Tableau Magazine Jan/Feb 2021

TABLEAU

JAN / F E B 2 0 2 1 I SSUE

F R O M K I TC H E N TA B L E M A R K E T I N G

EAT WELL SELF CARE NEW FINDS

THE INSPIRATION ISSUE PEOPLE MAKING AN IMPACT

Photo by Mark Rightmire

Photo Credit: Sara Hall IG: @sarahallphotography

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L E TTER F ROM T HE EDI TOR Happy New Year! The Tableau team — which includes an all-star cast of contributing writers and photographers, as well as marketing, PR and design talents — wanted to be the first to wish you a healthy, happy and bright 2021.

Of course we’re a bit late to do that, as it’s now mid-January. Therein lies the beauty of publishing an online-only magazine, and of flexible deadlines in the time of COVID. We are thrilled to share with you our third issue, the biggest and best Tableau edition yet! Inside, you’ll find inspiration and celebration in so many forms:

• The Inspirers — People who give us hope • Self Care — A new feature we know you’ll love • Family — Support to keep your family thriving • Impact — Ways to help in your community • The New New — in food, design and shopping • And so much more!

Thanks for reading, spreading the word about our new magazine, and for supporting the businesses, creatives and nonprofits in this issue. And, please let us know of the people, places and things you’d like to see in upcoming editions of Tableau — we’d love to hear from you!

Carrie Freitas carrie@kitchentablepr.com  @tableauofficial  @tableauoc

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[ CONTENTS ]

JAN/FEB 2021

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T h e Te am

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To Or de r

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Take N o t e

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Of Inte r e s t

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D o Go o d

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Shop Sm a l l

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B y D e s ig n

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The Ins p i r e r s

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At Ho m e

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Gi v e Ba ck

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S e lf C ar e

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Fi r s t Pe r s o n

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M o m + Po p

Photos courtesy of Portola Coffee, Marrow Fine, The Cheese Shop, and Dodie Sy

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M E E T THE STAF F Miki Akil After working as a publicist in Hollywood, Miki found her calling in consumer/lifestyle PR. She is a Houston native (who you’ll always find watching the Astros or Texans) with a proven track record of developing powerful marketing communications campaigns.

After moving to the West Coast more than 10 years ago, she now calls OC home and lives with her husband and two kitties, Gatsby and Fitzgerald.

Carrie Freitas Carrie hails from a newspaper/journalism family on her mother’s side, and a marketing/ printing family on her father’s — which explains why she is both a published writer and founder of Kitchen Table Marketing. She lives in Newport Beach with her husband and is a proud mom of two, and stepmom of three. Carrie is passionate about giving back to her community and supporting LGBTQ+ rights.

Jordan Kruk Jordan has had a love of writing from a young age, leading her to pursue a career in PR. She started off in B2B marketing in the commercial real estate industry before joining the Kitchen Table team where she quickly discovered her passion for the restaurant and nonprofit industries. Jordan is an OC native and currently resides in Huntington Beach with her boyfriend and their pug, Franklin.

Becca Stonebraker Becca’s background and education have revolved around how to tell a good story, something she leverages in the work she does for KTM’s clients. On a daily basis, she taps into her passions for food and philanthropy to serve a variety of businesses in the hospitality and nonprofit industries. Becca is a SoCal native who loves a good meal, the great outdoors, and traveling to new places.

Madelyn Sutherland Madi found her love for public relations and social media while studying Communications at California State University, Fullerton. After pursuing her degree, she worked for a digital marketing agency overseeing clients in the tech space before finding herself at the Kitchen Table. Born and raised in Orange County, Madi supports a range of locally (and a few national) based food, design, nonprofit and real estate clients for KTM.

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Elisabeth Abrahamson OC native Elisabeth Abrahamson loves writing about her beloved hometown. When she’s not creating content, she spends her time traveling (when it’s safe to do so), wine tasting, and watching reruns of The Office with her fiance, Doug.

Wendy Bowman Wendy Bowman is a San Clemente-based freelance journalist with 30-plus years of experience writing for magazines, newspapers and websites. When she’s not writing, Wendy enjoys practicing yoga and taking care of her English Bulldog, Rhyis.

Kristen Cagatao Born and raised in SoCal, Kristen is responsible for the beautiful look of Tableau. In addition to being a talented, full-time graphic designer, she enjoys dancing with her Polynesian Group, Nonosina, and traveling.

Sara Hall Sara has 14 years of experience at daily and weekly newspapers, including the Newport Beach Independent.

Her work includes photography, writing, design and layout. In her free time, she enjoys hiking, traveling and spending time with her husband and pets.

Euni Lee Euni Lee is a born and raised Southern Californian. She is currently studying English and Ethnicity and Race Studies at Columbia University. Her favorite places in OC are Table Rock Beach and local Korean markets.

Sarah Mosqueda Sarah Mosqueda has worked as a freelance journalist in OC and LA for a decade. Her work has appeared in Orange Coast Magazine, Coast Magazine, Hispanic Network Magazine and Bon Appetit Magazine. She is an avid podcast listener, amateur yogi and skilled bartender who enjoys trying new restaurants and cooking at home with her fiancé.

Kim Newett Kim Newett is a toy expert and writer whose greatest accomplishment has been raising two strong, brilliant daughters. She lives in Santa Ana with her husband and dog and is looking forward to when she can see old friends and resume her quest to find new offbeat venues for food and drinks.

Robin H. Phillips A born and bred New Englander, Robin moved to Newport Beach this past July. She was previously the editor of Fairfield Magazine and also has worked for House & Garden, Bon Appétit, Condé Nast Traveler, and Better Homes and Gardens. When she isn’t writing or reading, she enjoys spending time with her husband and two teenagers.

Michelle Pulfrey For more than two decades, Michelle Pulfrey has shaped SoCal’s TV news landscape as a senior producer for Fox 11’s “Good Day L.A.” Always on the pulse of what’s new and noteworthy, Michelle also produced the station’s popular “Style File” segment and has written on fashion, beauty and lifestyle for Modern Luxury OC/Riviera. Now, this OC resident brings her talents to Tableau.

Amy Senk Amy is a CDM resident and a graduate of the Missouri School of Journalism. She has worked at the Kansas City Times, Kansas City Star, Contra Costa Times, Coast Kids and Coast Magazines, and is a regular contributor to StuNews Newport.

A recent empty nester, she spends her free time with her husband and planning elaborate imaginary vacations.

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By Elisabeth Abrahamson

Bijoux Redux Owner Jillian Sassone knows how to turn a hobby into a full-time career. “I quit my job after being a medical device rep for 15 years, cashed in my 401k, rented a small design studio, and began my career as a jewelry designer,” says Sassone. What prompted the bigtime career change? Her family’s jewelry heirlooms. They weren’t her style, so she reimagined them into pieces that fit her personality, but still celebrated her beloved Grandma. Sassone started to do the same bauble transformations for clients and that was when Marrow Fine was born. We are on the edge of our seats waiting for her showroom to open in Lido Marina Village in Newport Beach in early 2021. Shop stacking rings, cocktail rings, dainty earrings and more. marrowfine.com

Photo credit courtesy of Marrow Fine, Bowers Museum, and Wayne Thiebaud

Treasures in Gold and Jade Located in Santa Ana, Bowers Museum has been an Orange County icon for more than 85 years. The museum’s newest exhibit, Treasures in Gold and Jade: Masterworks from Taiwan, is now open and scheduled to run until May 30, 2021. The exhibit features the exceptional sculptures of two of Taiwan’s premier artists: Wu Ching, a sculptor who creates intricate carvings which he translates to pure gold using a classic lost wax technique; and Huang Fushou, whose skill for jade carving allows him to create impossibly delicate forms. You’ll find 27 jade carvings

by Fu-Shou—often carved from a single stone—and a poem to accompany each piece of artwork. Ching is exhibiting 17 brilliantly yellow gold sculptures that are deeply rooted in Buddhist doctrine and follow the sensory pleasures of his childhood all the way to the dawning of his spiritual enlightenment. This exhibit is free with general admission ($15). Check the website or call before you go to confirm the museum is open. bowers.org, (714) 567-3600

Contemporary Clowns Known for his still life art (think pies, cakes, desserts, etc.) and now for his landscapes and cityscapes, Wayne Thiebaud is among the world’s most celebrated living artists. See the 100-year-old’s work at the latest exhibition to open at the Laguna Art Museum, Wayne Thiebaud: Clowns, which will be on view through April 4. You’ll find 46 works throughout the exhibit that tell the life of Thiebaud. Growing up in Long Beach, Thiebaud looked forward to the traveling Ringling Brothers Circus coming into town.

He occasionally helped out behind the scenes in exchange for circus tickets. It was during this time that he became fascinated by the costumes, faces, and antics of the circus clowns. As a child, he visited Laguna Beach with his family, and later in life, his son, Paul, opened a gallery in Laguna Beach, so it’s fitting that his clown series, a tribute to performers remembered from his boyhood, would debut here.

General admission is $7. Check the website or call before you go to confirm the museum is open. lagunaartmuseum.org, (949) 494-8971

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Discover Dodie Sy Artist Dodie Sy was born and raised in the Philippines before moving to Southern California when he was 13. Sy attended FIDM, where he studied interior design, but he craved more creative freedom, so he left to pursue floral design. His interest jumped from floral design to watercolor to oil painting, and onto many other mediums such as fabric and clay. But the one thing that remained a constant was his continued inspiration from the Philippines.

“Each piece begins with an image I have in my mind, but quickly transforms once my hands touch the medium and my intuition kicks in,” says Sy. “I’m in the moment and in that moment, I am one with the piece I am creating—it’s a silent conversation of creativity.” The Costa Mesa resident is working on a new series of pottery titled ‘Gulugod,’ which is about the nuances and form of the human spinal vertebrae. He also creates floral vessels, other ceramics, and an insanely gorgeous New Mexico series, which you can find on the back cover of this issue. dodiesy.com

Be Part of the MVMT Cinamin Stulik began her fitness, or as she calls it, “movement” journey as a classically trained ballet dancer. “This is where I truly fell in love with the feeling of moving my body,” says Stulik. So, when the COVID-19 pandemic hit and altered the way people were working out and moving their bodies, Stulik found herself working out through a digital platform and surprisingly loved it. “I found myself saving so much time doing my workouts from home,” says Stulik. “I love the accessibility of experiencing other workouts I would not normally get the chance to do.” That’s why she decided to create MVMT Studio, a digital fitness studio that offers live and on-demand classes. It’s a great fit, considering she’s been studying and teaching a number of disciplines (think Pilates, Pure Barre, 044 Method) over the last 20 years. themvmtstudio.com

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Photo credit courtesy of Discover Dodie Sy, MVMT Studio, The Beads You Need, The Beads You Need, and Chakra Shack

Natural Wellness After graduating college, Angela Sinnett started working for a pharmaceutical company and found herself with constant stomachaches and greying hair. She started to see an acupuncturist and asked questions during treatment sessions, when something just clicked. Sinnett knew this was the path she was meant to be on. Now she owns and operates Magnolia Wellness in Costa Mesa, an acupuncture and wellness space for healing. Inspired by the magnolia tree, which is similar to the tree of life, Magnolia Wellness focuses on healing and the transformation patients can have when they branch out and blossom into something new. Magnolia Wellness offers acupuncture and naturopathic treatments, herbal consultations, and much more. magnoliawellnessoc.com, (949) 612-7247

The Beads You Need Owner Mary Rowe grew up in an artistic household.

“Growing up, my grandmother lived with my family and she was a milliner, so I basically grew up in a hat shop,” says Rowe. “As a child I was always creating, sewing, designing… my grandmother would even let me do her window displays.” The creativity didn’t stop there. Rowe went on to study interior design at the University of Wisconsin, then headed west to Laguna Beach. “Laguna has always been known as an artists’ community,” she says. Rowe purchased The Bead Shop back in 2013 and keeps the shop stocked with beautiful, natural elements that she hopes will inspire her customers. “My shop has a nod to the surf culture and the boho California vibe,” says Rowe. Customers can browse individual beads, bracelet making kits, and much more.

(949) 494-2115.

Chakra Shack Owner Jill Templin’s curiosity of the metaphysical world peaked after her father passed away. “I saw Sylvia Brown live, then found myself becoming more and more interested with crystals, intuitives, and ways of natural healing,” says Templin. The then 21-year-old graduated from college and moved to Laguna Beach where she opened her shop, Chakra Shack. “I feel that the pandemic forced us to dive deeper into our beliefs and really practice what we preach,” she says. “It gave us an opportunity to allow the flow of the universe and release resistance.” Templin is inspired by knowing that society has the power to grow and heal together, and at her shop she offers items that can help you on your spiritual journey. Browse healing crystals, gemstones, aromatherapy, incense, sage, and much more. chakrashack.com, (949) 715-6930

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Helping Families Thrive

By Sara Hall As the phrase goes, it takes a village to raise a child, but whoever coined the term couldn’t have predicted 2020. And for families who faced numerous new challenges last year, it was even harder to live up to Maya Angelou’s famous quote, “My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive.”

The Family Thrive is a new e-learning platform and community designed to help families everywhere thrive together, explained co-founder and CEO Audra DiPadova Wilford.

“The goal is to create the first social online learning hub dedicated to supporting the health and wellbeing of all families,” she said during a phone interview. “Everybody told me it takes a village … [At The Family Thrive], we’ve got your back.”

It’s an online, holistic approach to family wellness, said Director of Marketing and PR Anne Watson during a phone interview.

The site features science-backed and evidence-based information and resources. There’s a lot of misinformation out there, particularly about health, Watson added, which is why it’s important to provide content that parents can rely on.

“We want to help [families] navigate those waters,” she said. “It can be overwhelming.”

The Family Thrive is built on four pillars: Nourish (food, recipes, cooking); flourish (stress reduction, mindfulness, emotional health); embody (sleep, exercise, whole body wellness); and connect (community, support from other parents, social well-being).

As a for-profit business, members pay a monthly subscription fee for access. Members can sign up

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Photos courtesy of Jessica Bodas and Alison Bernier

diagnosed with brain cancer. They consulted experts to find out what else they could do in addition to the standard treatment.

“We were focused on Max’s quality of life,” she said.

DiPadova Wilford, who attended culinary school, worked on modifying Max’s diet. Other parents started asking about it, so she offered cooking classes. They built a community and shared what they learned about complementary medicine. MaxLove Project took off and evolved into what it is today.

“We wanted to make sure no family ever felt alone,” she said.

Now 13, Max has beaten a lot of odds and is thriving while still actively fighting cancer. for different groups and forums, connect with other parents and experts (including doctors, nutritionists, and psychologists), and engage in short courses, video chats, and in-app events. They can receive recipes, sign up for cooking classes, and listen to informational podcasts. There will be a mixture of “quick bites” and in-depth high-quality content, including videos, infographics, and articles.

With so much else going on, the idea that started as a cookbook was put on the back burner over the years. The team was finally creating it when 2020 rolled around and the project hit a wall.

Rather than let it vanish, they went virtual. Through research, the team found a gap between what

DiPadova Wilford’s vision is for The Family Thrive to become a trusted and empowering resource for families, a place they can go to feel engaged and mutually supported.

“So that thriving won’t seem like a lofty goal,” she said. “We want to focus on lifting people up and supporting families to live their best lives.”

It’s an honest and open community—both emphasized. There is no stigma when asking about certain topics, like what to do when a child throws a tantrum at the store, or sharing a story or concern about a sensitive subject, like the death of a child.

“This is the place where you can talk about it and seek support,” Watson said. “No topic is off limits and there is no judgement.”

The idea of The Family Thrive has been on the radar of its creators for years, but 2020 pushed it to fruition.

For DiPadova Wilford, it grew from a personal experience close to her heart. She and her husband, Justin, started the nonprofit MaxLove Project in 2011, three months after their then 4-year-old son, Max, was

parents actually experience versus what they want and need regarding overall wellness, so a website with a wider audience was a good match. In addition to nutrition, they had other information they could share that would help family frustrations in that space.

“We realized we had an opportunity to build a social enterprise that can address this void,” DiPadova Wilford said. “[The Family Thrive] is what we’ve been growing ever since that moment.”

For more information, visit thefamilythrive.com and maxloveproject.org.

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The Colors of the Future — Here Now!

By Robin Phillips What would a new year be without a splash of color — especially after the 2020 we’ve all experienced?! The iconic Pantone Institute announced its Colors of the Year just before we went to print, and we could not be happier with the choices: “Ultimate Gray” and “Illuminating” (yellow). This is only the second time in its history that Pantone has identified not one, but two colors to offer inspiration and guidance to the home and interior design industry for the coming year. Pantone believes that these “two extremely independent colors highlight how different elements come together to express a message of strength and hopefulness.” We love that idea – and we also love SOCO in Costa Mesa – so we asked some of the design experts there to share their top furniture and accessories picks that use the new Pantone shades.

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Photo credit courtesy of Design Within Reach, HAY, Roche Bobois, Rejuvenation, Modani, and Room & Board

Design Within Reach / HAY

Rejuvenation

“We love the 2021 Colors of the Year. Yellows and grays have been staples in modern design for generations. Here are a few products we love that showcase these colorways beautifully.”

Carson Wall Sconce

The Jonas Sofa at Design Within Reach Named for Swedish designer Jonas Wagell, this sofa is meant to be used every day yet still dazzle with its sculptural beauty. $3,695 Platner Armchair by Warren Platner for Knoll at Design Within Reach Platner, who worked with design giants I.M. Pei and Eero Saarinen before developing his own collection, designed this chair to prove that a “decorative, graceful design” can fit into modernism. $5,358 DLM Table at HAY The “Don’t Leave Me” side table has a handle that allows it to be carried from room to room. $175

Farrow & Ball “We are thrilled about the Pantone Color of the Year for 2021. We have a color in our Archive desk that is very similar in hue. Yellowcake No. 279 is a classic bright yellow name to reflect the revival of the ‘homemade.’

[It was] much-used in kitchens during the 1960s, and is equally popular in 21st century homes. It pairs easily with both cooler and warmer shades of gray, like our Manor House Gray No. 265 or Purbeck Stone No. 275.” Contact showroom for pricing.

This wall sconce is inspired by vintage warehouse lights from the late 19th century, featuring a timeless gooseneck design. It adds industrial appeal to any space and comes in both Matte Honey Yellow and Gloss Grey. $229

Modani Eos Pillow Wrapped in bright yellow fabric, the Eos Pillow adds a dash of bold color while an intricately woven lattice layer reveals dimension and texture. $59

Room & Board Helio End Table in “Silver” Resilient and useful with a soft square base, this side table adds a fun pop of color to any room.

Nest multiple Helio tables sideby-side and mix up the height and color. $179-$199 Horizon Plaid Throw in “Mustard” This simple Scandinavian plaid design in soft, strong South American alpaca wool insulates without bulk, allowing the throw blanket to be lightweight yet warm. $149

Roche Bobois Bubble Sofa The iconic French design house’s Bubble Sofa is the perfect blend of design, innovation, function, and emotion in Grigio Grey. Price available upon request.

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BY DESI GN AN INSIDER’S GUIDE: FOUR TOP INTERIOR DESIGNERS’ FAVES FROM SOCO

By Robin Phillips With so many of us spending extra time in our homes, loving our spaces has become more important than ever. What surrounds us should always bring us happiness, and maybe even inspire us. Furniture and accessories designers have that same hope in mind – that their pieces might add beauty, organization, comfort, and function to your life. But with so many choices, who couldn’t use some suggestions from the experts? We asked some of our favorite local designers what showrooms and pieces they like best at SoCal’s top home + design destination, South Coast Collection (SOCO) in Costa Mesa. socoandtheocmix.com.

Tania Cassill // huit “Design Within Reach (DWR) is my go-to. I try to incorporate at least one of their iconic pieces into all of my projects,” says Tania.

Her top DWR picks? “I especially love the Royal System Shelving for practicality and the oval Saarinen table in Carrara marble just because it’s stunning,” she says. The Shelving, designed by famous Danish artist Poul Cadovius in 1948, is considered a cornerstone of Danish design.

Created by Finnish designer Eero Saarinen, the pedestal table is an icon of modernism.

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Photo credit courtesy of Tania Cassill, Robin Strickler, Laura Brophy, and Ashley Clark

Robin Strickler // Design Works Home “My favorite place at SOCO is PIRCH. We love their showroom and take all of our clients there. Not only is it impressive visually and has so much to offer, but they even have a chef on staff and a barista – it’s the best customer service and experience!”

Robin’s fave fixture: Samuel Heath plumbing fixtures. “They are from London and are so beautiful,” says Strickler.

Samuel Heath has been manufacturing their fixtures in Birmingham, England for almost two hundred years.

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Laura Brophy // Brophy Interiors “It’s tough to select a single ‘favorite showroom,’ as several of my faves are at SOCO; but if I had to choose, I would have to say Famosa,” says Laura.

“They carry a great selection of materials from a variety of manufacturers and the showroom is well organized and gorgeous.”

Laura’s top pick: Terrazzo. “My favorite thing at Famosa has to be their awesome selection of terrazzo – it’s such a beautiful material and it works well for flooring, backsplashes, countertops, and more.”

Terrazzo is made when chips—marble, glass, quartz, and more are set in cement. It achieved popularity in the US during the 1920s Art Deco movement and is now making a big comeback.

And, her food fave: The Cheese Shop at The Mix at SOCO for their amazing selection of cheeses and incredible charcuterie boards. “The Cheese Shop is my go-to spot for picking up delicious snacks for client meetings and family gatherings,” she says.

“We love PIRCH and could not do our job without them,” says Ashley.

“They are so helpful and their showroom is just so fun to visit and take clients through to review options and make selections for their homes!” She also loves Design Within Reach. Ashley also recommends: Rejuvenation.

Some of Ashley’s Rejuvenation finds: Bowen Runner: Jute is one of the world’s most popular natural fibers after cotton, and 85 percent of it is cultivated in the Ganges Delta.

Berkshire Linear Pendant: With a colonial feel but elongated modern lines, this fixture—designed Oregon— is a statement piece above a bar or island.

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Brendon Farrell Fin Hook Rack-10 Rack in Oak: Designed by Portland, Oregon designer and architect Brendon Farrell, this minimalist design in white oak or walnut is functional yet beautiful.

Large Massey Drawer Pull in Aged Brass In solid cast brass, the Massey pull is a reproduction of a classic vintage style and comes in seven finishes.

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AT H OM E The Art of Design - Donna & Caitlin Whelan’s Inspiration

By Robin H. Phillips Anyone who has ever hired an interior designer knows a good one has certain definable qualities. She listens to you, acknowledges your tastes and understands how you live, and ultimately, creates a pleasing decor. Then, there are the hallmarks of a great designer. You know the one: when the big reveal of a room results in tears of joy or even ten years later, you find you are still in love with that space. That type of designer is a true artist – and Whelan Design House fits that bill.

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Photos courtesy of Whelan Design House

installation, they might be scouting antique shops, flea markets, design shows, art galleries, and vintage boutiques (pandemic-permitting). Back at their home office, they are avid researchers who are always learning and seeking out a new idea or movement, finding a piece of furniture, or a unique objet d’art. “It doesn’t matter how busy we are. We always put our clients in focus and we invest the time to get to know everything we can about them,” explains Caitlin.

“Depending on their goals, we work side by side with them to realize their vision for their ideal space, to help them solve a design problem, or to reinterpret or refresh an existing decor.”

Donna and Caitlin Whelan, a mother/daughter duo, are the creatives behind the Costa Mesa-based Whelan Design House. Each woman brings her own array of talents to the table and together, they enhance each other’s strengths. “This is our true passion—we live and breathe design,” says Donna.

When the two aren’t with a client or overseeing an

While Donna Whelan isn’t a Californian native—she feels very at home with the lifestyle here, but is also continually inspired by her roots growing up in stately Grosse Pointe, Michigan. “I love the old world feel there—the homes with great bones and charm, the architectural character, and the use of antiques and art in home décor,” she says. Once transplanted to Orange County with her husband, Donna was a busy wife and mom in addition to being the creator of a successful business, Relics, where she sought out vintage and antique furniture for clients. As a young girl, Caitlin often accompanied her mother on those magical market expeditions. “Caitlin could barely see

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the top of the table,” laughs Donna. “But she had an eye for beautiful pieces, and soon she was a young teen designing her own jewelry.” Caitlin was drawn to vintage beads, chains, pieces, and baubles that were sometimes broken or one half of a pair. She would buy them and transform them into wearable art.

“I remember finding an antique sterling rosary medallion from 1942 with an inscription on the back,” explains Caitlin. “I just loved that it had a story and a timeless quality – a richness to it – that made the piece all the more meaningful.” Caitlin made the medallion a centerpiece of a new necklace she created. An entrepreneur like Donna, Caitlin founded cwjewelrydesign.com and her business took off.

Donna supported her daughter’s creative endeavors but also encouraged Caitlin to purse another love of hers – writing – which she did at UC Irvine, studying journalism.

Meanwhile, Donna was adding more services to Relics – not simply shopping for clients but also helping design for them on a larger scale. It wasn’t too long before Caitlin’s passion for design seemed like a natural fit to join forces with Donna. “We realized that our combined talents could become something much broader in scope – and the name Whelan Design House reflects our desire to embark on different creative projects and offer various services under one umbrella,” explains Donna. “We are always evolving,” adds Caitlin.

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Photos courtesy of Whelan Design House

If the partners do not find something they are looking for, they will have it created – often designing it themselves. Whelan Design House’s furniture line – with soft modern shapes in gorgeous lush blues and pinks is not just beautiful but functional, comfortable, and built to last. “I love a math problem and a design challenge and sometimes a custom design is the only solution,” explains Caitlin, who is very adept at the technical side of the business. “She is amazing with new technology, such as 3D modeling, which helps bring a room to life on the screen so our clients may visualize a space,” says Donna. Successfully blending styles and eras is often a challenge for homeowners and designers alike, but it’s a specialty of Whelan Design House. “We are especially inspired when there can be a fusion of time periods. For example, a piece from the 60s working alongside something from the 20s.” A client is thrilled if she can keep that favorite piece from her grandmother, but also bring in more modern touches that create a fresh and contemporary look. Donna and Caitlin love to introduce special finds, often vintage or antique, into a scheme to express a client’s personality. “Good

design can truly change people’s lives for the better,” says Donna. “It may sound so dramatic, but we see it over and over again.” There is no cookie cutter one-size-fit-all approach to a Whelan Design plan.

“We create spaces that are truly one-of-a-kind for the person who lives in it,” says Caitlin.

“We like to think of it as having an artful approach,” explains Donna. In addition to found and repurposed pieces, the team is a fan of custom-made furniture and accessories. “We try to do everything locally, using workhouses in LA because it’s better for the environment and the local economy,” explains Donna. Continuing with that eco-conscious vibe, the duo also gravitates toward natural materials and fabrics. “We use almost 99 percent natural fibers like

linen, Mohair, cotton, wool, wood, and stone you find in nature,” explains Caitlin.

What might 2021 hold for the designers? Their love of art has blossomed into a stand-alone venture spearheaded by Caitlin, called Commoners Gallery.

“I wanted to make artwork accessible to a broader client base,” explains Caitlin. “Having original art in a home brings me such joy and it does for others too, but it isn’t always affordable,” Caitlin explains. “So I have been scouting eBay, estate sales, and more, and I find such treasures – like prints, woodblocks, lithographs, often unsigned but terrific art, and then I have it custom-framed to create a unique piece but at a price someone starting out can afford.”

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S E LF CARE

By Michelle Pulfrey

WILD BY NATURE EXPLORE THE WILD Relaxation and rebalancing are key for self care, so escape and chill with Wild by Nature—it was created just for that purpose. Made in Orange County and inspired by California, this Black-owned business is a hemp-derived CBD product line with no THC—only natural ingredients. Take a shot at it with their perfectly measured 6-pack of cocktail inspired tinctures or their custom vape with precise temperature control in flavors like Lavender, Rose & Hibiscus, Wild Lime & Lemon, and Apple & Mint ($19 and up). wildbynaturecbd.com

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Photo credit courtesy of Wild by Nature, OSEA Malibu, Nature of Things, and Facial Lounge

NATURE OF THINGS

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FACIAL LOUNGE ABOUT FACE If you’re ready to be pampered, try a facial curated specifically for your needs at the Facial Lounge. Owner/ Aesthetician Amber Rose Johnson started the business over twenty years ago.

Facial Lounge does not have a menu of services and exclusively offers custom treatments since everyone’s skin needs are different. Start with a mini facial (25 minutes for $99) and you’ll be hooked on their plant-based, organic, vegan, gluten free, dairy free, non-toxic services. Kick it up a notch with custom add ons: red LED light for collagen production, blue LED light to kill acne causing bacteria, facial fuzz removal, sugaring, waxing, and so much more. If you don’t want a service in person, Amber also creates custom masks to pick up for your skin issues. Truly a concierge facial service.

Faciallounge.com, (949) 432-5915

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M OM + POP THE KIDS ARE ALRIGHT (AREN’T THEY)?

By Kim Newett

How Parents Can Support Their Teens Right Now 2020 may go down in history as one of the most challenging years for kids and their parents in recent memory. It was the year of quarantine, of school closures, of not seeing friends, of online learning and endless Zoom calls. A year of stolen summers, hard-to-focus falls and a winter of (mostly) discontent.

While a COVID-19 vaccine is starting to be administered in the U.S., it will take time for it to make its way to kids and teens, parents and teachers — meaning that we still have some rough waters ahead when it comes to helping our children navigate life, school and isolation.

Not to mention all of the other pressures that face our teens, even in the best of times.

As we enter a new year, the Tableau team wanted to provide advice for parents; some tips for how to show up and provide support to their teens in this anything but familiar “new normal.” Thankfully, one of the nation’s foremost experts on this topic happens to be a trusted local resource: Daniel Patterson of Newport Beach-based Patterson Perspective.

Daniel spent 17 years working in education as a high school teacher and administrator, then left those roles to create his own company aimed at supporting teens and their families in individualized ways. He and his team are known for their effective and nuanced approaches to academic coaching and college advising that resonate with both teens and parents.

Patterson Perspective helps all teens — especially those who don’t fit the mold — map plans for life and school that best suit them. Daniel’s proven approach considers the whole person, and he focuses quite a bit on the mental health of the students that he sees. Under normal circumstances, he has a thriving business. In the pandemic, his business has seen more growth than any other year by far.

Daniel started our conversation with an important

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message: Remember to breathe. Deeply. And often.

Then, he proceeded to give us some valuable advice, which we’ve excerpted below: Check in with your student. Daniel recommends that your teen see a therapist at least as often as he sees a dentist — twice a year at minimum, and more as needed to make sure your student is clear on his purpose and is developing coping skills. During the pandemic, therapy can help your student deal with feeling cut off from their world, experiencing economic insecurities due to a parent losing a job, or grieving any personal losses.

Give you and your child a break when it comes to worrying about academic shortcomings. While it is easy to get overwhelmed and wrapped up in the panic of what kids are missing due to remote or hybrid learning, there are ways to fortify what may be lacking in this new model. Consider reading, watching documentaries, art projects, or discussing the news together. With no extracurricular activities on the schedule, kids have quite a bit of time on their hands — and in their heads. In the past, we have used the subject of school as crutch to communicate with our children. Research shows that parents spend

approximately 80% of their time with their teens talking about school-related topics. But, according to Daniel, who your teen is as a student really only accounts for about 10% of who they are as a person.

This is a great time for you to encourage your child to explore things that truly interest her, which will ultimately help her define her purpose.

Take this time to question the activities and checklists we have set for our kids. For instance, this year, colleges are not requiring students to take their SAT or ACTs as part of their application package.

Many colleges aren’t requiring them through 2024.

So, take that off the plate of things your family is stressed about. Grades also will look different due to the approaches schools and districts are taking to accommodate varying student circumstances.

Don’t hyper focus on grades. For those who receive daily emails from school with grade updates, Daniel suggests checking them once a week (at most) to avoid creating conflict.

Set up small wins for your child. Create a list of rules that are clear and concise and follow through with them. Pandemic or no pandemic, house rules are house rules. Kids thrive with structures including regular bedtimes, chores, getting dressed for the day. Make sure you are not giving them “outs.”

Rules for behavior and performance should be enforced lovingly, simply and consistently to help reduce tension. Kids crave ambiguity, a little slack with the enforcement because it helps them duck accountability — don’t give it to them. It’s hard as parents when we are seeking the endorphins of happiness, the smile and the hugs, to remember that not following through with the basic rules in order to avoid conflict sets us up for bigger conflicts down the road.

Remember that your kids are watching you. How you are processing your stress during the pandemic is setting an example for your kids to follow. Taking healthy breaks, exercising, and checking in with your own mental health are ways to ensure that your kids

will do the same. If you are coping by engaging in unhealthy habits, your kids are learning from that, too.

While the pandemic has presented unprecedented challenges to families and educators, it’s also revealed — among other things — that we have been raising kids who have been over-scheduled in the pursuit of a stellar résumé, top school acceptances and the supposed “happily ever after” life to follow. Except it doesn’t really work that way. As Daniel observes, we often see kids get lost in their schedules only to get to college devoid of purpose and coping skills.

The rise in teenage anxiety and depression has been growing steadily for years. This period that has enforced a slowdown has unintentionally had the effect of making people question the integrity of their motivation. Kids, like all of us, have had time to explore what they really want to spend time doing — and to make note of what they are much happier to cut out of their lives permanently. It has given kids the opportunity to explore their authentic selves. That is the gift of 2020.

Daniel Patterson can be reached via email at daniel@ pattersonperspective.com to schedule a consultation.

More information about him, his services, and his approach can be found at pattersonperspective.com.

It’s important to consistently check in with your child’s mental health. Be aware of these warning signs of serious depression: • If your child isolates him or herself from the family. If he or she spends all of their time in their room, including meals or other family time.

• If sleep patterns are disrupted. If they are sleeping more than their normal teenage selves — or less. Or if they are up at various times throughout the night.

• If they are making random friends online Please step in and speak to a mental health professional if you are noticing some of the above behavior or if something just doesn’t feel right with your teen.

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TO ORD ER

By Elisabeth Abrahamson

Coffee Dose Husband and wife duo Oscar and Jeni Castro are killing the caffeine game. Coffee Dose, their Instagramable café tucked into East Eighteenth Salon, offers craft lattes, vegan treats, and branded apparel you won’t find anywhere else. The Castros had no experience in making coffee, but Jeni knew that she could do it, saying, “Drinking it three times a day was at least a good start!” The Eastside Costa Mesa location (there’s another spot on Melrose in Los Angeles) is keeping their uber popular seasonal Dulce latte, made with a creamy blend of coconut condensed milk, marzipan, espresso, cinnamon, and oat milk on the menu this month. And next month, be on the lookout for Phil’s Side Chick, a mint mojito-inspired latte. www.coffeedose.cafe, (949) 903-8353

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Project Fifty/100 Chef Jeremy Fox has been in the food industry his entire working career, starting as a busser at the Blue Bayou in Disneyland when he was 17. Fast forward to today, where he’s the Chef de Cuisine at the Summit House in Fullerton and the creator of Project Fifty/100. When Fox and his team at Summit House needed to pivot last March, he thought of ways to bring the dining experience at Summit House into your house. Enter Project Fifty/100, a box filled with prepped ingredients, instructions on how to make and plate the meal, and even a suggested playlist to set the mood—just as you’d experience at the restaurant. What’s even better? Fox partners with small local farms and utilizes byproducts and parts of produce that would normally be discarded. “Our motto is ‘Do 50 percent of the work, but get 100 percent of the credit,’” says Fox. projectfifty100.com

The Blind Pig You might feel like you’re dining in a speakeasy at the Blind Pig Kitchen and Bar — one of Yorba Linda’s newest culinary hot spots. An intimate chef’s counter has four seats, located off the lively kitchen with a full view of the action, allowing Chef Karl Pfleider to experiment with special customized tasting menus. “Chef Karl’s dishes are inspired from a variety of cuisines from all over the world, recreated with a signature Blind Pig twist,” says owner Tony Monaco. “For example, the Mushroom Saltado was inspired by a popular Peruvian dish known as the Lomo Saltado,” he says. “This vegetarian version includes fingerling potatoes, puffed rice, and pickled mustard seeds, topped with a perfectly poached egg and chili oil.” Healthy options (it is January, right?) include Chicken Adobo and Mahi Mahi with pistachio romesco —yum! theblindpigoc.com, (714) 485-2593

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Fresh N’ Lean When Laureen Asseo was 18, her father’s health took a turn for the worse after years of consuming processed and fast foods. As she helped her father recover, she learned the importance of living a lifestyle with an organic diet full of nutrient-rich meals. This scare with her father inspired her to help others learn how to eat and live well.

Fresh N’ Lean was born out of her one-bedroom apartment and is now the largest organic ready-to-eat meal delivery company in the country. Although it’s evident Asseo is an inspiration to many, she says her employees inspire her every day and she is extremely grateful to have the opportunity to lead and work with a diverse group of more than 450 people. “Being able to learn and understand everyone’s journey and background has really shaped me as a person,” says Asseo. Dishes change by the season, but you can expect meals with winter squash on the menu now. freshnlean.com.

Meet the Source Roxanne Golkar and her husband, Bradley, created Costa Mesabased Meet the Source by accident. “We owned a small raw almond milk company called Rawmond Milk and frequently had large amounts of almond pulp we didn’t want to throw away,” says Roxanne. “So we experimented with the pulp in different ways, including making our first raw carrot cake.” A lightbulb went off when they quickly sold out of goods made with the leftover almond pulp at the weekly farmers market. They decided they would open a whole foods bakery specializing in organic, gluten- and dairy-free goods. “We have always believed in clean foods and knowing what ingredients you are putting into your body, so transitioning from making a clean almond milk product to clean snack foods and desserts was meant to be for us,” says Roxanne. The Golkars are constantly inspired by their customers and love to see the happiness on their faces when they are finally able to enjoy a dessert that won’t make them feel sick. Cakes, Bliss Balls, cinnamon buns, and more are sold online. meetthesource.com, (714) 698-9157

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F O O D I E M UST-TRY: ST EELCR A F T Built with repurposed shipping containers, SteelCraft is the ultimate hangout spot. Three locations — Bixby Knolls in Long Beach, Bellflower and Garden Grove — offer different food and beverage tenants, live music, and community events. Run, don’t walk, to these outdoor urban eateries, and don’t forget to bring your littles—each location is family-friendly. Read on to see our top picks from each location. steelcraftlb.com

Duck Donuts at SteelCraft Garden Grove Duck Donuts founder, Russell A. DiGilio, was inspired to create his donut empire while vacationing in Duck, North Carolina with his family. DiGilio quickly noticed the town was lacking a donut shop. Fast forward years later, and DiGilio opened the first Duck Donuts in Duck, North Carolina in 2007.

Prime by Shenandoah at SteelCraft Bellflower Long-time Long Beach residents might remember local comfort food restaurant Shenandoah, which opened more than 30 years ago on Naples Island (it’s now moved to Los Alamitos). Bellflower’s Prime

by Shenandoah is a nod to this beach town staple but offers a more casual vibe. You’ll find a wide variety of tacos on the menu, including hickory smoked prime rib or chimichurri brisket, fried cheese and green chorizo, grilled fish, seitan asada (vegan), and roasted cabo cauliflower. Jazz up your tacos with slices of avocado, fried manchego cheese, and TRUFF sauce.

Add a side of elote off the cob to complete your meal. steelcraftlb.com/vendors/prime-by-shenandoah, (562) 353-5453

There are now hundreds of locations, with the newest shop opening at SteelCraft Garden Grove in early February. The donuts are made-to-order, and you can pick your coating, topping, and drizzle. Or choose from the fan favorite collection which has flavors like maple bacon, chocolate with Oreo, and cinnamon sugar with vanilla drizzle. And what’s even better? The company partners with local nonprofits and gives back to the community. duckdonuts.com

Rori’s Artisanal Creamery at SteelCraft Long Beach Rori Trovato knows the secret to making good ice cream: No skimping on the milk! She partners with local farmers to have the freshest and tastiest produce to use in her scoops. Trovato’s creamery, Rori’s Artisanal Creamery, located at SteelCraft Long Beach, offers organic, small-batch authentic flavors as Black Pepper Pistachio, Brown Sugar Banana, Cinnamon Toast Cereal Crunch, Malted Milk Ball, Nutella, Lemon Curd, and Fresh Mint Patty. The menu also includes sundaes, shakes, malts, root beer floats, brownies, cookie ice cream sandwiches, and much more. rorisartisanalcreamery.com, (562) 912-7171

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OF I NTEREST FROM “SECOND TEAM” TO THE SPOTLIGHT RIA PAVIA TALKS DIRECTORIAL DEBUT, CREATING ARTISTIC SPACE

By Maisy Menzies “I was honestly not prepared for it,” Ria Pavia said as she fidgeted with the thick stems of her glasses. “This type of film festival success for ‘Second Team’ was kind of an accident.”

Throughout a career spanning upwards of thirty years, Pavia was encouraged by various colleagues to try her hand at directing. “Second Team,” her first short film about two stand-in actors who just broke up and have a massive fight on camera, was born out of her desire to have a directorial sample for her portfolio. It has now been featured at fourteen film festivals across the country.

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I have been working in this industry for so long, and everything I was doing or had done started to point to directing… all directions of my career were leading me there,” recounted Pavia.

Born in Ohio but raised in New York, Pavia moved from South Carolina to Michigan for boarding school until she settled down in California. A UCLA alumna, she resided in Orange County with her husband and three children before returning to Los Angeles, where she currently lives. All of this is to say that Pavia is no stranger to traveling the country. But virtually travelling from film festival to film festival with her hit directorial debut is certainly new terrain.

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level. She expressed that when the actors she works with are able to tell her about experiences that have informed their life—experiences often similar to those the show examine—Pavia is able to build trust from these moments of expression.

While certainly a difficult adjustment, Pavia has found benefits in the virtually adapted festival scene. Having each festival streamlined to fit into a virtual and more flexible agenda allowed Pavia and her fellow festival participants to really engage with the artists that were screening their works.

“There has been a real sense of community for sure, which honestly surprised me. I think with how hard things have been, everyone at these festivals only wants to offer support. There is no competition there, just warmth,” Pavia noted. For instance, while talking about the Facebook group for the Palm Springs Film Festival, Pavia said, “Everyone is just hyping each other up… Creating a space like that, that is for encouragement and creative bonding, is so exciting.”

In fact, creative bonding and collaboration are core tenets of Pavia’s character throughout everything she does. Outside of “Second Team,” one of Pavia’s main jobs is being a dialogue coach — “It’s just a fancy term for ‘acting coach,’” she demurely insists — for hit ABC shows Black-ish, Grown-ish, and Mixed-ish.

Pavia expressed that communication, flexibility, and creative connection is paramount to not only being a successful conduit between the actors and directors, but for acknowledging her white privilege on a set where Black talent and Black stories are at the heart.

When asked about how she navigates being a white woman coaching Black and Brown actors through stories about their culture, Pavia responded that being able to be an effective coach comes from helping the actors connect to the script on a personal

“None of us are innocent when it comes to issues of race. I’ve learned so much from working on these shows, it feels like I am in school again,” she said.

After years of working together, Pavia and her clients feel what she describes as a familial tie. This bond serves as the basis for their professional relationship.

“There is no extra pressure when I work on these shows because when we first started working together, I did the work to sit down with them and hear their experiences… what they are bringing to their characters.”

But it isn’t just Pavia’s welcoming energy and adaptive coaching technique that makes her a successful dialogue coach. Her actors trust her because she, too, is an actor. Pavia started working as an actor at a very young age, first appearing on the television show Growing Pains in 1987. From acting in films like Candyman and Wanderlust to working as a casting associate, acting — whether it be in front of the camera or from the sidelines — has always been a constant in Pavia’s kaleidoscopic film career. It’s no surprise that her film “Second Team” tells the story of actors.

The focus of the project is in the title: It’s the second team—the stand-in actors who never make it onto the screen—finally expressing themselves in the spotlight.

To Pavia, those are the most important stories to tell.

The stories that happen on the sidelines, those that will pass by unnoticed if you are not paying attention.

“I am an open wound for story ideas. I take cues from my surroundings and draw from everything I see,” said Pavia.

As the film festival circuit for 2020 comes to an end, Pavia is thinking about her next steps: next steps for “Second Team,” next steps as a director, and next steps for the future stories she will tell. She hints that these stories will be ones that examine what’s going on behind the scenes and what happens in the underbelly of the surface world we know.

“I just want the stories I tell to be real and unflinching.”

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S H OP + DI NE SMALL AT T H E O C MI X AT SOU T H COAST CO L L E CT I O N

By Euni Lee Ready to add another New Year’s resolution to your list? Try shopping small whenever possible—it’s an act that enriches our local communities and uplifts independent businesses that have been impacted during the pandemic. Fortunately, The OC Mix makes it easy to shop small! Located at the heart of SOCO (South Coast Collection) in Costa Mesa, The Mix is a vibrant collection of boutiques, restaurants, and retailers. Whether you’re a long-time shopper or first-time visitor, use Tableau’s guide to (re)discover The OC Mix and its abundant offerings!

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The Cheese Shop

Sunright Tea Studio You may have tried boba before, but not like this.

Sunright Tea Studio isn’t an ordinary tea shop, it’s a tea studio—a warm, inviting space that aims to spark intentionality and joy in its customers. And it’s not hard to do with Sunright’s delicious drinks and bright storefront. With high-quality ingredients sourced from Californian and Asian purveyors and a unique menu inspired by Southern California’s upbeat energy and diversity, Sunright Tea Studio is a must-visit spot at The OC Mix. Treat yourself to a one-of-a-kind beverage experience next time you’re there – and don’t forget to shake your drink for 17 seconds. (Yes, the studio recommends shaking your beverage 17 times before drinking, as this is their tried-and-true method of blending flavors and textures perfectly. Plus, they want you to stop and savor a happy moment—even if it’s just for 17 seconds.) | snrtea.com, (949) 232-3750 Tableau’s Top Picks: Sunright Fruit Tea and Brown Sugar Boba Milk Tea - try experimenting with toppings like Oreos, pudding, cheese foam, and more!

Charcuterie boards are all the rage lately, but we know that crafting your own can be daunting.

Thankfully, The Cheese Shop and its team of expert cheesemongers are here to help. Owned by husbandand-wife duo, Naveed and Nushin Anwar, this shop is fully stocked with gourmet cheeses, meats, fruits, and chocolates, as well as rustic boards and other charcuterie accessories. Team members are available to help you find the perfect pairings of artisanal items, which guarantee a stellar cheese board. The Cheese Shop also serves breakfast and lunch, offering an assortment of delectable sandwiches, salads, and inhouse charcuterie boards. Whether you need a quick snack or are on a culinary adventure, you’re sure to fall in love with The Cheese Shop. | cheeseshopoc.com, (949) 284-0558

Tableau’s Top Picks: The Gooey Grilled Cheese and The Cheese Monger’s Choice Cheese Plate

The Getaway Barbershop A newer addition to The OC Mix, The Getaway Barbershop, provides a truly authentic and refined grooming experience for clients. Founder Craig Thomas opened his first location in San Clemente in 2016. However, this new spot (technically location #2) has an all-new name and brand.

Thomas curates individual and unique experiences for each of his storefronts and The Getaway Barbershop prioritizes rest and relaxation above all—uplifting each client with his artistic and skilled barbering. Book your appointment online today. | thegetawaybarbershop.com, (949) 547-6636

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Savory Spice Shop Looking to spice things up in the kitchen? Savory Spice Shop offers custom spice blends, BBQ rubs and sauces, and seasonings from around the world—perfect for any home cooks looking to revamp their spice cabinet! Savory Spice Shop’s blends are fresh and aromatic to ensure maximum flavor in your meals. Even better, all spice blends are non-GMO and preservative-free. | savoryspiceshop.com, (949) 284-0576 Tableau’s Top Picks: Bohemian Forest Seasoning, Spiced Vanilla Bean Sugar, and the Dehydrated Minced Garlic (always good to have on hand when you’re in a pinch!)

Rich Elixirs

Birdie Bowl and Juicery Since 2013, Birdie Bowl and Juicery has served fresh acai bowls, cold pressed juices, rich smoothies, and potent wellness shots to Orange County. A majority of the shop’s menu items are vegan and gluten free and its ingredients are fresh and sourced locally. Whether you’ve got health and wellness on the mind or simply want to enjoy a delicious smoothie, we guarantee you’ll love this hidden gem. | birdieacai.com, (714) 873-7479

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If you’re a fan of kombucha, ginger beer, and/or fresh bone broth, look no further than Rich Elixirs.

Founded by Jesse and Brooke Rich, this husbandand-wife duo transformed their passion for kombucha into a full-fledged business. Jesse perfects Rich Elixirs’ brewing methods while Brooke develops exciting flavors for their rotating menu. Kombucha experts and neophytes alike are sure to love flavors like Blackberry Lavender, or the seasonal Cranapple Cinnamon. | richelixirs.com, (949) 445-0102 Tableau’s Top Picks: Blood Orange Kombucha and Guava Dragonfruit Ginger Beer

Photo credit courtesy of Savory Spice Shop, Birdie Bowl and Juicery, Rich Elixirs, Portola Coffee, Shuck Oyster Bar, Paragon Cafe, and The Mixing Glass

Paragon Cafe

Portola Coffee Portola Coffee owners Jeff and Christa Duggan are dedicated to delivering the perfect cup of coffee. The Duggans travel internationally to build relationships with coffee farmers, paying premium prices for the best beans available. Their roasting and brewing processes enhance and preserve the natural flavors of the beans, which ensures every cup is filled with only the best, highest quality java. Visit Portola Coffee located inside The OC Mix (it’s their flagship store!) to order coffee, pastries , and select retail merchandise. | portolacoffee.com, (714) 656-7996 Tableau’s Top Picks: Iced Matcha Latte with Oat Milk

When he’s not creating exquisite cuisine at Shuck Oyster Bar, Chef Dean Isom dishes up breakfast and brunch at Paragon Cafe. Located inside Shuck Oyster Bar, this pop-up dining experience puts a unique twist on classic breakfast items, like chicken and waffles and avocado toast. Paragon Cafe uses fresh, seasonal ingredients from local farmer’s markets to make everything on its menu in-house and is open from Wednesday-Thursday (7 a.m. – 2 p.m.) and Friday-Sunday (7 a.m. – 11 a.m.) | paragoncafeoc.com, (949) 420-0478

Tableau’s Top Picks: French Toast and Chilaquiles

The Mixing Glass

Shuck Oyster Bar Shuck Oyster Bar is a must-visit spot for seafood lovers. Since 2012, this oyster bar has served oysters sourced from over sixty farms – they’re delivered daily and guaranteed fresh! Not an oyster fan? Try Shuck’s mouth-watering ahi tuna tacos, rich clam chowder, lobster linguine, or any of its other savory dishes. Shuck’s menu is chock-full of fresh fish and seafood options, making it the perfect spot for a night out. | shuckoysterbar.com, (949) 420-0478

Let The Mixing Glass take your home bar to the next level. Owner Gabrielle Dion has curated an outstanding collection of cocktailware, spirits, and barware that you won’t find anywhere else. With more than a decade of bar experience, Dion is passionate about guiding customers towards an incredible home bar experience. We love the shop’s collection of vintage glassware and artisanal mezcales. | the-mixing-glass.shoplightspeed.com, (714) 975-9952 Tableau’s Top Picks: Green Glass Coupes and Legendario Domingo Mezcal

Tableau’s Top Picks: Fresh Oysters and Clam Chowder

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Van Brunt Optical Haus At Van Brunt Optical Haus, eyeglasses are works of art. Through one-on-one consultations, owner Laura Van Brunt personalizes each pair of frames to her client’s tastes and needs. Van Brunt Optical Haus is staunchly against mass production and exclusively carries independent eyeglass brands to ensure high quality and unique designs. Drop in for a new pair of ethically-crafted frames to accentuate your style! | vanbruntopticalhaus.com, (714) 763-0085

Blue Skies Add coastal-inspired vibes to your hat and headwear collection at Blue Skies. This chic boutique specializes in sun-protective, stylish hats for men and women. You’ll love the signature sun hat that offers ultraviolet protection – they are not only fashionable, but functional as well! Blue Skies also offers a collection of visors, boater hats, and for a limited time, a gorgeous array of curated clothing at the Threads by Blue Skies pop-up shop. | shopblueskies.com, (310) 945-7120 Tableau’s Top Picks: Shaded Hat and Jen Rancher Hat

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Photo credit courtesy of Van Brunt Optical Haus, Blue Skies, Taco Maria, Local Fare, We Olive & Wine Bar, and OmniaPiel

We Olive & Wine Bar We Olive sells specialty olive oils, wines, and balsamic vinegars for your culinary needs. This shop also refills empty olive oil bottles, making it an essential spot for avid home cooks. We Olive’s wine bar offers wine tastings, small bites, and special desserts like olive oil gelato. Visit the shop to stock up your pantry with wholesome ingredients, or simply enjoy a relaxing (yet refined) dining experience. weolive.com/costa-mesa, (949) 284-0609

Taco Maria Chef Carlos Salgado pays tribute to his roots at Taco Maria. By combining traditional Mexican flavors with Southern Californian ingredients, Chef Carlos creates Alta California cuisine. Taco Maria is recognized throughout California for its ingenious menu and received a prestigious Michelin star in 2019. We recommend you try the pork belly tacos and tap into a rich history between Mexican and Californian cultures. | tacomaria.com, (714) 538-8444 Tableau’s Top Picks: Pork Belly Tacos and Mole Tacos

Tableau’s Top Picks: We Olive Fresh Basil Olive Oil and Aged Balsamic Vinegar

OmniaPiel OmniaPiel is a state-of-the-art medical spa that rejuvenates facial features and optimizes your natural beauty. Led by co-founders Dr. Jorge Castellanos and Lauren Timpe, OmniaPiel’s expert team of skincare specialists offer a wide array of services, such as antiaging treatments, healing facials, and dermal fillers.

Book a consultation to refresh your skin and enhance your natural beauty. | omniapiel.com, (714) 716-5031

Local Fare Decorate, entertain, and celebrate every day with Local Fare! This boutique offers locally sourced gifts and decor for all occasions. Let someone know that you’re thinking about them with a heartfelt gift from Local Fare. You’ll find Voluspa candles, decorative pillows, ceramic planters, hand crafted porcelain dishes, and more. | oclocalfare.com, (714) 455-9878 Tableau’s Top Picks: Sea and Sun Hook Pillow and Ceramic Totebag Planter

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T H E I NSPI RERS

By Wendy Bowman, Sarah Mosqueda, Amy Senk

Dae Eriksson, Love Does Dae Eriksson always dreamed of being a journalist and traveling to far off lands to tell stories and take photos. Because of this, she was thrilled to land a dream job writing for a small publication in Abu Dhabi right out of college. But in Abu Dhabi, she learned about human trafficking and decided to change course. She thought about pursuing international human rights law and began working with a small local organization called Love Does.

“Love Does was tiny at the time, and our office was over a laundromat,” says Eriksson, “But I was hooked and so excited to actually get to work for an organization actively fighting human trafficking.”

Love Does was founded by lawyer and activist, Bob Goff, and primarily focuses on educational and peace building projects in war-zones by building schools and safe houses in conflict areas around the world.

Eriksson serves as Executive Director at Love Does and was part of the organization expanding from serving two countries to seven.

“We work in places like Afghanistan, Congo, Somalia, Uganda and a few other amazing places,” says

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Eriksson, “While the work always starts with research and project planning, fundraising, paperwork and lots of other logistics, another big part of my job is working with our teams on the ground in each of the places we work.”

The newest school opened a few months ago in Congo. Due to COVID, Eriksson has not been able to do a site visit yet.

“I can’t wait to see it all finished after so much time planning and building,” she says.

Being able to meet and get to know the people she is helping makes it all come alive for Eriksson and gives her the courage to continue.

“I am strengthened and inspired by so many individuals who are brave and courageous and fearless in their lives,” she says, “Not only is this encouraging for me personally to continue the work, it also helps make sure that we are staying true to our purpose in listening and constantly trying to be better, and more helpful.”

To learn more visit lovedoes.org.

Donna McNutt, The Cancer Fashionista In 2015, Donna McNutt faced many challenges when she was diagnosed with multiple myeloma— a type of bone marrow blood cancer. The biggest challenge?

“Getting dressed,” says the Laguna Beach resident.

Putting on a stylish outfit each day was McNutt’s favorite part of her identity and she vowed not to let cancer claim it.

Fashionista,” she knew she had the perfect title to start her own.

“I wanted to assure my loved ones by blogging about my journey using fashion, at the same time letting them see the process but making it about me: the person who would not go through her stem cell transplant or treatment in a hospital gown.”

“In order to regain myself, I had to fight back by getting dressed. Little by little, I would wear lipstick to treatment, a cute pair of shoes, a cute pashmina,” she says.

At 55, she had never posted a picture online before.

But with the help of her husband, Jack McNutt, she was posting her first OOTD.

After an intense six months of chemotherapy, the wife and mother of three received a stem cell transplant at City Of Hope and went into remission.

Multiple myeloma is an incurable cancer and even with remission, McNutt continues treatment.

She often wondered what the other side of cancer would look like.

“I made myself a promise that when I got there, I would show others.”

McNutt looked into existing medical blogs where she could share her story, but found them rather depressing. When her sister dubbed her “The Cancer

“I call him my Hubbyrazzi,” she says.

“Most cancer stories have a beginning, middle and end,” she says, “multiple myeloma is ongoing.”

McNutt is now a mentor at The City Of Hope, and continues her mission on Instagram as @thecancerfashionista.

“I am fighting cancer, one outfit at a time.”

Follow her at @thecancerfashionista.

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Elsa Stuart Owner and Instructor, iHeartYoga

To say 2020 has been a challenging year for this Dana Point business owner would be an understatement.

“COVID was no joke, as everyone can relate to,” says Elsa Stuart, who worked as everything from a clothing rep in L.A. to a private yacht stewardess in the South of France before deciding to become a certified yoga instructor eleven years ago. Stuart began teaching donation-based classes in Lantern Bay Park. Those popular classes led to SUP Yoga, special collaborative events with local businesses, yoga teacher training, retreats, and finally, a brickand-mortar studio in Dana Point Harbor (voted “Business of the Year” by the Dana Point Chamber

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of Commerce in 2018). Understandably, having to shutter her business for months, cancel and refund multiple retreats, and be unable to provide jobs for instructors “was a hot scary mess,” she says. “My husband, thankfully, is more tech-savvy than I am and figured out how to stream classes online fairly quickly. So, we were able to maintain a large amount of our members that way, and were able to offer teaching opportunities to our staff and come up with other creative outdoor locations. But, overall, we got really lucky. Every teacher stepped up to help out in any way possible, and our community is so supportive and loyal that instead of COVID tearing us apart, it actually brought us together even stronger than before.” After funneling a wealth of love, sweat, tears, and finances into iHeartYoga, Stuart’s proudest moment to date occurred in November. “I had my first daughter (Sienna) a year and four months ago and my second daughter (Greyson) three weeks ago, and I just taught in the park with both girls by my side,” she says. “It was truly my dream come true moment!”

Look for iHeartYoga to get its Mexico retreats back up and running and maybe offer more local retreats.

Can you say, “Staycation in Dana Point?”

John Park

Executive Chef + Co-Owner, Toast Kitchen + Bakery There are plenty of admirable people who work hard, become successful, then try to do good deeds in their spare time. Then there are people like John Park.

He loves to work with staff members on ideas for new menu items, helping them learn to put flavors together, price out the food costs and ultimately add their creations to the menu.

Park is the executive chef and co-owner of the wildly popular Toast Kitchen + Bakery in Costa Mesa – a business that doesn’t hesitate to hire workers who have struggled with issues like homelessness, drug addiction, food insecurity, and poverty.

“Seeing the joy in their faces is inspirational,” he said. Running a business during COVID—with dining restrictions that have been ordered and lifted and ordered again—means being creative with take-out options. Chicken-and-waffles is a dine-in favorite, he said, but breakfast burritos and Korean barbecue burritos travel better. Pie and ice cream sales are going well.

“People from all walks of life work here,” he said.

“They work together on a big weekend brunch shift, but they come together as friends outside of work on the weekends. It’s all these little moments that add up to something very special.”

Park grew up in Los Angeles and has been a part of the SoCal restaurant scene for more than a decade.

But at one point, he and his wife and children found themselves nearly homeless when their business went south. He eventually moved to Orange County and opened Toast, but his personal experiences left him strongly committed to help others facing the same struggles, not only with regular charitable donations but also with his inclusive hiring philosophy.

Park and his wife and four children, all between 8 years and 12 months old, have created a life where work and helping others are woven seamlessly together, but it’s nothing he wants special attention for.

“It’s weird, all these articles written about me and my past,” he said. “I don’t like the spotlight to be on me.

It’s really about other people and what we can do for them. That’s really how we think about our vision for Toast.” toastkitchenbakery.com

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Lisa Evans Supervisor, Orangewood Foundation Resource Center A foster-care success story, Lisa Evans made it out of the system and into the home of a loving and supportive family. Evans is the eldest of five siblings who have stayed connected through the years. She earned a bachelor’s degree in Sociology from California State University, Dominguez Hills and made it her mission to help those who follow in her footsteps. Today, as a loving yet firm supervisor of the Orangewood Foundation Resource Center, she goes out of her way to provide foster and at-risk youth with a variety of needs, including job training, employment leads, shelter and housing resources, food and clothing, and much more. “I do this because I believe it is very important to help others and lead by example,” says Evans, who began her career with the agency in 1997 as a peer mentor for the Independent Living Skills program.

“The most rewarding part of my job is when young people come back and say, ‘Thank

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you.’” Along the way, her passion for foster youth led her to serve as a civil rights and local action advocate for the Child Welfare League of America and help pass legislation to transform the foster-care system. In 2019, Evans was recognized by Orange County United Way as an Unsung Hero of the Year for her efforts to end homelessness in the community. In her spare time, the single mother even managed to start side businesses as a certified life coach and owner of a barber shop/salon, We Mix It, in Long Beach (where she offers hair care to mentally delayed adults via the WeCare industry). “My proudest moment,” she says, “is being able to be a model to my daughter on the importance of helping others and kindness.” What’s next on Evans’ list? She plans to implement a new business idea to house young adults who require assistance during their transition to stability.

Raili Clasen, RailiCA Design “The dive into design was not by design,” says Raili Clasen, self-described “head honcho” at RailiCA Design.

Clasen’s journey took her from a quick postcollege stint as a flight attendant to a lengthy career in the surf industry. She then co-founded hip housewares line, Alice Supply.

“The company got more press than profit,” she admits, “But the editors kept asking me what my house looked like!”

She had just bought an old ranch house and the remodel ended up in home tours and magazine pages. Soon, she was doing interior design for others.

Clasen started RailiCA Design when she was almost 50, a time she says when her friends were talking about retirement. She loves sharing her

non-traditional aesthetic inspired by California living and says it’s all about the install.

“That install! All that work and all those decisions coming together for someone to enjoy everyday is the most rewarding.”

She also loves when her worlds collide, like when she was tapped to design the Kelly Slater Surf Ranch.

“It was a ‘pinch me’ project. Working on that amazing property with such a great team was a dream. It brought my worlds together with surf and design.”

Clasen revels in her second wind and loathes the idea of slowing down now.

“I am just getting started,” she says, “And hope to do this until the day I die.”

Follow her at @raili_ca_design.

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Stuart Palley

Photographer and Author Stuart Palley began photographing wildfires by way of water.

In 2012, the Salton Sea was the subject of his photo journalism project in graduate school. The drought was getting worse, which collided with Southern California experiencing increasingly worse fires.

Growing up in Southern California, Palley says wildfires were always on his periphery. He began to see there were important stories that needed to be told in his own backyard.

“As the project grew, I thought it might all be related to climate change. And lo and behold, as we come through the 2020 fire season—which has been the largest in California by acres burned—there are some pretty clear links.”

Palley’s photography of California’s wildfires highlights first responders, the effects of climate change, and the way fires behave.

“No two fires are the same—they are living breathing things. They literally inhale oxygen to create combustion.”

The images, which combine photo journalism with

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fine art, allow people to see what they usually can’t when they are evacuated or when fires rage on the outskirts of their town.

“There is an educational component to it,” says Palley.

Palley recently completed the manuscript for his forthcoming book, Into The Inferno: A Photographer’s Journey through California’s Megafires and Fallout.

Palley says he was constantly making updates to chapters with titles like ‘Firestorms on the Future,’ because the future is happening now.

“I want to show the immediacy of the climate crisis that we are in,” Palley says, “And that transcends politics, because ultimately it is about supporting firefighters and the people affected by these fires. I hope people come away with a better understanding of the fire issues that we face in California.”

And when it comes to Californian wildfires, Palley says it’s important to follow evacuation orders and be prepared.

“Plan for the worst,” he says “and hope for the best.”

Follow him at @stuartpalley.

Webb Travis

Owner and President, The Corporate Athlete Newport Beach resident Webb Travis became a wellness coach by accident.

“I remember seeing a photo of myself with my shirt off in college—when I weighed 285 pounds—and knew I needed to make a change,” says Travis.

From that moment on, Travis hit the gym, mainly focusing on cardio, quickly losing 15 pounds before plateauing. This roadblock encouraged him to take one step further: learning about nutrition, working with a trainer, and learning how to lift weights. He even scored a job as a trainer at his college gym.

Travis excelled in school while adding an array of side hustles to his resume: certified personal trainer, strength coach for NCAA, and small gym owner, just to name a few.

Life was chugging along as usual until he hit his second roadblock—the tragic loss of his father.

“After my father passed away, I had to step up and take care of my family’s financials and the personal issues my mother and brother were facing,” says Travis. “I supported them while working three jobs

in college, which wasn’t an easy task, but it was unknowingly the experience that ignited my passion for helping others.”

It’s true: Travis is a successful trainer because he simply cares about others.

“I love being able to help people create new habits and lifestyles that set them up for success,” he says.

“And there’s no secret formula—I just want people to be able to see their full potential.”

Social media plays a big role in Travis’ work (you can follow him on Instagram at @webbtravispt). Last year, during the height of the pandemic, he offered free home workout challenges and tips to keep your physical and mental health in shape.

“One of my goals is to continue to help people stay accountable during this difficult time,” he says. “I help those who are seeking change, and once I see them realize their capabilities, I know I have done my part in helping them on their wellness journey.”

And that is no accident.

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G IVE BACK

G IVI NG GUID E F O R T HE N E W Y EA R

By Sara Hall

For many charities, a drop in donations is expected after the holiday season.

Considering the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, charitable giving is predicted to decline more than usual, according to experts.

Both of these factors are all the more reason for people who are able to give back in the new year and start 2021 off on the right note.

Organizations have had to rework their volunteer and fundraising programs due to COVID-19, but there are plenty of groups still in need of help in this new philanthropic world. Below is a roundup of a few ways to help out in the new year.

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Photos courtesy of Living Through Giving Foundation, Environmental Nature Center, and Blind Children’s Learning Center

Blind Children’s Learning Center aims to prepare children with visual impairments for a life of independence through early intervention, education and family support.

#HashtagLunchbag,

a Living Through Giving Foundation program, uses bagged lunches with positive handwritten messages to distribute food in local communities, spread love, and inspire others.

Drop Off Lunch Bags: Volunteers can drop off lunch bags on Jan. 10 at the parking structure behind the 4th Street Market, at 201 E 4th St., in Santa Ana. The group’s Instagram page highlights show how to prepare and drop off the lunch bags.

For more information, visit hashtaglunchbag.org

Environmental Nature Center provides Orange County students with quality education through hands-on experience with nature.

Send a Kid Outside: ENC Nature Camps provide a safe opportunity for kids to get outside for physical activity, hands-on learning, socialization and nature play. Funds are needed to sponsor Camp scholarships.

Help ENC Increase Diversity. ENC aims to assure equitable access to nature and environmental education for underserved youth in the community.

Funds are needed to subsidize discounted or free field trip programs for students from Title I schools.

For more information, visit encenter.org.

17th Annual Destination Independence 5K Walk: On April 18, hundreds of individuals and businesses will unite to support the families serviced by BCLC. Each team and walker will have the option to walk and raise support in honor of three BCLC students representing distinct initiatives at BCLC. To keep everyone safe, this year’s event will be hosted by Mater Dei High School in Santa Ana as a relay event to promote physical distancing. Follow Blind Children’s Learning Center on Instagram (@blindchildrenlc) for updates on how to register.

For more information, visit blindkids.org.

714 Mutual Aid, a horizontally-organized and volunteer-run team, distributes hot meals, clothing, groceries, hygiene items, and Narcan (an emergency opiate overdose reversal drug) to those in need.

General Giving: 714MA is in need of funds to purchase supplies, specifically cases of new socks, high calorie snacks, and harm reduction items.

Donate funds on Venmo: @Mutualaid714 and Cashapp: $OCmutualaid.

Contact 714MA for in-kind donations or receipts for tax deductible donations. Email 714mutualaid@gmail. com or call or text (714) 312-6622.

For more information, visit 714mutualaid.org.

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Girls Inc. of OC aims to inspire girls to be strong, smart, and bold by providing holistic, compensatory, and intentional programming focusing on STEM, financial literacy, sound body image, healthy relationships, and college and career readiness.

Wish Lists: Anyone can buy the items on the wish lists. Items help motivate and keep the girls engaged. These incentives also help the girls in specific programs.

• Elementary Incentive Wishlist: https://a.co/8MRVlGV • Teen Incentive Wishlist: https://a.co/i3bAlVD • Literacy Wishlist: http://a.co/4elt8kT For more information, visit girlsinc-oc.org.

LGBTQ Center Orange County advocates on behalf of the OC lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer and questioning communities and provides services that ensure well-being and positive identity.

Spiritual Digital Roundtable Series: The Center is launching a virtual series to further the discussion around being LGBTQ+ and spiritual. The first episode will discuss the topic: “Can you be Christian and Queer? What Now?” Love Is Campaign: The LGBTQ OC Center returns this year with its collaborative annual fundraising effort in the Love Is Campaign, launching Feb. 10.

For more information, visit lgbtqcenteroc.org

Photos courtesy of Girls Inc. of OC, LGBTQ Center Orange County, Miracles for Kids, Project Hope Alliance, and South County Outreach

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Miracles for Kids

helps families with critically-ill children fight bankruptcy, homelessness, hunger and depression through monthly financial aid, subsidized housing, food and clothing, and counseling.

Kindness Box of Miracles: Boxes go to more than 300 critically-ill kids and their families to ensure they have what they need to survive, while also spreading some monthly cheer. Become a sponsor, donate items to include in the boxes, or volunteer to help package items. For details, contact Sapphira Roberson at (714) 705-4531 or sroberson@miraclesforkids.org.

For more information, visit miraclesforkids.org

Project Hope Alliance aims to end the cycle of homelessness, one child at a time through a long-term model of care.

Monthly Service Project: Families and groups can participate safely from home by putting together seasonally themed goodies and activities for kids.

Mentor: Volunteers (over age 21) work with K-6 youth, meeting weekly to help with school and support the child’s social-emotional development.

PHA is providing students with digital devices, Wi-Fi hotspots, printers, and a Distance Learning Space.

A monthly donation of $25 can help cover the costs of distance learning resources. For details, contact Vanessa Sher at vsher@projecthopealliance.org.

For more information, visit projecthopealliance.org.

South County Outreach aims to end hunger and homelessness in Orange County through programs like a Food Pantry and a Transitional Housing Program.

General Giving: SCO can always use food— especially in the first quarter of the year. After the holidays, people don’t tend to do food drives or make food donations. Hygiene products are also needed.

The organization receives a lot of requests during the winter months for toothbrushes, toothpaste, body wash, shampoo, conditioner, etc.

For more information, visit sco-oc.org.

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FIRST PERSO N YOU AR E HE RE

By Carrie Freitas

“I never thought I’d find myself here.”

If 2020 had a refrain, this would be it. With an emphasis on here.

Here is the loss of a loved one. Someone you couldn’t say goodbye to in person, or even hold a proper memorial for. Or the loss of a friendship due to differing opinions in a polarized world.

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Here is a stressful financial situation. The collapse of your business, being laid off, having to leave your job to take care of your children at home.

Here is isolation. Feeling lonely, depressed and disconnected, whether or not you live alone.

Here is anxiety. The kind that can leave you breathless. Relentless worry about your health, the health of your loved ones, your kids’ mental health and education, about money, our country’s political climate, the future.

Here is anger. Why me? Why us? How could this happen? How did we let things get so bad? This time has revealed to us biases and inequities; weak, ineffective and sometimes downright corrupt systems; deep divides and the need for healing.

Here is disappointment. The cancelled trips, the delayed weddings, the virtual graduations, the online classrooms, the holidays spent apart.

Here is uncharted territory. A topography with no map, no big red dot to orient you in time and space.

You never thought you’d find yourself here. Yet, here you are.

In this time of pivots — I know you’re tired of the term, but bear with me — a thought. Let’s focus on the finding. Can you find yourself here, on this new frontier? What else is there to be discovered here, as the rain beats down and the wind howls and you can’t see the path ahead very clearly?

Here is love. You have a deeper appreciation for your loved ones, and you value connection more. You’ve made a commitment to invest more time and energy into your family and friends. Now you’re eager to pick up the phone and chat, and you’ve vowed never (well, almost never) to miss another get-together again.

Here is perspective. You’ve realized that some of the things you thought were important before really aren’t. You’ve learned what you need and what you don’t. You’ve likely made do with less and appreciate life more. Maybe most importantly, living through this time, you know the difference between a true “code blue” emergency and self-inflicted “seeing red” drama.

Here is innovation. You now have the calm confidence that comes from knowing you can figure out a solution to most things, even in the most difficult times. Whether it’s changing your family reunion venue from Yuma to Zoom, transforming your kitchen into an office-slash-classroom, or simply finding new ways to get through tough days, you can do it (even if you’d rather not). Truth is, we can’t even begin to imagine the biggest innovations to come from this time that will positively impact our lives in the future.

Here is activism. You’ve seen things that don’t sit right with you, and you aren’t content sitting on the sidelines. You’ve marched for social justice, written postcards to voters, raised funds for front-line workers, participated in food drives for those who are hungry. You are more engaged than ever before, and you know that you, and your community, are the better for it.

Here is growth. You may not recognize the person you see in the mirror right now — and it’s not just the new “casual” wardrobe and “haven’t seen a salon” hair. You’ve grown in so many ways during this time.

As any kid who experienced growing pains will tell you, it hurts. And it’s also a wonderful, miraculous and beautiful thing. Granted, it’s not the path you would have chosen, but you’ve met it head on (some days kicking and screaming, other days practicing lots of deep breathing) and becoming your best self is what you and the world needs.

Here is hope. Hope is part of the human condition.

It gets us through our most harrowing hours, shines light into the darkest places, and keeps us going.

Thankfully, through history (ancient to current), it seems to be an indestructible force that binds us together, striving to be better, believing in brighter days to come. And they will come.

Until then, let’s gather in indomitable and hopeful spirit, creating our own big, bold, blazing, bright red dot on the map of this new land.

YOU ARE HERE. WE ARE HERE, together.

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‘Terre Verte’ 24” x 36” and 11” x 14” Canvas strips soaked in acrylic paint on wood panel by Dodie Sy 2020