2024 Lenten Devotional

2024

Lenten Devotional

Holy Week & Easter Worship Palm Sunday, March 24

8 a.m., 11:30 a.m. & 5 p.m. | Church 9:15 a.m. | Chapel & Livestream 9:30 a.m. | Family Worship| Allen Hall

Maundy Thursday, March 28 6 p.m. | Family Worship| Undercroft 7 p.m. | Chapel & Livestream 8 p.m.-8 a.m. | All Night Prayer Vigil | Church

Good Friday, March 29 12 p.m. | Church 6 p.m. | Chapel & Livestream

Holy Saturday, March 30

9 a.m. | Egg Hunt & Flowering the Cross | Fairgrounds 7 p.m. | Chapel & Livestream

Easter Sunday,March 31

6:30 a.m. | Arboretum 8 a.m., 11:30 a.m., & 5 p.m. | Church 9:15 a.m. & 11:30 a.m.| Chapel & Livestream 9:30 a.m. | Family Worship | Allen Hall

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Welcome and Invitation Dear People of St. David’s, For Christ’s church everywhere, Lent marks the 40 days that Jesus spent in the wilderness figuring out what it meant to be Jesus.

In the wilderness, Jesus was subject to the elements: blazing heat, insects, a fierce and food-less desert. There in the wilderness Jesus was utterly alone — no crowds, family, and what must have felt like no God. There in the wilderness, Jesus was just a person, a nobody from nowhere. Into the vulnerability of that wild and relentless place, Jesus was tempted with delicious offerings — if you choose me, the Tempter told him, you’ll never be hungry again, you’ll never suffer or hurt, you’ll enjoy all the richness and power of a monarch. What Jesus was offered were not bad things, but good things – and with that, Jesus struggled and lamented and railed for 40 days. In the end, Jesus chose another life, another way. Jesus chose the life that would bring love to the entire world, the life that would give more abundantly than anything the Tempter could ever offer. Jesus chose the life that included pain and suffering, yes, but also the one that led to salvation and everlasting life. In so doing, Jesus learned what it meant to be Jesus. Though starving, dirty, and exhausted, Jesus emerged from the wilderness changed and strengthened, ready to strike out into the world to live into his ministry, forever trusting and grounded in the love of God. At St. David’s Lent gives us each 40 days to go down deep into ourselves and look around. The season offers the time to ask ourselves anew: what does it mean to be me? What does it mean to be in fuller relationship with the living God? What am I tempted to put in front of that relationship? What gets in the way of the kind of life God offers me? Of what do I need to let go? To what shall I cling? These are Lenten questions, deep spiritual work, and in the words of the poet Rilke, the chance to “tend our inner gardens.”

As always, we have our holy scripture as guideposts for this Lenten journey of selfinquiry. This Lenten devotional is lovingly written and compiled by members of the St. David’s community. It is offered as nurture to you in your daily prayers, and a place to start as we together wander in Lent’s wilderness.

May the life that only God can give be yours this holy season, The Rev. Devon Anderson Interim Rector

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W e d n e s d a y , F e b r u a r y 14 Ash Wednesday READ Joel 2:1-2,12-17 REFLECT Joel’s words are a beautiful invitation to us as we enter the season of Lent: Return to the Lord your God, for God is gracious and merciful, slow to anger, and abounding in steadfast love.

(Joel 2:13) On this first day of Lent, is there a practice that helps you to “return to God” when you find yourself distracted by the activities of life? Often returning to God involves stopping or slowing down for a brief time. Perhaps pausing for a slow deep breath or two can reconnect you with God amid a busy time. As you breathe in, imagine breathing in God’s steadfast love for you, and as you breath out, think about breathing out God’s grace and God’s mercy into the world.

I find that scripture is a wonderful way to reconnect with God. When you read the Lenten scriptures each day, notice a word or phrase that particularly catches your attention. Put it in your phone notes or write it on a piece of paper that you can keep with you throughout the day. Keep this word or phrase in your heart during the day as a way to return to God. Notice how your thoughts and feelings about the word or phrase may change or deepen as you ponder them through the day. Does the word or phrase hold an invitation from God for you?

Whatever practice you choose to help you return to God during your Lenten days – and there are many – always remember that our gracious and merciful God, who abounds in steadfast love, is just waiting for your return. God will welcome you, every time, with grace, mercy, and abundant love.

PRAY Almighty and everlasting God, you hate nothing you have made and forgive the sins of all who are penitent: Create and make in us new and contrite hearts, that we, worthily lamenting our sins and acknowledging our wretchedness, may obtain of you, the God of all mercy, perfect remission and forgiveness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Buff Barnes has had various roles on the staff of St. David’s since 1999. She currently serves in the part-time position of spiritual director offering both individual and group spiritual direction. She also coordinates the two centering prayer groups that meet weekly at St. David’s and on Zoom. She is grateful to be a part of the faith community of St. David’s!

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T h u r s d a y , F e b r u a r y 15 Thursday after Ash Wednesday READ Psalm 1 REFLECT Early one morning in April 2020, I walked through the dark hallways of my home, stopping in the bedrooms of each of my five children. They were not under piles of covers groaning about not wanting to get up or frantically shoving books into backpacks and clamoring towards the front door. Rather, they were all sitting in desk chairs, silent. Their heads were propped on their hands and their glazed eyes stared into screens. They were in their virtual classrooms and had just been told they would not be returning to school for the rest of the year. These chairs and these screens would become their new path, their frustrating and lonely way forward into the unforeseeable future.

As I reflect on Psalm 1, I think of that moment. How they were on a new path, living and learning on the internet, where billions of people, the joyful and the joyless, the righteous and the sinners, freely walked together. A path that so easily could tether them to the counsel of the wicked, could push them to sit in the seats of the scornful. My husband and I were lost, not knowing how to shield them from what they would encounter in those long, lonely hours sitting in those chairs.

Would they succumb to the drumbeat of the wicked and despairing as they clicked and scrolled and sat in those sad Zoom classrooms with their sad Zoom classmates, trying to learn and to grow?

As I reflect further, my mind then shifts to that first St. David’s service online.

Our family shouting at the TV for not connecting to the laptop fast enough. Our dog overjoyed to be snuggling on the couch with us as we worshiped. Our ears hearing those first strains of the vast organ and our eyes seeing the first images of our spiritual leaders, masked and unwavering. We felt bathed in comfort, we felt ourselves grow still and our roots sinking deep. We remembered our path with the Lord was still there, we remembered that we were trees planted by streams of water, we knew in that moment that our leaves would not wither.

Our journey through the pandemic was long and fraught with challenges, yet walking with God allowed us to find the largest sparks of joy in the smallest of moments.

Our children’s voices rising from the couch as they sang along to the hymns, rising from their bedrooms as they practiced with their fellow young choristers from the same screen that had threatened to pull them towards darkness. Time passing and continues...

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T h u r s d a y , F e b r u a r y 15 Thursday after Ash Wednesday ...continued dropping the children off one at a time at church, dressed in their masks and robes, to raise the cross high and lead our fearless clergy processing down the aisle past the empty pews. As more time passed, our return to our spiritual home, sliding into those wooden pews, grasping our bulletins, crying our tears of gratitude at the path of the Lord that had brought us safely through.

PRAY Direct us, O Lord, in all our doings with your most gracious favor, and further us with your continual help; that in all our works begun, continued, and ended in you, we may glorify your holy Name, and finally, by your mercy, obtain everlasting life; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Christine Payne, her husband, Steve, and their resilient children live in Berwyn and have been members at St. David’s for over 13 years. Christine has led the acolyte ministry, volunteered with the primary, children, and youth choirs, taught Sunday school, and served as a lay assistant. One of her greatest joys, however, has been perfecting her omelet flipping while serving as a booth chair at the annual St. David’s Fair.

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F r i d a y , F e b r u a r y 16 Friday after Ash Wednesday READ Psalm 51:1–10 REFLECT Aaron B. Downs writes, “Psalms are beautiful poems that speak to the soul and aid the soul in speaking to God.” They “act as a conduit between the heart of man and the heart of God.” In his view, psalms can fall into three categories: 1. Hymns, for when all is well, that praise God for his goodness.

2. Laments, for when something is wrong, beginning negatively and ending positively.

3. Thanksgiving, for when what is wrong has been set right.

In Psalm 51, there is a rhythm that engages the reader or listener, transforming its message into the “lament” type of psalm. We first hear of petitions to God, portraying the psalmist as needing mercy, to have offenses blotted out, to be washed of wickedness, and cleansed of sin.

With this downbeat beginning, the psalmist turns inward, and introspection follows with a series of observations: knowing one’s transgressions, recognizing the sin in front of oneself, understanding that the sin is against God and is evil, and that it has been ongoing since birth.

Psalm 51 then begins its rise toward positivity with the psalmist’s revelations: that God is looking for truth deep within, and that God will make one understand wisdom secretly. Petitions return, now with an encouraging rhythm: to be purged and washed of sin, made to hear of joy and gladness, with sin hidden from sight, and all iniquities removed.

Here, at the beginning of our Lenten journey, when we strive to develop a closer relationship with God, we can look to Psalm 51 as a roadmap that sets us on a poetic pathway: first with petitions to God, a turn inward with introspection, followed by revelations which lead to positive petitions to “hear of joy and gladness.”

PRAY Support us, O Lord, with your gracious favor through the fast we have begun; that as we observe it by bodily self-denial, so we may fulfill it with inner sincerity of heart; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Joe Bonn and his family have been grateful members of the St. David’s community since 1988.

Here, worship and service alongside so many friends, in ministries such as lay assistants, ushers, the organ committee, and the vestry, continues to enliven and refresh his faith.

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S a t u r d a y , F e b r u a r y 17 Saturday after Ash Wednesday READ Isaiah 58:9b–14 REFLECT After studying today’s readings, I found myself thinking about two things: service to others, and trust in God. Early in the Old Testament verses from Isaiah, I was struck by how the passage advocates caring for those in need. It reminded me of St. David’s feeding ministry in Norristown and our mission in Uganda. I am grateful that my family members were able to participate in both outreach initiatives to fully understand the value in helping others. Having personally met some of those who received outreach from our Church helped me to understand the value of our work: If you offer your food to the hungry and satisfy the needs of the afflicted, then your light shall rise in the darkness and your gloom be like the noonday.

(Isaiah 58:10) In the next lines, I get comfort from the imagery of God meeting our needs in “parched places” and waters that “never fail.” Not only does God promise to protect those in need, but he also promises to take care of ALL of those who have trust in him: The Lord will guide you continually, and satisfy your needs in parched places, and make your bones strong; and you shall be like a watered garden, like a spring of water, whose waters never fail.

(Isaiah 58:11) God has blessed our community at St. David’s with the ability to serve others in our abundance, and it is our trust in God that fuels our missions. Trusting God to guide our paths in service has kept our gardens watered. I am thankful for the impact that St. David’s outreach programs have had on me and am grateful that my trust in God has led me here.

PRAY Almighty and everlasting God, mercifully look upon our infirmities, and in all our dangers and necessities stretch forth your right hand to help and defend us; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

David Gold lives in Bryn Mawr with his wife, Susanna, and his college-aged children, Sophie and Peter. He serves on the vestry, chairing the stewardship committee, and participates in other commissions. He is a past chair of men’s fellowship.

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S u n d a y , F e b r u a r y 18 The First Sunday in Lent READ Genesis 9:8-17; Psalm 25:1-9 REFLECT This past November, I had the privilege to visit the Serunjogi family, our partners in Uganda. It was my sixth trip to see the Rev. Romans, his wife, Sarah, their daughter, Dr. Lydia, and their families. St. David’s relationship with the Serunjogis started in the 1990s and has been growing stronger every year. This caring, hardworking family has done so much for their country, providing education opportunities to those who can’t afford it and healthcare to those in need.

From my first visit in 2012, I fell in love with the country and especially its people.

The joyful singing and dancing of the students at Trinity Children’s Centre, the love of learning seen in the students at Centenary High School, and the compassionate staff members of Double Cure Hospital are all part of the magic of this country.

There is so much joy, even when times are hard, money is tight, and food is scarce.

Why is this so different than in the United States?

I think it is because of their strong faith. The Ugandan people believe God is watching over them. When bad things rain down on them, they look to the heavens and trust in God’s benevolence. “When the bow is in the clouds, I will see it and remember the everlasting covenant between God and every living creature of all flesh that is on the earth” (Genesis 9:13).

Lead me in your truth and teach me, for you are the God of my salvation; in you have I trusted all the day long.

(Psalm 25:5) PRAY Almighty God, whose blessed Son was led by the Spirit to be tempted by Satan: Come quickly to help us who are assaulted by many temptations; and, as you know the weaknesses of each of us, let each one find you mighty to save; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Leslie Roy and her husband, Tom Johantgen, have been members of St. David’s Church since 1990. They raised their three daughters in the church. When Leslie is not traveling to Uganda, you can find her in the undercroft sewing Days for Girls washable menstrual kits as part of the Project Ensonga ministry.

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M o n d a y , F e b r u a r y 19 The First Week in Lent READ Matthew 25:31–46 REFLECT In this passage, we are reminded of the power of the church and church community to do good in the world. I think of the words “welcome the stranger” almost every day. We are called to look out for one another and provide for each other. I think we cannot read and share these words of Matthew enough.

I always admire when a pop culture figure, a “star,” speaks positively and passionately about their Christian faith. I think in this day and age so many people need to hear this message, and in places and spaces they otherwise may not. Stephen Colbert, the late-night talk show host, does this often. He often describes how his Christian faith carried his mother, siblings, and him through the loss of their father in a plane crash when he was 11. How another verse from Matthew helped him return to his faith as an adult and calm his fears and anxiety. One day I switched on cable news, and there was Colbert, testifying before Congress about Americans’ responsibility not to turn away asylum seekers and refugees. He looked the senators right in the eye, and he quoted Matthew, reminding them of these words, to feed the hungry and care for the sick and welcome the stranger and what the Bible says to our leaders and elected officials. “Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these…, you did it to me,” he said. He’s not a perfect man and he doesn’t always live out his faith – he can be quite sarcastic and unforgiving. But I appreciate that he tries to make Christ known to others, as we are all called to do.

PRAY Almighty and everlasting God, mercifully increase in us your gifts of holy discipline, in almsgiving, prayer, and fasting; that our lives may be directed to the fulfilling of your most gracious will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Gale Morrison has been a member of St. David’s since 2010 when she and her family moved to Wayne. Her family traces its roots back through nine generations of people buried at St. David’s, from their arrival here in 1699. She volunteers with several committees of the Fair and has contributed to the Good News Garden outreach pantry for many years.

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T u e s d a y , F e b r u a r y 20 The First Week in Lent READ Matthew 6:7–15 REFLECT Jesus said, “When you are praying, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do, for they think that they will be heard because of their many words. Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.”

—Matthew 6:7-8 Throughout my adult life, I have often struggled with the concept of prayer, berating myself for not praying the right way nor praying enough. Thankfully, through spiritual direction I learned there is no correct way to pray. God will listen to us, however we “talk” with him, whether it be in words or actions. God loves me regardless of the way I engage in our relationship but is simply thrilled that I AM in love with him.

I have relied on the words Jesus gave us, The Lord’s Prayer, when I did not know anything else. Now I am back to a bit of questioning if there really is a “right” way to pray. I mean, if Jesus gives us specific instructions to use these words, can it be any truer than that? Sitting back and examining this through a different lens, I think The Lord’s Prayer has always been and will continue to be my starting point for a conversation with God. Relying on these words given to us makes the playing field level and gives each of us a place to strengthen our relationship with the Holy Trinity.

I know God loves me however I pray, just like he loves and accepts us wherever we meet him, and each other. It is God’s will here, and in heaven, so stop worrying about being right and spend time being in right relationship. Start by using Jesus’ words and you will be on the path for better things.

PRAY Almighty God our heavenly Father, renew in us the gifts of your mercy; increase our faith, strengthen our hope, enlighten our understanding, widen our charity, and make us ready to serve you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Susan Nagy and her husband, John, have been active at St. David’s since 1984, raising their three children here. She is in her last year of the Education for Ministry (EfM) course, working towards being a more spiritually mature Christian. Susan credits her spiritual direction group, with the most faithful women, for starting her along this path to a deeper faith.

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W e d n e s d a y , F e b r u a r y 21 The First Week in Lent READ Luke 11:29–32 REFLECT Today’s reading from the Gospel of Luke, which, interestingly, also refers to today’s Old Testament reading from Jonah, offers an important lesson for all of us. Do you ever pray to God to please send you a sign? A sign of what to do when facing a difficult decision? Or how to improve your life or be a better Christian? I know I do it all the time. Yet, in today’s reading, Jesus seems to rebuke the large crowd gathered around him for asking for a sign.

In the verse just prior to today’s reading from Luke, Jesus said, “Blessed rather are those who hear the word of God and obey it!” He seems to be contrasting the two: those who need a sign to follow God versus those who simply obey the word of God with no need for anything additional.

Jesus goes on to refer to the prophets Jonah and Solomon, both messengers of God, whose followers accepted the word of God they heard from Jonah and Solomon and repented. Yet, the people of Jesus’ time, who saw many signs from Jesus, the actual God, still didn’t believe!

So, is Jesus saying we are “evil” for asking for a sign? I don’t think so. I think the lesson for us is that we’ve already received a sign from God and that sign is Jesus and how Jesus lived his life. While we can never live perfectly as Jesus did, we can try to pattern our lives after how Jesus lived. It’s not about following a set of rules, it’s about the formation of character and community that follows the example that Jesus shows us.

PRAY Bless us, O God, in this holy season, in which our hearts seek your help and healing; and so purify us by your discipline that we may grow in grace and in the knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Jonesy Lerch is currently a postulant for Holy Orders to the diaconate and is a member of the rector discernment committee. He has served as chair of stewardship, chair of property, on the vestry, and as a warden. He and his wife, Lisi, have three children who were raised at St. David’s.

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T h u r s d a y , F e b r u a r y 22 The First Week in Lent READ Matthew 7:7–12 REFLECT Jesus said, “Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you. For everyone who asks receives, and everyone who searches finds, and for everyone who knocks, the door will be opened. Is there anyone among you who, if your child asks for bread, will give a stone? Or if the child asks for a fish, will give a snake? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good things to those who ask him!”

—Matthew 7:7-12 “In everything, do to others as you would have them do to you; for this is the law and the prophets.”

“Ask and it will be given you.” How do we know what to ask, or when to ask it?

“Search and you will find.” But did you find what you set out to look for, or something else?

“Knock and the door will be opened for you.” Is what’s behind the door what you expected? Who’s behind the door? Where does it lead?

“Is there anyone among you who, if your child asks for bread, will give a stone? Or if the child asks for a fish, will give a snake?” Well, no, but when my children ask for cookies for breakfast, they are offered alternatives. Children are not always the best at asking for the things that are best for them. As parents, it’s our responsibility not to give in to every request that comes from our children, but to help guide them in the best ways we can. Of course, we don’t let our children go hungry, or give them something that would cause them harm, but we also don’t acquiesce to their every whim. The same must be true of God. God knows their plan for our lives so much better than we do. We get bogged down in details, desires, fears, and short-sighted goals. God can see the bigger picture and doesn’t give us things they know won’t serve us well.

Sometimes we find God when their presence was the last thing we were looking for.

Sometimes we knock on a door that opens for us in different ways than we could have imagined. Sometimes that door doesn’t open at all, which leads us on our continues...

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T h u r s d a y , F e b r u a r y 22 The First Week in Lent ...continued path to a door that was meant for us. No matter how these details pan out, God shows up.

PRAY Strengthen us, O Lord, by your grace, that in your might we may overcome all spiritual enemies, and with pure hearts serve you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.

Amen.

Ali Stahlwood and her family are recent transplants from Chattanooga, TN and have found a wonderful community in St. David’s. No stranger to The Episcopal Church, Ali grew up at St. Christopher’s Gladwyne, sang with the Chapel Singers at Trinity College (Hartford, CT), as well as choirs in Denver, CO and Chattanooga, TN, and served on the vestry at Grace Episcopal, Chattanooga. Since joining St. David’s, she has become involved with the adult choir, women’s Bible study, women’s fellowship, and worship commission.

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F r i d a y , F e b r u a r y 23 The First Week in Lent READ Ezekiel 18:21–28 REFLECT In today’s Old Testament reading from Ezekiel, we learn about the wicked and the righteous. The wicked have committed so many sins that, surely, God could never forgive them. The righteous, who have done what is “lawful and just,” and “followed the Lord’s statutes,” surely, they will live forever in the kingdom of heaven.

As an obstetrician, this reminds me of our uniquely human condition of being born alive and with original sin. From our first breath as that beautiful, sweet baby, to our childhood of learning right from wrong, to our adulthood of aspirations and dreams, our individual morality as we traverse this pathway of life and, ultimately, to our death, we are uniquely human and have the choice to be one of the righteous or wicked.

Our God is a forgiving one. No matter how many sins we may have committed, if we can learn something from our actions and turn away from wickedness toward the righteous, from darkness to light, God will forgive us and give us eternal life in the kingdom of heaven. I like to think of this as a “do-over from God”. Perhaps, I did not handle a situation well, spoke to my adult children judgmentally, or was not emotionally present for a patient or friend. Upon reflection and prayer, God allows me and all of us to “do it over” – the right way. Our God is loving and forgiving.

Because they considered and turned away from all the transgressions that they had committed, they shall surely live.

(Ezekiel 18:28) PRAY Lord Christ, our eternal Redeemer, grant us such fellowship in your sufferings, that, filled with your Holy Spirit, we may subdue the flesh to the spirit, and the spirit to you, and at the last attain to the glory of your resurrection; who lives and reigns with the Father and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Dr. Teresa Marlino has been a member of St. David’s Church for 24 years and she and her husband, Joe have raised four children here. She participates in international outreach in Uganda, Project Ensonga, and is a member of the discernment committee.

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S a t u r d a y , F e b r u a r y 24 The First Week in Lent, Feast of St. Matthias, Apostle READ Acts 1:15-26 REFLECT Peter said, “So one of the men who have accompanied us during all the time that the Lord Jesus went in and out among us, beginning from the baptism of John until the day when he was taken up from us – one of these must become a witness with us to his resurrection.” So, they proposed two, Joseph called Barsabbas, who was also known as Justus, and Matthias. Then they prayed and said, “Lord, you know everyone’s heart. Show us which one of these two you have chosen to take the place in this ministry and apostleship from which Judas turned aside to go to his own place.” And they cast lots for them, and the lot fell on Matthias; and he was added to the eleven apostles.

—Acts 1:21-26 Following Judas’ betrayal of Jesus and after the resurrection, the apostles trusted that God would make the right choice as to who would be one of the “faithful witnesses,” that is, take Judas’ place. The account of the choice in Acts says that they cast lots. We might say that they left the decision to chance. They said that they left the decision to God. In that space between the lots leaving their hands and hitting the ground, God was revealed. Like Matthias, we are all called to be faithful, and by our baptism into the life of Christ we are all made witnesses. In our lives we are called to make choices every day. Let’s leave a space for God in our hearts and minds as we make decisions, whatever they are, big or small. Take time for reflection and leave space for God in the moment. Be a witness and continue the story as the apostles did.

PRAY Almighty God, who in the place of Judas chose your faithful servant Matthias to be numbered among the Twelve: Grant that your Church, being delivered from false apostles, may always be guided and governed by faithful and true pastors; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Bill Stroud has been a member of St. David’s for 41 years. He has been a part of several different Bible study groups and feeding ministries and has been a part of St. David’s outreach program in Guatemala. He is currently taking part in the Education for Ministry (EfM) study program.

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S u n d a y , F e b r u a r y 25 The Second Sunday in Lent READ Mark 8:31-38 REFLECT “Spuddle” is a wonderful (but no longer used) word that means “working hard but accomplishing nothing.”

So often we find our days and nights consumed by obligations and errands. We each seem to rush from one moment to the next, trying to tame our schedules and get ahead (or sometimes just get by). We are engrossed by all the human things. So rarely do we make time for the God. Peter had a human reaction to the suffering, rejection, and death preceding Christ’s resurrection. It was real. We are later told of the deep emotional toll it took on Jesus and his followers. We can imagine what his mother and friends must have felt throughout those moments.

Similarly, we all initially recoil when called to cast away our worldly attachments to follow Christ. Our responsibilities seem so relevant. There always seems to be so much at stake and so much to lose. But again, they are merely the trappings of our mortal lives. The Stoics (a school of Hellenistic philosophy that flourished in Ancient Greece and Ancient Rome) would call us to “remember death” and the transitory nature of earthly concerns.

The Lenten season asks us to reflect on Christ’s death and resurrection to identify what is actually meaningful. We are reminded not to “spuddle” away our Christian lives on transitory gain, but to make time for God. As Jesus said, “what good will it be to gain the whole world but forfeit our lives” (Mark 8:36)?

PRAY O God, whose glory it is always to have mercy: Be gracious to all who have gone astray from your ways, and bring them again with penitent hearts and steadfast faith to embrace and hold fast the unchangeable truth of your Word, Jesus Christ your Son; who with you and the Holy Spirit lives and reigns, one God, for ever and ever.

Amen.

Jamie Kelly lives in Wayne with his wife, Susan (Groff), their two sons, and dog, Maeve.

Their older son, James, attends St. David’s Episcopal Day School where their younger son, George, will start attending this fall. Jamie works for Wells Fargo Bank and teaches income tax law at Drexel University Kline School of Law. 17

M o n d a y , F e b r u a r y 26 The Second Week in Lent READ Luke 6:27–38 REFLECT I was a bit nervous when the Rev. Emily Given reached out and asked me to participate in the Lenten devotional. I am always impressed or in awe of those who can speak so freely on their Christian beliefs or paths or their ease of reflection on how the Bible speaks to them. I am one who always loves the “aha” moments or the “God gotcha” moments, as I refer to them. They are the moments that stop you in your tracks; when God stops you and reminds you that you are not in charge and that he is. We all love those moments, they are easy, they are obvious.

When we read a designated piece of scripture and try to apply it to our daily lives, I always want the easy ones, the pleasant ones. These designated Lenten readings are not as easy. They tell us we are broken; we are sinners – no one wants to be told of their mistakes, their wrong doings, etc. We live in a world of continual judgement.

Social media judges you, TV judges you, our families judge us, the list goes on.

The scripture lesson from Luke 6:27-38 is particularly poignant: “I say to you that listen, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you.” The list continues. What I particularly like is the opening: “I say to you that listen….” What a wonderful opening. We all forget to listen. If we could all stop and listen to God, listen to our inner heart, listen to those who speak, listen for God’s truth and not what is being pushed at us, not what we want to hear, we would all find inner peace and see God’s grace so easily.

My prayer for us: God help us to open our hearts, open our minds and open our ears to receive all the bounty you offer us minute by minute and day by day. Amen.

PRAY Let your Spirit, O Lord, come into the midst of us to wash us with the pure water of repentance, and prepare us to be always a living sacrifice to you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Peggy Pook Oehler, her husband, John, and son, MacLeod, joined St. David’s after moving to the area three years ago. Peggy is a lay reader and volunteer (Thistle Hills and the Fair).

She has her own interior design company designing homes and country clubs. They have a mischievous doodle and summer in northern Ontario.

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T u e s d a y , F e b r u a r y 27 The Second Week in Lent READ Isaiah 1:2–4,16–20 REFLECT Today our collect entreats us to pray, “deliver us when we are tempted to regard sin without abhorrence.” In our modern individualistic world, we are prone to regard sin in personal and singular ways, as the obverse of our personal relationship with God. A hurtful word, gossip, personal sexual sins, etc. There is, no doubt, reason to see these as activities that harm us and others and should rightly be “abhorred.”

However, the ancient text of Isaiah challenges us to move beyond this parochial, individualistic perspective. Isaiah goes so far as to call the entire nation of Israel sinful, an entire people laden with iniquity, and calls them to a communal and collective repentance and justice making. He writes to an entire people, “cease to do evil, learn to do good; seek justice, rescue the oppressed, defend the orphan, plead for the widow” (Isaiah 1:16-17).

What might it mean for us, people of St. David’s, people of Pennsylvania, people of the United States of America, to hear this collective and communal call to repentance and justice-making? What might it look like for our community to abhor the ways we participate in, or turn a blind eye to, systems and structures of violence, oppression, domination, poverty, racism, patriarchy, homo- and transphobia, and more? Where are the areas we can learn to do good and seek justice for the oppressed, orphan, and widow? I cannot and will not answer these questions alone for it is our call to a holy Lent that is also our call to discern these questions together.

PRAY O God, you willed to redeem us from all iniquity by your Son: Deliver us when we are tempted to regard sin without abhorrence, and let the virtue of his passion come between us and our mortal enemy; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Elliot VanHoy is the director of youth ministries at St. David’s. He works to create a fun and safe place where students can know that they are loved and accepted.

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W e d n e s d a y , F e b r u a r y 28 The Second Week in Lent READ Matthew 20:17–28 REFLECT But whoever wishes to be great among you must be your servant…just as the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life a ransom for many.

—Matthew 20:27-28 This passage from Matthew, which draws from Mark’s gospel, takes us from the passion and crucifixion description into an exchange that focuses on status, power, and our human need for recognition. The mother of the sons of Zebedee makes a request – a request that highlights a profound misunderstanding of the teachings of Christ. Jesus recognizes the request comes with a need for power and recognition and he invites us to reflect on our willingness to take on burdens that we might otherwise view as “beneath” us. To fully embrace servanthood is to be vulnerable; to suspend our need for greatness and control, and to see the world through the perspective of others. Being a servant is to suspend our need to impose; to be a servant is to meet others “where they are,” to accept others in their messy, broken state, rather than trying to mold them into our image. To be a servant is to listen deeply – to respond with compassion and to pay attention to our need for validation and recognition. To be a servant is to say “yes” to a God who calls us out of our “heads.” The invitation of servanthood is to be in relationship with others regardless of the external labels that we give such high regard to – status, title, accomplishments, etc.

So, where in your life can you make that transition from serving to servanthood?

Serving is an action, while servanthood is a shift in identity and mindset. As I write this reflection, I think of Mother Teresa and Dorothy Day: two leaders who clearly served and who embraced a life of servanthood. Perhaps the opportunity to serve and embrace servanthood awaits you this Lent.

PRAY O God, you so loved the world that you gave your only-begotten Son to reconcile earth with heaven: Grant that we, loving you above all things, may love our friends in you, and our enemies for your sake; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Ian Wilcox has been a member of St. David’s for over ten years and is currently serving on the vestry and is a member of the Christian formation commission. An avid reader of the daily readings from the Center for Action and Contemplation, Ian enjoys his daily yoga and meditation practice, and is preparing to walk the Camino de Santiago next summer.

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T h u r s d a y , F e b r u a r y 29 The Second Week in Lent READ Jeremiah 17:5–10 REFLECT I the Lord test the mind and search the heart, to give to all according to their ways, according to the fruit of their doings.

—Jeremiah 17:10 Before returning to the verdant countryside of Southeastern Pennsylvania, I lived for fifteen years in the foothills of the Sangre de Cristo Mountains north of Santa Fe, New Mexico. New Mexico felt like the bones of the earth. Geology, past civilizations, and natural forces that continually shape the landscape exist everywhere right out in the open. I walked the ridges and arroyos outside my door almost every day and at all times of the day and night. The sandy hills there are a reddish color. They are dotted with piñon and juniper trees, cholla and prickly pear cacti, and chamisa (saltbush). All of these grow slowly and are more ancient than one would assume. At the bottom of the hill by the side of the road where I lived was a single peach tree. How it got there is a mystery. Perhaps someone ate a piece of fruit and threw its pit out of a car window. There was no water source and no evidence of pruning or fertilization, yet almost every summer its branches were covered with small, delicious, white peaches. We called it the “Miracle Tree.”

“I the Lord test the mind and search the heart…” Every day we make decisions, both short and long-term, but we live by our faith and surrender to God’s will.

PRAY O Lord, strong and mighty, Lord of hosts and King of glory: Cleanse our hearts from sin, keep our hands pure, and turn our minds from what is passing away; so that at the last we may stand in your holy place and receive your blessing; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Hadley Witcher was baptized in the Church at St. David’s and many years later married Robert at the same altar. She loves helping at the Fair and is the proud mother of two members of the youth choir.

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Friday, March 1 The Second Week in Lent READ Genesis 37:3–4,12–28 REFLECT The text in Genesis about “brothers” resonates with me. Not only was I a middle child of five, but also a middle brother of three. I learned how to navigate dinner table etiquette and family conversation at an early age. (I am still learning the ropes today.)

When the brothers were tasked with tending their father’s flock in Shechem, they were joined by their brother, Joseph. They were jealous of him: he was given the best clothes from their father, a long robe with sleeves. They called him a “dreamer,” stripped him of his robe, and threw him into a pit without water. That behavior is beyond belief, even for jealous siblings! But it gets worse: having cast Joseph into a pit, his brothers noticed a caravan on its way from Gilead to Egypt. They auctioned him off to a caravan of Ishmaelites (Arab nomads) for a hefty twenty pieces of silver.

(Joseph did end up in Egypt in the next chapter of his life.)

Having been to the Holy Land in 2023 and witnessed the desert landscape and the need for workers to drive sheep across the country to markets, cheap labor was at a premium.

Was selling his brother to the Caravan of Ishmaelites worth it to his brothers?

What do we value in our lives? Silver, siblings, or relationships of family and friends?

PRAY Grant, O Lord, that as your Son Jesus Christ prayed for his enemies on the cross, so we may have grace to forgive those who wrongfully or scornfully use us, that we ourselves may be able to receive your forgiveness; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.

Amen.

A longtime member of St. David’s, Steve Dittmann is an active member of the Friday men’s Bible study, men’s fellowship, and the parish history and archives committee.

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Saturday, March 2 The Second Week in Lent READ Micah 7:14–15,18–20; Psalm 103:1-12; Luke 15:11-32 REFLECT Today’s lessons are all about forgiveness. In Micah 7:18 it says, “He does not retain his anger forever, because he delights in showing clemency” and in Psalm 103:8 “The Lord is full of compassion and mercy, slow to anger and of great kindness.”

Lastly, we hear in Luke 15:11-32 the familiar story of the Prodigal Son. The father has a celebration welcoming his younger son home, even after he squandered his inheritance. The older son, upon hearing about the celebration, is angry and cannot understand how his father can just forgive, forget, and welcome his son back into the family fold. Can’t we all identify with the angry older brother? Wait, that’s not fair! I did everything that was expected of me! He squandered his inheritance and now you throw him a party?

However, this is exactly what we are called to do every day as followers of Christ, to show the loving face of God and forgiveness to all we encounter. A good way to start is by showing gratitude for all the gifts you have been given by God in your life. When you have a grateful heart, you will be open to showing others love and forgiveness will flow forward.

So, do your best, have a grateful heart, and don’t let your anger or resentment get in the way of forgiveness and love.

PRAY Grant, most merciful Lord, to your faithful people pardon and peace, that they may be cleansed from all their sins, and serve you with a quiet mind; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Robin Ford has been a member of St. David’s for 27 years and has served on the vestry and as altar guild director. She participates in the women’s and Tuesday morning Bible studies and currently serves on the discernment committee. A teacher by trade, Robin also enjoys substituting at St. David’s Episcopal Day School.

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Sunday, March 3 The Third Sunday in Lent READ Exodus 20:1-17; John 2:13-22 REFLECT In rereading and thinking about the lessons today, I initially didn’t see a connection.

As I continued to reflect it seems that both Exodus and John are reminding us to live into the life God has created for us. The Exodus passage has God giving Moses the Ten Commandments. God wants us to live by these ten “rules,” many of which seem simple and straightforward, but at the same time can be difficult in our dayto-day life.

Then, John’s passage recalls when the patient teacher, Jesus, turns tables and throws the money lenders out of the temple. Jesus seems frustrated by the people not living into this life he had been teaching and that God had wanted, still wants, for us.

There is so much going on in the world today, it can be difficult to remember God’s hope for us and to honor God in our day to day lives by living into his will for us.

Maybe it really doesn’t need to be that hard.

Love God, love each other, keep the sabbath holy, honor our parents and be kind.

That sounds like a wonderful way to live each day.

PRAY Almighty God, you know that we have no power in ourselves to help ourselves: Keep us both outwardly in our bodies and inwardly in our souls, that we may be defended from all adversities which may happen to the body, and from all evil thoughts which may assault and hurt the soul; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Edie Lewis, her husband, John, and their two adult daughters have been members of St. David’s for twenty years. Edie served as a junior warden on the vestry and is on the transition team as we prepare for a new rector.

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Monday, March 4 The Third Week in Lent READ Psalm 42:1–7 REFLECT Why are you so full of heaviness, O my soul? Put your trust in God. —Psalm 42:11 As a lifelong Episcopalian, I have heard these words or variations of them for years.

As a child, I learned a shortened version which I did not understand at the time: “Let go and let God.” What was I to let go? What did it mean to let God? As an adult, I now understand the words, but how would they play out in my life?

The year 2023 brought continuous waves of adversity to my life, unlike anything I had ever experienced. A child’s pain, a parent’s pain, a family member’s medical challenges, obstacles at work, horrific news reports every day. The heaviness on my soul was overwhelming at times. Intense periods of stress led to sleepless nights, loss of appetite, self-doubt, poor decision-making, sadness. It might have been the hardest year of my life.

Love from my husband, family and friends, and faith in God has brought me through. I let go and put my trust in God. I prayed for answers, support, and love. I prayed at night when I could not sleep. I prayed in the car, at the beach, at work, at the grocery store. I prayed everywhere, all the time. I am still praying.

As I let go and put my trust in God, he has revealed his love and support in small, powerful moments. A child’s laugh, an encouraging email, a beautiful sunset, a loving text, a brave decision. Joyful memories returned. God was always with me, listening to my prayers and helping to lighten the weight on my soul.

When you feel the heaviness in your soul, let go and let God. PRAY Look upon the heart-felt desires of your humble servants, Almighty God, and stretch forth the right hand of your majesty to be our defense against all our enemies; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Worshiping at St. David’s for over 20 years, Whitney Kellett is a member of the handbell choir and previously has directed the Christmas pageant, brought water systems to Cuba, and co-chaired the “Raising the Roof” capital campaign. She lives in Radnor with her husband (Rod), 4 children (Cynthia, Matthew, Taylor, Abby), and three pets (Allie, Joy, Echo).

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Tuesday, March 5 The Third Week in Lent READ Matthew 18:21–35 REFLECT During Lent, we reflect on Jesus, his life, his teachings, his sacrifice, and his resurrection but focus on repentance and moderation.

In today’s readings, the parable of the unforgiving servant highlights the importance of forgiveness which is the other side of repentance. Forgiveness is letting go of the bitterness, anger, or hatred that enters our lives.

In this story there are two debts, one huge and one trivial. The king (someone with absolute control) forgives the substantial debt. The servant (someone whose purpose is to serve) refuses to forgive and pursues retribution for something unimportant.

When the unforgiving servant’s actions come to the attention of the king, it does not end well for the unforgiving servant. The king confronts this servant and passes judgment. The unforgiving servant is jailed and tortured.

I believe we are the servants in the story. This story points to the many “things” in life that God may consider trivial, and we treat as vitally important and cause us to be embittered and angry.

Matthew tells us Jesus provided a solemn warning at the end of the parable: “So, my heavenly Father will also do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother or sister from your heart” (Matthew 18:35). Jesus tells us to forgive from the heart with no limits and conditions.

Today is a good day to search out any bitterness, anger, or hatred. Jesus makes it clear; we need to eliminate these feelings from our lives.

PRAY O Lord, we beseech you mercifully to hear us; and grant that we, to whom you have given a fervent desire to pray, may, by your mighty aid, be defended and comforted in all dangers and adversities; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Jay Baldwin has been a member of St. David’s since 2000. He serves on vestry and is an enthusiastic participant in the Friday morning men’s Bible study. Jay and his wife, Theresa, have three adult children and two grandchildren. They reside in Berwyn and are active in many ministries at St. David’s.

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Wednesday, March 6 The Third Week in Lent READ Deuteronomy 4:1–2,5–9; Matthew 5:17–19 REFLECT See, just as the Lord my God has charged me, I now teach you statues and ordinances…. for what other great nation has a god so near to it as the Lord our God is whenever we call to him?

—Deuteronomy 4:5-7 I do not like this portion of the passage. Moses is saying that the nation of Israel is superior to other nations because of its relationship to God. I doubt that Moses and the Israelites were privy to what God was doing and saying to the people in the rest of the world. I do not believe that God elevates one nation over others. (For “God so loved the WORLD that he gave him only begotten son” (John 3:16).)

The idea that God has favorites has resulted in perverted religious thinking. It has allowed nations and religious institutions to justify slavery and genocide. Examples of this include, but are not limited to, America’s proclamation of Manifest Destiny and the 1455 papal bull.

Jesus proclaims, “render unto Caesar the things that are Caesar’s, and unto God the things that are God’s”. We human beings are God’s. God has given us laws. The laws: the Ten Commandments, and ultimately the two laws that Jesus proclaimed are the laws God wishes to be followed by human beings. ALL HUMAN beings. We as individuals can choose to follow them or not. There is no such thing as a Godfavored nation, people, gender, race, sex, or physical ability.

PRAY Most beloved God, in this time when geographic boundaries are irrelevant as it relates to climate and weapons, in this time when national boundaries do not limit the flow of information, in this time when there is so much discord in the world; Let the knowledge of your love for all people and the two laws (to love God and love one another) be what we hold dear to our hearts. Dearest God, let these laws guide our every action. Let these laws be firmly etched in our hearts. Let us remember only when that happens, we truly honor the gift that we have been given. That gift that we each are loved by you. Amen.

A retired attorney who now consults, lectures, and teaches about diversity, equity, and inclusion, Anita Friday has been a member of St. David’s for nineteen years and is co-chair of the commission on ministry for the Diocese of Pennsylvania. She is madly in love with her Cavapoo, Peep.

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Thursday, March 7 The Third Week in Lent READ Jeremiah 7:23–28; Luke 11:14-23 REFLECT A house divided against itself, cannot stand.

—Luke 11:17 For any of you who are in a long-term relationship or have a household that you share with others, you would probably agree that living in community with people can be beautiful but is also HARD. Nothing can be more uncomfortable than being out of harmony with the people you live with. In these passages from Jeremiah and Luke, there is a common theme that the people were out of harmony; not just with each other but with the Creator, their God. Like a parent pleading with their kids to go another way, God says in Jeremiah 7 “Obey my voice…” They did not listen, so he sent prophets…. They stiffened their necks, so he called to them…. But they did not answer. In Luke, Jesus displays power and authority even over demons and the church and religious leaders still demand more signs and question him about where his authority comes from.

In this Lenten season, we might reexamine our walk with God. Are we willing and humble enough to soften our hearts and let the shepherd lead? Although we are all human and all fall short of the glory of God, we are called to strive for something better. In our baptismal covenant, we promise to strive for justice and peace. Should that justice and peace stop at the door of our faith communities? Our founding fathers in the United States (even the non-religious ones) recognized this and adopted the use of this passage from Jeremiah because they too recognized that “to strive for a more perfect union” means that “a house divided cannot stand.” Ask yourself during this time of Lenten reflection; What can I do to soften my heart? to listen more? to create more harmony and union? A house divided cannot stand.

PRAY Keep watch over your Church, O Lord, with your unfailing love; and, since it is grounded in human weakness and cannot maintain itself without your aid, protect it from all danger, and keep it in the way of salvation; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Bradley Perry lives in Drexel Park with his wife Sarah and three kids, Sam, Ben, and Annabelle.

Bradley is a signed Operatic Tenor with Elegy Artists and has enjoyed participating with the music program at St. David’s whenever possible.

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Friday, March 8 The Third Week in Lent READ Mark 12:28–34 REFLECT One of the scribes came near and heard Jesus and the Sadducees disputing with one another, and seeing that Jesus answered them well, he asked him, ‘Which commandment is the first of all?’ Jesus answered, ‘The first is, ‘Hear, O Israel: The Lord is one; you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength.’ The second is this, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself’. There is no other commandment greater than these.

—Mark 12:28-31 I have read these words many times but as I read, “you shall love your neighbor as yourself” I find myself thinking that if loving myself is an integral part of being able to love my neighbors, how do I get there? I find great joy in helping others; however, I sometimes find it very difficult to love myself. Perhaps treating ourselves with the same kindness and compassion we show others would be the best start. Practice selfacceptance and forgiveness, prioritize your own well-being, set healthy boundaries, surround yourself with positive influences and uplifting people, practice gratitude every day. Loving ourselves is not selfish, but it’s a necessary foundation for taking care of others. If we can take steps toward self-love, we can cultivate a sense of peace and fulfillment that will allow us to authentically live out the commandment to love our neighbors as ourselves.

PRAY Grant us, O Lord our Strength, a true love of your holy Name; so that, trusting in your grace, we may fear no earthly evil, nor fix our hearts on earthly goods, but may rejoice in your full salvation; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Eileen Myers, member of St. David’s since 1997, has been a much more active member since 2019. She lives in Wayne with her husband, Scott, and their cockapoo, Bogey. She serves as the wedding coordinator for St. David’s and is a longtime realtor.

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Saturday, March 9 The Third Week in Lent

Photo by Susan Hoaglund.

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Saturday, March 9 The Third Week in Lent READ Luke 18:9–14 REFLECT Jesus told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous and regarded others with contempt.

—Luke 18:9 There are two players in this story; the Pharisee, who expresses gratitude that he is unlike others, and his foil, the tax collector, a man who stands apart at the temple, acknowledges his sins, and asks for mercy. As is the case in the parable of The Prodigal Son, Luke suggests binaries such as good/bad, righteous/sinful, and me/you. We are quick to judge and often self-righteous, like the Pharisee. However, I am grateful for experiences in my life in which I am forced to confront my assumptions about people whom I had labeled “them.” Last year at this time, I was on a pilgrimage in the Holy Land with a group from St. David’s. In addition to the awesome spiritual experiences we had, I was very moved by the stories told by Palestinian Christians, which contributed to a new understanding of the geopolitical situation in Israel.

In the book “Short Stories by Jesus,” Amy Jill Levine concludes her chapter on this parable with the thought-provoking question, “With whom are readers to identify, the Pharisee who does so much more than is expected, and perhaps is a bit self-satisfied in the process, or the tax collector, who, as far as we know has done nothing for the benefit of the community, but who at least seems sincere in his request?” God’s generous grace is available to all, which is the message of the cross, but unsettling to many of us.

PRAY O God, you know us to be set in the midst of so many and great dangers, that by reason of the frailty of our nature we cannot always stand upright: Grant us such strength and protection as may support us in all dangers, and carry us through all temptations; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Susan Hoaglund is an educator by trade and enjoys taking part in Education for Ministry (EfM) and other small groups online from her home in Rhode Island.

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S u n d a y , M a r c h 10 The Fourth Sunday in Lent

Painting by Bud Billups.

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S u n d a y , M a r c h 10 The Fourth Sunday in Lent READ Ephesians 2:1-10 REFLECT About a year ago, I saw a photograph that I immediately decided I wanted to paint, so I did. I remember thinking that it was one of the most spiritual pictures I had ever seen. It felt to me as though it was showing God’s power in the world. The more I looked at it, the more it spoke to me of the ways God works with us and shows himself to us in our daily lives. The dark and disruptive clouds that were pictured were suddenly and unexpectedly opened into brightness, light, and color by a jolt of sunlight forcing its way through the darkness.

While many of the words in the readings for today speak strongly about those who have not followed God and do not believe in Jesus, this painting to me gives a focus to the power and the love that God offers to us in our lives. As is stated in the early words of the Gospel of John, referring to God and Jesus, “The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it” (John 1:5).

PRAY Gracious Father, whose blessed Son Jesus Christ came down from heaven to be the true bread which gives life to the world: Evermore give us this bread, that he may live in us, and we in him; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Bud Billups and his late wife, Bee, have been St. David’s parishioners for 20 years beginning in 1971. They worked in the early to mid-70s with Bill Wood on the youth group and were later involved in outreach activities, particularly in Uganda. Bud was on the vestry and Bee became a priest with the sponsorship of St. David’s. Since returning to St. David’s in 2018, Bud has worked with the church’s outreach to Cuba and is in his first year of Education for Ministry (EfM).

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M o n d a y , M a r c h 11 The Fourth Week in Lent READ Isaiah 65:17–25; Psalm 30:1–6,11–13 REFLECT As I get older, I find I have the privilege of looking back and seeing patterns in my life. So often I just start down a road not really knowing where it will end or if it will be a continuous road to travel. As I look back, I can express with Isaiah that I was led on my many roads of life. God was always ahead of me, leading, showing, and hearing my wishes. Thus, I can joyfully sing with the Psalm and give thanks forever.

Thank you, God, for leading me, for keeping me safe on so many foreign roads, and for expanding my life with all the people I now call family.

PRAY O Lord our God, in your holy Sacraments you have given us a foretaste of the good things of your kingdom: Direct us, we pray, in the way that leads to eternal life, that we may come to appear before you in that place of light where you dwell for ever with your saints; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

St. David’s became Nereida Gordon and her family’s spiritual home in 1986 when they arrived here on Christmas Eve. Living one mile up the road, she had the fun of housing many visitors to our church. Outreach, especially international, filled them with many blessings that led to many trips. This all developed into The Gift Shop & Art Gallery at St. David’s and World Gifts.

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T u e s d a y , M a r c h 12 The Fourth Week in Lent READ Ezekiel 47:1–9,12; John 5:1–18 REFLECT In this reading from Ezekiel, we get a beautiful vision of spiritual renewal, divine abundance, and the transformative power of God’s presence. At the outset, the river flowing from the temple, gradually deepening, and bringing life to the surrounding land serves as a powerful metaphor for the divine source of life and purification.

The river represents a continuous flow of God’s grace, bringing vitality and renewal to the desolate and arid landscape.

The imagery within these verses carries rich symbolism, the fact that the river originates from the temple is pivotal. The temple is a sacred space representing the dwelling place of God. The river, therefore, emerges from the very heart of divine presence.

The gradual deepening of the river unfolds as a metaphor for the progressive revelation and deepening connection between humanity and the divine. This dynamic implies a spiritual journey, aligning with the biblical narrative of God’s unfolding plan of redemption. The river, in its increasing profundity, mirrors the stages of spiritual growth, emphasizing that the understanding of God’s grace is not a static experience but one that evolves over time.

The imagery of trees bearing fruit along the riverbanks reminds us of biblical themes such as the Tree of Life. The trees stand as symbols of spiritual nourishment.

The healing properties ascribed to the water are also significant. In biblical symbolism, water often carries connotations of purification and renewal. Here, the healing aspect extends beyond physical ailments, pointing towards broader spiritual healing. The river becomes a conduit for God’s transformative and redemptive work, capable of restoring both the land and its inhabitants.

The portrayal of the land transforming from a desolate desert to a fertile and vibrant landscape is a powerful symbol of divine intervention. It shows the transformative power of God’s presence, turning barrenness into flourishing abundance.

Finally, we see in this the symbol of Jesus as the water of life. In a conversation with the Samaritan woman at the well, Jesus declares, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again, but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. continues...

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T u e s d a y , M a r c h 12 The Fourth Week in Lent ...continued Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life” (John 4:13-14). Again, during the Feast of Tabernacles, Jesus stands and cries out, “If anyone is thirsty, let him come to me and drink. Whoever believes in me, as Scripture has said, rivers of living water will flow from within them” (John 7:37-39).

The continuity between Ezekiel’s vision and Jesus’ teachings reinforces the biblical narrative of God’s redemptive plan culminating in Christ. It asks us believers to contemplate the profound depths of spiritual experience, acknowledging that the source of life and renewal flows from the very heart of the divine.

PRAY O God, with you is the well of life, and in your light, we see light: Quench our thirst with living water, and flood our darkened minds with heavenly light; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Father of four and the tenth of eleven children, Vincent Dixon was born in Kilkenny, Ireland.

Vincent studied science in Dublin and then Paris. While living in Paris he fell in love with photography and almost forty years later it is still his passion. Vincent joined St. David’s in 2012 when he moved to Radnor with his family. He is currently on the outreach commission and supports the Cecil & Grace Bean soup kitchen at St. John’s Church in Norristown as well as being on the board of Stand With Iraqi Christians. Alongside Jane Cannon he leads a Tuesday evening Bible study for (and led by) beginners. They are currently finishing up the book of Exodus, which Bob Marley aptly describes as the Movement of God’s People.

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W e d n e s d a y , M a r c h 13 The Fourth Week in Lent READ Isaiah 49:8–15 REFLECT Yet I will not forget you.

—Isaiah 49:15 One of our deepest human longings is to be remembered. When we are infants and have not yet acquired object permanence, if our mothers went into the kitchen, they were gone from us. Then, around 18 months of age, we realized that our mothers never left us, that they simply went into the kitchen and would return.

God is assuring us, using the image of a mother, that even if our own mother were to forget us, God never will. God uses this image because throughout our lives it is one of the strongest bonds of love that we will ever experience, that of the mother, the woman who loved us before she even knew us. As unlikely as it is that a mother would leave her baby, it is impossible for God to leave us. We are God’s created and beloved sons and daughters. God is so in love with us that he is with us even when we forget him, push him away, and live in the sins of our lives. God still waits, watches, and reaches out for us to come home. While we cannot see God with our eyes, God’s permanence is found in our soul.

This Lent, spend some quiet time each day listening for the stirrings in your soul, for it is there that you will find the God who will never let go of or forget you.

PRAY O Lord our God, you sustained your ancient people in the wilderness with bread from heaven: Feed now your pilgrim flock with the food that endures to everlasting life; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Julie Wiant is the parish administrator at St. David’s. When not at work, you can find her in her garden with a grandchild, a dog, a book, or all three!

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T h u r s d a y , M a r c h 14 The Fourth Week in Lent READ John 5:30–47 REFLECT I have been asked to write for this devotional at least half a dozen times, and I always declined. I never understood why anyone would be interested in what I had to say.

Did I even have anything to say? My faith journey, like many others, is very personal and very private. What could I share with others that would have meaning to them?

Still believing that I had nothing to share, I finally accepted the offer this year, succumbing to the pressure people feel when asked by people that they think well of, to do something that feels a little bit like an honor. I did this because someone else believed I could.

This scripture is about doubt. It’s about disbelief. It’s about not trusting. And yet it is about trust, hope, and belief. We all struggle with ALL these things. It’s hard to believe, especially in yourself. To know you have the strength to accomplish a task or a goal, especially if it is something you have never done. Doubt creeps in and can make one’s own actions counterproductive for success. And the journey gets harder.

I believe that the Holy Spirit works when you do. It’s an active thing, not a passive one for me. For some, sitting still makes the message clearer. For me, moving, thinking, talking, and acting are what make the message come into focus. The path is individual, but the journey is similar; we all need to listen in order to hear, to believe. It is easier to believe in others than it is to believe in yourself, we are our own harshest critics, and that doubt can lead to seeing yourself in less than a flattering light, blocking out the love God has for all of us. Believe in yourself, see yourself as others do, and open your heart to the full love of God. It’s hard, I struggle with this, too, but take time to listen and to lean into the message. You are loved. Believe.

PRAY Almighty and most merciful God, drive from us all weakness of body, mind, and spirit; that, being restored to wholeness, we may with free hearts become what you intend us to be and accomplish what you want us to do; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Alison Hastings serves as the junior warden on the vestry and is an active member of the outreach, fellowship, and finance committees.

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F r i d a y , M a r c h 15 The Fourth Week in Lent READ Wisdom 2:1a,12–24 REFLECT I grew up in the heyday of the Disney animated musical, and my favorite was 1991’s “Beauty and The Beast.” While it is best known as a love story, it is the story of the townspeople and the fate of Gaston that have stuck with me. I have repeatedly come back to thinking about the “Mob Song,” especially the lyrics, “...we don’t like what we don’t understand, in fact, it scares us.”

That line rang in my ears as I read today’s Wisdom lesson. Those who “reasoned unsoundly” are angry, afraid, and perhaps also ashamed, of themselves. The “righteous man” has disrupted their sense of self and the world, and they have no interest in understanding. Rather, they say that “the very sight of him is a burden to us…and his ways are strange” (Wisdom 2:15).

Jesus was also seen as strange. How he lived his life, what he believed, who he spent time with, and what he said were (and are still) disruptive to the status quo. Then, as now, there were those who, rather than seeking to understand, instead chose to condemn. The part that seems saddest is how those who cling to their fear and hate end up hurting themselves. In the film, Gaston insisted on stabbing Beast, which caused him to lose his balance and fall from the castle roof. This is an extreme example of the harm to oneself from clinging to fear and hate, but our separation from God is also a serious matter. From scripture, we know we’re all offered a chance to accept or reject God’s love, as shown through Christ’s way of living in right relationship with one another. May we each ponder that this season, put aside our fears and judgements, and follow the way that leads to life.

PRAY O God, you have given us the Good News of your abounding love in your Son Jesus Christ: So fill our hearts with thankfulness that we may rejoice to proclaim the good tidings we have received; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Natalee Hill has been the director of communications at St. David’s since 2021. She recently completed her term as board chair of Episcopal Communicators. She is a member at Trinity Episcopal in Swarthmore where she sings and has taught children’s formation. Natalee is married with two children.

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S a t u r d a y , M a r c h 16 The Fourth Week in Lent READ John 7:37–52 REFLECT In reading the Gospel of John, Jesus is answering the world’s thirst. At the festival he offers an invitation, and the invitation is an open one. Jesus invites anyone who is thirsty to come to him, and anyone who believes in him to drink. We are reminded of how beautiful this invitation is. The believers who seek life with God, they drink, and they receive “rivers of living water” meaning the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit is what lives within us to help us on this earthly pilgrimage. The Holy Spirit is as vital to us as water itself. We need to believe to be God’s people. We need to believe to have everlasting life. How amazing is it that in a divided crowd, no one laid a hand on Jesus, his hour had not yet come. Jesus knew where he came from and knew where he was going. As humans, we often lose track of this fact. The fact is that as a child of God, we know where we came from, and we know where we are going. Believe and you will never be thirsty. Believe and you will never be alone.

PRAY Mercifully hear our prayers, O Lord, and spare all those who confess their sins to you; that those whose consciences are accused by sin may by your merciful pardon be absolved; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Heather Sill, worship administrative assistant, has been a member of St. David’s staff for just over five years. Heather lives in Upper Chichester, PA with her husband, her son, and a variety of pets.

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S u n d a y , M a r c h 17 T h e F if t h S u n d a y i n L e n t READ John 12:20-33 REFLECT As I read the passage from John, I was struck by the paradoxical verse “unless a grain of wheat falls into the earth and dies, it remains just a single grain; but if it dies, it bears much fruit” (John 12:24). This is Jesus’s reference to himself and foreshadows his life, death, and ongoing life through us. The next passage references our lives as his disciples: “Those who love their life lose it, and those who hate their life in this world will keep it for eternal life” (John 12:25). To me, this passage is a call to live a life in which we entrust ourselves to the revelation of God and become children of the light. It does not mean we are called to hate our lives, but rather to live a life that focuses on the needs of others in addition to our own and fosters a community of love.

One of my favorite choral anthems, “Prayer” by Rene Clausen uses the text of a prayer by Mother Teresa. This text emphasizes our call to be a community of love (use the QR code at right to listen to a recording): Dear Jesus, help us to spread your fragrance everywhere we go.

Flood our souls with your spirit and life. Penetrate and possess our whole being so utterly, that our lives may only be a radiance of yours. Shine through us, and be so in us, that every person we should come in contact with may feel your presence in our soul. Let them look up and see no longer us, but only Jesus. Stay with us, and then we shall begin to shine as you shine; so to shine as to be a light to others; the light, Jesus, will be all from you. None of it will be ours. It will be you shining on others through us.

Let us thus praise you in the way you love best, by shining on those around us.

PRAY Almighty God, you alone can bring into order the unruly wills and affections of sinners: Grant your people grace to love what you command and desire what you promise; that, among the swift and varied changes of the world, our hearts may surely there be fixed where true joys are to be found; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever.

Amen.

Elaine Sonnenberg Whitelock has been associate director of music at St. David’s Episcopal Church for 12 years. She resides in Malvern, PA with her husband, Shawn, and daughter, Evelyn.

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M o n d a y , M a r c h 18 T h e F if t h W e e k i n L e n t READ John 8:1–20 REFLECT I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness but will have the light of life.

—John 8:12 Have you ever been wrongly accused of doing something you did not do, and your only defense was your word against the word of another? Do you remember how it felt? How you reacted? Who held the power? Who you turned to?

I remember an incident when I was in sixth grade that still haunts me. It was during a pop quiz that our teacher, Mr. M, accused me of copying answers off Freddy H’s paper. I remember how upset I felt by this accusation. I took cheating very seriously.

I covered my answers with my hand and kept my head down and my focus fixed on my own test paper. How could Mr. M question my integrity? Why did he think I was the guilty one? I felt betrayed, hurt, angry, and embarrassed in front of my classmates. This may serve as a very elementary example, but I remember how it made me feel.

I try to imagine how this woman must have felt as she was led to her execution. The terror she must have felt in her heart, her blood running cold, the disorientation, disbelief, loneliness, and anger she must have felt. We know little about this woman.

We do not know if she is guilty of adultery. The crowd may merely be using her as a pawn in this challenge. Jesus refuses to condemn her and sends her on her way to sin no more. God’s mercy is great!

God knows I did not cheat on that test. God also knows when I’ve strayed from the light, like that time I let my brother take the fall for something I had done. I know who to turn to in my darkest hours as I continue to strive to live into the light of the one who knows me best. There is no greater love than this.

PRAY Be gracious to your people, we entreat you, O Lord, that they, repenting day by day of the things that displease you, may be more and more filled with love of you and of your commandments; and, being supported by your grace in this life, may come to the full enjoyment of eternal life in your everlasting kingdom; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Sharon Downs has been a member of St. David’s since 2013. She volunteers in the Gift Shop, with the altar guild, and on Stephen Ministry. She is married and lives in Wayne.

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T u e s d a y , M a r c h 19 T h e F if t h W e e k i n L e n t READ Luke 2:41-52 REFLECT Child, why have you treated us like this? Look, your father and I have been searching for you in great anxiety.

—Luke 2:48 I’m afraid my own response would not have been so gentle! When I reviewed the readings for today, this story of Jesus at age 12 really spoke to me. First, I was struck by how much different Jesus’ life was from many children today. He clearly had freedom and agency to be away from his parents, unsupervised for extended periods, and was at least somewhat free from ‘over-programming’. Second, I was struck by Mary and Joseph – imagine being in a group of people you so trusted that you didn’t worry if your young son did not check in for a whole day while on a long journey! Finally, I am struck by Mary’s words. She must have been frantic after three days of searching. I’m somewhat relieved that it seems she was at least a little angry with her son – it makes it possible to see my own likely reaction in hers.

Jesus was just doing his thing, oblivious to their concern and honestly baffled that they did not know where he would have been. We have almost no exposure to Jesus as a child so it’s heartening to know that he was likely a precocious kid who sometimes gave his parents a heart attack.

I think we all strive to have our children grow up with the freedom to find their way, “increasing in wisdom” as Jesus did. Engaging with adults, learning, listening, asking questions, and even amazing those around them with their understanding, whatever their interests might be. I hope this for all of us, the courage to give ourselves and our children that kind of space, but it’s not easy in our day.

PRAY Lord, please help us to have the patience and understanding of Mary and Joseph.

And help us to try and find the space, trust, and community to give ourselves and our own children the space that Jesus, Mary, and Joseph had to engage and grow.

Thank you that for so many of us St. David’s is that community. Amen.

Danielle Francis and her family have been part of the St. David’s family since moving to the area in 2001. Danielle’s three children took part in youth group, choir, and mission trips and were her main tie to the church. Since the pandemic, she has gotten involved more directly herself in Bible study and the Fair. Danielle, her husband, kids, three dogs, and two bee hives live in Wayne.

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W e d n e s d a y , M a r c h 20 T h e F if t h W e e k i n L e n t READ John 8:31–42 REFLECT Why is it so hard to lead a Christ-like life? Why do we make wrong decisions when right decisions can seem obvious? These are the questions I started asking myself as I read this passage. In John’s Gospel, we find Jesus in a back-and-forth discussion, trying to convey to the people that although they may be the Children of Abraham (i.e., God’s chosen people), that does not give them a free pass into God’s kingdom.

God created us with the freedom to make choices and reason. We have free will and it’s easy to misuse the freedoms we are given. We are bombarded by distraction and temptation, which leads to disharmony with friends, our Earth, and ourselves.

It is human nature to make decisions that are self-interested or that take the easy path. God’s covenant with Abraham did promise that the Jews would be his people, but it also required his people to be faithful, show mercy and love, to walk humbly, which is what Jesus is trying to remind them in this passage. Jesus is right, we are sinners, and we must strive to keep Jesus and God’s word at the forefront of how we lead our lives. We don’t get a free pass. We must do the work, God’s work. During this season of Lent, my hope is that we are reminded to put Jesus at the center. Let him guide us in our daily decisions in a way that lets us know him better. A way that emulates him and his love for all people. After all, he is the light of the world, so let’s follow his lead.

PRAY Almighty God our heavenly Father, renew in us the gifts of your mercy; increase our faith, strengthen our hope, enlighten our understanding, widen our charity, and make us ready to serve you; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Erin Addy is a wife to Jonathan, a mother to her pride and joy, Emmerson (8), and a preschool teacher. They reside in Devon. Raised a Presbyterian, Erin and her family are new to the Episcopal faith with this February marking one year of attending St. David’s. She looks forward to joining more women’s fellowship activities this year.

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T h u r s d a y , M a r c h 21 T h e F if t h W e e k i n L e n t READ Psalm 105:4–11 REFLECT After reading Psalm 105, I am reminded that seeing God is a matter of paying attention to the details. Have you ever heard the saying, “Happiness is not one big thing. It’s all the little things put together”? Our God is a wonderful God who looks out for us throughout time. His covenants to Abraham, Jacob, Joseph, etc. have all been kept for a thousand generations.

When I pray to God, I confess that I am weak and need his strength. I need his help and guidance. God has performed wonderful acts and miracles since the beginning of time. We need to be reminded because we are forgetful people. I personally forget what he has done for me, and I need to be reminded and respond with gratitude.

PRAY O God, you have called us to be your children, and have promised that those who suffer with Christ will be heirs with him of your glory: Arm us with such trust in him that we may ask no rest from his demands and have no fear in his service; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Maria Leal is a wife and a mom of two adult children, Robert and Marla. She has served as director of children’s ministry at St. David’s Episcopal Church for 13 years. It is a joy for her to serve at St. David’s and see many of the children she has taught grow up into young adults.

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F r i d a y , M a r c h 22 T h e F if t h W e e k i n L e n t READ Psalm 18:1–7; John 10:31-42 REFLECT Call, calling, being called. We participate in the activity of calling every day. We call people on the phone, we call people our family, friends, and neighbors. Jeremiah is praising God. Jeremiah shows his faith and trust in God. Although Jeremiah verbalizes that his belief can be persecuting and isolating and, at times, even evoke despair, he shows through his words that his faithfulness to the call of God builds trust and hope and brings strength to him and God’s followers.

During this Lenten season may you be called to God and trust in the goodness, hope, and blessings that God provides.

The Psalmist also calls out to God, praises God, and demonstrates many ways in which God is worthy of praise. It shows how God can be called on for protection and help.

During this Lenten season may you hear your calling from God and use your voice to call out to God in praise, thanksgiving, and prayer.

In John’s Gospel, Jesus calls out to the ones who are picking up stones to stone him.

They were calling out to Jesus for blasphemy because of being human but making himself God. Jesus is called to say to them, “If I am not doing the works of my Father, then do not believe me. But if I do them, even though you do not believe me, believe the works, so that you may know and understand that the Father is in me and I am in the Father” (John 10:37-38).

This Lenten season, do the works of the Father so that you can know God in Jesus Christ and, through your actions, make Christ known to others.

PRAY O Lord, you relieve our necessity out of the abundance of your great riches: Grant that we may accept with joy the salvation you bestow, and manifest it to all the world by the quality of our lives; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

Leslie Lewis has been an active member of St. David’s for nineteen years. She is a current vestry member and is passionate about outreach to our local and international partners. She is the mother of Hayden and Owen, and wife to Todd.

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S a t u r d a y , M a r c h 23 T h e F if t h W e e k i n L e n t READ Psalm 85:1–7 REFLECT In Lent, we often think of fasting and sacrificing. I am wondering why we would be preparing for Holy Baptism if we have already been baptized.

Baptism is an outward sign of an inward change in a believer’s life. During the baptismal service, we are asked to affirm our belief in God the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

How appropriate to be in Lent and once again explore the invitation to reflect, repent, and renew our faith focusing on God’s unconditional love and unmerited favor when we open our hearts. Personally, and in community at St. David’s, we are on a mission to know God in Jesus Christ and to make Christ known to others. It is through baptism that we are freed from sin and reborn as children of God. Our hearts and lives are changed through the grace of God. It is this unexplainable amazement, the awe that for me results in “the Peace of God that passes all understanding. Keep your hearts and minds in the love and knowledge of His son, our Savior, Jesus Christ” (Philippians 4:7 and the Book of Common Prayer).

My prayer for us: Dear Lord, grant us peace and open our hearts to hear and experience your infinite love and grace as we spend purposeful time with you this Lenten season. Amen.

PRAY O Lord, in your goodness you bestow abundant graces on your elect: Look with favor, we entreat you, upon those who in these Lenten days are being prepared for Holy Baptism, and grant them the help of your protection; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

A retired investment professional, Debbie Geffken has been a member of St. David’s for 15 years. She is currently involved with the arboretum, property, Bible study, adult formation, and women’s fellowship. Debbie resides in Haverford and has two adult children, Currie, in San Francisco, and Andrew, with wife, Katie, and daughter, Genevieve, in DC.

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S u n d a y , M a r c h 24 Palm Sunday READ Philippians 2:5-11 REFLECT Lent is my favorite time of the church year because Holy Week has so many Jesus stories. Jesus’ last twenty-four hours, ending on the cross, have forty-four stories which are almost miracles to me. My ancestors were from Zurich, Switzerland and spelled their name Graf. The only Graf hymn in The Lutheran Hymnal is from Simon Graf in 1603. Its title is “For Me to Live is Jesus.” Thank you, Jesus, for your finished work on the cross! I hope you enjoy this poetry.

For me to live is Jesus, To die is gain for me; Then when-so-e’er He pleases, I meet death willingly.

In that last hour, oh, grant me To slumber soft and still, No doubts to vex or haunt me, Safe anchored on Thy will;

For Christ, my Lord and Brother, I leave this world so dim And gladly seek that other, Where I shall be with Him.

And so to Thee still cleaving Through all death’s agony, To fall asleep believing And wake in heaven with Thee.

My woes are nearly over, Tho’ long and dark the road; My sin His merits cover, And I have peace with God. PRAY Almighty and everliving God, in your tender love for the human race you sent your Son our Savior Jesus Christ to take upon him our nature, and to suffer death upon the cross, giving us the example of his great humility: Mercifully grant that we may walk in the way of his suffering, and also share in his resurrection; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

Sandy Groff is a member of several Bible studies and is active in men’s fellowship. When not preaching and teaching on his local radio show, Sandy is a doting grandfather and enthusiastic supporter of the 9:30 a.m. Family Service.

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M o n d a y , M a r c h 25 Monday in Holy Week READ John 12:1-11 REFLECT Six days before the Passover Jesus came to Bethany, the home of Lazarus, whom he had raised from the dead. There they gave a dinner for him. Martha served, and Lazarus was one of those at the table with him. Mary took a pound of costly perfume made of pure nard, anointed Jesus’ feet, and wiped them with her hair.

The house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.

—John 12:1-3 It is March 25, which means that you have exactly nine months to get your Christmas shopping done! Today is traditionally observed as the Feast of the Annunciation, celebrating the day that the angel shared God’s plan, and Mary agreed that she would carry salvation and bring Jesus into the world. Because the date of Easter moves around with the phases of the moon, we are beginning Holy Week on this date this year, so we push off the celebration of Annunciation to April 8. Today, we begin our contemplation of the last days of Jesus’ life on earth with a peek at a dinner party.

Jesus knew why he was returning to Jerusalem. We would understand if he entered the city quietly and allowed the sorrowful end to his ministry unfold quietly. But no, he took time to have dinner with his friends. He let them be themselves— Lazarus sharing conversation, Martha in charge of the party, and Mary caring for him with an honest and generous outpouring that presages his death.

On this March 25, 2024, I thank God for Mary, the mother of Jesus, who brought God so close to us on earth. And I thank God for Mary of Bethany, who reminds me to be honest and extravagant in my love of God. PRAY Almighty God, whose most dear Son went not up to joy but first he suffered pain, and entered not into glory before he was crucified: Mercifully grant that we, walking in the way of the cross, may find it none other than the way of life and peace; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Rev. Nancy Webb Stroud is retired from full-time ministry but enjoys spending Sundays either at St. David’s or with her delightful grandsons, Harry and Gus. 49

T u e s d a y , M a r c h 26 Tuesday in Holy Week READ 1 Corinthians 1:18-31 REFLECT An instrument of death . . . our glory.

For the first three centuries of its existence, the church was under fierce persecution.

Thousands of Christians were murdered. In its hidden worship spaces, the church created art which did not depict the cross of Christ, the instrument of horrible death. Instead, they focused their devotion on Jesus, the Good Shepherd, or Jesus with children. When they considered the passion of Jesus, they painted an empty tomb. Experiencing the deaths of so many left them unable to ponder the cross.

It is interesting then that we may have lost the meaning of the cross today. We wear beautiful cross-shaped jewelry or have ornate crosses in our worship spaces, belying the absolute scandal of the cross. Yet if we focus all our attention on the suffering on the cross only, we may be completely undone.

Better to know that the cross of Christ is a portal into the larger reality of the whole Christ event. The cross marks a point in time that is surrounded by eternity-past and eternity-to come. It signifies the moment when our Good Shepherd gives his life for his people and defeating death forever. He lived the life of God: love for all creation. We, through self-interest and lust for power and wealth, crucified the King of Glory. He willingly bore our evil to destroy their power over us.

The cross was not an end, but created a radical new reality that stretches on through eternity. This reality, characterized by mercy, compassion, justice, and inclusiveness, is made possible through the risen Lord and the Holy Spirit working through people who love God, to transform the world in each generation.

The cross is essential to life with God because it stands as a door separating the old patterns of exploitation and the new realities of resurrection life. This Christ life holds open to us the true way to joy, hope, and meaning. The cross . . . our glory.

PRAY O God, by the passion of your blessed Son you made an instrument of shameful death to be for us the means of life: Grant us so to glory in the cross of Christ, that we may gladly suffer shame and loss for the sake of your Son our Savior Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Rev. Dr. Peter Stube is a priest associate at St. David’s. A priest of forty-four years, he served parishes in Montana, Oklahoma, Atlanta, Pennsylvania, and North Carolina.

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W e d n e s d a y , M a r c h 27 Wednesday in Holy Week READ Hebrews 12:1-3 REFLECT Here we are in the middle of Holy Week. One day away from the sacred Triduum of Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, and Holy Saturday. Hopefully, we have used the season of Lent for some self-reflection and time working on our relationships with God. Some of us may have spent time in prayer or reading holy scripture, or maybe you decided to partake in a new ministry at St. David’s. My prayer is that all of us grew a little closer to God. I hope and pray that we were able to let go of some of the things in life that weighed us down, the things we have done and left undone.

In our passage from Hebrews today, we are reminded of the God we follow. We follow a God who took on human form in Jesus and endured great suffering on his way to death on a cross. Jesus knows what human suffering is like. He knows what it means to be confronted by evil and sin. Our passage from Hebrews says, “Consider him who endured such hostility against himself from sinners, so that you may not grow weary or lose heart” (Hebrews 12:3). We can put our struggles and our sin onto Jesus. He can handle it, I promise you. It will only enhance our relationship with the one who loves us the most when we are open and honest about the things that weigh us down and separate us from his love.

PRAY Lord God, whose blessed Son our Savior gave his body to be whipped and his face to be spit upon: Give us grace to accept joyfully the sufferings of the present time, confident of the glory that shall be revealed; through Jesus Christ your Son our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Rev. Thomas Szczerba, Jr. is an associate rector at St. David’s, supporting fellowship and outreach. Thomas and his wife, Marissa, are expecting their first child in early April 2024.

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T h u r s d a y , M a r c h 28 Maundy Thursday READ John 13:1-17, 31b-35 REFLECT I recently attended a party thrown by a new friend. When I arrived at the door, she informed me that it was a “shoeless” house and that I needed to leave my boots by the door. On a superficial level, this news made me cranky because I had taken extra care to select a new pair of boots for the occasion, but on another level, I remember wanting to turn around and reconsider coming in. Something about being in my stocking feet with strangers created a sense of unexpected anxiety in me. Reluctantly, I took the boots off and headed into the party. I felt strangely naked and inelegant.

I thought of that moment when reading the Maundy Thursday account in the Gospel of John. Jesus placed himself in the posture of servant and at the same time placed the disciples in the uncomfortable place of vulnerability. The exchange between Peter and Jesus feels familiar to me. So often I sense the presence of Jesus moving in one direction and I want something more… or something different. Peter was clearly uncomfortable with the act of Jesus silently washing his feet. Once Peter understood that Jesus’ act was speaking of a greater sense of Jesus’ servanthood, he wanted more. Peter wanted Jesus to wash his head and his hands too. He was trying to show Jesus that he was “all in” (even if it was misguided).

In all the discomfort and confusion of the moment, Jesus spoke one clear message – “I give you a new commandment, that you love one another just as I have loved you” (John 13:34). A life of faith can place us in vulnerable spaces that can leave us feeling “naked” before Jesus and others. Maybe the message for us is the same as it was for Peter. Take off your shoes. Allow Jesus to wash and tend to you. Love others with the same love Jesus has shown. Even when it is uncomfortable.

PRAY Almighty Father, whose dear Son, on the night before he suffered, instituted the Sacrament of his Body and Blood: Mercifully grant that we may receive it thankfully in remembrance of Jesus Christ our Lord, who in these holy mysteries gives us a pledge of eternal life; and who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Rev. Emily Given has served at St. David’s for two-and-a-half years as the director of Christian formation. She is a mother of two creative humans and one strong-willed corgi mix. Emily is a mixed media artist who loves spending time in her garden She was recently ordained as a transitional deacon and is doing her best to remind people of their belovedness.

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F r i d a y , M a r c h 29 Good Friday READ John 18:1-19:42; Psalm 22 REFLECT Were you there…?

“Would you have been there?” I ask myself this question every Good Friday. Would I have stayed at the foot of the cross, waiting for Jesus, my friend and teacher, to die? Listening to his cries? Watching him suffering excruciating pain? Would I have possessed the audacity to show up? Would I stand in solidarity with Mary Magdalene and Mary the Mother of Jesus? Or would I run away as did the other disciples?

Sometimes it causes me to tremble…

I don’t know. Some days I feel brave and courageous. Some days I feel strong in my convictions. Some days I feel like an ardent follower of Jesus. And some days I doubt. Some days I feel completely immobilized. Some days I am terrified—so terrified I tremble.

Were you there…?

However, I have come to realize that fear is not the opposite of courage; no. For in moments of resisting the corrupt powers of this world, there is always fear. What matters is how we respond to that fear. What matters is that instead of choosing our own personal comfort, we choose self-sacrificial love. We choose love of another.

We choose love of God’s creation. Time and time again we must choose love. We might be fearful when we do so. We might be trembling when we do so. And as followers of Jesus, who chose love for all of us above his own comfort and safety, are we willing to do the same?

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PRAY Almighty God, we pray you graciously to behold this your family, for whom our Lord Jesus Christ was willing to be betrayed, and given into the hands of sinners, and to suffer death upon the cross; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Rev. Sarah Dunn began her ministry at St. David’s in July 2023 after having served as a rector in Lake Tahoe, Nevada. Every day she is striving to live life abundantly. She finds that abundance foraging in the forest and hiking with her magical mutt, Merlin, preparing her garden for this upcoming growing season, and dancing around her home while her partner jams on the piano.

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S a t u r d a y , M a r c h 30 Holy Saturday READ Matthew 27:57-66 REFLECT Command that the tomb be sealed.

—Mark 27:62 How many times in my life have I tried to seal my heart so that I could not get hurt?

How many times have I sealed my mind as I tried to say no to Christ? Yet Jesus steps through the barriers that we put up and stands next to us waiting to catch us, to comfort us, to show us love. This year I lost my mom. She suffered for a long time with her health and because of her dementia, I really lost her a few years ago. God was preparing me to be a friend who walks with people with similar issues in their families, either on pastoral calls or in my chaplaincy work. I knew God provided skills as needed, but I thought I was at the end of my time to learn and build on my skill set. Another barrier I put up that Christ walked right through.

It seems lately I have been sharing that God is still making changes in my life and that my job is not done. As I walked through my mom’s end of life, I realized I could help others with their loved one’s end-of-life journeys.

Jesus found a way to love us, and give us life ever after, so that we might find the path to salvation.

PRAY O God, Creator of heaven and earth: Grant that, as the crucified body of your dear Son was laid in the tomb and rested on this holy Sabbath, so we may await with him the coming of the third day, and rise with him to newness of life; who now lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.

The Rev. Ken McCaslin, deacon, had a 35+ year career in healthcare information technology, specializing in healthcare interoperability and standards. Recently Ken served as co-chair of the diocesan nominations committee and the commission on ministry. His passions are mentoring, pastoral care, and chaplaincy. Ken was a chaplain at Paoli Hospital.

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S u n d a y , M a r c h 31 Easter Day: The Feast of the Resurrection of Our Lord READ John 20:1-18 REFLECT John’s Gospel gives us a heartwarming account of the first Easter. As Mary shared her confusion, grief, and desperation at the tomb supplied by Joseph of Arimathea, she is reassured by a “stranger.” She shares her anxiety simply because she has no choice. He is the one before her. Suddenly two truths become clear to her. (1) She is standing before Jesus… and suddenly (2) the risen Jesus himself has assigned her the responsibility of spreading the Good News of Easter to his disciples.

These revelations changed her life – and ours – forevermore. Mary becomes the first spreader of the Gospel. Those men to whom she is now to report the Good News will realize that she is the first and living witness to the resurrection.

As glorious and joyful as Easter may be for each of us this year, we have just learned something important about the first Easter. It was experienced then in confusion.

The Easter that we have just read about was strange, startling, and unexpected. At times in our lives, we experience all these feelings… but like Mary, we must keep going.

Let us now, on this holy day, remember something important. At times of our anxiety and confusion, even perhaps before this Easter day is over for us, we may experience what Mary experienced on the first Easter. That time of mystery and confusion was to become the very day of our exciting and saving faith for humanity.

Yet … behind the dim unknown, standeth God within the shadow, keeping watch above his own.

(James Russell Lowell) PRAY Almighty God, who through your only-begotten Son Jesus Christ overcame death and opened to us the gate of everlasting life: Grant that we, who celebrate with joy the day of the Lord’s resurrection, may be raised from the death of sin by your lifegiving Spirit; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen.

The Rev. Bill Wood first came to St. David’s in 1972 from St. John’s, Roanoke as associate to Rector, Dick Hess. In 1978, he became rector of Trinity, Solebury, and in 1991 rector of St. Christopher’s, Gladwyne. For the past decade of retirement, he again served here with Frank Allen in the role of priest associate.

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