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8 9 REASONS TO BUY NOW Why it’s a perfect time to buy a new home

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6 LETTER FROM THE EDITOR

35 JAQUELINE LANDRY February’s Extraordinary Woman

12 EDUCATION GUIDE

12 THE TRUTH ABOUT GRADES What parents can do to help

38 BAG LADY I’ve got one for everything

18 AN OUNCE OF PREVENTION... will keep your child out of the ER

42 FINANCIAL LITERACY 101 How to teach your children about money

18 HEALTH AND WELLNESS

22 HEARTS AND PIRATES Great gifts and items for Gasparilla and Valentines Day

26 NORTH HILLSBOROUGH NEWS 28 SOUTH HILLSBOROUGH NEWS 29 AFTERSCHOOL PROGRAMS 32 NORTH PINELLAS NEWS

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37 SOUTH PINELLAS NEWS 40 PASCO NEWS 43 PARTY GUIDE 44 PARTY PAGES 45 CALENDAR OF EVENTS

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Angela L. Ardolino Editor-In-Chief Diana Miklowski Copy Editor Contributing Writers Lisa Black Tim Fath Amy Gall PJ Goetz Mark Heller Joezette Hite Lauren Hoyt-Williams Sandra Parrish Lindsay Perez Elyse Cohen Graphic Artist Susan Margolis Marketing Director Todd A. Varde Account Executive Candace Street Account Executive Linda Whitmer Sales Assistant Maryann Montgomery Administrative Assistant

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Letter from the Editor First, I would like to thank everyone who sent in their New Year’s Resolutions! Some of my favorites included: “Go Skydiving”, from Cheryl in Riverview, “Go out with my girlfriends more”, from Allison in South Tampa, “Go organic”, from Courtney in Carroll wood and “Start a family” from Vanessa in Palm Harbor. I love hearing from our readers so please continue to write me with your ideas and thoughts.

I would like to ask for a do-over for the month of January! I don’t know where it went. First problem is that I couldn’t find the refill for my daily calendar that I love and have had no calendar for the month of January. Although I didn’t miss any appointments, I feel lost without it and wake up in the middle of the night worried I forgot something. So now that I have a new calendar, I am looking to be more organized and more rested in February.

Aside from the Inauguration of our new President, some highlights from January included hearing two great women speak. The first is my extraordinary woman for February, Jacqueline Landry. She spoke at the Jr. League of Tampa Leadership Success Seminar and her honesty and sense of humor was so refreshing. Read for yourself on page 35.

The second was the Philanthropic Women of St. Joseph’s Luncheon featuring Dr. Nancy Snyderman, Chief Medical Editor for NBC News. I loved how she summed it up for those of us whom asked her questions: • • • • • • • • • •

Take Calcium and a baby aspirin everyday.

Botox is safe.

Say yes to Acupuncture.

Make sunscreen and moisturizer your best friends.

Get a doctor who really listens to you!

Unfiltered coffee can clog your arteries.

You don’t really need eight glasses of water a day.

Coughing won’t help if you’re having a heart attack. (But aspirin will!)

Heart disease and strokes can happen at any age.

Adults need vaccinations and boosters as we age

Her new book: Medical Myths That Can Kill You -- and the 101 Truths That Will Save, Extend and Improve Your Life, contains so much great information and is a great read.

Take care!

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As the market continues to adjust to the changing economy, a number of factors are coming together in the housing market to provide unique opportunities for homebuyers and investors. For those looking to take advantage of falling interest rates, excess inventory and government incentives, there’s no time like the present.

Increasing Rent

As more people move out of their homes and more potential homebuyers decide to wait, renters are facing higher prices and more competition for leases and apartments. As the cost of renting or leasing climbs, the stability of a fixed mortgage payment becomes more appealing for many homebuyers.

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Low Interest Rates

Despite the turmoil, interest rates remain steady at near-record lows. Compared to rates at the height of the real estate boom, this can mean substantially lower mortgage payments for those who buy now. Of course, lending standards are tighter now than they were a few years ago, but that means that lenders today are even more eager to work with buyers with good credit. As a result, new homebuyers can lock in at substantially lower rates now than they could have a few years ago, and existing owners can move up to a bigger and better home with little or no change in their monthly payment.

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As the number of potential homebuyers declines, many homebuilders are facing a surplus of inventory homes.

Throughout major markets and growth areas, average home prices rose faster than at any time in history. In many of these places, prices reached levels that the average buyer was unable

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Great Selection

Another result of market growth and decline is the incredible selection of homes available. As new communities and developments cropped up throughout major growth areas, innovative floor plans, features and designs helped many builders differentiate themselves from the market. Today, many of those communities are filled with spec homes, models and a wide range of inventory homes, offering buyers a great opportunity to find the perfect home.

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Energy Efficient Construction & Appliances

The drive towards green technology continues to help homeowner’s lower bills by using less electricity, water and gas. New homes today must meet rigorous standards in efficiency and quality. They are generally fitted with new appliances, which also have to meet the latest Energy Star and efficiency standards.

As an added selling point, many builders go above and beyond these requirements, including even more “green” features like extra insulation, native landscaping, even rain barrels and compost areas.

All of these factors combine to make your monthly bills lower and your lifestyle more comfortable.

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or unwilling to pay, and home values began to drop. As everyone adjusts to the current market conditions and builders compete for remaining buyers, these prices are returning to normal levels.

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In addition to builder and lender incentives, the federal government also provides some great incentives to buy a new home right now.

One such incentive came as a part of the Housing and Economic Recovery Act, which includes a provision for a $7,500 tax credit for first-time homebuyers purchasing between April 9, 2008 and July 1, 2009. This credit is essentially an interestfree loan to use towards the expenses of owning a home.

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Additional options include Bond Loans from certain government agencies, Veterans Affairs Loan Programs as well as the USDA Rural Housing Program for qualifying purchases.

Tax Incentives

Added to the incentives the government provides for buying a new home, there are significant incentives in place that make owning (and eventually selling) your home more affordable. In most cases, any money spent on interest and property taxes can be fully deducted from your income—saving you thousands on taxes. Overall, homeowners in the US save almost $100 billion on deductions for mortgage interest and property taxes each year. And when it comes time to sell your home, even more tax breaks help you make the most of your home’s appreciation.

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Investment & Appreciation

Despite the current fluctuations in the housing market, there is virtually no other investment or purchase that comes close to the long-term value appreciation of homeownership. Historically, home appreciation enjoys an average increase of 5 to 6 percent each year nationally. And from 1991 to 2007 the median price of a new home rose from $120,000 to $246,900, more than doubling in value. Compared with the drastic changes in the stock market, investing in a home can be safe and profitable.

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The Time is NOW Taken individually, any of these factors would be a major incentive to look into buying a home.

But when you consider all of these events and circumstances happening at the same time, it’s hard to deny the incredible opportunity presented to homebuyers at this very moment.

As the market adjusts to current economic conditions, potential homebuyers can enjoy great incentives, great support and truly great homes at some of the best values we’ve seen in years.

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BY JANINE CAFFREY

re your kids struggling in school? Even when they appear to be learning, are they failing to earn the grades you expect? Most students can be helped to earn better grades through relatively simple interventions. It usually does not require expensive tutoring programs to make a change. Before looking at what is wrong at school, consider what is happening at home that may be impacting your child’s grades.

What is your attitude about school? Do you constantly complain about “those teachers” or “that school?” Do you schedule family vacations or events that cause your child to miss school? Do you coddle your child, encouraging poor attendance or chronic tardiness?

Your child watches our every move and listens to your every word.

You must continually model positive school behavior in order for your child to have a positive attitude about school.

First, be sure that you are expressing that school is a priority. Do not schedule anything that interferes with your child’s attendance at school, and don’t allow your child to miss unless absolutely necessary.

Many parents (and often grandparents) are lured by cruise ship bargains and theme park sales during school days. Don’t fall into this trap! Every day at school is important. Be sure to drop your child off and pick your child up at the proper times. Chronic tardiness and early dismissals impede your child’s education and disrupt entire classrooms.

Next, take a look at your morning routine. The morning should start peacefully, without a lot of drama. If you find yourself rushing around and screaming when you are getting everyone out the door, it is time to take control. Have a family meeting and discuss your goal of having mornings that are chaos free. Come up with a plan that includes each family member’s needs and responsibilities. What time should everyone wake up? How does everyone wake up? Generally, a child who is over ten years old, should be able to set and use an alarm.

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are younger than ten have the responsibility of getting out of bed the FIRST time you request it.

Consider how your children are eating breakfast each day. Be sure your morning routine includes time to actually sit down at the breakfast table. At a minimum, be present as your children are eating their breakfast. Use this time to discuss what today’s schedule will be and be sure everyone has what they need to make it a positive and productive day. Many parents take advantage of school breakfast programs. While these are a great way to make life more convenient for you, it is always better to spend time with your kids in the mornings. Breakfast for kids should include healthy amounts of fat and proteins for their growing brains and bodies. The less sugar and processed foods, the better off they will be. Learn to read the labels and understand exactly what your kids are eating. Children should avoid sodas, caffeine, and artificially sweetened drinks. Stick to 100% juice, milk, and water.

Morning is also time to think about lunch. Either pack a lunch, supervise your child packing a lunch, or provide money for your child to purchase a lunch at school. Many parents have their children pack their own lunches. While this is a great way to increase the level of responsibility for the child, the parent must supervise the process to ensure the child has a healthy meal available for the middle of the day.

Again, remember to minimize processed foods, high sugar foods, and non-nutritious drinks.

Okay, now that the food is under control, the next thing to think about is clothing. Every school has a dress code or uniform requirements.

You and your child should review the school’s policies and discuss clothing that meets, or does not meet, the school’s standards. If you send your child to school with unacceptable clothing, you will immediately shift the focus from learning to discipline. Be sure you really look at your child before you leave the house. Is your daughter’s skirt long enough? Did your son remember to take out his earring?

Are there any words or images on your child’s shirt that may be offensive? Do not leave the house if your child is wearing anything that will be questionable.

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education guide Food - check. Clothing - check. What things do we need to bring to school? This should have actually been determined the night before.

Everything that needs to go to school including money/checks, backpack (packed with all folders, notebooks, homework, etc.) should be ready to go. Put everything in place by the door where you exit the house in the morning. That way, nobody has to rush around looking for things. When it is time to leave, you simply grab your lunch box from the kitchen, and your backpack by the door.

This should be a very simple process.

Finally, you are on your way to make it a great day. If you walk or drive your child to school, this is a great opportunity to really set the tone for the day. You want to encourage your child to deal with any anticipated issues and include lots of positive comments about your child’s abilities during this time. This is NOT the time of day to get involved in arguments about any “hot” issues that you and your child are experiencing.

Great job! You have managed the military maneuvers necessary to get everyone where they need to be at the right times. You have had a great day, and now comes the after-school adventure. Start your after-school success when you pick your child up from school. Be sure to come at the appointed time and follow the established procedures. Failure to do so tells your child that you don’t care about school rules or authority. Don’t underestimate the message you are sending to your child - and the teachers and administrators. Dismissal is challenging for schools. They are doing everything they can to keep your child safe when so many people are coming and going. If you are the parent going the wrong way in the car loop, or being rude to other parents, you will quickly get a reputation as a problem parent. You certainly do not want teachers and administrators to view your family this way. They are much more likely to go the extra mile for your child if you assist them by doing what is required of you.

On the way home, or when you get home, you will want to debrief your child about the events of the day. A typical conversation about school goes something like this: “How was your day?” “Fine.”

“What did you do today?” “Nothing.” Sound familiar? Many kids need specific prompting to discuss what has happened at school. Ask very

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specific questions about a project that was due, an upcoming test, or a book your child is reading. Be sure you know if there were any issues surrounding friends, or interactions with teachers. Learn what happened and what you can do to help. You don’t want to solve your child’s problems; you want to help your child learn to solve them independently.

Of course, if it is a serious issue, you will need to intervene appropriately.

Here is the real challenge of the day. When you get home, you will immediately want to decompress yourself. You probably check messages, mail, change your clothes, and get into your “after work” mode. Don’t do that. Your first priority when you enter the house is to pay attention to your child. Drop everything and sit down together.

Talk about the day, homework assignments, and what you are having for dinner. Take about 10-15 minutes to be present and listen to your child. It will only take that long. Then your child will want to talk to friends, play, listen to music, or do some other independent activities. This is now your time to unwind and think about dinner.

You probably have heard about the decline of the family dinner. So many families are so busy, they barely have time to eat. Dinner is consumed in the car or in front of the television at various times for each member of the family. If this is happening in your house, you will want to reverse the trend immediately. Families who actually sit down at the dinner table will have children who are more connected to them. These kids will get better grades and be less likely to get into trouble.

So, plan this daily ritual as much as possible. If your schedule is not allowing dinner together, you need to rethink your priorities and put your children first!

Once your home becomes a structured, peaceful, predictable place, you will probably see results in your child’s academic progress within about a month. If this does not happen, you will need to explore some school interventions. Be sure to check back here next month to learn about a simple technique called LAND to get your child back on track in the classroom!

Janine Caffrey is the author of Drive, 9 Ways To Motivate Your Child. She is also the founder of the Renaissance Academy. To find out more visit www.driveinstitute.com

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any people think of crawling babies and curious toddlers when they hear the word “childproofing," but parents should know that children of all ages are at risk for unintentional injuries in the home. According to Safe Kids USA, each year approximately three million children in the United States are treated in emergency departments for accidental injuries that occur in the home, and more than 2,000 kids, ages 14 and under, die from accidental injuries in the home. Most fatal injuries at home are caused by fire, suffocation, drowning, choking, falls, poisoning or firearms discharged unintentionally.

“Childproofing your home provides an extra layer of protection and added peace of mind, even if it means making your home a little less convenient for adults “said St. Joseph’s Children’s Advocate Jaime Verberne. “As the primary provider for children's health needs in this area, we know first hand how devastating injuries can be, as well as how easily they can be prevented with some simple prevention measures.”

St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital urges parents and caregivers to check their homes often for basic safety precautions, including:

Childproof your home

• Check for small things children can choke on. Anything that can fit through a standard 1½-inch toilet paper tube is a potential

choking hazard.

• Keep all plastic bags out of reach.

• When possible, use rear burners on stove and always turn pot handles toward the back. Keep children away from the stove when cooking.

• Keep sharp or breakable items such as knives, scissors and glasses up high and out of reach.

• Cover all electrical outlets when not in use.

• Install child safety latches and locks on cabinets and drawers in kitchen, bathrooms and laundry rooms.

• Always keep guns locked, unloaded and out of reach. Secure ammunition in a separate, locked location.

• Take precautions to avoid a fire • Install smoke alarms on every level of your home and test them regularly.

• Store matches, lighters and gasoline out of the reach of children.

• Check for fire hazards such as frayed electrical wires or flammable materials near heating appliances.

Always supervise children in the bathroom

• Set the thermostat of your hot water heater no higher than 120 degrees Fahrenheit and test bathwater on your forearm before placing your child in it. Children can sustain a third degree burn from water at 140 degrees Fahrenheit in as little as three seconds.

• Never leave the room while young children are bathing. Children can drown in seconds, and unlike the cries of help heard as a result of most injuries, drowning is silent.

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health & wellness • Put razors, scissors, curling irons, hair dryers, medication and mouthwash out of reach.

• Keep toilet lids closed and locked, and doors to bathrooms and utility rooms closed when not in use.

Avoid exposing children to potential poisons

• Keep potential poisons out of reach, including cleaning supplies, pet food, medicine, vitamins and alcoholic beverages.

• Always keep potential poisons, including cleaning supplies and medicines, in their original labeled containers.

• Read labels and carefully follow directions when giving children medicine.

• Install carbon monoxide detectors throughout the home and test them regularly.

• Know which plants in and around your home can be poisonous, and keep them away from children.

• Keep poison center phone number on or near your telephone: (800) 222-1222.

Prevent serious falls

• Keep furniture away from windows.

Install guards or stops on windows that are not emergency exits.

• Use corner cushions and edge bumpers to pad sharp edges of tables, counters, computer desks, hearths, etc.

• Install safety gates at the top and bottom of stairs.

• Never use baby walkers.

• Use protective surfaces beneath playground equipment.

According to Verberne, there is no substitute for active supervision. “Even if your home is childproofed, it only takes an instant for children to fall down a flight of stairs, pull a boiling pot off the stove or put a small object in their mouth,” said Verberne. “Your watchfulness is always your child's best defense.”

Experts agree, learning CPR can save your child’s life in the event of an accident. To sign up for an upcoming infant and child CPR class at St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital, call (813) 870-4747 or go to stjosephschildrens.com.

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Kid Inventors Wanted In an effort to further cultivate young residents of the Tampa Bay Area, Learning Express is helping to sponsor the first annual Tampa Bay Innovation Express along with The Museum of Science and Industry, Smith & Hopen Intellectual Property Law Firm, Pure Postcards and Tampa Bay Parenting.

Innovation Express is looking for all young inventors in the Tampa Bay area ages 6-12. New invention ideas should be submitted by March 11, 2009 to be considered. Finalists will present their inventions to a judging panel on March 18, 2009 and a $1,000 cash prize will be awarded to the winner and $500 to the child’s school. To find out more information about this contest please log onto www. kids2invent.com web site.

Young inventor submissions can be dropped off at the following Learning Express locations: Learning Express of Tampa Westchase, Learning Express of Tampa Palms, Learning Express of Wesley Chapel, Learning Express of Hyde Park and Learning Express of Brandon Valrico. Location addresses can also be found on the www.kids2invent.com web site.

The Innovation Express contest was conceived by Anna Hopen (age 10, Palm Harbor). For years, Anna created new inventions on a weekly basis and discussed them with her parents, patent attorney Anton Hopen and educational toy store owner, Lisa Hopen. With each invention she disclosed, Anna and her parents identified new challenges and problems with the proposed design. Those new problems drove the need for research, learning and further exploration sending Anna back to the encyclopedia and Internet for more study. Anna’s parents quickly learned that the process of invention motivates children to self-educate.

Math, science, reading and writing are all tools needed to make something tangible out of pure creativity. The more sophisticated the tools, the more impressive the invention.

Partnering with a number of local sponsors and judges, the Innovation Express Invention Contest took form. Bay area children ages 6-12 are invited to submit their own inventions by March 11, 2009. Five finalists will present their inventions to a team of judges on March 18th and the grand prize winner will be announced March 28th at Learning Express at Westchase. All participants will receive a free admission to MOSI. The grand prize winner will receive $1,000 and the winner’s school an additional $500. Information on the contest may be found at www.kids2invent.com.

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Saturdays, 7 pm - 9 pm Café Kili presents Saturday Nights Live Jazz Enjoy Live world class Jazz every Saturday night.

Hosted by beautiful vocalist Cynthia Palmer and World Traveled pianist Herb.

5731 Fowler Ave, Tampa 33617 813.988.2879, www.cafekili.com Thursday, Feb. 5, 7:30 pm Kaleisia Tea Book Club February’s Book Selection: Choke by Chuck Palahniuk. Questions or suggestions for future books please email Jessica at j3ssic4rocks@gmail.com thetealounge.com Feb. 6-8 Night of January 16 Bjorn Faulkner has swindled millions of dollars from investors, by investing cash he didn’t have in order to control the gold trade. In the wake of a crash, he is facing bankruptcy despite the injection of money. www.masquetheatre.net Sunday, Feb. 8, 3 pm Jack and the Beanstalk The Carrollwood Cultural Center welcomes Playin Around Traveling Children’s Theatre and their production of Jack and the Beanstalk.

Enjoy this classic talk about a boy named Jack who trades his cow Betsy for magic beans.

This original musical comedy shows us the importance of not giving up.

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Gasparilla Pirate Invasion On Saturday, February 7, at 11:30 a.m.- 1 p.m., the world’s only fully-rigged pirate ship, the Jose Gasparilla, will magically appear at the south end of Hillsborough Bay. A multitude of pleasure crafts, all intent on defending the city, will boldly sail forth to meet the ship.

But quickly seeing the error of their ways, they turn to join forces with the Captain and his Krewe’s flotilla. The colorful Gasparilla Flotilla then makes its way north across Hillsborough Bay and into Seddon Channel (channel between Davis Island & Harbour Island). The Gasparilla Invasion has begun!

Pirate Fest Street Festival Downtown Tampa will again host the Pirate Fest Street Festival, which will take place along Florida Avenue, from Kennedy to Channelside. The festivities begin even before the pirates invade and capture the City – and they’ll continue until long after the last swashbuckling pirate has paraded through the streets! The 2009 Pirate Fest Street Festival features stages with live entertainment, food, and the Gasparilla Midway – which will offer rides, fun games and amusements for all ages. www.gasparillaextravaganza.com Gasparilla Distance Classic February 28th & March 1st - Downtown Tampa Named the “Best Race in Florida” by Florida Running Magazine, the Annual Gasparilla Distance Classic attracts world-class Runners who compete `on foot’ in 5K and 15K Events.

The Gasparilla Distance Classic has become one of the largest Running Events in Florida.

In addition to the Races, there is a “Not For Runners Only - Health and Fitness Expo” at the Tampa Convention Center. This Free Expo features Health and Fitness Demonstrations and the latest in Shoe and Running Apparel.

More info at: www.tampabayrun.com

dates: Fridays, 10 am - 2 pm Friday Downtown Market Enjoy fresh quality produce and entertainment each week.

Lykes Gaslight Square Park, downtown Tampa. www.tampadowntownmarket.com.

Now – Feb. 28 Smarty Pants Kids’ Boutique Going Out of Business Sale - Everything is priced to move.

Up to 80% off entire store!

Annette and Ann want everyone to know that they will miss all of their loyal customers and appreciate all that everyone has done over the past three years!

1548 S. Dale Mabry Hwy, Tampa 33629 smartypantskid.com, 813-259-4900 Thursday, Feb. 5, 7 pm Fishhawk Comedy Night Benefiting the Special Operations Forces Foundation. Featuring John Deboer as seen on Comedy Central and HBO. Must be 21 or over.

Palmetto Club, Lithia/Fishhawk www.fishhawkcomedynight.com Friday, Feb. 13, 8 pm Scene on the Green: Fiddler on the Roof Set in 1905 tsarist Russia, patriarch Tevye struggles to maintain his family and religious traditions. Concessions will be available for purchase. Stadium chairs and blankets welcome.

FREE, non-ticketed event.

Riverwalk, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center. tbpac.org, 813-229-7827 Saturday, Feb. 14, 10:30 am - 12 pm Children’s Photography Workshop: Valentine’s Day Cards Children will review some work of other artists who have worked in collage and present the concept. The children will create Valentine’s cards, which incorporate their Polaroid portrait.

For more information call the Florida Museum of Photographic Arts 221-2222 or visit www.fmopa.org.

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Clearwater, Dunedin, East Lake, Oldsmar, Palm Harbor, Safety Harbor, Tarpon Springs

DFAC is seeking donations for Trashy Treasures Art Sale The Dunedin Fine Arts Center is currently accepting GENTLY used artwork and art related supplies for the 7th Annual Trashy Treasures Art Sale, Tampa Bay’s most beloved Art Garage Sale. The sale will take place on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 10am - 3pm.

Please Drop by your donations to DFAC, Monday - Friday 10am - 5pm, Saturday 10am – 2 pm or Sunday 1-4pm. Donations will be accepted through February 9th.

Trashy Treasures Preview Party featuring the best of trashy treasures will be held Friday, February 13th, 2009, starting at 7pm. Silent action will end at 9:30pm. Preview Party admission is $10 and includes admission to DFAC’s contain it! multi-media installation fest. For more information, call Kaya at 727.298.3322 e.236 or email kaya@dfac.org. For more information visit www.dfac.org.

Carnaval Fundraiser at the Leepa Rattner Museum of Art Feb. 28, 6:30 pm

Everyone is invited to come out have a great night at the 2009 Carnaval with all its fun, fantasy and mystique. Guests will have the chance to participate in salsa lessons and tango demonstrations,dance to Latin music by the acclaimed Caliente Band and dine on delicious South American cuisine catered by Delectables. The Carnaval theme will be enhanced by masks, feathers and murals designed by local artists and St. Petersburg College art students. Come and show your support for the educational programs and exhibitions of the Leepa-Rattner Museum of Art. The cost per person is $125. For further information, contact Leslie Newton at 727-712-5222.

The Leepa-Rattner Museum of Art opened January 22, 2002 on the Tarpon Springs Campus of St. Petersburg College. The Museum’s 20th century collection is made up of art from Abraham Rattner’s estate donated by Allen and Isabelle Leepa and a large donation made by the Tampa Museum of Art in 1997. The Leepa-Rattner Museum of Art commits to excellence in visual arts education, fosters aesthetic, critical and ethical thinking as a bridge to the future and nurtures interest in 20th century art history by collecting, preserving, and exhibiting the art of Abraham Rattner, Esther Gentle, Allen Leepa and their contemporaries.

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dates: Friday, Feb. 6, 6:30p - 8:30p (ages 4-7) Saturday, Feb 7, 6:30p - 9p (ages 8-12) Daddy Daughter Date Night $35/couple (includes corsage), $20 for each additional daughter.

Safety Harbor Rigsby Recreation Center 727-724-1545 Sat., Feb. 14, 11a-8p & Sun., Feb. 15, 12p-6p San Gennaro Festival Enjoy a family friendly fun filled event.

Traditional San Gennaro Procession, Italian specialties: Zeppoli, Pizzelle, Sausages & Peppers, Paneteria. Cooking Demonstrations in La Cucina, also Italian Sports Cars. Featuring Joey Dee and the Starlighters, “Da Vinci Brothers Comedy Opera” Dino DiLiberti, Philip Tropea, Daniella, Taddeo, with the Tarantella Dancers.

Cannoli and Meatball eating contests, Puppet shows, Street Performers, Opera, Children’s crafts & games.

Safety Harbor Marina, 200 S. Bayshore Blvd.

Friday, Feb. 20, 6:30 pm - 7:30pm Healthy Family Home This program is designed to improve your home environment and jumpstart healthy habits that will lead to a healthier way of life, by encouraging families to make small changes in the daily life. Covers the three keys to creating a Healthy Family Home: play daily, eat healthy and make family time. All ages.

All ages. Free and open to the public.

Greater Palm Harbor YMCA 1600 16th Street, Palm Harbor 34683 suncoastymca.org, 727-787-9622 Fri. - Sun., Feb. 20 - 22 3nd Annual Knology Sea Blues Festival Seafood -and blues-filled days featuring artists Southside Johnny & the Asbury Dukes, Jonny Lang, Marsha Ball and Elvin Bishop. Experience the finest Gulf Coast cuisine, which will feature jumbo shrimp, crab cakes, oysters, crawfish, gumbo and more. This event is free and gates open at 4 pm each day.

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Jacqueline Landry pictured on one of the beautiful balconies at Academy of the Holy Names in Tampa.

PHOTOGRAPHY by JEANINE MCLEOD

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BY ANGELA ARDOLINO

ebruary’s extraordinary woman is Jacqueline Landry, whom has no children of her own, yet has 874 she takes care of everyday, as the President and CEO of Academy of the Holy Names in Tampa. She came to Tampa four years ago from Harvard University where she served for eleven years as the first lay woman Catholic Chaplain and President of the 37 chaplains in the United Ministry. She is a seminary graduate with over twenty years of experience in the field of education and focusing on young adults. This alone makes her an extraordinary woman, but when I heard her speak at a recent event, I thought her story was even better.

see it to be it” just does not work for women. We have to be it before it exists—kind of like building the boat on the ocean.

ANGELA: Tell me about your road to success?

JACQUI: My own script for success is a sort of prayer I say “God save me from what I want.” Because every good thing that has ever happened to me was not my idea. For example we all say leaders must be courageous. I don’t identify with that. In my case, naïvety was more of a factor, because I would never have made some choices if I knew what I was getting into! I would have let my fears take over. One becomes courageous through making some naïve and perhaps idealistic choices and yet staying around to learn the responsibility of those choices.

ANGELA: What advice or message would give other women?

JACQUI: I ascribe to the 60/40 rule that most of life is that if you work hard and are motivated you can be fairly content but it is never 100% of the time all the time. For example we tell our young women you can be anything you want to be in life and that sounds good, but realistically if a woman is career oriented or entrepreneurial it is hard to commit the time that requires and at the same time have equal balance for family.

There may be times that you can only commit a small percentage to a career and a spouse or children require 60% that is real. The trick is that the imbalance is often with a term limit, things change, children do grow and the equation flips so don’t give up on those other aspirations. I just think that telling our girls that they can have it all at once is damaging the way aspiring to have a Barbie doll body is.

When I became one of only a few Catholic women to go to seminary— (theology was not allowed to be taught to Catholic women fifty years ago) I was not trying to make a statement—I genuinely just wanted to study theology and have a better grasp on the Gospels. It was only then being the only women in a class with priest candidates that I realized “Oh this must not be something women do,” and I stuck with it.

This is also true of being a Head of school-I had no idea that when I became president of the Academy of the Holy Names that so few women are in upper administration in schools nationally—less than 10%. I was not trying to make a statement I just love education and the extraordinary impact that good education can make on the quality of a child’s life. Education is transformation and it lasts a lifetime—just asks our graduates!

I want to continue to inspire young women to go into school administration so I am working on a project now trying to find film clips where the Headmistress of a school is depicted in a positive light.

There are many good ones for men, but for women the stereotype is something out of “Diabolique” “the Children’s Hour” or “Notes on a Scandal” –none of these are positive to say the least.

Which leaves me to my last point—”paths are made by walking” The sister who was my spiritual director taught me that years ago when I did not see any women who were Catholic ministers—the choice was either being a religious sister or a priest—for women often what we aspire to being does not exist we have to create it. The adage of “you have to

For women we create and compose our lives through a kind of meandering. I was always told that leadership is about a clear vision of what one wants to do with a clear path, set goals, and a chain of clearly defined steps to get you there. That is a very male model. Most of the successful women I know did not have paths like that –their careers found them. There is no clear proscribed way for women—and if there is it is interrupted by the life/work balance of having children and raising families.

The biggest thing I think we need is how to teach about failure, how to go through it; how to learn from it. Most books on leadership are about ascendency. Having worked in very prestigious schools and universities I can tell you how lethal a lesson it can be to not teach our children how to deal with failure. I know it is pithy but that house hold cleaner called Formula 409—is called that because it took that many other formulas that didn’t work.

ANGELA: What is your greatest accomplishment?

JACQUI: I remember that after 9/11, I was doing some research on resiliency—I was curious on how people stay strong in the face of great challenges. I interviewed a police chaplain who was part of the recovery efforts. His job was to be there when a human remain was discovered to offer a blessing, prayer or moment of silence to honor that person.

It brought such a presence of dignity and humanity to a nightmarish situation. This meant a great deal to the workers in the recovery effort and to the families. I remember being awe struck by the courage that takes. I told the chaplain that I could never do what he does, that it is too hard. I will never forget his response, he said “Lady I could never do what you do—working with hundreds of 18 year olds for twenty years, that is too hard!” So I guess my biggest accomplishment is my past work and continued work in serving young learners—there is no greater reward than that. tbparenting.com

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Largo, Pinellas Park, Seminole, St. Pete Beach, St. Petersburg, Treasure Island

The Junior League of St. Petersburg Inaugural Partnership Ball: Diamonds to Denim ... A Swanky Soiree The Junior League of St. Petersburg is teaming up with local educational institution, Academy Prep Center of St. Petersburg on Saturday, February 21, 2009 to produce its inaugural Partnership Ball, Diamonds to Denim…a Swanky Soiree. Join us for a night of Glitter, Glamour and Glitz ... All in the comfort of your best denim paired with dressy attire. The event will be held at the historic Coliseum in downtown St. Petersburg and is sure to be the event of the season! Together, we will welcome approximately 400 guests and will include presentations by Academy Prep students as well as professional entertainment, a fabulous dinner provided by Lee Roy Selmon’s, an exhilarating live auction, casino style gaming, and dancing.

Each year, the Junior League will select a local charitable organization to highlight. This year, after a competitive process involving 27 nonprofit agencies, Academy Prep Center of St. Petersburg was chosen. Academy Prep is a private middle school for students who qualify for need-based support. Students attend up to 11 hours a day, 6 days a week, year round on full scholarships provided by the local community! The neighborhood surrounding Academy Prep sees fewer than 35% of first graders finish high school. Academy Prep is creating dramatic change in students’ lives from 5th through 8th grade and happily reports that 95% of our graduates are either still in high school or college or have begun their careers. The program exists solely as a result of the support provided by our local community which is used for student scholarships at Academy Prep.

For more information on the Junior League Partnership Ball, please contact Kristin Connell, Primary Fundraiser Chair at kpcgator@tampabay.rr.com. Please help the Junior League of St. Petersburg and Academy Prep continue their dedicated, essential service to our community.

Floridiana Festival & Highwaymen Artist Show Opens in Gulfport Feb.7th The Floridiana Festival & Highwaymen Artist show is held in the historic, waterfront Casino Ballroom. Dating back to the 1920’s, this unique structure is ideal for showcasing the Florida kitsch of yesteryear and to discover the art of the Florida Highwaymen.

On February 7th, the Ballroom will be filled with exhibitors of vintage Florida souvenirs, memorabilia, and old tropical decor. Plus, many of the Florida Highwaymen artists will be participating, including James Gibson, Issac Knight, Robert Lewis, Roy McLendon Sr. and others.

All exhibitors highlight old Florida souvenirs and memorabilia, with everything from roadside attraction kitsch to the hand-tinted Florida landscapes of Barnhill and Harris. Enjoy a nostalgic trip back in time, browsing a beautiful selection of vintage, collectible Floridiana, including old Florida books, ephemera and postcards; flamingo and alligator souvenirs; tinted photographs from Barnhill and Harris, and other old Florida art; vintage Florida license plates and roadside signs; kitschy roadside attraction souvenirs; fruit crate and cigar box labels; rattan and other tropical decor, & much more! Admission $6.00 for adults and $3.00 for children.

dates: Sundays, Feb. 1, 8, 15, & 22, 1 pm - 4 pm Music at the Pier During Music Fest on the Water, free music wafts through the courtyard of The Pier, 800 Second Ave. N.E. For information, call 727-8216443, www.stpetepier.com Saturdays, Feb. 7, 14, 21 & 28, 9 am – 2 pm Saturday Morning Market Families can shop for fresh produce, herbs, baked goods, and prepared foods such as pickled vegetables, smoked seafood, gourmet cheeses, fruit smoothies, and more. There’s also handcrafted gifts and plants for sale, and live music to entertain shoppers. Parking is available at Baywalk Garage.

Al Lang Field, St. Petersburg saturdaymorningmarket.com, 727.455.4921 Saturdays, Feb. 7, 14, 21 & 28 Family Fun Saturdays The Salvador Dali Museum offers interactive tours specifically for families with children ages 5 to 12, followed by hands-on activities, games, and crafts. Free with paid admission www.salvadordalimuseum.org, 727.823.3767 Saturday, Feb. 14 Historic Tours St. Petersburg Preservation leads tours of historic downtown. Central Avenue and Second Street (Detroit Hotel corner). For information, call 727-824-7802, www.stpetepreservation.org Thursday, Feb. 26, 7:30 pm Hormonal Imbalance (Four Bitchin’ Babes) Start with four richly gifted singer-songwriters, add married life, kids, four part harmony vocals, one piano, guitars, a rockin’ purple bass, a dollop of sharp social commentary, a pinch of PMS, and you’ve got an estrogen fueled hilarious new show that celebrates the best of babes, boys and botox.

Largo Cultural Center www.largoarts.com, 727-587-6793

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s Moms, I thought we had to wear many hats- but I have changed that way of thinking. Instead, as Moms, we must carry many, many, many bags.

My husband always laughs as holiday or birthday gifts arrive from my girl friends. “Is it a picture frame, candle…or another bag?” he will ask.

See, I like- no- I love bags! I need bags! As I look about the house and car, I realize I am surrounded by bags!

We’ll begin at home. There’s the pool bag stocked with towels, weary pool toys, sunscreen and now empty juice boxes awaiting its next adventure. Let’s not forget my gym bag-complete with bottled water, stinky work out gloves, swim goggles, a seat pad for biking, hair bands, 45 hair pins, hand weights, my iPod and some mismatched socks. Ohand the prize bin bag. Treasured by our two daughters, this famous bag is the destination for all left over holiday, school and birthday candy and prizes…offering cheap rewards for future bribery!

And in the car? There is the emergency bag containing a change of clothes for everyone, a roll of paper towels and a hair brush. This is the bag of choice if you plan on feeding the birds in the Aviary at the Lowry Park Zoo!

bag lady I’ve got one for everything

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There’s the activity bag with books, crayons, lacing cards, paper and an Etch-a-Sketch for short doctor visits with long waits. There is my reading bag stuffed with the latest magazines, a notebook for random thoughts and junk mail to be sorted - perfect for the school pick up lines and waiting at the girl’s gymnastics.

And finally…the two large cooler bags that lay in waiting in the back for those twenty minute- essentials only-middle of the other errands grocery store run!

Enough bags? Are you kidding! Since these bags represent the many facets of my expanding life and since I am not yet a camel –I am always in need of more!

And as I stock them, tote them and lug these things around for me and the girls – it gives a new and more stylish meaning to the term “bag lady”. A term that I will carry well…

Lisa Black is a mother of two and founder of JustAnotherMom.com

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Dade City, Land O’ Lakes, New Port Richey, Port Richey, Trinity, Wesley Chapel, Zephyrhills

Pasco County Fair Opens February 16 - 22 Fairs in Dade City are a tradition. In 1947 a group of local businessmen interested in showcasing county resources got together to lay the foundation for present day fair.

The group was led by San Antonio rancher D.E. Cannon, along with agriculture agent Jimmy Higgins and businessmen George Nikolai, Bob Williams and Joe Collura. The group found a perfect location on 40 acres along State Road 52 and raised $3,500 to purchase the site.

On April 7, 1947 the Pasco County Fair Association Inc. was chartered with the purpose of hosting an annual fair to promote youth and other county resources. The first documented county fair was Jan. 20 through 24, 1948. The association has remained an independent, non-profit organization since its founding. No tax dollars or other government funding is given to put on the annual fair. Rather the fair association relies on memberships, fair revenues and income from rentals of the buildings on the fairgrounds to continue.

There are currently about 600 members. Memberships are available for $25 for individuals and $55 for families. Members receive free admission to the fair each day and free parking.

Members are also invited to an annual membership meeting in April which includes a free barbecue. To apply for memberships for the 2010 fair, stop by the Pasco County Fair Office, 36722 State Road 52, Dade City, FL 33526, or call (352) 567-6678.

Tips for Planning Your Fair Visit: 1. Wear Comfortable shoes 2. Bring your camera. Please note: Cameras and video cameras maybe prohibited during certain entertainment events.

3. Leave your pets at home: With the exception of Seeing Eye dogs, accompanying the visually impaired, pets are not permitted on the fairgrounds. DO NOT leave them in your vehicle.

4. Parking: Parking is free at the fairgrounds. Be sure to lock your vehicle, and take note of where you have parked.

5. Pick up a Daily Schedule at the Guest Relations booth.

6. For your Safety & Health: The Pasco County Fair asks everyone to wash his or her hands before leaving the restrooms, animal areas, and barns, especially before eating.

There is hand-sanitizing stations located through-out the fairgrounds and food- court area.

dates: Mondays, 7 pm - 8 pm Lego Engineering Ages 7 - 12. Pre-registration required.

City of New Port Richey Recreation & Aquatic Center, 6630 Van Buren Street, New Port Richey 34653 www.cityofnewportrichey.org, 727-841-4560 Feb. 14 Music & Motorcycles Zephyrhills Ride over to this motorcycle event for live music and family fun. Enter your bike in a competition, and you may just ride off with a prize. For more information call 813-780-1414 or visit online: www.mainstreetzephyrhills.org Feb. 14-15 Farm Fest & Annual Dade City Horse Pulling Championship This unique show features fine, interesting quilts and a variety of other handmade textiles. In addition, this annual horse pulling championship features the best horse-pulling champions from around the country. (Always first weekend in February) 352-567-0262 www.pioneerfloridmuseum.org Feb. 16 - 22 Pasco County Fair For complete listing of daily events and entertainment and ticket prices visit: www.pascocountyfair.com Feb. 18, 10 am - 2 pm Community Awareness Fair Refreshments, 70 exhibitors, door prizes, give-aways, medical screenings and more.

City of New Port Richey Recreation & Aquatic Center, 6630 Van Buren Street, New Port Richey 34653 www.cityofnewportrichey.org, 727-841-4560 Feb. 19 - 22 Festival Park Zephyrhills Winter Auto Fest Highlighted by a collector-car auction, autoantique swap meet, vintage auto racing and a car and truck show.

For more information call 813-258-6726 or visit www.zephyrhillsfestivals.com

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financial literacy 101 How parents can help children learn to manage money

BY MARK HELLER How do I get my child to truly understand the value of a dollar? When should I start giving an allowance? Should I get my teenager a credit card? Oh, the questions that surround the process of bringing up financially literate children! Of course, babies are not born with the skill set that makes them appropriate money managers. If we want our children to make good choices about spending, saving, and giving throughout their lives, we must commit to teaching certain financial skills throughout childhood, adolescence, and even adulthood. Starting early with your children, and maintaining some consistent attitudes and habits over many years is probably the best way to ensure that they will understand the value of money and how to make it work for them. It is never too soon to start teaching financial literacy.

Here is a set of age-appropriate money skills every family can teach: Pre-School Through Primary Years (As Soon As Your Child Can Count) • Knowing and naming coins and dollar bills • Learning that money is traded for things • Learning to keep money in a safe (but memorable!) place • Learning that we can’t buy everything, so we have to make choices (and that there is a big difference between needs and wants) • Learning that after we spend money it is gone • Early money management skills: Money has three main purposes -- spending, saving, and sharing Ages 6 – 8 • Learning coin values and solving addition and subtraction problems using coins • Learning that banks keep money safe until we need it • Reinforcing that there are three things we use money for: spending, saving, and sharing • Beginning an allowance. (Strive to give the allowance in denominations that allow for easy saving. For example, give five one-dollar bills instead of one five-dollar bill. That way, your child can easily put an appropriate fraction of the allowance into the savings pot.)

• Planning purchases and gifts, having goals for how you will use your money Ages 9 – 11 • Making change and calculating tips • Opening a savings account and making deposits and withdrawals • Learning about checking accounts and that checks are written against existing balances • Comparing prices when shopping, including unit pricing • Begin to stress the need to record and track purchases

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• Money is not just for spending – it’s also for saving and sharing (are they getting the point yet?)

Ages 12 and Up • Learning that interest is the “rent” charged for the use of money over time • Learning the power of compound interest • Understanding that credit cards involve high-interest loans • Understanding how mortgages work, including how paying extra principal significantly reduces the long-term cost of the asset • Understanding how to build and maintain a strong credit rating • Understanding the power of saving and philanthropy Some Things to Try • Consider charging interest on loans made to children and paying interest for money saved at home.

• Buy a 12-month file and populate each month with an envelope for that month’s savings. If your child meets a savings goal, let her/him make the pre-planned purchase.

• For years, my wife and I have shared the statements from each child’s college savings plan (“529 Plan”) with that child. We show the monthly contribution and how the balance is growing through the investment of the steady contributions.

• Before sending students off to college, try giving your teenager a month’s budget for clothes, food, entertainment, etc. Let her/him spend it as they choose. When the money’s gone, it’s gone. You have to be strong, but your teen may learn some valuable lessons before they leave home and face potentially costlier consequences.

I do not recommend that teenagers be given credit cards. Credit cards have a way of stimulating impulse buying in all consumers, and most teenagers don’t yet have a positive relationship with impulses. Try debit cards instead. You can load them up with balances that might help teenagers better understand their limits. Some cell phone plans work this way, which might be a good place to start. Judging by Americans’ woeful savings rate, the mountains of credit card debt that we collectively face, and the recent foreclosure crisis, we and our parents did not do a very good job of educating this generation of consumers on financial matters. If we can help the next generation of Americans be better than ours has been, we will no doubt be helping our country to a healthier and wealthier future. Financial literacy is our patriotic duty!

Mark Heller is Head of School at Academy at the Lakes, a Junior K4 – 12th grade independent school.

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around town

Divine Events at Suzanne Perry's House to promote Datz Deli & Learn Organizational tips from Heather Lambie of Your Home Editor. Guests enjoyed an incredible spread by Datz Deli and recieved gift bags with Plum Organics and Clean Well products.

Left: Barbara Kesinker and Aly Zamore. Right: Cristina Przybycin and Jinny Sass.

StageWorks annual Fundraising Gala. Pictured are event Sponsors Ray and Nancy Murray and supporters Susan and Drew Peloubet, Anne and Bernie Kantor, Bonnie Saks, Bradley Minnen and Eileen Goldenberg

The Step group from Jennings Middle School keeps the MLK Parade participants from the Patel Conservatory marching and moving in rhythm!

The T-N-T tumbler group strikes a pose before participating in the MLK Parade with the Patel Conservatory / Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center

DeMario Henry, stiltwalker and Patel Conservatory hip-hop dance instructor, takes a long stride in the MLK Parade

february calendar of events EVENTS/FESTIVALS BODY WORLDS The Story of the Heart

At the Museum of Science and Industry (MOSI)

Now through June

By the inventor of Plastination Science, Dr. Gunther von Hagens- leading public anatomist and originator of contemporary anatomical exhibitions-features more than 200 authentic specimens, including entire bodies and individual organs.

MOSI, 4801 E. Fowler Ave, Tampa www.mosi.org, 813-987-6100 Super Bowl XLIII Sunday, Feb. 1, 6 pm Pittsburgh Steelers vs.

Arizona Cardinals Raymond James Stadium, Tampa superbowl.com The 2009 Florida State Fair Feb. 5-16 Buy discounted admission tickets early at participating Sweetbay Supermarket stores prior to Feb. 4 while supplies last. www.floridastatefair.com, 1-800-345-3247 Suncoast Classic Run for Kids Saturday, Feb. 14, 8 am Runners of all ages compete in 5K and 10K runs for $5,000 in prize money. Also noncompetitive events, walking events and wheelchair events. Proceeds benefit the Ronald McDonald House of Tampa Bay. www.runforkids.com, 727-767-822 An Evening with Lily Tomlin Saturday, Feb. 14, 8 pm Multi-award-winning film, television and Broadway star and one of America’s foremost comedians!

Carol Morsani Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center tbpac.org, 813-229-7827

Pasco County Fair Feb. 16-22 Come and enjoy the fun of the county fair! The fair offers something for everyone, including arts and crafts, beauty pageants, livestock shows, entertainment, food and of course, the famous midway. www.pascocountyfair.com, 352-567-6678 “Mardi Gras On Main Street” in Dunedin Tuesday, Feb. 24, 5 pm - 11 pm It’s Fat Tuesday, so expect to hear cries of Laissez les bon temps roulez! Let the good times roll! There also will be craft vendors and food from area restaurants from 5 to 11 p.m. The parade begins at 7:30 pm and moves along Douglas Avenue, from Beltrees to Monroe. 305 Main St, Downtown Dunedin. Free. www.delightfuldunedin.com Festival of States Now through Apr. A blues festival, clown classes, fashion show, day & night parades, a pageant, fireworks, and 5K run are some events that fill this two-week festival. St. Petersburg 727-321-9888, www.festivalofstates.com

Harlem Globetrotters Friday, Feb. 27, 7 pm St. Pete Times Forum, 401 Channelside Dr., Tampa. 813-301-2500, stpetetimesforum.com

THEATER

A Chorus Line Feb. 3 - 8 The musical for everyone who’s ever had a dream and put it all on the line. Winner of nine Tony® Awards, including Best Musical and the Pulitzer Prize for drama, this singular sensation is the longest-running American Broadway musical ever.

Carol Morsani Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center tbpac.org, 813-229-7827

Bay Area Renaissance Festival Feb. 21 - Apr. 25, 10 am - 5 pm Wandering street theatre featuring juggles, magicians, fire eaters & others, crafts, live armored contact jousting, human chess matches, minstrels, maidens faire, peasants, fools, & royalty, games, foods such as turkey drumsticks, soup in a bread bowl, chicken croissants, scotch eggs, scones, apple dumplings & much more. For ticket information visit: www.renaissancefest.com/ bay-area Museum of Science & Industry, 4801 E. Fowler Ave., Tampa

Cirque Dreams Jungle Fantasy Feb. 2 - 8 Direct from Broadway, Cirque Dreams Jungle Fantasy is an exotic encounter inspired by nature’s unpredictable creations that are brought to life by an international cast of 25 soaring aerialists, spinebending contortionists, acrobats, jugglers and musicians.

Mahaffey Theater, St. Petersburg mahaffeytheater.com, 727-892-5716

Florida Strawberry Festival, Plant City Feb. 26 - Mar. 8 Strawberries are the main purpose of the Florida Strawberry Festival and they deserve to be, but there are a lot of other reasons to attend this mega festival. flstrawberryfestival.com

Hairspray Feb. 12 & 13, 8 pm In Hairspray, winner of eight Tony Awards®, it’s 1962, and pleasantly plump Baltimore teen Tracy Turnblad has one desire: to dance on the popular Corny Collins Show.

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Frost/Nixon Feb. 17 - 22 The face-off of the century, live on stage.

Direct from Broadway. Frost/Nixon tackles the question: How did David Frost, a famous British talk-show host with a playboy reputation, elicit the apology that the rest of the world was waiting to hear from former President Richard Nixon? This fast-paced Tony® Award-nominated new play shows the determination, conviction and cunning of two men as they square off in one of the most monumental television interviews of all time.

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Florida Orchestra: An Evening of Romance and Love Songs Friday, Feb. 13, 8 pm Ferguson Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center. tbpac.org, 813-229-7827 Saturday, Feb. 14, 8 pm Mahaffey Theater, St. Petersburg mahaffeytheater.com, 727-892-5767 Sunday, Feb. 15, 7:30 pm Ruth Eckerd Hall, Clearwater rutheckerdhall.com, 727-791-7400 Guest conductor Matt Catingub is a virtual one-man show as he seamlessly switches back and forth between piano, vocals, sax, flute and more in a Valentine’s Day salute of classic ballads and love songs.

The Awesome 80’s Prom Feb. 26 - Mar. 1 Come party like it’s 1989, a blast-from-the-past interactive show in the style of Tony ‘n Tina’s Wedding with characters inspired by your favorite ‘80s movies like The Breakfast Club and Pretty in Pink.

Ruth Eckerd Hall, Clearwater rutheckerdhall.com, 727-791-7400 Bill T. Jones/Arnie Zane Dance Company’s Another Evening Wednesday, Feb. 18, 8 pm An ever-evolving unique 90-minute collage interweaving new movement, excerpts from existing repertoire, original and traditional music and text into a vibrant multi-media work. Bill T. Jones most recently won a Tony Award for his choreography for the Broadway hit Spring Awakening. Visit billtjones.org Ferguson Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center, tbpac.org, 813-229-7827

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Peter Noone Feb 25-28: The Osmond Brothers BuschGardens.com Bud & BBQ Feb. 8 - March 1 Country music, classic rock and good cookin’ come together during select dates in February and March at Busch Gardens Tampa Bay and SeaWorld Orlando.

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Let’s Dance featuring Burn the Floor Now - Apr. 19 The elegance of ballroom dancing combines with the raw power of rock ‘n’ roll in this stage show at Busch Gardens.

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pedestrian-friendly public event on Jan. 10th in order to experience each of the destinations. www.lightsontampa.org

Start with the Arts Pre-school Program at Tampa Museum of Art Thurs., Feb. 5, 12, 19 & 26, 10 - 10:45 am The unique curriculum provides an artbased learning approach to literacy and includes activities in visual arts, creative drama, dance, movement and music. This program is geared for 3 - 5 year-old children accompanied by a parent/guardian. The fee is $4 per adult and child, and $2 for each additional child, and includes all class supplies. Pre-registration is required. tampamuseum.com, 813-274-7328.

Floridiana Festival & Highwaymen Artist Show Saturday, Feb. 7, 10 am - 5 pm The Sunshine State’s largest exhibit and sale of vintage Florida art (including that of the original 26 Florida Highwaymen artists), as well as Florida roadside attractin kitsch from the 1930’s through 1960’s. Gulfport Historic Casino Ballroom 5500 Shore Blvd. S., Gulfport www.hulahula.biz, 727-321-8454 Raymond James Gasparilla Festival of the Arts Mar. 7 - 8 With some of the country’s most accomplished artists and rising stars vying for $70,500 in prize money, a showcase featuring the works of local young artists, a weekend full of live entertainment, and a children’s art activity area, the festival is widely recognized as one of the top-rated outdoor fine art and fine craft shows in the country.

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12 THE TRUTH ABOUT GRADES What parents can do to help

38 BAG LADY I’ve got one for everything

18 AN OUNCE OF PREVENTION... will keep your child out of the ER

42 FINANCIAL LITERACY 101 How to teach your children about money

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Letter from the Editor First, I would like to thank everyone who sent in their New Year’s Resolutions! Some of my favorites included: “Go Skydiving”, from Cheryl in Riverview, “Go out with my girlfriends more”, from Allison in South Tampa, “Go organic”, from Courtney in Carroll wood and “Start a family” from Vanessa in Palm Harbor. I love hearing from our readers so please continue to write me with your ideas and thoughts.

I would like to ask for a do-over for the month of January! I don’t know where it went. First problem is that I couldn’t find the refill for my daily calendar that I love and have had no calendar for the month of January. Although I didn’t miss any appointments, I feel lost without it and wake up in the middle of the night worried I forgot something. So now that I have a new calendar, I am looking to be more organized and more rested in February.

Aside from the Inauguration of our new President, some highlights from January included hearing two great women speak. The first is my extraordinary woman for February, Jacqueline Landry. She spoke at the Jr. League of Tampa Leadership Success Seminar and her honesty and sense of humor was so refreshing. Read for yourself on page 35.

The second was the Philanthropic Women of St. Joseph’s Luncheon featuring Dr. Nancy Snyderman, Chief Medical Editor for NBC News. I loved how she summed it up for those of us whom asked her questions: • • • • • • • • • •

Take Calcium and a baby aspirin everyday.

Botox is safe.

Say yes to Acupuncture.

Make sunscreen and moisturizer your best friends.

Get a doctor who really listens to you!

Unfiltered coffee can clog your arteries.

You don’t really need eight glasses of water a day.

Coughing won’t help if you’re having a heart attack. (But aspirin will!)

Heart disease and strokes can happen at any age.

Adults need vaccinations and boosters as we age

Her new book: Medical Myths That Can Kill You -- and the 101 Truths That Will Save, Extend and Improve Your Life, contains so much great information and is a great read.

Take care!

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As the market continues to adjust to the changing economy, a number of factors are coming together in the housing market to provide unique opportunities for homebuyers and investors. For those looking to take advantage of falling interest rates, excess inventory and government incentives, there’s no time like the present.

Increasing Rent

As more people move out of their homes and more potential homebuyers decide to wait, renters are facing higher prices and more competition for leases and apartments. As the cost of renting or leasing climbs, the stability of a fixed mortgage payment becomes more appealing for many homebuyers.

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Despite the turmoil, interest rates remain steady at near-record lows. Compared to rates at the height of the real estate boom, this can mean substantially lower mortgage payments for those who buy now. Of course, lending standards are tighter now than they were a few years ago, but that means that lenders today are even more eager to work with buyers with good credit. As a result, new homebuyers can lock in at substantially lower rates now than they could have a few years ago, and existing owners can move up to a bigger and better home with little or no change in their monthly payment.

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Another result of market growth and decline is the incredible selection of homes available. As new communities and developments cropped up throughout major growth areas, innovative floor plans, features and designs helped many builders differentiate themselves from the market. Today, many of those communities are filled with spec homes, models and a wide range of inventory homes, offering buyers a great opportunity to find the perfect home.

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The drive towards green technology continues to help homeowner’s lower bills by using less electricity, water and gas. New homes today must meet rigorous standards in efficiency and quality. They are generally fitted with new appliances, which also have to meet the latest Energy Star and efficiency standards.

As an added selling point, many builders go above and beyond these requirements, including even more “green” features like extra insulation, native landscaping, even rain barrels and compost areas.

All of these factors combine to make your monthly bills lower and your lifestyle more comfortable.

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or unwilling to pay, and home values began to drop. As everyone adjusts to the current market conditions and builders compete for remaining buyers, these prices are returning to normal levels.

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In addition to builder and lender incentives, the federal government also provides some great incentives to buy a new home right now.

One such incentive came as a part of the Housing and Economic Recovery Act, which includes a provision for a $7,500 tax credit for first-time homebuyers purchasing between April 9, 2008 and July 1, 2009. This credit is essentially an interestfree loan to use towards the expenses of owning a home.

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Additional options include Bond Loans from certain government agencies, Veterans Affairs Loan Programs as well as the USDA Rural Housing Program for qualifying purchases.

Tax Incentives

Added to the incentives the government provides for buying a new home, there are significant incentives in place that make owning (and eventually selling) your home more affordable. In most cases, any money spent on interest and property taxes can be fully deducted from your income—saving you thousands on taxes. Overall, homeowners in the US save almost $100 billion on deductions for mortgage interest and property taxes each year. And when it comes time to sell your home, even more tax breaks help you make the most of your home’s appreciation.

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Despite the current fluctuations in the housing market, there is virtually no other investment or purchase that comes close to the long-term value appreciation of homeownership. Historically, home appreciation enjoys an average increase of 5 to 6 percent each year nationally. And from 1991 to 2007 the median price of a new home rose from $120,000 to $246,900, more than doubling in value. Compared with the drastic changes in the stock market, investing in a home can be safe and profitable.

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The Time is NOW Taken individually, any of these factors would be a major incentive to look into buying a home.

But when you consider all of these events and circumstances happening at the same time, it’s hard to deny the incredible opportunity presented to homebuyers at this very moment.

As the market adjusts to current economic conditions, potential homebuyers can enjoy great incentives, great support and truly great homes at some of the best values we’ve seen in years.

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BY JANINE CAFFREY

re your kids struggling in school? Even when they appear to be learning, are they failing to earn the grades you expect? Most students can be helped to earn better grades through relatively simple interventions. It usually does not require expensive tutoring programs to make a change. Before looking at what is wrong at school, consider what is happening at home that may be impacting your child’s grades.

What is your attitude about school? Do you constantly complain about “those teachers” or “that school?” Do you schedule family vacations or events that cause your child to miss school? Do you coddle your child, encouraging poor attendance or chronic tardiness?

Your child watches our every move and listens to your every word.

You must continually model positive school behavior in order for your child to have a positive attitude about school.

First, be sure that you are expressing that school is a priority. Do not schedule anything that interferes with your child’s attendance at school, and don’t allow your child to miss unless absolutely necessary.

Many parents (and often grandparents) are lured by cruise ship bargains and theme park sales during school days. Don’t fall into this trap! Every day at school is important. Be sure to drop your child off and pick your child up at the proper times. Chronic tardiness and early dismissals impede your child’s education and disrupt entire classrooms.

Next, take a look at your morning routine. The morning should start peacefully, without a lot of drama. If you find yourself rushing around and screaming when you are getting everyone out the door, it is time to take control. Have a family meeting and discuss your goal of having mornings that are chaos free. Come up with a plan that includes each family member’s needs and responsibilities. What time should everyone wake up? How does everyone wake up? Generally, a child who is over ten years old, should be able to set and use an alarm.

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are younger than ten have the responsibility of getting out of bed the FIRST time you request it.

Consider how your children are eating breakfast each day. Be sure your morning routine includes time to actually sit down at the breakfast table. At a minimum, be present as your children are eating their breakfast. Use this time to discuss what today’s schedule will be and be sure everyone has what they need to make it a positive and productive day. Many parents take advantage of school breakfast programs. While these are a great way to make life more convenient for you, it is always better to spend time with your kids in the mornings. Breakfast for kids should include healthy amounts of fat and proteins for their growing brains and bodies. The less sugar and processed foods, the better off they will be. Learn to read the labels and understand exactly what your kids are eating. Children should avoid sodas, caffeine, and artificially sweetened drinks. Stick to 100% juice, milk, and water.

Morning is also time to think about lunch. Either pack a lunch, supervise your child packing a lunch, or provide money for your child to purchase a lunch at school. Many parents have their children pack their own lunches. While this is a great way to increase the level of responsibility for the child, the parent must supervise the process to ensure the child has a healthy meal available for the middle of the day.

Again, remember to minimize processed foods, high sugar foods, and non-nutritious drinks.

Okay, now that the food is under control, the next thing to think about is clothing. Every school has a dress code or uniform requirements.

You and your child should review the school’s policies and discuss clothing that meets, or does not meet, the school’s standards. If you send your child to school with unacceptable clothing, you will immediately shift the focus from learning to discipline. Be sure you really look at your child before you leave the house. Is your daughter’s skirt long enough? Did your son remember to take out his earring?

Are there any words or images on your child’s shirt that may be offensive? Do not leave the house if your child is wearing anything that will be questionable.

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education guide Food - check. Clothing - check. What things do we need to bring to school? This should have actually been determined the night before.

Everything that needs to go to school including money/checks, backpack (packed with all folders, notebooks, homework, etc.) should be ready to go. Put everything in place by the door where you exit the house in the morning. That way, nobody has to rush around looking for things. When it is time to leave, you simply grab your lunch box from the kitchen, and your backpack by the door.

This should be a very simple process.

Finally, you are on your way to make it a great day. If you walk or drive your child to school, this is a great opportunity to really set the tone for the day. You want to encourage your child to deal with any anticipated issues and include lots of positive comments about your child’s abilities during this time. This is NOT the time of day to get involved in arguments about any “hot” issues that you and your child are experiencing.

Great job! You have managed the military maneuvers necessary to get everyone where they need to be at the right times. You have had a great day, and now comes the after-school adventure. Start your after-school success when you pick your child up from school. Be sure to come at the appointed time and follow the established procedures. Failure to do so tells your child that you don’t care about school rules or authority. Don’t underestimate the message you are sending to your child - and the teachers and administrators. Dismissal is challenging for schools. They are doing everything they can to keep your child safe when so many people are coming and going. If you are the parent going the wrong way in the car loop, or being rude to other parents, you will quickly get a reputation as a problem parent. You certainly do not want teachers and administrators to view your family this way. They are much more likely to go the extra mile for your child if you assist them by doing what is required of you.

On the way home, or when you get home, you will want to debrief your child about the events of the day. A typical conversation about school goes something like this: “How was your day?” “Fine.”

“What did you do today?” “Nothing.” Sound familiar? Many kids need specific prompting to discuss what has happened at school. Ask very

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specific questions about a project that was due, an upcoming test, or a book your child is reading. Be sure you know if there were any issues surrounding friends, or interactions with teachers. Learn what happened and what you can do to help. You don’t want to solve your child’s problems; you want to help your child learn to solve them independently.

Of course, if it is a serious issue, you will need to intervene appropriately.

Here is the real challenge of the day. When you get home, you will immediately want to decompress yourself. You probably check messages, mail, change your clothes, and get into your “after work” mode. Don’t do that. Your first priority when you enter the house is to pay attention to your child. Drop everything and sit down together.

Talk about the day, homework assignments, and what you are having for dinner. Take about 10-15 minutes to be present and listen to your child. It will only take that long. Then your child will want to talk to friends, play, listen to music, or do some other independent activities. This is now your time to unwind and think about dinner.

You probably have heard about the decline of the family dinner. So many families are so busy, they barely have time to eat. Dinner is consumed in the car or in front of the television at various times for each member of the family. If this is happening in your house, you will want to reverse the trend immediately. Families who actually sit down at the dinner table will have children who are more connected to them. These kids will get better grades and be less likely to get into trouble.

So, plan this daily ritual as much as possible. If your schedule is not allowing dinner together, you need to rethink your priorities and put your children first!

Once your home becomes a structured, peaceful, predictable place, you will probably see results in your child’s academic progress within about a month. If this does not happen, you will need to explore some school interventions. Be sure to check back here next month to learn about a simple technique called LAND to get your child back on track in the classroom!

Janine Caffrey is the author of Drive, 9 Ways To Motivate Your Child. She is also the founder of the Renaissance Academy. To find out more visit www.driveinstitute.com

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any people think of crawling babies and curious toddlers when they hear the word “childproofing," but parents should know that children of all ages are at risk for unintentional injuries in the home. According to Safe Kids USA, each year approximately three million children in the United States are treated in emergency departments for accidental injuries that occur in the home, and more than 2,000 kids, ages 14 and under, die from accidental injuries in the home. Most fatal injuries at home are caused by fire, suffocation, drowning, choking, falls, poisoning or firearms discharged unintentionally.

“Childproofing your home provides an extra layer of protection and added peace of mind, even if it means making your home a little less convenient for adults “said St. Joseph’s Children’s Advocate Jaime Verberne. “As the primary provider for children's health needs in this area, we know first hand how devastating injuries can be, as well as how easily they can be prevented with some simple prevention measures.”

St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital urges parents and caregivers to check their homes often for basic safety precautions, including:

Childproof your home

• Check for small things children can choke on. Anything that can fit through a standard 1½-inch toilet paper tube is a potential

choking hazard.

• Keep all plastic bags out of reach.

• When possible, use rear burners on stove and always turn pot handles toward the back. Keep children away from the stove when cooking.

• Keep sharp or breakable items such as knives, scissors and glasses up high and out of reach.

• Cover all electrical outlets when not in use.

• Install child safety latches and locks on cabinets and drawers in kitchen, bathrooms and laundry rooms.

• Always keep guns locked, unloaded and out of reach. Secure ammunition in a separate, locked location.

• Take precautions to avoid a fire • Install smoke alarms on every level of your home and test them regularly.

• Store matches, lighters and gasoline out of the reach of children.

• Check for fire hazards such as frayed electrical wires or flammable materials near heating appliances.

Always supervise children in the bathroom

• Set the thermostat of your hot water heater no higher than 120 degrees Fahrenheit and test bathwater on your forearm before placing your child in it. Children can sustain a third degree burn from water at 140 degrees Fahrenheit in as little as three seconds.

• Never leave the room while young children are bathing. Children can drown in seconds, and unlike the cries of help heard as a result of most injuries, drowning is silent.

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health & wellness • Put razors, scissors, curling irons, hair dryers, medication and mouthwash out of reach.

• Keep toilet lids closed and locked, and doors to bathrooms and utility rooms closed when not in use.

Avoid exposing children to potential poisons

• Keep potential poisons out of reach, including cleaning supplies, pet food, medicine, vitamins and alcoholic beverages.

• Always keep potential poisons, including cleaning supplies and medicines, in their original labeled containers.

• Read labels and carefully follow directions when giving children medicine.

• Install carbon monoxide detectors throughout the home and test them regularly.

• Know which plants in and around your home can be poisonous, and keep them away from children.

• Keep poison center phone number on or near your telephone: (800) 222-1222.

Prevent serious falls

• Keep furniture away from windows.

Install guards or stops on windows that are not emergency exits.

• Use corner cushions and edge bumpers to pad sharp edges of tables, counters, computer desks, hearths, etc.

• Install safety gates at the top and bottom of stairs.

• Never use baby walkers.

• Use protective surfaces beneath playground equipment.

According to Verberne, there is no substitute for active supervision. “Even if your home is childproofed, it only takes an instant for children to fall down a flight of stairs, pull a boiling pot off the stove or put a small object in their mouth,” said Verberne. “Your watchfulness is always your child's best defense.”

Experts agree, learning CPR can save your child’s life in the event of an accident. To sign up for an upcoming infant and child CPR class at St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital, call (813) 870-4747 or go to stjosephschildrens.com.

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Carrollwood, Citrus Park, Lutz, New Tampa, Odessa, Temple Terrace, Westchase

Kid Inventors Wanted In an effort to further cultivate young residents of the Tampa Bay Area, Learning Express is helping to sponsor the first annual Tampa Bay Innovation Express along with The Museum of Science and Industry, Smith & Hopen Intellectual Property Law Firm, Pure Postcards and Tampa Bay Parenting.

Innovation Express is looking for all young inventors in the Tampa Bay area ages 6-12. New invention ideas should be submitted by March 11, 2009 to be considered. Finalists will present their inventions to a judging panel on March 18, 2009 and a $1,000 cash prize will be awarded to the winner and $500 to the child’s school. To find out more information about this contest please log onto www. kids2invent.com web site.

Young inventor submissions can be dropped off at the following Learning Express locations: Learning Express of Tampa Westchase, Learning Express of Tampa Palms, Learning Express of Wesley Chapel, Learning Express of Hyde Park and Learning Express of Brandon Valrico. Location addresses can also be found on the www.kids2invent.com web site.

The Innovation Express contest was conceived by Anna Hopen (age 10, Palm Harbor). For years, Anna created new inventions on a weekly basis and discussed them with her parents, patent attorney Anton Hopen and educational toy store owner, Lisa Hopen. With each invention she disclosed, Anna and her parents identified new challenges and problems with the proposed design. Those new problems drove the need for research, learning and further exploration sending Anna back to the encyclopedia and Internet for more study. Anna’s parents quickly learned that the process of invention motivates children to self-educate.

Math, science, reading and writing are all tools needed to make something tangible out of pure creativity. The more sophisticated the tools, the more impressive the invention.

Partnering with a number of local sponsors and judges, the Innovation Express Invention Contest took form. Bay area children ages 6-12 are invited to submit their own inventions by March 11, 2009. Five finalists will present their inventions to a team of judges on March 18th and the grand prize winner will be announced March 28th at Learning Express at Westchase. All participants will receive a free admission to MOSI. The grand prize winner will receive $1,000 and the winner’s school an additional $500. Information on the contest may be found at www.kids2invent.com.

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dates: First Annual Tampa Bay Innovation Express Inventor Contest Eligibility: Students age 6-12 in surrounding Tampa Bay counties Submission Deadline is March 11, 2009. For more information visit: www.kids2invent.com Art with a Heart During the month of February, the Westchase Artists Society will be celebrating the romance of art as they present “For the Love of Art” at the Carrollwood Cultural Center. www. westchaseartists.com or contact the Carrollwood Cultural Center at 813-269-1310.

Saturdays, 7 pm - 9 pm Café Kili presents Saturday Nights Live Jazz Enjoy Live world class Jazz every Saturday night.

Hosted by beautiful vocalist Cynthia Palmer and World Traveled pianist Herb.

5731 Fowler Ave, Tampa 33617 813.988.2879, www.cafekili.com Thursday, Feb. 5, 7:30 pm Kaleisia Tea Book Club February’s Book Selection: Choke by Chuck Palahniuk. Questions or suggestions for future books please email Jessica at j3ssic4rocks@gmail.com thetealounge.com Feb. 6-8 Night of January 16 Bjorn Faulkner has swindled millions of dollars from investors, by investing cash he didn’t have in order to control the gold trade. In the wake of a crash, he is facing bankruptcy despite the injection of money. www.masquetheatre.net Sunday, Feb. 8, 3 pm Jack and the Beanstalk The Carrollwood Cultural Center welcomes Playin Around Traveling Children’s Theatre and their production of Jack and the Beanstalk.

Enjoy this classic talk about a boy named Jack who trades his cow Betsy for magic beans.

This original musical comedy shows us the importance of not giving up.

CarrollwoodCenter.org, 813-269-1310

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south Hillsborough Apollo Beach, Brandon, Lithia, Riverview, Ruskin, South Tampa, Tampa, Valrico, Fishhawk

Gasparilla Pirate Invasion On Saturday, February 7, at 11:30 a.m.- 1 p.m., the world’s only fully-rigged pirate ship, the Jose Gasparilla, will magically appear at the south end of Hillsborough Bay. A multitude of pleasure crafts, all intent on defending the city, will boldly sail forth to meet the ship.

But quickly seeing the error of their ways, they turn to join forces with the Captain and his Krewe’s flotilla. The colorful Gasparilla Flotilla then makes its way north across Hillsborough Bay and into Seddon Channel (channel between Davis Island & Harbour Island). The Gasparilla Invasion has begun!

Pirate Fest Street Festival Downtown Tampa will again host the Pirate Fest Street Festival, which will take place along Florida Avenue, from Kennedy to Channelside. The festivities begin even before the pirates invade and capture the City – and they’ll continue until long after the last swashbuckling pirate has paraded through the streets! The 2009 Pirate Fest Street Festival features stages with live entertainment, food, and the Gasparilla Midway – which will offer rides, fun games and amusements for all ages. www.gasparillaextravaganza.com Gasparilla Distance Classic February 28th & March 1st - Downtown Tampa Named the “Best Race in Florida” by Florida Running Magazine, the Annual Gasparilla Distance Classic attracts world-class Runners who compete `on foot’ in 5K and 15K Events.

The Gasparilla Distance Classic has become one of the largest Running Events in Florida.

In addition to the Races, there is a “Not For Runners Only - Health and Fitness Expo” at the Tampa Convention Center. This Free Expo features Health and Fitness Demonstrations and the latest in Shoe and Running Apparel.

More info at: www.tampabayrun.com

dates: Fridays, 10 am - 2 pm Friday Downtown Market Enjoy fresh quality produce and entertainment each week.

Lykes Gaslight Square Park, downtown Tampa. www.tampadowntownmarket.com.

Now – Feb. 28 Smarty Pants Kids’ Boutique Going Out of Business Sale - Everything is priced to move.

Up to 80% off entire store!

Annette and Ann want everyone to know that they will miss all of their loyal customers and appreciate all that everyone has done over the past three years!

1548 S. Dale Mabry Hwy, Tampa 33629 smartypantskid.com, 813-259-4900 Thursday, Feb. 5, 7 pm Fishhawk Comedy Night Benefiting the Special Operations Forces Foundation. Featuring John Deboer as seen on Comedy Central and HBO. Must be 21 or over.

Palmetto Club, Lithia/Fishhawk www.fishhawkcomedynight.com Friday, Feb. 13, 8 pm Scene on the Green: Fiddler on the Roof Set in 1905 tsarist Russia, patriarch Tevye struggles to maintain his family and religious traditions. Concessions will be available for purchase. Stadium chairs and blankets welcome.

FREE, non-ticketed event.

Riverwalk, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center. tbpac.org, 813-229-7827 Saturday, Feb. 14, 10:30 am - 12 pm Children’s Photography Workshop: Valentine’s Day Cards Children will review some work of other artists who have worked in collage and present the concept. The children will create Valentine’s cards, which incorporate their Polaroid portrait.

For more information call the Florida Museum of Photographic Arts 221-2222 or visit www.fmopa.org.

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Pinellas

Clearwater, Dunedin, East Lake, Oldsmar, Palm Harbor, Safety Harbor, Tarpon Springs

DFAC is seeking donations for Trashy Treasures Art Sale The Dunedin Fine Arts Center is currently accepting GENTLY used artwork and art related supplies for the 7th Annual Trashy Treasures Art Sale, Tampa Bay’s most beloved Art Garage Sale. The sale will take place on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 10am - 3pm.

Please Drop by your donations to DFAC, Monday - Friday 10am - 5pm, Saturday 10am – 2 pm or Sunday 1-4pm. Donations will be accepted through February 9th.

Trashy Treasures Preview Party featuring the best of trashy treasures will be held Friday, February 13th, 2009, starting at 7pm. Silent action will end at 9:30pm. Preview Party admission is $10 and includes admission to DFAC’s contain it! multi-media installation fest. For more information, call Kaya at 727.298.3322 e.236 or email kaya@dfac.org. For more information visit www.dfac.org.

Carnaval Fundraiser at the Leepa Rattner Museum of Art Feb. 28, 6:30 pm

Everyone is invited to come out have a great night at the 2009 Carnaval with all its fun, fantasy and mystique. Guests will have the chance to participate in salsa lessons and tango demonstrations,dance to Latin music by the acclaimed Caliente Band and dine on delicious South American cuisine catered by Delectables. The Carnaval theme will be enhanced by masks, feathers and murals designed by local artists and St. Petersburg College art students. Come and show your support for the educational programs and exhibitions of the Leepa-Rattner Museum of Art. The cost per person is $125. For further information, contact Leslie Newton at 727-712-5222.

The Leepa-Rattner Museum of Art opened January 22, 2002 on the Tarpon Springs Campus of St. Petersburg College. The Museum’s 20th century collection is made up of art from Abraham Rattner’s estate donated by Allen and Isabelle Leepa and a large donation made by the Tampa Museum of Art in 1997. The Leepa-Rattner Museum of Art commits to excellence in visual arts education, fosters aesthetic, critical and ethical thinking as a bridge to the future and nurtures interest in 20th century art history by collecting, preserving, and exhibiting the art of Abraham Rattner, Esther Gentle, Allen Leepa and their contemporaries.

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dates: Friday, Feb. 6, 6:30p - 8:30p (ages 4-7) Saturday, Feb 7, 6:30p - 9p (ages 8-12) Daddy Daughter Date Night $35/couple (includes corsage), $20 for each additional daughter.

Safety Harbor Rigsby Recreation Center 727-724-1545 Sat., Feb. 14, 11a-8p & Sun., Feb. 15, 12p-6p San Gennaro Festival Enjoy a family friendly fun filled event.

Traditional San Gennaro Procession, Italian specialties: Zeppoli, Pizzelle, Sausages & Peppers, Paneteria. Cooking Demonstrations in La Cucina, also Italian Sports Cars. Featuring Joey Dee and the Starlighters, “Da Vinci Brothers Comedy Opera” Dino DiLiberti, Philip Tropea, Daniella, Taddeo, with the Tarantella Dancers.

Cannoli and Meatball eating contests, Puppet shows, Street Performers, Opera, Children’s crafts & games.

Safety Harbor Marina, 200 S. Bayshore Blvd.

Friday, Feb. 20, 6:30 pm - 7:30pm Healthy Family Home This program is designed to improve your home environment and jumpstart healthy habits that will lead to a healthier way of life, by encouraging families to make small changes in the daily life. Covers the three keys to creating a Healthy Family Home: play daily, eat healthy and make family time. All ages.

All ages. Free and open to the public.

Greater Palm Harbor YMCA 1600 16th Street, Palm Harbor 34683 suncoastymca.org, 727-787-9622 Fri. - Sun., Feb. 20 - 22 3nd Annual Knology Sea Blues Festival Seafood -and blues-filled days featuring artists Southside Johnny & the Asbury Dukes, Jonny Lang, Marsha Ball and Elvin Bishop. Experience the finest Gulf Coast cuisine, which will feature jumbo shrimp, crab cakes, oysters, crawfish, gumbo and more. This event is free and gates open at 4 pm each day.

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Jacqueline Landry pictured on one of the beautiful balconies at Academy of the Holy Names in Tampa.

PHOTOGRAPHY by JEANINE MCLEOD

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BY ANGELA ARDOLINO

ebruary’s extraordinary woman is Jacqueline Landry, whom has no children of her own, yet has 874 she takes care of everyday, as the President and CEO of Academy of the Holy Names in Tampa. She came to Tampa four years ago from Harvard University where she served for eleven years as the first lay woman Catholic Chaplain and President of the 37 chaplains in the United Ministry. She is a seminary graduate with over twenty years of experience in the field of education and focusing on young adults. This alone makes her an extraordinary woman, but when I heard her speak at a recent event, I thought her story was even better.

see it to be it” just does not work for women. We have to be it before it exists—kind of like building the boat on the ocean.

ANGELA: Tell me about your road to success?

JACQUI: My own script for success is a sort of prayer I say “God save me from what I want.” Because every good thing that has ever happened to me was not my idea. For example we all say leaders must be courageous. I don’t identify with that. In my case, naïvety was more of a factor, because I would never have made some choices if I knew what I was getting into! I would have let my fears take over. One becomes courageous through making some naïve and perhaps idealistic choices and yet staying around to learn the responsibility of those choices.

ANGELA: What advice or message would give other women?

JACQUI: I ascribe to the 60/40 rule that most of life is that if you work hard and are motivated you can be fairly content but it is never 100% of the time all the time. For example we tell our young women you can be anything you want to be in life and that sounds good, but realistically if a woman is career oriented or entrepreneurial it is hard to commit the time that requires and at the same time have equal balance for family.

There may be times that you can only commit a small percentage to a career and a spouse or children require 60% that is real. The trick is that the imbalance is often with a term limit, things change, children do grow and the equation flips so don’t give up on those other aspirations. I just think that telling our girls that they can have it all at once is damaging the way aspiring to have a Barbie doll body is.

When I became one of only a few Catholic women to go to seminary— (theology was not allowed to be taught to Catholic women fifty years ago) I was not trying to make a statement—I genuinely just wanted to study theology and have a better grasp on the Gospels. It was only then being the only women in a class with priest candidates that I realized “Oh this must not be something women do,” and I stuck with it.

This is also true of being a Head of school-I had no idea that when I became president of the Academy of the Holy Names that so few women are in upper administration in schools nationally—less than 10%. I was not trying to make a statement I just love education and the extraordinary impact that good education can make on the quality of a child’s life. Education is transformation and it lasts a lifetime—just asks our graduates!

I want to continue to inspire young women to go into school administration so I am working on a project now trying to find film clips where the Headmistress of a school is depicted in a positive light.

There are many good ones for men, but for women the stereotype is something out of “Diabolique” “the Children’s Hour” or “Notes on a Scandal” –none of these are positive to say the least.

Which leaves me to my last point—”paths are made by walking” The sister who was my spiritual director taught me that years ago when I did not see any women who were Catholic ministers—the choice was either being a religious sister or a priest—for women often what we aspire to being does not exist we have to create it. The adage of “you have to

For women we create and compose our lives through a kind of meandering. I was always told that leadership is about a clear vision of what one wants to do with a clear path, set goals, and a chain of clearly defined steps to get you there. That is a very male model. Most of the successful women I know did not have paths like that –their careers found them. There is no clear proscribed way for women—and if there is it is interrupted by the life/work balance of having children and raising families.

The biggest thing I think we need is how to teach about failure, how to go through it; how to learn from it. Most books on leadership are about ascendency. Having worked in very prestigious schools and universities I can tell you how lethal a lesson it can be to not teach our children how to deal with failure. I know it is pithy but that house hold cleaner called Formula 409—is called that because it took that many other formulas that didn’t work.

ANGELA: What is your greatest accomplishment?

JACQUI: I remember that after 9/11, I was doing some research on resiliency—I was curious on how people stay strong in the face of great challenges. I interviewed a police chaplain who was part of the recovery efforts. His job was to be there when a human remain was discovered to offer a blessing, prayer or moment of silence to honor that person.

It brought such a presence of dignity and humanity to a nightmarish situation. This meant a great deal to the workers in the recovery effort and to the families. I remember being awe struck by the courage that takes. I told the chaplain that I could never do what he does, that it is too hard. I will never forget his response, he said “Lady I could never do what you do—working with hundreds of 18 year olds for twenty years, that is too hard!” So I guess my biggest accomplishment is my past work and continued work in serving young learners—there is no greater reward than that. tbparenting.com

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Largo, Pinellas Park, Seminole, St. Pete Beach, St. Petersburg, Treasure Island

The Junior League of St. Petersburg Inaugural Partnership Ball: Diamonds to Denim ... A Swanky Soiree The Junior League of St. Petersburg is teaming up with local educational institution, Academy Prep Center of St. Petersburg on Saturday, February 21, 2009 to produce its inaugural Partnership Ball, Diamonds to Denim…a Swanky Soiree. Join us for a night of Glitter, Glamour and Glitz ... All in the comfort of your best denim paired with dressy attire. The event will be held at the historic Coliseum in downtown St. Petersburg and is sure to be the event of the season! Together, we will welcome approximately 400 guests and will include presentations by Academy Prep students as well as professional entertainment, a fabulous dinner provided by Lee Roy Selmon’s, an exhilarating live auction, casino style gaming, and dancing.

Each year, the Junior League will select a local charitable organization to highlight. This year, after a competitive process involving 27 nonprofit agencies, Academy Prep Center of St. Petersburg was chosen. Academy Prep is a private middle school for students who qualify for need-based support. Students attend up to 11 hours a day, 6 days a week, year round on full scholarships provided by the local community! The neighborhood surrounding Academy Prep sees fewer than 35% of first graders finish high school. Academy Prep is creating dramatic change in students’ lives from 5th through 8th grade and happily reports that 95% of our graduates are either still in high school or college or have begun their careers. The program exists solely as a result of the support provided by our local community which is used for student scholarships at Academy Prep.

For more information on the Junior League Partnership Ball, please contact Kristin Connell, Primary Fundraiser Chair at kpcgator@tampabay.rr.com. Please help the Junior League of St. Petersburg and Academy Prep continue their dedicated, essential service to our community.

Floridiana Festival & Highwaymen Artist Show Opens in Gulfport Feb.7th The Floridiana Festival & Highwaymen Artist show is held in the historic, waterfront Casino Ballroom. Dating back to the 1920’s, this unique structure is ideal for showcasing the Florida kitsch of yesteryear and to discover the art of the Florida Highwaymen.

On February 7th, the Ballroom will be filled with exhibitors of vintage Florida souvenirs, memorabilia, and old tropical decor. Plus, many of the Florida Highwaymen artists will be participating, including James Gibson, Issac Knight, Robert Lewis, Roy McLendon Sr. and others.

All exhibitors highlight old Florida souvenirs and memorabilia, with everything from roadside attraction kitsch to the hand-tinted Florida landscapes of Barnhill and Harris. Enjoy a nostalgic trip back in time, browsing a beautiful selection of vintage, collectible Floridiana, including old Florida books, ephemera and postcards; flamingo and alligator souvenirs; tinted photographs from Barnhill and Harris, and other old Florida art; vintage Florida license plates and roadside signs; kitschy roadside attraction souvenirs; fruit crate and cigar box labels; rattan and other tropical decor, & much more! Admission $6.00 for adults and $3.00 for children.

dates: Sundays, Feb. 1, 8, 15, & 22, 1 pm - 4 pm Music at the Pier During Music Fest on the Water, free music wafts through the courtyard of The Pier, 800 Second Ave. N.E. For information, call 727-8216443, www.stpetepier.com Saturdays, Feb. 7, 14, 21 & 28, 9 am – 2 pm Saturday Morning Market Families can shop for fresh produce, herbs, baked goods, and prepared foods such as pickled vegetables, smoked seafood, gourmet cheeses, fruit smoothies, and more. There’s also handcrafted gifts and plants for sale, and live music to entertain shoppers. Parking is available at Baywalk Garage.

Al Lang Field, St. Petersburg saturdaymorningmarket.com, 727.455.4921 Saturdays, Feb. 7, 14, 21 & 28 Family Fun Saturdays The Salvador Dali Museum offers interactive tours specifically for families with children ages 5 to 12, followed by hands-on activities, games, and crafts. Free with paid admission www.salvadordalimuseum.org, 727.823.3767 Saturday, Feb. 14 Historic Tours St. Petersburg Preservation leads tours of historic downtown. Central Avenue and Second Street (Detroit Hotel corner). For information, call 727-824-7802, www.stpetepreservation.org Thursday, Feb. 26, 7:30 pm Hormonal Imbalance (Four Bitchin’ Babes) Start with four richly gifted singer-songwriters, add married life, kids, four part harmony vocals, one piano, guitars, a rockin’ purple bass, a dollop of sharp social commentary, a pinch of PMS, and you’ve got an estrogen fueled hilarious new show that celebrates the best of babes, boys and botox.

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s Moms, I thought we had to wear many hats- but I have changed that way of thinking. Instead, as Moms, we must carry many, many, many bags.

My husband always laughs as holiday or birthday gifts arrive from my girl friends. “Is it a picture frame, candle…or another bag?” he will ask.

See, I like- no- I love bags! I need bags! As I look about the house and car, I realize I am surrounded by bags!

We’ll begin at home. There’s the pool bag stocked with towels, weary pool toys, sunscreen and now empty juice boxes awaiting its next adventure. Let’s not forget my gym bag-complete with bottled water, stinky work out gloves, swim goggles, a seat pad for biking, hair bands, 45 hair pins, hand weights, my iPod and some mismatched socks. Ohand the prize bin bag. Treasured by our two daughters, this famous bag is the destination for all left over holiday, school and birthday candy and prizes…offering cheap rewards for future bribery!

And in the car? There is the emergency bag containing a change of clothes for everyone, a roll of paper towels and a hair brush. This is the bag of choice if you plan on feeding the birds in the Aviary at the Lowry Park Zoo!

bag lady I’ve got one for everything

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There’s the activity bag with books, crayons, lacing cards, paper and an Etch-a-Sketch for short doctor visits with long waits. There is my reading bag stuffed with the latest magazines, a notebook for random thoughts and junk mail to be sorted - perfect for the school pick up lines and waiting at the girl’s gymnastics.

And finally…the two large cooler bags that lay in waiting in the back for those twenty minute- essentials only-middle of the other errands grocery store run!

Enough bags? Are you kidding! Since these bags represent the many facets of my expanding life and since I am not yet a camel –I am always in need of more!

And as I stock them, tote them and lug these things around for me and the girls – it gives a new and more stylish meaning to the term “bag lady”. A term that I will carry well…

Lisa Black is a mother of two and founder of JustAnotherMom.com

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Dade City, Land O’ Lakes, New Port Richey, Port Richey, Trinity, Wesley Chapel, Zephyrhills

Pasco County Fair Opens February 16 - 22 Fairs in Dade City are a tradition. In 1947 a group of local businessmen interested in showcasing county resources got together to lay the foundation for present day fair.

The group was led by San Antonio rancher D.E. Cannon, along with agriculture agent Jimmy Higgins and businessmen George Nikolai, Bob Williams and Joe Collura. The group found a perfect location on 40 acres along State Road 52 and raised $3,500 to purchase the site.

On April 7, 1947 the Pasco County Fair Association Inc. was chartered with the purpose of hosting an annual fair to promote youth and other county resources. The first documented county fair was Jan. 20 through 24, 1948. The association has remained an independent, non-profit organization since its founding. No tax dollars or other government funding is given to put on the annual fair. Rather the fair association relies on memberships, fair revenues and income from rentals of the buildings on the fairgrounds to continue.

There are currently about 600 members. Memberships are available for $25 for individuals and $55 for families. Members receive free admission to the fair each day and free parking.

Members are also invited to an annual membership meeting in April which includes a free barbecue. To apply for memberships for the 2010 fair, stop by the Pasco County Fair Office, 36722 State Road 52, Dade City, FL 33526, or call (352) 567-6678.

Tips for Planning Your Fair Visit: 1. Wear Comfortable shoes 2. Bring your camera. Please note: Cameras and video cameras maybe prohibited during certain entertainment events.

3. Leave your pets at home: With the exception of Seeing Eye dogs, accompanying the visually impaired, pets are not permitted on the fairgrounds. DO NOT leave them in your vehicle.

4. Parking: Parking is free at the fairgrounds. Be sure to lock your vehicle, and take note of where you have parked.

5. Pick up a Daily Schedule at the Guest Relations booth.

6. For your Safety & Health: The Pasco County Fair asks everyone to wash his or her hands before leaving the restrooms, animal areas, and barns, especially before eating.

There is hand-sanitizing stations located through-out the fairgrounds and food- court area.

dates: Mondays, 7 pm - 8 pm Lego Engineering Ages 7 - 12. Pre-registration required.

City of New Port Richey Recreation & Aquatic Center, 6630 Van Buren Street, New Port Richey 34653 www.cityofnewportrichey.org, 727-841-4560 Feb. 14 Music & Motorcycles Zephyrhills Ride over to this motorcycle event for live music and family fun. Enter your bike in a competition, and you may just ride off with a prize. For more information call 813-780-1414 or visit online: www.mainstreetzephyrhills.org Feb. 14-15 Farm Fest & Annual Dade City Horse Pulling Championship This unique show features fine, interesting quilts and a variety of other handmade textiles. In addition, this annual horse pulling championship features the best horse-pulling champions from around the country. (Always first weekend in February) 352-567-0262 www.pioneerfloridmuseum.org Feb. 16 - 22 Pasco County Fair For complete listing of daily events and entertainment and ticket prices visit: www.pascocountyfair.com Feb. 18, 10 am - 2 pm Community Awareness Fair Refreshments, 70 exhibitors, door prizes, give-aways, medical screenings and more.

City of New Port Richey Recreation & Aquatic Center, 6630 Van Buren Street, New Port Richey 34653 www.cityofnewportrichey.org, 727-841-4560 Feb. 19 - 22 Festival Park Zephyrhills Winter Auto Fest Highlighted by a collector-car auction, autoantique swap meet, vintage auto racing and a car and truck show.

For more information call 813-258-6726 or visit www.zephyrhillsfestivals.com

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financial literacy 101 How parents can help children learn to manage money

BY MARK HELLER How do I get my child to truly understand the value of a dollar? When should I start giving an allowance? Should I get my teenager a credit card? Oh, the questions that surround the process of bringing up financially literate children! Of course, babies are not born with the skill set that makes them appropriate money managers. If we want our children to make good choices about spending, saving, and giving throughout their lives, we must commit to teaching certain financial skills throughout childhood, adolescence, and even adulthood. Starting early with your children, and maintaining some consistent attitudes and habits over many years is probably the best way to ensure that they will understand the value of money and how to make it work for them. It is never too soon to start teaching financial literacy.

Here is a set of age-appropriate money skills every family can teach: Pre-School Through Primary Years (As Soon As Your Child Can Count) • Knowing and naming coins and dollar bills • Learning that money is traded for things • Learning to keep money in a safe (but memorable!) place • Learning that we can’t buy everything, so we have to make choices (and that there is a big difference between needs and wants) • Learning that after we spend money it is gone • Early money management skills: Money has three main purposes -- spending, saving, and sharing Ages 6 – 8 • Learning coin values and solving addition and subtraction problems using coins • Learning that banks keep money safe until we need it • Reinforcing that there are three things we use money for: spending, saving, and sharing • Beginning an allowance. (Strive to give the allowance in denominations that allow for easy saving. For example, give five one-dollar bills instead of one five-dollar bill. That way, your child can easily put an appropriate fraction of the allowance into the savings pot.)

• Planning purchases and gifts, having goals for how you will use your money Ages 9 – 11 • Making change and calculating tips • Opening a savings account and making deposits and withdrawals • Learning about checking accounts and that checks are written against existing balances • Comparing prices when shopping, including unit pricing • Begin to stress the need to record and track purchases

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• Money is not just for spending – it’s also for saving and sharing (are they getting the point yet?)

Ages 12 and Up • Learning that interest is the “rent” charged for the use of money over time • Learning the power of compound interest • Understanding that credit cards involve high-interest loans • Understanding how mortgages work, including how paying extra principal significantly reduces the long-term cost of the asset • Understanding how to build and maintain a strong credit rating • Understanding the power of saving and philanthropy Some Things to Try • Consider charging interest on loans made to children and paying interest for money saved at home.

• Buy a 12-month file and populate each month with an envelope for that month’s savings. If your child meets a savings goal, let her/him make the pre-planned purchase.

• For years, my wife and I have shared the statements from each child’s college savings plan (“529 Plan”) with that child. We show the monthly contribution and how the balance is growing through the investment of the steady contributions.

• Before sending students off to college, try giving your teenager a month’s budget for clothes, food, entertainment, etc. Let her/him spend it as they choose. When the money’s gone, it’s gone. You have to be strong, but your teen may learn some valuable lessons before they leave home and face potentially costlier consequences.

I do not recommend that teenagers be given credit cards. Credit cards have a way of stimulating impulse buying in all consumers, and most teenagers don’t yet have a positive relationship with impulses. Try debit cards instead. You can load them up with balances that might help teenagers better understand their limits. Some cell phone plans work this way, which might be a good place to start. Judging by Americans’ woeful savings rate, the mountains of credit card debt that we collectively face, and the recent foreclosure crisis, we and our parents did not do a very good job of educating this generation of consumers on financial matters. If we can help the next generation of Americans be better than ours has been, we will no doubt be helping our country to a healthier and wealthier future. Financial literacy is our patriotic duty!

Mark Heller is Head of School at Academy at the Lakes, a Junior K4 – 12th grade independent school.

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Divine Events at Suzanne Perry's House to promote Datz Deli & Learn Organizational tips from Heather Lambie of Your Home Editor. Guests enjoyed an incredible spread by Datz Deli and recieved gift bags with Plum Organics and Clean Well products.

Left: Barbara Kesinker and Aly Zamore. Right: Cristina Przybycin and Jinny Sass.

StageWorks annual Fundraising Gala. Pictured are event Sponsors Ray and Nancy Murray and supporters Susan and Drew Peloubet, Anne and Bernie Kantor, Bonnie Saks, Bradley Minnen and Eileen Goldenberg

The Step group from Jennings Middle School keeps the MLK Parade participants from the Patel Conservatory marching and moving in rhythm!

The T-N-T tumbler group strikes a pose before participating in the MLK Parade with the Patel Conservatory / Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center

DeMario Henry, stiltwalker and Patel Conservatory hip-hop dance instructor, takes a long stride in the MLK Parade

february calendar of events EVENTS/FESTIVALS BODY WORLDS The Story of the Heart

At the Museum of Science and Industry (MOSI)

Now through June

By the inventor of Plastination Science, Dr. Gunther von Hagens- leading public anatomist and originator of contemporary anatomical exhibitions-features more than 200 authentic specimens, including entire bodies and individual organs.

MOSI, 4801 E. Fowler Ave, Tampa www.mosi.org, 813-987-6100 Super Bowl XLIII Sunday, Feb. 1, 6 pm Pittsburgh Steelers vs.

Arizona Cardinals Raymond James Stadium, Tampa superbowl.com The 2009 Florida State Fair Feb. 5-16 Buy discounted admission tickets early at participating Sweetbay Supermarket stores prior to Feb. 4 while supplies last. www.floridastatefair.com, 1-800-345-3247 Suncoast Classic Run for Kids Saturday, Feb. 14, 8 am Runners of all ages compete in 5K and 10K runs for $5,000 in prize money. Also noncompetitive events, walking events and wheelchair events. Proceeds benefit the Ronald McDonald House of Tampa Bay. www.runforkids.com, 727-767-822 An Evening with Lily Tomlin Saturday, Feb. 14, 8 pm Multi-award-winning film, television and Broadway star and one of America’s foremost comedians!

Carol Morsani Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center tbpac.org, 813-229-7827

Pasco County Fair Feb. 16-22 Come and enjoy the fun of the county fair! The fair offers something for everyone, including arts and crafts, beauty pageants, livestock shows, entertainment, food and of course, the famous midway. www.pascocountyfair.com, 352-567-6678 “Mardi Gras On Main Street” in Dunedin Tuesday, Feb. 24, 5 pm - 11 pm It’s Fat Tuesday, so expect to hear cries of Laissez les bon temps roulez! Let the good times roll! There also will be craft vendors and food from area restaurants from 5 to 11 p.m. The parade begins at 7:30 pm and moves along Douglas Avenue, from Beltrees to Monroe. 305 Main St, Downtown Dunedin. Free. www.delightfuldunedin.com Festival of States Now through Apr. A blues festival, clown classes, fashion show, day & night parades, a pageant, fireworks, and 5K run are some events that fill this two-week festival. St. Petersburg 727-321-9888, www.festivalofstates.com

Harlem Globetrotters Friday, Feb. 27, 7 pm St. Pete Times Forum, 401 Channelside Dr., Tampa. 813-301-2500, stpetetimesforum.com

THEATER

A Chorus Line Feb. 3 - 8 The musical for everyone who’s ever had a dream and put it all on the line. Winner of nine Tony® Awards, including Best Musical and the Pulitzer Prize for drama, this singular sensation is the longest-running American Broadway musical ever.

Carol Morsani Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center tbpac.org, 813-229-7827

Bay Area Renaissance Festival Feb. 21 - Apr. 25, 10 am - 5 pm Wandering street theatre featuring juggles, magicians, fire eaters & others, crafts, live armored contact jousting, human chess matches, minstrels, maidens faire, peasants, fools, & royalty, games, foods such as turkey drumsticks, soup in a bread bowl, chicken croissants, scotch eggs, scones, apple dumplings & much more. For ticket information visit: www.renaissancefest.com/ bay-area Museum of Science & Industry, 4801 E. Fowler Ave., Tampa

Cirque Dreams Jungle Fantasy Feb. 2 - 8 Direct from Broadway, Cirque Dreams Jungle Fantasy is an exotic encounter inspired by nature’s unpredictable creations that are brought to life by an international cast of 25 soaring aerialists, spinebending contortionists, acrobats, jugglers and musicians.

Mahaffey Theater, St. Petersburg mahaffeytheater.com, 727-892-5716

Florida Strawberry Festival, Plant City Feb. 26 - Mar. 8 Strawberries are the main purpose of the Florida Strawberry Festival and they deserve to be, but there are a lot of other reasons to attend this mega festival. flstrawberryfestival.com

Hairspray Feb. 12 & 13, 8 pm In Hairspray, winner of eight Tony Awards®, it’s 1962, and pleasantly plump Baltimore teen Tracy Turnblad has one desire: to dance on the popular Corny Collins Show.

Ruth Eckerd Hall, Clearwater rutheckerdhall.com, 727-791-7400

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Frost/Nixon Feb. 17 - 22 The face-off of the century, live on stage.

Direct from Broadway. Frost/Nixon tackles the question: How did David Frost, a famous British talk-show host with a playboy reputation, elicit the apology that the rest of the world was waiting to hear from former President Richard Nixon? This fast-paced Tony® Award-nominated new play shows the determination, conviction and cunning of two men as they square off in one of the most monumental television interviews of all time.

Carol Morsani Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center. tbpac.org, 813-229-7827

Florida Orchestra: An Evening of Romance and Love Songs Friday, Feb. 13, 8 pm Ferguson Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center. tbpac.org, 813-229-7827 Saturday, Feb. 14, 8 pm Mahaffey Theater, St. Petersburg mahaffeytheater.com, 727-892-5767 Sunday, Feb. 15, 7:30 pm Ruth Eckerd Hall, Clearwater rutheckerdhall.com, 727-791-7400 Guest conductor Matt Catingub is a virtual one-man show as he seamlessly switches back and forth between piano, vocals, sax, flute and more in a Valentine’s Day salute of classic ballads and love songs.

The Awesome 80’s Prom Feb. 26 - Mar. 1 Come party like it’s 1989, a blast-from-the-past interactive show in the style of Tony ‘n Tina’s Wedding with characters inspired by your favorite ‘80s movies like The Breakfast Club and Pretty in Pink.

Ruth Eckerd Hall, Clearwater rutheckerdhall.com, 727-791-7400 Bill T. Jones/Arnie Zane Dance Company’s Another Evening Wednesday, Feb. 18, 8 pm An ever-evolving unique 90-minute collage interweaving new movement, excerpts from existing repertoire, original and traditional music and text into a vibrant multi-media work. Bill T. Jones most recently won a Tony Award for his choreography for the Broadway hit Spring Awakening. Visit billtjones.org Ferguson Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center, tbpac.org, 813-229-7827

MUSIC/DANCE

Real Music Series at Bush Gardens Feb 4 - 7: The Harry James Orchestra with

Fred Radke Feb 11-14: Paul Revere & The Raiders Feb 18-21: Herman’s Hermits starring

Peter Noone Feb 25-28: The Osmond Brothers BuschGardens.com Bud & BBQ Feb. 8 - March 1 Country music, classic rock and good cookin’ come together during select dates in February and March at Busch Gardens Tampa Bay and SeaWorld Orlando.

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Let’s Dance featuring Burn the Floor Now - Apr. 19 The elegance of ballroom dancing combines with the raw power of rock ‘n’ roll in this stage show at Busch Gardens.

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ART Lights on Tampa 2009 Now - Feb. 2 Experience this biannual event. Community members, and visitors will celebrate the opening of Lights On Tampa 2009 through a

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pedestrian-friendly public event on Jan. 10th in order to experience each of the destinations. www.lightsontampa.org

Start with the Arts Pre-school Program at Tampa Museum of Art Thurs., Feb. 5, 12, 19 & 26, 10 - 10:45 am The unique curriculum provides an artbased learning approach to literacy and includes activities in visual arts, creative drama, dance, movement and music. This program is geared for 3 - 5 year-old children accompanied by a parent/guardian. The fee is $4 per adult and child, and $2 for each additional child, and includes all class supplies. Pre-registration is required. tampamuseum.com, 813-274-7328.

Floridiana Festival & Highwaymen Artist Show Saturday, Feb. 7, 10 am - 5 pm The Sunshine State’s largest exhibit and sale of vintage Florida art (including that of the original 26 Florida Highwaymen artists), as well as Florida roadside attractin kitsch from the 1930’s through 1960’s. Gulfport Historic Casino Ballroom 5500 Shore Blvd. S., Gulfport www.hulahula.biz, 727-321-8454 Raymond James Gasparilla Festival of the Arts Mar. 7 - 8 With some of the country’s most accomplished artists and rising stars vying for $70,500 in prize money, a showcase featuring the works of local young artists, a weekend full of live entertainment, and a children’s art activity area, the festival is widely recognized as one of the top-rated outdoor fine art and fine craft shows in the country.

Franklin Street and Lykes Gaslight Square Park in beautiful downtown Tampa.

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12 EDUCATION GUIDE

12 THE TRUTH ABOUT GRADES What parents can do to help

38 BAG LADY I’ve got one for everything

18 AN OUNCE OF PREVENTION... will keep your child out of the ER

42 FINANCIAL LITERACY 101 How to teach your children about money

18 HEALTH AND WELLNESS

22 HEARTS AND PIRATES Great gifts and items for Gasparilla and Valentines Day

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Letter from the Editor First, I would like to thank everyone who sent in their New Year’s Resolutions! Some of my favorites included: “Go Skydiving”, from Cheryl in Riverview, “Go out with my girlfriends more”, from Allison in South Tampa, “Go organic”, from Courtney in Carroll wood and “Start a family” from Vanessa in Palm Harbor. I love hearing from our readers so please continue to write me with your ideas and thoughts.

I would like to ask for a do-over for the month of January! I don’t know where it went. First problem is that I couldn’t find the refill for my daily calendar that I love and have had no calendar for the month of January. Although I didn’t miss any appointments, I feel lost without it and wake up in the middle of the night worried I forgot something. So now that I have a new calendar, I am looking to be more organized and more rested in February.

Aside from the Inauguration of our new President, some highlights from January included hearing two great women speak. The first is my extraordinary woman for February, Jacqueline Landry. She spoke at the Jr. League of Tampa Leadership Success Seminar and her honesty and sense of humor was so refreshing. Read for yourself on page 35.

The second was the Philanthropic Women of St. Joseph’s Luncheon featuring Dr. Nancy Snyderman, Chief Medical Editor for NBC News. I loved how she summed it up for those of us whom asked her questions: • • • • • • • • • •

Take Calcium and a baby aspirin everyday.

Botox is safe.

Say yes to Acupuncture.

Make sunscreen and moisturizer your best friends.

Get a doctor who really listens to you!

Unfiltered coffee can clog your arteries.

You don’t really need eight glasses of water a day.

Coughing won’t help if you’re having a heart attack. (But aspirin will!)

Heart disease and strokes can happen at any age.

Adults need vaccinations and boosters as we age

Her new book: Medical Myths That Can Kill You -- and the 101 Truths That Will Save, Extend and Improve Your Life, contains so much great information and is a great read.

Take care!

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As the market continues to adjust to the changing economy, a number of factors are coming together in the housing market to provide unique opportunities for homebuyers and investors. For those looking to take advantage of falling interest rates, excess inventory and government incentives, there’s no time like the present.

Increasing Rent

As more people move out of their homes and more potential homebuyers decide to wait, renters are facing higher prices and more competition for leases and apartments. As the cost of renting or leasing climbs, the stability of a fixed mortgage payment becomes more appealing for many homebuyers.

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Low Interest Rates

Despite the turmoil, interest rates remain steady at near-record lows. Compared to rates at the height of the real estate boom, this can mean substantially lower mortgage payments for those who buy now. Of course, lending standards are tighter now than they were a few years ago, but that means that lenders today are even more eager to work with buyers with good credit. As a result, new homebuyers can lock in at substantially lower rates now than they could have a few years ago, and existing owners can move up to a bigger and better home with little or no change in their monthly payment.

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Throughout major markets and growth areas, average home prices rose faster than at any time in history. In many of these places, prices reached levels that the average buyer was unable

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Great Selection

Another result of market growth and decline is the incredible selection of homes available. As new communities and developments cropped up throughout major growth areas, innovative floor plans, features and designs helped many builders differentiate themselves from the market. Today, many of those communities are filled with spec homes, models and a wide range of inventory homes, offering buyers a great opportunity to find the perfect home.

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The drive towards green technology continues to help homeowner’s lower bills by using less electricity, water and gas. New homes today must meet rigorous standards in efficiency and quality. They are generally fitted with new appliances, which also have to meet the latest Energy Star and efficiency standards.

As an added selling point, many builders go above and beyond these requirements, including even more “green” features like extra insulation, native landscaping, even rain barrels and compost areas.

All of these factors combine to make your monthly bills lower and your lifestyle more comfortable.

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In addition to builder and lender incentives, the federal government also provides some great incentives to buy a new home right now.

One such incentive came as a part of the Housing and Economic Recovery Act, which includes a provision for a $7,500 tax credit for first-time homebuyers purchasing between April 9, 2008 and July 1, 2009. This credit is essentially an interestfree loan to use towards the expenses of owning a home.

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Additional options include Bond Loans from certain government agencies, Veterans Affairs Loan Programs as well as the USDA Rural Housing Program for qualifying purchases.

Tax Incentives

Added to the incentives the government provides for buying a new home, there are significant incentives in place that make owning (and eventually selling) your home more affordable. In most cases, any money spent on interest and property taxes can be fully deducted from your income—saving you thousands on taxes. Overall, homeowners in the US save almost $100 billion on deductions for mortgage interest and property taxes each year. And when it comes time to sell your home, even more tax breaks help you make the most of your home’s appreciation.

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Despite the current fluctuations in the housing market, there is virtually no other investment or purchase that comes close to the long-term value appreciation of homeownership. Historically, home appreciation enjoys an average increase of 5 to 6 percent each year nationally. And from 1991 to 2007 the median price of a new home rose from $120,000 to $246,900, more than doubling in value. Compared with the drastic changes in the stock market, investing in a home can be safe and profitable.

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The Time is NOW Taken individually, any of these factors would be a major incentive to look into buying a home.

But when you consider all of these events and circumstances happening at the same time, it’s hard to deny the incredible opportunity presented to homebuyers at this very moment.

As the market adjusts to current economic conditions, potential homebuyers can enjoy great incentives, great support and truly great homes at some of the best values we’ve seen in years.

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BY JANINE CAFFREY

re your kids struggling in school? Even when they appear to be learning, are they failing to earn the grades you expect? Most students can be helped to earn better grades through relatively simple interventions. It usually does not require expensive tutoring programs to make a change. Before looking at what is wrong at school, consider what is happening at home that may be impacting your child’s grades.

What is your attitude about school? Do you constantly complain about “those teachers” or “that school?” Do you schedule family vacations or events that cause your child to miss school? Do you coddle your child, encouraging poor attendance or chronic tardiness?

Your child watches our every move and listens to your every word.

You must continually model positive school behavior in order for your child to have a positive attitude about school.

First, be sure that you are expressing that school is a priority. Do not schedule anything that interferes with your child’s attendance at school, and don’t allow your child to miss unless absolutely necessary.

Many parents (and often grandparents) are lured by cruise ship bargains and theme park sales during school days. Don’t fall into this trap! Every day at school is important. Be sure to drop your child off and pick your child up at the proper times. Chronic tardiness and early dismissals impede your child’s education and disrupt entire classrooms.

Next, take a look at your morning routine. The morning should start peacefully, without a lot of drama. If you find yourself rushing around and screaming when you are getting everyone out the door, it is time to take control. Have a family meeting and discuss your goal of having mornings that are chaos free. Come up with a plan that includes each family member’s needs and responsibilities. What time should everyone wake up? How does everyone wake up? Generally, a child who is over ten years old, should be able to set and use an alarm.

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are younger than ten have the responsibility of getting out of bed the FIRST time you request it.

Consider how your children are eating breakfast each day. Be sure your morning routine includes time to actually sit down at the breakfast table. At a minimum, be present as your children are eating their breakfast. Use this time to discuss what today’s schedule will be and be sure everyone has what they need to make it a positive and productive day. Many parents take advantage of school breakfast programs. While these are a great way to make life more convenient for you, it is always better to spend time with your kids in the mornings. Breakfast for kids should include healthy amounts of fat and proteins for their growing brains and bodies. The less sugar and processed foods, the better off they will be. Learn to read the labels and understand exactly what your kids are eating. Children should avoid sodas, caffeine, and artificially sweetened drinks. Stick to 100% juice, milk, and water.

Morning is also time to think about lunch. Either pack a lunch, supervise your child packing a lunch, or provide money for your child to purchase a lunch at school. Many parents have their children pack their own lunches. While this is a great way to increase the level of responsibility for the child, the parent must supervise the process to ensure the child has a healthy meal available for the middle of the day.

Again, remember to minimize processed foods, high sugar foods, and non-nutritious drinks.

Okay, now that the food is under control, the next thing to think about is clothing. Every school has a dress code or uniform requirements.

You and your child should review the school’s policies and discuss clothing that meets, or does not meet, the school’s standards. If you send your child to school with unacceptable clothing, you will immediately shift the focus from learning to discipline. Be sure you really look at your child before you leave the house. Is your daughter’s skirt long enough? Did your son remember to take out his earring?

Are there any words or images on your child’s shirt that may be offensive? Do not leave the house if your child is wearing anything that will be questionable.

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education guide Food - check. Clothing - check. What things do we need to bring to school? This should have actually been determined the night before.

Everything that needs to go to school including money/checks, backpack (packed with all folders, notebooks, homework, etc.) should be ready to go. Put everything in place by the door where you exit the house in the morning. That way, nobody has to rush around looking for things. When it is time to leave, you simply grab your lunch box from the kitchen, and your backpack by the door.

This should be a very simple process.

Finally, you are on your way to make it a great day. If you walk or drive your child to school, this is a great opportunity to really set the tone for the day. You want to encourage your child to deal with any anticipated issues and include lots of positive comments about your child’s abilities during this time. This is NOT the time of day to get involved in arguments about any “hot” issues that you and your child are experiencing.

Great job! You have managed the military maneuvers necessary to get everyone where they need to be at the right times. You have had a great day, and now comes the after-school adventure. Start your after-school success when you pick your child up from school. Be sure to come at the appointed time and follow the established procedures. Failure to do so tells your child that you don’t care about school rules or authority. Don’t underestimate the message you are sending to your child - and the teachers and administrators. Dismissal is challenging for schools. They are doing everything they can to keep your child safe when so many people are coming and going. If you are the parent going the wrong way in the car loop, or being rude to other parents, you will quickly get a reputation as a problem parent. You certainly do not want teachers and administrators to view your family this way. They are much more likely to go the extra mile for your child if you assist them by doing what is required of you.

On the way home, or when you get home, you will want to debrief your child about the events of the day. A typical conversation about school goes something like this: “How was your day?” “Fine.”

“What did you do today?” “Nothing.” Sound familiar? Many kids need specific prompting to discuss what has happened at school. Ask very

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specific questions about a project that was due, an upcoming test, or a book your child is reading. Be sure you know if there were any issues surrounding friends, or interactions with teachers. Learn what happened and what you can do to help. You don’t want to solve your child’s problems; you want to help your child learn to solve them independently.

Of course, if it is a serious issue, you will need to intervene appropriately.

Here is the real challenge of the day. When you get home, you will immediately want to decompress yourself. You probably check messages, mail, change your clothes, and get into your “after work” mode. Don’t do that. Your first priority when you enter the house is to pay attention to your child. Drop everything and sit down together.

Talk about the day, homework assignments, and what you are having for dinner. Take about 10-15 minutes to be present and listen to your child. It will only take that long. Then your child will want to talk to friends, play, listen to music, or do some other independent activities. This is now your time to unwind and think about dinner.

You probably have heard about the decline of the family dinner. So many families are so busy, they barely have time to eat. Dinner is consumed in the car or in front of the television at various times for each member of the family. If this is happening in your house, you will want to reverse the trend immediately. Families who actually sit down at the dinner table will have children who are more connected to them. These kids will get better grades and be less likely to get into trouble.

So, plan this daily ritual as much as possible. If your schedule is not allowing dinner together, you need to rethink your priorities and put your children first!

Once your home becomes a structured, peaceful, predictable place, you will probably see results in your child’s academic progress within about a month. If this does not happen, you will need to explore some school interventions. Be sure to check back here next month to learn about a simple technique called LAND to get your child back on track in the classroom!

Janine Caffrey is the author of Drive, 9 Ways To Motivate Your Child. She is also the founder of the Renaissance Academy. To find out more visit www.driveinstitute.com

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any people think of crawling babies and curious toddlers when they hear the word “childproofing," but parents should know that children of all ages are at risk for unintentional injuries in the home. According to Safe Kids USA, each year approximately three million children in the United States are treated in emergency departments for accidental injuries that occur in the home, and more than 2,000 kids, ages 14 and under, die from accidental injuries in the home. Most fatal injuries at home are caused by fire, suffocation, drowning, choking, falls, poisoning or firearms discharged unintentionally.

“Childproofing your home provides an extra layer of protection and added peace of mind, even if it means making your home a little less convenient for adults “said St. Joseph’s Children’s Advocate Jaime Verberne. “As the primary provider for children's health needs in this area, we know first hand how devastating injuries can be, as well as how easily they can be prevented with some simple prevention measures.”

St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital urges parents and caregivers to check their homes often for basic safety precautions, including:

Childproof your home

• Check for small things children can choke on. Anything that can fit through a standard 1½-inch toilet paper tube is a potential

choking hazard.

• Keep all plastic bags out of reach.

• When possible, use rear burners on stove and always turn pot handles toward the back. Keep children away from the stove when cooking.

• Keep sharp or breakable items such as knives, scissors and glasses up high and out of reach.

• Cover all electrical outlets when not in use.

• Install child safety latches and locks on cabinets and drawers in kitchen, bathrooms and laundry rooms.

• Always keep guns locked, unloaded and out of reach. Secure ammunition in a separate, locked location.

• Take precautions to avoid a fire • Install smoke alarms on every level of your home and test them regularly.

• Store matches, lighters and gasoline out of the reach of children.

• Check for fire hazards such as frayed electrical wires or flammable materials near heating appliances.

Always supervise children in the bathroom

• Set the thermostat of your hot water heater no higher than 120 degrees Fahrenheit and test bathwater on your forearm before placing your child in it. Children can sustain a third degree burn from water at 140 degrees Fahrenheit in as little as three seconds.

• Never leave the room while young children are bathing. Children can drown in seconds, and unlike the cries of help heard as a result of most injuries, drowning is silent.

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health & wellness • Put razors, scissors, curling irons, hair dryers, medication and mouthwash out of reach.

• Keep toilet lids closed and locked, and doors to bathrooms and utility rooms closed when not in use.

Avoid exposing children to potential poisons

• Keep potential poisons out of reach, including cleaning supplies, pet food, medicine, vitamins and alcoholic beverages.

• Always keep potential poisons, including cleaning supplies and medicines, in their original labeled containers.

• Read labels and carefully follow directions when giving children medicine.

• Install carbon monoxide detectors throughout the home and test them regularly.

• Know which plants in and around your home can be poisonous, and keep them away from children.

• Keep poison center phone number on or near your telephone: (800) 222-1222.

Prevent serious falls

• Keep furniture away from windows.

Install guards or stops on windows that are not emergency exits.

• Use corner cushions and edge bumpers to pad sharp edges of tables, counters, computer desks, hearths, etc.

• Install safety gates at the top and bottom of stairs.

• Never use baby walkers.

• Use protective surfaces beneath playground equipment.

According to Verberne, there is no substitute for active supervision. “Even if your home is childproofed, it only takes an instant for children to fall down a flight of stairs, pull a boiling pot off the stove or put a small object in their mouth,” said Verberne. “Your watchfulness is always your child's best defense.”

Experts agree, learning CPR can save your child’s life in the event of an accident. To sign up for an upcoming infant and child CPR class at St. Joseph’s Children’s Hospital, call (813) 870-4747 or go to stjosephschildrens.com.

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1- Candy Heart Rattles which sell for $9 each.

They are Fair Trade knits from Yellow Label Kids.

Get them at Silly Dilly Tot Spot, sillydillytotspot.com.

2- Coco and April Heart Dolls. These Soft Dolls are 100% cotton and are machine washable. From $34. Seedlings, 813-2515111, www.seedlings.com 3- Love Vase and Pirate Plate, Pottery painting is becoming a form of fun family entertainment! $5 and up. potterypatchstudio. com, 813-643-0014

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5- Pirate Clothing, Super-soft and uniquely stylish baby clothes. $10 to $20. Seedlings, Seedlings.com 6Webkinz Love Monkey, $12.95.

Seedlings and Julianna’s Fun Shoppe.

7- Edible Arrangement, Strawberries handdipped in gourmet white and dark chocolate.

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8- Shoes and Accessories, Red leather/sequin maryjane by Pazitos $55, Green w/ pink rhinestone hearts ribbon headband

by Faigie $24, Small white grosgrain ribbon bow with red heart in center by Wee Ones $5.99, Red patent leather maryjane by Primigi $49, Heart skull hair clip

by Wee Ones $4.40, Black leather maryjane with patent hearts by Vincent $54.95. All available at Poco Pattino, pocopattino. com 9- Pirate Ship Rocker, $240, Captain Gaspar is afloat in this hand carved Pirate-themed rocking boat. Seedlings, seedlings. com

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calm with these BPA Free pacifiers and pacifier clips. $6, Seedlings, Seedlings. com 11Pirate Welcome Sign, Little Peeps 12- see #3 13- Good Night Leo, A Swashbuckling Bedtime Adventure, By Charise Mericle Harper $6.99 | $8.99, Ages 2–5 14- Sebastian Drake #2: Prince of Pirates, Sebastian Darke, his opinionated buffalope, Max, and the fierce fighter Cornelius are heading to the bustling port of Ramalat to embark on a perilous sea journey. $16.99 15- Pirate Ship Lamp, Seedlings, Seedlings.com 16- Clarisonic is the sonic technology proven to gently yet effectively loosen dirt and oil to clear your pores.

Available at The Anti-Aging & Aesthetic Institute.

813.251.5772, www.a3institute.com 17- Big Hair Mermaid Painting, Original artwork

by Kim Cleghorn, www. ticklishmermaids.com 863-559-4811 18- Personal Heirlooms, elegantly displayed. $65$250. InThePinkDesigns. com, 877.TRU.PINK 19- 7 Ways To Say I Love You, 7 silk panties.

Pink Petticoat, www. pinkpetticoat.com 20- Haute Lunch, Lunch never looked so Haute!

Indulge your wild side with a chic Modern Zebra insulated lunch tote from Haute Lunch. $35, www. hautelunch.com 21Pirate Necklace, Little Peeps in South Tampa 22- Pirate lounge outfit

by Ollie Baby, $60. www. kookykidzonline.com

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Carrollwood, Citrus Park, Lutz, New Tampa, Odessa, Temple Terrace, Westchase

Kid Inventors Wanted In an effort to further cultivate young residents of the Tampa Bay Area, Learning Express is helping to sponsor the first annual Tampa Bay Innovation Express along with The Museum of Science and Industry, Smith & Hopen Intellectual Property Law Firm, Pure Postcards and Tampa Bay Parenting.

Innovation Express is looking for all young inventors in the Tampa Bay area ages 6-12. New invention ideas should be submitted by March 11, 2009 to be considered. Finalists will present their inventions to a judging panel on March 18, 2009 and a $1,000 cash prize will be awarded to the winner and $500 to the child’s school. To find out more information about this contest please log onto www. kids2invent.com web site.

Young inventor submissions can be dropped off at the following Learning Express locations: Learning Express of Tampa Westchase, Learning Express of Tampa Palms, Learning Express of Wesley Chapel, Learning Express of Hyde Park and Learning Express of Brandon Valrico. Location addresses can also be found on the www.kids2invent.com web site.

The Innovation Express contest was conceived by Anna Hopen (age 10, Palm Harbor). For years, Anna created new inventions on a weekly basis and discussed them with her parents, patent attorney Anton Hopen and educational toy store owner, Lisa Hopen. With each invention she disclosed, Anna and her parents identified new challenges and problems with the proposed design. Those new problems drove the need for research, learning and further exploration sending Anna back to the encyclopedia and Internet for more study. Anna’s parents quickly learned that the process of invention motivates children to self-educate.

Math, science, reading and writing are all tools needed to make something tangible out of pure creativity. The more sophisticated the tools, the more impressive the invention.

Partnering with a number of local sponsors and judges, the Innovation Express Invention Contest took form. Bay area children ages 6-12 are invited to submit their own inventions by March 11, 2009. Five finalists will present their inventions to a team of judges on March 18th and the grand prize winner will be announced March 28th at Learning Express at Westchase. All participants will receive a free admission to MOSI. The grand prize winner will receive $1,000 and the winner’s school an additional $500. Information on the contest may be found at www.kids2invent.com.

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Saturdays, 7 pm - 9 pm Café Kili presents Saturday Nights Live Jazz Enjoy Live world class Jazz every Saturday night.

Hosted by beautiful vocalist Cynthia Palmer and World Traveled pianist Herb.

5731 Fowler Ave, Tampa 33617 813.988.2879, www.cafekili.com Thursday, Feb. 5, 7:30 pm Kaleisia Tea Book Club February’s Book Selection: Choke by Chuck Palahniuk. Questions or suggestions for future books please email Jessica at j3ssic4rocks@gmail.com thetealounge.com Feb. 6-8 Night of January 16 Bjorn Faulkner has swindled millions of dollars from investors, by investing cash he didn’t have in order to control the gold trade. In the wake of a crash, he is facing bankruptcy despite the injection of money. www.masquetheatre.net Sunday, Feb. 8, 3 pm Jack and the Beanstalk The Carrollwood Cultural Center welcomes Playin Around Traveling Children’s Theatre and their production of Jack and the Beanstalk.

Enjoy this classic talk about a boy named Jack who trades his cow Betsy for magic beans.

This original musical comedy shows us the importance of not giving up.

CarrollwoodCenter.org, 813-269-1310

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south Hillsborough Apollo Beach, Brandon, Lithia, Riverview, Ruskin, South Tampa, Tampa, Valrico, Fishhawk

Gasparilla Pirate Invasion On Saturday, February 7, at 11:30 a.m.- 1 p.m., the world’s only fully-rigged pirate ship, the Jose Gasparilla, will magically appear at the south end of Hillsborough Bay. A multitude of pleasure crafts, all intent on defending the city, will boldly sail forth to meet the ship.

But quickly seeing the error of their ways, they turn to join forces with the Captain and his Krewe’s flotilla. The colorful Gasparilla Flotilla then makes its way north across Hillsborough Bay and into Seddon Channel (channel between Davis Island & Harbour Island). The Gasparilla Invasion has begun!

Pirate Fest Street Festival Downtown Tampa will again host the Pirate Fest Street Festival, which will take place along Florida Avenue, from Kennedy to Channelside. The festivities begin even before the pirates invade and capture the City – and they’ll continue until long after the last swashbuckling pirate has paraded through the streets! The 2009 Pirate Fest Street Festival features stages with live entertainment, food, and the Gasparilla Midway – which will offer rides, fun games and amusements for all ages. www.gasparillaextravaganza.com Gasparilla Distance Classic February 28th & March 1st - Downtown Tampa Named the “Best Race in Florida” by Florida Running Magazine, the Annual Gasparilla Distance Classic attracts world-class Runners who compete `on foot’ in 5K and 15K Events.

The Gasparilla Distance Classic has become one of the largest Running Events in Florida.

In addition to the Races, there is a “Not For Runners Only - Health and Fitness Expo” at the Tampa Convention Center. This Free Expo features Health and Fitness Demonstrations and the latest in Shoe and Running Apparel.

More info at: www.tampabayrun.com

dates: Fridays, 10 am - 2 pm Friday Downtown Market Enjoy fresh quality produce and entertainment each week.

Lykes Gaslight Square Park, downtown Tampa. www.tampadowntownmarket.com.

Now – Feb. 28 Smarty Pants Kids’ Boutique Going Out of Business Sale - Everything is priced to move.

Up to 80% off entire store!

Annette and Ann want everyone to know that they will miss all of their loyal customers and appreciate all that everyone has done over the past three years!

1548 S. Dale Mabry Hwy, Tampa 33629 smartypantskid.com, 813-259-4900 Thursday, Feb. 5, 7 pm Fishhawk Comedy Night Benefiting the Special Operations Forces Foundation. Featuring John Deboer as seen on Comedy Central and HBO. Must be 21 or over.

Palmetto Club, Lithia/Fishhawk www.fishhawkcomedynight.com Friday, Feb. 13, 8 pm Scene on the Green: Fiddler on the Roof Set in 1905 tsarist Russia, patriarch Tevye struggles to maintain his family and religious traditions. Concessions will be available for purchase. Stadium chairs and blankets welcome.

FREE, non-ticketed event.

Riverwalk, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center. tbpac.org, 813-229-7827 Saturday, Feb. 14, 10:30 am - 12 pm Children’s Photography Workshop: Valentine’s Day Cards Children will review some work of other artists who have worked in collage and present the concept. The children will create Valentine’s cards, which incorporate their Polaroid portrait.

For more information call the Florida Museum of Photographic Arts 221-2222 or visit www.fmopa.org.

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Clearwater, Dunedin, East Lake, Oldsmar, Palm Harbor, Safety Harbor, Tarpon Springs

DFAC is seeking donations for Trashy Treasures Art Sale The Dunedin Fine Arts Center is currently accepting GENTLY used artwork and art related supplies for the 7th Annual Trashy Treasures Art Sale, Tampa Bay’s most beloved Art Garage Sale. The sale will take place on Saturday, February 14, 2009, 10am - 3pm.

Please Drop by your donations to DFAC, Monday - Friday 10am - 5pm, Saturday 10am – 2 pm or Sunday 1-4pm. Donations will be accepted through February 9th.

Trashy Treasures Preview Party featuring the best of trashy treasures will be held Friday, February 13th, 2009, starting at 7pm. Silent action will end at 9:30pm. Preview Party admission is $10 and includes admission to DFAC’s contain it! multi-media installation fest. For more information, call Kaya at 727.298.3322 e.236 or email kaya@dfac.org. For more information visit www.dfac.org.

Carnaval Fundraiser at the Leepa Rattner Museum of Art Feb. 28, 6:30 pm

Everyone is invited to come out have a great night at the 2009 Carnaval with all its fun, fantasy and mystique. Guests will have the chance to participate in salsa lessons and tango demonstrations,dance to Latin music by the acclaimed Caliente Band and dine on delicious South American cuisine catered by Delectables. The Carnaval theme will be enhanced by masks, feathers and murals designed by local artists and St. Petersburg College art students. Come and show your support for the educational programs and exhibitions of the Leepa-Rattner Museum of Art. The cost per person is $125. For further information, contact Leslie Newton at 727-712-5222.

The Leepa-Rattner Museum of Art opened January 22, 2002 on the Tarpon Springs Campus of St. Petersburg College. The Museum’s 20th century collection is made up of art from Abraham Rattner’s estate donated by Allen and Isabelle Leepa and a large donation made by the Tampa Museum of Art in 1997. The Leepa-Rattner Museum of Art commits to excellence in visual arts education, fosters aesthetic, critical and ethical thinking as a bridge to the future and nurtures interest in 20th century art history by collecting, preserving, and exhibiting the art of Abraham Rattner, Esther Gentle, Allen Leepa and their contemporaries.

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dates: Friday, Feb. 6, 6:30p - 8:30p (ages 4-7) Saturday, Feb 7, 6:30p - 9p (ages 8-12) Daddy Daughter Date Night $35/couple (includes corsage), $20 for each additional daughter.

Safety Harbor Rigsby Recreation Center 727-724-1545 Sat., Feb. 14, 11a-8p & Sun., Feb. 15, 12p-6p San Gennaro Festival Enjoy a family friendly fun filled event.

Traditional San Gennaro Procession, Italian specialties: Zeppoli, Pizzelle, Sausages & Peppers, Paneteria. Cooking Demonstrations in La Cucina, also Italian Sports Cars. Featuring Joey Dee and the Starlighters, “Da Vinci Brothers Comedy Opera” Dino DiLiberti, Philip Tropea, Daniella, Taddeo, with the Tarantella Dancers.

Cannoli and Meatball eating contests, Puppet shows, Street Performers, Opera, Children’s crafts & games.

Safety Harbor Marina, 200 S. Bayshore Blvd.

Friday, Feb. 20, 6:30 pm - 7:30pm Healthy Family Home This program is designed to improve your home environment and jumpstart healthy habits that will lead to a healthier way of life, by encouraging families to make small changes in the daily life. Covers the three keys to creating a Healthy Family Home: play daily, eat healthy and make family time. All ages.

All ages. Free and open to the public.

Greater Palm Harbor YMCA 1600 16th Street, Palm Harbor 34683 suncoastymca.org, 727-787-9622 Fri. - Sun., Feb. 20 - 22 3nd Annual Knology Sea Blues Festival Seafood -and blues-filled days featuring artists Southside Johnny & the Asbury Dukes, Jonny Lang, Marsha Ball and Elvin Bishop. Experience the finest Gulf Coast cuisine, which will feature jumbo shrimp, crab cakes, oysters, crawfish, gumbo and more. This event is free and gates open at 4 pm each day.

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Jacqueline Landry pictured on one of the beautiful balconies at Academy of the Holy Names in Tampa.

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BY ANGELA ARDOLINO

ebruary’s extraordinary woman is Jacqueline Landry, whom has no children of her own, yet has 874 she takes care of everyday, as the President and CEO of Academy of the Holy Names in Tampa. She came to Tampa four years ago from Harvard University where she served for eleven years as the first lay woman Catholic Chaplain and President of the 37 chaplains in the United Ministry. She is a seminary graduate with over twenty years of experience in the field of education and focusing on young adults. This alone makes her an extraordinary woman, but when I heard her speak at a recent event, I thought her story was even better.

see it to be it” just does not work for women. We have to be it before it exists—kind of like building the boat on the ocean.

ANGELA: Tell me about your road to success?

JACQUI: My own script for success is a sort of prayer I say “God save me from what I want.” Because every good thing that has ever happened to me was not my idea. For example we all say leaders must be courageous. I don’t identify with that. In my case, naïvety was more of a factor, because I would never have made some choices if I knew what I was getting into! I would have let my fears take over. One becomes courageous through making some naïve and perhaps idealistic choices and yet staying around to learn the responsibility of those choices.

ANGELA: What advice or message would give other women?

JACQUI: I ascribe to the 60/40 rule that most of life is that if you work hard and are motivated you can be fairly content but it is never 100% of the time all the time. For example we tell our young women you can be anything you want to be in life and that sounds good, but realistically if a woman is career oriented or entrepreneurial it is hard to commit the time that requires and at the same time have equal balance for family.

There may be times that you can only commit a small percentage to a career and a spouse or children require 60% that is real. The trick is that the imbalance is often with a term limit, things change, children do grow and the equation flips so don’t give up on those other aspirations. I just think that telling our girls that they can have it all at once is damaging the way aspiring to have a Barbie doll body is.

When I became one of only a few Catholic women to go to seminary— (theology was not allowed to be taught to Catholic women fifty years ago) I was not trying to make a statement—I genuinely just wanted to study theology and have a better grasp on the Gospels. It was only then being the only women in a class with priest candidates that I realized “Oh this must not be something women do,” and I stuck with it.

This is also true of being a Head of school-I had no idea that when I became president of the Academy of the Holy Names that so few women are in upper administration in schools nationally—less than 10%. I was not trying to make a statement I just love education and the extraordinary impact that good education can make on the quality of a child’s life. Education is transformation and it lasts a lifetime—just asks our graduates!

I want to continue to inspire young women to go into school administration so I am working on a project now trying to find film clips where the Headmistress of a school is depicted in a positive light.

There are many good ones for men, but for women the stereotype is something out of “Diabolique” “the Children’s Hour” or “Notes on a Scandal” –none of these are positive to say the least.

Which leaves me to my last point—”paths are made by walking” The sister who was my spiritual director taught me that years ago when I did not see any women who were Catholic ministers—the choice was either being a religious sister or a priest—for women often what we aspire to being does not exist we have to create it. The adage of “you have to

For women we create and compose our lives through a kind of meandering. I was always told that leadership is about a clear vision of what one wants to do with a clear path, set goals, and a chain of clearly defined steps to get you there. That is a very male model. Most of the successful women I know did not have paths like that –their careers found them. There is no clear proscribed way for women—and if there is it is interrupted by the life/work balance of having children and raising families.

The biggest thing I think we need is how to teach about failure, how to go through it; how to learn from it. Most books on leadership are about ascendency. Having worked in very prestigious schools and universities I can tell you how lethal a lesson it can be to not teach our children how to deal with failure. I know it is pithy but that house hold cleaner called Formula 409—is called that because it took that many other formulas that didn’t work.

ANGELA: What is your greatest accomplishment?

JACQUI: I remember that after 9/11, I was doing some research on resiliency—I was curious on how people stay strong in the face of great challenges. I interviewed a police chaplain who was part of the recovery efforts. His job was to be there when a human remain was discovered to offer a blessing, prayer or moment of silence to honor that person.

It brought such a presence of dignity and humanity to a nightmarish situation. This meant a great deal to the workers in the recovery effort and to the families. I remember being awe struck by the courage that takes. I told the chaplain that I could never do what he does, that it is too hard. I will never forget his response, he said “Lady I could never do what you do—working with hundreds of 18 year olds for twenty years, that is too hard!” So I guess my biggest accomplishment is my past work and continued work in serving young learners—there is no greater reward than that. tbparenting.com

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The Junior League of St. Petersburg Inaugural Partnership Ball: Diamonds to Denim ... A Swanky Soiree The Junior League of St. Petersburg is teaming up with local educational institution, Academy Prep Center of St. Petersburg on Saturday, February 21, 2009 to produce its inaugural Partnership Ball, Diamonds to Denim…a Swanky Soiree. Join us for a night of Glitter, Glamour and Glitz ... All in the comfort of your best denim paired with dressy attire. The event will be held at the historic Coliseum in downtown St. Petersburg and is sure to be the event of the season! Together, we will welcome approximately 400 guests and will include presentations by Academy Prep students as well as professional entertainment, a fabulous dinner provided by Lee Roy Selmon’s, an exhilarating live auction, casino style gaming, and dancing.

Each year, the Junior League will select a local charitable organization to highlight. This year, after a competitive process involving 27 nonprofit agencies, Academy Prep Center of St. Petersburg was chosen. Academy Prep is a private middle school for students who qualify for need-based support. Students attend up to 11 hours a day, 6 days a week, year round on full scholarships provided by the local community! The neighborhood surrounding Academy Prep sees fewer than 35% of first graders finish high school. Academy Prep is creating dramatic change in students’ lives from 5th through 8th grade and happily reports that 95% of our graduates are either still in high school or college or have begun their careers. The program exists solely as a result of the support provided by our local community which is used for student scholarships at Academy Prep.

For more information on the Junior League Partnership Ball, please contact Kristin Connell, Primary Fundraiser Chair at kpcgator@tampabay.rr.com. Please help the Junior League of St. Petersburg and Academy Prep continue their dedicated, essential service to our community.

Floridiana Festival & Highwaymen Artist Show Opens in Gulfport Feb.7th The Floridiana Festival & Highwaymen Artist show is held in the historic, waterfront Casino Ballroom. Dating back to the 1920’s, this unique structure is ideal for showcasing the Florida kitsch of yesteryear and to discover the art of the Florida Highwaymen.

On February 7th, the Ballroom will be filled with exhibitors of vintage Florida souvenirs, memorabilia, and old tropical decor. Plus, many of the Florida Highwaymen artists will be participating, including James Gibson, Issac Knight, Robert Lewis, Roy McLendon Sr. and others.

All exhibitors highlight old Florida souvenirs and memorabilia, with everything from roadside attraction kitsch to the hand-tinted Florida landscapes of Barnhill and Harris. Enjoy a nostalgic trip back in time, browsing a beautiful selection of vintage, collectible Floridiana, including old Florida books, ephemera and postcards; flamingo and alligator souvenirs; tinted photographs from Barnhill and Harris, and other old Florida art; vintage Florida license plates and roadside signs; kitschy roadside attraction souvenirs; fruit crate and cigar box labels; rattan and other tropical decor, & much more! Admission $6.00 for adults and $3.00 for children.

dates: Sundays, Feb. 1, 8, 15, & 22, 1 pm - 4 pm Music at the Pier During Music Fest on the Water, free music wafts through the courtyard of The Pier, 800 Second Ave. N.E. For information, call 727-8216443, www.stpetepier.com Saturdays, Feb. 7, 14, 21 & 28, 9 am – 2 pm Saturday Morning Market Families can shop for fresh produce, herbs, baked goods, and prepared foods such as pickled vegetables, smoked seafood, gourmet cheeses, fruit smoothies, and more. There’s also handcrafted gifts and plants for sale, and live music to entertain shoppers. Parking is available at Baywalk Garage.

Al Lang Field, St. Petersburg saturdaymorningmarket.com, 727.455.4921 Saturdays, Feb. 7, 14, 21 & 28 Family Fun Saturdays The Salvador Dali Museum offers interactive tours specifically for families with children ages 5 to 12, followed by hands-on activities, games, and crafts. Free with paid admission www.salvadordalimuseum.org, 727.823.3767 Saturday, Feb. 14 Historic Tours St. Petersburg Preservation leads tours of historic downtown. Central Avenue and Second Street (Detroit Hotel corner). For information, call 727-824-7802, www.stpetepreservation.org Thursday, Feb. 26, 7:30 pm Hormonal Imbalance (Four Bitchin’ Babes) Start with four richly gifted singer-songwriters, add married life, kids, four part harmony vocals, one piano, guitars, a rockin’ purple bass, a dollop of sharp social commentary, a pinch of PMS, and you’ve got an estrogen fueled hilarious new show that celebrates the best of babes, boys and botox.

Largo Cultural Center www.largoarts.com, 727-587-6793

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s Moms, I thought we had to wear many hats- but I have changed that way of thinking. Instead, as Moms, we must carry many, many, many bags.

My husband always laughs as holiday or birthday gifts arrive from my girl friends. “Is it a picture frame, candle…or another bag?” he will ask.

See, I like- no- I love bags! I need bags! As I look about the house and car, I realize I am surrounded by bags!

We’ll begin at home. There’s the pool bag stocked with towels, weary pool toys, sunscreen and now empty juice boxes awaiting its next adventure. Let’s not forget my gym bag-complete with bottled water, stinky work out gloves, swim goggles, a seat pad for biking, hair bands, 45 hair pins, hand weights, my iPod and some mismatched socks. Ohand the prize bin bag. Treasured by our two daughters, this famous bag is the destination for all left over holiday, school and birthday candy and prizes…offering cheap rewards for future bribery!

And in the car? There is the emergency bag containing a change of clothes for everyone, a roll of paper towels and a hair brush. This is the bag of choice if you plan on feeding the birds in the Aviary at the Lowry Park Zoo!

bag lady I’ve got one for everything

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There’s the activity bag with books, crayons, lacing cards, paper and an Etch-a-Sketch for short doctor visits with long waits. There is my reading bag stuffed with the latest magazines, a notebook for random thoughts and junk mail to be sorted - perfect for the school pick up lines and waiting at the girl’s gymnastics.

And finally…the two large cooler bags that lay in waiting in the back for those twenty minute- essentials only-middle of the other errands grocery store run!

Enough bags? Are you kidding! Since these bags represent the many facets of my expanding life and since I am not yet a camel –I am always in need of more!

And as I stock them, tote them and lug these things around for me and the girls – it gives a new and more stylish meaning to the term “bag lady”. A term that I will carry well…

Lisa Black is a mother of two and founder of JustAnotherMom.com

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Dade City, Land O’ Lakes, New Port Richey, Port Richey, Trinity, Wesley Chapel, Zephyrhills

Pasco County Fair Opens February 16 - 22 Fairs in Dade City are a tradition. In 1947 a group of local businessmen interested in showcasing county resources got together to lay the foundation for present day fair.

The group was led by San Antonio rancher D.E. Cannon, along with agriculture agent Jimmy Higgins and businessmen George Nikolai, Bob Williams and Joe Collura. The group found a perfect location on 40 acres along State Road 52 and raised $3,500 to purchase the site.

On April 7, 1947 the Pasco County Fair Association Inc. was chartered with the purpose of hosting an annual fair to promote youth and other county resources. The first documented county fair was Jan. 20 through 24, 1948. The association has remained an independent, non-profit organization since its founding. No tax dollars or other government funding is given to put on the annual fair. Rather the fair association relies on memberships, fair revenues and income from rentals of the buildings on the fairgrounds to continue.

There are currently about 600 members. Memberships are available for $25 for individuals and $55 for families. Members receive free admission to the fair each day and free parking.

Members are also invited to an annual membership meeting in April which includes a free barbecue. To apply for memberships for the 2010 fair, stop by the Pasco County Fair Office, 36722 State Road 52, Dade City, FL 33526, or call (352) 567-6678.

Tips for Planning Your Fair Visit: 1. Wear Comfortable shoes 2. Bring your camera. Please note: Cameras and video cameras maybe prohibited during certain entertainment events.

3. Leave your pets at home: With the exception of Seeing Eye dogs, accompanying the visually impaired, pets are not permitted on the fairgrounds. DO NOT leave them in your vehicle.

4. Parking: Parking is free at the fairgrounds. Be sure to lock your vehicle, and take note of where you have parked.

5. Pick up a Daily Schedule at the Guest Relations booth.

6. For your Safety & Health: The Pasco County Fair asks everyone to wash his or her hands before leaving the restrooms, animal areas, and barns, especially before eating.

There is hand-sanitizing stations located through-out the fairgrounds and food- court area.

dates: Mondays, 7 pm - 8 pm Lego Engineering Ages 7 - 12. Pre-registration required.

City of New Port Richey Recreation & Aquatic Center, 6630 Van Buren Street, New Port Richey 34653 www.cityofnewportrichey.org, 727-841-4560 Feb. 14 Music & Motorcycles Zephyrhills Ride over to this motorcycle event for live music and family fun. Enter your bike in a competition, and you may just ride off with a prize. For more information call 813-780-1414 or visit online: www.mainstreetzephyrhills.org Feb. 14-15 Farm Fest & Annual Dade City Horse Pulling Championship This unique show features fine, interesting quilts and a variety of other handmade textiles. In addition, this annual horse pulling championship features the best horse-pulling champions from around the country. (Always first weekend in February) 352-567-0262 www.pioneerfloridmuseum.org Feb. 16 - 22 Pasco County Fair For complete listing of daily events and entertainment and ticket prices visit: www.pascocountyfair.com Feb. 18, 10 am - 2 pm Community Awareness Fair Refreshments, 70 exhibitors, door prizes, give-aways, medical screenings and more.

City of New Port Richey Recreation & Aquatic Center, 6630 Van Buren Street, New Port Richey 34653 www.cityofnewportrichey.org, 727-841-4560 Feb. 19 - 22 Festival Park Zephyrhills Winter Auto Fest Highlighted by a collector-car auction, autoantique swap meet, vintage auto racing and a car and truck show.

For more information call 813-258-6726 or visit www.zephyrhillsfestivals.com

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financial literacy 101 How parents can help children learn to manage money

BY MARK HELLER How do I get my child to truly understand the value of a dollar? When should I start giving an allowance? Should I get my teenager a credit card? Oh, the questions that surround the process of bringing up financially literate children! Of course, babies are not born with the skill set that makes them appropriate money managers. If we want our children to make good choices about spending, saving, and giving throughout their lives, we must commit to teaching certain financial skills throughout childhood, adolescence, and even adulthood. Starting early with your children, and maintaining some consistent attitudes and habits over many years is probably the best way to ensure that they will understand the value of money and how to make it work for them. It is never too soon to start teaching financial literacy.

Here is a set of age-appropriate money skills every family can teach: Pre-School Through Primary Years (As Soon As Your Child Can Count) • Knowing and naming coins and dollar bills • Learning that money is traded for things • Learning to keep money in a safe (but memorable!) place • Learning that we can’t buy everything, so we have to make choices (and that there is a big difference between needs and wants) • Learning that after we spend money it is gone • Early money management skills: Money has three main purposes -- spending, saving, and sharing Ages 6 – 8 • Learning coin values and solving addition and subtraction problems using coins • Learning that banks keep money safe until we need it • Reinforcing that there are three things we use money for: spending, saving, and sharing • Beginning an allowance. (Strive to give the allowance in denominations that allow for easy saving. For example, give five one-dollar bills instead of one five-dollar bill. That way, your child can easily put an appropriate fraction of the allowance into the savings pot.)

• Planning purchases and gifts, having goals for how you will use your money Ages 9 – 11 • Making change and calculating tips • Opening a savings account and making deposits and withdrawals • Learning about checking accounts and that checks are written against existing balances • Comparing prices when shopping, including unit pricing • Begin to stress the need to record and track purchases

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• Money is not just for spending – it’s also for saving and sharing (are they getting the point yet?)

Ages 12 and Up • Learning that interest is the “rent” charged for the use of money over time • Learning the power of compound interest • Understanding that credit cards involve high-interest loans • Understanding how mortgages work, including how paying extra principal significantly reduces the long-term cost of the asset • Understanding how to build and maintain a strong credit rating • Understanding the power of saving and philanthropy Some Things to Try • Consider charging interest on loans made to children and paying interest for money saved at home.

• Buy a 12-month file and populate each month with an envelope for that month’s savings. If your child meets a savings goal, let her/him make the pre-planned purchase.

• For years, my wife and I have shared the statements from each child’s college savings plan (“529 Plan”) with that child. We show the monthly contribution and how the balance is growing through the investment of the steady contributions.

• Before sending students off to college, try giving your teenager a month’s budget for clothes, food, entertainment, etc. Let her/him spend it as they choose. When the money’s gone, it’s gone. You have to be strong, but your teen may learn some valuable lessons before they leave home and face potentially costlier consequences.

I do not recommend that teenagers be given credit cards. Credit cards have a way of stimulating impulse buying in all consumers, and most teenagers don’t yet have a positive relationship with impulses. Try debit cards instead. You can load them up with balances that might help teenagers better understand their limits. Some cell phone plans work this way, which might be a good place to start. Judging by Americans’ woeful savings rate, the mountains of credit card debt that we collectively face, and the recent foreclosure crisis, we and our parents did not do a very good job of educating this generation of consumers on financial matters. If we can help the next generation of Americans be better than ours has been, we will no doubt be helping our country to a healthier and wealthier future. Financial literacy is our patriotic duty!

Mark Heller is Head of School at Academy at the Lakes, a Junior K4 – 12th grade independent school.

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around town

Divine Events at Suzanne Perry's House to promote Datz Deli & Learn Organizational tips from Heather Lambie of Your Home Editor. Guests enjoyed an incredible spread by Datz Deli and recieved gift bags with Plum Organics and Clean Well products.

Left: Barbara Kesinker and Aly Zamore. Right: Cristina Przybycin and Jinny Sass.

StageWorks annual Fundraising Gala. Pictured are event Sponsors Ray and Nancy Murray and supporters Susan and Drew Peloubet, Anne and Bernie Kantor, Bonnie Saks, Bradley Minnen and Eileen Goldenberg

The Step group from Jennings Middle School keeps the MLK Parade participants from the Patel Conservatory marching and moving in rhythm!

The T-N-T tumbler group strikes a pose before participating in the MLK Parade with the Patel Conservatory / Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center

DeMario Henry, stiltwalker and Patel Conservatory hip-hop dance instructor, takes a long stride in the MLK Parade

february calendar of events EVENTS/FESTIVALS BODY WORLDS The Story of the Heart

At the Museum of Science and Industry (MOSI)

Now through June

By the inventor of Plastination Science, Dr. Gunther von Hagens- leading public anatomist and originator of contemporary anatomical exhibitions-features more than 200 authentic specimens, including entire bodies and individual organs.

MOSI, 4801 E. Fowler Ave, Tampa www.mosi.org, 813-987-6100 Super Bowl XLIII Sunday, Feb. 1, 6 pm Pittsburgh Steelers vs.

Arizona Cardinals Raymond James Stadium, Tampa superbowl.com The 2009 Florida State Fair Feb. 5-16 Buy discounted admission tickets early at participating Sweetbay Supermarket stores prior to Feb. 4 while supplies last. www.floridastatefair.com, 1-800-345-3247 Suncoast Classic Run for Kids Saturday, Feb. 14, 8 am Runners of all ages compete in 5K and 10K runs for $5,000 in prize money. Also noncompetitive events, walking events and wheelchair events. Proceeds benefit the Ronald McDonald House of Tampa Bay. www.runforkids.com, 727-767-822 An Evening with Lily Tomlin Saturday, Feb. 14, 8 pm Multi-award-winning film, television and Broadway star and one of America’s foremost comedians!

Carol Morsani Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center tbpac.org, 813-229-7827

Pasco County Fair Feb. 16-22 Come and enjoy the fun of the county fair! The fair offers something for everyone, including arts and crafts, beauty pageants, livestock shows, entertainment, food and of course, the famous midway. www.pascocountyfair.com, 352-567-6678 “Mardi Gras On Main Street” in Dunedin Tuesday, Feb. 24, 5 pm - 11 pm It’s Fat Tuesday, so expect to hear cries of Laissez les bon temps roulez! Let the good times roll! There also will be craft vendors and food from area restaurants from 5 to 11 p.m. The parade begins at 7:30 pm and moves along Douglas Avenue, from Beltrees to Monroe. 305 Main St, Downtown Dunedin. Free. www.delightfuldunedin.com Festival of States Now through Apr. A blues festival, clown classes, fashion show, day & night parades, a pageant, fireworks, and 5K run are some events that fill this two-week festival. St. Petersburg 727-321-9888, www.festivalofstates.com

Harlem Globetrotters Friday, Feb. 27, 7 pm St. Pete Times Forum, 401 Channelside Dr., Tampa. 813-301-2500, stpetetimesforum.com

THEATER

A Chorus Line Feb. 3 - 8 The musical for everyone who’s ever had a dream and put it all on the line. Winner of nine Tony® Awards, including Best Musical and the Pulitzer Prize for drama, this singular sensation is the longest-running American Broadway musical ever.

Carol Morsani Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center tbpac.org, 813-229-7827

Bay Area Renaissance Festival Feb. 21 - Apr. 25, 10 am - 5 pm Wandering street theatre featuring juggles, magicians, fire eaters & others, crafts, live armored contact jousting, human chess matches, minstrels, maidens faire, peasants, fools, & royalty, games, foods such as turkey drumsticks, soup in a bread bowl, chicken croissants, scotch eggs, scones, apple dumplings & much more. For ticket information visit: www.renaissancefest.com/ bay-area Museum of Science & Industry, 4801 E. Fowler Ave., Tampa

Cirque Dreams Jungle Fantasy Feb. 2 - 8 Direct from Broadway, Cirque Dreams Jungle Fantasy is an exotic encounter inspired by nature’s unpredictable creations that are brought to life by an international cast of 25 soaring aerialists, spinebending contortionists, acrobats, jugglers and musicians.

Mahaffey Theater, St. Petersburg mahaffeytheater.com, 727-892-5716

Florida Strawberry Festival, Plant City Feb. 26 - Mar. 8 Strawberries are the main purpose of the Florida Strawberry Festival and they deserve to be, but there are a lot of other reasons to attend this mega festival. flstrawberryfestival.com

Hairspray Feb. 12 & 13, 8 pm In Hairspray, winner of eight Tony Awards®, it’s 1962, and pleasantly plump Baltimore teen Tracy Turnblad has one desire: to dance on the popular Corny Collins Show.

Ruth Eckerd Hall, Clearwater rutheckerdhall.com, 727-791-7400

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Frost/Nixon Feb. 17 - 22 The face-off of the century, live on stage.

Direct from Broadway. Frost/Nixon tackles the question: How did David Frost, a famous British talk-show host with a playboy reputation, elicit the apology that the rest of the world was waiting to hear from former President Richard Nixon? This fast-paced Tony® Award-nominated new play shows the determination, conviction and cunning of two men as they square off in one of the most monumental television interviews of all time.

Carol Morsani Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center. tbpac.org, 813-229-7827

Florida Orchestra: An Evening of Romance and Love Songs Friday, Feb. 13, 8 pm Ferguson Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center. tbpac.org, 813-229-7827 Saturday, Feb. 14, 8 pm Mahaffey Theater, St. Petersburg mahaffeytheater.com, 727-892-5767 Sunday, Feb. 15, 7:30 pm Ruth Eckerd Hall, Clearwater rutheckerdhall.com, 727-791-7400 Guest conductor Matt Catingub is a virtual one-man show as he seamlessly switches back and forth between piano, vocals, sax, flute and more in a Valentine’s Day salute of classic ballads and love songs.

The Awesome 80’s Prom Feb. 26 - Mar. 1 Come party like it’s 1989, a blast-from-the-past interactive show in the style of Tony ‘n Tina’s Wedding with characters inspired by your favorite ‘80s movies like The Breakfast Club and Pretty in Pink.

Ruth Eckerd Hall, Clearwater rutheckerdhall.com, 727-791-7400 Bill T. Jones/Arnie Zane Dance Company’s Another Evening Wednesday, Feb. 18, 8 pm An ever-evolving unique 90-minute collage interweaving new movement, excerpts from existing repertoire, original and traditional music and text into a vibrant multi-media work. Bill T. Jones most recently won a Tony Award for his choreography for the Broadway hit Spring Awakening. Visit billtjones.org Ferguson Hall, Tampa Bay Performing Arts Center, tbpac.org, 813-229-7827

MUSIC/DANCE

Real Music Series at Bush Gardens Feb 4 - 7: The Harry James Orchestra with

Fred Radke Feb 11-14: Paul Revere & The Raiders Feb 18-21: Herman’s Hermits starring

Peter Noone Feb 25-28: The Osmond Brothers BuschGardens.com Bud & BBQ Feb. 8 - March 1 Country music, classic rock and good cookin’ come together during select dates in February and March at Busch Gardens Tampa Bay and SeaWorld Orlando.

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Let’s Dance featuring Burn the Floor Now - Apr. 19 The elegance of ballroom dancing combines with the raw power of rock ‘n’ roll in this stage show at Busch Gardens.

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ART Lights on Tampa 2009 Now - Feb. 2 Experience this biannual event. Community members, and visitors will celebrate the opening of Lights On Tampa 2009 through a

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pedestrian-friendly public event on Jan. 10th in order to experience each of the destinations. www.lightsontampa.org

Start with the Arts Pre-school Program at Tampa Museum of Art Thurs., Feb. 5, 12, 19 & 26, 10 - 10:45 am The unique curriculum provides an artbased learning approach to literacy and includes activities in visual arts, creative drama, dance, movement and music. This program is geared for 3 - 5 year-old children accompanied by a parent/guardian. The fee is $4 per adult and child, and $2 for each additional child, and includes all class supplies. Pre-registration is required. tampamuseum.com, 813-274-7328.

Floridiana Festival & Highwaymen Artist Show Saturday, Feb. 7, 10 am - 5 pm The Sunshine State’s largest exhibit and sale of vintage Florida art (including that of the original 26 Florida Highwaymen artists), as well as Florida roadside attractin kitsch from the 1930’s through 1960’s. Gulfport Historic Casino Ballroom 5500 Shore Blvd. S., Gulfport www.hulahula.biz, 727-321-8454 Raymond James Gasparilla Festival of the Arts Mar. 7 - 8 With some of the country’s most accomplished artists and rising stars vying for $70,500 in prize money, a showcase featuring the works of local young artists, a weekend full of live entertainment, and a children’s art activity area, the festival is widely recognized as one of the top-rated outdoor fine art and fine craft shows in the country.

Franklin Street and Lykes Gaslight Square Park in beautiful downtown Tampa.

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