Brenda Eulogies

Brenda

In Loving Memory 15/8/1947 ~12/4/2025 1

In The Strength You Left Behind Your journey wasn’t easy, and neither was your way, You led with a fire we couldn’t comprehend, But followed, for your heart was true.

You taught us the meaning of courage, Without asking for praise or reward.

A quiet confidence filled every step, The way you fought life’s battles ~ With nothing but grit and grace.

We are the ones who remember now, Holding tight to your unbreakable spirit, The courage you wore like armor each day.

Sumitra Manda

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A Eulogy to Honour & Remember

Brenda Campbell

A Woman of Dignity & Strength

I didn’t have the privilege of knowing Brenda Campbell personally, but from the moment I stepped into her home, I felt her presence in every photo, every carefully chosen object, and most of all - in the warmth and generosity of her husband Grant and her sister-in-law Margot, who welcomed me in and so kindly shared story after story about this remarkable woman.

Brenda passed away peacefully on the 12th of April 2025 at around 5am, at the Mornington Centre. She left this world with the same quiet strength and dignity that she brought into every moment of her life. And while she may have slipped away gently, what she’s left behind is anything but quiet - Brenda leaves an imprint, a ripple of love and impact that will be felt forever by those who knew her, loved her, and shared life with her.

Brenda was born in Middlesex, England on the 15th of August 1947 to Ivy and Alf Harris. Her dad, Alf, was a returned soldier who worked on the railways, and she was welcomed into the world by her older brother Bob. While she didn’t speak much about her early years, you get the sense that Brenda was always more interested in the present - and what came next - than looking back.

When she was nine, the family moved to Zimbabwe - known then as Rhodesia - in search of a warmer climate, and it 3

was there that Brenda’s love of animals really took root. She adored her childhood dog, who apparently lived under her bed, and her dad, who worked on the railway, had a bit of a habit of bringing home stray animals - including monkeys.

Many of them bit her, but it didn’t matter. Brenda loved them anyway. Her heart was big enough for all creatures great and small - which just happened to be one of her favourite shows too.

She was bright, well-liked, and did well at school. She loved ballroom dancing as a young girl, and although she had signature curls that she wasn’t particularly fond of - she never let them get in the way of looking polished. In fact, she always looked immaculate. Tailored clothes, put together, not a hair out of place. Even her natural beauty didn’t require much makeup - it was just who she was.

At 18, Brenda moved to Australia, joining her brother who had already settled here. She lived with him in Glenroy and then Essendon and began working at Joseph Lucas Spare Parts in Carlton. It was there that she met a quiet young man working on the ground floor - a spare parts salesman named Grant Campbell. Brenda was working in the filing department upstairs and would often relieve the switchboard.

And somewhere between those two floors, something special sparked.

Eventually, Grant built up the nerve to ask her if she’d like a ride in “the fastest Holden on earth” - or at least that’s what he thought it was. He took off with her in the car, only to be pulled over twice. The police weren’t so much worried about the speed, as they were concerned that Brenda was okay! Which tells you a lot about how Grant drove… and a lot about Brenda’s calm composure. She was a lady - gentle, feminine, gracious - but it was clear from that moment that there was a quiet courage and an adventurous streak in her too.

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They courted for around three years and were married on the 22nd of February 1969. After a few moves - first South Yarra, then Malvern - they eventually bought their forever home in East Brighton, where they stayed for the next 30 years. That house was the backdrop to so many treasured memories.

Brenda was smart, practical, and incredibly organised. She took great pride in everything she did. While she and Grant met at work, she was also wise enough to know that working in the same place as your husband wasn’t always ideal - so she moved on. After some time in another auto parts business, she transitioned into an earthmoving company, then a recording company and then the grocery industry, where she would build the rest of her career.

Her final role was as a shipping manager - what we’d now call logistics - and she managed the seamless movement of over a thousand containers a year. A massive task, but not surprising when you realise how capable, efficient, and composed Brenda was. She worked hard, looked after herself, and enjoyed good health for most of her life. She survived breast cancer 35 years ago though, and went through IVF treatment 10 times. She especially looked after what she ate and took care of herself in the way that people who genuinely value their wellbeing often do.

Brenda and Grant were a truly devoted couple. They accepted each other completely, supported one another unconditionally, and did life together in a way that was grounded, equal, and filled with love. Whether it was backing Grant through starting his own business, getting in a car and rolling it through the mud, or simply sharing the daily rhythm of life - they were a team. A very good team.

It was on a whim that they purchased their home in Claremont Street, Mount Eliza. They had no plans to leave 5

Brighton East, but they both enjoyed looking at houses - and when they saw number 64-66, they just knew. It was the right house, at the right time.

In later years, Brenda gave so much of herself to others. She volunteered, she connected, she contributed - with her time, her kindness, and her heart. She made friends wherever she went, and lived her life with a quiet sense of confidence and care. There’s something unshakeable about Brenda that kept coming through as I heard stories and looked at photos - that gorgeous smile, those bright blue eyes, that unmistakable presence.

She was, by all accounts, a shy girl growing up. But as a woman, Brenda was strong. She didn’t ask for attention, but she wasn’t afraid to step up when she was needed. She didn’t think of herself first - her instinct was always to help, to advocate, to make things better. What looked like bravery was really just Brenda being Brenda - a steady force, a kind heart, and someone who didn’t hesitate when it came to love or loyalty.

About nine years ago, Brenda was diagnosed with Parkinson’s, which triggered a storm of health challenges.

And while her body changed, her character didn’t. She carried herself through the toughest of times with the same quiet dignity and inner strength that had always been there.

Even in her final weeks - after time in Frankston Hospital and then the Mornington Centre - Brenda held herself with grace.

When I asked Grant what Brenda had taught him, he didn’t even pause: “She taught me how to be brave.” And I felt that.

Because even though I didn’t know her in life, I could see her impact in the eyes of the people who did. She was thoughtful, intelligent, fiercely loving, and generous to a fault.

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She changed the world the day she was born - and it changed again the moment she left it.

Today, we remember Brenda - a woman of deep strength, unshakable values, impeccable style, and an unforgettable smile. A woman whose love of animals and ballroom dancing was only matched by her love of Grant, and the people lucky enough to be in her orbit.

Brenda was - and always will be - irreplaceable.

Veronica Lees-Amato ~ Celebrant 7

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My Darling Brenda

Brenda was fearless, utterly fearless, someone of intense integrity, courage & compassion, she was afraid of no one.

She had an innate sense of right and wrong and would stick to it no matter what. She cared about people too, once we saw a B Double tailgating a Suzuki Swift not more than a metre off the Suzuki's tail. She immediately got on the phone to the trucking company, complete with the truck's Rego number, asked for the manager, ticked him off and told him to get on the phone to the truck driver - immediately - and made him tell the truck driver to back off NOW! Another time like that, the world's fastest rally driver came up behind us on the Black Spur on our way home from a trial, trailer on the back, ducking and weaving, zoomed past us but there was a car was coming in the opposite direction, so the rally driver locked up, smoke everywhere, nearly took us and the car we were following, out, our mate, with the club trailer on. Brenda noted the sponsor, got home rang the sponsor and demanded the Rally drivers name (Sponsor was a local brake place so easy find), rang the rally driver, gave him a ticking off told him she had some contacts at CAMS and told him to apologise to the guy in front of us at the time.

The guy actually did ring our mate & apologised.

Often introduced to others as a legend. I loved her and she loved me.

She liked the simple things, going for a drive, coffee at the beach, pottering in the garden, visiting friends, sitting by the fire, patting a dog. Brenda was born in England, grew up in Rhodesia, came here in about 65. She was the Rhodesian Ballroom dancing Champion.

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She just loved animals, especially dogs. She was never afraid of dogs.

She once rescued a Doberman who got his front leg skewered by a piece of rusty wire fence that had gone half way up his leg. The Doberman was naturally upset but Brenda's calming influence steadied him while I cut the offending wire off.

Took him to the vet with the wire in his leg and subsequently saved him.

Another time at a mud trial where the property owner had Irish wolfhounds. Someone gave the dog a chop bone which got stuck in his mouth.

Those dogs are huge and look pretty fearsome but Brenda pacified the dog, calmly opened his mouth and removed the chop bone.

Once she rescued a dog off the road that she thought was dead. Picked him up, took him to the vet, got him looked at, advertised him in the paper and nearby milkbars but he was never claimed so we adopted him. We called him Wart Did much the same with the neighbour’s cat, who used to visit us all the time. When the neighbour moved out and took the cat to a cattery in Boronia, Brenda went straight out there and got him back.

I met Brenda at Lucas where she got a job as a filing clerk.

Brenda was a very proud person and when she lived in Africa everyone seemed to have houseboys & housemaids, who did everything for them.

Her boss at Lucas once asked her to make the tea. “I was employed as a filing clerk," she asserted - “not to make the tea!!”

Soon after, we married & we lived in flats in South Yarra and Malvern, then bought a tumbledown house - ideal future 10

home site - in East Brighton, renovated it all by ourselves, sold it after 30 years and moved to Mt Eliza.

Brenda was a born leader and it seemed like anything she joined she was soon at the top of the tree. Seemed she was a magnet for committees hand was always pressed to be on one or the other.

She joined the Mt Eliza Ladies Probus club and was President within 6 months. Wasn't always all that interested in being on committees but knew if she wanted to press a point it was the right thing to do.

I don’t think there was ever a moment throughout our married life when I wasn’t intensely proud of her and the way she carried herself.

The Mud Trials We got involved with the Mudtrials in the early ‘70s when my drag racing career was cut short, shortly after marrying. We were at Calder and saw Graham Withers crash his top fuel dragster, after me telling Brenda how safe drag racing was.

Never stood a chance after that!

Anyway I’d seen the trials on the newsreels at the movies so when the Park Orchards trial was advertised in the Sun, rather than going to the races that weekend we went to the trial.

I met Coxy, Fred Undy, Dale Shaw, Rob Humphreys, Barry Hudson and a few others there & joined the Austin 7 Club.

Brenda was quite interested & liked motor sport.

She probably thought this one was safer for me!

She used to go to the car races with her Dad in Rhodesia.

Even knew a guy there with an ERA - Jimmy DeVilliers.

Brenda enjoyed being my passenger in the trials and was so for quite a few years. While she was always brave she 11

reckoned she'd done enough when we rolled first that way.

Then the other and finally gave up when we went over backwards!

She was a massive defender of me though - once she devised a plan when they wanted to ban me from the trials for being too good. Made up stickers -”If you can’t beat them, ban them” We won that contest too.

Loved to hear a bit of goss, but never spread gossip herself.

Loved the garden and loved going to the Open Gardens which gave us ideas for our own garden. The Brighton place had an established garden so not a lot of scope there for modifications.

However after we moved to Mt Eliza we virtually had a blank canvas.

At one of the Open Gardens she mentioned to a volunteer that we wouldn’t mind having our garden on the scheme.

Sure enough, 12 months later we had a call from someone who asked if we were still interested. and could they come round tomorrow.

They did just that and we were on the scheme for 3 years. A great source of pride for both of us. Raised some money for charity, and Tammie Fraser came to one of our openings.

‘Didn't visit my place!’ one of the committee complained to us.

As it happened not only was our garden on the Open Garden Scheme, many other clubs made it a day out and our garden was on display many more times throughout the year. A thoroughly enjoyable time. Most of them offered a fee which we donated to charity.

Historic Winton Bill Sheehan, sometime President of the Austin 7 Club decided it would be a good idea to run an

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all historic race meeting following the success of a similar meeting in Sydney. Bill asked me as a garage owner if I'd sponsor a couple of races and whether Brenda could help on the gate.

The rest is history, 28 years later Brenda had made a real mark on the Historic movement and Historic Winton became the benchmark for all other Historic race meetings in the country.

During this time she was affectionately known as Maggie Thatcher. the Iron Maiden and Attila the Hen! Historic race organisers in Tassie, NSW South Australia and even Sandown all made serious approaches to her to run their meetings. Her proudest achievement in the historic scene though, was to have an international rule changed to allow competitors from other countries to compete here without having to forgo their own country's racing licence.

We had made it a habit to import cars from overseas. Took her 3 years but she never gave up on it.

Graeme Hoinville, another motorsports luminary, took great pleasure in introducing the President of the Historic Commission Gunner Elmgren to Brenda when he visited Australia not long after the rule was changed.

Nothing stopped Brenda and even when she'd had enough of the meeting she still went back to CAMS every other day for 2 years to digitise all the Historic records. Mostly to help Jo Coad, but. as well to ensure the Historic car records were properly done. She knew all the guys of course. She told me that often within the CAMS office people would say ‘Ask Brenda, she'll know!

Aside from the Mud trials the Austin 7 Club also ran a round of the Victorian Motorkhana Championship. Brenda, in her

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usual fashion, and probably as the last man standing, offered to run one which was, again as usual, most successful and she was proud to achieve more sponsorship than all before.

Grand Prix As a direct result of Winton the Grand Prix corporation rang us one day and asked if we’d be interested in running the Historics at the Grand Prix, since we weren't doing Winton any more. The Historics at the Grand Prix were run in pretty haphazard fashion but the AGPC needed a more professional approach than that.

Brenda couldn’t believe it but we were both flattered enough to go along to an interview and it was a fait accompli, we got the job. Brenda handled that in exactly the same way she did everything. Minutely organised, no fear, no favours.

The Marysville Bushfires: the VHRR thought it would be a good idea to donate some funds but not through the channels that often get clogged up and forgotten. Rather, they would raise the funds, then find a worthy cause. Somehow Brenda got involved. I think Tatey probably asked her.

Through the Phillip Island Classic race meeting $25000 was raised at an auction on the night and then through a substantial donation from the Club. Brenda was then asked to find a worthy recipient. We went up to Marysville to get the lay of the land and pretty soon got in touch with the SES. Brenda asked, ‘What would you do with $25000? Jaws of life, they said - only 12 members in Marysville, so 25k was a big deal.

Get us the brochures B said so we took that to the VHRR committee ~ great idea and good to know equipment would be on hand if ever VHRR members might need it.

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Mornington Police Senior Community Register We’d been living in Mt Eliza for a few years when Brenda was still working and while she liked her job as shipping manager for Riviana foods she'd pretty well decided she'd had enough of working and as was her consideration for others gave the boss 2 years notice of her retirement.

By then she was pretty sick of the cars so when the MPSCR came up she immediately offered to help.

She'd been given some info about the group in Mornington who visited old people in their homes, rang them on a regular basis to keep them company, took them on bus trips and various outings.

Just ideal for Brenda. She did that for ages and it was the best thing she could have done. Just loved visiting, calling, running bus trips, and would come home on a real high.

Later on, unfortunately that was also the beginning of her Parkinson's and after a while she began to slowly lose confidence in her ability to run the trips, and to properly speak and comfort those about her.

But, in the meantime she still took on the job of Editor for that organisation, a job I've recently taken over again.

Coincidentally, soon after Brenda joined the MPSCR, I found that the coordinator Yvonne was a girl I went to State School with when we were 5. Hadn't seen Yvonne for 60 years.

Brenda had opinions but was never overbearing with them, preferring action rather than words. She could be fiery at any time, courageous, never hesitated to defend someone when necessary, or to ask rowdy people to stop swearing.

She was the one to initiate overseas travel. Took me to Africa and the UK, ‘I’m going to England, you can come if you like’ and Africa - Let’s go and visit the Old Country. Of course I

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thoroughly enjoyed all that.

Brenda was enormously generous, always one to make a donation to a worthy cause, supported little girls in Africa through World Vision for maybe 40 years, used to give Ambos money for a coffee when she saw them, bought her niece a car once and bought her parents a house. And anything else she could think of.

Life went on but at a much slower pace for Brenda, we went for drives, went to the races where it was a joy to see all the people we had got to know over the years, but gradually the Parkinson's took over and became a lot more difficult for Brenda to deal with.

You cared for me and I cared for you more than anyone will ever know. 55 years of true love. The last few years were tough on you but the fire burned 'til the end and now the anguish, the pain, the torment and the fear have gone Rest in Peace my Darling

Grant

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Brenda

For those of you who thought Brenda’s interest was only in cars I thought I needed to show you a different side of her.

Brenda came into our lives when Grant brought her down to Rosebud to meet the family. And when I got to thinking about Brenda before writing this it did occur to me that it must have been quite a daunting experience for her. She’d come to Australia not too long before meeting us, leaving her

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family and friends in Zimbabwe – although fortunately she did have her brother Bob, who had come to Australia earlier and was a great source of support and comfort during those early days.

Her first encounter with the Campbell clan meant meeting not only Mum – who was always a delight and Dad, who could be a bit fearsome, but my younger sister and me and we were very curious about our brother’s new girl- friend, this was the first one he’d brought home. Because she and Grant were arriving late on Friday, we’d left a note for Brenda saying she needed to be up at 5 the next morning to milk the goats, feed the chickens and collect their eggs – we didn’t actually have any animals except a cat. What she made of the note I don’t recall (she quite possibly called us idiots but was polite enough then not to say so). But she quickly won over Mum and Dad, with Mum thinking she was just the person for ‘her boy’. And she certainly passed muster with Merry because they both had a great affinity with animals. I didn’t share this love of all things furry, but as good fortune would have it Brenda was an excellent seamstress, knitter and crafter, all the things that I loved (well except for the knitting, but now I had Brenda) - and so the threads of our lives began to be tied together forever.

Brenda became a loved and essential part of the family. I say essential because, as many of you would know, she was an extremely organized and trusted person, particularly when it came to bookkeeping (I think this must be an in-law thing in our family because my husband is the same!). She became Mum’s daughter number 3, and truth be told she was the probably the most useful of us all, especially in Mum’s later years when Brenda’s accounting skills were much needed and appreciated. In return Mum would share little housewifely

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tips with Brenda, like telling her to only iron the front of Grant’s shirts because the back wouldn’t be seen since he’d be wearing a jacket! You’d have to ask Grant whether or not she heeded this advice, although I suspect she may have because she had a little cast iron pig at the front door holding a sign that read ‘A tidy house is sign of a dull woman’ – that rather endeared us to her!

Early on Brenda was encouraged by us in various moneymaking ventures. One I remember had us renting a table at a local craft market being held over two days. Brenda stitched little pram quilts, Merry did pottery and I embroidered.

Being the organized soul that she was, Brenda thought it would be a good idea if we prepared extra quilts etc., that we could sew up at night after the first day should we run out.

We sold absolutely nothing – but Brenda gave the best baby quilts as gifts for years to come!

Years seemed to pass in a blur with Brenda always ready and willing to help with any whimsical ideas my sister or I dreamed up. She was very innovative with fancy dress outfits for parties we used to have - she made a gorgeous gypsy and a very regal Moroccan princess. A particular favourite though was an Italian themed party we had, where Brenda and Grant arrived wearing bright green ties with an eye drawn on them ‘Eye ties’ they told us!

While Brenda’s work dress tended to be smart jackets and skirt or slacks and pretty, but sensible shoes, I do remember she loved bright colours, yellows and pinks and reds. One red dress she had was a real stand out and if you were to ask Grant what Bs wore on their first date or what her wedding dress looked like he’d have to think quite hard about it. But he does remember the red dress. It was loosely crocheted, extremely short and she wore it with a flesh-coloured body

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suit underneath - I can tell you she made quite a stir when she walked into the room!

Brenda had a great fondess for her nieces and nephew, always interested in what they were up to and who they were going out with. Her sewing skills came to the fore when she and a dear friend helped me in making our daughter’s wedding dress and the brides-maids dresses. Brenda wasn’t one for drinking - she was more of a coffee enthusiast, insisting on just one more cup before heading out. But bridal sewing seemed to bring out a different side of her. For six intense weeks (though it felt like a year), we stitched nonstop. And at 7 p.m. each evening, we’d set our needles down, pour gin and tonics, and admire our work. Brenda’s flirtation with alcohol ended with those dresses, I think!

Roxane, Brenda’s niece, wrote about her appreciation of Brenda saying: 'Aunty Bs wasn’t the sort of person who asked for attention, but she always paid attention. She didn’t take up space loudly, but she held everything together quietly. Like when she helped to make my wedding dress and three bridesmaids dresses. I don’t even know how many hours she must have poured into it but she never made a big deal out of it - she just worked to make it beautiful - with care and a hushed pride. That kind of presence is rare and I’m so grateful to have had her in my life and loved her for so long.'

A few years after helping out with her niece’s wedding preparations B’s was once more called upon to lend a hand when her nephew, Karl, was getting married to Jules in Queensland. The wedding was on a beach, and he’d forgotten a vital part of his outfit - the sandals - now many people (myself included) would have said ‘can’t you just buy a new pair in Queensland’ - but Brenda just heard the call, thought 20

it was reasonable, and went and got the sandals from the Karl and Jules house in Red Hill – how she ever found them is one of life’s miracles – but she did and took them to Queensland in time for the big day. And here I’d just like to add a few words from Jules and Marlow, Bs niece in law and great nephew in law (I think that’s the relationship!)

‘Brenda was a beautiful human being with a happy smile and a great sense of humour.

We loved her for the true and honest way she lived her life and marvelled at her enduring and committed relationship with your gorgeous brother Grant. This relationship was reinforced when seeing the slide show of Bsy in the mud-buggy with Grant in their younger years!

A true inspiration of a happy union and a life well lived. Our hearts go out to all Bsy’s family, but most especially Grant. xxxx' Every year Brenda and Grant would help our sister put together an elaborate Christmas display for Peter Mac. They’d go into the hospital in the evening and take directions from Merry, all without complaint and indeed with a lot of enjoyment - Brenda always pitched in willingly - because - as with the sandals - that was her way.

Brenda fondness for her nieces, nephews spilt over to her to her great nieces and great nephews when they arrived and she loved hearing of their various exploits, good and bad.

Often before Christmas, she and I would meet at Chadstone to shop for gifts them. She had a knack of forgetting where she parked the car, which always turned the end of our trip into a bit of an adventure trying to find it. Brenda loved a good gossip - whether in person or over the phone - chatting about family or people whom I knew but she’d never met.

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talking about which made our conversations all the more enjoyable.

Brenda was a great one for standing up FOR people, and TO people if she considered their treatment was unfair.

She showed kindness to people in a myriad of ways - never wanting or expecting praise or acknowledgement for what she did. I remember my sister once saying, ‘If Brenda’s in your corner you’ll be OK’.

One of my most endearing and enduring memories of Brenda is when she learnt how to text after my sister died because she knew that we’d texted a dozen times a day.

She did this so that I wouldn’t feel her absence quite so deeply, and it’s this small, thoughtful act that, to me, captures the essence of who Brenda was.

Thank you dear B’s for being you and for being my other sister – I will miss you.

Margot Yeomans

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Brenda Oh! how I hope Brenda is looking down on you all today, how chuffed she would be to see how many have attended her funeral service today. Hello everyone, my name is Yvonne Morrison and I am the Honorary Coordinator for the Mornington Police Senior Community Register. Before I pay homage to Brenda I am firstly going to begin with some ancient history. I first met Grant Campbell 75 years ago when we were both two of the small number of students at the inauguration of the Tootgarook State School. School started off for us in the Progress Association Hall until a one room school was built across the paddock amongst all the bracken fern. The school continually grew in number where upon a second room was added and a second teacher started. After finishing State School our lives went in different directions, and it wasn't until 2008 we met up again. Congratulations Grant on receiving your OBE last year, I'm looking forward to receiving mine this year.

Today as we gather to honor and celebrate Brenda's life, I am grateful for the opportunity to share a few words about Brenda the volunteer, and Brenda our friend, who has touched our lives in such profound ways.

Thank you to the past and present volunteers who are here today, including our long time liaison officer Leading Senior Constable Greg Kraus.

I first met Brenda in May 2008 when she joined the Mornington Police Senior Community Register as a volunteer. Brenda wrote on her application form that she 23

loved gardening, was a life member of the Austin 7 Club, enjoyed organising large motor race meetings and managing staff. All great credentials for becoming a volunteer.

A few weeks after Brenda joined, she came into the office and said to me " My husband wants to know if you are the same Yvonne Morrison that went to Tootgarook State School", where I said YES and Brenda said well my husband is Grant Campbell, you could have knocked me over with a feather, and as the saying goes, the rest is history.

Brenda, began her volunteering by making home visits to our many lonely and vulnerable members, always bringing a ray of sunshine to the many she visited. Brenda also became a very valued and knowledgeable office assistant, bus trip supervisor and a valued committee member, never afraid to state her opinion which I admired about Brenda.

Brenda's final role was when she took over as the Home Visit Coordinator, a role in which Brenda flourished.

At all our fund raising functions Brenda would be there to help, and Grant also on occasion would be our photographer.

For our Christmas concerts, Brenda would donate boxes of individually sliced and packaged Christmas cake donated by her 'Boss', so if her Boss is here today a very big thank you to you. When the office printer had passed its use by date, Brenda and Grant generously donated a new printer.

As Brenda's Parkinsons disease progressed it became more difficult for her to continue as a volunteer and she reluctantly retired in March 2022. Brenda's 14 years of unwavering dedication to the Mornington Police Senior Community Register was truly inspiring, her selflessness, generosity and kindness has left an indelible mark on the volunteers who worked with her and as well as on our community.

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was also my dear friend, along with Fay Hunter who has since moved to Queensland. The three of us would catch up regularly for lunches and afternoon teas, me usually enjoying being the hostess. The three of us would have many laughs and at times a few tears over our life’s problems, all being of comfort to each other. We would always discuss the world’s problems with many and varied opinions. No topic was ever off limits and only rarely were we not all on the same page. We would send emails back and forth, it was pointless ringing Brenda on her mobile as that was usually in the bottom of her bag and more often than not out of charge. Poppy, a toy poodle, was the other love in Brenda's life and when Poppy came to live at the Campbells she was so small and just a beautiful ball of fluff that I gave Poppy the nickname of Powder Puff and that is the name I always used. During the past few years sadly our catch ups became fewer due to Brenda not being well enough. It has been heart breaking watching as Brenda's health deteriorated and her suffering increased. Parkinsons disease with its many symptoms is an insidious disease and hopefully a cure will be found soon.

I would like to finish with this quote - After the night the morning, bidding the darkness to cease, After life's joys and sorrows, the comfort, the sweetness of peace.

Rest In Peace dear Brenda, you have a place in my heart forever.

Thank you.

Yvonne Morrison

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Brenda, my Beautiful Aunty,

10 years ago I suddenly found myself as a single mother.

It’s fair to say I was a very angry woman for a long time.

On the plus side I was fortunate to connect with some amazing women on my journey to finding peace – one of those amazing women was you.

You taught me more than you will ever know and your support was invaluable.

When I underwent a surgery which to me was not a big deal, you constantly checked in on me on a daily basis to see how I was going.

When Covid struck and there were challenging times, you reached out several times to make sure I was okay.

If I found myself in a difficult situation or had a problem you were always there for me with your wise words and calming influence.

You taught me what the word gracious means.

The last 12 months have been difficult for you and despite losing you I accept your loss as I know that you are now at peace.

I recall a time when we had lunch at my father’s house and I could see that you were struggling with your health. As you and Grant were leaving I told you that I loved you, perhaps for the first time in my life, but it is never too late to say those words.

Grant, I love the way you love her …..

I cannot stress enough how grateful I am to you for allowing me to share some special time with Brenda. It has meant the world to me

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You have been amazing and so very brave and I could not have wished for a better partner for Brenda to do life with.

The moment you handed me Brenda’s rings in the hospital and told me she wanted me to have them will be forever etched in my heart as a treasured memory.

And lastly, I recently came across a beautiful poem and to conclude would love to share it with you all ………..

The Dash

I read of a man who stood to speak at a funeral of a friend. He referred to the dates on the tombstone from the beginning…to the end.

He noted that first came the date of birth and spoke of the following date with tears but said what mattered most of all

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was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents all the time they spent alive on earth and now only those who loved them know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own, the cars…the house… the cash. What matters is how we lived and loved and how we spend our dash.

So, think about this long and hard; are there things you’d like to change? For you never know how much time is left that still can be rearranged.

To be less quick to anger and show appreciation more and love the people in our lives like we’ve never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect and more often wear a smile…remembering that this special dash might only last a little while.

So, when your eulogy is being read, with your life’s actions to rehash, would you be proud of the things they say about how you lived your dash?

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Brenda Campbell

Hello, my name is Stephanie Cox and I stand here today along side my Brother in-law Andrew.

We are here to say a few words as members of the OST group.

Fondly known to many as "THE MUDDIES" Brenda and Grant joined the OST in 1973 and were a winning formula together through to 1985. Winning 5 John Pryce trials and 8 Geoff Taylor trophies. Brenda finally hanging up her wet weather gear and gumboots after 12 years and then turning her attention to many other aspects of motorsport and the Austin 7 club, becoming a life member in 1983.

Brenda was a favorite of all the "ATHOL LAMONT" Kindergarten children at trials, who were all naturally drawn to her.

And we have, over the years, tried to apply her advice when confronted with important life decisions.

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One strong memory for me, being a 4yr old budding muddy, on many occasions.... Walking up to Brenda and grabbing her hand, while watching a section. A memory Brenda and I remembered often.

50 years later Brenda became my mentor in learning my role in the work I now do at the Australian Grand Prix.

Brenda and Grant have both been part of all our major events in both our lives and as our lives are shaped by those we meet in our formative years, we are both lucky to have Brenda as one of those people who displayed by example how to be Strong, Back yourself, don't suffer fools and take pride in what you do.

Even in recent years, when travel became difficult... Brenda would always try to make it to our OST Presentation night.

We would look forward to seeing her and her catching up with all that was going on in our families and lives. As she was genuinely interested... as we were with her.

Brenda.... Your intelligence, wit, and laugh will be always remembered fondly, and we thank you for the major part you played in our lives..

Rest Easy.

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Brenda Campbell My name is Glynis Gibbons and I am the President of the Austin 7 club and have been asked to say a few words.

Brenda Campbell first became involved in our club, initially a navigator in Grant’s car in Observed Section Trials (also known as mudtrials).

But it was her organisational skills that soon became apparent and led her to become a major contributor to our highly successful historic car race meeting (Historic Winton). From the early beginnings of this event, Brenda managed the Gate but very rapidly took on more senior roles for this event culminating in 14 years as Secretary /Director of the meeting from 1987-2001.

In addition to her Historic Winton role, Brenda became a strong presence at the Confederation of Australian Motor Sport or CAMS, representing our Club for the race meeting and Observed Section Trials interests. Her skills in this area led to robust discussions about the rules of the day and led to many changes for the benefit of historic racing in general.

Additionally, Brenda was also instrumental in the formation of the representative group – The Association of Historic Race Promoters, which resulted in better outcomes from CAMS. As a committee member, Brenda served on the Club committee from 1977-1980 and was Secretary in 1992.

Although less active in our club in recent times, Brenda was still interested in all the race programs for other races including The Grand Prix.

In recognition of her service, In 1983, Brenda was granted Life membership of our Club.

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I have known Brenda for over 40 years as a work colleague and friend.

Over those years we became close, Brenda was a person that had tremendous attention to detail, was strong, determined and someone you could explicitly rely on to do whatever was necessary.

During the time we worked together Brenda held a number of challenging senior roles which she excelled at, nothing phased Brenda.

Over the years I got to know Grant and the unconditional love the pair shared and the work they did together with the various motoring organisations they were involved in and their tremendous love of gardening.

What was memorable was the “Mud Trials” we went to on several occasions, why you would put yourself through that in the middle of winter amazed me but they loved it, not to mention the very competitive nature of the sport!

Brenda also had a great love of dogs, having had several over the years that I can recall.

There was also a softer side to Brenda and that was the charity work she undertook in the community, Brenda always had time for those less fortunate.

Rest In Peace Brenda.

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One At Rest

by A J Stanley

Think of me as one at rest, For me you should not weep I have no pain no troubled thoughts For I am just asleep The living thinking me that was, Is now forever still And life goes on without me now, As time forever will.

If your heart is heavy now Because I’ve gone away Dwell not long upon it friend For none of us can stay Those of you who liked me, I sincerely thank you all And those of you who loved me, I thank you most of all.

And in my fleeting lifespan, As time went rushing by I found some time to hesitate, To laugh, to love, to cry Matters it now if time began If time will ever cease?

I was here, I used it all, And now I am at peace.

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Messages, Tributes, & Feelings from Emails, SMSs & Facebook Posts

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Bless her. Her time came and now her beautiful, kind soul can be free. Bs will always be in your heart and by your side... and the voice in your head! You shared a wonderful life together and have so much to be proud of as a couple, and we know how proud you are of Brenda. You did everything you could this last week to make sure all of her wishes were fulfilled and she had love and dignity, and even though you wouldn’t have done it any other way, we still say well done to you. We have and will miss Brenda, your darling Bs. Sending you and your family our love, Em and Max. xx Dear Grant, but we hope you are going alright.

It’s probably no coincidence that there is a beautiful Pink Moon tonight, the brightest moon and very special moon shining down on you. Em and Max. xx Oh what a ride you’ve both had together over all those decades! The next ride has just begun with Bs now watching over you now that she’s finally released from this life and as you say the pain, anguish fear and torment. The roles are reversed now and she’s your guardian Angel. The kettle has boiled and Bs is now enjoying the freedom and peace!

Thanks so much for keeping us all in the loop Grant. Sending you tons of love at this sad time! Jude XXX

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Rest in peace to a beautiful lady and wonderful friend. Janne Hi Grant. Your words in the email were so heartfelt. Despite Brendas health at the end it is still such sad news, the passing of such a vibrant person, as she was before. We are thinking of you. Much love Leanne and Phil Sending deepest condolences and love Grant, very sad that Brenda has gone but also comforting to know that she is no longer living in pain and torment. I hope that you can take comfort from knowing that you cared for Brenda so lovingly despite the obstacles you faced and dealt with. I am full of admiration for you. Brenda will be remembered by me as a lovely, caring lady. You take care now, kind regards Alison Thanks for letting us know Grant. Pauline and I are feeling sadness and relief for you today. Barry My deepest sympathy is with you Grant. RIP dear Brenda.

Yvonne Beautiful Brenda. Rest peacefully. Grant you did an amazing job looking after Brenda. The decision making, caring is a huge thankless job. But we do it for love. Jen Dear Grant. Thinking about you at this very difficult time.

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Resting peacefully She will always be with you close your eyes and you will see and feel her. Sending lots of love Donna xx Hi Grant ... So sad to hear Brenda is no longer with us.

We had some wonderful times together and I will always remember her as a friend Fay Hunter I was saddened to read a death notice for Brenda in yesterday’s paper. What enormous losses you have all had.

My heart goes out to you all. Deepest sympathy and fondest thoughts to you all.

Love, Meran and Jim Rest in Peace Brenda. I’m so glad to hear she passed peacefully. With you even at this distance, Grant. Love and hugs, Peter and Jan Thinking of you at this time. The world has lost a beautiful lady who enjoyed every minute of her time together with you.

At rest now . I like to think that our loved ones, wherever they are, keep each other company until we meet again. Love Dot, Janet, Alan and family xoxo Brenda’s unwavering dedication to the Mornington Police Senior Community Register was truly inspiring. Her selflessness and kindness have left an indelible mark on our community, and we will continue to draw strength from her example. Rest in peace, dear Brenda deepest condolences to her husband Grant. Dencil Bannister 39

Grant , We are shattered at the news, our thoughts are with you. Will be attending on the 23rd Apr. Rgds Greg & Heather Rest in Peace Brenda. I will miss you. My thoughts are with you Grant. We will see you soon. Love Jo Huge love and hugs Grant beautiful Bsy xxxxx Jules Hello Grant thank you so much for the information on Brenda and accept our deepest sympathy. John myself Greg Steph and Jenny will be attending the funeral and will catch up with you then in the meantime you are in our thoughts and we will see you next week. Elaine Cox Thinking of you at this time. The world has lost a beautiful lady who enjoyed every minute of her time together with you.

At rest now . I like to think that our loved ones, wherever they are, keep each other company until we meet again. Love Dot, Janet, Alan and family xoxo Hi Grant. This sad news has hit me hard. Such a beautiful, happy, positive lovely lady. One of my favourites. But I knew life was becoming tough for her each time she came in. My condolences to you. To lose your life partner must be one of the toughest losses of all. I’m away at present interstate visiting our daughter unfortunately I won’t be able to attend the funeral but my thoughts will be with you at this very sad time. I appreciate you letting me know as she was special to

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me. Take care Grant, your beautiful memories of a wonderful life together will never leave. We will all miss her greatly but she is at peace now. I have lovely fond memories of our chats together in the salon. Kindest regards to you. Vicki Hi Grant, Chris just gave us the sad news of Brenda passing.

I am so sorry for your loss and appreciate you taking the time to let us know. We will be attending her funeral and celebration of her life. You are in our thoughts at this sad time. Kindest regards John and Beverley Holford.

Grant it is so gracious of you to let me know personally Brenda’s last days in hospital how sad she had the fail my deepest sympathy to you as you bare this deep loss Brenda was so kind in keeping in touch with me when I was not well.

My thoughts are very much with you. Bruce W Hello Grant, I am so sorry to hear about Brenda. I know it was expected, but it is never easy once it does occur. Please accept my deepest condolences. She was a wonderful human being. I hope she will now get a limitless supply of Guylian chocolates wherever she is. All the best Grant, and May Brenda rest in peace. Kind regards, Roy Dear Grant So sorry to learn this. Your dear lady is at peace and without pain. Grant, you have our deepest thoughts.

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Hi Grant, Our condolences to you, Brenda was a wonderful lady and friend. Rest in Peace Brenda. John & Nina Dear Grant, We are so sorry to learn of the pass of your beautiful wife, Brenda. We hope that the many happy memories you have of the wonderful shared times together working as a team will bring you comfort. Our thoughts are with you at this very sad time. Wayne and Jenny I’m so sorry mate, finally at peace.

She was in a bad way, now she can rest. Tom & Glenys Will always be remembered with so much love Roxane So sorry for your loss Grant. She is now at peace and not in any pain. Take care of yourself. Jason and family.

Hi Grant, just heard of Brenda’s passing, I’m so sorry to hear, you are in my thoughts and please reach out if you need anything.Belinda Hello Grant, We’re so sorry to hear about Brenda ‘s passing.

She’s now at peace. Anything we can do for you please let us know. Regards Helen So sorry to hear Grant, please accept my condolences.

Best Jeff Dutton Hi Grant, I can’t express my sorrow for you at this sad time.

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SO SO SORRY, Ernie & Elaine Condolences Grant Joe Calleja Sending love and prayers your way Grant.

Chris and all the Bowden’s Hello Grant, So sorry to hear of your loss. Have such fond memories of Brenda especially those early days when you both ran the Winton events. Brenda always took care of the people around her. Our best thoughts are with you in this difficult time. Fondest Regards, Richard Carter.

My heart & thoughts are with you. Regards, Noel Robson Hi Grant, Very sorry to hear. My thoughts and prayers are with you and family at this time. Norman Bolitho Grant my sincere condolences. My thoughts are with you and your family. Kind regards Grant Perryman Grant All the best Champ sorry to hear your News. Thoughts are with you. Peter Williams Dear Grant, so sad to hear your news but it sounds like it was something of a blessing. My sincere condolences, and kind regards, Bob Cracknell Please accept my sincere sympathies Grant. We don’t have our loved ones for ever but that time we do have with them is 43

uniquely cherished and of course, irreplaceable !

John Carson Brisbane Our thoughts are with you️ Graeme and Craig Degotardi Hi Grant, So sorry to hear this sad news. Michele and I send our sincere condolences to you and your family.

Kindest regards Ray Delaney So so sorry to hear Grant. Kindest regards at this difficult time.

Peter Boylan So sorry to learn of your loss,Grant. Our thoughts are with you. Ray & Pam Lewis I am so sorry to hear of your loss, we were all very fond of Brenda and I always enjoyed her company, comments and personality. She will be very much missed, I am thinking of her, you and your family at this hard time.

Warm regards Andrew Cannon So sorry to learn of Brenda’s passing. The road ahead for you is starkly different. Keep strong. Jim Thompson Hi Grant, My sincere condolences with Brenda’s passing. I had a chat with Brenda a few years ago at PI as we were both from Rhodesia which was nice. So sorry for your loss, stay strong. Derek McDougall

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Sincere condolences Grant you both were and still are powerhouses of the advocacy in the movement of Historic Racing. A fine fine woman who leaves this world in a better place. Stuart Krug A7 Dear Grant, Condolences to you and family. Kind regards Peter Brennan My sincere condolences Grant to you and your loved ones Warmest regards Geoff Morgan My sincere condolences Grant to you and your Family, Kurt Schulz So sorry for your loss. An amazing lady who has been by your side for so long. Hold the happy memories close and she will always be with you.

Margaret Brabham

God Bless David Reid Sorry to hear, our condolences. Darren Hill Hi Grant, Please accept my condolences for your loss to you and your family. Regards Sandro Cesario Grant - there are no words Condolences from John and Janelle Fitzpatrick

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So sorry for your loss Grant, but there are many good memories that you have, I am also sorry that New & myself will not be able to attend,keep strong & our thoughts will be with you, yours sincerely Lawrie & New Nelson Oh Grant, what a beautiful heartfelt tribute! We are so sorry to hear this news. Please know that you and all those close to Brenda are in our thoughts especially on the 23rd. Warmest regards from the Kristen and Peter and the Jones Motosport team I’m so very sorry to hear of Brenda’s death Grant. It’s a very difficult time for you and your family. Take care Grant. With our deepest sympathy, Kath Feehan, Conor Ryan, Ryan Family So sorry to hear mate. My thoughts are with you. Dean How Condolences Grant so sorry for your loss love, prayers & thoughts to you & your family, Regards, Adrian & Denis Robertshaw Sorry to hear of your loss Grant Mike Rowe Perth Hi Grant, Many thanks for your email and sincere condolences on the loss of your special Brenda. I has been a very difficult time for you witnessing Brenda’s health deteriorating and your care and attention has been quite

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remarkable. My thoughts are with you and your family.

With sincere thoughts Graeme McLean Deepest sympathies. I DO know how you feel – I lost my wife of 58 years last month. It is not an easy time…. Thinking of you, Brian Hello Grant, I’m very saddened to hear of your loss and please accept my deepest condolences to you and your family, I’m sure you have some beautiful memories. Vince Parisi Dear Grant,I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Brenda. It seems no time since she was the smiling face in the Mouse House at Winton yet somehow I am going back 20+ years.

Yours is a beautiful love story and the wonderful 55 years you had together is something that not a lot of people experience.

Unfortunately I can’t make it on 23/4 but I will be thinking of you. Ross Jackson Hi Grant, Thanks for letting me know. Brenda will be sadly missed. I liked her very much. Kind Regards, Julian Valmorbida Thanks Grant. I have tears in my eyes. Jon Bate My best thoughts are with you. Philip Tweddle So sorry to hear of Brenda’s passing Grant. My condolences to you and yours. Pete Jones.

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Beautiful words Grant. Regards John Doherty I’m so sorry grant. My thoughts are with you. Andrew Gibson Tr3A So sad for you Grant life is a bitch sometimes my condolences losing your beautiful darling ps I will be there on 23th John Mann Good morning Grant I am very sorry to hear of your loss Brenda was clearly a lovely lady we will include her in our nightly prayers. Eddie Woods Hi Grant, My sincere condolences, it was an absolute honour and pleasure to meet your darling Brenda and the world is a lesser place without her. Kind Regards, Michael Lingard It is with great sadness that both Julie and I have read your email. Our hearts go out to you for your tremendous loss.

Your Brenda is now in a peaceful place. God bless her. Please accept our most sincere condolences, Grant.

Best Regards, Stan Wojnarowski and Julie Gleeson Dear Grant, My deepest sympathies following Brendas passing! John Sheppard Thank you, Grant. I will have to be with you in thought. Lift off back to the UK is imminent. I will back here though in no time - time does pass more quickly as you get older. I hope 48

there is a good turn out for Brenda and that when the dust settles, you get a chance to rest and recharge and find yourself again. Victoria Morris Hi Grant, Our sincerest condolences on the passing of Brenda. Warmest Regards Jean Bellenger Hi Grant, Ian and I will attend, we’re so sorry for your loss.

Dianne Dear Grant, So Sorry to hear about Brenda. She was a lovely person and did so much for our motorsport. I am sorry I will not be able to make the funeral but will be there in spirit.

Thinking of you.Kind wishes and condolences, Bob Schapel Grant, Our sympathy is with you. Brenda was loved and admired by us all. Brenda and you were the heart of Historic Racing over many years. Rest in Peace, Brenda. Love from the Snape Family.

Oh Grant how terribly sad. I was lucky enough to have Known her in her Winton days. How wonderful they were.

I was privileged to have been the Chairman of Riviana Foods where she was an invaluable employee. I would love to be able to go to her funeral but sadly I will be in Brisbane packing up my youngest daughters flat after she sadly died.

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Grant, Thank you for the stunningly beautiful image of Brenda and your deep and sincere words about her, I share your tears. Rob Rowe Sorry for your loss, she was always happy for a chat. Stephen Mason Hello Grant, Our heartfelt condolences on the passing of Brenda. Such a loss. Ray and I will attend Brenda’s funeral.

Love and thinking of you. Julie Sprague Prayers and thoughts Grant Ernest Nagamatsu Grant my condolences so sad with loss of your beautiful darling.

John Mann Sincere condolences to you and your family Grant. A lovely lady who will be sorely missed. Rohan Carrig Sad news but now my lovely cousin is at rest with no more pain. I was so pleased that we reunited after many years of no contact. When Brenda & her family left England she was 7 & I was 12 - we met again when I was 61 - it was like we had never been apart. My heart goes out to you Grant and know how much you loved & cared for her. Love & best wishes to you from me, Denise & Paula xxx. Sheila Grayston Sorry to hear Grant, thinking of you mate. Jake Filsell 50

So sorry to hear Grant Brenda,a lovely lady. Don Ballingall My condolences Grant, sorry for your loss. Neil Roshier Deepest condolences to you and the family Grant, such a beautiful soul and impressive lady in every aspect. It was such a pleasure to know her. Jarrod Harding You two, were the team. So sorry for your loss Grant Lori Filsell Very sad I will be there, Regards Peter Ward Condolences sorry to hear this news. Steve Tate Grant, such sad news. For Brenda, no more pain or suffering, just peace. For you, such special memories of your girl, you were a great team. She loved you and was loved in return. We will be there to say goodbye to a special lady. Pamela Utber Difficult time Grant, our thoughts are with you. Mike Barker Sorry to hear Grant. I always enjoyed catching up with both of you at the Historic Paddock. All the best to you now.

Regards Paul Johnson Great big hugs to you Grant.. what a beautiful tribute to your darling... Louise and Graeme x

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Grant I’m so sorry to hear this. May she rest in peace for eternity. Brenda’s smile earned the room and her kind caring nature affected so many in such a positive way.

Richard Sanders Sincere Sympathy Grant, Thoughts are with you mate !

John Bowe I am very sorry for your loss, Grant. Wishing you every strength at this tragic time in your life. Peter Ellenbogen Deeply saddened by this news Grant.

Memories of B Jane Williams Joanne Stritch I’m so sorry for your loss. Brenda was an amazing women, you were both blessed.

Sad for your loss Grant , We all owe Brenda a warm thank you for her many years serving with passion the Historic Motor racing scene RIP. Rob Bailey I’m so sorry for your loss Grant she was a Beutiful person.

Every time we worked at your home she was hospitable and happy we enjoyed our cups of tea and coffee.

Hope you are travelling well cheers Glenn Diamond So sorry Grant. As a couple you were wonderful and did a great job for Motorsport. RIP Brenda.

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Sincere condolences Grant. Sorry for your loss. Paul Hunt Very sad to hear that - condolences from Tony and Leonie Naylor.

Condolences from the Tucker family. Peter Tucker So sorry for the loss of Brenda,the many lives she touched have been blessed, wishing you peace Grant. Debbie McKane So sorry for your loss, Brenda was an amazing person who will be sadly missed. Geoff Stritch No need to repeat the glowing words on Brenda….I know you know how immensely fond and impressed I was with your wife. You made a sensational team and I can’t begin to imagine your difficult road forward. Very best wishes to you Grant.

Bill Hemming So sad to hear; Brenda had such a brilliant mind, we often discussed history and our Glaucomas. I worked with Brenda at the Police looking after the database while Brenda was talking to the people on the phone so patiently. She was so much looking forward to getting her new car, a Kona, and then she got diagnose a week later. Shocking. I often thought of her, and how she was doing. Now she is at peace at least.

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Grant, there are 3 hampers on their way to yours and Bs house that I hope will be enjoyed over the next few weeks.

Brenda has followed the family tradition of passing on to higher service in the month of April! Rest in Peace beautiful Brenda! The pic is just gorgeous!! You are sorely missed but your suffering has thankfully passed. So sorry I can’t get to the funeral just at this time. Sending you and all the Campbell clan and extended family much love from the Dempster clan. Xxx Our thoughts are with during this difficult time Grant. You must have some lovely memories. Take care. Tim Wright My deepest condolences Grant Rod Quinn That’s so sad Grant. She was a lovely lady. RIP Brenda. Anita Monk Such sad news. My heart goes out to you Grant. Ken Price My deepest condolences Grant, my thoughts are with you mate! Andrew Church Grant, I offer my condolences and so sorry for your loss.

Andrew Robson My thoughts are with you Grant. It’s nice to know Brenda is in a better place and can rest knowing she has inspired many in her time with us. Jesse and I will see you on Wednesday.

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Much love Aunty Bs. Will be deeply missed but will always remember the happy times. Roxane Horton Sorry for your loss mate. Derek Hocking Deeply saddened by Brenda’s passing. A lovely person who showed care and quiet humour. Memories of fun times linger.

Heartfelt condolences Grant I am not able to attend the funeral but will be thinking of you in your grief.

With love, Jane Williams Grant - our thoughts are with you, very sad. A very special lady loved by everyone. May she rest in peace.

Jan & Peter Mohr So many people who knew how special Brenda was. I so hope some of them will be able to help you not only now but in the difficult months ahead. In my thoughts Pauline Simmons Sorry to hear about Brenda she will be sorely missed. Sending our condolences - Stu & Louise Schweiger Our thoughts are with you Grant - Richard & Lori Very sorry to hear about Brenda, Rosemary and I will be there Wednesday David Smallacombe Brenda & I often had long lovely talks together, my heart goes out to you and I know how you must be feeling! I’m sure your

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family will wrap their arms around you. Be brave she is at last in peace. Lorraine Bates We are so sorry to hear of this sad news of Brenda’s passing.

Our thoughts are with you Grant and our deepest sympathy.

Warren and Karen Daly You’re in my thoughts Grant, and I’m sending our sincerest condolences on the passing of your dear wife Brenda. May the love and memories you shared bring you comfort during this difficult time. We hope to be there next Wednesday.

Sandra & Malcolm I’m an so sorry to hear that, Grant. Please accept my most sincere condolences. I have very fond memories of Brenda and always looked forward to her wry wit. I hope you are able to find some comfort in this very sad time. Best wishes, Matt Hello Grant, My sincere condolences, I particularly remember her name and her kind help on the occasion Jocelyn and I had our Bugatti at the AGP demonstration.

All the best to you, Alan Telfer Thinking of you at this very sad time. Take care of yourself. X Paula Hurley Hi Grant, Our condolences to you, Brenda was a wonderful lady and friend. Rest in Peace Brenda. John & Nina

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Dear Grant, On behalf of your cobbers around the AGP Racing Past table, may I extend our heartfelt condolences at news of Brenda’s passing this morning. We acknowledge her tremendous contribution to your partnership, both in life and in work, we acknowledge especially her commitment to our AGP historic event over more than twenty years, both as a caring individual and as the other half of the ever-industrious Campbell team. Grant, you can be hugely proud of what Brenda brought to us all - and to what you and Brenda achieved together over so many decades across such a variety of motorsport activities.

We will miss her kindness, thoughtfulness and dedication.

Our thoughts and our support are with you and your family.

RIP Brenda Campbell. Parky Thinking of you forever - Bob Oh Grant.. So incredibly sad to hear this, but to know she is finally at peace is comforting. We will always remember her as the incredibly strong, brilliantly intelligent, could be feisty when needed and one of the most lovely and kind women that we know.. You both mean the world to us. Your care for Brenda through this horrid and cruel chapter shows the love and strength you have for her. This has been a hard road for you both.. She is now at rest. Call anytime if needed.

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Grant, I’m so sorry to learn of Brenda’s passing this morning.

My sincerest condolences. Brenda was the loveliest of people, and I’ll be forever grateful for the time she always made for me, no matter how busy she was. I feel incredibly lucky to have known her. She contributed so much to the sport we all love, and the impact she has made to it over the years is such a credit to her many years of hard work. Sending all my thoughts and strength your way.

Josh

You’re in my thoughts Grant, and I’m sending our sincerest condolences on the passing of your dear wife Brenda. May the love and memories you shared bring you comfort during this difficult time. We hope to be there next Wednesday.

Sandra & Malcolm In Loving Memory of Brenda ‘Bs’ Campbell, Thank you Bs and Grant for all those happy evenings - over many years spent talking about cars, Austin 7 Club mud trials and house renos at your always-welcoming home in Brighton East! xxoo Peter Bracher Thank you for your recent email letting me know Brenda had sadly passed away. I have known you both for over 20 years, At the Grand Prix this year I got the feeling all was not well with Brenda but it was still a shock when you emailed me. I wish you all the best and please feel at ease knowing she is now in a better place and resting in peace.

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Thinking of you Grant. Brenda will be missed by many.

Yvonne Morrison Good afternoon Grant, Very sorry to hear Brenda passed away. A lady as nice as her didn’t deserve to suffer like she obviously did. When we first met you both at Winton I thought you were an amazing couple and over the years it proved me right you both worked so hard. We will be thinking of you on Wednesday, Kind regards, Cheryl & Russell Greer Dear Margot, Nev and Grant, I am so sorry, Brenda was always such a happy gentle person. Such a bugger of a disease and all its effects on body. Getting old ain’t all that much fun.

Our love and best wishes to all, Annie & Baz.

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A few more tributes after the funeral.....

Graeme Raper Grant Campbell,,, G' day Grant,,, Yesterday's Celebration of Brenda's Life Was A Truly Beautiful & Heart Felt Day,,, Louise's & My Thought's & Prayers are with You and Your Whole Family...

Greg Marriner This is really sweet Josh Lowing Yesterday’s service was a beautiful tribute to a truly remarkable lady.

Sending all my strength and support to you and the family Grant Lori Filsell Grant Campbell, your tribute to Brenda was beautiful. It has always been obvious the love you both have for each other. At least she is now at peace. Time to look after Grant now Emma Jane You always learn so much about people when they're gone.

Brenda gave so much of herself to so many people and organisations, all selflessly and to ensure everything she was involved in was the best, if not better than, it could be. We know first-hand how much she did for the AGP and Historic Winton, but everything else!!! What an amazing lady. She is an inspiration and reminds me very much of Dame Elisabeth Murdoch - another garden lover who lived to make the world a better place.

You must be so proud Grant.

Rest in Peace, Brenda. xx

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Chris Ralph A heartwarming send off to a powerhouse woman whose tough organiser cred (“Maggie Thatcher of Historic Winton” got some laughs) was balanced by a huge and warm heart for animals of four and two legs). Well done on her send off, Grant.

We’re in the same burb, let’s have a coffee one day…

John Bowe Feeling for your heart Grant !

Pauline Simmons Such a beautiful video thank you Grant for just a small glimpse of your and Brenda 's life.Stay strong and carry on as Brenda would want Judy Dempster Dear Grant, The funeral sounded like it was brilliant! Brenda would have been so proud of you and your family and friends on Wednesday. Sorry I couldn’t be there, but was thinking of you all on the day!

Take good care of yourself now with this new chapter beginning as the old one closes but never forgotten! Your mum, my Aunty Moo used to say always remember the good times. It sounds like there were 55 years of them to remember!

Sending tons of love.

Xxx. Jude Don Ballingall So sad Jane Williams Absolutely beautiful memories of a lovely friend.

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You cared for me and I cared for you more than anyone will ever know. 55 Years of true love. The last few years were tough on you but the fire burned 'til the end and now the anguish, the pain, the torment and the fear have gone.

Rest in Peace my Darling.... Grant

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