Casey Cardinia Kids Winter 2018

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HELLO! I'm excited to be part of the team bringing you this awesome edition of Casey Cardinia Kids. Can you believe it's winter? I actually can't as it's my first real winter in a decade having only returned to the Casey Cardinia area at the beginning of this year following stints in Brisbane and North Queensland.

Needless to say the chilly weather is starting to bite!

This edition is jam-packed with great winter reads. You'll love reading about Pakenham mum Belinda Denney (pages 34-35) who gave birth to the first boy on her side of the family in 107 years! How amazing is that?

The mag also features a string of

household names, including renowned children's author Alison Lester on Pages 4-5. I loved reading Alison's books as a child and now, as a mum, I enjoy relaying Noni the Pony to my one-yearold daughter.

Jordan Ablett speaks to us about her passion for working with children and her new role as ambassador for pregnancy support organisation The Babes Project on Page 7. She also shares memories from her own childhood and her future plans with husband, AFL star Gary.

Now, we all want to raise happy, confident and respectful kids. However doing so is no easy feat, so be sure to read the fantastic tips from acclaimed psychologist and parenting expert Dr Michael Carr-Gregg on Page 8.

Many kids are raised alongside pets, with nearly two-thirds of Aussie households having one or more domestic animals. However, you might be surprised at some of the ways a child benefits from having a furry (or not so furry) friend. Discover the raft of benefits in our 'pawsome' pet feature on Pages 6-7.

We also have a stack of information on the region's top schools and tips on how to beat the dreaded flu.

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It's Your Life

Education

Party time!

At home with Alison Lester Pages 4-5

Homework a real hassle Page 20

Our great cake expectations Page 32

Kids and pets a 'pawsome match' Page 6

New Rivercrest campus coming Page 21

A great place to party and play Page 32

Wonder dog transforms Ollie's life Page 7

Winter a great time to get in the swim Page 21

Reality Bites

Dr Carr-Gregg's top parenting tips Page 8

Giving boys the best education Page 22

Jordan Ablett working alongside babes Page 9

Once a farm, now an educational powerhouse Page 23

Life busy but rewarding with three under three Page 33

Kids get out of pool too early Page 10 Parents urged to take alcohol pledge Page 10 Mental health a worry for kids Page 13

Health Avoiding the dreaded flu Page 15 Better Health for the whole family Page 15 Invisalign a great fit for teens Page 16 Parents need to brush up on oral health Page 17 Dental clinic makes parents' lives easier Page 18 Team expands at dental clinic Page 19

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Entertainment Croc's Playcentres great for kids and adults Page 26 Fun for everyone at Cardinia Lakes Page 27 Shop local and save Page 27 Phillip Island feature Pages 28-30

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Jack Denney - the first boy born on his mum's side of the family for 107 years - and sisters Indie and Harlie.

Picture: Rob Carew

Mum has first boy in family in over a century Pages 34-35

Jordan Ablett WORKING WITH BABES

Fashion Stay on trend this winter Pages 36-38

Games and Gadgets Loving life through toys and technology Page 39

Books

Pets and kids:

A pawfect match AT HOME WITH

Alison Lester

A raw, honest take on motherhood Page 40 Children's books Page 40

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AT HOME WITH

Alison Lester

Popular children's author and illustrator Alison Lester has more than 25 picture books.

publisher with a company called Affirm Press in the city. Lachie, the youngest one, is a grain trader. He's got a little girl called Francesca and she was born prematurely last year. She was in the Royal Children's Hospital for three months, but she's going really well.

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How premature was Francesca?

She was about 10 weeks premature.

For that three months, she had her own nurse for the entire time. It's amazing the care we can get.

The Silver Sea - this is what you wrote in collaboration with the children at the Royal Children's Hospital?

ALISON LESTER is one of Australia's best-known children's authors and illustrators, with more than 25 children's picture books and two young adult novels. Her picture books are often influenced by her childhood on a farm in Gippsland's Yanakie, near Wilsons Promontory, including enduring favourites My Farm, Noni the Pony, and Magic Beach. Alison's career has taken her around the world, from remote Australia to Antarctica.

Well that's what we planned originally. While I was a children's laureate I started going to the hospital and then after a while Jane Godwin, who used to be my editor at Penguin and is also an author, was interested in coming too. So we've been going together, and it's nicer doing it as a double gig. For a while the teachers there were really keen for the kids to write a story. But because we weren't there all the time, and the kids were coming and going, we decided we would write the story and get the kids to illustrate it. Years ago, I went to Antarctica and did a project called Kids Antarctic Art and we sell those images all the time and use them in books as well.

And because they are not really mine, I did them with children, the profits from them I've always said would go to the Royal Children's Hospital. But it's always been complicated to donate to the hospital and get it through to the school, so we've gotten around that by me just buying art supplies and giving them to the school.

heaps of grandkids now. I think 'oh yes that sounds great' - and then when I have to do it I think 'oh I don't really want to go', because I would rather be home with the babies. It's nice to get out to the places but it also means you are away from home.

And how many grandchildren do you have now?

Jade Glen caught up with the long-term Nar Nar Goon resident to chat about her career, becoming a grandparent, and the importance of reading to children.

There's six, and another one coming soon. The oldest one has just turned four.

You've done lots of artist-in-residence and writers-in-residence in some amazing places. Do you say yes to everything?

Will, the oldest one is the district veterinary officer at Leongatha and he's got three little kids with another one on the way. Clair, my daughter, has got two babies and one of them's really new, and she's a children's book

Well I try not to because we've got

And what are your children up to now?

How long were you in Antarctica for?

The first time I was there for six weeks on the Aurora Australis, a lovely ship.

Was Antarctica what you expected?

I guess it was - I just love it, I've been back five times now. It's so incredible, it's like going to a different planet really.

And how did you become involved with the Indigenous Literacy Foundation?

I'd been doing work in remote communities for a long time, and when I heard about it I thought 'oh wow, that sounds like a really good fit for me'. So eventually we met up and I've been doing work for them ever since, usually going to communities and helping them make books. I've just been to Amata helping make books with the playgroup there.

Your books have a strong connection to Yanakie, where you grew up, and nearby Fish Creek. Do you go back there a lot?

Yes, that's where I grew up and I've inherited a little bit of the farm, so we've got a house there that we go to. We've got the shop at Fish Creek and a brother and sister and some friends down there, so I drive down there all the time, it doesn't feel like any distance at all.

It sounds like an amazing kind of childhood to have, growing up on a farm and doing all of those things that are in your books.

Yes. And I guess a lot of people around here would relate to it, growing up on the land.

Do you think that's important for kids, to be mucking around outside with animals and having those adventures?

I think it's really important. When I flew back in to Melbourne recently I came in from the north and there were just acres of houses - these huge houses with a backyard as big as this kitchen table. And you think what are those kids doing? They must be inside all the time. I just know with my kids and grandkids, they always get so ratty if they are inside too much. Being outside and being in the world is just a tonic, you know, and for us too. If you are in a bad mood there is nothing better than going for a run or a walk and just seeing what's around you.

When I was young one of my favourite books was The Quicksand Pony. Was that based on a story that happened to you, or to someone you knew?

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your life So did you read to your own children every day?

Well, I would like to say I did. We read a lot, but Lachie, the littlest one, often missed out because we were so busy. He would be down in bed calling 'mum, come read to me!' And I'd yell out 'I'm coming!' And then I'd get down there and he'd be asleep, or I would read to him and I would fall asleep.

He's turned out to be a bookworm so that's OK. Bigsy, of My Dog Bigsy fame, rules the roost.

When I was a little girl, my dad and my uncle used to lease the southern part of Wilsons Promontory and run cattle there. We had this beautiful horse called Taffy, a big Buckskin horse and he got bogged in quicksand on the way home. So it was a combination of that story, and also the story of Biddy, who was, depending on who tells the story, either an Aboriginal woman or a convict who escaped from jail in Tasmania, and she came across Bass Strait in a rowboat with other people, which was wrecked on the coast of the prom and she was the only survivor.

And she lived for a long time out there by herself until she was found. I don't know if she needed rescuing, but she was 'rescued'. So it was really a combination of those two stories, and as a kid I loved that thought of living in the bush by yourself.

So how did you get from the family farm to Melbourne?

I boarded at St Margaret's (in Berwick) for four years, and then I went to Melbourne Uni and did a year of Arts and just mucked around the whole time. I went to the pub and was a ratbag really. And after that my parents kind of pulled the pin and said 'you've got to do something'. So I trained as a secondary art teacher. That was a lot about art but not a lot about teaching, so when I actually went teaching I didn't like it very much. Eddie and I got married and went to South America and travelled around there for a year, and when we got back we started our family, and that's when we came here.

About the same time I thought 'I don't want to be home with nothing to do', so I thought maybe I could get some work as an illustrator - I rang a publishing house and asked for some work and was really lucky to get the right person on the end of

that phone who said 'come in and meet me'. She gave me my very first break and we are still really good friends. I probably illustrated other people's work for about five years and then started on my own stories.

Did you consider yourself more of an artist, or more of a writer?

A bit of both I think. It's funny, when I'm writing I think it would be easier to be drawing, and when I'm drawing I think it would easier to be writing. I find writing, the actual physical act of writing, very boring - that you just have to sit there and do it. Because I do picture books mine are quite short, so I do a lot of it in my head. While I'm driving I will often just say stuff aloud as I go, just trying to get the words right.

I've done a couple of novels for kids but I can't imagine having the time now to just sit down and write a novel. Maybe when the grandkids are older and I can't walk or something like that, I'll sit down and do some more writing.

Does it take quite a while to do a picture book - what's the process?

I'm getting much faster now, because I just don't have much time. I think the longest was 10 years for Are We There Yet. I did other things in the meantime, but it was a really long process. I probably aim to do one book a year.

And when you were young, did your parents read to you on a regular basis?

Yes we were always read to. We didn't have nearly as many books - I don't think there were as many books around. I can really only remember having a few picture books but once we could actually read, we had masses of books. I could remember struggling to read John and Betty in Grade 2. Kids read a lot earlier than that now - a lot of kids can read by the time they go to school - so it's really changed. But there are heaps of kids too that don't ever learn to read properly, that's the big thing.

Do you think the message is getting through, with libraries and the Premiers' Reading Challenge and things like that - do you think parents are aware of the importance of reading to their children?

I get the feeling that we are always preaching to the converted, we are always getting to the people who read books anyway. And there are lots of families who really have been generationally disadvantaged, who don't have books in their houses, who you don't get to. And I think there needs to be massive government help. Have you heard about Doveton College? It's a school but it's also a go-to place for adults that need to learn things, and it's a health centre - it's a real social hub.

For so many people, just taking their kids to school is so intimidating. So we should have a lot more places like that, so it's easier for people to get their kids to school, even to pre-school early so they can learn how to hold a book and learn how to hold a pencil.

And you share books with your grandchildren obviously - do they enjoy your books?

Yes, they are just in amongst the other books. The Very Noisy Baby is based on my granddaughter Trixie, and she's very aware that it is her book.

was a parent. You have time. When you are a parent you've always got so much to do. But when you are a grandparent you can go well actually there's nothing I have to do today, I can just sit here on the floor and hang out with these kids. But I miss them so much if I don't see them for a few days. You know you start getting older and life's a bit hmm, you know, nothing's happening - and then you have grandkids and life's fantastic.

So what projects are your working on at the moment?

I'm on a really tight deadline to get Noni the Pony Rescues a Joey finished, which is the third Noni the Pony book, and then straight after that I've got to get another book for Affirm press called Tricky's Bad Day, which is about a small person having a bad day.

Yep, happens to all of us doesn't it.

When you were younger, did you ever imagine you would be a highly successful and acclaimed children's author?

Ha ha - what did I think I would be? I probably thought I'd be living in the country. I always thought I would live in a old weatherboard house with a verandah all the way around, and I'd have lots of kids, and doing something arty. But I didn't imagine that I would have this career that has been so much fun. I guess it's taken me places - I've travelled the world doing interesting projects and it's a lovely way to travel.

You are not just going to tourist places, like you are actually going to China and going to a kindergarten out in the back blocks and helping teachers there.

Oh, so now are you going to have to do books for all of them?

Yeah, I've done Bigsy so the dog got in before some of the kids!

Do you find being a grandparent different to being a parent?

Yeah, I think I'm a much better grandparent than I

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PETS AND KIDS ARE A

'pawsome' match

By Melissa Grant PETS are cute, often cuddly and make great companions.

Nearly two-thirds of Australian households have one or more pets, so it's no secret they can be a fabulous addition to the family.

However, you may be surprised at some of the profound ways a pet can improve a child's life.

Above: Narre Warren North baby Darcy Dillon and his 10-year-old labrador Taj are already best mates.

Studies have shown children with pets have higher self-esteem, better immune systems and are even more popular.

Provided you follow a few simple rules, a pet can be one of the best friends your child will ever have.

RSPCA veterinarian Dr Bronwyn Orr says research shows that pet ownership can deliver a raft of benefits.

Left: Ollie, of Officer, celebrates Beagle Boo's 5th birthday.

People with animals, she says, tend to have better cardiovascular health, increased social connectedness and less depression.

"For kids, research has shown they have higher self-esteem," she said.

"There's a research report saying kids who have a good bond with their pets tend to have good bonds with parents and friends."

Animals are also good for a child's immune system.

"Kids growing up with a dog or cat, or any other pet really, they have a stronger immune systems and it seems to reduce the risk of allergy," Dr Orr said.

"There is research that shows kids who grew up on farms have less sick days than kids who grew up in the city."

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"When you are thinking about getting a pet you can never do too much prep or planning," Dr Orr said.

"If you get a puppy or kitten they are just like a child they require a lot of training."

If you're getting a pet specifically for your child, you need to remember that ultimate responsibility for the animal's welfare rests with you.

"The number one thing to keep in mind is: can you be responsible for it?

Even if your kid promises to walk it everyday you have to be prepared to be the back-up guy, essentially," Dr Orr said.

"Sometimes unfortunately parents expect their eight-year-old child to look after the pet."

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TRANSFORMS OLLIE'S LIFE

By Melissa Grant IRWIN the Labrador Retriever has been a life-changing companion for Berwick boy Ollie Hurst.

In the two years they've been best mates, Ollie - who has autism - has become much happier, his anxiety has dramatically reduced and his communication has improved leaps and bounds.

The transformation has been so profound that mum Gillian wants to thank the community for bringing Irwin into their lives and "pay it forward" to help other children, like Ollie, be gifted their own companion dog.

"Ollie is very, very different to how he was," Gillian said.

"Before we got Irwin, Ollie didn't speak in front of anyone he didn't really know and now he's a chatterbox.

"We really just want other families to have their lives made easier."

Ollie, 9, was diagnosed with autism five years ago after Gillian and her husband Jack noticed he was shy and wouldn't make eye contact with people outside their family. He was also having meltdowns triggered by small changes to his routines, couldn't sit still and was struggling to sleep.

When Gillian met a companion dog in training she knew she had to find out more.

The woman raising that puppy put her in touch with Dogs for Kids with Disabilities, an organisation which specialises in training dogs for children with autism and other developmental disorders.

Soon afterwards, Ollie underwent an assessment that determined he would greatly benefit from a companion dog.

They are formally trained up until 18 months and then have "doggy dates" to see if they click with a child.

Irwin was matched with Ollie and it wasn't long before the pair forged a very special bond.

"The dogs have their own personalities, so it's important to get to know what their strengths and weaknesses are and match them to the client," Katie said.

These days they virtually do everything together, from jumping on the trampoline to playing basketball.

They even fall asleep together, which has been a welcome development given Ollie had a lot of trouble getting to sleep and would wake multiple times during the night.

"Irwin goes on Ollie's bed and helps him fall asleep. He helps to settle him," Gillian said.

"He also helps him with his anxiety. Ollie is so much less anxious in every situation."

Irwin is also great with the other Hurst children, 14-year-old Ella and 11-yearold Cooper.

"He always make sure he finds the others to give them a cuddle too - but he knows Ollie is his special child," Gillian said.

Although dogs like Irwin are worth their weight in gold, they don't come cheap.

A companion dog, which provides friendship to a child in the home, costs over $15,000 to raise and train. A full assistance dog, which can go in all public spaces including shopping centres, costs about $25,000.

"Some love riding escalators, while some like cuddles and a cushy job."

The dogs work alongside a range children with special needs.

"For some families they might want a dog who lays on the child and helps with sensory regulation," Katie explained.

"If we can get them (the kids) connected and engaged, we can show them the world is a good place to be and that there is support as well."

The Hursts are forever grateful for the community support they received that allowed Irwin to be part of their family.

"Ollie has been able to progress so much because of this organisation," Gillian said.

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"Some kids want a friend to play footy with. Some want a dog next to them while they play iPad or watch TV." Katie worked as a dog trainer for six years before starting the charity in 2012.

"What I saw is that dogs can build bridges that people can't - they can be our best friends, they can make us feel safe and secure and willing to try everything," she said.

Dogs for Kids with Disabilities founder Katie Hunter said the charity relied on fundraising and donations to raise and train the dogs, which are primarily labradors and golden retrievers sourced from specialist lines around the world.

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your life Expensive white shoes, a park in winter...what could possibly go wrong? According to Dr Michael Carr-Gregg, you can't control what happens - but you can control how you react.

DR CARR-GREGG’S

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By Jade Glen IMAGINE this: you buy your child brand new white shoes - they cost a small fortune, as shoes do. On the way home you stop by the park and your child runs around wearing their new kicks.

Everything's going swimmingly - and then your kid skids through a steaming pile of fresh dog poop.

Dr Michael Carr-Gregg, acclaimed psychologist and parenting expert, says there are two ways you can react in this scenario.

"One is 'oh no, my shoes are ruined, this always happens to me', and misery will prevail," he said.

"You can't choose what happens to you, but you can always choose the way you respond."

Dr Carr-Gregg said the journey from childhood to adulthood now had more risk factors than preventative factors.

"A lot of people are coming out on the other end actually quite damaged.

What I'm interested in is prevention, and what you, as mums and dads and community members, can do to make this journey better."

Parents often asked if their child was normal - and while Dr Carr-Gregg said normal was merely a 'setting on a washing machine,' there were four things he looked for.

"Or if I have got to that child, the moment they step in that dog poo, the first thing they think is 'hey, at least I was wearing shoes'. I want your child to be an at least I was wearing shoes thinker. How do they do that? By copying you. I want you to be an at least I was wearing shoes thinker."

"The ability to obtain, maintain and retain friendships is the greatest predictor of well being. You may think it is being good looking, having lots of money - completely irrelevant.

As keynote speaker at Pakenham Library's 'Together With Me' Summit in April - an initiative of Together We Can to bring together support services and tackle domestic violence in Casey and Cardinia - Dr Carr-Gregg shared his key tips to help parents raise happy, confident and respectful young people.

"They need to understand and enjoy school. What is the single most important predictor of a good schooling experience? The statistics clearly show the greatest predictor is the relationship they have with the teachers, and that is down to respect.

He said there was a key piece of wisdom in the above scenario.

"Finally, do they have a spark, something that gets them up in the morning? Something they feel passionate about?

"When my son was eight he was passionate about leg spin bowling. I would walk in to his bedroom and he had pictures of Shane Warne everywhere. He played grade cricket at

"When he was about 17 it dawned on me that after two days in the hot sun at Casey Fields, he was actually too tired to go down to St Kilda and inject himself with heroin. So here's the thing - while kids are busy doing one thing, they can't be doing another. So if you want to inoculate your kid, make sure they are busy. Talk to anyone and they will say to you - bored kids are trouble.

Because if they are bored they hang out with other kids that are bored, and those bored kids will find something to do to entertain themselves, which won't necessarily be all that constructive."

The 'spark' didn't have to be a sport; it could be music, drama, gymnastics, art, a football team or the library itself anything that was not materialistic and was bigger than them.

Dr Carr-Gregg said he could tell a child was travelling OK if they fulfilled the four requirements. But not all children did - and that is where early intervention was crucial.

"There are some kids that are not happy kids. About one in seven primary school students will have these sorts of symptoms - they may no longer enjoy the things they used to enjoy.

They feel hopeless, they've got no sense of optimism, concentrating and focusing becomes difficult, they will be irritable or will withdraw from their friends. They will also talk of, or attempt to, run away. They don't have energy, they are lethargic, have thoughts of selfharm and sometimes will do it. Somatic

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"In life you can't always change something, but the thing that makes us different from all the other creatures on this planet is that we, and we alone, actually have the capacity to change the way we think about it.

"If they are 12 or 13 and they can't stand being away from you, this is problematic.

15 years of age. We lived in Balwyn and I carted him to Casey Fields to stand in the hot sun for two days while he bowled.

symptoms - tummy aches or headaches. They are actually more irritable than sad, nothing makes them happy, and they are quite hard to be with.

"I'm really concerned that early identification and prompt treatment is not happening. The earlier we get to a kid, the quicker we can start treatment and the better the outcome."

Dr Carr-Gregg said parents had a very important role to play in helping to manage their child's wellbeing.

"One of the things I always say is try and spend at least eight minutes a day with them. We get down on our knees, look them in the eyes and ask them about their day, listen very carefully and then, this is the trick, reflect it back to them. Eight minutes per day, per kid - awfully sorry if you have 14 children - but eight minutes a day is what we reckon really makes a big difference.

"Self-respect comes from them feeling really good about themselves, and one thing that makes them feel good about themselves is if we give them time. Very easy to say, harder to do."

Dr Carr-Gregg said it was crucial parents could strike a positive balance between their work and home life and prioritise self-care to set an example for their children.

He also listed getting enough sleep - 10 hours for primary students and nine hours for secondary students - enough exercise, and a Mediterranean-style diet heavy on vegetables as crucial for mental wellbeing.

"See life for what it is but, for goodness sake, focus on the good bits."

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JORDAN Ablett is no stranger to the spotlight and now she's using her profile to make a real difference to the lives of vulnerable women making the joyous, but often tough, transition to motherhood.

The wife of AFL superstar Gary is the new ambassador of The Babes Project, a crisis pregnancy support service.

The role is a natural progression for Jordan, who has been a teacher's aide and youth worker.

She tells Casey Cardinia Kids reporter Melissa Grant about her passion for working with children, her own childhood and her future plans with Gary.

First of all, welcome back to Victoria.

How does it feel being back here permanently with Gary?

Thank you very much! We're really happy to be back as Victoria is very much home to us. Despite missing the constant sunshine up on the Gold Coast, nothing beats being home and spending time with family.

You've recently become an ambassador for The Babes Project, a not-for-profit pregnancy support organisation.

How have you been enjoying the role?

It wasn't too long ago that I sat down with Helen Parker (founder and managing director of The Babes Project) and had a really good, deep and meaningful conversation about the project and the heart and motivation behind it. As I listened to Helen, it was really obvious to me how passionate she is about getting alongside these women

in what is a really significant season in their lives... pregnancy and becoming a mum! Instantly I knew that I wanted to be a part of The Babes Project (TBP) and to use the platform that I have to help make a real difference in the lives of these beautiful women and their babes.

It's a role where you interact with a lot of pregnant women and newborns have you learnt anything surprising about pregnancy or babies?

I've definitely learnt many things from them. However something I want to touch on is what has mostly stood out to me and that has been their personal stories around the incredible impact that the project has had on them and how supported they now feel. We recently had a breakfast together and I found myself holding back tears when I listened to one mum in particular being really honest about how she often feels really judged in public for being a young mum. She then went on to talk about how TBP has made her feel valued and empowered and totally loved and appreciated. I loved hearing that!

We understand your family has some exciting baby news?

Yes! My oldest sister is about to give birth to her first baby, which our family are really looking forward to. My sisters and I are so close, so to have a new member on board and a part of our tribe is really exciting! We're not sure whether she's having a boy or girl yet but we shall soon find out.

You grew up on the Mornington

Peninsula with your two older sisters. It's such a beautiful spot - what are some of your favourite childhood memories?

I did. The Mornington Peninsula is where I feel most at home. I love getting back there whenever I can to just surround myself with family and those childhood memories. I'm such a sentimentalist so I'm constantly the one in our family who's always reminiscing and trying to recreate a moment. I lived there from the very beginning and right up until I moved up to the Gold Coast in early 2016 when Gary and I married.

The beach was a place where we would often go as kids as it was so close to where we lived. I remember walking along the sand, collecting hundreds of shells and always competing with my sisters to find the best ones. I come from an Italian family also so a lot of my memories involve plenty of food and lots of laughter and good long conversations around the table.

You're also a teacher's aide and have been a youth worker. What do you love about working with kids?

I'm passionate about working with people who are vulnerable. I tend to be drawn to those who are mostly vulnerable, whether that be kids, people with special needs and disabilities, youth or the elderly.

My work over the years has involved spending time with a young boy with autism one-on-one after school where we'd have a real focus on social

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Finally, you've got strong connections with family and friends in Geelong and Gary has publicly said he'd love to have a family of his own one day - do you see yourself here long-term?

We're currently in the process of building a house together in Jan Juc. The plan has always been that once it's ready to move into we will live there for as long as G continues to play football and then we'll reassess post football. An option is to make the Jan Juc house a holiday home as it's so close to the beach and then look elsewhere for our family home, whether we build or buy I'm not too sure. We do love areas such as Malvern, Armadale and then of course the Mornington Peninsula, in particular Mount Eliza. But we'll cross that bridge when the time comes!

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your life Children are beginning swimming lessons at a young age, like these tots at Paul Sadler Swimland, but often exit them before reaching water safety benchmarks.

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By Melissa Grant CHILDREN are taking up swimming lessons earlier than their parents did, but often stop before achieving essential life saving water skills.

New research has revealed threequarters of kids exit swimming lessons before the age of eight as other interests compete with time in the pool.

It is an alarming statistic given the study, by the Royal Life Saving Society, also found children didn't reach water safety benchmarks until they were older.

On average, boys and girls are aged between nine and 10 years when they achieve national benchmark minimum skills of 50m freestyle, 25m survival backstroke and treating water for two minutes.

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TOO EARLY

CEO Justin Scarr said children were taking up swimming lessons earlier than in the 1980s and 1990s, but younger wasn't always better.

five-month olds.

"Our concern is many children exit swimming lessons at an age where they are less likely to learn the lifesaving skills that will help to protect them as they enter adulthood and are exposed to more hazardous water environments," he said.

"As soon as kids start playing basketball, footy and that sort of thing they do tend to drop off," Ms de Wit said.

Most kids continued their lessons until other interests took over at eight or nine years of age.

Many exited lessons before achieving their 'Pumpkin Certificate', which requires a raft of benchmarks including 200m freestyle, 200m backstroke and 10 minutes of treading water.

Mr Scarr said it could be difficult for parents to maintain their child's enthusiasm for swimming lessons after they turned six years old, with weekend sport, parties and after school care competing with time in the pool.

It was important for children to at least reach that level to ensure they had skills to help them get out of trouble in the water, Ms de Wit said.

Paul Sadler Swimland Narre Warren assistant manager Brooke de Wit said many of its swimmers started lessons when they were babies, with mums taking advantage of the centre's free swimming lessons for four and

The Royal Life Saving Society has urged parents to have the swimming skills of their 10-14 year old children reassessed and to consider re-enrolling in lessons over winter.

PARENTS are the main supplier of alcohol to teens in the Cardinia Shire where nearly one in three Year 10 students have consumed alcoholic drinks in the past month.

Many youths also regularly engage in binge drinking, including a small number of kids in Year 6. They are among the key findings of a 2015 report into alcohol and substance abuse in Cardinia. Now, local parents are being urged to make a personal pledge to encourage their teens to adopt sensible drinking habits.

The Cardinia Alcohol and Other Drugs Action Group, together with the Cardinia Shire Council, has established a website where parents can make a pledge and receive practical tips on how to discuss the responsible use of alcohol with their teen.

Action group spokesman David Lane said parents had crucial role when it came to encouraging a responsible approach to alcohol.

"Alcohol is responsible for one third of deaths and injuries for under 18s. It harms young brains and may lead to long-term health issues," he said.

"The good news is the research also shows parents can have a powerful voice in combating negative peer group pressure."

Mr Lane said parents could teach their child how to refuse a drink and encourage fun activities not involving alcohol.

The 2015 Communities that Care report found that the prevalence of substance use, anti-social behaviour and depressive symptoms was progressively higher from Year 6 to Year 10 in the Cardinia Shire.

To take the pledge or for information on how to discuss alcohol use with your teenager, visit www.cardinia.vic.gov. au/pledge

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By Melissa Grant MENTAL health is the number one reason young people are contacting Kids Helpline, with those aged 10-14 reaching out in unprecedented numbers.

In fact, roughly one in four youths who contacted Kids Helpline last year were worried about their own mental health or that of another person, according to a new report.

"They are presenting across range of issues: anxiety, sleeping, things that are happening online, mood swings, self harm, depression and thoughts of suicide."

The figures - coupled with the fact suicide is now the leading cause of children and young people in Australia - has prompted Kids Helpline to call for national approach to prevent young people taking their own lives.

time with young people has increased by 72% in the past 10 years.

The 2017 Kids Helpline Insights report showed the service was contacted 10,636 times by young people with suicide concerns - a figure 22 per cent higher than five years ago. Of these contacts, 27 per cent were from children aged 14 and under.

However, he said many kids with suicide and mental health concerns were often too afraid to seek help.

While the surge in mental health related contacts can mostly be explained by innovations in the operation of Kids Helpline over the past two decades, the growth has mainly been in the 10-14 age category.

Kids Helpline virtual services manager, Tony FitzGerald, said the biggest surge in kids seeking support for mental health was in the 10-14 age group, with the number of contacts increasing 123 per cent in six years.

"Young people are concerned about reaching out to someone because they think they might be judged or labelled an attention seeker," he said.

Kids Helpline CEO Tracy Adams said many in this age group were too young to access community services such as headspace.

"We need strategies to help them reach out for support."

"What we are seeing is kids are getting younger and younger when they are reaching out to us for support.

Sometimes they don't realise it's mental health related," he said.

Family relationship issues (18%) and emotional wellbeing (17%) were the other top reasons young people contacted Kids Helpline in 2017.

"While not just one solution is needed to address this multi-faceted issue, a good start is ensuring that the community works together to create early prevention services that are accessible to those who are most at risk," she said.

And around one in six counselling contacts, either by phone or internet, involved a child or young person seeking help for suicide concerns.

A combination of factors, from school pressures to bullying, are prompting them to seek help.

"There is lots going on for kids - it's complicated. A lot of feeds into it.

There's a lot of pressure that kids are under these days," Mr FitzGerald said.

Mr FitzGerald said early intervention was the key.

Of those who sought help for mental health concerns, around half were seeking support or strategies to managed a disorder, while 37% had symptoms of an undiagnosed mental health condition.

More complex issues have also meant Kids Helpline's total counselling

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2017 KIDS HELPLINE INSIGHT REPORT KEY FINDINGS: ■ 339,724 attempts to contact the counselling service with 157,656 answered ■ 607,634 unique visitors to the Kids Helpline website ■ 74% of youths who contacted Kids Helpline were female; 24 % were male; while 2% were intersex, trans and gender diverse ■ Top concerns were mental health (26%), family relationships (18%), emotional wellbeing (17%), suicide-related (16%), dating and partner relationships (10%) ■ 72% of contacts were from major cities ■ Direct counsellor time with kids up 72% in the past decade ■ 178% growth in webchat since 2012

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Always cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze to help prevent the flu from spreading.

BETTER Health Family Clinic is a fully accredited practice located in Hampton Park.

Their aim is to improve the prevention, care and management of respiratory conditions.

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vulnerable to the virus.

Other available services include onsite pathology and radiology, physiotherapy, psychology, podiatrist, dietitian and respiratory services.

WINTER brings rainy days, chilly nights - and the dreaded flu.

"It (the flu shot) is not 100 per cent effective, but is significantly effective in the younger members of the population," Dr Bartone said.

The clinic is a new, state-of-the-art medical centre offering quality healthcare in modern facilities.

Last year's flu season was the worst since 2009, with almost 1100 deaths and hundreds of thousands of people falling ill across the country.

Anyone can be struck down with the respiratory illness, although certain groups including babies, pregnant women and the elderly are more at risk.

Young children account for nearly one-third of flu hospital admissions. Last year, 12 per cent of flu hospital admissions were children aged less than 6 months and a further 20 per cent were aged between 6 months and 2 years.

The flu can be debilitating, with symptoms hanging around for a week or more.

While some people only get mild symptoms such as a runny nose, headache, body aches and tiredness, the flu can be very severe and lead to pneumonia, inflammation of the brain or heart, organ damage and even death.

So how do you make sure your family doesn't get struck down by the horror virus?

BOOK IN THE FAMILY FOR FLU SHOTS Vaccination gives the best protection against the flu. Australian Medical Association (AMA) vice president Dr Tony Bartone says "99 per cent of the game" is having the flu jab and everything else such as keeping healthy and safe hygiene practices - simply minimise the impact of an outbreak.

"If we immunise everybody we reduce the amount of influenza in the community and therefore its spread," he explained.

The flu shot is free for Victorian children between six months and five years, an age group particularly

"Who wants to see their little bub in hospital?"

You must get a flu shot every year as vaccinations change annually to match the constantly changing flu strains.

Pregnant women, most indigenous people and those who suffer from chronic conditions are also eligible for free shots.

This year, free "enhanced" flu vaccines are available for people aged 65 and over.

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The practice provides a comprehensive range of services and uses the most up to date medical equipment.

With male and female doctors, specialists, radiology and allied health experts, Better Health Family Clinic provides a personalised and caring service for the whole family.

The doctors at Better Health Family Clinic have a keen interest in chronic disease management, skin cancer diagnosis and removals, travel vaccination and advice, diabetes management and care, men's and women's health, family planning and general medical problems.

The medical centre offers specialist services related to respiratory systems and takes a coordinated and holistic approach to the prevention, care and management of respiratory conditions.

Influenza is spread by droplets made when someone infected coughs or sneezes. So be sure to cover your face when you cough or sneeze. It's also a good idea to disinfect surfaces, such as tables and benchtops, where these droplets can land, and avoid sharing cups and cutlery. Now this should go without saying, but be sure to wash your hands regularly and thoroughly.

All GP services are bulk-billed and the clinic also offers WorkCover and TAC services.

The flu vaccination is also available free of charge.

Located on 127 - 129 Somerville Road, just opposite to Hampton Park Shopping Centre, the clinic has a large onsite carpark with disabled parking and access.

The practice is open from 8am to 9pm Monday to Friday and from 9am to 5pm on weekends and public holidays.

It is preferred that patients make an appointment to see a doctor, however urgent cases will be given the highest priority.

To make an appointment, please phone 9702 9300 or visit the website at www.betterhealthfamilyclinic.com.au

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IS IT THE FLU? WHAT DO I DO? The flu is more than just a cold, with common symptoms such as a sudden high fever of 38C or more, a dry cough, body aches and extreme weakness and tiredness. Manage your symptoms, get plenty of rest and keep your fluids up.

You can't take antibiotics as the flu is a viral infection, but decongestants and pain relievers can make you feel better while your immune system fights off the illness. If you're concerned about your symptoms see a doctor, but phone first so the clinic can take precautions to reduce the risk of infection to others. If you have the flu, do your workmates a favour and call in sick. If your child is sick, keep them at home.

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All children, including babies, should have their teeth brushed twice a day.

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By Melissa Grant MANY parents are confused when it comes for caring for their children's teeth with infrequent toothbrushing and too many sugary drinks setting up Aussie kids for a lifetime of poor oral health.

A recent poll has revealed one in three children don't brush their teeth twice a day and one in five preschoolers are consuming sugarsweetened drinks most days of the week.Alarmingly, one in 10 children have had at least one decayed tooth pulled out before their ninth birthday, according to The Royal Children's Hospital National Child Health Poll.

Poll director and RCH paediatrician, Dr Anthea Rhodes, said lots of parents were confused about dental care.

"Many parents believe that children only need to see the dentist when there is a problem," she said.

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So, when should you start brushing your child's teeth and when should you take them to the dentist?

Turns out it's earlier than many mums and dads think.

Dr Rhodes says all children, including babies, should have their teeth brushed twice a day and their first dental check-up should be around 12 months of age.

"From around 18 months they can start with some low fluoride toothpaste, moving onto full strength toothpaste at six years of age," she said.

"Kids under eight years of age will need help from their parents to make sure their teeth are brushed properly."

Yearly dental visits were a must as they made any problems much easier to treat, she added.

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Things definitely get missed or forgotten about. Also, kids can be expensive and spiralling costs are one sure way for parents to get into a huff.

Medicare introduced the Child Dental Benefits Scheme a number of years ago with much success. It allows $1000 for each eligible child over a two-year period for general dental work, fillings and cleans.

Dr Alan Zhang said it was surprising how many parents came into Pakenham Dental and had no idea their children were eligible for the fantastic scheme.

"Too often we see kids booked in and we ask if the parents had received any paperwork from Medicare," Dr Zhang said.

"Too often their response is 'something did come in the mail a year ago, but we thought nothing more of it'.

"You can only imagine the surprise when we tell them that there is a substantial amount that has been just sitting there all this time!"

So if you're in doubt, give Pakenham Dental a call. We can check the eligibility for your child over the phone and advise you if your children are eligible for the Medicare Child Dental Benefits Scheme. If so, all the dental work needed will be covered no gap up to the eligible amount and you'll certainly have one less thing to worry about.

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She is a certified Invisalign provider and also has experience in treating snoring and sleep apnoea.

Yvonne's aim is to provide treatment that is of a high standard, pain-free and in the best interests of her patients.

Yvonne is fluent in both English and Mandarin. During her free time, she enjoys eating, travelling and skiing.

Beaconsfield Dental will again be participating in Dental Health Week from 12-18 August this year.

Dr Robert Panjkov and Dr Hannah Kim are looking forward to leaving their treatment rooms in Berwick and visiting local kindergartens and primary schools to deliver fun and educational talks to children. Look out for Hugo the Dragon

with Dr Hannah and Dr Rob. At Beaconsfield Dental, parents can relax while their children enjoy themselves in the playroom with iPads and a racing car simulator.

Patients are cared for in a relaxed and comfortable environment. The Medicare Child Dental Benefits Scheme is available for eligible families. Beaconsfield Dental is also the preferred providers for Medibank, BUPA, CBHS and HCF. Beaconsfield Dental is open every weekday and Saturdays from 8.30am to 1pm as well as Tuesday evenings with Dr Matthew Clarke. The clinic is located on the corner of Cardinia Street and the Princes Highway, Berwick next to Akoonah Park and opposite Haileybury College.

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Education

KIDS WOULD RATHER

clean than do homework

By Melissa Grant KIDS would rather get a job, clean their room or stay at school longer than do their homework.

And around one in three children don't complete their assignments because they're distracted by social media or television.

These are among the key findings of a national survey, which shows nearly one in two parents are struggling to get their kids to complete any homework.

Busy schedules and kids' preference to do other things are making it extremely difficult for mums and dads to enforce homework.

More than 1000 parents and 500

Excuses kids give

Alarmingly, the survey found one in three parents were unable to help with homework because they didn't understand what was required.

When they fail to hand in their assignments, children usually tell their teachers "I forgot" or "I had too much homework and couldn't do it all".

The survey findings are hardly surprising to Parents Victoria executive officer Gail McHardy, who says the volume and difficulty of homework given is a hot topic.

Ms McHardy believes the impact on families should be considered when

teachers set homework, which includes revising material for tests and projects.

"Not all parents have the time or the capacity to assist with homework," she said.

She said Parents Victoria often heard of circumstances where the volume and difficulty of homework appeared to be burdensome.

"The amount of homework should never be so much that it prevents students from getting sufficient sleep, playing sport, learning a musical instrument or spending quality family time."

Kids' disdain for homework was apparent in the survey with 34 per cent stating they would prefer to clean their

I forgot to do my homework I had too much homework and couldn't do it all I had computer problems

31.8% 23.0% 17.8%

room than do homework. A further 26 per cent said they would rather get a job and 19 per cent said they would prefer to stay at school an hour longer.

Ms McHardy said it wasn't surprising some kids would rather clean their room than hit the books.

However, she said there were certainly some homework tasks that were beneficial to students, particularly reading take home books.

Parents Victoria encourages mums and dads to raise any homework concerns with their child's teacher.

"Communication is key, so schools need to be clear with their homework policy and instructions that go with the work sent home," Ms McHardy said.

I was too busy

16.2%

Other (includes 1.4% dog ate my homework)

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students aged 11-16 took part in the survey, commissioned by educational company Firefly Learning.

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Education

great time to get in the swim WINTER IS A

Turning the first sods at the new Rivercrest campus are Head of College, Dr Michelle Cafini and Executive Principal Geoff Grace, with students Abhiman, Noah, Zara and Sienna.

New Rivercrest campus COMING IN 2019 THE foundation is literally being laid for Rivercrest Christian College's middle years campus.

important in educating the whole child, is that of social and emotional growth," she said.

The new campus, which will take Years 6-10, will open in 2019 and begin with Year 6.

"This growth can include developing resilience, building friendships, being collaborative when solving problems, contributing to group situations, learning to give feedback, developing teamwork skills, learning to negotiate and so on. At school, much of this growth takes place at recess and lunch as students interact with each other."

Planning is well underway for the campus at Clyde North which, once completed, will include four general learning classrooms, a science classroom/lab, an arts/design learning space and various break-out spaces for independent and collaborative learning.

Being consistent with the current Primary Years Campus, the new Middle Years Campus will be conceptdriven, featuring architecturally designed, purpose-built facilities.

Head of College Dr Michelle Cafini said there would be a real focus on student growth.

"At Rivercrest one area we deem

From 2020, "Rivercrest Christian College will have both Year 6 and 7 classes on site," Dr Cafini explained.

Currently Rivercrest caters from Early Learning to Year 5. Additional year levels will be taken in subsequent years, eventually catering for students in Year 6-10.

For more information and ongoing updates, please visit the Rivercrest Christian College website at www.rivercrest.vic.edu.au

THE arrival of winter has many parents pondering whether their children should be doing swimming lessons.

The simple answer is absolutely.

This is because swimming all year round - including in the cold weather - is critical in developing a child's swimming ability.

Paul Sadler Swimland's Nicole Griffiths said children who kept up their swimming lessons, without taking a break, continued to develop essential life-saving water skills and Infant classes are po pular at Paul achieve their certificates.

Sadler Swimland.

"Swimming lessons are likely to be a child's only exposure to water, so year everyone to get changed out of their round swimming gives your child swimwear in comfort. every opportunity to develop confidence and strong skills in and The winter months can also be the around water," she said. perfect time for babies to get in the "It also ensures you make the most of swim, with Paul Sadler offering free lessons for four and five month olds. your investment as there is no regression of skills due to the break."

"Parents should take advantage of these free lessons, even if it is winter, as Parents and children needn't worry they are a great way to introduce their about shivering through swimming lessons over winter. baby to the water," Ms Griffiths said.

Paul Sadler Swimland Carrum Downs and Narre Warren both keep their pool water heated to at least 32C. The air temperature at both facilities is also heated to about 28C, allowing

For more information on the benefits of year round swimming, call Paul Sadler Swimland Carrum Downs on 9789444 or Paul Sadler Swimland Narre Warren on 8790 5540.

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Education

GIVING BOYS

the best education

A DESIRE to develop good men is a common thread in the approach to educating boys across the world's best schools.

While such an approach has been an historical element of boys' education, there is now greater focus on developing skills for life rather than just the completion of examinations at leading schools all over the globe.

Berwick Grammar School Head of Campus, Dr Steven Middleton says this new approach to boys education has emerged over the past decade in response to the popular perception that contemporary schooling didn't meet male students' emotional, physical or holistic needs.

"As the only dedicated boys school in our local area, Berwick Grammar School is uniquely placed to provide an education that meets the unique needs of boys," Dr Middleton said.

"Our staff are particularly adept and experienced in meeting the various development needs of boys as they transition through the various phases of adolescence."

Berwick Grammar challenges each boy to find his own brand of excellence, with a diverse range of co-curricular activities including sport and cultural pursuits designed to help them discover their inner passion.

The school's Growing Good Men Project seeks to develop the leadership capacity and literacy capabilities of

Berwick Grammar school captains Aidan Ferreira and Will Morgan.

each boy as he transitions from childhood to adolescence and ultimately manhood.

"This project is evidence based and underpinned by the latest thinking of educational leaders and academics from across the world," Dr Middleton said.

Also, Berwick Grammar's affiliation with the IBSC (The International Boys School Coalition) places the research, programs and resources of the greatest schools and thinkers of education at its fingertips.

He said the resources and relationship with St Margaret's School, our senior girls campus, provided an educational resource many schools sought to replicate.

"There are many exciting things happening as Berwick Grammar School focuses on growing good men - men who have the values and character to be great fathers, husbands, partners,

employees and employers," Dr Middleton said.

"Berwick Grammar School is certainly a school with an eye on innovation and the future, whilst drawing upon the very best traditions of the past."

Berwick Grammar is located at 80 Tivendale Rd, Officer. To discover more about the leading boy's school, visit www.stmargarets.vic.edu.au/berwickgrammar-school or phone (03) 9703 8111

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Learn about the Rivercrest new Middle Years (Years 6-10) with Dr Michelle Caini, Head of College.

Our School has a proud tradition of educational excellence for girls and boys from ELC through to Year 12. We invite you to visit and discover more at our upcoming events.

SCHOOL in ACTION

Monday 18 June Thursday 26 July Monday 3 September Thursday 11 October

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Education

Fordholm Road, Hampton Park Direct all enquiries to Janette Kalatzis, Transition Leader on 8795 9400 www.hpsc.vic.edu.au email: Hampton.park.sc@edumail.vic.gov.au

Once a farm,

now an educational powerhouse The farm, located adjacent to what is now known as Mansfield Street, was a horse stud and agistment property.

"Strikingly picturesque, framed as it was with white railing fences, it always caught my eye," Berwick Lodge Principal Henry Grossek recalled.

"Horses grazed quietly on the lush green grass, protected as they were from the cold winds from the south west by banks of densely planted cyprus trees, neatly trimmed."

Today, it's hard to picture the farm once existing on the grounds of the well-regarded school.

"I had no idea that all these years later I would be here as the founding principal of Berwick Lodge Primary

School, let alone for the duration of its existence, that being 29 years to date," Mr Grossek said.

"Today, our school can rightly be judged as having significantly extended the contributions that Farmer Fry and horse stud farm undoubtedly made in their time."

Berwick Lodge Primary School's diverse and quality curriculum with an intense focus on student wellbeing continues to draw enrolments from well beyond the surrounding neighbourhood.

"What is it that enables us to continue to attract our students, even from afar?" Mr Grossek said.

"I'd say it is our hard won and carefully guarded reputation as a primary school that offers students choice and quality in every respect.

"Why not put us to your test?"

BERWICK LODGE PRIMARY SCHOOL LEARNING FOR LIFE...

www.berwicklodgeps.vic.edu.au Facebook: @berwicklodgeps 139-145 Mansield St, Berwick VIC 3806 (03) 9707 1766 Principal: Henry Grossek • Coding and Robotics

• Mandarin • Visual Arts

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• Music and Performing Arts • Sensory and Community Garden

• Sports – Students can represent Hampton Park in a variety of sports and house events

• Library Progam • STEM Learning • Multimedia/Radio Show Program

• Instrumental Music Program – Learn an instrument and perform when you are ready • FLS – Flexible Learning Space specifically for Year 7 & 8 students to learn • Homework Club – where students can catch up and ask questions of their teachers Our door is always open. Please call Janette Kalatzis for a tour of the College.

• School Production – This year we are performing ‘Grease’ the musical • SRC & Leadership – Students have the opportunity to represent their peers as a leader • Peer Support Program – All year 7s are teamed up with our Year 10 & 11 student mentors • The Maker Space – A variety of clubs happen here; Drone, Photography, Barista (and you can buy coffee!)

• Sport and Physical Education

• Prep/Grade 6 Transition Program

Hampton Park Secondary College offers an array of activities and different spaces to ensure students are connected to their secondary school life.

Students can partake in a variety of activities to further their growth both socially and academically.

• Technology – 3D Printer, Robotics, STEM program

Hampton Park Secondary College in 2018, celebrates 32 years of providing dedicated educational services to our local community.

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ALMOST 3000 students have been educated at Berwick Lodge Primary School since it was established on the old Farmer Fry's farm more than three decades ago.

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Education

Casey Grammar a leader in

Christian education

Casey Grammar School has grown to a community of more than 800 students and 100 staff.

CASEY Grammar School is the face of Christian education in Cranbourne.

The school was born as Cranbourne Christian College in 1994.

It was founded by an interim committee, which was determined to create a Christian school that strived for excellence in education.

The school began with 57 students, and with the construction of the first buildings still underway, the initial classes were held at in the Casey City Complex.

Since that time, the school has grown to a community of more than 800 students and 100 staff.

Current Principal Mr Richard Baird said the school had come a long way in its 25-year history.

"The facilities have also grown and it is amazing to see where the school came from with its early construction to the architectural buildings across the campus of today," Mr Baird said.

"Something that has been a constant throughout the 25 years is the school's values respect, resilience and

excellence, which has always been strongly supported through the school's community and enhanced through the pastoral care program."

Those who become part of Casey Grammar, are part of something bigger than their local school. They are part of a welcoming community bringing education to all.

They are also given the best chance to grow spiritually, academically, physically and socially.

The Prep-12 school is located at 3, New Holland Drive, Cranbourne East.

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At Casey Grammar School we believe learning, understanding and building friendships should be an adventure – every day.

Our modern, coeducational campus in its spacious, natural setting is home to students from Prep to Year 12.

Our learning environment has been designed to inspire and delight students at every stage of their education.

We value the ideals of respect, tolerance and an informed awareness of the Christian faith. The pastoral care program is built around mentoring of the individual in small groups to ensure personal support and attention.

Casey Grammar School is dedicated to forming confident, successful and well-educated members who strive for excellence in all aspects of their life.

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COLLEGE TOURS are available on WEDNESDAYS at 9:30am Please contact 8768 1000 to secure your place berwick.sc@edumail.vic.gov.au www.berwickcollege.vic.edu.au

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Principal Ms Kerri Bolch says, “I am very proud of the journey this College has taken; our inclusive educaion, our provision of pathways for all students, our faciliies and our results. 2017 Victorian Educaion Excellence Award winners, our focus on improving the learning outcomes of every student and fostering individual student potenial has seen some of the best VCE and VCAL results in the area. Three 2017 alumni were awarded a Premier’s Study Award for outstanding academic achievement. Elite programs such as the High Achievers Program (Years 7—10) ensure students’ engagement and academic acceleraion. In 2017 our Basketball Academy had 11 teams qualify in State Finals and our U15 Boys were Naional Champions. Our Dance Academy feature in the annual State Schools Spectacular and achieved Gold and Silver medals in the DanceStar Naionals.

Students have the opportunity to paricipate in extracurricular experiences such as music performances and tuiion, Performing Arts, World Challenge to Vietnam and Cambodia and Central Australia Camp as well as fundraise for social causes such as Relay for Life. Our students make a diference to our community, learn and grow each day.

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Education

Middle years at St Paul’s THE middle years at St Paul's Anglican Grammar School encompass exciting programs for students designed to develop their confidence and independence.

gives students a confident start

Students are given increased responsibility in Years 5 and 6 as teachers prepare them for the upcoming transition to secondary school. They are encouraged to become self-confident and self-reliant and are given an increased access to a range of computers, including notebooks.

As the most senior members of the junior school, the students, particularly those in Year 6, take on leadership roles in sports, performing arts, visual arts and co-curricular activities where they are challenged to model good behaviour and uphold the school's ethos. They are also given major roles in school assemblies, productions and other special events. The students begin preparing for these roles in Year 5 when they complete the leadership program Rock and Water.

Creative talents are also nurtured at St Paul's. Students learn a musical instrument for an entire year in the Year 5 Brass and Woodwind program, while in Year 6 every student is given a role in the annual junior school musical.

The Year 7 Transition Program is extensive and begins with a 'friendship morning' in Year 6 where students learn about what subjects they can select in the 'choose your own adventure'

Architecture is among the electives on offer.

Musical talents are nurtured at St Paul's Anglican Grammar.

elective program spanning across Years 7 and 8. The exciting program offers the following electives: Gamers - IT and Games Programming; Architecture and Design; Musical Theatre; Robotics; Art in 3D; Making Stuff that Moves (Creatively imagining, designing and building products with moving parts); Drama Make a Scene!; Foodies Experimentation and creativity in the kitchen; Photos in Motion (photography, studio art, media and animation); Music Performance; A Slice of Art; Textiles Designers in the Making; and Dance.

Drama is among the popular subjects at St Paul's Anglican Grammar.

To ensure students still experience a breadth of fields with an education that is rich in discovery, they are required to select two performing arts subjects, two visual art subjects, two technology subjects, with a further two from any category across the two years.

Recognised as one of Australia's leading regional schools, St Paul's has limited places for 2018 and is taking enrolments for 2019 and beyond. The school welcomes you to contact their Head of Admissions on 03 5623 5833 to arrange a personal tour.

The elective program features a variety of subjects.

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With a specialised STEM (Science, Technology, English, Mathematics) Centre at St Paul’s Junior School, skills such as robotics, electronics and coding are being taught while promoting mathematical, scientific and technological literacy development.

With two St Paul’s buses running from the Cardinia Shire daily, over 90 students currently travel to St Paul’s, Warragul Campus.

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Discover what sets St Paul’s apart from other schools 64 per cent of current Year 7 students travel from all over Gippsland by bus to St Paul’s.

Recognised as one of Australia’s leading regional schools, St Paul’s is currently taking enrolments for 2018 and beyond.

To arrange a personal tour contact us on 03 5623 5833 or admissions@stpaulsags.vic.edu.au

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Entertainment

Croc's Playcentres boast big slides and jumping castles.

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are great for kids and adults PLAYCENTRES have changed a great deal in recent years, led by the innovative Croc's.

Croc's Playcentres at Pakenham and Narre Warren include an in-house Muffin Break café offering a broad food selection and top-end coffee.

The partnership with Muffin Break was forged in 2015 after parents told the founders of Croc's they wanted a better food and beverage offering.

While Muffin Break's muffins are popular, the menu boasts a huge range of food including egg and bacon rolls, wraps, focaccias, sandwiches, croissants, fruits and yoghurt, Mr. Croc's economical Snappy Meals for the kids, salads, fish and chips and soups.

The kids burn mega calories on the varied and safe play equipment, with dedicated areas for babies, toddlers and bigger kids.

Croc's slides and jumping castles are big and just the colour of the play equipment excites the kids.

When it comes to birthday parties,

Croc's prides itself on fun delivered by great party hosts. Parties are memorable, involve minimum fuss for parents and, of course, no clean-up or destruction of carpet.

There are many party themes and specialty party rooms. Our coffee and party platters for adults go down well and we always have sufficient café tables for adults attending a kid's party in one of our thematic party rooms.

The option to build and book a party online is a bonus, enabling custom tailoring of the theme and a range of options to suit that special occasion.

Private hire of Croc's Playcentres is increasingly popular, with BYO options available and special rates for fundraising events held by community and charitable organisations (including sporting clubs, kinders, etc).

Many of our frequent visitors purchase 10-entry passes, allowing a flat $8 entry rate for kids.

And adults never pay for entry to Croc's.

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Fun

Shop LOCAL AND save

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THERE’S certainly a buzz in the Lyndhurst area with plenty of construction, new homes and parklands taking shape.

EVERYONE AT

Marriott Waters Shopping Centre wants to add to that buzz by providing a simple way for customers to support the local community - by shopping local and getting rewarded for it!

CARDINIA LAKES Shopping Centre CARDINIA Lakes Shopping Centre was established in December 2013 and is located at 140 Windermere Drive, Pakenham in the Cardinia Lakes Village.

The Centre features a Coles Supermarket, Liquorland, the everpopular Urban Hype Café, a wonderful Local Value Pharmacy, delicious take-away options, the friendliest of beauty salons as well as a TattsLotto shop.

The centre has Free Fun Friday Events, which occur every Friday between 10.30am and 12.30pm.

Catering for pre-schoolers, there is a

wonderful range of activities to provide caregivers a fun and free outing with their little ones. From face painting to meeting native animals, there is something for everyone. You can grab a wonderful hot beverage from the friendly folk at Urban Café and enjoy a yummy cake while you watch the children enjoying the free events.

The take-away shops have a great range of delicious options to keep even the fussiest of diners happy - fish and chips, pizza, noodles and the best chicken and kebabs in the village.

Some of the shops have delivery options, which means you don't even have to leave the house this winter.

The centre has created a free mobile app that can be downloaded onto your phone. The app provides exclusive deals from local store owners to entice customers.

Offers may include: • Half kilo of sausages from Brian’s Gourmet Meats • Free coffee from Coco Bean Desserts & Café As well as servicing your every need with prescriptions, the Local Value Pharmacy has a wonderful range of gifts, as well as lotions and potions to soothe and calm all manner of aches.

The TattsLotto shop has lots of fabulous gift options and, of course, TattsLotto tickets. You've got to be in it to win it!

The centre also has school holiday programs, and everything is free to take part in.

To stay up to date, follow the Cardinia Lakes Shopping Centre Facebook page.

• 6 Cupcakes for $20 from The Cupcake Desire • Free checkup at Afford2Smile with health insurance • 10% off candles at Mokshaa These deals are ready to access as soon as you download the app!

Search “Marriott Waters Rewards” in your app store now or follow the links below: • iPhones: https://goo.gl/HwhDrg • Android Phones: https://goo.gl/ o3xDcR Keep up with what's happening at the centre on its Facebook page at www.fb.com/marriottshopping

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PHILLIP ISLAND FEATURE

Entertainment Pyramid Rock is a popular vantage point during the whale watching season.

Cape Woolamai is one of the many whale watching spots on Phillip Island.

Many visitors take a cruise to get up close to the majestic creatures.

Have a whale of a time on Phillip Island in July Humpback and southern right whales will make a splash in Phillip Island waters these school holidays as they make their way north to winter breeding grounds.

The arrival of these majestic creatures is celebrated with The Island Whale Festival, a three-day event on Phillip Island that features a range of free and low-cost activities.

The popular event runs from 6-8 July and is the perfect opportunity to explore the Bass Coast Whale Discovery Trail which boasts some of the finest whale lookouts in the region.

You can even meet a marine biologist at one of the island's many whale lookouts and learn how to spot the tell-tale signs of whales cruising along the coast.

Those wanting to get closer to the marine giants can join one of the whale and dolphin watching boat tours that circumnavigate the island.

For the landlubbers, there are some great information sessions on marine research and plastic reduction as well as movie screenings and a host of

activities including crafts.

Kids of all ages will enjoy the 'Whale out of Water' activity which involves climbing inside a 19-metre inflatable whale for a fun and unique learning experience.

For detailed program information on these and many more great activities happening in July, visit islandwhales. com.au The Island Whale Festival can also be found on Facebook and on Instagram at @islandwhalefestival To find accomodation and check out things to do on the island, head to www.visitphillipisland.com

Whales pass through waters off Phillip Island in July as they migrate north.

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Whale spotting is a highlight over the

weekend, with visitors having the opportunity to experience the magical spectacle from either land or sea.

The ''Whale out of Water'' activity is popular for all ages.

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No time for winter blues on Phillip Island PHILLIP Island is the place to be this winter.

The island, best known for its sandy beaches and penguins, is bursting at the seams with activities to keep the kids entertained during the colder months.

From whales and penguins to ice skating, there is plenty of family fun to be had.

A wide range of free and low-cost activities are on offer during the Island Whale Festival, from 6-8 July. The immersive three-day event celebrates the arrival of humpback and southern right whales in local waters as they make their annual northerly migration.

Visitors can see the majestic creatures from one of the island's whale lookouts or take to the waters on a whalespotting cruise.

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Ice skating is another great school holiday activity on Phillip Island, with 'Churchill Ice-Land' boasting stunning water views. Penguin pals are also there to give a helping flipper to young inexperienced ice skaters.

The pop-up ice rink will operate daily from Monday 9 July to Sunday 15 July between 11am and 3pm. Entry to the rink is free with a 4 Parks Pass, or you can pay a small $5 surcharge with a standard Churchill Island entry ticket.

The 4 Parks Pass includes entry to the Penguin Parade, Churchill Island, the Koala Reserve, and the Antarctic Journey at the Nobbies, and as an added bonus, every child 4 Parks Pass holder that tries out ice skating will receive a free Mt Baw Baw child lift pass.

Winter is a great time to see the penguin parade on Phillip Island.

The Antarctic Journey, another great inclusion in the 4 Parks Pass, is also a great winter activity which is indoors and out of the elements. Take a virtual journey to the frozen continent and marvel at the interactive activities and augmented reality experience where you can reach out and touch a killer whale, stroke a seal, or pat a penguin.

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Speaking of penguins, no visit to Phillip Island would be complete without a visit to the much-loved Penguin Parade, which is also included in a 4 Parks Pass. The penguins are cute year round, but the early winter sunset offers a great chance for your little ones to see them before bed time.

So what are you waiting for? Head on down to Phillip Island these holidays for some great winter fun. For more information, visit www.penguins.org.au

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Exhilarating fun FOR THE ENTIRE FAMILY Go-karts and tandems

PHILLIP Island Grand Prix Circuit is the go to destination for the entire family with hours of entertainment on offer all year round.

There are go-karts, tandems, slot cars, a simulator race centre and super-fast hot laps.

History buffs can take a step back in time at a thorough racing display dating back to 1928. Nature lovers will enjoy the tranquil watered gardens and beautiful wildlife, while foodies can enjoy great coffee and a scrumptious array of sweets and savouries. There really is something for everyone.

Strap yourself into the state-of-the-art Sodi go-karts for an exhilarating session on the 750-metre scale replica of the circuit. Push out a series of hot laps and try to set the fastest time. Tandem karts are for the little ones with dual controls.

Take a trip back in time in the History of Motorsport The History of Motorsport showcases motorsport on Phillip Island, commencing with the very first Australian grand prix in 1928 through to present day racing.

The display has many articles, images

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and racing vehicles that will capture your imagination as well as the addition of 24 grand prix racing motorcycles.

The 15 Aprilia and 9 Cagiva bikes rival any collection in the world and includes 16 World Championships winning motorcycles..

Slot cars - the best fun for all ages Race your family or your mates and experience the fun on Australia's largest four-lane GP slot car track, an exact replica of the circuit.

Simulator race centre Test your skills or challenge your mates to a simulated race on the Phillip Island Grand Prix Circuit. Go flat out down Gardner Straight, through ultra-fast Doohan Corner, slide through Stoner, thread your way through Siberia and slipstream up the back straight.

Super-fast hot laps Our resident race car driver will get your heart started with lift off and road hugging turns that defy gravity as you "white knuckle" it and carve an impression on the rugged cliffs of the world famous circuit.

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Guided circuit tours Enjoy a daily guided circuit tour featuring a MotoGP sound simulation and

access to exclusive and restricted areas such as the control tower, media centre, pit roof, and of course that "hero" photo opportunity on the winner's podium.

Champions' Bar and Licenced Cafe Champion's Bar and Cafe delivers with its fresh menu with plenty of choices. Fantastic coffee and delicious scones, cakes, slices, muffins, pastries, sausage rolls and pies hit the spot.

Our gift shop at the visitor centre has a wide selection of stylish apparel, merchandise and souvenirs to choose from so you can take a memento home with you.

Hidden gems at the circuit Keep an eye out for our beautiful peacocks roaming around our tranquil watered gardens. Stop and say hello to Robbo, have a chat and he will probably talk back. While speaking to Robbo keep an eye out for our kangaroos, the only ones on the island.

For more information call 5952 9400 or visit www.phillipislandcircuit.com.au

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KIDS will be having a whale of a time at the Phillip Island RSL this July.

The RSL is hosting two children's events to help mark the popular Island Whale Festival, from 6-8 July.

A workshop featuring Trash Puppets kicks off a long weekend of fun. The workshop at 1.30pm on Friday 6 July will have kids' creative juices flowing as they learn to create puppets using recyclable products.

It's a fun event which demonstrates the importance of correct recycling.

The recycling theme continues on Friday evening as the RSL hosts a special trivia night in the ANZAC Room from 7.15pm. All proceeds from the trivia night will go to Plastic Free Phillip Island and San Remo as well as the Dolphin Research Institute.

The RSL will host a second children's event at 1.30pm on Saturday 7 July, with a very special guest known as Seaweed Sally. Kids aged between 5

and 12 years will learn about the mysterious world of marine life from Seaweed Sally and get to see her fascinating array of exhibits, including preserved specimens and touch tank animals.

The events are a fitting way to celebrate the Island Whale Festival, which is held as humpback and southern right whales make a splash in local waters as part of their migration north.

Bookings are essential for both children's workshops and trivia night at the Phillip Island RSL as places are limited.

To book, visit islandwhales.com.au To learn more about joining Phillip Island RSL, as well as its Joey's Kid's Club, visit www.phillipislandrsl.com.au

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party time

Our 'great cake expectations’ Duggan and the Cake 2 the Rescue owner Lou e for 5-year-old bak ed help superhero cake she Emilee.

By Melissa Grant AS I squeezed the last bit of bright pink buttercream icing out of the piping bag, the clock ticked past midnight.

Dotting the icing onto the doll's vanilla butter cake skirt had taken much longer than anticipated and I began to worry I'd be yawning through my daughter's first birthday celebrations.

Although the cake looked a treat, the bar was probably set a bit high when I decided to recreate the Dolly Varden cake at my own first birthday party.

Turns out many parents suffer from 'great cake expectations' when it comes to children's birthday celebrations.

As my daughter Emmy tucked into the cake that took six hours to create, many mum friends recalled how they too had stayed up late to make a special cake for their child's birthday.

on the path to creating her unique business Cake 2 the Rescue seven years ago. Her company sells do-it-yourself cake kits that contain everything a parent needs to whip up a birthday cake except for the eggs, milk and butter.

"I was up all night making a caterpillar cake. I was so tired for the party the next day," one friend said.

"We don't offer anything that makes you cry and nothing that's not achievable after a couple of glasses of wine," the former engineer and interior designer said with a laugh.

Staying up into the wee hours of the morning making birthday cakes is something mum of three Lou Duggan knows all too well, with two of her daughters having birthdays just days apart.

The rainbow unicorn kit, by far, is the company's best-seller, while shark, dinosaur, dirt cake, monster trucks, superhero, diggers and dolphins are also popular among the 200-plus designs.

"I'd end up trying to make two cakes in one night and my husband would leave at 3am because I'd be in tears," she said.

However, Lou said she received

It was this annual event that put Lou

many crazy birthday cake requests from parents who had ridiculously high expectations.

"People will say 'I've never baked before can you help me' and it's a three-tiered masterpiece," she said.

"I have to talk them back down to a sensible cake that won't make them cry."

Gold Coast based Lou said too many mums and dads wrongly believed their birthday cake making skills reflected whether they were doing a good job as a parent.

"I think we have to take the pressure of ourselves. All your child sees is their mum or dad went out of the way to create something beautiful for them," she said.

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reality bites

y s u b Life

Nathan and Stacey Nabben with their three kids under three - Oliver, newborn Harrison and Matilda.

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three under three

By Melissa Grant STACEY Nabben has given birth three times in just two-and-a-half years - an extraordinary feat that's delivered exactly the family she'd always dreamed of.

Although some may find the prospect of having three kids under three somewhat terrifying, the Cranbourne North mum was determined to have her babies in such quick succession.

"I always said I wanted three under three," she said.

"Mine were totally planned. I didn't want a bigger age gap.

"When I took a pregnancy test (with her third child) and tested positive I was like 'yes I've done it'."

Her third-born, Harrison, was delivered at Berwick's St John of God Hospital on 19 March this year.

It's the same hospital where she had son Oliver on 28 November 2016 and daughter Matilda on 4 August 2015.

There is exactly 15 months between each child, with Stacey falling pregnant when each of her first two were six

months old.

Although she wanted her children so close in age, Stacey initially feared it would take a while to fall pregnant because of her battles with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome.

Each child was delivered by c-section, and the hospital doctor was notably surprised to see Stacey pregnant the third time around.

"When I came in and was pregnant with Harrison the first thing he (the doctor) said is 'do you want your tubes tied'," she said with a laugh.

You'd expect the Nabben's home to be chaotic with two toddlers and a newborn, but when you walk in it's surprisingly calm.

So how does Stacey seem so organised with three kids under three?

making sure each child gets plenty of shut-eye.

"I always made sure they have their sleeps because, as they say, sleep promotes sleep. I force them to go to sleep even when they're out of control."

Stacey has even managed to get Harrison and Oliver to nap at the same time each day for around three hours.

She uses their nap times to clean the house, so the mess never piles up.

The concurrent naps have also helped Stacey ease back into her administration manager job, which she returned to in May when Harrison hit six weeks.

She's fortunate enough to be able to work from home and take her kids into the office, although her oldest two started daycare part-time this year.

The 31-year-old says she couldn't do it without her husband, Nathan, who is amazing with the kids and often whips up dinner after coming home from his teaching job.

Even though life is crazy busy, Stacey believes putting in the hard yards now will pay off.

A major key, she adds, is getting the children into a routine.

"In three years or so they'll be at school and I can get my life back on track and work normal hours."

The other main thing, she says, is

"I think it's rewarding to have them this close in age," she said.

Stacey says having her children so close together has been pretty easy, although there have been a few challenges along the way.

Bath time became difficult in the late stages of pregnancy and then there's the obvious sleep deprivation.

"The hardest thing was Oliver didn't slept through the night until just after he turned 1," she recalled.

"I was six months pregnant getting up in the middle of the night trying to resettle."

The only real health issue the Nabbens have encountered has been hip dysplasia. Each of their children has had the condition, and Harrison required a leg brace due to a dislocated hip.

Stacey is extremely grateful she's fulfilled her dream of having three kids under three, but she admits she doesn't have much left to give at the end of the day.

"Everyone is in bed by 7 o'clock even me," she said.

Mikayla's charity teddies bear magical message

By Melissa Grant "YOU'RE amazing. Believe in yourself and never give up."

It's a simple, yet important message which Mikayla Wade records on a device she inserts into teddies bound for vulnerable and disadvantaged children.

The 12-year-old has made eight bears since coming up with the idea for a Year 6 project at Pakenham Springs Primary School last year.

Mikayla and her classmates were asked to create something small that could make a difference.

"I thought 'what could I do to help kids?" Mikayla recalled.

"I did a lot of research into anxiety and depression and what could help."

Her bear caught the eye of Rosemary Teed, who was then a student wellbeing coordinator at Pakenham Springs. She is also the founder of the Magical Getaway Foundation, a national charity dedicated to providing holidays to www.caseycardiniakids.com.au

vulnerable or disadvantaged children and their families to improve their health and wellbeing.

Mikayla, who now attends Kooweerup Secondary College, said her teddy bears, which play the special message when squeezed, offered hope to the children, some of whom were seriously ill.

Pakenham girl Mikayla Wade and one of the bears she has made for the Magical Getaway Foundation.

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"If they are really sick as they get older they could start to get depression.

If they know they are amazing and not to give up that's good for them," she explained.

Five of Mikayla's bears were recently donated to five siblings as they were taken on their first holiday.

Rosemary said the teddies, which Mikayla designs and sews together, were extremely special to the children.

"They just loved those bears because of the personalised message they have in them," she said.

"Every child that goes on a holiday from now on is going to get one of those bears."

Rosemary said the charity provided holidays to families who had never been on one and were willing to tell their story. They are referred by hospitals, schools or agencies like Anglicare, and are vulnerable because of issues such as illness, poverty or

domestic violence.

The foundation is extremely grateful for Mikayla's contribution.

"It's extra special because it's a kid who has made another kid something," Rosemary said.

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family in over a century' Baby Jack is the first boy in his mum's side of the family for more than 100 years.

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By Melissa Grant IN the seconds after giving birth to her third child, Belinda Denney couldn't stop looking down as she pulled her newborn close to her chest.

It was a moment she and her family thought would never arrive, so she had to be sure she wasn't just imagining it.

Still on the hospital ward floor after a six-hour labour, tears of joy began streaming down Belinda's face as she realised something truly remarkable had indeed just happened.

"It was super emotional. I was the first to see," Belinda recalled.

"I looked down three times to check and process it. I was like 'it's not a boy, oh it's a boy, it's a boy!'

"I looked up to (my husband) Tom and he just broke down in tears. There were midwives crying as they knew the story as well."

The story was that a baby boy had not been born on Belinda's side of the family for more than a century.

After 17 girls and a number of miscarriages over four generations, Jack Thomas Denney entered the world on 3 May, 2017.

Belinda and her husband Tom had decided not to find out the gender during the pregnancy, as they had done with their two girls Harlie, 5, and four-year-old Indie.

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They only decided to try for a bundle of blue after seeing a geneticist, amid concerns there was a reason there had been no males born Belinda's family since her grand uncle.

ovulation or shortly afterwards.

The grand uncle (Belinda's nanna's older brother) was born in 1910, which means Jack is the first boy in the family for 107 years.

A diet high in potassium is also said to improve a woman's chances of conceiving a boy, so Belinda started eating a lot of bananas, broccoli and brussels sprouts while avoiding dairy.

The geneticist told the Denneys there was a chromosomal issue, although this wasn't the reason why no boys had been born for generations.

The couple wondered whether it was actually a good idea to try for a boy.

"I was nervous trying for a boy because in our minds the boys were the miscarriages. We were really nervous should we try it and risk a miscarriage?"

Belinda said.

"In the end, we thought we'll do it - we'll see what happens."

Belinda and Tom researched at length how they could boost their chances of conceiving a boy.

The couple came across a variety of methods, from ones which boasted high rates of success to the downright wacky.

In the end, the Denneys settled on the Shettles Method, a concept which claims the timing of intercourse can help determine a baby's gender. The method was developed in the 1960s by Dr Landrum B Shettles, who believed Y (male) sperm were faster but more fragile than X (female sperm) and that acidic environments were harmful to Y sperm. So, he believed conceiving a boy was more likely to occur when intercourse happened on the day of

Apparently caffeine makes the male sperm swim even faster, so Tom founding himself knocking back shots of coffee.

The Denneys weren't convinced any of these methods would actually work, but thought they would be fun to try.

"These are all just claims. There's no scientific evidence these things will give you a boy," Belinda said.

"We were happy either way with a boy or a girl."

The couple fell pregnant quickly and soon enough Belinda got an inkling that she may be carrying a son.

The pregnancy was much different to that of her girls. This time, she was carrying lower and rounder, experienced morning sickness, had a very active baby and didn't put on much extra weight.

All was going to plan until the baby's movements slowed around 30 weeks and Belinda was sent in for an ultrasound.

Belinda explained to the sonographer why she didn't want to know the baby's sex, yet moments later the baby's gender appeared to jump out on the screen.

"He went across the stomach and I saw a penis!" she recalled.

Although Belinda's sister, Leanne,

saw the same thing, she didn't want to get her hopes up.

"I didn't let it overtake my thoughts and I only told my mum and Tom," Belinda said.

"I kept telling myself it was the umbilical cord."

In case it wasn't the umbilical cord, Belinda organised a photographer to capture the birth.

Belinda, a photographer herself, didn't go into labour until about a week after her due date, but it was worth the wait. She had her boy.

The excitement didn't end there, with the couple wrapping up Jack in a gender neutral blanket so they could surprise family and friends who visited the hospital.

"A couple of friends were so excited they jumped up and down," Belinda recalled.

Jack weighed 8lb 11oz - smaller than both of the couple's daughters.

Looking back on the pregnancy, Belinda said it was funny they couldn't decide on a girl's name but only ever had one name for a boy.

Belinda wanted to name her son after her grandfather Jack Thomas, which was fitting given the first-born son in her husband Tom's family is traditionally given the father's name as a middle name.

More than a year later, the Denneys still can't believe they have a son.

"We all just look at Jack and go 'wow how blessed are we to have him?'"

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Games and gadgets

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THROUGH TOYS AND TECHNOLOGY The Lu family love having the latest toys, gadgets and technology at their fingertips. It's no wonder given parents Evelyn and Clement own an education business that runs science and technology workshops using skill toys and robotics. Here, the Pakenham family share some of their favourite things.

Foosball is a fun family activity.

■ Foosball - the family has a foosball table and often play two-on-two.

■ Chess is a new favourite in the Lu household, with Rachael, 10, and Raphael, 8, recently learning how to play.

■ The Lus all play basketball and enjoy practicing shooting, particularly Rachael who plays for the Pakenham Warriors.

■ Camera - Clem loves photography and is often taking family photos at events and basketball games.

■ The Lus can't get enough of science and robotics, which are the basis of

the family business Edvocate.

■ The family loves yo-yos, kendamas, jittering - all skill toys which are great for hand eye coordination and don't require batteries!

■ Computer games - the family loves Mario Kart and driving simulation games. They even have a championship ladder on their whiteboard!

■ Robotics and coding - the family particularly loves Sphero, Cozmo, Edison Robot and Scratch.

Chess is a new favourite in the Lu household.

■ Collections - yo-yos (Clem used to be a Duncan yo-yo demonstrator), Polly Pocket, basketball cards, autographed MotoGP models and collectables.

■ Piano - both Rachael and Raphael love playing.

■ The family is big on motorbikes and racing, especially Clem who takes his track bike to Phillip Island.

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Clement and Evelyn run education workshops that use skill toys and robotics.

The Lus love basketball.

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books

A RAW, HONEST TAKE ON

motherhood

By Melissa Grant THE first few months of motherhood is an experience like no other.

It can be a joyous yet overwhelming time filled with doubts, moments of frustration and feelings of loneliness.

The Motherhood is a refreshingly honest book about life with a newborn, featuring raw and compassionate accounts of those precious but challenging months from some of Australia's favourite women.

For author and commentator Jamila Rizvi, it felt like her once tightly controlled life evaporated shortly after her son Rafi was born.

"My confident, proud sense of identity replaced with a zombie who couldn't tell day from night," she writes.

"The reality that the life I'd lived up until then was gone - and wouldn't be coming back - hit me like a punch in the face."

A comforting letter from her friend, musician and actor Clare Bowditch, assured Jamila she would get through what was a tough time.

Jamila, once an advisor in the Rudd and Gillard governments and editor-inchief of the Mamamia Women's Network, brought together The Motherhood as a way to pay it forward to new mums.

"Primarily, I wanted to write the book I wish I had," the well-known Melburnian told Casey-Cardinia Kids.

"I read a lot of books ... none of them were about looking after yourself in what is a huge transitionary period."

The Motherhood contains 32 raw letters from prominent Aussie women that they've written to themselves about their first few months of motherhood.

They touch on everything from the crushing sleep-deprivation to breastfeeding struggles to postnatal depression.

"I loved all the letters," Jamila said.

"There are similarities between mine and (climate change campaigner) Anna Rose's - I really related to her self identity being tied up with her work quite a lot and losing a sense of identity."

"Some were very unlike my experience but I really liked them."

Comedian and radio presenter Em Rusciano's letter is an hilarious account of her introduction to motherhood, revealing the horrors of the first postbirth poop and the lengths she would go to in order to get her daughter to sleep.

Em declares the worst thing about

giving birth is going to a mother's group, however author Holly Wainwright insists you should never miss a meeting.

Journalist Lanai Scarr gives an insight into what it's like to raise triplets, while TV presenter Sarah Harris writes about she became a trending story during her pregnancy for 'slamming body shamers' after declaring on-air "Bugger it. I'm growing a baby".

For Jamila, being pregnant wasn't enjoyable and, like many first-time mums, she was focused on getting

Author Jamila Rizvi brought together The Motherhood as a way of paying it forward to new mums. through it and the birth rather than what would happen afterwards.

Jamila said many new mums going through those first few months had told her they were feeling much more positive after reading The Motherhood which, fittingly, was launched to a chorus of crying babies.

"I think it makes a great gift for mums to be and a companion for mums getting through that first year," she said.

The Motherhood, edited by Jamila Rizvi, Viking, RRP $34.99

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Mighty Mitch! Clash Of The Keepers!

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Lovable Lottie And The Lost Toy - Asia Upward An engaging children's picture book featuring an adorable Maremma puppy named Lottie. Little Lottie lives on an apple orchard and is forever losing her favourite toy, a red and white striped monkey. The hardback picture book features stunning photos with Lottie and her 'lost toy' somewhere in the scene. It is a great book for children learning to read as it encourages concentration and tests their eyesight.

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Next Door's Dog Has A Job - Gina Dawson, Illustrated By Vivienne Da Silva Tom wants his beloved dog Pepper to be just like his neighbour's dog Bailey.

However, Bailey is no ordinary dog - he is a special service dog. The story follows Tom as he learns about how special Bailey actually is. Next Door's Dog Has A Job is an entertaining and educational read providing information about disabilities and shows how assistance dogs can come in many shapes and sizes. New Holland Publishers RRP $16.99

Disgusting Diseases, A Young Person's Guide - J.J. Moore & K.B Moon Ebola, parasites, worms and bugs, rabies, typhoid, black death and malaria - these are just some of the disgusting diseases explored in this book. Disgusting Diseases also examines the crazy and horrid treatments, which were sometimes worse than the disease itself. The book satisfies children's appetite for gruesome things while educating them about the disgusting diseases their ancestors had to live with.

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GRADE 6 PARENT INFORMATION EVENING THURSDAY 19TH APRIL 7PM TOURS OF SCHOOL FOR 2018 • FRIDAY 20TH APRIL 9am - 10am • MONDAY 23RD APRIL 11am - 12pm • TUESDAY 24TH APRIL 12.30pm - 1.30pm Please contact to book in your tour of Hampton Park Secondary College.

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What’s on this

WINTER June Dance, story time and craft. Saturday 2 June, 1pm3pm. A story time to celebrate our diverse community and incorporating many languages including English, Punjabi, Arabic, Sinhalese and Hindi. Also features a performance by Tama Tatau Samoan dance group.

Cranbourne Library, 65 Berwick-Cranbourne Road Cranbourne.

Bollywood dance workshop. Saturday 2 June, 2.30pm3pm. A session with Sulu from Dance Mantra. Sulu has learned from many famed choreographers and will share her love of Bollywood. For kids aged 4-8.

Cranbourne Library, 65 Berwick-Cranbourne Road, Cranbourne.

Bumble Bee and Children's Market. Sunday 3 June, 9am-12pm. A market for parents, expectant parents, grandparents and carers wanting quality pre-loved handmade goods at reasonable prices. Entry is $2 for adults and free for under 12s. 35 Gwendoline Drive, Berwick.

Twilight Tales. Wednesday June 6, 6.15pm-6.45pm.

The Emerald Library is hosting twilight tales, a wonderful way to build a love of reading in a relaxed environment. Put on your PJs and go along for some bedtime stories followed by milk and a tiny teddy.

Emerald Library, 400A Belgrave-Gembrook Rd. Yo Diddle Diddle. Thursday 21 June, 6pm and Friday 22 June, 10am. This show explores the theme of resilience and is based on the book The Cow Tripped Over The Moon, written by Tony Wilson and illustrated

by Laura Wood. It's the first work by Patch Theatre's new Artistic Director, Naomi Edwards. Perfect for 4 - 8 year olds. Tickets $16. Bunjil Place Theatre, Patrick Northeast Drive, Narre Warren.

July Trash Puppets Workshop. Monday 2 July, 10am-12pm and 1.30pm-3.30pm. Join the talented team from Trash Puppets in a workshop where kids will learn how to make their own puppet and bring it to life.

Bookings essential. Bunjil Place, Patrick Northeast Drive, Narre Warren.

Let's cook kids. Tuesday 3 July, 10.30am-11.30am. For budding chefs aged 6-12 who would like to learn some delicious secrets. Cost $15 per session. Bookings essential. Lynbrook Community Centre, corner of Lynbrook Boulevard and Harris Street, Lynbrook.

Mini Ninja session. Thursday 5 July, 10.30am11.30am. A mini ninja workout session for kids in a fun approach to fitness that targets strength, flexibility, problem solving and coordination. Cost $10. Bookings essential. Lynbrook Community Centre, corner of Lynbrook Boulevard and Harris Street, Lynbrook.

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Little Smarties STEAM Club launch. Friday July 6, 2pm-2.45pm. The launch of a new monthly program designed to help kids aged 2-5 to the basic concepts of science, technology, engineering, art and maths.

Pakenham Library. Cnr John St and Henry St, Pakenham.

The Island Whale Festival. Friday 6 July - Sunday 8 July. A three-day event on Phillip Island to celebrate the arrival of humpback and southern right whales.

The festival features a range of free and low-cost activities and is the perfect opportunity to explore the Bass Coast Whale Discovery Trail. For more information, visit islandwhales.com.au Family Movie night. Thursday 12 July, 6pm-8pm. Put on your favourite PJs and eat popcorn while watching the Peter Rabbit Movie. Free but bookings essential.

Lynbrook Community Centre, corner of Lynbrook Boulevard and Harris Street, Lynbrook.

Family waste and recycling session. Saturday 14 July, 9am-11.30am. Learn about where waste and recycling goes after the truck picks it up and enjoy some art with recyclables. Free but bookings essential.

Selandra Community Hub, 7-9 Selandra Boulevard, Clyde North.

Creative writing workshops. Saturday 14 July, 9.30am-10.30am. For young budding writers who want to learn from a master. Beginnings, endings and a powerful plot are just some of what they'll learn and write. There's also the chance to enter the Friends of Doveton Library Writing Competition. For ages 8-12.

Doveton Library 24 Autumn Place, Doveton.

Mini Masterchefs. Thursday 19 July, 4pm-5pm. Young budding chefs will join Paul 'Dougie' Douglas, an international chef from Bam Bam Italian Restaurant for a special series of workshops over four weeks. Kids will discover how food is grown, learn about their tastebuds and get some yummy treats to take home.

For children in Prep to Grade 2. Bam Bam Italian Restaurant, Avonsleigh.

Antique and Collectables Fair. Saturday 28 July, 9am-3.30pm. Pakenham's 15th Annual Antique and Collectables Fai in support of the 4C's crisis relief centre. The fair features a wide variety of wares across 44 stalls. There is also a valuation service by David Freeman available from 1pm at a cost of $5. Entry $5 per adult, children free. Cardinia Cultural Centre, Lakeside Boulevard, Pakenham.

August Special Smiley Storytime. Friday August 10, 11am1pm. A special storytime with the team from Monash Health Dental Services. The session features stories, songs and activities about taking care of teeth and free dental health checks for kids. Suitable for children aged 3-5 years. No bookings required. Cranbourne Library. Cranbourne Library, 65 Berwick-Cranbourne Road Cranbourne.

Wonders of science with Professor Bunsen. Saturday August 11 at Emerald and Pakenham. A special family science event featuring Professor Bunsen. See a teaspoon of sugar explode, be wowed by a student beating gravity, see a bottle bazooka in action, and marvel at a sound carrying light beam. 12pm-1pm Emerald Library, 400A Belgrave-Gembrook Rd and 2.30pm-3.30pm Pakenham Library, Pakenham Library. Cnr John St and Henry St, Pakenham.

A Brief Walk Through the Universe. Wednesday August 15, 6pm-8pm. A hands-on workshop with the Mount Burnett Observatory where kids can discover the magic of the stars, planets and space through the lens of a telescope or join us for a virtual viewing of space. Suitable for children aged 6+. Pakenham Library, cnr John St and Henry St, Pakenham.

Pirate Storytime and Craft. Saturday August 18 at Endeavour Hills and Hampton Park. Dress the kids as pirates or put them in something they treasure for a swashbuckling good time with stories, songs and crafts. For ages 3+. No bookings required. 11am-2pm, Endeavour Hills Library, 10 Raymond McMahon Blvd, Endeavour Hills; and 11-12pm at Hampton Park Library, 25 Stuart Ave, Hampton Park.

Yabadoo Pirate, Magic and Balloons. Saturday August 18, 1pm-2pm. Join Yabadoo Pirate for a fun-filled hour of magic and balloon animals to celebrate the start of Children's Book Week. Bookings essential. Cranbourne Library, 65 Berwick-Cranbourne Road Cranbourne.

Create a mini picture book. Friday August 24, 4pm6pm. Kids learn how to create characters, build a story board and bring their book to life with Storybird. All children will leave with their very own copy of their book. For ages 8+. Bunjil Place Library, Patrick Northeast Drive, Narre Warren.

Crafts and Treasures, Saturday August 25 10am-2pm.

Children will design their own bookmark and check out all the shortlisted Children's Book Week titles. Suits primary-school aged children. No bookings required.

Emerald Library, 400A Belgrave-Gembrook Rd, Emerald.

Writing workshop with storybird. Saturday August 25, 1pm-4pm. Kids will discover their inner writer with resident author Vicki Thornton. All children will leave with their very own copy of their storybook, plus a bookmark they have made. Snacks provided. Suits primary-school aged children. Pakenham Library, cnr John St and Henry St, Pakenham.

Schools on Stage. Thursday 30 August, 7.30pm10.30pm. Schools on Stage celebrates the performing arts talents of Casey's young people. Local secondary colleges will be selected to perform two songs from their school musical in an eisteddfod style event.

Hosted by Tim Campbell. Bunjil Place Theatre, 2 Patrick North East Drive, Narre Warren. www.caseycardiniakids.com.au