Stonnington Boroondara Kids Summer 2021

SUMMER 2021-22

An annual pass to

LUNA PARK

Camberwell mum’s epic

PANDEMIC PREGNANCY The southeast’s

BEST SLIDES www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au

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We’re ready for summer HELLO!

must for summer (page 3).

Welcome to the summer edition of Stonnington Boroondara Kids Today.

For most of us, the past couple of years have been pretty crazy. It has certainly been the case for Camberwell mum Radhika Sahu who was in the UK during the height of the pandemic when she fell pregnant. Desperate to get back to Melbourne, Radhika and her husband Utkarsh had numerous flights cancelled and only managed to make it back to just before she was no longer able to fly.

How awesome is it that summer is here? After spending months at home and with the weather warming up, it’s time to dust off the cobwebs and get out and about!

If you’ve got young kids the playground is often a go-to - it is a free activity that tires the little ones out! This edition features a list of the best slides in Melbourne’s southeast, including Stonnington and Boroondara. So slide into summer and work your way through the list (pages 6-8) over the holidays! You may also want to check out the Yarra Bank Playground in Hawthorn, which has water play - a

We also caught up with Melbourne mum Claire DeStratis who did something truly incredible - she risked dying to save the life of her young son.

Her six-year-old Jake was on life support with only days left to live when she gave him a life-saving partial liver

transplant. It truly is an amazing, heart-warming story.

If you love a giveaway, be sure to check out our summer toy competition.

We’ve teamed up with some great toy brands to give our readers the chance to win some incredible prizes. Entries close on 2 February, so head to our website and get your entries in!

From all of us at Stonnington Boroondara Kids Today, have a merry Christmas and an awesome 2022.

Happy holidays!

Stonnington Boroondara Kids magazine is a Star News Group publication.

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Photography Rob Carew Advertising Clare Vane-Tempest clare.vane-tempest@starnewsgroup. com.au Phone: 5945 0666

IT’S YOUR LIFE

HEALTH

FASHION

Reserve a must for summer PAGE 3

Insights into picky eating

‘Tis the season for bathers and beach days

Changing the way we think about learning PAGE 3 A big change in dads

PAGE 16 Bump, Birth & Bub PAGE 17 How to straighten your teeth

REALITY BITES

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Mum’s amazing act to save her son’s life

PAGE 4 Top things stressing out teens

EDUCATION

We’re having a Covid baby boom

Creating curious global citizens

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Pandemic pregnancy from London to Melbourne

School ready?

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Ready, set go

Slide into summer

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PAGES 6-8

Childcare relief comes early

Great summer toy giveaway

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PAGE 9 Leave barriers

Schools teaching kids how to stay safe online

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One-stop toy shop

NIDA school holiday program open

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Kid friendly patties

A journey of self-discovery

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Really caring for mums

Managing the next steps in their educational journey

Camberwell Junction is buzzing again PAGE 14 Getting back into the swing of things

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Mum’s acne win PAGE 28

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ACTIVE KIDS

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An annual pass to

Activities

LUNA PARK

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PARTY TIME Born to Party

Camberwell mum’s epic

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PANDEMIC PREGNANCY The southeast’s

BEST SLIDES

BOOKS

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A ‘Wandi’ful book for kids

Cover

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Summer fun at Luna Park.

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Children’s books PAGE 30

PAGE 23 How to deal with school refusal PAGE 23

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KIDS CALENDAR What’s on this summer PAGE 31

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Eva tests out the slide.

Eva and Mum Elise having a ball at Hawthorn’s Yarra Bank Reserve.

Pictures: Rob Carew

Reserve a must for summer

By Melissa Meehan

River, and you’d be right.

WHO doesn’t love a playground with a bit of water during summer?

It’s a really big playground (and fenced - woohoo) so the kids can spend hours here.

For my tribe and I it’s almost a must have on those warmer days.

So if you feel the same, look no further than Yarra Bank Reserve in Hawthorn.

You probably guessed from its name it’s located on the banks of the Yarra

Eva hanging out at Yarra Bank Reserve.

It has recently been upgraded, so the play equipment is very new and the water pumping area is a hit with kids of all ages.

And has so many interactive areas, it’s one of our faves.

Be sure to check it out.

Changing the way we think about learning

By Melissa Meehan TEACHERS know that play is integral to a child’s learning.

But if they only free play, opportunities to support their conceptional understanding of the world around them may be missed.

Balwyn author Lili-Ann Kreigler has written a book that aims to change that.

Her book, Edu-Chameleon, draws upon decades of experience working across early education to provide a practical guide on how to engage young minds in the present, whilst paving the way for future learning.

Her inspiration was setting frameworks for teachers confused about the right to learn.

They are told that children have the right to learn through free play but then, on the other hand, that they should be teaching them.

“Instead of saying let them play or let them learn – my book explains seven zones to give them confidence that everything they are doing is right,” Ms Kriegler said.

“They can play and be creative, but at the same time learn what they need to.” www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au

The aim is give educators a sense of clarifying what they already know and giving them a framework.

Ms Kriegler shows how to refine professional knowledge about concept formation to augment the value, purpose and precision of everything you already plan, say and do each day.

From totally free play, along a continuum to direct teaching, different curriculum intentions and methodologies are outlined in the seven zones: ■ Free play ■ Mediated play ■ Embedded concepts ■ Concept clarity ■ Closed-ended mobilsation ■ Open-ended mobilsation ■ Auto-generative creativity “It’s not all about reading and writing at an early age, it’s about what is up and down and side to side or even learning spatial distance,” she said.

“But their oral language is a huge part of that too, which a lot of parents don’t necessarily understand.

“So while my book is for teachers and educators, it might help parents understand that there are a number of ways a child learns through play.”

Edu-Chameleon aims to change the way we look at learning.

She has drawn on her own experience of teaching a wide range of students from toddlers to adults and specialises in early childhood education for children aged three to nine years old.

Lili-Ann Kriegler says there are seven learning zones.

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A big change in our dads Parents have realised that children struggle with their ‘big feelings’.

Parenthood - especially for fathers used to be all about ‘control’.

But a new generation is learning it is really about connection, writes STEVE BIDDULPH SOCIAL media is a great gift, for someone like me who lives on an island and is also quite shy. And now I have stopped my life of touring and doing shows for parents around the world, it can be a warm-hearted connection to folks who read my books. These mums and dads are enthusiasts for parenthood and family who think love matters more than fashion, say, or material possessions or ‘success’.

I’ve avoided Instagram or Twitter, but manage two Facebook communities, one for parents of boys, and one for girls - and they are full of life and heart, they really keep me going. I dip into Facebook cautiously, aware it can be like a bush track which you can easily slip off and go careening down through prickly scrub to a rocky landing!

Often my Facebook feed sends me posts from a rather heart-rending page called Dadventure, where mostly American fathers seek help and emotional support from each other as they struggle with the many challenges of kids’ health, behaviour, as well as marriage strife, and making a living while still being a good dad.

It’s such a window into the world of dads, both heart rending and inspiring in about equal amounts. And there is something very striking that you can’t

miss, a kind of watershed moment happening in fatherhood. The old giving way to the new.

Whenever someone posts a question about kids’ misbehaviour, the old guard are there weighing in with things like ‘kids have to know who is the boss’ and ‘my old man taught us respect with his belt, and it worked for me’. I used to work with those dads when I was a family therapist, as they gradually admitted that, well, in fact they hated their dads for most of their childhoods and were noticing that their kids were starting to hate them too.

There is a whole skip bin full of denial inside a great many men, and they are almost buried under it, but one day they do get out.

But most heartening is the number of commenters who have made a very big fundamental shift to realise that parenthood is not about control. It’s not about dominating kids into behaving well by yelling, threatening, hitting or contriving punishments - at least, not as the first line of defence. It’s been one of the greatest leaps forwards in

parenthood that we have realised that children struggle with their ‘big feelings’ and our job is to help them find a way through the frustrations, negotiations, and griefs and fears which every childhood brings, so they can give space to their emotions but express them in words, and not in actions that might hurt those around them or themselves.

Plenty of adults in our generation knew no other way to express their grief or fear than to punch a hole in the gyprock, or walk out and get drunk, or be abusive or horrible to a partner just trying to help. Plenty of readers will have partners who still struggle to be vulnerable and communicate, instead of merely reacting. So we have to urgently help our kids learn these skills.

When our four-year-old or six-year-old goes into a meltdown or misbehaves terribly it takes incredible grace to not just lose it, or yell at them or go all cold and rejecting, but instead to calm ourselves, really connect with them and reassure them that we love them, and we want to help. But I see this all the

time now in parks and shopping malls, and the homes of young friends and family. A child struggling - and a mum, or dad, crouching down, or sitting with them and talking it through. If they will allow it, holding them close. And seeing that child’s feelings subside, and happiness be restored.

It doesn’t mean mollycoddling kids or giving them everything they want, or letting them call the shots. It’s still okay to say, “I am getting cold and bored now, and I want to go home” when they’ve been almost an hour at a freezing playground! Your feelings count too. But being a parent who is committed to teaching their kids - at the peak of their misbehaviour - that we can all find a way through our feelings, is worth more than gold. Who wouldn’t love to have a parent like that?

Visit Steve on Facebook at Steve Biddulph’s Raising Boys, and Steve Biddulph’s Raising Girls communities.

Steve’s books including Raising Boys, The New Manhood, and Fully Human - are in over a million Australian homes. www.stevebiddulph.com

The top things stressing out Aussie teens SCHOOLWORK is the number one cause of stress and worry among Aussie teens, according to a new report.

felt stressed about their schoolwork and 42 per cent cited it as their biggest worry.

cent), what people think or say about them (31 per cent) and missing out on their goals (24 per cent).

Alarmingly the report also reveals that many don’t talk to anyone when they are struggling.

Other causes of stress included: ■ Feeling anxious about what might happen (41 per cent)

The 2021 MyStrengths Youth Wellbeing Report surveyed nearly 10,000 high school students aged 11-18 years to understand how stress, sleep, social media, and relationships are impacting teen mental health.

■ Self-esteem/feeling low (35 per cent)

The report found that many teens weren’t seeking help - professional or otherwise. One in three students (32 per cent) don’t talk to anyone when they are struggling. Teens who do reach out are more likely to turn to a friend (45 per cent) than a parent.

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■ Friend problems (27 per cent) ■ Family difficulties (27 per cent).

The biggest worries among teens included what they will do in the future (38 per cent), the way they look (34 per

Only per 3 cent of students surveyed

seek support from their teachers at school.

The report also found students who go to bed later are more likely to experience mental health challenges.

The release of the report coincided with the launch of MyStrengths’ Raising Resilience course, a 10-step course designed to turn the tide on teen mental health. The course includes videos and daily challenges for parents to watch with their teens. www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au

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We’re having a Covid baby boom

By Melissa Meehan FERTILITY rates across Australia should drop to an all-time low of 1.59 babies per woman in 2020-21.

But a new report suggests the Covid-19 pandemic may have changed things.

In their paper Covid-19 baby boom, published in the Medical Journal of Australia, obstetric and gynaecology registrar Dr James Brown and clinical microbiologist Dr Len Moaven reviewed the use of the five Medicare item numbers for pregnancy related appointments.

In 2020, the use of those item numbers increased by up to 25 per cent in one month and 9 per cent in another.

The pair believe this reflects a significant change since the pandemic began, considering the usual fluctuation in these billing levels across the years is only around 3 per cent.

They found that the timing of an ‘apparent baby boom’ correlates with the increase in conception starting in late March to early April, during the so-called first wave of Covid-19 in Victoria.

In June Victorian Health Minister Martin Foley, answering questions in parliament over numerous anecdotal reports complied by Greens MP Ellen Sandell that the state’s maternity system was at “breaking point”, said the pressure was due, in part, to soaring birth rates.

“We are in fact at the moment going

through a massive baby boom in Victoria, at record levels, including the Royal Women’s,” Mr Foley said.

Babies born in Victoria boomed over the past year, at an average of 5.7 per cent across the state, but by as much as 50 per cent in some areas.

Those numbers have soared in regional Victoria, which may be due to an influx of Melburnians seeking a sea change or tree-change before starting a family.

Rising house prices could also play a factor.

In July the state government announced additional funding to pay for extra midwives across 38 public health services across Victoria.

“We’re in the middle of a baby Covid

boom here in Victoria... in some areas in particular, we have seen an enormous increase in numbers of babies being born,” he said.

“That has placed huge pressure on our hard-working midwifery staff.”

He said the Western District health service, based in Hamilton, had reported the 51 per cent increase.

Western Health has the highest number of births - a 13 per cent increase.

“We didn’t anticipate this baby boom, because we didn’t really anticipate the global pandemic,” Mr Foley said.

“The two seem to be directly linked.

But we welcome all the Victorian babies, and what we want to make sure is that they get the best care.”

Pandemic pregnancy all the way from London to Melbourne

By Melissa Meehan BEING pregnant during the Covid-19 pandemic and subsequent lockdowns is tough.

But imagine being stranded on the other side of the world, numerous flights cancelled and having only two weeks until you’re no longer legally allowed to fly.

This was a reality for Camberwell mum Radhika Sahu and her husband Utkarsh.

The pair were living in London when Radhika was first pregnant and lived there for seven-and-a-half months of her pregnancy.

It was during the height of the pandemic in the UK – all retail and services were closed.

“It’s safe to say we did a lot of walking, discovering London on foot,” Radhika said.

But while seeing London from a different view was exciting, the reality of the pandemic coming to an end sooner than later seemed like an impossible dream.

It seemed unlikely they would be able to travel home with the new baby or have family come visit.

“Thankfully we had flights booked through my husband’s work, but despite that we had five cancellations before we were able to board a flight home,” she said.

“If we were cancelled once more, I doubt we would have been able to come home. I was two weeks away from not being able to fly while pregnant.”

So the couple flew to Brisbane where they completed their two week quarantine and then to Melbourne. www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au

“There was definitely tears when we landed, we thought thank God we made it,” she said.

From there they had seven weeks to find somewhere to live and buy all of the baby necessities.

Luckily for them, the shops were open during that time.

Baby Aneeka was born on 8 February 2021. Melbourne went into a snap lockdown just one day later.

Thankfully the lockdown only lasted five days, and Radhika and Aneeka were able to connect with other mums and bubs through their local mothers group a few times before the longer lockdown of 2021.

“I have the most amazing mum’s group, I am so thankful for them,” she said.

She said being able to meet face-toface allowed them to bond before they were forced to connect virtually.

And while her pregnancy wasn’t exactly what was expected, being able to live in the same city as her family (pandemic or not) gave Radhika some perspective on the issue.

“We are just so thankful to be back in Melbourne. That was our priority and looking at the bigger picture, I’m just so happy to be in the same city as my family,” she said.

“Sure there are things we would have loved to do, including getting some more travel in or being a little bit more prepared in terms of shopping – but we are just so glad that we got back home.”

Mum Radhika and her daughter Aneeka.

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Slide into summer

The Rocket Playground in Hawthorn.

The windy slide at Phoenix Park in Malvern.

Kids love to slide. They enjoy the thrill of climbing up to the top and sliding down. Summer is a great time to slide - just make sure it isn’t hot beforehand! Here, the KIDS TODAY TEAM explore some of the best slides in Melbourne’s east and southeast.

STONNINGTON AND BOROONDARA Grattan Gardens, Prahran THIS playground may not boast the biggest, scariest slides in town – but it deserves a mention because of its options for the younger kids.

There are three slides all of different heights and steepness which makes it fun for the little ones looking for some big adventure.

There are two separate areas of play and heaps of room for the kids to run around too. And we can’t forget all the wonderful cafes nearby.

Location: Grattan Street, Prahran Phoenix Park, Malvern The brightly coloured slides at this playground really stand out against its beautiful wooden structure. Who doesn’t love a slide that winds around

from top to bottom? Throw in some swings, musical charms, open space and a cafe and it’s hard to go past.

And did we mention it’s fully fenced?

Location: 22 Rob Roy Rd, Malvern East Central Gardens Playground, Hawthorn Name me a better rocket-themed slide in Victoria. The much-loved Rocket Playground has to be one of the best places to let the kids imaginations run wild. And while it’s due for a spruce up, the local council has promised to bring it back to its former glory during a revamp of the playground. And it’s not just the rocket ship that is old school, throw in the merry go round, swings and spinning seats and you’ve got the afternoon covered.

Location: 30 Henry St, Hawthorn The Grattan Gardens in Prahan is a great option for younger kids.

YARRA RANGES Lilydale Lake Playspace The bright green, twirly whirly slide is hard to miss when you visit this all abilities playground. The sheer space of the area surrounding the lake makes it a great space to take the kids, especially if they love slides, swings, climbing and all things adventure.

There’s also a huge sandpit and water pad (for the warmer months).

Location: Swansea Road, Lilydale

Queens Park, Healesville has some great slides for younger kids.

Upwey Main Street Playground, Upwey This playground isn’t huge – but its slide is. And the bravery of the kids wanting to get to the large tunnel slide will have to match its size as they wrangle the ropes course to get to the top. That aside, it’s a great playground to take the kids to while you rest after a spot of shopping along the main strip.

Location: Main Street, Upwey

One of the great slides at Queens Park, Healesville.

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The huge tube slide at Upwey Main Street Playground.

Queens Park, Healesville Slides for little kids and some for the bigger ones. This newly refurbished playground just has a wonderful vibe to it. It has so many different zones perfect for all age groups and works in with the existing trees.

The twirly whirly slide at Lilydale Lake Playspace.

It is in one of the most beautiful spots with the mountains in the distance, so while the kids are playing it give parents the chance to take a breath and enjoy the views.

Location: Don Road, Healesville www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au

Annabel at the Fitzwilliam Circuit Playground in Clyde North.

CASEY AND CARDINIA Oaks Park Playground, Clyde North This playground could very well be home to the longest tube slide in the City of Casey!

There are actually two huge tube slides that curl around a giant green and grey enclosed tower, which is the centrepiece of the park.

The popular playground also features a rock climbing wall, flying fox, climbing nets, tunnels, swings, slides, BMX and skate area, multipurpose court, a toddler area with a sandpit and shaded BBQ areas.

Location: Waterman Drive, Clyde North’s Eliston Estate Cardinia Community Adventure Playground, Pakenham A brightly-coloured enclosed sky tower with three tube slides is the main feature of this popular adventure playground.

Oaks Park Playground, Clyde North is home to possibly the biggest slide in the City of Casey.

Called ‘The Great Keep’, the tower is skinny and tall with the slides coming out at various height levels. The first slide is a pretty standard height, however the other two are pretty long!

The playground also features a big timber play area, scooter track and swings.

There’s also drinking fountains and barbecue facilities, while the toilets are a short stroll away.

Location: John Street, Pakenham Casey Fields Playground, Cranbourne East Weehee! A huge blue slide is the focal point of this adventure playground that has equipment for kids big and small.

The big curving slide is on ‘adventure hill’, which also features a bird nest swing and climbing areas.

The play space also has a pirate play structure and another playground that’s great for younger kids, climbing nets, net bridges, a liberty swing for kids who use wheelchairs, plus a village green community space.

There’s also barbecue and picnic facilities.

Sophie, Annabel and Paddy on the huge slide at Casey Fields Playground.

Pictures: Stewart Chambers www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au

Sally at the bottom of the huge slide at the Encore Boulevard Playground in Cranbourne South.

Location: 60 Berwick-Cranbourne Road, Cranbourne East

Taylen loves the slides at the the Cardinia Community Adventure Playground in Pakenham.

Highgrove Outlook Park, Clyde North The massive tube slide at this awesome playground is sure to get your child’s adrenaline pumping.

It’s one of two slides attached to a tall grey and red rocket ship tower overlooking the park.

The smaller, but decent sized, slide allows kids to work up their courage to tackle the gigantic tube.

The playground also features a full size multipurpose court, seesaw, net swing and flying fox. While there are picnic facilities there are no toilets.

Location: Fitzwilliam Circuit, Clyde North Encore Boulevard Playground, Cranbourne South There’s a large rocket play structure with a long tube slide at this relatively new playground.

After going down the twisted slide, kids can enjoy a range of equipment including swings, wooden obstacle course, large sandpit and waterplay area.

With shaded picnic benches, BBQ facilities and toilets, kids can slide for hours!

Location: Encore Boulevard, Cranbourne South’s Brompton Estate.

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Harleston Park, Elsternwick boasts a gigantic slide.

The spectacular slide at Booran Reservoir Playspace, Glen Huntly.

BAYSIDE AND GLEN EIRA Caulfield Park, Caulfield North With three different playgrounds there is a slide for everyone here. They may not be the biggest, but the sheer variety of slides make this park a place to visit.

The three playgrounds are aimed at different groups, the younger kids, older kids and sensory play all catered for.

Location: Corner of Hawthorn and Balaclava Roads, Caulfield North Booran Reservoir Playspace, Glen Huntly Let’s just take a moment to take in exactly how big this super slide is.

Not only do kids have to climb this mammoth super structure just to get to the top but it seems to have all the pieces of a super-fast slide and twirly whirly one – in one.

Only the bravest daredevils could be expected to take on such a challenge – and believe me there were many keen to take it on. This playground has been billed as the best playground in Melbourne and it’s not difficult to see why. It’s huge. It’s got a sandpit, swings and a water pad for the warmer months.

Location: 1051 Glen Huntly Rd, Glen Huntly Harleston Park, Elsternwick A gigantic slide, with steps along the side is the perfect way to while away the spring days. And is sure to tire little legs out. There’s also an area in the sand for the smaller kids with a slide that’s sure to give parents some relief.

It’s the perfect spot to find some shade under the tree and take a minute to rest.

Or even bring a picnic.

Location: 47 Allison Rd, Elsternwick

There is a slide for everyone at Caulfield Park, Caulfield North.

KNOX AND MONASH Waverley Park Playground, Mulgrave This brand new playground has a giant slide.

Not only does it have the biggest slide in the area, but this playground is fully fenced and has two other slides for the little ones who might not be ready for maximum sliding. There is so much to offer at this playground, make sure you give the kids extra time to explore it all.

Location: Wellington Road, Mulgrave Scoresby Village Playground, Scoresby A whirly twirly tunnel slide is at the centre of this very new playground placed awkwardly between two car parks. It’s not fenced, which is a bit disappointing, but it’s simplistic design makes it a fun space for the kids to play.

That said, if you have more than one who tend to run in differen t directions – this park may not be for you.

The twirly whirly slide at Scoresby Village Playground.

Location: 752 Stud Rd, Scoresby Village Square Park, Wantirna South This could be the fastest slide in the east. Look at the slope, the length – the fear!

Only the bravest kids will take on this bright green slide, which is seriously one of the fastest we’ve seen but there are some more relaxed slides in this playground too. Don’t forget the spiders web and a sandpit too.

The giant slide at Waverley Park Playground, Mulgrave.

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The cool slide at Wally Tew Reserve, Ferntree Gully.

More of the slide action at Village Square Park, Wantirna South.

Location: Harcrest Blvd, Wantirna South

park to explore.

Wally Tew Reserve, Ferntree Gully This slide is a must visit purely for its funky design – shaped like a Queensland bottle tree to match its forest floor theme it’s a beauty of a

Don’t forget to bring the bikes or scooters too and take advantage of the bike track nearby and the library that’s only a stone’s throw away.

Location: Lyndale Ct, Ferntree Gully www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au

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Great summer toy giveaway KIDS Today magazines have teamed up with some great brands to give away a heap of cool toys this summer.

To put yourself in the running to win one - or all - of the prizes, visit stonningtonboroondarakids.com.au/ competitions Hurry! Entries close 2 February. Here’s what you can win...

VTech pack valued at $224.80 which includes: ■ Play & Chase Puppy, RRP $49.95: Get playtime on a roll with the interactive Play & Chase Puppy. More than 65 songs, melodies, sounds and phrases help children learn vocabulary words along with lively tunes. Ages 12 months - 3 years.

A Wahu pack valued at $139.92 which includes:

for an added challenge. Can also be filled with water in its’ base to play on land too! Ages 6+ ■ Wahu Mega Slide 7.5m, RRP $59.99: Kids will love racing down this massive 7.5m super slide. The continuous water spray means you’ll be zooming down the slide and into the plash bumper in no time! Ages 6+

■ Wahu Hole in Won, RRP $24.95: This inflatable game set includes 1 Hole in Won game board plus 4 sandbags. The waterproof PVC base floats and moves in the water

■ Surfer Dudes Classic, RRP $29.99: Surfer Dudes are the world’s first self-righting, self-surfing toy! Toss your dudes into the surf. They’ll catch and shred the waves, throwing down rippin’ tricks all the way back to you! Ages 6+

■ Blue’s Clues & You Mail Time with Mailbox, RRP $39: Drop the letters in Mailbox and raise his flag to hear phrases from the show. Listen as Mailbox delivers each letter featuring a special message.

Just Play Christmas Pack, valued at $183.99 which includes: ■ Barbie Fashionistas Styling Head, RRP $20: Barbie’s thick flowing hair is perfect for brushing, twisting, and pinning into chic styles! Use the barrettes and hair ties for a fancy up-do; use the brush and hair twists for a sleek top bun!

■ Toot-Toot Friends 2-in-1 Dinosaur Park, RRP $89.95: Get ready for a Dinosaur adventure in this truck which opens up into an amazing Dinosaur Park. Explore the park with the Park Ranger and interact with the dinosaurs.

Place characters onto the MagicPoint location to see them respond with fun phrases, sing-along songs, lively sounds and more. Ages 1-5 years.

■ Disney Doorables Puffables, RRP $20: Discover this fun unboxing experience which includes a 10-inch squishable plush Stitch, Frozen or Mickey Mouse plush hidden inside a tiny house with characters featuring signature Doorables stylised detailing and sparkly glitter eyes.

■ Disney Junior Minnie Mouse Ring Me Rotary Phone, RRP $24.99: This vibrant pink phone has a glitter bow and features adorable Minnie Mouse phrases, realistic telephone sounds and fun light up effects!

■ Disney Doorables Multi Peek Pack x2, RRP $15ea: Discover the Magic Key to reveal a secret image behind the door. Use the key to search and find how many Hidden Mickeys are in the image!

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■ CoComelon Stacking Train, RRP $50: Children can get their numbers, shapes, and colours right on track with the CoComelon Stacking Train. Each big, colourful block features numbers 0-9. Use the blocks to build a train with this 40-piece construction set.

Spark curiosity and get kids ‘zooming’ in on nature (think leaves, flowers, feathers and insects) with this super portable, hand-held microscope.

■ Play & Go Puppy Salon, RRP $49.95: Open the pet carrier to groom your pup. Lights and sound effects enrich playtime as you pretend to wash, comb, dry and clip this soft pup. Ages 2-5 years.

■ Switch & Go Dinos Smash & Crash Crew, RRP $34.95: Stomp into the cool, crazy world of prehistoric creatures that turn into vehicles with the Smash & Crash Crew! Crash the Switch & Go Dinos into another one to see them explode with smash-andcrash light effects. Ages 3-8 years.

■ Wahu Pool Pets Croc, RRP $24.99: Kids will love these awesome new inflatable pool racers in bright funky Wahu colours. Perfect for racing up and down the pool or try and balance on them.

Osmo Math Wizard and the Fantastic Food Truck valued at $99.99 The newest release from STEAM toy experts Osmo, this is a geometry-focused game that introduces kids to core maths concepts like angles, area and volume. Combining digital gameplay with active, hands-on learning, Osmo’s Math Wizard helps children build confidence in their maths skills through imagination, reasoning and exploration. Players become chefs who use kitchen appliances and a dash of magic to customize dishes, from pizza to sushi, sandwiches, pastries and more!

■ Paper Binoculars - Bird Spotter, RRP $12: Make your own set of paper binoculars, then head outside for all manner of feathered discoveries in the backyard or local park.

Tiger Tribe Nature Explorer Activity Pack valued at $100 ■ Outdoor Activity Set - Back to Nature, RRP $25: Jam packed with engaging activities, hands-on projects, a handy magnifying glass, coloured chalk and notetaking pencil, this kit encourages observation and interaction with nature.

■ Explorer Microscope Set, RRP $35:

■ Bug Spotter Kit, RRP $13: Designed to safely catch and release garden creepy crawlies (and observe them up close with the magnifying lid), this kit comes with an illustrated activity book providing bug tips and best places to spot.

■ Magic Painting World - Aussie Animals, RRP $15: Use the magic paintbrush to discover a bunch of cute Aussie animals. Simply add water to bring them to life with every brush-stroke.

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Ready to get back on the hamster wheel?

Now is a great time to take stock of your life before getting back on the hamster wheel.

By Julie Cliff - professional organiser

IF you’re a working mum in Melbourne there is no doubt you have been juggling a lot of things during the various lockdowns over the past 18 months: remote learning, your own paid work, keeping everyone fed, bathed and clothed. It’s a lot to do in the confines of your own home with very little outside help.

As we venture out again, I ask you to think about how you are spending your time now and take stock. By taking stock of where you are at and keeping one eye on the future (where

you’d like to get to), you can start to put things in place to organise the life you want.

go back to ‘normal’ and run around like a headless chook or do you want to make some changes?

Take stock of the things you are juggling.

Now is an amazing opportunity for you to organise the life you want. With a clear picture of how you want your future to look, you can make a plan with systems and processes to support your ‘new’ future.

As you go through each day, take stock of all the things you’re juggling.

■ How many hours are you working each week and how much ‘me time’ are you scheduling?

■ Are you spending time on meal planning?

■ How much exercise are you squeezing in each day?

■ Who’s doing the home chores and when are they done?

Plan now for the future Are you ready to get back on the hamster wheel? Do you want things to

■ Want to work shorter hours? Do you need to work smarter or be clearer on your tasks and priorities and leave the office on time? Or do you need to get a new job?

■ Want to get the family involved in running the household? Say no when someone tells you it’s your job. Have a detailed discussion now about who does what.

What next?

Among all your juggling now, have one eye on the future. Start to create the systems around you at home to support the life you want to live.

■ Want to eat healthier food by creating a set of four to six weekly meal plans?

Need help?

Julie Cliff is a professional organiser at Space and Time which helps busy working mothers live easier, far less stressful lives through simple, easy to implement organising systems to clear the clutter - both mentally and physically. Sound familiar?

■ Want to spend more time with specific people? Get it in the diary.

Julie would love to hear from you via info@spaceandtime.com.au

■ Want to work more from home?

Play Edo brings imagination to life AS a parent it can be challenging to accommodate your child’s requests to have more fun and not all of them are possible. But little people have big dreams!

And even the most eco-conscious among us would admit that living sustainably is hard. Unfortunately, convenience usually equates to things wrapped in plastic, and children’s toys are also made from plastic. But there are plastic-free options and a wonderful new product has recently hit the Australian market: Play Edo giant cardboard building bricks.

The Play Edo jumbo building bricks bring imagination and role-play

NEW EDUCATIONAL TOY

adventures to life: children have endless possibilities to create. The Edo bricks are proudly made in Melbourne. Arriving flat packed, these bricks are incredibly strong, easy to assemble, eco-friendly, engaging and ready to be customised (you can use spray paint, draw, glue and glitter decorations).

Play Edo is a family business based in Hawthorn, inspired by those childhood memories of playing for hours using only imagination and creativity.

With giant Edo blocks now available it’s easier and more enjoyable to build all the stories that children’s minds suggest. The Play Edo cardboard brick itself is exceedingly versatile and strong,

Children have endless possibilities to create with Play Edo jumbo building bricks.

being able to support a loading greater than 50kg.

Coming in single and double brick sizes, the blocks are made from highquality micro corrugated cardboard and are available in classic Havana or White colours. The Play Edo bricks were designed with the basis of the Montessori

and STEM learning methods in mind, allowing the child to lead in self-directed activity, with hands-on learning and a collaborative play approach.

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Take a spin on the newest Supernova ride for spectacular views of the city and Port Phillip Bay. Choose your horse and ride the magical carousel, try out your dodgem skills or go back in time on the retro-scary Ghost Train.

There’s never been a better time to join the generations of families and friends who have been creating summer memories since 1912.

Head to Luna Park for the best thrills this summer.

Summer fun at Luna Park

Have a thrilling time in a safe outdoor environment and make up for lost time by creating some life-long fun memories.

Covid capacity restrictions will apply, so pre-purchase your tickets online to guarantee entry over summer.

Popular days may sell out, so get in early to secure your spot.

FOR good old-fashioned fun that’s sure to put a huge smile on your dial, head to St Kilda’s Luna Park.

Mr Moon and soak up the carnival atmosphere that has entertained visitors for 109 years.

After a tough year on Victorians, especially kids, the beloved theme park is gearing up for a summer of fun.

Zoom, twirl, spin and whizz your way through a whole day of pure fun that you’ve been hanging out for.

ANNUAL PASSES An annual pass to Luna Park is a great option, particularly if you live close by.

You get a whole year of unlimited fun for just $120! With an annual pass, a Lunie of any age can take advantage of an Unlimited Ride Ticket on any day the park is open to the general public.

It’s a whole year of spinning, whizzing and twirling as many times as they can handle!

The seaside home of fun and fantasy will delight young and old.

The Great Scenic Railway returns after undergoing some winter maintenance.

LUNA PARK GIFT CARDS Give the gift of fun this Christmas with a Luna Park Gift card. Gift your kids,

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friends or family with a joyful experience they’ll remember for years to come - it’s 100 per cent guaranteed to be loved. Luna Park Gift Cards can be exchanged for entry and ride passes, carnival games, retail merchandise and food and drinks at our various outlets throughout Luna Park.

BIRTHDAY PACKAGES Have the most talked about birthday party in the street by booking an unforgettable party package on the 96 Tram at Luna Park - find out more at lunapark.com.au/kids-birthday-parties Luna Park is open every weekend, Victorian school holidays and every public holiday except Christmas Day. Venue spaces can be booked for exclusive events at a cost. Book online at www.lunapark.com.au

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One-stop toy shop

Leave barriers WORKPLACE culture and masculine norms are preventing dads from asking for flexible working hours including paid parental leave, new research suggests.

University of South Australia researcher Dr Ashlee Borgkvist has investigated barriers and facilitators for men to access and use flexible work arrangements. She found that many fathers felt pressure from their organisations not to use flexibility for family reasons, with this sentiment also echoed across societal norms.

Australia has one of the lowest rates of fathers taking paid parental leave.

Dr Borgkvist says the low uptake of formal flexible working arrangements

by Australian fathers is primarily due to a perceived, and quite often objective, lack of support from workplace managers and colleagues.

“Workplace flexibility is typically accepted as an option for mothers, but when it comes to dads, flexibility is unlikely to be as readily accepted – and in some cases not even considered,” she said.

“Workplace and societal norms play a big role in the lack of flexibility for dads, with many men feeling pressure to conform to stereotypical concepts of

WINDMILL Educational toys and equipment is your one-stop shop for toys.

the male ‘breadwinner’.”

Located at 593 Whitehorse Rd, Surrey Hills the store has a huge selection of toys and is stocked to the brim with great gifts for Christmas.

Dr Borgkvist said while Australia’s national Paid Parental Leave scheme is gender neutral, the stigma of asking for flexibility, along with the need for mothers to utilise the whole Paid Parental Leave period, is limiting its uptake by dads.

Windmill has a wide range of outdoor play things including sand and water play for little ones. They also carry a lovely selection of baby toys and a range of Australian designed and made products including beautiful wooden tables & chairs, doll houses and walkers, wagons.

“One father I spoke to said he’d stepped back from visiting schools with his wife and child because he felt he’d taken too much time off; another father said he wouldn’t ask for flexibility because he didn’t ‘want to be seen as ‘someone who tries to get out of doing work’.

And they have a great range of trucks, diggers, train sets, construction sets., puzzles, games, educational resources and sensory toys.

“So, while the desire and need for flexible work hours is there, it’s being squashed by restrictive workplace cultures. As you can imagine, these ideas around flexible work also have impacts for how women who use flexibility are perceived within workplaces.

Dr Borgkvist said cultural change was vital.

“Evidence shows that when fathers are provided with well-compensated, targeted and extended parental leave, they are very likely to take it.”

Here are Windmill’s Christmas gift suggestions by age: ■ Newborn Baby: Manhattan Skwish (wooden rattle), Hape Rotating Music Box ■ 6 months: Hape Penguin Musical Wobbler, Tomy – Hide and Squeak Eggs ■ 10 months: Stacking Beakers, Ambi Toys Activity Case ■ 1-year: Hape Early Melodies Pound and Tap Bench, Baby Einstein Magic Touch Guitar, Xylophone and Piano ■ 2-years: Teas sets, Wooden stacking toys, Playmobil 1.2.3 Take along Noah’s Ark ■ 3 years: Junior train sets and Tooky Toy DIY Wooden Forklift and Excavator

Windmill Educational toys and equipment is a great place to shop.

■ 4 years: iRingo construction set, marble runs ■ 5 years: Exost Speed Racer, Kites, Djeco - DIY Princess Tiara kit ■ 6 years: Spyx Walkie Talkies+ Recon Watch, voice disguiser, illusion cubes ■ 7 years: Constructor clock, Hexbug Dragon and Wasp remote controlled toys ■ 8 years: Scientific discovery sets ■ 9-10 years: Remote controlled helicopters, Vex Robotics Gear Racer Pull-Back car, calligraphy sets For more suggestions, view Windmill’s 2021 Christmas catalogue online, or visit the store and talk to one of the friendly staff who will be happy to offer advice.

You’ll find Windmill at 593 Whitehorse Road, Surrey Hills.

Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a fabulous summer!

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It’s Your Life and fibre, two important nutrients that work to keep kids tummies feeling fuller for longer and their energy levels stable.

Herb and feta quinoa patties Makes: 20 Prep time: 10 mins + 1 hour Cook time: 20 mins Ingredients: ■ 2 ½ cups pre-cooked quinoa ■ ½ cup rolled oats ■ 4 free range eggs ■ 180g feta cheese ■ 4 shallots Lucy Stewart in the kitchen with her son Otis.

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The finished product.

■ 1 cup chopped fresh herbs – parsley, dill and mint work well ■ Zest of half a lemon

Kid-friendly patties DID you know herbs can pack in just as much nutrition as vegetables? Just like green leafy vegetables, fresh herbs are a good source of vitamins A, C and K and contain polyphenols – powerful plant compounds that have both antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties. Herbs are also alkalising and help support the bodies natural detoxification processes.

Growing herbs is a great way to help kids understand where their food comes from and research shows that children who are involved in the preparation of their food – especially vegetables –

grow them in either, just a few pots on the window sill will do.

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develop a more positive attitude towards, and preferences for, those foods. You don’t need a big garden to

Some of my favourite herbs for kids to grow include: mint, basil, dill, chives and parsley. Their fragrance and mild versatile flavours mean kids can happily pick, smell and eat the leaves raw or sprinkle them over some of their favourite dishes - even just a small amount goes a long way to giving them a nutritional boost.

These little herb and feta quinoa patties are full of freshness and make a great lunchbox addition or vegetarian burger option. Quinoa is high in protein

■ Olive oil for frying Instructions: 1. In a large mixing bowl, combine cooked quinoa, oats, eggs, feta cheese, chopped herbs, shallots and lemon zest and mix together until everything is well combined. Place in the fridge to set for one hour.

2. Using a tablespoon of mixture, form 20 small patties with your hands.

3. Heat olive oil in a frying pan over a medium heat. Add the patties and fry for about 2-3 minutes on each side or until golden brown.

4. Store leftovers in the fridge for up to five days.

Lucy Stewart is a mum who is nutritionist specialising in babies and kids health, and a recipe developer.

You can find more of her recipes at https://lucystewartnutrition.com

Really caring for mums CARING Mums believes that no mother should be alone on her journey of motherhood.

emotional support. Volunteers become mentors and cheerleaders as they walk alongside their matched mum.

The dream of motherhood is often very different from its reality and Caring Mums is passionate about helping bridge that gap.

A safe space is created in which the mother can share the joys and challenges of her new role without fear of being judged or instructed.

Well trained volunteers are matched to new mums - not necessarily first-time mums - and pregnant women, with the goal of developing secure, trusting relationships. They meet weekly for up to 12 months.

Many new mothers, especially now due to the pandemic, feel alone and isolated as their own families may not be able to be present at a time when they need their ‘village’ the most.

While many programs for mums offer medical or practical help, Caring Mums is among the few to offer mums

Powered by NCJWA Vic, Caring Mums helps fill that void. The organisation’s goal is to support the mother in a way that is empowering,

building confidence.Mothers who have participated in the Caring Mums program have found it extremely valuable.

One said: “I cherish the day I was introduced to this incredible program.

To be able to know that my Caring Mum will visit me every week, to reassure my feelings are valid, to talk support strategies and to have deep conversations, made a huge difference for me. It is a program that truly praises the mums.”

More information: https://www. ncjwavic.org.au/caringmums or 9523 0535.

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Camberwell Junction is buzzing again Santa will make a special appearance at Camberwell Junction on 18 December.

CAMBERWELL Junction is back and buzzing.

After a lengthy lockdown, restaurants and cafes are pumping once again and shoppers are stocking up on clothes and other items.

Camberwell Traders Association Manager Kerry Daly said it had been a difficult time for retail businesses but the community had been incredibly supportive.

“Our traders want to thank the community for their continued support and welcome them back,” she said.

“It’s so great to see the street busy and shops buzzing.”

The Camberwell Junction shopping

precinct has over 400 retail businesses with a mix of big brands and family-run franchises. It also has all the services families need including the major banks, doctors, dentists, accountants, healthcare providers, plus the things we all love, like hair and beauty salons, a multitude of cafes and restaurants, a fresh food market, cinemas, boutique fashion stores as well as Coles, Woolies, Aldi and Kmart.

Camberwell Junction is big on Christmas. The streets are adorned with decorations and entertainers will be adding to the festivities throughout December. Each Saturday in December between 11am and 2pm, there will be musicians, stilt walkers and jugglers

roaming the streets.

Santa will make a special appearance on 18 December when he is driven around the streets in a Harley Davidson motorbike sidecar.

Camberwell Junction will also have its ‘Where’s Rudolf’ competition again this year. The much-loved tradition involves local families looking in store windows to find Santa’s reindeer posters for a chance to win $500 to spend in Camberwell Junction stores. What a prize!

Ms Daly says shoppers have been getting into the Christmas spirit early, with many visiting the precinct to buy gifts.

“People have realised they need to shop early for Christmas this year and they are loving being back and shopping in person.

“They’ve realised that online shopping delivery can be unreliable, and many prefer the open-air shopping streets to busy shopping malls.”

Traders kindly request that customers be patient and respectful with staff as they deal with the necessary Covid protocols.

To find out all about this shopping and business hub check out CamberwellShopping.com.au and subscribe to receive their monthly newsletter.

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SEE SANTA! Spot Santa doing laps around Camberwell Junction on a motorbike with sidecar.

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Getting back into the swing of things

Lockdown is over and now kids can get back into what they love doing.

AFTER spending month after month in lockdown over the past two years, it’s no surprise that some children and teens are less enthusiastic about extracurricular activities.

Gracie Jiu Jitsu Burwood understands the lockdowns have affected everyone differently and is approaching the return to face-to-face classes with compassion.

Those youths who have become

more withdrawn are invited to take private lessons, or come to class early to spend time with their instructors in a bid to reconnect after some time away.

“Lockdown has affected everyone differently, and we tried to keep the connections going through online classes,” Robbie Singh, head instructor at Gracie Jiu Jitsu Burwood, said.

“But for some, who were already burnt out with online classes, they didn’t

want to then do their extracurricular activities over the screen too.

“They are the ones we are spending extra time with to re-engage and connect.”

Robbie says they have also given parents terminology to use to help their kids get excited about activities outside school again.

“Sometimes with sports, parents focus

on things they missed,” Robbie said.

“But the way to help them re-engage is to focus on the positives, things like you looked like you had a lot of fun, you laughed a lot.”

If you’re interested learning more, visit https://graciejiujitsuburwood.com.au/ for more information.

Gracie Jiu Jitsu Burwood is located at 2/5-13 Sinnott St, Burwood

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There are six chapters in the Gracie Character Development Program: Responsibility, Health, Respect, Citizenship, Manners, and Caring.

We spend two months on each chapter, and during each class we dedicate a few minutes to discussing the featured character trait and the simple things your child can do to make it part of their everyday lives. The secret to our success lies in a unique point-based reward system that we created to excite kids about making daily progress!

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Insights into picky eating

By Melissa Grant

likelihood of picky eating.

PICKY eating is something many parents deal with.

On the flip side, the most commonly reported external factors that decrease the likelihood of picky eaters are family meals, responsive parents, and involving the child in the preparation of food.

When your child rejects a substantial amount of food it can be frustrating and cause you to worry about their nutritional intake.

So, why does a child become a picky eater and is there anything you can do to get them to eat a greater variety of food?

New research from the University of the Sunshine Coast (USC) has identified the most common external factors that increase and decrease the likelihood of picky eating in children under the age of 10.

USC student and academic Laine Chilman reviewed 80 health industry studies, largely based on parents’ reporting of their children’s picky eating, for her PhD paper ‘Picky Eating in Children’.

Her research found that authoritarian parenting, rewards for eating and pressuring a child to eat were external factors that appear to increase the

The study also found that a child’s personality and increased sensitivity, particularly to taste and smell, were the most common internal features of a picky eater.

Furthermore, firstborns seemed to have a higher likelihood of being a picky eater. This is something that rings true for Ms Chilman - her eldest son is picky when it comes to food.

USC PhD student Laine Chilman sharing a meal with her children.

practical or psychological impacts for parents/caregivers.

She said the papers she researched noted that picky eating tended to be a toddler-appropriate behaviour.

easier said than done as these things take time, which many families don’t have a lot of.

The aim of her study is to help families with mealtimes.

“Developmentally, they are learning different rules of the world but they are also quite protective - they don’t like change,” she said.

“I hope my research provides insights that help support – not blame – parents, caregivers and health professionals,” she said.

“It’s quite developmentally appropriate. The concern is if it keeps going.”

Ms Chilman, who has worked as a nurse and occupational therapist, is continuing her PhD on picky eating.

“With the other two it was more like this is what we are having.”

So what are the things you can do to help address the issue?

Ms Chilman said picky eating was an umbrella term for consistent behaviours such as rejecting substantial amounts of food based on texture, novelty or appearance, with associated

Ms Chilman suggests finding a time for the family to have dinner together and getting picky eaters involved in food preparation.

The findings of Ms Chilman’s PhD paper, with co-authors from USC, the University of South Australia and The University of Queensland, have been published in the International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health.

“I think it’s different when it’s the first (born) because you have more time to make alternate meals and I wonder if I did a few things that weren’t perfect,” the mother of three said.

Although she added that this was

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Bump, Birth & Bub The team at Epworth Maternity has distilled decades of knowledge and practical tips to create Bump, Birth & Bub.

PLANNING to have a baby or discovering you’re expecting is a special time, but you might also find that you have more questions than answers.

which can be overwhelming. Even well-meaning loved ones can offer advice which is outdated or unhelpful,” Nicole said.

The team at Epworth Maternity has distilled decades of knowledge and practical tips to create ‘Bump, Birth & Bub’, which is fast becoming an invaluable resource for all parents to be.

This fresh approach to pregnancy, birth and those precious newborn weeks is easy to read and it will become your “go to” maternity book.

The Bump, Birth & Bub book.

“This book has quite literally been a labour of love for our team. As with everything we do, it’s centred around our patients. A number of our families helped shape the content, while others have shared beautiful, raw moments with us within the book’s gorgeous images.

“Families should feel supported and empowered about their pregnancy, birth and newborn care. There is an incredible amount of information online

“We’ve placed QR codes throughout the book as an easy link to our Mobile Midwife videos, available from our Epworth website. These short videos cover topics like nappy changes, baby

Birth Suite Nurse Unit Manager, Nicole Paine, says “it’s important to get the right information when you’re pregnant”.

bath time and lots more.

“Bump, Birth & Bub also discusses the importance of your physical and mental wellbeing. With expert advice from Perinatal Anxiety and Depression Australia (PANDA), we hope to help normalise support for mental health issues, by highlighting warning signs and how to seek help.

“We know that babies don’t come with a handbook but Bump, Birth & Bub might be the next best thing,” Nicole said.

To request your free copy of Bump, Birth & Bub by Epworth Maternity visit Epworth.org.au/maternity or scan the QR code to learn more.

How to straighten your teeth WHEN you imagine the perfect smile you picture straight teeth.

After all, having crooked teeth can make you feel so self-conscious that you avoid smiling altogether.

Crooked and crowded teeth - and other problems such as overbites, underbites and incorrect jaw position can also cause problems if left untreated. This includes tooth decay, gum disease, headache, earaches as well as issues with speaking, biting or chewing.

So how are teeth straightened?

Here are the options for children and adults.

TRADITIONAL BRACES One of the cheaper yet effective forms of orthodontic treatment, traditional braces consist of metal brackets and wires that work by applying pressure to teeth, adjusting them to their desired position over time. Thankfully, modern braces are less noticeable than the old ‘metal-mouth’ braces.

CLEAR BRACES Clear braces are the same size and shape as metal braces. However, they use tooth-coloured or clear brackets that blend in with your teeth. This means they are less noticeable than traditional braces, but they generally cost more

and are prone to stains.

INVISALIGN Invisalign involves using a series of nearly invisible, removable aligners that gradually straighten your smile.

Invisalign consists of a series of 18 to 30 custom made, clear plastic aligners that are removable and replaced every fortnight. Invisalign has many benefits, including the ability to remove the aligners while eating, brushing and flossing, although they don’t work for serious dental problems. It can also be quite costly and take longer to improve your smile.

The Modern Orthodontics clinic.

To discuss teeth straightening, contact Modern Orthodontics at 1 Leonard St, Burwood. Phone 1300 367 678 or visit https://www.modernorthodontics. com.au

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Creating curious global citizens Deutsche Schule Melbourne (DSM) is committed to offering a world-class bilingual learning program.

FROM cognitive advantages to community building and cultural understanding, the benefits of a bilingual education cannot be understated.

That’s why Deutsche Schule Melbourne (DSM) is committed to offering a world-class bilingual learning program for primary school children in Melbourne.

Research has shown that learning in two languages helps children build a strong educational foundation. It also develops vital skills necessary to thrive in today’s global environment.

Located in Fitzroy North, DSM is an accredited German School Abroad, known for its immersion model of education. Through this approach, students pick up the language through conversation and play. And under the guidance of highly qualified teachers from Germany and Australia, every student is empowered to reach their full potential.

Students exposed to bilingualism are also often linked to better academic results. And, because of their fluency in a second language and culture, bilingual children can access more diverse career opportunities later in life.

DSM prides itself to be more than an

education institution. As an integral part of both local and German-speaking communities, the school seeks to provide their students with the opportunity to learn and live within a close-knit, multilingual community.

As Principal Bernice Ressel puts it, bilingualism is more than just learning in two different languages. It’s about fostering a love of lifelong learning and curiosity – and cultivating an interest in another culture.

“Two mother tongues enable students to see the world from different perspectives, to realise their individual potential, and to become creative and

confident participants in the global community,” she says.

Currently, DSM is home to over 140 students, with more than 27 nationalities and 18 spoken languages.

Families don’t need to speak German to fit into the DSM community. The school welcomes students with no prior German knowledge – including after the Foundation Year.

DSM will be hosting their next Open Day on Saturday, 19 March 2022. Until then, they are offering small group tours to interested families.

To learn more about DSM, email info@dsm.org.au or call 03 9489 9364.

Deutsche Schule Melbourne Leaders in Bilingual Education We offer your family a German-English bilingual education.

Multilingualism is more than just the addition of multiple languages. Having more than one mother tongue enables students to see the world from different perspectives, to realise their individual potential, and to become creative and confident participants in the global community.

Deutsche Schule Melbourne is an accredited German School Abroad. We are located in Fitzroy North and offer the highest standard of bilingual education for primary school children. At our school we merge the Victorian and German curricula which comes with plenty of advantages, for example an advanced Mathematics curriculum. All in all a compelling offer for any family with an interest in bilingual education. You will be surprised to see how quickly your child learns the German language even without any prior German knowledge or family background.

Our Admissions Manager Stefanie Dietrich cordially invites you to a Small Group Tour during school hours to see our bilingual education in action. Please contact her on 03 9489 9364 to book in a date that suits your family.

Our next Open Day will take place on Saturday, 19 March 2022 from 10∶00am to 12∶30pm – a perfect opportunity to find out more about our school and to get a feel for our wonderful school community. Please register your interest via www.dsm.org.au.

We look forward to welcoming you at Deutsche Schule Melbourne!

OPEN DAY Saturday, 19 March 2022 10∶00am – 12∶30pm

Deutsche Schule Melbourne 96 Barkly Street, Fitzroy North, Victoria 3068 Email: info@dsm.org.au Phone: 03 9489 9364 www.dsm.org.au

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Ready, set, go!

School ready?

AFTER a year of lockdowns, restrictions and remote learning, road safety education is more important than ever for young children returning to school.

ANDALE School is proud to offer a unique bridging program with a difference bridging the gap for students making the transition from kindergarten to school.

Throughout the school holidays, Kew Traffic School will be open for public play and ride sessions to help children aged 2 to 10 develop important road safety skills.

The program, developed for students with language and learning difficulties, allows students to have a greater chance of success in their transition to mainstream.

Specialist Education qualified teachers use evidence based Literacy and Numeracy Programs such as Multi-Lit and EMU Maths, in addition to a specialised pre-writing and handwriting strokes program, to cater for each child’s individual needs.

The goals of this program are to: ■ Assist your child with the fundamental skills required to succeed at school ■ Allow your child to adapt to the consistency of a school day ■ Build confidence in a nurturing environment ■ Development communication and social skills in a structured environment ■ Follow an individualised program tailored to your child which not only increases academics, but also develops fine motor and gross motor skills ■ Provide support to manage social and emotional regulation

The facility is also available for limited private bookings and parties, featuring a large party room with kitchen facilities. alternative to repeating 4-year-old kinder for some students,” says Ruth Cornell, Junior Class Teacher. “As a Special Education teacher who has worked in mainstream settings, I understand the early learning skills and behaviours that can increase a child’s chances of success in the school environment.”

Choosing a program between preschool and school can be complicated.

“We support families to make an informed decision and to help create the best possible pathway for their child,” says Justin Walsh, Principal.

“We help families decide whether this program is right for their child.”

Please contact Andale School on 9853 3911, or visit andale.vic.edu.au to learn more.

During school term, early years’ services and school groups can sign up to attend Kew Traffic School’s safety education program. This evidence-based program aims to empower students to stay safe both at home and on the roads. Themes covered by safety educators include pedestrian safety, bike safety and identifying hazards on the road.

Kew Traffic School was first opened 60 years ago by Victoria Police and was redeveloped in 2020 to provide the best environment for children to learn road safety.

The traffic school is a well-known and highly regarded icon in the City of Boroondara and feedback since its redevelopment has been overwhelmingly positive. Many parents attended the centre

Children Eliza, Charlie, Lottie, Ollie and Harry with Boroondara Mayor Gary Thompson and Boroondara Councillor Felicity Sinfield at the Kew Traffic School.

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themselves as a child, and the new facilities have breathed fresh life in to the centre for a new generation.

Before the Covid-19 pandemic, Kew Traffic School hosted over 300 road safety education sessions, 550 functions and over 24,000 children and their families coming through the gates.

The facility offers two ride and play sessions daily Monday to Friday during the school holidays.

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Children can gain confidence and practice riding their bikes or scooters around a mini road track complete with road signs, roundabouts, railway crossings and traffic lights.

Kew Traffic School Book a play and ride session or a private party!

Kew Traffic School is a fun and engaging space for children aged 2 to 10 to develop important road safety skills and gain confidence on their bicycle, tricycle or scooter.

At Andale School, we provide a positive learning environment for children who experience language and learning challenges, within a welcoming community that recognises and celebrates their learning achievements.

Open weekdays during the school holidays Monday 10 January to Friday 4 February

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Child care fee relief comes early

By Melissa Grant FAMILIES with two or more kids in child care will get fee relief earlier than expected.

Child care subsidies for second and subsequent children will be increased to as high as 95 per cent from 7 March, four months before what was promised.

A family earning $110,000 a year with two kids in care, four days a week, for example, will be better off by around $100 each week.

The annual $10,655 Child Care Subsidy (CCS) cap will also be scrapped on 10 December and applied retrospectively for the current financial year.

This means families earning more than $190,015 a year will no longer have to worry about paying full fees when their cap for each child runs out.

Education Minister Alan Tudge said the changes would ease pressure on working families and encourage more parents into work.

The changes were due to start on 11 July 2022, but the federal government says the necessary technical changes will be completed sooner.

“Removing the cap and increasing subsidies means more parents, particularly mothers, can return to work or take on more hours if they choose to,” he said.

Families with two or more children aged five years and under in care will have their CCS rate increased by 30 per cent for their second child and any younger children, up to a maximum rate of 95 per cent.

It’s estimated the overhaul will benefit 250,000 families, with the average saving $2200 a year on child care fees.

“Importantly, our support is targeted to those who need it most. We are reducing the out-of-pocket child care costs which really add up when you have two, three or more children in care.”

The child care fee relief will be delivered in time for the federal

election, which must be held by 21 May next year.

While Mr Tudge has insisted the government would bring forward the changes if possible, Labor claims the move is political.

Labor’s early childhood education spokesperson Amanda Rishworth said the policy was a “dud” and that Labor had a better plan for child care that would benefit 750,000 families.

“Labor’s plan that really is a wholesale reform, helping 97 per cent of families, and the Liberal Party’s plan that really only helps a minority for that short time when families have two or three children in care,” she said.

Schools teaching kids how to stay safe online ALMOST a third of all Australian schools are using quality online safety education providers endorsed by the federal online safety regulator.

interest in the educational programs, which have the the eSafety tick of approval.

“In the last financial year, 2772 schools - or about 29 per cent of all Australian schools - had at least one session from a Trusted eSafety Provider,” she said.

It’s an encouraging statistic given reports of cyberbullying continue to surge during the pandemic.

The Trusted eSafety Provider program, which is run by the eSafety Commissioner, helps schools find providers of evidence-based and curriculum-aligned online safety education programs.

“The majority of the participants in the programs have been students but parents and teachers have also taken part in the programs to learn about such topics as cyberbullying, imagebased abuse, and respectful online relationships.”

eSafety Commissioner Julie Inman Grant said lockdowns and the pandemic have led Australian children to spend more time online than ever before.

“As many Australians are forced online for their work and education during the pandemic, eSafety has seen a rise in reports about cyberbullying and other online harms,” Ms Inman Grant said.

“Research released earlier this year found that 44 per cent of teens had a negative online experience in the six months to September 2020.

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something doesn’t feel right.

Ms Inman Grant said it is vital that schools teach their students how to stay safe with online strategies. These strategies include being an ‘upstander’ when they see bullying online and knowing how to seek help when

“Providers endorsed by the Trusted eSafety Provider program can work with schools to educate students about these topics,” she said.

Ms Inman Grant said it was pleasing to see Australian schools take a huge

The eSafety Commissioner works with the providers to ensure they are up-todate with the latest online safety research, trends and practices.

There are currently 37 Trusted eSafety Providers offering a diverse range of services across each state and territory with at least 30 delivering programs online.

More details about the eSafety’s Trusted eSafety Provider program, including a list of providers, is available on the eSafety website. www.StonningtonBoroondaraKids.com.au

Education to learn and grow.

The National Institute of Dramatic Art (NIDA) is a centre of excellence in theatre, film and television, with short and part-time courses with practice driven training in a supportive and nurturing environment.

These new venue partnerships provide opportunities for NIDA Open to connect with more children of Melbourne by providing space to extend their creative skills set, make new friends, find new areas of confidence, and step into a magical world of imagination.

“NIDA Open is excited to be again offering high quality courses for children and young people, especially in great new locations to reach more of the Melbourne community,” said Gillian Meisner-Lemon, Director, Public Programs NIDA. NIDA Open offers high quality courses for young people.

NIDA school holiday summer program open NIDA Melbourne is excited to partner with two new spaces in the creative precincts of Melbourne for a range of summer courses for children and young people.

Transit Dance in Brunswick and The Space in Prahran will offer a wide variety of inspiring creative programs for the holidays, reaching new audiences in Melbourne’s north and

south eastern suburbs. Both new venues are purpose built creative arts spaces in the centre of the vibrant Chapel Street and Sydney Road precincts and are perfect environments for NIDA students

There are a variety of courses for Grades Prep to Year 12 at both new venues, including Stage and Screen School for Grades 3-6 and 7-10, Acting 101 for Grades 11-12 and NIDA Ninjas for Grades Prep-2. Students can learn skills in drama and screen acting, create characters, improve confidence and social skills, and above all have fun with new friends.

Enrolments are now open for the NIDA Open Summer Program across the two new venues in Brunswick and Prahran, as well as courses at NIDA Melbourne Studios in Southbank and Abbotsford Convent. Book four weeks before the course start date for children and young people to receive a 10 per cent early bird discount.

Book today by calling NIDA Open on 1300 450 417 or visit nida.edu.au/

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A journey of self-discovery NESTLED within the leafy surrounds of Deepdene, Bambini is pleased to welcome Deepdene ELC to the Bambini family.

Architecturally designed with generous play spaces, Deepdene ELC is a 100 place service, offering an abundance of natural light and opportunity for play-based exploration for children of all ages.

Mirroring a methodology for learning

with unique and sustainable resources that encourage a sense of selfawareness and community engagement, their rooms are open plan and inviting.

From an interactive communal kitchen to an indigenous exploration garden, their primary focus is your child and their journey of self-discovery across the foundations years of development.

As a child care provider with over 14 years experience in the industry, Bambini prides itself on drawing inspiration from the Reggio Emilia Approach, together with strong local community engagement and family relationships.

Recently opened, Deepdene ELC is welcoming families now for private tours and open evenings.

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Dealing with school refusal

By Melissa Grant FOR many students, going to school is simple. They have breakfast, put their uniform on and go.

However some students find attending school difficult and struggle with what’s called ‘school refusal’.

In its simplest form, school refusal is when a student can’t go to school. They don’t want to be there and will show features of emotional distress such as headaches or stomach aches.

Prolonged lockdowns in Victoria have led to more families experiencing school refusal.

Before the pandemic, an estimated 2-5 per cent of students were school refusing. It’s estimated those rates tripled when school returned between lockdowns.

Education expert Dr Lisa McKayBrown says school refusal can happen at any point, but can be linked to periods of transition. It also seems to be more prevalent between Years 5 and 9.

This is because of shifts in friendship groups and increased challenges of schooling at this time, according to Dr McKay-Brown who is part of the learning intervention team at Melbourne University.

She says there are usually warning signs for parents.

“Often you’ll hear things like ‘I don’t feel well today’, ‘I have a headache or a stomach ache, I don’t think I can face it’. Generally the symptoms subside if they don’t have to go to school,” she said.

She said children may also negotiate about going to school by asking to be picked up early, or struggle to get out of bed, the house or the car.

The return of school after the weekend or holidays can also be particularly challenging, with children becoming clingy or tearful.

In these situations, Dr McKay-Brown said it was important to note that school refusal might just be one of the things going on.

“Research shows around 50 per cent of children presenting with school refusal have a mental health disorder,” she said.

Dr McKay-Brown said while there is anecdotal evidence that school refusal rates had tripled since the pandemic, more research is taking place.

“It’s been a time of high stress,” she explained.

“I think some people who may have been at risk of school refusal before the remote learning experience, for them it (remote learning) became an experience that the feelings of anxiety and worry when they had to go to school lessened.”

She said parents and schools had to be careful when considering remote learning or home schooling as a solution to school refusal.

“Anecdotally we find that young people who are school refusing are less likely to engage in those types of learning situations,” she said.

It’s important to address school refusal. In the short-term, school refusal can impact on a young person’s education, learning and peer relationships. Leaving school altogether can have long-term impacts as the young person won’t achieve their educational potential. Any mental health issues that aren’t address can have impacts into adulthood.”

So what can you do if your child is school refusing?

Dr McKay-Brown suggests the following: ■ Have conversations with your child to get a better sense of what is happening. Ask questions like ‘how are you feeling about school?’ and ‘are there some things that are difficult for you at school?’

■ Communicate with your child’s school. You don’t want absences to continue so let the school know what’s happening and ask them if they have any support or advice ■ School relationships. Relationships are

important when returning to school.

What check-ins can be organised? Is there a way of having peer connections maintained?

■ Seek professional support. A GP is your first point of call. They will determine if there needs to be some kind of mental health referral.

Starting this process is important given the long wait times to see mental health professionals.

■ Maintain school routines. If you are at home it’s important to maintain the routine of a school day. Get your child out of bed, get them sitting at the table when it’s class time and keep them from more pleasurable activities such as gaming. If you are going to go for a walk do it in recess time.

■ Self-care. Parents need to think about their own self-care. They may need to seek support and family counselling can be helpful as school refusal is something that can impact the family unit.

The good news is that with the right support, young people who are school refusing can return to the classroom.

“It’s not forever - we know we can get young people back to school, it just takes time and it takes working on it,” Dr McKay-Brown said.

Managing a child’s transition to school TRANSITIONING young children into school can be a daunting thought for parents.

Head of Early Learning at St Catherine’s School, Toorak, Ms Sarah Bethune, provides her top four tips to make the transition a positive experience for parents and children.

“During this stage of the year it is wise to commence preparing children for the next step in their educational journeys. For some children this means moving on to the next year level, for others it means the commencement of Prep, and potentially changing schools.

“For all children, there is some form of change ahead. This is both an exciting and uncertain time,” Ms Bethune explains.

St Catherine’s School’s Early Learning Centre provides a range of orientation and transition programs to support and guide the children through this process, and involves opportunities for visiting the new classrooms, meeting their new teachers and interacting with the other children who will be in their class.

“Our Early Learning educators have ongoing discussions with the children to prepare them for each step in the transition process. This is done in a calm and reassuring way, so the children have enough information about what is happening, but do not become overwhelmed,” Ms Bethune shares.

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them as an exciting opportunity. They are: ■ Role model positivity: This change is an opportunity for the children to learn new things and make new friends.

■ Answer questions honestly: Children have many questions. It is important they are answered in an honest and reassuring manner without overtalking the subject and creating further worry.

■ Allow time to prepare: Children feel secure in knowing what is happening ahead of time. Allocate time to prepare your child for their orientation sessions by reminding them where they will be going and

what will be happening.

■ Be prepared: It may take some time for your child to adapt to the change.

It is important to maintain consistent routines at home and provide your child with the time and emotional support that they need.

Committed to excellence in early childhood education and care, St Catherine’s Early Learning Centre provides an outstanding environment for children to play, learn and grow, and develop the comprehensive fundamentals to commence school.

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‘Tis the season for bathers and beach days IT’S certainly that time of year to buy bathers as Christmas nears.

With the weather warming up and the days spent relaxing beside the pool or playing on the beach, swimwear is the perfect gift for little ones.

There are so many toys and gifts for toddlers to choose from, but there is no substitute for being active and playing in the water to create the best holiday memories.

The holidays are about spending time together, sharing a special meal with friends and family, and celebrating the abundance that we have in our lives.

The look of delight on children’s faces as they wake extra early and race to unwrap their presents and nibble on their favourite holiday treat, or the left-over carrot from Rudolf.

The spirit of Christmas should be in all our planning and purchasing decisions this year.

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setting an example for our children of thoughtfulness in where and how we shop. What gift we choose to place beneath the Christmas tree and what we serve on the Christmas table.

By following these values, Tyoub has reduced the number of presents bought for Secret Santa.

Choosing gifts that are reusable and of good quality, that are designed with purpose and made for longevity.

Buying locally made and designed items, will not only sustain our local businesses and much loved high streets but will reduce the carbon footprint for a greener Christmas. By re-thinking our reason to buy this holiday season we choose our economic and environmental future.

‘Tis the season to buy bathers, make merry and spread cheer around your home.

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Claire and Beau with their children Jake, Mia and Evie.

Mum’s amazing act to save her son’s life Matching scars... Claire and son Jake.

By Melissa Grant

At the RCH, Claire and her partner Beau met with transplant surgeons and Jake was put on transplant waiting lists in Australia and New Zealand.

SIX-YEAR-OLD Jake Shiels had only two days left on life support when his mum gave him an incredible life-saving gift.

Due to the urgency of the situation, both Claire and Beau underwent tests to see if it was possible one of them could donate part of their liver.

The Melbourne boy was battling a mystery virus that had caused his liver to fail and he needed a transplant to have any chance of surviving.

Claire was watching her son on life support when a surgeon called to inform her she was a match.

Time was running out to find a donor when his mum, Claire DeStratis, discovered she was compatible but donating part of her liver meant risking her own life.

“The surgeons said ‘look, one in four you’re going to have a major complication and one in 200 don’t survive the surgery’,” the mum of three said.

“That was probably one of the things that scared me the most. But I knew that Jake was going to get what he needed regardless of anything that happened to me.

The following day she was admitted to the Austin Hospital for a six-hour surgery to retrieve 20 per cent of her liver. Under police escort, the partial liver was then rushed to the Royal Children’s Hospital for Jake’s 12-hour transplant surgery.

Jake spent weeks in hospital.

Medical Centre in Clayton.

The youngster’s skin had also turned yellow and blood tests revealed he had a viral hepatitis.

“He wasn’t going to get it any other way because they couldn’t find a donor and they could only keep him on life support for a maximum of five days.”

Two weeks of tests failed to uncover what exactly the virus was, but it was clear that his immune system had begun attacking his liver.

The nightmare ordeal started in February this year, less than two weeks after Jake returned to school.

“They said ‘we are going to have to transport him to the RCH (Royal Children’s Hospital) because his liver is failing. He’s going to be going to the transplant ward and he’s going to need a liver transplant’,” Claire explained.

All of a sudden the usually healthy and happy boy felt extremely ill.

“We thought he had gastro but within 24 hours of him vomiting his eyes turned yellow and I knew that wasn’t normal so I rushed him to our local GP,” Claire recalled.

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“There was no stopping the onslaught of it. There was no minimising the symptoms or anything like that, his liver was failing.

“I watched him deteriorate over 11 days… my heart was just breaking.”

Fortunately Jake responded well to the transplant, with his skin returning to a healthier colour in less than 24 hours.

The entire time, Beau was with Jake while the couple’s daughters Mia and Evie were cared for by their aunt and grandmother. Claire’s workplace rallied to raise over $17,000 while a GoFundMe raised more than $10,000 for the couple.

“Our family and friends showed such great support financially,” Claire said.

“We were able to put all our energy into Jake’s recovery and my recovery without the financial worry.”

Claire spent an entire week laying in a hospital bed wondering how her little boy was faring.

When the pair finally reunited Jake’s face lit up and he proudly pointed to the scar on his stomach.

“I said to him, ‘mum has one too honey’,” Claire said.

Claire has recovered well and it is believed her liver has regrown and returned to its pre-surgery size.

Jake had some complications following his life-saving surgery - his lung collapsed and a blood clot that formed on his liver had to be removed.

After the transplant, it was discovered that Jake’s mystery illness was slapped cheek, a virus he previously caught and fought off but had caused an immune response so heightened it attacked the liver.

Jake will take immunosuppressive medication for the rest of his life and is on a low-fat diet to ensure his liver isn’t under undue pressure.

Apart from that it’s been pretty smooth sailing post-surgery for Jake, who celebrated his 7th birthday in October.

“You look at him today and you wouldn’t even think he has had an organ transplant,” Claire said.

“He is such a good kid and he is such a fighter. Even four of five days after the transplant he was trying to get up and walk… he just took it all in his stride.”

Claire is eternally grateful to the talented surgeons who performed the life saving transplant surgeries.

“Without them and the knowledge they have we wouldn’t be where we are today.

“Jake was operated on for 12 hours, I was operated on for six hours - that’s incredible.

“I can’t thank them enough.”

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Mum’s acne win

By Melissa Meehan WHEN Judy Cheung-Wood was a teenager, she suffered terrible acne.

And it followed her into adulthood.

“I started all of the brands at the supermarket but I found they ended up irritating my skin, so by the time I was in uni I was using very expensive products – I didn’t care if the bottle was $50 and when it didn’t work I just kept trying he next product,” Judy told Kids Today.

“So it got to the point that I had exhausted the market and I was reading some research about the benefits of vitamin B5 and I was absolutely fascinated.”

From there, this busy Melbourne mum of one started her holistic business, called SkinB5 that saw her win the gold in the 2021 AusMumpreneur Global Brand Award as well as a silver for product innovation and multicultural business excellence.

“For decades, no one challenged the conventional approach to treating acne – using harsh chemicals to kill bacteria associated with acne breakouts, merely managing the symptoms,” Judy said.

“These wins showcase the traction that we have made and help refuel our passion to help acne sufferers with our nutraceutical Australian made products.”

SkinB5 is an Australian made skincare product composed of dermanutraceuticals, which treat acne holistically without side effects.

And it now has health professionals are recommending SkinB5 as an alternative to prescription acne medication.

The patented vitamin formula found in SkinB5 addresses the underlying causes of acne rather than just the symptoms.

Thousands of acne sufferers have left 5 star reviews and they call SkinB5 a ‘game changer’.

“In healing my own skin, I’m deeply driven to help others confidently present their full face and vision to the world,” Judy said.

It is no surprise she went down that path either, her grandfather was a chemist and manufacturer of natural skin products too.

She believes she has inherited his expertise and passion for traditional, nutritional medicine and creation of natural skincare products.

It is no mean feat creating a skincare empire with a young daughter in tow, she’s now seven, but Judy says it’s really important to set aside some me time.

Judy built the business from a ground up, launching online with no advertising.

Melbourne mum Judy Cheung-Wood started her own business based on her experience with teenage acne.

However, with a little help from her friends at AusTrade – who invited her on an international trip to sell her wares before she even had a product.

“We had an idea, but no product – so we had to get that sorted before we went on that trip,” she said.

Now, she sells her product worldwide, includes Singapore, Philippines.

“I always use the philosophy of putting on an oxygen mask on yourself when in a plane before you out it on your child, and in life I think we have to do that,” she said.

“I actually schedule a walk every day in my calendar because it doesn’t happen otherwise.”

To read more about Judy’s product go to www.skinb5.com

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Books

A ‘Wandi’ful book for kids

By Melissa Grant THERE’S a true story about a dingo pup that fell out of the sky and into the backyard of a Victorian home.

Now that story is being shared in the form of a children’s book to raise awareness about purebred alpine dingoes, a species in need of protection.

Critically acclaimed author Favel Parrett wrote the book Wandi, named after the dingo that she’s come to know incredibly well.

Favel volunteers at the Dingo Discovery Sanctuary, where Wandi has lived since falling from the sky in August 2019.

Marks on Wandi’s back suggested he was picked up by a wedge-tail eagle or an owl and taken from his home in the mountains and dropped into a suburban backyard in Wandiligong, near Bright.

A woman found Wandi, who was just five weeks old at the time, crying in a garden and initially thought he was a dog or fox. However, DNA testing revealed he was in fact a purebred alpine dingo.

Wandi was taken to Dingo Discovery Sanctuary, where he was nursed back to health and paired with a female cub.

Wandi became an overnight sensation, with his incredible survival story making headlines around the world.

It’s a story Parrett wanted to tell in a children’s book. She longs for young readers to fall in love with alpine dingoes like she has.

Parrett met her first dingo a few years ago while visiting the sanctuary for a ‘cuddle a cub’ tour.

She thought she would be cuddling some cute cubs, but was instead blown away by what she discovered about the species.

She knew she was in the “presence of greatness” when she learned that they could hear human heartbeats from 25 metres away.

“They are hyper intelligent, their intelligence is beyond,” she said.

“Also, wherever their head can fit, they can fit. They can dislocate both of their shoulders and their hips.”

Parrett is at the sanctuary twice a

Wandi the dingo dingo.

week and has seen Wandi come leaps and bounds since meeting him as a four-month-old pup.

The wonder dingo recently became a dad to six cubs and has amassed more than 56,000 followers on Instagram.

Wandi’s journey to fatherhood is central to the book. According to Parrett, it’s a story of hope as it ends with the famous dingo having his own family. However he is missing his own parents and siblings and wishing they could all be free in the wild.

Author Favel Parrett is passionate about dingoes.

Unfortunately, Parrett says it’s impossible to “rewild” the sanctuary’s dingoes due to the threats they face. including being shot by hunters.

of great need,” she said.

Parrett hopes her story can rewrite the role of alpine dingoes and teach children to be proud of the apex predator.

She believes Wandi’s fall from the sky has a purpose.

Wandi is available at local bookstores.

The book is also available at wandithedingo.com.au, with all proceeds from the book and merchandise going to the sanctuary.

“Wandi has come here for a reason, we believe Wandi came to us at a time

You can also follow Wandi on Instagram at wandi_dingo

“He’s our ambassador to show, let’s give dingoes a chance… and say, hey let’s be proud.”

Children’s books...

Cookie

Little Big Bully

Isabelle Duff, illustrated by Susannah Crispe

Trace Moroney

A heartwarming book about the beautiful bond between Girl and her Border Collie Cookie that is a sensitive exploration of childhood depression. The inseparable pair play together and learn how to make each other happy, even on the days when Cookie is the only one who can make Girl smile. The book is inspired by the author’s personal experiences with acute depressive disorder and anxiety, and by her wonderful dog, Saffy, who has been an invaluable support to her. A valuable resource for reducing stigmatism around mental illness, and a tribute to the loved ones who are able to get you out of bed when nothing else can.

A thoughtful book that sensitively describes how and why bullying happens. It explores a range of wellresearched techniques to develop coping skills and proactive strategies that describe what to do when bullying occurs.

Little Big Bully is part of Trace Moroney’s new My Emotions Series about big feelings for little people. The first of two titles in the series (the other is The Grief Wave) which equips kids with valuable skills to navigate their way through life’s ups and downs.

A must read for kids aged 4+ eQ Publications, RRP $20.99

Kid President Totally Rules!

Who’s a Goose?

Deltora Quest

Scott Stuart

Emily Rodda

Jack Health, illustrated by Max Rambaldi

A hilarious book about two gaggling geese that will make kids giggle. The geese are grappling with how collective nouns apply to a variety of animals, from a barrel of monkeys to a cool waddle of penguins. One goose is goose, and two goose is geese… you get the idea! Serious Bruce is trying to teach silly-billy Bill but it’s not going that well. And when some foxes arrive, the lesson is pretty much over! With animated illustrations and rhyming text, this is a fun read for kids aged 3+

A special 21st anniversary edition of Deltora Quest from award-winning author Emily Rodda that features the much-loved series of eight books.

What would your child do if they were president? In this comedy from award-winning Aussie author Jack Heath, Jaxxon has accidentally been elected as the first Kid President. He wants free ice-cream in schools, homework to be made illegal and national parks to become skate parks. Sounds awesome, right? Well not everyone is happy and they want Jaxxon kicked out of the presidential office. Can Jaxxon remain president and show everyone that he totally rules? For readers aged 9+ Scholastic Australia, RRP $17.99

Scholastic Australia, RRP $17.99

Three companions - Leif, Barda and Jasmine - are on a quest to find the seven lost gems of the Belt of Deltora. Once the belt is complete the evil rule of Shadow Lord will be overcome.

This gripping novel is set in the fantasy world of Deltora, a kingdom of magic and monsters, bordered by the sea and a vast, curving mountain range, beyond which is an unknown territory called the Shadowlands.

For readers aged 8+ Scholastic Australia, RRP $39.99

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Kids Calendar

What's on

this summer

18 DECEMBER

UNTIL 24 DECEMBER

SEE SANTA!

SANTA’S WORKSHOP

Spot Santa doing laps around Camberwell Junction on a motorbike with sidecar.

Check out Santa’s Workshop at Federation Square.

There will also be live musicians and circus performers roving around the precinct.

11am-2pm

18 DECEMBER CHRISTMAS QUEST Enjoy a fun and unique Melbourne Christmas adventure with Marvel Studios’ Hawkeye.

Say hello and pose for a free photo (from a Covid-safe distance of course!).

Santa will be in his workshop daily from 10am-2pm, then 1pm to 3pm right up until Christmas Eve. You can also catch him on Thursdays and Fridays between 4pm and 7pm.

Check-in, proof of vaccination required and capacity limited. Expect small waiting times during busy periods.

Free event. No bookings required.

Get your Quest Card from the Melbourne Visitor Hub. Then follow the clues to navigate through laneways and arcades to find the answers, with some help from your favourite Avenger.

Decipher all the clues and complete the Quest for the chance to win prizes.

CHRISTMAS PROJECTIONS The much-loved Christmas projections are back at Melbourne Town Hall. See five gorgeous adornments, complete with a countdown to Christmas clock.

While visiting, go and see the projections at Chapter House Lane and Hamer Hall too.

Nightly 9pm-11pm. Bookings not required.

UNTIL 31 DECEMBER SHRINE KIDS The Shrine of Remembrance is offering a free self-guided program for families with primary school-aged children.

There are four different activity cards that provide a starting point for fresh perspectives of the Shrine. Kids are asked to consider and conjure their creative responses to a range of questions related to different aspects of the Shrine.

ALL SUMMER LUNA PARK For good old fashioned summer fun, head to Luna Park.

Step through the famous mouth of Mr Moon, enjoy a ride on The Great Scenic Railway and take a spin on the newest Supernova ride for spectacular views of the city and Port Phillip Bay. Choose your horse and ride the magical carousel, try out your dodgem skills or go back in time on the retro-scary Ghost Train.

Luna Park is open every weekend, Victorian school holidays and every public holiday except Christmas Day. www.lunapark.com.au

THE STORY OF THE MOVING IMAGE

Free event. No bookings required.

Bookings not required. All children must be accompanied by an adult.

UNTIL 20 DECEMBER

Shrine of Remembrance, Birdwood Ave, Melbourne

An exhibition that traverses time, countries and cultures in a mesmerising exploration of an art form that changed the world and illuminated our collective humanity. The free vent features ancient shadow puppets, Victorian-era magic lanterns, original cameras, iconic costumes, movie sets, sketches and more.

HOCUS POCUS: MAGIC WITH ELIO SIMONETTI

FEBRUARY

ACMI (Australian Centre for the Moving Image), Federation Square

An online video series starring master magician Elio Simonetti who explains how to perform some astonishing tricks you can do to amaze your family and friends.

A free event for kids aged 5-12 years.

No bookings required.

More information: https://www. melbourne.vic.gov.au/

SUMMER IN THE PARK

UNTIL 25 DECEMBER CHRISTMAS SQUARE See Christmas come to life at Melbourne’s Federation Square. There will be plenty of festive decorations and the city’s iconic 16-metre light-up tree.

New additions include sparkling neon trees, giant bell swings, beautiful baubles and other glittering new decorations.

Free event. No bookings required.

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Boroondara’s Summer in the Park is returning in 2022. This festival brings music, cinema, theatre and circus to Boroondara’s parks and gardens in a fun and Covid-safe environment.

More information: https://www.acmi. net.au/whats-on/story-of-the-movingimage-exhibition/

There will be 18 events held across five weekends in February and March 2022.

Headline events in February include Cinema in the Park (5 February), Jazz in the Park (Saturday 12 February), Family Fun in the Park (Saturday 19 February), and Opera in the Park (Saturday 19 February).

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