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Sunrise Christian Hoops With two players already signed as future Jayhawks, the basketball program at Sunrise Christian Academy in Bel Aire also boasts an award-winning head
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Autism Awareness Michelle Adler, lead teacher for Social Emotional Learning in the Andover School District, is highly attuned to neurodiverse learners — including her own son, Luc.
coach, Luke Barnwell.
Twisted Oz Motorcycle Museum Imagine 150 vintage motorcycles from Europe, Japan and the U.S. collected together in one museum. Kelly Modlin has created this impressive display in Augusta, Kansas.
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Tulip the Pig 120 pounds of pure pig love — that’s Tulip the mini pig. Betsy Loftin can no longer carry her beloved pet in her arms, but he’s still part of the family. Enter the SPLURGE! Cutest Pet contest and your own fur baby could appear in the May issue!
On The Cover: COACH LUKE BARNWELL ZACHARY CLEMENCE GRADEY DICK
LOCATION: SUNRISE CHRISTIAN ACADEMY PHOTOGRAPHY: TOBIE ANDREWS
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SUNRISE CHRISTIAN HOOPS MAKES A FAST BREAK Ranked first in the state, second in the nation,
class or any other class, the faculty and staff
full of players from all walks of life,” says Coach
the Sunrise Christian Academy Buffalos are
are dedicated to a safe, loving and strong
Luke Barnwell.
having a remarkable season. Though, this is no
educational program.”
surprise. For years, the Sunrise Christian Nike Elite Team has held a spot as one of the best teams in the country. Sunrise attracts some
The Elite Team
Five seniors are committed and signed to play NCAA Division I basketball:
of the best basketball players in the United
Sunrise has a variety of sport options ranging
Jaden Akins — Michigan State
States and from around the world. But these
from football, soccer, baseball, track and field,
Kennedy Chandler — Tennessee
young men are more than just great players: At
softball, cross country, bowling, cheer and
Jaylon McDaniels — East Tennessee State
Sunrise morals hold just as much importance
golf. However, the sport they have been known
Kendall Brown — Baylor
as academics and athletics, and the players
for is basketball. Sunrise has two traveling
Zachary Clemence — Kansas
impressively portray this on and off the court.
teams, Elite and Select, the Elite team being ranked at a national level. The school also
Recently, local hero Gradey Dick committed
hosts a "home town" team that numerous
to the University of Kansas. He will have one
students play on — many have grown up at
more year in the Sunrise program before
Sunrise since grade school.
attending Kansas.
At the time, he was teaching at Wichita State
Currently, the Elite team is 18–2 with wins
The team finished tied for first in the inaugural
University. More and more families found out
against the No. 1 and No. 2 teams in the country.
NIBC
about the "school" and started applying. Over
They are currently ranked No. 2 in the U.S.A. As
Conference) and will play for the championship.
the last 30-plus years Sunrise has grown with
a team, they have boasted two McDonald's All-
They have played two nationally televised
Lindsted serving as superintendent and it's now
Americans. The team represents three nations
games on ESPNU and four other games on
considered a "hidden nugget" in Bel Aire, Kansas.
outside the U.S. with a player from Taiwan
ESPN3 this season. The Buffalos have once
(Steven Tsui), China (Joe Zhang) and Sweden
again been selected for a Geico Nationals
(Kenny Pohto).
appearance — the U.S.’s championship in high
How It Started In 1983–1984 Dr. Robert Lindsted started with just eight students who wanted to homeschool.
Sunrise is well known for its academics, but with the understanding that some students
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(National
Interscholastic
Basketball
school basketball — for the third consecutive
learn a little differently and sometimes
The American population on the team is also
struggle in a rigorous program. That's where
extremely diverse representing Detroit (Jaden
the Precept program comes in. Principal Peggy
Akins), Minneapolis (Kendall Brown), Memphis
This team has a large following in the basketball
O’Donnell explains, “The program is designed
(Kennedy Chandler), San Antonio (Zachary
world. “We have a family atmosphere at Sunrise
for students who like a smaller classroom
Clemence), Atlanta (Orion Champion), Kansas
and people care about our team because
(1:6 ratio), need additional help, have IEPs or
City (Jaylon McDaniels), Niagara Falls (Willie
they’ve experienced it,” says Coach Barnwell.
just want to have a year to ‘catch up’ if they
Lightfoot), Ruston (Fred Payne), and our very
have transferred, etc. Whether it's an honors
own from Wichita (Gradey Dick). “Our team is
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ZACH CLEMENCE
Dick will be great additions to the KU basketball
On March 10, 2021, Barnwell was named the
team and are two athletes to watch for
Naismith High School Boys Coach of the Year.
throughout the next few years. For both of these
In response to the award, he says, “God uses
players, their careers are just getting started.
the most unlikely characters and writes an
Coach Luke Barnwell, 2021 Naismith High School Boys Coach of the Year Luke Barnwell is the head basketball coach at Sunrise Christian Academy. He came into the position straight out of college, where he played at Newman University, and after eight years of experience he has no regrets. Barnwell has a passion for the game that translates to his coaching. “I truly enjoy the talent as well as the level of competition our team has to offer,” says Coach Barnwell. He loves coaching this age of kids and does his absolute best to prepare them for what is next.
GRADEY DICK
unbelievable story. Humbled to be in the same breath as the inventor of the greatest game on earth. Praise to my players, past and present, our school, my staff of coaches, and most importantly to the highest, God.” Barnwell says of Gradey Dick: “Gradey is an impressive player, to say the least. He is big, standing at 6-foot-7, and is an incredibly versatile player. He is a great shooter — often called one of the best shooters in the country — and has the ability to play all over the floor. To go with this, Gradey is also extremely easy to coach. “He’s a great kid with a great personality. He is goofy and ornery, and a joy to be around.”
“Sunrise has changed my life just as much as the kids. I love the environment this program has to offer. Our mission is to raise kids spiritually, academically and athletically.”
Future Jayhawks
— COACH BARNWELL
Among the many Division I commits coming out of the program are Zachary Clemence, class of 2021, 6–10, power forward, as well as Gradey Dick, class of 2022, 6–7, shooting guard. Both have decided to join the Jayhawk family, committing to the University of Kansas. Clemence, who is originally from San Antonio, Texas, earned the opportunity to attend and play for his dream school, KU. Dick, a junior at Sunrise, is from right here in Wichita. Though it was a big decision, he committed to the University of Kansas last month and will be oining his current teammate for the 2022–2023 season. For Dick, this was not a difficult decision, he knew in his heart where he wanted to go, which made his decision to stay home in Kansas much, much easier. Being ranked at a national level, Clemence and
Roster #0
Jaden Akins
Class of 2021
6' 3"
165 lbs. Guard
#1
Kennedy Chandler Class of 2021
6' 0"
175 lbs. Point guard
#2
Steven Tsui
Class of 2021
6' 0"
180 lbs. Point guard
#3
Gradey Dick
Class of 2022
6' 7"
200 lbs. Shooting guard
#4
Willie Lightfoot
Class of 2022
5' 11"
175 lbs. Point guard
#5
Jaylon McDaniels Class of 2021
6' 7"
215 lbs. Power forward
#10
Kendall Brown
Class of 2021
6' 8"
210 lbs. Shooting forward
#11
Kenny Pohto
Class of 2021
6' 11"
240 lbs. Center
#13
Fred Payne
Class of 2023
6' 2"
170 lbs. Shooting guard
#15
Orion Champion
Class of 2023
5' 8"
160 lbs. Point guard
#21
Zachary Clemence Class of 2021
6' 10"
215 lbs. Power forward
#20
Joe Zhang
6' 7"
165 lbs. Shooting forward
Class of 2023
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A Glimpse Into Exceptionality Autism is a lifelong neurological condition that
Her experience has taught her that children
Heartspring and calls their guidance a game
typically makes itself known before a child
like this may see the world very differently
changer for her son.
reaches the age of three. This developmental
than other children and to them school is
disability can significantly affect verbal as well
not intuitive, and social learning and skill
Throughout these formative, pre-kindergarten
as non-verbal communication, along with a
development happens uniquely and often at a
years, he worked with physical and occupational
child’s social skills and interaction. ASD (autism
later time than others their age. Brain research
therapists along with a speech pathologist to
spectrum disorder) refers to a broad range of
suggests that a customized path to learning
develop his delayed skills. They continued to
conditions characterized by challenges with
can help children with ASD learn resilience,
support Luc with a transition of services as he
social skills, repetitive behaviors and speech,
become capable of collaboration and better
entered kindergarten. She shares that “they
and affects an estimated 1 in 54 children in the
share their gifts and personalities.
provided an excellent foundation going into his years of elementary school.” With this assistance,
United States today. Michelle’s background in special education
along with pull-out services, Luc was able to
What does this mean for a child with autism?
and elementary education laid a foundation
learn in a mainstream classroom throughout
For that child’s education? Can understanding
for her to instruct and assist others — but also
much of his time at elementary school.
the exceptionality help a person’s family
increased her awareness of early indicators.
members to better encourage and support a
As her fourth son, Luc, grew and developed,
The challenges of autism and ADHD for a
child with ASD?
she readily noticed developmental delays and
young student can be difficult to navigate.
missed milestones that parents look for as a
Despite these obstacles, Luc liked school and
In the Andover School District, Michelle Adler,
child grows. Luc was difficult to soothe and
interacting with others. Middle school brought
lead teacher for Social Emotional Learning,
did not roll over or sit up as early as her other
alternate learning situations that allowed Luc
supports, guides and instructs teachers so they
sons. He began to walk when he was 20 months
to learn in small group settings or have one-to-
have the knowledge and tools to best nurture
old and used a lot of non-verbal cues and sign
one interactions with his teachers. With support,
their unique learners. She also works directly
language until around his fourth birthday when
Luc found joy and experienced successes.
with students, helping them find success
he began to talk. Currently, the same is true for his high school
socially, emotionally and academically.
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At the age of one, Luc and his family sought
classes. Although he has significant learning
This role is a natural fit for Michelle. As a former
assistance at Heartspring in Wichita. Michelle’s
challenges, Andover schools have provided
Wichita State University assistant professor
experience and background taught her that
him with educational support and offered
in the elementary education program, she
“receiving services from an early age is
learning and extracurricular opportunities.
brings years of teaching experience in the
essential for kids who are delayed.” Since
He has acquired many specific life skills while
areas of classroom management, self-care,
the needs of his exceptionality went beyond
working with others at the school. As a high
and test anxiety, plus an acute awareness
what he would need to build a bridge from
school junior, Luc continues to enjoy running
of neurodiverse learners: those with ADHD,
his current capabilities to school-ready skills,
track and cross country with the AHS teams.
dyslexia and autism.
Michelle continued to utilize the support of
Some of these skills have developed in the
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Andover Bakery where kids like Luc learn life skills. Here support and guidance allows students to flourish and grow in a number of ways while developing real life skills. Hannah Dreiling heads this innovative program where kids begin with foundational skills such as dishwashing,
cook
area
preparation,
and
sweeping. Once those are established, focus can shift to other skills such as basic bookkeeping and data entry, following a recipe and cookie baking. Later students can also share in the delivery of baked goods. When asked about his favorite aspect of working at the bakery, Luc’s face lit up. “The cookies! I love making the cookies and eating cookies. They’re so good.” In addition to being part of the AHS family, Luc is known in his own family as a great helper, one with a servant’s heart. He hopes to choose a job after high school that will allow him to spend a lot of time with people, be helpful in his job while finding enjoyment and fulfillment. Michelle and Luc’s other family members value his unique perspective and his outgoing personality. As a brother and a friend, his relationships are meaningful and joyful. While family and friends provide a capable and encouraging support system for Luc, they also love just hanging out and having fun together. Upon reflection of her professional training and leadership roles, as well as her profoundly important role as a mother of five, Michelle had this to offer. “Every step has served as a stone that led me to what I’m doing now with my family, my work and education. It’s a good picture and sometimes challenging. But this is where we're supposed to be, every part, a piece of our family’s puzzle.”
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‘You Fit in Here’
HEARTSPRING CONNECTS TO THE COMMUNITY As a service-focused organization, Heartspring
other fun activities. The community will be able
reaches out to our community to support
to come onto our campus to experience the love
children, along with family members of children,
and support we provide, rally around individuals
who have unique needs. In years past, people
with unique needs and best of all, have fun.”
have attended their events such as the Autism CARE Walk and PedalFest which have not only
Other local nonprofit organizations are being
raised awareness about autism and other
invited to team up with Heartspring to join forces
areas of support they provide but also funds to
for the common goal of being intentionally
continue their important endeavors.
inclusive. Bridges are being built so that optimum support is provided to families. Together they will
This year, on the Heartspring main campus, they
strengthen relationships across the community.
will merge these two community events and host CAREfest, happening August 27–28. It will be open
Heartspring offers a variety of unique services
to the community and appealing to a variety of
to children ages birth through 21. Through the
interests. Heartspring special events coordinator
school and outpatient Autism Services programs,
Megan Schapaugh shares that this year’s event
they serve students and clients impacted by
will be exciting: “Powered by Cox Communications
developmental disabilities. Activities such as
and presented by Emprise Bank, this two-day
kids’ clubs encompass skill advancement in a
event will have something for everyone.”
fun and engaging way. Together with outpatient Pediatric Services, thousands of children are
The CARE Walk and 5K Run will kick off the
served each year. Audiologists and speech
Friday evening festivities followed by musical
pathologists are on staff along with occupational
entertainment and food trucks to round out
and physical therapists. From fitting a child for
the block party feel. Saturday morning will
hearing aids to working with kids to improve
feature the PedalFest bike race plus an art
their speech, trained professionals help those
show, cornhole tournament, a cook-off contest
with minor deficiencies or major exceptionalities.
and many other family-friendly events. As night approaches, vintage cars will cruise out for a
Heartspring has a unique residential branch,
Classic Car Show and the band Annie Up will
like a college campus where students who may
perform live at the street dance.
be having difficulty in their homes or schools can come to live and learn. This helps them with
By combining these opportunities and featuring
behavioral issues, channeling their energies into
entertainment, Heartspring hopes to put on
engaging music and art programs while furthering
a truly special event supporting the kids they
other skills. As a piece of this learning and skill-
serve, while providing many things all kids can
building program, CIE (competitive integrated
enjoy. Stacie Williamson, senior director of
employment) helps prepare these young people
Development and Advancement, hopes to create
for a working world. Here they focus on specific
that feel for all children and their families.
skills, from clerical and food service to landscaping and gardening. These foundational experiences
“We want to invite the community to see what we
are often the key to finding employment when
do at Heartspring. Our hope is to offer something
they are ready to leave school.
truly special for members of our Heartspring
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family, and all families, to enjoy: an art show open
The Heartspring CAREfest this August will help
to participants of all ages to express themselves
ensure these programs can continue and that
through creativity, live music to enjoy outdoors,
children will receive the services and support
classic cars children can see and touch, a kids’
they need as they learn and grow, reaching their
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Leading with Heart STUDENT AMBASSADOR PROGR AMS
The mission of the American Heart Association
The American Heart Association offers two
is “to be a relentless force for a world of
ambassador programs that help young people
longer, healthier lives.” The American Heart
learn about heart health, but also create an
Association has progressively grown as a
opportunity for them to grow and mature as
national forerunner for funding research and
members of the community.
education for cardiovascular diseases. Their goal is to educate everyone about preventive
Formerly known as the Heart Ball Sweethearts,
approaches in our lives. One way to accomplish
Heart Ball Ambassadors include select high
this is to bring young people to the table for
school sophomores who meet once a month and
this important heart-healthy conversation.
learn about health and wellness, while learning leadership, fundraising principles and the all-
Like any non-profit organization, the American
important lifesaving skill of CPR. Applications
Heart Association fundraising campaigns help
will soon be available on their local website,
grow its programs and save lives. One way
Heart.org/Kansas, and there are scholarship
they do this is through the Wichita Heart Ball,
opportunities available to assist students.
a black-tie gala in the community, traditionally held in February.
The dedication of these sophomore ambassadors is recognized at the Heart Ball. Students are
Wichita’s senior director, Heather Smart,
presented with their parents and honored for
shares her experience. “The Heart Ball is a
their hard work, learning and dedication.
heartwarming fundraising event where leaders in our community come together for an
Maintaining a heart-healthy focus and working
enjoyable evening to celebrate the collective
toward wellness and heart disease prevention
success in driving change, improving lifestyle
serve as two primary goals for the young
choices and funding scientific research that
ambassadors, and models the mission of the
will save lives. It’s an opportunity for the
American Heart Association. It is a worthwhile
American Heart Association to educate as well
connection to students and the community.
as celebrate progress.” One main goal of the American Heart Association is to teach prevention, since 80 percent of heart attacks and stroke can be avoided with lifestyle modifications. Currently, one in three people live with an underlying heart-related risk. Understanding and mitigating that risk with useful tools and strategies may be the key to reducing the results of that reality. Teaching young people these facts helps create a vision, a life-time focus related to heart health. They can share what they learn with their peers, parents and grandparents to create a wellness bridge from one generation to the next.
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REAL PLASTIC SURGEONS. REAL RESULTS. AMY SPROLE, MD, BRUCE FERRIS, MD AND NATALIYA BISKUP, MD Have you experienced any of these common feminine issues such as stress urinary incontinence (SUI), vaginal dryness and laxity, post-menopause issues, recurring infections and painful intercourse? If so, you aren’t alone. Millions of women suffer from these feminine issues, but they don’t often seek help. For many, the problems are embarrassing, but it’s important to note they are quite common and often a result of pregnancy, age and medications prescribed during cancer treatment. With FemiLift, women can find a resolution to their feminine concerns. FemiLift is a non-surgical, quick, and safe solution, and our patients find that FemiLift makes a huge difference in their lives. The treatment is simple, easy, minimally invasive and pain-free. Patients experience immediate results and no downtime. We invite you to start the conversation about FemiLift and learn just how easy it is to solve your feminine health issues in a safe, secure and private environment. Ready to explore your options? Schedule your consultation today by calling 316.688.7500.
Tell us about your journey to the FemiLift treatment. Patient: I have allergies, and for years, every time I sneezed, I experienced leakage. It even happened when I had a cold. I have a professional career, and I’d either have to change my clothes or wear a pad. I also had vaginal dryness. When I heard about FemiLift, I decided to give it a try. Tell us about the procedure: Patient: Each treatment was less than 15 minutes start to finish — that includes the internal treatment and the external treatment to tighten things up on the outside. It wasn’t uncomfortable at all. It’s really no different from going to the gynecologist for a check-up. I even went straight back to work! When did you notice your results? Patient: I noticed a difference after my very first treatment. It was like day and night. Each of the two treatments after the first one enhanced my results. Are you happy with your results? Patient: The procedure was fabulous! I have absolutely no leakage whatsoever. I threw away my bulky, uncomfortable pads, and I have no worries about sneezing. My stress urinary incontinence is completely gone. Is there anything you didn’t expect? Patient: Well. Yes. The best and most unexpected part is that I now have a sex life again. After you have children and as you age, you experience vaginal issues and dryness. My husband and I weren’t having intercourse as often, and when we did, we’d have to stop for lubricant. The whole situation was uncomfortable, so we avoided it. Now my vaginal dryness is gone, intercourse doesn’t hurt anymore, and my husband and I are experiencing much improved relations. We are closer than ever before. My husband is so happy, he wants to send the practice flowers! Do you have advice for people considering FemiLift? Patient: Just do it. For women who’ve had children or experienced the effects of aging, you probably know about urinary incontinence and painful intercourse. There’s no reason to be embarrassed — you can bet you know many women with the same issues. FemiLift is a life-changing treatment, and I highly recommend it.
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WRITTEN BY KAREN LONG
Beauty Pros: Make the Move GO INDEPENDENT WITH STUDIO 310 SALON Beauty professionals, do you want to make
While most of the rooms are set up for
more money and make your own schedule?
cosmetologists,
Then make your move to Studio 310 in Andover.
appropriate for an esthetician or other beauty
Your door to opportunity awaits at one of their
professional offering spray tans, eyelash
newly renovated private suites.
services, mani-pedis, etc.
Owner Joanie Helget has created an upscale
On-Site Management Support
salon, complete with six spacious and modern
Helget
has
one
space
suites just waiting for your styling flair, decor
For the commission stylists thinking about
customization and business acumen. And,
becoming their own boss, Helget says, “It may
while the individual spaces are quiet and
seem daunting and intimidating, but really the
private, inspiration from fellow stylists is just a
transition can be seamless. I can give them
step away. In the shared common areas you’ll
the tools to make it simple and easy.” Helget is
find amenities such as a swanky lobby plus a
offering one month free rent and a $310 credit
fully stocked shampoo room, beverage bar and
toward products or suite decor. She will also
laundry area.
pay for the first 100 business cards and offer assistance setting up online scheduling and
“I’m excited to create a team of professionals
accounting software. In the future she has plans
at Studio 310, working together, supporting
to bring in industry speakers to stay updated on
each other and still being our own bosses,”
current trends.
says Helget, who has over 30 years combined
WHERE TO FIND THEM Studio 310 Salon 310 W. Central Ave. Suite G Andover, KS 67002 316.655.6332 | studio310salon.com
experience working in both commission-based
The location, at the corner of Central and
salons and renting her own private salon
Andover Road, offers plenty of parking and is
space. “I feel like I’ve married the best of both
convenient to Andover and east Wichita. Helget
worlds at Studio 310.”
says her clientele comes from all around the
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stylists, cosmetologists, aestheticians and other beauty professionals to Studio 310, fostering the
gorgeous, featuring a styling station and
perfect blend of independence and collaboration.
chair, mirror and plenty of storage space for
“You get that feeling you’re working as a team,
professional products. Each suite is a blank
but you’re still your own boss.”
with paint, wallpaper, furniture and decor to Make the move to Studio 310 today!
one client.” She’s looking forward to welcoming
The individual suites are move-in ready and
slate for any tenant who wants to customize
For a tour of the space, reach out to
area, and when she made the move “I didn’t lose
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A Change to Erase the Signs of Aging WITH DR. BETHANY KING, KANSAS SURGICAL ARTS
As we age, there are natural and gradual
a good candidate. If a person is feeling self-
numb but resolves each post-surgery day.
changes that occur on our faces. Many
conscious or unhappy about how the neck
Although numbness is not a natural feeling,
are a reflection of the joyful experiences
area looks in photographs, this treatment can
it does mask postoperative pain. Dr. Bethany
and laughter-filled moments of our lives.
be important to consider as the skin will likely
King of Kansas Surgical Arts says that “most
These visible signs can be subtle or more
lose additional elasticity as aging continues.
of the discomfort is in the front of the neck
pronounced. Some may choose to remove
where the muscle is tightened, but pain is
the visual, possibly unwanted changes that
If someone elects to have this done, he or
easily controlled with medication. Patience
have occurred over time.
she will need to plan for a two-week period of
and a willingness to allow healing will be well
recovery so that the temporary bruising and
worth the visible results and the increase in
One way to address this is through facial
swelling has a chance to subside. Exercise can
confidence in one’s appearance.”
surgery. Classically known as a facelift, the
resume three weeks after surgery. Regardless
procedure treats the layers of tissue whereby
of an individual’s starting-point anatomy,
Through a consultation appointment, Dr. King
the skin is tightened to improve the jawline
once the procedure is complete, there will
spends time with each patient personally to
and improve the contour of the neck from
be no loose excess skin hanging in the neck
create a plan that would best serve the needs
a profile vantage point. Reduction of fatty
area. The profile perspective will be greatly
of a patient. This assessment will encourage
tissue that resides between the skin and
improved along with the overall appearance.
the appropriate approach and help achieve
muscle or fibrous layer accomplishes this
desired results. It also allows time for
look. Once this adjustment is made internally,
Each
person’s
exterior skin is redraped to mirror the change.
discomfort
tolerance
and
questions, provides a deeper understanding
post-surgical
of the procedure and what to expect during
experiences can differ from one person to
recovery, and can alleviate reluctance moving
Typically, face lifts are sought in a person’s
another. Some patients experience minimal
forward with the patient’s care.
40s, 50s, or 60s, but anyone whose skin is
pain and find recovery time manageable and
loose and has lost significant elasticity that
well worth it to achieve the desired results.
To schedule a consultation call
laser tightening cannot adequately adjust is
Generally, the treated skin is somewhat
Kansas Surgical Arts at 316.573.4850.
varies,
and
for
pain
WHERE TO FIND THEM Kansas Surgical Arts 3460 N. Ridge Rd. #160 Wichita, KS 67205 316.573.4850 www.kansassurgicalarts.com
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Spring Fashion Must-Haves Spring is here which means it is time to dig through your closet for pieces to accompany the warmer weather months. Naturally, accessories are a necessity to complete your spring wardrobe. Here are some of our current favorites looking forward to the spring season. The best part is that these pieces can be found right here in Wichita.
“Color of the season: any and every shade of pink.” — THE LBD, ETC.
Sunglasses Sunglasses are the ultimate fashion accessory. Many wear them on a daily basis, and most always have a pair on them. They are perfect for every season and can be worn year-round. What better way to complete your spring outfit than a stylish pair of shades? One of the most popular styles you will see over and over is the rectangle tortoise frames, a style you can find at The LBD, Etc.
Handbags Bags are an extremely functional accessory while serving as a fashion piece. A good handbag is a staple for any spring outfit. Complete your look with an eye-catching accessory such as the ones pictured. A big trend you will see this season is convertible clutches with a chain strap. You can find these items at The LBD, Etc.
Shoes Investing in your shoe collection is never a bad idea. Whether it is a casual, comfortable pair of sneakers or an adorable, not-so-comfortable pair of heels, we can always find a little extra space in our wardrobe for a new pair of shoes, right? For shoes, the color of the season is anything light and neutral!
Hats Hats are another duel accessory, perfect for any and every occasion. With so many different styles to offer, hats serve as a transformative item for any spring outfit. Pictured is one of the
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most popular styles at Jewel Angels Boutique.
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3236 E. Douglas Ave.
Wichita, KS 67206
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WRITTEN BY AMY PALSER
Crave Beauty Academy’s diverse student body
CRAVE COSMETOLOGY STUDENT ENCOURAGES OTHERS TO ‘SHINE ON’ Nontraditional Student Michelle Hunn
Q: What happened once you became a student?
comprises all ages, stages and walks of life,
do hair for battered women. My ultimate goal
thanks to both day and evening classes, as well
A: I walked through this door and I was
as full- and part-time programs. We talked to
insecure, but there was nothing but support
nontraditional student Michelle Hunn, 46, a
from the staff. It's a great environment, and I
Q: What advice do you have for someone
mother of three children, who is excited to be a
can’t say enough about the staff. Every single
considering a big life change?
part of the Wichita Crave family, learning a new
staff member I have come in contact with has
trade and following a lifelong dream.
been absolutely amazing to me. I had psyched
A: I want to encourage people to live their
myself out so much coming in as a new student
dream. If you’ve been sitting there thinking
Q: How did you decide to attend Crave Beauty
— I really was scared to get out in the real
about it but scared to do it, cast the fear aside
Academy?
world. But it has been nothing but a blessing. I
and jump. Just take that first step. You don’t
fit in pretty well. I’m everybody’s mama.
have to be the victim; you can become the
A: I’ve always been a girly girl. When I was little my momma put my hair in pink rollers and I
is to get through school and pay it forward.
survivor. I could not have done this without Q: How does Crave set you up for success?
walked around in high heels. I had wanted to
God or my faith. He’s the reason I'm still here, and He’s the one who has gotten me this
come to Xenon (Xenon became Crave in 2014)
A: I love the hands-on training. We are definitely
far. I know God put me here at Crave for this
but it didn’t work out. I was always a stay-at-
schooled to succeed. I don’t want to sugarcoat it:
season, for this purpose, for this time. I want to
home mom, but in May 2019, I left my 19-year
Girl, it is hard. In your time you’re here they put a
encourage other women to shine on!
toxic marriage. We ended up staying in a
lot into it. But it’s so rewarding. One of the things
women’s crisis center for a couple of weeks.
they do here is help you be prepared for state
It was on me to figure out how I was going
boards. We do all kinds of testing, and as much
to take care of these kids, who are now 24, 17
as you want to pull your hair out, when the time
and 8. I decided I wanted to attend the beauty
comes I really feel like we’ll be prepared.
academy like I had always wanted to. It was a six-month process to enroll because of some
Q: What are your future plans?
external circumstances, but that whole time
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fit. And with my free time, I'll be volunteering to
the Crave staff worked with me and worked
A: I’ll be done in November. I would love to
with me. In November 2020 I was finally able to
have my own shop with my daughter down the
start as a full-time student.
road. But for right now I’m looking for a good
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3804 W Douglas Ave, Wichita, KS 67203 316.943.5516 www.cravebeautyacademy.com
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WRITTEN BY KIM DUGGER ATTWATER
OutSkirtz: A Friendly Neighborhood Watering Hole Pat Alvarez knows some people think he’s crazy
so sports fans can catch whatever game they
hour specials are offered weekdays from 2
for getting back into the fickle bar business.
like, Alvarez said. There’s a game room with a
to 6 p.m. Karoake takes place on Thursday
With a laugh, he says they might be right.
couple pool tables and video games.
nights and a DJ provides entertainment on
“We’re empty nesters and I’m going to give
Friday. OutSkirtz is presenting a live band one
it one more time,” said Alvarez, who opened
Wendy Alvarez is in charge of the kitchen, and
OutSkirtz Bar and Grill with his wife, Wendy,
Pat is proud of his wife’s cooking. “We have
Saturday a month.
in January. “The only reason we considered it
very good, authentic Mexican food,” he said.
A recent performance by a group called The
is because our daughter graduated from high
“When my dad was alive, he really taught my
Banned brought out an SRO crowd. “It was a
school and is attending college.”
wife how to cook.”
crazy, crazy night,” Alvarez said, adding that
The Alvarezes previously owned The Port,
The Mexican side of the menu offers enchiladas,
“ in the near future” as he’s planning to build a
a longtime east Wichita watering hole. Pat,
a smothered pork burrito, tostados, the
sizable patio out back. There’s limited outdoor
a successful general contractor, oversaw a
Monterey, sopapillas and fried flour tacos that
seating near the entrance now.
complete overall of the space at 10919 E. Harry
are already becoming famous. Burgers come
in which OutSkirtz is located. It formerly held
with Wendy’s special seasoning, a variety of
Located
Mojoe’s Bar & Grill.
topping options and fresh hot French fries.
Greenwich, OutSkirtz’s nearest competition is
“We tried to soften it up and make it more of
“We wanted to call it Wendy’s burger but we
a family-oriented, sports bar environment,”
can’t,” Alvarez joked.
OutSkirtz’s 164-seat capacity should increase
on
Harry
between
Webb
and
the Alvarezes’ old bar, The Port. Pat said the
Alvarez said. Parents are welcome to bring
two are “different environments.” “We’re just a neighborhood watering hole,” he
their kids until 9 p.m., when OutSkirtz becomes
Appetizers include pretzel bites, guacamole
said. “What you’re going to get from us is good
a 21-and-up establishment. The restaurant
and chips and “the best wings in Wichita.”
food and good service.”
features 16 big-screen TVs and “all the channels,”
OutSkirtz’s staff sets a friendly vibe. Happy
WHERE TO FIND THEM OutSkirtz Bar and Grill 10919 E Harry St #101, Wichita, KS 67207 316.239.1545 outskirtzbarandgrill.com OWNERS WENDY & PAT ALVAREZ Watch Kim Dugger Attwater’s interview
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TWISTED OZ MOTORCYCLE MUSEUM
CELEBRATING FIVE GREAT YEARS The Twisted Oz Motorcycle Museum is located
partners, Jerry Ottaway and Paul Belt do their
right along U.S. Highway 400 in Augusta,
part in helping to keep things humming. This
Kansas. The museum contains roughly 150
museum offers bikes from every era and from
vintage motorcycles and offers many historical
all around the world, including English, Danish,
artifacts. What started as personal collections
German and Japanese cycles, as well as many
has evolved into much, much more since the
found right here in the U.S.
WHERE TO FIND THEM Twisted Oz Motorcycle Museum 601 W. 7th Street Augusta, KS 67010 316.977.9257
opening in 2016.
twistedoz.com Ever since opening day the museum has
The museum started out as simply a dream
been constantly evolving. After an extremely
developed by the owner, Kelly Modlin. Kelly
successful
was able to turn his vision into a reality. In
experiencing a heavy overflow of bikes. So
2015, he was able to acquire an old body shop
much that in 2018 an additional building
along U.S. Highway 400, just east of Wichita.
needed to be constructed to assist the
Kelly with the help of a team of volunteers
situation. This building, known now as “Twisted
worked hard to renovate the old shop into a
Too” sits right next to the original museum.
vintage and electric motorcycle museum. Then,
This building serves the purpose of additional
it was time to move in the bikes. The museum
storage, being the home of many impressive
officially opened on April 1, 2016.
displays and motorcycles, as well as a space
two
years,
the
museum
was
that can be rented out for gatherings. Throughout the years, the museum has been
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constantly growing and making additions.
What started out as a dream has grown into
Though, the museum has more to offer than
a large collection of about 150 motorcycles,
just
contains
adding around 40 over the past five years. Kelly
many historic features, contributing to a
Modlin, with the help of Jerry Ottoway and Paul
unique environment. It is an amazing piece of
Belt, created the museum with the purpose
motorcycle history. There are bikes from all over
of growing into a destination attraction for
and from every era. To add to the experience,
people of all ages. This April marks the five-
the friendly staff has tons of knowledge to
year anniversary of the Twisted Oz Motorcycle
offer. Impressively enough, a majority of
Museum. You are invited to stop in, and
the motorcycles run and drive. Kelly and his
experience all that this museum has to offer!
motorcycles.
The
museum
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WRITTEN BY AMY PALSER
This Little Piggy Stayed Home Tulip is considered a mini pig (which is any pig under 500 pounds) and is a mix between a pot belly and a Juliana pig. When Betsy first got Tulip, she had no idea how big the 5-pound piglet would grow. She used to carry him in her arms, dress him in jackets, and bring him along on dog grooming appointments. But it wasn’t long before Tulip had outgrown those activities and established his spot at home by the fire. Betsy said pigs are as smart as a 3-year-old child. They are bright, well behaved and obedient — if you don’t spoil them — and each one has its own personality. Although Betsy had pet Tulip might just be the perfect pet. He doesn’t
pigs before who loved to be outside, Tulip is a
shed. He doesn’t run away. He’s potty trained.
homebody. Once he does his business outside,
He’s affectionate and undemanding. And for
Betsy said, Tulip grunts at the door until some-
the Loftin family of Wichita, he’s 120 pounds
one lets him back in. So the Loftins installed a
of pure pig love.
gate at the bottom of their deck stairs, forcing Tulip to spend some time in the sunshine on
Tyler and Betsy Loftin and their three children —
nice days. Betsy said he usually finds a spot
Barrett, 13, Reagan, 11 and Gunner, 5 — got Tulip
in the mulch near the house and takes a nap.
about four years ago when he was just a wee little pig. He lives with the family in their east
If you’re interested in owning a pet pig, Betsy
Wichita home, along with three dogs. And while
recommends first checking your county and
everyone in the family is fond of Tulip, he’s
HOA rules (Sedgwick County allows one mini
made it clear that his heart belongs to Betsy.
pig per household). And she said to research breeders for a good one, or search the
“They all love Tulip, but he is mainly mine,” said
Facebook group “Preloved Pigs.” Pigs can live
Betsy, who owns K9 Design Mobile Grooming.
to the ripe old age of 20, so make sure you’re
“He kind of does his own thing. He’s not like
ready for the commitment.
a dog who’s coming up to you and wanting attention. He’ll lay by the fireplace all day. He’s
For the Loftins, Tulip has just become a part of
like a couch potato. He’ll sleep and eat and
the family. “When we’re in our backyard pool
he’s happy. They’re very lazy pets.”
he comes and hangs out near us. He’s just fun.”
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ALL ABOUT YOU. MAKE 2021 YOUR BEST YEAR.
The Secret Nighttime Life of the Brain What really happens when we sleep? Under
Only during this nightly dance do special
“Covid-somnia.” But science is opening up
the surface calm of closed eyelids and
channels open up inside the brain to draw out
innovative avenues to your most restful night.
deep breathing a cascade of hormones,
toxic cellular wastes, the beta-amyloid plaques
neurotransmitters and cycling brain waves
and other proteins that have been linked to
We’ve all heard of good sleep hygiene: turn
clears cortisol and waste proteins from our
Alzheimer’s disease.
off screens well before bedtime, create a
brains, a surge of growth hormones repairs
consistent bedtime routine in a dark and
cells, the immune system gets a boost, cellular
If all of this isn’t enough, there’s another
peaceful environment, go to bed at the
waste is siphoned away and memories are
surprising benefit of deep, restful sleep: weight
same time every evening. These are simple
consolidated, just for starters.
control. Getting less than the recommended
prescriptions, but not always easy during a
hours of sleep per night — 7 to 9 hours for adults
bout of “revenge bedtime procrastination,”
“Sleep is the cheapest anti-aging tool: It is
and 9 to 11 hours for school-aged children —
a term that originated in China to describe
free!” says Dr. Eva Henry, neurologist and
can leave us not only tired and sluggish, but
overstressed workers stealing a few minutes
owner of Agewell Brain Center. She explains, “In
prone to overeating as our cortisol-overloaded
— or hours — while scrolling on their phones
adults, human growth hormone helps regulate
brains misinterpret the stress hormone as food
and chatting with similarly afflicted friends
body fat and lean mass (muscle and bone)
deprivation, ramping up hunger hormones.
late into the wee hours. All just to unwind with
composition, cellular repair, sugar and fat “People who get more sleep naturally eat less;
primarily secreted during the first two to four
when they do eat, they consume less fat,” says
What are some engaging and effective
hours of sleep, during the deepest sleep cycle.
Dr. Henry. Our brains sweep up cortisol as we
strategies to help us step away from the
sleep, along with the cravings it can cause.
cell phone and build a healthy pre-bedtime
Our brains rotate through several phases of sleep, each one performing a different function, such as tuning our ability to learn
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some much-needed personal free time.
metabolism and more.” This critical hormone is
Relaxing Rituals
routine? While exercise can enhance a sound night’s sleep, scientists discourage vigorous exertions too close to bedtime. But light yoga
new information or to recall material we’ve
Just when we most need the healing and
can serve as a “calming transition” to a restful
already stored away. REM sleep for example,
restorative benefits of slumber are the
state of mind, reports the “New York Times.”
when dreaming occurs, “soothes out negative
very times that it proves most elusive. Not
emotions, stress and challenges we encounter
surprisingly, an epidemic of restless sleep
The article “Rest Better With Light Exercises”
during the day,” explains Dr. Henry.
during the past year has been dubbed
states, “ … stretching and meditative movement
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like yoga has been found to improve sleep quality.
minutes before bedtime to prevent blue-
These types of exercises elicit the relaxation
spectrum light from blocking the hormone
response, in which the body experiences a flood
melatonin. Melatonin is produced in the
of calming hormones and physiological reactions
evening as a response to impending twilight,
that quiets the nervous system.”
and calms our brains and bodies as we prepare for sleep. Best practice for sleep quality is to
Exercises start off with the familiar such as
power down our phones as well — but what if
the cat/cow pose and child’s pose, and end
those very devices could shine a light on the
with the “box breath” used by Navy Seals.
complex dance happening every night?
Visualize tracing up one side of a box while inhaling deeply to the count of four, then hold
Like the Swedish scientists, we can tune into
for four more counts while mentally tracing
our own personal sleep rhythms through
horizontally to the other side of the box. Trace
technology. Has the era of the Star Trek medical
the opposite side of the box on the exhale,
tricorder finally arrived? The glowing indicators
hold four counts while returning to the original
on a complete gamut of watches, wearable
corner, and repeat.
devices and sleep pads are blinking “yes.”
Weighted blankets have become a popular
Gyroscopes, accelerometers, optical heart rate
therapeutic accessory to help ease anxiety,
sensors and other components record sleep
ADHD and autism spectrum disorder, thanks
statistics during the night, and when you wake
to the comforting swaddling effect. The theory
up in the morning the data is neatly compiled
is that the embracing weight soothes the
into charts and graphs revealing patterns in
nervous system and may even stimulate the
heart rate, breathing, time awake and even
release of natural feel-good chemicals such
detailed sleep cycles. A few, such as the Oura
as serotonin and oxytocin.
Ring, which is Dr. Henry’s favored device, even record resting heart rate variability or HRV.
In a Swedish study published last year in the
Athletes use this metric — the time between
“Journal of Clinical Sleep Medicine,” researchers
individual heartbeats — to assess how well
used activity sensors to monitor the sleep
their body has recovered from the strain of a
patterns of people with major depression,
previous workout.
anxiety, bipolar disorder or ADHD for four weeks. They found that the group assigned
When winding down from a busy day, your
weighted blankets experienced a significant
pre-sleep routine might include a low-tech
improvement in their ratings on the Insomnia
weighted blanket, breathing exercises and
Severity Index. Subjects enjoyed better quality
ancient yoga poses, or a sophisticated sleep
sleep, a reduction in their symptoms and
tracker. Whatever practices work best for
higher levels of activity during the day.
you, it’s well worth investing in the nightly
Better Recharging Through Technology
rejuvenation of body and mind. Join us in May for the next installment in this series, where we’ll explore the topic of
The National Sleep Foundation recommends
circadian rhythms and how they affect jet lag,
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WRITTEN BY JULIE UNDERWOOD BURTON
WITH ALISA BREITENSTEIN Director of Events and Catering Crestview Country Club
Just at the height of busy seasons, country
Q. Working smarter brought an entire new
club communities across America were hit with
meaning to all businesses this past year. What is
coronavirus fallout, including closures and
an example of an event you reinvented? What is a
operational changes due to social distancing
lesson learned?
requirements. A. I am so proud of our Crestview staff’s ingenuity. Q. As director of events and catering, what were
We created the new Micro Wedding and Elope-
your most difficult challenges when the pandemic
ment package which accommodates small
hit our community?
gatherings and continues to be a huge success.
A. Being in the events and catering business for
The lesson is to be patient and remain vigilant. We
over 25 years, I can honestly say I have never
are excited to see the return of bookings for larger
experienced a shutdown like this. Events had
gatherings and weddings with 200-plus attendees
to be postponed, rescheduled, scaled down or
and we are now seeing some “sold-out” dates,
completely canceled. We did everything to support
which is a great sign of things to come! I would
our members, clientele and businesses while
encourage anyone interested in an event to call
maintaining compliance to mandatory guidelines.
soon to secure preferred dates.
It was certainly difficult for businesses who could not meet in person and hundreds of couples
Q. Our community certainly had to alter expect-
whose plans were altered.
ations with respect to events. Are you seeing any post-pandemic trends from an event planning
Q. As couples and businesses begin planning
standpoint?
again, what event spaces and planning services does Crestview Country Club offer?
A. Wichita is an amazing community and I have seen unprecedented dedication from business owners
A. Unlike some businesses in the hospitality
and their staff to remain open and viable for over
industry, country clubs do offer socially distanced
a year. There could not be a more appropriate time
outdoor amenities and activities.
to recognize those who have sacrificed so much. We love helping businesses say “thank you” to
With spring and summer approaching, we
their employees through appreciation luncheons,
are particularly excited to welcome back the
dinners, cocktail parties and golf outings.
many outside events to Crestview. Our outdoor spaces available offer spectacular views of our
As we move forward, some things will never change
two 18-hole golf courses. We offer eight indoor
with my job. There is nothing more rewarding
customizable event spaces that are unique
than to look back on an event we planned and
and can accommodate any number up to 300
produced at Crestview knowing it will be fondly
attendees within a safe, fun environment.
remembered for the rest of an individual’s life. Whether the occasion is an appreciation luncheon,
From room selection and layout to décor and food
a couple celebrating a 60th wedding anniversary
choices, our talented team is more innovative
or a simple birthday gathering, it is an incredible
than ever before. Creating the perfect menu with
feeling knowing my team and I helped to create
our culinary crew is a focus in which I personally
these special, happy memories. That’s why I’ve
take great pride!
been doing this for 25 years!
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WRITTEN BY NATASHA PARK
Gallery 12 Features Photographer Bob Benson Gallery 12 is a must-know Wichita gem that's
Netherlands as well as consulting internationally
been in business for an impressive 43 years.
for 40 years. Benson developed a research and
It was started by 12 women artists motivated
education center with 40 corporate sponsors. He
largely by the lack of a place to display their art.
created a regional consortium of 100 K–12 school
Over the years it's welcomed men as members
districts in computing and co-authored four
as well. Every month Gallery 12 displays featured
books on these subjects.
artists from amongst their 22 members. In July they open their doors to host an exhibition titled
But for the past 20 years, Benson has directed his
“Color It Blue.” This is open to all artists, for more
well-honed creativity and technical ability back
information visit wichitagallery12.com.
into his photography. As a member, he exhibits his work at Gallery 12, and previously as featured
For April, Gallery 12's featured photographer is
artist at Vernon Filley Art Museum in Pratt, Kansas,
Bob Benson, a pioneer in computer information
and Carnegie Art Center in Dodge City, Kansas.
systems who returned to photography after his impressive career.
“The art of photography is what appeals to me most. It's the focus of it. By working on a scene or
Benson's first passion came around the age of 10.
image, it's possible to perceive and portray things not immediately apparent to me or the viewer.”
“My dad was a pastor who built a church. I was tasked by a local photographer to record the
“Simplicity” is the theme of Benson's current
construction of events using an advanced (at the
project. He's created 20 serene and minimalistic
time) Rolleiflex camera. I eventually went to work
images
for that photographer after school, and was hired
photography is perfect for those looking to create
by another photographer to work in their lab.”
a serene feel in their offices and homes. His work
primarily
of
landscapes.
Benson's
captures a calm, meditative essence that we might After high school, Benson entered his impressive
find while reveling in the comfort of the outdoors.
and lengthy career in computing, information
But, what sets his photography apart from just a
systems and management. Although Benson
photograph of a beautiful landscape is his ability
holds his JD degree, he didn't go into practice.
to portray a strong focus on one element of a
In the mid-1960s, Benson put himself through
scene by eliminating distractions. This ability adds
law school by doing computer-based system
a layer of depth to the meditative allure that most
design and implementation. He then worked
nature photographs don't portray.
on advanced financial systems in the early ’70s. Benson created several academic programs
Benson's exhibit, along with Diel Gray ceramics,
in computing such as a BS in Systems, and a
opens on April 2. In addition to their beautiful
Master of Information Management. He extended
work, you can view and purchase other pieces by
this MIM program to Tilburg University in the
Gallery 12 featured and member artists.
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Serving Across Generations WITH A LIFE-LONG COMMITMENT TO WICHITA FAMILIES
The Cozine family has been providing funeral
Cozine Memorial Group has been recognized
integrate the mortuary, cemetery and crem-
services to Wichita families for 70 years.
on a national level for leadership and service
atory operations and to position itself for
excellence. Broadway Mortuary is the only
future opportunities and expansion. Opening
In 1951, Jack Cozine, a Wichita businessman
funeral home in Wichita to have been
in 2021, the new Cozine Life Events Center will
and Boeing executive, partnered with Dick
inducted into the National Funeral Directors
set a new standard for funeral service, and
Morris, a funeral director from Newton, to
Association’s
provide families with unmatched options to
purchase Broadway Mortuary from its founder,
achievement recognizes the top 2 percent of
Earl P. Martin. The combination of Cozine’s
funeral homes in the nation for outstanding
business knowledge and Morris’ funeral-
service to families and the community. In
Past, present and future, Cozine Memorial
service experience provided a new level of
2016, Ashley became the 123rd President of
Group’s extraordinary commitment to serve
assistance and care to Wichita families. As
the National Funeral Directors Association.
Wichita families and their loved ones is
a result of their leadership, the number of
He is the only funeral director from Wichita to
evident. Their compassion for the Wichita
families served increased and together they
serve in this position. He currently serves on
community is proven and the Cozine’s legacy
gained a reputation for excellence.
the Board of Trustees of the Funeral Service
of excellence will undoubtedly continue for
Foundation, the philanthropic voice of the
many years to come. For more information
funeral profession.
visit cozine.com.
In 1963, after the untimely death of Dick
Hall
of
Excellence.
This
honor, celebrate and remember loved ones.
Morris, Jack’s son, Bill Cozine, left Washburn Law School to attend the Dallas Institute of
The Cozine family remains dedicated to their
Mortuary Science and returned to Wichita
commitment to serve Wichita families with
to join his father in business. They worked
the compassion and excellence that comes
together until Jack’s death in 1976. The Cozine
from being family-owned, despite the fact
family’s dedication and commitment to the
that large corporations have bought out
Wichita community was evidenced by Jack and
funeral homes across the country, including
Bill’s involvement and participation in a wide
several in Wichita.
range of business, civic and church activities. Ashley states, “Wichita has been home to Bill was instrumental in taking Wichita
our family for five generations. We have deep
Festivals from a weekend event to a 10-day
roots here and recognize the privilege and
celebration, serving as its first chairman. He
responsibility we have to serve those in our
served as president of Wichita Festivals, Inc.
community. We have known many of these
during the bicentennial year and was a co-
families for several generations. We are
founder of the Wichita Wagonmasters and
truly blessed to be able to help families at a
served as Admiral Windwagon Smith VIII. Bill
difficult time in their lives.”
is a past president of Wichita Sister Cities
ASHLEY AND BILL COZINE
Cozine Memorial Group
and has served for a number of years on the
In 1995, the Cozine’s spirit of compassion
Advisory Board for the Salvation Army. In 1993,
and innovation led them to further expand
after completing graduate school at Oxford
and diversify their family business with
University in England, Bill’s son, Ashley,
the development of Kensington Gardens
316.COZINES
returned home to join the family business as
cemetery. In 2008, Cozine Memorial Group
a third-generation funeral director.
was formally established in order to better
316.269.4637
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live
WRITTEN BY AMY PALSER
Study Looking for Smokers Who Want to Quit Cigarette smoking is a notoriously hard habit
behavior
office;
Poling said. “I do most of the counseling, but I
to kick, with a general success rate of only
participants will be compensated for their
counseling
at
the
AMR
have coordinators and some pre-med students
3 percent. But a clinical trial taking place
time. They don’t have to live in Wichita, but
who are helping with the study.”
in Wichita is looking at whether an ancient
they have to be able to come into the Wichita
remedy could drastically improve that rate and
office for weekly visits.
help smokers ditch the habit for good.
success rate in smoking cessation. “They did Poling said he feels the study is worthwhile, with
run some legitimate studies in the U.K. and
Certified trial investigator Dr. Terry Poling,
hopes of bringing some real help to smokers
New Zealand and those results were really
vice president of Alliance for Multispecialty
who want to quit. “It’s a drug that’s been known
good,” he said. About 8 percent of participants
Research
Research
among the ancients for hundreds of years,”
experience nausea for the first few days taking
Associates), is leading a study evaluating the
Poling said. “They’ve been using it in central and
the drug, but it generally subsides. Some may
effectiveness of a naturally occurring alkaloid
eastern Europe in smaller doses, but only for 25
also experience intense dreams.
that could help smokers quit. The alkaloid
days in those studies. You get good quit rates
blocks nicotinic acetylcholine receptors, or
for 25 days, but you need about 6 months to
Poling said the study had been delayed due
nAChRs, diminishing a smoker’s need to have
know if smokers are quitting for good.”
to testing of the Covid vaccine. “We’ve been
(formerly
Heartland
a cigarette. Poling said about a dozen research
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Poling said the drug looks to have a 29 percent
covered up with the Covid vaccine trials for six
sites nationwide are conducting the same drug
This new extensive U.S. study is 24 weeks, divided
different pharmaceutical companies, and that
study involving about 750 participants.
into two parts. In the first part, participants will
keeps our coordinators nailed to the wall. So
receive the drug in diminishing doses along
that’s kept the recruitment down somewhat for
AMR has about 15 people enrolled in the study
with weekly behavioral counseling sessions
the smoking cessation study,” he said.
so far and would like to have 75 in all. Study
over a 12-week period. In the second 12-week
participants must be smokers aged 20 and up
period, participants will stop using the drug
For more information or to take part in
who are in fairly good health, smoke at least
but continue to take part in weekly counseling
the smoking cessation study, call AMR at
10 cigarettes a day, and have a desire to quit
sessions. “We have half a dozen people at the
316.689.6635.
smoking. The study involves once-a-week
site who have taken training for counseling,”
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FINAL FRIDAY The Candle Club
Angie Spencer with Jill and Brian Nitcher
Featured artist Lynda Carrier-Metz with Mark Metz
Darrel Pavelka, Mark Metz and Jennifer Green-Miracle
David and Emily Hahn
Diane Pavelka and Lynda Carrier-Metz
Lisa Isham and Chris Silva
Luann Damiris and Marita Soucie
Mike and Kate Keller with Sarah and Mike Metz
Pam Bugler and Lynda Carrier-Metz
Brian Cardiff and Lance Minor
The Wagon Master Art Club
Steve, Brandon, Steve and Kate Anderson
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WRITTEN BY JOE STUMPE
WILSON DOCK CONSTRUCTION RIDING WAVE OF KANSAS BUSINESS When it comes to docks, few areas contain
Wilson said galvanized steel is used for the
more than Missouri’s famed Tri-Lakes region.
docks’ frame and bracing, “So every three
If you’re in the market for a dock, you should
years you’re not lying on your belly painting
know that one of the most experienced dock-
the frame.” Clients can choose from 40
building companies in the Tri-Lakes area also
different composite or concrete dock surfaces
works in Kansas.
and nearly as many roof options.
Wilson Dock Construction has seen demand
Wilson Dock offers a 5-year warranty on
for its docks and boat lifts in south-central
fabricated and welded parts, 15 years on floats
Kansas grow over the past several years. The
and 30 years on roofs. Wilson is a dealer for EZ
company works on everything from large
Rider Boat Lifts, one of the best-known names
bodies of water such as El Dorado Lake to
in the business, and also operates a barge
backyard ponds, serving both residential and
service for retrieving docks and other jobs.
commercial customers.
Thanks to the toll nature takes on docks, repair work is a big part of their business. “We have
“Basically, we do anything from the water
all the things to deal with storms,” Wilson said.
up — floats, repairs, lifts, new custom docks,” owner W.C. Wilson said. “We’re pretty versatile
In the Tri-Lakes area, Wilson Dock is regularly
in what we can do.”
employed by Bass Pro Shops and the U.S. Corps of Engineers.
Wilson was more or less born into the business, having grown up around his grandparents’
Wilson said every job, big or small, gets the
resort on Bull Shoals Lake. He went out on
same attention to detail.
his own in 2001, working as a contractor, and bought out L&H Dock Service, a larger
“It doesn’t matter to us. We’ll build anything.
operation which had been around since the
We kind of like a challenge.”
1970s, in 2016. Based near Branson, Missouri, Wilson Dock has constructed docks for famous athletes, entertainers and businesspeople. Its biggest job to date: an 80-foot-long, 37-foot-high private slip on Table Rock Lake for Lady Liberty, the boat that used to ferry sightseers to the Statue of Liberty. Another dock features a helicopter pad. Wilson Dock makes most of what it sells in-house, which allows clients to design their own docks. Wilson ships directly to the buyer and then installs it. Having that kind of control over the entire process is unusual in the industry. The company employs about 30 people in Blue Eye, Missouri, which is located just south of Branson.
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How to Bring Your Indoor Living Outside BY NAHID HOLMES | DESIGN SOURCE INTERIORS
imagine the possibilities
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It’s time to take the outdoor furniture out of storage, wipe it down, fluff the cushions, shake out the tablecloth and fire up the grill! One of the best, easiest and most budget-friendly ways to expand your living space is to take it outside when the weather allows. Start with your ‘room’ zones — entertaining, dining or relaxing. Position your zones in a fashion that makes the most sense to the flow of your back and side yards. Set up your grill or outdoor kitchen close by for ease of bringing your prep items from indoors. If you have a nice big shade tree, position your dining table underneath so you can hang lights from the tree for ambiance. Then establish your entertaining space where the view and sounds are the best — perhaps there is a fountain nearby or you have an outdoor fireplace as a focal point. Continue your indoor colors and style outside. Let your outdoor furniture and accessories be an extension of what you love about the inside of your home. Create a cozy lounge area. Set it up as you would your living room — put down an outdoor rug, set up a sofa with patterned throw pillows, two chairs with a fun coffee table and a couple of fresh garden stools. If your furniture has seen better days it might be time to invest in a nice conversation pit set with an ottoman in a high performance fabric. Bring in some potted plants or permanent botanicals to provide some extra privacy to your space. Don’t sweat the small stuff! Just relax and let the lazy days of summer carry you through as you enjoy the great outdoors, relaxing in your outdoor oasis.
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