ETZETERA - May 2024

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Inside This Issue

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Yom HaShoah Reflection

Letters from our leaders

Updates from our community groups

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Join us for Yom HaShoah: Evening of Reflection

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Letters From Our Leaders

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TEC Education

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TEC Community

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Birthdays & Anniversaries

12 B’nai Mitzvah 13 TEC Tributes 14 Torah Fund 15 Memorial Receptions Available 16 End of Life Care and Planning 17 Learn About the Ezra Network 18 Upcoming Events 26 Kids’ Corner 28 Support Our Community: Small Business Highlight

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Clergy Rabbi Ari Averbach Interim Cantor Kenny Ellis Associate Chaplain Benny Sommerfeld Rabbi Emeritus Richard Spiegel Rabbi Emeritus Simon Paskow (z”l)

Staff

Executive Director Gideon Manzur Early Childhood Education Director Debbie Blumenthal Religious School Director Joyce Bronstein Early Childhood Education Asst. Director Keri Loventhal Programming & Youth Director Cindy Goldberg Office Manager Shane Silverstein ECE Administrative Assistant Linda Starr RS Administrative Assistant Sarah Karamas Membership Services Jessica Jacoby Clergy Assistant Jill Rosenberg Musical Director Mariano Dugatkin

Board of Directors

President Eric Feigenbaum Executive Vice President Felicia Toporoff Immediate Past President Shari Mark Treasurer Shira Soria Recording Secretary Rachael Pugh VP, Building & Grounds Dan Wachs VP, Early Childhood Education Chad Hampton VP, Personnel & Legal Josh Hopstone VP, Project Funding Wendy Margolis* VP, Religion & Worship Cheryl Wolf VP, Religious School Education Adya Riss VP, Social Action Pam Friedman VP, Ways and Means Judy Gindi VP, Youth Ilana Sweet Trustee, At-Large Rachel Carmona Trustee, Bingo Arnie Blitstein Trustee, Governance Steve Plotkin Trustee, Programming Dan Lubetkin Trustee, Security Paul Dryman Trustee, Sustainability Ely Jacobsohn President, Men’s Club Irwin Barney President, Women of TEC Linda Hutchings Past President, Board Member Sherri Finn-Werber Past President, Board Member Gary Katz Past President, Board Member Myles Simpson Past President, Board Member Marshall Scherr *Past President

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Letters from Our Leaders Rabbi Ari Averbach

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The students in our preschool’s Room D (4–5-year-olds) put on a Pesach play each year. During the intense casting process, the teachers assigned one of the kids to play Pharaoh. Later that day, this little girl was in the corner, crying. The teacher crouched down and asked what was wrong. “I don’t want to play Pharaoh! I don’t want to be mean to the Jewish people!”

The role was recast, and another student thespian was assigned the part of Pharaoh. Until he ALSO refused it, citing the same reasons of not wanting to appear antisemitic! (If only the rest of the world worked the same way!)

These days have been perilous, with each hour bringing news that

is painful or hopeful or devastating. I know that in the days between me writing this and you reading it, so much has changed.

And despite all of this, how proud I am at what we are teaching at Temple Etz Chaim – to our youngest students in our ECE, to our religious school students who sing “Hatikva” with full voice, to our high school students who are grappling with major issues on their campuses, and to the community at large.

I am hopeful that Israel will once again be a land of peace, and I am hopeful that the next generation grows up with a love of the land of Israel and the people of Israel.

Benny Sommerfeld, Chaplain benny@templeetzchaim.org

I hope you all had a meaningful Pesach this year. It was hard to fully celebrate freedom when we have a war in Israel, and hostages still not been able to safely return home. Our cycle of festivals continues whether the world events are in our favor or not. I am sure that under similar circumstance in our troublesome history this feeling of not being fully free has been an experience that we have lived through before, and we have always prevailed. However, it is remarkable that we don’t despair, and that we despite the situation at hand, celebrate our holidays with meaning. The Month of May, Nissan and Adar, is leading up to our spiritual pinnacle in mid-June, the festival of Shavuot. I hope that you are taking some time to prepare spiritually for Shavuot, the commemoration of receiving the Torah on Mount Sinai. I mentioned in last month’s ETZ, the 7 characteristics that dominated each week leading up to Shavuot. Four of them are in May, discipline, beauty, endurance, and beginning of humility.

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May has many modern time festivals and remembrance days on its calendar, besides Lag Baomer. Yom HaShoah, Yom HaZikaron, Yom HaAtzmaut face the same dilemma as Pesach of being holidays in war time. We have to embrace them as best as we can as proud Jewish people remembering the blessings that we have and the miraculous times we are living through.

May is also the time where our schools are winding down and we can start looking forward to the summer activities. The official kickoff for the BBQ season rounds off the month and we move outside to the backyard for dinners. Spring is in full bloom so, enjoy (unless you are allergic to pollen) the beauty of mother nature. Happy Birthday to Israel, we pray for her, and that peace will arrive soon.

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Eric Feigenbaum, President eric@templeetzchaim.org

In the almost two years now that I have been Temple President, I have learned so much. One of those things is how much so many people care for their shul. Temple Etz Chaim has so many stakeholders – different groups and individuals who come for multitudes of reasons and take from it just as many different things.

Some come for services, others programming or religious education for their children – or maybe for themselves. They come for infant care and preschool – or maybe just high holidays or a place to turn in times of crisis and loss. They are part of a havurah or leadership or they volunteer. They celebrate life cycle events. They find connection and community. They come for a place to be Jewish – whatever that means to them. And what they come for may change at different moments in their lives.

Coordinating a place that serves so many important functions and means so much to so many people is no small feat. For all the things TEC does – the many holidays, classes, pastoral care, services, minyans, bingo, concerts, speakers, family events, babies pushed through the parking lot in giant strollers – it’s done by a shockingly small group of very dedicated people.

With more than 475 member families, Temple Etz Chaim is in an awkward spot – too big to operate like a small shul, too small for the budget of a big one. In my opinion, we’re about four full-time staffers short of an ideal complement, but financially we just can’t

make that leap YET. Amazingly, the team we have from our clergy to office staff to education leadership to maintenance team work exceedingly hard trying to make all the things we value happen as seamlessly and invisibly as possible. Until you’re behind the scenes and in the mire, you have no idea how much goes into making the machinery work.

That also includes many dedicated, core volunteers who work bingo, our kitchens, staff a variety of events, garden and even put the little signs with your name on them on your seats at High Holidays.

Surprisingly, I sometimes receive complaints! Nothing works right all the time. Sometimes for reasons beyond anyone’s control, sometimes because someone, somewhere missed a detail, failed to communicate or dropped a ball. We are an organization and community of human beings – and in my opinion, some of the best intentioned, most dedicated human beings I know.

I just want to say thank you to everyone – paid and unpaid – who work tirelessly to make Temple Etz Chaim happen. If you come to campus and things all go the way they should, and the day or experience go smoothly – hopefully great, but maybe even unremarkably – that’s a result of the hard work and dedication of myriad people who put their love and passion to work for you each and every day.

Gideon Manzur, Executive Director gideon@templeetzchaim.org

As we bid farewell to the celebration of Passover and transition into the challenges that lie ahead, we are reminded of the importance of community and support in navigating life’s journey. In these uncertain times, Temple Etz Chaim stands as a beacon of strength and solidarity, offering a sanctuary of solace and connection for all who seek it.

Passover, with its themes of liberation and renewal, has reminded us of the resilience of our faith and the enduring bonds of our community. As we return to our daily routines, we carry with us the spirit of unity and hope that permeated our Passover celebrations.

Now more than ever, it is vital to lean on the support of our temple community. Whether you joined us for our Passover services, participated in our community Seder, or celebrated in your own homes, we invite you to continue to seek refuge and strength at

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Temple Etz Chaim.

Our doors are open, to welcome you into the embrace of our community. Through our Shabbat services, programming, and social events, we offer opportunities for connection, reflection, and support. Together, we can find solace in our shared traditions, draw strength from one another, and navigate these challenging times with resilience and grace.

As we move forward, let us remember that we are not alone. Within the walls of Temple Etz Chaim, we find not only a place of worship but also a family—a community united by faith, compassion, and a shared commitment to supporting one another.

Join us this Shabbat and beyond as we continue our journey together, finding comfort, camaraderie, and renewed strength in the embrace of our temple community.

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TEC Education Debbie Blumenthal, Early Education Director debbieb@templeetzchaim.org

During the month of May, we look forward to celebrating the holiday of Yom HaAtzmaut, Israel’s Day of Independence. For young children this means displaying the flag of Israel, singing Hebrew songs, and learning about the country of Israel. This year we have planned a huge outdoor celebration in our beautiful play yards. Some of the activities we have planned include: the Maccabee obstacle course, Kibbutz planting in the garden, Israeli music in the dessert tent, an “El Al” airplane trip, and enjoying an Israeli lunch of pita, salad, and falafel. The best part is that parents will be able to volunteer and share in this fun experience with their children.

Our May Tot Shabbat will be on Friday, May 17th on the Warren Lawn. This will be a Pajama Night so find your favorite jammies and join us! We will be serving dinner; the cost is $36.00 per family and enjoying a service outdoors with our ECE families and friends. RSVP to Debbie Blumenthal if you would like to join the Shabbat fun in May.

Teacher Appreciation Week will be observed the week of May 6th.

Our PTEC group has planned 5 days of appreciation activities for the ECE staff. Our PTEC group has worked hard all year fundraising so that they can spoil the staff. We are grateful for the support of all our parents.

Our Pre-K students will venture out to the Thousand Oaks Public Works Open House in May to see all the jobs our city workers do to help our community. We want to wish everyone a very Happy Mother’s Day! I’m sure that all our preschoolers will find a way to make your day very special. The ECE Center will be closed on Monday, May 27th in observance of Memorial Day. We look forward to an amazing month of May!

Joyce Bronstein, Religious School Director joyce@templeetzchaim.org

I can’t believe that I am already writing my May bulletin. The school year is zooming by! I hope that you had a fun and inspirational Seder and your Passover was terrific.

in Israel will speak. Rabbi Averbach will talk about his journey to becoming a member of the clergy. We will conclude with cake, Hatikvah, and everyone singing Happy Birthday to Israel.

Please join us for “Yom Hamoreh – Teacher Appreciation Day” on Friday, May 3rd at 7:00 p.m., when we honor and recognize our Religious School Teachers. Dr. Abraham Heschel once said, “There is no higher distinction than being a teacher in our teachings. We celebrate teachers.

The teacher is essential to Jewish living, present, and future.” Our teachers create a positive educational environment where our students enjoy learning and being at Temple Etz Chaim. On this Shabbat, our 6th-grade students will also lead prayers and sing songs.

The promotion ceremony for our Seventh-Grade students will be on May 21st. These outstanding young adults have worked hard to reach this day. Most of these students will continue their Jewish education in our Confirmation Program, strengthening their Jewish identity during the important teenage years.

“Living Voices” provides an interactive play between Anne Frank and her best friend Miep. It is an inspirational story that leaves a significant impact on our students. This unique and meaningful experience is for students in grades 6 and 7. Anyone is welcome to attend. It will take place on May 5th at 10:00 a.m.

On May 14th, we will host Yom HaAtzmaut. Learning about Israel is part of our fifth-grade curriculum. Students make posters on various aspects of Israel. Their posters are amazing! That day, we will have falafel, Israeli dance, music, and an adult who grew up 6

On the last day, students will celebrate Lag B’Omer. They will participate in games and enjoy time with their TEC friends. It is especially fun because we provide a BBQ with hot dogs and potato chips. It is a great day to reflect on the past year and look forward to the following year.

Please let me know if you know of any families looking to join TEC and register their children in Religious School. I always enjoy meeting new potential congregants and speaking with them about our beautiful TEC community.

If you have any questions or want to “Schmooze,” my door is always open. L’hitraot, Joyce

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Programming & Youth Cindy Goldberg, Programming & Youth Director cindy@templeetzchaim.org

Highlights from our TEC Community Shabbaton at Camp Alonim, March 29-31. Thank you to Karen Garelik, Heidi Birnbaum, Joyce Bronstein, Rabbi Averbach for helping plan an amazing weekend of community! Looking forward to doing it again in the future.

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TEC Community Linda Hutchings, President, Women of TEC WOMEN of TEC NEEDS YOU! We are looking for volunteers to help with committees and members to come forward to serve in leadership roles on our board. There is lots to be done and we are always looking to widen our audience and improve our programming. It is truly a rewarding experience and a wonderful way to get more involved at Temple.

Did you know each year we consistently lead in auxiliary sponsored donations to the synagogue community and we are honored and proud to do so. Our High Holiday Booklets take many hours of hard work to put together each year and the income helps provide funding for our annual contributions to the synagogue, the religious school, the ECE and Youth programs. In addition, we are always looking forward to the Jewish Overnight Camp Scholarships we provide each year.

March was a busy month and a big thank you to all of the volunteers that made the Arts and Crafts Booth we hosted at the

Purim Carnival such a terrific success! It is always a joy to see all of the smiling faces at the carnival and the camaraderie enjoyed by all who participated.

Please mark your calendars for our very special Woman of Valor Luncheon honoring the amazing Bonnie Rothman on Sunday, May 5th at 11:30am. We are also looking forward to the upcoming Synagogue Celebration of Yom HaAutzmaut on Tuesday, May 14th starting with a nosh at 6:30 followed by Israeli Dancing being led by the fabulous Maya Tenenbaum. Also, Women of TEC Members will be voting on our 2024-2025 slate of officers at the Yom HaAutzmaut event.

As always, please keep checking your WOTEC Constant Contact updates and please reach out if you would like to get to contribute with WOTEC leadership by serving on our board or volunteering for a committee position.

Susan Kane, Chairperson, Inclusion Committee Check out the recently added listing of Community Resources under the ‘CONNECT’ tab on the TEC website. Among these are organizations that provide information and/or support in the areas of addiction, medical crises, special needs, social services and for the LGBTQ+ community. If there is an organization that you think should be included as a Community Resource, please let us know.

A variety of social services and support are available through THE EZRA NETWORK. These include mental health counseling, job search support and legal assistance, among other things. Please see the flyer included in this month’s bulletin. In addition, if you need help navigating services or are not sure where to call, the Jewish Federation of Los Angeles has a hot line at (855) JFED-HLP. Magnifying sheets are now available to support those with vision impairment. They will be available in the lobby to be used during

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services. Please return them to the lobby at the conclusion of services.

Should you need them for any other temple related activity, please notify the office in advance to make arrangements.

Mark your calendars and join us for these upcoming events: June 7th – 8th Pride Shabbat. Join us and our guest speakers during Friday night services. Information and resources for the LGBTQ+ Jewish Community will be available in the lobby.

The Inclusion Committee seeks to expand the opportunities for full participation and support by listening to congregants’ needs and experiences so we can advocate for positive changes. We certainly don’t have all the answers, so we are leading with curiosity and welcome your thoughts and suggestions... where can we improve and what are we doing well...

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Pam Friedman, VP, Social Action Thank you to everyone who donated to our April Manna Food drive.

We received a warm welcome from the staff at the Food Pantry. As we were unloading the bags of food the Pantry Staff member got a big smile on his face when he saw the bags of food, assembled by the children at the Purim Carnival. Manna was very grateful for our generous donation.

On the third Tuesday of each month, Social Action’s Feed the Hungry Program makes 70 lunches for people in need. We work closely with Harbor House to make sure that each lunch is nutritious and that the clients will enjoy eating the lunches that we provide each month.

In each lunch, we provide a PBJ or turkey sandwich to give each client a protein choice. Next, we put in a fruit cup and a bag of trail

mix. Then, we add a bag of Welch’s fruit snacks and a granola bar. At the end we include a bag of chips and cookies or brownies to finish off the lunch. When we deliver the lunches at Harbor House, we also drop off fresh fruit and water. Our hope is that our lunches will provide enough food for a meal and maybe a snack later.

How can you help us with this mitzvah? We need food items to build our lunches including individually sized bags of trail mix, chips, Welch’s fruit snacks, and chewy granola/protein bars. You can drop off your donations at the Temple Office anytime. If you would like to donate money to our Feed the Hungry Program, you can donate using Shul Cloud by clicking on Donations then Social Action and writing Feed the Hungry in the payment notes. Thank you for your continued support to Social Action.

Irwin Barney, President, Men’s Club The Men’s Club experienced two of our major annual events in April. The 24th Scholar in Residence program took place the weekend of April 5 to 7. This year’s speaker was Shira Telushkin who is a religion writer and reporter living in Brooklyn. The events enabled a substantial number of the TEC community to experience a wonderful weekend of learning. Activities began on Friday evening with a well-attended kickoff dinner followed by services and a presentation by our scholar. The learning continued during Shabbat morning services and again after Havdalah. The final session took place at brunch on Sunday morning. Thanks to Mark Zucherman, our Scholar in Residence chair, who coordinated the program, and to all of those that provided their support.

Our second event involved the celebration of Pesach this April.

On the weekend of April 26 and 27, the Men’s Club and WOTEC lead services during Shabbat Chol HaMoed Pesach. Yasher Koach to all those that participated in the services. Thanks to Jon Hops and Cindy Koepcke for their leadership.

Last, on May 21, the Men’s Club will hold its annual Cigars, Scotch, and Talmud dinner in memory of our friend and Men’s Club leader Jeff Finn. This event is limited to Men’s Club members and is sponsored by Jeff’s brother, Dr Richard Finn.

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Dates to Remember

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Tali Lefko Bat Mitzvah

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Birthdays & Anniversaries

May 11 Erin Bordofsky Rebecca Gindi Leon Sassoon Kyle Tucker 1 Lawrence Grosslight Ayla Sklar Judah Sklar Judith Sneed 2 Steven Golove John Mc Cauley Daniel Sturman Jackson Tucker Jake Wellen 3 Raz Bagg Brian Lacy Mark Scop 4 Noah Dvir Richard Eidman Brit Sharon 5 Ethan Bagg Arnie Blitstein Natalie Brender Drew Cowan Samantha Katz Gabriel Korn Sharon Pevsner Eric Shechter Alana Silverstein Jake Simowitz 6 Eden Lazarus 7 Carl Friedlander Yola Kalinski Tali Lefko Ron Mark Romi Resnik Natalie Roman Ella Sabat Megan Welch 8 Sharon Meiselman Cyrus Mizrahi Harvey Moskowitz Jaclyn Plotkin 9 Deborah Goldin Leah Israel Spencer Morris Kimi Wohl 10 Jessica Anderson Heather Friedman Logan Gelfound Jeanna Gindi Jennifer Golove Annie Wolfson Lynne Zuckerman www.templeetzchaim.org

12 Jeremy Garelik Noa Ghozland Paul Munowitch Martin Sturman Leah Tepfer 13 Rachel Axelrad Marcel Ghodsian Alan Horwitz Stephanie Morgenstern Hillary Natlin Ethan Rinkov Josh Rudman Robert Sarto Eli Tischler 14 Brianna Brownstein Sarah Golden Elisha Manzur Irving Weiss 15 Leo Bronstein Max Cohan Adam McCullough David Pevsner 16 Anita Heber Michele Salant Kenneth Saul 17 Paige Esqueda Lillian Levine Alexa Mizrahi Sol Mizrahi Gabrielle Polkes Rachelle Varley 18 Sloane Berkowitz Nicole Blitstein Brian Goodkin Paula Lefko Samuel Lyons Brooke Paiva Dylan Sklar Benjamin Slomowitz

21 Bryan Breverman Kennedy Kahn Emily Kerner 22 Michael Bayewitch Michael Druyen Kenny Ellis Caleb Kass Oni Lazarus 23 Ariana Mendelson Ann Moore-Ross Emma Riss Amy Shipow Irma Sommerfeld 24 Judy Koutal Allison Rozzen 25 Doina Borla Lila Goodkin Emmy Goodkin Ilana Lemberger David Werner 26 Neil Bordofsky Elijah Lubetkin Jeffrey Sweet Penina VanBuren 27 Jack Gindi Martin Jacobsohn Bruce Mahler Sandy Pfefferman Cora Sklar Aaron Zucherman 28 Joanna Greenbaum Ryan Sterling 29 David Cohan Aami Gutman Jonathan Hops Andrew Moore Josh Wohl

19 Jan Blakely Shailee Hoffmann Gilbert Kessler Melissa Snyder

30 Daphne Berry Matthew Garelik Benjamin Hopstone Matthew Jacobs Aria McCullough Ron Stein Daniel Weiss Declan Winthrop Betty Zonshine

20 Ronald Freeman Jenna Marx Michael Schwartzbach

31 Meredith Druyen Judy Gindi Kaitlyn Kahn Mayzie Werner

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1 Jason & Jessica Anderson 2 Harold & Sharon Seiden 4 Adam & Emily Kerner Adam & Emily Robinson 5 Ronald & Elizabeth Groden 6 Jason & Veronica Artof 7 Mark & Inez Zucherman 16 Joel & Laurie Volk 17 Adam & Andrea Ainley 18 Timothy & Susan Mellon 19 Daniel & Amanda Sissman Mike & Jackie Wellen 20 Mike & Fran Curtis 21 Lawrence & Gabriele Bugaisky 22 Darren & Nili Perlmutter Charles & Nancy Schwager 23 David & Lauren Cohen 24 Scott & Samantha Wasserman 27 Gil & Cindy Goldberg Jay & Debra Levine Matt & Stephanie Morgenstern Alik Shulman & Yevgeniya Belenkaya-Shulman 28 Jared & Jackie Weintraub 29 Chad & Lorie Hampton 31 Daniel & Sheridan Kahn Daniel & Susan Kane

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B’nai Mitzvah

LEAH TEPFER

May 11

Hi, my name is Leah Tepfer and I am becoming a Bat Mitzvah on May 11, 2024. I am in the 7th grade at Sinaloa Middle School, I enjoy being in choir and being on the honor roll. I love spending time with my family and friends, drawing, and writing short stories.

I have been a part of TEC and Camp Alonim since I was just a baby and they have played a huge role in my Jewish learning, growth and education. I am very grateful to be able to take part in both of these communities, giving me a year round love of Judaism. I want to thank my parents for always supporting me and guiding me when I needed it, all of my grandparents for loving me unconditionally and instilling the pride and confidence that I have. Thank you to my sisters for showing me patience and helping me when I need them. I would also like to thank all of my Religious School teachers and staff for making my studies so interesting and fun, as well as my counselors at camp for being so awesome every summer, ensuring that camp is a family community. I would also like to give a very special thank you to my tutor, Rivka Moskovitch, for teaching and preparing me for my Bat Mitzvah. I appreciate everyone’s love and support, I couldn’t have done this without you.

Tali Lefko

May 25

My name is Tali Lefko. I am a 7th grader at Los Cerritos Middle School. I enjoy playing volleyball and any musical art such as singing, dancing, theater and band. I’ve been part of Temple Etz Chaim my whole life, and I’m happy that I got to grow up in and be influenced by this Jewish community. I’ve made a lot of friends throughout my Jewish journey both at Temple Etz Chaim and Camp Ramah. Thank you to all the teachers who have helped to prepare me to become a Bat Mitzvah.

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Tributes Early Childhood Education Fund

In Memory of Howard Landun In Memory of Bob Landun Doreen Landun-Querido

In Memory of Joseph Belzer-Yaffa Rosemary Tobin

Elisa Feldman Memorial Religious School Scholarship Fund In Memory of Morris Freed Nomi Freed

In Honor of Leah Shechter’s Birthday Marc & Carole Firestone

Fienberg-Lerner Chapel Minyan Fund

Men’s Club Silverstein Humanitarian Fund In Memory of Ida S. Kaufman Harley Kaufman

Ner Tamid Education & Community Center Fund In Memory of Irving Sarto Robert & Harriet Sarto

Rabbi Averbach’s Discretionary Fund In Memory of Alan Lipkin Ron & Liz Groden

In Memory of Celia Gorman Sandy Rosenfeld

In Memory of Peter Helliwell Steven & Kendra Sternberg

In Appreciation of Rabbi Averbach’s Support Shirley Lipkin

Lipnick RSSF

In Memory of Howard Golove Steven Golove

In Memory of Phyllis Nathanson Stan & Lynne Rosen In Memory of Chaim Cher In Memory of June Cher Mark Cher

Melton Conejo West Valley Adult Jewish Learning In Memory of Gabriella Raileanu Mark & Jill Shear In Memory of Gabriella Raileanu Shirley Lipkin In Memory of Gabriella Raileanu Gene & Bobbie Berg Michael & Patty Melnick

Men’s Club

In Memory of Alan Lipkin Bonnie Rothman

In Memory of Anna Konigsberg Shirley Bressler

In Memory of Francis Jeanette Wolf Gary & Randee Paller In Memory of Francis Jeanette Wolf Randee Paller

Sandee Tischlet Religious School Scholarship Fund In Memory of Mac Ratzan Jerome & Dawne Ratzan

Social Action Fund

In Honor of Feed the Hungry for Harbor House Ron & Liz Groden In Honor of Feed the Hungry for Harbor House William & Cynthia Koepcke In Honor of Feed the Hungry for Harbor House Myles & Gail Simpson

Temple General Fund

In Memory of Abe Lutzker John & Sandra Lutzker

In Celebration of One Year of Health David & Rebeccah Schwartz

In Memory of Gloria Kaminsky Ellen Stein

In Memory of William Sherman In Memory of Marge Sherman Jerry Sherman

In Memory of David Sachs Stan & Lynne Rosen In Memory of Eileen Peisner Robert Peisner In Appreciation of Rabbi Averbach and the TEC Community for their support during our recent tragedy Michael & Lorraine Raileanu

In Honor of Yom HaShoah Yellow Candles Project Robert Peisner

In Memory of Stan Rubens Marie Rubens

In Honor of Yom HaShoah Yellow Candles Project Stan & Lynne Rosen

In Memory of Stanley Klein Steven Gilbard

In Honor of Yom HaShoah Yellow Candles Project Bonnie Rothman

In Memory of Dora Borenstein Jeffrey Borenstein

In Honor of Yom HaShoah Yellow Candles Project Ron & Ellen Stein

In Memory of Israel Borenstein Jeffrey Borenstein

In Honor of Yom HaShoah Yellow Candles Project Patricia Kaye

In Memory of Selig Spero Lynda Kessler

In Honor of Yom HaShoah Yellow Candles Project Myrna Stelman

In Memory of Matthew Salnick Michael & Donna Salnick

In Honor of Yom HaShoah Yellow Candles Project Israel & Beth Perel

In Memory of Edward Bernstein Ron & Shari Mark

In Honor of Yom HaShoah Yellow Candles Project Steven & Pamela Friedman

In Honor of Passover and the Sale of Hametz Bonnie Rothman

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Religious School Fund

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In Memory of Max Portnoy Ed Portnoy

Tzedakah Fund

In Memory of Blanche Kulik Morry Kulik In Memory of Alter Hy Feig In Memory of Bonnie Malchicoff Herb Wexler In Memory of Irwin Marco Fran Curtis

USY Youth & Scholarship Fund In Memory of Joel E. Spitzer Leonard Spitzer

Women of TEC Ron & Liz Groden

Women of TEC Scholarship Fund In Memory of George Garabedian In Memory of Hilda Garabedian Melinda Garabedian

Women of TEC Torah Fund In Memory of Louis Gray William Tenenbaum In Memory of Edna Gray William Tenenbaum

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Under "Affiliates," write: Temple Etz Chaim.

Under "City" and "State," write: Thousand Oaks, CA You can also make a donation in honor or in memory of someone for any amount ($5 or more) FOR CHECKS: Make out to "Torah Fund" and leave in Temple Main Office Torah Fund box, or mail the check to TEC and indicate Torah Fund on the envelope.

Let Esther or Phyllis know when you make a donation so we can make sure it goes to the correct place and you and TEC are credited.

Although all donations are very appreciated, with any donation of $180 or more you will be gifted with this year’s beautiful pin.

QUESTIONS? PLEASE CONTACT:

Esther Pullan: (818) 585-6890, esthercolor49@gmail.com or Phyllis Dankberg: phyllis@dankberg.com

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The Mitzvah Committee is here to help... and remember your loved ones.

MEMORIAL RECEPTION Services offered by Women of TEC Mitzvah Committee

What to Expect We will be at your house a day or two before the funeral, or as time permits, for planning and any questions. We will arrive at your house half hour to one hour before you leave for the cemetery to receive any last-minute instructions. Our volunteers will be there to accept all deliveries and complete the set-up.

We will provide:

Family provides:

• Handwashing station to be set up outside, in front of the door, including water pitcher, paper towels, TV tray and trash bag • Hard-boiled eggs (12) • Challah, wine and mini wine cups • Large and small paper plates, napkins, and cutlery • Hot and cold cups • Ice cubes in a cooler • Large coffee maker, coffee, tea bags • Sugar, sweeteners, mocha mix • Large plastic trash bags

• Tablecloth, serving platters and utensils • Cold drinks, water bottles • Folding chairs

Have the deli/bakery deliver: • Platters of food, bread, salads, cakes, etc.

Special Instructions for the deli/bakery:

• Be sure to schedule these items to be delivered at the same time the funeral is scheduled to begin.

• Remind them not to mix meat and dairy on the same platter.

To ask questions or make arrangements Contact the Temple Office at

805-497-6891 or inquire via email at Shiva@templeetzchaim.org After hours, please contact Roni Rosen at 818-585-9449

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SATURDAY 5/4, 10:30am

Preschool Play Yard

JOIN TEC FOR

Join us for a morning full of that “Shabbat feeling” with exciting Jewish songs and play yard fun!

All families welcome!

For more information contact Debbie Blumenthal at (805) 497-6852 or debbieb@templeetzchaim.org

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WOMEN OF TEC PRESENTS

Please join us for our Presentation Luncheon as Women of TEC honors our

2024 Babe Dunaier Woman of Valor

Bonnie Rothman Sunday, May 5 @ 11:30am Temple Etz Chaim Spiegel Hall Cost $36.00

Click on the link below to reserve and pay no later than April 26.

RSVP Alternately, write a check payable to: “Temple Etz Chaim” for $36.

Mail check to: Women of TEC, 1080 E. Janss Road, Thousand Oaks, CA 91360. Write on the memo line and envelope: “Woman of Valor.”

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OPEN TO THE TEC COMMUNITY

STARTING

SUNDAY MAY 5, 1PM

Stained Glass Class and Project for Our Temple

Oh! I’ve always wanted to do stained glass.

Well Pilgram, now is your chance to throw away those inhibitions and just do it. The objective is to learn how to scribe-and-break straight lines of glass. Then progress to curved lines. Practice, practice, practice. Sweep up the pieces. Then, you will make a project of your choice. Then, as a class we will construct an approved project for the temple. Gideon, the Rabbi, and our temple board will be the sources for approval.

But, but, but. No buts! Come on and join the adventure of learning a craft. Meet people with an inquisitive spirit. Have some pride in acquiring this art and creating a tangible piece of work. Most importantly when we look at our temple project, we really did have a hand in creating it!

Where will this take place and when?

Sunday afternoons at Joe’s place in his garage. We will start Sunday, 5 May, at 1:00 PM for approximately 2 hours and continue with the first and third Sundays of the month. Joe lives 5 minutes from the temple near Glenwood school and you will receive his address when you register. Call Joe Tischler at 805-279-4006

How much will this cost?

That is up to you of course. To register, you will invest $25 for the class and most importantly your time. The $25 is a non-refundable escrow type fund, to buy your own supplies for the class. Any amounts remaining will go to the temple scholarship funds. To begin, you will need a glass cutter, some plate glass for practice, grozing pliers, some copper foil or lead came, solder, and a fid.

You may want to purchase a soldering iron and other tools and special glass for your personal project, which will come later.

Expenses exceeding your initial $25 will be at your own cost.

Examples of Joe’s work are shown below. They use the copper foil process as opposed to lead came.

We will make a field trip to a nice stained glass supply store in Pasadena. They have almost everything you might want to pursue your stained glass interests.

Examples of Joe’s projects

REGISTER TODAY

https://tec.shulcloud.com/form/stained%20glass

Questions? Call Joe Tischler at 805-279-4006 www.templeetzchaim.org

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T EC A ND WOTEC PRES ENT

TUESDAY

MAY

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Israeli Dancing IN HONOR OF YOM HAATZMAUT

Enjoy nosh, shmoozing, and dancing with instruction.

Led by award winning TEC Religious School Teacher, Maya Tenenbaum.

6:30pm: Nosh 7:00pm: Dancing Begins Sponsored by TEC in partnership with WOTEC RSVP to Cindy Goldberg at cindy@templeetzchaim.org

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Join TEC for

pajama party!

Friday, May 17 at 6:00 pm Everyone wear your favorite pajamas! We will be out on the Warren Lawn (weather permitting).

Dinner will be served.

Dinner cost per family is $36 (family of 4)

RSVP & Pay for Dinner https://tec-to.org/may-tot-shabbat

For more information contact Debbie Blumenthal at (805) 497-6852 or debbieb@templeetzchaim.org

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MAY 21 ON ZOOM

THE TEC

BOOK CLUB MEETS THE 3RD TUESDAY OF THE MONTH AT 7 PM

MAY 21

ON ZOOM

The Wolf Hunt

by Ayelet Gundar-Goshen

NEXT MEETING DATES ON ZOOM Tuesday, June 18

Hello Beautiful by Ann Napolitano

Tuesday, July 16

Florence Adler Swims Forever

by Rachel Beanland

We generally meet 3rd Tuesdays at 7 pm unless otherwise indicated.

For information about TEC Book Club or to be put on our mailing list, contact Liz Groden via the Temple Office (805) 497-6891 or adult-ed@templeetzchaim.org

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Lag Ba’Omer

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Yom Ha’atzmaut

How will you celebrate Israel’s Independence Day?

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