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This month, we also start searching for the cutest kid in the community for our December cover. Since the 2019 contest was only for children 6 months to 6 years old, this year’s contestants must be 6 to 12 years of age. Help us find the most adorable kid by sending in your favorite photo! Look for more information inside this issue. XOXO,

Once you finish fall shopping, you will want to take advantage of all the fun family activities scheduled this month. From boat rides to pumpkin patches, the extensive list includes several experiences for all ages and

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SPLURGE! MAGAZINE | VOL. 15, ISSUE 10 — OCTOBER 2020

SAVOR THE SEASON

Whether you’re running a marathon or running for your life through a haunted field, there’s a cornucopia of outdoor and online events for every age and activity level this fall.

12 QUESTIONS WITH WARD POTTER LLC Attorneys Lynn Ward and Tony Potter reveal the most common misperception about family law, what they would say to their past selves, and where to find the best food in Wichita.

IT’S FALL Y’ALL

What’s better than outdoor activities in the crisp autumn air? Doing them while sporting rawdenim jackets, romantic-sleeved blouses and high-waisted jeans. And if you happen to have an equine friend, that is the ultimate accessory!

OUR COVER, YOUR KID CONTEST

December is just two short months away and with it comes the annual Our Cover, Your Kid contest. Could your child be our next cover model? Read on and see what it takes to enter. May the cutest kid win!

FALL FASHION TRENDS

When you hold court on an outdoor patio this month, do it in style. We have your complete guide to all the season’s must-haves, everything CEDAR CREEK FARM & PUMPKIN PATCH

ON THE COVER: LOCATION: HOPE GROWN RANCH PHOTOGRAPHY: TOBIE ANDREWS MODEL: MADELYN, IMPACTMODELS CLOTHING: GREY BOUTIQUE

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from Victorian sleeves to lace bralettes to reptileprint accessories.

/// Highlights /// 14 — BIG BROTHERS BIG SISTERS 32 — GREY BOUTIQUE 46 — HOORAY RANCH

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SAVOR THE SEASON BOUNTIFALL ACTIVITIES AND EVENTS

Get your adrenaline pumping and your heart racing this October while running the Prairie Fire Marathon, hiking through a haunted field or taking in breathtaking views, vistas and activities at one of many area pumpkin farms. Or be moved and delighted in the comfort of your own home during the virtual Tallgrass Film Fest. Take in all the autumnal ambiance of these outdoor and online activities while ensuring that your fall is spooky and spine-tingling for all the right reasons. Check websites for times and Covid precautions; some of your favorite attractions may have modifications to accommodate current conditions.

Pumpkin Patches and Farm Fun Klausmeyer Dairy Farm and Pumpkin Patch, Clearwater Pick a pumpkin straight from the vine, cheer on the pig races and shoot live zombies with paintball guns from a hayrack ride. And don’t miss the giant jumping pillow, bounding barn, gem mining, petting zoo and hay bale maze! Visit klausmeyerdairyfarms.com.

Applejack Pumpkin Patch, Augusta Can you find your way out of the corn maze? Ride the Grain Train and pedal cars or fire the Gourdinator gun and Pumpkin Cannon. Explore

Active and Outdoorsy

an abundance of agricultural activities, many of them designed for grownups and kids to relish together. Visit applejackpumpkinpatch.com.

Boats and Bikes at River Vista, through Oct. 25 Bask in crisp fall air and cool temperatures on the banks of the Arkansas River — or play on the river itself. Rent kayaks, scooters, stand-up paddle boards and trikkes. The latter is a sort of invigorating threewheeled scooter, human-powered in a back-and-forth “S” motion. Visit wichita.edu/athletics/rowing/boats_and_bikes.php.

Cedar Creek Farm & Pumpkin Patch, Maize S’mores, fire pits and a corn maze are just appetizers before the pumpkin patch, barrel train, pony rides and petting zoo. Halloween weekend features Sweetwater Band live at the farm on Friday, and the Halloween Hootenanny Trick-or-Treat on Saturday. Visit cedarcreekict.com.

P and M Pumpkin Ranch, Moundridge

Prairie Fire Marathon, Oct. 11 Run freely through the heart of downtown Wichita starting at Wave and follow the Arkansas River through scenic Riverside. The full marathon, half marathon, Mayor's 5K Challenge and Youth 5K are taking place with Covid precautions, including suspension of post-race activities and a trickle start to allow proper spacing. Visit prairiefiremarathon.com.

Gear up for some serious play time with a sports barn, pedal kart tracks, Outlaw Oinkers pig race and a western-themed playground. Plus — new this year — Connect4Golf, Barnstormer Ride zipline, hover ball and an expanded nine-building obstacle course. And that’s just the beginning! Visit pandmpumpkinranch.com.

WSU Virtual Pumpkin Run 5k and 1k, Oct. 10–24 Pick a time within the 2-week window and choose your own course — or run the 5k on the picturesque university grounds on specified days. international runners will be joining from around the globe, and athletes from ages 0 to 12 are invited to the virtual 1K Little Pumpkin Fun Run. The race may be virtual but the t-shirts, finisher medals and other swag are very real. Visit runsignup.com/Race/KS/Wichita/WSUPumpkinRun.

KLAUSMEYER PUMPKIN PATCH

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CEDAR CREEK FARM

Starting line of 2018 Prairie Fire Marathon. This year’s race features a trickle start and other Covid precautions.

PRAIRIE FIRE MARATHON

BLOKTOBERFEST

COWTOWN

Haunted Houses and Happenings

Autumn Festivals and Tours

Wicked Island, Wichita

ICT Bloktoberfest, Oct. 2–3, Wichita Boathouse

What’s lurking in the shadows under the trees? Find out in this

It’s not Oktober without wiener dog races, axe throwing, keg rolling, food

treacherous walk through the frightful forest on Wicked Island at O.J.

trucks and a biergarten brimming with 99 local, regional and German

Watson Park. Will the Campbells make their spooktacular presence

beers. Unpack your stein and head to this indoor-outdoor event at

known this year? Visit wickedwoodswichita.com.

the Wichita Boathouse. New this year is Das Party Tent, an upscale allweather experience complete with bar, wait staff, exclusive stage and

Haunted Cannery, El Dorado

private restrooms. Kid and dog friendly. Visit ictbloktoberfest.com.

A journey down a long, dark and winding road over a haunted bridge takes infested with clowns, chainsaws, zombies, spiders, werewolves, vampires

Junior League of Wichita, Taste of Wichita Restaurant Tour, Oct. 2–11

and everything shiver inducing! Visit hauntedcannery.com.

Pamper your palate with this fundraiser to replace Holiday Galleria, which

you to an abandoned four-story canning elevator and Lunatic Asylum, all

was cancelled this year due to Covid. Participating restaurants include

Field of Screams and Clown Town, Maize

hot new eatery The Belmont plus culinary luminaries such as Bonefish

These tainted grounds, long haunted by the Spurlock family, have

Grill, 6S Steakhouse, Georges French Bistro, Molino’s Mexican Cuisine,

become a leading regional attraction. In the middle of towering

Prost, Sapporo, Two Olives and more. Reservations are recommended,

sorghum fields and terrifying tunnels you’ll find the ominous Spurlock

view all the menu options at tasteofwichita.org.

workshops. At Clown Town prepare yourself for chaotic mazes, ghastly clowns and dizzying 3D effects. Beware of where the fields are sick! Visit

“Depth of Field: A Wichita Photo Album,” Nov. 6–16

scaryprairiepines.com.

In November stroll or drive by this downtown art installation saluting the people and events that have shaped the history of Wichita. Created

Boos and Brews, Oct. 9

by Wichita Festivals, Inc. in partnership with AIGA to celebrate the city’s

What restless spirits stalk the ancient streets of Cowtown this month?

150th birthday, the show replaces the large-scale event, Wonderfall,

Find out at Boos and Brews. Go on a ghost tour led by the Wichita

postponed due to challenges with Covid. Visit wichitafestivals.com.

Paranormal Research Society, take part in a Victorian seance and belly up the bar at the saloon. Visit oldcowtown.org.

Tallgrass Film Festival, Oct. 16–25 Streaming soon at a device near you! Enjoy this expanded, 10-day virtual film feast from the comfort of your own home. All the guest Q&As, industry panels and roundtables will transition online, and the TALLPass is back, granting you exclusive access to more than 100 films, VIP happy hours and gala parties. Visit tallgrassfilm.org.

HAUNTED CANNERY

FIELD OF SCREAMS

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BE THE CHANGE

BIG BROTHERS BIG SISTERS GET CREATIVE DURING PANDEMIC

A lot of things changed during the Covid-19 pandemic, and Kansas Big Brothers Big Sisters was quick to adapt, allowing valuable connections to continue during uncertain times. BBBS provides one-to-one adult mentors for children, someone who can invest time

“Life-changing friendships are built through the simplest of moments spent together,” — Haley Butts, Big Brothers Big Sisters volunteer manager

in them, encourage them in their education,

biggest fans. A real estate agent at J.P. Weigand, Kelly has even taken Genesis on appointments with clients, introducing her to a potential future career. Many of the duo’s favorite pastimes are simply hanging out and spending time with one another. BBBS has a continuous need for volunteers

healthy behaviors and provide a different per-

For Genesis and countless other kids across

according to Haley Butts, volunteer manager,

spective on life.

the country, the pandemic meant a sudden

“And now we have an even greater need for

absence of social time with friends who they

mentors because kids have been sitting stag-

When Gov. Laura Kelly put the stay-at-home

would typically see at school. Kelly provided a

nant. Families are reaching out more than

order in place in mid-March, the Bigs could only

constant touch point during what could have

ever, looking for positive engagement for

meet with their Littles virtually. Many of them

been a scary and lonely experience.

their children.”

play games and make crafts. Built on face-to-

Genesis is a gifted athlete who treasures

"Mentors are just everyday people who live

face interactions, BBBS wanted to make sure

spending time with Kelly, especially fishing

out a known reality: Relationships matter,”

the pandemic did not interfere with continuing

and kayaking. In fact, the entire Watkins family

said Haley. For those interested in becoming

to foster these important relationships.

enjoys spending time with Genesis when they

a Big, there is no cost, and no requirements,

got creative, using video chat to cook together,

can. She has stepped fully into the role of little

except passing a background check and being

Big Sister, Kelly Watkins, and Little Sister, nine-

sister, pulling pranks with Kelly’s big kids when

willing to invest a little time in a child each

year-old Genesis, went from meeting in person

they are home from college.

month. Become a critical part of a child’s

to finding other ways to keep in touch. During

life by filling out an online inquiry form at

the stay-at-home order, Kelly dropped off

“I’ve always thought about becoming a Big

goodie bags and notes of encouragement at

Sister,“ Kelly said, “I had the perception that

Genesis’s home. Having been a match for more

I wasn’t qualified or didn’t have the time, but

“Our Bigs are serving our future community,”

than a year and a half, Kelly knew to include

I’m so glad that I finally did. I never imagined

said Haley, “Youth are facing more challenges

her Little’s favorite items such as beef jerky

how enriching the experience would be.”

now than ever before, including social isolation

and coloring supplies.

and racial injustice. We are out encouraging our Cheering from the stands of soccer matches and softball games, Kelly is one of Genesis’

kansasbigs.org.

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12 Questions WITH WARD POTTER LLC

With more than five decades of combined

WHERE IS THE BEST FOOD IN WICHITA?

family law expertise, attorneys Lynn Ward and

Tony: Five Guys, hands down.

WHAT ACTIVITIES DO YOU ENJOY WHEN NOT PRACTICING LAW?

Tony Potter provide compassionate legal advo-

Lynn: The best Mexican food is Molino’s, and

Lynn: Gardening, running, mentoring two high

cacy as they guide clients through changes in

you can’t beat The Taco Shop for a quick,

school girls and working with my ornery bird

their families.

cheap lunch.

dog.

HOW HAS COVID-19 CHANGED

WHAT IS DIFFERENT ABOUT PRACTICING

and being outside as much as Kansas weather allows.

Tony: Spending time with my wife and son, FAMILY LAW CASES?

LAW IN WICHITA COMPARED TO

Lynn: It prompted court systems to embrace

PRACTICING IN WESTERN KANSAS?

and implement much needed changes in the

Tony: Practicing in Wichita allows me to focus

IF YOU HADN’T BECOME A

way hearings are handled by utilizing virtual

my practice solely on family law. Practicing

LAWYER, WHAT OTHER PROFESSION

platforms. This saves considerable time and

in Western Kansas usually requires a more

WOULD YOU HAVE CONSIDERED?

expense to the divorcing couple and is an effi-

generalized practice. But, that generalization

Lynn: Veterinarian. I love animals and grew up

cient way to resolve disputes.

gave me invaluable experience in areas like

on a farm.

real estate and banking that I use every day in

Tony: That was not really an option because I

practicing family law.

wanted to be an attorney from the age of five.

WHAT IS THE MOST COMMON MISCONCEPTION ABOUT FAMILY LAW CASES? Tony: That it has to be a fight. The issues are

WHAT HAS IT BEEN LIKE TO

WHO INSPIRED YOU TO BECOME A LAWYER?

hard to deal with, stress and emotions are

PRACTICE LAW IN WICHITA?

Lynn: A college dean told the student body that

high, and it is difficult to be civil. However,

Lynn: My husband and I graduated from law

history majors could go to law school. It was

making decisions in anger will not be best for

school in May 1990, took the bar exam in July of

the first I realized that someone besides an

you in the end.

that year and moved to Wichita the day after.

accountant could be a lawyer. I quickly changed

We’ve been here ever since. The large commu-

my major to history and the rest is history!

WHAT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT

nity has allowed each of us to have separate

Tony: My grandfather and great-grandfather

ASPECT OF A FAMILY LAW CASE?

legal practices in completely different practice

were lawyers. I have always liked the idea of

Tony: Putting aside anger (even just for a little

areas. We have made wonderful friends with

arguing cases and learning the law.

while) so you can make good decisions for

our clients and colleagues and enjoyed thriv-

your children and yourself.

ing legal practices. It has been a wonderful place for us to conduct our legal careers.

IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME, WHAT IS ONE THING YOU WOULD TELL THE PAST YOU?

WHAT IS THE BEST NON-LEGAL

Lynn: Don't focus on trying to please every-

BOOK YOU’VE READ RECENTLY?

one. Do justice, love kindness and walk hum-

Lynn: “The Book Woman of Troublesome

bly—then you will find deep satisfaction in

Creek” by Kim Michele Richardson

your work.

Tony: “The Obstacle is the Way” by Ryan Holiday

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE THING

316.260.3120

ABOUT THE WICHITA COMMUNITY?

345 N. Riverview Ste. 120

Lynn: One of the things I love most about

Wichita, KS 67203

Wichita is that we are a richly diverse population within a relatively small area. We are diverse in nationalities, culture and work force. 16

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WRITTEN BY BRUCE FERRIS, MD, AMY SPROLE, MD, AND NATALIYA BISKUP, MD

REAL PATIENTS. REAL RESULTS. Angela discussed her experiences with cancer and breast reconstruction surgery with us and shares just how important it is to be your own advocate. Explain your journey to breast reconstruction: Angela: I had breast cancer, a lumpectomy and radiation about 10 years ago when I was in my late thirties, and it came back recently. Because I had already had radiation my only viable option was to have both breasts removed, and I knew I wanted to have breast reconstruction. I don’t live in Wichita, and I did a lot of research and got several opinions. I also talked with family members who

REAL PLASTIC SURGEONS. REAL RESULTS. AMY SPROLE, MD, BRUCE FERRIS, MD AND NATALIYA BISKUP, MD

Raising Awareness and Becoming Whole Again Breast reconstruction surgery after a mastectomy is transformative. It

recommended the Plastic Surgery Center. After my first consultation I felt at peace, and I knew I had found my surgeon. How do you feel about your results? Angela: I’m happy because when I look down, I don’t see a 12-yearold boy. I know the breasts don’t make a woman, and after having my kids I thought I was done with them. That isn’t actually the case, because for me I needed to take care of both the mental and the physical me after living through cancer twice. My experience with

helps a woman feel whole again, improving her appearance and restoring

the Plastic Surgery Center was totally amazing. I knew they were my

her self-confidence. Breast reconstruction is a physically and emotionally

answer and still feel that way.

rewarding procedure for women who have lost one or both breasts to cancer. Do you have advice for people thinking about breast reconstruction? Plastic surgeons can restore the breast, creating a natural-looking breast

Angela: Do a lot of research. Ask as

that mirrors the shape, size and appearance of the original one. It can

many questions as you can. There is no

also help women feel more balanced in terms of breast weight. Yet,

dumb question. You need to be your own

many women who’ve undergone a mastectomy aren’t informed of their reconstructive options, or they have a hard time getting their questions answered and their needs met.

advocate and push for what you want, especially when it comes to your breast reconstruction. Know that it hurts mentally

We recommend patients meet with a plastic surgeon early in the process to discuss all of their options, including:

and physically, but everything gets better with time. Don’t be afraid to be your own voice. Remember that the doctors work for

• Two-stage reconstruction following mastectomy. A tissue expander is used in stage one. The permanent implant is placed in the second

you. Meet with several surgeons and make sure you feel comfortable with your choice.

surgery. Sometimes immediate reconstruction with implants can be done at the same time as the mastectomy. • Reconstruction of the breast using tissue from another location on the body done at the same time as the mastectomy or later.

Women’s Health and Cancer Rights Act

• With a single mastectomy, the surgeon may reconstruct one breast alone. A breast lift, breast reduction or breast augmentation may be recommended

This act helps women with breast cancer who choose to have their breasts

for the opposite breast to improve symmetry of both breasts.

reconstructed after a mastectomy. The law requires most insurance

• Additional options exist for women who choose a lumpectomy or breast conservation option.

plans that pay for mastectomies to also pay for reconstruction of the removed breast, surgery, and reconstruction of the opposite breast for symmetry, prostheses, and treatment of any complications of surgery.

Patients make the choice to have breast reconstruction. If you or a loved

The Affordable Care Act also has further protections stating health plans

one is diagnosed with breast cancer, make an appointment with a board

cannot limit or deny benefits relating to a pre-existing condition. Please

certified plastic surgeon experienced in breast reconstruction to discuss

check with your insurance company for further details.

your options. The plastic surgeon can then be part of your health care team.

You deserve expert guidance and exceptional results.

Plastic surgery involves many choices. The most important is selecting a surgeon you can trust. Expect exceptional results when you have your procedures performed by plastic surgeons who are certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery and who are members of the American Society of Plastic Surgeons like Dr. Ferris, Dr. Sprole and Dr. Biskup. These specially trained doctors have at least six years of surgical training and experience, with a minimum of three years of plastic surgery.

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Healthful Hints Infertility, an OB/GYN

If ovulation is not the issue, we may proceed

pass this along and share it and call College Hill

Physician’s Perspective

with a lab to test your ovaries, a semen

OB/GYN for an appointment.

analysis (because 40 to 50 percent of the time it’s him), and a special ultrasound called a

The physicians of College Hill OB/GYN provide

Outside a cancer diagnosis or recurrent

hysterosalpingogram to evaluate anatomical

comprehensive obstetric and gynecological

miscarriages, infertility is one of the most

problems with the uterus or tubes.

care for women of all ages in every stage of life. Call today to schedule your appointment

worry-provoking diagnoses in my office. What can be done? Depending on the cause,

with one of our six female physicians at one

Defining infertility. Couples who are unable

much of the time ovulation induction by taking

of our four locations in east or west Wichita,

to conceive after 12 months of unprotected

oral medications is all that is needed. However,

Derby or Anthony.

intercourse or insemination, or six months for

if there are more extensive anatomical or tubal

those over age 35.

problems surgery may be needed. A referral to a reproductive endocrinologist might be

What are the factors? There are 3 main factors:

indicated, especially if your ovaries are acting

Are eggs being made, is there sperm, and can

older than your age, semen counts are low,

they meet (in the Fallopian tubes)?

there’s extensive tubal or uterine disease or the above medications failed.

What is the process? Consult: If ovulation, or

lack thereof, seems to be the problem (you

And finally, just take a prenatal vitamin while

are skipping periods or rarely having them)

you are trying and see a doctor before spending

then some simple labs followed by certain

money on any over-the-counter medications! If

lifestyle changes and then possible treatment.

you know someone this might help, feel free to

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Source: “Infertility Workup for The Women’s Health Specialist.” American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists.

Dr. Laura Whisler completed her residency in obstetrics and gynecology through the University of Kansas School of Medicine and Wesley Medical Center. She keeps busy with her husband and four children.

EXPERTS

The Power of Clarity BY GREGORY LAKIN, D.O., J.D. | CENTER FOR CHANGE One attribute I have consistently noticed with

2. After prioritizing what matters the most

5. Reflect on your progress periodically, every

high-performing and high-achieving individuals is

to you, determine what smaller steps are

month or so: What have you learned about the

clarity, or the quality of being certain and focused.

needed to move in this direction. It helps to

process and yourself? Make adjustments, write

While we all want or need to change things in

write these steps down. These should be stair-

them down and get moving forward again.

our lives, whether it be personal, financial or job

stepping, short-term goals so progress can be

related, unless we are clear in what we really want

monitored and celebrated when accomplished.

your life reduces stress and the feeling of being

and need to change, we will continue to flounder and be dissatisfied. This just leads to more personal

3. Get rid of those things that don’t matter. By

overwhelmed, so envision a life with fewer

frustration and stress.

staying focused on those primary goals you

distractions as well as less confusion and self-

continue to move forward. Eliminate distractions

imposed stress. Having greater clarity opens a

Having more clarity in our lives helps us focus on

like TV, Twitter or constant notifications from

path to having more joy, happiness and satisfaction

what’s important and know what actions and steps

your phone that disrupt your focus and attention.

in our lives.

we need to take to be more successful. When those

Those distractions that subconsciously scream

baby steps in the right direction are accomplished, we

for our attention aren’t deserving and create

then feel productive, encouraged and more energized.

confusion and anxiety. They also rob us of our focus with self-defeating and competing thoughts.

Here are some initial steps to help find more clarity: 4. Take action. Just doing something will help

You will find that living with more clarity in

1. Create some dedicated personal time and space

things become more clear. Do not wait for

to clear your mind and think about what is really

plans to be perfect or more clear, as that’s just

important to you. This focused time may involve

a stall tactic. After completing a significant step,

solitude and meditation or it may involve discussions

reassess then get moving again. Soon this action

with others and bouncing some ideas around.

will become a habit.

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Kyssed by King, Lip Filler at Kansas Surgical Arts Q&A WITH BETHANY J. KING, M.D.

One of the newest lip fillers on the market

body because there are approximately 15

is now available at Kansas Surgical Arts.

grams of this substance in your body right

Q. Are lip injections painful? A. The lips are about the most sensitive

Restylane Kysse from Galderma is formulated

now. That’s why it is so well-tolerated. Over

parts of the face. There’s no doubt about

to enhance lips to a soft, round volume,

time, your body will break down the gel.

that. However, at Kansas Surgical Arts we

producing beautiful results. Dr. Bethany J. King talks about what to expect with lip

have a very strong, compounded, numbing

Q. How long do lip injections last? A. Commonly with lip injections, people

cream that makes the process of beautifying

are satisfied for a year. Some are satisfied

experienced with prior lip injections done

Q. How much lip filler do I need? A. Most lips are nicely improved with just one

longer while others choose an enhancement

before I came to Wichita. Most patients

injected again in six to eight months. This

tolerate it just fine. And bonus, it’s just a few

vial. Some people’s lips require more than

depends upon how much you originally had

moments of your life for a beautiful, long-

one vial to get the look they are aiming for.

injected and how efficient your body is at

lasting reward.

Sometimes the patient’s anatomy dictates

dissolving the gel.

injections and answers common questions.

that less than one vial should be used, and

your lips less painful than I have personally

Q. How often does one need to get lip injections? A. Most people get their lips injected once

Q. How does Restylane Kysse compare to other lip fillers on the market? A. Nearly any filler you have injected into

Q. What do lip injections consist of? A. The material injected is a clear gel called

per year. It’s usually at around the year mark

your lips will be a version of hyaluronic acid.

that you look in the mirror and realize, “Huh…

The different companies (like Galderma,

hyaluronic acid. This gel is “known” by your

my lips are not as full anymore. I think I’ll go

Allergan, etc.) have a variety of different

back to KSA and have

versions of hyaluronic in their lineups. The

them done again.” Or

difference between them all is how hard or

if you are aiming for a

soft the gel is, how stretchy it is, if it draws

fuller look initially, we

water to it a lot or just a little. Restylane Kysse

strongly advise that you

is specifically formulated for lips because it

go one step at a time. Get

creates a soft, round volume that moves in

your first vial. Live with

a natural way with the frequent motion of

it. Let the people around

your lips. Even though it has the ability to

you become accustomed to

produce a range from subtly volumized to

it. Then have them injected

vavoom change if you want, your lips still feel

again if you want to go bigger.

soft. Most of our staff have been injected

I recommend waiting at least

with Kysse by now, as have I. With my third

a month before the second

injection, I am happier with my lips now than

I can help you determine that. My goal is to prevent you from looking overdone.

injection.

I have ever been.

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WRITTEN BY KAREN LONG | PHOTOGRAPHY BY MICHAEL CARROLL JR.

50 Shades of Flair GREY BOUTIQUE OPENS WITH FLYING COLORS

Lesa Dreifort loves the color grey. She can be

collars and squeaky toys in memory of Max, the

found driving a grey Range Rover with person-

Dreifort’s beloved Yorkie who recently passed.

alized tags reading “GREY,” and the hue also played a role in her decision to follow a long-

ROCKY MOUNTAIN INSPIRATION

held dream of owning her own business.

Since 2009 Dreifort has wanted to own her own business. At the time she wrote a business plan

Grey Boutique, opening Oct. 5 in a 1,765 square-

for a hair salon and spa, but she says God had

foot space located near 21st and Webb, will

a different road for her to take. Instead she

carry women’s fashion, accessories and home

ended up at GraceMed Health Clinic where,

decor, according to Dreifort. She’s stocked up

among other things, she founded the Say Grace

on everything in trending fall colors such as

Race, “the largest 5K in Wichita,” which raised

chic cranberries, delicate roses and military

$600,000 over the first nine years.

greens. And of course an entire bouquet of grey — a complete section devoted exclusively

The dream of owning her own business lin-

to heather, charcoal, asphalt, ash and sleet.

gered in the back of Dreifort’s mind. At times it felt like chasing rainbows, but in January of

FANCY FOOTWEAR

this year she left GraceMed and embarked on

While she’s catering to women from 18 to 70,

a soul-searching road trip to Colorado. It was

Dreifort’s daughters, ranging in age from 29 to

on Elkhorn Avenue. in Estes Park that she dis-

34, may have skewed the demographic.

covered The Grey House, a mountain boutique packed with unique items.

“My 30-year-old went to market with me this last time, and she basically did most of the

“When I walked out I decided that’s what I

shopping for me.” Dreifort laughs remembering

wanted to do: I wanted to open a boutique,”

the scene in the Dallas Market Center. “When I

Dreifort says. She interpreted her favorite color

went into it I thought I’d carry three or four dif-

appearing in the name as an auspicious sign.

ferent pairs of shoes. I’ve got like 25 pairs now thanks to her. I was like, ‘All right Amber, stop!’ ”

Dreifort came home to Wichita and told her family and friends the news. “I have three

Those 25 pairs include jelly bean shoes, animal

daughters and two granddaughters and one

prints, solids, slip-ons, Converse-style sneak-

on the way,” she explains, “along with seven

ers, long boots, knee-high boots, booties,

sisters and many nieces, and all my wonderful

and boots to wear with skirts. “I’ve got a lot of

girlfriends. And I thought a boutique would be

boots,” says Dreifort. “And skirts — skirts are in

perfect for all the great women that I have in

this year.”

my life, and my love for fashion.”

In Grey Boutique you’ll find fashion to go with

When it came to naming her new venture,

the footwear — everything from high-rise jeans

everyone agreed that it had to be none other

and raw-hem denim jackets to cardigans and

than “Grey Boutique.”

slouchy sweaters, plus the camis and bralettes

to wear under them — all in a spectrum of rich

Opening a new business in the age of Covid

fall colors. For accessories and home decor

gave Dreifort only a moment’s pause, even

the shop will offer backpacks, hats, scarves,

though it means taking extra precautions. “I’m

candles, PJs and much more. There will even be

53 years old and I felt like, if I’m going to do

a corner with “cute dog stuff” including bows,

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A QUICK GUIDE TO FALL’S FASHION TRENDS Even though social events and spontaneous outings may still be limited this season, why not look your best when you get the chance? The cooler weather is sure enticing us to put on a cute outfit and enjoy one of the area’s outdoor patios. Don’t worry if you’ve forgotten how to put together a stylish ensemble, our fashion experts from The LBD, Etc. and Grey Boutique are here to help. Make sure your fall wardrobe features some of these pieces if looking trendy is your goal.

Classic Graphic Tees

Chain Necklaces For jewelry trends, look

“Wearing graphic tees with

no further than the

ripped jeans and any kind

chain necklace. Pair this

of Converse-style shoes

piece with everything,

can be an easy and fun

Hardesty says.

look,” says Lesa Dreifort, owner of Grey Boutique.

High-Rise Jeans Hardesty says you’ll see high-rise relaxed taper jeans, high-rise straight-leg jeans

Detailed Dresses and Blouses

and cropped jeans over booties. You can’t go wrong by adding a new pair of this staple to your wardrobe.

“It’s all in the details,” says Candy Hardesty of The LBD, Etc. “Think puffy sleeves, tie details, leather (real and vegan), and smocking.” Dreifort also emphasizes oversized Victorian sleeves, which create the illusion of a slimmer waist and add an instant feminine touch to your ensemble, she says.

Bold Sweaters In addition to baby cardigans and sweater dresses, Hardesty says

Reptile Print

statement sweaters are on-trend, featuring

Snakeskin and reptile prints have been

designs with lightning

around for a few years, Hardesty says, and

bolts, stars, trim on the

once again the prints will be on shoes,

neckline and more.

Leggings and Comfy Pants “With Covid-19, more people are wearing leggings, yoga pants and comfy pants,” Dreifort says. “These are easy to dress up or down.”

boots, purses and tees.

Lace Bralettes “In rich fall colors you can wear a bralette under oversized, low cut or see-through sweaters,” Dreifort says. “Throw on a hat and a pair of booties and you’re styling!”

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Private, Picturesque and Peaceful HOOR AY R ANCH

Hooray Ranch was established in 2013, when

fireplaces and comfortable couches provide

entertainment or simply enjoying a day with

Eric and Wendy Dunn’s dream of creating an

the perfect place to gather and visit. Special

friends and family, all are welcomed into an

oasis for gatherings came to fruition. Located

meals are prepared, often featuring grilled

incredible location that has much to offer.

on scenic acreage near Kingman, Kansas, the

entrees and delicious side dishes. Their farm-

ranch was constructed with a generational

to-table concept shapes an incredible dining

In addition to community areas in The

vision in mind, a place that would stand the

experience where the executive chef crafts his

Refuge, Hooray Ranch features many flat-

test of time, and be utilized and enjoyed by

culinary masterpieces.

screen televisions, pool tables, shuffleboard,

contemporary friends and those who come after them. For this unique concept of linking

darts, beverages and snacks as a part of its The Dunns and their team share that they have

late-night hangout, The Gut Hut. Spacious

the past to the present and building a bridge

encountered so many wonderful people dur-

yet cozy seating areas invite guests to enjoy

into the future, these owners harvested old

ing their years on the ranch and enjoy offer-

conversation and relaxation. Often musicians

barn wood from various sites across the U.S.

ing every guest a uniquely tailored experience

will grace patrons with guitar picking and

and Canada to construct rustic and gorgeous

catering to the individual tastes and needs of

smooth vocals. The venue provides recreation

buildings on their ranch. Pieces of the past

their patrons. Both indoor and outdoor spaces

with an array of outdoor activities depending

along with modern marvels coalesced to build

provide ample opportunities to share a feeling

on guests’ interests.

this fantastic ranch.

of natural beauty where friends and family can spend time together.

From avid hunters to wildlife enthusiasts to

Designed with incredible attention to detail,

anyone celebrating a private event, those at

The Mallard Mansion is home to the Dunn

Their land is overseen and managed by spe-

the Hooray Ranch offer a wonderful, personal-

family. Their permanent residence and guest

cialists in conservation and careful preserva-

ized experience. Owners Eric and Wendy Dunn,

accommodations feature rustic touches and

tion of the land. Wildlife flocks in abundance,

along with their dedicated team, understand

combine beauty and comfort in a five-bed-

offering breathtaking tableaus as well as the

that they are providing an opportunity for folks

room home.

best hunting opportunities.

to gather in a special facility that goes beyond

Other buildings provide additional lodging

The sprawling property hosts hunters from

and dwelling spaces, in addition to a confer-

October through early March, beginning with

ence area, gym, spa and world-class kitchen.

upland pheasants in autumn, waterfowl in

Each suite is uniquely furnished, designed

early November, and rounds out the season

with modern amenities and a lodge aesthetic.

with spring turkey. Some hunters come for the

The peaceful surroundings and beautiful

day while others linger to enjoy the luxuries

views invite guests to relax in a tranquil and

of the ranch with a three-night, two-day stay.

traditional expectations, creating experiences

serene setting. Whether the ranch draws people celebrating

The Refuge stands as the centerpiece of the

special, private events like anniversaries

property and serves as primary gathering

space and main dining area. Gorgeous stone

of hunting, a corporate event or client

birthdays,

unforgettable

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Since a rug serves to anchor the room, the color and style of your rug can establish the mood. From artisan-crafted, high-low pile rugs to stunning, worry-free rugs for high traffic, we have hundreds of indoor rugs that can anchor any room in style!

Dining Room Your chairs need to slide in and out comfortably, so you should add 24 to 30 inches to each side of the table for the perfect rug size. If your table has extensions or leaves, take measurements with them in place so you’ll have a large enough rug regardless of the size of your dinner party.

Here are some design tips! Living Room This rug needs to complement your furniture. To create an inviting, complete feel, choose a rug large enough for your furniture to sit on.

Bedroom There’s nothing better than hitting the warm, soft surface of a rug when you roll out of bed in the mornings. To create a cozy border, allow an additional 30 inches on each side of the bed. From there the size of the rug can vary depending on how much or little flooring you’d like to see.

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There are no shortage of cute kids in Wichita, and one of them will end up on our December cover! It’s time to submit photos for the annual SPLURGE! Our Cover, Your Kid contest. The grand prize winner will be featured on the cover of the 2020 December issue of SPLURGE! Magazine and receive a certificate for Tobie Andrews Photography. The four finalists will participate in a photo shoot and appear inside the December issue.

“It’s a favorite cover for a lot of our readers, and it’s so fun to work with these kids. I’m thankful that a panel of judges has to pick the winner and not me, because there are so many cute kids!” — SPLURGE! publisher Jody Klein

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Single entries only (siblings must be entered separately and pictured individually).

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Must be between the ages of 6 to 12 years and live in Wichita or the surrounding area. (The 2019 contest featured kids aged 6 months to 6 years.)

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Entry deadline is Nov. 11, 2020. Finalist must be available for photo shoot Monday, Nov. 16.

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