The Voice - May 2019 by Temple Shalom

THE

VOICE Special

MAY 2019 Volume XXXIX Nisan/Iyyar 5779 Number 8

May Shabbat Services

M ay 3 - Soulful Shabbat M ay 10 - Board Shabbat M ay 17 - Confirmation Shabbat M ay 31 - Beach Shabbat

4630 Pine Ridge Road Naples, FL 34119 Phone: (239) 455-3030 • Fax: (239) 455-4361 www.naplestemple.org info@naplestemple.org Religious Education Office: (239) 455-2233 • Preschool Office: (239) 455-3227

Staff

Clergy

Board of Trustees

A dministrative & Clergy A ssistant Randi Butterworth rbutterworth@naplestemple.org Director of Communications Jeanette Fischer jfischer@naplestemple.org Temple R eceptionist

R abbi

President Debra Antzis First Vice President Daryl Sissman Second Vice President

Julie Fischer receptionist@naplestemple.org Controller Maxine Gould mgould@naplestemple.org Development Coordinator Shayna Aronson saronson@naplestemple.org M aintenance Technician Rick Holsbeke maintenance@naplestemple.org Music Director Jim Cochran Facility M anager Victor Lucas vlucas@naplestemple.org Preschool A dministrative A ssistant Gloria Mellman gmellman@naplestemple.org Membership Engagement Coordinator Ana Maria Tamargo atamargo@naplestemple.org

Adam F. Miller amiller@naplestemple.org

Cantor Donna Azu dazu@naplestemple.org

R abbi Emeritus James H. Perman, D.D. rabbi@naples.net

Professional Staff Executive Director Deborah R. Fidel dfidel@naplestemple.org

Interim R eligious School Director Susan Feld, Ed. S. sfeld@naplestemple.org

Preschool Director Seyla Cohen scohen@naplestemple.org

Mission Statement

Merrill Hassenfeld Third Vice President Ed Kaufman Treasurer Susan Ritter Financial Secretary David Silberg R ecording Secretary Dr. John Little Immediate Past President Debbie Zvibleman Sisterhood President Karen Cohn Men’s Club President Ed Cohen Historical Society Helen Weinfeld

Temple Shalom of Naples is an inclusive Ed Alexander Reform Jewish congregation Dave Citrin where all individuals are equal partners in making our world whole and Josh Garfield holy. We are One Family, believing in Ellen Goldberg the sacredness of relationships, fostering connections – one to another, Michael Feldman Temple, Israel, Torah and God. We are living Jewish values and nurturing future generations. The Voice is published monthly. June/July are combined issues. Editor—Jeanette Fischer · Advertising—Maxine Gould

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RABBI’S MESSAGE

Rabbi

Adam F. Miller

tale is told about a disciple of the Ba’al Shem Tov, a renowned scholar, who vanished one day from his small town. When the rabbi missed the morning prayer service, people began asking, “Where’s rabbi?” Concerned, they went to his house, where they found no one to be home. Then someone suggested that perhaps he was at the hospital visiting the sick, but again he could not be found. Next the school, but he was not there. Confounded, the leaders of the town called an emergency meeting to address this great crisis. Just as they called the meeting to order, a woman called out, “Look! There is the rabbi!” The crowd turned to see the rabbi walking on the road into town. Rushing to his side, they asked, “What happened? Are you okay? Where were you?” The rabbi smiled and said, “I was practicing what I preach when quotes the Sages, ‘Who is wise? One who learns from everyone.’ I have been studying with my colleague in the town next door. What did I miss?” You are not experiencing déjà vu if that story sounds familiar. Two years ago, I shared that teaching to introduce the first half of my sabbatical. It is important for one to practice what one preaches – especially when it comes to continuing one’s personal and professional development. Toward that end I have invested my time to strengthen my skillset and enhance my work as a rabbi. Those experiences included being part of the STAR PEER program on synagogue leadership, attending workshops offered through the CCAR on worship, participating in the Executive Certificate for Religious Fundraising program presented by the Lake Family Institute on Faith & Giving, and most recently completing the Brickner Fellowship to hone my skills as an effective leader for social justice. With the blessing of our Temple Shalom leadership, I received six months of sabbatical time to further my development and growth. We planned this sabbatical for our slowest time of the year, spread over two summers. The first three months took place during the summer of 2017. My experiences included a weeklong program with the Institute on Jewish Spirituality, two seminars at Harvard University, attending the Disney Leadership Institute, and participating in a thirty-day yoga challenge. Those experiences led to the creation of our Wise Aging program, influenced my inclusion of mindfulness practices at our worship services, and enhanced my skills as the rabbi of our congregation. The second half of my studies was originally scheduled for last summer. However, given the needs of the congregation and the arrival of our new Executive Director, Deborah Fidel, I postponed my sabbatical. That transition went quite smoothly, and our congregation benefited tremendously from Deborah’s expertise and leadership. Now, I am excited to complete the second half of my sabbatical. My focus this summer will be on leadership and justice. I will be attending a weeklong leadership development program, traveling the civil rights trail, learning from other colleagues, and exploring further my own spirituality. During my sabbatical, I know that the question will be asked, “Where’s rabbi?” The answer is that I will be following the teaching of the Sages and pursuing wisdom from many different sources. At the same time, Temple Shalom will remain in the capable hands of our wonderful senior staff team and lay leadership. Cantor Donna Azu, Deborah Fidel and Debra Antzis, our Temple President, will maintain the spiritual life, learning, and day to day functions of the congregation. Cantor Azu and Debra Antzis assembled a sabbatical team to make sure that all aspects of the congregation will be excellently managed. I trust them, and know we will continue along our positive trajectory. I look forward to returning in September and sharing some of my experiences with the congregation. Together we will learn, gain wisdom, and clarify our vision for Temple Shalom, our one family with many connections. L’shalom, Rabbi Adam Miller 3

CANTOR’S MESSAGE

ne of the most beautiful aspects of Torah is that connects to each person differently and depending on your life circumstances and experiences, you may not interpret what you’re currently reading the same as ten years prior or even ten years later. I had the pleasure of teaching Di Karpman, Sandy Schuman and Gloria Mellman as they prepared and celebrated their Bat Mitzvah’s together on March 2, 2019. The portion that week was Vayakhel and each one of them was able to relate to that portion in a different, unique and beautiful way. Below are three small excerpts of the speeches they shared with our community.

Sandy Schuman I am proud to say I am the oldest of these three terrific and wonderful women. I was brought up in an orthodox home. When my older brother started Hebrew school, I wanted to go as well even though I knew that I was not going to become a Bat Mitzvah. The boys were taught by the Rabbi and the girls were taught by the Rabbi’s wife, Mrs. Rabbi. We went to a shul where the men and women sat separately. A lace curtain ran down the length of the shul separating the men from the women and across the front of the women’s section. I felt completely disconnected from the service and from our Jewish religion. I always had Yiddishkite but not true religion. It was not until Len and I were married almost twenty years ago, by Reform Rabbi Daniel Cohen, and we joined his Reform synagogue, Temple Shaary Tefilo-Israel in New Jersey, that I found the spirituality in Judaism. Many times, I would sit during services and close my prayer book and let the wonderful feeling of the warmth and music wash over me. It was then that I knew I wanted to become a Bat Mitzvah and make a deeper connection to Judaism. It took me over 55 years since my brother’s Bar Mitzvah, to realize my personal dream. And here I am. I guess you CAN teach an old dog new tricks, especially if she is both young at heart and full of Jewish spirit and I guess today, I am a man? But, I am always a woman. My Torah portion today, deals with the building of the Mishkan or tabernacle. Moses chooses two men to organize and manage the building of this enormous project: Bezalel and Oholiab. God says that “each person whose heart is so moved” will give. This is the foundation of Tikkun Olam. Working together is one important way to build a sense of community, which is mentioned many times in this parashat Vayak’heil. Working together makes the whole better than the individual. The practice of Tzedakah and Tikkun Olam are very similar and comes in all forms. It is the true nature of people, of all people, but especially Jewish people, to reach out and help and do whatever they can when others are in need or in trouble. I would like to thank my husband, Len for his tremendous support and love through my journey to become a Bat Mitzvah, and for the many hours of him listening to me practice and practice and practice. The tallit I wear today is the tallit under which we were married. I would like to thank Rabbi Miller for his spiritual support. Many thanks to Cantor Azu for her patience and guidance. To Gloria and Di, there will always be a bond and sisterhood between us for travelling this road together. I could not have asked for two better women with which to make this journey. I leave you with the following thoughts: First, learn to love the work you do – once you learn to do so you never have to work a day in your life. Second, learn to love to learn – you will have a life of complete wonderment. Third, learn to love to give – you will achieve a life of complete fullness. Di K arpman My introduction to Judaism took place on a kibbutz in the Jordan Valley in Israel. We lived according to the rhythms of the seasons and the traditions of ancient times. On Friday nights, we would gather in the communal dining room, most of the men in white collared shirts and women in skirts and white tops looking so different from the dark blue work day attire, to share the Shabbat meal served family style rather than the cafeteria or buffet style used for all other meals. Shabbat was different. It was time to pause, breathe, enjoy the company of others and replenish ourselves. When Andy and I moved to the States, we agreed that we both really wanted to preserve the feeling of Shabbat, remembering 4

Cantor Donna

Azu

how to ‘push the pause button’ on our weeks. We worked hard over the years to carve out that space and balance it with a busy life working, raising a family and caring for aging parents and friends. There were many missed movie nights, late arrivals at sleep overs and other missed social events for our kids. But there were also many Shabbat dinners with friends and lessons on shared responsibilities and instilling of traditions of candle lighting and saying the blessings which we still do whenever we are together and sometimes, via Skype, when we are far apart. We have found that if we create the space to BE, set aside time that is separate from our usual activities, we can welcome the peace of Shabbat and take time to reflect, refuel and replenish, ready for the week to come. My journey to this day has included years of learning about Judaism through classes and reading, sharing with Andy’s extended family through the gamut of life cycle events and illnesses, guiding my own children through their journeys as Jews in a largely non-Jewish community, and keeping a Jewish home where we celebrated the holidays with friends and family around our table. It was only when we came here to Temple Shalom however, that I felt the acceptance of the community and my readiness to take on the challenge of becoming Bat Mitzvah. I am thankful that it has been with Sandy and Gloria, my partners in learning, with whom I will share a forever bond after the last 18 months of sometimes painful but often hilarious weekly meetings. Many thanks also to Cantor Azu for her patience, positivity and encouragement. I have been overwhelmed by the support and encouragement of family, friends and Temple members. My heartfelt thanks to all of you. My Torah portion talks about the seven branched menorah made of pure gold. What is special about this portion we find the branches, cups and petals of the menorah are compared to those of an almond tree. Almond trees are the first trees to flower in Israel each year when winter turns towards spring. What is unusual about these trees is their flowers appear before any leaves sprout on their branches. Upon learning this, I said to myself this must mean something. A tree that brings forth it’s most beautiful piece before it’s foundation. How can this apply to my life, our lives? Then I thought coming together celebrating our traditions, keeping them alive in our homes, in our everyday lives and temple. These are our flowers that bring beauty to our lives. Every Jewish holiday has traditions that are symbolic of hope, love, unity, gratitude, but also remembering loss, struggle and courage. These are the flowers that come first and what follows is the growth as a family, community and love for all these traditions. It is also interesting that the menorah is compared to a flowering tree. We refer to trees very often in our Jewish traditions. A tree symbolizes hope and provides shelter, food and tranquility. We could say that as a people we are the many branches of a tree. With each branch there is hope for future growth and the continuation of beauty. We see references to the tree during Tu b’Shvat and our Torah is often called the Tree of Life. Each portion of the Torah offers something different. Each time we read a portion of the Torah we get something different each time. We grow each time we gain wisdom from its readings. We grab on to another branch. Gloria Mellman Becoming a Bat Mitzvah brings tremendous joy to my life and has great meaning to me. I chose my Jewish life many years ago and it began when I met my husband Mark. You may think, oh she fell in love and that caused her to make this change. However, this decision did not happen overnight. I remember asking my husband before we were married, “Mark, tell me what’s it like to be a Jew or Jewish? I want to know.” That was my first branch and so many more followed and with each one I learned, and I became fulfilled with this faith, my faith. Once I had my children, I knew how I wanted them raised in a Jewish home. My formal conversion did not happen until my children were older. I waited because I was still on a journey of learning and I wanted to know that I would be worthy of this formal change. In my heart I was and am a Jewish person. In one of my meetings with Rabbi Miller during this formality, he said we don’t want to rush this. Every time frame is different for a conversion, but I want you to be sure that you have taken the time to learn and appreciate the meaning of the many aspects of the Jewish faith. He was right. I learned, and I grew and as I grabbed on to each branch, I was becoming more in touch with myself as a Jew. There have been many simchas in my life and I am grateful for each one. Today is on the top of my list. I think of my mother-in-law as I am standing here before you. Eileen Berger was my first teacher and I will never forget what she told my husband as we sat down with a cup of coffee. Our daughter, Rebecca had just been born and we began to talk about faith and religion. She looked at her son and said, “Mark I never want you to forget you are a Jew.” That has resonated with me and with my own children. We cannot forget. Our traditions, our sense of community are things we cannot forget. Those are our flowers and they are beautiful. 5

LEADERSHIP MESSAGE

Executive Director Deborah R. Fidel

s the Executive Director, I pore over the monthly demographic report that details how many new members have joined Temple Shalom, how many have resigned and how many households are currently part of our One Family. I look at all sorts of data about how many members donate to Above & Beyond, attend this or that event, sign up for Religious School, give to our Endowment, and so much more. At this time of year, when we count the Omer (the 49 days between Passover and Shavuot), we read in the Torah that it is a sin to count people directly and that doing so will bring a plague on the people of Israel. Phew! We keep a tally of households as opposed to individuals. After all, what would a Temple Shalom Board meeting be without Bobby Katz’s up-to-the-minute membership count?! We expect to finish our Fiscal Year 2018-2019 with 730 households in our One Family – an almost 50% increase in two years! What’s our secret? Some say it’s the L’Shalom pledge system that is lowering the barriers to membership. Sure, that is a factor for some. But if you don’t find rich worship experiences, profound Torah studies, transformative social justice programs and a welcoming and hospitable atmosphere when you walk in the door, no pledge system will keep you coming back. Only a face-to-face community of intimacy and warmth that shares, celebrates and supports individuals in the ups and downs of life and becomes an integral part of a meaningful life will do the trick. We cannot create such a community without you! Whether you are a learner, a leader, a Sabbath regular or all of the above, we invite you to get involved at Temple. And if you are a veteran member, please go out of your way to embrace and integrate new members into the fabric of our sacred community. Each of you is an ambassador for Temple Shalom. So, let’s keep counting households, but always remember that behind every number is a unique person, a couple or a family with an individual story and unique Jewish journey. Please share yours with us and help us build the community that you want to see.

President

Debra Antzis When I wrote my first “President’s Message” for the Voice, I acknowledged that the Temple’s president “is simply a representative, holding office not as an individual but in trust (for a time) on behalf of the Temple’s full membership.” One year later, I hope that I have, so far, fulfilled the trust you placed in me. Thank you to all who have worked hard over the past year to further the best interests of our diverse membership, being receptive to new ideas and at the same time respectful of our traditions. Clergy, staff, lay leadership and our many volunteers have shown their commitment to Temple Shalom, and I am deeply grateful. 6

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Save the Date Beach Shabbat Service Friday, M ay 31 at 6:00pm

We meet at Lowdermilk Park, at the north end of the beach. Everyone is welcome to bring their own picnic dinner and drinks. Don’t forget a beach chair! *No evening service at Temple on May 31.*

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M ay 10 - Board Shabbat honoring the members of the

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M ay 17 - Confirmation Shabbat The Confirmation Class of 5779 invites you to share in this sacred milestone as they are confirmed in the faith of Israel .

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YAHRZEITS – MAY 2019 3 Rose Sturtz Alexander Arnold Ansfield Esther Berman Steven Blinder Esther Bragman Frank Charak John Cornacchia Coleman Cristall Garson Dinaburg Phyllis Fish Chaja Goldstein Lawrence Greene Rheta W Harrison Ida Heindish Slava Baraban Hershman Barbara Levine Hershy Harold Hertzman Helene Hyman Jerremy Jacobs Paul Kamman Ida Karpman Bernard Kilberg Abraham Lewis Luff Ralph Merksamer Ann Prosten Janet Reach Carol Riedel Herbert Schiff Murray Siegel Sam Spiegel George Stein Mildred Strauss Jose Luis Tamargo Herman Teitelbaum Abe Waldman Sol Winkler Marjorie W. Wyman Dorothea Zamiela 10 Esther Adler Ruth Backman Michael Barter Ruth Ester Beck Dr. Morton Block Solomon Cohen Catherine Cotler Ruth M. Dorfman Helene Fischer Saul L. Fliegel Bessie Freschel Tillye Friedman Gus Garber Irving Goldberg Gilbert H. Goldman Dorothy Green Herbert Hasson Florence Kahn Heyman Dawn Hirsch Benjamin Karpman

10 Max Katz 17 Sue Levine 24 Sydney Samuel Betty Keyser Noah Liff Myna Schwartz Sophie Grossman Kreitman Diane Meyer Gerda Layser Sweet Morris Ben Kuller Bobbie Gordon Miller Adele Switzen Evelyn M. Lipp Harriet Pullman Sally Golda Zelinger Judith Malakoff Francis Rabin Philip H. Zelman Leonard Mendelblatt Ronald Rosenbach 31 Eileen Ackerman Samuel Price Harry Rubin Robert Bacharach Reba Price Jason David Schleien Marilyn Bassewitz Alfred Reinhardt Irving Schmidt Philip Bellow Herschel Rifkin Ann Schwalb Abraham Berman Rose Rosen Esther Sibrack Arnold Berol Florence Rosenbach Camille Sklaroff Paul Brizel Sofia Rotsztain Bertha Goldrich Sloan Roslyn Citrin Louisa Saloman Myrtle Symons Jenni Cohen Herbert Shapiro Maria Szcsekowska William Cohen Miriam Spintman Bessie Teitelbaum Marjorie Cohen Joseph Waranch Robert Teplitz William Josephson Lee Weisberger-Hollenberg Jerrie Weisberg Murray H. Katchman Abraham Weiss Dudley Albert Weiss Irving Katz Selma Wohl Sophie Welsh-Teks Cynthia Richmond Kaye 17 Sadie Zwass Berger 24 Shlomo Azu Ida Kofman Shirley A. Bloom Madeleine Benmax Joseph Krusch Jack Bonder Leonard H. Berliss Edna Krusch Helen Lewis Brody Ddavid Blinder Hilda Kuperman Agnes Abramow Carson David Brazil Melanie Kushnir Robert Carson Bernice Chazen Leo Alex Levin Scott Charif Neil Cooper Albert Meyer Anna Colbus Benjamin Ellis Louis Pastor Harriet Field William Freschel Beatrice Peilte Morris Friedman Gertrude Edelstein Garber Shirley Piasek Etel Gross Alvin Gilbert Heuer Stella C. Rasimowicz Anne Gurman William Kramer Maurice Rodman Jennie Harris Jay Lashinsky Raymond Rosenblum Ruth Hepner Irving Lassoff Shirley Schloss David Hyman Ruth Levin Ethel Seaman Zelda Jaffa Mildred Lewis Jules Sherman Lew Jaffa Marjorie Joy Segel Lutz Lena Sokoll Albert Katz Miriam Malkin Sophie Treiser Marian Katzenstein Morris Nathan Oshry Helen Warshauer Herbert Kramer Harry A. Pearson Albert Wasserman Louise Kuller Harry Peltz Teresa Weisel Michael Izza Landy Rose Pianko Betty Wolf Sig Lenchner Ethel Raichlen Zelig Yellin

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LEARN WITH US Fashioning A rt from Paper On Friday, March 15, more than twenty Temple Shalom members attended a tour of the Isabelle de Borchgrave exhibit, Fashioning Art from Paper, at the Baker Museum. Attendees were treated to a private tour led by Temple Shalom member and Baker Museum docent, Ellaine Rosen. The exhibit, which features de Brochgrave’s artful exploration of historical costume, will be at the Baker Museum through May.

Photos are courtesy of Susan Pittelman.

Is A dult Hebrew School For You? Have you always wanted to learn the letters and vowels of the Hebrew alphabet? Do you wish you could read many of the essential Hebrew blessings and prayers? Please contact Jane Perman (janeperman@icloud.com) to let her know you would be interested in joining a Beginning Hebrew Class for Adults at Temple Shalom. Jane will contact you concerning scheduling such a class.

Have you noticed our beautiful artwork? As you walk through the halls of Temple Shalom, you will notice the many beautiful pieces of artwork adorning our walls. Some pieces were donated by past and present members. Some pieces were created by our members. Some pieces were simply dropped off by generous members of the community. We don’t have information on all of the pieces, but we do on some. Periodically we will highlight certain pieces in The Voice. Hanging right outside the Temple Shalom front office is a painting by William Meyerowitz (1888-1981) titled Chassidim with Clarinet. This colorful oil on masonite painting was donated by Temple Shalom member William Kaye. It depicts two Chassidic men in traditional clothing of black hats and wool coats. One of the men is playing the clarinet. William Meyerowitz painted in oils and was also renowned for his watercolors, etchings and drawings. His works can be found in The Metropolitan Museum of Art in New York, Boston’s Museum of Fine Arts, The Smithsonian and the Library of Congress. 13

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Interim Director of Religious School Susan Feld, Ed.S.

Teaching Staff Workshop

ecently the Religious School teaching staff gathered for a day of professional development and learning. Rabbi Adam Miller introduced the group of educators to the topic of Passover “From Sinai to Seder.” Rabbi Miller spoke of mention in the Mishnah in the second century C.E. of references to the various phases of the Seder ceremony as we know it today. He also talked about a new tradition of placing a banana on the Seder plate – in memory of a refugee family who lost a child in their desperate flight from oppression; the child’s favorite treat was a banana. Another recent tradition is a tomato on the Seder plate – bringing to our attention the oppression of farmworkers here in the United States. At Passover, we are reminded that we are obligated to create justice in the world.

Dr. Kelly Roy and Susan Feld

Our other guest speaker, Dr. Kelly Roy, is the coordinator of the Early Childhood Education Department at Florida SouthWestern College. Dr. Roy introduced teaching strategies to engage students in higher levels of thinking and hands-on learning. She talked about how the most recent brain research informs our teaching policies. As teachers, we know that students learn best through active, hands-on learning, as opposed to lectureJanet Rosen and Robyn Deering style learning. This is because a child’s entire body is interconnected with the brain and responds to and is stimulated by active engagement. Dr. Roy impressed upon us that successful teachers find ways to make connections of seemingly unrelated concepts to students’ lives. Most of our teaching staff are exemplary educators and are already implementing these research-based strategies.

The R eligious School thanks the Sisterhood of Temple Shalom for their generous gift of $15,000 towards helping to provide scholarships for

R eligious School families in need. The Sisterhood’s ongoing and consistent support of the R eligious School helps to sustain Jewish education and learning for our children. 14

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RELIGIOUS SCHOOL DATES TO KNOW

May Sunday 5/5 Friday 5/17

No Sunday Hebrew School and RS Ice Cream Sundae Party Confirmation Shabbat Service

LEARN WITH US

Preschool Director

Temple Shal m Preschool

Seyla Cohen

Planting seeds in the minds of our future.

PRESCHOOL DATES TO KNOW

May Wednesday 5/1

POTS Meeting

Saturday 5/4

15th annual TSP A rt Show

Friday 5/10

Lion’s Mother’s Day Brunch 10am

Friday 5/17

Pre-K Graduation 10am

Friday 5/24

L ast Day of School Celebration 9:30am Early Dismissal

In just a few short days, on Saturday, May 4, Temple Shalom Preschool will host their 15th Annual Art Show. Our young Picasso’s have been working incredibly hard on their finest art projects which will be sure to WOW their moms and dads. This year promises to be the most incredible Art Show ever. The Art Show Committee has gone above and beyond and promises a new and exciting experience. Please call the Preschool office for more information on attending or supporting this event. There is nothing like tradition and holidays to let us know where in the year we are. Children thrive on structure and repetition so it’s no wonder that the festivals we celebrate each year create lasting memories. Such rituals can be started at an early age and that is our intention at Temple Shalom Preschool.

On Passover, another much-loved celebration, children become familiar with the different foods offered and the meaning behind their presentation. As in many Jewish holidays, the menu plays an important part. We celebrated Passover with our TSP families at our annual Passover Seder where traditional dishes were served. In our Storyland, the story of Moses was told and acted out on stage; in art class, traditional Seder plates are crafted; in music, customary songs are sung and danced to; and in our classrooms, creative haggadahs constructed; all making for a fun learning experience, especially for our little ones. As these children progress through Temple Shalom Preschool year after year, these customs are repeated, forming a constant reminder of where they come from and instilling in them a sense of belonging. Those students who are not of the Jewish faith are exposed to practices that other religions follow, broadening their horizons. May is an incredibly busy and celebratory month for us. In addition to our Art Show, the Lions classes celebrate their mothers with the much-anticipated Mother’s Day Brunch. The Lions’ team helps the children prepare special keepsakes, songs and a delicious brunch just for the moms. We also celebrate our TSP Graduates. They have worked so hard throughout the years and have eagerly awaited this moment in their lives. It is a bittersweet time, we are losing our Pre-K students but know that they are academically, socially and emotionally prepared and ready to take on Kindergarten. Enrollment is open for our fabulous fun-filled summer camps, Camp Shalom and Camp Einstein. Maintaining consistency with our little ones makes the transition to the next level much easier. Those children who attend our summer camps have an easier time adjusting to their new classes in the fall. For more information on any of our wonderful TSP programs, please call Seyla Cohen, Director, 239-455-3227.

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CONNECT WITH US Beading for Betterment We are happy to announce that Beading for Betterment will continue throughout the summer! Beading for Betterment is a fun way to be creative, spend time with friends AND fulfill a mitzvah! This wonderful program benefits the children of the Guadalupe Center in Immokalee by providing them with hand-beaded necklaces and bracelets to give as holiday gifts to their mothers, grandmothers and special women in their lives. Summer dates for Beading are Wednesday, July 17 and August 14. Each session begins at 12:30pm and ends at 3:30pm. If you’d like to participate, please contact Carol Hirsch at chirsch1951@gmail.com. There is a minimal charge of $18 for the cost of supplies. No cost if you bring your own supplies. Photos courtesy of Susan Pittelman

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END OF SEASON SALE Wednesday, May 1 through

Wednesday, May 15

20% off ALL merchandise After May 15, the Gift Shop will only be open by appointment through the summer. Please call Judi at 239-253-2552 to schedule an appointment.

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CONNECT WITH US

New Members M artin & Helen Siegal

197 Twelve Oaks Lane Ponte Vedra Beach, FL 32082 Martin’s cell: (904) 626-4610 Email: nadadore@aol.com Helen’s cell: (904) 626-4571 Email: ourseagal@aol.com Helen and Martin spent 33 years with Chrysler Corp. During that time they had the opportunity to live all over the United States. They then moved to Ponte Verde Beach, Florida where they currently reside. They are the proud parents of Jennifer Siegal-Miller and Michael Siegal. Jennifer and her husband Rabbi Adam Miller have three children who attend Community School of Naples. Michael and his wife Heather have two children and live in Colorado. They are avid tennis players and love to travel. Although they don’t live in Naples, they love to visit and feel very welcomed at Temple Shalom. They look forward to being part of the Temple Shalom family.

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The Israel Scout Friendship Caravan is coming to Naples in June! This Caravan consists of 2 leaders and 10 Israeli teens who will perform by singing and dancing at different venues for our Naples community. The Scouts will be arriving at around 9:00am on Tuesday, June 11 and leaving Naples on Thursday, June 13 in the early morning. We need a few host families!

Hosting the Scouts The hosting experience is often the most exciting and meaningful part of the Caravan’s visit. The hosting relationship goes far beyond providing food and a bed – the host families become true surrogate families during their stay. Families love bringing the Caravan into their homes, getting to know the teens and learning more about Israel. It is a valuable and unforgettable experience. Your responsibilities include meals and sleeping arrangements on Tuesday, June 11 and Wednesday, June 12, and transportation to and from the events on both days.

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Israel Book and Discussion Club The Adult Education Committee is pleased to offer an Israel Book and Discussion Club. Open to all Temple Shalom members, the Club will meet monthly in the Perman Library to discuss a selected fiction or nonfiction book about Israel, and to relate what we learn from it to more current events regarding Israel. If interested, please join us for an organizational meeting that will be held in the Perman Library on Monday, May 6, 2019 at 2:00 p.m. If you have any questions, please contact Michael Rubner at exfgomsu@aol.com or 239-594-9793. 18

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CELEBRATE WITH US

Bar Mitzvah

Joshua A lbanos 5.25.2019

Joshua is in 7th grade at North Naples Middle School. He has two older sisters that he loves and looks up to; Jamie (22 years old) and Riley (19 years old). Josh is an avid music fan who went to his first concert, Rush, at seven years old and has been playing drums for many years. Besides music, Josh also plays golf, loves video games, and is excited to spend his second summer at Camp Coleman. He serves as a school ambassador, welcoming new students to school and making sure no one has to eat lunch alone. Josh feels honored to be Mr. Moeckler’s last Bar Mitzvah student at Temple Shalom.

Mazel Tov!

Simchas

Congratulations to Art & Sue Bookbinder on being awarded the Inaugural Art & Sue Bookbinder Award from Lighthouse of Collier – Center for Blindness and Vision Loss. This award was created in correlation with the 10th Anniversary of Lighthouse of Collier and will be given annually to a person or persons that have gone above and beyond to help move their mission forward. Art & Sue have given their hearts and souls to the Lighthouse!

M azel tov to the L airet Family! Fabiana Kivilevic and Jose Lairet welcomed a baby boy on April 6. Eli Arie Lairet weighed a healthy 7.8 pounds. He joins brother Joshua and sister Elise.

Jeanette Fischer Director of Communications Jeanette is the editor of the monthly newsletter, The Voice and has the responsibility of keeping our congregation, and the Greater Naples community, informed about all the wonderful things happening at Temple Shalom through the weekly emails, flyers and advertisements. She also maintains the Temple calendar and manages the scheduling of over 1,300 events at Temple Shalom including the use of the building by other organizations. Jeanette, her husband Glenn and three of their four children (Jared, Julie and Zachary) moved to Naples six years ago from Northern NJ. Their daughter, Samantha, resides in Asheville, NC and visits whenever she can.

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1 Jane Friedberg 2 Nina Diamond Michael Feldman Ian Spiller Elizabeth San Filippo Linda Carp Robert Bassin 3 Mark Feinberg Dennis Schaab Barbara Rubin 4 Carol Kurlander Ivan Seligman, M.D. Daniel Carp Bruce Sherman Laurie Albanos Deborah Fidel Judith Anchel Daniel Spintman Merlin Lickhalter 5 Richard Sokolik 6 Daniel Goldsmith Philip Henault Ana Maria Tamargo Corky Kaplan Michael Greenberg Tracy Ornstein Martha Gross Judythe Isserlis Irvin Blass Kathy Emanuel Lois Kugelman

7 Karen Cohn James Kahn 8 Stephanie Schriber Carol Eicher Robert Snyder 9 10 Myra Snyder Stanley Yarkin Edward Rosenthal 11 Marcia Buckman Meredith Frankel Bruce Sherman Diana Yarkin Ita Paquette A. Stephen Kotler Barbara Jolovitz 12 Sylvia Wolinsky Sharon Levitsky 13 Lisa Mair Laura Subin 14 Jane Schiff Amy Karnilow Kyle Cohen Kelly Fogel 15 Michael Levine 16 David Goldstein Amy Perwien Danny Schertzer

25 Ellen Gordon Viacheslav Dorfman Bunny Levere Vicki Baker Eric Feinstein 26 Neil Heuer Robert Ravitz Wendy Wolman 27 Linda Dworkin Lisa Kohan Nancy Suslov 28 Geoffrey Porter Jacob Eisen Tussy Shnider Joshua Siwiec 29 Robert Michael Hurwitz Loren Rosenbach Irina Koppel Hedy Pearlman 30 David Marchante Cynthia Rubin Mignon Farb 31 Esther Garfield Jacob Myers Larry Fish Jennifer Auerbach June Paley

Happy Anniversary!

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17 Joan Werhane Burton Cohn 18 Cynthia Sherman Barbara Cohen Robert Subin Scott Levy Harriet Lickhalter 19 Nancy Burgess Ronald Emanuel Nace Cohen 20 Charles Picus 21 Donna Egdes Donald Temple Paula Brody 22 Helene Gillingham Eric Wasser Cynthia Nusbaum Elisabeth Teller Phyllis Titlebaum 23 Randi Barr Alice Gish Matthew Koch Eugene Simon Sheila Handler 24 Deborah Kohler Gloria Garber

William and Vicki Baker George and Cynthia Rubin Mark and Zoraima Liberman Michael and Ellen Gordon Marvin and Carol Lader David Goldstein and Caroline Beasley Robert and Muriel Ravitz Eric and Brooke Druckman Elliott and Retta Singer Stuart and Sarah Warshauer Kenneth Sidman and Joyce Levy Barry and Debbie Zvibleman Albert and Roslyn Katz Nace and Cindy Cohen Bill Maltby and Nancy Brown Anthony and Ashley Solomon Patton and Lauren Corrigan Burton and Carol Hirsch Alan and Corky Kaplan Barry and Joanne Kittinger

25 Rudy and Rocio Bershadski Mark Malone and Frances Kline 26 Elliot and Eloise Kaplan 27 Jeff Butzke and Wendy Wilson Michael and Dana Wexler Russell and Janet Sobelman 28 Eric and Kim Hochman Jason and Sandra Korn Benjamin and Judith Peltz Darren Samuel and Tammy Strohl Samuel Stephen and Bernice Saks 29 Kyle and Rachel Cohen Morton and Myra Friedman Paul and Jane Shaw 30 Harvey and Maxine Brenner Nelson and Geraldine Glueck Richard and Donna Goldblatt Mark and Anne Rubin Marc and Linda Simon Robert and Myra Snyder 31 Richard and Gwen Zack

MEN’S CLUB Men’s Club President Ed Cohen

Temple Shalom Men’s Club

Annual Family Baseball Night! Saturday, June 8 Game time 7:00pm

Fun for the WHOLE family! Game of Thrones Night & Hawaiian Shirt Giveaway

Fort Myers Miracles vs Jupiter Hammerheads Tickets are ONLY $8.50/person RSVP:

1. Contact Phil Freeman by email (pihlster@aol.com) or phone (239-653-9728) 2. Indicate number of tickets needed 3. Make checks payable to Temple Shalom Men’s Club and mail to: Temple Shalom Men’s Club 4630 Pine Ridge Road Naples, FL 34119

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SISTERHOOD

irst, I want to thank all Sisterhood members for attending events and luncheons and voting in the new Board.

It’s May and while the seasonal residents are on their way home, many Sisterhood members remain here working on next year’s events. We are always looking for people to help - be a chairperson for a function, or help checking people in at our events. So, contact us if you are interested in being part of the team.

Sisterhood President

Karen Cohn

Just because I am the President of Sisterhood you don’t have to worry. I am still one of the “Oneg Ladies,” making platters and baking every Friday morning. Oh yes! Here’s my plug, if you like to bake and don’t want to eat all the baked goods yourself, then bring them to Temple so everyone can enjoy your recipes. We always need helpers and new bakers. Also, if you are down-sizing and have glass or ceramic platters, consider donating them.

For those who haven’t met me or my husband, Marty and I have been Temple Shalom members for 30 years. We came from Miami Beach. I was a dental hygienist and he was a physician. We have two children and four grandsons. Sisterhood is proud that it runs the biggest and best Judaica Shop in Greater Naples. We have many volunteers who help to staff the Judaica Shop. Judy Spintman (orders our Judaica Shop inventory) and I prepare the bank deposits for our accountant/treasurers Becky Cornacchia and Fran Nossen. Many other Sisterhood members work hard to make Sisterhood fun and engaging, including Debbe Schertzer, Vice President of Fundraising, and Bunny Kaufman who are working on next year’s events. Ida Margolis, Vice President, with Barbara Druckman, First Vice-President, will be arranging the Luncheons and speakers. Suggestions on making our events available to all members are always welcome. I must not forget Helen Weinfeld who is in charge of Book Bag and is one of the “Oneg Ladies.” Another purpose of Sisterhood is to help the Religious School by providing a scholarship for tutoring a child or helping to pay for a special trip. We also help fund the RAC trip with the Rabbi when the teens go to Washington, DC. If there are things the Temple may need, we have discretionary funds available. As you can see, Sisterhood doesn’t do just one thing - we do what needs to be done. Please consider joining us. Respectfully, Karen Cohn Sisterhood President

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ENDOWMENT CORNER

With a completed endowment gift of $10,000 or more you will become a member of our

Eternal Light society. The Endowment Committee is pleased to give you our annual update on the continued progress of our endowment and planned giving programs. • Temple Shalom Endowment Funds, at the Community Foundation of Collier County (CFCC) for cost-effective administration and professional investment management: • General endowment plus seven named funds have been established with a total value of approximately $450,000 since 2014 • New funds can be established with a minimum gift of $10,000 • Existing funds are being continually augmented by family and other gifts, tributes • Verified planned gifts with current known values total approximately $1.5 million (partial value only, as most donors have not provided estimated values) • Eternal Light Society, established for completed Endowment Gifts of at least $10,000 - 10 member individuals or families to date, recognized in new video display in foyer • Legacy Society, established for all who sign non-binding Letter of Intent to make a Planned Gift - 34 individuals • Member list is published annually in the Voice • Certificates were presented to Legacy Society members at special event honoring them in November 2018 • Certificates to be presented annually to new members • Committee members pledged 100% participation in endowment/planned giving • Recognition criteria have been established for endowment, planned giving, cumulative lifetime and other major gift categories • Naming opportunities are available for Temple facilities (Sanctuary, wings, rooms, etc.), endowed chairs and programs for major gifts (over $100,000) • Additional naming opportunities have been established for gifts of $36,000 to $72,000 • For Now and Forever endowment and planned giving brochure, designed by our committee is: • On Temple website, naplestemple.org, click Donate, Endowments & Planned Giving • In Sanctuary prayer book holders on seat backs • Available at entry hall and various Temple locations • Voice articles are prepared monthly by committee members in Endowment Corner, explaining program and opportunities for giving; highlighting major donors • Focus Group participants, March 2018 gave many excellent suggestions on endowments and planned giving , several of which have already been implemented • Another focus group is being planned for 2019-2020 Endowment Committee, Suzanne Low, J.D., CFP®, Chair Paula Brody Susan Freeman Anne Rubin

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TZEDAKAH Showing We Care Contributions to Temple Shalom funds are wonderful ways to show your appreciation of family and friends, to celebrate happy occasions and to honor the memories of loved ones. We suggest a minimum donation of chai ($18.00). With a minimum donation of chai, a notice of your gift will be sent to the honoree and mention will be published in The Voice.

Operations Funds General Fund

Support Temple operations

Capital R eserve

Maintain and enhance buildings and grounds

Security Fund

Improve safety and security

Tree of Life

Each ‘Rock’ and ‘Star of David’ is a donation of $540.00; each ‘Leaf ’ is $240.00. The contribution must be received in its entirety before engraving is ordered.

Tribute Garden

Enhance garden, buildings and grounds. Dedication opportunities are available.

Worship Funds Memorial Fund

Donations in memory of loved ones

William Freschel K iddush Fund

Provide Kiddush Lunch each Saturday following worship services. A $150 donation sponsors Kiddush in honor of a special someone or occasion.

Flower Fund

Bimah flowers each Shabbat. A $100.00 donation sponsors flowers in memory or in honor of a special someone or occasion.

Mitzvah Baskets Fund

Bimah food baskets for Shabbat. A $100 donation purchases several hundred dollars of food for JFCS.

Dr. Philip & Shirley Gilbert Music Fund Enhances music at Temple Shalom

Prayerbook Fund

Prayerbooks and Torah commentaries. Prayerbooks - $54, Torah commentary - $100 High Holy Days prayerbooks (set) - $108

Education Funds

Endowment Funds

Enhance adult education programs

To secure the future, enrich programs and provide for emergency needs of the congregation

A dult Education Fund

R eligious School Fund

Supplies and activities for Jewish learning in Religious and Hebrew Schools

R eligious School Enrichment Fund Augments the Religious and Hebrew School educational programming.

General Endowment

Herbert & Ruth A bramson Endowment

To supplement general operations and provide enrichment for Temple functions

Polster R eligious School Scholarship Fund

Honey Berkle Endowment

Ben Calmenson Fund

Support operating and capital expenses

Religious and Hebrew School scholarships for students in need Sponsors children to attending Camp Coleman

Joseph S. Weinfeld Faculty Development Fund

Curriculum and teaching skill enrichment activities for Sunday and Hebrew School teachers

Youth Activities Fund

Support overall mission of Temple Shalom

Paula Brody & Merrill Hassenfeld Endowment

K raus Scholar In R esidence Endowment

To bring visiting scholars to the Temple as an educational benefit to the membership

Low Family Endowment

To secure the future of Temple Shalom and Reform Judaism in Southwest Florida

Temple Shalom Sisterhood

Financial support for our youth to attend Camp Endowment Fund Coleman, to take part in regional/ national To support the religious school youth conventions, and summer in Truly Nolen Family Endowment Israel experiences. To support the overall mission of Preschool Fund Temple Shalom Supplies and activities for the Preschool

Preschool Enrichment Fund

Books, magazines and media for children and adolescents

A rby Lipman Children's Library

Janet & Howard Solot Endowment For general charitable uses and purposes

Clergy & Leadership Funds R abbi Miller’s Discretionary Fund

For the purchase of children and adolescent For tzedakah, charitable purposes,and books and magazine subscriptions, and supplies general enhancement of the Rabbi's work

Jack and Charlotte Ward Family Children's Music Shelf Audio and video music for children

Cantor A zu's Discretionary Fund For tzedakah, charitable purposes and general enhancement of the Cantor's work

Leadership Fund

Enhance and enrich leadership programs at Temple Shalom

Library Fund

R abbi James & Jane Perman Library Books, magazine subscriptions and supplies

Social Action Fund

David and Lillian Thalenfeld Fund for Social Justice

Support Temple’s participation in social justice events and activities

Oneg Shabbat Fund

Sponsors Onegs in celebration of an event or to honor someone. This fund is administered by Temple Shalom Sisterhood. Please contact Sandy Stone (239) 597-1553.

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DONATIONS TO TEMPLE SHALOM

General Fund

In Memory of: Lenore Speiser by Blanche & Mark Speiser Pearl Neiderman by Janet & Monte Rosen Audrey Rubner by Evie & Ralph Ruebner Henry Sherwin by Susan & Mark Sherwin Ralph Luts by Phyllis Luts Joseph “George” Menkin by Lillian & Allen Menkin Rebecca Altman by Maxine & John Corbellini Antoinette Loinger, Hortense Miller by Beryl & Elliot Miller Dora Waranch by Debby & Jeff Waranch Sylvia Raskin by Roberta Macchio Paul Martin by Lenora Goldstein Al Solot by Janet & Howard Solot Dorothy Teitelbaum by Tussy & Neil Shnider, Gilbert Viets Ben Yasbin by Sherill & Ronald Yasbin Joseph Baitch by Arthur Baitch Shirley Kramer by Geraldine & Charles Lorber Daniel Grossman by Diana & Carl Steinhouse Kenny Silverblatt by Terri & James Polacheck Harry Meyer Shooman by Shirley & Bob Bassin Myer Colodny by Nancy & Edwin Colodny Helene Klein by Lin & Ron Klein Morris Roseman by Lynn & Richard Prosten Robert Dembo by David Dembo In Honor of: Bobbie & Gene Katz by Linda Russell, Iris Bland, Carol Swartz & David Malakoff, Sherry & Lee Spielman, Carol & Michael Emerson Di Karpman becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Debbie & Barry Zvibleman, Tussy & Neil Shnider Sandy Schuman becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Jane & Douglas Kleinfeld, Carol Swartz & David Malakoff Linda Bluhm on her birthday, Randi Butterworth on her birthday by Iris Bland Nora Atkins becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Tussy & Neil Shnider With Prayers for a Speedy R ecovery: Bob Subin by Louise & Bill Warshauer

R eligious School Enrichment Fund

In Memory of: Joan Jacobs by Ellen & Ed Wollman In A ppreciation of: Of Perry Switzen, Sheldon Starman, Ellaine Rosen by Randi Barr

Polster R eligious School Scholarship Fund In Honor of: Nora Atkins becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Barbara Druckman

Shalom Preschool Fund

In Memory of: Sonia Wichard by Susan & Alvin Wichard In Honor of: Gloria Mellman becoming a Bat Mitzvah In A ppreciation of: Of Amy & Stan Young purchasing a new home by Debbie Zvibleman

Shalom Preschool & K indergarten Enrichment Fund In Memory of: William Lubin by Leda & Robert Lubin Miriam Ross by Michelle Sodini-Rubin & Paul Rubin In Honor of: Di Karpman, Gloria Mellman, Sandy Schuman becoming a B’not Mitzvah by Lisa & Harold Lauber

Thank You!

Temple Security Fund

In Memory of: Helene Fischer by Jeanette & Glenn Fischer In Honor of: Myra Friedman by Susan & Nat Ritter In A ppreciation: Of Debra Antzis by Susan & Nat Ritter Of Daryl Sissman by Shayna Aronson With Prayers for a Speedy R ecovery: Lon Gratz, David Rutstein by Susan & Nat Ritter

Dr. Philip & Shirley Gilbert Music Fund

In Memory of: Selma Cassell by Brian Cassell Daniel Schuman, Belle Weinberger by Sandy & Len Schuman Syd Laffer, Lena Bykowski, Sylvia Zemel by Claire Adler

Prayerbook Fund

In Memory of: Norman Nathan, Reine Elbhar by David Citrin In Honor of: Gail Ufberg on her special birthday by Helen & Ed Rosenthal Gail & Steve Sacknoff on their 50th wedding anniversary, Deborah & Robert Fidel on their 25th wedding anniversary by Susan & Nat Ritter

R abbi Miller’s Discretionary Fund

In Memory of: Elwood Fuerstman by Rosealie Liebovich-Hyman David Cohen by Alfred Cohen Ian Ross Browner by Maria & Marc Browner Mabel Feldman by Leslie & Ed Feldman Abraham Green by Loretta & Bob Stein Lorie Mayer by The Mayer Family Lester Freedman by Arlene & Bob Subin Mort Porter by Henny Porter Pearl Anchor, Irving Figlarz by Felicia & Ken Anchor Wendy Ritter, Elfrieda Ritter by Susan & Nat Ritter David Price by Estelle & Stu Price Lester Freedman by Arlene & Bob Subin Lillian Wainick, Roberta Pollack by Linda & Jerome Wainick Stanley Rubinstein, Morton Riefberg by Mae Riefberg David Magen by Dorothy Magen Golda Rosenzweig by Gloria & Lyle Rosenzweig Bella Kandel, Samuel Kandel by Merrylee & Joseph Kandel Rose Yamron by Joyce & Harold Yamron Linda Grandis Blatt by Nancy White Murray Siegel by Rhoda Siegel Elias Laufer, Isaias Rotsztain by Adela & Alberto Rotszain Saunders Zimmerman by Myndell & Ira Baum Ada Miller by Eileen & James Miller Zachary Dembo by David Dembo Walter Zamiela by Becky Cornacchia In Honor of: Sandy Schuman becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Felicia & Ken Anchor, Paula & Robert Maisel, Rita Marshall Bobbie & Gene Katz by Rosealie Liebovich-Hyman, Judith & Charles Picus In A ppreciation: Of Brit Milah of their grandson Ben Wichard by Susan & Alvin Wichard Of the Melton Class by Sydelle Weinberger With Prayers for a Speedy R ecovery: Bob Subin by Helen & Ed Rosenthal

DONATIONS TO TEMPLE SHALOM Cantor A zu’s Discretionary Fund

In Memory of: Dorothy Teitelbaum by Florence Hertzman Marshall Sidman, Evelyn Sidman by Judith & Benjamin Peltz Tracey Birnhak by Estelle & Stu Price Cepra Loew by Edythe Cohen Morris Roseman, Larry Tucker by Carol Swartz & David Malakoff Nathan Rubin by Michelle Sodini-Rubin & Paul Rubin In Honor of: Bobbie & Gene Katz by Ina & Richie Barr Gail Ufberg on her special birthday by Eloyse & David Fisher Marriage of granddaughter Samantha to Colby by Judith & Mel

R abbi James and Jane Perman Library

In Memory of: Edna Levy, Alfred Bomeisler by Carol & Michael Levy Rachel Arditti by Matty Hasson Herman Hershman, Louis Hershman, Vera Levy Hershman & Louis Levy by Milli-Ann Hershman Edna Levy by Carol & Michael Levy In Honor of: Jane & Rabbi Jim Perman’s grandson Eli becoming a Bar Mitzvah by Susan Adler, Barbara & Len Cutler Bev & Howard Moeckler by Sue & Charles Center Bobbie & Gene Katz by Freyda & Jeffrey Albin, Barbara & Len Cutler

Mitzvah Day Fund

In Memory of: Moe Lussan by Sue & Charles Center Bernice Schneider by Debbie & Robert Statfeld

Tribute Garden

In Memory of: Selma Cassell by Brian Cassell Adela Levy del Levy by Nina & Moises Levy

William Freschel K iddush Fund In M emory of:

Ralph Pfingst by Michael Rubner Elaine Hammer by Freddi & Alan Peltz

Flower Fund In M emory of:

Ottilie Iwanyshyn by Wallie & Gary Lenchner

Mitzvah Food Basket Fund

In Honor of: Sandy Schuman becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Janet Dore

Do Not Forget Us

In Honor of: Sandi Kligman on her birthday by Judi Palay

Leadership Fund

In Memory of: Bianca Ganzman by Wendy Riedel

Youth Activities Fund

In Honor of: Bobbie & Gene Katz by Hilda Levine

Endowment Fund

In Memory of: Ida Freeman by Susan & Yale Freeman Lawrence Shapiro by Bobbie & Gene Katz In Honor of: Myra Friedman receiving the Woman of Initiative Award by Bobbie & Gene Katz

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David & Lillian Thalenfeld Fund

In Memory of: Herman Belmont, Bertha Feldman by Judith & Donald Belmont Morris Roseman by Judi & Dan Spintman

Low Family Endowment Fund In Memory of: Ross Low by Suzanne Low

Honey Berkle Endowment Fund In Memory of: Fred Hain by Ronna & Ronald Hain

K raus Scholar-In-R esidence Endowment Fund In Memory of: Harvey Fox, Max Tabachnik by Marcelle Reiss Hyman Max Felsen, Sadie Wolinsky by Sylvia Wolinsky

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MAY 2019 Sunday

Monday

Tuesday

Wednesday

Thursday

Saturday

Last Day of Hebrew School 4:45pm Confirmation Class 4:45pm B’nai Mitzvah Class 5:00pm

Yom HaShoah

Soulful Shabbat Evening Service 7:30pm

Torah Talk 8:30am Shabbat Morning Service 10:00am Preschool Art Show 7:00pm

Last Day of Religious Israel Book School 9:00am Discussion Last Confirmation Group 2:00pm Class 9:00am NO Hebrew School Temple’s Got Talent 10:00am Make your own Sundae Party RS 11:00am

Sisterhood Board B’nai Mitzvah Meeting 10:00am Class 5:00pm

Mother’s Day

Wise Aging Year 2 - 1:00pm

Friday

Endowment Meeting 1:00pm Fundraising Steering Committee Meeting 3:00pm

Lion’s Mother’s Day Brunch 10:00am New Member Meet & Greet 6:30pm Board Shabbat Evening Service 7:30pm

B’nai Mitzvah Class 5:00pm

Preschool Pre-K Graduation 10:00am

Shabbat Morning Service 10:00am

18 Shabbat Morning Service 10:00am

Confirmation & Shabbat Evening Service 7:00pm

Executive Committee 7:00pm

Memorial Day

Board Meeting 7:00pm

Temple Offices Closed

Men’s Club Meeting 6:30pm

Last Day of Preschool Show 9:30am Shabbat Service 7:30pm

Bar Mitzvah of Joshua Albanos Shabbat Morning Service 10:00am

31 Beach Shabbat Evening Service 7:00pm

JUNE 2019 Sunday

Monday

Tuesday

Wednesday

Thursday

Friday

Saturday

1 Torah Talk 8:30am Shabbat Morning Service 10:00am

Don’t Forget!!! Temple Offices close at 3pm from June 3 through June 28 2

First Day of Preschool Camp

Shavout

Father’s Day

Israel Book Discussion Group 11:00am

Pre-neg 5:30pm Shabbat Evening Service 6:00pm

Israel Scouts 7:00pm

Executive Committee Meeting 7:00pm

Board Meeting 7:00pm

Thank you to our partner.

Fundraising Steering Committee Meeting 3:00pm

Pre-neg 5:30pm Shabbat Evening Service 6:00pm

Shabbat Morning Service 10:00am

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