Early Childhood Education Director Debbie Blumenthal
Religious School Director Joyce Bronstein
Early Childhood Education Asst. Director Keri Loventhal
Office Manager Shane Silverstein
ECE Administrative Assistant Jessica Jacoby
RS Administrative Assistant Sarah Karamas
Clergy Assistant Jill Rosenberg
Musical Director Mariano Dugatkin
Board of Trustees
President Felicia Toporoff
Vice President Dan Lubetkin
Immediate Past President Eric Feigenbaum
Treasurer Arnie Blitstein
Secretary Brianna Abrams
Trustee, Bingo Michael Roberts
Trustee, Building and Grounds Steve Plotkin
Trustee, Early Childhood Education Josh Atlas
Trustee, Endowment Jeff Landau
Trustee, Financial Consideration Neal Arons
please send an email to: communications@templeetzchaim.org
Trustee, Membership, Sarica Klein
Trustee, Personnel & Legal Affairs Josh Hopstone
Trustee, Religion and Worship Cheryl Math
Trustee, Religious Education Adya Riss
Trustee, Security Paul Dryman
Trustee, Social Action Pam Friedman
Trustee, Special Projects Paula Lefko
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President,
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Past
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Coordination Evan Robichaud
& Means Donald Zimring
Tuesday, May 5, 2026
Letters from Our Leaders
Rabbi Ari Averbach
rabbiaverbach@templeetzchaim.org
When God creates the world, the Torah quotes God as saying “It is good” over and over. The light is good and the water is good and the stars. All of these are tov — good. God looks over this creation and realizes that it is better now than before.
And then one person is created. God breathes sacred breath into this new being, who we know as Adam. Adam is frolicking in the Garden of Eden — everything seems perfect. But then God notices something that the text doesn’t make obvious: Adam is alone. And this is not good — Lo Tov.
Since that mythical moment, it has been incredibly apparent that it
is not good for someone to be too alone. (Though a little personal time is wonderful!) Judaism formed from its very beginning with the idea that loneliness is not good for people. We need a minyan to pray, we need a hevruta to study Torah, we are not to go on this journey by ourselves.
Synagogue life was created to foster community. This summer we are trying something new: Pre HaGafen – a play on words with the blessing we say over wine, so that people can have a sip and a nosh and schmooze before services on Friday nights. It’s a way to meet new people and form deeper connections with the ones we already know.
Summer has a way of settling over synagogue life like a long exhale — the calendar quiets, the pace slows, and there’s a welcome spaciousness to our days together. But “quieter” is not the same as “quiet.” Behind the scenes, we remain hard at work ensuring that Temple Etz Chaim continues to be a source of vibrant Jewish community, meaningful resources, and caring pastoral presence for each of you — all summer long.
Before we fully turn the page to these warmer months, I want to pause and offer a heartfelt mazal tov to our 10th grade Confirmation
class, who were honored on Erev Shavuot in a ceremony that was nothing short of beautiful. These students brought their whole selves to the bimah and watching them publicly affirm their commitment to Jewish life — on the very holiday that celebrates our receiving of Torah — was deeply moving. May we all find ourselves as committed to our continued Jewish learning and growth as they are.
Wishing our entire TEC family a joyful, restful, and meaningful summer. L’hitraot — we’ll see you soon.
Noam Fields-Meyer Gould, Hazzan
Felicia Toporoff, President
ftoporoff@templeetzchaim.org
In the blink of an eye, two years have come and gone. As my presidency of this congregation comes to an end, I’ve been reflecting on these past two years, where we were and how far we’ve come. We’ve experienced unprecedented challenges but have come through stronger than before. Due to the amazing efforts of our Board of Trustees and our incredible staff and clergy, we’ve become more fiscally responsible and sound, expanded our programming, grown our schools, and continue to remain a beacon of conservative Judaism in our community. I would like to thank the sage wisdom of many of our past presidents who have guided me in this role, Dan
Lubetkin for being such a reliable partner in this journey, and the rest of the Board of Trustees for their ongoing work and dedication to our community. In the first days of this role, Wendy Margolis told me that when she was president it was the most difficult thing she’d ever done, but without a doubt was the most rewarding. She was one hundred percent correct. Although times were difficult, it’s been an absolute privilege serving this congregation as your president. I love Temple Etz Chaim and feel most at peace within its walls and among its congregants. Thank you for your trust in me and the Board to guide this community forward. It’s been an honor.
Benny Sommerfeld, Chaplain
benny@templeetzchaim.org
Is the summer here? Not yet but almost, the calendar is still waiting for the 21 of June. Our tradition has made us susceptible to a lot of ups and downs throughout our cyclical year. We are on a spiritual high only to return to a spiritual low. We are coming from redemption, celebrating Passover and then building us up with self-refinement and some sadness through the Omer and then a spiritual high when we receive the Torah, the revelation. The Ten Commandments personifies to some extent our tradition to the rest of the world. One month later we are back in the trenches commemorating the destruction of the Temple. Interestingly enough, it paved the way for the Rabbinic Judaism that has propelled us into the 19th and 20th century Judaism that we practice today. After our saddest day of the year, we start climbing again to the seven weeks of consolation, before arriving at Rosh Hashanah. The 10 days to Yom Kippur
are time for repentance and starting anew. We finalize the holidays season with both Torah and Rabbinic holidays to lift our spirits; Sukkot and Simchat Torah. But let us not jump too far ahead, let’s enjoy the present. We have reached the end of the school year. Ahead, we should savor the months and fill them with meaning, adventures, trips, and family gatherings: go forth!
TEC is closed on most Sundays until the end of August. We are entering our own Bamidbar. The good news is that it will not last 40 years, just a couple of months during the summer. Contact the office for more details so you can come and join us on Sunday mornings.
Happy Summer!
TEC Education
Debbie Blumenthal, Early Education Director debbieb@templeetzchaim.org
As we come to the close of another wonderful school year at Temple Etz Chaim, the month of June gives us the opportunity to reflect with gratitude, pride, and appreciation for the many people who make our Early Childhood Education program such a special place for children and families.
First and foremost, we would like to thank our incredible ECE staff for twelve amazing months of dedication, creativity, patience, and love. Each classroom has been filled with meaningful learning experiences, exciting curriculum, joyful play, and opportunities to strengthen our children’s connection to Judaism, Jewish traditions, and community. Your energy and commitment help make every day a positive and memorable experience for our students.
A heartfelt thank you goes to our wonderful parent organization, PTEC, and especially to Sara Feinsilber as her youngest child leaves preschool and her family moves on from Temple Etz Chaim. Sara has spent years helping welcome new families into our community, organizing fall and winter festivals, assisting with holiday celebrations, and making Teacher Appreciation Week so meaningful for our staff. We are deeply grateful for the time, care, and leadership she has given to our school community.
We are also excited to welcome Colette Kohan as she steps into leadership with a new group of parents to continue the wonderful work already established through PTEC. We look forward to another year of partnership and community involvement.
To all our ECE families — thank you for trusting us with your young children. Thank you for volunteering in classrooms, sharing Shabbat and holiday celebrations with us, reading stories, participating in special events, and becoming such an important part of our school family. Your support and partnership help make our program thrive.
We would also like to express our appreciation to our clergy, Rabbi Ari, and Hazzan Noam, for leading our weekly Friday Shabbat celebrations. Through music, songs, prayers, stories, and joyful participation, you have helped make Shabbat one of our children’s favorite days of the week. Thank you for bringing so much warmth, spirit, and Jewish joy into our school.
A special thank you to Josh Atlas, our current Vice President of Early Childhood Education, for representing the ECE program on the Board of Directors and for always being available whenever guidance, support, or conversation was needed. Your leadership and advocacy for our preschool community are greatly appreciated.
We would also like to recognize and thank the rest of our incredible TEC team, Cindy, Joyce, Sarah, Jessica, Benny, Jill, Shane, and Debbie. Thank you for your team support, dedication, encouragement, and for everything you have done throughout the year to help and support the Temple Etz Chaim ECE Center. Your team spirit and commitment are deeply appreciated and help make our school community stronger every day.
On June 17, we will celebrate four classrooms of our intermediate students as they prepare to leave Temple Etz Chaim and begin Transitional Kindergarten in the fall. We are so proud of all they have accomplished and know they are ready for this exciting next step.
We will also celebrate our TK class graduation on Wednesday, June 17, at 9:30 a.m. in the sanctuary, followed by a delicious brunch with families and friends. We look forward to honoring this special milestone together as a community.
Finally, I would like to offer a very personal and heartfelt thank you to my Assistant Director, Keri Loventhal. Thank you for standing by my side every step of the way this past year. I truly cannot imagine getting through the year without your help, partnership, and unwavering support. I deeply value your commitment to Temple Etz Chaim, your confidence in leadership and decisionmaking, and the care you show to our staff, families, and children every single day. I know without question that you will be a wonderful ECE Director, and I leave Temple Etz knowing the school is in excellent hands.
Wishing all our families a joyful summer filled with love, laughter, relaxation, and wonderful family memories. Thank you for being part of another meaningful year at Temple Etz Chaim.
With great appreciation, Debbie Blumenthal
Joyce Bronstein, Religious School Director joyce@templeetzchaim.org
In June, Debbie Blumenthal will be retiring. I want to thank Debbie for being my partner in nurturing children and supporting families with endless patience, kindness, and heart. She has touched many lives with care and guidance. Our TEC family will miss Debbie. Debbie, as you begin this exciting new chapter of retirement, I wish you endless happiness, relaxation, adventure, and beautiful moments.
As the Religious School year concluded, it is my personal hope that especially our students had a wonderful and fulfilling educational experience at TEC Religious School.
First and foremost, I want to express my heartfelt appreciation to all of you, our families, for your support throughout the year. Your participation in our programs, from holiday celebrations to special events, has been instrumental in creating memorable experiences for our students. Seeing our students’ smiling faces and hearing their positive comments truly warms our hearts. I feel complete gratitude and appreciation for everyone who has helped make our school a vibrant and nurturing community.
I sincerely thank Felicia Toporoff, our outgoing Synagogue President, for her dedication and commitment to Temple Etz Chaim. During her term, Felicia worked tirelessly to support the TEC community, and her commitment to our students, families, and staff is truly appreciated. I genuinely thank Felicia for her leadership. Yasher Koach!
A warm welcome to our incoming President, Dan Lubetkin. Dan has always shown a strong commitment to strengthening our synagogue. He has served on the Board of Directors for many years. Dan has volunteered many hours and is not only dedicated to his new role but also has a vision for the future of TEC. I know he will be a heart into this new board position.
I also want to express a huge thank you to Adya Riss, Trustee of Religious School Education, for his exceptional leadership and dedication over these past years. Adya has worked tirelessly to ensure that our Religious School continues to thrive, and his commitment is truly amazing. Adya represented the Religious School well. He was always willing and able to help at any time. I know in his new position as V.P. of our synagogue, he will be great. Thank you, Adya, for all you did for the students, parents, and teachers these past years. I appreciate Adya very much!
The new Trustee of Religious School will be Leah Neiderman.
Personally, I am thrilled Leah stepped forward to take on this position. Leah grew up at TEC and knowing her since she was a young child is truly the best. Interestingly, I attended high school with her father. I very much appreciate Leah taking this important position on the Board of Directors. Prior to this role, Leah served on the Religious School Education Committee for many years. The Education Committee meets monthly throughout the school year and has played a vital role in shaping our school’s direction. I want to express my sincere gratitude to each member of this committee for their tireless efforts and invaluable contributions these past years. Welcome to Leah!
Rabbi Averbach, Hazzan Noam, and our outstanding Religious School teachers genuinely deserve recognition and a huge thank-you for their dedication to providing our students with meaningful and enriching learning experiences. Their passion for education and Judaism is truly inspiring.
I also want to express my gratitude to Sarah Karamas, our Religious School Administrative Assistant, for her help in the school and with all the programming. We have worked together for many years, and I appreciate her dedication.
I would also like to thank our teenage aids who help at the Religious School in both classrooms and in the office. All our aides attend our Confirmation/Post Confirmation program, and their role in the Religious School is significant. Knowing they represent our future is heartwarming. Together, our students’ participation makes our school a vibrant and welcoming community.
Thank you to Susan Goldberg for sewing all the book covers for our third-grade program and all the tallitot (more than one tallit) for our fourth-grade program. Todah Rabah to Carl Friedlander for tying the tzitzit on each tallit. Also, thank you so much to you and Linda for preparing the delicious nut-free charoset for our grade-level model Passover Seders.
Todah Rabah to everyone who has helped make this past year truly memorable.
We will miss seeing our families and can’t wait to see our students’ smiles in September!
Wishing everyone a safe, restful, and wonderful summer... Enjoy! L’hitraot, Joyce
TEC Community
Mark Goldstein, President, Men’s Club
Hi Everyone! Now that it’s summer, we will soon announce Havdalah hikes to enjoy the sunsets together. And there’s lots more too...
We’re continuing regular, monthly Men’s Night Out meetups. The sixth Wednesday Men’s Night Out at Naughty Pine Brewing Co. in Westlake Village will be Wednesday, June 10 from 7 pm – 9 pm. Come for a few minutes or all two hours. It’s a good opportunity to meet other men from TEC.
All are welcome at Men’s Club Board Meetings typically held the third Tuesday of the month at 7 pm with the next meeting set for June 16. Plus, this will also be a General Meeting where
next year’s board will be confirmed.
Please join us on Tuesday, July 7, 2026 for the Jeff Finn Memorial Dinner where we toast, eat and learn in honor of former men’s club leader Jeff Finn. Details to come.
You are invited to participate in planning our activities and priorities for the next year at our Annual Planning Meeting and BBQ at a member’s home, on Sunday, July 12 at 5pm.The home address will be provided when we receive your RSVP.
A new Men’s Club TEC Cycling Club is forming. Events to be announced. Please email if you’re interested. Get ready to roll!
Phyllis
Dankberg & Elissa Lazarus, Co-President, Women of TEC
Pam Friedman, Trustee, Social Action
I wanted to give you an update on our exciting Recycle Beyond the Bag program. Both Steve and I want to thank you for all the stretchy plastic. By working together, we have collected an astounding amount of stretchy plastic in a truly short amount of time. As of May 7th, we have logged in 54.6 lbs. of plastic. We will continue to collect plastic all through the summer. We come in once a week to collect plastic from the bins. So, keep up the excellent work. Remember this is a year-round project.
Everyone has done a wonderful job remembering what to put in the bins. Just a few reminders:
If your package or bag passes the stretch test put it in.
If you have a plastic clam shell or egg carton or other crunchy/ crinkly plastic items recycle it at home.
Pam and Steve Friedman, Your Recycling Team Leaders
B’nai Mitzvah
Alie Toporoff June 6
Hello! My name is Alexandra Toporoff, but every calls me Alie, for short. I’m a student at Redwood Middle School. My favorite things to do include drawing, playing flute in my school’s marching band, and just being with my friends and family. I want to thank everyone at Temple Etz Chaim, especially Rabbi Ari, Hazzan Noam, Joyce, Ellen, all of my teachers, and my family and friends who have supported me throughout the years. I am so excited to become a Bat Mitzvah and to see what the future holds for me!
Sennen Feigenbaum June 13
I am Sennen Feigenbaum, a 7th grader at Lindero Canyon Middle School. Etz Chaim has been my Jewish home since preschool where I met many of my closest friends. Temple is a very special place to me and I’m happy to say I know a lot of adults and kids here. Because of my dad’s involvement in leadership, I’ve come to enjoy volunteering and being more active around Temple. I like to cook, travel, play music in my school band, play tennis and spend time with my friends and family. There are many people here at Etz Chaim who have helped me on my way to my Bar Mitzvah. Thank you to Rabbi Ari, Hazzan Noam, Joyce Bronstein, Cindy Goldberg, Rivka Moskovich, Cantor Kenny Ellis, Toby Love and all the teachers I’ve had since I was little. Also thank you to my parents, grandparents, aunts and cousins and my valued Religious School friends who all support me and helped to me get to this special day.
Daniel Lotterman June 27
Hi my name is Daniel Lotterman, and I have been at TEC since Kindergarten. I am in 7th grade at Colina Middle School. Outside of school I enjoy hanging out with my friends, and playing sports, mostly tennis, karate, and swimming, although in truth, you can usually find me on the tennis court! I also enjoy playing the violin, which I’ve been studying for the past 6 years, camping, and more recently, building computers. I would like to thank the wonderful staff at TEC who have guided me since I was 5. Special thanks to my tutor Rivka, Rabbi Ari, Hazzan Noam, Joyce, Ms. Tobi, and Cantor Kenny. I would also like to thank my parents, sister, and family who have been such a significant part of my life journey to becoming a Bar Mitzvah.
Francesca “Frankie” Violet Freund
Born April 29, 2026
Parents:
Ava and Oliver Freund
Siblings: Ruby and Max
Grandparents:
Heidi and Lee Rigney
Howard and Deborah Freund
Dana and Bob Schaffel
Michael Rubin
Parker Aimee Booth
Born: May 6, 2026
Parents:
Brittany and Andrew Booth
Sister: Kenley
Grandparents: Abbe and Stephen Irshay
Annette Booth and Pakrad Kazazian
Tributes
Barbara & Harvey Scherr Memorial Fund
In Memory of Tillie Pearl Touby
David Salzman
Community Garden & Bird Sanctuary
1st Adult B’nai Mitzvah Class | Shavuot 1978
Dunaier Music Fund
In Memory of Harvey Dunaier
Howard Dunaier
Early Childhood Education Fund
In Memory of Parvin Rostamian
Zoe Abdolrazagh
In Honor of the ECE teachers who take such wondeful care of my grandchildren
Patti Jo Wolfson
In Memory of Emily Safani
Michael Safani
In Honor of the Birth of Francesca “Frankie” Violet Freund
Scott & Debbie Blumenthal
In Honor of the Birth of Paker Aimee Booth
Scott & Debbie Blumenthal
Elisa Feldman Memorial Religious School Scholarship Fund
In Memory of Jay Shery
In Memory of Daniel Kaffka
In Memory of Dellamae Kaffka
In Memory of Sara Musiker
William Jacobs & Marilyn Musiker Roth
In Memory of Harry Altman
Nomi Freed
Hazzan Noam’s Discretionary Fund
Helping with the Cost of Tuning the Piano
Steven & Pamela Friedman
Jotkowitz Camp Ramah Scholarship Fund
In Memory of Edith Benjamin
Lisa Benjamin
Lipnick RSSF
In Memory of Dorann Bunkin
In Memory of Cantor Jay Corn
Michael Bunkin
In Memory of Paul Chesnick
Myrna Stelman
Men’s Club
In Memory of Deborah Braden
Buzz & Carol Schoenkerman
In Memory of Maybelle Braden
In Memory of Roger Braden
In Memory of Marcey Schoenkerman
In Memory of Evelyn Schoenkerman
In Memory of Bert Schoenkerman Sr.
Buzz & Carol Schoenkerman
In Honor of the Yom HaShoah Yellow Candle Project
William Jacobs & Marilyn Musiker Roth
In Honor of The Yom HaShoah Yellow Candle Project
Eileen Sachs
Men’s Club Scholar-inResidence
In Memory of David Forman
Joel & Harriet Shrater
In Memory of Sue Shrater
Joel and Harriet Shrater
Men’s Club Silverstein Humanitarian Fund
In Honor of a Speedy Recovery for Harriet Shrater
Marc & Carole Firestone
In Memory of Moritz Lewin
Frank Lewin
In Memory of Magda Chesnick
Myrna Stelman
Rabbi Averbach’s Discretionary Fund
In Memory of Jack Yaskiel
Cyndi Mahler
In Memory of Julia Weiss
Mark & Inez Zucherman
In Memory of Dorothy Schoenwald
Jeff Schoenwald
In Memory of Marvin Natlin
In Memory of Max Natkowitz
Linda Natlin
In Memory of Sadie Boegen
Eileen Sachs
In Memory of Martin Sternstein
Cathy Sternstein
In Memory of Murray Bass
Sharon Seiden
In Memory of Jack Arons
Steven Arons
In Memory of Evelyn Peisner
Robert Peisner
In Memory of Angela Kaye
Cheryl Math
In Honor of the Hebrew Naming of Riley Tucker
The Lerman Family
In Memory of Ira Cook
Perry & Susan Pierce
In Honor of Rabbi Averbach Officiating at their Wedding
Brooke Edell
In Memory of Sheila Wallman
David & Rebeccah Schwartz
In Memory of Rose Morris
Elizabeth Groden
In Memory of Fannie Markowitz
Bonnie Garfinkel
In Honor of Emmet Pugh’s Bar Mitzvah
Kevin & Rachel Pugh
In Appreciation of Rabbi Averbach for his support during my conversion path to Judaism and a Speedy Recovery to My Mom, MartAnn
Emilia Page
In Memory of Eva Minarsky
Robert Peisner
Religious School Fund
In Honor of Yom Ha’atzmaut
Richard Engler & Ellen Zucker
In Memory of Reuben Zucker
Ellen Zucker
Sandee Tischler Religious School
Scholarship Fund
In Memory of Gerald Zimmerman
In Memory of Naomi Aminoff
In Memory of Samuel Ratzan
Dawne Ratzan
In Memory of Harry B. Wank
David Wank
Social Action Fund
In Memory of Steven Kleiger
Ean Kleiger
In Memory of Ralph Munowitch
David Munowitch & Emily Habib
In Memory of Howard Feigenbaum
Robin Oberman
Temple General Fund
In Memory of Martin Konigsberg
Shirley Bressler
In Memory of Annette R. “Honey” Reiter
In Memory of James A. Reiter
In Honor of the Baby Naming of the Gero Family’s Granddaughter Willow and Grandnephew Jokali
Lee & Susan Simowitz
In Honor of the Birth of Mara Kane Lehmann
Lawrence & Nina Wallach
The Arnold & Jacqueline Stern Living Trust
In Memory of Max Portnoy
Ed Portnoy
In Memory of Maurice Benchimol
Elaine Scully
Jerrald & Deborah Cohen
Tzedakah Fund
In Memory of Edwin (Ted) Tollman
Brian Lotterman & Lisa Tollman
In Memory of Yefim Gutman
Zinvoy & Tatyana Gutman
In Memory of Sonya Gutman
Zinvoy & Tatyana Gutman
USY Youth & Scholarship Fund
In Memory of Nathaniel I. Goodman
Roger Lifeset
Women of Temple Etz Chaim Scholarship Fund
In Memory of Geraldine Altenburg
Myrna Stelman
IN HONOR OF SHAVUOT, LET’S PLAY A GAME OF
TIC TAC TO-RAH
truth
DURING SHAVUOT, WE READ THE STORY OF RUTH. HOW MANY ENGLISH WORDS CAN YOU THINK OF THAT CONTAIN ALL 4 LETTERS IN THE WORD “RUTH”?
Our History
GRAB YOUR FAVORITE MARKERS, CRAYONS OR COLORED PENCILS AND BRING THIS HISTORIC MOMENT FROM THE MONTH OF JUNE TO LIFE. IN THIS PICTURE, RUTH IS DEPICTED IN ISRAEL AROUND THE TIME OF SHAVUOT TO GIVE HER MOTHER-IN-LAW, NAOMI A SHEAF. HER ACCEPTANCE INTO THE JEWISH FAITH WAS ANALOGOUS OF THE ACCEPTANCE OF THE
The Mitzvah Committee is here to help...
• Large plastic trash bags and remember your loved ones.
MEMORIAL RECEPTION
Services offered by Women of TEC Mitzvah Committee
What to Expect
We will be at your house a day or two before the funeral, or as time permits, for planning and any questions. We will arrive at your house half hour to one hour before you leave for the cemetery to receive any last-minute instructions. Our volunteers will be there to accept all deliveries and complete the set-up.
We will provide:
• Handwashing station to be set up outside, in front of the door, including water pitcher, paper towels, TV tray and trash bag
• Hard-boiled eggs (12)
• Challah, wine and mini wine cups
• Large and small paper plates, napkins, and cutlery
• Hot and cold cups
• Ice cubes in a cooler
• Large coffee maker, coffee, tea bags
• Sugar, sweeteners, mocha mix
Family provides:
• Tablecloth, serving platters and utensils
• Cold drinks, water bottles
• Folding chairs
Have the deli/bakery deliver:
• Platters of food, bread, salads, cakes, etc.
Special Instructions for the deli/bakery:
• Be sure to schedule these items to be delivered at the same time the funeral is scheduled to begin.
• Remind them not to mix meat and dairy on the same platter.
To ask questions or make arrangements
Contact the Temple Office at 805-497-6891 or inquire via email at Shiva@templeetzchaim.org
After hours, please contact Roni Rosen at 818-585-9449