Vincentian Spotlight: Bob Mierenfeld

Name: Bob Mierenfeld

How long have you been a Vincentian? 24 ½ years

Conference: St. Bernard, Spring Grove Village

Your role in the Society: President of St. Bernard, Spring Grove Village Conference. I also worked at the Liz Carter Center on Bank Street for 10 years: four as Client Advocate, six as Social Services Team Leader.

Most memorable home visit? On one visit I entered an apartment with no furniture. What caught my eye was three small bowls of what looked like milk on the kitchen floor. I assumed they had cats until the mother called the three small children down for their breakfast. They sat on the kitchen floor and ate what must have been cereal from those bowls. The experience taught me the value of the home visit for seeing the extent of need the neighbors are experiencing.

What has made you stick with this ministry? It gives me a way to respond to God’s call to love my neighbor and I feel privileged to be a small part of God’s work in caring for the poor. Our neighbors often say we are an answer to their prayers. I feel connected to the Body of Christ by the support of the Staff, other Vincentians and the generosity of our individual and corporate contributors. I enjoy the camaraderie of the other Vincentians and have a very committed and supportive Conference. It makes me feel more hopeful and positive about our Church and our community. I have also been inspired by many of the neighbors I encounter who are enduring extreme circumstances but continue to support their families.

Biggest lesson you’ve learned as a Vincentian? I learned not to make assumptions, judgments or decisions until I’ve heard a neighbor’s story. Even then, not to assume we know their full story. I’ve tried to listen with respect and humility and to be fully present to them.