The Voice - October 2022

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VOLUME XLIII |TISHREI/Cheshvan 5783 | NUMBER 3 OCTOBER 2022
After the Storm...

MISSION STATEMENT

Temple Shalom of Naples is an inclusive Reform Jewish congregation where all individuals are equal partners in making our world whole and holy. We are One Family, believing in the sacredness of relationships, fostering connections –one to another, Temple, Israel, Torah and God. We are living Jewish values and nurturing future generations.

Clergy

Senior Rabbi

Adam F. Miller amiller@naplestemple.org

Cantor

Donna Azu dazu@naplestemple.org

Director of Lifelong Learning

Rabbi Ariel Boxman aboxman@naplestemple.org

Rabbi Emeritus

James H. Perman, D.D. rabbi@naples.net

Professional Staff

Executive Director

Deborah Fidel dfidel@naplestemple.org

Staff

Program

& Engagement Director

Megan Black mblack@naplestemple.org

Receptionist

Leslie Bautista lbautista@naplestemple.org

Music Director

Dr. James Cochran Maintenance Technician Pedro Cruz maintenance@naplestemple.org

Director of Communications Jeanette Fischer jfischer@naplestemple.org

Preschool Admin. Assistant Julie Fischer preschool@naplestemple.org

Education Admin. Assistant Mary Flores education@naplestemple.org

Director of Marketing Esther Garfield egarfield@naplestemple.org

Groundskeeper Rick Holsbeke maintenance@naplestemple.org

Facility Manager

Victor Lucas vlucas@naplestemple.org

Clergy & Executive Assistant

4630 Pine Ridge Road Naples, FL 34119

Phone: (239) 455-3030 Fax: (239) 455-4361 www.naplestemple.org info@naplestemple.org

Education Office: (239) 455-2233 Preschool Office: (239) 455-3227

Board of Trustees

President Leonard Teitelbaum

First Vice President Joshua Garfield

Second Vice President Robin Mintz

Third Vice President Merrill Hassenfeld

Treasurer Susan Ritter

Financial Secretary Steve Pino

Recording Secretary Jacky Abrams

Immediate Past President Daryl Sissman

Sisterhood President Barbara Druckman Men’s Club President Ron Yasbin

Temple Historian

Howard Glicken

Board Liaisons

Ed Alexander Bobbie Katz

The Voice is published monthly. June/July are combined issues.

Editor—Jeanette Fischer

Disclaimer: Advertisements published in Temple Shalom’s monthly newsletter, The Voice, in no way constitute an endorsement of a product or service by Temple Shalom.

Anne Maner amaner@naplestemple.org

Maintenance Technician

Steve Mastrangelo maintenance@naplestemple.org

Education Assistant Lijena Shurdhi l.shurdhi@naplestemple.org

The Honorable Kyle Cohen Susan Hager

Andy Karpman

Eric Meyer Stacy Nicolau Estelle Price Jack Rabin Jessica Rosen Diane Schwartz Mel Zahn

Accounting Jessica Santana 239-919-1255

THE RAINBOW OF HOPE AFTER THE STORM

AMessagefromTempleShalomLeadership

Yom Kippur ended this year on a powerful note, and I am not talking about the shofar blast.

I shared at Kol Nidre a story that began on Rosh Hashanah, when the residents of Sanibel were forced to evacuate their homes as Hurricane Ian approached. As the waters began to arrive, congregation Bat Yam feared for the safety of its two Torah scrolls. Melissa and Scot Congress, daughter and son-in-law of Bernie Weiss and the late Helene Weiss, of blessed memory, brought the scrolls from the synagogue ark to the vault in their jewelry store. Placing them on the highest shelf possible.

Melissa and Scot returned several days after the hurricane by boat to check on the scrolls. Accompanied by an NBC news crew, they found everything on the island damaged or destroyed by the water. The only two dry items – the two Torah scrolls. With tears in their eyes, they carried the scrolls back to the boat. One was given to Beth El in Fort Myers, close to where many of the displaced Bat Yam members remain. The other, is now here at Temple Shalom for safe keeping. That scroll sat on our bimah throughout Yom Kippur, a visible symbol of hope.

At the conclusion of Yom Kippur, just before the shofar blast, we placed the Sanibel scroll in our Ark. It will serve for us as a reminder, recalling what we have been through with this hurricane, honoring our collective resilience, and lifting our spirits each time we see that scroll in our ark. At the same time, we know that for as long as that scroll remains here, our work repairing our community from Hurricane Ian is not yet done.

Our Temple Shalom family fully embraces our collective responsibility to help those whose lives have been devastated by the hurricane. Immediately after Ian, members opened their doors to let in neighbors and friends needing power, a hot shower, or a dry space. Individuals gave generously of their time and resources to bring assistance to strangers they had never met. Days after the storm, we collected more than ten truckloads of supplies for the shelter in Lee County. Dozens of Temple members stood shoulder to shoulder packing thousands of fresh meals with our partners from Meals of Hope. Others comforted their friends after tragic losses and began helping them to literally pick up the pieces.

The Rainbow of Hope, chaired by Bruce and Carol Sherman, began at Yom Kippur. Since that time, we organized cleanups for members whose homes and property were damaged beyond repair, gathered food for the Harry Chapin Food Bank, and gave financial assistance to members struggling after this natural disaster. Working in partnership with other synagogues in our region, we are channeling resources sent from other congregations to replace damaged equipment at the Temple Beth El preschool in Fort Myers, cleaning up neighborhoods and helping everyone in need, including those outside of our Temple Family. Sign up for the Rainbow of Hope, to learn about more volunteer opportunities, including upcoming trips to Sanibel and other areas.

Hurricane Ian was truly a catastrophic event for our southwest Florida community. Yet, we see the true colors of our Temple Family, and the community coming out, as our Rainbow of Hope shines bright for all Southwest Florida. Together we will make it through these challenges, together we will find strength, together we will be a source of light and hope. May we go in the days ahead from strength to strength and blessing to blessing.

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L’shalom, Rabbi Adam Miller, Cantor Donna Azu, Rabbi Ariel Boxman, Executive Director Deborah Fidel, and Temple President Len Teitelbaum

Temple Shalom is partnering with Temple Beth El in Fort Myers, Bat Yam Temple on Sanibel, the Jewish Congregation of Marco Island, and Naples Jewish Congregation to bring aid to those needing the most assistance across Southwest Florida.

• Opportunities will include efforts with local partner organizations, such as Meals of Hope, the Harry Chapin Food Bank, and the United Way.

• Distributing goods and gift cards to those in need

• Packing meals for those facing food insecurity

• Clean up projects around Southwest Florida

• Collecting non-perishable foods

• Organizing donations from other congregations and communities

• Reviewing and allocating larger requests for assistance

To join the Rainbow of Hope Volunteer Team, complete the form found at tinyurl.com/TSRainbow

For questions or more information, please contact Rainbow of Hope chairs Bruce & Carol Sherman: Bruce: shermanbruce2a@gmail.com / 330-360-8836 Carol: shermancarol2a@gmail.com / 330-360-8839

Thank you in advance for doing these acts of tikkun olam, repairing our world.

TEMPLE SHALOM BLOOD DRIVE Please contact Jane Perman at permajane@comcast.net to schedule an appointment. Sunday, October 30 8:00am to 1:00pm A chance to save lives! Photo ID req. Minimum age 16 Minimum weight 110 lbs (with parent consent) Face masks required Successful donors receive a movie ticket! Thank you, Di Karpman and Lisa Lauber for picking up and delivering several towering stacks of pizza pies, generously donated by Alta Villa Pizza & Trattoria, to our Naples neighbors in Harmony Shore Mobile Home Park, whose homes were destroyed by Hurricane Ian.
WORSHIP WITH US Can’tmakeitinperson? Youcanjoinusonline! Livestream www.naplestemple.org/media Facebook facebook.com/templeshalomnaplesfl “More than the Jewish people has kept the Sabbath, the Sabbath has kept the Jewish people.” - Ahad Ha-Am Shabbat Worship Times Friday Evening Service - 7:30pm Followedbytheoneg Saturday mornings - 10:00am
November 4 at 7:30pm Join us for a musical service conducted entirely in song and accompnaied by the
Band.
Soulful Shabbat Friday,
Temple Shalom

Thank you for the beautiful flowers!

Rosh Hashanah

Marcy Aizenshtat

Jane Berger

InMemoryofCharlesM.Berger

The Brodie & Miller Families

InmemoryofAllisonDebraMiller

Marsha & Michael Goldstein

Charles M. Kiven

InmemoryofBlakeAaronKiven

Susan & Nat Ritter

Jane Schiff

The Sissman - Smith Families InmemoryofBillSmith

Janet & Howard Solot

The Waltzer Family InMemoryofJaneWaltzer

Deborah Zvibleman

Carol Clarke, Pepi Herbst, Arline & Ron Kaplan, Jenny & Mel Kaplan, Roz & Al Katz, Ida & Jeff Margolis, Susan & Joel Pittelman, Susan & Jack Rabin, Ellaine & Rick Rosen, Lila & Marc Rosensweig, Nan & Dimitry Roytberg, Shellie Specter & Bob Davidson, Blanche & Mark Speiser, Ann & Sam Varsano, Judy & Mel Zahn

Yom Kippur

Marcy Aizenshtat

Jane Berger

InmemoryofCharlesM.Berger

The Brodie & Miller Families

InmemoryofAllisonDebraMiller

Charles M. Kiven

InmemoryofBlakeAaronKiven

Barbara Druckman & Earl Prolman

Susan & Nat Ritter

The Sissman - Smith Families

InmemoryofBillSmith

The Waltzer Family InmemoryofJaneWaltzer

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Study the weekly Torah portion with the guidance of clergy. Text sheets will be shared online.

Learners of all levels are welcome. Zoom link can be found in the weekly email or by contacting education@naplestemple.org.

Mondays 10:30am VIA ZOOM

Yoga teacher, Missy Balsam guides you through an all-levels, gentle yoga stretch session interwoven with Jewish spiritual teachings.

MAH MAH JONGG JONGG Weekly F r i d a y s 1 2 : 3 0 p m t o 2 : 3 0 p M R S V P s a r e r e q u i r e d t i n y u r l . c o m / T S M a h J o n g g o r e m a i l M e g a n B l a c k a t m b l a c k @ n a p l e s t e m p l e . o r g 11:00am via I S R A E L B O O K D I S C U S S I O N G R O U P Contact Michael Rubner for Zoom link info

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Open to all. No experience necessary. Join anytime. Registration is required for this very popular class Cost - $54 Space is limited JEWISH YOGA
Monday, October 31 "Confessions of a Good Arab" by Yorum
To register, contact the Temple Shalom office at 239-455-3030
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F i l m S e r i e s

The Best of Enemies

Wed., October 19, 4:00pm

Pre-watch the movie on your favorite streaming platform Discussion on Zoom $5

Apart

Wed , November 2, 6:00pm

Screening at Paragon Pavillion

833 Vanderbilt Beach Road $10

Redlining

Wed , November 9, 6:00pm

Screening at Paragon Pavillion 833 Vanderbilt Beach Road $10

KADIMA

Kadima is an outdoor adventure group created for anyone who enjoys being physically active and experiencing the natural beauty of SWFL. Each month, we will set out on a different adventure, from hiking to kayaking, paddle boarding to horseback riding. Our goal is to get outside, get our muscles moving, and get to know our fellow Temple members and friends in a completely different setting.

Great for parents and teens, fitness lovers, and anyone itching to get outside and into nature. Each adventure will vary in physical intensity. We will do our best to represent intensity levels accurately for each event so that you can judge whether that month’s adventure is right for you.

Watch your email and the next issue of The Voice for more information on the first outing in November

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Volunteer Highlight

Did You Know Our Temple Offers Bereavement Counseling?

A period of grieving comes to everyone sooner or later. Some feel relieved when the loved one who may have been suffering suffers no more. Nonetheless, all those who mourn the loss have a rough road ahead. Grieving is a process that can drain a person’s reservoir of emotional strength.

Four years ago, when Executive Director Deborah Fidel joined our staff, Rabbi Miller told her that there were members of our congregational family who might benefit from some sort of support group. Not one to let the grass grow under her feet, she called Leslie Wasserman and Arline Kaplan, both professional psychotherapists, and they have been offering a bereavement support group at Temple ever since.

“We began somewhere around four years ago,” says Leslie, “with the idea that anyone could come who had trouble with grief or just wanted to talk about it. We started the group with five women. Over the years, we’ve grown to 12—all widows.”

Arline describes the initial process. “We get a call from the Temple or directly from the person. We talk for a while to assess whether this person has the physical and cognitive strength to participate. We’ve only ever had to turn away one person. It takes courage to talk about what’s in your gut,” she adds. “We live in a society that doesn’t readily address illness, grief, or death. Society’s attitude is ‘get over it.’”

“We are very fortunate,” Leslie says. “All are highly intelligent, kind women. That creates a good support group.” She indicates that most of the women have stayed in the group. “Those who leave typically do so because they feel they’ve received all the help they need and can take it from there on their own.

“We meet every other Friday from 9:30 to 11:00 a.m. During the COVID-19 pandemic when the Temple was closed, we met through Zoom. All members agree to maintain confidentiality about who is in the group.”

“We are back to in-person meetings now,” Arline says. “We stop at the end of May and pick it up again in October. But throughout the summer, Leslie and I are always available via telephone if someone needs support.”

Leslie feels doing this volunteer service actually rewards her. “I have seen women who have been reluctant to share, over time, become able to express their feelings and ask the group for help. That makes my heart feel great.”

Arline echoes this sentiment. “I feel honored, grateful. It has been a wonderful experience for me. I come away with much admiration and respect for the people in the group—what they’ve come

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Volunteer Highlight

through, how supportive and empathetic they are. My heart feels so full and expanded. I have grown.”

Both women volunteer in other ways in the community, but bereavement counseling brings them the greatest sense of fulfillment. Leslie says, “Doing this kind of work is my passion. It’s my love.”

Right now, no man has indicated a desire to join a bereavement support group, but if the need should arise, both therapists say they will be happy to set up a new group just for men. They are also willing to establish a caregiver support group should one be needed. “I could help them get started,” Leslie says, but hopes that others in the congregation who have the professional backgrounds to do this work might lead it.

Deborah shared, “several of the participants have told me that the group has been invaluable in their mourning process and that they don’t know how they would have managed without this safe space to listen, talk and cry. This is what One Family means. I am just so grateful to Arline and Leslie for sharing their time and talent.”

Now that you know Temple Shalom offers such support, if you have the background and the desire to participate, let Executive Director Deborah Fidel know of your interest. Who knows, one of our new members may become a counselor for a men’s bereavement or a caregiver support group, and if you need such services as these groups offer, please reach out. Solace and understanding are but a phone call away.

THANK YOU, Arline & Leslie!

Challah from the Heart delivers challahs to members of our One Family.

If you would like to be part of the group and help bake and/or deliver a challah to share joy and comfort for Shabbat, please email Megan Black, Program & Engagement Director, at mblack@naplestemple.org

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NEW MEMBERS

& Mike Berman

Rachelle & Paul Danto

Sandy & Barry Demovsky

Michael Feinman

Ellen & Daniel Fruchtman

Kathryn Galainena

Stephanie Galainena

Lissa & John Galotto

Terry Glaser & Joanna Scalora

Stephen Jacobson

Claudette Kessler

David & Jenna Greschler

Mara Marzano

Ken & Randi Miller

Stuart & Toni Morgenstein

Louis Naviasky

Benjamin Riddle & Cindy Rodriguez

Karen & Gary Sanders

Jan & Robbie Sax

Michael & Monique Tsipursky

Roberta Ury

Jim & Suellen Weiner

Michael & Elina Wolf

David and Jenna Greschler are parents to three children, Emma (5), Max (3) and Jackson (1 1/2). They met on Jdate in Boca Raton, FL. David grew up on Long Island, NY and Jenna grew up in Russia. Emma attends Vineyards Elementary School, and the two boys attend Preschool of the Arts. As a family they enjoy visiting adventure parks and being in the nature.

Larry & Sharyn Harris

Larry and Sharyn met in 1960 on the steps of Beth Israel Synagogue (Halifax, Nova Scotia) on Rosh Hashanah. They married September 2, 1962 at Temple Sons of Israel (Sydney, Nova Scotia) after Sharyn’s graduation from nursing school. Sharyn was active in Hadassah as Chapter President & Regional VP. Larry and Sharyn retired to Naples and lived in the Vineyards for about 16 years, then moved away, and now they are back and living at Bentley Village.

Peter Klein

Peter is originally from the Central NJ shore area (near Asbury Park, NJ) then Mullica Hill, NJ. He moved to Wilmington, DE in 1988, then Naples to be closer to his family after his wife died in 2020. Peter owned an advertising agency for 45 years in South Jersey and Delaware. He has three children, one on Marco Island, one in Virginia, and one in Minnesota. He is a big country music fan and enjoys his antique car (1952 MG TD) when he can.

Evan & Kathy Cohen

Evan and Kathy Cohen have recently made Bonita Springs their full time home. They met in Manhattan in 1985 and have been married for more than 30 years. They have lived, worked and travelled abroad extensively (including Switzerland, Holland, and Singapore). Evan is a maritime finance banker and Kathy is a recently retired IT professional.

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As of September 16 Continued

NEW MEMBERS

Rita & Walter Weil

Rita and Walter met at a charity tennis tournament in East Hampton, Long Island and married 25 years ago. Rita’s childhood was in Omaha; Walter’s in Lexington, KY. Both first marriages ended in divorce. Rita graduated from Barat College and received an MBA from the University of Colorado. Walter graduated from Harvard College and Harvard Business School. Both careers were in Manhattan; Rita as a compensation consultant and Walter did hedged investing. They retired in 1995 when they became residents of East Hampton. At the end of last year, that property was sold, and they became residents of Naples. For more than half a century, Walter was a congregant of Temple Emanu-El of New York City.

Fred & Wendy Shapiro

Fred and Wendy Shapiro are full time residents in East Naples after visiting from Baltimore annually for more than a decade. Their daughters, Madison (30) and Eliza (27), live in Nashville and D.C. respectively. Fred grew up in Pikesville, MD and remained in that area for college. He launched his Pension Consulting business in 1997 which he sold prior to moving to Florida. An avid sports fan and participant, Fred’s nickname was “Freddie All-ball,” given the number of sports he played growing up. His memorabilia collection is evidence of the same. Golf is his go-to sport here in Florida. Wendy, both an attorney and realtor, practiced law for 20 years prior to migrating toward Real Estate which she has also been in for 20 years. As a family they love traveling, often cruising throughout the Bahamas and Europe. They are very happy to have relocated and enjoy calling Naples home.

Shirley & Chuck Moskowitz

Shirley and Chuck Moskowitz are newcomers to living in Bonita Springs, although they’ve vacationed in Naples for many years. They are the loving parents of two fine sons, Jeremy who lives in Boston with his wife, Kara, and Adam who lives in Boca Raton with his wife, Vikki. Both Shirley and Chuck were born and raised in Brooklyn, NY where they met and married and then moved to Staten Island. They moved to Fort Lauderdale and lived in Sunrise and Weston for 37 years. Chuck worked in sales for Waste Management and Shirley taught special education, gifted, and typical students in Hollywood, FL. They are happy to be a part of this community. Shirley’s parents are Holocaust survivors and spoke about their experiences to many groups on all levels. Chuck is enjoying playing pickleball, having played paddle and racquetball. Shirley enjoys exercising, swimming, reading, and they both enjoy movies.

Marty Weiss & Orna Kutai

Marty Weiss and Orna Kutai have lived in Naples since June, 2020. Previously they lived in Potomac, MD, with previous stops in Pittsburgh, Scottsdale, and Northern New Jersey. Marty spent 40 years working in the telecommunications industry, and Orna has served as a Professor of Chemistry for many years and worked in industry at companies including Union Carbide. Marty was born and raised in Cleveland, OH, and Orna was born in Israel. She emigrated to the USA as a child and grew up in Marblehead, MA. Marty and Orna have been married since 1986 and have three children, one of whom is married. Orna and Marty enjoy golf, kayaking, bocce, pickleball, and theater.

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As of September 16

NEW MEMBERS

Sandy & Michael Daneberg

Sandy and Michael Daneberg have been part-time residents of Bonita Springs, FL since June 2005. Their northern home was in the suburbs outside of the District of Columbia in Potomac, MD. Sandy was born and raised in Cleveland, OH. Mike was raised in Lebanon, PA and went to American University in DC and Georgetown University for Dental School. Michael was in private practice as a dentist in Silver Spring, MD for more than 40 years. Sandy worked as an elementary school teacher, managing retails, administrative manager of a real estate office for ten years, and then a Human Resource Employee Benefits Manager for the American Registry of Pathology, a government contractor. After Sandy’s retirement in 2012, and then Michael’s at the end of 2014, they began to spend more time in Bonita Springs at Palmira. They both enjoy their many friends, golf, MCA, and WCA. Michael volunteers at Habitat through MCA, and Sandy has her book clubs, bridge and canasta games. They have four married children, eight grandchildren, and one great grandchild. Sandy and Michael enjoyed moving to a community not knowing anyone and loved meeting people from all over the U.S. and Canada. They are looking forward to being part of the Temple Shalom family.

Welcome to all of our new members!

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SHALOM@HOME

Has it been a while since you’ve seen your old friends at Temple? Are you new to One Family and looking to meet new people? Temple Shalom has the answer for everyone with Shalom@Home!

Shalom@Home is a series of casual get-togethers in the homes of Temple Shalom members, loosely structured to help you get to know a small group of other members who live in your neighborhood.

Please contact Iris Shur at irisjimshur@aol com for more information and to volunteer to host a Shalom@Home event in the fall.

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CELEBRATE WITH US

Birthdays - October

1 Marianne Matties 14 Rob Nossen 21 Louise Forman 25 Sherri Regester

Bob Klausner Ronna Hain David Portman Merrill Solan Bonnie Mandell Michael Rubenstein Sandra Goldman Roz Katz

2 Harry Martell 15 David Weil Ellen Baseman 26 Beryl Miller Betty Martell Caroline Gappelberg Jay Wolfson Joel Pearlman

Mae Riefberg 16 Arthur Sissman 22 Cristina Isaacs Sheldon Starman Hetty Weinstein Ashley Solomon Freyda Albin Barry Freedman

3 Jared Butterworth 17 Paul Danto Amy Johnson Micki Ravitz

4 David Dembo Carol Appel Nancy Wiadro 27 Ellen Seigel

5 Marci Fisher Bob Levine Leonard Kane Estelle Price

6 Eric Solomon Ben Riddle Charles Lorber 28 Saul Rosen

7 Lisa Vogel Rocio Bershadski Karl Mindel Lauren Mills

Anita Freeman 18 Bruce Cohen 23 Jess Rosenberg Ina Barr Maury Bozman Kim Hochman Leslie Wasserman Michael Gordon

8 Spencer Forman Michael Levy Michael Pierce Scott Shwedel Jason Korn Scott Newman Suzanne Millman 29 Jessica Press Jennifer Sandler Neil Shnider Bill Maltby Florence Feinson Ellen Fruchtman 19 Dale Katz Linda Grusin Joyce Zaleznik Linda Barter Judi Palay Lynne Buxton Marjorie Sidman

9 Jessica Rosen Jim Kargman 24 Eileen Holcombe 30 Cheryl Alexander

10 Robert Statfeld Nancy Armocida Jim Goodman Stan Deutsch Lauren Brodie 20 Wendy Riedel Donna Treiser 31 Ed Alexander

11 Steve Goldberg Gene Katz Bob Karp Gabriela Goldberg

12 Michael Warfel Michael Goldstein Jeannie Abels Glenda Gordon

14 Carole Greene 21 Carol Simon 25 Annie Varsano Jennifer Eder

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Anniversaries - October

1 Mark & Gloria Mellman 18 Rick & Pat Karpeles Jay & Rebecca Wolfson 19 Larry & Tracey Albert 4 Alexandre & Jessica Rosen Andrew & Fern Jaffe Evan & Kathryn Cohen Ralph & Brigitte Sabbag 5 Bob & Patricia Gage 20 Greg & Rachel Hinchliffe 7 Steve & Valerie Stewart 21 Phil & Judy Ciorciari 8 Fred & Wendy Shapiro Estelle & Stuart Price 9 Charlie & Adrea Kofman

Don & Arlene Shapiro Jeremy & Jessica Schaab Rachelle & Paul Danto

Mark Shiffman & Allison Tucker 22 John & Veora Little Sandy & Barry Demovsky Gary & Betsy Rosenblum 10 Andy & Robin Mintz 23 Jeremy Blaufarb & Tamara Sutton Rebecca & Scott Feldman 27 Kenneth & Adrienne Charak 12 Steven Feiner & Cipora Brpown Joseph & Marguerite Rubin 13

Rabbi Frank & Darlene Muller 28 Larry & Rita Sibrack Maury & Stacey Bozman Chris & Pam Lundborg 14 David Weil & Ruth Halperin Shelly & Barry Potekin 17 John & Nancy Nittolo 29 Laure Press Spiller & Ian Spiller Paul & Abbie Sladick Steve & Barbara Suden 18 Ed & Leslie Feldman Sheira Greenwald & Elihu Davison

Josh & Kristina Isenberg Stephen & Lety Schwartz Ita & Arthur Paquette

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Corner

Chloe Harmony Rose Gappelberg

October 22, 2022

Chloe feels blessed and thankful for her parents, Caroline and Evan, and for her awesome brothers, Austin and Grant. She moved to Naples from Long Island, New York with her family a few years ago and attends Seacrest Country Day School. Her favorite hobby is baking cookies and sweet treats. She loves fashion and shopping. Chloe always enjoyed dance and now she is interested in perfecting her skills in volleyball. To Chloe, the words Bat Mitzvah symbolize Jewish tradition, family and a wonderful milestone. She is looking forward to becoming a Bat Mitzvah and learning about Judaism and her community.

Cooper Ross

October 29, 2022

Cooper Henry Ross is the son of David and Amanda Ross. He has one brother, Cole. Cooper attends Lexington Middle School, an International Baccalaureate School. He is currently part of the IBTV team where he writes, hosts, films, and edits the morning news with his team. Cooper plays center field and third base for the Southern Squeeze. When not playing baseball, you can find Miami-born Cooper enjoying University of Miami Hurricane Football or on the water fishing. It is his love of the ocean and sea life which led him to clean the shores of our beautiful beaches as part of his mitzvah project.

Ameila Scappaticcio

November 5,

2022

Amelia, the daughter of Denise and Mark Scappaticcio, is a student at Oakridge Middle school. She has a younger sister, Juliet. Amelia’s favorite activities include art. computer science and Girl Scouts. She competed has competed in the state science fair and participates in the NAtional Junior Honor Society as well as Scholar Bowl. Amelia developed lessons to teach coding to neighborhoos children in order to get more girls involved in STEM. She also did volunteer projects around school and the community through Builders Club where she serves as their Secretary.

Simchas

Congratulations!

Bill Kaye celebrated his 90th birthday on August 15. Susan and Michael Horowitz celebrated the birth of their great-grandson, Winston Andrew Medeiros.

Marjorie and David Kaufman’s son, Grant Kaufman, graduated from Tulane in May and is now pursuing an MS at Touro College of Osteopathic Medicine in NY. Marjorie is pleased to announce that she will be singing with the Naples Philharmonic Chorus.

Ron and Sherrill Yasbin celebrated the Bar Mitzvah of their grandson, Brady Yasbin, on September 17.

Edye Cohen’s grandson, Cody Louis Cohen’s film, “The Gold Coast” was accepted to the Long Island Film Festival.

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Barbara Druckman

Sisterhood President
SISTERHOOD Mark your calendar! D E C . 7 Wine
D E C . 1 3 Palm
J A N . 1 1 Mah
Tournament J A N . 2 0 Sisterhood
F E B . 1 4 Joint Sisterhood &
F E B . 1 7 Sisterhood Shabbat M A R . 1 4 Sisterhood Luncheon M A R . 2 9 Women's Seder A P R . 2 0 Canasta Tournament A P R . 2 5 Sisterhood Luncheon & Installation of Board Members N O V . 2 9 Fashion Show
Fashion” Watch your email and the monthly issue of The Voice for more information on these upcoming Sisterhood events and programs.
& Cheese Get-together for new Sisterhood members 5:30pm - 7:30pm
Cottage Tour
Jongg
sponsors JFGN Book Festival"Maybe It's Me" by Eileen Kathy Pollack
Men's Club Luncheon at 11:30am.
Fundraiser - “Fall into

MEN’S CLUB

Men’s Club President Ron Yasbin

As the Days of Awe come to an end, “Mayyoubeinscribedand sealedforagoodyear.”

I was recently reminded of a story that exists among academic circles. Essentially, a philosophy professor gave a final exam where there was only one question and that question was, “Why?” Most of the students wrote long answers consuming many pages. These students mostly received a “C” grade. Several students just wrote, “Why Not” and they received the very good grade of a “B” (this was before grade inflation). Only one student received an “A.” She wrote, “Because.”

Why is really an important question, especially for us as Reform Jews. Why do we belong to a congregation? Possibly because we know it is essential to guarantee that the Jewish beliefs in justice, equality and integrity continue. “Justice, Justice You Shall Pursue,” is the primary Jewish contribution to the human spirit.

Why do we support organizations like ADL, HIAS, Food Banks, BBYO, schools, The Federation, ones that advocate for environmental health, etc.? Because of the commandment to seek justice in all forms. Specifically, why do we have a Men’s Club at Temple Shalom? Because we want to advocate for the congregation’s welfare, health and inclusion. While we have a wide variety of interests, over the past years your Men’s Club has placed a special emphasis on advocating and caring for the youth in our congregation as well as the youth in the greater community. By making sure that our youth programs are funded and supported, we are helping to guarantee that our children learn the lesson of “Justice, Justice, You Shall Pursue” as well as knowing that they should be proud of their Judaism.

This mission of ours is even more important during a period of rising antisemitism and intolerance. This year we will be working to further support our mission and increase our visibility after the decreased activity that was caused by the pandemic. Please support these endeavors by participating in our activities as well as by joining the Men’s Club and even taking active roles in leadership and creativity.

The following are just some of the scheduled activities: Men’s Club Shabbat - October 14. We will honor Ed Cohen. Deli Dinner (Janaury 8); Joint Luncheon with Sisterhood and sponsorship of Jewish Book Festival (February 14); Dinner Theater “The Jersey Boys” (March 4); Membership Breakfast (TBD).

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For more information on the
Club and to download a membership application, visit the Men’s Club page under Connect on the Temple Shalom website - www.naplestemple.org

TIKKUN OLAM

Tikkun Olam Volunteers Chair

Don Belmont

Personal Reflections Following the Hurricane

“I know, I know. We are Your chosen people. But, once in a while, can’t You choose someone else?”

- Tevye from Fiddler on the Roof

In the past, like most people, I approached natural disasters fairly casually. I would drop off food or send a check to help those in need. My attitude has changed, however, with the arrival of Hurricane Ian’s storm surge and the flooding of my home, which is now ‘totaled’. Here are my observations as I clean up storm damage:

• We’ve all heard it before - The things that are most important are not things. Our ‘stuff’ can be replaced. We’re fortunate that we were safely away when the storm arrived.

• People are generally good and kind. There is so much animosity and loud disagreement regarding politics these days, it’s easy to forget that most folks are kind. The cleanup crews, the laundromat lady, even the insurance people did what they could to help us out with an attitude of service.

• There are always folks who have it worse than you. At the same time that I was piling my ruined ‘stuff’ in a heap along the street, there were gleaners poking through the various trash piles to see what they could find that might be useful to them.

• I’ve decided that Mother Nature can be plain nasty sometimes. After shlepping stuff out to the street and feeling my age, I’m not feeling too warm and fuzzy about Father Time these days either!

• It’s sort of in vogue these days to criticize institutions and government. But when the going gets tough, we depend so much on the National Hurricane Center, the city government, and the federal government to organize a disaster response and keep us safe. That’s what governments are designed for and they actually do it well.

• Support of friends and community is immensely helpful – the phone call to check up, the email of support, the offer of help – they are all therapeutic. Reaching out to show you care is all you need to do.

• People are incredibly resilient. Initially there’s shock, there’s grief, then there’s planning for a new future. I watched it happen with my wife and I, and then with my neighbors. It’s amazing how adaptive humans can be.

The community will undoubtedly recover from the hurricane damage. Already, life east of 41 seems back to normal. Please remember those in need and support the Rainbow of Hope, the Temple’s disaster response project to help our neighbors get back on their feet. For questions or more information, please contact Rainbow of Hope Chairs Bruce and Carol Sherman (Bruceshermanbruce2a@gmail.com; Carol - shermancarol2a@gmail.com).

Interested in joining the TOV?

Visit the TOV page under Connect on the Temple Shalom website or, contact TOV Chair, Don Belmont, at djbelmont@gmail.com.

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YAHRZEITS - October 2022

7 Helen Acker

7 Lillian Hirsch Schmidt

Stephen Barolsky Zetta Shapiro

Mildred Bassewitz

14 Rae Kahn

Suzanne Kessler

21 Erwin Binder

Gertrude Brother

Abraham Singer Gerald Klein Stanley Broude

Debbie Blinder Sara Singer

Lillian Konisky William Bernard Clayman Hannah Blumenthal

John Wm. Spiegel Beverly Kroll Bernard Cohen

Murray Brown Philip Tannenbaum Elsie Lauber Joe Cohen

Paul Crown Morris Teitelbaum

Arthur Sigmund Lieb Louis Duberstein Bert Crystal Norma Topp Shirley Lind Sally Fay

Sophie Diamondstein Sheldon Treiser

Joyce Van Thournout Jack Manheim Pearl Finn

Berel Mair Harry Fink Goldie Figlarz

Bernard Hanau Tobie Waxler Ruth Menkin Clara Ganzman

Israel Harris Alvin Weinstein

May Hechtman Sol Weisel

Carolyn Moskowitz Joe Gardner

Fred Nichols Joseph Gilman

Alvin Heller Paul Wolf Ben Nudel Marcus M Gish

Isidor Hirsch

Louis Worobiow Victor Ostrow Molly Goetz

Regina Hirsch Bella Zailer Howard Palay Betty Goldstein

Joe Hirsch Anna Zimmerman

I. Allen Paritz Murray Goold

Irwin Kaden 14 Alexander Barszap Rachel Peltz Esther Gordon

Richard Abbott Kaye John Berger

Sue Pfingst

Rabbi Howard Greenstein

Loren S. Kendis Caryl Bock James Polacheck Dorothy Gursky

Arlene Kepp

Edith Caplan

Effie Elizabeth Purdy James Harry Harris

Stephen Ryan Kepp David Caplan Lottie Riedel Arthur Hecht

Evelyn Kessler

Marilyn Charak

Dorothy Rose Sanford Hersh Harriet Keve Karen Lynn Ciorciari Julia Rosensweig Gerald Hyde

Sylvia S. Lerner Morris Cohen Maurice Rush Jessie Jones

Minna Levine Esther Davidson Gerda Ruwalsky Edna Katz

Sheldon B Liebovich

Irving Dworkin

Samuel H. Entoff

Joseph Schwartzman

Alvin Shapiro

Shalom Arie Kivilevic

Marion Rudnick Kaye Edwin Mendel

Dr. Alex Miller

Rebecca Feinberg Curt Simon Shalom Kivilevic Jack Millstein

Joan B Mintz

Janet Pashin

Rose Garber Elaine Stein Sandy Klein

Minnie Goldsmith Rose Strome Judith E. Lemler

Helen Herman Golin Myron Symons Fred Lipp

Miriam Pavlo Ruth Goodman

Sarah Regina Plotkin

Polly Prolman

Harold Rabinowitz

Sonny Raichlen

Miriam Rosen

Robert Ross

Morris Rotskoff

Rose Graev

Jeffrey Toll Rae C. Mensh

Robert Eugene Trattner Gladys Pickman

Glenwood Green Lena Wolf

Benjamin Gross Mollie Yett

Marilyn Rosenblum

Nettie Rothman

Miriam Gross Irving Zelinger Jacob Schuman

Ida Mae Heller 21 Marion Angoff Robert Seidman

Leo Hertzman

Rose Isaacson

William Beckler

Lenny Shapiro

Doris Bernberg Sarah Shaw

David Rubin

William Jaffe

Fred Bernberg James Shur Meyer Ruchman

William Penn Jones Shirley Z. Beugen Jack Swerdlin

21 Edward Teater

Susan Wareck

Matthew B. Wasser

YAHRZEITS - October 2022

28 Alvin Katchman

Evelyn Katchman

Clare Katz

Lilyan Wasserman Edythe Laites

Sally Worobiow Anna Margolies

28 Barnett Aaron Maurice Ocker

Bernard Anchor Lester A. Ottenheimer

Selma Batkin Max Peltz

Conrad Berman Nelson Ross

Evie Binder Michael Rubenstein

Malvina Broude Harry Rubin

Lewis Chester Goldie Sacknoff

Hillis Cohn Howard Sanders

Jennie Entoff Tillie Schaffer

Saul Ertag Blanche Sernovitz

Rachel Zacks Gage Joseph Shiffman

Pearl Waldman Glaser Esther Silverstein

Herman Gold David Sokolik

Sidney Gordon Harry Springman

Harry Grandis Louis Sulzer

Lester Halbreich Sarah Temple

Morton Hersh Frank Walkenberg

Sigmund William Horwitz Anna Weinfeld

Herman Morris Jacobson Minnie B. Weinstein

Leon Jurgrau Max Weiss

Everett Kassalow Roberta Williamson Sylvia Kassalow Alexander S. Wyner

RECENTLY DECEASED (As of 10/13/2022)

Judith Peltz- Wife of Benjamin Peltz

Pamela Laskerr – Friend of Carole Greene

Lucille Cupples – Cousin of Tussy & Neil Shnider

Irwin Feinberg – Brother of Elliot Feinberg

Ilene Weinstein – Family member of Steve & Sherry Pino

Charles Picus – Husband of Judith Picus Gene Helfand – Temple Member

Amy Rucker – Sister of Jennifer Sandler

Joanne Crown – Mother of Valerie Crown Rhonda Singer – Temple Shalom Tutor

Rachel Brand – Cousin of Marilyn Dano

Irvin Blass – Husband of Annette Blass, father of Wenda Behrens

Frances Kline – Widow of Marvin Kline

Michael Schuman – Cousin of Jim and Judy Miller

Bernard Feldman – Father of Michael Feldman

Jacqueline Sallade – Wife of Robert Eberly Roger Koch – Brother-in-law of George and Sherry Zailer

Lawrence S. Newman – Father of Scott Newman Jerry Bigelman – Father of Jessica Schwedel

May their memories be a blessing. Zichronam liv’rachah.

Bereavement Group for Members of the Temple Shalom Community

In the spirit of our tradition, which calls us to perform the mitzvah of Nihum Avelim (comforting mourners), Temple Shalom will be offers Bereavement Support Group for widows who are grieving for a loved one. The group, which will observe confidentiality of communication, will meet on the 1st and 3rd Friday of each month from 9:30am to 11:00am. The facilitators, Arline Kaplan, Ph.D., and Leslie Wasserman, M.A., are members of Temple Shalom. Both Arline and Leslie, licensed in New York and Michigan respectively, have extensive experience with groups and with people experiencing grief and loss. “We are hopeful that sharing our stories with empathic, compassionate others will allow some healing, solace and peace into our lives. We can each be the gift that can possibly help to heal thewound.”

For more information, please email Arline Kaplan at arkaplanphd@gmail.com or Leslie Wasserman at leshbr@aol.com.

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August 16 to October 13

ABOVE & BEYOND

In Memory Of

Dr. Jerry Steiner from Sam Oshry

Judy Peltz from Leslie & Mel Spring

Miriam Reiss from Liz & Alan Jaffe

Judy Peltz from Nancy Kahn

Howard Yasbin from Ron & Sherrill Yasbin

ADULT EDUCATION

In Memory Of Irwin Feinberg from Laurie Cowan & Ric Phillips

ARTIST-IN-RESIDENCE FUND

In Memory Of Judith Peltz from Celia & Steve Gamm

DONATIONS

FLOWER FUND/ FOOD BASKET DONATIONS

In Memory Of Chuck Picus from Nancy Garfien

GENERAL FUND

In Honor Of

Temple Shalom from Gerald Prewitt

High Holidays from Debra Antzis Stanley Deutsch’s 80th birthday from Filler Family Charitable Gift Trust

Mae Riefberg’s 90th birthday from Ron & Hedy Pearlman

In Memory Of

JudithPeltz

Benjamin Peltz

Fred & Kathy Page

Gordon & Gayle Schnaper

CANTOR AZU’S DISCRETIONARY FUND

With Prayers for a Speedy Recovery

Scott & Eric Hyman from Carol & Marv Weisberg

In Memory Of Alice Bellow from Bunny Levere

Paul Zailer from George & Sherry Zailer

Murray Hendel from Michal Weisler

Philip A. Kaye from William G. Kaye

Mollie Weiss from Jay Weiss

Cantor Wilfred & Mrs. Bernice Birnbaum from Robin Cohn Ebenstein

Bella Zailer from Sherry & George Zailer

In Honor Of

The special birthday of Mae Riefberg from Harriet & Merlin Lickhalter

Mae Riefberg's 90th birthday from Ronnie Blumenthal

DR. PHILIP & SHIRLEY GILBERT MUSIC FUND

In Memory Of

Evelyn Rush and Maurice Rush from Carole Greene

Marvin Lansat and Patricia Lansat Pollack from Judy Lansat

Claude Elbha from Dr. Lydia Bond

In Honor Of Mae Riefberg’s 90th Birthday from Joan Vazakas

ENDOWMENT FUND

In Honor of Daryl Sissman’s 50th Birthday from Gene & Bobbie Katz

In Memory Of Bernard Feldman from Dr. Larry & Tracey Albert

Judith & Chuck Picus

Mel & Gail Ufberg

Rita Silverstein

Susan & Joel Pittleman

Philip Wichard t from Alvin & Susan Wichard Evelyn Cohen from Avra Schwab

Rosalie Greenberg from Brian & Tammy Katz

Gene Helfand from Chuck & Lori Siegel

Dottie Magen from Donna Wasser

Murray Hendel from Florence Hertzman

Irving Dworkin from Gary Dworkin

Bernard Feldman from Howard & Janet Solot Irwin Feinberg from Janet & Howard Solot Sylvia Golding from Janett Edelberg

Benjamin Koplovsky from Lee Kaye

Elsie Lauber, Shelly Stern, Mildred Bassewitz from Lisa & Harold Lauber

Jason Sabbag from Ralph & Brigitte Sabbag

Barry Jack Gomez from Scott & Simone Lutgert

Sarita Marcuse Gomezfrom Scott & Simone Lutgert

Stanley Broude and Malvina Broude from Sherry & George Zailer

Chuck Picus from Stephanie & Kathryn Galainena

The passing of your mother from Susan & Nat Ritter

Shelly Whitman from Todd & Lauren Brodie

Irwin Feinberg from Tony Clark & Kess Kessler

Pearl Silverman from Carol S. Wolfe

Joanne Crown from Robert Goetz & Val Crown

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DONATIONS

LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT FUND

In Honor Of

Daryl Sissman and her family and all that they do on a day-today basis to make the world a better place. From Anonymous

MEMORIAL FUND

In Memory Of Joanne Crown from Karen & Howard Wilner

Clare Katz from Marlene Garber

Laura Blinder from Sydelle & Andy Weinberger

Joanne Crown from Valerie Crown & Robert Goetz Michael Shapiro from Joyce Steckman

PERRY L. SWITZEN EDUCATIONAL FUND

In Memory Of Shirley Abrams Tucker from Randi Tucker Barr, PhD

POLSTER YESH SCHOLARSHIP FUND

In Memory Of Robert Wollman from Ellen & Ed Wollman

RABBI BOXMAN DISCRETIONARY FUND

Best Wishes

From Eileen and Jay Kowalski

In Appreciation Of Rabbi Ariel Boxman from Yael Rabbi Boxman from Scott & Hetty Weinstein

In Memory Of Edith Rose Parker Kusner from Sandy Parker

For Hurricane Relief

From Anonymous

RABBI JAMES AND JANE PERMAN LIBRARY

In Honor Of

William Kaye's special birthday from David & Cary Goodman

The Bat Mitzvah of our granddaughter, Lylah Paige Cutler from Len & Barb Cutler

In Memory Of Judy Peltz from Jeffrey & Freyda Albin

Blanche Sernovitz from Millie & Jim Sernovitz

SECURITY FUND

In Memory Of

Milton Sklaroff from Neil Sklaroff

Philip Schneider from Paul & Jane Shaw

STUART & ESTELLE PRICE AUDIO VISUAL FUND

In Memory Of Dr. Robert Ross from Marilyn Ross

RABBI MILLER DISCRETIONARY FUND

Best Wishes To Rabbi Miller and his family. A happy new year from Eric & Kathy Feinstein

In Honor Of Mae Riefberg’s special birthday from Florence Feinson

In Appreciation Of Rabbi Miller from Benjamin Peltz Rabbi Miller from Deena Caplan Rabbi Miller from Judy Picus Thank you for your inspiration! from Joyce Steckman

In Celebration Of Chase Ciorciari’s Bar Mitzvah from Andrew & Sydelle Weinberger

In Memory Of JudithPeltz

Arlene, Bob & Laura Subin

Deborah & Gary Kohler

Donna & Avie Goldstein

Linda Bluhm

Steven & Sheila Turbiner

Chuck Picus from Benjamin Peltz Max Peltz from Benjamin Peltz

Celina Barszap from Bronia Ichel

Frances Hirsch Burton Hirsch

Bernard Feldman from Burton & Carol Hirsch Bernard Feldman from Carolyn & Tracey Roth & Family Irwin Feinberg, M.D. from Elliot Feinberg & Sandy Parker

Pamela Laskerr from Gayle & Marty Dorio Evelyn Welt from John & Barbara Heffer

Dr. Charles Picus from Joyce Levy & Ken Sidman

Stephen Barolsky from Phyllis Barolsky

Edith Rose Parker Kusner from Sandy Parker

Roger Koch from Sherry &George Zailer

Charles Picus from Arlene & Bob Subin

Dr. Jesse Murray Brown from Fred and Lori Brown

For Hurricane Relief

Anonymous

Diana & Ken Goldstein Michael & Ellen Hoffman

Michael & Rabbi Betsy Torop Ray Kimmelblatt

Shellie Specter & Bob Davidson

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Continued

YESH ENRICHMENT FUND

In Memory Of Bernard Feldman from Beth & Brian Wolff

YOUTH GROUP ACTIVITIES FUND

Best Wishes

Nancy Boots from Jeani Park

In Memory Of Charles "Chuck" Picus from Bill & Kathy Hughes

Bernard Feldman from Jane & Rabbi James Perman

HURRICANE IAN DISASTER RELIEF

Kenneth Wetcher

Lisa & Norm Vogel

Maris Delani

Eileen J. Miller

Liz & Alan Jaffe

Gayle & Marty Dorio

In Memory Of

Harold S Greenbaum from Gary Greenbaum

Leon and Frieda Cohen from Judith Cohen

Bernard Feldman from Sheryl & Lee Spielman

Philip Tannenbaum from Bobbie Kauffman

can be made to Temple Shalom in honor of or in memory of a loved one, to mark a simcha, show your appreciation, or simply to support Temple Shalom.

can make your donation online at naplestemple.org/payment.php, or by calling the Temple Shalom office at 239-455-3030.

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October

“Tzedakah and acts of kindness are the equivalent of all the mitzvot of the Torah” – Jerusalem Talmud, Pe’ah 1:1

Wayne & Toby Press

Gilbert Rashbaum

Irene B. Smith

Russell & Gail Smith

Fran St. Fleur

Bob & Arline Subin

Jerry & Linda Wainick

Joel Waltzer

Mark & Leslie Wasserman

Bernie Weiss

Thank You!

Continued

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Michal Wiesler 10
Help Us Reach Our Goal!
$380,000 $310,000

ABOVE & BEYOND

Pillar $1,000 - $1,999

Cantor Donna & Steve Azu

Bennett & Mardelle Berman

Roberto & Laurie Bollt

Karen Cohn

David Dembo

Jack & Alice Gish

Nancy Kahn

Ed Kaufman

Gracia Kuller

Robert & Barbara Levine

Michelle Levine-Troupp

Ronald & Paula Meyer

Rabbi Adam Miller & Jennifer Siegal-Miller

Sam Oshry

Judi Palay

Jane & Rabbi James Perman

Rabbi Ariel Boxman & Asher Saida

Marc & Joan Saperstein

Jane Schiff

Ivan Seligman, M.D.

Samuel Seltzer

Mark & Susan Sherwin

Judith & Dan spintman

Nancy White

Friend - $500 - $999

Anonymous

Walter & Eleanor Angoff

Bonnie Bodin

Ted & Nancy Brother

David Citrin

Barbara Cohen

Miriam & Burton Cohn

Sandra Diamond

Barbara Druckman

Bruce Graev

Linda Hamburger

Mathilde Hasson

Al & Roz Katz

Gene & Bobbie Katz

Henry Kraus

Geoffrey & Fran Kroll

Ben Z. Post & Debbie Laites

Michael & Carol Levy

Rochelle & Jacob Lieb

Richard & Marianne Matties

Judy & Chuck (z”l) Picus

Jack & Susan Rabin

Sheldon & Betsy Starman

Jim Gooodman & Robin Tapper

Rich & Sara Treiser

Thank You!

36
As
of October 10

ABOVE & BEYOND

Builders- $250 - $499

Anonymous (2)

Ed & Cheryl Alexander

Phyllis Barolsky

Bill & Randi Barr

Robert & Shirley Bassin

Dr. Lydia Simone Bond

Tom & Barbara Carlstrom

Larry & Lois Cohen

Neil & Judy Cohen

Marcy Cotton

Mignon & Stanley Farb

Kal & Ruth Faye

Lois & Robert Frost

Robert Hayum

David & Fredda Isaacson

Larry & Wendy Israelite

Dale & Lisa Katz

Mike & Eileen Katz

Jo Ann Kravitz

Marvin & Carol Lader

Moises & Nina Levy

Bob & Leda Lubin

Ralph & Bonnie Mandell

Ida & Jeff Margolis

Wendy Riedel

Lyle & Gloria Rosensweig

Marc & Lila Rosensweig

Sandra Sanfilippo

Sherri & Lee Spielman

Allen & Marla Weiss

Mel & Judy Zahn

I/We Care

Nancy Armocida

Stephen Bacharach

Rita Bernstein

Eleanor Bonder

Kathy Braddock

Bob Davidson & Shellie Specter

Martin Feins

Julie Fischer

Glenn & Jeanette Fischer

Nancy Garfien

Neil & Stephanie Heuer

Alan & Liz Jaffe

Stuart & Judy Kaplan

Jack & Judy Kaufman

Ira & Barbara Kushnir

Bernie Lashinsky

Gale Lazarus

Mary-Beth Levitz

Bobbie Lublin

Robert & Paula Maisel

Bill Maltby & Nancy Brown

Robin & Andy Mintz

Elyse & Bob Morande

Michael Rubenstein

Michael Rubner

Ralph & Brigitte Sabbag

Rowan & Karyn Samuel

Martin & Lanie Samuels

William & Caroline Schulhof

Avra Schwab

Mel & Leslie Springman

Michael & Ann Swartz

Lisa & Norman Vogel

Marv & Carol Weisberg

Barry & Surelle Wind

Barbara Winthrop

Ron & Sherrill Yasbin

Steven & Suzann Yussen

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As of October 10 Thank You!

2

Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday

1 Torah Study 8:30am*

Shabbat morning service 10:00am

No YESh Memorial service 10:00am PalmRoyaleCemetery &NaplesMemorial Gardens

3 PS Baby & Me 9:00am

Sisterhood Board Meeting 10:00am

4 Erev Yom Kippur Kol Nidre service 7:30pm

5 Yom Kippur Temple Office closed Preschool closed

Yom servicesKippurbegin at 10:00am

9 Erev Sukkot

YESh Judaics

9:00am

4th & 5th grade Family Program

9:00am Sukkah Fest 11:00am

16

YESh Judaics

9:00am Yizkor service 9:30am Simchat Torah service 10:15am YESh Hebrew 11:30am

23

YESh Judaics 9:00am Shalom Yeladim 9:00am

YESh Hebrew 11:30am

30 Blood Drive 8:00am - 1:00pm See pg. 4

YESh Judaics 9:00am Blessing of the Animals 9:00am

YESh Hebrew 11:30am

10 Sukkot Temple Office closed Sukkot service 10:00am

PS Moms Night Out 7:30pm

11 Israel Book Discussion Group 11:00am Sisterhood Luncheon 11:30am

17 Simchat Torah Temple Office closed 18 Executive Committee Meeting 7:00pm

6

7 PS Baby & Me 9:00am

Weekly Mah Jongg 1:00pm RSVP req’d see pg. 9 Shabbat evening 7:30pm

8 Torah Study 8:30am* Shabbat morning service 10:00am

12

13 Habitat for Humanity Volunteer Day School Board Candidates Forum 7:00pm*

14 PS Baby & Me 9:00am

Weekly Mah Jongg 1:00pm RSVP req’d - see pg. 9 Men’s Club Shabbat 7:30pm

15 Torah Study 8:30am*

Shabbat morning service 10:00am

19 TOV meeting 1:30pm*

Movies That Matter 4:00pm*

20 Sisterhood Book Bag 1:30pm

New Member Dinner 6:30pm

21 PS Baby & Me 9:00am

Weekly Mah Jongg 1:00pm RSVP req’d - see pg. 9 Shabbat evening service 7:30pm

22 Torah Study 8:30am*

Shabbat morning service 10:00am Bat Mitzvah of Chloe Gappelberg

24

PS Baby & Me 9:00am Jewish Yoga 10:30am* See pg. 9 PS Back to School Night 6:30pm

31 PS Baby & Me 9:00am Jewish Yoga 10:30am* See pg. 9

Israel Book Discussion Group 11:00am*

25 Board meeting 7:00pm

26 27 28 PS Baby & Me 9:00am

Weekly Mah Jongg 1:00pm RSVP req’d - see page 9

Shabbat evening service 7:30pm

29 Torah Study 8:30am* Shabbat morning service 10:00am Bar Mitzvah of Cooper Ross

Programs and events with an * take place via Zoom. All events are subject to change. Please check the calendar on the Temple Shalom website and your emails for updated information.

38 October
2022

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Sunday Monday Tuesday Wednesday Thursday Friday Saturday

1

Sisterhood Board Meeting 10:00am

Cruise Book Discussion 12:30pm

2 Movies That Matter 6:00pm

3

4

PS Baby & Me 9:00am

Weekly Mah Jongg 1:00pm RSVP required - see page 9

Family Shabbat 5:30pm offsite Soulful Shabbat 7:30pm

5 Torah Study 8:30am*

Shabbat morning service 10:00am Bat Mitzvah of Amelia Scapaticcio

YESh Judaics 9:00am

Shalom Yeladim 9:00am

YESh Hebrew 11:30am

Kristallnacht Community Commemoration 2:30pm

13

YESh Judaics 9:00am Shalom Café 9:15am Thanksgiving Food Drive 10:00am to 1:00pm YESh Hebrew 11:30am Foodie Films 12:30pm See page 13

20 No YESH

Kadima Outdoor Group TBD

7 PS Baby & Me 9:00am

Jewish Yoga 10:30am* See page 9

8 Election Day 9

Movies That Matter 6:00pm

10 11 PS Baby & Me 9:00am

Weekly Mah Jongg 1:00pm RSVP required - see page 9 Veterans Shabbat 7:30pm

12 Torah Study 8:30am* Shabbat morning service 10:00am Bat Mitzvah of Clara Isenberg Shabbat ShaPlay 10:00am offsite

14

PS Baby & Me 9:00am Jewish Yoga 10:30am* See page 9

PS Moms Night Out 7:30pm

15 Executive Committee meeting 6:00pm Board meeting 7:00pm

16 Tov Meeting 1:30pm

17 Sisterhood Book Bag 1:30pm See page 32

New Member Dinner 6:30pm Choir rehearsal 6:30pm

18 PS Baby & Me 9:00am

Weekly Mah Jongg 1:00pm RSVP required - see page 9 Shabbat evening service 7:30pm

19 Selichot Torah Study 8:30am* Shabbat morning service 10:00am

21

PS Baby & Me 9:00am Jewish Yoga 10:30am* See page 9

27 No YESh 28

PS Baby & Me 9:00am Jewish Yoga 10:30am* See page 9 Israel Book Discussion Group 11:00am*

22 23 24

Temple Shalom closed Preschool closed

25 Temple Shalom closed

Preschool closed Shabbat at the Lake 5:00pm

26 Torah Study 8:30am* Shabbat morning service 10:00am

29 Sisterhood Luncheon & Fashion Show 11:30am

30 Thinking About Good & Evil 12:00pm

Programs and events with an * take place via Zoom. All events are subject to change. Please check the calendar on the Temple Shalom website and your emails for updated information.

November 2022
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