, Freddy Cruz and Sparrow, Louise Goldberg and Rosie, Karen Jankowski and Bella Donahue, Kian Tavackoli and Moose, and Beth Wolff and Dandy.

Year of the dragon Students, faculty, and staff at Rummel Creek Elementary (RCE) celebrated Lunar New Year and welcomed the Year (continued on page 66)

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ents through group performances, solos, and celebrate the seniors with a slide show and their famous “Last Dance.” For more information, visit stratfordspartanaires.org.

American Heart centennial

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For the kids

for each economically disadvantaged student at every SBISD Title I and non-Title I pre-kindergarten, elementary, and middle schools, and awarded $319,500 in scholarships to graduating SBISD seniors.

of the Dragon. As students entered the front doors of the school, they were greeted by the bright, colorful display to commemorate the new year and had a chance to learn about the holiday. Parents on the school’s international committee put together the festive decorations, with the help of a talented dragon artist, aiming to help students share their stories and heritages with others.

Pictured are (from left) dragon artist Jason Yeh, Jenny Wang, Minju Guo, Willa Liao, Elaine Chai, and Mary Walker.

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Stratford Spartanaires Spring Show

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The Stratford High School Spartanaires (pictured), under the direction of Ashleigh Friday and Julie Vinyard, are excited to announce their highly anticipated annual spring show. The show is set to take place at 7 p.m. on Apr. 18, 19, and 20 in the Stratford High School auditorium. This year’s show, Simply the Best, celebrates the 50th anniversary of the Spartanaire drill team. The 2024 show is dedicated to 50 years of alumni and will include a reunion luncheon on Saturday, Apr. 20. The Annual Spring Show serves as an opportunity for the team to showcase their tal-

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The annual Spring Branch Education Foundation (SBEF) Sporting Clay tournament raised critical funds for Spring Branch Independent School District (SBISD). Taylor Wright, Todd Moore, and Brent Reed (pictured, from left) enjoyed the event that brought together 45 teams of participants. Led by firsttime co-chairs Stuart Ford and Taylor Wright, the event raised more than $120,000 to support grant funding for campus and district programs.

Co-chair and SBEF board member Stuart Ford is grateful for the support of this important event. “Even when budgets are limited, SBEF funds the initiatives that make our district unique,” he said. For the last eight years, SBEF has given more than $1 million to SBISD annually. In 2023, SBEF also funded every SBISD teacher grant request, provided school supplies

The 2024 Houston Heart Ball, Pulse of the Century, was a huge success. Event chair Kelly Hackett and survivor-honoree Wallis Marsh (pictured) welcomed more than 500 guests to the ballroom at the Hilton Americas to commemorate the 100th anniversary of the American Heart Association. The evening also celebrated the 40th anniversary of the Houston Heart Ball and raised $1.25 million to help fight heart disease and stroke. Guests enjoyed cocktail hour while listening to an electric violin performance by Demola, and then took their seats for the program led by (continued on page 68)

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emcee Khambrel Marshall. After a video introduction of 16 honorees, they all gathered on stage for a standing ovation. Tim Singletary and Joanne Houck, longtime supporters of the American Heart Association, wrapped up the evening with a champagne toast that was followed by a balloon drop and dancing to the Midtown 10 Band.

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Houston Christian HS on stage Members of the cast of Houston Christian High School’s production of Les Misérables (pictured) took the stage for sold-out performances. Starring students Joey DeLongchamps as Jean Valjean, Yianni Rokas as Javert, and Layla Borghese as Fantine, Houston Christian Theatreworks performed the world’s longest-running musical adapted from Victor Hugo’s novel. The operetta was directed by Tommy Tune award-winning director Dr. Bobby Linhart and choreographed

by Melissa Tyler, capturing the central themes of love and redemption, justice, and injustice. A cast and crew of 140 students performed at the Jacob Power

Members of The Junior League of Houston celebrated three enchanted evenings. Elizabeth Kendrick, Ashley Seals, and Amanda Hanks Bayles (pictured, from left) attended the 76th annual charity ball, Enchanted: An Evening Once Upon a Time. Chaired by Ashley Seals, the three-night event held at the Junior League welcomed more than 500 guests and raised more than $800,000 to support people in Greater Houston through 32 community projects and community assistance grants. Guests at the Thursday-night Into the Woods kickoff party enjoyed enchanted-themed cocktails, heavy hors d’oeuvres, a silent auction, dueling pianos, and music from DJ Mohawk Steve. Friday night’s program included live music from Houston-based Radio Live and a big board auction emceed by ABC13 reporter-anchor Briana Conner. The sold-out Saturday program featured live music from Satellite, a five-piece Texas band, and a big board auction emceed by journalist Brandi Smith.

the 24th annual Trailblazers Awards luncheon and fashion show. A record-breaking crowd gathered at The Hilton Americas-Houston for the event benefiting the HLSR. More than 2,000 supporters gathered in the ballroom that was transformed into a fashion-show runway for the Saks Fifth Avenue show. KHOU’s Mia Gradney and Len Cannon emceed the program that included remarks from Rodeo president and CEO Chris Boleman, trailblazer officer-incharge Wendy Lewis Armstrong, and chairman Ann Massey.

state-of-the-art Dunham Theater at Houston Christian University.

Hearts of hope Supporters of Bo’s Place gathered at the Hilton Houston Post Oak to celebrate 34 years of serving the community. Event co-chairs David and Amy Mitchell, Laura and Mark Dalton, Emily and Chad Covey (pictured, from left) enjoyed the Hearts of Hope luncheon and helped raise more than $450,000 to support the nonprofit bereavement center’s grief-support services, education, and resources. Guest speaker Kreis Beall, co-founder of Blackberry Farm, an award-winning Relais & Chateaux resort in East Tennessee, and author of The Great Blue Hills of God: A Story of Facing Loss, Finding Peace, and Learning the True Meaning of Home, inspired the crowd with her experiences of living with grief. The beautiful afternoon honored Lauren and Rob Gray with the Robin Bush Award, given in memory of President George H.W. Bush and Barbara Bush’s daughter.

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by Andria Dilling, staff writer

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Sprucing Up Or, aging isn’t for sissies

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ifty-three, and I finally understand why Nora Ephron felt bad about her neck.* At first, I thought it was just 2020 and Zoom, with all the weird camera angles and screens with colors they tell you “look different than they do in real life.” Surely, the computers created colors and shadows – very unflattering shadows – that didn’t exist naturally.

But four years later, it’s not Zoom. My bathroom mirrors – and car windows, and glass doors, and anything else with reflective surfaces – are verifying what the computer screen suggested. Which is, I have a 53-year-old neck.

Even writing that makes me cringe.

Not for the fact that I’m 53. No, I know far too well that reaching a certain age is something to be thankful for. Not only that, but my mother always told me that after 40, you just don’t care about what so-and-so thinks of your shoes, or whether they’re talking to the other moms about you skipping out on the school auction committee. (Maybe that’s not entirely true: I will always care about the mom who was in the corner at a Halloween party whispering that she couldn’t believe my six-year-old daughter had lice. And I will always smile remembering that her son showed up with bugs in his hair two weeks later. But that’s about my children, not my shoes.)

Also, it’s not so much that I care about what other people think of my neck. It’s just that it looks to me like not me when I catch sight of it – or of the crow’s feet around my eyes or the wrinkles between them or the vertical lines sprouting up and down from my lips. And that is where my experimentation with Botox started.

I’m not new to those shots that are supposed to freeze our muscles in order to freeze our expressions in their youthful states. In fact, I am a multi-year subscriber to the smoothing benefits of a few little pokes of a needle. It’s the best kind of torture. Once, my spin instructor at The Houstonian said, “I want you all working so hard you’re grimacing. That is, those of you who can grimace. You know what I’m talking about.” I did.

What I am new to is the full-on mortification that came a few weeks ago, when the Botox turned on me.

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my mouth plus the bathroom mirror were finally too much. So while I was in the dermatologist’s office to relax the lines between my eyes – simple enough, and something most women I know have at least attempted – I asked if there was anything minor she could do about the lines on my lips, save for fillers, which are another level I didn’t want to reach. Two tiny shots of Botox, she said, and off I was into the world of women with smooth, unpuckered lips.

For a couple of days, I swore I saw what was supposed to be “subtle” improvement, somewhat softened lip lines that surely nobody else would notice, but that made me excited. A few more days into this happy state, my lips and I went to a mah jongg game with new OF A CERTAIN AGE Everyone has a different idea of what “aging gracefully” means. For some women, it includes a little Botox. For actress Diane friends – two women I Keaton, it includes her ubiquitous turtlenecks. knew a little bit, and five For now, there’s Diane Keaton, queen of the more I had never met. We sat down to play, and I turtlenecks. Diane Keaton can make a turtleneck ordered a Diet Coke with a straw, a big treat. That’s look like the chicest thing you could ever wear. But when it happened. I took a sip of Coke, not a giant Diane Keaton is an icon, and most of us would be sip, nothing out of the ordinary, and before I could hard-pressed to pull her look off, especially in swallow, the Coke came spewing out of my new Houston. lips. Not dribbling down my 53-year-old neck but So collars, especially popped, are my dear friends. projecting out onto the mah jongg tiles.

I just need to remember to give them proper proThank God only one of my new friends saw this tection next time I decide to sip a Coke after a visit play out. All I could do was shrug and say, “Botox?” with the dermatologist.

She understood. Also thank God this state only lasted a few days. I am again happy with my lips and *Nora Ephron’s book I Feel Bad About My Neck: unafraid of straws.

And Other Thoughts on Being a Woman was pubSadly, as far as I know Botox doesn’t do anything lished in 2006 and remains a classic account of what it for a turkey neck. There are experts who have other means to age in a world where we often think aging is solutions for that, but they’re out of my comfort something to be “fixed.” zone. At least for now. behance.net/runamokstudios

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