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Real Weddings

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Plan the perfect beach wedding

Vintage Weddings A look back at “I do’s” of yesteryear

Christine Dunkley & Kyle Dailey Danielle O’Hara & Robert Rasamny Elizabeth Simmons & Thomas Smith Lucy Pacheco & Jody Carreiro

Destination Bermuda Kansas natives tie the knot at Stonehole Bay

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BUTTERFIELD WEDDING LOANS Planning the perfect wedding involves a lot more than choosing a venue or photographer.

It’s about creating memories that will last a lifetime. Ensure that your big day is perfect with a customised wedding loan.

Financing for when you’re ready to share…with Butterfield, it’s possible.

To discuss your lending needs, visit a Butterfield Banking Centre or contact us on 298 4799.

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Feat ures 14 The DIY Bride

Do-it-yourself instructions for creating three Bermuda pink-sand-inspired centrepieces

16 The Ultimate Signature Cocktail Master mixologist, Ryan Gibbons, creates wedding cocktails, exclusive to The Bermudian Weddings

On the cover: Danielle O’Hara and Robert Rasamny, photographed

by Amanda Temple. See their Real Wedding story on page 48.

19 Vintage Weddings A look back at Bermuda weddings of yesteryear

24 Just Beachy How to plan the perfect Bermuda beach wedding Local experts share their knowledge and advice

Real Weddings 36 40 44 48

Christine Dunkley & Kyle Dailey Elizabeth Simmons & Thomas Smith Lucy Pacheco & Jody Carreiro Danielle O’Hara & Robert Rasamny

53 The Perfect Bermuda Wedding Nicole Nestler and Thomas Roelofsen tie the knot in a destination Bermuda wedding

Depart ment s

6 Bridal Notes 64 Bridal Blunders 66 Wedding Album 70 Wedding Directory 74 Parting Shot

Spring 2015 Edition www.bermudianweddings.com Tina Stevenson Publisher tina@thebermudian.com Gabrielle Boyer Editor gabrielle@thebermudian.com Laura Bell Art Director laura@thebermudian.com Fiona WOodward Copy Editor Contributors: Gavin Howarth, Sacha Blackburne, Zeudi Hinds, Amanda Temple, Becky Spencer, Kayleigh Scott, Suzan Sickling, Alexander Masters, Ryan Gibbons, Katie Trimingham, Kenneth Fox Jr., Nikki J. Begg, Andy Detzer, Magalie Favresse, Christopher Vee, Gemma Howe

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Bridal Notes

TABS: The Authentic Bermuda Shorts No wedding in Bermuda would be complete without Bermuda shorts!

TABS are a fun, stylish and colourful essential at any Bermuda wedding. Expertly tailored for a flattering, straight-leg fit, the traditional cut is balanced with bold colours and flamboyant linings.

Available in 12 island-inspired shades, you’re sure to find something to match your wedding colours! At TABS, we appreciate how important the details are, and owner Rebecca will happily help you pick the perfect colour for your special day. TABS also make excellent groomsmen’s gifts. The shorts, belt and complementary pocket square come beautifully packaged.

For a personal touch, TABS offers custom embroidery so you can hide a secret message inside the shorts for your husband-to-be, or a

Bermudaful Moments Arrive in style in a vintage chauffeur-driven private car on your wedding day. Bermuda’s most

funny note for the groomsmen. You can even have your new initials sewn onto the back pocket. www.tabs.bm, Rebecca@tabs.bm

luxurious wedding car is the Branford Elite, the only one of it’s kind in Bermuda, belonging to Bermudaful Moments Vintage Car Hire. This classic, vintage car can be hired for all-day service on your wedding day - including chauffeuring the bride to the church; the newlyweds from the church to the reception location; the bride and groom away at the end of the day.

The Branford Elite is driven by a uniformed driver and decorated in ribbons to match the wedding colour scheme. The car is fashioned with a personalised number plate which is attached to the front of the car, displaying the couple’s names and wedding date. In addition, Bermudaful Moments is happy to accommodate any special requests from brides and grooms that will ensure their experience with Bermudaful Moments and the Branford Elite is perfect.

For more information regarding Bermudaful Moments and the Branford Elite, call 441-3335886 or visit www.bermudafulmoments.com.

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Island Trading Laura Farge-Lowe at Island Trading (a newlywed herself ) spoke to us about creating the perfect registry.

What trends are you seeing in couples set-

to actually buy the table. We had eight of their

ting up a registry? We’re finding that a lot of

friends decide to pool together and buy the

couples are getting married in their late twen-

table as a joint gift, but on one condition—they

ties and early thirties and many already own the

all had to be invited over for dinner! The bride

basic household items found on the traditional

and groom were delighted!

wedding gift registry. While everyday items like cutlery, glasses and other tableware are still popular, more couples are choosing to register for items like high-quality outdoor furniture and beautiful decorative items for the home.

What price should the items be on a couple’s registry list? There’s really no right or wrong way to compile a list. We’ve seen couples put everything from a $4 vintage fork to their dream set of outdoor furniture on the same list!

We have items which can suit any budget, so for guests who have already contributed to the wedding in other ways but still want to buy a gift there are always nice options, like a beautiful throw pillow for $45. On the other end of the spectrum, guests can always make their preferred contribution towards your dream set of furniture. Ultimately, your guests won’t mind what the item is as long as they know that you have chosen it and will love it.

There is so much to choose from at Island Trading. What if a couple is unsure of what to put on their registry and afraid of committing? We get that a lot, especially with all the decisions a couple is making during their engagement. We have a fantastic team at Island Trading who can guide you on what works for your life now and what you will continue to enjoy for years to come. But if you really don’t want to commit to specific things on a registry, that’s ok too. We can set up an in-store wedding fund so that your guests can chose an amount and contribute. You can then spend it on whatever you want!

Favourite wedding registry story? Oh, that one’s easy! We had an adorable bride and groom who registered for lots of little everyday items but added one “dream” item—an outdoor teak table to seat 12—not expecting anyone www.bermudianweddings.com

…so much more that just fine Linens

Home Décor • Fine Gifts • Life’s Luxuries Obviously you have great taste!

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Davidrose Jewelry Your love is one of a kind; your ring should be, too. Located in the historic town of St. George’s, Davidrose has a growing reputation as one of Bermuda’s most exciting jewellery boutiques. They carry an exquisite selection of engagement rings and wedding bands, which can be customised to reflect your personal style. Davidrose offers private appointments to ensure that you receive the full attention you deserve to create your custom ring. To make an appointment, call 441-293-7673 or e-mail info@davidrose.bm, or visit at 20 Water Street, St. George’s.

Bermuda Event Solutions Your wedding day is all about the two of you, which is why Bermuda Event Solutions believes that you should be able to soak up every pre-

The English Sports Shop Every man deserves to look his best on his wedding day. The English Sports Shop has a wide

cious moment with family and friends while they take care of the rest. Planners Kathleen Dodwell and Emily Boden work tirelessly to

range of exquisitely tailored tuxedos available to rent or have custom-made for the groom and

tailor their extensive resources to your exact

his groomsmen. If a suit is more your style, let the experienced tailors in the Alexandre depart-

needs, and remain on hand at all times to deal

ment help you find the perfect style, colour and fit with their Alexandre Collection of ready-

with any new ideas. Choose between their full

made suits. Better yet, why not have a unique made-to-measure suit created just for you from

planning services and “day-of ” option for those

their extensive range of cloths, in any style you desire and all the details you love? Slim fit, extra

who have done most of the organising them-

pockets, thin lapels—you deserve to look incredible. Because it is your big day, too. Call 441-

selves. For more information, call 441-236-

295-5963 for an appointment.

9469 or visit www.weddingsolutions.bm.

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SHelly Hamill Shelly Hamill was named The Bermudian Magazine’s Best of Bermuda Award recipient twice for Best Bridal Consultant between the mid-1990s and 2009 when she owned and ran her own wedding planning service.

After so many years and so many weddings, Shelly began to crave something more permanent. While her business was thriving, she was eager for something to enjoy longer than an evening. Now Shelly is a full time mosaic artist. You may have seen Shelly’s tile mosaic dress sculptures previously at Rosewood Tucker’s Point and now at the Windjammer II Gallery at the Fairmont Hamilton Princess. Recently Shelly’s two worlds collided when a mother of the bride requested a commission mosaic sculpture of her daughter’s wedding dress. Shelly creates wedding dress commissions as gifts for the bride both on the wedding day and as a way to commemorate a very special dress after the festivities. Whether you are getting married now or you were married 50 years ago, let Shelly recreate your gown in a way to cherish every day. www.shellyhamill.com www.bermudianweddings.com

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Bridal Notes The Irish Linen shop The Irish Linen Shop has been furnishing Bermuda homes since May 24, 1949. The harbourfront store, located on Front Street, adjacent to the bird cage, is laden with luxurious home goods, house wares and divine accoutrements.

For generations, newlywed homes have been fashioned in fine linens and good quality furniture selected from The Irish Linen Shop. Present day brides and grooms choose items from The Irish Linen Shop for their bridal registry and future home. Brands such as Mariposa, Oomph, Julia B., Cire Trudon and many more, line the walls and fill every nook and cranny of the little shop.

For more information about brands sold at The Irish Linen Shop or purchasing for a bridal registry, visit the store at 31 Front Sreet, Hamilton or call 441-295-4089.

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Fiander Foto With over 15 years of photographic experi-

may not want to rush the portraits that will

ence, Melanie Fiander of Fiander Foto offers a

be taken of just the two of them. After the

professional, fun and unobtrusive approach to

wedding is over, the new “Mr. and Mrs.” have

engagement and wedding photography. Shot in

an option to book a bridal portrait shoot at a

both the photojournalistic and traditional styles,

unique location! This type of photo session

Melanie’s photo packages include ample shoot-

allows the couple to get dressed up again and

ing time to ensure that all of the couple’s special

have a one-on-one photo shoot with Melanie in

moments are captured throughout the day.

a relaxed atmosphere.

High-resolution images are delivered directly

If you are interested in having Melanie

to the bride and groom for safekeeping and

as your engagement and/or wedding pho-

custom-made wedding albums are also available!

tographer, feel free to contact her at info@

One’s Wedding Day has a tendency to fly by quickly—from getting ready, to the ceremony,

Beautiful, memorable and as unique as you.

fianderfoto.com or visit her website at www. fianderfoto.com.

speeches, and reception. As a result, a couple

The Bridal Suite Bermuda Since 1989, the weddings created by The Bridal Suite Bermuda have inspired style and originality. Their creative team is superb at designing stress-free weddings and providing inspiration that explores all your innovative ideas, making planning seamless and enjoyable. They make magic happen. Call 441-292-2025 or visit www.bridalsuitebermudaweddings.com.

All theTrimmings WEDDINGS & EVENTS

We specialize in event, proposal and full scale wedding planning, offer hourly consults and day management services.

All the Trimmings offers the assistance that caters personally to your needs as we strive to make each event magical and original. katie@allthetrimmings.bm (441)535-9992 www.allthetrimmings.bm

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Award-winning gifts for your special occasion.

Bermuda Pepper Jams for your wedding favours and bridal party gifts.

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Destination Wedding Bermuda Demco and All the Trimmings have joined together to launch Destination Wedding Bermuda (DWB), a full-service planning company born out of the passion to provide optimum service to destination wedding couples. Demco’s team of accomplished floral designers partnered with Katie Trimingham of All the Trimmings to provide brides with the highest quality of floral designs and decora-

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The team at DWB ensures every detail is meticulously attended to as they coordinate your wedding day. Whether you envision a simple ceremony with just the two of you or an opulent occasion, Destination Wedding

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Wedding DIY

The DIY Bride

Bermuda pink-sand-inspired do-it-yourself wedding centrepieces

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Disclaimer: Removing sand from any of Bermuda’s beaches without a permit is illegal. Collect sand lawfully either by obtaining a permit or purchasing bottled Bermuda sand from local souvenir shops.

Before you begin any of these do-it-yourself projects, make sure you rinse sand thoroughly to remove any salt or impurities.

« Three-part Cylindrical Centrepiece What you will need: • Three cylindrical glass vases of different heights • Pink sand • Round stickers, two inches in diameter • Two floating candles • Half a dozen long-stemmed pale pink roses • Glue Directions: Using glue, cover one vase in pink sand three-quarters of the way up the glass. (We painted the glue on with a paintbrush for even application and then rolled vase around in the sand.)

When sand has dried, fill vase with water parallel to the sand

Hurricane Lantern

line. Place roses in vase.

What you will need:

Directions:

in desired pattern. Next, cover both vases completely in pink

• Glass hurricane lantern

Cover pillar candle completely in

sand. When vases are dry, remove stickers to reveal a polka-dot

• White pillar candle

pink sand. Place candle inside hur-

pattern. Fill both vases with water. Float lighted candles in both

• Pink sand

ricane lantern and light. Arrange

vases.

• Flowers of your choice

flowers and votives around the

• Glue

outside of the hurricane lantern in

• Votive candles covered in pink sand

desired fashion.

Cover the second and third vases in round stickers, arranging

Arrange all three vases so that the first vase with the roses is in the centre and the polka-dotted vases are on either side.

» Floating Rose Centrepiece What you will need: • Fishbowl vase • Shells • Pale pink roses (big blooms if possible)

Directions: Fill the fishbowl halfway with water.

Cover the bottom of the fishbowl with a couple of

• Pink sand

handfuls of pink sand. Place

• Glue

the shells in the centre of the

Place the rose so that it looks as though it is blooming from the shells. Secure with oasis if necessary.

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Cocktail hour

The Ult imate Signature Cocktail Bermuda’s master mixologist, Ryan Gibbons of Barracuda Grill, serves up wedding-inspired cocktails, exclusive to The Bermudian Weddings.

The Pre-Nup A champagne cocktail based on the popular

heat and let simmer. Stir continuously until

local combination of ginger beer and grenadine

all sugar has dissolved and the mixture has

but with a twist. Start by making ginger and

thickened slightly. Remove from heat and let

pomegranate syrup to add sweetness to the

mixture cool, adding the orange twists. Pour

champagne.

the cool mixture through a fine tea strainer or

8 ounces pomegranate juice 3 tablespoons freshly grated ginger 1 cup superfine or baker’s sugar Orange peel twists 1 ounce vodka (optional) In a small saucepan, combine the sugar, juice and grated ginger. Place over medium

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cheesecloth to remove pulp and transfer the cool mixture to an easy-squeeze bottle for fast serving. The syrup can be kept refrigerated for up to two weeks and can be used to augment champagne or any neutral soft drink.

Mix a half ounce of syrup to six ounces of champagne. Serve in a coupe or flute with a lime twist garnish.

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The Best Man

Man Go to the Moon A pitcher-style sharing beverage that

Something Old, Something New

A heavy cocktail, perfect to toast the

Love Blossomed

groom-to-be and his men

incorporates the sweetness of fresh

Classic champagne cocktail,

mango

reimagined

outdoor wedding

1 cup freshly squeezed lime juice

2 teaspoons muddled blueberries

¾ ounce sweet vermouth

1¾ cups simple syrup

2 ounces of Grey Goose Cherry

Fee Brothers Aztec Chocolate

2 cups Bacardi Mango Fusion

1½ ounces Dewar’s Highlander Honey Scotch

Bitters In a mixing glass filled with ice, combine all ingredients and stir.

Transfer liquid ingredients to a chilled tumbler with fresh ice (large cubes if possible). Garnish with toasted orange peel and a

Noir

A light, citrusy cocktail, great for an

1½ ounces Ketel One Oranje 1 ounce St-Germain Elderflower Liqueur ½ ounce lime juice

1 cup Bermuda Gold

1½ ounces lemon or lime juice

2 cups mango puree

1 ounce simple syrup

2½ cups pineapple juice

Champagne

1 dash aromatic bitters

Cherry bitters (optional)

cocktail shaker with ice. Shake

Muddle blueberries in a mixing

wine glass and garnish with orange

glass. Combine all ingredients

twist and lemon-oil sprits (pinch

except the champagne and give

lemon peel over the glass so that

3-4 dashes orange or spicy pineapple bitters (optional) Fresh mint

Orange bitters Combine all ingredients in vigorously. Strain into a white

cherry. Serve.

Mix liquid ingredients in a blender

a quick shake over ice. Pour into

Note: This drink can be served

without ice. Pour into pitcher.

the zest is extracted into the

a collins glass of fresh ice. Top

up but because of the thickness of

Spank mint to release oils and stir

cocktail). Serve.

with champagne. Cocktail should

the honey, it works best with slow

into the mix. Serve chilled over ice.

have a bluish-violet hue from the

dilution—so the bigger the ice

Garnish with a pineapple and mint

blueberry pulp. Garnish with long

cubes, the better.

skewer. Serve.

lemon spiral. Serve.

Voted Bermuda’s best bartender in the 2014 Best of Bermuda Awards for the second consecutive year, Ryan Gibbons and his creative cocktails are known island-wide. The senior bartender and head mixologist of Barracuda Grill was hand-selected

by Philip Barnett, president of Island Restaurant Group to take over from long serving bartender and Bermudian legend, Earl (Happy Jack) Godfrey who retired in 2012. Since then, Ryan has become a bartending legend in is own right. www.bermudianweddings.com

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Vintage weddings

Bermuda Weddings Looking Back at

of Yesteryear

The Bermudian and The Bermudian Weddings magazines have been celebrating Bermuda brides since 1930. Over the last 84 years we’ve printed the island’s most prominent, most memorable and most daringly fashionable unions.

Here we take a look back at these weddings and reminisce about what it was like to say “I do” in old Bermuda.

April 1930 Miss Doris Rosabelle Harnett, daughter of the Hon. and Mrs. L. B. Harnett of “Glynhir,” Pembroke, became the bride of Mr. John Gianella of Brooklyn, New York. The service took place at Wesley Church, with a reception at “Glynhir.”

1937

October 27, 1938 At St. Paul’s A. M. E. Church, Miss Catherine Olivia Louise Cannonier, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. George Cannonier of Warwick East, married Mr. Edward Henry Simons, son of Mr. and Mrs. Chas.

E. Simons. A reception was held at Charleston in Paget, the home of the bridegroom’s parents. Music was provided by an orchestra conducted by Harry Foster.

Mr. and Mrs. John G. Young

1940 Mr. and Mrs. Alfred Birdsey

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DID YOU KNOW?

Moongates became popular in the 1920s when the Furness Withy travel company commissioned the Duke of Westminster’s gardener to landscape the gardens of the old Bermudiana Hotel. The moongate idea was imported from China, and the first was erected at what is now the west entrance to Par-la-Ville Park. Local legend has it that a bride and a groom should make a wish and walk through a moongate on their wedding day.

February 2, 1950

April 10, 1950

Miss Frances Elizabeth Ashmore of Cardiff, Wales, became the bride of Mr. Henry James Tucker III, son of Mr. and Mrs. H.J. Tucker, Jr. of Paget. The Rev. Mr. Leslie Gunner officiated at the ceremony, assisted by the Rev. Mr. David Evans of St. John’s Church, Pembroke.

Later some eight hundred guests flocked to the Tucker home, The Lagoon. Music was provided by the Talbot Brothers.

Miss Patricia Joan Selley, daughter of Mrs. Ethel Selley of Pembroke and the late John Selley, married John Elliot (Shot) Cooper, son of Mr. and Mrs. Ross Cooper of Shelly Bay. The ceremony took place at The Cathedral of the Most Holy Trinity with a reception at the English Speaking Union, Cedar Avenue.

January 1960 October 1964 Miss Rosamond Wendy Walker, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Bernard W. Walker of Paget, wed Mr. Michael Anthony Butt, son of Mr. and Mrs. Herbert R. Butt of Richmond Hill, Ontario, at Christ Church in Devonshire. After the wedding, a reception was held at Pomander Gate, Paget.

At St. John’s Church, Pembroke, Miss Cornelia Ann Cooper, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. C. E. Hinson Cooper of Paget, became the bride of Mr. J. Warren Young, son of Admiral and Mrs. Edwin J. S. Young of Orange Park, Jacksonville, Fla. The ceremony was performed by Canon E. N. B. Chapman, with Mr. David Wadson at the organ. The choir of the Bermuda High School for Girls was directed by Miss Gladys Tatem.

DID YOU KNOW?

The custom of getting to and from the wedding by horse and buggy started, naturally enough, back when it was the best way to get around the island. In those days, a large carriage would transport the groom and his attendants to the wedding, then go and pick up the bride and her party. This way the bride could be sure the groom was already at the church, waiting for her.

1966

1969

Mr. and Mrs. Eugene Simmons

Mr. and Mrs. Richard S. L. Pearman

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DID YOU KNOW?

For hundreds of years, brides and grooms in Bermuda have planted the Bermuda cedar tree on their wedding day. The tradition became more important after juniper scale wiped out almost every cedar on the island in the 1940s.

1955 Mr. and Mrs. George McLean Holmes 1956

1952 Mr. and Mrs. Warren Brown

DID YOU KNOW?

One of the most brilliant weddings of 1956 took place at Holy Trinity Church, Hamilton Parish, when Miss Josephine Diana Wilkinson, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. H. Bernard Wilkinson of Bailey’s Bay, became the bride of Mr. Edwin Jay Gould, son of Mrs. John Metler Sturgeon III of Rose Hill Plantation, Bluffton, N.C., and the late Mr. Frank Miller Gould of New York. A specially chartered Pan American World Airways plane brought members of the wedding party and guests from New York and took them home after the nuptials.

The first flight to Bermuda from the USA didn’t happen until April 1, 1930, and commercial flights to and from Bermuda didn’t commence until May 17, 1937; before then, all goods imported to the island had to arrive by ship, making importing flowers costly. Local brides used what grew locally instead, predominately Easter lilies, ferns, stephanotis, white roses and orange blossom.

1956 In Christ Church, Devonshire, Miss Penelope Joan Smith, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. T. Christopher Smith of Warwick East, became the bride of Mr. John Lewis Duhring, son of Mrs. Edwin L. Duhring of Philadelphia, Pa., and the late Mr. Duhring. The church was beautifully decorated with white and yellow gladioli and magnolia blossoms. After the ceremony, a reception was held at Thurlestone, home of the bride’s parents.

July 1972 At Christ Church, Warwick, Miss Dinah Jane Trainer Williams, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Ronald John Williams of Somerset, was married to Mr. Bryan Robert Darby, son of the Rev. and Mrs. Owen Darby of Northfleet, Kent, Eng. After the wedding, a reception was held at the home of the bride’s parents. www.bermudianweddings.com

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May 14, 1989 Miss Sharon Ismay Marie Rhonda, daughter of Mrs. Gertrude Rhonda, wed Mr. Arthur Reginald Eugene Bean at Christ Church, Devonshire.

October 1982 At Christ Church, Warwick, Holly Anne Havemeyer Darling, daughter of Lt. Col. Michael Darling and Mrs. Holly Webb, became the bride of Michael Ernest Barany, son of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas E. Barany of Napton, Warwickshire, Eng. After the ceremony, a reception was held at “Lancashire Lodge,” the Warwick home of the bride’s grandmother, Mrs. Leslie Darling.

February 1996 Laquita Bean wed Kevin Hill in a ceremony at Astwood Cove. The ceremony included a performance by the Empress Menen Dancers and Mandela Freedom Drummers.

A reception followed with more performances and an elegant three-tiered pound and fruitcake.

1998 Myles Cooper and Sarah Kempe 1998

1998

Dana George and Julie Corday

Ernest Trott and Oneka Paynter

DID YOU KNOW?

2000 Reginald Horseman and Suzanne Hollis

2000

During the Second World War, The Bermudian magazine took great measures to stay in publication despite financial hardships. As part of those measures, the magazine was downgraded in size and most editorial was published without accompanying photographs.

Full-page wedding announcements were also given the axe and replaced with The Bermudian’s “Milestones” section, featuring short blurbs announcing engagements, weddings, births and deaths.

Raymond Packwood and Tracy Bean

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on location

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Photo by Gavin Howarth

A beach wedding in Bermuda is a dream residing in the hearts and minds of brides-to-be both on-island and abroad, but how easy is it to pull off? We consulted Bermuda’s top wedding experts on what it takes to plan a perfect Bermuda beach wedding, including the differences between a private and public location and advice from wedding planner, Katie Trimingham.

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With the heat and humidity associated

it pulled back off the face. Side swept and softly

with Bermuda’s climate, wearing a

pinned always makes for a stunning style.

heavy wedding dress may not be the best option for a beach wedding. What is the appropriate beach wedding attire for bride, groom and wed-

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ding attendants?

Brides should consider a looser dress, something light and flowing that does

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Q

Obviously, high heels aren’t practical for a beach wedding but are there alterna-

tives that are more sophisticated than flip-flops?

With most gowns you can’t see your feet anyway so I say lose the shoes

not cling to the body. Avoid heavy fabrics, such

completely and bury your toes in the sand! For

as lace or a fully beaded bodice that will weigh

those in a shorter gown or those who don’t like

the dress down. For the groom and his merry

bare feet, grab some soleless sandals. For those

men, there is nothing wrong with showing

who insist on heels, skip the stiletto and go with

PUBLIC VERSUS PRIVATE

some skin in a good old-fashioned pair of

a thick wedge to avoid sinking in the sand.

Public Beaches: West Whale Bay, Horseshoe Bay, Chaplin Bay, Stonehole Bay, Jobson’s Cove, Warwick Long Bay and Elbow Beach. Bookings can be made by obtaining a special permit from the Department of Parks in the Botanical Gardens. The wedding fee is $25.Telephone: 441-236-4201 Private Beaches: Rosewood Tucker’s Point, Mid Ocean Club, Coral Beach Club, The Reefs, Elbow Beach Hotel, Fairmont Southampton Resort, Pompano Beach Club, Coco Reef, Grotto Bay, Grape Bay, Windsor Beach, Cambridge Beaches and Surf Side.

Bermuda shorts. If the groom insists on wearing long pants then linen or cotton is the way to go.

My advice to wedding guests is to wear something lightweight and bright. Beach weddings tend to be less formal, so guests shouldn’t be afraid to bring out the sundresses and shorts.

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When considering décor for a beach ceremony and reception, what can you suggest to include and avoid?

When most people think of beachthemed wedding centrepieces, they

Take advantage of your natural surroundings

envision sand, seashells, starfish and sea glass.

and wear bright colours like aquamarine, blue,

Whilst these are fabulous items, they’re not

turquoise, and, terra cotta, fuchsia, lime green,

the only way to capture the essence of the

pink or tangerine. These colours in a pattern or

scenery. Beautiful floral centrepieces accented

print such as polka dots, stripes, or bold floral

delicately with shells are a great way to enhance

prints are all unique but appropriate options.

the beauty of the location, without going over

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the top.

Should brides consider wearing a veil at a beach wedding?

To quote Randy Fenoli: “Without a veil, you’re just a pretty girl in a white

dress.” As much as I love a flower crown, there’s

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What rules and regulations must be followed in order to have a beach wedding?

In order to have a wedding on a public beach, you must first obtain a park

just something left to be desired when a bride

permit. The terms and conditions include the

forgoes her veil, especially when she’s coming

following:

down the aisle. The good news is that brides

•P ermits are issued on a first come, first served

can purchase fabulous little gem weights that

basis. A specific area within a beach or park

clip onto the end of the veil to weigh it down so

may not be reserved except by permission

that the wind doesn’t blow it all over the place.

of the parks officer prior to the date of the

To avoid overheating, brides should consider a

function (such as a wedding or similar large

lightweight, mid-length veil.

event).

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•P ermits expire at midnight on the day for How should a bride and her bridesmaids style their hair for the wedding?

Wind, humidity, and sweat can cause bridal-hair mayhem. Long, beautiful,

beach waves could fall flat before a bride even

which they are approved.

• Th e removal of litter produced at the event is the responsibility of the permit holder. All refuse must be disposed of in a proper manner.

•A ll barbequing must be done with proper

makes it down the aisle. Instead, consider a

metal barbeque equipment. Coals and ashes

loose wavy updo, or opt for a long style but have

must be extinguished and properly disposed

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Advantages of Getting Married at a Private Beach • Can be cost-effective if you’re having a big wedding with lots of details, as many things can be provided on-site.

• Private clubs and hotels usually work from a preferred list of vendors, making selection easy for you.

• Teams of people are already on-site, ready to set up and break down your wedding.

• Private; you don’t risk dealing with the public.

• No need to supply generators; electricity is provided by the venue.

• Weather-contingent space is readily available on-site.

Advantages of Getting Married at a Public Beach • Can be cost-effective if you’re having a small wedding without too many details.

Public beaches can be rented for just $25 through Bermuda’s Department of Parks.

• Can select your own vendors rather than having to choose from a list of approved vendors provided by a hotel or private club.

• Can customise the venue, creating your own dress code and décor.

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on location of. (Please do not bury hot coals in the sand or throw them in the ocean.)

•A ll campfires/bonfires must be in or on

to their seats for the start of the ceremony.

should open fires be built directly on the

inexpensive. They are the perfect way for guests

sand.

to get a little shade during a hot summer day,

or beaches and/or the tranquility of the site.

•N o generators are to be used and no live bands are permitted.

• Alcohol may not be sold.

For a wedding on a private beach, you will

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that guests can collect on their way

They come in a multitude of colours and are

so as not to disturb other visitors to the park

A sand ceremony involves a symbolic blending of two differently coloured sands into a single vessel. The meaning is clear: the blending of two different beings, the bride and the groom, into a single, inseparable unit that is their marriage, the joining of their lives. As hard as it would be to separate those grains of sand, that’s how difficult it is to separate these two people. The sand ceremony usually takes place after the exchange of rings and the vows (although it can take place before or even during the vows), and lasts just a couple of minutes.

A basic sand ceremony involves three (typically glass) vessels—one holding the bride’s sand, one holding the groom’s sand, and an empty one that will soon hold both—all sitting on a small table or stand. It goes something like this: The officiate explains the meaning of the ceremony and how it relates to the two people getting married. The officiate invites the groom to pour a bit of his sand (let’s call it blue sand) into the empty vessel. The officiate invites the bride to do the same with her sand (let’s say it’s pink). The bride and groom then pour their sands at the same time, in a single stream, into the vessel. The officiate closes the ceremony with some words about the inextricable joining of their lives.

The end result is a glass container holding one layer of blue sand (the groom), one layer of pink sand (the bride), and a top layer of purple sand, showing how the joining of the two has created a new, equally beautiful entity.

Make the sand ceremony special to your wedding by incorporating sands from favourite beaches around the island, by inviting each member of the wedding party to add sand to the container to commemorate the special place they hold in your new life together, or by coordinating the sand colours to the wedding colour scheme.

My personal favourite is paper parasols

a metal surface. Under no circumstances

•M usic must be played at a reasonable volume,

BERMUDA SAND CEREMONY

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need permission from the venue or the owner and each venue will have its own set of regulations.

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but they’re not so big that they block everyone’s view of the wedding.

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Obviously, transporting large quantities of furniture to the beach is not ideal;

however, tables and chairs are a necessity for any function. What is the best kind of furniture to use

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and where can one rent it?

For a beach ceremony, I would recommend a white folding chair simply to

avoid sinking, as they do not have spindle legs.

If a couple is getting married on a public

Mark Bell from Undercover Tent Rentals is

beach, what are the best ways to avoid

the person to contact for these; however, many

the public and gain as much privacy as possible?

hotels and private clubs that offer their private

Public beaches are most crowded on

beach as a location for a wedding do have their

holiday weekends, so avoid holidays

own inventory.

unless you want the general public in attendance. On any given day, though, at any public beach, it’s hard to avoid onlookers as people are simply fascinated when they see a wedding taking place. When scouting for a beach location,

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What are the best ways to prepare for the wind at a beach wedding?

Unfortunately with any outdoor event, wind is inevitable. Always prepare for

be sure to choose a semi-private spot, such as

wind because anything that can blow away

behind a cliff. While it’s impossible to ensure

will. If you’re using ceremony programmes,

complete privacy most onlookers are respect-

weigh them down with a shell or tie them to

ful and likely won’t be hanging around for the

the chairs with a ribbon. If you’re planning on

entire event. If it is imperative that you have

lining the aisle with petals, be sure to have the

complete privacy, then a public beach is not the

florist sprinkle these at the last possible mo-

spot for you.

ment just before the guests arrive.

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Considering weather, what are the best months of the year for a beach wedding?

What are the best times of the day?

June is my favourite beach wedding month. It is lovely and warm but not

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What audio equipment should one rent to ensure that guests can hear vows,

speeches and readings effectively?

A simple lavalier microphone and a small speaker should suffice. No need to

too hot or as humid as it is in July and August.

ruin the ambiance with a giant sound system and

Aim for a late afternoon or early evening cer-

speakers surrounding your guests. You are out-

emony to avoid the direct heat. After 5:00 p.m.,

doors to enjoy the beauty of nature. Let the gentle

you’ll find it starts to cool down.

breeze carry your vows for everyone to hear.

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What are the best ways to provide shade to guests?

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Of course, if it rains, a beach wedding needs to be moved indoors or covered. www.bermudianweddings.com

What are your suggestions for a beach wedding

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back-up plan?

Finding a covered location that is close to the ocean and has incredible views is

certainly not hard in Bermuda. There are many venues that are literally right on the beach, too.

When scouting for locations be sure to consider

as opposed to just a ceremony.

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What are some of the most common mistakes couples make when planning a

beach wedding?

Not providing shade or fans for guests; not providing water for guests; plan-

booking a venue that has a suitable back-up

ning a long ceremony on a hot summer day;

space that will still give you the feeling that

not providing seating for guests; not having a

you are having a beach wedding. Alternatively

weather-contingent location; and not wearing

there is always the option to tent your beach

appropriate attire for the climate.

wedding.

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What are the best ways to ensure that guests have access to restrooms at a beach

wedding?

The good news is that most public beaches have restrooms, and of

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Considering the weather and the elements, are there certain flowers to avoid

completely for centrepieces, décor and bouquets?

No, you can use any kind of flower you like; it just depends on what you

plan to use it for. For instance, fresh cut stems

course, any private venue will have toilet fa-

not placed in water and left in the sun for any

cilities. This is definitely something you want

length of time are going to wilt quickly. How-

to consider when scouting locations though,

ever, floral pieces, such as the bridal bouquet,

especially if you are having a beach reception

that can be placed in water at certain times

BEACH WEDDING SANDAL A beach wedding includes sand, and lots of it, which doesn’t bode well for brides wishing to wear high heels down the aisle. Instead, ditch the heels and opt for beach sandals. Our favourites include: Jack Rogers sandals (pictured above) available at Lusso, 51 Front Street, Hamilton, 441-295-6734.

Alexandra Mosher Fera Collection Barefoot Jewellery Sandals available at Alexandra Mosher Studio Jewellery, Washington Mall West, Lower Level, 7 Reid Street, Hamilton, 441-236-9009, www.alexandramosher.com.

Weddings in Paradise at Elbow Beach Resort.

Exquisite wedding planning services are available at Bermuda’s premier intimate luxury beach resort.

Contact Information: 441-239-9031 esims@elbowbeachbermuda.com

60 South Shore Road, Paget PG 04, Bermuda.

Telephone (441) 236-3535 800-223-7434 Facsimile (441) 236 8043 Website: www.elbowbeachbermuda.com

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on location for a refresh won’t wither and will last longer.

Centrepieces aren’t of so much concern since they’re already in water.

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What food works best for a beach wedding?

the laid- back beach vibe and it’s so much fun.

theme when having a beach wedding?

You definitely want to make sure you have food

Absolutely not! Go for a bright floral

that is easy to keep cool on ice or warm with a

theme to create a vivid contrast to

sterno so that it stays fresh.

romantic feel stick with whites, blushes, pinks and corals to compliment Bermuda’s perfectly pink sand.

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Appetizers

is definitely the way to go. It keeps with

Do you have to have a beach/nautical

the turquoise ocean, or for a softer and more

BEACH WEDDING MENU

Whether plated or buffet, having BBQ

Grilled Caprese skewers Shrimp cocktail Seafood bar Sushi bar Lobster bisque

Which Bermuda vendors are best/most

Mains

experienced at putting together beach

weddings?

Fresh Bermuda fish Fish and chips Seafood pasta Bermuda lobster

Demco Florist and Class Act Designs.

These ladies and gents can do it with

their eyes closed.

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What are some of the best private

Tucker’s Point, Coral Beach and Ten-

Beach.

BEACH CHUPPAH A chuppah is a canopy beneath which Jewish marriage ceremonies are performed.

However, you don’t have to be Jewish in order to say “I do” underneath your own wedding chuppah.

The simplest form of chuppah is one that is constructed of four poles, with a canopy of light fabric draped across the top. The more elaborate chuppahs are adorned in flowers, crystals and chandeliers and can be big enough to fit several people underneath.

The perfect beach wedding chuppah is simple, ethereal and complimented by only a few flowers strategically placed. Drape your chuppah in soft white fabric, which will give a warm, romantic feeling to your wedding ceremony. Add a few blooms in the colour of your choice (coordinating with your colour scheme). Be careful not to go overboard when decorating your chuppah; allow the backdrop of the Atlantic Ocean to take centre stage.

What are some of the best public beaches at which to get married?

Jobson’s Cove, Warwick Long Bay, Hog Bay, St. Catherine’s Beach, Coo-

per’s Island Nature Reserve and Whale Bay.

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Good old tiki torches and lots of candles! The tikis are also great for

keeping pesty flies away, too.

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What are some of the most accessible beaches at which to get married (bearing

in mind those who are disabled or have trouble

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with lots of stairs)?

What are some of the best ways to make a cake last through a beach wedding?

For a beach wedding, or any outdoor

John Smith’s Bay, St. Catherine’s Beach, Horseshoe Bay and Warwick

Long Bay.

wedding for that matter, you should

stay away from whipped cream, meringue, and

Katie Trimingham is the

butter-cream because they melt. A fondant

founder of All the Trim-

cake is the best option; however, in a climate

mings, a wedding and events

as humid as ours it’s inevitable that the cake is

planning company, which was

going to “sweat.” Always allocate a shady spot

launched in 2013 as a product

for the cake table, preferably under some sort of

of Trimingham’s love for parties and events. “I

cover and have the caterers bring the cake out

want to provide exceptional services to all of my

at the last possible second to help preserve its

clients and make their special day as unique and

appearance.

memorable as possible.”

Q

How do you light a beach reception taking place where there is no artificial

lighting already in place?

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Smores Grilled pineapple Bermuda sherbet

The Mid Ocean Club, Rosewood

Beaches Resort and Spa, The Reefs and Elbow

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Dessert

beaches at which to get married?

nis Club, Grotto Bay Beach Resort, Cambridge

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(not available year-round)

All the Trimmings 441-535-9992, www.allthetrimmings.bm Katie@allthetrimmings.bm www.bermudianweddings.com

DIY BEACH WEDDING BOUTONNIERE What you will need: • Clippings from Bermuda cedar tree or plant of your choosing • Ribbon • Replica of a starfish, available from home décor stores and local gift shops • Hot glue • Scissors Directions: Group plant clippings, holding stems tightly together. Wrap ribbon around stems of the clippings a few times. Trim excess ribbon and fasten with hot glue. Attach starfish replica to front with hot glue.

BERMUDA SEA GLASS CANDY RECIPE

Razor-sharp tailoring in Bermuda

Yields roughly three-quarters of a pound of candy — perfect for wedding favours!

Ingredients: • • • • •

1 cup sugar 1/3 cup light corn syrup 6 tbsps water Food colouring 1 tsp flavouring oil (depending on how strong you like the flavour) • Non-stick cooking spray • Powdered sugar for dusting Lightly spray a small metal pan with nonstick spray.

Combine the sugar, water and corn syrup in the non-stick saucepan over medium heat. Stir until the sugar dissolves.

When it begins to simmer, attach a candy thermometer to the edge of the saucepan.

When the mixture reaches 250°F, add food colouring. Don’t stir; the bubbling action will distribute the colour for you.

Once the thermometer reads 300°F, add flavouring and stir. Immediately pour the bubbling mixture into prepared pan and let cool.

When fully cooled, cover with a piece of parchment paper and hit with a mallet.

Collect the pieces of candy and brush with powdered sugar. To store the candy, place in an airtight container and keep at room temperature. www.bermudianweddings.com

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Tel: 295-5963 for an appointment.

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George’s, 441-293-7673 4. Fera Collection Floral Hairpins, starting at $135.00, Alexandra Mosher Stuido Jewellery, Washington Mall West, Lower Level, 7 Reid Sreet, Hamilton, 441-236-9006.

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3. Captain Mugs by Tervis Tumbler, $22.00, Island Trading, 93 Reid Street East, Hamilton, 441-292-0400 4. Triangle Gift Pack, $21.95–$24.95, Bermuda Jam Factory, www.bermudajamfactory.com

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Real Weddings Four local couples share

their inspiring wedding stories.

Written by Gabrielle Boyer | Photograph by Becky Spencer

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Real Weddings

Christ ine & Kyle October 5, 2013

W

hen Christine Dunkley and Kyle Dailey met in a

“We spent that summer apart, Kyle in Vermont and I in Bermuda,”

finance class at Fairfield University in 2005 neither

recalls Christine. “During that time, the highlight of my day was talking

of them imagined they were meeting the person with

to him. I never wanted to say goodbye.” Kyle felt the same way: “It was

whom they would spend the rest of their lives. They

that summer that I realised that she was the one. After we had been apart

were simply fellow students looking forward to making it through uni-

for several weeks, Christine travelled to Boston. I knew I wouldn’t be able

versity. Both discovered, however, how well they got along. After several

to drive all the way from Vermont to visit her, so instead we each drove

semesters of sitting next to one another in class and passing notes back

halfway and met in a small town in western Massachusetts. The whole

and forth, the moment came when Kyle finally struck up the nerve to ask

visit lasted only an hour or so and when I hugged her as we said good-bye,

Christine out on their first date.

I remember thinking: ‘I do not want to spend another minute apart from

“We met at an Italian restaurant in our college town,” recalls Kyle. “I thought I was nervous, but it was nothing in comparison to Christine who accidentally spilled wine all over herself and the table we were dining at.”

her for the rest of my life.’”

A few months later, Christine and Kyle packed up their respective lives and moved to Boston to be together. Three years later, they were engaged.

“We had a good laugh about it,” he said. “It was the perfect first date.”

“On October 26, 2012, Kyle came home early from work and suggested

Fast-forward to graduation in June 2009. After the speeches were over,

we go for a walk along the Charles River, our favourite running route,”

caps tossed and champagne toasted, Christine and Kyle said their good-

remembers Christine. “He told me how much he loved me and got down

byes to one another.

on one knee. I was so shocked I forgot to even look at the ring!”

Photography by Becky Spencer

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RESOURCES

Ceremony: Holy Trinity Church; Reception: Mid Ocean Club; Rehearsal Dinner: Fairmont Hamilton Princess; Officiant: Bishop Nick Dill; Wedding Planner/Coordinator: Nikki Begg, Bermuda Bride; Photographers: Becky Spencer and Amanda Temple; Videographer: Keith Steede; Caterer: Mid Ocean Club; Wedding Cake: Sweet P; Invitations: Papyrus; Florist: Suzan Sickling ; Décor/Rental: Michael Mello, Elements Bermuda; Entertainment: DJ Allstar Productions; Transportation: Mini Mega, Nadanja Bailey and Train from Oleander Cycles; Wedding Gown: Oscar De La Renta; Bridesmaids’ Gowns: J Crew; Groom’s & Groomsmen’s Attire: Vineyard Vines, Banana Republic and Sperry; Favours & Gifts: Custom sunglasses

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When it came time to start planning the

each table setting, and white starfish accented

wedding of their dreams, there was only one

table spreads and decorated the lapels of each

place they had in mind—Bermuda. “I always

groomsman.

thought it was so cool that Christine was from

Among the evening’s events, a few moments

Bermuda,” says Kyle. And Christine agrees:

stood out. “Kyle’s speech was the highlight of

“Bermuda is a special place. We’re so lucky to

the night,” insists Christine. “Even my dad, the

have so many amazing views; there is no better

Premeir of Bermuda, didn’t want to follow that

place to tie the knot.”

act. It was truly the most heartfelt, well-spoken

On October 5, 2013, Christine and Kyle

speech I’ve ever heard.” Another hit? The food.

were married by Bishop Nicholas Dill at

“We chose to do a buffet, because Mid Ocean

Holy Trinity Church in Bailey’s Bay, with an

Club do such a good one. We even had a macaroni

oceanfront reception on the lawn at Mid Ocean

and cheese bar where guests could add their own

Club following the ceremony. With 200 guests

toppings to their individual portions, like lobster,

in attendance, including 35 friends from the

bacon and chives. It was a huge hit!”

college at which they met, Christine and Kyle celebrated their newlywed status in style.

Michael Mello of Elements Bermuda successfully transformed the reception venue into an oceanfront oasis fit for the newlyweds and their

And as with any Bermuda wedding worthy of fond remembrance, the night ended with everyone on the dance floor. “We even taught the Americans how to palance!” laughs Christine.

After a year of marriage, Christine and Kyle

guests. Mello, along with the couple’s wedding

remember their big day very fondly. Their

planner, Nikki Begg of Bermuda Bride, dressed

advice to future brides and grooms is to ap-

the tent in white fabric to add an abundance

preciate the moment. “Take a step back, just the

of warmth and romance. Using the ocean

two of you at some point during the reception.

backdrop as inspiration, the venue was accented

Take several minutes to watch all of your guests

in blue tones synonymous with the colours of

dancing and having a good time. It is the only

Bermuda’s blue waters. Paper lanterns hung

time that all of your family and friends will ever

from the ceiling of the tent, hydrangeas centred

be in one place celebrating you.”

“It is the only time that all of your family and friends will ever be in one place

celebrat ing you.”

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Real Weddings

Elizabet h & Thomas June 7, 2014

F

or some people, falling in love is a process that takes time; for oth-

as well as those around them, that they were a match. This feeling—that

ers it is almost instant. Such was the case for Elizabeth Simmons

each of them had found “the one”—was underscored one night when

who fell in love with husband, Thomas Smith, when she met him

they went for a walk along Horseshoe Bay. “The night was gorgeous,

for the first time.

there was a full moon and the moonlight reflecting off the ocean was

The two were brought together in March 2011 by mutual friends who

beautiful,” recalls Elizabeth. “While we were walking along, we stumbled

knew they would have a great deal in common. “When I shook his hand,

over a huge heart that someone had drawn in the sand. We looked at it

I felt an instant excitement, a feeling I can’t describe,” says Elizabeth. “I

and then at each other. It was the definitive moment for us; each of us

believe I knew then that he was the one for me.”

knew that the other was ‘the one.’”

If Thomas felt the same way, he didn’t make his feelings known. “He

Two years later, Thomas popped the question—only this time with more

showed very little enthusiasm [when we met], I didn’t think he was in-

enthusiasm than he had shown when the couple first met. It was May 24,

terested in me at all.” But Elizabeth was wrong; before too long, Thomas

2013, and Thomas was running the May 24th half-marathon in honour

asked Elizabeth out on a date.

of his father, whose birthday was that day but who had passed away earlier

After several weeks of dating it was obvious to Elizabeth and Thomas,

in the year. “Thomas wanted me to wait for him at the finish line,” recalls

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RESOURCES Ceremony: St. Paul AME Church; Reception: Pier Six; Rehearsal Dinner: Rosa’s Cantina; Officiant: Rev. Cyril Simmons and Rev. Dean Smith; Wedding Planner/Coordinator: JaMax Events; Photographers: Kenneth Fox Jr. and Alex Masters; Videographer: Shawn Thompson; Caterer: Wilks Catering; Wedding Cake: Fourways Catering; Groom’s Cake: Mia Daniels; Invitations: Corinne Parris from Surprise; Florist: El Shaddai Florist; Décor/Rental: Tamisha Greene of Ambiance Design Studio; Entertainment: Lynwood Richardson; Wedding Gown: Bridal Reflections, New York; Bridesmaids’ Gowns: Strand of Silk; Groom’s & Groomsmen’s Attire: Anthony’s

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“Family is big with us and the participation of our family

members on our wedding day was very important.”

Elizabeth. “I met him at various stops throughout the race but when I saw

their ceremony traditionally western, which included saying, “I do” at St.

him at the last stop before the end, I rushed to the finish line.”

Paul AME Church, where Elizabeth’s father was pastor, with Eliza-

Unbeknownst to Elizabeth, Thomas had run the full 13.1 miles with

beth’s brother and Thomas’s uncle as wedding officiates. “That was the

an engagement ring intended for her in his shorts pocket. When he

highlight of the ceremony,” explains Elizabeth. “Family is big with us and

crossed the finish line, he made his way to Elizabeth, dropped to one knee

the participation of our family members on our wedding day was very

and asked her to be his wife. “I couldn’t believe it!” remarks Elizabeth,

important.”

still seemingly stunned, over a year later, by his effort. “My answer was, of course, ‘Yes!’” When it came to planning their nuptials, Elizabeth wanted to

The highlight of the reception (under the grand tent at Pier 6 on Front Street) was a speech written by Thomas’s late father and read by his sister.

The speech was essentially a tribute from a father to his son in which

incorporate elements of her Trinidadian and East Indian heritage in the

Thomas’s father blessed the couple’s marriage and stated that he always

celebrations, but only to a certain extent. “I didn’t want the wedding to

knew that Elizabeth would one day be Thomas’s wife. When the speech

be all Indian or all traditionally western, so we fused the two together

was read, Thomas’s sister announced that it had been written three years

to get the best of both.” The best of Elizabeth’s Indian heritage included

previously, two years before their father passed away. For the couple who

her bridesmaids dressed in traditional Indian saris, with intricate henna

incorporated family togetherness into their wedding day, it seems that

tattoos on their hands and bindis on their foreheads. The Indian-themed

one family member in particular was three years ahead of them, mak-

elements were also reflected in the reception décor and dinner menu.

ing sure that their special day and their beautiful union was all the more

With the Indian elements covered, the couple focused on making www.bermudianweddings.com

unforgettable.

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Real Weddings

Lucy & Jody June 28, 2014

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igh school sweethearts, Lucy Pacheco and Jody Carreiro

With Jody in Bermuda and Lucy still in Canada, the couple embarked

knew after only a few weeks of dating as teenagers that their

on a long-distance relationship, which they endured for just over two

love was something out of the ordinary. “We’ve been insepa-

years. “Long distance wasn’t easy and it tested our relationship many

rable pretty much since the day we met [in 2003],” explains

times over; however, we managed to get through the tough times by never

Lucy. “Not too long after we first met,” says Jody, “I realised we had an un-

giving up on one another,” says Lucy. “Long distance helped us realise the

imaginable connection. I felt like I could share absolutely anything with

depth of our love for each other and helped us improve our communica-

her.” And share they did. “Jody and I used to talk on the phone for hours

tion skills. No matter how hard things got, we knew that there wasn’t

at a time,” Lucy recalls. “I remember hanging up the phone one night and

anyone else that we would rather be with. Jody visited whenever he could

I couldn’t stop smiling. Something in my heart told me that he was my

and I came home every chance I got. It was tough but we managed to get

soul mate and I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him.”

through it.”

Of course, at only eighteen years old, there was plenty of life to spend

When Lucy graduated from university in June 2011, Jody was ready

together, but first, they both had to go to college. “In 2004, we both left

and waiting to welcome her home. “Returning home to Jody was so excit-

Bermuda for college in Canada,” explains Lucy. “Jody attended Humber

ing for me. I could finally be by his side and do all of the little things that

College and obtained his General Science Diploma. I attended Seneca

we tend to take for granted everyday,” Lucy says. “Three months later, we

College and obtained an Advanced Diploma in Business Management. In

moved in together.”

2009, Jody returned to Bermuda to start his own painting and mainte-

A year and a half later, Lucy and Jody were engaged to be married.

nance business with his father while I enrolled at St. Mary’s University in

“It was December 1, 2012,” recalls Lucy. “Jody and I had just finished

Halifax, Nova Scotia, to pursue a commerce degree.”

dinner at one of our favourite spots when he mentioned that he knew a Photography by Becky Spencer

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RESOURCES Ceremony: St. Patrick’s Church; Reception: The Spanish Point Boat Club; Rehearsal Dinner: Grand Cafe; Officiant: Father Paul Voisin; Photographer: Becky Spencer; Videographer: Andrew Kirkpatrick; Caterer: Island Restaurant Group; Wedding Cake: Fancy Cakes; Invitations: Party Plus; Florist: Demco; Décor/Rental: Elements Bermuda and Undercover Tent Rental; Entertainment: Y.G.S. Entertainment; Transportation: Ray Robinson; Wedding Gown: San Patrick; Bridesmaids’ Gowns: Mori Lee, Bill Levkoff; Favours & Gifts: Candles

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“Have fun on your wedding day and remember that at the end of the day,

the only thing that matters is that you’re marrying the one you love.”

good place to take a photo. We got in the car and Jody drove to Chaplain

of its comfortable waterfront location—and with 200 guests in atten-

Bay. When we got there, Jody grabbed a flashlight from the back of the

dance on their big day it packed all the punch at an affordable rate.

car and we proceeded to walk along the beach, just the two of us. As

Lucy and Jody were married on June 28, 2014, at St. Patrick’s Church

we walked along the beach, we spotted a glass bottle in the sand. Jody

in Smith’s Parish. The couple took their vows in front of a full congrega-

suggested we take a closer look at it, at which point I picked it up and

tion, and immediately after the ceremony released two white doves repre-

noticed a note inside. When I took the note out of the bottle, I unfolded

senting the bride and groom as they begin their life’s journey together in

it and found the question ‘Will You Marry Me?’ with two boxes, both

purity with no regrets about the past.

marked ‘Yes.’ When I looked at Jody, he was on bended knee with the

At the couple’s reception, all 14 members of their wedding party gave

most beautiful ring I had ever seen.” Before Lucy had a chance to give

individual tributes focusing on the couple’s undeniable love and respect

Jody her answer, the couple’s respective families (who had been hiding

for each other, the reason their love had already endured for eleven years

during the proposal) suddenly came into view, ready to celebrate. It was

and would endure for endless years to come.

only after Lucy’s parents asked her what her answer to Jody had been that

When their wedding day was over, Lucy and Jody agreed they wouldn’t

she realised she had yet to give him one. “I jumped into his arms, scream-

have changed a thing. Of course, there are always things that don’t go

ing ‘Yes!’”

according to plan or plans that need to be altered at the last minute, but

When it came to planning the wedding of their dreams, Lucy and

upsets, the couple advises, aren’t what a bride or groom should focus on.

Jody settled on modern elegance with a dash of sparkle and pizzazz. They

“Have fun on your wedding day and remember that at the end of the day,

chose Spanish Point Boat Club as the setting for their reception because

the only thing that matters is that you’re marrying the one you love.”

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Real Weddings

Danielle & Robert July 12, 2014

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magine meeting someone and knowing, almost immediately, this was

nothing short of forever. “I had a pretty good idea that Dani was the one

the one. Such was the case for Danielle O’Hara and Robert Rasamny,

the night I went to her apartment to watch a San Francisco 49ers play-off

who were introduced by mutual friends in September 2012. Rob’s

game,” says Rob.

brother, J. K., was married to one of Dani’s friends, and the two agreed

“He suggested that we visit a museum together that day, but instead I

that Dani and Rob would have a lot in common—not to mention both

invited him over to watch the game with me,” explains Dani. “He jumped

would soon be living in New York City. One fateful and long-awaited

at the opportunity and we had an amazing time watching the game

night, the two finally crossed paths at a party hosted by Rob’s sister, Lin-

together.”

ley. The verdict? “We immediately hit it off,” attests Dani. “We shared this simple, magical connection from the moment we met.”

Another turning point in the couple’s relationship came during a ski trip with Dani’s friends to Stratton, Vermont. “The weather was horrible,”

For their first date, Rob asked Dani out to dinner at Aria Wine Bar in

recalls Dani. “It was minus 20 degrees Celsius with hurricane force winds.

the West Village, unbeknownst to him, just one block from Dani’s apart-

All of our friends were huddled indoors, but Rob and I were determined

ment. Their connection was undeniable as they enjoyed several glasses of

to ski. We trekked to the top of the mountain and pushed ourselves down

wine and shared appetizers. When Rob unknowingly ate more than his

the hardest slopes. We shared a million laughs despite the intense condi-

share of oysters from the dozen they decided to split, he gasped in embar-

tions. That’s when I knew I could have fun with him, despite hardship, for

rassment and promptly summoned the waiter to deliver a further dozen.

the rest of my life.”

Dani was smitten with his kindness and generosity: “This solidified my first impression of him that he was a true gentleman.”

Several months later the couple was visiting Dani’s family in Bermuda for her brother, Cullen’s 30th birthday. For weeks, Rob knew that he

Several weeks later, it was clear that this relationship, still so new, was

would propose to Dani while in Bermuda; he wanted to give her family

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RESOURCES Ceremony: St. Theresa’s Cathedral; Reception: By-the-Sea, O’Hara family Home; Rehearsal Dinner: The Harbourfront; Officiant: Father Paul Voisin; Wedding Planner/Coordinator: Nikki Begg, Bermuda Bride; Photographer: Amanda Temple and Alex Masters; Videographer: Andrew Kirkpatrick; Caterer: Fourways Catering; Wedding Cake: Sweet P; Invitations: Bella Figura; Florist: Suzan Sickling; Décor/Rental: Michael Mello, Elements Bermuda; Entertainment: The Kennel Boys; Transportation: Mini Mega and Nadanja Bailey; Wedding Gown: Monique Lhuillier; Bride’s Shoes: Jimmy Choo; Bridesmaids’ Gowns: Amsale; Groom’s & Groomsmen’s Attire: Theory, The English Sports Shop; Favours & Gifts: The Bermuda Rum Cake Company

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marriage.”

“It was so incredible to look out at the full church and see the familiar, loving faces there to witness our the chance to be a part of the engagement

(Bermuda Bride). I knew she could put to-

arrived at the reception, the O’Hara family

celebrations. After asking permission from both

gether the perfect wedding day. Our band, the

home, By-the-Sea, had been transformed into

Dani’s father, Brian, and her mother, Nancy,

Kennel Boys was also an easy choice; they’ve

a wedding wonderland fit to honour the young

Rob dropped to one knee on the oceanfront

been playing at O’Hara parties for some time

couple. A grand white tent had been construct-

terrace of the O’Hara family home and asked

now. Suzan Sickling, for flowers, and Amanda

ed amongst the palm trees in the backyard, its

Dani to marry him—and she said, “Yes.”

Temple, our photographer, are both family

inside draped in fabric and twinkling lights.

Ecstatic at the engagement news, the O’Haras

friends and came highly recommended. After

Paper lanterns hung from the ceiling and round

descended from their respective hiding places,

only a short time we had our dream team of

tables were adorned with arrangements of white

each with champagne in hand and the pouring,

vendors who felt like family from the start.”

roses, small daisies and a variety of delicate

toasting, hugging and celebrating began.

Dani and Rob tied the knot on July 12, 2014,

ferns. Guests dined buffet-style on seafood

When it came to planning their wedding,

in front of 220 family members and friends at

dishes, pastas, rack of lamb and various Leba-

Dani took the lead. “I always envisioned getting

St. Theresa’s Cathedral in Hamilton, Bermuda.

nese dishes (a nod to Rob’s Lebanese heritage)

married at St. Theresa’s Cathedral. I went to

With bridesmaids dressed in navy and grooms-

including stuffed grape leaves, couscous and

school across the street at Mount St. Agnes, and

men wearing iconic gold Bermuda shorts, Dani

falafel. For dessert, Dani, a self-proclaimed

received my first communion and confirma-

and Rob became husband and wife.

chocoholic, was over-the-moon with a dessert

tion at the church. Likewise, when we moved

“It was incredibly memorable and emotion-

bar outfitted with chocolate mousse, chocolate

to our current home By-the-Sea, I was thirteen

al,” recalls Rob. “The highlight was watching

chip and peanut butter cookies, chocolate fudge

and I’d grown up hoping that our house would

Dani walk down the aisle with her father. She

brownies, baklava and of course, wedding cake,

one day be the venue for my wedding recep-

couldn’t have looked more gorgeous.” As for

which was baked and decorated by Sweet P.

tion.” Fortunately, Rob was supportive of Dani’s

Dani, she felt the emotion too. “I loved holding

When the feasting was done, the Ken-

wishes. “He was a perfect partner and fiancé

onto Rob’s hands tightly during the prayers and

nel Boys took to the stage, with the O’Haras

throughout the entire process,” says Dani. “He

as we said our vows. It was so incredible to look

and Rasamnys joining them throughout the

wasn’t involved in too much of the planning

out at the full church and see the familiar, lov-

evening.

but he was always on hand to lend an opinion

ing faces there to witness our marriage.”

and help make decisions.”

After the sunset, Dani and Rob watched the

After the “I do’s,” the couple, along with

moon rise over the horizon and light up the sky.

Rob’s best man and Dani’s matron of honour,

That moon, as fate would have it, was the “super

“The beauty of being Bermudian is that we

set off for the reception in a traditional Ber-

moon,” bigger and brighter than normal and

already knew so many of the experts,” explains

muda horse and buggy.

the perfect compliment to their first evening as

The couple selected their vendors early on.

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By the time the couple and their guests

man and wife.

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Destination wedding

The Perfect Bermuda Wedding

Kansas natives Nicole (Nikki) Nestler and Thomas Roelofsen wed in a destination Bermuda wedding on May 28, 2014. After tying the knot at Stonehole Bay with close family and friends in attendance (including Nikki’s two adorable sons), the couple spoke with us about planning their perfect Bermuda wedding.

Congratulations, Nikki and Tom, on your recent marriage! We love destination Bermuda weddings and we’re so honoured that you chose Bermuda as the place to become husband and wife.

How did you decide on Bermuda as the place to get married?

Nikki: “We had never been to Bermuda

dings when I came across a photograph that I

it was more stunning than I would ever have

thought was breathtaking. Luckily, the image

thought. Our wedding day was what every girl

was attached to a blog. The photographer was

dreams of—simply perfect. Now, Bermuda will

Gavin Howarth, the location was Stonehole

always have a special place in our hearts!”

Bay, Bermuda, and the event planner was Bermuda Event Solutions. I have to admit, I had to look at a map to see where Bermuda

When you told your family and friends that you were having a destination Bermuda wedding, how did they react?

[before our wedding]. Most people we know

was and then I picked up the phone and called

go to Hawaii or Jamaica for beach getaways, but

Gavin Howarth and Bermuda Event Solutions.

United States so she was very excited. None

we wanted something different and special for

I planned my wedding for four months later at

of our friends had ever been to Bermuda, so

our big day. I spent many hours on the Internet

Stonehole Bay. I hoped it would be as beauti-

everyone was happy to have the opportunity

looking at images from other destination wed-

ful as the pictures and I was not disappointed;

to come to such a beautiful place. Once we got

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Nikki: “My mom had never been out of the

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to the island, members of our wedding group

muda as our destination wedding location was

something we would typically have done back

reaffirmed our feelings that we had picked the

because of Gavin Howarth’s photography, so

home, but it was so much fun. And of course,

perfect place to get married.”

of course he was the one we wanted to capture

we had to kiss underneath the moongate, which

Where did your reception take place?

our special day. I called him and gave him an

is a true Bermudian wedding tradition.”

Nikki: “After the ceremony, we all headed to The Reefs for a candlelit dinner on the beach.

The food was amazing and the atmosphere was unmatched. We ended our night there with a kiss under the moongate, the perfect way to

approximate timeline for the wedding, and said that we didn’t care when the actual day was as long as he was there to capture it all. I guess that proves how important he was to our big day.”

Did you include any Bermuda elements or local traditions in your wedding?

start our married life.”

Nikki: “Our pastor was Bermudian and

Did you hire a wedding planner?

Nikki: “Yes, Emily Boden at Bermuda Event Solutions; she was amazing! Truthfully, I would have been lost without her. She answered every

he added local flair to our ceremony which we really loved. After the ceremony, we had a champagne toast on the beach which is not

What is it about Bermuda that makes it the perfect location for a destination wedding?

Nikki: “We can’t say enough good things about Bermuda; it was absolutely the best place for us to get married! The people are so kind; we feel as if we have made lifelong connections with the people we met while on the island.

There is so much beauty in Bermuda. Everywhere you turn there is something that takes your breath away; it is really like heaven on

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question I had during the planning process and

earth. We can’t wait to return—it’ll be the first

was always there for me, which made planning a

time since we said “I do!”

wedding from hundreds of miles away do-able.”

Did you run into any difficulties in planning your wedding from abroad?

Vendors

Wedding Planner: Bermuda Event Solutions Photographer: Gavin Howarth

Tom: “No. We had an amazing team of people working to make sure we had everything

Flowers: Flowers by GiMi

we wanted. If it weren’t for them, I’m sure there

Videographer: Keith Steede

How did you choose your photographer?

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Ceremony: Stonehole Bay

“Yes, definitely!”

What advice would you give other couples planning their own destination Bermuda wedding?

“Do your research and learn as much as you

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would have been problems.”

Would you advise other couples to get married in Bermuda?

Reception: The Reefs

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Local wedding experts share their knowledge and advice with future Bermuda brides and grooms.

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WEDDING PLANNING

What services do you offer as a wedding planner?

We provide everything from hourly consultations, wedding management, full service wedding planning, budget management, food and wine paring, advice on etiquette, design, styling, and with Petals (owned by Bermuda Bride), exquisite floral designs that complement the couple’s aesthetic.

What is the cost of an average Bermuda wedding?

Meet the Expert

for a team to do this for you. If your wedding

Nikki J. Begg is a professional wedding planner and the founder of Bermuda Bride.

The team at Bermuda Bride (established in 2000) designs and arranges more than 100 weddings in Bermuda each year.

Bermuda Bride is known for its stylish, elegant, seamless and memorable events.

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reception is at a restaurant or club, the venue

On average the cost is approximately $750

will handle this and the fee will be built in.

What are the advantages/disadvantages of planning a Bermuda hotel wedding?

Often having a hotel wedding is less expensive as many of the services are easily available in-house. Other events can also be held at the hotel, such as a welcome barbeque and the brunch, saving on transportation costs for overseas guests. An important consideration for hotel weddings is that the event often needs to

upwards per head.

minister to prepare the marriage particulars.

How do payments work?

What is the most expensive time of the year to

for which an after-party was held at an alterna-

get married in Bermuda?

tive location or the couple had to go into town

end earlier than it would if held at a private club or residence. There has been many a wedding

Local couples tend to pay vendors directly through internet banking, but we also offer

Bermuda is unique in that there isn’t an off-

(the bride in her wedding dress) to continue the

the couple the opportunity to let us handle all

season. Most services cost the same regardless of

the payments on their behalf. Our destination

the time of year. However, if there are overseas

wedding couples take advantage of this facility

guests attending, bear in mind that accom-

What are the main things I should splurge on

as most small vendors do not accept credit card

modation costs considerably more from May

and save on?

payments.

through October.

Do you charge a percentage of the budget or a flat fee?

A flat fee for small weddings, but for larger affairs, where the number of hours may vary but can be approximated for budgeting purposes, we charge for our time.

What are the first steps I should take in planning my Bermuda wedding?

Decide on the date, hire a great wedding

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Spend on whatever is important to you and save on the areas that don’t matter to you.

How can I avoid going over budget?

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It’s very easy to get carried away—there are so many options and all the little things add

celebrations.

Spend on whatever is important to you and save on the areas that don’t matter to you. For each couple, this tends to be different. If you are looking to save, have a DJ instead of a band, raise your glasses to toast rather than have champagne, replace a selection of entrees with a set menu; there are many ways to work within budget and still have a beautiful affair.

Am I expected to pay for guests if I’m having a destination wedding?

Depending on your budget you can do

planner, select the venue, and book your favou-

up. Establish a budget and your priorities.

everything from taking over a hotel and flying

rite photographer and musicians. Begin to col-

Work through a financial overview listing every

your guests to the island to simply hosting the

lect, if you haven’t already done so, images for

possible expense. Add in 10 percent extra,

events. At a minimum we suggest providing

inspiration. Don’t get overwhelmed. Everything

just in case. Recognise that if you wish to add

transportation to and from the different events.

can be broken down into manageable steps and

something, you must be prepared to give up

don’t forget to have fun along the way.

something else.

How many bridesmaids should I have?

When do I need to get a marriage licence?

Am I responsible for cleanup at the end?

maids. I love seeing an even number of

Local weddings tend to have more bridesIf you are having an outdoor wedding at a

bridesmaids to groomsmen; it looks balanced.

wedding as it takes two weeks for the applica-

private residence, you should absolutely build

And the general rule of thumb is to have one

tion to be processed, leaving ample time for the

into your budget the time required and the cost

groomsman to every 25 guests.

We apply for a licence six weeks prior to the

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PHOTOGRAPHY Why do some couples hire two photographers?

Meet the Experts

“A couple may hire two photographers if

Gavin Howarth, 441-532-3234, www.gavinhowarth.com, info@ gavinhowarth.com

they find that their timeline does not allow enough time for one photographer to cover everything. One photographer cannot be

Amanda Temple, 441-2362339, www.amandatemple.com, amanda@amandatemple.com

in two places at once—taking getting-ready pictures of the bride, for example, at the same time as taking similar pictures of the groom.

Sacha Blackburne, 441-293-5088, www.sachablackburne.com, sacha@sachablackburne.com

It also depends on how long the day is. Some photographers have a maximum number of hours they will shoot in one day and you may

Becky Spencer, 441-704-0123, www.beckyspencerblog.com, becky@beckyspencer.com

need a follow-up photographer to cover the remaining hours.”—Becky Spencer

Zeudi Hinds, 441-737-5077, zeudihindsphotography@yahoo.com, zkhphotography@yahoo.com

When should the couple shots take place?

Before or after the ceremony?

“This is best decided by the couple being

weddings, capturing as much as possible before the service is often a good idea as it allows the couple to spend as much time as possible with their guests at cocktail hour and dinner. Generally, group shots take 15 to 30 minutes and couple shots take between 20 and 30 minutes, so that can be up to an hour doing photos when the newlyweds could be celebrating with friends and family. Whether the couple chooses to have an intimate first meeting before the ceremony which is special and tender (and then capture photos with family and bridal party, and even couple shots, so that the party can be enjoyed more fully later) or they prefer to be traditional and not see each other until the ceremony, a timeline can be created to suit the couple’s needs.”—Sacha Blackburne Who owns the photos—me or the photographer?

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your picture taken.”—Becky Spencer “A good photographer will give a couple all the guidance they need to help them relax in front of the camera. Besides that, sleep and joy and makeup that the bride is happy with are all good. Making sure a dress does not need fiddling with or adjusting constantly is key since a photographer cannot concentrate the whole time on whether there is a fault with wardrobe, a bra showing, for instance, or an ill-fitting dress.”—Sacha Blackburne Is it a good idea or a bad idea to allow guests to take photos?

“I have no problem with guests taking photographs. Photographers cannot be everywhere

married. For destination weddings, or when there are many guests from overseas for local

comfortable with the photographer and having

and capture everything. But we can get the What can I do to look my best in my wedding photos?

“Most important is not to get sunburned in the days prior to your wedding. If you are having a beach ceremony, there will usually be some breeze so it is best to wear your hair up. Applying your makeup a bit more heavily than you normally would is helpful, too, as long as it still looks natural and you look like you. Try to be in the moment as much as possible and don’t stress over the details. If you are being yourself and enjoying the day, it will show through in the photos. Let your photographer know (ahead of time) any issues you have with getting your picture taken, like a goofy grin that tends to show up in photos. It also helps to do an engagement session with your photographer so you are more

{ } “Try to be in the moment and don’t stress over the details.

If you are being yourself and enjoying the day it will show through in the photos.”

bride walking down the aisle and we can definitely capture the bride and groom walking up the aisle. However, if guests extend their phones into the aisle, we cannot get that shot. Up until about five years ago, some of my favourite images were captured as the couple was walking up the aisle. They are beaming, they look at each other, they smile at their friends and at the end of the aisle they kiss! I used to love that shot— that kiss with their happy friends behind them.

That shot no longer happens; too many people are looking at their phones or too many phones, not smiling faces, are in the background. Many couples these days are requesting that their ceremonies be “unplugged.” I love this idea—I feel that at the ceremony guests should be present and not on their phones.”—Amanda Temple What is a shot list?

“A shot list is a list of key shots the couple feel they must have on the day.”—Sacha Blackburne What should I include on my shot list?

“This is a personal decision, but I do think that it is important to include your specific wants. Most photographers will do their best www.bermudianweddings.com

to capture all the details of your day; however,

hour getting ready, a simple ceremony, cocktails

to reduce the chances of a key element of your

and a bit into the reception. When you start

day being missed it is best to communicate

introducing multiple locations, travel time and

clearly with your photographer. Never make the

other factors, it’s usually necessary to add time

assumption that a photographer will just know

onto that. For a large and full wedding day,

or that they will capture what you have seen in

eight hours is ideal.”—Gavin Howarth

another photographer’s work.”—Zeudi Hinds Do you include engagement photos in your What happens if my photographer misses key shots from my shot list?

“Sometimes, this can happen—a minister may ask the couple to kiss at a time that is not

package?

“I have a package that offers engagement photos, but some couples choose to use this to cover the rehearsal dinner or even a day-after

typical of other ministers or the kiss may be so brief the photographer does not get the shot at the exact moment but shoots the going into or coming out of the kiss instead. A good photographer will capture all the important moments as they unfold, but it is important to share key details that are atypical, such as a special piece of something sentimental attached to the inside of the bride’s dress or bouquet, or an unusual dedication, or a shot of someone’s face when something special is about to happen. All these things should be shared with the photographer ahead of time, but a balance must be maintained between allowing the photographer to capture the day as it naturally unfolds and making her (or him) aware of any special circumstances.”—Sacha Blackburne Do photographers provide less expensive packages for those with a smaller budget?

“Photographers generally have several different packages that will vary greatly in price depending on the scope of the wedding and what is included.”—Amanda Temple What information do I need to provide my photographer with before the wedding?

“The timing and timeline of the day is key, knowing start and end times, room numbers for getting ready, as well as identifying key people and phone numbers.” —Gavin Howarth How long do photographers typically shoot for?

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session, and I am flexible about how they use

smile any time. I ask my clients what kind of

that time. I love engagement sessions as they

couple they are, that is, fun and silly, romantic

allow me to work with the couple and get to

and sexy—or traditional, and then gear my

know them before their wedding day, and it

photography toward their personalities. My

is also nice for a couple to have some lifestyle

goal is to have fun, and I want my clients to

shots that capture who they really are since

have fun so I will do what it takes to make the

wedding photos are not always so typical of

day carefree and fun, even if it means I have to

the couple. But day-after sessions are absolutely

get a bit goofy to get a laugh and lighten the

wonderful as well, as they allow us to capture

moment.”—Becky Spencer

fun shots that are often not possible on the

“I strive to create timeless, elegant and ro-

wedding day due to time constraints and

mantic images. In university I started shooting

concerns about damaging wedding outfits.”—

film, and have always loved its colour and tonal

Sacha Blackburne

range. I was probably the last person to buy a digital camera. However, digital cameras have

How long until I receive my photos?

“It will vary from photographer to photographer, as well as the time of year. I ask for as much as eight weeks but usually deliver in four to six weeks. In most cases I try and blog my weddings, which happens in a week or two and is a great way to see a large preview of the images.”—Gavin Howarth What are some of the best locations/times of day to shoot?

“There really is not a bad location in Bermuda. In my opinion, a location with a choice of various backdrops is ideal, that is, one that has a beach, greenery and architecture to really

come a very long way; the pixels are no longer visible and they are able to produce beautiful soft images. In my processing, I keep it simple

{ } “It is best to choose a location that means something to you and has the look and feel you want your wedding to have.”

and rather than suturing the colours, prefer a slightly muted palette.”—Amanda Temple

“It is hard to see your own work objectively,

capture the different aspects of Bermuda. It is

but most people describe my style as romantic

best to choose a location that means something

and dreamy, and I know I am attracted to other

to you and has the look and feel you want your

photographers who have a dreamy style so I

wedding to have. The best time of day to shoot

think that is probably what I am striving to

is late in the afternoon, the few hours before

capture.”—Sacha Blackburne

sunset when the light is soft and flattering.”— Becky Spencer

“I would describe my style as somewhat mixed. I aim to capture the traditional and essential images and build on that with some

What is your photography style?

“I call myself classic with a twist. I incorpo-

creativity through the use of the lighting, scenery and the personality of my clients. Trends

rate photojournalism with traditional elements

can be tempting but they can also age quickly;

of wedding day photography. My ultimate aim

simplicity is often best.”—Gavin Howarth

is to customise wedding day images to the spirit of my couples.”—Zeudi Hinds

How far in advance should I book?

“I am a lifestyle photographer who aims

“As soon as possible. Some weddings are

to capture the real moments of a wedding as

booked almost 18 months in advance, while

candidly as possible. I would rather see a candid

others only a matter of weeks. But if you are

shot than a posed one. However, posed shots

partial to a particular photographer’s work, it is

must be taken, and so I try to make the posed

a good idea to book them as soon as you have

shots look as candid as possible. I feel that

confirmed a date.”—Amanda Temple

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catering Are there hidden expenses, like sales and service taxes or delivery fees, I should know about?

“Everything should be listed in a contract between you and the caterer, but look out for those details; ensure items you need are listed and check the fine print from the caterer.”— Andy Detzer, Fourways Catering “No. When we put a proposal together, we work hard to include everything so the client is not surprised by the final bill.”—Magalie Favresse, IRG Should we spring for an open bar?

“Choosing an open bar gives you an advantage when budgeting for your event as most caterers have a set price per person, per hour.

With consumption billing you are only charged for what is consumed, so there could be positives there for a certain group. Ultimately it is you who know your guests best; choosing an open bar could be a negative. Your alternative is a limited bar where you would only offer beer, wine and soda, or a signature drink.”—Andy Detzer, Fourways Catering “IRG charges the bar based on consumption; we take an inventory at the beginning of the event and at the end. This way, the client is charged for what has been consumed and nothing else. If you have budget constraints, you can close your bar earlier and switch to a cash bar. “—Magalie Favresse, IRG We’re having a sit-down dinner. Is one entrée enough or should we give guests more options?

“Adding choices per course increases your cost. It is your special day; you should decide what you would like and then the caterer should be able to accommodate any special requests for dietary needs beyond that. Quite an important reminder here: make sure the RSVP of the invitation includes a section where your guests can let you know about their particular dietary needs. This will go a long way to helping you and your caterer plan www.bermudianweddings.com

ahead.”—Andy Detzer, Fourways Catering “We always recommend that the clients give their guests more than one option. Nowadays people are very health conscious or may have allergies to specific foods. With one entrée only, you run the risk that not all your guests will be able to eat.”—Magalie Favresse, IRG Should we serve guests the actual wedding cake or order sheet cake of the same variety for them?

“A common thread here: it really depends on your budget. The larger and more impressive the cake, the deeper you have to look into your pocket. Ordering a sheet cake the same variety as your actual cake is definitely where you could save some money.”—Andy Detzer, Fourways Catering “If it is a small wedding (fewer than fifty guests), serve them the wedding cake. If the wedding is bigger, order a sheet cake; it will help your budget.”—Magalie Favresse, IRG

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Meet the Experts Andy Detzer began his career as a chef. He trained in Germany for three years, moving to Switzerland and then Turkey. He later returned to Germany to study hotel management. When he came to Bermuda in 1990, he worked as a waiter. Andy now works as general manager of Fourways Inn, Fourways Catering and Café 4, part of Fourways Catering.

Fourways Catering, 441-236-6517, www.catering.bm, info@catering.bm Magalie Favresse of Island Restaurant Group (IRG) completed her college education in Dunkerque, France, and then moved to the UK where she gained her first experiences working in hospitality. Working for Island Restaurant Group for over a decade, Magalie has a passion for exemplary service and unique experiences, and is driven to exceed expectations with every client. Island Restaurant Group, 441-295-3648, www.irg.bm, catering@ irg.bm

tionally saved; however, you should always

Bermuda wedding?

“All the usual favourites: Bermuda fish chowder, Caesar salad, Bermuda fish, chicken, peas ’n rice and macaroni ’n cheese. For a cocktail reception, codfish with banana chutney and cassava fritters are always on the list.”— Andy Detzer, Fourways Catering “Fresh and local products are always available with IRG Catering due to our strong relationships with local fishermen and farmers. We often serve local fish, such as tuna, wahoo and rockfish, along with poultry and even whole suckling pigs.”—Magalie Favresse, IRG What is the average cost per person for food for a Bermuda wedding?

“Food (only) averages $45–$65 per person.”—Andy Detzer, Fourways Catering “On average, $50–$75 per person, but IRG works with smaller budgets as well.”—Magalie Favresse, IRG

of your function. A tip from an expert: giving

How does cost per person compare between a

your caterer a budget can go a long way to con-

buffet and a sit-down dinner?

trolling finances.”—Andy Detzer, Fourways Catering “Having a buffet style dinner is always a budget-friendly option.”—Magalie Favresse, IRG

How do we save a slice or the top tier of the cake?

“The top tier of the wedding cake is tradi-

What are the most popular dishes served at a

“Menu-wise the costs are similar. The factors that really increase a sit-down dinner are extra courses, a longer reception so more bar consumption and the additional labour that this time entails.”—Andy Detzer, Fourways

What happens with leftover food?

Catering

“Your caterer is contracted to provide

communicate your expectations to the caterer

enough food for your confirmed numbers. In

very clearly before the wedding, just to be

general, with buffet service, some food will be

sure.”—Andy Detzer, Fourways Catering

left over but you are not necessarily entitled to

wedding date set, as this will secure the date

How far in advance should I book?

“The sooner the better once you have your

everything that is left. A good caterer will avoid

with the caterer. In general, a non-refundable

sure to tell them before your wedding day.”—

running out of food at all costs, so it’s typical

deposit will lock in your reservation. Up until

Magalie Favresse, IRG

to overcater, just in case.”—Andy Detzer, Four-

that point the caterer is not bound to hold that

ways Catering

date for you, although most reputable caterers

“Your caterer will do this for you; just make

What are the best options for a tight budget?

“The food belongs to the client and is left

would do their utmost to contact you if they

“Breakfast weddings can be a great way to

with them at the end of the event if they wish

receive another enquiry for the same date be-

economise. A cocktail wedding is the next step,

it. If they don’t wish to take it home with them,

fore they confirm with someone else.”—Andy

then food stations, followed by buffet, with

we arrange to have it distributed to the less

Detzer, Fourways Catering

plated dinners being the most expensive. A

fortunate through the Hands of Love Minis-

good way to control costs is to limit the time

try.”—Magalie Favresse, IRG

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bridal Hair Do you do both bridal hair and makeup?

of how you’ll look on your wedding day.

Meet the Expert

I specialise in all areas of bridal hairstyling and hair colouring, but always offer my opinion as required with makeup.

How do you charge?

A quote for each bridal package is prepared by the corporate office of Strands. We will

Do you work on location?

Yes, we do many weddings on location.

always quote costs before any services commence. Bridal hair is priced at $150. Onlocation weddings cost an additional $150,

Do you like to see photos of my dress/veil/loca-

which covers the travel time and the time the

tion before the trial?

technician is out of the salon.

when it comes to extreme heat and humidity.

It’s always best to share images and ideas with me prior to the big day so that we make sure you get exactly what you want. And it’s best to

What styles hold up best in Bermuda weather?

Bermuda weather will always be an issue,

bring your veil and accessories to the trial so

especially in the summer months when the

that we can get an idea of the final look. An-

humidity can be very high. Updo styles are usu-

other great tip is to book a dress fitting on the

ally the better choice for the bride and bridal

day of your hair trial so you can get a better idea

party because they are the most manageable

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Gemma Howe is a senior hair stylist at Strands Hair Salon and Skin Spa. With years of experience in both the UK and Bermuda, Gemma is well-versed not only in hair cut and colour but also as a bridal specialist. Strands Skin Spa and Hair Salon, 441-295-0935, www. strands.bm, info@strands.bm

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We also offer semi-permanent Brazilian blowouts which are great for anti-frizz and repel humidity.

How far in advance should I book?

We always advise the brides to visit us for a consultation as soon as they purchase their wedding dress. But if that isn’t convenient, then three months prior to the wedding date.

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bridal makeup What kind of preparations should I make

with the right amount of neutral colour on the

before the wedding?

eyes, lots of lashes and strategically placed shim-

Drink lots of water and avoid excess alcohol that may cause bloating and redness on the

mer on the face will always stand up to the test of time and photograph beautifully.

face. Stay out of the sun to avoid sunburn. If

Yes I provide all products.

How far in advance should I book?

I recommend booking as soon as possible, well before the height of the wedding season

you must be in the sun, wear a big hat as well as

Do you provide all products, including false

a high SPF sun cream on your face, shoulders,

eyelashes?

begins.

neck and chest.

Should I get a facial/skin treatment before? If so, when?

I suggest getting a facial or skin treatment a week before your wedding day, so if there is any minor skin breakout or redness it will have time to heal.

How do you charge? Are there extra charges?

I charge per face per application. Extra charges can include an on-location fee for when I come to you, or any false lashes, lipsticks or lip glosses you purchase from me.

Are there tips or tricks to make makeup last in Bermuda’s climate?

There are no tricks to making the makeup last in the humidity of Bermuda summers.

It’s all in the application of the high quality, waterproof, high-definition foundations and mascaras I use, along with the long-wearing eye shadows, liners and lipsticks.

What are the biggest trends in bridal makeup currently?

A beautiful, glowing, flawless complexion

Meet the Expert Christopher Vee graduated from The Toronto School of Makeup Art in 1997. He has worked with clients in Bermuda, Toronto and London.

In conjunction with a New York City based advertising agency, his work was featured in the 2012 branding campaign for the Bermuda Department of Tourism, with advertisements running in the United States, Canada and the U.K. Christopher Vee Makeup, www. christopherveemakeup.com, info@ christopherveemakeup.com www.bermudianweddings.com

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dence of a dress ever having been left with them.

Finally, at 7:00 p.m., there was a knock on my door. It was the dry cleaner with my dress! He had been to four different hotel rooms looking for the rightful owner of the dress.”

Unexpected Guest “When we arrived in Bermuda for our destination wedding, we learned that Hurricane Gonzalo was scheduled to hit the island the day before our wedding. Unfortunately, about half of our guests were unable to join us because of the weather, but our wedding day was absolutely perfect, all due to the efforts of the locals who made our wedding happen!”

Bridal Blunders The biggest mistakes, mishaps and hilarious moments from real Bermuda weddings

Mom to the Rescue “We had everything ready for the big day. The dress has been steamed and pressed, the accessories and shoes were in their right places and hair and makeup was underway. Then we realised we had forgotten one rather important item: the veil! My mom had to book an appointment with a local wedding shop to buy a last-minute

Swizzle In, Stagger Out

ful it looked to me, never once noticing that

replacement. It wasn’t the one I had intended to

“On the day of our wedding, my sister, the ma-

my wedding coordinator’s dress was wet or that

wear to compliment my dress, but thankfully no

tron of honour, had indulged in one too many of

there was a split in the bamboo from which the

one noticed.”

the local rum swizzles and found herself dancing

chuppah had been made.”

through the waterfalls surrounding the hotel pool, the venue for our reception. On one side of

Love Bites

Quick Nips “While waiting with my wedding party to

“I was bitten by a spider at our rehearsal din-

walk down the aisle, a groomsman pulled a flask

ner the night before our wedding. I experienced

from his pocket and passed it down the line. As

a little discomfort throughout our wedding

my friends took a quick sip, I panicked, thinking,

day, but it wasn’t until 1:00 a.m. that standing

“Should I or shouldn’t I?” The flask got to me

end, soaked from head to toe.”

became difficult. The extent of my injury was

and I said, “What the heck?” and took a big sip!

revealed the next morning when the doctor told

Walking down the aisle, I could still feel the burn

Unveiled

me that travel was not advisable. This did not

and I’m sure my face showed it.”

the pool, it is shallow enough to wade through.

My sister wrongfully assumed that the entire pool was the same depth. It was hilarious to hear her yelp as she emerged from the five-foot deep

“For my wedding, I wore the same veil that my

bode well for our planned honeymoon! I spent

mother had worn when she married my father

the first day of my honeymoon away from my

over thirty years before. At one point, just after

new husband on IV antibiotics in the hospital

Larger than Life “In planning our wedding, I had requested

the ceremony, while we were having our photos

and I missed the newlyweds’ party being thrown

that the wedding cars pick up the wedding party

taken outside the reception venue, the veil blew

for us at my parents’ house.”

outside our cottage, but instead, on the appointed day, the hotel sent their van. I attempted

off my head and headed straight towards the ocean. I had never seen my sister run as fast as

The Vanishing Dress

to climb in, but either my dress was too tight

“The day before my wedding, my mother-in-

or the dress was so heavy gravity kept me close

law took my dress to the front desk of our hotel

to the ground. Eventually, a golf cart arrived to

to be steamed. The concierge told her that the

chauffeur me separately. I got in as best I could,

dress would be ready for pickup at 3:00 p.m. At

with half my dress in hand to avoid its dragging

5:00 p.m., when the dress had not been returned,

on the ground and the other half covering the

of our wedding, the chuppah fell overboard.

we started to panic. I called the front desk clerk,

driver as he leaned out the side of the vehicle to

When I saw it, though, I focused on how beauti-

who told me they didn’t have a dress or any evi-

allow room for me and the dress.”

she did that day. She safely retrieved the veil, just in the nick of time.”

Chuppah Overboard!

“Five minutes before I arrived at the location

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Nadia Josipa Faith Arandjelovic & Markez Patrick Laws, September 20, 2014

With 150 family members and friends in attendance, Alaina and Jason were married by Reverend Musawenkosi N. Daba at the historic Holy Trinity Church in Hamilton Parish on a wet and windy Saturday afternoon. A fun-filled reception at Tom Moore’s Tavern followed, where guests enjoyed cocktails, canapés and a delicious meal before the night really kicked off with the newlyweds’ first dance to UB40’s “Falling in Love with You.” A fantastic time was had by all, and the bachelor who caught the garter is now happily married, too!

Photograph by Gavin Howarth

Photograph by Gavin Howarth

Surrounded by 120 of their closest friends and family members, Nadia and Markez exchanged vows led by Pastor D. Troy Hassell at the National Museum of Bermuda in Dockyard. The venue was aglow with Moroccan-inspired lanterns, a theme which was echoed in the reception that followed on the tented lawn of the Keep Yard. The newlyweds were showered with love and warm wishes as they enjoyed an intimate dinner under the starry night sky and danced to their hearts’ content. An ice-cream bar and candy table ensured the night ended on a sweet note.

Alaina Erin Cubbon & Jason Edward Correia, September 28, 2013

Kirsten Leigh May & Kevin George Rojas, October 3, 2014

With 50 friends and family members in attendance, Kirsten and Kevin were married by Pastor Dean Smith at Caso›s Point, The Reefs, overlooking the incredible teal blue waters of Southampton. A stunning reception at Coconuts followed, lit only by candles, with the newlyweds and their guests enjoying dinner and dancing, both on the dance floor and out on the amazing moonlit beach.

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Dana Lynn Behlke & Robert Christopher Johnson, October 18, 2014

With 17 friends and family members in attendance, Dana and Rob were married by Pastor G. Dean Smith at The Reefs. A stunning reception followed, with the newlyweds and their guests enjoying dinner and dancing. www.bermudianweddings.com

Photograph by Gavin Howarth

Photograph by Zeudi HInds

Kenisha Francis & Robert Dill Jr., May 17, 2014

Alexis Gosling Barker & Jordache Mark-Francis Rawson, June 14, 2014

With 200 family members and friends from all over the world in attendance, Alexis and Jordache were married by Reverend Anthony Pettit at St. Paul’s Anglican Church in Paget. A traditional Bermudian reception at the bride’s grandmother’s house followed, complete with a horse-drawn carriage, the planting of a Bermuda cedar tree, and of course, the Gosling family’s swizzle washing machine! The newlyweds and their guests feasted on a hog-roast dinner with all the trimmings, and danced well into the early hours of the morning.

Louise Marie Grenfell & Leighton Yong, April 27, 2014

Louise and Leighton were married on a beautiful spring day in an intimate ceremony on the lawn of the Elbow Beach Resort. Following the ceremony, town crier David Frith announced the happy couple to their friends and family.

Their guests were treated to a spectacular dinner on the Sea Breeze Terrace. DJ Andrew Hanwell topped off the night with a selection of memorable dance songs. www.bermudianweddings.com

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Photograph by Gavin Howarth

Photograph by Gavin Howarth

With 125 close friends and family members in attendance, Kenisha and Robert were married

by Reverend Judith Gardner at Fort St. Catherine, against an alluring Bermuda backdrop of pristine blue waters. The ceremony was filled with special touches and memorable moments. An elegant masquerade-themed reception at Tom Moore’s Tavern followed, with the newlyweds and guests enjoying a five-star dinner under a beautiful night sky, and then dancing the night away to the magnificent sounds of DJ Mikey B.

Kristina Amaro & Rui Sebastiao, July 12, 2014

With 175 friends and family members in attendance, Kristina and Rui were married by Father Paul Voison at St. Patrick’s Church. Following the ceremony, Kristina and Rui released white doves as a symbol of their union. Guests were treated to a stunning reception at the Fairmont Southampton, which included a sit-down dinner and dancing all night long.

Tiffany Alexander & Joel Whitehurst, June 28, 2014

Tiffany and Joel Whitehurst were married in front of 45 guests at Breezes at Cambridge Beaches Resort. The intimate ceremony took place outdoors at the foot of a cluster of palmetto trees, adorned with hanging crystals.

Reverend Leon Jennings of the Vernon Temple AME church officiated. As the sun set over the ocean, guests enjoyed a feast of island-inspired cuisine followed by dessert and dancing.

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Jessica Ellen Jo-Ann Astwood & Ahmad Abdul Ahad, October 12, 2014

Jessica and Ahmad were married in Toronto, Canada, in an stunning art gallery—with 17-foot ceilings!—with over 60 family members and friends from all over the world in attendance. Guests were treated to a vibrant reception which reflected the couple’s city style, but not without charming nods to their Bermudian background, including Barritt’s Ginger Beer cans attached to a vintage Rolls-Royce wedding car, a photo booth with a Bermuda pink sand backdrop, and fresh johnny bread as their wedding favours.

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Amy Lyn Wasilewski & Christopher Wayne Kovacs, September 18, 2014

Amy and Christopher were married on the beach at Cambridge Beaches Resort on September 18, 2014, by Pastor G. Dean Smith in front of 16 friends and family members. The ceremony was followed by a cocktail reception and entertainment provided by the steel drum band All Star Steel.

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Melanie Fiander and Jim West, July 29, 2014

Photograph by becky Spencer

Photograph by becky Spencer

After two years of flying back and forth across the Atlantic to see each other, Melanie and Jim “got hooked” at the Registry General in Hamilton on July 29, 2013. On their one-year anniversary, they renewed their vows in a ceremony led by Mr. Denis Brookes at Verdmont Historic House.

The reception was immediately kicked off with live music, and the couple had their first dance to “Dreamland,” written by Bunny Wailer. With family and close friends in attendance, they cut the cake, applauded the speeches and enjoyed a wonderful buffet-style dinner.

Victoria Williams & Anthony Edmonds, October 6, 2014

Alicia Ann Carberry & Joseph Kelly Mire, October 11, 2014

With 59 friends and family members in attendance, Alicia and Kelly were married by Pastor Dean Smith at Caso’s Point, The Reefs, on the eve of Tropical Storm Fay. The newlyweds and their guests enjoyed breathtaking views of the beautiful turquoise water while waves crashed against the Bermuda pink sand and reefs—all while dining and dancing to a live rock band. www.bermudianweddings.com

Victoria and Anthony were married on October 6, 2014, at The Mountaintop Inn in Chittenden, Vermont. Their day began cloudy and overcast, but as the bride’s father walked her through the grass, the sun broke beautifully through the clouds. The ceremony was held in a pasture with a sparkling blue lake and stately mountains as a backdrop, surrounded on all sides by the gold and crimsons of Vermont’s fall beauty. Joined by their families and closest friends, the newlyweds enjoyed an elegant reception in a beautiful rustic pine and aluminum barn. Dinner and dancing lasted until the early hours.

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Directory BRIDAL & FORMAL WEAR Anthony’s 72 Church St, Hamilton, 292-3889 Beautik Bridal 5 Forest Hill Rd, Warwick, 2344889, www.thebeautik.com English Sports Shop 49 Front St, Hamilton, 295-2672 Occasions Bridal & Formal 16 Bob’s Valley, Somerset, 3363527, www.occasions.bm Revelation Boutique 20 Ewing St, Hamilton, 296-4252

CATERING, CAKES & BAR Bermuda Hospitality Group 10 Angle St, Hamilton, 292-6503 Bouquet Garni 335-7079, www.bouquetgarnicatering.com Brunswick St Bakery 19 Brunswick St, Hamilton, 2961442 Burrows Lightbourn Ltd. 2 Addendum Ln, Pembroke, 2950176 Buzz Catering Service Washington Mall Upper Level, 20 Church St, Hamilton, 537-6503 Cake Shop 17 Curving Ave, Pembroke, 2925141

ish, 293-4758

MV Longtail Cruises 296-5263

Dream Wurx Cakes 7 Pleasant Ville Ln, Sandys, 2340181

MV Venetian 704-3000, www.venetian.bm, info@venetian.bm

Food 4 Thought Catering www.food4thoughtcaterers.bm

Oyster Point Yacht Charters 238-7245

Fourways Inn & Catering 1 Middle Rd, Paget, 236-6517, www.fourwaysinn.com, info@ fourways.bm

Spellbound Charters 236-6556, www.spellbound.bm

Gosling’s Ltd. 9 Dundonald St, Hamilton, 2951125, www.goslingsrum.com Kenny’s Homestyle Bakery & Catering 295-2340 MEF Enterprises Ltd. 18 Reid St, Hamilton, 295-8279, www.diningbermuda.com, info@ mef.bm North Street Bakery 6 North Shore Rd, Flatts, 292-3988 Portuguese Bakery 11 Addendum Ln, Pembroke, 2961222 Quality Catering 234-0186, qualitycatering@ northrock.bm Sweet P 747-2060 Sweet Saak Bakery 535-2253 Triple J’s Products (Juliette Jackson) 238-2813

Spirit of Bermuda 737-5665 UberVida 236-2222, www.ubervida.net, ubervidabda@gmail.com

FLORISTS Demco 14 South Shore Rd, Devonshire, 234-7777, www.demco.bm, demco@northrock.bm East End Flower Alley 297-1929, www.eastendfloweralley. com El Shaddai 236-2469, www.elshaddaiflorist. com Flowers by GiMi 37 Front St, Hamilton, 297-4464, www.flowersbygimi.com, info@ flowersbygimi.com Gardine’s Flowers ‘N Things Marketplace Plaza, Shelly Bay, 110 North Shore Rd, Hamilton Parish, 293-4971 Petals 292-7303, www.petalsbermuda. com

297-8104 Gibbons Company 21 Reid St, Hamilton, 295-0022 Horton’s–The Original Black Rum Cake 293-8805, www.hortons.bm International Imports 44 Par-la-Ville Rd, Hamilton, 2921661, interim@northrock.bm

Island Trading 93 Reid St East, Hamilton, 2920400, www.islandtrading.bm The Irish Linen Shop 31 Front St, Hamilton, 295-4089, irishlinen@logic.bm The Island Shop 3 Queen St, Hamilton, 292-5292 Otto Wurz Vallis Bldg, Hamilton, 295-1247

Cake Boutique Celebration 304-8181

Wilks Catering 39 Devon Spring Rd, Devonshire, 236-3584

GIFTS

Pulp & Circumstance 4 Washington Ln, Hamilton, 5429586

Crow Lane Bakery 110 North Shore Rd, Hamilton Par-

Zaki Bakery 40 Court St, Hamilton, 292-8250

A.S. Cooper & Sons, Ltd. 59 Front St, Hamilton, 295-3961, www.ascooper.bm

Shelly Hamill, Artist 970-379-0928, www.shellyhamill. com, shelly@hamill.com

CHARTERS & CRUISES

Bermuda Gifts & Ideas 505-4438, www.bermudagiftideas. com

TABS Bermuda Shorts www.authenticshorts.bm, info@ authenticshorts.com

Bermuda Jam Factory www.bermudajamfactory.com

HOTELS & VENUES

Ana Luna Adventures 504-3780 Andrea Christine Charters 236-1258

Astwood Park 236-5902

Bermuda Barefoot Cruises 236-3498

Bermuda Perfumery 5 Queen St, St. George’s, 2930627, www.bermuda-perfumery. com

Fantasea Diving and Cruises 236-1300

Bermuda Stripping & Refinishing 236-2886

Lady Boats 236-0127, www.ladyboats.com, ladyboats@northrock.bm

Bermuda Botanical Gardens 169 South Rd, Paget, 236-5902

Bluck’s 4 Front St, Hamilton, 295-5367

Bermuda National Trust 2 Pomander Ln, Paget, 236-6483, www.bnt.bm

Aristocat Catamaran 236-1300

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Lady Tamara Charters 236-0127

Brown & Co. 3 Front St, Hamilton, 295-3838

MV Defiance Cruises 238-8346

Dockside Glass & Rum Cakes

Bermuda Aquarium, Museum & Zoo 40 North Shore Rd, Flatts, 2932727, www.bamz.org

Bermuda Society of Arts 17 Church St, City of Hamilton, 292www.bermudianweddings.com

3824, www.bsoa.com Cambridge Beaches 30 King’s Point Rd, Somerset, 2340331, www.cambridgebeaches.com Coco Reef Resort South Shore Rd, Paget, 236-5416, info@cocoreef.bm National Museum of Bermuda 1, The Keep, Dockyard, Sandys, 234-1418, www.bmm.bm Coral Beach & Tennis Club 236-2233, www.coralbeachclub. com

Rosewood Tucker’s Point 60 Tucker’s Point Dr, Harrington Sound, Hamilton Parish, 298-4000, www.rosewoodtuckerspoint.com Royal Palms Hotel 24 Rosemont Ave, Pembroke, 2921854, www.royalpalms.bm St. George’s Club 6 Rose Hill, St. George’s, 297-1200, www.stgeorgesclub.bm St. George’s Foundation Admirals Walk, 16 Water St, St. George’s, 297-8043, www. stgeorgesfoundation.org

Link to Link 20 North Shore Rd, Hamilton Parish, 293-7933

Double D Videography 292-3347, www.ddvideography. com

Sovereign 13 Reid St, Hamilton, 292-7933, www.sovereign.bm, sovereign@ logic.bm

Fiander Foto www.fianderfoto.com, info@fianderfoto.com

Swiss Timing 95 Front St, Hamilton, 295-1376 Walker Christopher 9 Front St, Hamilton, 295-1466, www.walkerchristopher.com, info@ walkerchristopher.com

Gavin Howarth Photography 532-3234, www.gavinhowarth.com Jill Rubinchak Photography 799-8820 Kenneth Fox Jr. 335-4069, perspectiveimage101@ gmail.com

Surf Side 236-7100, www.surfsidebermuda. com

MUSIC Adrian Ridgeway 297-2192

Moongate Productions 300-5005, www.moongateproductions.com

Tom Moore’s Tavern 7 Walsingham Ln, Harrington Sound, Hamilton Parish, 293-8020, www.tommoores.com

A&P Mobile DJ Service 293-6014

Photographic Associates 295-5619, www.simonsstudio.com

Bermuda Islands Pipe Band 297-1805

Waterville The Bermuda National Trust, 2 Pomander Rd, Paget, 236-6483, www.bnt.bm

Bermuda Musical Limbo Revue 293-0959

Sacha Blackburne Photography 293-5088, www.sachablackburne. com

Fort St. Catherine 15 Coot Pond Rd, St. Catherine’s Point, St. George’s, 297-1920

JEWELLERY

Danny Garcia 238-1777

Greenbank Guest House and Cottages 17 Salt Kettle Rd, Paget, 236-3615, www.greenbankbermuda.com

Washington Mall West, 7 Reid St, Hamilton, 236-9009 , www. alexandramosher.com, studio@ alexandramosher.com

Grotto Bay Beach Resort 11 Blue Hole Hill, Hamilton Parish, 293-8333, www.grottobay.com

Astwood Dickinson Co. Ltd. 83-85 Front St, Hamilton, 2925805, www.astwooddickinson.com, www.astwooddickinson.bm

Elbow Beach Hotel 60 South Shore Rd, Paget, 2363535, www.mandarinoriental.com/ bermuda Fairmont Hamilton Princess 76 Pitt’s Bay Rd, Hamilton, 2953000, reservations@fairmont.com, www.fairmont.com Fairmont Southampton Resort South Shore Rd, Southampton, 238-8000, southampton@fairmont. com

Mid Ocean Club 293-0330, themidoceanclubbermuda.com Newstead Belmont Hills 27 Harbour Rd, Paget, 236-6060, www.newsteadbelmonthills.com Pompano Beach Club 36 Pompano Beach Rd, Southampton, 234-0222, www.pompanobeachclub.com The Reefs 56 South Shore Rd, Southampton, 238-0222, www.thereefs.com Riddell’s Bay Golf & Country Club 26 Riddell’s Bay, Warwick, 2381060, www.riddellsbay.com Rosedon Hotel 61 Pitt’s Bay Rd, Pembroke, 2951640, www.rosedonbermuda.com Rosemont Guest Apartments 41 Rosemont Ave, Pembroke, 2921055, www.rosemont.bm www.bermudianweddings.com

Alexandra Mosher Studio Jewellery

Craig “Bubbles” Darrell Mobile Disco 238-3455 Kevin Michael Ingham 238-3375 Legacy Band 337-2861 Razzle Dazzle Mobile Music Services 236-6870 Tempo Entertainment Ltd. 335-0205 Tony Bari 236-1314 Working Title 516-0281

Atlantic Jewellery Studio Washington Mall, 18 Church St, Hamilton, 296-1554, www. atlanticjewellery.com, Jacquie@ atlanticjewellery.com

PHOTOGRAPHERS & VIDEOGRAPHERS

Davidrose Jewelry 20 Water St, St. George’s, 2367673, www.davidrose.bm, info@ davidrose.bm

Alexander Masters Photography 705-2868, www.alexandermasters. com

E. R. Aubrey 101 Front St, Hamilton, 296-3171 Everrich Jewellery 28 Queen St, Hamilton, 295-2110 Gem Cellar Bermuda Old Cellar Ln, 47 Front St, Hamilton, 292-3042 H.S. & J.E. Crisson Ltd. 55 Front St, Hamilton, 295-2351, www.crisson.com, info@crisson.bm Kirk’s Jewellery Design & Repair Butterfield Place, 67 Front St, Hamilton, 296-9428

360° Visual Video Production 297-3600, www.360visualvp.com

Two+Quarter Studios 295-1072, www.photo214.com Visual Impact Photography 295-4755, www.viphotograph.com Wayne Todd Photography 293-8713 Zeudi Hinds Photography 737-5077, www.zeudihindsphotography.com

PRINTING & STATIONERY Atlantic Printing Services 13 Addendum Ln, Pitt’s Bay Rd, Pembroke, 293-3915 Bermuda Press Ltd. 13 Addendum Ln, Pitt’s Bay Rd, Pembroke, 292-6100, www.bermu-

Allan Davidson Photography 335-1740, www.bermudaphotos. com Amanda Temple Photography 236-2339, www.amandatemple. com Artistic Impressions 232-3320, www.artisticimpressionsphotography.net Becky Spencer Photography 238-5236, www.beckyspencer.com Bruce Leseur Photography 236-6461, bleseur@northrock.bm Spring 2015 | 71

Directory dapress.bm Chameleon Print Express 34 Burnaby Hill, Hamilton, 2953950 Engravers Ltd. 295-7118, www.engravers.bm Island Press Ltd. 19 Elliot St, Hamilton, 295-1944

The Dining Room 68 St. Anne’s Rd, Southampton, 238-8679 Flying Fish 69 Pitt’s Bay Rd, Pembroke, 2952167 Fourways Inn & Cottage Colony 1 Middle Rd, Paget, 236-6517 Frog & Onion Pub and Restaurant Royal Naval Dockyard, 234-2900 Harbourfront Restaurant BUEI, 40 Crow Ln, Pembroke, 2954207 Harley’s 76 Pitts Bay Rd, Pembroke, 2953000 Harry’s at the Waterfront 96 Pitt’s Bay Rd, Hamilton, 2925533

Pulp & Circumstance Papers 4 Washington Ln, Hamilton, 5429586 Triangle Press Ltd. 104 St. John’s Rd, Pembroke, 2921614

RESTAURANTS 1609 76 Pitts Bay Rd, Pembroke, 2953000 Ascots Restaurant 24 Rosemont Ave, Pembroke, 2959644 Barracuda Grill 5 Burnaby Hill, Hamilton, 292-1609 Bacci Fairmont Southampton Resort, 101 South Shore Rd, Southampton, 238-2555 Beau Rivage Newstead Belmont Hills Golf Resort, 96 Harbour Rd, Paget, 232-8686 Bistro J Chancery Ln, Hamilton, 296-8546 Blû Bar & Grill 97 Middle Rd, Warwick, 232-2323 Bolero Brasserie 95 Front St, Hamilton, 292-4507 Café Cairo Restaurant 93 Front St, Hamilton, 295-5155 Cambridge Beaches 30 King’s Point Rd, Sandys, 2340331 Coconuts at The Reefs 56 South Rd, Southampton, 2380222

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Henry VIII Pub & Restaurant 69 South Shore Rd, Southampton, 238-1977 Hog Penny Restaurant 5 Burnaby St, Hamilton, 292-2534 House of India 57 North St, Hamilton, 295-6450 Island Restaurant Group 295-3648, www.irg.bm Jasmine Lounge 101 South Shore Rd, Southampton, 238-8000 Lido Restaurant Elbow Beach Sea Terrace, Paget, 236-9884 La Trattoria 23 Washington Ln, Hamilton, 2951877 Little Venice 32 Bermudiana Rd, Hamilton, 2953503 L’Oriental Restaurant 32 Bermudiana Rd, Hamilton, 2967475 Lobster Pot & Boathouse Bar 6 Bermudiana Rd, Hamilton, 2926898 Mickey’s Beach Bistro & Bar Elbow Beach Sea Terrace, Paget, 236-9107 Newport Gastropub 101 South Shore Rd, Southampton, 238-8000 Oceans Club 101 South Shore Rd, Southampton, 238-8000 Pickled Onion 53 Front St, Hamilton, 295-2263

Pearl Sushi Restaurant 87 Front St, Hamilton, 295-9343 Port O’Call 87 Front St, Hamilton, 295-5373 The Point 60 Tucker’s Point Dr, Harrington Sound, Hamilton Parish, 298-4000 Red Steakhouse and Bar 55 Front St., Hamilton, 292-7331 Ruby Murray 2 Chancery Ln, Pembroke, 2955058

53 Reid St, Hamilton, 292-2051 Bersalon 295-4808 Gillian’s Beauty Salon 14 South Shore Rd, Devonshire, 232-0496 Inverurie Day Spa Fairmont Hamilton Princess, 76 Pitt’s Bay Rd, Pembroke, 295-7016 La Serena Spa The Reefs, 56 South Shore Rd, Southampton, 239-0184

Rustico 8 North Shore Rd, Flatts, 295-5212

Lush Makeup Lash & Brow Bar 20 Church St, Washington Mall, 2nd Floor, Hamilton, 295-5874

Tom Moore’s Tavern Bailey’s Bay, Hamilton Parish, 2938020

Newstead Spa Newstead Belmont Hills Golf Resort, 27 Harbour Rd, Paget, 249-7119

Victoria Grill 29 Victoria St, Hamilton, 296-5050

Ocean Spa at Cambridge Beaches 30 King’s Point Rd, Sandys, 2340331, www.cambridgebeaches.com

Wahoo’s Bistro & Patio Water St, St. George’s, 297-1307 Waterlot Inn 101 South Shore Rd, Southampton, 238-8000

RENTALS & TENTS Apex Ice and Party Rentals 234-6994, 337-4240 Bermuda Rentals 25 Serpentine Rd, Pembroke, 2927172 Class Act Designs 45 Middle Rd, Devonshire, 5347493, classactdesigns@logic.bm D’Crazy Rentals & Party Planning 333-0053 Elements Floral Designs & Gifts 734-3482 Exclusive Events 238-3331, www.eebermuda.com Grandview Tent Rentals 17 Cherry Dale, Smith’s, 297-8850

Salon 27 27 Reid St, Hamilton, 295-2727 Salon Pink 14 Parliament St, Hamilton, 2957465 Serenity Spa 33 Pompano Beach Rd, Southampton, 292-1126 The Spa at Elbow Beach 60 South Shore Rd, Paget, 2363535 Strands Hair Salon & Skin Spa 31 Reid St, Hamilton, 295-0935, www.strands.bm, info@strands.bm Tangles Hair Salon 20 Reid St, Hamilton, 292-8294 Transformations 6 Walker Arcade, Reid St, Hamilton, 295-4304 Sense Spa, Rosewood Tucker’s Point 298-4000

Island Rentals 295-5134 Lambert & Lambert Canopy Rentals 236-1519, elambert@northrock.bm Pavilion Tents 705-3061 Undercover Tent Rentals 3 Belleholme, 2nd Ave, Pembroke, 296-0127

SALONS & SPAS Allure – An Aveda Salon 12 Church St, Hamilton, 292-4063 Bang Bang Hair www.bermudianweddings.com

Willow Stream Spa Fairmont Southampton Resort, 238-8000

Rose of Sharon Wedding Coordinators 232-2853, www.rosbda.com

TRANSPORTATION

Select Sites Group 292-9741, www.selectsitesgroup.com

ASX Luxury Transport 505-2814 Beeline Transport 293-0303 Bermuda Executive Limo 292-0282 Bermuda Train Company 236-3130

Sweet Dreams Bridal Consultants 232-0793, www.sweetdreamsbermuda.com, sweetdreamsbermuda@yahoo.com To Have and To Hold Wedding and Event Planning 236-7473, www.tohaveandtoholdbermuda.com

Bermudaful Moments 333-5886, www.bermudafulmoments.com BTA Dispatching Ltd 296-2121 CEO Transport 234-4366 Exclusively Elite Executive Taxi Service 333-4985 Lady Bug Services 535-1283 Rover Executive Transport 335-9100 V.I.P. Taxi Service 534-8688, www.viptaxibermuda.com

TRAVEL PLANNERS Bermuda Travel 781-662-1953, www.bermudatravel.bm, info@ bermudatravel.bm Worldview Travel Ltd. 10-12 Burnaby St, Hamilton, 292-3033, www.worldviewtravel.bm, info@worldviewtravel. bm Olivers Travel Service 236-6304, sue@oliverstravel.bm Watlington & Conyers Ltd. 15 Front St West, Hamilton, 295-3815

WEDDING & EVENT PLANNERS All the Trimmings 535-9992, www.allthetrimmings.bm, katie@ allthetrimmings.bm Bermuda Bride 295-8697, www.bermudabride.com Bermuda Event Solutions 236-9469, www.eventsolutions.bm, info@eventsolutions.bm Bermuda Fairytale Weddings 599-0756, www.bermudafairytaleweddings.com The Bridal Suite Bermuda 292-2025, www.bridalsuitebermudaweddings. com, inquiry@bridalsuitebermudawedding.com Destination Wedding Bermuda 236-8252, www.destinationweddingbermuda. com Planning Factory International 531-7250, www.planningfactory.com www.bermudianweddings.com

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