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CAREGIVING journey Rosalynn Carter says there are only four kinds of people in the world:

• Those who have been caregivers

• Those who are currently caregivers • Those who will be caregivers • Those who will need caregivers

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aregiving has a way of creeping up on us. As family, friends and neighbors, we all want to be there for our loved ones when they need us. Very few of us see ourselves as a “caregiver,” and most of the time we haven’t had any training on how to be a caregiver, or an understanding of the depth the role requires.

For the majority, it takes a “trigger event” such as a fall, hospital admittance or diagnosis of a health condition before there’s full realization of the situation and what plans/actions need to take place.

The Senior Resource Guide is designed and geared towards the unique needs of the modern caregiver. We’re here to help take the guesswork out of this challenging role by providing support and knowledge-based information at your fingertips when you need it—both in print and online.

As you journey through different stages in your caregiving quest, our hope is that you’ll be able to use the Guide to help create space for flexibility and make well-informed decisions.

At the end of the day, feeling good about your care and efforts, as well as seeing your caregiving experience as a positive expansion and transformation, will help you and your loved one live more fully.

In the words of our Founder, here’s to your quest!

TRANSITION AND REFLECTION “What do I do now that they’re no longer here? How can I honor my journey? How have I grown?”

LATE PHASE FINDING BALANCE “I’m needing to recharge but there’s not enough time.”

• 5 Vital Tips to Help Deal With Caregiver Stress (see pg. 92)

FINAL PLANNING “How do I make sure they’re taken care of and their wishes are met?”

• Understanding Hospice (see pg. 146)

SHIFTING PRIORITIES “I know this is what’s going on and need to give it attention.”

INCREASING DEMANDS “This is getting bigger and needs more of my attention.”

MAJOR TRIGGER EVENTS “What are our next steps now that this event has happened?”

• Questions to Ask During Hospital Discharge (see pg. 117)

• Home Care versus Home Health Care (see pg. 78)

IDENTIFYING YOUR ROLE “I can help out.”

• Caregiving Expectations: Preparing for the Position (see pg. 14)

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PLANNING AND PREPARING

• Signs Not to Ignore: Dementia versus Normal Aging (see pg. 106)

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• Getting Connected With Help (see pg. 30) • 5 Must-Have Legal Documents (see pg. 52)

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DETECTING CHANGES “Is this part of normal aging?”

“This is not normal aging, what is it and what can I do?”

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The Caregiving Journey

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Our Legacy

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The Senior Resource Guide Team

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THE ROLE

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Caregiving Expectations

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Transition Home Healthcare (see also pg. 2)

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20 Overcoming Guilt with Senior Care Decisions

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THE PLAN

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How to Assess Senior Living Facilities in Texas

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Creating a Care Plan

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How to Handle Anger + Difficult Behavior

40 What Level of Care is Right

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Finding Time Away from Your Care Role

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30 Get Connected

Your Dream Remodeling (see also pg. 1)

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What to do When Your Parents Need Different Levels of Care What’s an Adult Day Center?

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INITIAL MEDICAL CARE

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Understanding Medicare: Parts, Plans, and Meeting Your Needs

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CONVERSATIONS

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50 Having the Conversation: When Dad Disagrees on Mom’s Care

Get a Better Understanding of Your Loved One’s Prescriptions

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We Care Rx Pharmacy (see also pg. 32B)

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A Guide to Medication Obstacles

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Mobile Care

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Ombudsmen are Here to Help

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LEGAL + FINANCIAL

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Five Must-Have Legal Documents

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How to Handle Resistance to Bathing, Eating & Medications When Do You Need to Consider In-Home Care?

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Home Care vs Home Health Care

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Theft Accusations from a Senior: Real or Not

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Warning Signs of Unsafe Driving in Seniors

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MEMORY + DEMENTIA

SELF CARE 5-Minute Comfort: Adaptogenic Hot Chocolate Recipe

90 Meaningful Minutes for Caregivers 92

Five Vital Tips to Help Deal with Caregiver Stress

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102 Getting a Dementia Diagnosis 104 Tips for Effective Alzheimer’s Communication 106 Signs Not to Ignore: Dementia versus Normal Aging

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Changes in a Senior’s Appetite: What’s Normal?

100 Special Diet-Friendly Soup Recipe

112 Care Transitions 114 Therapist or Psychiatrist?

Understanding Your Options

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117 Questions to Ask During Hospital Discharge 119 PAM Health (see also back cover)

120 Choosing the Right Rehabilitation Center

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123 Can a Senior Living Community Help You Live Your Best Life?

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125 Anthology of Tanglewood (see also inside back cover) 126 Paying for Long-Term Care

SENIOR LIVING The Concierge (see also pg. 32A)

128 Types of Residential Care for Seniors 130 Senior Living Communities 137 Questions to Ask When Looking for an Assisted Living Facility 141 Questions to Ask When Considering Skilled Care 143 Momentum Skilled Services (see also inside front cover) 144 What’s Skilled Care and Where Do I Start?

146 Understanding Hospice

154 Steps to Take After the Passing of a Loved One

150 Hospice Options

156 Preparing & Presenting a Eulogy

152 Questions to Ask When Choosing a Hospice Program

158 7 Items to Consider When Planning a Celebration of Life

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Karyn Dean 1957-2020

LEGACY

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hat began as a simple collection of local resources has blossomed into what we now know as the ultimate guide to aging care.

As a caregiver for her grandmother and an eldercare advocate for over 25 years, our Founder Karyn Dean realized she was not alone in the quest for information and resources.

It was her dream to create a reliable resource that caregivers, seniors and eldercare professionals could turn to when navigating the many challenges associated with aging—thus was born the Senior Resource Guide.

Although Karyn is no longer with us, her dedicated mission of educating family caregivers and senior care professionals as well as her memory lives on. Her beautiful spirit guides every thought and decision throughout our transition into the modern caregiver’s resource.

What started out as a passion project with her husband quickly grew into something more when their children united behind the mission and joined SRG. Today, a team of compassionate individuals are part of the SRG family and bring an enthusiastic energy to helping caregivers through their journey.

P U B L I S H ER The Dean Family

CO N T R I BU TO RS Anthology of Tanglewood, John B. Earthman, Mayo Clinic, Momentum Skilled Services, PAM Health, Sharon Wagner, Texas Health and Human Services, The American Elder Care Research Organization, We Care Rx Pharmacy

A RT D I R ECT I O N /G RA P H I C P RO D U CT I O N Erin Suwwan, Jaclyn Threadgill – LuckyYou! Creative

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MARKETING Jennifer Stavert – Director of Marketing Winona Vo – Senior Marketing Executive

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C H I E F E X EC U T I V E O F F I C E R Terry Dean

FO U N D E R & C H I E F V I S I O N A RY A M O N G T H E A N G E LS ©2022. Senior Resource Guide is published semi-annually for the Greater Houston, Austin & San Antonio markets by: SRG Services, Inc., 77 Sugar Creek Center Boulevard, Suite 600, Sugar Land, Texas 77478 \\ 281–277–2333 \\ SRGTEXAS.com

Disclaimer of Endorsement: Reference herein to any specific products, process, or service by trade name, trademark, manufacturer, or otherwise, does not necessarily constitute or imply its endorsement, recommendation, or favoring by the Senior Resource Guide.® The views and opinions of authors herein do not necessarily state or reflect those of Senior Resource Guide® and shall not be used for advertising or product endorsement purposes.

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CAREGIVING EXPECTATIONS Preparing for the Position

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t’s not always easy watching a loved one age. This can become especially hard when they reach the point of no longer being able to take care of themselves. And, if you didn’t already find yourself providing some level of assistance before a major life event occurs, you may now find yourself in the role of being the caregiver.

You may have intentionally elected to become a professional caregiver or a caregiving volunteer to help those in need.

In any case, if you’re new to this journey, here are some helpful tips to keep you prepared as you embark on this path.

THE ROLE OF CAREGIVER This is a role you can find yourself in rather quickly without knowing it happened.

A serious health event is typically the catalyst for this type of situation. However, this change can also happen gradually, and the role of caregiver might be taken on without even realizing it until you're deep into the process.

For instance, you may initially stop by just to check on your loved one. Gradually, the number of visits increase, and

progressively those visits turn into helping prepare meals, assisting with lawn maintenance, light housekeeping, and managing medical appointments.

Before you know it, they’re heavily relying on you and unable to do many of these things themselves.

Whether you had a conversation about it or not, at a certain point you realize you’ve accepted and taken on the role of caregiver.

Although you're now taking on the responsibility to care for someone else, you may already have quite a lot of responsibilities of your own (perhaps children or a full-time job). It’s important to know and understand the responsibilities that come with your new caregiver role. This way, you're better able to care for them with confidence, empathy, preparedness and love throughout this journey.

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Your caregiver quest doesn't come with a manual, so here are some examples of tasks you can anticipate in your new role: • Help with finances such as paying bills, credit cards,

managing rent and utilities or home care fees • Buy groceries, clothes and toiletries • Arrange medical appointments and provide transportation to and from • Be a companion or arrange for companion care • Help cook and clean • Assist with pet care • Ensure legal documents such as wills, trusts, guardianships, power of attorney are addressed • Keep other family members apprised • Make hard medical decisions

PREPARING FOR THE ROLE It can be easy to become overwhelmed and stressed when taking on this role for the first time. Here are some tips that can help you and the person you’re caring for feel more at ease.

HAVE A CONVERSATION about you becoming their official caregiver and establish responsibilities and boundaries

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BE SURE to have all physicians’ information on hand and establish yourself as the primary caregiver for the person. You may need to have them sign paperwork allowing you to see their health information under HIPAA or have a medical power of attorney document MAKE A LIST of all medications they’re taking as well as allergies and hospitalizations in the last 10 years

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SPEAK to them about how their financial obligations will be resolved TALK about where they want to live out their remaining years ASK if possible to be added to their bank account, which will allow you to easily pay bills BE SURE to determine whether they have a power of attorney or other legalities in place FIND SUPPORT for both yourself and your loved one as neither of you are alone in this process CREATE a catalog of experts that you’ve interacted with. You never know whose expertise you might rely on in the future

SETTING EXPECTATIONS e op C to s y a W • Taking care of yourself

• Seeking mental health assistance when needed • Getting enough sleep

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• Building a strong support system • Drinking plenty of water • Exercising • Eating clean

It’s important to take care of yourself.

Being a caregiver can easily take over your life if you’re not mindful. While you want to be there for your senior loved one, you also need to be there for yourself.

When you’re struggling, seek help. When you’re unable to do something, it’s okay to say no.

When you take care of your mental and physical self, you’re better able to care for your loved one.

We are here with additional resources as needed. Remember, you are not alone as it takes a great deal of strength to be a caregiver.

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OVERCOMING GUILT WITH SENIOR CARE DECISIONS

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f you’re responsible for deciding care for your elder family member or friend, it can cause a lot of stress. Senior care decisions aren’t easy for anyone to make, especially for a loved one.

Are you making the right choice by putting them in a senior living community or personal care home? Will they receive adequate care? Are you capable of being their caregiver? Do they need more care than you can provide? If things go wrong, is it your fault? What could you have done to prevent this scenario altogether? These are all questions you’re probably asking yourself, and you’re not alone—many caregivers feel this guilt, and there is support out there for you.

Caregiving can sometimes feel like a demanding, full-time job. Although it allows you to spend more time with your loved ones, it can be quite emotionally and physically draining. One of the most challenging decisions to make is whether or not to seek other care options. These options vary by level, ranging from no assistance to around-the-clock nursing care.

The answer as to whether you should pursue senior care options for your loved one is never black and white, often resulting in mixed emotions. Recognizing the feeling of guilt is the first step in tackling those difficult emotions that often accompany eldercare. Ample research and communication play a key role in alleviating guilt and making the best decision for your loved one.

It’s important that guilt is addressed as it’s unlikely to go away on its own. Trying some of the following tactics may help in reducing guilt.

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If you continue to beat yourself up for not being able to provide all the care they require, seek forgiveness within yourself. Recognize that you’re doing your best to help your loved one and you still play a valuable role in their care.

Guilt can affect your relationship with your loved one and the attention and care you’re able to provide. If you’re struggling to find ways to work through guilt, a therapist, counselor, or support group are additional options to help untangle emotions and find ways to create change within yourself.

Prioritizing mental health is vital for both your well-being and your ability to provide the best care for your loved one.

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with your loved one, friends and family can help ease some Sometimes guilt can burdens while also ensuring become so strong everyone feels confident about it’s difficult to get any choices made. through each day.

• Researching the right care and involving your loved one in the process as much as possible can help alleviate feelings of guilt.

• Mentally opening the door to let guilt, frustration or regret come in is sometimes needed to address and process the complexity of these emotions. Writing down what you feel or simply observing these feelings without judgment can make them less powerful and lighter.

• Identifying the source and recognizing where it is coming from is the key to navigating feelings of guilt.

• Practicing gratitude and shifting your focus to acknowledging any opportunities you’ve gained as a result of your decision about their care. For example, are you able to spend more quality time with your loved one now? What are you more knowledgeable about now having gone through the situation?

• Consider what you might say to a friend or family member in a similar situation as you. Oftentimes, we’re harder on ourselves. Show yourself some kindness and replace those negative self-thoughts with compassion.

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HOW TO HANDLE ANGER + DIFFICULT BEHAVIOR And Not Take It Personally

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ave you noticed that as your loved one has aged, you’re seeing things in them you’ve never seen before? Memory loss? Difficulty managing emotions? Do they make decisions that compromise the safety of themselves or others? Do these troubling behaviors sometimes have a clear trigger and at other times no discernible reason?

Difficult aging behavior can take a huge emotional and physical toll on the family member who is providing care.

Learning to navigate these changes is critical to developing caregiving endurance.

Let’s walk through a few common scenarios that frequently pop up for family caregivers. It’s important to keep in mind that symptoms will vary from one person to the next, and for any given individual, what works one day may not work the next. So, keep these tools in your back pocket.

FRUSTRATION AFTER FORGETTING Beginning early in the onset of dementia, a person may become angry or frustrated when they forget something. They may realize this on their own or when it’s brought to their attention. The key is to try to take the focus off these moments of confusion.

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ADJUSTING TO RESIDENTIAL CARE Struggles can also arise with change, such as the transition to a senior living residence. Your loved one may not remember where they are or why they are there.

In this situation, your goal should be to validate their concerns while also giving a simple explanation. Try framing it as a temporary situation or agreeing with them and telling them you’ll work on bringing them home soon. This idea, known as a “therapeutic fiblet,” is used frequently in caring for people with memory issues.

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In most cases, not correcting your loved one is vital to avoiding frustration. Some people living with dementia experience anosognosia (pronounced ANN-uh-sog-KNOW-zha).

This means that they have limited or no insight into their deficits.

A person living with dementia may acknowledge their disability on some level but perhaps not the full extent of it.

When their forgetfulness is brought to their attention, they may become defensive, angry or even frightened. Taking the emphasis off their forgetfulness minimizes the chance of a negative reaction.

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It may feel counterintuitive not to tell the complete truth, but you’re meeting your loved one in their reality. Trying to argue and rationalize will likely cause frustration for both parties. Even if you persuade them, they may subsequently forget, and then you’ll have to relive this difficult conversation.

It’s important to keep in mind that you’re not trying to get your loved one to permanently remember something. You’re simply offering comfort and reassurance in the moment.

PREVENTING TRIGGERS The family member in your care may exhibit outbursts even without any triggers. When they experience anger, agitation, and other challenging symptoms, keep track of them in a journal. Journaling their symptoms can help identify any consistent triggers.

Write down what happened leading up to the outburst, and record what strategy was successful in de-escalating the symptoms. While the strategies to deal with the situation can help your senior get through a difficult moment, avoiding the trigger in the first place can keep the situation from developing or escalating.

However, avoidance may not always be possible, so keep this formula in mind: validate their feelings; provide a simple (even temporary) solution; and redirect to a more pleasant activity.

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“DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY” Aging can cause personality changes or behaviors that can be upsetting and emotional to deal with as the caregiver.

It’s not easy to provide such a high level of care for someone who may not notice or appreciate the care, or who may be resentful and angry.

At times, it may be necessary to walk away after doing a quick assessment of your loved one’s safety. Whether it’s to recharge emotionally, or for your safety, having a separate space to walk into is important. If you’re providing care and meeting resistance, it’s okay to consider whether that particular task really needs to

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be accomplished at that particular moment. Reapproaching at a later time may be advisable.

It’s not uncommon that your loved It’s important to one may at times respond better to keep in mind that someone other than you. Are there your loved one friends, family members or professional doesn’t have care providers to whom your loved control over their one may be more receptive? Is there symptoms, and someone who can physically step in with a different approach or provide a what they say in a distraction over the phone? painful moment is The most challenging behaviors are not personal, nor is often directed at the primary caregiver it a reflection on the simply because you’re the one who has care you provide. the most trusting relationship with the aging family member.

It’s important to keep in mind that your loved one doesn’t have control over their symptoms, and what they say in a painful moment is not personal, nor is it a reflection of the care you provide.

It’s still valid for you to feel upset. Allow yourself to feel the emotions caused by their behavior. Journal them as you would journal your loved one’s symptoms and triggers. Connect with someone you trust to help you deal with these moments.

Most importantly, have patience with yourself. If you respond in the wrong way, chances are you will remember that longer than your loved one will. Giving them some space will help them reset, and you should take that as an opportunity to reset yourself.

Difficult aging behaviors aren’t easy to navigate. They can take a lasting toll on the caregiver and the whole family, and positive moments can be hard to find.

But take every opportunity to remind yourself of all the things you loved—and still love—about this person you’re caring for. Those thoughts can help carry you through the most challenging times.

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ven though you have a loved one you care for dayin and day-out, it’s likely you have other duties and responsibilities outside of providing for your elderly or disabled loved one.

This overflow of obligations is a classic recipe for exhaustion and shattered nerves, especially when you tack on the emotional burden of these obligations being something you care deeply about. Many caregivers experience burnout simply because they cherish (and stress over) the well-being of loved ones so much.

When you’re burnt out, you’re not able to provide the same amount of attention and care because, in most cases, you’re completely drained mentally and physically; your glass is empty.

And an empty glass has no way of quenching the thirst of those in need. That’s why it’s so important for caregivers to fill their own glass first with self-care and a respite plan.

WHAT IS RESPITE? Respite care is a way for those experiencing caregiver burnout to rest and recharge. There are many services to utilize in Texas.

Essentially, caregivers always have to be on guard and ready to respond when needed, preventing you from turning off completely. Respite care gives you consecutive time off ensuring you can completely switch out of working mode for hours or

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It’s so important for caregivers to fill their own glass first with self-care and a respite plan.

WHY IT’S ESPECIALLY NEEDED FOR DEMENTIA CAREGIVERS Additionally, caring for someone with dementia, memory issues or Alzheimer’s can feel overwhelming. On top of scheduling and keeping track of things for your loved one’s life, you have to remember everything for your own day-to-day, which can be challenging.

Studies show that informal and familial caregiving shares strikingly similar characteristics with chronic stress. Both informal caregiving and chronic stress eat at you over a long period of time, having psychological and physical effects that may seem subtle to those not aware. Other areas of life, such as relationships, hobbies or work, are also strained in response.

This stress accumulates and may simply turn into your lifestyle. Since taking care of a loved one usually goes unpaid, some providers forget that what they’re doing is actually work.

And just like your average 9-5 job, you need to take time away from that work to make it sustainable. As a caregiver, be on the lookout for mental and physical signs of stress and exhaustion, and when spotted, realize it’s time to look into care facilities or in-home respite care in Texas.

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days at a time. These services provide a professional caregiver or facility to take your place so that you can completely unplug from your duties.

Don’t get Burnt Out

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GET CONNECTED Familiarizing Yourself with Local Resources That Can Help

TEXAS HEALTH AND HUMAN SERVICES The agency offers a wealth of information to connect you to resources, health care providers and services that can help you and your aging loved one live healthier. In the menu bar on their website is a dropdown for “Services,” which provides a wide range of helpful resources for people with medical, physical, intellectual or developmental disabilities; older adults; and caregivers who need a break from their duties. If you’re unsure how they can help, or even if you may not qualify for a program or service, Texas Health and Human Services’ trained professionals can help steer you in the right direction.

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Call 1-855-937-2372 or visit hhs.texas.gov

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Whether it’s a sudden medical bill, a natural disaster, a veteran trying to return to civilian life, or a concern about an aging parent—people from all walks of life can find themselves in need of assistance and confronted with a maze of agencies and programs that are challenging to navigate. Their trained helpline specialists are good listeners, blending understanding and expertise to provide information and referrals drawn from a comprehensive database of social services.

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UNITED WAY OF GREATER HOUSTON United Way seeks to ensure that all older adults can live vibrant lives.

They offer resources to a number of programs that focus on older adults’ health, financial security and engagement.

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Support groups are an excellent resource and there are many specifically for caregivers.

See srgtexas.com to find support groups in your area.

AREA AGENCY ON AGING Serving over 250,000 people annually, Texas’ 28 area agencies on aging offer help to Texans age 60 and older, their family members and caregivers to locate and access local services, including benefits counseling, legal assistance, care coordination, caregiver support services, in-home support and the ombudsman program.

Houston-Galveston Area Agency on Aging Call 1-800-437-7396 or visit h-gac.com/area-agency-on-aging Harris County Area Agency on Aging Call 832-393-4301 or visit houstontx.gov/health/Aging

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Visit referral.unitedwayhouston.org for a searchable directory that offers information on several community programs covering an array of categories including transportation, housing options, benefits screenings, dementia evaluations and elder abuse.

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HOW TO ASSESS SENIOR LIVING FACILITIES IN TEXAS Reviews + Complaints

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ou and your loved one are looking at senior living facilities and have found the one you both like, but how do you know it’s the right one? Your neighbor recommended this facility, and several of your loved one’s friends live there already. However, how can you be sure it’s the best place for your loved one?

A valuable resource is to check the ratings and reviews, inspection reports and recommendations online, but where do you even start?

Fortunately, we’ve outlined some key information and insight on what you should be looking for.

WHAT TYPES OF SENIOR CARE FACILITIES DO WE HAVE IN TEXAS? There are three main types of senior care facilities found throughout Texas. The first type is independent living. Here, seniors live independently but receive daily support services such as meal preparation, housekeeping, transportation, and social activities. This can be a good option for those who may only need occasional support and want to reduce the workload of staying in their own home.

The second type is assisted living, where individuals receive all these services but require more help with day-to-day tasks

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POSITIVE REVIEWS VS. COMPLAINTS Let’s get one thing out of the way first: You won’t find a community with no complaints or reviews—and you shouldn’t expect to. Any business with a reasonable amount of customers will have some who are unsatisfied.

Of course, those unsatisfied customers may be even more likely to take their concerns online than satisfied customers.

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than independent living communities. These more intense services often include assistance with medications and medical alert systems that seniors can carry at all times for immediate response in case of an emergency or fall. These facilities typically also provide a higher nurse-to-patient ratio.

The third type is skilled nursing, which offers medical care 24 hours a day for those who need extensive daily support from trained health care providers, including physical therapy and rehabilitation after an illness or injury. Residents who may have suffered from a recent fall or have ongoing medical conditions can receive aroundthe-clock care that they wouldn’t be able to get on their own.

To dive a little deeper into each of these options, flip to “Types of Residential Care for Seniors” on page 128.

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Trusted Tools

• Senior Resource Guide’s Online Directory srgtexas.com/find

This easy-to-use tool will help you narrow down your options to the type of care needed, city, zip code, keyword—plus there’s even a map view.

• Texas Health and Human Services’ Long-term Care Provider Search Tool apps.hhs.texas.gov/ltcsearch This tool allows you to look up information on both residential and home/ community-based options.

• ProPublica’s Nursing Home Deficiency Reports projects.propublica.org/nursing-homes

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This tool includes serious deficiencies, fines and staff fully vaccinated against COVID-19. Users can also download the full reports, which are maintained by Medicare.gov.

complaints when trying to understand a senior living facility and how it operates. Remember to take each with a grain of salt.

Look at what real people have said about their experience rather than just relying on numbers to tell you whether a facility is good enough for your loved one. An example of a quality review would be: “I’ve been here before. PT was great. Most of my nurses were great. Only one problem with meds one night. The recovery proceeded better than I thought. The helpers in personal care were very respectful.”

This real review was a 4 out 5 star rating from an actual resident. You can see that it highlights certain aspects that were good while also revealing one issue, which appeared not to be a running problem.

Another element to consider when looking through online reviews is if the facility responds to them—no matter if they’re positive or negative. Some facilities don’t have designated staff to maintain every single review on every platform. However,

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seeing the response to negative reviews can be helpful to get a full picture of the scenario.

For example, if the negative review was about the quality of food and the facility responded by admitting the issue and demonstrating how changes have been made, it can build confidence that they take issues into consideration and work to alleviate problems.

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WHAT IF YOU SEE MIXED ONLINE REVIEWS? It can be quite confusing for families to set their expectations correctly when they come across both positive and negative reviews about a facility. Some people say certain elements are great while others say those same ones are terrible.

Your gut might tell you to stay away. However, it’s a good idea to speak with current residents and their families (if possible) or previous residents. Sometimes there’s a mix-up between two facilities, and the review is accurate for one but not the other.

Social media platforms such as Facebook may have pages or groups dedicated to local facilities in your community and can be a great way to connect with residents or their family members for an open discussion. Secondary resources include local religious groups, primary care physicians, and asking the facility itself for a referral.

Remember, seniors tend to avoid confrontation, so they might not say anything if they don’t like something—this includes residents’ families too.

SUMMARY Finding a suitable location for your loved one can be a difficult undertaking. Some facilities may not have a lot of publicly available information, others may have too much, and some may have conflicting details altogether.

No two residents are the same and each experience is unique to the individual. However, looking through online reviews and resources can help you identify any underlying patterns or trends. It can also spark questions to ask the intake staff who can provide the answers you’re looking for, and ultimately narrow down your search.

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CREATING A CARE PLAN

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ith more Americans living well beyond their 70s, many individuals are now finding themselves entrusted with the position of caring for their aging parents, relatives and/or friends. For many, providing help for aging parents can be financially, logistically and emotionally challenging. This is why addressing long-term care needs before a major life event occurs can help alleviate some of the stress. Here are four steps to creating a cohesive care plan:

1. CONDUCT A NEEDS ASSESSMENT Put together a list of topics and questions to discuss with your parents. Consider the following: • Family Support – who is available to provide support/care

as needed?

• Home Safety – are there safety concerns to be addressed?

• Medical/Cognitive – are medical and cognitive health needs

being considered?

• Mobility – what assistance with transportation is needed?

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• Legal Documents & Finances – are there plans in place for

paying for long-term care? Have necessary legal documents been addressed?

• Housing – is their preference to age at home or move to a senior community?

• Socialization – are they getting adequate opportunity to socialize?

Communicate your concerns and include your parents in the dialogue on their future needs. If they’re unwilling to discuss

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Remember

• Support comes in many shapes • Open the lines of communication before a crisis happens • Understand their financial situation without judgment • It’s not all about you

something you feel is important, agree to a time in the future when they would be willing to readdress. Alternately, they may be interested in writing out their wishes for you to review at a later date.

2. RESEARCH ELDERCARE PROVIDERS AND RESOURCES The current and future needs of your loved one will dictate the types of services and resources you need to look for. Explore available aging options on srgtexas.com.

4. EXECUTE A CARE PLAN Now that you’ve outlined any needs, steps and goals, along with roles and responsibilities, it’s time to put the plan into action.

Over time, you’ll need to look for signs and know when to reassess the situation to put updated roles and responsibilities in place. Remember to be flexible and keep an open line of communication on care topics with your loved one.

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3. CREATE A CARE PLAN Put a plan together that everyone agrees will meet both immediate and long-term needs. See an example of a Care Plan in our Caregiver Toolkit.

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WHAT LEVEL OF CARE IS RIGHT

Understanding the Care Continuum ADULT DAY CARE An ideal option for older adults who wish to age at home but need daytime supervision. Adult day care centers provide services which typically include meals and activities that provide social interaction. Some centers specialize in services for individuals with Alzheimer’s and dementia.

HOME CARE/HOME HEALTH For seniors living independently but require assistance. Nonmedical care (home care) or skilled medical care (home health) aim to allow an individual to remain at home by filling any gaps in care. These care services can range from specialized such as wound care to generalized like companionship and housekeeping.

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CONTINUING CARE RETIREMENT COMMUNITY A housing option whereby a spectrum of aging care can all be met within one community. Beginning with independent living, moving to assisted living and finally skilled nursing as needed. All are typically located together on one campus.

INDEPENDENT LIVING A housing option for individuals who require little or no assistance with activities of daily living but enjoy access to dining, medical, hospitality and entertainment services. Also known as 55+ apartments or independent/retirement communities.

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Medicare

These types of care typically accept Medicare: • Skilled Nursing Continuing Care • Skilled Nursing Rehab • Home Health Care • Hospice Care

ASSISTED LIVING A housing option similar to independent living but for those who require more assistance and have difficulty with daily living activities.

PERSONAL CARE HOME Assisted living in a home-like setting that typically has fewer residents.

SKILLED NURSING/ REHABILITATION FACILITY Ideal for those individuals who require constant nursing care.

These facilities are licensed and equipped to provide residents with health care that meets the needs of more involved medical conditions.

HOSPICE CARE End-of-life care for the terminally ill, usually via visits in the home or facility of residence.

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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR PARENTS NEED DIFFERENT LEVELS OF CARE

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ne parent requiring advanced care sooner than the other is a probable situation as women and men aren’t statistically equal health wise.

When parents require different levels of care, it can be hard trying to balance these circumstances.

For example, what if Mom has dementia and needs to move into a memory care community? What is Dad to do?

This is similar in some ways to a divorce. However, in this instance, both parties typically want to be together, yet the Prioritize your separation is necessary to maintain health and welltheir health and safety. being too. Taking With the separation, feelings time to refuel of loneliness and social isolation will allow you to can arise. continue supporting The following are ways to help your parents support a healthy relationship through this new and quality of life for both turn in their journey. parents despite their change in environment.

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Step

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CREATE A SCHEDULE

A schedule offers routine and structure and will not only benefit your parents but also you. It can help ensure that each parent doesn’t go too long without a family member or friend visiting.

Make time for Sunday brunch, biweekly game night or a monthly movie marathon. If a loved one doesn’t live nearby, then schedule virtual visits where the possibilities are endless.

Step

2 PLAN FOR TRANSPORTATION

Transportation may be required for various reasons such as taking one parent to visit the other, doctor’s appointments, shopping/ errands, etc. It’s often difficult to arrange for last-minute service, especially if both parents require transportation on the same day.

Consider creating a schedule of availability with other loved ones willing to help drive each parent. You could also hire a private companion or care aid who can come spend some time with your parent(s) as well as drive to necessary appointments. For other options, see “Get Connected” on page 30 in the Guide to discover local resources that can help.

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3 TAKE ADVANTAGE OF TECHNOLOGY

Smartphones, tablets, computers and more allow the opportunity to interact with people even when they’re not physically nearby.

With apps such as Zoom and FaceTime, you can quickly connect with loved ones via video. If your parents aren’t tech-savvy, walk them through the process and show them how easy it is to reach their spouse and other loved ones whenever they desire.

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Step

4 ENCOURAGE A HEALTHY LIFESTYLE

A positive aspect of living apart is that each parent may have more time to focus on themselves. This offers a wonderful opportunity to build good habits that promote happiness.

For example, Mom can enjoy Zumba and chair yoga at the community while Dad sharpens his golf or tennis skills at home. As a result of working on themselves independently, they can cultivate their own strengths and be a better team when they’re together.

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5 COMMUNICATE FREQUENTLY

Transitioning from levels of care can be physically and mentally draining for everyone involved, but with the tips we’ve outlined and a support system in place for both parents, it should make this phase easier.

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Check in often with each parent to see how they’re doing both emotionally and physically. Consider that your parents may not want to burden you or voluntarily come to you to voice their thoughts. Try asking yes or no questions like “Do you like how often you’re seeing Mom/Dad?” or “Are you happy with your current daily routine?” to help determine if things need to be adjusted. Creating a standard of open communication can increase the level of comfort and their willingness to share any concerns.

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WHAT’S AN ADULT DAY CENTER? How it Can Help Caregivers

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dult day centers provide care and companionship to seniors in a structured setting, which allow primary caregivers an opportunity to work, catch up on personal items or simply relax.

Are adult day centers the same as your community’s senior center? While senior centers are intended for healthy, independent and physically capable older adults, adult day services are for individuals with physical or cognitive limitations.

Adult day centers are an ideal option for older adults who wish to age at home but need some supervision.

Different programs and services can be found at each adult day center. For example, some centers may specialize in Alzheimer’s or dementia care while others may offer therapeutic exercise, mental interaction, social activities and assistance with personal care.

Some centers offer weekend or evening hours, but most operate weekdays during daytime hours. Many provide daily activities, nutritional meals and transportation to and from the center at no cost or on a per-ride basis.

Depending on the services offered, costs for adult day care can range from $25 to over $100 a day, according Visit srgtexas.com to the U.S. Administration on Aging. to further your Texas has one of the lowest average understanding and learn: daily rates around $35.

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long-term care ombudsman not only enforces, but also helps nursing home residents to understand their rights. Living in a nursing home doesn’t mean giving up your freedom.

If you feel someone is violating you or your loved one’s rights, the Texas Health and Human Services Commission’s long-term care ombudsman can help.

Nursing home residents have the same rights and protections of their health, safety and welfare that we all share.

For nursing home residents, these rights include the right to vote, voice complaints, exercise personal choice, the opportunity to make medical and social decisions, visit with anyone they wish, and to be lawfully discharged and leave the facility.

One of the most common issues one might face when being discharged is to potentially lose their spot in the nursing home they were initially admitted to. This practice, known as “patient dumping,” is among the top five frequent complaints Patty Ducayet, Texas long-term care ombudsman, sees.

The long-term care ombudsman will make sure the individual knows their rights, including the right to appeal and return to the nursing home after a hospital stay, and can represent them during that appeal.

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Important Number

Call 800-458-9858 to report suspected elder abuse or neglect that occurs in nursing homes, assisted living facilities, day activity and health services. You can also report care concerns about home health and hospice agencies.

Often the most direct and expedient way to ensure your issue is addressed is to inform the skilled nursing facility’s management team, but the Texas Health and Human Services Commission stands by ready to help if needed.

According to Texas Health and Human Services, some of the ways long-term care ombudsmen help nursing home and assisted living residents include: • Listening to residents and family members when they have

concerns or issues.

• Telling residents about their rights.

• Protecting resident health, safety, welfare and rights.

• Helping families learn about nursing homes and how to pay

for them.

• Working to solve problems and making sure state

“An ombudsman can help bring the resident’s concerns to management and offer ideas to address the concern,” Ducayet said. “An ombudsman can give everyone information about the nursing facility’s requirements about residents’ rights and will tell the resident about the option to report a complaint to HHSC LongTerm Care Regulatory Services.”

Find out more For more information on the ombudsman in your area: 800-252-2412 hhs.texas.gov (search for ombudsman)

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regulations and laws protect residents.

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having the conversation:

WHEN DAD DISAGREES ON MOM’S CARE

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om and Dad have been together for decades, filled with the memories of good times and bad. Both are getting older, but they may not experience the same impacts of aging at the same rate.

Dad, perhaps, is generally fit as a fiddle while Mom may be experiencing physical or cognitive challenges, or both. As dad or the adult children assume the role of the primary decision maker, how do you handle conflicts over care decisions?

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ASSESS THE SITUATION If Dad is providing care for Mom, or vice versa, it’s vital to assess his ability to meet her needs without neglecting his own. Is he missing doctor’s appointments because she can’t stay alone? Is he providing physical care that could cause a fall? If she were to fall, could he get her up on his own?

Asking questions like these can help you determine the level of risk and help you decide whether to take the further steps in getting support for your parents.

UNDERSTANDING YOUR LOVED ONE’S PERSPECTIVE Before stepping in or implementing formal care options, listen to your dad’s perspective. Consider why he feels the way he does.

Older adults are frequently reluctant to accept help. Many emotions are involved. Dad may feel that it’s his job to care for your mom— on his own. He may feel that it’s weak to ask for or accept help, and he may be grieving the loss of his wife as he once knew her.

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Advance aging can bring the feeling of losing control, and while Mom may be the one in need of care, Dad may also feel this loss. He may struggle with releasing more of that control to his adult children.

Here are a few suggestions for making hard conversations easier: • Start small. Change is hard for most of us! Rather than

making many changes all at once, think about where your loved ones are struggling the most and start there.

• Pick your battles. Consider what behaviors really need to

be corrected. Prioritize safety issues such as medication mistakes, driving and lack of eating. It’s crucial to maintain trust between you and your parents. Don’t burn a bridge over a minor difference of opinion.

• Spend quality time. In caregiving, it’s easy to get caught up

in day-to-day tasks and forget to spend quality time with your loved ones. You may even feel you don’t have time to enjoy your parents’ company. Think about the favorite activities you used to enjoy together and schedule them into your visits.

Try not to bring up the need for help. Enjoying each other’s company breaks up the times when you need to have difficult conversations. It also eases the feeling that you’re interfering and shows them that you value them as individuals.

easier to mull over if they feel far off in the distance. Talk to Dad about what his emergency plan would look like if something were to happen to him and he couldn’t provide the great care he’s providing.

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• Call it an “emergency plan.” Sometimes, care options are

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hether you’re a caregiver yourself, or perhaps interested in getting your own affairs in order, we’ve identified five recommended legal documents that every adult should have. There are many available online resources that explain each document in greater detail and provide free templates for you to create your own. If you have an attorney, be sure to ask them about these types of documents. Don’t wait until it’s too late—take a moment now to get organized.

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1. ADVANCE DIRECTIVE Also known as a living will or health care declaration/directive, this document outlines your wishes for medical treatments and life-sustaining measures, in the case that you’re not able to communicate them verbally. Details might include a “do not resuscitate” order (DNR), the use of breathing machines, tube feeding or organ donation. Making these decisions in advance lets medical professionals know what measures to take and grants your loved ones peace of mind should they have to communicate these decisions for you.

2. DURABLE POWER OF ATTORNEY FOR HEALTH CARE While an advance directive is limited to end-of-life concerns, a durable power of attorney for health care accounts for all

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Online Resources

health care decisions in the case that you’re incapable of making decisions for yourself. In this document, you can outline how your designated power of attorney should act. Their authority to make these decisions ends when you’re once again capable of making your own decisions.

• eldercareteam.com • legalzoom.com

• nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ advancedirectives.html • texasnaela.com • texasprobate.com/ professional-forms

3. LAST WILL AND TESTAMENT Many people know this document simply as a “will.” It outlines how your property (including digital property such as email accounts and blogs) should be distributed and to whom. Different states have different requirements for one’s will. In Texas, your will must be signed by two witnesses.

5. FINANCIAL POWER OF ATTORNEY This document designates someone (principal) to do business on your behalf should you be unable to take care of necessary matters yourself. Tasks designated might include paying bills, selling property, managing assets or applying for medical benefits. Unlike a living trust, a financial power of attorney terminates upon the death of the grantor.

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4. LIVING TRUST A living trust designates someone (trustee) to help manage and distribute your assets rather than going through the court system, as in a last will. This often prevents your last wishes from becoming public record. This document also designates terms in which the trustee would set into action should you be unable to make decisions regarding your assets during and after your life.

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UNDERSTANDING MEDICARE:

Parts, Plans and Meeting Your Needs Courtesy of Sharon Wagner, seniorfriendly.info

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any Americans who enter into Medicare do so with a sketchy understanding of how the system works. That’s rather alarming considering how much older Americans rely on Medicare for their health care needs.

It’s essential that seniors and their caregivers understand how the program works to avoid missing out on important benefits and paying unnecessarily high costs. Sometimes, the best approach is to start from the beginning when unraveling a complex subject like Medicare.

PARTS OF MEDICARE When you sign up for Medicare at age 65 you’re automatically enrolled in Plan A, which is hospital coverage, and Plan B, which covers outpatient coverage. Part A covers room and board in a hospital or skilled nursing facility, while Part B covers things like doctor visits, surgeries, lab work, equipment and diagnostic tests.

Prescription drugs are covered under Part D, which provides a card that allows you to buy prescription medications at a significantly lower cost than retail. Part D insurance is voluntary coverage, but it’s a key part of the system because paying out-ofpocket for medications can be extremely expensive.

HOW THE PARTS WORK Your Medicare Part B coverage is based on income, with enrollees starting at a base rate of $135.50 while higher-income enrollees pay an “income adjustment” (meaning they pay more for Medicare). Part B is a necessity; you can’t purchase supplemental insurance unless you have both Part A and B. If you’re working for a large employer, your health insurance there continues as your primary with Medicare playing a secondary role, meaning you can delay enrolling in Part B if your group insurance already includes outpatient benefits.

Part B covers 80% of medical services, with your share being the remaining 20%. Certain treatments and procedures can be quite expensive, which means you could end up with a hefty co-pay. Part D has built-in co-pays for medications, so you won’t need supplemental insurance for the cost of needed medications.

MEDICARE ADVANTAGE Choosing the right supplemental coverage is one of the most important decisions you’ll make as a Medicare enrollee.

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Fortunately, you can select plan options based on your budget.

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Every time you pick up a prescription, your pharmacist will ask the usual, “Do you have any questions about your medication?”

Most of us get in the routine of thoughtlessly saying no, giving in to the ongoing fear of looking foolish for asking questions. But the other option is trusting the reliably unreliable Dr. Google.

So, what’s the real solution to help you understand your loved one’s medication? Ask your pharmacist these important questions.

Okay, so this one may seem a little obvious, but starting with the basics helps you know what to expect. Knowing what each medicine does and how long it takes to see the effects is a valuable part of confirming if it’s working.

While you may be hyperaware of any changes in your loved one, or he/she may tell you new feelings, at the beginning, the effects of medicine that takes several weeks to work may slip under your radar.

Having a general timeline will let you know when to check back in.

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What does this medication do? When can we expect it to start working?

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Is there anything my loved one should avoid while on this medication? (e.g., activities, foods, other prescriptions or medicines) Prescription meds have targeted impacts on the body. However, their impact can be altered, worsened or diminished when combined with anything that reacts with them. Some things like alcohol are typical on the list of “things to avoid,” but staying up to date on everything to watch out for can help improve your loved one’s treatment experience.

It’s important to be aware if your loved one should or should not be doing anything in particular, like wearing extra SPF or avoiding grapefruit.

How should I store the meds? (As in, should I take my grandmother’s advice and put them all in the refrigerator?)

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Have you ever wondered why some people keep medications in their fridge? Some medicines, especially antibiotics, are recommended to be kept cold. Otherwise, most medications will do fine in a cool, dry space.

Also, finding ways to dispose of medication and syringes is vital to keep you and others safe. Some pharmacies have on-site disposal for pharmaceutical waste, including tablets, syringes, sharps and more.

Be sure to confirm with the pharmacist what the proper methods are for both storing and disposing.

Being prepared for a pharmacy visit can help you find valuable advice and peace of mind. So, the next time the pharmacist asks the usual, “Do you have any questions about your medication?” you might have some questions of your own.

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A GUIDE TO MEDICATION OBSTACLES “I was discharged from the hospital with so many new medications and don’t even know what I’m taking them for.”

As your senior’s health changes, medication requirements often change as well. Oftentimes, hospital stays result in several medication changes, including adjustments in dosages, removal of some, and the addition of new ones.

This cumbersome process can leave room for errors.

Fortunately, there are steps you can take that may help prevent errors when medication changes occur.

Prior to being discharged, ask the nurse to review the updated list of medications with you. It’s important for you and your loved one to understand the reason they’re taking Repeat back what each medication. each medication is You’ll also be given a list with and what they treat. this information on the discharge This tactic will help paperwork. If any of this information in becoming familiar looks inaccurate or confusing, ask the with each. nurse to check with the doctor or other health care providers to confirm accuracy.

If possible, have a family member or friend with you during this time. There’s typically a lot to take in at once, and they can assist with asking any clarifying questions as well as taking notes.

Follow up with their primary care provider after any hospitalization. The provider can review the discharge medications with you and update their medical records. This is

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“I’ve been out of my medication for three days.

I’m not sure how to get more.”

Create a List Include each medication with an explanation of what it treats. Doing so may bring to light any medications that are duplicating efforts or no longer necessary. Keep the list—a printed and digital copy—easily accessible in case of emergency.

Another obstacle is running out of medication. Making a plan of how your loved one will access medications is essential and may help prevent missed doses.

If transportation is an issue, look into mail delivery options, which can bring medications right to their doorstep, or seek assistance from family members or friends. Home caregivers, aides or companions are also available to provide transportation to the pharmacy.

Keeping a schedule with estimated refill timeframes for each medication will help keep them on track and prevent missed doses. Try to make it a habit of refilling medication a few days or a week before they’re out.

Perhaps the medications are too expensive, and your senior loved one can’t afford them. If they are struggling to pay for medications, ask the primary care provider about alternate medication options or the pharmacy for recommended resources.

The medication obstacles your loved one faces can be difficult, but remember there’s a lot of help available. Your health care team, family and friends are all important resources who can work together with Your loved one may you to ensure your loved one takes have spilled some their medications as prescribed. With pills, misplaced the support of everyone involved, it’s the bottle, or possible to overcome any obstacle accidentally taken and maintain excellent medication an extra dose. compliance.

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RESISTANCE TO ACTIVITIES OF DAILY LIVING: BATHING, EATING & MEDICATIONS As needs change, your loved one may need assistance with personal care. This is an area that can often cause stress, which may result in anger or agitation. The family member may refuse

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It’s not uncommon that your loved one may at times respond better to someone other than you.

Are there friends, family members or professional care providers to whom your loved one may be more receptive? Is there someone who can physically step in with a different approach or provide a distraction over the phone?

your assistance because they may not see their need for help, or they could be seeking to remain in control. Consider how you can present the task without bringing attention to their challenges.

At shower time, you might say that you bought a new product and you’d love for them to try it. When you place a meal in front of them, say you made a big dish and have leftovers.

In the same way, preparing your loved one’s medications is a convenience for you—you were in the kitchen, so you got them ready. If your loved one is apprehensive about the pills themselves (perhaps even suspicious), try to connect them with something positive, such as staying healthy to see the grandkids.

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The most challenging behaviors are often directed at the primary caregiver simply because you’re the one who has the most trusting relationship with the aging family member.

It’s important to keep in mind that your loved one doesn’t have control over their symptoms, and what they say in a painful moment is not personal, nor is it a reflection on the care you provide.

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be scary for some people. Try to make the experience more pleasant. Think about temperature, smells, music. Anything that can make the surroundings more pleasant can help a difficult situation feel more comfortable or familiar. This can create a dementia-friendly environment.

Instructions to your loved one are best kept short and sweet.

Anger and agitation that arise during personal care are typically a way of communicating their needs. Being mindful of what they’re trying to express can guide you to the most appropriate response.

PREVENTING TRIGGERS The family member in your care may exhibit outbursts even without any triggers. When they experience anger, agitation, and other challenging symptoms, keep track of them in a journal.

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With these changes, we often find that there's an increased need for help with necessities like bathing, dressing and meal preparation. When this happens, it may cause you to wonder if it’s time to hire in-home care or move to an assisted living facility.

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It may be time to look for assistance when signs of decline begin to appear during various activities of daily living.

Many adult children who are caregiving may cohabitate with their parents. However, working adults may also have responsibilities that don’t allow them to provide care during the day. As time carries on, the dishes begin to stack up in the sink, the laundry piles up, and your parent is found in the same chair you left them in when you return home. Then the realization hits—your parent hasn’t had a shower in a long period of time.

Perhaps even more tricky is when your loved one lives alone, and you notice a similar situation as noted above with the dishes, laundry and hygiene. You might notice that the mail has piled up and bills aren’t being paid or medication refills go unfilled.

There’s also the scenario where your aging parents are living independently, however, you begin to notice a decline in the health of the parent who typically provides care for their spouse.

The stress of providing care can take a physical and mental toll on even the most experienced caregivers. In-home care can provide respite for the caregiver, which can allow for some muchneeded rest and time for self-care. Give yourself permission to take a break!

These are just a few examples of when to consider exploring in-home care options. Moreover, receiving care assistance enables you to focus on spending quality time with your loved ones and less time worrying or stressing over daily care needs.

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THEFT ACCUSATIONS FROM A SENIOR: Real or Not

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aring for an aging family member, whether at home or in a senior living community, can put stress on the family.

If your loved one suddenly begins making accusations of theft or abuse, the stress is multiplied exponentially.

It can be terrifying to think that your loved one may be suffering and a victim of some form of mistreatment, but don’t leap to conclusions. There are a variety of situations in which an elderly person might make false accusations against caretakers or other residents.

As sad as it may be to consider this possibility, it must be done in order to determine the truth behind the accusation and provide the necessary help and support for your loved one.

In this article, we’re covering the circumstances that might give rise to theft accusations from an aging loved one, and some suggestions on how to deal with them whether they’re true or groundless. There are also tips on what to look for to help determine whether theft has occurred.

DEMENTIA AND DECLINE Seniors with dementia are frequently confused and disoriented.

These senior delusions can be intense and cause them to put themselves or others in danger, which is what usually prompts their admission into a senior living facility.

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“YOU/THEY ARE STEALING FROM ME” Seniors suffering from memory loss and cognitive decline, especially those with dementia, have a hard time remembering where they put things. Frustration and pride can result in suspicions of theft by their caregivers, even if the caregiver is a family member or friend.

Senior delusions of theft are common--so don’t take it personally or be alarmed. A study of 110 patients found that 31% had paranoid delusions, and that of these delusions, theft (28%) was most common.

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Even when dementia isn’t present, a decline in cognitive abilities and a gradual loss of short-term memory can make the world around them a scary, frustrating place.

These negative feelings, in addition to dementia, Alzheimer’s or a more gradual memory loss and confusion, can easily lead to paranoia that results in false accusations of theft or abuse.

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HANDLING FALSE ACCUSATIONS OF THEFT Familiarize yourself with their common stashes, and what they keep there, so you’ll know where to look when something is lost.

Take the blame. Instead of arguing, just say, “I must have misplaced it while I was cleaning. Let me go find it for you.”

Buy duplicates of items that are frequently misplaced and use them as replacements when they go missing.

If your senior can still read, carefully label where things should go around the house or their senior living accommodation.

WHAT TO DO IN THE CASE OF THEFT Sometimes, theft is real. Seniors are extremely vulnerable and are often targeted. Some signs theft may be occurring in the senior living facility: • Something is missing and neither your loved one nor you

can find it.

• Staff at the facility dodge or avoid your questions about the

item.

• Caregivers don’t allow you alone time with your loved one.

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• The item missing is particularly valuable.

By law, every nursing home must have explicit policies and procedures for responding to theft. These should be provided to each resident or resident representative when the admission contract is completed. If you don’t have it, ask for it and review it.

Immediately report the theft to the nursing staff, administrator, local ombudsman, and licensing department. They should record each missing/stolen item with a value of $25 or more. If the value is $100 or more, it should be reported directly to the police. Ask the facility whether it has a policy for replacing lost items.

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You can seek help from a local ombudsman program, which is focused on supporting policies and consumer protections to improve long-term care at the facility, local, state and national levels.

Homeowner’s insurance may cover certain losses if your senior receives home care. Check to see if your insurance covers the lost item.

If a loved one is accusing a family caregiver of theft, you must address it with the family member in question and see if it has any merit.

Other allegations of wrongdoings that seniors most commonly make include: • “I’m being poisoned” • “I’m being held prisoner” • “I’m being abused”

If you believe your loved one is being mistreated, definitely seek help. Your first steps should always be to share your concerns with the senior living facility, doctors who see them regularly, and anyone else close to them.

If you find abuse, report it. You can call Texas Health and Human Services Commission at 800-458-9858.

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Important to Know

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WARNING SIGNS OF UNSAFE DRIVING IN SENIORS and When it’s Time to Address

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hether warning signs surface gradually or because of a recent change in health, they shouldn't be brushed aside or overlooked. Even minor changes that manifest individually can quickly lead to a more substantial problem. For example:

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• Neck pain or stiffness can make it tough to properly check

mirrors and look out for other vehicles.

• Leg pain or stiffness can make it difficult to switch between the pedals.

• Diminished range of motion and arm strength can make it challenging to turn the steering wheel.

• Slowed reaction time can impact braking or honking if needed quickly.

• Reduced ability to multitask makes it tricky to effectively divide attention between multiple activities.

• Impaired vision or hearing can be troublesome to see traffic lights or street signs and hear emergency sirens or honking horns.

• Declining memory can be problematic for regularly driven trips and can cause an individual to become lost or confused.

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Something to Ask

WHAT SHOULD YOU BE LOOKING FOR? When joining your loved one for an errand or an outing, encourage them to drive and observe the following: • Do they remember/are able to

fasten their seat belt?

• Do they sit comfortably at the

wheel or lean forward?

• Do they appear tense or

distracted easily?

• Is there any difficulty moving

Has your loved one’s car insurance rate gone up? This may be a sign that they’ve had recent driving infractions.

Consider giving their driving condition more attention.

If you notice any of these warning signs or others, it may be time to share your concerns, talk with their doctor, and/or have a driving assessment done.

Whether your loved one is still driving, driving with limitations, or having to give up driving altogether, being aware of the warning signs can help you to play a valuable role in their safety.

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their feet between pedals? Do they often confuse the gas and brake?

• Are they able to properly observe traffic lights, road signs, pedestrians, and the reactions of other motorists?

• Do they drive too close to other vehicles or drift into other lanes often?

• How’s your loved one’s reaction time in general? Is there any confusion in unexpected scenarios?

• Are they consistently waiting too long to brake or accelerate at traffic lights?

• Has your loved one retained a good sense of direction? Do they complain that vehicles or people appear suddenly to them?

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5-MINUTE COMFORT Recipe adapted from minimalistbaker.com

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ozy up with a cup of creamy, chocolatey, chill vibes, and help your body take the edge off any stress. Adaptogens are said to help reduce fatigue, alleviate anxiety, and boost the immune system.

This hot chocolate recipe incorporates three adaptogens that are widely available: Ashwagandha (most well-known for its ability to help our bodies adapt to stress and potentially lower cortisol), Maca (packs serious health benefits including balancing hormones and increasing energy levels), and Reishi mushroom (especially good for helping our bodies relax).

ADAPTOGENIC HOT CHOCOLATE RECIPE

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Makes 1 serving

INGREDIENTS

DIRECTIONS

• 10 ounces very hot water (or sub favorite dairy-free milk) • 1 tablespoon unsweetened cacao powder (or cocoa powder) • 1/2 teaspoon Ashwagandha • 1 teaspoon Reishi mushroom powder • 1 teaspoon Maca • 1 teaspoon coconut butter • Maple syrup (or raw honey) to taste • 1/8 teaspoon cinnamon

In a small saucepan over medium-high heat, add water and begin to warm it. Once it starts to simmer, remove from heat and pour directly into a blender.

Add remaining ingredients to the blender and blend on high until creamy and frothy (approximately 1 minute). Taste and adjust flavor as needed, adding more sweetener to taste, cacao for rich chocolate flavor, maca for malty flavor, or coconut butter for coconut flavor/butteriness. Serve and enjoy immediately.

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MEANINGFUL MINUTES FOR CAREGIVERS

Creating Space for Yourself to Recharge

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aking time for yourself may seem impossible, but try carving out 5 minutes in your day to press pause. It can make a world of difference.

Consider turning your phone on silent mode and stepping away to:

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GET FRESH AIR. Open your windows or simply step outside to take in a new environment. A fresh atmosphere is excellent for resetting your mind and body, which can help you feel calmer. If you have the time, go for a walk or run to boost endorphins.

MAKE A GRATITUDE LIST. Write down 10 things you’re thankful for. Shifting your mind to appreciation and finding the positive in your day cultivates a new perspective. The 10 items can be relatively small or large.

Try to be as specific as possible and give thought to the reason you’re grateful for each of them. For example, you may be grateful you were able to pick up dinner for your mom because you received a huge smile from her. Or you could be thankful for your bed, pet, laughter, alarm clock, etc. In the words of Oprah Winfrey, “Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.”

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JOT DOWN YOUR THOUGHTS TO CLEAR YOUR MIND. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or as if your tasks and demands are never ending, grab a piece of paper (or open a notetaking app on your phone) and unload your thoughts. Don’t attempt to organize them. Simply write them out as they pop up in your mind—things you’re worried or happy about, obligations, items on your to-do list or projects. Decluttering the mind and slowing down spiraling thoughts can help sort out a frazzled mind, but also may help clarify emotions. Additionally, the act of writing down any bright spots in your caregiving journey encourages calm and may help store it in your memory.

• lower our heart rate and

cortisol levels • release endorphins and improve

our sense of well-being • distract us, reducing physical and

emotional stress levels

More 5-minute ideas: • Make yourself a cup of tea or coffee • Five-minute breathing exercise

• Meditate (or just close your eyes and relax) • Read a short article of interest • Stretch • Take a power nap • Chat with a friend or family member

Music is a fantastic way to relieve stress. While some types of music such as classical and ambient have been studied for their calming effects, listening to your personal favorite song or genre also has its benefits. Whether it’s been a stressful day or you’re just looking for some good vibes, take a moment to turn on Spotify or queue Alexa to play “Dancing Queen” by ABBA. Listening to music that makes you feel good will help put a smile on your face. Additionally, research has shown that music can help reduce burnout and help you fall asleep.

However you spend your five minutes, make the most of it.

Fully dedicating time for yourself allows your mind and body the opportunity to recharge.

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LISTEN TO A FAVORITE SONG. According to Psych Central, a 2020 overview of research into music and stress suggests that listening to music can:

MeTime

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FIVE VITAL TIPS TO HELP DEAL WITH CAREGIVER STRESS

And Recognizing Unhealthy Stress Levels

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ccording to the National Alliance for Caregiving and AARP, around 34.2 million Americans provided unpaid care to an adult age 50 or older in 2020. Many of these caregivers also care for other family members, such as children, and work outside the home.

Without assistance from others and appropriate self-care, it’s a recipe for caregiver stress, fatigue and eventual burnout.

In this article, we’re going to talk about recognizing when your stress levels are getting too high and some tips for dealing with caregiver stress.

SIGNS THAT YOU MAY BE TOO STRESSED Everyone copes with stress differently, but if you find yourself experiencing any of the symptoms below, then your stress might be progressing to unhealthy levels.

• Feeling run-down or tired often • Difficulty sleeping

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• Trouble concentrating • Resenting obligations • Not taking care of your own health • Smoking, drinking or eating too much • Cutting back on activities that you usually enjoy

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The good news is there are ways to deal with caregiver stress and keep it in check.

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DECIDE WHAT‘S IMPORTANT THEN SAY “NO” TO THE REST.

No caregiver is perfect, and it’s impossible to do everything all the time. Prioritize what you or your family member needs that is most critical and break that down into small, easier-tomanage steps.

It’s okay to say “no” or even just “not right now” to tasks that drain you. You don’t have to cook a homemade meal every single night, host holiday get-togethers or have the most well-kept yard in the neighborhood. Focus on what matters and cut the rest, especially in times of stress.

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Very few people can do everything alone. Tap into the network of friends, family and social services around you to lighten your own load. Even if they live far away or can’t help with hands-on care, you can delegate tasks that can be done online or over the phone.

Many state, local and religious organizations also have resources available to help senior adults and caregivers. Why not task a helpful friend or family member to look through what’s available and pick out the most promising services? They can also assist with applications and coordinating services.

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2 TAP INTO THE RESOURCES AROUND YOU.

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Tip

3 SIMPLIFYING COMMUNICATIONS.

If your loved one has experienced unstable health lately, you may find yourself on the phone giving multiple updates to friends and family. While they mean well, it can get exhausting for you to rehash the same information and answer the same questions repeatedly.

You can cut back on your update workload considerably by employing a phone tree (where you update one person and they pass the information to other designated people) or using private websites that allow you to post updates but still have privacy controls like CaringBridge or PostHope.

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4 PERSONAL HEALTH ROUTINE. SET AND FOLLOW YOUR

It’s easy to forget about your own health when you’re busy caring for someone else. Research has shown that caregivers, particularly female caregivers, have lower levels of self-care and higher rates of health problems than non-caregivers.

Developing your own simple routines to get enough sleep, water and exercise can help to improve your health and lower stress. Don’t put off recommended health screenings and checkups. You’ll be a more effective and less-stressed caregiver if you make taking care of your own health a priority as well.

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5 TAKE CAREGIVING BREAKS REGULARLY.

Schedule time for yourself and do not waver. These breaks can be small, like a walk around the block or coffee with a friend while your loved one sleeps. Consider asking a family member to visit for the weekend so you can take time away to recharge.

If you don’t have anyone in your personal circle who can take over caregiving duties on occasion, there are also networks of professionals available. Many communities have resources such as in-home respite care, adult day care centers or programs or senior living communities with short-term stays available.

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FINAL THOUGHTS Taking care of a senior adult can be very rewarding, however there’s no doubt that at times it can also be stressful. Unrelieved stress can build up over time and damage your own health and your ability to care for your loved one.

By prioritizing activities, reaching out for assistance, simplifying communications with friends and family, taking regular breaks from caregiving, and sticking to your own personal health routines, you can reduce the amount of caregiver stress that you feel.

In the long run, this will help both you and your loved one to thrive during potentially difficult times.

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CHANGES IN A SENIOR’S APPETITE: WHAT’S NORMAL?

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lthough diet fluctuations are common among seniors, it can be worrying to observe these changes in a loved one. It’s important to be mindful of this and to promptly address and prevent issues before they become more serious.

Proper nutrition is imperative as you age as it not only helps an aging individual stay strong and healthy, but also aids in recovery from any ailments.

A senior with no appetite can prove to be a difficult challenge.

Let’s dive a bit deeper into some of the factors associated with your loved one’s low appetite, and perhaps most importantly, how to help.

UNDERSTANDING WHAT CAUSES THE LOSS OF APPETITE As people age, their metabolic rate slows, and their physical activity decreases too, which results in them needing fewer calories. While seniors need fewer calories, it’s essential that more nutrition is packed into each meal.

Although some change in a senior’s appetite is normal, there are several factors that can contribute to this issue, such as:

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• A lack of energy to cook • Changing taste buds, making eating less pleasurable • Loneliness and depression • Difficulty chewing or swallowing • Side effects of medication • Health conditions

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Tricks to Stimulate Appetite

ADDRESSING APPETITE CHANGES IN THE ELDERLY Loss of appetite in seniors could be a result of various factors, but you can help by monitoring any noticeable changes, trying out different methods to spark their appetite, and recognizing when it may need to be addressed by a doctor. You may also consider in-home care or a meal delivery service for your loved one. These ideas ensure your loved one has someone around to eat with or access to an easy and convenient meal. If circumstances seem beyond these measures, consider consulting a specialist.

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Discover more powerful tips + tricks to handle diminishing appetites at srgtexas.com/caregivertoolkit

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In some cases, loss of appetite could be a sign of a more serious condition or illness. When seniors don’t show any desire to eat, express that they don’t feel hungry, or start experiencing unwanted weight loss, there could be an underlying medical condition.

• Offer smaller An underlying cause can certainly portions of be to blame if your loved one nutrient-packed consistently expresses they are fatigued food with very little appetite. Medical • Brush their teeth conditions that might contribute to before eating loss of appetite in seniors include: • Get them to eat kidney failure, thyroid disorders, with others hepatitis, chronic liver ailment, Alzheimer’s disease or dementia, chronic obstructive pulmonary disease (COPD), some cancers.

If you notice that a loved one is experiencing a decreased appetite that continues to worsen, or if they are losing weight without trying, consider contacting your health care provider soon.

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SPECIAL DIETFRIENDLY SOUP Recipe adapted from cookieandkate.com

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aturally high in fiber and rich in vitamins, cauliflower provides antioxidants and phytonutrients that may reduce the risk of several diseases, including heart disease and cancer.

Additionally, it’s weight loss friendly and can help detoxify the body.

This hearty soup featuring cauliflower will warm you up without weighing you down. It’s rich in flavor and can easily be prepared to accommodate a keto, paleo, gluten free, dairy free or vegan diet.

Bon appétit

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CREAMY ROASTED CAULIFLOWER SOUP RECIPE

Makes 4 servings

INGREDIENTS • 1 large head cauliflower (about 2 pounds), cut into bite-size florets • 3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil, divided • Fine sea salt • 1 medium red onion, chopped • 2 cloves garlic, pressed or minced • 4 cups (32 ounces) vegetable or bone broth • 2 tablespoons unsalted butter • 1 tablespoon fresh lemon juice, or more if needed • ¼ teaspoon ground nutmeg • Optional for garnish: 2 tablespoons finely chopped fresh parsley, chives and/or green onions

Preheat oven to 425 degrees Fahrenheit. If desired, line a large, rimmed baking sheet with parchment paper for easy cleanup.

On the baking sheet, toss the cauliflower with 2 tablespoons of olive oil until lightly and evenly coated. Arrange the cauliflower in a single layer and sprinkle lightly with salt. Bake until the cauliflower is tender and caramelized on the edges, 25 to 35 minutes, tossing halfway.

Once the cauliflower is almost done, warm the remaining 1 tablespoon olive oil over medium heat in a soup pot. Add the onion and ¼ teaspoon salt. Cook, stirring occasionally, until the onion is softened and turning translucent, 5 to 7 minutes.

Add the garlic to the pot and cook, stirring constantly, until fragrant, about 30 seconds, then add the broth.

Reserve 4 of the prettiest roasted cauliflower florets for garnish. Then transfer the remaining cauliflower to the pot. Increase the heat to medium-high and bring the mixture to a gentle simmer. Cook, stirring occasionally, for 20 minutes, to give the flavors time to meld.

Once the soup is done cooking, remove the pot from the heat and let it cool for a few minutes. Then, carefully transfer the hot soup to a blender, working in batches if necessary.

Add butter, lemon juice and nutmeg and blend until smooth. Add additional salt or lemon juice, to taste.

Top individual bowls of soup with 1 roasted cauliflower floret and a sprinkle of chopped parsley, green onion and/or chives. Store leftovers in the refrigerator covered, for 3-4 days, or for 1-2 months in the freezer.

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DIRECTIONS

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GETTING A DEMENTIA DIAGNOSIS And the Steps to Take Immediately After

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he days following a loved one’s dementia or Alzheimer’s diagnosis can be difficult and filled with emotion. For many, the lack of knowledge is often scarier than the diagnosis itself as you have no idea what to do, what to expect or how you’re supposed to help.

We’ll examine this topic and discuss those critical first steps to take following this type of diagnosis, as well as how you can provide the best care possible.

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STEP 1: CONSULT A SPECIALIST.

Alzheimer’s and dementia diagnoses are often made at the hospital following a significant event or at a primary care physician’s office after the onset of some cognitive symptoms.

However, if you or your loved one haven’t spoken to a neurological specialist, it’s highly recommended.

This is because dementia isn’t always caused by unstoppable neurological degeneration. It can result from several medical conditions, such as heart disease, intracranial pressure, or a mass located at certain spots within the body. It can also be the result of certain medications, such as anticholinergic and bladder antimuscarinic (bladder suppressant) drugs. If this is the case, you’ll want to know so you can obtain the most effective treatment.

STEP 2: CONSIDER YOUR OPTIONS.

Alzheimer’s and dementia don’t currently have cures, but there are treatments and medications available to help improve

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symptoms. Make sure you talk this possibility over with your loved one’s doctor and keep up to date on new findings and treatment options.

Questions to ask your loved one’s doctor: • What tools or tests were used to determine a diagnosis?

What were you measuring?

• What is causing the illness?

• What are the treatment options available?

• What symptoms are alleviated by each medication and are

there any side effects?

• Are there any clinical trials available, and where can I find

additional information on those?

• How will the disease progress?

• What forms of care are available to help my loved one live

with the disease?

You should also be considering what long-term care may look like. For most adults with a memory-targeting illness, longterm care often involves professional at-home caregivers or a specialized 24-hour facility.

Receiving a degenerative memory diagnosis is never easy, and it’s important to recognize and cope with any emotions you may have. Although your loved one is still around, feelings of loss, anger and fear are common. Coming to terms with the diagnosis will help you and your loved one move forward and discover new ways to live a positive and fulfilling life.

Six More Steps

There’s more of this article in our free Caregiver Toolkit. To learn more critical first steps, visit srgtexas.com/caregivertoolkit

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STEP 3: TAKE CARE OF EMOTIONAL NEEDS.

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TIPS FOR EFFECTIVE ALZHEIMER’S COMMUNICATION

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lzheimer’s disease presents many challenges, and communication is a big one. Despite the challenges, you can communicate effectively with a loved one who has Alzheimer’s. Consider these tips provided by the Mayo Clinic staff:

SPEAK CLEARLY Introduce yourself. Speak in a clear, straightforward manner.

SHOW RESPECT Avoid secondary baby talk and diminutive phrases, such as “good girl.” Don’t assume that your loved one can’t understand you, and don’t talk about your loved one as if he or she weren’t there.

STAY PRESENT Maintain eye contact, and stay near your loved one so that he or she will know that you’re listening and trying to understand.

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AVOID DISTRACTIONS Communication may be difficult—if not impossible—against a background of competing sights and sounds.

KEEP IT SIMPLE Use short sentences and plain words. As the disease progresses, yes-no questions may work best, and only one question at a time is best. Break down requests into single steps.

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DON’T INTERRUPT It may take longer than you expect for your loved one to process and respond. Avoid criticizing, hurrying and correcting.

DON’T ARGUE Your loved one’s reasoning and judgment will decline over time.

To spare anger and agitation, don’t argue with your loved one.

STAY CALM Even when you’re frustrated, keep your voice gentle. Your nonverbal cues, including the tone of your voice, can send a clearer message than what you actually say.

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USE VISUAL CUES Sometimes gestures or other visual cues promote better understanding than words alone. Rather than simply asking if your loved one needs to use the toilet, for example, take him or her to the toilet and point to it.

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SIGNS NOT TO IGNORE:

DEMENTIA VERSUS NORMAL AGING

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f you’ve found yourself worried about whether or not a loved one might be showing signs of dementia, you aren’t alone.

Distinguishing between dementia indicators and normal aging factors can be tricky, and it’s important to know the difference to avoid adding any unnecessary stress or worry to the situation.

After all, is rushing mom off to the doctor because she called you your sibling’s name—maybe even the family dog’s name once…or twice—the right next step or even a cause for alarm?

DEMENTIA OR AGING: THE SIGNS

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The Alzheimer’s Society notes six different abilities and how they may be impacted by normal aging compared to possible changes due to dementia. We’ll cover all six and highlight a few of the differences between the impact of dementia or aging on those abilities.

1. SHORT TERM MEMORY & LEARNING NEW INFORMATION Normal aging can impact short-term memory and the learning process by causing one to falter or struggle to remember

something commonplace. Forgetting about an appointment or misplacing the phone are all traditionally normal occurrences for many as they age. Dementia can impact short-term memory in a bit more comprehensive way. Forgetting the names of loved ones or close friends or being unable to recall who you had lunch with earlier that day can be cause for added concern. Similarly, misplacing the phone or keys in illogical places, like the bathroom cabinet or freezer, may be signs worthy of more attention.

2. DECISION MAKING & PROBLEM SOLVING As we age, many people struggle to juggle multiple tasks at once, take a bit more time to process decisions or information, and occasionally make mistakes when completing everyday tasks.

People who are impacted by dementia, however, might make

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frequent mistakes when completing tasks like cooking or cleaning, struggle to concentrate for very long, and get confused more often. If your loved one finds it difficult to comprehend finances or gauge the severity of everyday risk, these may be signs of a more serious issue.

3. LANGUAGE Struggling to remember the right word or keep up with a conversation where many people are talking at once is pretty normal for people of all ages, especially those who are older. Though if any of these things happen on a frequent basis, it could be a sign of dementia. Regularly referring to items using words like “that” or “this” may signal to you that something more serious is at play.

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4. ORIENTATION If your loved one occasionally needs to be reminded of the date or day of the week, this isn’t necessarily cause for worry. But if they struggle to recall what the season is or need daily reminders about the date, it may be time to address these issues. Another common characteristic of those impacted by dementia is feeling unsure of their surroundings when in an otherwise familiar place—like at home.

5. VISION & PERCEPTUAL SKILLS A common complaint among older adults is they have difficulty seeing as well as they used to, often impacted by cloudy vision or worsened eyesight. But struggling with depth perception when doing things like reaching for a door handle or climbing the stairs should be addressed by a doctor as these challenges go beyond the boundaries of worsened eyesight.

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6. MOOD & BEHAVIOR Feeling stressed out or blue about life’s challenges or getting upset when plans don’t play out as expected is normal, especially as we age. If your loved one seems to become withdrawn or uninterested in their hobbies and friends, this could be a signal for greater concern. Similarly, being extremely sad or scared for seemingly no reason, or as a result of relatively ordinary challenges, could be related to dementia.

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WHEN IN DOUBT, TRUST THE PROFESSIONALS

As your loved ones age, it’s likely you’ll face challenges discerning whether or not their behavior is a symptom of something more drastic than old age, and that’s no easy task. While we often feel responsible for the well-being of those around us, remember it isn’t your job to diagnose them beyond your capabilities—unless, of course, you’re a neurologist. Not the case? Trust a professional to give your loved one the best care possible and address the needs that cause concern.

Take Five

Feel less stressed in minutes. Set a timer for 5 minutes and close your eyes.

Take a few deep breaths releasing any tension in your body and imagining it melt away.

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A care transition may occur when someone leaves the hospital and needs support to heal at home after they’ve been discharged from the hospital, or it might happen when someone who is receiving in-home care decides to move into a supportive community, such as assisted living or senior housing. The goal is to avoid a gap in care for the individual as they pivot between different care types.

When someone leaves the hospital or a rehab facility for home, their doctor or nurse can’t go with them, and a family or professional caregiver might be needed as they continue to heal at home. For example, someone might need help with using the bathroom, taking new medications, or going back to see the doctor for follow-up appointments.

An even longer and different type of transition may occur when someone decides to move from their current residence to a

new one—whether that’s from a stand-alone home into a senior housing apartment, assisted living facility or in with family across town or another state.

A caregiver—whether a family member or a professionallytrained one—can help to make these types of transitions smooth.

If they’re transitioning to an assisted living facility, a caregiver can inquire about opportunities to join in meals and activities prior to moving in. This type of engagement can help the individual feel more relaxed about their new surroundings and making a big change.

When making changes in long-term care options, aim for a continuity of care during the transition so risks for setbacks are minimized and chances for success are increased.

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hen exploring a potential therapist or psychiatrist, inquiring about their approach to treatment can be helpful in determining if they’re a good fit. For some, a medication-based treatment through a psychiatrist or other qualified medical professional might be best, whereas a combination of medication and therapy, or just therapy on its own, might be more appropriate for others.

If seeking traditional talk therapy, also known as psychotherapy or • Inquire counseling, there are a number of as to the experience possibilities, including clinical or level in counseling psychologists, social treating workers, counselors or family individuals therapists. The terms “therapist” with similar and “counselor” are often used problems interchangeably and sometimes highlight • Make sure the level of education or credentialing. they’re Psychotherapy might not work licensed to for everyone, and alternative methods practice in your state including animal-assisted psychotherapy or somatic therapy might be healing

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Psychotherapy versus Psychological Counseling Counseling is often more short-term than therapy and focuses on specific issues—it’s designed to help a person address a particular problem, such as stress management.

The focus may be on problem solving or on learning specific techniques for coping.

Psychotherapy is more long-term and focuses on a broader range of issues.

options to consider. Another alternative is e-therapy via video conferencing or through services on an app, such as Talkspace, which essentially puts a licensed therapist in your pocket.

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What medical equipment is needed? i.e. walker, oxygen, etc. Who will arrange for this?

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any families aren’t aware that they have choices regarding where to complete rehabilitation and that it can take place in a variety of settings, including in the home.

The most important factor in determining where to complete rehabilitation is to find a setting that will reduce the risk of hospital readmission while helping your loved one regain their strength and confidence as quickly as possible.

THINGS TO CONSIDER WHEN SELECTING A REHABILITATION CENTER • Determine whether the rehab center can provide short- or long-term rehabilitation as needed. Some only provide short-term.

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• Check out the dining options and menus.

• Visit the community areas to find out about social

events and activities designed to keep residents engaged and entertained.

• Ask for information about your loved one’s specific

rehab program.

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Long-term care insurance is designed to cover medical and personal services in a number of settings such as your home, adult day care, skilled nursing facility or assisted living community. Most long-term care insurance policies are individual policies and can differ from one company to the next.

According to medicare.org, long-term care may be divided into three levels: Skilled care is continuous “around-the-clock” care designed to treat a medical condition and performed by skilled medical personnel, such as registered nurses or professional therapists.

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• Medicare Custodial care is designed to assist with one’s activities of daily living • Long-term care insurance (such as bathing, eating and dressing).

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TYPES OF RESIDENTIAL CARE FOR SENIORS INDEPENDENT LIVING

ASSISTED LIVING COMMUNITIES

DESCRIPTION

Single family homes or townhomes for self-sufficient seniors that offer the security and social activities of a community living environment.

Communities, typically of 2-3 story apartments, that provide 24 hr assistance with activities of daily living such as eating, bathing, and using the bathroom, but not 24 hr medical services.

SERVICES

• Laundry/linen service • Meals • Transportation • Social activities

• Laundry/linen service • Meals • Transportation • Social activities • Bathing/Dressing • Toileting • Housekeeping • Medication assistance • Security and emergency calls

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SKILLED NURSING (NURSING HOMES)

CONTINUING CARE RETIREMENT COMMUNITIES

Communities, typically private and shared rooms, which provide 24 hr assistance with activities of daily living and medical care by nurses and therapists.

Campus-like communities that provide a continuum of care, from private residences to assisted living and skilled nursing care; designed for individuals with declining conditions and those that want to remain in a single location.

• Laundry/linen service • Meals • Transportation • Social activities • Bathing/Dressing • Toileting • Housekeeping • Medication assistance • Security and emergency calls • 24 hr nursing care • Condition specific care • Hospice/end of life services • Doctors on call

• Laundry/linen service • Meals • Transportation • Social activities • Bathing/Dressing • Toileting • Housekeeping • Medication assistance • Security and emergency calls • 24 hr nursing care • Condition specific care • Hospice/end of life services • Doctors on call

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$4,639 – $12,623/month

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Skilled Nursing Facilities, SNF, Nursing Home CCRCS, Continuing Care, Retirement Facilities, Care and Rehabilitation, Convalescent Life Care Facilities, Life Care Communities, Life Hospital, Rest Home Plan Community

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314 East Caroline 314 E. Caroline St. • Trinity, TXStreet 75862 314 East Caroline Street TRINITY • 936-744-1300 Trinity • 936-744-1300

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of licensed nurses, physicians, physical and occupational therapists, speech pathologists, pharmacist, dietitians and more.

• A short-term care and long-term care center that is aimed to help care for your loved one.

• Also referred to as SNF (pronounced sniff )

SELECTING A SKILLED NURSING FACILITY Picking a skilled nursing facility can be hard. It’s a big decision to make. There are a lot of options out there and many things to consider.

To help make this process easier, we got inside information from industry professionals on what they personally look for and what they tell their friends to look for when considering skilled care.

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TOUR ANY FACILITY YOU ARE CONSIDERING. Tour multiple buildings so you can get a feel of the entire building or campus. If inperson touring is unavailable due to COVID-19, ask for a virtual tour, the facility’s website, any pictures they have, and their social media handles.

Expert Advice For an in-person tour, make sure to go twice with one of the visits being during a mealtime.

WATCH THE INTERACTION between staff members and the residents who live there. It shouldn’t be robotic. Residents should be happy and talking to the staff like they are friends.

LOOK FOR CLEANLINESS. While most buildings will look clean, you can tell if they deep clean by looking for dust on the picture frames. While most people think smell is an inevitable part of nursing facilities, it is not. Smell is a sign of poor cleanliness.

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LOCATION IS IMPORTANT to consider. While most people want the closest option to them for visiting purposes, remember at the end of the day you can drive away but your loved one cannot. Pick the better facility even if it is farther away. Your loved one will thank you for it.

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UNDERSTANDING HOSPICE

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ospice care is a philosophy of care that accepts dying as a natural part of life. When death is inevitable, hospice seeks neither to hasten nor postpone it. Hospice provides care, comfort and support for persons with life-limiting conditions as well as their families.

HOW DOES HOSPICE WORK? Hospice care is for any person who has a life-threatening or terminal illness. All hospices consider the patient and family together as the unit of care. Most reimbursement sources require a prognosis of six months or less if the illness runs its normal course. Patients with both cancer and non-cancer illnesses are eligible to receive hospice care.

The majority of hospice patients are cared for in their own homes or the homes of a loved one. “Home” may also be broadly construed to include services provided in nursing homes or hospitals.

Typically, a family member serves as the primary caregiver and when appropriate, helps make decisions for the hospice patient. Members of the hospice staff make regular visits to assess the patient and provide additional care or other services. Hospice staff is on call 24 hours a day, seven days a week.

Whether paid for by Medicaid or private insurance, hospices will work with the person and their family to ensure needed services can be provided.

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HOW IS HOSPICE PAID FOR? Hospice is paid for through the Medicare Hospice Benefit, Medicaid Hospice Benefit and private insurers. If a person doesn't have coverage through Medicare, Medicaid or a private insurance company, hospices will work with the person and their family to ensure needed services can be provided.

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WHO IS THE HOSPICE TEAM? Hospice care is a family-centered approach that includes, at a minimum, a team of doctors, nurses, social workers, counselors, and trained volunteers. They work together focusing on the patient’s needs; physical, psychological and spiritual. The goal is to help keep the patient as pain-free as possible until death.

The hospice team develops a care plan that meets each patient’s individual needs for pain management and symptom control.

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WHO IS ELIGIBLE FOR MEDICARE HOSPICE BENEFITS? Hospice care is covered under Medicare Part A (hospital insurance). You are eligible for Medicare hospice benefits when you meet all of the following conditions: • You are eligible for Medicare Part A (hospital insurance) • Your doctor and the hospice medical director certify that

you are terminally ill and probably have less than six months to live • You sign a statement choosing hospice care instead of routine Medicare covered benefits for your terminal illness • And you receive care from a Medicare-approved hospice program.

Please note: Medicare will still pay for covered benefits for any health problems that aren’t related to your terminal illness.

WHAT DOES MEDICARE COVER? Medicare covers these hospice services and pays nearly all of their costs: • Doctor services and nursing care • Medical equipment (like wheelchairs or walkers) • Medical supplies (like bandages and catheters) • Drugs for symptom control and pain relief

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• Short-term hospital care, including respite and inpatient for

pain/symptom management • Home health aide and homemaker services • Physical, occupational and speech therapy • Social work services and dietary counseling • Grief support to help you and your family Please note: You will only have to pay part of the cost for outpatient drugs and inpatient respite care.

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Hospice Resources

RESPITE CARE AND MEDICARE Respite care is care given to a hospice patient by another caregiver so that the usual caregiver can rest. As a hospice patient, you may have one person who takes care of you every day, like a family member. Sometimes your caregiver needs someone to take care of you for a short time while they do other things that need to be done. During a period of respite care, you might be cared for in a Medicare-approved facility, such as a hospice residential facility, hospital or nursing home.

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THE MEDICARE HOSPICE BENEFIT DOES NOT COVER THE FOLLOWING: • Caring Connections • Treatment intended to cure your caringinfo.org terminal illness. You should • Hospice Link talk with your doctor if you 1-800-331-1620 are thinking about potential • National Hospice and treatment to cure your illness.

Palliative Care Helpline • Medications not directly related 1-800-658-8898 to your hospice diagnosis.

• Texas and New Mexico Hospice Organization Hospice team members will 1-800-580-9270 consult with the hospice physician and will inform you and your family which drugs and/or medications are covered and which ones are not covered under the Medicare Hospice Benefit.

• Room and board aren’t covered by Medicare. You may receive hospice services wherever you live, even in a nursing home, however, the Medicare Hospice Benefit does not pay for nursing home room and board.

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HOW DO I BEGIN RECEIVING HOSPICE? Anyone can inquire about hospice services. You or your loved one may call a local hospice and request services. The hospice staff will then contact your physician to determine if a referral to hospice is appropriate. Another way to inquire about hospice is to talk with your physician, and he or she can make a referral to hospice. Hospice can begin as soon as a referral is made by the person’s doctor.

As a hospice patient, you always have the right to stop getting hospice care and receive the “traditional” Medicare coverage you had before electing hospice. All care that you receive for your illness must be given by your hospice team.

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What services are provided?

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What roles do the attending physician and hospice play?

How does hospice work to keep the patient comfortable?

How are services provided after hours?

How and where does hospice provide short-term inpatient care?

Can hospice be brought into a nursing home or long-term care facility?

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What is the staff-to-patient ratio?

Are any alternative therapies provided to manage symptoms?

What extras does the hospice provide?

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Are any of the staff members certified or credentialed in hospice?

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STEPS TO TAKE AFTER THE PASSING OF A LOVED ONE

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hen a loved one passes, it can often seem like the world has fallen off its axis. You no longer know which way is up or down, and while coping with grief, you’re forced to address pieces of their life that must be closed out.

The process of taking care of final affairs after the death of a parent, spouse, friend or other loved one who you provided care for can seem overwhelming.

We understand, which is why we’ve created a checklist outlining step by step what to do after someone passes, so you can spend more time focusing on healing.

In the weeks following the death, you’ll want to begin closing out accounts and buttoning up any unfinished affairs. Tackle the tasks that are most meaningful for you and be comfortable delegating the rest to others.

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STEPS TO TAKE WITHIN A FEW WEEKS: • Procure certified copies of the death certificate when it becomes available. You’ll need at least 10-15 copies to provide to entities such as banks and government agencies.

• Find the will (if there is one) and figure out who the

executor is. This will be the person in charge of settling the estate in the days going forward, and they’ll need to be involved in all estate decisions hereafter.

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after the death of a loved one, A court-supervised contact necessary agencies proceeding designed such as a CPA (certified to officially prove a public accountant) and will’s validity estates attorney. These aren’t necessarily required, but they do smooth the process and make the legal side of things more manageable.

• Take the will to probate so it can be executed appropriately.

• Cancel any services that your loved one may have had, such

as magazine subscriptions, regular house deliveries, Netflix, Hulu, etc. You’ll also need to close out any credit card accounts and cancel their driver’s license so it can no longer be used. Make sure to also cancel any insurance services, such as home or car insurance.

• Close out any remaining online accounts, such as social

Next Steps

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media pages (these can be memorialized if you’d like) and email inboxes.

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PREPARING & PRESENTING A EULOGY

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he purpose of a eulogy is to acknowledge and share information about a person’s life. It’s a great honor for someone to present and it’s an important part of the grieving process for the presenter, as well as the audience.

A good place to start is to make a list of thoughts and memories you’d like to share. While others might not be comfortable or able to give their own eulogy, they might find great comfort in sharing memories with you that you could incorporate into the eulogy. Things you might include are stories, quotes, expressions of love or prayers—all of which can be delivered in a serious or humorous manner depending on what you feel is appropriate.

In an effort to have the audience connected and involved in your tribute, the eulogy can be compiled from private memories that your audience might not be aware of, as well as personal traits and details of the loved one that all will remember. You’ll want to include any accomplishments or honors no matter how big or small that were especially important to your loved one. Memories shared should always acknowledge the person in a positive manner and recognize them for who they were accurately.

Once you’re ready to write the eulogy, decide on how you’ll begin, then pick the main thoughts and memories that you wish to share and finally determine how you’ll close. You need to

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properly introduce yourself when you begin and have a summarizing statement to share when you close. You can read from your notes, but practice Nothing has to giving the eulogy and change make sense right any part that doesn’t feel like natural conversation in your now, you have time own words. to process what’s Presenting a eulogy can happening. cause great anxiety. Stopping at any time to collect your thoughts or emotions and then continuing when you’re ready is understandable and acceptable. If you decide that you can’t continue, simply skip to your final statement. It’s the message about the impact of your loved one that’s important, not the delivery, so just be yourself.

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Thoughts

Is there a story about your loved one you’d like to tell? Jot down any ideas, reminders or notes.

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PLANNING A CELEBRATION OF LIFE

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eing in charge of planning your loved one’s end-of-life tribute is an important undertaking.

How can you honor a person very dear to your heart— and the hearts of others—in a special way without it being a somber occasion? Hosting a celebration of life. This style of observance focuses on the joyous memories of how your beloved touched countless lives throughout their years.

If you’re planning this type of celebration for your loved one who has recently passed, or you simply want to plan ahead for the future, here’s a list to ensure you check off all the boxes!

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1. CREATE AN INVITE LIST + DISTRIBUTE IT. Think of family, friends (new and old) and others in their life that they loved. Once the list is created, consider sending out the information via email, private Facebook event, printed invitation or phone call.

2. BOOK A VENUE. Choosing the right location can be challenging. Consider hosting the celebration at a park, faith-based community center or a place that held special meaning to your loved one. Then, decide if there’ll be a virtual aspect of the event to allow attendance from those who aren’t in close proximity to the location.

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3. SET A TIME. Will this take place during the week or on the weekend? Will it be in the evening after work or early in the afternoon? Pick a time that works best for you and your family and understand that it doesn’t have to take place right after the passing of your loved one.

If you’re wanting to wait a few days, weeks, or months, that’s okay.

4. INCORPORATE PERSONAL TOUCHES. Adding features that are unique to your loved one will make the celebration even more memorable. This could be having a special theme such as a luau because they loved Hawaii or wearing purple because it was their favorite color. The number of ideas is endless, and the sentimental factor will touch everyone in attendance.

5. DESIGNATE SPEAKERS. Asking a few people to share stories about your loved one is the focal point of the celebration. After all, storytelling can be the best way to make everyone feel connected. Encourage opening the floor to others once the designated speakers are done.

7. GATHER PHOTOS AND CREATE A SLIDESHOW. Sharing a slideshow of images and videos of your loved one can be impactful. Pull together the memories with family and friends and have your loved one’s favorite songs playing in the slideshow background.

Remember, it’s a celebration for your loved one. Share wholesome experiences, laugh at funny stories and cry if you need to. Don’t hold back your emotions; be comforted knowing that your loved one is leaving this world with a beautiful commemoration.

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6. SERVE REFRESHMENTS. You don’t have to provide an entire meal; however, serving some appetizers and drinks is appreciated. Whether you choose to do this buffet or potluck style, create a spread that fits within your budget. Also consider offering alternative options for those with dietary restrictions.

When it comes to home care, not all providers are created equal.

Use the Senior Resource Guide’s Home Care Comparison Chart and online Care Directory to find the provider that’s right for your loved one.

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