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For 2021, I want to eat more

Usually I have a long list of New

I always go 100 miles an hour, so

For this new beginning my

vegetables, laugh a lot, create

Year’s resolutions, but this year I

I want to appreciate the process

resolution is to live each day to

memories

with

have just one: to return to a daily

more, break out my camera

its fullest, breathe, smile, give

Renley — and hug more (not elbow

—

especially

meditation practice. I’m looking

often, smell the roses, enjoy the

thanks and count my blessings

bumps)! Most importantly, “Let go,

forward to the focus and clarity

journey and stay rooted in the

large and small. Give more hugs

let God,” and then everything else

of being mindful.

present this year.

and eat more chocolate!

will fall into place.

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Vol. 16, Issue 1 — January 2021

FEATURES 8

Debunking Vaccine Myths In this article a doctor inoculates Wichitans against vaccine myths: Terry D. Klein, MD, partner in The Alliance for Multispecialty Research gives readers the inside scoop on local COVID-19 research trials.

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Lives Well Lived We look back on the legacies of three community

heroes:

Freddy

Simon,

Sally

Attwater and Pastor Mike O’Donnell. Their encouragement, dedication, character and leadership will be missed.

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Chill Out Nothing like a hot pink pom-pom beanie to warm you up this season — or maybe an elegant furry cossack topper. Pair them with a leopardprint coat, textured velour jacket or cozy shawl.

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HIGHLIGHTS

Hopping Off the Strain Train

20 — HEARTSPRING TELETHERAPY 46 — PHO SPECIAL 80 — BLACKBEAR BOSIN

We talked to four ICT wellness experts to kick the year off right. Recognize stress whenever it appears and overcome it with oxytocin, find equilibrium with equine therapy and more!

on the cover:

FREDDY SIMON

SEE HIS STORY ON PAGE 10

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The Jenny Wood Interview The singer/songwriter who survived a tragic accident in 2019 shares how she persisted with her music while being “honest and weird.” Through it all she discovered a special community connection.

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WRITTEN BY AMY PALSER

Debunking Vaccine Myths THE INSIDE STORY FROM LOCAL DOCTOR INVOLVED IN CLINICAL TRIALS A Wichita doctor who has conducted hundreds

rapidly and studies aren’t happening for as

of clinical research trials says the COVID-19

long of a time, the safety measures haven’t

vaccine has gone through the same rigorous

been compromised.”

testing and trials as other vaccinations, and he has full confidence in both the process

Klein said that over a thousand Wichitans

and the results.

already have received the vaccine in the clinical trial. With four research sites in the

“People have lost faith in the vaccine process,”

city, Wichita is “probably a little bit unique

said Dr. Terry D. Klein, a family physician at

in that we have a more robust research

Family Medicine East in Wichita. “Part of the

presence,” he said. “AMR has administered

media rhetoric is increasing that trepidation,

both the Pfizer and Moderna vaccines to

Pfizer

as evidenced by questions I’ve received

hundreds of patients in this area. We have

authorization Dec. 11, which allowed general

in the clinic such as, ‘Will this change my

over 1,000 people who will be enrolled in

vaccinations to be given in a tiered system,

DNA?’ or ‘Will I become infectious?’ or ‘Will I

the AstraZeneca study. We also have a Merck

starting with doctors, nurses and others on the

develop deformities?’ It demonstrates the

study. We will have seen and given the vaccine

front lines of working with COVID-19 patients.

apprehension of the public toward the safety

for all the developing companies.”

“The last people who will get the vaccine are

of this vaccine.”

was

granted

emergency

use

our healthy patients,” Klein said.

Klein said he wants to emphasize that the live

Klein, who also is a partner in AMR (The

virus is not given in the vaccination; patients

Those who don’t want to wait to get the vaccine

Alliance for Multispecialty Research), an

cannot get the virus or give the virus by taking

can take part in ongoing clinical trials. “We’re

industry-leading clinical research company

the vaccine. According to AMR, the novel

still having healthy receivers enroll now so

with four locations in the Wichita area, said

coronavirus genetic makeup was recreated in

they can get the vaccine,” Klein said. “You get

he has been debunking myths left and right

a way that allows the body to recognize it as a

the vaccine and you get the secondary benefit

about the COVID-19 vaccine. “The fears

foreign agent and then build up antibodies to

of helping the community. The safety we’re

regarding the safety of the vaccines have

attack that same DNA code.

seeing in our COVID-19 trials is like what we’ve

come from a couple of different sources,” he

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seen with any other developments of vaccines,

said. “One is the media’s comment that the

Klein said he wouldn’t hesitate to take the

vaccine had to be rushed, and the implication

vaccine himself or to administer it to his family

that if it’s rushed it doesn’t have as much

members, he said, but he has already had a

To apply to take part in AMR’s continuing

oversight or established safety. But I know

bout with COVID-19 and has the antibodies.

COVID-19 vaccination clinical studies, call

for a fact that the safety measures put into

“There’s nobody in this community who

316.689.6609 or visit heartlandresearch.com.

vaccination developments in any year have

doesn’t want antibodies to this virus,” Klein

been done this year with this vaccine. Even

said. “This is the path to get antibodies without

though they’re moving through the studies

going through the illness to get it.”

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live

WRITTEN BY JULIE SCHILLINGS

LIVES WELL LIVED The legacies of Freddy Simon, Sally Attwater

to Norma Jean in 1947, and together they had

and Pastor Mike O’Donnell will live on in the

six children. After 71 years of marriage, his life-

• Work hard and study hard.

memories and hearts of all who have been

long partner, Norma Jean, passed in 2018.

• From the beginning, demonstrate solid work

An avid hunter and sportsman, Freddy’s

• Always tell the truth.

greatest joy was his family. Randy recounted

• Be prompt; people do not like to wait.

his father’s gentle way of teaching life’s

• Always be patriotic, and do all you can

lessons by setting an example and sharing

to keep our country free. You live in the

touched by their leadership, heroism, faith and selflessness. They had lives well-lived.

Freddy Simon

adds at least seven years to your life.

ethics in your profession.

The Wichita community lost a hero and an icon

opportunities. “We were ‘ invited’ to pitch in

with the peaceful passing of Frederick “Freddy”

at the family farm or work in the warehouse,”

Simon, co-founder and namesake of Freddy’s

Randy explained, “ it was never a requirement.

Frozen Custard & Steakburgers. Freddy was 95

It was an opportunity.” Lessons in hard work,

• Return all telephone calls, especially the

years old.

honest work and enterprise were foundations

negative ones — you can turn them into

of the Simon family.

positives. It has worked for me many times.

Freddy’s son, Randy Simon, said, “He lived such

greatest country in the world.

• Vote at every election — after you have checked out the candidates and issues.

• Take a few classes in public speaking —

a great life,” a World War II veteran, a respected

Freddy spent 55 years with a wine and liquor

member of the business community and friend

wholesale company, rising to the position of

regardless of your profession, you are

to all who crossed his path, “I don’t think he’s

president before retiring at the age of 80. He

• Exercise and keep in shape so you can enjoy

ever had an enemy since the war was over.”

was a legend in his industry, and his reputation

Freddy’s Frozen Custard & Steakburgers at

for always doing what he said he would do with

least twice a week!

always trying to sell something.

The youngest of nine children, Freddy grew up

the highest character and greatest class served

in a small German Catholic farm community

him very well in a highly competitive field. In

Freddy Simon will always be remembered

near Colwich, Kansas. Strength of character,

2002, Freddy joined with two of his sons, Bill

for his engaging smile and his "Freddy

work ethic and faith were instilled in Freddy as

and Randy, and partner Scott Redler, to create

hugs.” He was kind to everyone he met and

a young boy living in the rural Midwest during

Freddy’s Frozen Custard & Steakburgers, the

always took the time to share stories. He

the Great Depression and the Kansas dust

company that bears his name.

was a proud veteran and made nearly 100

bowl. These qualities served him throughout

The Freddy’s restaurant concept not only

his lifetime, as a proud member of the Army’s

shares his name, but also incorporates his

1st Cavalry Division, and as a businessman and

family values and patriotic service to his

devoted husband and father.

country as key ingredients in the company’s

“He was the most humble celebrity that I have

culture. Freddy Simon’s philosophies are

ever run into,” Randy said, unlike many of those

valuable life lessons:

who are looked upon as celebrities in today's

Joining the Army six days after graduating high school, Freddy earned the Purple Heart for injuries sustained during World War II as well as a Bronze Star for valor. After being honorably discharged from duty, he entered college at Wichita University. He was married

presentations to schools, nursing homes and other organizations.

culture. These qualities further endeared him • Love, obey and thank your parents and teachers.

• Smile,

even

as a man who enjoyed life, was well-loved and will be dearly missed.

though

times

get

tough

occasionally. It is a proven fact that smiling

Celebrating the Lives and Honoring the Legacy of Beloved Community Members Sally Attwater

said. Battling lung disease known as COPD for

A beloved member of the Wichita community,

for each breath. She embraced career changes

Sally Attwater was a woman who lived her life by the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you

several years, Sally’s lungs had to work harder with grace and excitement as she seized new opportunities. The tragic loss of Sally and

would have them do unto you.

Paul's eldest daughter during her teens would

Born in Peabody, Kansas, Sally attended

faith and consummate love taught her family

Kansas State University where she studied to be a dietician. In 1958 she was married to Paul Attwater and later earned her master's degree in education at Wichita State University. She was a professor of nutrition at the St. Mary School of the Plains nursing school and later worked with the Wichita Dialysis Center.

Helping patients and guiding students was a

break many families, yet Sally’s strength of to never take anything, or anyone, for granted.

The great encourager and advocate. “Mom didn’t live in her past, she lived in her future,” said son, Paul Attwater, “She knew you couldn’t rest on your accomplishments; what you were going to do was much more important than what you had done. Mom called her own

passion as well as profession.

shots. She did not second guess herself, once

Love thy neighbor. “Mom was authentic,”

owned that decision. All of which contributed

shared daughter Susan Taylor, “she made everyone feel important and always had a positive outlook.” Sally loved people and was always interested in others. She wholeheartedly welcomed visitors and loved to entertain family and friends. Sally cultivated life-long friendships. But her greatest gift was her ability to make everyone feel special.

The gift of positivity. “Through her strong faith and strong will, Mom taught me more than

she made a decision — she was all in and she to her decisions during her last weeks of life.”

As her path to heaven became inevitable, Sally unselfishly began preparing her own way. She called her own shots, and uncertainty and fear were replaced by joy, comfort and even happiness. Sally was at peace and ready to join her daughter Sarah in heaven.

Paul concluded, “Mom taught us how to live a life. She has taught us how to leave a life with grace and dignity in comfort and peace.”

anybody how to deal with adversity,” Susan

The Impossible Hug “I want to share a story and special moment that I hope will provide for families seeking comfort and connection during this time of COVID-19. We had one last opportunity to visit my mother at Wesley hospital. We were restricted to two people at a time and could only view Mom through glass and speak via phone. Our time together was precious, but separated from the ability to touch or hold Mom’s hand. My sister Susan Attwater Taylor is a person who is filled with love and desperately needed one more impossible hug. She came up with her plan of genius. She showed up at the hospital with a pair of stuffed bears. We could all take the bears and give them a hug and hold them in our arms. We were able to pass the bears to Mom for her to hold in her arms, to give her the impossible hug. She would not be alone as she transitioned in care and left our world. Now, Susan and I will each get our bear back with our mother’s impossible hug to comfort us when we miss her or need her close. We are huggers. I know that other families might need a Sally Bear in order to give and receive an impossible hug. So if you are separated from those you love due to Covid or any reason, consider sharing a bear.”

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Pastor Mike O’Donnell

“He had a servant’s heart. He loved Jesus, he

For those fortunate to have known Pastor Mike

Willing to minister to everyone, Mike helped

O’Donnell, they remember him as quick-witted, always seeking ways to restore broken families, and dedicated to his family and serving God. Mike attended Grace Baptist Church with his grandma as a young boy, became the youth pastor at Grace Baptist in 1982, and faithfully served as senior pastor for the remainder of his life. In fact, it was at this local church where he met the love of his life, wife Peggy Walker.

The couple married in 1977 and had three

loved his family, and he loved to help others.” countless people during his 40 years of ministry and fulfilled a unique calling to serve those who were struggling with incarceration, poverty, addiction and mental illness.

Affectionately known as Pastor Mike when calling into local sports talk radio programs, he was well known for his wit and acute insight. A life-long Kansas City Chiefs fan, Mike died of natural causes while in Miami where he had travelled with his family to watch his team

children, Stephanie, Michael and Tyler.

play in the Super Bowl. The day preceding

Committed

posing for a picture with the Lombardi Trophy.

to

helping

the

under-served

members of the community, Pastor Mike was involved in many ministries including: Awana, parenting

classes,

after-school

programs,

prison programs and many others. Most recently, he was helping restore families through a court-sanctioned parenting program.

Mike’s passing, the family celebrated together, A treasured memory and the last photograph of Mike.

“The Lord was ready for him to come home,” explained Peggy, “I miss him every day, but through his life so many others have come to know the Lord. That is his legacy.”

“Mike was fiercely dedicated to reconnecting broken families,” said his wife Peggy O’Donnell.

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experts

Healthful Hints

Who Is College Hill OB/GYN?

College Hill OB/GYN is a 100 percent physician-owned practice founded

of the day or night. They welcome new patients and accept most major

in 1985 by Dr. Michael P. Brown and Dr. Patricia Wyatt-Harris. With six

medical insurance plans. They provide diagnostic services such as 2D

female board certified OB/GYN physicians, College Hill OB/GYN provides

and 3D sonography, routine gynecological exams, breast health exams,

comprehensive obstetric and gynecological care for women of all ages

IUD placement and other forms of birth control counseling.

in every stage of life. The physicians and staff treat every patient with care and compassion, while setting the standards for medical excellence

Surgeries and procedures are performed in our office, outpatient surgery

through the implementation of best clinical practices, continuing

centers and in the surrounding hospitals. The physicians are trained in

education and research.

the latest gynecologic procedures, including laparoscopic, robotic and minimally invasive surgeries.

Currently the physicians provide care at four locations, including east or west Wichita, Derby and Anthony, all in a multilingual setting. The

The physicians are experienced in the treatment and care of

College Hill OB/GYN staff also have extensive experience in obstetrics

perimenopausal and postmenopausal patients. They will help guide you

and the care of women, while many staff have been employees for

through the complex issues surrounding menopause, including hormone

more than 20 years. The medical, billing and administrative staff strive

replacement and other physical and emotional changes.

to provide a warm, family-friendly office setting where patients feel comfortable and welcome.

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As women and mothers themselves, the doctors appreciate and respect

Call College Hill OB/GYN at 316.683.6766 today to schedule your

the trust each patient places in their caregivers during each stage of

appointment with one of our six female physicians. We have four

life. They provide after-hours phone coverage seven days a week to

locations: east or west Wichita, Derby or Anthony. For more information

ensure patients receive the care and guidance they need at any time

visit collegehillobgyn.com.

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WRITTEN BY BRUCE FERRIS, MD, AMY SPROLE, MD, AND NATALIYA BISKUP, MD

Eyelid Surgery with Board Certified Aesthetic Experts REAL PLASTIC SURGEONS. REAL RESULTS.

REAL PATIENTS. REAL RESULTS.

AMY SPROLE, MD, BRUCE FERRIS, MD AND NATALIYA BISKUP, MD Upper eyelid surgery and lower eyelid surgery (blepharoplasty) are highly specialized procedures. This is why choosing an experienced plastic surgeon is generally your best option. While ocular surgeons can perform these procedures, patients may have better results because of a plastic surgeon’s background in aesthetics.

Plastic surgeons are highly skilled and trained to perform eyelid surgery because of their unique knowledge of aesthetics. They have many years of education and training in cosmetic surgery, in addition to their board certification. All of these combined work to provide patients with the best possible outcomes whether they are looking for cosmetic or functional eyelid surgery.

Who Needs Eyelid Surgery?

For some people, like our patient Tammie, eyelid surgery is a necessity because their eyelids obstruct their vision. For others, they want to improve and rejuvenate the appearance of their eyelids or get rid of under-eye bags.

Eyelid surgery can help patients who have: • • • • •

Bags and dark circles under the eyes Drooping lower eyelids Fatty deposits that appear as puffiness under the eyelids Fine wrinkles and excess skin of the lower eyelid Loose or sagging skin that creates folds on the upper eyelid, sometimes impairing vision • A visual obstruction caused by excess skin that hangs down from the upper eyelid (hooded eyelids) Eyelid surgery can improve the appearance of both the upper eyelids and lower eyelids. It gives the area around the eyes a rejuvenated appearance, allowing patients to look more rested and alert. Not only does eyelid surgery improve eye appearance, but in many cases it can even help a patient see better.

Our patient, Tammie, tells us her upper and lower eyelid surgery has been life changing.

Explain your journey to eyelid surgery.

Tammie: I am a physician, and I had a lot of eye fatigue from the weight of my eyelids. I also used to get headaches from my eye issues.

How did you feel after treatment?

Tammie: I felt really good the day of the surgery and in the days following. Pain control was easy. I kept up on my icing, and I used Arnicare to reduce the swelling and bruising. I was really only out for a couple of days. I healed rapidly and by the third day I went out to dinner.

When did you see your results?

Tammie: I noticed my results and could tell a huge difference within a little over a week. My results are terrific, and people noticed right away.

Are you happy with your results?

Tammie: I haven’t had eyelids in years, and now I don’t have any bags or dark circles under my eyes. I’ve wanted to do the surgery for a long time, and I am so glad I did. I am 100 percent better both cosmetically and functionally. Not only do I look younger, but I can focus and not get headaches now.

Do you have advice for people considering eyelid surgery?

Tammie: Make sure you do everything they ask you to do, both before and after your surgery. Use your ice and your supplements.

The entire process is so easy and streamlined. I also researched my options thoroughly and chose the practice with the best reputation.

BEFORE

AFTER

If you are interested in eyelid surgery, your first step is a consultation with one of our plastic surgeons certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery.

You deserve expert guidance and exceptional results.

Plastic surgery involves many choices. The most important is selecting a surgeon you can trust. Expect exceptional results when you have your procedures performed by plastic surgeons who are certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgery and who are members of the American Society of Plastic Surgeons like Dr. Ferris, Dr. Sprole and Dr. Biskup. These specially trained doctors have at least six years of surgical training and experience, with a minimum of three years of plastic surgery.

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WRITTEN BY MARCELA GIMENEZ-CLOUGH

Turning Crises into

New Opportunities PEDIATRIC TELETHERAPY SERVICES AT HEARTSPRING On March 25, 2020, the Heartspring Pediatric

“I see a child on the autism spectrum who

can work on skills they may not have other-

Services therapy rooms were quickly closed.

typically has a very difficult time participating

wise thought of or believed they were capable

in tasks in my therapy room,” states speech-

of on their own.”

A world pandemic had reached Wichita,

language pathologist Belinda Allen. “In our

Kansas, and many local businesses and orga-

teletherapy sessions he has been able to have

In a traditional therapy room parents can

nizations were forced to close and pause ser-

conversations with me and show me his toys

typically observe, listen and ask questions.

vices, including Heartspring.

from home.”

Teletherapy, however, offers a special opportunity for parents to play an active role in the

While some could go a few months without

Allen considers this a big win. While she

dining at their favorite restaurant or get-

can usually get this child to talk in therapy

delivery of services.

ting a haircut, many families served through

with structured prompting, teletherapy has

“An interesting twist on things is that we are

Heartspring’s Pediatric Services found them-

allowed him to open up to her more freely

problem-solving through the parent versus

selves in a bind. To continue progressing in

— and though going into the therapy room

through ourselves,” says occupational therapist

their journey toward independence, children

has its benefits, the virtual sessions help

Mimi French. “With teletherapy, you may have to

served at Heartspring depended on regular

him focus on connecting and following tasks

help a parent with placement of their hand on

therapy sessions.

without feeling overwhelmed by the unpre-

the child to help turn the page of a book.”

dictable sights, sounds and quick transitions Though Covid-19 brought difficult unintended

he typically experiences in the Pediatric

To French, this outcome has led to many ben-

consequences, it also paved the way for a

Services building.

eficial experiences. “I have loved being able to

bright new therapy solution:

see children in their home envi-

teletherapy.

ronment and empower parents to help their child perform a

At first, the promise of tele-

task to the best of their ability,”

therapy was not an easy one

she says.

— on one hand, therapists had to find ways to adapt their

Late this summer, Heartspring

typical mode of operation so

resumed

every child could receive the

outpatient services with strict

same quality of services. On

sanitation precautions. Though

the other, they had to shift

families are happy to be back

their focus to find accessible

in the therapy room, during a

at-home therapy tools, create attainable goals, and help parents navigate a new “nor-

Though in-person services were cancelled this spring and summer, Heartspring Pediatric Services therapists helped children continue achieving their goals via teletherapy.

in-person

time of high unpredictability, teletherapy continues to give families a safe option so chil-

mal.” With much strength and

dren can continue working on

positivity, Heartspring Pediatric

their goals from home.

Services therapists embraced the opportu-

Similarly, physical therapist Cheryl Jabara

nity to continue changing lives for the better

noticed many positives from teletherapy,

The history of Heartspring has demonstrated

despite the difficult situation.

especially with the opportunities it allows for

that its employees are the bearers of hope in

tailoring therapy to a child’s natural environ-

times of distress. As our country continues to

Though challenging at first, therapists quickly

ment and helping parents have more agency

battle Covid-19, Heartspring Pediatric Services

began to notice a unique effect in certain

in their child’s development.

therapists are a true testament of hope — they

children: Some were actually progressing

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demonstrate that every challenge is an excit-

faster than they normally would because of

“I have noticed parents feeling more empow-

teletherapy.

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Options for Fighting Obesity, A Chronic Disease WITH DR. OBERHELMAN, KANSAS SURGICAL ARTS

As the Covid-19 pandemic continues to claim

Recently, newer procedures such as the Orbera

lives every day in the United States, we are

gastric balloon, endoscopic gastroplasty and

faced with an epidemic of obesity which is

aspiration therapy are less invasive but are

one of the leading causes of preventable

not without complications.

death. Over one-third of Americans are obese, and if this trend continues, nearly half

The one constant factor to any of these

of all men and women will be obese in ten

methods finding success is a change in

years. Obesity is one of the most pervasive

lifestyle. This should include face-to-face

chronic diseases, increasing the risk of

interactions for coaching, along with a

health problems such as heart disease,

structure for support and accountability.

diabetes and high blood pressure. Although

Studies

the medical community has made strides

programs with and without close and

toward understanding obesity, they still

sustained follow-up. Members of the close

have not found a “magic bullet” treatment.

follow-up groups were more likely to take

have

compared

weight-loss

The Kansas Surgical Arts medical team provides support for patients every step of the way. They would love an opportunity to explain either procedure in further detail during a consultation. Consultations are available by appointment at 316.573.4850.

weight off and keep weight off.

Obesity is influenced by a variety of behavioral, factors.

environmental

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and

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foods high in fat and sugar has increased

individuals to lose weight and keep it off.

over

foods,

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edible oils, processed food and sugar-

into the stomach to prevent overeating.

sweetened

our

After six months the balloon is removed. The

midlines. As our lives and jobs have become

remaining six months involve supportive

increasingly sedentary, our activity levels

follow up to encourage additional weight

have decreased significantly. Over thirty

loss and sustain the loss. A newer, permanent

chronic health conditions are exacerbated

technique is the endoscopic gastroplasty in

by obesity. Factors such as poor diet and

which stomach size is reduced by suturing

inactivity, coupled with a lack of restful

with the aid of a camera inside the stomach.

the

years. drinks

Animal-source are

assaulting

sleep, medications and metabolism, create a recipe for development of chronic disease.

Time-honored diet and exercise is effective (for long-term weight loss) in only 10 percent

NOTE: Doctors often refer to body mass index, or BMI. To find your BMI, divide your weight in pounds by your height in inches squared, times 703. Or use the calculator at: www.cdc.gov › adult_bmi › english_bmi_calculator.

of people. When medication is added, that number increases to around 15 percent.

Gastric bypass and the gastric sleeve have a higher rate of success. However, only a small percentage of people who qualify for surgery will have surgery. This is mostly due to the perceived or real risks and complications.

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WRITTEN BY KIM DUGGER ATTWATER

Phantastic Pho and More

PHO SPECIAL

All of my favorite restaurants have a this-is-

After that, we tried the Five-Spice Chicken,

why-I-go-there dish.

which is a house specialty. It’s chicken that’s been marinated and then fried, served over

At Pho Special, it’s the sirloin pho soup and

rice with a sauce we all loved.

the chicken pho soup, which are both off the charts. Pho, in case you’re not familiar with

Then it was on to the pho. I was already a fan

it, is a combination of meat, rice noodles and

of pho, but after trying it at Pho Special, I’m

delicately seasoned broth. In addition to being

not sure I can go anywhere else! The sirloin

a flavor explosion in your mouth, it’s actually

pho comes with numerous slices of rare

very healthy. No wonder it’s considered the

steak. The broth in both it and the chicken

national dish of Vietnam.

pho are nothing short of amazing.

Now granted, there are a lot of good Vietnamese

As full as we were, we had to try a couple

restaurants in Wichita, but I’ve never eaten in

more things. I ordered a café sua, which is

one better than this. Everything had that fresh,

coffee made at your table in a little French

made-just-for-you flavor.

press, then served over ice with sweetened

WHERE TO FIND THEM Pho Special Vietnamese Cuisine 2409 E. Pawnee St., Wichita, KS 67211 316.687.4000 | phospecial.com

condensed milk. It’s a great way to start or Pho Special’s owner, Don Nguyen, opened it 10

end your meal. We also sampled several

years ago, but I was just introduced to it last

smoothies — a luscious avocado smoothie, a

month, My husband and I went with several

pineapple version that reminded us of a Dole

friends, which allowed us to try quite a few

Whip, and even one made with taro root. The

dishes on the menu.

last one was bright purple so my husband, who went to K-State, naturally loved it. We

We started with appetizers. The chicken wings

noticed that the restaurant also features

were really crispy and tasty. Pho Special’s egg

gluten-free and non-GMO selections.

rolls are just the right size for an appy — not the huge soggy kind you sometimes get, but

Pho Special is an attractive but not-fussy

smaller and packed with more meat than

place in the mode of fast, casual restaurants.

minced cabbage. The egg rolls and spring rolls

It’s a block east of I-135, which makes it easy

are served with tasty peanut dipping sauce and

to get to from practically anywhere. Don

nuoc cham, the classic sweet-salty Vietnamese

Nguyen loves to cook and it shows in the food

table sauce.

at Pho Special.

Watch Kim Dugger Attwater’s interview with Pho

If you would like to see your restaurant

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Stop the Comparison Game

BY GREGORY LAKIN, D.O, J.D. | CENTER FOR CHANGE On the path of self-growth and happiness, it

compare ourselves to how good we had it in

along those lines, and recognize that our

helps to guard against the comparison trap.

earlier times, what it was like when we were

happiness is not dependent on anything

Constantly comparing ourselves to others

young, or contrast a current relationship to

external. Or we can use comparison only

can lead to unhappiness and dissatisfaction.

a prior one.

as motivation to make positive changes in

The very young get in the habit of watching

ourselves, as we are the only one we are in

others to learn how to behave. As we get

All of these comparisons are only self-

older, it can become more about comparing

destructive. This negative comparison bias

and measuring ourselves against others

is further fueled as we surf social media or

Happiness comes from our own self-acceptance

than learning.

watch TV shows where we see only the fun

in the present moment, acknowledging that we

snippets of other people’s lives.

are perfect exactly as we are. Self-acceptance,

This can be an especially difficult time for

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control of anyway.

without comparison, leads to a positive and

young adults. When they habitually compare

To overcome this, first, it is important to

empowering mindset — and magic starts to

themselves to those around them, they may

become aware of this negative comparison

happen.

actually use this to measure their own self-

self-talk. Only then can we develop the

worth. Even as we get older, we may still

ability to stop it the minute we start to think

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WRITTEN BY KAREN LONG

ALL ABOUT YOU. MAKE 2021 YOUR BEST YEAR.

Hopping off the Strain Train Welcome to the first in a series where we’ll be

the “cuddle hormone.” “It’s the love hormone,

bringing you the best Wichita has to offer in the

it comes out during sexual climax — but in very

way of wellness, stress-reduction, relaxation

small doses, used daily, it’s a very powerful

and rejuvenation. To kick the year off right

biologic to counter cortisol.”

we’ve interviewed a neurologist, a doctor, a neurofeedback trainer and an equine therapy

At Agewell Brain Center, Dr. Henry focuses on

specialist for a look at the science behind

treating patients with traumatic brain injury,

stress, plus innovative ways to start untying

a significant number of whom have PTSD. She

tension today.

says, “I prescribe oxytocin and it works really well. They finally get to sleep, finally reduce

Counteract Cortisol and Quench Stress “The stress hormone cortisol is what’s going to make you fat, frazzled, fearful, forgetful, fatigued, and, over time, frail,” says Dr. Eva Henry, neurologist and owner of Agewell Brain Center. Chronic stress bathes the brain in cortisol for extended periods, which damages the memory center called the hippocampus. “So when somebody has stress they are literally shrinking their brain, their memory center.”

There are several concrete ways to calm the brain and counteract cortisol. The first is to set healthy boundaries. “Women in particular need to learn how to say no in a very respectful way, and not feel guilty — healthy boundary setting equals self-care,” says Dr. Henry. A second important factor is sleep, which she calls “the stress quencher.”

“Every night when we sleep, our brain is washing out the cortisol that’s lingering on.”

When we’re wired and tired, quality sleep can be elusive, however, so in her practice Dr. Henry recommends natural supplements, adaptogens to soothe a mind racing late into the evening.

Another powerful strategy is the use of two hormones: progesterone and oxytocin. If testing shows low progesterone, Dr. Henry prescribes it to act as a natural antidepressant.

You may have heard of oxytocin, described as

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anxiety and are less fearful.”

For more information visit agewellbraincenter.com, or call 316.260.5001.

The Inside Track on Equine Therapy Can brushing and interacting with a horse soothe an overactive brain? Stacy Gash, owner of Hope Grown Ranch, is counting on it. After offering riding lessons for the past 10 years, Gash is about to become Eagala certified as an equine specialist. She will be qualified to practice the Eagala method, partnering with a social worker and a horse to facilitate ease and focus in the client.

“The counselor or therapist is able to work with the patient on a deeper level,” explains Gash.

“There are only two or three Eagala-certified ranches in Kansas.”

The journal “Animals” reports that grooming a horse can lead to relaxation, calm and a reduced heart rate in the groomer, and may cause the release of that bonding hormone, oxytocin, leading to increased trust and enhanced empathy.* In 2021 Gash is adding two related modalities to help clients find tranquility and clarity: brain mapping and nutrition. She’ll be working with Dr. James Seberger of Cognitive Performance & Health to provide personal diagnostics through brain scanning. Another partner organization will use Reams Biological Theory of Ionization,

or RBTI, to analyze a client’s individual food

Whether requiring treatment or not, Dr. Lakin

mind and can’t calm your thoughts down. When

frequencies. In the spring Gash is combining

says everyone can learn effective coping

it’s hard to sleep. When you’re having tension

equine therapy, brain mapping and RBTI for a

skills to manage internal anxiety and improve

headaches or migraines, or stomachaches and

7-day retreat at Hope Grown Ranch called “The

mental resilience. One key stress buster

gut issues — especially in kids.”

Power of Align.” Participants will discover their

is exercise: “Endorphins released into our

personal brain and food profiles through brain

bloodstream during exercise increase positive

In the practice she owns with her husband,

mapping and saliva and urine sampling.

attitudes and decrease anxiety.”

Dr. James Seberger, Veronica tells patients that stress is a precursor to illness. She can

“My passion, when starting this ministry,”

Building a supportive network will help you

actually see on a brain scan when a patient

says Gash, “is to have everybody experience

through tough times and give you needed

has exhausted their resources of energy. To

it, to help people heal from PTSD, ADHD, ADD,

feedback and accountability. Also, remove the

help people return to equilibrium, she guides

anxiety and depression, and live fuller, more

emotional clutter: “Focus on your meaningful

them through at-home neurofeedback and

fulfilled lives.”

and high-priority goals, and eliminate those

brain training — something she was doing

distractions that don’t really matter.” This is

years before the global pandemic.

*Source: “Emotional Transfer in Human-Horse Interaction: New

the perfect time to remember and recite the

Perspectives on Equine Assisted Interventions.”

Serenity Prayer, Dr. Lakin says: “God, grant

Veronica says, “We can’t really calm the brain

me the serenity to accept the things I cannot

without also calming the body. The two are

To learn more about equine therapy or “The Power

change, courage to change the things I can,

connected.” For example, a brain flooded

of Align” retreat, go to hopegrownranch.com

and wisdom to know the difference.”

by the stress hormone cortisol will have us craving carbs and sugary foods.

or follow Hope Grown Ranch on Facebook.

Taking small, manageable and systematic baby steps is a concrete process that steadily leads

“One of the most practical approaches is

to positive change. Track and celebrate some

breathing,” Veronica says. An exercise she

of those daily wins with gratitude and thanks.

teaches her patients is to inhale for four

The link between stress and addiction has

“Studies show that people who are kind to

seconds, hold for two and exhale for seven.

never been more apparent than in 2020,

others, optimistic and have gratitude in their

“Inhale the calm, hold on to that, then exhale

according to Dr. Gregory Lakin of Center for

lives become happier over time.”

whatever you want to let go of.” One or two

Anxiety and Addiction

Change. Liquor stores have experienced

minutes of mindful breathing, done on a

record sales, and Dr. Lakin has seen a large

For more information visit

consistent basis, can have measurable effects,

uptick in people seeking outpatient treatment

centerforchangeks.com or call 316-201-1234.

even bringing down blood pressure.

for opioid addiction.

“People have always had various ways of coping

This is Your Brain on Stress

with stress during times of high anxiety,” says

“People have heard it so much, but breathing really ties in beautifully with calming the body, calming the brain down.”

Dr. Lakin. “What seemingly may have worked

One of the tricky things about stress is

for some short situations before, like a drink or

recognizing it. Veronica Seberger, board-

For more information visit

pill or joint before an anxiety-producing social

certified neurofeedback trainer at Cognitive

cognitiveperformancehealth.com

event, does not work so well during times of

Performance & Health, says there are some red

or call 316.260.9005.

sustained stress like this pandemic.”

flags to watch out for: “When you have a busy

Join us in February for the next installment of this series. We’ll be exploring the cutting edge of nutrition and how to find the personalized diet that works best for you to stay healthy and energized.

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Support Your Mitochondria to Boost Brain Power

BY EVA HENRY, M.D., ABPN, ABAARM, FMNM | AGEWELL BRAIN CENTER The average human brain weighs about 3

When you go to sleep at night, the energy

An Oxidative Stress assessment tells you how

pounds. While brains typically represent only

consumption of your muscle decreases, but

much cellular waste you have accumulated over

2 to 3 percent of our body weight, the brain

your brain stays just as active. Your brain

time. The more toxins and waste you are able

typically consumes over 20 percent of the

does not merely go offline, rather, a series

to free from your cells, the more resilient your

energy produced by the body. Your brain is

of highly orchestrated sleep stages play out

body can become. This translates directly to how

truly the most valuable and demanding organ!

each night. During sleep, our nervous system

vibrant and energetic you feel on a day-to-day

works to repair, detoxify, replenish important

basis. For many of us, the biggest obstacle to

Just like computers and mobile devices, which

neurotransmitters, organize connections to

physical fitness in within our minds. The more

need electrical power to operate properly, your

consolidate memory, charge up our immune

you support your mitochondria by helping to

brain needs constant fueling to power its complex

system, and many more functions that we have

eliminate oxidative waste, the better you can

mainframe. Your brain needs to generate enough

yet to find out! That is one of the many reasons

focus at work and improve your endurance

power to keep you alive and stay in control of your

why the human brain requires so much of your

during exercise. Oxidative stress analysis requires

body. By moving trillions of charged chemicals in

body’s resources all day and night.

special blood tests that are not routinely offered

and out of your cells, your brain generates its own

by regular labs, so call us for a consultation.

power to function properly. It shouldn’t come

Supplements and nutrients that support your

as a surprise that this vital organ needs ample

mitochondria

amounts of good nutrients to power up its more

•

CoQ10 (ubiquinol)

than 80 billion brain cells.

•

N-acetylcysteine

•

Alpha lipoic acid

energy-generating

•

D-ribose

organelles of every cell in your body. The

•

Magnesium

higher the energy requirement of each cell

•

L-carnitine

type, the more mitochondria are needed. The

•

Antioxidants

Mitochondria

are

the

brain, heart muscles, liver and kidneys have the highest concentration of mitochondria.

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WRITTEN BY NATASHA PARK

Musician, Heal Thyself AN INTERVIEW WITH JENNY WOOD If you’re ever fortunate enough to hear Jenny Wood, the guitarist and singer-

support. Thankfully, I can live on my own now. I go outside. I laugh with

songwriter, perform live, you might overhear comments such as:

the mailman. I go to the store. I joke with the cashier. I think they don't know that I almost died! So, it's as if I'm at the beginning of an incredible,

“Man, she's like Fergie and Jesus.”

sacred relationship with life that only came from knowing death and

"Wichita's sweetheart."

overcoming significant disability.

"I didn't know whether to be turned on or scared!”

"Community leader."

I'm excited about life. I can perform and ride my bike. I couldn't do these a

"Local celebrity."

year ago. I've begun writing a song inspired by the fact that I'm better now.

"Healer"

It's about how my trauma and recovery were just as traumatic for someone very close to me. The accident and recovery weren't all about me.

Recently, she's known as the musician who survived a tragic accident: In 2019, two criminals in a stolen, speeding vehicle collided with Jenny's mother's car

I love noticing families interact, like at the park. I'm not ready to have

at the intersection of Douglas and Broadway. The accident took the lives

that for myself, mostly due to a lack of trust, which wasn't an issue before

of her mother and niece and left Jenny with a 5 percent chance of survival.

the accident. The love and attention from Wichita during my recovery

In this SPLURGE! interview, Jenny, with her trademark frankness, shares her

were necessary — I’m grateful for the love and support. But the accident

story of grief, healing and the sustaining power of music.

also caught the attention of people who acted out of ill intention. I wasn't able to recognize falsehoods at that time due to my severe

SPLURGE!: Jenny, you are recovering miraculously well! Will you share

traumatic brain injury. Their actions left me heartbroken with emotional

some insights and challenges about your recovery process?

and financial stress.

Jenny Wood: Thank you. Due to my brain injury, I have no taste or smell.

Some of the heartaches came from the idea that Dad was my gauge

So, this salad from Newport Grill looks amazing! But … I can't taste it.

for ethicality. Though he passed a few years before the accident, he

I'll eat what's healthy because the taste doesn't matter to me anymore.

continued to be the part of me that could see falsehoods. To lose that

(Laughter.)

was losing Dad all over again. Thankfully, I can now recognize falsehoods.

This gives me the confidence to begin to trust again.

I assure you, it's as good as it looks. (Laughs.)

How do you describe yourself and your music?

JW: After the accident, I was cognizant and aware that I might not be aware and cognizant of certain things. That was a weird position. I was

JW: I deeply care about what I sing. As a female musician, people expect a

told that I'd have to start from scratch. My recovery took hard work and

certain cute thing. I'm not that. I'm honest and weird. When I sing, people become uncomfortable. Then the uncomfortable wears off. It leaves the reaction of, ‘Oh my God! I know you!’ That becomes a special connection, one not based on superficiality.

How have your career and music evolved?

JW: In my early 20s, I made obscure music in different timings and tunings.

But then, I started making connections by accident while on stage. Those relatable accidents were profound. The crowd felt like they knew me. That connection was new and remarkable to me. Those unforced moments led to specific and open lyrics about my life. I became more accessible.

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What advice would you give the younger you?

JW: Things are going to be weird. Things are going to be hard — keep on.

The ideas you have, follow through with them, make songs about them, feel weird, sit with the weird, continue. Protect the songs you make; be careful who you trust. The art you are making is the most valuable thing that you are. The fruits of your labor will appear when you are older. Your art is productive. It will heal people.

What motivates you as a songwriter?

JW: Every heartache, pain, and shock are lyrics toward healing. When an audience member, who's a stranger, relates and cries to me, I cry with them. It feels like family. That feeling and connection is a glimpse of my life, the fruits of my labor, in that very conversation.

How did the title “community leader” come about?

JW: Like many creative avenues — especially music — there's an idea that you need to go on the likes of “The Voice” or leave Wichita to be successful. This limiting idea is false. We don't see many people making a living off their creativity here. But I have done this. I get to go into schools and show the kids, yes, I'm weird, I'm creative. Be weird, weird is good! It’s possible to earn a living off your creativity. I'm proof of this.

Find out what your community needs. Develop your creativity to meet that need. People will want to support what you are making because they will see a part of themselves in your product. I write specific lyrics that individual supporters can relate to. They then heal from something I wrote, inspired by them. I make songs where I'm imparting personal conflict with their similar conflict. It's a co-creation process. It encourages more songs, more healing, more support. It's an honest way to make a fulfilling living.

What projects are you excited about?

JW: I'm happy about my new YouTube series titled “Voice. Heart. Mind.”

The intention is to share life's ups and downs. It aims to find that special connection between the viewers and myself. It's currently available on my YouTube channel, youtube.com/user/superJWoo. To catch up with Jenny Wood, hear her songs and watch her videos, check out JennyWoodMusic.com and youtube.com/user/superJWoo.

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Hope and Wink Hartman II

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Start the New Year with New Rugs

BY NAHID HOLMES | DESIGN SOURCE INTERIORS

Goodbye 2020, Hello New Year!

Let’s start the new year with some fresh thoughts and positive energy. Now more than ever, the space around us needs to feel happy. Design and decor will dictate your mood. Colors and texture can create a joyful environment. The best place to start is with your rugs: Start your new year with new rugs! For design services and color consultations, call 316.733.7080 today to schedule your custom design plan.

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WRITTEN BY JOE STUMPE

Whole Life Home Care

ALL THE CARE YOU NEED TO STAY AT HOME

WHERE TO FIND THEM

WHOLE LIFE HOME CARE 1400 Terradyne Drive, Suite 316 Andover, Kansas 67002 316.448.6287 wholelifewichita.com

True to its name, Whole Life Home Care offers

eligible veterans or their surviving spouse up

Ford, who’s also a local attorney, part-

a holistic approach to home-based, non-med-

to $2,200 per month to pay for in-home care.

nered with Tyler Asmann to open Whole Life.

ical care for seniors.

Whole Life clients who apply for this benefit

Asmann’s background in residential real

through Whole Life’s VA-accredited partner

estate management and construction helps

Study after study shows that most seniors

often see their applications for benefits pro-

round out Whole Life’s expertise in ensuring

want to live independently in their own famil-

cessed within just a few short months.

that a senior’s home is maintained to remain

iar surroundings for as long as possible. This

a safe place to live.

locally owned company and its highly-quali-

“If our accredited partner pre-determines

fied employees provide assistance to seniors,

that the veteran is eligible for the Aid and

The amount of care that clients contract for

including daily living activities such as house-

Attendance Benefit, they provide funding, with

“really depends on what their needs are,” Ford

keeping, meal preparation, personal care

no fees or interest, to start benefits immedi-

said. “We have clients who receive a couple of

and hygiene, and transportation. In addition,

ately. If for some reason the veteran is not ulti-

hours of care a week — they just need to make

Whole Life has built up a network of dedicated

mately approved for the benefits, there is no

sure their refrigerator is stocked. Other clients

business partners who are trained to address

requirement to repay the funding.”

have 24-hour care.” All of their caregivers are

home safety, mitigate fall risks, and ensure that the senior’s home is well maintained.

Whole Life employees who are fully insured and It was Ford’s 99-year-old grandmother who

have passed background, driving and drug tests.

inspired her to start Whole Life. “She lived “We work hard to address the whole range

completely independently until she was 97.

The partners started Whole Life without any

of issues commonly encountered by seniors

After a series of falls, that was no longer going

way of knowing the Covid-19 pandemic would

seeking to live independently and safely in

to be an option. But we quickly realized we had

increase demand, because it led to lockdowns

their home, including assistance in identifying

no idea what we were doing when it came to

on long-term care facilities.

available resources to pay for home care,” says

identifying the types of care available and fig-

Jordan Ford, Whole Life co-owner.

uring out how to best pay for that care.”

Whole Life specializes in serving the veteran

As Ford navigated the various options for find-

facilities and back into independent living,” she

community through its exclusive partnership

ing her grandmother help, she realized many

said. “It’s a scary thing not to be able to visit your

with a national VA-accredited institution that

others in the Wichita community are faced

vulnerable loved ones for months on end. We

focuses on expediting VA benefits to those

with the same situation.

work with families to ensure that safe and inde-

“We’re seeing a significant increase in calls from families looking to get their loved ones out of

who have served their country. “Many veterans

pendent living can continue to be a possibility.”

are unaware they are eligible for care benefits

“Our population continues to age and the

through the VA,” said Ford, “and unfortunately,

desire to remain at home independently is

the process to obtain these benefits is notori-

one a lot of families are dealing with,” she said.

ously cumbersome.”

“We started Whole Life Home Care with an eye to being a one-stop resource in helping fami-

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One VA program (commonly referred to as

lies ensure that their senior loved ones can

the Aid and Attendance Benefit) reimburses

remain safely at home.”

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WHO WAS BLACKBEAR BOSIN? Last Thoughts with Wichita Life ICT

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Oklahoma in 1921 before moving to Wichita in

You can visit the Keeper day or night, but check

1940. He was a Comanche-Kiowa sculptor but

online for the timing of the Ring of Fire: the fire

he was also a painter, which was his primarily

pits ringing the sculpture’s base are typically lit

If you have been in Wichita for more than

outlet for creativity. His work, ranging from

in the evening when the weather cooperates.

five minutes, odds are you have seen it in

watercolors to acrylics, depicted Indian life.

person, seen it on a t-shirt or seen a sculpture

Bosin served in WWII as a Marine before

somewhere. What am I talking about? The

returning to Wichita to work as a color

“Keeper of the Plains” (aka The Keeper). The

separator and plate maker as well as an artist

Keeper is a 44-foot-tall steel sculpture of

for Boeing.

an American Indian standing sentinel at the confluence of the Big and Little Arkansas Rivers

The artist passed away in 1980 at the youthful

in downtown Wichita.

age of 59. Although he has been gone over 40 years now, The Keeper continues to protect

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This sculpture was donated to Wichita by its

and look over Wichita and the plains as it

creator Blackbear Bosin. Bosin was born in

offers a blessing to the sky.

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