MEET THE EVANS FAMILY

PHOTOS BY NICOLE ASHLEY ALLEN STUDIOS

Angel Evans always paid close attention to her children’s development. With her daughter Zoe, her instincts signaled something was different. Early on, Zoe’s doctor reassured Angel that development varies and Zoe had time to catch up. But as time went on, Zoe’s speech remained delayed, and she became fixated on purse straps, straws and spoons. Stimming behaviors grew more pronounced, and by her fourth birthday, Zoe often covered her ears, overwhelmed by everyday sounds. That led Angel to seek a thorough evaluation, which resulted in Zoe’s autism diagnosis.

Zoe’s diagnosis also shed light on the family’s genetic connection to autism. When their oldest son, Zaire, was 13, Angel noticed similarities between him and Zoe. Knowing autism often runs in families, she sought an evaluation for Zaire. It confirmed he, too, was on the spectrum. The diagnosis explained many challenges he had faced and helped the family better support him.

The Evans family — Angel, her husband Richard and their three children — live in Metro Detroit. Zaire, now 15, is navigating adolescence with autism. Zoe, 9, continues to develop her communication skills, and their youngest, Zion, 7, brings energy and personality to their home.

Raising children with autism has brought unique challenges, especially finding appropriate support for Zaire as a teen. Many programs focus on younger children, leaving limited options for teens like Zaire to develop social and executive functioning skills. Angel and Richard are determined to advocate for resources that respect their son’s developmental needs and provide meaningful opportunities. Despite difficulties, the family has celebrated milestones. At Zoe’s diagnosis, doctors doubted she would develop functional communication. With dedication and support, she has made remarkable progress. Using vocal speechand an augmentative and alternative communication (AAC) device, Zoe now expresses herself, reducing frustration and strengthening family bonds. This breakthrough has brought great joy to their home.

Angel’s parenting journey inspired her to help other families. She became a Registered Behavior Technician (RBT) and actively seeks training to expand her skills. While she encourages formal training, she emphasizes that any parent can make a difference by staying engaged and learning.

Outside of therapy, the Evans children enjoy activities that foster growth and interests. Zaire loves swimming and basketball, taking classes to build skills and confidence. The family hopes to introduce Zoe to gymnastics for fun and social engagement.

A key source of support for the Evans family is the nonprofit Autism in the D and its Facebook group. The community has provided Angel with connections to other parents who understand the joys and struggles of raising children on the spectrum. Through the group, their children have formed friendships with peers sharing similar experiences.

Parenting three unique children has taught Angel and Richard the importance of adapting to each child’s needs. They instill values of kindness, resilience and respect but recognize what works for one child may not work for another. Zoe thrives with routines and communication support; Zaire benefits from encouragement in his interests and social skills; Zion flourishes with a playful, flexible approach. They encourage parents to embrace their children’s individuality and tailor their parenting accordingly.

Through highs and lows, the Evans family remains committed to celebrating progress, advocating for better resources and building a future where their children can thrive. Their story is one of resilience, love and belief that every child has limitless potential.