Pastor's Corner

STRENGTH for the Journey

BY PAUL HATHCOAT

Life with a disability—whether as an individual living with one or as a caregiver—is a journey marked by both trials and triumphs. Each day presents new challenges, some expected and others unforeseen. These struggles can feel overwhelming at times, making it easy to lose heart. However, when we take a step back, we recognize that the trials we face are part of a much larger narrative—the eternal battle between good and evil.

From the beginning of time, Scripture has revealed this cosmic struggle. In Genesis 3, we see the serpent deceive Adam and Eve, introducing sin into the world. Ever since, humanity has wrestled with the forces of darkness—pain, suffering, and hardship. Yet, God, in His infinite wisdom and grace, has given us a way to overcome. Let’s take a look at this battle of good and evil in our own lives but, from a pastor’s perspective.

A BATTLE WE UNDERSTAND

Parents and caregivers of individuals with disabilities often face challenges that feel much like a spiritual battleground. The struggle to access resources, advocate for loved ones, and overcome societal barriers can feel like constant opposition. There are moments of exhaustion, moments of doubt, and moments when the weight of responsibility feels insurmountable.

Yet, within this struggle, we see the light of Christ. In John 16:33, Jesus tells us, “In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” This promise is not empty—it is the bedrock upon which we stand. Though darkness may press in, though discouragement may whisper in our ears, we serve a God who has already secured the victory.

SCRIPTURAL PARALLELS OF GOOD VS. EVIL

The Bible is filled with stories of individuals facing insurmountable odds,

• David and Goliath (1 Samuel 17): Young David stood before the giant Goliath, seemingly unprepared and overmatched. But David knew the battle belonged to the Lord. As caregivers, we often face “giants”— medical diagnoses, financial struggles, and emotional exhaustion. Yet, like David, we can face them with confidence, knowing God fights on our behalf.

• Joseph’s Trials (Genesis 37-50): Joseph was betrayed by his brothers, sold into slavery, and wrongfully imprisoned. Yet, through every trial, God was at work, positioning him for a greater purpose. Likewise, when life feels unfair, we must trust that God is weaving a greater story—one in which our pain is not wasted but transformed for His glory.

• Jesus Overcoming Temptation (Matthew 4:1-11): In the wilderness, Jesus faced direct attacks from the enemy. Satan sought to twist His mission, to distract Him from His calling. But Jesus stood firm, rooted in the truth of God’s Word. When we are faced with doubt, frustration, or fear, we must do the same—standing firm in Scripture and relying on God’s strength.

VICTORY THROUGH COMMUNITY AND CHRIST

One of the greatest tools the enemy uses against us is isolation. When we feel alone in our struggles, we are more vulnerable to discouragement. Yet, God never intended for us to walk this path alone. In Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, we are reminded: “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.”

Community is a gift. The body of Christ is designed to uplift and support one another, to remind each other of truth when our hearts grow weary. For parents and caregivers, this means finding support in church, small groups, or local organizations. It means being open about struggles and allowing others to help carry the burden.

Most importantly, we must remain connected to Christ. In James 4:7, we are told: “Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” Evil may try to shake us, but when we are firmly rooted in our relationship with Jesus, we stand on unshakable ground.

HOPE THAT NEVER FAILS

The battle between good and evil is real. But so is our victory in Christ. As parents and caregivers, the trials we face are not evidence of God’s absence, but rather opportunities for His power to be made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9 ).

Though the road may be hard, take heart. Stand firm. Surround yourself with those who uplift you. Lean into the strength of Jesus. For in the end, good will always overcome, and His light will shine in even the darkest of places.

Do you have a thought, idea or information that you would like to see in this section in an upcoming issue? Email Paul Hathcoat at phathcoat@wrcc.org.