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Maryland resident Joan Vassos, 61, is shown enjoying a televised date with Gerry Turner, 72, star of “The Golden Bachelor,” an ABC reality TV show whose first season attracted more than six million viewers last fall. Although Vassos — one of the show’s 22 contestants — didn’t get a marriage proposal, she made good friends among her fellow bachelorettes.
hope to follow in Hulkower and Vassos’ footsteps. Hulkower first heard about the casting call from her niece, who encouraged her to apply. The sense of community that grew from their appearance on the show has been transformative. Before participating as a contestant, Vassos, 61, said she was used to living as a widow in a couples’ world since nearly all of her friends were mar-
ried or in relationships. But then she “walked into this room with 21 other women who were in the same boat as me.” Hulkower agreed. “It’s like being at summer camp, where you make friends for life.” Before leaving for Los Angeles, both women said they panicked a bit when they saw ABC’s suggested packing list, which
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Inside ABC’s ‘Golden Bachelor’ By Laura Sturza The hope that lasting love can happen later in life recently got a huge boost, thanks to two women from the mid-Atlantic who appeared on the first season of the popular ABC program The Golden Bachelor, which premiered last fall. The show is a spinoff of the reality TV shows The Bachelor, which premiered in 2002, and the 2003 series The Bachelorette. The franchise produces romance and relationship programs that offer unmarried contestants a chance to find love — on national television. Not only did Joan Vassos of Rockville, Maryland and Nancy Hulkower of Alexandria, Virginia become ambassadors of the idea that romance is possible for people over 60, but they also got an unexpected bonus: new friends among the 22 contestants. When they flew to Los Angeles last August in the hopes of finding love and marriage, they didn’t know that a different type of deep relationship awaited them. “The camaraderie and the friendships with the [other] women...truly, I did not expect it,” Hulkower said. “I went on looking for love, like everybody else did. What came together was so much more than that. We all really stuck with each other and (have) supported one another since then.” While neither woman was among the final three who were selected to go on hometown dates with 72-year-old Gerry Turner, the pair invited four of their fellow contestants, who have become close friends, to come for a visit in February.
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