Arts & Lifestyles - October 22, 2020

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Paying respects to a local hero

It’s hard to believe that autumn is upon us. There seemed to be no summer. The political rhetoric continues to be out of control providing little substance on social policy and a future direction for our nation. The virus seems to be getting a second wind and a record number of young people are overdosing and dying due to heroin and fentanyl. These deaths

BY FR. FRANCIS are escalating at an PIZZARELLI alarming rate.

Despite this troubling landscape, random acts of kindness continue. Essential workers continue to be heroic and ordinary citizens are reaching out and a making a difference that really does counts.

On the morning of Oct. 14, a local hero went home to his God after a courageous life living with ALS, having spent his life working for a cure and supporting others who have been burdened with this incurable disease.

Dr. Christopher Pendergast, a retired Northport School District science teacher from Miller Place had lived with ALS for more than 28 years — a real light in the darkness. He had been a tireless advocate for research regarding finding a cure. His public advocacy is legendary.

However, what people did not know was the thousands of people across three decades that Chris touched with his selfless compassion, love and empathy. If he knew you were diagnosed with ALS, he and his wife Christine would quietly reach out to offer support.

In 1997 Chris founded the Ride for Life which touched thousands of students and people all over Long Island. He was a prolific writer and a powerful and moving public speaker.

Two weeks before Chris died, we met to talk about his last days. He was concerned about entering hospice. He felt that after 28

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years of teaching all of us how to live that maybe he didn’t do enough for others! He already planned his celebration of life after his death; from the wake to the funeral mass to his final resting place. He picked out the readings, the music and the people he wanted to participate in his services. He told me he did all of this so his wife and children would not be burdened when he passed.

On the Sunday before he died, Chris came with his wife Christine to the 12 noon Mass at St. Louis de Montfort Church in Sound Beach. That was his Mass — he went every Sunday until very recently. He and his wife were catechists who prepared young people from the parish for confirmation.

That Sunday I shared with his community that he had just begun hospice. On behalf of the community, I thanked Chris for his courage and his power of example all these years. I asked the community to extend their hands in blessing upon our brother.

At the amen, they gave him a standing ovation as a way of saying thank you. On Wednesday, October 14, he peacefully went home to God. The world is a brighter and better place because Chris Pendergast walked among us!

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MOVIE REVIEW

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Looking for a fresh start becomes a race for survival in Alone REVIEWED BY JEFFREY SANZEL

Alone could only be a labeled a “new” thriller in that it was just released. Nothing else could be considered new in this predictable and ultimately unsatisfying game of hunter and hunted. John Hyams has directed Mattias Olsson’s by-the-numbers screenplay with standard tropes and cliches.

From the beginning, everything is made to seem ominous. Even the packing of a U-Haul — dresser, chair, bicycle — is made to seem dark. When the protagonist, Jessica Swanson, is unable to take her potted plant, we know we are in dangerous territory. Her first word is “Sorry” — a response to honking horns as she sits at a changed light. “Sorry” doesn’t begin to describe what is ahead for her.

After five minutes of driving, the screen goes black and a spindly “The Road” appears.

This is the first of multiple titles that have been added for apparently no reason other than to give a certain pretention to an otherwise standard horror film.

On “The Road,” she is nearly driven off by a car that slows down, then speeds up, causing a near miss with an oncoming truck. Shortly after, a call to her father reveals that she left her apartment for “a reason.” In the motel, she scrolls through photos on her tablet, showing her with her late husband. Later, in a phone call with her mother, the “reason” is revealed to be six months in the past.

The next morning, the man who tried to run her off the road, introduces himself and apologizes. Everything is done to make him look both benign and frightening. Sandy hair, huge moustache, aviator frames. Chatty and pleasant with his arm in a sling, he’s just asking too many questions.

Either one of two directions are inevitable.

It will be a game of cat-and-mouse on the highway or she will be abducted. A flat tire is

the catalyst for the latter course. He attacks and drugs her.

When she wakes up, she is locked in an empty basement with morning light streaming through the single, barred window. When he finally enters the room, she begs for her life. She promises if he lets her go; she won’t say anything. His response is an off-hand “Do you think you’re the first one to say that?,” one of the few genuinely chilling moments.

It is in captivity that we find Marc Menchaca plays a creepy serial killer in Alone out her late husband’s fate. The Photo courtesy of Magnet Releasing imprisonment doesn’t last long. She escapes and the rest of the movie is spent with The film is basically a two-hander. the man in pursuit of Jessica.

Anthony Heald, a fine actor in all he does, What is revealed, in a cleverly pedestrian makes the most of a minor role as a friendly call from home, is that he is not a backwoods hunter. While it’s just a bit longer than a recluse but a husband and father with a cameo, it does lend a bit of texture to the deadly and perverse secret life. However, his extended chase. attempts at psychological torture are clumsy So much is played in the dark that it’s and almost laughable. Just past the halfway shadow and shift and voices. In addition, mark, he is given a great big mess of a every sound is amplified, including the monologue that borders on parody. Better placing of a gasoline hose into the tank, the he should have stayed the strong silent type. rattle of the car, the creaking of the trees in Well, weird silent type anyway. the wind. The soundtrack provides every What works is Jessica doesn’t make the emphasis and sting that could possibly be classic scream queen decisions. She does squeezed in. everything she can to keep herself safe, The movie is not without tension and, including calling 911. She is as resourceful as overall, it is decently shot. The problem is she can be, brave, and pretty smart. that it seems interminable. Since there is Jules Willcox is strong as Jessica. Both in little character development, it is hard to action and in stillness, she seems completely invest and, in the long run, feels laborious. connected to her surroundings. She brings There is a great deal of filler with wandering both grounding and believability to her through forest and hills, all darkly verdant performance. and overgrown.

Marc Menchaca is less successful as the man.

The final confrontation has an interesting At first, the “aww, shucks” quality works but his twist with a cell phone — but it’s all just too shift into villain is mechanical and uninspired. late in coming. Alone is probably better left For a man leading a dual life, one would expect … alone. him to be have a intriguing persona.

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Three Village Historical Society's Spirits Tour goes virtual this year It's a sign of the times. The Three Village Historical Society's 26th annual Spirits Cemetery Tour has gone virtual with a spooky stroll through yesteryear.

From Oct. 23 to Nov. 1, visitors to the Society's website (www.tvhs.org) will be able to "Meander Through Memories" and enjoy a past Spirits Tour from 2008. Carolyn Hendrickson Strong (actor Holly Brainard), local resident and member of the first graduating class of female Army nurses, who valiantly served during both World War I and the flu pandemic of 1918-1920, has graciously agreed to guide viewers into the past.

The Spirits Cemetery Tour is an annual event that functions as the introduction to the Society’s traditional fundraising season.

Guides take groups of visitors through the Setauket Presbyterian and Caroline church cemeteries, where they interact with “spirits” who lived and died in the Three Village area. Dressed in a manner befitting the time and place from which they hail, these travelers regale audiences with tales of what their lives were like decades, even centuries, ago.

Due to COVID-19, the tour cannot proceed as it has in previous years. So, the

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virtual tour is a way for individuals to enjoy a remote walk through history and support the Society. Strong will introduce viewers to citizens of the past — John Willse (John Broven); Celia Swezey Hawkins (Elizabeth Kahn Kaplan); Rachel Tobias Holland

Hart (Nellie Edwards); Maria Smith Williamson (Stephanie Carsten); Reverend Zachariah Greene (Eric Waxman); and Captain Eleazer Hawkins (Chuck Glaser).

Filmed on location in the cemeteries, these costumed interpreters of history reminisce

about stories of triumph and tragedy, wonder and woe.

During the pandemic, the Society has moved its activities online, providing digital educational content, including interactive videos and a blog covering a variety of topics pertaining to the history of Long Island and New Yorkers of note. The Society has had to reimagine its fundraising efforts while striving to continue its mission for the public.

As a 501c3 nonprofit, the Society exists to educate people about this area’s rich cultural heritage as well as foster and preserve local history. It relies on donations and money raised through events and programs to support its educational initiatives throughout the year. Upon its launch on Oct. 23, the tour video will be available to the general public.

Although digital, the experience will still be immersive, as the audience gets to witness and listen to dearly departed residents speak through the actors portraying them.

So, come meander through memories.

Donations are suggested and appreciated.

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MEDICAL COMPASS

Recognizing and addressing acute pancreatitis

Lifestyle changes can reduce your risk

Acute pancreatitis is the most frequent gastrointestinal cause for patients to be admitted to a hospital (1). Typically, severe abdominal pain is what compels patients to go to the emergency room.

A rudimentary definition of pancreatitis is an inflammation of the pancreas. There are both acute and chronic forms. Acute pancreatitis, which is what we will address, is abrupt and of short duration. Acute types are characterized as

By David mild, moderately Dunaief, M.D. severe and severe.

Those with the mild type don’t experience organ failure or local complications, while those with moderately severe acute pancreatitis experience short-term or transient (less than 48 hours) organ failure and/or local complications.

Those with the severe type have persistent organ failure (2).

Symptoms of acute pancreatitis

To diagnosis this disease, the American College of Gastroenterology guidelines suggest that two of three symptoms be present. The three symptoms include severe abdominal pain; enzymes (amylase or lipase) that are at least three times greater than normal; and radiologic imaging that shows characteristic disease findings (3). Most of the time, the abdominal pain is in the central upper abdomen near the stomach, and it may also present with pain in the right upper quadrant of the abdomen (4). Approximately 90 percent of patients also experience nausea and vomiting (5). In half of patients, there is also pain that radiates to the back.

Risk factors

Acute pancreatitis risk factors include gallstones, alcohol, obesity and, to a much lesser degree, drugs. Gallstones and alcohol may cause up to 75 percent of the cases (2). Many other cases of acute pancreatitis are considered idiopathic (of unknown cause). Although medications are potentially responsible for between 1.4 and 5.3 percent of cases, making it rare, the number of medications implicated is diverse (6, 7). These include certain classes of diabetes therapies, some antibiotics — metronidazole (Flagyl) and tetracycline — and immunosuppressive drugs used to treat ailments like autoimmune diseases. Even calcium may potentially increase risk.

Surgical treatments

Veggies such as broccoli , cauliflower, cabbage and brussel sprouts provide easily absorbable nutrients needed to support the pancreas.

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Obesity’s role

In a study using the Swedish Mammography Cohort and the Cohort of Swedish Men, results showed that central obesity is an important risk factor, not body mass index or obesity overall (8).

In other words, it is the fat in the belly that is very important, since this may increase risk more than twofold for the occurrence of a first-time acute pancreatitis episode. Those who had a waist circumference of greater than 105 cm (41 inches) experienced this significantly increased risk compared to those who had a waist circumference of 75 to 85 cm (29.5 to 33.5 inches). The association between central obesity and acute pancreatitis occurred in both gallbladder-induced and non-gallbladder-induced disease.

A more recent meta-analysis of 19 studies including almost 10,000 patients showed a direct association between BMI and acute pancreatitis severity and mortality (9). Those with a BMI over 25 had an almost three-fold increased risk of severe acute pancreatitis, when compared with those who had a normal BMI, and a BMI over 30 was associated with a three-times greater risk of mortality than those with a BMI under this threshold.

Diabetes risks

The pancreas is a critical organ for balancing glucose (sugar) in the body. In a meta-analysis (24 observational trials), results showed that more than one-third of patients diagnosed with acute pancreatitis went on to develop prediabetes or diabetes (10). Within the first year, 15 percent of patients were newly diagnosed with diabetes. After five years, the risk of diabetes increased 2.7-fold. By reducing the risk of pancreatitis, we may also help reduce the risk of diabetes.

Gallstones and gallbladder sludge are major risk factors, accounting for 35 to 40 percent of acute pancreatitis incidences (11).

Gallstones are thought to cause pancreatitis by temporarily blocking the duct shared by the pancreas and gallbladder that leads into the small intestine. When the liver enzyme ALT is elevated threefold (measured through a simple blood test), it has a positive predictive value of 95 percent that it is indeed gallstone-induced pancreatitis (12).

If it is gallstone-induced, surgery plays an important role in helping to resolve pancreatitis and prevent recurrence. In a retrospective study with 102 patients, results showed that surgery to remove the gallbladder was better than medical treatment when comparing hospitalized patients with this disease (13).

Surgery trumped medical treatment in terms of outcomes, complication rates, length of stay in the hospital and overall cost for patients with mild acute pancreatitis.

Can diet have an impact?

The short answer is: Yes. What foods specifically? In a large, prospective observational study, results showed that there was a direct linear relationship between those who consumed vegetables and a decreased risk of non-gallstone acute pancreatitis (14). For every two servings of vegetables, there was 17 percent drop in the risk of pancreatitis. Those who consumed the most vegetables — the highest quintile (4.6 servings per day) — had a 44 percent reduction in disease risk, compared to those who were in the lowest quintile (0.8 servings per day). There were 80,000 participants involved in the study with an 11year follow-up. The authors surmise that the reason for this effect with vegetables may have to do with their antioxidant properties, since acute pancreatitis increases oxidative stress on the pancreas.

References:

(1) Gastroenterology. 2013 Jun; 144(6): 1252–1261. (2) Gastroenterol. 2013 Sep; 108(9):1400-1415. (3) Am Fam Physician.

2014 Nov 1;90(9):632-639. (4) JAMA. 2004;291:2865-2868. (5) Am J Gastroenterol.

2006;101:2379-2400. (6) Gut. 1995;37:565567. (7) Dig Dis Sci. 2010;55:2977-2981. (8) Am J Gastroenterol. 2013;108:133-139. (9) World J Gastroenterol. 2019 Feb 14; 25(6): 729–743. (10) Gut. 2014;63:818-831. (11) Gastroenterology. 2007;132:2022-2044. (12) Am J Gastroenterol. 1994;89:1863-1866. (13) Am J Surg online. 2014 Sept. 20. (14) Gut. 2013;62:1187-1192.

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The Smithtown Historical Society, 239 E. Main St., Smithtown is looking for committed, long-term volunteers to join them in preserving local history. Opportunities are available for children's programming, beautification/decorating, buildings and groundskeeping, special events and more.

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Pumpkin Patch sprouts in Lake Grove

Lake Ronkonkonka United Methodist Church, 792 Hawkins Ave., Lake Grove will hold a pumpkin patch fundraiser through Oct. 31. Hours are 2 to 8 p.m. weekdays, Saturdays from 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. and Sundays from noon to 8 p.m. Come find your perfect pumpkin just in time for Halloween!

Call 631-588-5856 for more information.

Seeking volunteers

Sweetbriar Nature Center, 62 Eckernkamp Drive, Smithtown seeks volunteers to help out at its upcoming events — Halloween Spooktacular on Oct. 23 and 24 from 6 to 10:30 p.m. and Tails, Trails and Treats on Oct. 31 from noon to 3:30 p.m. Please email Veronica if interested in volunteering for either of these dates at vsswbriarnc@aol.com.

Festival of Trees sponsors needed

The 2020 Festival of Trees will be celebrated through the month of December in the Port Jefferson Village Center. For a sponsor fee of $250, community members are invited to decorate a pre-lit tree (provided by the chamber) of their own. A sponsor is responsible for acquiring all decorations to be used on the display. Materials and the labor required to decorate the tree are your contribution. Tree decorations and displays are the property of the decorator. The tree itself will remain the property of Port Jefferson Village. For more info, call the Greater Port Jefferson Chamber of Commerce at 631-473-1414 or email at info@portjeffchamber.com.

Vendors wanted

Newfield High School, 145 Marshall Drive, Selden hosts an outdoor Craft & Gift Fair on Sunday, Nov. 1 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. to benefit the Middle Country Athletic Booster Club. Vendor applications are available at www.depasmarket.com. Call 631-846-1459.

Epilepsy workshop

Northwell Health hosts a webinar titled “The Role of Neuropsychology in Epilepsy Care” via Zoom on Tuesday, Oct. 27 from 6:30 to 7:30 p.m. Join Erica Meltzer, Ph.D., Clinical Neuropsychologist, to learn more about neuropsychology and its role in the treatment of people with epilepsy. Free but pre-registration is required at https://bit. ly/3cfGMkS. For more info, call 516-7397733, option 4, or email jromeo@epicli.org.

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KNOWLEDGE SEEKERS

CSHL’s Partha Mitra uses AI to track brain neurons Harnessing the Technology of our Research Giants

BY DANIEL DUNAIEF Throw a giant, twisted multicolored ball of yarn on the floor, each strand of which contains several different colored parts.

Now, imagine that the yarn, instead of being easy to grasp, has small, thin, short intertwined strings. It would be somewhere between difficult and impossible to tease apart each string.

Instead of holding the strings and looking at each one, you might want to construct a computer program that sorted through the pile.

That’s what Partha Mitra, a professor at Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory, is doing, although he has constructed an artificial intelligence program to look for different parts of neurons, such as axons, dendrites and soma, in high resolution images.

Working with two dimensional images which form a three dimensional stock, he and a team of scientists have performed a process called semantic segmentation, in which they delineated all the different neuronal compartments in an image.

Scientists who design machine learning programs generally take two approaches: they either train the machine to learn from data or they tailor them based on prior knowledge. “There is a larger debate going on in the machine learning community,” Mitra said.

His effort attempts to take this puzzle to the next step, which hybridizes the earlier efforts, attempting to learn from the data with some prior knowledge structure built in. “We are moving away from the purely data driven” approach, he explained.

Mitra and his colleagues recently published a paper about their artificial intelligence-driven neuroanatomy work in the journal Nature Machine Intelligence.

SPOTLIGHTING DISCOVERIES AT (1) COLD SPRING HARBOR LAB (2) STONY BROOK UNIVERSITY & (3) BROOKHAVEN NATIONAL LAB

For postmortem human brains, one challenge is that few wholebrain light microscopic data sets exist. For those that do exist, the amount of data is large enough to tax available resources.

Indeed, the total amount of storage to study one brain at light microscope resolution is one petabyte of data, which amounts to a million megapixel images.

“We need an automated method,” Mitra said. “We are on the threshold of where we are getting data a cellular resolution of the human brain. You need these techniques” for that discovery.

Researchers are on the verge of getting more whole-brain data sets more routinely.

Mitra is interested in the mesoscale architecture, or the way groups of neurons are laid out in the brain. This is the scale at which species-typical structures are visible. Individual cells would show strong variation from one individual to another. At the mesoscale, however, researchers expect the same architecture in brains of different neurotypical individuals of the same species.

Trained as a physicist, Mitra likes the concreteness of the data and the fact that neuroanatomical structure is not as contingent on subtle experimental protocol differences.

He said behavioral and neural activity measurements can depend on how researchers set up their study and appreciates the way anatomy provides physical and architectural maps of brain cells.

The amount of data neuroanatomists have collected exceeds the ability of these specialists to interpret it, in part because of the reduction in cost of storing the information. In 1989, a human brain worth of light microscope data would have cost approximately the entire budget

Partha Mitra at the Owl Cafe in Tokyo

for the National Institutes of Health based on the expense of hard disk storage at the time. Today, Mitra can buy that much data storage every year with a small fraction of his NIH grant.

“There has been a very big change in our ability to store and digitize data,” he said.

“What we don’t have is a million neuroanatomists looking at this. The data has exploded in a systematic way. We can’t [interpret and understand] it unaided by the computer.”

Mitra described the work as a “small technical piece of a larger enterprise,” as the group tries to address whether it’s possible to automate what a neuroanatomist does. Through this work, he hopes computers might discover common principals of the anatomy and construction of neurons in the brain.

While the algorithms and artificial intelligence will aid in the process, Mitra doesn’t expect the research to lead to a fully automated process. Rather, this work has the potential to accelerate the process of studying neuroanatomy.

Down the road, this kind of understanding could enable researchers and ultimately health care professionals to compare the architecture and circuitry of brains from people with various diseases or conditions with those

of people who aren’t battling any neurological or cognitive issues.

“There’s real potential to looking at” the brains of people who have various challenges, Mitra said.

The paper in Nature Machine Intelligence reflected a couple of years of work that Mitra and others did in parallel with other research pursuits.

A resident of Midtown, Mitra, his wife Tatiana and their sevenyear-old daughter have done considerable walking around the city during the pandemic.

The couple created a virtual exhibit for the New York Hall of Science in the Children’s Science Museum in which they described amazing brains. A figurative sculptor, Tatiana provided the artwork for the exhibition.

Mitra, who has been at Cold Spring Harbor Laboratory since 2003, said neuroanatomy has become increasingly popular over the last several years. He would like to enhance the ability of the artificial intelligence program in this field.

“I would like to eliminate the human proofreading,” he said.

“We are still actively working on the methodology.”

Using topological methods, Mitra has also traced single neurons. He has published that work through a preprint in bioRxiv.

Horoscopes of the week SCORPIO – Oct 24/Nov 22 Romantic vibes are very strong in your life right now, Scorpio. This is great if you’re connected or seeking a relationship. But resist if you’re currently unavailable.

SAGITTARIUS – Nov 23/Dec 21 Sagittarius, your domestic life may start to tug at your heartstrings. If you’re balancing work and family, you may regret not spending more time with the kids.

CAPRICORN – Dec 22/Jan 20 Capricorn, if you have been quiet in regard to a relationship with someone, it’s time to let your true feelings be heard. It may be uncomfortable for a bit, but it’s necessary.

AQUARIUS – Jan 21/Feb 18 Aquarius, money may is a hot topic in your house lately, particularly how more is going out than coming in. Corral your spending for awhile as you get things under control.

PISCES – Feb 19/Mar 20 Pisces, you’re never one for following the pack, so don’t start now. Embrace your unique sense of self and continue to march to your own beat.

ARIES – Mar 21/Apr 20 Carve out some time to tune into your inner muse, Aries. It’s time to have a little fun and put work and household responsibilities to the side.

TAURUS – Apr 21/May 21 Taurus, don’t blow off your obligations, but find a way to make work more fun. That may happen by teaming up with a coworker who shares your perspective.

GEMINI – May 22/Jun 21 Gemini, if things get a little confusing over the next couple of days, don’t feel the need to try to figure everything out. Take the time you need to complete the tasks at hand.

CANCER – Jun 22/Jul 22 Cancer, while you may not be able to engage in all of your wildest dreams this week, you can give yourself permission to take a day off and get started.

LEO – Jul 23/Aug 23 Are your intuitive senses ringing off the hook, Leo? Trust your gut when someone asks you to help them with a situation. It may not be all that it seems right now.

VIRGO – Aug 24/Sept 22 Give your analytical brain a rest for the time being, Virgo. Lead with feelings and intuition instead. It may not feel comfortable just yet, but a new perspective may help.

LIBRA – Sept 23/Oct 23 Libra, if you have been trying to be more healthy or get in shape, focus on what you’re gaining rather than giving up. This can make you more successful in your endeavors.

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Drive-Thru Wellness Day It’s time to turn in those unused and expired prescription medications sitting in the bathroom cabinet. The Town of Brookhaven Council 1 Drug Prevention Coalition and the Center for Prevention and Outreach’s SB IMPACT Coalition through Stony Brook University’s Student Health, Wellness and Prevention Services will be hosting a Drive-Thru Wellness Day to support a healthy, drug-free community during Red Ribbon Week.

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What is the role of an attorney in a real estate closing?

On Saturday, Oct. 24 from 10 a.m. until 2 p.m., visitors can turn in their old prescriptions for safe disposal and celebrate National Prescription Drug Take Back Day at the Port Jefferson/ Terryville Chamber Train Car, located at the southeast corner of route 112 and 347. Cars enter on Rose Ave. Free masks and hand sanitizer will be given out, and a food drive will be collecting to benefit local food pantries.

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A “closing” in legal lingo is the final step in a real estate transaction. A real estate closing is when the purchaser obtains title to the property, evidenced by a deed from the seller to the purchaser or stock in a cooperative apartment.

Simultaneously, the seller obtains the net proceeds from the sale. This event is usually attended by the seller, purchaser, their respective attorneys, the title closer, the bank attorney (if the purchaser has obtained financing) and the real estate agents.

In our post-COVID world, closings have looked a little different BY NANCY BURNER, ESQ. with closings occurring by mail, with parties pre-signing documents and agents not attending closings.

What an attorney does during the closing depends on which party he or she represents.

Ideally, all of the complications have been worked out before the parties get to the closing table, although occasionally an issue will arise during the final walk-thru of the property that will need to be addressed.

If there is a bank attorney, he or she is required to have all of the numbers ahead of time so that they can complete the closing disclosure that will provide a detailed itemization of all fees to be paid at the closing and an exact number that the borrower/purchaser will be paying and the seller will be receiving.

The bank attorney provides the documentation required by the bank to be signed by the borrower/purchaser and provides

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funding only when the title company provides a loan policy to the lender.

The seller’s attorney is responsible for preparing the deed and governmental transfer documents which will be signed at the closing by the parties and for obtaining any payoffs and appropriate checks to pay the liens or judgments that may have been presented in the title report against the property or the seller.

The seller’s attorney will typically ask for bank checks for these items to be provided by the purchaser which will be deducted from the total proceeds owed.

The title closer will make sure that any mortgage, judgments or liens are paid off and that any new mortgage will be recorded along with the deed. The purchaser will leave with only a copy of the deed as it will be recorded by the title closer in the county clerk’s office once the closing has concluded.

The title company insures the purchaser as to the ownership and also the lender that their mortgage has priority and is valid. Once the title closer is satisfied with the documentation and has provided the title policies, the closing is officially concluded and the purchaser will be provided with the keys and the seller will receive the checks.

The purchaser’s attorney is responsible for having the purchaser bring the correct checks to the table, explain the lender’s documents, and ensure that the title company is insuring the purchaser’s title to the property.

As you can see, there are sometimes three attorneys present at a residential closing, each with different roles. The main role for any attorney you retain is to protect your interests — whether you are the buyer, seller or the bank.

Nancy Burner, Esq. practices elder law and estate planning from her East Setauket office.

Vanderbilt Museum invites essential workers as guests

The Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport will thank first responders, frontline workers, and their families by offering them complimentary admission on Saturday and Sunday, Oct. 24 and 25, from noon to 5 p.m.

“We salute the brave men and women who make sacrifices and face danger every day to respond to emergencies, work the front lines, and keep us safe during the COVID-19 pandemic,” said Elizabeth Wayland-Morgan, executive director of the Vanderbilt.

Sponsored by Northwell Health, police and firefighters, emergency medical technicians, teachers and school employees, utility and healthcare workers, cashiers in

grocery and general merchandise stores, truck drivers, and people who work in foodprocessing, maintenance, and agriculture will be able to visit The Hall of Fishes, the collections galleries and the wild-animal dioramas. Guests will be asked for ID cards or proof of affiliation.

“We’re offering free admission because these people are our neighbors and they provide essential services,” WaylandMorgan said. “They risk physical injury and exposure to toxic substances and to the coronavirus,” she said. “It’s hard on their spouses, families and children. A fun day at the Vanderbilt is one way to thank them.”

For more information, call 631-8545579 or visit www.vanderbiltmuseum.org.

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Pumpkin Mania hits Port Jefferson

Photos by Kyle Barr and Barbara Ransome The Port Jefferson Chamber of Commerce and the Port Jefferson Business Improvement District hosted Pumpkin Mania, a fun Halloween event featuring professional pumpkin carving demonstrations by Ian Cinco, right, of Maniac Pumpkin Carvers LLC and a carved pumpkin contest on East Main Street in Port Jefferson Oct. 17.

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COVER STORY

Setauket Artists' Exhibition celebrates 40th year F alling leaves and cooler weather signal the arrival of the Setauket Artists' annual fine art exhibit at the Setauket Neighborhood House. Now in its 40th year, the event will be held from Oct. 25 to Nov. 17.

What an exciting time for the organization where many of the artists have been together since the very beginning!

Exhibiting artists include Ross Barbera, Ron Becker, Eleanor Berger, Rina Betro, Joan Bloom, Kyle Blumenthal, Joyce Bressler, Renee Caine, Al Candia, Gail L. Chase, Anthony Davis, Julie Doczi, William Dodge, Marge Governale, William Graf, Melissa Imossi, Anne Katz, Flo Kemp, Karen Kemp, Celeste Mauro, Judith Mausner, Lorraine McCormick, Jane McGraw-Teubner, Terry McManus, Eleanor Meier, Fred Mendelsohn, Muriel Musarra, Iacopo Pasquinelli, Paula Pelletier, Joe Reboli, Dino Rinaldi, Joan Rockwell, Robert Roehrig, Irene Ruddock, Carole Link Scinta, Barbara Jeanne Siegel, Angela Stratton, Marie Lourdes Velez, Marlene Weinstein and Patricia Yantz.

Founded by Flo Kemp, the organization has been led by the group's president Irene Ruddock for the last 15 years. “The health of our artists and community members are

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most important so we were not planning an in-person show. However, after learning that the New York State allowed art shows if all the guide lines were strictly followed, we decided to go ahead with our celebration," said Ms. Ruddock. "Fellow artist, Dr. Frederick Mendelsohn is chairing the safety committee to ensure that all precautions are taken," she added.

A grand opening reception is scheduled for Sunday, Oct. 25 from noon to 4 p.m. and the group will host two open house weekends, Nov. 7 and 8 and Nov. 14 and 15 from 10 a.m.

to 5 p.m. Two oil paintings, "Eventide" by Margaret Governale and "Poquott Boats" by Al Candia, will be raffled off.

"We will be requiring social distancing of six feet, the wearing of masks, regular sanitizing, and allowing only a certain number of people in at a time as well as many other suggested NYS procedures," said Dr. Mendelsohn.

Art lover Fred Bryant is honoring the organization again by being its sponsor which will pay for many of the organizations many expenses. This year, because of COVID, the

organization needed an outdoor tent with heaters and pre-packaged snacks for people waiting to enter the show. "Fred’s generous contribution will certainly help defray those costs," said Ms. Ruddock.

The outside tent with heaters will become the waiting area where smaller paintings and unframed paintings and prints will be exhibited. Light refreshments that are individually wrapped will be offered.

Every year, the artists choose an artist whom they honor. This year’s award goes to watercolorist Anne Katz. Ms. Katz is treasurer of the organization as well as being responsible for the brochure. “Anne is truly dedicated to this organization, a person who absolutely never says no to any request! We wonder how we would ever do without her. Her work in watercolor and oil is art at its best-luminous light with a joyous tone that speaks to her love of local Long Island scenes," said Ms. Ruddock.

The Setauket Neighborhood House, 95 Main St., Setauket presents the 40th annual Setauket Artists' Exhibition daily from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. from Oct. 25 to Nov. 17 (closed Oct. 30 and 31). For more information, visit www. setauketartists.com.

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COOKING COVE

Going apple picking? Then what?

Add apples and onions to pot and cook, stirring occasionally, until onions are golden brown and apples are soft, about 3 to 4 minutes.

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BY BARBARA BELTRAMI One of the best things to do this season is go apple picking. Even though you still have to wear a mask and social distance (even from the limb of a tree!), it’s outdoors and the air is fresh. But after you unload your trunk with your harvest and stagger inside with those apples, then what do you do with them? For most of us, the first thought is to munch them as we scuffle through leaves during an autumn walk or faithfully shove them in the lunch bags. If we’re feeling ambitious we might bake an apple pie or make applesauce. Those are all fine, but there are so many other things to do with apples. What about cooking them with cabbage and serving them with pork chops? A spicy apple cake? An apple-fennel salad? Take your pick! (pun intended)

Apple and Cabbage-Smothered Pork Chops

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This cake couldn’t be easier and will keep for days if everyone doesn’t gobble it up.

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NATURE MATTERS

Garden Observations

BY JOHN L. TURNER

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have always wanted to have a vegetable garden with fruit trees and bushes to grow food for my family, but the Nassau County house we lived in for 35 years, unfortunately, just didn’t have the yard space. In that small space my effort at growing veggies and herbs was restricted to pots of tomatoes and basil on a wooded back deck and I simply had no room for bushes or trees.

But moving to Setauket, on a property with a long back yard, gave ample opportunity to construct a large garden, and construct I did.

Surfing the Internet in general, and Pinterest specifically, I scrutinized dozens of different designs, layouts, and materials before finally settling on the idea of two raised, double concrete block beds, one in the shape of the letter “S”, the other its mirror image and one more rectangular bed in the front (I’ve since expanded the garden about 50% by adding on two wings).

I liked the idea of the concrete blocks because it meant not having to spend so much time with 65-year-old knees on the ground, concrete because it will never rot out and need to be replaced, and because I could plant herbs in the hollows of the blocks.

The S-letter configuration would allow easy access to any part of the two beds. I planted twenty blueberry and twelve raspberry and blackberry bushes along with a very young fig tree around the garden’s perimeter. A peach and Italian Plum tree are on order.

I had several motivations for the garden. I have long wanted to live more sustainably and one way to do that is to eat healthy, pesticideand fertilizer-free foods close to where they’re produced. Well, I never use pesticides or fertilizers and I couldn’t get much closer than

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the 200-foot distance between the garden and kitchen. And given the omnipresence of the COVID pandemic and its regular and depressing drumbeat of death filling the world with despair, I needed to participate in something that was life affirming and enriching. I had embraced the saying: “When the world wearies and society fails to satisfy, there is always the garden.”

There is another garden saying: “There are no gardening mistakes, only experiments.”

Well, I conducted my first “experiment” when I planted too many plants too close together, ensuring a vegetable jungle in the weeks and months ahead. The beans didn’t behave themselves despite my effort to “grow them vertical," climbing on everything around them and their viny web and the tomato tangles made it a wee bit difficult to get some of the beans and cherry tomatoes once ripe.

Despite the tangle creating more shade than is preferable, all was good though and the eggplants (graffiti, Japanese, American) tomatoes (Beefsteak, heirloom, and two types of cherry), squash (Spaghetti, Butternut, zucchini), cucumbers, artichokes, strawberries, broccoli romanesco, one lonely artichoke bought on a whim, collard greens, beets, kale, swiss chard, corn, many types of melons, numerous pepper varieties, leeks, and basil filled the beds. Herbs I diligently planted in the hollows of the blocks included parsley, sage, rosemary, and thyme (an ode to Simon and Garfunkel), dill, mint, chocolate mint, lavender, cilantro, and oregano.

Watching countless YouTube videos about vegetable gardening I soon learned the value in “going vertical” as a means to incorporate more veggies. So to add vertical dimension to the garden I arched cattle panels — four foot

wide, sixteen foot long meshed metal fences Birds were omnipresent throughout — over the paths, connecting to the beds. the gardening season. A pair of red-tailed The panels provided a surface for the squash, hawks, screeching overhead, gave cause to beans, and tomatoes to grow on, thereby gaze skyward; this pair bred, I think, in using space more efficiently and allowing me the nearby state-owned Patriots Hollow to plant more veggies in the beds. property. Catbirds regularly “meowed” from All was good until the local deer paid a the bushes around me and a mockingbird visit. The first night they were surreptitious, regaled in song on a daily basis amidst the revealing their presence with only a scattered sweet whistling song of Baltimore Orioles. hoof prints in the beds and a few nipped Both Carolina Wrens and Song Sparrows peppers. And here I made a true mistake. often perched on the panel arches, probably Applying human and clearly noneyeing which tomato they were deer logic, I assumed the deer Often the veggies going to pierce! Speaking of discovered the garden, explored never made it perched birds on panels — as I it, and made the decision that to the house — was harvesting cherry tomatoes given their very modest amount on an October morning Emmy, occasionally a of damage, that it generally wasn’t one of my Springer Spaniels, to their liking. Well, the next night salt shaker would flushed a bird from the ground. It they returned and “liked” it a lot accompany me to flew toward me and momentarily more, in fact I might use the word the garden. perched on the top of a cattle love — they devastated the peppers panel. Suddenly and delightfully, and beets, and ate all of the broccoli and the three feet away at eye level was a resplendent swiss chard but one. With the help of my son male Black-throated Blue Warbler. Eye candy Travis, a Rube Goldberg style, yet effective in the garden. eight foot high deer fence was soon installed We found great joy in harvesting the and has worked like a charm since. bounty of vegetables and using them in One unexpected result in the garden various recipes. Swiss chard with raisins and were the appearance of mystery veggies and pine nuts, collard greens with turkey bacon, fruits I never planted, springing up in places various eggplant dishes, sautéed peppers and where I didn’t plant them. Indicating the leeks, roasted tomatoes and beets, and fresh presence of seeds in the eight yards of topsoil/ blueberries were but a few of the meals the compost mix I used to fill the beds were some “back 40”provided. Often the veggies never cantaloupes, melons, and tomato varieties I made it to the house — occasionally a salt hadn’t bought. At first I was confused and shaker would accompany me to the garden. then it dawned on me — unless screened I'm not sure there’s anything tastier than very well there are a lot of seeds in soil, as a sweetened, freshly picked cherry tomato evidenced by how quickly neglected dirt piles sprinkled with a little dash of salt. at construction sites start to sprout growth.

I also found joy in composting. All the There was enormous satisfaction for veggie discards from food prep ended up in starting something and then letting nature a large jar regularly brought to the compost go at it. I marveled at the rapid growth of bin. With each jar dump the product of this the plants, their strength and vitality, as they year’s garden was being recycled, for use as prospered due to the simple combination of a soil supplement next year, connecting this adequate water, ample sunlight, and rich soil. year to the next. I felt good about this, in Within a month eggplants, two inch high knowing I wasn’t adding waste to the garbage plants when planted, had grown to three feet stream the town picks up at curbside which and started blossoming in multitudes, their is incinerated with the ash being dumped beautiful purple petals the texture of tissue at the town landfill, but rather was used to paper contrasting with the bright yellow make soil that will nurture the growth of pistils. Tomatoes grew six to eight feet in two future plants. months and squash, adorned with brilliant After the first year, I’ve learned a lot about flowers, rested atop the archways. Melons and gardening; things done well and things done cucumbers splayed this way and that. By late poorly, some reflecting beginner’s luck while summer life was riotous in the garden. others were gained through experience and And the scents and smells — basil, thyme insight. What is most clear to me is that I and rosemary, in full sunlight, effervescing obtained so much more than a bounty of tasty aromas into the air around them, the vegetables as I too gained a bounty of lessons, addictive smell of the good earth when experiences and memories. This reminded trowel intrudes the surface to make room me of one last quote by a gardener who noted: for planting a small pepper plant filled with “I like gardening. It’s a place where I find so much promise. And the taste of vine-ripe myself when I need to lose myself.” tomatoes, so tomatoey (is that a word?)

A resident of Setauket, John Turner is conservation chair filling both palate and nose with the unique of the Four Harbors Audubon Society, author of “Exploring smell of this ubiquitous member of the the Other Island: A Seasonal Nature Guide to Long Island” nightshade family. and president of Alula Birding & Natural History Tours.

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BOOK REVIEW

When brush and lens meet

Authors Ward Hooper and Holly Gordon REVIEWED BY JEFFREY SANZEL ‘It was uncanny how we discovered that similar subject matter had attracted our attention, as did our affinity for color and light.

When Ward explained that he changed color, moved things around and added and replaced shapes according to his inner vision, I laughed and replied that that was exactly how I created my images! Parallels between his painting and my photography continued to reveal themselves as our relationship developed. Pure serendipity … or were we destined to meet?’

— Holly Gordon he word “celebration” echoes within Parallel Perspectives (City Point Press), and that word — “celebration” — perfectly reflects the work of Holly Gordon and Ward Hooper. The book celebrates the extraordinary joining of an aesthetic. It shows the work of these exceptional artists, but, like in all great art, it is impossible to fully define. The fusion of these talents is alchemical. Striking, beautiful, mesmerizing on their own … but together, something that is harmoniously “more than.”

In her preface to the book, Denise Bibro uses words like “combustible” and “urgency” contrasted with “companionship.” How these disparate concepts came together is what the Gordon-Hooper connection is about.

As Peter Pitzele sites in his foreword: “Far from wishing to mark how different brush is from lens, I think Holly Gordon and Ward Hooper say something about how the two can relate to one another as dancers rather than adversaries.” The idea of unification rather than the conflict is what creates the synergy in their works. He takes this further: “If one thinks of color metaphorically as

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having, say, a musical quality, then part of what you ‘hear’ in their work is their harmonies, the color duets, their riffs …”

As a rule, the visual arts — as opposed to the performing arts — are a solo venture. It is an isolating endeavor, even after creation. Here, the creative impulse has found a complementary existence for two exceptional and exceptionally bold artists, and Parallel Perspectives gives insight into its root and growth.

On a personal level, art — and this collaboration — was a lifesaver. Their work brought them together when they were both dealing with challenging life-events. A brief sketch is offered on their individual histories before focusing on their joint ventures.

Hooper, who lives in Northport, was a package designer and design director in New York City. Sketches made on the LIRR grew to bold watercolors, influenced by the “West Coast School” (Brandt, Wood, Kingman, etc.).

He painted for many years, winning awards and having his work published. When his wife became ill, he stopped painting to care for her.

“My wounds were still open from my wife’s death when Holly walked into my life.”

Gordon was first given a camera at 5 years old, and the photographic passion has stayed with her ever since. The Bay Shore resident studied and created art throughout her entire life. But it was her husband’s sudden death that brought her back more intensely to photography. “Traveling at every opportunity, I photographed my way throughout the world with no preconceived

notions it would lead anywhere except to keep me afloat during this turbulent time.”

In 2001, she began working with a digital camera and this expanded her range of styles.

Gordon and Hooper were brought together by a journalist who had written about them independently but was unaware of their personal struggles. Gordon first saw Hooper’s work — his painting Long Island City — on Facebook and immediately thought of her own Night Lights. She reached out to him to see if he saw a correlation.

Thus began dialogue that led to a meeting.

“Here were two strangers,” says Hooper “serendipitously brought together who found that within our own individuality and mediums of expression, we had been living, working, and creating in parallel lives.”

Throughout the book, they share artistic as well as personal anecdotes. These include frustrations born of health issues. The mutual support in this unique and intimate relationship is honestly disclosed.

The book offers not just the finished works but the preliminary sketches and photos that would metamorphize into fully realized pieces. This glimpse behind the curtain further enhances the richness of the book’s offerings.

Noted is the similarity with the collaborative work of artists Arthur Dove and Helen Torr.

Much of this is neatly clarified by Bree Shirvell, who also provides excellent perspective on the mediums and their historical significance.

Gordon’s photo-liminalism (creating layers by adding and removing shapes and adjusting

opacities) is also explained, along with much of her process.

The pleasure of the book is also in the ability to flip back and forward, tracing certain visual themes. And while seeing art in the context of a show is always satisfying, the tome allows for a more extended perusal that grows with each viewing. As much of the work is of Long Island, there is the additional pleasure of recognizing many of the subjects and seeing the breath-taking transformations.

(On a personal note, over the days of reading the book, I found myself returning to about a half a dozen studies that I found particularly moving and inspirational. To know that I can revisit these pictures at will is a further reminder of the power of a book of art.)

One can only hope that their work becomes the subject of a documentary. The added layer of seeing the works as well as the artists in process would be an additional record of this unusual and fascinating story.

Through his or her work, an artist gives a glimpse into thought and soul. There is power in a single image that often hundreds of words cannot match. Here, we are treated to nearly two hundred of them, exquisite in their vivid colors and intriguing invention. Their work is a mutual reflection of life, heart, and mind and Parallel Perspectives celebrates that art.

Distributed by Simon & Schuster, Parallel Perspectives is available at Book Revue in Huntington, Amazon.com and BarnesandNoble.com.

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Thursday 22

Gallery North reception

Join Gallery North in Setauket for a virtual reception of its current exhibit, Carmela Kolman: Visions at 6 p.m. via Zoom to discuss the life and art of Carmela Kolman. Free.

Register at www.gallerynorth.org.

A Toast to Huntington’s History

Huntington Historical Society’s annual fundraiser has gone virtual! Join them for a Toast to Huntington’s History at 6:30 p.m.

Enjoy a presentation by a wine specialist, a silent auction and four short behind-thescenes presentations including “Secrets of the Vault,” “Surprises from the Archives,” a tour of the newly completed Victorian Parlor at the Conklin House, and a tour of the new exhibit inside the Soldiers and Sailors Memorial Building. Experience Huntington’s history from your coach while you help preserve it for future generations. Register at www. huntingtonhistoricalsociety.org.

Times ... and dates Oct. 22 to Oct. 29, 2020

Harvest Photo Gathering

The Port Jefferson Chamber of Commerce and the Business Improvement District will host a Harvest Photo Gathering for at the east end of Chandler Square off Main Street from 1 to 4 p.m. Have a fun themed photo session with your friends or family members! Pose with 1940 Vintage Back Ford Pick Up with a harvest theme! Suggested donation of $5. For more info, call 473-1414.

Movie night at Smith Haven Mall

Native American Drumming

Stony Brook University’s Staller Center for the Arts continues its 25th annual Stony Brook Film Festival virtually at 7 p.m. with a screening of the short film “A Simple F*cking Gesture” followed by the feature film “Higher Love.” An all-access pass is available for $60; individual tickets are also available for $6.

Visit www.stonybrookfilmfestival.com or call 632-2787 for further details.

Author Talk

Join Book Revue in Huntington for an evening with Marketing Strategist and Long Island Author, Stephanie Hayman as she talks about her new memoir, Surviving My First Decade in Corporate America: How I Made it Through My Twenties in the Workplace live on CrowdCast at 7 p.m. Registration is required for this free event by visiting www.bookrevue.com.

Friday 23

Outdoor concert at the Vanderbilt

Tribute bands The Warped Tour Band and Faking Back Sunday (pop-punk-emo music)

Drop by Sweetbriar Nature Center, 62 Eckernkamp Drive, Smithtown for an outdoor thrift market from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. in and around an outdoor tent near their parking lot. Lots of treasures! Proceeds will benefit the center’s wildlife in residence. For more information, call Joe at 901-5911.

Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport holds a guided Walk and Talk Tour today and Oct. 25 at noon and 1:30 p.m. Tour the Vanderbilt Estate grounds and gardens during this hour long tour. Masks must be worn for the duration of the tour and social distancing is required. Tickets are $8 adults, $7 seniors/students, $6 children ages 5 and older. Visit www.vanderbiltmuseum.org to order.

The Smithtown Historical Society, 239 E. Main St., Smithtown hosts an old-fashioned drive in movie night screening of The Haunted Mansion at 7 p.m. Cars are parked on a first come, first serve basis! Gates open at 6 p.m.

Snacks will be available for sale. Suggested donation of $15 per car. Advance registration required by calling 265-6768 or visit their Facebook page.

Stony Brook Film Festival

Outdoor Thrift Market

Vanderbilt Walk and Talk Tours

Drive In Movie Night

All Souls Church rectory, 5 Mill Pond Road, Stony Brook hosts a Native American Drumming Meditation event from 7 to 8:45 p.m. Led by elder drummer, Ric Statler, drumming meditation seeks to integrate the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual parts of the human self, creating a state of well-being.

Free. Call 655-7798 for more information.

practices are mandatory. To register, visit www.vanderbiltmuseum.org. For more info, call 854-5579.

TAKE A WICKED WALK ... IF YOU DARE! Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum in Centerport presents a Night at The Vanderbilt: A Wicked Walk this weekend from 6 to 9:30 p.m. Photo from Vanderbilt Museum

will present an outdoor performance in the parking lot of the Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport from 7 to 10 p.m. The Museum will provide socially distanced spots for chairs. Bring your own chairs, relax, and enjoy the music! Tickets are $30 per person, $25 members online only at www.vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Spooky Walk’s Haunted Drive-Thru

Camp Pa-Qua-Tuck, 2 Chet Swezey Drive, Center Moriches hosts a Spooky Walk’s Haunted Drive-Thru fundraiser, a contactless Halloween experience, today and Oct. 24 from 7 to 10 p.m. Encounter your favorite haunted exhibits, from Club Boogie to Living Hell Hospital to Alice in Zombieland, all while socially distancing in your car. Tickets are $45 per car at www.SpookyWalk.com.

Movie night at Smith Haven Mall

The Smith Haven Mall in Lake Grove hosts a drive-in movie screening of “Ghostbusters” at 7:15 p.m. with a special appearance by The Long Island Ghostbusters and The ECG Star Wars Troop. $40 per car. Followed by a screening of “Beetlejuice” at 10 p.m. $30 per car. Order online only at www.movielotdrivein.com. * All numbers are in (631) area code unless otherwise noted.

Saturday 24

Spooky Walk’s Haunted Drive-Thru See Oct. 23 listing.

Outdoor Antique Sale

The Whaling Museum, 279 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor will hold a Something Old Outdoor Antique Sale fundraiser from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. A variety of antique and collectibles dealers will be selling everything from antique jewelry, small furniture, silver coins, badges, vintage advertising and more. Free admission. Masks are mandatory. Rain date is Oct. 25. For more information, visit www. cshwhalingmuseum.org/events.

A Wicked Walk at the Vanderbilt

The Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport presents a Night at The Vanderbilt: A Wicked Walk tonight and Oct. 25 from 6 to 9:30 p.m. Join them for a socially-distant spooky walk with actors, festive food, entertainment, and Halloween merchandise for sale! The museum’s drivein movie screen will be playing the classic vampire film Nosferatu. Tickets, sold in half hour increments, are $25 per person, $20 members. Face masks and social distancing

The Smith Haven Mall in Lake Grove hosts a drive-in movie screening of “Monsters, Inc.” at 7:15 p.m. with a special appearance by The ECG Star Wars Troop. $40 per car. Followed by a screening of “Hocus Pocus” at 9:45 p.m. and a screening of “The Ring” at midnight. $30 per car. Order online only at www. movielotdrivein.com.

Haunted Tales by Lantern Light

Join the staff at Caleb Smith State Park Preserve, 581 W. Jericho Turnpike, Smithtown for a night walk around the park on quiet meandering trails while listening to a few ghost stories from 7:30 to 9 p.m. Wear good walking shoes and bring water if you like.

Masks are mandatory. Rain date is Oct. 31. $4 cash per person. Reservations are required by calling 581-1072.

Sunday 25

Vanderbilt Walk and Talk Tours See Oct. 24 listing.

‘Wayland’

Theatre Three in Port Jefferson continues its Off-Stage/On-Line series of short plays at 7 p.m. with *Wayland by Donald Loftus and starring Eric Restivo, Jae Hughes, Steven Uihlein and Bobby Peterson. The series is directed by Theatre Three’s Artistic Director Jeffrey Sanzel with technical production by Tim Haggerty and Eric J. Hughes. Free. Visit www.theatrethree. com for more info.

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YOUR TURN

Park’s Bench

BY BARBARA ANNE KIRSHNER

SKY ROOM TALK Join Film historian Philip Harwood for a virtual discussion of The Old Dark House on Oct. 26.

Monday 26

Tuesday 27

The Three Village Historical Society continues its lecture series with a virtual presentation titled Jeremiah Sells and other Seamen during the Civil War with genealogist and historian Sandi Brewster-Walker via Zoom at 7 p.m. $5 suggested donation, free for members.

Register at www.tvhs.org.

Comsewogue Public Library in Port Jefferson Statino presents a virtual program, The Grotesque 10, at 7 p.m. Mathew Duman presents a journey to 10 universities around the country featuring unique grotesques and gargoyles roosting on their academic buildings. Open to all. Free.

Visit www.cplib.org/a-online-programming/ for information on how to participate in this online program. Questions? Call 631-928-1212 and ask for Adult Services.

TVHS lecture

Port Jeff Documentary Series

The Port Jefferson Documentary Fall Series concludes with an online screening of My Darling Vivian, the romantic, wrenching, and dizzying journey of Vivian Liberto, Johnny Cash’s first wife and the mother of his four daughters, at 7 p.m. Followed by a recorded Q&A moderated by Tom Needham with director Matt Riddlehoover and producer Dustin Tittle. Fee is $10. Register at www. portjeffdocumentaryseries.com. For more information, call 473-5220.

Author Talk

Join Book Revue in Huntington for an evening with Kerriann Flanagan Brosky, author of the Ghosts of Long Island books, and Historic Haunts of Long Island, and medium Joe Giaquinto as they discuss the difference between ghosts and spirits, the ten different types of ghosts, ghost hunting tools, orbs, EVP’s and ghost box recordings, while sharing some of their most favorite investigations live on CrowdCast at 7 p.m.

They’ll take your questions and share some audience submitted ghostly encounters! Free but registration is required by visiting www. bookrevue.com.

Sky Room Talk

The Cinema Arts Centre in Huntington will present a virtual Sky Room Talk on the horror classic, The Old Dark House, at 8 p.m. Join film historian Philip Harwood in embracing the spooky season with this special Halloween discussion and Q&A. $7 per person, $5 members. Register at www. cinemaartscentre.org. * All numbers are in (631) area code unless otherwise noted.

The Grotesque 10

Audubon Autumn Lecture

The Four Harbors Audubon Society will present a virtual autumn lecture titled Tuning in to Nocturnal Bird Migration via Zoom at 7:30 p.m. with guest speaker William R. Evans. Reservations are required by emailing fourharborsheron@gmail.com.

Wednesday 28 ‘Witch Way Is Up’

Theatre Three in Port Jefferson continues its Off-Stage/On-Line series of short plays at 7 p.m. with Witch Way is Up Written by James C. Ferguson and starring Michelle LaBozzetta, Nicole Bianco and Sari Feldman. The series is directed by Theatre Three’s Artistic Director Jeffrey Sanzel with technical production by Tim Haggerty and Eric J. Hughes. Free. Visit www. theatrethree.com.

Thursday 29 No events listed for this day.

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“My only hesitation about visiting the exhibit hall on July 3rd to write the article on your motorcycle exhibit is that my dachshund Park’s birthday is that day. I know it must sound silly, but I don’t want to leave him at home on his birthday. He’s a perfect little gentleman when he travels, so could I possibly bring him with me?”

The cheerful voice of the curator replied, “I love dogs. I don’t mind at all. In fact, I think it’s sweet you don’t want to leave him home on his birthday. Anyway, we’re very dog friendly.”

I assured her, “We have a stroller that he loves, so he won’t be just walking around the exhibit hall.” “No problem. I’m looking forward to meeting him,” she responded cheerily.

We arrived at the Ward Melville Heritage Organization’s Educational and Cultural Center, an impressive white colonial style building with black shutters anchoring Stony Brook Village, at the appointed time. We must have been a sight indeed with a long-haired dachshund in a stroller heading into the lobby.

A smiling woman with a bubbly voice met us. “Nice to meet you,” she extended her hand in greeting then looked in the stroller. “And this must be Park, the birthday boy.” Park’s head cocked to one side at the sound of his name. In addition to Park and his stroller, I was laden by my shoulder bag filled with writing pads and pens, my cell phone to record if necessary and my camera; all of which had to be juggled to accept the hand extended in greeting.

She led us into her office where I got a rundown of the fifty different bikes on display.

Then she escorted us into the exhibition hall where a guided tour was provided.

As we strolled our way around each cycle with me snapping pictures and scribbling notes, the curator, a font of knowledge, filled in the historic facts connected to some of the cycles. My boy sat with his head leaning on the front bar of his stroller just taking in the sights and listening attentively to her explanations as if he understood and appreciated the information. I wrote feverishly trying to latch on to every word she spoke with back up of my cell phone recorder for anything missed.

Our tour lasted over two hours and at the end the curator marveled at how wellbehaved Park was the entire time.

“Well, you must do something special for this very good boy,” she said.

“I intend to,” I agreed.

She suggested, “If you go back toward the main road, you will come to a fork, make the right, that will bring you up a hill toward the stores on the right and a big lawn, a park, on the left. He might enjoy the park.”

Park enjoying Park’s Bench on the Village Green in Stony Brook Photo by Barbara Anne Kirshner

“Perfect,” I exclaimed. “Park does enjoy going to parks!”

We giggled at that, then Park and I took off in the direction of the lawn and quaint shops. We came upon a restaurant named Latitude 121 then but has since changed management and is now called Sweet Mama’s.

This restaurant has an ice cream parlor in the front where Park and I stopped for a few scoops of vanilla. He licked the cup clean, then followed it up with a water chaser. Once satiated, we explored the great lawn fronting the Stony Brook Village shopping area.

An inviting bench seemed to call to us so we took up brief residence there. A slight breeze played with Park’s luxurious long ears as we sat immersed in this picturesque setting. In the distance, boats and kayaks glided leisurely over the tranquil waters of Long Island Sound.

People on blankets or beach chairs dotted the lawn. Some passed by, smiled at my little man who seemed perfectly content to take in the summer day sitting by my side on that bench.

A peacefulness embraced us. We were two friends who took a break from life’s hectic activity to cherish this moment in time on my boy’s birthday. We were happy, content, carefree, and undisturbed by the bustle of life.

A few weeks later, Park and I were back at Park’s bench, this time to celebrate my birthday. And every July 3rd and again on July 16th Park and I return to our Stony Brook bench that I nicknamed Park’s bench to celebrate our birthdays. We enjoy stepping out of our busy lives to luxuriate in the serenity of these pastoral surroundings.

Park is 14 years old now, but still healthy and strong. I don’t know how many future birthdays we will be blessed to share together, but even after he is no longer in this world, I will visit Park’s bench and give thanks for the times we spent here together. And I’m sure my boy will look down at me from his place in heaven and find some way to let me know he is still sitting next to me on Park’s bench.

Miller Place resident Barbara Anne Kirshner is a freelance journalist, playwright and author of ‘Madison Weatherbee —The Different Dachshund.’

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Religious D irectory

Byzantine Catholic

RESURRECTION BYZANTINE CATHOLIC CHURCH

38 Mayflower Avenue, Smithtown NY 11787 631–759–6083 resurrectionsmithtown@gmail.com www.resurrectionsmithtown.org FATHER VLADYSLAV BUDASH, ADMINISTRATOR DEACON ROBERT KNAPP JOSEPH S. DURKO, CANTOR Divine Liturgy: Saturdays 4:45 pm Sunday Liturgy: 10 am For Weekday and Holy Day Schedule: See website or phone for information Sunday School Sundays at 9:15 am A Catholic Church of the Eastern Rite under the Eparchy of Passaic.

Catholic ST. GERARD MAJELLA ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH

300 Terryville Road, Port Jefferson Station 631–473–2900 www.stgmajella.org REV. GREGORY RANNAZZISI, PASTOR Mass: Saturday 5 pm only mass Sunday 8 am, 10 am & 12 pm Weekday Mass: 9 am Confessions: Saturday 3:45-4:45 pm Office Hours: Monday-Thursday 9 am - 4:30 pm Thrift Shop: Monday-Thursday 10 am - 4 pm Baptism and Wedding arrangements can be made by calling the Parish Office

INFANT JESUS ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH

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110 Myrtle Ave., Port Jefferson, NY 11777 631-473-0165 • Fax 631-331-8094 www.www.infantjesus.org REVEREND PATRICK M. RIEGGER, PASTOR ASSOCIATES: REV. FRANCIS LASRADO & REV. ROLANDO TICLLASUCA To schedule Baptisms and Weddings, Please call the Rectory Confessions: Saturdays 12:30-1:15 pm in the Lower Church Religious Ed.: 631– 928-0447 Parish Outreach: 631–331-6145 Weekly Masses: 6:50 and 9 am in the Church, 12 pm in the Chapel* Weekend Masses: Saturday at 5 pm in the Church, 5:15 pm in the Chapel,* Sunday at 7:30 am, 10:30 am, 12 pm, and 5 pm in the Church and at 8:30 am, 10 am, and 11:30 am (Family Mass) in the Chapel* Spanish Masses: Sunday at 8:45 am and Wednesday at 6 pm in the Church *Held at the Infant Jesus Chapel at St. Charles Hospital

ST. JAMES ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH 429 Rt. 25A, Setauket, NY 11733 Phone: 631–941–4141 • Fax: 631–751–6607 Parish Office email: parish@stjamessetauket.org www.stjamessetauket.org REV. JAMES-PATRICK MANNION, PASTOR REV. ROBERT SCHECKENBACK, ASSOCIATE PASTOR REV. JOHN FITZGERALD, IN RESIDENCE REV. MIKE S. EZEATU, SBU HOSPITAL CHAPLAIN, IN RESIDENCE

MRS. LOUISE DICARLO, FAITH FORMATION DIRECTOR OFFICE: 631-941-4141 X 328 MRS. KATHY VAETH, OUTREACH DIRECTOR/COORDINATOR OFFICE: 631941-4141 X 313 Office Hours:Mon.-Fri. 9am - 4pm; Sat. 9am - 2pm Weekday Masses: Monday to Saturday at 8am Weekend Masses: Saturday (Vigil) 5pm (Youth) Sunday 8am & 9:30 (Family) 11:30am (Choir) re-starting in Oct. BAPTISMS: Contact the Office at the end of the third month of pregnancy to set a date.

MATRIMONY: Contact the Office at least nine months before desired date to set a date.

RECONCILIATION: Saturdays 4 - 4:45pm or by Appointment ANOINTING OF THE SICK: by request.

BEREAVEMENT: 631-941-4141 x 341 OUR DAILY BREAD: Sunday Soup Kitchen 3 pm, closed... reopening TBD FOOD PANTRY OPEN: Wednesdays 12 noon to 2 pm and Sundays 2 pm to 3 pm MISSION STATEMENT We, the Catholic community of the Three Village area, formed as the Body of Christ through the waters of Baptism, are a pilgrim community journeying toward the fullness of the Kingdom of God, guided by the Holy Spirit, nourished by the Eucharist and formed by the Gospel. We strive to respond the Jesus’ invitation: to be faithful and fruitful disciples; to be Good Samaritan to (our) neighbor and enemy; stewards of and for God’s creation and living witnesses of Faith, Hope and Charity...so that in Jesus’ name, we may be a welcoming community, respectful of life in all its diversities.

ST. LOUIS DE MONTFORT ROMAN CATHOLIC CHURCH

75 New York Avenue, Sound Beach, N.Y. 11789 Parish Office: 631-744-8566; FAX 631-744-8611 Parish Website: www.stlouisdm.org Office Hours: Mon., Tues., Thurs.: 9 am to 5 pm Wednesday: 9 am to 8 pm; Friday: 9 am to 4 pm; Saturday: 9 am to 1 pm; Closed on Sunday Mission Statement: To proclaim the good news of Jesus Christ’s love through our active involvement as a parish family in works of Charity, Faith, Worship, Justice and Mercy. ALL ARE WELCOME! No matter what your present status is in the Catholic Church. No matter your family situation. No matter your practice of faith. No matter your personal history, age or background. YOU are invited, respected and loved at St. Louis de Montfort.

REV. MSGR. CHRISTOPHER J. HELLER, PASTOR REV. ALPHONSUS IGBOKWE, ASSOCIATE PASTOR REV. MSGR. DONALD HANSON, IN RESIDENCE REV. FRANCIS PIZZARELLI, S.M.M., PARISH ASSISTANT REV. HENRY VAS, PARISH ASSISTANT Weekday Masses: Monday through Friday: 8:30 am in the Chapel Weekend Masses: Saturday Vigil: 5 pm Sunday: 7:30 am; 9:00 am; 10:30 am; 12 noon.

Baptisms: Most Sundays at 1:30 pm.

Please contact Parish Office for an appointment.

Reconciliation: Sat.: 4-4:45 pm or by appointment.

Anointing of the Sick: by request.

Holy Matrimony: Contact Parish Office at least six months in advance of desired date.

Religious Education: Contact 631-744-9515 Parish Outreach: Contact 631-209-0325 Our Lady of Wisdom Regional School: Contact 631-473-1211.

Catholic Traditional Latin Mass ST. MICHAEL THE ARCHANGEL

Society of Saint Pius X 900 Horseblock Road, Farmingville, NY 11738 631–736–6515 • sspxlongisland.com Sunday Masses at 7 am and 9 am

Congregational MT. SINAI CONGREGATIONAL UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST

233 North Country Road, Mt. Sinai • 631–473–1582 www.msucc.org • REV. DR. PHILIP HOBSON Take care of yourselves, wash your hands, wear your mask, check on your neighbors.

Grace and Peace, Rev. Phil Worship with us online! Sundays at 10 am (or anytime) on Facebook and YouTube.

Episcopal ALL SOULS EPISCOPAL CHURCH

“Our little historic church on the hill” across from the Stony Brook Duck Pond Visit our website www.allsouls–stonybrook.org or call 631-655-7798 allsoulsepiscopalchurch@verizon.net 8 am service will be Virtual 9:30 am service will be outdoors at the Rectory 5 Mill Pond Rd., Stony Brook; parking end of road at Parish House This is a small eclectic Episcopal congregation that has a personal touch. We welcome all regardless of where you are on your spiritual journey. Walk with us.

CAROLINE EPISCOPAL CHURCH OF SETAUKET

THE REV. CN. DR. RICHARD D. VISCONTI, RECTOR 1 Dyke Road on the Village Green, Setauket Web site: www.carolinechurch.net email: office@carolinechurch.net • 631–941–4245 Our worship services have resumed with the following schedule: Saturday evening at 5pm: Evening Prayer Sunday morning: 8am Morning Prayer; 9:30 am Morning Prayer with music.

A Eucharistic Healing Service will be held on Thursdays at noon.

Church School Classes now forming; please call the office to register Let God walk with you as part of our familyfriendly community

CHRIST EPISCOPAL CHURCH

127 Barnum Ave., Port Jefferson • 631–473–0273 email: ccoffice@christchurchportjeff.org www.christchurchportjeff.org Church office hours: Tues. - Fri. 9am - 12pm FATHER ANTHONY DILORENZO: PRIEST–IN–CHARGE Please join us for our 8:00 and 10:00 Sunday Eucharists and our 10:00 Wednesday Eucharist in our chapel.

Please wear masks.

GOD BLESS YOU. Father Anthony DiLorenzo It is the mission of the people of Christ Church to grow in our relationship with Jesus Christ and to make his love known to all through our lives and ministry. We at Christ Church are a joyful, welcoming community. Wherever you are in your journey of life we want to be part of it.

Evangelical THREE VILLAGE CHURCH

To Know Christ and To Make Him Known 322 Main Street, East Setauket www.3vc.org • 631-941–3670 LEAD PASTOR JOSH MOODY Sunday Worship Services are currently suspended until further notice. Please join us virtually and get connected by visiting www.3vc.org.

– Your 3VC church family Join Us As We Celebrate 60 Years Of Proclaiming The Good News Of Jesus Christ!

Greek Orthodox CHURCH OF THE ASSUMPTION

430 Sheep Pasture Rd., Port Jefferson 11777 Tel: 631-473-0894 • Fax: 631-928-5131 www.kimisis.org • goc.assumption@gmail.com REV. DEMETRIOS N. CALOGREDES, PROTOPRESBYTER Sunday Services: Orthros 8:30 Am - Divine Liturgy 10 Am Services Conducted In Both Greek & English* Books Available To Follow In English* Sunday Catechism School, 10 Am - 11 Am* Greek Language School, Tuesdays 5 Pm - 8 Pm* Bible Study & Adult Catechism Classes Available* Golden Age & Youth Groups Banquet Hall Available For Rental* For Information Please Call Church Office* Adjustments to services will be made according to CDC and NYState DOH COVID-19 guidelines. Please call Church office for updates.

Jewish VILLAGE CHABAD

Center for Jewish Life & Learning “Judaism With A Smile” 360 Nicolls Road, East Setauket Next To Fire Dept.

631-585–0521 • www.MyVillageChabad.com RABBI CHAIM & RIVKIE GROSSBAUM RABBI MOTTI & CHAYA GROSSBAUM RABBI SHOLOM B. & CHANIE COHEN Membership Free Weekday, Shabbat & Holiday Services Highly Acclaimed Torah Tots Preschool Afternoon Hebrew School Camp Gan Israel • Judaica Publishing Department Lectures And Seminars Living Legacy Holiday Programs Jewish Learning Institute Friendship Circle For Special Needs Children The Cteen Network N’shei Chabad Women’s Club • Cyberspace Library Chabad At Stony Brook University – Rabbi Adam & Esther Stein

PLEASE CALL OR VISIT YOUR PLACE OF WORSHIP’S WEBSITE FOR MORE INFORMATION AND GUIDANCE.

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Religious D irectory Jewish

NORTH SHORE JEWISH CENTER

385 Old Town Rd., Port Jefferson Station 631-928–3737 • www.northshorejewishcenter.org RABBI AARON BENSON • CANTOR DANIEL KRAMER EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR MARCIE PLATKIN PRINCIPAL HEATHER WELKES YOUTH DIRECTOR JEN SCHWARTZ Services: Friday At 8 Pm; Saturday At 9:15 am Daily Morning And Evening Minyan- Call For Times.

Tot Shabbat • Family Services • Sisterhood • Men’s Club • Seniors’ Club Youth Group • Continuing Ed • Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvah • Judaica Shop Food Pantry • Lecture Series • Jewish Film Series NSJC JEWISH LEARNING CENTER RELIGIOUS SCHOOL Innovative Curriculum And Programming For Children Ages 5-13 Imagine A Synagogue That Feels Like Home!

Come Connect With Us On Your Jewish Journey.

Member United Synagogue Of Conservative Judaism

TEMPLE ISAIAH (REFORM)

1404 Stony Brook Road, Stony Brook 631-751–8518 • www.tisbny.org A Warm And Caring Intergenerational Community Dedicated To Learning, Prayer, Social Action, And Friendship.

Member Union For Reform Judaism RABBI PAUL SIDLOFSKY CANTOR INTERN EMILY HOOLIHAN EDUCATIONAL DIRECTOR RABBI MICHAEL S. CHURGEL, RJE RABBI EMERITUS STEPHEN A. KAROL RABBI EMERITUS ADAM D. FISHER CANTOR EMERITUS MICHAEL F. TRACHTENBERG Sabbath Services Friday 7:30 pm And Saturday 10 am Religious School • Monthly Family Service Monthly Tot • Shabbat Youth Groups • Senior Club Adult Education Sisterhood Brotherhood • Book Club-More

Lutheran–ELCA HOPE LUTHERAN CHURCH AND ANCHOR NURSERY SCHOOL

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46 Dare Road, Selden 631-732-2511 Emergency Number 516-848-5386 REV. DR. RICHARD O. HILL, PASTOR ERIC FARET, VICAR Email: office@hopelutheran.com Website: www.hopeluth.com We have worship services for a limited size congregation on Saturdays at 5 p.m.

Call the church to reserve a place.

We also offer two Parking Lot services on Sundays at 9 a.m. and 10:30 a.m. and we are livecasting these worship services as well. The service can be accessed in the three ways on the Homepage of our website: www.hopeluth.com. A link is also posted there. Links are also posted on our Facebook “Friends who like Hope Lutheran Church” group. The YouTube channel we use is “Rev Dr Richard O. Hill,” where the service and other items are available.

We have a live Zoom Bible Study on Tuesdays and Thursdays at 1:00 and a Hymn Sing event on Wednesdays at 11 a.m. All are welcome.

We have a “Hope’s Kids” Facebook group for children to use.

Our Food Pantry is open to everyone on Thursdays from 12:30 – 2:30 p.m. for picking up food.

Also, donations can be made from 11 a.m.-noon or

by making arrangements by leaving a message on the church answering service.

Offerings to support our ministry can be made at church services and through our website’s “Share God’s Mission” page.

In any emergency, call the pastor at 516-848-5386.

ST. PAUL’S EVANGELICAL LUTHERAN CHURCH

309 Patchogue Road, Port Jefferson Station 631-473-2236 REV. PAUL A. DOWNING PASTOR E-mail: Pastorpauldowning@yahoo.com Pastor’s cell: 347–423–3623 (voice or text) www.StPaulsLCPJS.org facebook.com/stpaulselca St. Paul’s reopened for live worship services on Sunday, September 6. We will have one morning service in the sanctuary at 9:30 am. This service is limited to 20 people. Please call the church to us know you are coming. There will be an overflow room. We will also have a live service in our parking lot on Sunday evening at 5 pm. This service is limited to 50 people. Bring your own lawn chair. If weather is questionable, call the church for updated information on the answering machine. The Sunday morning service will be broadcast on Facebook.com/StPaulsELCA and StPaulsLCPJS.org.

We will follow the CDC Guidelines on social distancing and mask wearing. If you have questions, call, text or email Pastor Paul. All or our other activities each week will continue on Zoom.

We continue to serve the Port Jefferson Community Now in our 102nd year

Lutheran–LCMS MESSIAH LUTHERAN CHURCH

Messiah Preschool & Day Care 465 Pond Path, East Setauket 631-751–1775 • www.messiahny.com PASTOR NILS NIEMEIER ASSOCIATE PASTOR STEVE UNGER We are thrilled to announce we are open for worship in the church. Two services at 9 am & 10:30 am. Space is limited so please go to our website (www.messiahny. com) to register or call the church office (631-7511775). See our website for the procedures we will have in place. For those who are not comfortable with going to church, you can still watch the service online.

Go to our website.

We, as a church, are here for you and if you are in need, please call us. Our Pastors are available and you are welcome to call the church to speak to them.

May God keep you safe and shine His light and love upon you.

Methodist

BETHEL AFRICAN METHODIST EPISCOPAL CHURCH

33 Christian Ave/ PO 2117, E. Setauket NY 11733 REV. GREGORY L. LEONARD–PASTOR • 631-941–3581 Sunday Worship: 10:30 Am Adult Sunday School 9:30 Am Lectionary Reading And Prayer: Wed. 12 Noon Gospel Choir: Tues. 8 Pm Praise Choir And Youth Choir 3rd And 4th Fri. 6:30 Pm

To be listed in the Religious Directory please call 631–751–7663

ST. JAMES UNITED METHODIST CHURCH

532 Moriches Road, St. James 11780-1316 REV. PRINCE DONKOR, PASTOR 631-584-5340 • All are Welcome We have opened our doors once again. 10 am.

We ask that all who enter, please wear a mask.

Thank you all and God Bless you.

SETAUKET UNITED METHODIST CHURCH

160 Main Street, Corner Of 25A And Main Street East Setauket • 631–941–4167 REV. STEVEN KIM, PASTOR www.setauketumc.org • sumcny@aol.com Adult Bible Study: 9am Sunday Worship Service & Church School: 10 am Holy Communion 1st Sunday Of Month Mary Martha Circle (Women’s Ministry) Monthly On 2nd Tuesday At 1pm No matter who you are or where you are on life’s journey, you’re welcome here!

Presbyterian FIRST PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH OF PORT JEFFERSON

107 South/Main Streets • (631) 473-0147 We are an accepting and caring people who invite you to share in the journey of faith with us.

THE REV. DR. RICHARD GRAUGH Email: office@pjpres.org Website: www.pjpres.org Sunday Worship Service-10 am (Childcare Provided) Christian Education-Sunday School: 10:15 am Coffee and Fellowship 11:15 am Bible Study: Tuesday 3 pm Holy Communion 1st Sunday of the Month Meal Provided by Welcome Friends every Friday at 6 pm Call the church office or visit our website for current activities and events.

NYS Certified Preschool and Daycare The purpose of First Presbyterian Church of Port Jefferson is, with God’s help, to share the joy & good news of Jesus Christ with the congregation, visitors and the community at large; to provide comfort to those in need and hope to those in despair; and to seek justice for all God’s people.

SETAUKET PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH

5 Caroline Avenue ~ On the Village Green 631- 941-4271 Celebrating and Sharing the love of God since 1660.

THE REV. KATE JONES CALONE, INTERIM PASTOR THE REV. ASHLEY MCFAUL-ERWIN, COMMUNITY OUTREACH PASTOR Prayer service 8:30 am (Outside, byo chair) Our creative Worship Service at 9:30 am streamed from our website: Setauketpresbyterian.org Sunday School via Zoom Sundays at 10:30 am Adult Interest groups via Zoom.

Youth Group for grades 7-12 via Zoom, (Open to the community) Bell Choir returns! All ringers welcome Our Outreach Programs are Continuing!

Setauket Presbyterian Pre-School, ages 2-5 www.setauketpreschool.org Open Door Exchange (furniture ministry) opendoorexchange.org 631-751-0176 For all program information visit our website for Zoom links, email the church office: Setauketpresbyterian@verizon.net • Follow us on FB

Quakers RELIGIOUS SOCIETY OF FRIENDS

4 Friends Way, St. James 631–928-2768 • www.cbquakers.org We gather in silent worship seeking God • the Inner Light • Spirit. We are guided by the Quaker testimonies of simplicity, peace, integrity, community, equality, and stewardship. Weekly coffee and fellowship, monthly discussions, Religious Education for children.

During this time when we are asked not to gather together physically, we are gathering online for worship.

Please see our website (www.consciencebayquakers.org) for information about joining in. All are welcome.

Unitarian Universalist UNITARIAN UNIVERSALIST FELLOWSHIP AT STONY BROOK

380 Nicolls Road, East Setauket, NY 11733 631–751–0297 www.uufsb.org • office@uufsb.org REV. MARGARET H. ALLEN (minister@uufsb.org) We are a religious community that seeks diversity, individual spiritual growth, social and economic justice.

Sunday Service: 10:30 am visit www.uufsb.org for the weekly link to our online services while we cannot gather in person Children’s Sunday Religious Education Classes resume in the fall.

Our website also offers information about other activities we are currently holding online, such as our Humanist Discussion Group and meditative and wellness arts classes

Would You Like to Join Our Religious Directory?

For More Information Please Call 631-331-1154

PLEASE CALL OR VISIT YOUR PLACE OF WORSHIP’S WEBSITE FOR MORE INFORMATION AND GUIDANCE.

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SHELTER PET OF THE WEEK MEET PARKER!

This week's shelter pet is Parker, an 8 to 9-year-old Chihuahua and COVID orphan currently waiting at the Smithtown Animal Shelter for his furever home.

Parker's mom loved him very much and it shows. This little guy adores all people, cats and friendly dogs big and small. He was over-indulged by his prior owner and some bad habits developed. He has resource aggression and needs a home that is comfortable managing this, giving him strict rules and structure and a parent that understands he is 100% worth the effort.

Parker is adored by every person that meets him. Unlike most Photo from Smithtown Animal Shelter Chihuahuas, he loves meeting new people and going on adventures. This hour to properly interact with him in poor boy has been through the ringer and the shelter’s Meet and Greet Room. The needs a family that won’t give up on him.

Smithtown Animal & Adoption Shelter He is neutered, microchipped and up to is located at 410 Middle Country Road, date on his vaccines.

Smithtown. For more information, If you are interested in meeting please call 631-360-7575 or visit www.

Parker, please call ahead to schedule an smithtownanimalshelter.com.

KIDS KORNER

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Benner's Farm in East Setauket is open this weekend for spooky hayrides and pumpkin picking.

Programs

Spooky Family Trivia

The Whaling Museum of Cold Spring Harbor invites both kids and adults to a Spooky Family Trivia night on Oct. 22 at 7 p.m. Test your knowledge in all things gross and mysterious, from TV shows to weird but true science. Plus, test your knowledge of Halloween-worthy candy! Winner receives free museum passes! Free to play. $5 suggested donation appreciated. To register, visit cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Spooky Sea Creatures

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Sports Camp (Ages 7 - 12) • Instruction & Competition • Soccer • Volleyball • Softball • Basketball and more Theatre Arts Camp (Ages 7 - 12) • Singing • Dancing • Acting • Stage & Costume Design • Casting for Performances General Camp (Ages 3 - 12) • Arts & Crafts • Hands on Science • Interactive Games • Recreational Sports Tennis Academy (Ages 4 - 18) • 1/2 Day • Full Day • Advanced Training • 9 Indoor, 7 Outdoor Har-Tru Courts C.I.T. Training (Ages 13 - 15) • Counselors in Training • Learn Leadership Skills • Enjoy the Activities • Special Reduced Rate Swimming is included in all camps!

All camps provide: Snacks, Drinks, Lunch & a T-Shirt

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Discounts for Siblings and World Gym Members!

348 Mark Tree Road, East Setauket 631-751-6100 www.WorldGymSetauket.com

Less than 5 minutes from SBU Campus, 800’ north of Rte. 347

Join the Whaling Museum in Cold Spring Harbor for a virtual Fun Friday workshop, Ocean Lotions, on Oct. 23 at 4 p.m.

During this spooky month, find out what unusual creatures lurk in the deep. Explore the ocean’s midnight zone and its unusual inhabitants! Create a sensory “ocean zones in a bottle” craft using materials found at home. You’ll need an empty water bottle, oil, water, and blue food coloring. Free. $5 suggested donation appreciated. To register, visit cshwhalingmuseum.org.

Toddler Time

Book Revue, 313 New York Ave., Huntington offers a socially distant Toddler Time every Saturday from 10:30 to 11:30 a.m. where kids can do crafts, listen to stories, and sing and dance. Meet Nana Carrol for storytime and a craft on Oct. 24. Free but registration is required by calling 271-1442.

Lights On: Daytime Wicked Walk

Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport presents a special Halloween fundraiser for young children and their families on Oct. 24 and 25 from noon to 3 p.m. Join them for a “lights on” version of their socially-distant spooky walk during the daytime with festive food and entertainment.

Masks are mandatory. Tickets, which are $10 per person, $5 members, are sold online only, in half-hour increments at www. vanderbiltmuseum.org.

Spooky Hayrides on the Farm

Benner's Farm, 56 Gnarled Hollow Road, East Setauket is open on Oct. 24 and 25 from noon to 4 p.m. for spooky hayrides and pumpkin picking. Take a tractor ride through the woods and see the fun Halloween decorations for $5 per person. Then head to the pumpkin patch and pick out your favorite pumpkin (60 cents per pound). For more information, call 689-8172.

Science demos at the Vanderbilt

Did you know? The Suffolk County Vanderbilt Museum’s Reichert Planetarium, 180 Little Neck Road, Centerport offers free earth science and astronomy demonstrations for young children each Saturday and Sunday from noon to 5 p.m. The demonstrations, which are included in the price of admission, are performed by Vanderbilt educators using science kits. Call 854-5579 for further details.

Ocean Science Sundays

The Whaling Museum, 301 Main St., Cold Spring Harbor presents an in person Ocean Science Sunday event on Oct. 25 from 2 to 3 p.m. Meet critters from Long Island Sound with a special visit from the Waterfront Center. Roll up your sleeves and figure out how healthy the harbor’s water is in a series of fun experiments. Design and create a nature journal to record your observations about the Sound and all the plants and animals that call it home. $12 participant, adult $6 (includes museum admission).

Questions? Call 367-3418.

Author Talk

Join Book Revue in Huntington for a haunted event full of kid-friendly fun with Rachel Kempster Barry, author of The Ghostly Tales of Long Island, live on CrowdCast on Oct. 28 at 7 p.m. She'll be joined by book publisher Nancy Ellwood for a spine-chilling trivia contest and Rachel will share some of her favorite local ghost stories. Free but registration is required by visiting www. bookrevue.com.

All numbers are in (631) area code unless noted.

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SBU SPORTSWEEK OCT. 22 TO OCT. 28, 2020

TOMORROW IS FRIDAY – WEAR RED ON CAMPUS!

STONY BROOK UNIVERSITY

PERFECT MATCH

Steve Marino

Former Seawolves standout retires from professional baseball

Kate Newell Photo from SBU Athletics

Softball team thrilled to work with ex-player Kate Newell

Kate Newell appeared in 108 games as an outfielder with the Keene (N.H.) State softball team during her collegiate career.

And she helped lead the Owls to a Little East Conference title and the Division III NCAA Tournament as a junior in 2014 while hitting a career-best .328 in 36 games.

So when Newell added softball as one of her sports assignments this academic year, Stony Brook head coach Megan T. Bryant was ecstatic. Bryant knows having someone with a softball-playing background as a strength and conditioning coach is a particular asset for her squad.

Newell, an assistant director of athletic performance, originally joined the Seawolves in 2017 after earning her master of science

degree with a concentration in strength and conditioning from Springfield College that May. “We’re thrilled to be working with Kate,” Bryant said. “Her softball background is really exciting for us. We’ve had some tremendous athletic performance coaches work with our team here at Stony Brook.

But her background in the sport is unique.”

Newell also oversees the athletic performance program for Stony Brook’s baseball, women’s soccer, volleyball and men’s lacrosse teams.

While she performs at a high level for all of those sports, she recognizes her college-playing background gives her added insights in preparing the baseball and softball teams.

“To have played the game and know what everyone’s position is and what everyone is going through when they’re on the field, you just relate in a different way,” Newell said.

“It’s the same way with baseball, which I’ve had for two years. It’s just a different relationship, because you know what they’re doing when they go to practice. You know what hitting is like. You know what pitching is like. You know what a long baserunning practice is at the end of practice.

“From a training standpoint, I know what they’re going through on the field physically. I know the game like the back of my hand.

I’ve been playing it since I was five. So I understand it even more from a physical standpoint.”

More generally, Newell relates to being a student-athlete because she is not far removed from being one herself.

“I always tell all of my teams to keep a schedule, knowing you have lift, and knowing you have practice, and knowing you have class — and that you’re not a normal student, unfortunately,” she said. “You don’t have the luxury of just going to class and going home and taking a nap.”

Newell even has borrowed a “15-minute” rule from her days with Keene State softball.

Always arrive 15 minutes before scheduled.

“In college, we called it ‘hover time,’” Newell said.

“If we had to be at the bus at 7, you knew you had to be at the bus at 6:45 to hover.”

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Former Stony Brook baseball standout Steve Marino is retiring from the sport after a decade in the professional ranks.

Marino, who was named to the America East All-Rookie team in 2008 and to the All-America East first team in 2010 at third base, most recently served as the hitting and third base coach for the Southern Illinois Miners in the independent Frontier League. He had led that team as a player to three straight division titles, from 2014 through 2016. Overall, he played five seasons of professional baseball.

A Lake Grove native and Centereach High School grad, Marino plans to enter law enforcement with the Illinois State Police, according to the Miners.

“I will certainly miss putting on a Miners uniform every summer, but I am very excited and honored to move into a career that helps serve and protect the great people of Illinois,” Marino said. “I have always had a great respect for law enforcement throughout my life, and I will take the responsibility of working in that line of duty very seriously.”

At Stony Brook, Marino played on two NCAA regional teams. He also served as a volunteer coach with the Seawolves after graduating.

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