Owensboro Parent February / March 2021

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Contents

20 It's Just Our Thing One local mom opens up about about her son's Cystic Fibrosis in the era of COVID-19

24 Adopting & Expecting Just when the Howards decided they were going to adopt, they got a big surprise.

Read about their journey to grow their family.

28 Little World Changer Addie Mae Lanham is following in her dad's footsteps, changing the world one interview at a time.

IN EV ERY ISSUE

8 From the Editor 9 Around OBKY 10 Parent Profile

KEEPING IT REA L 12 Real Life with Lora Wimsatt I love Owensboro

MA KING IT

16 Valentine's Day Treats for Kids These yummy treats are easy for kids to make and are definitely ones they will enjoy!

18 Watercolor Wishes Why not make your own Valentine's Day cards this year?

D ISCOV ER

36 Always Look Presentable Personal appearance matters. Choosing clothes

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that make you feel good makes a difference in your day.

40 Parental Control Christina Dalton answers your most difficult parenting questions.

41 The Book Nook Experience the depth and beauty of language through poetry collections and novels written in verse.

42 16 Easy Steps to Potty Training Read about Jamie Johnson's hilarious strategy to potty training her son.

44 Kids Meal Deals Check out these local kids meal deals!

SPECIA L SECTION

46 Local Love Owensboro is a pretty special place, just ask

our advertisers! They are each proud to own and operate businesses in this community, but more than that, they love everything that makes our town a great place to live.

53 Preschool Guide Discover every local preschool option, with full information on class times, cost and registration.

FROM OU R REA D ERS

60 All Masked Up Photos submitted to our Facebook page sponsored

by Owensboro Health!

64 Say What?

We asked: “Why do we celebrate Valentine's Day and/or who will be your Valentine this year?�

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BEHIND THE SCENES

WHAT DO YOU LOVE ABOUT OWENSBORO?

EDITORIAL DESIGN & PHOTOGRAPHY EDITOR

Ashley Wedding CONTRIBUTING WRITERS

Katie Albers Christina Dalton Laura Murphy Melody Ann Wallace Lora Wimsatt COPY EDITOR

Ashley Gleason

GRAPHIC DESIGNER

Andrea Roberson Monica Smith STAFF PHOTOGRAPHER

Jamie Alexander ON THE COVER

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Simon Dunn, age 3

I love the fresh produce, meat, and other tasty goodies from local farms and small businesses!

Son of Michael and Lindsey Dunn

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I grew up in a very small town. I love that Owensboro is a decent size town but at the same time its not a huge city. You can find anything you need here in town.

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I’ve lived in Owensboro my whole life - for me, it’s the people. In good times and hard times you can always count on this community.

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BEHIND THE SCENES

Ashley's s k c i P p o T

from the editor I have lived in Owensboro my whole life—except for a four-year stint in Bowling Green while I was attending WKU. And I have traveled quite a bit in my 34 years, even studying abroad in Spain for a semester. I have visited eight different countries, visited New England in the fall, hiked in the mountains, taken many a beach trip, and while all of these have been fun adventures, I still love Owensboro most of all.

I love our downtown and the sense of place it brings. The newly lit bridge is a crown jewel to our downtown landscape, but as seen through the eyes of children... it's truly amazing.

I Spy Dig In is a family favorite. For game night, this is always my go-to choice. Each player chooses a card, which will have six items on it. You set the timer and whoever finds their six items (in the right color) wins!

It's fun for all ages and no elaborate rules or set up.

I love our events. A caramel apple sundae from Reid's Apple Festival.

Finding that tricky elf downtown each Christmas season. Watching my kids' faces as they discover downtown streets have been turned into a carnival at the International BBQ Fest.

I love our landscapes. While I grew up a "city girl" in the 42303, I am a 42366 transplant and love everything about my little home in Philpot.

I love that everyone we know gets gas at the same station, which is currently named Circle K, but will always be called The Pantry. I love that Norman McDonald's Country Drive-In is the "real" McDonald's to my kids.

My kids love anything arts and crafts! Our dining room table is often covered with markers, scraps of paper and glue. I asked Drew to make these for me to hang the many, many masterpieces the kids make. We have four of them hanging in our dining room and I love them. It was a super easy and cheap project. He just glued these metal clips that I picked up at Walmart to some spare pieces of wood that he stained. Easy peezy!

We are really into Art for Kids Hub. The family of five teaches even the worst artist how to draw. There are so many tutorials -- animals, scenes, food, you name it! Check out their website artforkidshub. com or their YouTube channel.

(Avery drew both of these on her own!)

I love our people. Supporting local is a way of life in Owensboro. Small businesses and nonprofits, despite being hit with their hardest year to date, are surviving because the people of this community refuse to see them defeated.

I love raising my kids here. My kids have the best of both worlds here. They live on wide open land and can discover the joys of farm life, but don't have to travel far to learn in their top-notch school, eat in delicious restaurants, get lost in an impressive library, or play in a world class park. Owensboro offers them a small town home, but big opportunities.

Avery got this terrarium from her Uncle Zach and Aunt Kara for Christmas and she loves it. She read the directions, assembled it all by herself, planted the seeds and has cared for it every day. She loves watering it and watching the fruits of her labor grow! (Brand: hapi nest)

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Now, don't get me wrong, I am ready for another family beach vacation.

(I am currently wearing three layers and wrapped in a blanket.) But I can promise you, after a week away, I will be ready to get home.

P.S. Our advertisers love Owensboro just as much as we do and are excited to share with you just why they love this community. Be sure to check out our special section, Local Love, on page 44.

Again, Avery and Reed love everything art! These were some cool markers they got for Christmas. The outlined markers are particularly cool — they write with one color in the middle and another color on the outside outline.

AROUND OBKY

Student Spotlight: SLEEP IN HEAVENLY PEACE PROVIDING BEDS TO LOCAL CHILDREN IN NEED

The local chapter of Sleep in Heavenly Peace made 51 beds for children across Daviess County last month, with plans to provide several hundred more over the next year. Sleep in Heavenly Peace is a nationwide nonprofit focused on making and delivering beds to children ages 3-17 who need them.

According to Bruce Sheldon, president of SHP’s local chapter, the need for beds in the Owensboro area alone is “astounding,” with an estimated 1,200-1,800 children who could benefit from the project.

Sheldon said he was shocked to learn of the harsh, uncomfortable sleeping conditions that affected so many local children. Some of them, he said, had been sleeping on piles of clothing or on the floor prior to receiving a bed through SHP. “The need for beds in Owensboro alone is 2-3% of the population,” Sheldon said.

“We’ve built 76 beds so far.”

SHP makes and delivers beds to any child in need of one, Sheldon said. When a family reaches out and has their name placed on a list, there are no income limitations or other stipulations. Each child receives a bed frame made of wood, a mattress, a pair of sheets and a comforter through SHP.

AHS SENIOR TO PASS TORCH OF COMMUNITY SERVICE PROJECT

Apollo High School senior Ada Parris founded a local non-profit organization called “Owensboro’s Saving Grace,” created in response to her desire to provide meaningful assistance to homeless people in our community. She shared her idea with engineering and computer science teacher Jonathan Leohr, who encouraged her to reach out to administrators, teachers and students to involve the entire Apollo Eagle Family in collecting items for “winter necessity kits.” Each kit included gloves, socks, sock caps, toothbrush/toothpaste, lip balm, hand sanitizer, masks, hand wipes, granola bars and a message of encouragement.

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Owensboro High School senior, KAYSIA HARRINGTON, has been accepted to Harvard University!

Harrington was elected the Senior Class President by her peers and is a leader not only in the school, but in the community as well. She has a perfect 4.0 GPA and has scored a 5 (the highest possible score) on all of the AP Exams she has taken. She is the first OHS student to be accepted to Harvard since Jason Sauer in 1998.

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Ada also reached out to local radio station 97X and created a GoFundMe account for OSG, and involved fellow students in packaging the donated items into 200 winter necessity kits.

Approximately 100 kits were distributed at St. Benedict’s Homeless Shelter and the Daniel Pitino Shelter in December. Ada kept another 100 kits in her vehicle to donate directly to people she saw on the streets of Owensboro.

Ada recently contacted principal Rick Lasley to pass the OSG project on to another student or club at AHS. In response, Lasley said, “We absolutely will work to pass on this tradition to a senior or make it available to one of our clubs to organize and continue. Bless Ada and her work and compassion in starting this tremendous cause that has made an immediate impact on our community.”

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Burns Middle School eighth grader LUCY SPAW is an amazing human being, according to teacher Eran Bosley. "She is the gold standard student. Teachers can always count on Lucy to complete her assignments and take an active role in her learning. Lucy also demonstrates kindness by encouraging her peers. She currently participates on the BMS Cross Country team and Student Council. Lucy is always a ray of sunshine at BMS!"

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AROUND OBKY

PARENT PROFILE

Rick Ebelhar Rick was born and raised in Owensboro. He graduated from Catholic in 2001 and then attended WKU, where he met his wife, Dana. He is currently the General Manager of Weed Man of Western Kentucky. In his free time, he has started playing golf again and loves getting his kids—Sydney (13), Addyson (8), Parker (6), and Paul (4)—involved in the game. The Ebelhars love to spend time at the pool in the summer as well as the beach in Destin.

TELL US ABOUT YOUR KIDS. Paul is the baby and is spoiled rotten. He loves to entertain and be the center of attention! We don’t know that we have ever seen a kid love life more than Paul. Parker is much more shy and reserved, however has a servants heart. We have seen him literally give his sister the shirt off his back when she spilled something on hers. He loves any and all sports and already loves to go to work with me. Addyson is a born leader and is clearly the boss around the house. She is creative and organized, and analyzes absolutely everything.

Sydney is our animal loving child -- she loves animals of all types, but most specifically baby animals. She loves to read animal books and watch animal movies! She is the best big sister and watches out for the three little ones like they are her own. Early on, we weren’t sure how she would handle having siblings, as she was an only child for almost 5 years and she is VERY protective of us and our attention. But she has grown to be super protective of her little brothers and sister. On the flip side, they have learned and adapted to Sydney’s ever changing schedule and needs and have really grown to understand (as well as young children can) at a very young age that sometimes we have to do things for her that we may not have to ever do with them. They understand that she has Down syndrome and that she is capable of doing everything they do, it may just take her a little bit longer to do it. As they have gotten older, it has been awesome to watch, especially Addyson, take up for Sydney is social situations with other kids that may not know how to deal with kids with special needs. To watch her teach other kids about her sister and kids like Sydney is amazing.

Parker is beginning to learn as well, and we can’t wait to see all the people they will teach and educate about people with Down syndrome as well as other special needs.

WHAT IS IT LIKE RAISING A DAUGHTER WITH SPECIAL NEEDS? Raising a child with special needs is really not that different than raising any other child, other than the mountains of paperwork that go

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along with doctor appointments, therapies and of course the beloved IEP meetings! Raising kids is most likely the hardest job any of us will ever have, so adding in a few special needs just adds another piece to the complex puzzle that is parenting. All kids are different, they all have different interests, different personalities and different mannerisms. Some kids just have “atypical” behaviors and needs that require extra attention. Parenting is the most rewarding thing we have and will ever do. Our goal is to help our kids, Sydney included, find their passion in life and be productive members of society.

WHAT KIND OF RELATIONSHIP DO YOUR OTHER KIDS HAVE WITH HER? All of our kids have their own unique relationship with Sydney. Addyson has developed into her social protector in public, but behind closed doors they fight like any two pre-teen girls would. Parker and Sydney butt heads quite a bit, but he is always the first to help her with anything she needs or struggles with. Sydney loves to baby Paul and treat him like “her baby.”

He absolutely loves this as she relishes the role of being his “babysitter.”

WHAT DO YOU WANT OTHERS TO KNOW ABOUT HER? Anyone that knows Sydney very well knows that she is extremely intelligent and manipulative!

She knows how to test people to see how much she can get them to do for her before they realize she can do those things on her own. She would just rather someone else do them for her. Sydney knows she has Down syndrome and she knows that God made her that way. She knows that some people think that makes her different, but we do not allow her to think she was made anything shy of perfect in the image and likeness of God.

WHAT IS ONE PIECE OF PARENTING ADVICE YOU WOULD OFFER TO OTHER PARENTS? There is no such thing as a perfect parent or perfect child. It is very easy as parents to get wrapped up in making sure our children have the best of the best, when in reality all the kids really want is our time and our undivided attention.

Things that seem insignificant to us, could mean the world to one of our kids in their stage of life.

L O C A L PA R E N T S A N D G R A N D PA R E N T S

Photo by Jamie Alexander

Keeping it Real

R E L ATA B L E S T O R I E S F R O M

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KEEPING IT REAL • REAL LIFE WITH LORA WIMSAT T

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t has been my hometown since I was 8 years old.

There were struggles at first, mainly involving getting my New York ears tuned to the right frequency to understand words spoken with a Kentucky accent.

Even when I could understand the words, I still didn’t always comprehend the meaning. When someone asked me to fetch something from over yonder, I had no idea where they wanted me to go or what they wanted me to do when I got there.

Owensboro was more like a small town than a big city back then.

Well, I guess it’s still not a big city, at least when compared to Chicago or Los Angeles, but sometimes atmosphere is more important than geography.

There is a reason people have always said Owensboro is a great place to raise a family. That’s because it has always been a great place to be a kid.

Nobody locked their front doors when I was a kid. First of all, there was no need, because there weren’t any strangers back then – or at least, it seemed that way. And second – of course doors weren’t locked, because if they were, how were kids supposed to get into the house after school? We didn’t consider ourselves “latchkey children” because there was no key involved. We just opened the door and went on in.

Dogs freely roamed the neighborhood, playing with kids, chasing cars, knocking over trash

Owensboro

cans and just generally living their best lives.

Speaking of kids, we were also off the leash. We walked to the corner drug store for ice cream cones, or rode our bikes to the park or the swimming pool at the Sportscenter.

Nobody gave a thought to the potential perils of kids darting across Frederica Street, even though we hardly ever crossed at intersections or paid any attention to traffic.

The movie theatre offered matinees throughout the summer; admission was 25 cents and six soft drink bottle caps. We learned values of courage and loyalty while watching classics like “A Dog of Flanders” and “Smoky” through tear-filled eyes.

There were teen hangouts – Dairy Drive-In remains legendary – and roller skating rinks at the converted tobacco warehouse.

There was ice skating too, but only in the winter. The idea of an indoor ice arena would have sounded like science fiction back then.

Families walked together to the football stadium to cheer for their high school teams under those Friday night lights, and afterward, everyone gathered at the burger joint to celebrate the victory, mourn the loss or just gossip about the cute quarterback and/or cheerleader.

Downtown Owensboro featured a variety of department stores and specialty shops of all kinds, everything from shoes to jewelry to toys to appliances and everything in between. Most of the

doors were propped open during the summer and you could just wander in off the sidewalk, the wooden floorboards creaking as you entered. Occasionally, though, the plate glass window was painted with the words “Air Conditioned!” or “It’s Cool Inside!” – the letters made to look like frosty ice cubes.

There were other shopping centers too: Wesleyan Park Plaza and Gabe’s Shopping Center, with its iconic tower that we thought would stand forever. The shelves and aisles of Value Village, Fashion Fair and Mr. Wiggs seemed to offer everything anyone would ever want – except on Sunday. That is, until “blue laws” were challenged and struck down. Preachers in pulpits across the city warned their congregations not to fall victim to this new temptation … but apparently, we did.

Malls were the next big thing – Lincoln Mall, Towne Square Mall – and as time has gone on, we’ve seen many small stores and businesses come and go, and even rock-solid cornerstones like Sears, JC Penney’s and Macy’s have faded away.

The landscape and skyline of Owensboro have changed, and changed, and changed again, and will continue to do so in all the years ahead. We all have a warm place in our hearts for a special place from years gone by that is no longer with us – but hopefully we all also have room in our hearts for everything that is yet to come.

Because that’s what true love is all about.

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LORA WIMSATT is a mother, grandmother and writer. She enjoys the everyday blessings and adventures of life, especially her family.

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Making it

CRAFTS, RECIPES, AND ACTIVITIES FAMILIES CAN ENJOY TOGETHER

Photo by Jamie Alexander

Simple Valentine’s Day Treats FOR KIDS

Photos and recipes by Jamie Alexander

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MAKING IT • RECIPE

Since Valentine’s Day can already be a day of indulging in some sweet treats, why not rev up some old classics to fit the theme of the day? With minimal prep and just a few ingredients, these sweet Valentine’s Day treats couldn’t be easier! Kids will love helping out and they’ll be ready to enjoy in no time at all!

Heart-shaped Rice Krispie Treats INGREDIENTS: ›› 6 cups Rice Krispies cereal ›› 3 tablespoons butter ›› 4 cups mini marshmallows ›› 1 pkg of white chocolate wafers ›› pink food coloring (optional) INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Melt butter in a large sauce pan over low heat. Add marshmallows and stir until melted, then remove from heat. ›› Fold Rice Krispies into the marshmallow mixture until everything is fully coated, then press the mixture into a 13” pan coated with cooking spray and let cool (using wax paper is recommended to press so it doesn’t stick to your hands!) ›› Use a heart-shapped cookie cutter to cut the treats, then set aside. ›› Using a microwave-safe bowl, melt the white chocolate wafers in the microwave by heating/stirring in 30-second intervals.

Once melted, stir in food coloring. Dip the hearts in the chocolate mixture, then set on wax paper to set (around 10 min).

Cupid Floats INGREDIENTS: ›› 8 oz. strawberry soda ›› 1 scoop vanilla ice cream INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Add a scoop of vanilla ice cream to a cup ›› Fill the top with strawberry soda ›› Drink up!

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JAMIE ALEXANDER is nationally published culinary and commercial photographer working as a full-time staff photographer for Tanner Publishing. She has a knack for making tasty food and pretty art. See more of her portfolio at jaastudios.com.

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MAKING IT • CRAFT TIME

For this Valentine's Day, why not make unique, homemade Valentines for friends and family? These watercolor cards are simple to make and offer a modern twist on the typical Valentine's Day note.

All you will need is a watercolor palette, brushes, paper and a white Crayon.

Watercolor

WISHES Written by Ashley Wedding // Photos by Jamie Alexander

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Did you know that watercolor can't adhere to Crayon? Start off by drawing designs on your card or paper. Then paint over the design with your water. We used a wide brush — easier for little hands — and painted stripes. We opted for pink and purple and tried a rainbow color scheme as well — but any color will work!

Use your creativity!

Note: As a mom to an almost 10-year-old, I have been asked to up my game with the craft ideas. Avery is ready for more sophisticated projects and this one was perfect. We got to dabble with watercolor, which was new for us. But it was so easy that really any age would do well with this craft.

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ASHLEY WEDDING is the staff writer for Tanner Publishing Co. and editor of Owensboro Parent. She enjoys everyday adventures with her husband, Drew, daughter, Avery (9) and sons Reed (5) and Mason (5 months).

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IT'S JUST OUR THING A local mom opens up about her son’s Cystic Fibrosis in the era of COVID Written by Laura Murphy • Photos by Jamie Alexander

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hen Morgan and Sean Hayden

nothing. He was born at 8 pounds, 8 ounces,

had their son, Paxton, 10 years

a good weight and a good size. There were no

ago, they experienced the joy

warning signs. My father-in-law kept saying

and emotions that many first time parents go

he looked fine. It was hard to detect by looking

through. After a non-eventful pregnancy and

at him. Some babies with this disease have to

delivery, the unexpected news that came just

have surgery immediately after they are born,”

five days after Paxton’s birth was devastating.

Hayen said.

“I was in college and about to go take

Soon, Paxton would begin traveling to

a final,” Morgan said. “I got a call from the

Louisville regularly to see a host of specialists

doctor’s office asking me to take Paxton to St.

including

Mary’s the next day for a sweat test because

therapist, nurse pharmacist, and dietician.

his sodium chloride (levels) came back as too

Their new normal became a whirlwind of

high in his newborn screening. When I asked

preventative treatments to keep Paxton as

what was wrong, they didn’t want to tell me at

healthy as possible.

first and when I asked again, they told me he

may have Cystic Fibrosis.”

weight, check his breathing function; he blows

a

social

worker,

respiratory

“All these people have to come in and check

Morgan had never heard of Cystic Fibrosis,

as hard as he can into the breathing function

a genetic disease that causes persistent lung

test and it measures the upper airway and

infections and limits the ability to breathe over

lower airway. Antibiotics and steroids are very

time.

common as well — every other month to fight

“My

mother-in-law,

who

was

there

off other infections,” Hayden said.

watching Paxton so I could go take my finals,

went and Googled it, and I lost it. I did not take

his worst year, with three hospitalizations in

my finals that day. One teacher still passed me

just six months. One particular episode shook

but the others failed me,” Morgan recalls.

the young family, when Paxton could not get

his breath at night even with all the hospital

At Paxton’s sweat test the next day, the

In 2018, Morgan says Paxton experienced

results were inconclusive. A blood draw at

interventions in place.

three weeks of age confirmed that he did, in

fact, have Cystic Fibrosis.

asking me to help him. The doctor told me they

were doing everything they could do and still

“We were thrown into this; we knew

“He was coughing and between breaths

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he was having trouble breathing. There

Paxton,” she said. “Medicine has changed

said.

were a lot of unknowns with Paxton and

everything — it helps 90 percent of

it was tough,” Morgan said.

the population. There is still 10 percent

page on Facebook, Hayden says she began

that cannot take it because their gene

to look at that bubble a bit differently,

A NEW HOPE

mutation won’t allow it. He has the

ultimately realizing after listening to

most common mutation, which we are

advice from other moms that there is a

thankful for.”

difference between quality and quantity

By 2019, a pharmaceutical drug

called Trikafta came out, drastically changing the lives of many Cystic

After joining a Cystic Fibrosis Moms

of life.

Fibrosis patients. After starting Trikafta,

THE COVID EFFECT

Paxton’s lung function skyrocketed, and

When COVID-19 hit in March 2020,

we don’t want to shade them so much

hospitalizations decreased.

many friends and family members may

they can’t experience life. I was petrified

“We want our kids to live forever. But

“On this drug, they feel like they can

have expected the Hayden family to

at first. A cold has put him in the hospital

finally breathe and are living,” Morgan

completely hide out until the pandemic

before. When Coronavirus hit, I was

said. “I had to fight for Paxton to be able

was over. With all the precautions

scared, so people were shocked when I

to take it, as technically it was approved

already in place, the family did not have a

wanted to send my kids back to school,”

for ages 12 and up. I fought with the

significant lifestyle change.

Morgan said.

insurance company and won. His lung

function went from in the 70’s the time

living like there was the Coronavirus

6, attend Burns Elementary School,

he had pneumonia to 142 percent on

since the beginning. We have to be

something Hayden is thankful for since

Trikafta.”

germaphobes; everyone gets it—we are

it is so close to her house. She says being

Even with all the treatments and

already so cautious of germs. If you were

right down the road if Paxton needs her

unknowns, Morgan considers Paxton to

sick, have been around someone that was

is a huge comfort for her.

be very blessed.

sick, do not come over. For three years I

kept him in a bubble essentially,” Hayden

I needed to rush to him and evaluate

“Some kids are way sicker than

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“This is what's funny—we have been

Paxton and his younger sister Liv,

“I wanted to be close to him in case

him or give him a breathing treatment,”

A MOM’S PERSISTENCE

T H E H AY D E N 5

Morgan said. “This is the cleanest

During the first few weeks of his

the school has ever been — teaching

life, Hayden says the family racked up

children, Paxton (10), Liv (6) and Emery

students to wash their hands and not get

thousands of dollars in medical debt.

(3) have found the power of togetherness.

up in other’s faces.”

Hayden will never take for granted

One of the treatments Paxton receives

how far they have come, from the days

is called the High Frequency Chest Wall

when they didn’t know how they would

Oscillation (The Vest), an inflatable vest

pay for Paxton’s expensive medicine

attached to a machine that violently pushes air in and out to loosen mucus stuck on his lungs. Too much mucus leads to infections and ages the lungs.

“Many need lung transplants later in

life,” Morgan said. “They are depleted. The less hospitalization and less antibiotics the better. When he does therapy, he uses the vest twice a day for 25 minutes. If he is sick, it’s four times a day.”

expensive,” Morgan said. “I remember

going to pick up Paxton’s medicine and

child with Cystic Fibrosis can be difficult,

the lady whispered to me that it would be $2,700 dollars; she told me we had to pay

two years to get Paxton

for their child and never give up, even

into the program, Hayden

when that means fighting insurance

said her persistence was

companies or being a voice for their

worth it. In fact, she nearly

treatment.

gave up right before their

they are not alone in their journey.

“We don’t want Paxton to be ashamed

each other,” she said. “Paxton couldn’t ask

right in and helped me get through it.”

“Cystic Fibrosis care is extremely

other families to do is to always advocate

family to reach others and show them

“We fell into each other and leaned into

media is just one way for the Hayden

shut down and can’t do it. Sean jumped

Morgan. What she hopes to encourage

Sharing Paxton’s story on social

together or pull them apart.

and visits.

that’s what we did.”

people

comes to seeing something like this, they

old, a milestone that was huge for

worth it,” she said.

bring

better husband. A lot of husbands when it

card. The first three years

I had to learn all these things, but it’s all

either

program that helps cover his treatments

respiratory therapy, insurance adjusting.

can

for a better dad and I could not ask for a

TURNING THE BIG 10

“I have now dabbled in nursing,

obstacles

and Community Based Waiver (HCB), a

to charge it on our credit

Morgan says that dealing with these

to finally getting approved for a Home

until we reached our deductible. We had

On Nov. 27, Paxton turned 10 years

All of the Haydens, including their

While Morgan admits that having a

she understands that every family faces their own challenges.

“Every family has their thing and this

just happens to be our thing,” she said.

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Although it took nearly

approval.

“They denied me for so

long because he wasn’t sick enough. He will age out of it eventually the more he is able to do independently.

Just when I was ready to give up, they let me in; I was

of it when friends come over.” Morgan

the first Cystic Fibrosis

said. “They play video games and he has a

patient to get approved for

treatment and then goes back to playing.

HCB,” Morgan said. ”Now,

The day he tells me to shut up about it, is

I like to help others get in

the day I will. I don’t ever want him to feel

the program to get help

like he needs to hide.”

with their medical bills.”

LAURA MURPHY is an eighth grade LA teacher at Daviess County Middle School. She has three kids who keep her life interesting; Jonah, Lily and Josiah. She survives on Grape Spark, Jon Gordan books and all things Grumpy Cat.

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Adopting and Expecting

THE HOWARD FAMILY Written by Laura Murphy • Photos by Kate Phelps

W

hen local couple Ben and

confidently pursued the path that he

them,” Mary Alexia said.

Mary

had perfectly laid before us,” Mary

After

Alexia said.

creating their portfolio, the couple

explored

the

Alexia

Howard

possibilities

of

adoption, they knew the process

would require fundraising and the

however,

was

such

and

strong

point, the fundraising is particularly

support of family and friends. As the

outpouring from the community

important to them as the adoption

couple was grieving the loss of their

and many people who did not even

fees,

third pregnancy in July, they said

know the couple. After going public

study, and portfolio review are all

that’s when they felt compelled to

with their plans, donations began to

due up front.

pursue the journey to adopt.

pour in.

“We are just so surprised and

up through the community,” Mary

I respected that. He couldn’t bear to

taken by the generosity; I don’t

Alexia said. “One person gave us an

see me hurt that deeply again, and

know what word to use,” Ben said. “It

unexpected check saying ‘adoption

he couldn’t imagine losing another

makes me realize what a great town

changed our life; we want to help

child,” Mary Alexia said.

Owensboro is.”

you, too.’ We’ve had people reach out

The couple, who is going through

to us that we didn’t even know that

had been closed on having biological

Faithful Adoption Consultants, said

wanted to help because they had

babies, they felt the door to adoption

they are thankful for an agency that

struggled with infertility.”

begin to open.

holds the client’s hand through the

entire process.

such as a raffle and three successful

sign that He would fulfill the deepest

“It’s more than just getting a

yard sales, the couple said they were

desires of my heart, and grant me

baby; using a faith-based agency was

encouraged by the support. Many

motherhood. His voice was clear

important to us. We have friends who

local businesses reached out offering

that day as He whispered the word

went through this same process and

to help by donating a percentage

‘adoption’ into our hearts, and we

had wonderful things to say about

of their sales or creating a product

“I cried out to God to give me a

never

study

is eligible to become active. At this

While the Howards felt the door

they

home

expected,

“Ben didn’t want to try again, and

What

the

a

background

checks,

home

“We are amazed at God showing

After kicking off fundraisers

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marketed towards the adoption

Mary Alexia was pregnant.

surprise her husband.

process.

“People have made themselves

at two pink lines and dropped

surprise was absolutely precious

available even in little ways like

to my knees,” Mary Alexia said.

and priceless! I will never forget the

dropping off breakfast while I was

“I used to think that people who

sheer shock, excitement, fear, but

out there working the yard sale for

‘accidentally’

a

most importantly joy on his face

14 hours — just complete giving,”

figment of the imagination. I mean,

when I spilled the big news! We will

Ben said.

when you’re trying for a baby,

treasure these photos forever, and

While the couple did not expect

you’re a crazy person. Your days are

can’t wait to tell our babies just how

such a huge outpouring from the

filled with ovulation strips, basal

crazy we were about them from the

community as they started this

body temperature checks, fertility

get-go,” Mary Alexia said.

journey, they got another surprise

smoothies, conception yoga. Trust

along the way.

me, I have done all the things.”

friend Kate Phelps helped keep the

couple’s secret and shared in their

On August 10, 2020, exactly one

“I looked down in utter disbelief

conceived

were

What started out as a planned photoshoot

The

him

Howards’

process

the

photographer

month after the couple said goodbye

adoption

to their third baby and called it quits

turned into a spontaneous pregnancy

trying to conceive, the news they

reveal, one that Mary Alexia decided

ask, ‘Did you tell Ben you were

never could have expected came—

to use as the perfect opportunity to

pregnant during your photoshoot?’

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portfolio

“Watching

excitement.

“We’ve had so many people

The answer is a definite

we will wait on God’s

YES! I have always loved

timing to be matched,”

surprises,

Howard said.

so

why

not

capture his reaction to one of the biggest moments of our lives on film?” Mary Alexia said.

As far as what they

have

learned

on

this

journey, the couple agreed

The Howards describe

that waiting is hard. They

this process as happening

have learned patience and

so fast and yet somehow in

perseverance

slow motion.

way, and have decided to

cling to their faith.

“The first trimester of

my biological pregnancy was also the first rounds of adoption background checks,

agency

applications, home study

along

the

“He has been there

with us every single step of the way, through the heartache and the joys,

visits, and grant writing.

providing for us in ways

My hands cramped from

that we would have never

filling

foreseen,” Mary Alexia said.

out

mounds

of

paperwork as my body did

the same, making space for

on 2020, a year that so

the new little one inside,” Mary Alexia recalls.

The growing family finalized

their

home

As the couple reflects

many deemed in a negative light, the Howards see each of the blessings in

study visit at the end of

disguise.

November, and now have

officially completed their

the prayers we’ve prayed

adoption portfolio in which

and the answers God has

birthmothers will soon be

provided has been long.

able to view.

We are constantly being

“We

project

to

go

‘active’ at the beginning of the year, in which we will present ourselves to

“The space between

reminded that we are not in control, and that God’s plan is more beautiful

potential birth mothers

than we could have ever

who

imagined,”

have

chosen

an

adoption plan. From there,

said.

Mary Alexia

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LAURA MURPHY is an eighth grade LA teacher at Daviess County Middle School. She has three kids who keep her life interesting; Jonah, Lily and Josiah. She survives on Grape Spark, Jon Gordan books and all things Grumpy Cat.

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LittleWORLD

CHANGER Written by Melody Wallace • Photos by Jamie Alexander

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At first glance, Addie Mae Lanham appears to have the passions and desires of most 10-year-old girls. She loves pizza and tacos, dogs and animals, spending time with her family and can often be found doing flips and cartwheels across the living room floor. However, if you were to examine her

heart (or even her Christmas

created the show, he did most

The couple has always tried to set

list), you would find that, next to

of the editing and it took a little

the example for serving others

her request for a giant elephant

while for Addie to feel comfortable

by taking their girls with them

and crystal growing kit, was

in front of the camera. He said,

to serve at various shelters or

a request for world peace and

now, she does the majority of the

school events. But, as much as the

an end to the Coronavirus. The

editing for the show and she no

Lanham family enjoys serving the

Country

Elementary

longer needs to read off of a paper

community together, they believe

School (CHES) fourth-grader has

in her lap. When the show began,

Addie Mae in particular was born

already made an impact on her

they filmed an episode once a

with a servant’s heart.

local community, but, according

week. Randy said it has been

to her parents, Randy and Kristi,

more difficult to have guests on

she’s been exposed to it,” Randy

Addie Mae won’t stop there. They

the show due to the Coronavirus.

said. “But I really believe that God

believe their youngest daughter

Recently, Addie Mae filmed a

has blessed her with something

is destined to change the world.

segment with her older sister

unique inside of her that she can

“We’ve always called her our

Emma showing others how they

use to bless others.”

little world changer,” Randy said.

prepared shoe boxes for children

“She just kind of looks at the world

through

Christmas

as she describes her experiences

a little differently and she really

Child. As for how her show will

sitting on the floor and playing

just has a compassionate heart.

help fulfill her request for world

toys

When she hears about someone

peace, Addie Mae said kindness

CrossRoads Emergency Women’s

in need, she is the first one to say,

can go a long way.

Shelter. She takes pride in her

‘How can I help them?’”

“I think they’ll watch it (the

role greeting the residents at

Addie

show) and become happy,” Addie

St. Benedict’s Homeless Shelter

approached her dad, co-host of

Mae said. “Kindness is contagious

when it is her church’s turn to

the KET series Project Volunteer,

– one person helps another person

prepare

and asked him about having a

and they help another person and

dinner.

show of her own.

so on. That’s how I imagine it – I

don’t know any other way.”

I’d be in the front of the line and

like you, Dad – I want to change

hand out plates and say, ‘Good

the world,’” Addie said.

Mae’s parents and believe that

afternoon.

discussed

serving others simply runs in

Addie Mae said, adding that

what type of show Addie Mae

the family. Randy is known in

her parents’ influence has been

might host, and Randy suggested

and

Owensboro

a positive example for how to

she interview other kids about

community for his many acts of

serve others. “Mom and Dad have

changing the world.

philanthropy including serving

shown me what to do – I’ve just

as the executive director of

followed them and done it.”

kept brainstorming and came up

Volunteer

with Encouraging Kids,” Randy

has spent much of her career

classes (virtually) at CHES or

said. “Some episodes are adults

serving

the

hosting Encouraging Kids, Addie

talking and some are kids out

Daviess County Public Schools

Mae is currently working on a

there making a difference.”

district as a social worker and

business plan of her own.

student assistance coordinator.

This

Heights

past

year,

“I said, ‘I want to do a show

The

two

then

“We talked and talked and

Randy said, when they first

Operation

Some might look at Addie

around

the

Owensboro. the

children

Kristi of

“It’s definitely helpful that

Addie Mae’s voice lights up

with

the

and

children

serve

at

spaghetti

“Once the food was ready,

Enjoy your meal.'”

When she is not attending

“She’s been working on a

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business plan to start her own non-profit, just like her Daddy,” Kristi said, adding that she believes Addie’s faith plays a large part in her heart for serving others. “Addie is in tune with God – we always pray at night.”

Addie Mae affirmed that she has been praying every

night for a classmate’s father who was diagnosed with a rare cancer and that she believes God helps to make her a better person.

“God encouraged me so I could encourage other

people,” Addie Mae said. “God makes me better by letting me do this show and letting me help people and encourage kids. Then it goes out to a bunch of people on YouTube and Facebook and they see it and it helps them become better people.”

Randy said his hopes for the show are not to bring

attention to his daughter or to get a certain number of views or subscribers, but more so to be a positive example for youth in the community.

“We really want this show to encourage kids…not

a lot of school clubs are going and youth at church are not able to meet,” Randy said. “We want this to be a tool for anyone to show to kids so they can watch it and be inspired – to plant that seed that, ‘I don’t have to grow up to make a difference.’”

To see more of the inspiring work Addie Mae

is

doing,

page

at

visit

the

Encouraging

Kids

facebook.com/encouragingkidstv

Facebook or

view

recorded episodes on the Encouraging Kids website encouragingkids.weebly.com.

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MELODY WALLACE is a mom, stepmom and seventh grade language arts teacher at College View Middle School. She runs on caffeine, good deeds and the inspiring stories of others.

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PAID ADVERTORIAL OWENSBORO HEALTH

Parisi Speed School Helps

YOUNG ATHLETES MEET GOALS W hen Cindy Bowman signed her children up for the Parisi Speed School at the Owensboro Health Healthpark, she not only found a way to help them stay active and excel in athletics, but she also found motivation for her own healthy habits.

The program focuses on improving an athlete’s overall athletic foundation – speed, agility and strength – and providing them with programming and certified sports performance coaches to help reduce the risk of injury. This improves performance on the field and increases confidence and self-esteem off of it.

Her 13-year-old son, Miller, enrolled in the Total Performance classes when the Parisi program opened a year ago. The one-hour class improves athletic performance by focusing on linear speed, change of direction and strength - perfect for Miller, who swims and plays basketball.

She also signed up her 9-year-old daughter Bellah, for the Jump Start class to help with her swimming and athleticism. The Jump Start program helps any young athlete develop a foundation of skills to get faster and stronger.

Cindy likes the way the program is set up - focusing on different programs from strength to agility. “It isn't the same thing every class and

gives them something different to do,” she said. The variety of programming has paid off by helping both young swimmers get stronger in the pool and increasing their endurance. It’s also helped Miller improve his vertical as he works toward his basketballdunking goals.

Beyond the programming, both kids and parents alike are grateful for the leadership of Parisi Speed School Head Coach Seth Sharp.

“Seth is uplifting and always cheering on the kids he works with,” Cindy said. “They enjoy working with him. He gives them the energy and pushes them, but not too hard.” She added that he made her children feel comfortable and that made them want to stick with the program.

Miller and Bellah both say they’ve benefited from the program.

“It works,” Miller said. “It helps you become faster and stronger, and Seth is the best trainer you could ask for.”

“It’s fun,” Bellah added. “You can get stronger from it and be healthy.”

And instead of dropping the kids off for their session, Cindy uses the time to get her own workout in at the Healthpark. “You get to take care of yourself while your kid is getting a workout as well,” she said. “I’m setting

a good example by going to the gym, making time for myself and working out.” Plus, the schedule holds her accountable and keeps her motivated.

The program also allows for some fun time, which is usually filled with kickball or basketball. Bellah has even made friends from other schools and looks forward to seeing them. Cindy encourages other parents to give it a try for their children. “It’s been a really great program,” she said. “We’ve seen strides in both of their abilities and in their sports.”

Parisi Speed Schools have been in operation across the country for more than 25 years and have collectively trained athletes from middle school through the professional levels, including first round draft picks in every major sport. This program is available for kids ages 7 and up and programming is available for kids who are not involved in athletics but recognize the benefits of being physically active.

The Owensboro chapter of the Parisi Speed School at the Healthpark will have its one-year anniversary on February 15, just in time for student athletes to start conditioning for spring sports. For more information about the program, visit OwensboroHealth.org/Parisi or call Seth Sharp at 270-688-4878.

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ADVICE AND TIPS ON H OW TO M AKE PARENTING AN D L IFE EASIER

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DISCOVER

A Guide To ALWAYS LOOKING PRESENTABLE Written by Katie Albers

P

ersonal appearance matters.

Choosing clothes that make you feel good about yourself every morning makes a positive difference in your attitude and energy.

So you’re a stay at home mom. You can still wear dresses and nice clothing while cleaning the house and caring for your toddlers. Everything washes and the confidence you project with your polished look will be pleasing to your family as well. For especially messy tasks, tie on a beautiful apron and slip on some gloves.

There is nothing nicer than a welldressed gentleman. Just because most people in the office have given into the

jeans and t-shirt trend doesn’t mean that you must. Crisp khakis, a pressed button-down shirt, and a bright tie are always appropriate. Even around the house, make it a habit to wear clean, quality garments that present you as a figure deserving respect.

You’ve worked hard all week and you are ready for some time to relax.

Make Friday evening rejuvenating with presentable pajamas. Update your sleepwear with matching pajama sets and soft, fresh nightgowns. Be sure to include a dressing gown or robe to wear while outside of your bedroom.

Imagine that you must be in front of your neighbors in the middle of the

night. Choose pajamas that make you feel put together.

Consider also your undergarments.

These pieces work the hardest and are often the last to be considered when refreshing a wardrobe. But remember, just like a house must have a good foundation to function at its best, wellfitting, quality undergarments will make your outer clothing look their best as well.

This spring, open your closet and

dresser drawers and pull it all out. Go through your clothing piece by piece and ask yourself these questions:

Is this garment in good condition?

FIX IT

TOSS IT

Dirty but not permanently stained? Wash it.

Open seam? Quick fix with the sewing machine.

Loose buttons? Grab the needle and thread.

Fabric pilled? Try a fabric shaver.

Permanently stained.

Pin holes.

Missing buttons.

Fabric thin and worn.

Is this garment appropriate and presentable for my lifestyle?

KEEP IT

Appropriate for public viewing.

Makes me feel confident and put together.

Feels special every day.

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TOSS IT

Embarrassing to wear in public.

Too ordinary or cheap.

DONATE IT

Makes me feel self-conscious or uncomfortable.

Makes me feel too comfortable, sloppy.

Repetitive in my wardrobe.

Does this garment properly fit me today?

KEEP IT

STORE IT

Proper size.

Proper length.

Color enhances my skin tone.

Looks good even from the back!

Now take stock of your Keep It pile. Are there any gaps to fill in your wardrobe for the spring and summer?

Make a list before going shopping to focus your efforts efficiently.

Being presentable does not mean that you must spend a fortune on a huge wardrobe.

Choose the highest quality and best looking garments that you can afford and treat them well as you launder them.

Keep in mind a sufficient clothing collection need only satisfy 7 to 10 days of options.

Limit the pieces in your closet to only those that truly make you feel your best.

These same questions apply as you sort through kids’ clothing as well. Let your children wear those beautiful and seemingly impractical clothes that

DONATE IT

Too small by 1 size.

Holds sentimental value.

Grandma bought.

Is it a

greater waste of money for the clothing to be worn and possibly stained or to sit in the closet waiting for a special event?

Too big.

Too small by more than 1 size.

Too short or too long.

Color does not compliment me.

Does not flatter my body type.

WANTING MORE INSPIRATION FOR ALWAYS BEING PRESENTABLE?

YouTube Channels

Before you

know, the kids have grown out of them and they were never enjoyed. And, believe it or not, presentable clothing positively affects your kids’ attitudes and behaviors as well.

The Art of Manliness

The Daily Connoisseur

Audrey Coyne

Books

When you first commit

to making yourself always presentable, you may receive comments around

from

you.

those

Graciously

accept the compliments, and brush off any dissent. If your experience in this journey is like mine has been, your example will be an inspiration to others. Just doing what we can to make the world a more beautiful place.

Polish Your Poise with Madame Chic

Heading Out on Your Own

by Jennifer L. Scott

by Brett McKay

The Capsule Wardrobe

by Wendy Mak

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PAID ADVERTORIAL CASA

Why You Should Care about

Black Children in Foster Care Did you know that there is a disproportionate number of Black children in foster care? In fact, Black youth make up 18 percent of Kentucky youth in foster care, though they constitute only 9 percent of the state’s youth population.

Once involved in the child welfare system, Black children are much more likely to be removed from their homes than their white peers. The disproportionate representation of children of color in the foster care system is driven by a number of factors, including socioeconomic status and family structure, as well as bias and structural inequities. Poverty in and of itself does not account for the racial disparities in foster care.

Why is there a disproportionate number of Black youth in the system? One thing that seems to be a factor is that people unintentionally judge families based on implicit biases. As an example, if someone sees a poor Black child with dirty clothes and a bruised face, are they more likely to report that family than a similar injury in the child of a middle-class white family who is welldressed and prominent in the community?

(The right answer is: BOTH injuries need to be reported!)

“Over the years while working with many families in the Daviess County community I have witnessed first hand how stability to a child should be cherished, valued and treasured,” said local attorney and 2021 Chair of the Daviess County Bar Association, Jennifer Hendricks. “The primary question all of us need to be asking ourselves is how each of us can help individuals, agencies. programs and policies greater serve children of color to reduce structural inequities.

Bottom line, we all have a role to play.”

Black youth in foster care are more

likely to experience negative outcomes, like aging out of the system without a connection to a trusted adult they can rely on for stability and are less likely to graduate from high school or earn a GED. Black youth in foster care are more likely to be suspended or expelled from school, significantly less likely to be employed and more likely to be involved in the juvenile or criminal justice system.

CASA of Ohio Valley was recently awarded a grant from the Kentucky Bar Foundation (KBF) for an Education and Empowerment Campaign, which will provide information on the increasing number of children being abused and neglected in the region. The campaign will share information on the number of children that are involved in family court, the impact of court and ongoing trauma in their lives, and will empower community members to reach out to CASA and other child serving organizations to combat abuse and neglect.

Taking further action, CASA joined the Race Child Community Welfare (RCCW) Committee, which is part of a state-wide initiative intended to address the racial disparity of children in foster out-of-home care and the court system.

"CASA is an organization dedicated to helping abused and neglected children have a voice in the court system,” said Director Rosemary Conder. “Together with community partners like the KBF and RCCW committee, we can make the community aware of situations that affect the children we serve so that we can find effective and long-lasting solutions."

“I can’t imagine a more important endeavor than improving the lives of children,” said Andrew Johnson, local attorney and member of the Kentucky Bar

Foundation. “I’m thankful that the Kentucky Bar Foundation saw fit to help CASA shine a light on the struggles that too many of the children in our community face.”

So what can you do to help combat the growing trend of Black youth in foster care?

• Commit to equity for all.

• Join the local RCCW Committee.

• Learn how children of color in your community are faring by reviewing local data.

• Attend training on implicit bias and institutional racism.

• Become a foster/adoptive parent to a child or sibling group in your community.

• Identify resources in your community that support the safety and well- being of children.

• Mentor young parents –hold support groups at your church or organization.

• Hold a foster care informational meeting at your church or organization.

• Consider opening a visitation center at your church.

• Support legislation that addresses disproportionality and funding for relative caregivers.

For more information on how you can help locally, contact CASA of Ohio Valley at 270-683-2138. Please leave a message if we are unable to answer your call. You can also email Director Rosemary Conder at director@casaovky.org. You may also visit www.CASAov.org.

To report child abuse, contact 877-KYSAFE or 877-597-2331.

For more information on how you can help locally, contact CASA of Ohio Valley at 270-683-2138. Please leave a message if we are unable to answer your call. You can also email Director Rosemary Conder at director@casaovky.org.

You may also visit www.CASAov.org. // To report child abuse, contact 877-KYSAFE or 877-597-2331.

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DISCOVER • Q&A WITH CHRISTINA DALTON, MSSW, CSW

parental control four kids ranging in ages from 5 to 14. One of “myI have biggest concerns during this pandemic is staying connected as a family. It feels like we are all stressed out with work, school and other activities and stuck behind our devices all the time. How can I connect with each of my children to help them to feel safe, heard, calm, and appreciated?

”

a:

This is one of the most important questions I think I have ever received since I have been doing this work.

Anxiety and stress can be so contagious, especially in our family unit. During this pandemic, I think that a sense of safety has never been more important to children and adults. The world does not look like it used to, even a mere eight months ago. Going to school or into a store looks different.

Different can create stress in all of us and, in children, can come out in a variety of ways. Children, depending on where they are developmentally, may not understand or be able to express those feelings. We see this expressed through fighting, arguing with siblings or other behaviors. One of the most important things we can do for our children is to try and provide a sense of safety, which can even make your home environment calmer in the process.

When we see this stress in our children, a really important piece of advice is to empathize with them and listen. When we are heard, we are seen. When we show empathy with our

children, we share in their feelings. Sometimes we think that certain ages are dramatic or exaggerate everything (insert middle school age children). I challenge that type of thinking and I recommend that you try to replace it with listening. When you see that your children are stressed about something, you have to remember that what is happening to them is stressful in their world and you can relate more if you just listen.

Another way to connect with our children is to play with them or simply watch them play.

Get the LEGOs out, get a puzzle or play a card game. I am always preaching on the fact that children model what we do and we can connect and de-stress at the same time.

I have to include in this answer the importance of self-care. When we take care of ourselves then we can take care of the ones we love with less stress. Never has self-care been more important. Our mental health depends on it. The mental health of our children depends on it. The good thing is, pandemics have an ending, but what we learn can last a lifetime.

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CHRISTINA DALTON, MSSW, CSW is a Family Resource Center Coordinator for Daviess County Public Schools.

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DISCOVER • THE BOOK NOOK

Voices in Verse Experience the depth and beauty of language through poetry collections and novels written in verse.

Written by Katie Albers

Poetry for Kids series

Carl Sandburg, Robert Frost, Emily Dickenson, William Shakespeare, and Walt Whitman

Each of these beautifully illustrated volumes feature the greatest poems of some of the greatest poets of English literature. To aid in understanding the depth of the author’s meaning, the books include definitions of less familiar terms in subtle footnotes.

These whimsical collections are begging to be read aloud with the family.

Other Words for Home

Brown Girl Dreaming

When political discourse erupts into violence in the streets, Jude and her expectant mother are forced to leave her father and brother behind in Syria for the safety of her uncle’s home in the United States. This novel, written in verse, explores the challenges of losing and finding home.

The author shares her experiences growing up as a black child in the 1960’s and 70’s. Through her roots in the southern US to her experiences once she moves to the north, Woodson’s poetry conveys a deep love for family, community, and the power of the human spirit.

by Jasmine Warga

Moo

by Sharon Creech

A family moves from the city to rural Maine and by being open to new experiences realizes the joy that can come from life’s little adventures with new people and new animals.

by Jacqueline Woodson

Pilgrim’s Progress: a poetic retelling of John Bunyan’s classic tale

by Rousseaux Brasseur

This beautifully illustrated revamp presents the John Bunyan masterpiece in rhyming poetry. The rhythm of the words lends a humor and joy to the work and adults and kids alike are sure to enjoy the depth of the story in a new light.

KATIE ALBERS grew up in Owensboro and loved words so much that she became a school librarian and even alphabetized her family: Josh, Katie, Lance, Mallory, Noelle, Oaken, and Polly (the cat).

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DISCOVER

16 Easy Steps to Potty Training Written by Jamie Johnson

I

am currently in a tumultuous situation. One I never should have put myself in during

bottom of my cold dark heart. Boys

kid. Then I realized there were a lot,

have bad aim. They don’t care if they

but they were all too long and anyone

pee on walls. They have no control.

that has a child of potty-training age

quarantine. I am attempting to potty

And over the course of potty training,

doesn’t have time to read a manual.

train my 3-year old. I am using the

your bathroom smells like urine. And I

word attempting very loosely.

loathe that smell.

out a few steps to potty train your

Disclaimer: I would like people to

child for those of you that haven’t

ago? Yes.

know that I do clean up all the toddler

started the process yet or are about to

boy urine. But, it’s always lurking

start it again with a second child.

nine months ago? Yes, again.

somewhere, ready to make me gag a

1. Think back to the potty-training

little and throw up in my mouth.

methods you used for your first

ago? No freaking way.

child.

write a book on how to potty train your

Could I have done this nine months Should I have started doing this Did I start doing this nine months I despise potty training to the

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I always thought someone should

Instead, I thought I would write

2. Forget those. Throw them out the

window. They are useless now.

1 million times because your kid

little bit, eat the candy, go a little

They will never work twice. That

loves pulling the handle while

bit more, eat more candy, etc.

simultaneously pooping himself.

15. Realize that your youngest son is

would be too easy.

3. Start with mediocre to low expectations.

4. Now lower those expectations. A lot. Not far enough. A little more.

There you go.

5. Buy your child an expensive potty off Amazon that sings a horrible

9. Ask your child if he wants to sit

still peeing in his Pull Up when he

on the potty and watch him kick

realizes the candy is over for the

and scream like a tiny version of

day and decide to back off until

the devil himself.

he’s “ready.”

10. Buy big boy underwear with Mickey Mouse on them to try and

16. Repeat steps 13-15 for eternity.

get him interested.

song when you flush it, like the

11. Put interested child in said

Hot Dog Dance from Mickey

underwear for him to poop

now. I am being used by a 3-year old

Mouse Clubhouse.

himself. They were obviously just

for candy.

6. Place the expensive potty in the

a fashion statement.

bathroom, where it will soon just

12. Switch to Pull Ups.

become a piece of decor.

13. Bribe your child with candy to go

7. Find out your kid would rather continue to poop himself than use the expensive potty.

8. Listen to the “Hot Dog Dance”

pee pee in the potty.

At least that’s where I am right

I hope that my abbreviated

manual somehow helps you. If you figure out steps 16-258, please advise.

14. Give your child 76 pieces of candy in one day because he realizes he

Until Next Time,

can hold it and make himself go a

Jamie

JAMIE JOHNSON is a full-time working mom to two little boys, wife to Logan, and part-time writer. Her pieces have been featured in HuffPost Parents, Motherly, Today Parents and PopSugar Moms. You can follow her blog at HashtagMomFail.com!

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kids

meal deals

EVERY DAY

O’Charley’s – Free kids meal (ages 10 & under) with the purchase of adult entrée

MONDAY

WEDNESDAY Firehouse Subs – Up to 2 kids eat free (12 & under) all day with purchase of an adult meal Donatos – Up to 2 free individual

Grandy’s – 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of an adult meal

1-topping pizza/per child (12 and under)

Moonlite Bar-B-Q Inn - Up to 2 kids eat free (ages 10 & under) from 4-9pm with adult buffet purchase

in only from 5-8pm

Zaxby’s – Up to 3 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of an adult meal from 5-8pm

(ages 12 & under) with purchase of an

with the purchase of a large pizza; dine-

Burger Theory (located in the Holiday Inn Owensboro Riverfront) – Free kids meal adult meal; breakfast, lunch & dinner

THURSDAY

Huddle House – 1 free kids meal when you spend $6.99 or more on adult entrée

Dairy Queen (Frederica Location) – Up to

TUESDAY

Trunnell’s 54 Deli – 1 free kids meal with

Denny’s – Up to 2 free kids meals with an adult meal purchase

Lure Seafood & Grille – Free kids meal

Fazoli’s – Up to 3 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of an adult entrée

Wheatgrass Juice Bar – Free kids

Beef ‘O’ Brady’s – $1.99 kids meal (ages 12 & under) all day

Freddy’s – Free scoop or cone with the purchase of a kids meal on Family Night. Kids can enjoy coloring pages, crayons, balloons and stickers!

2 $1.99 kids meals

the purchase of a signature sandwich

SATURDAY with purchase of adult entrée

smoothie with adult purchase Long John Silver’s – $1.99 Kids meals all day

SUNDAY

Pizza By the Guy – 1 free kids buffet (ages 10 & under) with an adult purchase with a drink on Tuesdays from 5-8pm

Beef 'O' Brady's – Free kids meal (ages 12

Pizza Hut (South Frederica location) – 1 free child buffet with the purchase of an adult buffet from 4:30-7pm

Briarpatch – 1 free kids meal (10 &

Salsarita’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of $5 or more adult entrée; dine in only

& under) with the purchase of an adult entrée from 4-8pm; dine-in only

under) per adult entrée Salsarita’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of $5 or more adult entrée; dine in only Pizza By the Guy – 1 free buffet for kids

Trunnell’s 54 Deli – 1 free kids meal with the purchase of a signature sandwich

(ages 10 & under) with adult purchase

Huddle House – 1 free kids meal when you spend $6.99 or more on adult entrée

under) all day with purchase of adult

with a drink from 11:30am-2pm Firehouse Subs – Kids eat free (12 & meal; up to 2 kids per adult Bar Louie – Kids eat free 11am - 7pm

McDonald’s – $1.99 Happy meals from 4-7pm; dine-in only

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up to 2 kids per adult entrée; dine-in only

on the honor roll?

Bring your report card to these local restaurants & businesses for additional deals!

Orange Leaf – Bring in your report card and receive $1 off yogurt; a report card with straight A’s will receive a small cup free.

Ritzy’s (Both locations) – Ritzy’s has a “Scoops for Scholars” program. Students can bring in their report card each grading period to earn treats for each “A.” 1A = flavored soft drink (cherry, vanilla, or chocolate) 2 A's = single scoop of ice cream 3 A's = your choice of a hotdog, coney, hamburger, or cheeseburger 4 A's = double scoop of ice cream McDonald’s – All five Owensboro McDonald’s decided this school year that they will award a free Happy Meal to any student who gets straight A's on their report card.

Family Video (1212 JR Miller) – For a limited time during the summer, you can take your end of the year report card to Family Video.

Your child will receive a voucher for a free movie/game rental for every A (or equivalent) they received in a core class for the year.

Chuck E. Cheese in Evansville – A child can receive 10 tokens with a purchase if they bring in their report card.

Sky Zone in Evansville – All A’s= 1/2 off any jump.

A & B’s= $5 off any jump. Weekdays & Friday 2-7pm.

*This list is subject to change. Please contact restaurants to ensure their participation.

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the 2021

Preschool Guide Is it time for your little one to start school? The Owensboro Parent Preschool Guide lists every local preschool option, with full information on class times, cost and registration.

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PRESCHOOL GUIDE

AUDUBON AREA

(Head Start)

Dar-Nek Family Development Center 4800 New Hartford Rd. | 270-683-6377 Helen Sears Family Development Center at the Villa 2225 E. 18th Street | 270-691-8000 Leola Hayden Family Development Center 1306 East 8th Street | 270-689-9387 West End Family Development Center 800 W. 5th Street | 270-685-3231 Killian Migrant Center

program is $25 for each session.

Sessions available are: 8 - 11 a.m.

Tuesday through Thursday. Parents can add 11 a.m. - 5:30 p.m. for $25 per session. Preschool sessions available are Tuesday/Wednesday/Thursday; $500 for full day and $250 for half day. After school is available daily until 5:30 p.m. at the rate of $10/day.

Early drop off is available at 7:30 a.m.

Individualized services will be offered on Monday and Friday for families and homeschool groups. Please contact the director for more information.

900 Walnut Street | 270-852-6534

Faith-Based Program? No

Age: 6 weeks – pre-kindergarten

CATHEDRAL PRESCHOOL

Classes & Cost: Working parents pay according to a sliding scale based on income; otherwise, programs are free.

Head Start has two models: partnership programs with local school districts and stand-alone, full-year, full-day learning facilities. These curriculumbased programs serve low-income families and/or children with disabilities or state foster children.

BREY’S EARLY LEARNING SCHOOL 1945 Tamarack Rd. | 270-314-4673

Age: 2 – 6 years old Classes & Cost: Tuition for the toddler

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600 Locust Street | 270-926-1652

Age: 3 – 5 years old. Must be 3 or 4 or 5 by August 1, 2020 and must be potty trained.

Classes & Cost: Two-day preschool class offered for $140 per month; 3-day $185 per month; 4-day $200 per month; 5-day $215 per month. Wrap around program (preschool in the morning and then an extended day program from 11 a.m.-5:30 p.m.) available for 2 days at $130 per month; 3 days at $195 per month; 4 days at $260 per month; 5 days at $355 per month. Register online at cathedralpreschool.com

Faith-Based Program? denominational.

Yes,

non-

DAVIESS COUNTY PUBLIC SCHOOLS PRESCHOOL Ages: 3 – 4 years old Classes & Cost: A student is eligible for preschool in the Daviess County Public Schools system if he or she is 3 or 4 years old with a delay or disability; 4 years old and income eligible; or 3 or 4 years old and in the fee-based program.

Classes are Monday through Thursday from 8 – 11 a.m. or 11 a.m. – 2 p.m. Time can vary slightly on individual school’s schedule. One meal is served and transportation is provided.

Must be 3 or 4 by August 1.

HERITAGE CHRISTIAN PRESCHOOL 3585 Thruston Dermont Rd. 270-685-4002

Age: 3 – 4 years old Classes & Cost: 3-year-old class held Tuesday/Thursday from 8:30 – 11:20 a.m. for $173 per month. 4-year-old class held Monday/Wednesday/Friday from 8:30 – 11:20 a.m. for $202 per month. $200 registration and material fee.

Faith-Based Program? Yes. Preschool is a ministry of Heritage Baptist Church, but 70% of students come from outside the church.

HERITAGE PARK PRESCHOOL 3802 Legacy Run | 270-683-0611

Age: 6 weeks – 5 years Classes & Cost: Full day, full year program for 6 weeks – 1 year old is $135 per week. Full day, full year program for 2 through 5 year olds is $135 per week.

Faith-Based Program? No.

MAXIMILIAN MONTESSORI ACADEMY PRESCHOOL 1401 Spring Bank Drive, Suite 4 | 270-689-1402

Age: 3 – 5 years old Classes & Cost: 3 – 5-year-olds are in a blended class fullday program Monday – Friday for $550 per month.

Faith-Based Program? Yes, non-denominational.

OWENSBORO CHURCH OF CHRIST PRESCHOOL 3300 East U.S. Highway 60 | 270-684-3406

Age: 3 – 5 years old Classes & Cost: 3-year-old class held Tuesday/Thursday from 8:15 – 11:15 a.m. for $110 per month. 4-year-old and Pre-Kindergarten classes held Monday/Wednesday/Friday from 8:15 – 11:15 a.m. for $130 per month. 7:30 a.m. early drop off available. Registration fee $60. Must be potty trained.

Faith-Based Program? Yes, non-denominational.

OWENSBORO PUBLIC SCHOOLS HAGER PRESCHOOL 1701 West 7th Street | 270-686-1125

Age: 3 – 4 years old Classes & Cost: This program is a blended partner with Head Start. There is no cost for attendance, but students must be income eligible or have a developmental delay. If student does not qualify for either of these criteria, parents may elect to pay tuition of $280 per month. Classes are 3-year-old and 4-year-old blended and are Monday through Friday from 8:30 a.m. – 3:30 p.m.; one Friday of each month, children do not attend. Owensboro Public School provides transportation.

SEVEN HILLS AUDUBON AREA HEAD START PRESCHOOL

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Age: 3 – 4 years old Classes & Cost: This program is a blended partner with Head Start. There is no cost for attendance, but students must be income eligible or have a developmental delay.

Classes are 3-year-old and 4-year-old blended and are Monday through Friday from 8:45 - 3:45 p.m.; second Friday of each month, children do not attend. Owensboro Public School provides transportation.

SETTLE MEMORIAL PRESCHOOL

Age: Ages 2-5 Classes & Cost: The all-day program runs from 7:15 a.m. to 5:15 p.m. Prices for the all-day program are: 2 days for $304, 3 days for $456 and 5 days for $620. A summer camp will be offered beginning June 1 through July 31 for $675 per month.

Faith-based Program? No.

PRESBYTERIAN WEEKDAY SCHOOL (FORMERLY CHILDREN’S DAY OUT)

1512 Frederica Street | 270-683-9992

Cost:

Monday/Wednesday or Tuesday/Thursday

Must be 3 by Nov. 1, 2021.

Older 3-year-old class held Monday/ Wednesday/Friday from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $155 per month or Tuesday/Thursday

Must be 3 by April 1, 2021.

Age: 6 months-PreK &

Classes & Cost: Young 3-year-old class held

from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $135 per month.

1328 Griffith Ave | 270-684-1467

Classes

Age: 3 – 5 years old

from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $135 per month.

First Presbyterian Church

PLAY SMART PRESCHOOL AND SIMPLY THERAPY

201 E. 4th Street | 270-684-7005

Open

Tuesdays,

Wednesdays and Thursdays from 10:15 a.m. - 1:30 p.m.; $50 registration fee. Cost is $65 for one day per week, $105 for 2 days per week, or $140 for 3 days per week.

Scholarship program and sibling discount available. Semester supply fee (Aug and Jan) which is based on the number of days attended. 1 day is $35, 2 days is $50, and 3 days is $70.

Faith-based Program?

Yes.

Young 4-year-old class held Tuesday/ Wednesday/Thursday

from

8:30

–

11:30 a.m. for $155 per month or MondayFriday from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $195 per month. Must be 4 by September 1, 2021.

Pre-Kindergarten (older 4-year-old to young 5-year-old) class held Tuesday/ Wednesday/Thursday

from

8:30

–

11:30 a.m. for $155 per month or Monday through Thursday from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $175 per month or Monday through Friday from 8:30 – 11:30 a.m. for $195 per month.

After School program available from 11:30 a.m. until 5:30 p.m. for children enrolled in preschool and are 3 years old

by April 1. Two days per week is $120 per month; 3 days per week is $180 per month; 4 days per week is $240 per month; 5 days per week is $300 per month. Early room available that opens at 7:15 a.m. and is $2 per day.

*While every effort has been made to ensure the accuracy of this information, please contact the individual programs to verify all details.

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8 Tips for a FIRST-T I M E PR E S C H OOL E R ›› Visit Daviess County Public Library during Storytime.

“First Day of School” by Anne Rockwell

This will let your child get used to hearing someone other

“When I Miss You” by Cornelia Maude Spelman

than you and introduce them to group time.

“Take a Kiss to School” by Angela McAllister

›› Establish a routine of “early to bed” and “school wake-up

“It’s Time for Preschool” by Esme Raj Codell

time” several weeks before school begins so your child has

“A Pocketful of Kisses” by Audrey Penn

time to adjust to the new schedule.

›› Better yet, make your own book at home about the

›› Find out about the potty procedures at your child’s

new preschool experience your child is about to begin.

school so you can review the situation with your child and

You could even take photos of the school or of your child

make sure she is comfortable.

in front of the school and add text like: “This is Avery at

›› If your child is expressing anxiety, call the school to arrange for a visit to the school and to meet your child’s teacher in the classroom setting. ›› Read books about going to school and saying goodbye, such as:

“The Kissing Hand” by Audrey Penn

“David Goes to School” by David Shannon

“Will I Have a Friend?” by Miriam Cohen

school. This is her favorite t-shirt. This is Mommy picking up Avery when school is over.” ›› Tell stories about when you went to school and share how you felt about it. Find childhood pictures of yourself and other adults in your child’s life and talk about the photos. ›› Most importantly, remember that separation is a process. Expect that your child (and you) will need time to feel comfortable with the new situation.

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Advice From

PRESCHOOL TEACHERS “It is crucial to choose a preschool that values play. So much emphasis today is placed on academic skills, but the real emphasis should be on helping children develop the social skills needed for successful play. Building a block tower with a friend involves learning to work cooperatively as well as math and small muscle development. Dramatic play develops language and problem solving.

These are just two examples of the importance of play. The preschool years are so important in a child’s development, we need to treasure this precious time and not rob our children of play time that can never be replaced.”

TAMI NEEL

20 years preschool experience “The first weeks of preschool can be filled with excitement and fear of separation anxiety by every parent. The smoothest transition includes a quick and simple hug, 'I love you' and an assurance that you will be back to pick them up. The sooner you are out of sight the sooner a teacher can distract them with a new activity or a friend. Be assured, most preschoolers are very curious and become engaged within the classroom and friends within a short time!”

EMILY MCNULTY

22 years preschool experience

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4 adjustments for preschoolers BATHROOM SKILLS 101

INTRO TO DINING

Going to the bathroom at school often takes the top spot on kids’ list of anxieties, and for good reason: Young children still don’t have total control of their bladder.

Teachers will schedule bathroom breaks, but reassure your child that he can ask to go any time. Explain that even if he does have an accident, the teacher will help —and that he shouldn’t worry, since it happens to lots of kids. You can help make your child’s bathroom trips easier by ensuring that he can undo his buttons and snaps—avoid overalls and tights.

Your child’s fine motor skills are still developing, so opening plastic containers or sandwich bags can easily turn into a frustrating battle. Avoid mealtime meltdowns by running through a few “practice” school lunches at home. You’ll learn what she can’t open and have time to rethink your packing technique.

BUS BASICS That giant yellow bus can make any kid tremble, and it’s easy to see why: Chances are your child has never set foot in anything larger than an SUV. Take a walk with your child to her bus stop before school starts and go over the essential info she needs to know. Tell her that you’ll introduce her to the driver and that he’ll make sure everyone on the bus stays safe. You might suggest that she sit near the driver —she may feel more relaxed being close to an adult.

FRIENDSHIP FINE ARTS Walking into a classroom full of new faces can make any kid quiver. To boost his bravery, give him a refresher course in making friends. Lesson one: Assure him that his classmates are just as nervous as he is. Talk about how you made friends at a new job or mommy group—maybe you were worried at first, but everything turned out just fine.

Try role-playing to help your child feel comfortable. And don’t forget to cover the ways your child can be a good friend, such as sharing and taking turns. Praise him when he shares toys or waits to use the swing at the park, and explain that kids will be happy when he does the same at school.

5 educational apps

FOR PRESCHOOLERS STARFALL

Starfall is the brain-child of Stephen Schutz. At age 9, Stephen was still struggling to read. What came easily for his peers required many more hours of his work. As a reader, he was consistently toward the bottom of his class. Now a PhD in physics and a successful publisher and artist, Dr. Schutz, with the help of his dedicated team, created Starfall to ensure today’s children have resources that can help.

FOOTSTEPS TO BRILLIANCE Are you maximizing your children’s full potential?

Neuroscientists confirm that reading has a massive impact on brain function and can dramatically improve understanding in nearly all school subjects.

You and your child will delight with an entire library of beautifully written and illustrated eBooks and over 230 educational games to read and play together.

You’ll laugh and learn as the stories come to life with animations and music.

ABC MOUSE ABCmouse.com members enjoy full access to our online preschool, pre-k, and kindergarten curriculum!

With more than 5,000 fun and interactive learning activities that teach reading, math, beginning science and social studies, art, music, and much more, this program offers a one-stop location for all of your family’s educational needs.

MONKEY PRESCHOOL LUNCHBOX Hone a wide range of preschool skills with this junglethemed app. Bright colors, kid-friendly graphics and recognizable images (such as fruit) help children intuitively understand the rules of the game. This app teaches almost everything your preschooler will want to work on—shapes, letters, puzzles, counting, colors, matching and more.

BOOK BUILDER Pick your own path through fun and interactive storybooks for kids. Perfect for early readers, this app encourages kids to follow the read-along text as they navigate through exciting stories. Kids can explore oceans, exotic islands, outer space and fantasy worlds as they pick their path to build exciting stories.

Stories are aligned with school standards to help kids learn skills teachers say are most important.

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Say What?

FROM OUR READERS

Our readers asked their kids following question:

"Why do we celebrate Valentine's Day and/or who will be your Valentine this year?"

“Because it’s a holiday! Mom and Dad are my Valentines.”

- Penny, age 6

“We celebrate because there needs to be a day of the year where we give people Valentine cards, so you can find your true love.

My Valentine is Corbin from school."

- Sydney, age 6“

“Because we get candy and love notes.”

-Cora, age 5

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“Because I love being with my family...it is my best time ever!”

- Madigan, age 3

“We celebrate to show people how much we love them on Valentine’s Day and every day.”

- Baylor, age 5

“We celeb rate b ever ybody ecause likes ever ybody ! My Mama w is my Valent ine."

-E mmy, age 4

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