The Voice - April 2019 by Temple Shalom

THE

VOICE

April 2019 Volume XXXIX Adar II/Nisan 5779 Number 7

4630 Pine Ridge Road Naples, FL 34119 Phone: (239) 455-3030 • Fax: (239) 455-4361 www.naplestemple.org info@naplestemple.org Religious Education Office: (239) 455-2233 • Preschool Office: (239) 455-3227

Staff

Clergy

Board of Trustees

A dministrative & Clergy A ssistant Randi Butterworth rbutterworth@naplestemple.org Director of Communications Jeanette Fischer jfischer@naplestemple.org Temple R eceptionist

R abbi

President Debra Antzis First Vice President Daryl Sissman Second Vice President

Julie Fischer receptionist@naplestemple.org Controller Maxine Gould mgould@naplestemple.org Development Coordinator Shayna Aronson saronson@naplestemple.org M aintenance Technician Rick Holsbeke maintenance@naplestemple.org Music Director Jim Cochran Facility M anager Victor Lucas vlucas@naplestemple.org Preschool A dministrative A ssistant Gloria Mellman gmellman@naplestemple.org Membership Engagement Coordinator Ana Maria Tamargo atamargo@naplestemple.org

Adam F. Miller amiller@naplestemple.org

Cantor Donna Azu dazu@naplestemple.org

R abbi Emeritus James H. Perman, D.D. rabbi@naples.net

Professional Staff Executive Director Deborah R. Fidel dfidel@naplestemple.org

Interim R eligious School Director Susan Feld, Ed. S. sfeld@naplestemple.org

Preschool Director Seyla Cohen scohen@naplestemple.org

Mission Statement

Merrill Hassenfeld Third Vice President Ed Kaufman Treasurer Harriet Lickhalter, CPA Financial Secretary David Silberg R ecording Secretary Dr. John Little Immediate Past President Debbie Zvibleman Sisterhood President Carole Flegel Men’s Club President Ed Cohen Historical Society Helen Weinfeld

Temple Shalom of Naples is an inclusive Ed Alexander Reform Jewish congregation Dave Citrin where all individuals are equal partners in making our world whole and Ellen Goldberg holy. We are One Family, believing in Michael Feldman the sacredness of relationships, fostering connections – one to another, Yale Freeman Temple, Israel, Torah and God. We are living Jewish values and nurturing future generations. The Voice is published monthly. June/July are combined issues. Editor—Jeanette Fischer · Advertising—Maxine Gould

Bobbie Katz Steve Pino Jeremy Schaab Perry Switzen Scott Weinstein

Disclaimer: Advertisements published in Temple Shalom’s monthly newsletter, The Voice, in no way constitute an endorsement of a product or service by Temple Shalom.

RABBI’S MESSAGE

Rabbi

Adam F. Miller “Passover – A Time for Learning” In my youth, I looked forward to Passover with a mix of excitement and dread. Our family had two afikomen traditions. On one side, the adults hid the afikomen, and the children received rewards for finding it. While on the other side, the children “steal” the afikomen, and the parents had to find it or ransom it back. Either way – the kids always won. All that excitement was tempered by my responsibility with respect to the four questions. As one of the youngest cousins on both sides, I knew that each year the family would turn to me to chant those words (somehow my younger sister escaped). By the time I reached bar mitzvah, the trepidation turned into a form of boredom. The questions and answers never changed! I wanted to break out of the routine that lost meaning after years of repetition. If only I knew then what I know now! We learn in the Mishnah the purpose of the Seder meal, “According to the knowledge of the child, a father instructs the child…” In other words, the goal of the Passover Seder is for parents to educate their children regarding the values and lessons of the holiday. The four questions and other rituals were intended to be starting points to begin the educational process. The rabbis did not intend for us to repeat the same questions and stop there. Instead, it was to be the beginning of the discussion, with the hope that each year we would go deeper in our learning. Just as the Rabbis want us to explore the meaning of Passover beyond the initial four questions, the same is true for our Jewish education as adults. Our learning does not stop when we reached the age of bar/bat mitzvah, Confirmation or high school graduation. Our perspectives change over time, and we see the world much differently than we did at those earlier times in our lives. This explains the importance of on-going Adult Education in our congregation as we search for the proverbial fifth question and beyond. Temple Shalom provides a variety of meaningful adult Jewish learning. These activities include our annual Scholar in Residence program, Wise Aging, Jewish Spirituality, single speaker sessions, and the popular Sunday School for Adults with Rabbi Perman. Three years ago, we welcomed the internationally acclaimed Florence Melton School for Adult Learning to Temple Shalom. More than 100 students participated in courses over this short time on topics that included: Jewish humor, American Jewish History, and the Holocaust. The most amazing piece is that almost fifty students enrolled in the Melton Core Classes – a commitment to engage in 100 hours of Jewish learning over a three-year period. These women and men embraced the spirit intended by the Seder authors, and expanded their learning beyond the initial “four questions.” Join us on April 5, when we will celebrate the graduation of our first Melton Core cohort as part of our Shabbat service. In addition to marking this milestone with our community, I encourage you at your Seder table, ask a fifth, sixth, seventh question or more. For those interested, the next Melton cohort begins in December 2019. May your Seder be a celebration of freedom, and a time for learning. L’shalom, Rabbi Adam F. Miller 3

CANTOR’S MESSAGE

Cantor

Donna Azu

hen most people think of Passover, they envision family Seders over brisket and matzah ball soup, reading out of the Haggadah, and numerous blessings over the cups of wine. One of my favorite things about the holiday is somewhat of a secret, at least within the Ashkenazi Jewish community. What I’m referring to is Mimouna, the name given to the little-known celebration that marks the end of Passover. The name Mimouna has several different, fascinating meanings. The most famous of them attribute the name to the Hebrew word “emuna” which translates as “belief.” Originating in Morocco but popular throughout Sephardi Mediterranean Jewish communities, the Mimouna celebration marks the completion of the crossing of the Sea of Reeds, the actual beginning of the Jews’ path to freedom. In Sephardi synagogues in Mediterranean countries, the celebration begins after nightfall on the last day of Passover. The synagogue is opened, the Torah is taken from the ark and the Song of Songs is read while congregants dance in the aisles. Following the Torah reading, the Mimouna festival begins. Families visit neighbors and friends, and accompanied by singing and dancing, they would feast on a lavish dairy spread with traditional holiday cakes, sweets and special pancakes called mufletta. Pita bread is cut into pieces and eaten by dipping a piece into honey, symbolizing how our families are glued together and that slavery and oppression will never again separate us. Mimouna was also the opportunity to finally satiate your cravings for leavened bread and other food prohibited on Passover! Though I grew up with Persian Sephardi customs, I didn’t learn about Mimouna until I moved to Israel for my first year of cantorial school. In Israel, the Mimouna has become a popular annual happening featuring outdoor parties, picnics and BBQs. After settling in Israel, Jewish immigrants from North Africa celebrated the Mimouna with their families. In 1966, it was introduced as a national holiday, and has been adopted by members of other ethnic groups. Growing up with a Moroccan mother and being raised in Israel, Mimouna was a tradition in my husband, Steve’s family. For them, Mimouna was a time to celebrate luck and good fortune as well as the start of the spring season. Soon after Steve and I married, we began to incorporate Mimouna as a part of our Passover celebration. This year, wherever you are, I invite you to gather with friends and close out Passover together by connecting to your own roots and to the traditions and customs of others. Mimouna sameach! Cantor Donna Azu

R eminder! No Shabbat Evening Service A pril 19 & A pril 26

LEADERSHIP MESSAGE

Executive Director Deborah R. Fidel

"The art of conversation lies in listening." (M alcom Forbes)

“Hear O Israel, the Lord our God, the Lord is one.” (Deuteronomy, 6:4)

recently participated in a workshop that Temple Shalom co-sponsored with the Jewish Federation of Greater Naples called, “Speaking Across Differences.” The presenter, Rabbi Melissa Weintraub, used a variety of techniques to help members of Temple Shalom and the Jewish community in Naples improve our active listening skills while talking about Israel. She taught us to focus on what was actually being said to us in the moment, instead of thinking about our response to our partners. One way to do that is to “mirror” their language in order to create consensus around the discussion and continue thinking about a topic together. This is done by replying with phrases like, “Let me be sure that I understand” or “Do I have this right…?” Asking thoughtful questions helps too. Active listening is an essential element of our work at Temple Shalom. One Family means that we create meaningful relationships, where people feel understood and respected. It’s not always easy to do, but we must all keep working on strengthening this skill in order to create real and engaging connections. The act of active listening benefits the listener as well as the speaker because we learn and grow from others’ experiences and perspectives. I met someone during the program who holds different political viewpoints than I do on many key issues, but who surprised me by sharing many ideas about which we agreed. I gained an appreciation for the way that he thought about the issues we discussed. I would not have been able to hear his reasoning, if I had been less focused on listening and more focused on convincing him to think as I do. Whether in meetings, in person or through social media, there are many opportunities to engage with each other, listen, and be heard. Flipping through the news stations on television, one might think that we have lost our common sense of purpose and a shared narrative about who we are as a nation and what we stand for. We could all use a little active listening training, I suspect. As the 2020 political season heats up, I hope that we can all take the lessons from Rabbi Weintraub to heart. Thank you, Jane Schiff and Jeffrey Feld and the Jewish Federation of Greater Naples, for bringing this important program to Temple Shalom.

A nnual Meeting of the Congregation Tuesday, A pril 30 at 6:30pm Social Hall of Temple Shalom Voting will be in person or by proxy. 5

LEADERSHIP MESSAGE

President

Debra Antzis

Even though our Religious School students had the Sunday of spring break week off, Interim Religious School Director, Susan Feld, and our religious school teachers came to Temple that day for a teacher enrichment workshop. Susan asked me to attend to give opening remarks. To my mind, what we do in the religious school is one of the most important things we do here at Temple Shalom. Our teachers teach our children about our values and traditions so that the unbroken chain of Judaism continues. As a former Religious School teacher myself, I know that their job is very hard, and that not many can do it well. It was my great pleasure to thank our teachers, and Susan Feld on behalf of the Temple Board of Trustees and our members. Their work is both critically important and largely uncelebrated, and we are deeply indebted to them. I am immensely grateful for all they do, and I thank them again. Best, Debra

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A bove & Beyond 2018-2019 SOARS above and beyond! This year’s annual campaign has been a huge success due to the participation of so many generous congregants. The Above & Beyond Campaign raised more than $268,000! So many of you realize the importance of having a vibrant and successful Temple Shalom. It is reflected in your contributions – thank you! Extra funding allows Temple Shalom to be more than just a building. Above & Beyond dollars help support our members and community to provide educational and general programs. As Rabbi Miller has said, “your generosity enables Temple to be a center of living Judaism, loving Judaism and sharing Judaism”. By the programming that Temple Shalom offers, we teach our children tzedakah. We are pleased to introduce the Chairs for 2019-2020 Above & Beyond Campaign - Lori & Ed Cohen. Lori & Ed are very active in Temple Shalom and are enthusiastic about next year’s campaign. They look forward to continued success. Susan & Nat Ritter 6

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A pril 6, 2019 8:15am Bagels and Coffee 8:30 to 9:45am Discussion All are welcome. There is no charge. Bring a friend. This is a lay-led discussion and we encourage participation.

Save the Date Beach Shabbat Service Friday, A pril 26 at 6:00pm

We meet at Lowdermilk Park, at the north end of the beach. Everyone is welcome to bring their own picnic dinner and drinks. Don’t forget a beach chair! *No evening service at Temple on April 26.*

No shabbat evening Service Friday, A pril 19, 2019 Erev Pesach

Family Shabbat Experience Friday, April 12 – 5:30pm to 7:30pm For families with children in Kindergarten through 6th grade - but everyone is welcome! Activity, dinner, family friendly service and delicious desserts! $25 per family in advance $30 at the door RSVP to Susan Feld at sfeld@naplestemple.org 8

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GALA 2019 THANK YOU FROM BOBBIE & GENE To our Temple Shalom Family, Gene and I want to THANK everyone who wished us a M azel Tov, made donations, sent meaningful messages, participated in the Silent Auction and the Live Auction, were at Shabbat services for our special blessing and attended the Gala. It was a weekend that will hold many memories for us and we are honored to be the Honorees for the Gala 2019: A Night of Inspiration.

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In honor of adored sister and brother-in-law, Bobbie and Gene, on this exciting night!! M arc & R andy Shapiro Dear Bobbie & Gene, M azel Tov on this wonderful honor. You are “menschen” for all seasons! Thank you for all you do. Love, Jane & Lester Friedberg

Bobbie and Gene, M azel tov on a well-deserved honor. Mimi and Buzz Cohn

Dear Bobbie and Gene, I’m so proud of all the work you both have done for the Jewish Community in Naples. It’s been a blessing to be able to call you both very special friends. M ay we celebrate many more years of friendship. M azel Tov! K aren Mullins

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Recently Deceased (as of 03/04/19)

Dorothy Teitelbaum - Wife of Leonard Teitelbaum Elwood Fuerstman - Father of PJ Meyer and uncle of Abbie Sladick Joseph Feldstein - Father of Jessica Kraetschmer

May their memories be for a blessing. Zichronam liv’rachah.

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LEARN WITH US Historically Speaking By Helen Weinfeld, Temple Shalom Historian Temple Shalom has a Holocaust Torah, acquired from the Westminster Synagogue in London in 1978. On the wall in the Board Room is a framed certificate in English and Hebrew. The English portion states: “The Sefer Torah number 22, which this certificate accompanies, is one of the 1564 Czech Memorial Sifre Torah which constituted part of the treasures looted by the Nazis during the 1939-1945 war from the desolated Jewish communities of Bohemia, Moravia and Slovakia, and which had been cared for by the Czechoslovak Government for many years, and which were acquired, with the good will of the Czechoslovak, by good friends from Artia (the state cultural agency) for Westminster Synagogue, where they arrived on the 7th February, 1964. Some of the collection remains at Westminster Synagogue, a permeant memorial to the martyrs from whose synagogues they come; many of them are distributed throughout the world, to be memorials everywhere to the Jewish tragedy and to spread light as harbingers of future brotherhood on earth; and all of them bear witness to the Holy Name.” In our file is a certification, dated August 1978, from its Memorial Scrolls Committee that states: To Whom It May Concern: This is to certify that Scroll No. 22 is the Hebrew Pentateuch and has been saved from the Nazis in Czechoslovakia. This scroll has been assigned on permanent loan by Westminster Synagogue to: Jewish Community Center, c/o J. Harris, 2329 Gulf Shore Blvd N, Naples, Florida 33940, USA This scroll is of emotional and sentimental consideration and is used in synagogues for religious and educational purposes. Honorary Secretary, /s/ Ruth Shaffer

Helen Weinfeld

The scroll came from Budin an der Eger and was written in 1874. Jews were first mentioned in Budin in the 13th century. A synagogue was built in 1631, burned down in 1759 and rebuilt in 1821. There were 50 Jews living in Budin in 1930. The community was liquidated by the Nazis in 1942. The Torah was presented to the congregation by Mr. and Mrs. Julius Harris on February 17, 1979. Julius Harris made most of the arrangements to obtain the Torah and have it shipped. Pictures and an article about the presentation of the Torah appeared in the Naples Daily News, as well as in the Naples Star, a weekly paper. The original Torah cover says that the Torah is dedicated to the survivors of the Holocaust. The article written by Dr. Herbert March, our Public Relations Officer, tells the story of the Budin Torahs, explaining that “This particular Torah was written in 1874 and was in the possession of a congregation in Budin an der Eger before the Nazis burned down their synagogue. This sacred scroll has emotional and sentimental value for the Jewish Community Center and will be used for religious and education purposes.” The file contains a letter form the Memorial Scrolls Committee dated June 13, 1978, indicating that they do not have a kosher scroll available, that their Scribe of eleven years left and all they could help us with was a damaged scroll. It further stated: “A great many congregations have participated in a different aspect of our program. They have taken damaged scrolls (legible but not kosher) and have given them a special place in their sanctuary and use them for specific commemorative occasions and give them life and purpose in this fashion.” The letter writer stated that if the Jewish Community Center did not want such a Torah, the $450 originally sent would be refunded. 18

LEARN WITH US There is no evidence of a reply, but a letter dated August 29, 1978, from the Westminster Synagogue states that Scroll No. 22 was “collected by our shipper and is being sent via air freight collect.” When Rabbi Abraham Shusterman died, his widow, Rose, gave me the Rabbi’s personal file concerning the Holocaust Torah. It contained a copy of his original letter to the Union of American Hebrew Congregations, sending a check for $450, asking for a Holocaust Torah for the Jewish Community Center of Collier County. The file also has copies of correspondence that show that on April 14, 1984 a member of the Hebrew Congregation of St. Thomas in Charlotte Amalie, spoke to our congregation at Rabbi Mark Golub’s invitation, about their Memorial Scroll No. 533 from Budin, and the fifteen families who died in the Holocaust. From the St. Thomas Congregation’s program, we know those who perished were the families of Joseph Herman, Joachim Koralek, Filip Steiner, Dr. Hedrich Freudenfels, Victor Pick, Matylda Orenstelnove, Josef Brumlik, Julius Gellner, Otto Reich, Teresle Katz, Ida Katz, Ludvik Polak, Herman Neuman and Berthold Goldman. The Memorial Committee asks that congregations in possession of Memorial Scrolls say Kaddish for these families during Holocaust Services.

The Jewish Federation of Greater Naples, Temple Shalom, GenShoah and The Holocaust Museum & Cohen Education Center invite you to the

Community-Wide Annual Holocaust Memorial Service featuring local students and Holocaust survivors Sunday, April 28 at 10:00 a.m. Temple Shalom, 4630 Pine Ridge Road, Naples Please join us for a special program. Thank you to: ¡ Temple Shalom for hosting this year’s event ¡ The students, teachers, and Holocaust survivors for their participation ¡ The Yom HaShoah committee: Ida Margolis, Susan Suarez and Renee’ Bialek ¡ Our community synagogues: Beth Tikvah, Naples Jewish Congregation, Chabad of Naples, Temple Shalom and the Jewish Congregation of Marco Island

This event is free and open to the entire community. Donations are welcome. For more information, please call the Jewish Federation of Greater Naples at 239.263.4205 or email Renee’ at rbialek@jewishnaples.org.

LEARN WITH US

Interim Director of Religious School Susan Feld, Ed.S.

Our Family Shabbat Experience, held in February, introduced children and their families to methods of creating opportunities to perform mitzvot. A crowd of more than fifty students and their families participated in Getting Ready for Mitzvah Day. The children learned how to create stretchy beaded bracelets under the direction of volunteers from Beading for Betterment, Carol Hirsch and Ida Margolis. The students were able to craft many colorful pieces of jewelry that will find their way to the Guadalupe Center for their Mother’s Day activities. As we expected, the students were so intrigued by the beading process that many also attended the beading session on Mitzvah Day. Students also painted and created the signage you may have noticed around the Temple on Mitzvah Day. Thanks to our volunteers and thanks to our Religious School teachers who assisted with the program. The next Family Shabbat Experience is scheduled for Friday, April 12 at 5:30pm. The timely topic will be Passover. We will learn about the traditions, songs, food, and hands-on crafts related to the holiday that celebrates freedom. The Family Shabbat Experience is family-friendly, with dinner served and a joyous Shabbat service, followed by potluck desserts. The hands-on activities are geared for kindergarten through sixth grade, but everyone is welcome. For reservations, $25 per family, $30 the night of the event, please contact Susan Feld at sfeld@naplestemple.org. Our Temple Shalom Religious School sixth grade students will be active participants in the annual Yom HaShoah service and observance. The community wide program will be held at Temple Shalom at 10:00am on Sunday, April 28. The students have had the experience of touring the Holocaust Museum Boxcar and have personally conducted interviews with local Holocaust survivors. They’ve written reflective essays and will be speaking at the observance.

RELIGIOUS SCHOOL DATES TO KNOW

A pril Sunday 4/7

Chocolate Seder

Friday 4/12

Family Shabbat Experience

Sunday 4/28

Yom HaShoah Observance

R eligious School Open House For Families of R ising K indergarten Children Get a taste of R eligious School for next year’s kindergarten! Sunday, A pril 7 from 9:00am – 11:00am RSVP to ReligiousSchool@naplestemple.org 20

LEARN WITH US

Preschool Director

Temple Shal m Preschool

Seyla Cohen

Planting seeds in the minds of our future.

PRESCHOOL DATES TO KNOW

A pril Sunday 4/7

Chocolate Seder

Friday 4/12

Camp Day

4/19 & 4/22

No School

Friday 4/26

Passover Seder 9:30am

March was an exciting month for us. We started off honoring our incredible teachers with Teacher Appreciation Week. Our Wonderful POTS committee set up a week of themed gifts and treats for our teachers who all work so hard throughout the year, giving their all to our precious preschool children. Our 2nd Annual Purim Carnival was another great success. Because of the generosity of the Jewish Federation of Greater Naples, we were able to have a petting zoo, Too Tall Torrie, a bounce house, an obstacle course and other great activities. Of course there was hamentaschen and our very own Ms. Jane, aka, Queen Esther, presented the Purim puppet show.

Coming up this month is Camp Day, where our students will get a taste of what will be offered at our camps this summer. During the long summer, we offer a wonderful way to occupy and enrich the lives of our campers. Camp Shalom is for children in the 2-4-year age range and Camp Einstein is for boys and girls ages 5-8. Both camps offer even weekly sessions beginning June 3rd. As in the past, CAMP SHALOM provides a fun-filled program for the younger crew including music, art, water play, science, technology, storyland and dance. New friendships are formed and social interaction, so important at this age, is sustained. A weekly theme entertains little ones making each week a new and exciting experience. For older kids, CAMP EINSTEIN proves a wonderful link between a carefree atmosphere and maintaining a stimulating educational environment. Parents concerned about keeping learning alive and inquisitive minds active have come to welcome this wonderful program. Literature, science, math, reading, technology, and art are provided in a relaxed and engaging climate helping to provide continuity in education during the long summer holidays. We are also looking forward to our TSP Passover Seder. Our families all join together in celebrating the joyous holiday of Passover and get a taste of a mini Seder. We are pleased to announce this year’s Temple Shalom Preschool Art Show will be held Saturday, May 4 at 5:30 p.m. The Art Show committee promises this year will be like no other. With the Kentucky Derby as the theme, they will be planning an unforgettable evening with cocktails, hors d’oeuvres, interactive entertainment, silent auctions and, of course, the children’s art work. Each year pieces crafted by children at the preschool adorn the walls of the social hall where parents gather to view artwork created by their children under the guidance of Art Director, Linda Ginsberg. Such an exhibition gives the children a sense of pride and confidence, so important to the self-esteem of our preschool students. The Annual Art Show is an opportunity for parents, relatives, congregants and friends to gather, mingle and to enjoy a pleasant evening of wine, refreshments, and music. At the same time, they are given the opportunity to purchase student’s creations, participate in the silent auction, and bid on many other items and services auctioned and raffled off. As in the past, the evening will prove a welcoming, warm and attentive fundraiser from which students, families, and the preschool benefit. In addition to providing funds for our enrichment program, moneys raised during this event, along with Jewish Federation of Greater Naples grants provide funds to support scholarships for Temple Shalom Preschool families in need of aid with tuition. 21 For more information on our incredible program, please contact Seyla Cohen, Preschool Director, 239-455-3227.

CONNECT WITH US Ellen K atz & Jersey Boys On Sunday, March 3, Ellen Katz presented another of her fine retrospectives, this time on the musical Jersey Boys. Ellen combines songs, video clips and pictures to take us behind the scenes of those Broadway shows we all know and love. Ellen had the audience up on their feet and dancing! We look forward to Ellen’s next performance.

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Proceeds from the silent auction, games and the purchase of your child’s art will benefit the TSP Tuition Assistance Program and the Preschool Enrichment Fund.

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New Members Bella Calish Seth Mizrachi Barbara Ross Carole Saks L arry and Robin Saks Stephen and Bernice Saks

David and Joan Friedman

16344 Molise Place Bonita Springs, FL 34135 Email: dffriedman@att.net David’s cell: (561) 289-2917 Joan’s cell: (561) 371-3441 The Friedman family moved to Bonita Springs from Boca Raton, FL, where they lived for 33 years and raised two children. David is originally from White Plains, NY, and is a civil litigation attorney. He enjoys playing tennis and the movies. Joan is originally from Cincinnati, Ohio, and is a speech language pathologist. She enjoys music, movies and traveling.

The Difference between an A ffinity Group and a Havurah I have been asked, “What is the difference between an affinity group and a havurah and can you do both?” The answer is, you certainly can be in an affinity group and a havurah as they are vastly different. Some people are so busy in an affinity group that they feel they cannot make a commitment to a havurah and that is fine as well. An affinity group is a group that you belong to which may meet several times a week, once a week or monthly in an activity, such as tennis, pickle ball, poker, book group. They are more like clubs. If you live in a community that has clubs, those are affinity groups. WCA and MCA have many affinity groups. Educational groups such as Melton would be considered an affinity group. A havurah usually is made of families that may have some things in common, but are not exclusive to one activity. A havurah becomes an extended family that celebrates the holidays together, shares lifecycle events and plans other events where they get together. Some of our havurot have been together for 20 years, watching their families grow. The key to keeping a havurah together is establishing some rules to follow and planning activities based on the interests of the group. Some groups are more social, others would like to attend educational and religious events. The key is communication within the group. And just like a family, not everyone may agree and you need to discuss concerns or frustrations. We have several new havurot and I am very excited about that. It does take time, energy and commitment to be a part of a havurah. If you have questions, feel free to get in touch with me at dzibleman@johnrwood.com or Ana Maria Tamargo, Membership Engagement Coordinator, at atamargo@naplestemple.org. -Debbie Zvibleman

Temple Shalom Shiva Minyan Mitzvah Group Every Jewish law, ritual and custom having to do with death and mourning leads to kavod, a word that means honor and respect. Jewish law and custom create time for grief and provide a methodology for mourning. The term shiva is taken from the Hebrew word for “seven," referring to the seven days of intensive mourning following the death of a loved one. Making a shiva call and joining a minyan at the shiva home is considered a mitzvah, the fulfillment of a commandment and a good deed. Would you like to be included on the list of Temple Shalom members who fulfill the mitzvot of honoring the dead and comforting mourners? Please email Sheryl Spielman (sbgsbs@gmail.com) to be included on the Temple Shalom Shiva Minyan list. You will be notified of the scheduled minyan, the name and address of the mourners and the name of the deceased. You do not have to attend every minyan that is announced, only when you are able to attend. When you do attend, please tell the mourners that you are from Temple Shalom and that as “One Family” we support them. 23

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Bar Mitzvah

B’not Mitzvah

Ezra Bershadski 4.06.2019 Ezra Vladimir is the son of Rudy and Rocío Bershadski and a big brother to Shelí and Noa. Born in Chicago, Ezra has been living in Naples since 2006. He is currently an 8th grader at North Naples Middle School and will be attending Gulf Coast High School in the Fall. In addition to being part of the NNMS Wildcats soccer team, he has been playing competitive soccer with the Florida Fire team. He is also a swimmer and was part of the T2 Aquatics team when he made it to FLAGs. He loves music, plays the guitar and enjoys DJ’ing for his friends. Ezra is known for his warm heart and kindness. He is looking forward to his Bar Mitzvah.

Mazel tov to Di Karpman, Gloria Mellman and Sandy Schuman. These three ladies became B’not Mitzvah in a beautiful ceremony on Saturday, March 2.

Mazel Tov!

R andi Butterworth: Clergy A ssistant Randi started working as the Clergy Assistant at Temple Shalom in March of 2008. Randi helps the clergy with day to day tasks, life cycle events and scheduling. She also is responsible for accounts receivables. Randi was born and raised in New York City. She moved to Naples in 2000 with her late husband, Billy and her two children, Lauren and Jared. In New York, Randi was an Administrative Assistant and then became Office Manager of a recruitment firm specializing in placement of permanent and temporary employees. Randi loves going to the beach and spending time with her four grandchildren.

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CELEBRATE WITH US Happy Birthday!

1 Renee Fritz 2 Monte Rosen 3 Barbara Meltz Eric Meyer Michael Seaman David Friedman Anna Cotton Scott Weinstein Mark Nusbaum Darren Samuel Benjamin Peltz 5 Barbara Winer Robert Newman Lenore Greenstein 6 Jennifer Fleischer Richard Price Brian Charif 7 Helice Picheny 8 Sandra Stone Judith Nevai Jack Rabin Jane Galler Moises Levy 9 Myra Shapiro John Little

11 Mark Cohen Alison Goodwich Alan Kaplan 12 Ron Klein Ronnie Poplock Elaine Porter Toby Kleban Levine 13 Claire Adler Michael Hendler Sheila Agranat Lawrence Gratz 14 Karyn Samuel 15 Susan Feld 16 Earl Gurevitch Jesse Fritz Morton Friedman 17 Shelley Schloss Donald Shapiro Marvin Weisberg Elise Altman 18 Joanne Kittinger Elisa Ross Mary Wichter 19 Barbara Chester 20 Leonard Nacht Barry Wind

21 Shayna Aronson Frances Knox Judith Freedman Pepi Herbst 22 Kenneth Sidman Michael Goldblatt Bunny Kaufman Howard Agranat Ronald Goodwich 23 Barbara Kaplan Marshall Paisner 24 Linda Hamburger Janet Solot 25 Judy Morton Phyllis Lazear David Gross Neil Cohen Marvin Lender Martin Nicolau Rebecca Kosloff Pat Levy Jeffrey Morton Mark Sherwin Henri Peker Eric Druckman

26 Jan Gerber Loretta Stein 27 Angelo Pirrone Janet Rosen Jay Weiss Ronald Yasbin Francene Boxer 28 Victoria Cooper Maxine Gould Brian Solomon Nancy Brown 29 Samuel Oshry Debbe Schertzer 30 Celia Dezen

Happy Anniversary! 1 Adam Schonberg and Susan Hardinger 2 John and Nancy Reilly 3 Ira and Sandra Broadman Jack and Judith Kaufman 4 Marshall and Beverly Fried 7 Donald and Ellen Baseman Elliot and Beryl Miller 8 Ric Phillips and Laurie Cowan Phillips 11 Andy and Di Karpman 14 Peter and Myra Cristall 16 Brett and Tara Rosenblum 17 Yale and Susan Freeman 25 Scott and Jody Levy 28 Harold and Joyce Yamron 30 Corey Howard and Cyndi Yag-Howard

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MEN’S CLUB The Men’s Club has begun various activity groups. Below, you will find a listing of the activity and its chairperson. If you are interested in participating in any of these activities, please contact the respective chairperson.

Men’s Club President Ed Cohen

These activities are well underway and have been favorably received. Our guys (and some gals too) have been excited to join in. We would love to have even more participation. Golf Paul Moskowitz paulmosko@comcast.net Tennis Jack Wiadro jackwiadro@icloud.com Alamo Range Ed Cohen edcohenpt@gmail.com

Temple Shalom Men’s Club

A DAY AT THE RACES Sunday, May 5 Meet at the track at 11:30am Live racing begins at 12:00pm A chance to see & bet on live racing at the track before it’s gone. Wager on simulcast horse racing from around the country.

$14/person includes entrance fee, Greyhound racing program, buffet style hotdogs, wings, BBQ and salad. (Drinks, gratuity & taxes not included) FREE PARKING

You can pay at the track but RSVP is required. Please contact Shelly Whitman at 239-293-8674 or shelnjan@aol.com

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Temple Shalom Men’s Club

Annual Family Baseball Night! Saturday, June 8 Game time 7:00pm

Fun for the WHOLE family! Game of Thrones Night & Hawaiian Shirt Giveaway

Fort Myers Miracles vs Jupiter Hammerheads Tickets are ONLY $8.50/person RSVP:

1. Contact Phil Freeman by email (pihlster@aol.com) or phone (239-653-9728) 2. Indicate number of tickets needed 3. Make checks payable to Temple Shalom Men’s Club and mail to: Temple Shalom Men’s Club 4630 Pine Ridge Road Naples, FL 34119

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SISTERHOOD Sisterhood’s phenomenal year is coming to a close. Join us for the final luncheon of the season on Tuesday, April 9 at 11:30am. Dan Miller will provide the entertainment at our Installation Luncheon. We will honor Lynn Prosten with her highly deserved “Volunteer of the Year” award. Our amazing Executive Director, Deborah Fidel, will conduct the Installation. We are honored to have Karen Cohn lead the Sisterhood as our next President. We welcome our new board members: Ida Margolis, Leslie Feldman, Marcy Aizenschtat, along with Becky Corracchia as our new Treasurer. We are blessed to have the rest of the Board retain their positions, as they will continue contributing their time and talents to the Sisterhood. All are welcome to attend Book Bag on Thursday, May 2 at 1:30pm. This will be held in the Board Room. (Note the date and location change!) Lynn Prosten will lead the discussion of “Born A Crime” by Trevor Noah. We will pick selections for the 2019-2020 Book Bag at this meeting. Please RSVP to Helen Weinfeld at HelenWeinfeld@aol.com. If you can’t attend the meeting but want to suggest a title, please let Helen know.

Sisterhood President

Carole Flegel

As always, please contact me with any questions or suggestions at templeshalomsisterhood@ gmail.com or 239-248-4487.

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Musical Journey with Thomas Mesa April 6th at 7pm & April 7th at 3:30pm Max Rabinovitsj conducts Bizet’s finest orchestral work, Symphony in C. Dynamic, charismatic cellist Thomas Mesa joins violinist Max Rabinovitsj in Vivaldi’s Concerto for Violin & Cello and performs music by Tchaikovsky & Piazzola.

Broadway Melodies with Jessica Grové April 27th at 7pm & April 28th at 3:30pm Jessica Grové, who starred on Broadway in “A Little Night Music” with Bernadette Peters, performs music from her featured roles on Broadway. Max Rabinovitsj plays a violin arrangement from “Fiddler on the Roof” and adds pops favorites to the celebratory concert.

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ENDOWMENT CORNER - For Now and Forever by Suzanne Low, J.D., CFP®, Endowment Chair Several congregants have recently asked how to make an endowment gift to Temple Shalom, so we are summarizing below the many different ways to give. We welcome the opportunity to assist you and your advisors in planning a contribution that suits your needs, and we deeply appreciate you considering a gift to sustain and secure Temple Shalom for long into the future. Here are a few types of gifts you can give either now or to take place in the future, as a planned legacy gift: • Cash •

Marketable securities – stocks, bonds, mutual funds

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Closely held and restricted stock

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Real estate – a home, farm, commercial building, unimproved land, subdivision lot

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Tangible personal property – antique furniture, artwork, rare books

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Retirement Plan Assets – IRA, 401k, 403b, SEP

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Life Insurance

Here are several ways you can plan a gift now to be received by the Temple in the future: •

Bequest in your will (the most traditional form of deferred gift)

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Beneficiary form for your IRA or other retirement plan

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Charitable remainder or lead trust

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Your gift of any size to one of our Temple Shalom endowment funds will make a substantial and lasting difference. Either a current or planned gift offers substantial tax benefits to many donors. Remember that a gift of $10,000 or more allows you to name your own endowment fund, in memory of deceased loved ones, in honor of family members or for any other purpose. A group of family members or others can join together and pool their gifts to create one fund. Named endowment funds can be set up in celebration of marriages, births, bar or bat mitzvahs or other simchas. It’s hard to think of a more lasting or greater tribute. Temple Shalom endowments offer customized giving, dedicated to helping every donor find the right opportunity for you, whether it’s a one-time gift or a pledge to be paid over several years. I would love the opportunity to talk about how you can make an endowment gift that is meaningful to you or to answer any questions you may have about the Temple Shalom endowment program. Just give me a call at 239-450-8112. 32

TZEDAKAH Showing We Care Contributions to Temple Shalom funds are wonderful ways to show your appreciation of family and friends, to celebrate happy occasions and to honor the memories of loved ones. We suggest a minimum donation of chai ($18.00). With a minimum donation of chai, a notice of your gift will be sent to the honoree and mention will be published in The Voice.

Operations Funds General Fund

Support Temple operations

Capital R eserve

Maintain and enhance buildings and grounds

Security Fund

Improve safety and security

Tree of Life

Each ‘Rock’ and ‘Star of David’ is a donation of $540.00; each ‘Leaf ’ is $240.00. The contribution must be received in its entirety before engraving is ordered.

Tribute Garden

Enhance garden, buildings and grounds. Dedication opportunities are available.

Worship Funds Memorial Fund

Donations in memory of loved ones

William Freschel K iddush Fund

Provide Kiddush Lunch each Saturday following worship services. A $150 donation sponsors Kiddush in honor of a special someone or occasion.

Flower Fund

Bimah flowers each Shabbat. A $100.00 donation sponsors flowers in memory or in honor of a special someone or occasion.

Mitzvah Baskets Fund

Bimah food baskets for Shabbat. A $100 donation purchases several hundred dollars of food for JFCS.

Dr. Philip & Shirley Gilbert Music Fund Enhances music at Temple Shalom

Prayerbook Fund

Prayerbooks and Torah commentaries. Prayerbooks - $54, Torah commentary - $100 High Holy Days prayerbooks (set) - $108

Education Funds

Endowment Funds

Enhance adult education programs

To secure the future, enrich programs and provide for emergency needs of the congregation

A dult Education Fund

R eligious School Fund

Supplies and activities for Jewish learning in Religious and Hebrew Schools

R eligious School Enrichment Fund Augments the Religious and Hebrew School educational programming.

General Endowment

Herbert & Ruth A bramson Endowment

To supplement general operations and provide enrichment for Temple functions

Polster R eligious School Scholarship Fund

Honey Berkle Endowment

Ben Calmenson Fund

Support operating and capital expenses

Religious and Hebrew School scholarships for students in need Sponsors children to attending Camp Coleman

Joseph S. Weinfeld Faculty Development Fund

Curriculum and teaching skill enrichment activities for Sunday and Hebrew School teachers

Youth Activities Fund

Support overall mission of Temple Shalom

Paula Brody & Merrill Hassenfeld Endowment

K raus Scholar In R esidence Endowment

To bring visiting scholars to the Temple as an educational benefit to the membership

Low Family Endowment

To secure the future of Temple Shalom and Reform Judaism in Southwest Florida

Temple Shalom Sisterhood

Financial support for our youth to attend Camp Endowment Fund Coleman, to take part in regional/ national To support the religious school youth conventions, and summer in Truly Nolen Family Endowment Israel experiences. To support the overall mission of Preschool Fund Temple Shalom Supplies and activities for the Preschool

Preschool Enrichment Fund

Books, magazines and media for children and adolescents

A rby Lipman Children's Library

Janet & Howard Solot Endowment For general charitable uses and purposes

Clergy & Leadership Funds R abbi Miller’s Discretionary Fund

For the purchase of children and adolescent For tzedakah, charitable purposes,and books and magazine subscriptions, and supplies general enhancement of the Rabbi's work

Jack and Charlotte Ward Family Children's Music Shelf Audio and video music for children

Cantor A zu's Discretionary Fund For tzedakah, charitable purposes and general enhancement of the Cantor's work

Leadership Fund

Enhance and enrich leadership programs at Temple Shalom

Library Fund

R abbi James & Jane Perman Library Books, magazine subscriptions and supplies

Social Action Fund

David and Lillian Thalenfeld Fund for Social Justice

Support Temple’s participation in social justice events and activities

Oneg Shabbat Fund

Sponsors Onegs in celebration of an event or to honor someone. This fund is administered by Temple Shalom Sisterhood. Please contact Sandy Stone (239) 597-1553.

DONATIONS TO TEMPLE SHALOM

A s of M arch 1st General Fund

In Memory of: Marshall Warshauer by Janet & Howard Solot, Helen & Ed Rosenthal, Gracia Kuller Aimie White by Sandy & Ira Broadman Steven Levy by Mill-Ann Hershman David Hurwitz by Michael Hurwitz Norman Emanuel by Kathy & Ron Emanuel Lillie Simon by Linda & Marc Simon Bob Ross by Diana & Harry Ellis Sima Oshry Steiner, Marlene Oshry by Sam Oshry Harry Isaacson by Fredda & David Isaacson Mindy Baha el Din by Gloria & Lyle Rosenzweig Hilda Zimmerman by Myndell & Ira Baum Eugene Weil, Nancy Steele, Betty Halpern by Ruth Halpern & David Weil Josephine Endlar by Richard Endlar Joseph Hepner by Harriet Adelstein Mary Levitz, Dan McDermont by Mary-Beth & Barry Levitz In Honor of: Sandy Schuman becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Joyce Zeldin, Jerome & Jackie Grossman, Carol & Joe Atkin Di Karpman becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Marlene & Alan Rubin Gail Ufberg on her 80th birthday by Michal Wiesler With Prayers for a Speedy R ecovery: Paul Rosofsky by Francene Boxer

R eligious School In M emory of:

Beverly Dopkin, Sarah Katz, Sadie Dregant by Roz & Al Katz Charles Indictor by Barbara Druckman Marshall Warshauer, Steven Levy by Shelly & Jan Whitman Evelyn Gutman by Rachel & Howard Gutman In Honor of: Nora Atkins becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Randi Butterworth Di Karpman becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Jan & Shelly Whitman

R eligious School Enrichment Fund

In Honor of: Nora Atkins becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Roz & Al Katz

Polster R eligious School Scholarship Fund In M emory of:

Amy Cowan by Sandy Stone In A ppreciation: Of Earl Prolman by Sandy Stone

Shalom Preschool Fund

In Honor of: Gloria Mellman becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Jeanette & Glenn Fischer, Susan & Jeff Feld

Flower Fund In M emory of:

Marshall Warshauer by Corky & Alan Kaplan In Honor of: Gloria Mellman becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Kelly Fogel Julia Nicolau becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Doris Turkel Nora Atkins becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Debra Antzis & Chad Atkins

William Freschel K iddush Fund In M emory of:

Paul Sirkus by Sanford Sirkus Audrey Rubner by Michael Rubner

Thank You!

Temple Security Fund

In Honor of: Sandy Schuman becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Rita Green & David Levin

Dr. Philip & Shirley Gilbert Music Fund

In Memory of: Reine Malka Elbhar by Lydia Bond In Honor of: Nanci Reid & Robert Landy on their marriage, Nora Atkins becoming a Bat Mitzvah, Barbara Druckman on her birthday, Iris Bland on her birthday by Lydia Bond

Prayerbook Fund

In Memory of: Our Loved One by Gay & David Silberg

R abbi A braham Shusterman Children’s Center Memorial Fund In Memory of: Nathan Hasson, Solomon Arditti by Matty Hasson

R abbi Miller’s Discretionary Fund

In Memory of: Marshall Warshauer by Gail & Mel Ufberg, Bobbie and Bernie Lublin Sylvia Cohon by Judith & Mel Zahn Elaine Friedman by Karen Rothstein Anna Goldberg by Linda & Jerry Wainick Kenneth Garlikov by Susan & Nat Ritter Jeffrey Goldstein by Caroline Beasley & David Goldstein Judith Weisberg by Donald Weisberg Eugene Weisberg by Ida & Jeff Margolis Harry M. Shapiro by Dorothy Magen Charlotte Kwasha by Mardelle & Bennett Berman Renee Wolff, Sister of Jill Fragin by Marilyn Ross Doris Packer by Blanche & Robert Stone Shirley Specter, Benjamin Specter by Shellie Specter & Robert Davidson Harry Kravetz, Dorothy Williams by Susan & Leon Kravetz Nettie Subin, Harry Subin by Arlene & Bob Subin Samuel Portman, Jack Fay by Stephanie & David Portman Jean Cornacchia, Abe Price by Becky Cornacchia Sheldon Issac Chassin by Simone & Scott Lutgert In Honor of: Nora Atkins becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Sandra & Fred Roth Bobbie & Gene Katz by Shellie Specter & Robert Davidson In A ppreciation: By Florence Hertzman and family

Cantor A zu’s Discretionary Fund

In Memory of: Bessie Tucker by Carol Swartz & David Malakoff Milton Lorber by Geraldine & Ronald Gale Arthur H. Levere by Bunny Levere Saul Helfand, Vivian Tobias by Gene Helfand Maurice Fisher by Eloyse & David Fisher In Honor of: Nora Atkins becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Bunny Levere

R abbi James and Jane Perman Library In Memory of: Nathan Hasson, Solomon Arditti by Matty Hasson

Mitzvah Day Fund

In Memory of: Lillian Weber by Nancy & Terry Meyer

DONATIONS TO TEMPLE SHALOM Food Basket Fund

In Memory of: Lou Goodwich by Judith & Kenneth Goodwich Lottie Riedel, Charles Riedel by Wendy Riedel In Honor of: Gloria Mellman becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Kelly Fogel Nora Atkins becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Debra Antzis & Chad Atkins

A dult Education Fund

In Honor of: Sandy Schuman becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Ellen & Irving Barocas

Youth Activities Fund

In Memory of: Ethel Galbut by Debra Heil & Alan Galbut Charles Riedel by Wendy Riedel In Honor of: Nora Atkins becoming a Bat Mitzvah by Nancy Brown & Bill Maltby With Prayers for a Speedy R ecovery: Elyce Azriel & Rabbi Azriel by Marcy Cotton

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SEDER IN A BOX Did you know that right here in Naples and the surrounding areas there are Jewish people who cannot afford to buy food? The Naples Senior Center at JFCS Food Pantry and Financial Assistance Programs help over 360 households put food on their tables! Eighty percent (80%) of the individuals using the Naples Senior Center’s geriatric case management, financial assistance and food pantry programs earn less than $20,000 per year, with 35% earning under $15,000 per year. Passover begins on the evening of April 19. The families Naples Senior Center at JFCS assists through our Food Pantry and Financial Assistance programs do not have the money to buy the foods we traditionally associate with this important holiday. Ninety-two percent (92%) of the Jewish households we serve are seniors. Twenty-three percent (23%) are Holocaust survivors. This year the Naples Senior Center at JFCS wants to give every Jewish family with financial needs a “Seder in a Box”. To make this mitzvah happen we are asking you to consider making a donation of chai ($18) to Naples Senior Center at JFCS. Your gift of $18 will enable the organization to purchase enough matzo, gefilte fish, grape juice and other foods associated with Passover. We will be helping the Naples Senior Center at JFCS address the challenging problem of food insecurity in our community. You can make your donation by sending a check for $18.00 to: Naples Senior Center at JFCS 5025 Castello Drive Naples, FL 34103 Or, if you wish to donate using your credit card you can do so through the agency’s website at www.naplesseniorcenter.org. Thank you for helping those in need in our community. Have a sweet Passover!

Celebrate Passover at Temple Shalom 2nd Night Family Seder Saturday, April 20 at 6:00PM

Join us for the richness of tradition, the warmth of community and a delicious seder meal! Temple Shalom members - $60 each Non-members - $70 each Children 13 and under are free but must RSVP

RSVP by Friday, April 5 with the form below or by calling the Temple Shalom office. Name(s) _____________________________________________________ Phone __________________ Address ______________________________________________________ ______________________________________________________ Members ($60 each) _________ Non-members ($70 each) ________ Children 13 and under (Free - must RSVP) __________ A check for $ _________ is enclosed. (Please make checks payable to Temple Shalom) Or Please charge my credit card for $_________

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TIKKUN OLAM

Tikkun Olam Council Chair Ken Goldstein Civility and K indness: “Building a Culture of Dialogue across Differences”

or many of us, we have relationships that are strained or even broken because of strongly held political views. For this reason, the Tikkun Olam Council (TOC) held a forum on Jewish Values and Civility last year.

As a follow up to this forum, the Jewish Federation of Greater Naples and Temple Shalom sponsored a workshop on how we can more effectively have conversations that encourage people to first share their concerns, aspirations and experiences. The goal of the workshop is to “build dialogue and deliberation across political disagreement in ways that support participants to explore issues of concern to them without intimidation or fear, to deliberate over those issues in partnership with one another, and to sustain that same partnership and exploration even if and when differences and divisions arise.” What we learned is the importance of listening and understanding what we heard. We also need to actually demonstrate that we heard the essence of what was said. A great way to start this feedback is by asking a simple question, “OK. Let me see if I get it.” We don’t need to repeat every word that was spoken, just “the heart of the matter.” Hopefully we’ll hear the speaker say something like, “Yeah, you got it.” You probably won’t change his or her opinion, but you will have created a relationship whereby real dialogue can exist. I’m sure you noticed I used the word “kindness” alongside civility. Recently, David Brooks wrote an op-ed piece entitled “Kindness Is a Skill” and it resonated with me. I’ve copied the link for this piece below. One particular quote is something we should all consider when engaging in a heated debate. He said, ”Presume the good. Any disagreement will go better if you assume the other person has good intentions.” For more information about TOC please contact Ken Goldstein at kengoldstein@mac.com.

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