Owensboro Parent – December '24 // January '25

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BEHIND THE SCENES

WHAT ARE THE BEST HOLIDAY

TREATS?

EDITORIAL EDITOR

Ashley Wedding

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My Memaw’s peanut butter fudge. I only make it around the holidays to share with family and friends.

We lost Memaw this year, so it will be extra special to make this Christmas.

ASHLEY

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Buckeyes or peanut butter fudge but I really love them all.

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My mom’s homemade iced sugar cookies!

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My favorite treat at Christmas time is a big cup of hot chocolate with marshmallows.

I’m also a big fan of peppermint bark — Bonus if you put the two together!

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Sugar cookie or peppermint lattes, gingerbread cookies, and the Little Debbie Christmas tree cakes!

JAMIE

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Contents

D E C 2 0 2 4 / / JA N 2 0 2 5

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More Than Coffee Red Swing’s Journey to Serve Community and Connection

18

IN EVERY ISSUE

How a local sixth grader is

8 Parent Profile

Driven By Faith bringing his friends closer to God

24

The Power of Purpose A local teen’s story of pageants and philanthropy

7 Around OBKY

Resilience and Love

10

Daughters

37

The Evolving Magic of Christmas

Genuine Perspectives from a Mom of Five

Planning for the Future

OUT & ABOUT 48

Events Calendar

12

Rekindling the Joy of Christmas in a Busy World

Our list of fun things to do around town this season!

Real Life with Lora Wimsatt

52

Kids Meal Deals

MAKING IT

Check out these local kids meal deals!

Recipe

Christmas Brownie Bite Gnomes

FROM OUR READERS

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Craft Time

Reindeer Food Cones: A Magical Craft for Christmas Eve

Owensboro Families Reflect on the Legacies of Their

SPECIAL SECTION

KEEPING IT REAL

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36 Easing Separation Anxiety During the Holidays

6 From the Editor

DISCOVER 32

The Book Nook

Reading Resolutions

Letters to Santa

from Local First Graders 58

Fun on the Farm

Photos submitted to our Facebook page sponsored by Owensboro Health!

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BEHIND THE SCENES ASHLEY’S TOP PICKS A NEW TRADITION I’ve always admired the nostalgic ceramic Christmas trees that so many families pass down through the generations, but it was never a tradition in my family. Last year, Avery and I decided to create our own at a local store called Hammer & Stain. We spent a couple of hours together carefully painting the tree, having fun getting creative with the colors. It felt special to start this new family tradition, and I love that now we have something meaningful to pass down to my kids — and eventually, to their kids as well.

HOT CHOCOLATE BAR

Every year, I set up a hot chocolate bar for my kids as part of our Christmas tradition, paired with a classic Christmas movie like Elf or Home Alone. I make hot chocolate (just instant Swiss Miss) in a themed mug and fill the table with all sorts of fun toppings — candy canes, whipped cream, marshmallows, and chocolate chips. I also include a variety of cookies for dipping.

The kids love customizing their hot cocoa with these delicious additions, making it the perfect way to enjoy a holiday movie night, snuggled up together and savoring the season.

OP THROWBACK

Jade Keller, who graced the cover of Owensboro Parent in 2012 at just 9 years old, is now a thriving 21-year-old nursing student at the University of Louisville Owensboro Extension. Currently in her second semester, Jade is on track to graduate in December 2025. This past summer, she completed an externship in the Mother-Baby unit, where she discovered a deep passion for working with mothers and their newborns. While she plans to further her education after graduation, her specific path in nursing is still unfolding. Outside of school, Jade treasures her time with family and friends, stays active, and loves to travel and explore new places.

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From the Editor As we come off an unforgettable fall break trip, I find myself reflecting on three lessons from our adventure that will shape how we approach the holiday season.

Instead of our usual family beach trip, we opted for an adventure out west, exploring California’s treasures: the vibrant streets of San Francisco, the towering giants of Redwood National Park, the serene beauty of Lake Tahoe, and the majesty of Yosemite.

It was a week filled with breathtaking sights and uninterrupted family time, literally unplugged in places with almost no cell service. From sunup to sundown, we embraced each moment, fully present, savoring every bit of adventure together.

That week reminded me of the importance of presence over perfection. Sometimes, as we head into the holiday season, it’s easy to get wrapped up in making everything look picture-perfect. But this trip reminded me that what matters most are those real, sometimes imperfect, moments shared with loved ones. A messy picnic in Yosemite was just as memorable as any fancy dinner, and I’m planning to carry that mindset into the holidays.

I also learned the importance of balancing busy and beautiful. Packing every day with activity during our trip helped us make the most of it, but it also taught me to find a rhythm where we didn’t rush from one sight to the next. I want the holiday season to have a similar flow—keeping the joy and excitement without overdoing it or burning out. Slowing down and truly savoring the beautiful moments is a balance I’m committed to finding.

Finally, this adventure gave me a renewed appreciation for joy in simple moments. Whether it was laughing over silly car games or watching the kids’ awe as they took in some of the nation’s most amazing sights, the simplest parts of our trip became some of the most treasured. This season, I’m letting go of holiday “to-dos” that don’t serve us and focusing on creating space for connection, simplicity, and joy.

The holiday season is upon us, and I’m looking forward to applying these lessons from our California adventure, reminding myself and my family to be present, to seek balance, and to find joy in the little moments that make up this special time of year.

AROUND OBKY COUNTRY HEIGHTS STUDENT HONORED AT COLTS GAME, SELECTED AS PEYTON MANNING CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL PATIENT AMBASSADOR Beau Ehlschide, a student at Country Heights Elementary School, has been selected as a Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital Patient Ambassador.

He was also honored by the Indianapolis Colts as the “Kick-Off Kid” on Sunday during their home game against the Buffalo Bills.

Beau, who manages Type 1 Diabetes, was recommended to be a Patient Ambassador for Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital by his endocrinologist.

As a Patient Ambassador, he will represent other young patients across the region, highlighting the strength and determination of children facing serious health challenges.

“Beau has been living with diabetes since preschool,” said Beau’s mother, Erica. “He handles everything that comes his way with strength and perseverance while keeping a positive outlook. We are honored that Peyton Manning Children’s Hospital recognized this in him as well and asked him to be a Patient Ambassador.”

In recognition of his journey and advocacy, the Colts selected Beau to take part in a special honor on Sunday. As the Kick-Off Kid, he got to be on the field to retrieve the kicking tee after the opening kickoff at Lucas Oil Stadium.

His family also got to sit in the press box, and Beau received a Colts jersey and autographs from three players. Colts’ defensive lineman Taven Bryan also gave Beau his game gloves and towel.

“It was the BEST day and it was amazing to get this opportunity,” Beau said.

LOCAL CHEERLEADER TO PERFORM IN THE PHILADELPHIA THANKSGIVING DAY PARADE Izzy Reynolds from Owensboro Catholic Middle School in Owensboro, KY has been selected along with more than 500 junior high and high school cheerleaders and dancers from across the U.S. to perform in the Annual Philadelphia Thanksgiving Day Parade, the oldest Thanksgiving Day parade in the nation.

The individuals invited to perform in the parade are cheerleading and dance All-Americans selected from Varsity Spirit camps around the country. Izzy earned the All-American title via tryout based on superior cheerleading or dance skills. Only the top 15% of the cheerleaders and dancers who attend Varsity Spirit camps in the summer receive this honor and the chance to march in this prestigious Thanksgiving Day Parade. The AllAmerican group will be in Philadelphia from November 26 through the 29, practicing their routine and visiting Philadelphia landmarks.

All-Americans will perform alongside massive floats and giant balloons, as well as favorites from the entertainment world as the 2024 Thanksgiving Day Parade makes its way through the heart of historic Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. The event is televised in the Philadelphia area and syndicated throughout the United States.

STUDENT

SPOTLIGHT

Meadow Lands Elementary students Jeannie and Catherine helped district and school leaders survey several students and staff members.

Their work will help the school make decisions for improvement.

Newton Parrish Elementary kindergarten student Kacen Leach was featured in the Wall Street Journal in August, highlighting back to school. How cool!

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AROUND OBKY

Photo by Daniel Benedict

PA R E N T P R O F I L E

David & Rebecca Johnson A LO N G W I T H T H E I R T H R E E S O N S , G R A N T , B R O O KS & M I L E S !

TELL US ABOUT YOUR

MOST CHALLENGING

FAMILY.

PART OF PARENTING?

David was born and raised in Owensboro. He graduated with a bachelor’s degree at the University of Kentucky. After receiving his law degree, he moved back to Owensboro, and started practicing law with his father, Louis. This year marks 16 years of David practicing law. I (Rebecca) grew up on a family farm in Northwest Missouri. I graduated with a bachelor’s degree in social science at Missouri Western, and moved to Owensboro after falling in love with the town during a visit with friends. Two months after moving, I met David, and we married the following year. I spent three years working with kids with autism at DCPS, and am now a stay at home mom of our 3 boys. Grant, age 10, is our scholar, who loves games and music. Brooks, age 8, enjoys all things sports. Miles, age 6, is our mathematician, who works harder than anyone to make people laugh.

At this age consistency is key. It sounds simple, but it is work. Rules are easy to make.

Consistently enforcing the rules is harder. We can effortlessly make resolutions, but it’s a job to help kids make it a habit.

Children thrive on consistency.

It provides security and enforces good behavior. However, the schedule gets hectic, we get tired, and good habits can fly out the window, never to return.

It’s challenging to be consistent daily, when it’s not popular, and simultaneously meeting each child’s needs differently.

WHAT IS IT LIKE BEING

PARENTS TO ALL BOYS?

Boys make a home exciting, and keep us on our toes. We are in sports year round. Our home is loud, competitive, and full of new ideas (some exciting and some terrible). One morning, while David worked, I enjoyed a peaceful shower. The baby napped, and the two older (3 and 5 years at the time) peacefully played with a big empty cardboard box. What could possibly go wrong? It was a rare moment of no one needing me, crying, or pounding on the bathroom door, trying to get in. Enjoying the peacefulness, I thought to myself, “Our boys are getting easier, more independent, and I am starting to master this parenting thing.” My reality check came as I walked down stairs and heard quiet giggling and splashing of water. Our innovative boys were in their swim trunks, and had filled the cardboard box with pitchers of water. With faces of pure joy and pride, they explained how they made an indoor swimming pool out of the box. Beneath the slash park lay my brand new hardwood floors. You can imagine my reaction! It’s life with boys! They are lots of fun, and can’t be left unsupervised for long.

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MOST REWARDING?

Our children following after the Lord is by far the most rewarding part of parenting. We’ve done our best to lead them into a relationship with the Lord. When we see our kids praying, reading their bible, and showing good character (even when we aren’t around), we have confidence that their faith is genuine. We echo the scripture in 3 John 1:4 which says, “I have no greater joy than to hear my children are walking in truth.”

WHAT IS YOUR

BIGGEST PIECE OF

PARENTING ADVICE?

Parenting is more about being present than perfect. Statistics are grossly in favor for children that regularly share meals with their family. They tend to make better grades, be more physically and emotionally healthy, less likely to get in trouble with the school or the law, and the list goes on. Oftentimes we worry as parents that we are making the right decisions in child rearing. When it comes down to it, I think it’s more important to build connection. Whether it be playing a silly game, sharing a snack, or having a conversation, make some point everyday all about fostering your parent-child relationship.

Keeping it Real RELATABLE STORIES

FROM LOCAL

PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS

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KEEPING IT REAL

The Evolving Magic of Christmas N

o matter a person’s age, nationality,

to the next December 25. Christmas

candle light service, look at Christmas

or religion; the word “Christmas”

was way more than just a word, it was

lights, and read Twas’ the Night Before

EVERYTHING to my childhood self.

Christmas.

is familiar. The meaning of the word may differ, however. Sometimes, even

It happened on the school bus,

So much of what made Christmas

in the course of one’s life the meaning

when Christmas began to take on a

of Christmas changes. That is the case

new meaning for me. What started

an important aspect of my childhood

for me.

as a period of change didn’t take long

has found its way into the lives of my children. I find joy in finding the

I could swear I heard footsteps

to shift. Many of the same Christmas

downstairs on the hardwood floor. I

traditions remained—my core childhood

knew for sure I heard a thump on the roof

memories replaying through my teen

and bells ringing in the distance. I didn’t

and early adult years. Christmas Eves

sleep. Couldn’t sleep. The anticipation

were still filled with midnight mass,

of the next morning weighed heavily

Christmas lights, and barely any sleep.

on my little mind. There wasn’t a single

The excitement of trying to catch

morning and day and the quiet and

December 25 where I didn’t beat the sun

a glimpse of Santa had faded, but

peace that December 26 brings. It

up.

Christmas morning still began before

isn’t always the kids waking me up on

That was Christmas. It was the

the sun, filled with family, laughter, and

Christmas morning and rushing to see

night before Christmas dressing up in

love. Despite my changing perspective,

what is under the tree, oftentimes I am

matching church clothes and going to

the magic of Christmas was far from

the one rushing from room to room

the midnight service (which actually

gone.

screaming with excitement.

perfect gifts for each of my children. I love reading the Christmas story from the Bible before laying baby Jesus in the manger on Christmas morning. I love the hustle and bustle of Christmas

started at midnight). It was the singing

It wasn’t until a decade ago, when

No matter if I was a small kid

in the kids choir, the driving around

I discovered my favorite meaning of

hearing the sounds of reindeer feet and

to look at Christmas lights, and the

Christmas. It is a feeling unmatched in

reading of Twas’ the Night Before

life; experiencing Christmas through

sleigh bells, or a teenager anticipating

Christmas. It was marking off the days

the eyes of my children. This year, in

on the calendar, that first snow day

our home, each child is at a different

(back when those were a thing), and the

level of Christmas “meanings.” Asher,

start of Christmas Break from school.

my oldest, may start to see things a

It was the waking up early, wrapping

little differently. And Adley Joe is just

paper covering the living room floor,

beginning the Christmas magic. The

big dinners at Grandma’s house, and

nostalgia that exists in each of my core

finally finding out who drew my name.

memories as a child plays out over and

like myself, creating magical memories

It was the placing baby Jesus in his bed

over in the core memories I am trying

for my children. The true magic of

in the manger and remembering the

to create for my own children. The day

Christmas never disappears, it just

true meaning of Christmas. December

after Thanksgiving, we decorate the

presents itself in different ways. So find

26 was just the start to the countdown

Christmas tree. Christmas eve, we go to

your magic this Christmas.

what I would unwrap, or just a mom watching Christmas through the eyes of my children, Christmas has meaning.

It may be obvious, like that in the mind of a youthful self, it may have to be searched for, like an egotistical young adult, or it may have to be made,

WRITTEN BY ANDREA KING Andrea is an 8th grade Language Arts teacher and a mom of 5, who loves to spend her “spare time”

fishing, worshiping or reading a good book.

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KEEPING IT REAL R E A L L I F E W I T H L O R A W I M S AT T

F

Rekindling the Joy of Christmas in a Busy World or many adults, the spirit of Christmas is about as bright as a burned-out lightbulb that

makes the whole tree go dark.

Somewhere along the way, the

magic faded. Santa, his elves and reindeer are still part of the season, but now the holiday hustle and bustle seems to steal away the joy we once felt as kids.

Shopping is a hassle. Who thought it was a good idea to put all those stores out on 54, especially with all that construction crowding the lanes even closer together? Apparently the bypass (or whatever it’s called these days) is a combination of the Indy 500 and the demolition derby, and don’t even think

of wrapping paper that somehow

ice making everything more difficult

always roll right off the end of the

than it already is?

about finding a parking space within a

table,

mile of the store.

disappear, and tape that runs out with

Online shopping is not much

scissors

that

mysteriously

three packages remaining.

Ho ho ho.

Maybe it’s time to step back and start all over.

better, what with the stress of scrolling

Office tensions are running high

desperately through the options to

as co-workers bicker over who worked

find the best price, free shipping, and

Thanksgiving three years in a row

guaranteed delivery by Christmas Eve

and should therefore have priority for

– and that’s not even counting the

vacation time at Christmas, and in the

The people gathered around the

worries of your precious purchases

meantime, you had forgotten that the

tree were more important than what

being snapped up by some predatory

schools are closed starting Dec. 19 this

was under the tree.

porch pirate.

year and now you’re left scrambling for

Cooking and baking become a

a babysitter on those extra days.

chore rather than a delight. Maybe it’s

It might be easier to bring about

time for that three-generation recipe

world peace than it is to juggle how you

with 46 ingredients to fade away once

are going to spend the holidays with

and for all. After all, does anyone really

in-laws vs. outlaws, with grandparents

care if the fruitcake is homemade or

living in different time zones all

store-bought – and for that matter,

clamoring to see the children open

who likes fruitcake anyway?!?

their gifts on Christmas morning.

Wrapping gifts is a big mess that

And what could possibly be worse

takes over the kitchen table with rolls

than a white Christmas, with snow and

Go back to when Christmas really was magical – and it had nothing to do with snow or shopping or fruitcake.

The gift children will remember all their lives is the same one we adults will remember if we will only stop long enough to reflect on our own memories. It wasn’t wrapped in pretty paper with a bow on top.

It was the gift of being together to celebrate love.

That is a light that will never burn out.

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WRITTEN BY LORA WIMSATT Lora is a mother, grandmother and writer. She enjoys the everyday blessings and adventures of life, especially her family.

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ACTIVITIES FAMILIES CAN ENJOY TOGETHER

Photo by Jamie Plain

Making it

CRAFTS, RECIPES, AND

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MAKING IT

RECIPE

CHRISTMAS BROWNIE BITE GNOMES Looking to add something to your Holiday dessert table that is easy to make but leaves a huge impact? These little gnomes are sweet treats that require very few ingredients and take minimal effort to make. In our recipe, we use a simple boxed brownie mix and a mini muffin tin to make our brownie bites. If you wanted to make things even easier, you could even buy the alreadymade brownie bites from your grocery’s bakery! You could also make your own frosting or use it right from the can as we did - it can be as simple as you’d like! Enjoy these cute and delicious brownie bites at your next holiday gathering!

INGREDIENTS:

›› Box brownie mix (plus any

ingredients needed on the back of the box) or store-bought brownie bites ›› Cream cheese frosting ›› Strawberries ›› Reese’s Puff Cereal

brownie bites, skip these steps! ›› Cut the greens off your strawberries

to ensure a flat surface. ›› Fill a piping bag with your frosting

(you could also use a ziplock bag with the corner cut if you don’t have a piping bag and tip available). Frost the top of the brownie bites, then

INSTRUCTIONS: ›› Preheat oven to 350°. Grease a mini

muffin pan and set aside. ›› Mix the brownie mix by following

the directions and ingredients used on the box. Bake fully following their

place the cut strawberries on top of the frosting. ›› Once the strawberries are on,

frost the beards onto the side of the brownie bites. Then add a Reese’s

baking times and let them cool

Puff to the frosting to make the nose.

completely. If you use store-bought

They are now ready to be served!

RECIPE AND PHOTO BY JAMIE PLAIN Jamie Plain is a nationally published culinary and commercial photographer working as a full-time staff photographer for Tanner Publishing. She has a knack for making tasty food and pretty art. See more of her portfolio at jaastudios.com.

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Photo by Jamie Plain

MAKING IT

CRAFT TIME

REINDEER FOOD CONES

A Magical Craft for Christmas Eve

Get ready to add a touch of holiday magic to your Christmas Eve with this adorable DIY reindeer food cone craft! These reindeer cones are easy to make and will delight kids as they prepare a special treat to help guide Santa’s reindeer.

SUPPLIES YOU’LL NEED: ›› Brown craft paper ›› Scissors ›› Clear tape or glue ›› Brown pipe cleaners (for antlers) ›› Markers (black) ›› Googly eyes (optional) ›› Red pom-pom (for Rudolph's nose) ›› Oats ›› Edible glitter or sprinkles (in festive

colors) STEP-BY-STEP INSTRUCTIONS:

Make the Reindeer Cone ›› Cut a 6x6-inch square of brown

glue. This will form the reindeer’s

edible glitter and festive sprinkles.

"head."

The oats serve as the "food," while the glitter and sprinkles add a magical

Add the Reindeer Face

touch!

›› Place the red pom-pom midway

down the cone to create Rudolph’s

Fill the Cone

nose.

›› Spoon the reindeer food mixture

›› Draw two eyes just above the pom-

into the cone until it’s about three-

pom with a black marker, or attach

quarters full, making it easy for kids

googly eyes for added character.

to carry without spilling.

›› Twist two pipe cleaners into antler

›› This cute reindeer food cone craft

shapes and attach them to the back

is a simple, fun activity that will

of the cone so they extend above the

help your kids feel involved in the

face.

Christmas magic. Come Christmas Eve, they can sprinkle the food

craft paper. ›› Roll the paper into a cone shape

Prepare the Reindeer Food

outside to guide Santa’s reindeer

and secure the edge with tape or

›› In a small bowl, mix oats with

right to your home!

WRITTEN BY ASHLEY WEDDING Ashley is the editor of Owensboro Parent Magazine. She enjoys everyday adventures with her

husband, Drew, and their three kids, Avery, Reed and Mason.

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AND PLACES THAT MAKE OWENSBORO GREAT

Photo by Jamie Plain

Community

THE PEOPLE

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COMMUNITY

Driven by Faith

How a local sixth grader is bringing his friends closer to God

A

popular verse of scripture from

on how a single thought changed his

to reach his closest friends, and more

the book of Matthew, has been

life and reshaped his dream to make a

kids at his school, Abel embarked on a

interpreted many ways over

lasting difference.

mission. Once a week, for 30 minutes,

the course of time. It has been most

“I was just sort of thinking in class

kids would gather in his garage in a

commonly associated with possessing a

one day,” he said. “I knew that many of

circle. A support system of sorts was

“childlike” faith, trusting fully in Christ.

my friends didn’t go to church, and I just

established as bible study members

Abel Farmer is a 6th grader at

got it on my mind. It sort of bothered

began to gather on couches and bean

me.”

bags.

Daviess County Middle School. He’s a charismatic kid, who loves to play

That thought sparked an idea, and

To help make the study more

basketball, and spend time with his

that idea has now grown into a bible

inviting, Abel offers snacks. Chips,

friends. It just so happens that he

study that continues to grow, facilitated

according to the sixth grader, are a

is also driven by an immense faith

fully by a sixth grade student with a

bible study staple.

that motivates him to love others – a

vision.

“It’s kind of been an ongoing joke

The son of Andy and Amber

at my church,” Abel said. He attends

Farmer, Abel along with the support of

Owensboro Christian Church with his

Compelled to take a different path

his parents, set out to change things in

family, and his pastor has even joined in

and driven by his heart, Abel reflects

a positive way. Having been inspired

on the fun.

childlike faith, reflective in everything he does.

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“My pastor stood on stage one

Having held onto his vision, since

Sunday with a bag of chips in his hand,”

launching his own bible study, the seed

Abel said. “Everything’s better with

Abel has planted has only grown.

bible study topics.

“Abel always talks about different topics that are good,” Levi said.

“I have a friend in Union County

Although he is just a boy, somewhat

Aside from the snacks and the

who has started his own bible study

likened to David in the Bible, there is no

fellowship, Abel feels confident both

too. I hope more of them pop up,” Abel

the discussion topics and the prayer

said.

giant he fears. He stands firm within his

chips after all.”

requests given are making a difference in the lives of his friends.

Averaging 10-13 friends a week, Abel is a young person unlike most.

When asked about the impact of Abel’s bible study, many of his friends were quick to note the positive influence it has had on their lives.

He stays focused on facilitating an

“It’s a super fun place to learn

independent bible study that appeals

about God with my friends,” Brayden

to young people, while staying true to

Hagan said.

the gospel. He hopes to keep things relevant and interesting.

“I like to ask them questions

Friends Levi Hausner and Reece Rowan also added that they loved the social aspect.

faith, devoted to service, determined to spread the gospel, encouraging everyone in his path.

When asked about his future plans, Abel isn’t one to shy away from what lies on his heart. He explains by leaning into one of his favorite bible verses.

“Philippians 4:13 says that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. Someday I hope to

sometimes,” he said. “I want to do this

“I go there to learn about Jesus,

baptize my friends. That might sound

on my own, I want them to think about

spend time with my friends who also

kind of weird, but not to me. That’s the

why they show up every week. I want

love Jesus, and I like getting to hang

goal,” he said.

their head in the game. I’ve seen a lot of

out with them after bible study. I am

them get locked in, and that’s awesome

learning how to pray,” Reece said.

when that happens!”

That kind of love inspires both young and old. An endearing love – one

Levi Hausner is a big fan of the

that we could all learn from.

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WRITTEN BY ERINN WILLIAMS Erinn Williams adores her hubby, cats, hardback church hymnals and a hot mess of fried okra. She’s new in town, trading in mountains and streams for soybeans and burgoo, and refers to herself as “a little hillbilly in a great big world.”

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COMMUNITY

More Than Coffee

Red Swing’s Journey to Serve Community and Connection

Photo by Jamie Plain

B

rittany and Brandon Dukes, a dynamic husband-and-wife duo from Owensboro, Kentucky, along with their two children, Bristol and Bronson Dukes, have been making a name for themselves in the community with their coffee shop, Red Swing Coffee.

Launched in May 2022, the coffee shop was born from a vision to offer not only great coffee but also a welcoming space where people can connect, linger, and feel at home. This vision has now driven their decision to open a second, larger location on West Parrish Avenue, which opened on November 11, 2024.

Brittany, a former library media specialist, and Brandon, a current school counselor, both share a background rooted in community service. The couple’s journey into opening Red Swing Coffee began with their venture into a small bakery called “The Cupcakery,” which allowed them to connect with customers, though mostly only on special occasions.

While they loved baking for special occasions, the Dukes wanted to create a place where customers could visit regularly and experience more, thus, they created Red Swing Coffee.

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COMMUNITY location will be one of the largest coffee shops in Kentucky, according to Brandon, with seating capacity three times that of their original shop. The space will also feature a

"We just knew we wanted customers to come back and have more of a full experience," Brittany explains. “We wanted a place where people could come, feel seen, and make connections.”

The coffee shop offers specialty coffee, breakfast and lunch items, and healthy options, providing something for everyone in a cozy, communityoriented space.

The Dukes initially opened Red Swing Coffee downtown, but they soon realized that the area’s seasonal nature limited traffic.

As such, they were eager to expand into a second, larger location on Owensboro's west side, an area they believe deserves more community-focused businesses.

In mid-2024, Brittany and Brandon purchased a building on West Parrish Avenue to house their second location, a decision driven by both practical needs and a desire to bring something unique to Owensboro’s west side. "We have a special place in our hearts for the west side," Brandon shares. "So many people focus on the east side, and the west side just seems like it needs more places where people can gather. We knew we had something to offer."

The new 7,000-square-foot

rentable room for additional seating or events, like parties, showers, and business meetings.

"We wanted to provide more than just a coffee shop," Brittany says.

"We wanted to create a space where people could host gatherings, or even work on creative projects, whether it’s writing a book, painting, or just being inspired by the environment."

Taking on the new project also meant Brittany stepping away from her long-held career as a library media specialist to focus on the business full-time. "It was very hard to step away," she says, reflecting on her 18-year career in education. "But it was an absolute leap of faith.”

Brandon continues to work full-time as a counselor, balancing the demands of both roles, which includes early mornings and late nights at the coffee shop. Both he and Brittany emphasize that this project has been a family affair, with their children helping with tasks like demo work and social media content creation. “I think we wore every hat— ordering, staffing, finances—it’s all us.

And it’s important that our kids are part of that, seeing the effort and love we put into this,” Brittany said.

For Brittany and Brandon, this second location is about more than expanding business— it’s a continuation of their passion for serving others and building community. "We’re passionate about making connections," Brandon explains. "It’s that interaction, seeing someone smile when they come in, knowing we’re part of their day. We come from a servant’s heart, and we want to make a difference, whether it’s through a great cup of coffee or just being a place where people feel welcome."

The Dukes are especially grateful for the warm community reception to Red Swing Coffee and for their dedicated employees who help carry the business’s mission forward. The gradual growth in customer interest, particularly with the new location’s opening, has reinforced their commitment to quality and customer service.

Red Swing Coffee is open seven days a week from 7 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Monday through Saturday, and 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. on Sunday at 112 Allen Street in Owensboro, and 6:45 a.m. to 5 p.m.

Monday through Saturday, and 8 a.m. to 1 p.m. on Sunday at 2803 West Parrish Avenue.

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WRITTEN BY CHRISTIE NETHERTON Christie Netherton is the Community Engagement and Marketing Specialist for RiverValley

Behavioral Health. She is a local Kentuckian from Frankfort with a journalism degree from the University of Kentucky. She spends her free time roller skating at local parks, snuggling with her dog, and caring for her many houseplants.

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COMMUNITY

The Power of Purpose

A local teen’s story of pageants and philanthropy Owensboro High School freshmen Jalayla Huguely Phillips started doing pageants last year.

While many participants in the pageant circuit get their start at a younger age, Jalayla has found her recent pageant participation to be both successful and inspiring.

Although she has only been in the pageant world for a little over a year, she already holds the title of Miss Teen Daviess County 2023. During that reign she started the International United Miss (IUM) system, where she competed and currently holds the title International United Miss Kentucky Teen 2024.

Her mother Meagan Mauzy has discovered the world of pageants and talent stages that once made her apprehensive is actually a positive outlet for her daughter.

“Pageants may get a bad rap sometimes, and parents may worry about their child being in the spotlight, wearing makeup, looking older than their age, etc. I quickly found that IUM didn’t allow the participants to even wear makeup until the age Jalayla is in now – the teen competitions,” Mauzy said.

Not only did Jalayla compete for the International United Miss pageant this past summer, she also currently holds the Miss Crittenden County title as well.

“Jalayla has had a good experience with these pageants.They are putting the girls in the community in the right places, which is what pageants should be about – service to others, finding a voice and helping the community,” Meagan said.

Photo by Jamie Plain

One of the focus areas for Jalayla is to help other

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young people find their voice.

“She is really into creating her platform, Philma Literacy Learning Steps. She wants to create a safe place for children to have a love for reading and literature. She drafted her first book with a program called NaNoWriMo at school this past year. Along with

for Owensboro Dance Theatre in the

motivated. I don’t want to have to tell

apprentice company, she has grown in

her to practice – she always just shows

confidence and in performance.

up and shows out.”

“It’s awesome to see how much she

Much of her motivation comes

has grown in the past year and a half –

from her Granna, Della J. Phillips, a long

her public speaking skills, confidence,

time local educator who served in the

leadership and self-motivation have

Owensboro Public Schools.

increased. She has acquired leadership

“My mom was a teacher for over 60

skills, interviewing skills, and goal

years. She is the reason behind Jalayla

setting. One of her goals is to get into

learning to read at an early age,” Meagan

the USA system. She is working on

said. “Because of this, Jalayla dedicated

her dream to get into this. She plays

the book she wrote, ‘The Boy Across the

her platform, she wants to get involved

the violin, participates in dance, and

Room,’ to my mom when she finished it.”

in the schools and reach elementary

musical theatre, so she would like to

As far as future plans, Phillips

school kids as soon as possible,” Mauzy

refine some of those talents to enter

would like to be an OBGYN when she

said.

into the USA system at some point,”

grows up. For now, she enjoys inspiring

Meagan said.

audiences with her words, which are

Jalayla’s love for reading came naturally, as she learned to make her

As far as the talent portion of

way through the pages of a book before

her competition skills, when Jalayla

starting school. By the time she started

participated in the International United

are required to give an

Kindergarten, she could already read.

Miss Kentucky Teen, she won second

to the audience and judges. Jalayla’s

beyond her years.

In the pageant process, participants ntroduction

“She started reading at four and

runner up in her optional talent as a

introduction starts with, “Under the

she felt that really helped her to find

spokesmodel. Set up similar to a TED

deep blue sea lives a magical creature

her voice,” Meagan said.

“She wants

talk, Phillips was livestreamed during

who once said, ‘Who says my dreams

other students to have that opportunity

the pageant in front of an audience of

have to stay just my dreams?’”

too, to be able to find a love for reading

around 350 people.

and writing as well.”

Watching

the

“I’m most proud that over the past growth

of

year and a half I have been able to grow

Jalayla’s volunteer work includes

confidence in her daughter is just one

my faith and passion for service and be

connections to Mentor Kids, Borrowed

reason that Meagan is proud of the

active with making my dreams come

Hearts and Dolly Parton’s Imagination

accomplishments Jalayla has made in

true,” Jalayla said. “My passion now is

Library, Daviess County Public Library’s

the last year and a half.

fueled by God’s guided steps in wanting

chapter. Not only does she love to give

“Just her drive and ambition, and

to be the best version of myself where I

back to her community, but she is very

her heart for service makes me proud,”

can make my community and my family

involved in the arts too. As a dancer

Meagan said. “She’s always been self-

proud.”

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WRITTEN BY LAURA MURPHY Laura serves as the Instructional Coach at College View Middle School. She has five kids who keep her

life interesting; Jonah, Lily, Josiah, Judson and Jasmine. She survives on Grape Spark, Jon Gordan books and all things Grumpy Cat.

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OW E N S B O R O FA M I L I E S R E F L E C T O N T H E L E G AC I E S O F T H E I R DAU G H T E R S

Resilience & Love Arabella

Georgia

In Owensboro, two families recount journeys marked by hardship, resilience, and enduring community support.

The Dempseys and the Powells each cared for and lost a daughter with rare and lifethreatening conditions. Yet, both families remain grounded by memories of their children’s spirits and the love they received from their community.

Facing Rare Childhood Diagnoses, the Dempsey and Powell Families Share Stories of Love, Strength, and Community Support

Arabella Dempsey Palmer and Lisa Dempsey’s daughter, Arabella, was diagnosed with multiple disabilities yet remained a mystery to doctors despite extensive genetic testing. As doctors struggled to determine a primary diagnosis and Arabella continued to defy the odds, her parents effectively referred to her as a “unicorn.” The Dempseys said she was a unique and spirited child whose resilience defied medical predictions from the start.

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"We knew at 12 weeks she was going to have some kind of challenge, but we didn’t know what it would be,” Lisa said.

Despite being told every two weeks that she might not make it, Arabella persisted, born into a world that doctors warned she might never see.

"She just kept doing things that surprised everyone,” Palmer said.

Determined

to

give

Arabella

and their older daughter, Kylee, the

best life, the Dempseys made a difficult decision. Lisa moved to Cincinnati before Arabella’s birth, where she was overseen by a specialized team at the Children’s Hospital who could provide the care their unborn daughter needed. Palmer stayed home with Kylee and to work. The two traveled every weekend to be with Lisa.

With unwavering support from friends, family, and the Owensboro community, they navigated a whirlwind of challenges.

“Our community was amazing,” Lisa recalled. “He had a group of friends who organized a fundraiser for us, and my coworkers donated time off so I’d never miss a paycheck.”

The family’s sacrifices were immense; Lisa left her job, and the Dempseys accepted around-the-clock assistance from nurses. Yet their focus remained on making Arabella and Kylee’s life as joyful as possible. They traveled to baseball games, beaches, Niagara Falls, and many community events in Owensboro, creating

a lifetime of memories in Arabella’s five years.

Her

parents

emphasized

the

importance of advocating for one's child.

“You know your child better than anyone. Even if every professional says something, you need to follow your heart,” Palmer said. “Arabella surprised everyone by achieving a level of independence that her doctors thought impossible.”

The Dempseys are forever grateful for Arabella's lasting impact on their family and others.

“Her presence enriched everyone she encountered,” Palmer said.

She spent time in school, attending both Seven Hills and Hagar, and cherished every experience, including chalk art and Friday night events.

“She achieved so much more than we ever thought possible,” Lisa added.

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COMMUNITY her joy and often tickling her to hear her laugh.

Amanda said she and her

family

felt

supported

the

always by

Owensboro

community.

“The support has been

overwhelming.

Meals were brought to us, and our kids’ schools have been evident

as

she overcame one

hurdle

after

another.

Although was and

she

daughter,

Georgia,

their journey.

her mother said she

“People want to help you, and

connected deeply with

sometimes, the best thing you can do is accept it graciously,” she said.

she said. “She was just always happy; her cheeks would flush

a

similarly tenacious spirit. Born prematurely and then diagnosed with

cerebral

palsy

after

contracting RSV, Georgia’s life was filled with doctor visits, therapy sessions, and countless obstacles.

when something was wrong, but otherwise, she just smiled.”

December 1, and she came fighting,”

admitted,

“There’s no guidebook for this. I’m learning as I go, but I’m grateful we live in a community that’s Georgia touched so many lives,

fellow students and staff alike.

even without words. She just

Amanda said Georgia attended

made everyone around her feel

Foust

comfortable.”

Elementary,

where

her

teachers worked closely with her.

“The school had a Special couldn’t talk, they knew how to

on

Amanda

where she quickly grew fond of

she radiated happiness. early,

forward,

been so giving and supportive.

Needs Unit, and even though she

arrived

While reflecting on moving

The Powells took her to school,

Yet, through it all, her mother said “She

family came to appreciate the

immobile,

know when she needed something,”

shared

challenging, but Amanda said the generosity as a necessary part of

“She had a way of letting us

Amanda and George Powell’s

Accepting help was initially

nonverbal

those around her.

Georgia Powell

incredibly helpful,” Amanda said.

care for her. She was just adored,” Amanda said.

The Dempseys and Powells have

experienced

unimaginable

loss, yet their stories are filled with memories of their daughters’ remarkable courage and joy along

four

with a community that rallied in

Despite a series of health

siblings played a significant role

support of two families of their

challenges, Georgia’s resilience was

in her life, finding ways to bring

own.

Amanda said.

She

added

that

her

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WRITTEN BY JOHN KIRKPATRICK John Kirkpatrick enjoys spending time with his wife, Tara and daughter Laney. He’s the assistant editor of the Owensboro Times and one heck of a T-ball coach.

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Discover

ADVICE AND TIPS ON HOW TO MAKE PARENTING AND LIFE EASIER

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DISCOVER THE BOOK NOOK

Reading Resolutions

BOOK NOOK CHALLENGE

This year, lead your family to be resolute about reading! Looking for a read aloud to cozy up with this winter? Check out these books, perfect for the holidays!

Be resolute about reading!

Reading is like exercise for the mind building cognitive strength, vocabulary flexibility, determination, and imagination. This is the year to make reading a priority in your family!

Consider one of these reading resolutions and reap the benefits of being a family that reads.

25 BOOKS A MONTH

MINUTE TO WIN IT

In 2025 commit to reading

This year use reading

aloud 25 picture books per

minutes as currency for

month. Just think, by the

other treats: video games,

end of the year, that’s 300

ice cream, etc. In time,

adventures for you all to

reading should become a

take!

reward of its own!

SNACK TIME STORY HOUR

MOTHER DAUGHTER BOOK CLUB

Rather than cartoons, make

Round up a group of your

the new habit of reading

daughter’s friends and

every afternoon during

their mothers. Choose

snack time.

a novel to read together

D.E.A.R TIME

It’s a classic! Make “Drop Everything And Read Time” a daily event in your house.

and plan weekly times to discuss! This is fun for Fathers and Sons too!

LIBRARY REGULARS

That means everyone, you

Make regular visits to the

too Dad, sits down and

public library a priority

reads. You might read

for your family this year.

aloud together or simply

Keep the stack of book

read side by side.

options fresh!

WRITTEN BY KATIE ALBERS Katie grew up in Owensboro and loved words so much that she became a school librarian and even alphabetized her family: Josh, Katie, Lance, Mallory, Noelle, Oaken, and Polly (the cat).

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Paid Advertorial OW E N S B O R O H E A LT H

Patient Family Advisory Councils Improving Care at Owensboro Health ONGOING WORK FOR PEDIATRIC PATIENTS AND THEIR FAMILIES On the pediatric side, the PFAC is improving

communication

for

families

with medically complex children. These families face challenges in coordinating care and ensuring they have the right medical supplies. One council member shared her child’s need for a specific medical supply, and the PFAC has worked with Owensboro Health to make sure these supplies are available when needed.

Shannon Parham explains, “Families with medically complex children often struggle to navigate the healthcare system.

A

t Owensboro Health, exceptional healthcare

involves

services to their needs.

By listening to their stories, we identify gaps

listening,

understanding, and working with

our patients and their families. Our Patient Family Advisory Councils (PFACs) are key to this effort. These councils, one for pediatric

in care and address them.”

IMPROVING CARE FOR GERIATRIC PATIENTS: SIMPLIFYING DISCHARGE INSTRUCTIONS

A SHARED COMMITMENT TO IMPROVEMENT The

PFACs

represent

Owensboro

care and the other for geriatric care, bring

The Geriatric PFAC recently completed

Health’s commitment to patient-centered

patients, families, and healthcare providers

a project to simplify after-visit summaries.

care. These councils meet monthly and

together

These discharge instructions are essential

work with healthcare leaders to make

for recovery but can be overwhelming for

improvements. “The councils are highly

older adults. Council member Linda Lynch

engaged, and their work is already making

shared her experience as a patient. “I’ve lived

an impact,” Shannon reflects. “We extended

to

improve

the

quality

and

experience of care.

A COMMUNITY VOICE IN HEALTHCARE Launched in early 2024, the PFACs give patients and families an active role in shaping healthcare services. By engaging those who use our services, we better understand their needs and make improvements. Owensboro Health’s Director of Patient Experience, Shannon Parham, explains, “Partnering with our communities is important. We wanted to ensure that the voices of our patients and

through open heart surgery, a stroke, and diabetes management. I know how it feels to go home with instructions that are hard to follow.” Her feedback helped the team refine these summaries to be clearer and easier to follow.

Caroline Henderson, a clinical program specialist for geriatrics, explains, “Having exposure to patients and their caregivers

their families are part of the conversation, so

through the council has helped me better

we can make meaningful changes.”

understand what matters to them. We’ve

their term to continue addressing important issues.”

LOOKING AHEAD The PFACs are committed to improving the patient experience. Owensboro Health is dedicated to listening to the people we serve and working with them to make healthcare better. The work of the PFACs is already helping

simplify

discharge

instructions

and improve communication for pediatric patients.

The councils focus on two key patient

worked to make discharge instructions

At Owensboro Health, personalized

populations: pediatric patients with complex

provide the information they need without

care is at the core of our mission. By listening

medical needs and geriatric patients who

complexity.”

to our patients and their families, we

often require ongoing care. These groups represent

vulnerable

members

of

our

community, making it essential to tailor our

The Geriatric PFAC has made discharge

continue to evolve and grow, ensuring every

instructions easier to understand, helping

patient receives the compassionate, expert

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Easing Separation Anxiety During the Holidays A

s

the

holiday

season

natural,

extreme

separation

Consistent Routines

approaches, gatherings and

anxiety that disrupts everyday

Develop

parties can heighten separation

activities may signal a deeper

rituals.

anxiety for some kids. Children

issue, especially in times of

may be around people they

transition or family stress.

rarely see, making it difficult to leave a parent or guardian. Not every child will experience this, but many do—myself included when I was young, as I only felt comfortable with certain family members.

Separation

anxiety

is

a

normal part of childhood, often surfacing between 6 months and 3 years, though it can appear in

older

children,

especially

during times of change. In some cases, separation anxiety becomes

intense

enough

to

disrupt a child’s life, known as Separation

Anxiety

Disorder

(SAD). Understanding it and learning ways to help can make a big difference for children and their families.

for comfort.

EXPERIENCE SEPARATION ANXIETY?

Separation anxiety often ties to factors like attachment style, temperament, life changes, or a heightened sensitivity to family stress. A stable and reassuring environment can help alleviate it.

SIGNS OF SEPARATION ANXIETY

Look

for

clinginess,

tantrums, physical symptoms (like

headaches

aches),

sleep

or

stomach

disturbances,

and a strong fear of separation.

Play Therapy Helps

children

express

and

process their fears.

Parental Involvement Caregivers should stay calm and reassuring during separations.

Address Root Causes For anxiety tied to family stress, focus on stability and support.

WHEN TO SEEK HELP

If

separation

anxiety

becomes intense or persistent,

These behaviors signal a child’s

professional

struggle with separation.

Cognitive-Behavioral

STRATEGIES FOR EASING

reflects

Alternative Coping Tools

help,

such

as

Therapy

(CBT), may be beneficial.

ANXIETY?

anxiety

goodbye

Use sensory aids like soft toys WHY DO CHILDREN

WHAT IS SEPARATION

This

predictable

a

SEPARATION ANXIETY

Gradual Exposure

child’s fear of being away from

By using supportive strategies and modeling calm responses, caregivers can help children

their primary caregiver. While

Slowly increase the time apart

feel secure and confident, even

a strong bond with parents is

from a caregiver.

during times of separation.

WRITTEN BY CHRISTINA DALTON, MSSW, LCSW Christina Dalton, is a District Social Worker for Daviess County Public Schools.

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S P E C I A L A DV E R T I S I N G S E C T I O N

Planning Planning for for the the Future Future

2025 is finally here!

Parents, take this time to rest and enjoy your family, but also prepare for the new year. Take the time to be ready for the future and make the most of your family resources.

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PLANNING FOR THE FUTURE

Talking to Teens About Credit, Debt, and Responsibility

A

s children enter their teenage years, it’s essential to have open conversations about credit, debt, and financial responsibility. While these topics may seem complex, discussing them early can help teens understand the consequences of their financial decisions. Here’s how to approach this important conversation.

START WITH THE BASICS OF CREDIT

Begin by explaining what credit is. Credit is essentially borrowing money with the promise to pay it back later, typically with interest. Use reallife examples, such as credit cards, to illustrate how credit works. Show how interest can make purchases more expensive over time if they’re not paid off in full.

DISCUSS THE IMPORTANCE OF CREDIT SCORES

ENCOURAGE FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY

Help your teen understand the concept of a credit score. Explain that a credit score is a number that reflects their creditworthiness, or how likely they are to repay debts.

Emphasize that maintaining a good credit score is important for future financial opportunities, such as buying a car or a house.

Help your teen understand the importance of budgeting and planning. Encourage them to track their expenses and set a spending limit, especially if they have access to credit cards or loans. This is an opportunity to teach them how to avoid impulse buying and make informed financial decisions.

THE RISKS OF DEBT

Introduce your teen to resources that can help them manage their money responsibly, such as budgeting apps or financial literacy websites.

Many banks also offer tools for teens to learn about money management while using a student account.

By having open and honest conversations about credit, debt, and responsibility, you’ll prepare your teen to navigate the complex world of personal finance with confidence.

Talk about the risks associated with taking on too much debt. Explain how it’s easy to get into financial trouble if they don’t keep track of their spending and borrowing. Use reallife scenarios to illustrate how debt can pile up and affect their financial future. Teach them that while credit can be useful, it’s essential to use it responsibly.

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PLANNING FOR THE FUTURE

Learning Together F I N A N C I A L L I T E R ACY ACT I V I T I E S FO R FA M I L I E S

L

earning

about

SET UP A FAMILY

money

doesn’t have to be a solitary

crafts, or offering yard work

SAVINGS CHALLENGE

services. Teach your kids how to

experience. In fact, teaching

Turn saving money into a

manage earnings, cover costs, and

kids about financial literacy can

fun competition. Set a family

save for future business ventures.

be a fun, family-centered activity.

savings goal, such as saving for a

This is a hands-on way for

Here are some creative financial

family trip, a new appliance, or a

children to learn about income,

literacy activities you can do as

charitable donation. Each family

expenses, and how to reinvest

a family to make learning about

member can contribute a small

profits for growth.

money interactive and enjoyable.

amount from their allowance or and offer rewards or incentives

FAMILY BUDGETING

for

SESSION

Sit down as a family and create a budget together. Include categories for savings, giving, and spending. Let your kids participate

savings for future family goals, like a vacation or new gadgets. This helps kids understand the concept of budgeting and that everyone’s input counts in managing family finances.

MONEY JAR SYSTEM Create a money jar system for your family’s savings goals. Label the jars with different categories like “vacation fund,” “emergency savings,” giving.”

and Each

“charitable

family

allowance or earnings to each jar.

milestones.

CONCEPT OF GIVING BACK

This

Incorporating

charitable

giving

into

to saving while teaching kids the

financial

literacy

value of working together to reach

a powerful lesson in kindness

financial goals.

and responsibility. Set aside a

your

family’s

activities

is

portion of any family savings for PLAY MONEY

a cause that everyone agrees on,

MANAGEMENT GAMES

such as donating to a food bank

There are several money-

or supporting a local charity.

related board games and card

Involving your kids in deciding

games that are perfect for teaching

where

financial concepts. Games like

teaches them about generosity

Monopoly, The Game of Life,

and the impact of giving back to

and Cashflow for Kids encourage

the community.

the

money

should

go

critical thinking about money, BUDGETING FOR

investing, and the consequences of

financial

decisions.

These

FAMILY FUN

games are a fun way to practice

Plan a family outing or event

budgeting, saving, and handling

with a set budget, and involve

money without real-world risks.

your kids in the process. Decide how

member

can contribute a portion of their

meeting

fosters a team-oriented approach

by choosing family activities or helping decide how to allocate

INTRODUCE THE

earnings. Track progress together

START A FAMILY

“BUSINESS”

Get creative by launching a

much

you’re

willing

to

spend on activities, food, and transportation. Allow the kids to

help

choose

cost-effective

This teaches kids how to allocate

small family “business” together.

options, and let them experience

money in a way that aligns with

It could be something as simple as

firsthand

the

importance

long-term goals.

selling baked goods, handmade

staying

within

budget

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of

while

still having a great time. This teaches them that financial decisions impact the fun you can have, helping them develop responsible spending habits.

USE REAL-LIFE SCENARIOS Incorporate financial lessons into everyday family life. Use trips to the grocery store or family shopping outings as opportunities to teach your kids about comparison shopping, understanding prices, and making wise purchasing decisions.

Explain how to make choices based on value and necessity rather than impulse. Letting them see how you make financial decisions in real-time will reinforce their understanding of budgeting and money management.

By making financial literacy a family affair, you not only teach kids important lessons about money but also strengthen family bonds. These activities

help

children

develop

responsible

financial habits that they will carry with them throughout their lives, setting the foundation for a strong financial future.

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PLANNING FOR THE FUTURE

The Power of Allowances HOW TO USE IT AS A FINANCIAL LEARNING TOOL

for charitable donations. Help them open a savings account or set up a system at home for them to track their savings. This teaches them the value of saving for future needs, while also encouraging generosity.

MAKE IT REALISTIC

It’s important to make the allowance amount realistic for the child’s age. An allowance should reflect real-world scenarios in a way that is manageable for the child.

For younger kids, start with small amounts and increase as they get older and more responsible. The goal is to teach them about money without overwhelming them.

ENCOURAGE THOUGHTFUL SPENDING

Teach your child that spending money should be done thoughtfully.

Encourage

them

to

consider

whether a purchase is necessary and whether it aligns with their goals. If your child is saving for something special, remind them that spending a little now might delay their ability to buy that item. This will help them develop critical thinking skills related to their finances.

MAKE MISTAKES AND LEARN

G

iving kids an allowance is one of the best ways to teach them about money management.

An allowance can help kids learn to budget, save, and make thoughtful spending

decisions.

Here’s

how

parents can use an allowance as a tool for financial education.

SET CLEAR EXPECTATIONS

The first step in giving an allowance is to set clear expectations about what the child is responsible for. For younger kids, an allowance

might be tied to completing chores or tasks around the house. For older kids, you may want to give them a set amount of money for doing their part in the family without direct correlation to specific tasks.

TEACH BUDGETING AND SAVING

Once your child receives their allowance, encourage them to divide it up into categories: spending, saving, and giving. For example, they might allocate 50% for spending, 30% for saving, and 20%

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One of the best things about an allowance is that it allows kids to make mistakes and learn from them in a safe environment. If they spend all of their money on a toy and then realize they don’t have enough for something else they want, it’s an important lesson in budgeting.

Encourage them to see mistakes as opportunities for growth rather than failures.

By

giving

your

child

an

allowance and helping them manage it, you’re teaching them valuable life skills that will last a lifetime.

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PLANNING FOR THE FUTURE A S T E P - BY - S T E P G U I D E

Setting Up a Kids’ Budget T

eaching kids about budgeting is one of the most effective ways to instill financial responsibility. It may seem like a complicated topic, but breaking it down into simple, manageable steps can make it easy and fun for kids to learn. Here’s a guide to help you set up a budget with your child.

MAKE A SPENDING PLAN

START WITH THE BASICS

understanding of income, expenses,

Before diving into a budget, help your child understand the concept of income and expenses.

Explain that money comes from earning, and that it’s important to plan how to use that money wisely.

For younger children, this could be in the form of their allowance or any money they earn from doing chores or small jobs.

IDENTIFY NEEDS VS. WANTS

A key lesson in budgeting is distinguishing between needs and wants. Help your child understand that needs are things necessary for survival, like food and shelter, while wants are things that are nice to have but not essential. Have them list out examples of both categories, and use real-life situations to emphasize the difference.

SET SAVINGS GOALS

One of the most important aspects of budgeting is saving.

Encourage your child to set savings goals, such as saving for a toy, a

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game, or an outing. Create a simple chart or jar to help them track their progress. You can also introduce the concept of an emergency fund, explaining that it’s important to have money set aside for unexpected expenses.

Now that your child has an and savings, it’s time to create a budget. Help them allocate their money into different categories: a portion for savings, a portion for spending, and a portion for charitable giving if they’re old enough to understand that concept.

The goal is for your child to see how money is divided between these categories,

helping

them

make

thoughtful decisions about how to spend and save.

MONITOR AND ADJUST

Once the budget is in place, it’s important to review it regularly.

Teach your child how to monitor their spending and adjust their budget as needed. If they spend more than expected in one category, they’ll learn the importance of adjusting future expenses to stay within their budget.

By introducing the concept of budgeting at an early age, you’ll set your child up for a future of financial responsibility and independence.

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Out & About

EVENTS AND ACTIVITIES FOR OWENSBORO FAMILIES

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OUT & ABOUT

10 Local

Things to do

THIS

2

Candy Cane Hunt

DE C E M B E R 7 F RO M 1 1 A . M . - 2 P.M.

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Celebrate Christmas at the Jim Lambert Pioneer Village!

Bring the whole family for pictures with Santa, holiday treats, and a candy cane hunt for the kids. All of the cabins will be decorated and open for visitors to explore. Two local school choirs will perform popular Christmas carols.

SEASON 1

Christmas at Panther Creek

3

THROUGH JANUARY 1

17th Annual Holiday Stroll

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Visitors enjoy a 1.15 mile loop with over 50 displays and 500,000 lights. Panther Creek Park will be open nightly from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m.

Admission is $5 per vehicle. Panther Creek Park is located at 5160 Wayne Bridge Road, near Kentucky Highway 81 on the west side of Owensboro. On December 12, enjoy a free Community Night, hosted by Owensboro Health.

DE C E M BE R 7 AT 1 0 P . M . I N DOW N TOWN OW E N SBO RO

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Care Net 5K Reindeer Run/Walk DE CEMB ER 7 AT 8: 30 A. M .

DOWNTOWN OWENSBORO

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A festive running event where participants can choose to join the main 5K run/walk, the Reindeer Dash for children aged 7 and under, or a virtual run/walk option. The event aims to support the life-saving work of Care Net Owensboro, encouraging fundraising efforts among participants.

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Stroll the downtown streets and Smothers Park all beautifully decorated for the holidays. Feel the yule-tide spirit with the strolling carolers, storefront decorations, and indoor performers making this evening a reminder of the good old days of downtown at Christmas. Second and Third Streets thru Smothers Park along Owensboro’s beautiful riverfront.

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A Charlie Brown Christmas: Live on Stage DE C E M B E R 9 @ 7 P . M . RIVERPARK CENTER

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Owensboro Dance Theatre: The German American Bank Nutcracker

A Charlie Brown Christmas, the Emmy and Peabody award-winning story by Charles M. Schulz, has warmed the hearts of millions of fans since it first aired on television over fifty-five years ago. Now the classic animated television special comes to life in this faithful stage adaptation that celebrates the timeless television classic so the whole family can join Charlie Brown, Snoopy, Lucy, Linus and the rest of the Peanuts characters in their journey to uncover the true meaning of Christmas. After the final bow, the show crescendos into a celebration of song as the audience is invited to join the Peanuts gang in singing traditional Christmas songs and carols. A Charlie Brown Christmas: Live on Stage is a present the whole family can enjoy! There’s no better way for both among children and adults to discover the magic of the season!

DE CE MBER 7 & 8

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Experience the magic of ODT’s The German American Bank Nutcracker!

Watch over 200 cast members and professional guest artists showcase their talent and grace in this captivating adaptation of the beloved classic. The performance comes to life with custom digital backdrops from PXT Studio that transport audiences from Marie’s cozy living room to the dazzling Land of Sweets. Bring the whole family and create memories that will inspire for years to come!

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OUT & ABOUT

7

Owensboro Symphony: Home for the Holidays

8

DE CE MB ER 14

RIVERPARK CENTER

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Lanham Brothers Jamboree Christmas Show

Create lasting memories with this holiday tradition! Tony-nominated singer, Liz Callaway, joins Troy Quinn and the Owensboro Symphony, along with the Owensboro Symphony Chorus and the Owensboro Symphony Youth Orchestra to light up the stage and fill your heart with the joyous spirit of the holiday season!

DE C E M BE R 1 4

BLUEGRASS MUSIC HALL OF FAME AND MUSEUM

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Hosted by brothers Barry and Randy Lanham, the Jamboree is recorded for broadcast on KET. This year’s show will feature Kaleb Lee, with performances by Erin Rouse, The Blue Ridge Boys, and The Footstompin’ Express, and more!

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Bowling with Santa

DE C E M B E R 1 5 F RO M 3 - 7 P . M .

SOUTHERN LANES OWENSBORO

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The community is invited to a festive Christmas celebration on December 15th! Santa will be making a special visit, and guests can enjoy free hot chocolate, cookies, and crafts. Bowling will also be available for an additional charge. No reservations are required—this event is completely FREE to attend and open to everyone! Join in the holiday spirit and celebrate the season with friends and family!

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7th Annual Breakfast with Santa DEC EMB ER 2 1 F R O M 7 : 30 - 10 A. M.

OWENSBORO CONVENTION CENTER

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Join Santa Claus for a festive breakfast on December 21! Enjoy fluffy pancakes, sausage, and a drink while meeting Santa and taking free photos. Children can write letters to Santa, color, and enjoy holiday fun. Donations for Christmas Wish (new, unwrapped toys) are welcome. Tickets: $12 in advance, $14 at the door; children 2 & under free. Family 4-pack available for $40. Tickets at OwensboroTickets.com.

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OUT & ABOUT

KIDS MEAL DEALS

EVERY DAY

Dee's Diner - one free kids meal per adult meal purchase (in-house only, ages 5 and under) MONDAY

Moonlite Bar-B-Q Inn Up to 2 kids eat free (ages 10 & under) with adult buffet purchase from 11am-2pm and 4-8:30pm

Zaxby’s – Up to 3 99¢

cone with the purchase of a kids meal on Family Night. Kids can enjoy coloring pages, crayons, balloons and stickers!

Pizza Hut (South Frederica location) – 1

free child buffet with the purchase of an adult buffet from 4:30-7pm

Trunnell’s 54 Deli – 1

kids meals with the purchase of an adult meal from 5-8pm

free kids meal with the purchase of a signature sandwich

Huddle House – 1 free

Huddle House – 1 free kids meal when you spend $6.99 or more on adult entrée

kids meal when you spend $6.99 or more on adult entrée

Donatos – Free individual 1 topping pizza with purchase of large 1 topping; 1 per ticket, dine in/carry out, age 12 & under TUESDAY

Beef ‘O’ Brady’s – Kids 12 & under eat for $2.99 all day every Tuesday when dining in!

Donatos – Free individual 1 topping pizza with purchase of large 1 topping; 1 per ticket, dine in/carry out, age 12 & under Fazoli’s – Up to 3 99¢ kids meals with the purchase of an adult entrée

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Freddy’s – Free scoop or

WEDNESDAY

Donatos – Free individual 1 topping pizza with purchase of large 1 topping; 1 per ticket, dine in/carry out, age 12 & under THURSDAY

Trunnell’s 54 Deli – 1 free kids meal with the purchase of a signature sandwich SUNDAY

Salsarita’s – Free kids meal with the purchase of an adult entrée; dine in only Beef O’ Brady’s – Free

kids meal (ages 12 & under) from 4-8pm with each adult meal purchase; dine-in only

On the Honor Roll?

Bring your report card to these local restaurants & businesses for additional deals!

RITZY’S (BOTH LOCATIONS)

Ritzy’s has a “Scoops for Scholars” program. Students can bring in their report card each grading period to earn treats for each “A.” 1A = flavored soft drink (cherry, vanilla, or chocolate) 2 A's = single scoop of ice cream 3 A's = your choice of a hotdog, coney, hamburger, or cheeseburger 4 A's = double scoop of ice cream MCDONALD’S

All five Owensboro McDonald’s decided this school year that they will award a free Happy Meal to any student who gets straight A's on their report card.

CHUCK E. CHEESE IN EVANSVILLE

A child can receive 10 tokens with a purchase if they bring in their report card.

SKY ZONE IN EVANSVILLE

All A’s= 1/2 off any jump.

A & B’s= $5 off any jump. Weekdays & Friday 2-7pm.

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*This list is subject to change. Please contact restaurants to ensure their participation.

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FROM OUR READERS

Letters to Santa F R O M LO CA L F I R S T G R A D E R S

-ANSLEY

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- HAT TIE

-ADALEE

-S L A D E

-EMERSON

-CHANNING

S P O N S O R E D BY

-L I L LY

- G R AC E LY N

-KORAH

-AMDYN

-S AW Y E R

- J A Z Z LY N

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FROM OUR READERS

Letters to Santa F R O M LO CA L F I R S T G R A D E R S

-HAWK

-ALEXANDRA

-KYRESE

-AIDEN

-NAOMI

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-BENJAMIN

S P O N S O R E D BY

-E VA LY N N

-BRENTLEE

-HUDSON

- AMELIA

-KATE

-LINCOLN

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FROM OUR READERS

A L O O K B AC K AT

Fall Fun! Follow Owensboro Parent on Facebook to submit your photos!

S P O N S O R E D BY

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FROM OUR READERS

A L O O K B AC K AT

Fall Fun! Follow Owensboro Parent on Facebook to submit your photos!

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FROM OUR READERS

A L O O K B AC K AT

Fall Fun! Follow Owensboro Parent on Facebook to submit your photos!

S P O N S O R E D BY

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FROM OUR READERS

A L O O K B AC K AT

Fall Fun! Follow Owensboro Parent on Facebook to submit your photos!

S P O N S O R E D BY

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