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Wedding season is fast approaching and we’ve got your back. Whether you’re planning a casual backyard event or a lavish fairy tale wedding, there are a lot of decisions to make.

Decisions, decisions, decisions.

Destination wedding or church ceremony?

Twelve attendants or just four? Or maybe just you and your soon to be husband.

Large reception with an open bar or small gathering of just family?

With all the information out there you’re probably wondering, “Where do I start?”

Our first suggestion is to begin with you budget. We have a planning sheet on Page 4 to help with that. Once you know how much you can spend, it’s a bit easier to start making those decisions, even if it seems more than a little daunting.

The next step will be to decide what style of wedding you want, because that will lead you to the choice of colors,

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Do some research, read the articles in this guide and start a Pinterest page or scrapbook to keep all those ideas in a central place.

After you’ve finalized your budget and have a good idea of the type of wedding you want, things will fall into place.

And don’t worry; we’re here to help you. We’ve got budgeting tips, planning advice, style ideas and much more.

From choosing the dress of your dreams to picking the menu for the reception, our Bridal Guide has helpful tips and tricks of the trade to get you through the planning.

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So, take a breath and have a glass of champagne to celebrate your engagement.

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Budget worksheet . . . . . . . . . . . 4 Say yes to the dress. . . . . . . . . . 5 Planning tools. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Wedding costs. . . . . . . . . . . . . 11 Style tips for grooms . . . . . . . . 12 Casual wedding ideas. . . . . . . 13 Who to invite?. . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15 Color inspiration. . . . . . . . . . . . 16 Plus one etiquette . . . . . . . . . . 17 Transportation ideas. . . . . . . . 18 Choosing a venue. . . . . . . . . . 19 Honeymoon destinations. . . . 25

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Total Wedding Budget: $______________ CEREMONY Location fee $_______ Officiant fee $_______ Marriage license $_______ Rings $_______ Pillow $_______ TOTAL CEREMONY: $_______ RECEPTION Reception site $_______ Food $_______ Drinks $_______ Rentals $_______ Cake $_______ Favors $_______ TOTAL RECEPTION: $_______ MUSIC Musicians $_______ Band/DJ $_______ Extra musicians $_______ TOTAL MUSIC: $_______

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STATIONERY Invitations $_______ Postage $_______ Thank-you cards $_______ TOTAL STATIONERY: $_______

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Judy Lew and daughter Stefany pose in the bridal dress room at All About the Gown by Judy where all their dresses are displayed for prospective brides to make their choices. Below: One of the most popular dresses at All About the Gown by Judy is this elegant mocha colored dress with a white lace overlay. The gown features an illusion back and a chapel length train. The overlay lace is slightly longer giving the train a textured look.

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by Sandra lanning a it is purchased from a Landen Machaj reliable, knowledgeable wedding is often a frustrating CORRESPONDENT shop. Then the bride can task as couples feel much better about the strive to complete every gown arriving and alterations being detail on their list necessary completed on time. to ensure a perfect day.

All About the Gown by Judy has But of all the many tasks, the most used that name only since August exciting one, at least for the bride and 2017, but the bridal store has a much mother of the bride, is finding the longer history. Germaine’s Bridal was right gown. established over 30 years ago.

For most women, this is the most The well-known, popular shop important dress they will ever buy is located on Main Street in Lake and wear. It is vital to not only find Geneva. When Germaine decided to the one that makes the bride look and retire and spend time with her family, feel beautiful, but to be certain that she offered to sell the business to her BRIDAL GUIDE • SPRING/SUMMER 2018

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manager, Judy Lew, who said yes to the dress, or rather, yes to all the dresses.

Lew managed Germaine’s for over five years before becoming the owner. She is a seamstress known for creating custom drapery, but the bridal business was her love.

A WORKING RELATIONSHIP Her daughter, Stefany, was working in Boston and returned to Lake Geneva to work at the shop. Stefany worked at Germaine’s for two years as a stylist before moving to Boston, where she worked as a client relations agent for a bridal company.

They agreed that their relationship is what makes everything work.

“My mom is my best friend,” Stefany said. “Each of us has different ideas on styles, but they blend together well. We each look for fine quality in the dresses and have a good eye for what will work and what will not.”

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the second floor of a classic Lake Geneva building, offers more than enough space to display all of their gowns and provides plenty of room for the bride and those who accompany her.

The shop carries dresses from four major designers: Morrie Lee by Madeline Gardner, Casablanca, Martin Thornburg and the higher end line of Amare.

“We have enough space to hang all of our dresses in the store,” Judy said. “Many bridal shops keep their dresses in the back room. They bring out what they believe the customer would like. We have all of our dresses on display for the bride to look over.”

Having the dresses in an open area where brides can peruse all of the gowns gives them a better idea of what style they might like.

COLORS ARE NOT TABOO While many still think of a bridal dress as being the whitest white available, times have changed.

“Ivory, blush or mocha are the most popular colors for brides,” Stefany said.

“They often have a top layer of lace or chiffon over the slightly tinted gown.”

Judy said brides often end up choosing a different style than what they had envisioned.

“We recommend that the bride picks out a few dresses of different styles to try,” she said. “That will give her a better feeling for the look she hopes to achieve.”

All About the Gown’s large bridal suite must be reserved by appointment. The room is light and airy, and guests can relax over a complimentary glass of champagne or a mimosa. Meanwhile, a stylist finds out what kind of look the bride hopes to achieve and what her budget allows before starting to look at the displayed gowns.

One of the big questions always is, who to bring to help choose the dress?

“Well, of course, the mother of the bride and grandma and sometimes even the father are part of the group that will be there,” Stefany said. “Other than that, invite one or two positive friends. Too many people results in too many opinions.

It is amazing, but when the bride tries on the right dress, it is obvious that it is her dress even before she says a word.”

SHOP EARLY, GIVE IT TIME Gowns need to be ordered six to eight months before the wedding. Alterations must be done about one month before the wedding.

“If you don’t have that much time to order, dresses may be bought off the rack and altered to fit you,” Judy said. “If there is a dress that you really would like that we don’t carry and you have a picture of it, it also can be made by a seamstress if there is ample time.”

Just as fashion styles change, so do

This large bridal suite is reserved for bridal appointments. It is here the bridal party will relax and the bride will try on the various bridal gowns.

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styles for bridal gowns.

“Strapless gowns are not as popular as they once were,” Stefany said. “Most brides want a sleeve, whether it is a small cap sleeve or long sleeves. Sleeves can always be added to any dress.

“The open back is very popular these days,” Stefany added. “The mermaid and fit- and-flair styles that have been popular the last few years are still popular, but newer styles are becoming more popular.

Trends always change.”

The illusion back is most popular. Some are plain, while others may be trimmed with lace. Today’s gowns come in a variety of fabrics. Lace, with or without beading, is still the most popular. Often the lace is the outer layer of the dress with the lightly colored layer beneath. Many different fabrics are acceptable, including crepe, which has become more popular despite

Dresses appropriate for the mother of the bride or groom are displayed throughout the shop in a variety of sizes and colors.

being clingy.

STYLES TO SUIT All About the Gown carries a variety of veils and headpieces, and these have changed with time, too.

“Blusher veils are no longer used and headpieces have gotten smaller,” Judy said.

“No more large tiaras, but rather simple headbands or combs to hold it in place.

Cathedral veils are very popular with today’s brides. When the veil is removed at the reception, decorative sparkly combs are often placed in the bride’s hair.”

The way bridal attendants dress also has changed. No more of the monochromatic identical dresses; attendants have many choices today.

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While many bridal shops keep all their dresses in the back room and only bring out those that they think the prospective bride would like, at All About the Gown by Judy all the gowns are on display for the bride’s perusal.

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Judy said. “Others may choose to wear various shades of the same color in the same or different style dresses. Most prefer the full length style.”

She recommends ordering the bridesmaid dresses at the same time, especially if they are the same color, to be certain that they receive them from the same dye lot.

For mothers and grandmothers, All About the Gown offers a large selection of styles, sizes and colors.

With Judy’s expertise in custom fitting dresses, she helps find the most attractive style for any size and shape.

Today’s grooms, groomsmen and ushers also have a greater variety of choices to pick from. The traditional black tuxedo has been replaced with colors and sometimes a wedding suit instead of the typical tuxedo.

“Gray or navy wedding suits are very popular,” Judy said. “We carry a variety of accent colors to match the bridal attendants. Surprisingly, these gray and navy suits often are paired with brown shoes.”

All About the Gown by Judy is at 706 W. Main St. in Lake Geneva (second floor). Call the shop at 262-249-0551 or visit www. allaboutthegown.net to set up an appointment. They also are the place to go for that special Quinceanera or prom dress.

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A variety of headpieces to hold a veil in place or wear alone are available and on display.

Each of us has different ideas on styles, but they blend together well. We each look for fine quality in the dresses and have a good eye for what will work and what will not.”

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Veils in a variety of lengths and fullness are available to pair with the wedding gown.

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Wedding tools make planning easier Ensuring an event goes on with minimal hiccups takes patience and thorough planning. This is especially true for weddings, when many elements must merge together for a memorable day. Today’s couples have a bevy of new resources at their disposal to facilitate wedding planning.

The internet makes vetting vendors and reading reviews that much easier, but wedding-related apps also can simplify wedding planning. The following are some top picks as culled by Wedding Shoppe, Inc., The Knot and Lifehacker.

• Wedding Spot – Couples can search for their ideal wedding venue based on location, budget, styles, and capacity. The website enables users to plan their ideal weddings and get cost estimates based on guest list and options. Users also can access discounts and exclusive deals.

• Wedding LookBook – This app enables couples to browse through thousands of dresses, accessories, jewelry, and much more. The app will help customers find products in their area.

• Shutterfly – This photo, invitation and image-sharing tool can be an inexpensive place to create save-the-date stationery, invitations, and photo memory books.

• Appy Couple – This app and website helps couples manage their budgets, timelines, wedding parties, and seating charts, while also allowing them to share photos. There is a free version and basic packages that allow access to more features.

• iWedding Deluxe – In addition to managing timelines, to-do lists and vendors, this app offers inspiration ideas for gowns, manages and tracks gifts, and offers first dance suggestions from iTunes.

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What to expect Newly engaged couples may experience an array of emotions when they sit down to plan their weddings. Some couples cannot wait to jump into planning and want to catalog every aspect of the process, while others may proceed with caution because they don’t know what to expect — particularly in regard to cost.

Many couples find it difficult to create their wedding budgets because they have no previous experience to draw on. The wedding planning advisor CostofWedding. com indicates the average wedding cost in the United States is $26,720, with most people spending between $20,000 and $34,000. Seventh Heaven Event Catering states that, in Canada, the average wedding costs around $30,000. Such costs can vary greatly depending on couples’ preferences, including where they hope to tie the knot.

By breaking down wedding expenses, couples can get a clearer picture of how much they may need to pay for their weddings and where they may need to cut costs.

RECEPTION SITE

According to The Knot, a wedding planning resource, couples can expect their receptions to eat up the largest chunk of their wedding budgets.

Wedding reception venues may cost between $10,000 and $15,000. The average price for catering per person is roughly $70. Bar service may be around $2,000 for a three- to four-hour party. Some reception sites combine the room cost with the food and beverage costs, while others have à la carte fees.

CAKE

Wedding cakes tend to be multitiered intricate designs, so they will cost more than birthday cakes. According to Statistics Brain, wedding dessert will come in around $390.

MUSIC

The Knot says wedding bands cost around $3,500, which is more than twice as much as hiring a deejay ($1,200). Soloists or ceremony musicians may cost around $650.

WEDDING PLANNER

Many couples employ wedding planners to make planning their weddings easier.

Wedding planners cost an average of $1,300, says Thumbtack, a company that

matches professionals with people who require their services.

TRANSPORTATION

Limousines and other transportation prices vary depending on the vehicle(s) couples choose. The Knot notes that budgeting between $400 and $500 for transportation might be wise.

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Brides-to-be should expect their gowns to cost around $1,100 and the veil or headpiece to be roughly $120, according to

the Association of Bridal Consultants.

PHOTOGRAPHY AND VIDEO

Preserving wedding day memories costs around $2,800 for video and photography services, based on data from Statistics Brain.

The smaller details, such as accessories, gifts, officiant fees, stationery, spa services, and favors can quickly add up as well.

Couples should be sure to leave some wiggle room in their budgets for incidental expenses that may pop up.

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LOOK YOUR WEDDING DAY BEST Weddings are a chance for couples tying the knot to be the center of attention. All eyes will be glued to the bride and groom on this special day, which makes it even more important for couples to look their collective best.

Brides might garner most of the attention on a couple’s wedding day, but dashing grooms also will get their share of attention.

As a result, grooms must be just as diligent as their blushing brides with regard to grooming and appearance on their wedding days. To look picture-perfect, grooms may want to include these grooming tips in their wedding day preparation.

Hair

Schedule a haircut with a professional stylist roughly a week before the wedding to get your hair shaped and trimmed. Although trendy hairstyles may show off creativity, keep in mind that photos last forever, and it’s often better to stick with a classic cut. A barber or stylist may suggest styles that best suit your face shape and hair texture. Above all, the haircut should be neat. Resist the urge to wash your hair every day before the wedding. Allow some natural oils to build up and make your hair shine in a healthy way.

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How to host a casual wedding

eddings tend to be formal affairs, but there are no laws prohibiting happy couples from hosting more casual affairs. In fact, many couples confronted with the rising costs of tying the knot are doing just that.

According to The Knot 2016 Real Weddings Study, the average cost of a wedding in 2016 exceeded $35,000, and that price tag does not even include couples’ honeymoons. Some couples may not have the means to finance such lavish affairs, while others may want to save for larger expenses, such as a house, while still being able to celebrate their nuptials with family and friends.

Casual weddings can provide that opportunity. However, while casual weddings are less formal, couples will still need to keep some things in mind to make their ceremonies and receptions both fun and memorable.

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LET GUESTS KNOW THE WEDDING WILL BE CASUAL Perhaps the most important thing couples can do when hosting a casual wedding is inform their guests that the ceremony and reception will not be formal affairs. Be as specific as possible regarding the dress code so guests don’t feel embarrassed if they overdress.

DON’T ABANDON TRADITION ENTIRELY Couples hosting casual weddings may not feel beholden to all the traditions associated with more formal affairs, but that does not mean tradition should be abandoned entirely.

For example, fathers-of-the-bride may still hope to share a spotlight dance with their daughters, while siblings or friends may still hope to serve as bridesmaids or groomsmen.

Just because a wedding is less formal does not mean it has to be completely void of tradition, especially those traditions that can let couples’ closest loved ones know how much they are loved and appreciated.

CREATE YOUR OWN TRADITIONS Embracing some tradition does not mean couples cannot simultaneously create their own wedding traditions. Guests at casual weddings will likely be expecting

something different than they’re used to, so couples should not hesitate to provide that. Couples should strive to keep things tasteful but not shy away from unique ideas that fit into the casual theme.

PLAN TO FEED GUESTS While couples having casual weddings may choose to have their receptions somewhere other than banquet halls, they should still plan to feed their guests. Some guests may be traveling and staying in hotels to attend the wedding, and it’s a nice gesture to show appreciation for their efforts by providing them with a meal. A meal also offers a great chance for guests to mingle with the married couple and fellow guests. Something simple like a backyard barbecue or a catered meal at home fits nicely with a casual setting.

DON’T OVERLOOK LOGISTICS Small details, like transportation, parking and lodging will still need to be arranged. If hosting guests at home after the ceremony, make sure guests will have ample places to park their vehicles.

In addition, make the same efforts regarding lodging for guests that you would if planning a formal wedding, as out-of-town guests will still need a place to sleep.

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•Planning tools

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However, it is only available to iPhone users.

• AllSeated – This tool can help couples figure out seating arrangements by creating 3D floor plans of the event.

• The Knot’s Marketplace – With the click of a button, couples can search for

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wedding vendors in all different categories, read reviews, and directly connect with those businesses.

• HitchSwitch – Brides or grooms who may be changing their names can do so in one convenient place. Three different packages cater to various name-changing

needs.

• Vistaprint – These stationery specialists offer an array of services, from cards to invitations to personalized envelopes. Once a design is chosen, Vistaprint will offer add-on suggestions for (METRO CREATIVE) coordinating items.

the ring exchange will have guests zeroing in on your fingers. Have hands look their best with clean, shaped fingernails and trimmed cuticles.

that will not add unnecessary sheen to your skin or hair to avoid making you look greasy. Matte hair waxes and sprays will tame tresses. Also, ask your fiancé to pick you up a package of blotting tissues if you are prone to oily skin. These absorbent, typically rice-paper sheets will remove oil from your face and keep sheen to a minimum.

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Shaving

Shaving is another thing grooms must consider. If you have a beard, make sure it is clean, combed and trimmed. Men who shave the day of their weddings may find their skin is sensitive and irritated, which can lead to redness. Unless your facial hair grows especially fast, shave the evening before. This is a good time to splurge on a professional shave with a straight razor at a barber shop. A hot shave from a professional will produce a close shave with the least amount of irritation when done correctly.

Hands

Grooms also may want to book a manicure. Keep in mind that salons will do men’s nonpolish manicures and pedicures, and they can be well worth the investment.

Photos of entwined hands or close-ups of

Skin

Get plenty of sleep the night prior to the wedding. Being well rested will help reduce puffy eyes, dark circles and sallow skin. It will also put you in a more positive mood, which can help you enjoy the day even more.

The day of the wedding, shower using water and a mild soap. Avoid any skin irritation by patting your face and body dry, rather than rubbing it with the towel.

Moisturize your skin to avoid dry patches.

Stores sell many moisturizers geared toward men’s needs, often in unscented or more masculine fragrances.

Reducing shine is key for wedding day photos. Rely on face and hair products

Smile

Make sure your teeth have been thoroughly brushed and that you have used a minty mouthwash so you’re primed for that first kiss. Many grooms also opt for whitening treatments prior to the wedding so they have a dazzling smile.

On their wedding days, grooms will likely be photographed more than any other time in their lives. That means putting extra effort into personal grooming to look their best.

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Who to invite?

Get a grip on your guest list

Cooperation is key for couples planning their weddings. Compiling the guest list is one area of wedding planning where couples oftentimes must embrace both cooperation and compromise.

Putting together a wedding guest list can cause some tension. That tension may be confined to couples, but it may even occur between couples and their families. Getting a grip on their guest lists may be one of the more difficult tasks couples encounter when planning their weddings, but there are ways to make creating the guest list go smoothly.

COMPROMISE

Couples who recognize the need to compromise in advance of compiling their guest lists may find it easier to pare down that list if the initial number of guests is too high.

Couples can create lists of people they want to invite, breaking these initial lists down into categories such as “friends,” “family,” “acquaintances,” and “coworkers.” Couples may not want to compromise on inviting friends and family,

but each person should be willing to remove some coworkers and acquaintances from their final lists.

HOLD YOUR OWN

Don’t succumb to parental pressure if mom and dad are not paying the bills.

Couples who are financing their own weddings should not feel beholden to their parents’ wishes when compiling their wedding guest lists. Politely explain to parents you’re working on a budget and that you have a predetermined number of guests you’re capable of inviting.

Couples can appease their parents by encouraging them to compile a list of people they hope to invite, and then telling them these people will be invited if other guests are unable to make it. Couples whose parents are footing some or all of the bill must be more receptive to their parents’ wishes than those paying for their own weddings.

AGREE ON A KIDS’ POLICY A policy regarding kids may help couples as they create their guest lists.

Couples working with tight budgets may decide that the only children who will be invited are their nieces and nephews.

Young cousins likely won’t feel slighted if they don’t make the cut, and their parents may even appreciate a night out without the kids in tow.

FUTURE VS. PAST

Employ the “future vs. past” formula when paring gets tough. When all else has failed, couples faced with difficult decisions regarding their wedding guest lists can ask themselves if prospective guests are people they expect to see again in the future or if they are people from their past. Including the former might be a good idea, while removing the latter may also make sense, especially if it’s been a long time since couples have seen people who fall into the “past” category.

Creating the guest list is one of the more difficult parts of planning a wedding. But couples willing to compromise may find the process goes smoothly.

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Choosing wedding color palettes Color can be a critical component when establishing the ambiance for a wedding.

Color can evoke certain moods and set the tone for the day.

According to the bridal guide A Practical Wedding, wedding colors can give couples a starting-off point for all of the other details of their weddings. This ensures the wedding ultimately has a cohesive look. Colors need not necessarily match, but borrowing on similar hues can make it easier to plan wedding party wardrobes, flowers, table linens, and much more.

Colors can come from anywhere, but many couples try to coordinate their color schemes with the season in which the wedding takes place. In fact, couples who are finding it difficult to decide on a palette can look to seasonal colors for inspiration.

For example, pastels and blooming flowers can set the scene for spring weddings, while jewel tones and rich reds and greens may be fitting for winter ceremonies.

Some couples opt for more loosely defined color palettes, such as neutral and natural colors. Country and garden weddings can borrow ideas from the landscape, with natural linens paired with wildflowers. Using whites, grays and beiges enables couples to add a pop of color without overwhelming the

setting.

Brides magazine suggests that couples avoid choosing too many colors. A maximum of three with one metallic can ensure that things look cohesive without being over-thetop.

The wedding resource The Knot also says having a basic knowledge of the color wheel

can help. Typically, colors that pair well together are those that are opposites on the color wheel. Also, colors that share proximity on the color wheel will have similar tones and play well together. Examples of opposite colors include purples and yellows, reds and greens, and oranges and blues.

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ETIQUETTE FOR WEDDINGS Couples tying the knot typically want to share their excitement with as many friends and family members as possible. Preliminary wedding guest lists can be quite extensive, but many couples ultimately shorten such lists in adherence to their budgets.

One fuzzy area in regard to guest lists is whether or not to include a “plus one” on the invitation for single friends or family members. A “plus one” refers to single guests’ dates. Party planners may extend the courtesy of giving single guests the choice of whether they would like to bring someone along to the event or attend solo.

The rules concerning plus ones are flexible, and ultimately, it may be up to the couple to create their own plus-one rules. The following tips can help couples determine which way to go.

LENGTH OF RELATIONSHIP

One way to set limits on plus ones is to look at invitees on a case-by-case basis.

Think about unmarried guests and the type of relationship status they currently claim. For example, a cousin who has been dating someone for several months can be

encouraged to invite this serious boyfriend/ girlfriend.

Recently divorced or widowed guests may not feel comfortable bringing a date along, but because this person was in a committed relationship so long, it may be well worth the courtesy to allow these types of guests to bring someone along so they can feel more comfortable.

Etiquette experts at The Knot say that, whenever possible, all guests should be addressed by name on the invitation.

Couples can ask single friends whether they plan to bring a date to the wedding and who their dates might be.

NUMBER OF SINGLE FRIENDS Another consideration is how many single people will be invited to the wedding.

If it’s a small number, a blanket plus-one rule can be established. However, if many guests are single, which tends to happen when young couples are getting married, the cost can be prohibitive. Single friends and family can be seated together so that they can converse and have fun.

For the guests...

It’s important for people on the receiving end of a wedding invitation to understand some key plus-one rules as well.

• If the invitation does not say “plus one” or “and guest,” that means you have been invited alone. It is rude to bring a guest unexpectedly.

• Avoid asking to bring someone to the wedding if you were not originally given the option.

• If you were given plus-one status, be sure to respond with your guest’s name. If you can’t confirm who you will be bringing or don’t know if you will have a date for the evening, it is better to come alone.

• Don’t use the plus one as a chance to bring a friend only for the free food and drinks.

Weddings can be complicated to plan, and negotiating plus ones for single guests is part of that planning.

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Getting to the church on time

Wedding transportation trends Couples planning their weddings routinely rely on professional transportation to bring them to and from the ceremony and reception. According to The Knot Real Weddings Study 2016, roughly half of all engaged couples will hire a transportation service such as a limousine or party bus for their weddings.

Wedding transportation options abound, and some are more popular than others. The following are some of the ways couples are getting to the altar on time.

Shuttles and buses Investing in the guest experience means couples are seeking

ways to provide comfort and convenience for their guests and wedding party members. Rather than asking guests to get themselves to and fro, couples may employ buses or shuttles stocked with amenities to transport a greater number of people.

The Real Weddings Study indicates this type of transport has grown considerably more popular in the last six years.

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Factors to consider before choosing a wedding venue

nce couples become engaged and share the good news with their friends and families, the next step is to begin planning their weddings. While couples must make a myriad of decisions during the wedding planning process, perhaps none is more significant than where to tie the knot.

According to The Knot 2016 Real Weddings Study, the average cost of a wedding for couples who married in 2016 was $35,329. That’s a sizable amount, and a big portion of that was spent on the wedding venue. The Real Weddings Study found that couples spent an average of $16,107 on their wedding venues in 2016.

That figure easily dwarfs the next biggest expense ($6,163 for the engagement ring) for couples tying the knot.

Because the wedding venue comes with such a potentially high sticker price, couples should give ample consideration to a host of factors before choosing where to get married.

Size

Until they can agree on a guest list, couples might want to delay even looking for venues. However, some couples might want to first look at some venues so they can determine just how many guests they can afford to invite. Whether they’re hosting small affairs or large parties, couples should choose venues that can comfortably accommodate all of their guests. If possible, look for venues with multiple reception areas, which might allow for some wiggle room if the guest list grows or dwindles during the planning process.

Availability

Some couples might have an ideal time of year they hope to get married. Some even know the exact date they hope to get married. While that can help with the planning, it can also limit couples with regard to their venue options. Some venues may be booked for as much as a year or more in advance during peak wedding season. The Real Weddings Study found that the most popular months to get married in 2016 were October and September. Couples who hope to follow in the footsteps of many 2016 brides and grooms may need to book their wedding venues well in advance. Those who can be more flexible regarding their wedding dates may find it easier to book their dream venues.

Insurance

Ask about the venue’s insurance policies, including the policies the venue has to protect itself. In addition, ask if the venue requires couples to have their own wedding liability insurance for protection in the event of injury, property damage or incidents related to alcohol. Couples may also want to make the investment in cancellation/postponement insurance, and some venues may even require it.

Financials

It’s easy for couples to be focused on

the bottom line when choosing wedding venues, but it’s also important that they get a complete grasp of the financials before choosing a wedding venue. Ask about the amount of the initial deposit and if that deposit is refundable. In addition, ask when the deposit is due and when each subsequent payment is due until the balance is paid in full. This can make budgeting easier and planning less stressful.

Couples should have fun choosing their wedding venues while recognizing that certain factors must be given ample consideration before signing any contracts.

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‘I do,’ take two: Guide to a second marriage

Couples are returning to the altar in increasing numbers, as second and third weddings are becoming ever more popular. Pew Research Center indicates that, as of 2014, 64 percent of divorced or widowed men have remarried, compared with 52 percent of previously married women.

Lavish second weddings were once uncommon, but that trend is also shifting. Couples who are taking another crack at marriage are tying the knot with renewed vigor and with weddings that may rival some first-timers’.

Men and women who are remarrying after divorce or being widowed may not know how to approach planning their upcoming nuptials. The following are some guidelines to making the wedding sequel a success.

WARDROBE

Couples who have been married before often find that they have more leeway with regard to their wedding wardrobes than they did when tying the knot for the first time. Brides may choose something less traditional than a long, white dress. In fact, this can be a time to let loose and select something that is festive or even funky. This also may provide a great opportunity to choose clothing styles from different cultures or ties into one’s heritage. This freedom also allows brides to broaden their horizons with regard to where to buy their wedding wardrobes.

Grooms may opt for something more casual than a tuxedo or coordinate with their brides-to-be so they are on the same creative page. Colored tuxedos and vintage suits are acceptable, even though such attire might have raised a few eyebrows the first time around.

GUEST LIST

The guest list doesn’t have to be a source of anxiety.

Others will understand that there may be a melange of people at a second wedding. Children from previous marriages as well as divorced spouses or former parents-in-law are not out of the question. Even if exes will not be included, make sure they know about the nuptials in advance of others. It’s common courtesy, and it can help head off feelings of ill-will.

Some couples choosing to tie the knot again scale back the size of the wedding this time around, feeling something smaller and more intimate – with only the closest of friends and family – is more suitable.

REGISTRIES AND WEDDING GIFTS

Considering couples who have been married previously likely have many of the housewares and items for daily living that first-timers may not, registering for these gifts is not necessary. What’s more, some of the same guests may have been present at first marriages and gifted then. In lieu of gifts, couples may ask guests to donate to a specific charity or forgo gifts altogether.

VOWS

Couples can use experience to draft vows that have personal meaning to their unique situations and make the wedding ceremony even more special.

People getting married again can impart their own personalities into the ceremony and party to follow.

There are no hard rules governing second weddings, so couples can plan their weddings with good times in mind.

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AFFORDABLE bachelor and bachelorette PARTY IDEAS Weddings can be expensive. Various sources estimate the average cost of weddings is anywhere from $26,000 to $31,000. Couples and their parents may bear the brunt of wedding expenses, but those who have accepted a role in the wedding party also can expect their share of expenses.

Taking into account gifts, wardrobes, makeup, bridal showers, and travel, including getting to and from the bachelor/ bachelorette party, bridal party members are on the hook for a lot of money when their friends or family members tie the knot.

Many men and women like to travel for their bachelor/bachelorette parties, and cost-conscious bridal party members may be concerned about how expensive such parties can be. Pulling out all the stops can be exciting, but there’s no guarantee these

types of parties will be more enjoyable than simpler soirées.

Taking steps to control costs can help cost-conscious couples and their friends.

The following are some affordable ideas that can be fun for all involved.

• Bar or winery crawl – Partygoers typically want to enjoy a night out on the town, and traveling from one establishment to another can be a fun way to do just that. Everyone invited can set themselves apart with a signature item (hat, T-shirt, or colored clothing), and make the rounds.

• Attend a group event – Group events include sporting events, concerts, theater shows, or a night at a comedy club.

Investigate discounted tickets for large groups.

• Belt out the tunes – Open mic nights at restaurants, bars and other establishments

around town may make for a fun way for friends to share a few laughs together.

Participants need not be professional singers to join in on the festivities.

• Camp out – Get in touch with nature by enjoying a camping trip, complete with a campfire and a few brews. Spending time in the wilderness can restore focus and let stress melt away.

• Poker or game night – Groups can gather around the poker table to test their skills in poker and other card games. With some free-flowing beverages and snacks galore, games can get pretty animated.

• Dinner party – Hire a chef to visit your house and prepare a meal for guests.

Serve a signature cocktail and let the conversation flow.

Bachelor and bachelorette parties can be affordable without sacrificing fun.

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Unconventional

WEDDING MENU IDEAS raditionally, one of the more memorable aspects of wedding receptions is the food. Whether it was fun, tasty or something entirely new for guests, food tends to leave a lasting impression.

The experts at Boho Weddings say that, more than ever before, couples are seeking menu ideas that reflect their personalities as a couple as they seek to make a statement at their events. Celebrating with delicious, unique foods can make receptions that much more amazing.

Bite-sized bursts

Tapas and a movement toward small bites has started to take hold at wedding receptions. Such a choice allows guests to try many different flavors without filling up too quickly. From sliders to mini grilled cheese to soup shots to bite-sized pizzas, many of these small bites feature flavors borrowed from familiar comfort foods — just presented on a miniature scale.

Comfort stations and bars

Couples who love comfort food can put it on display with a crostini station, a mashed potato bar, a chicken and waffles station, a gourmet popcorn snack station, or a ramen noodle bar.

Food trucks/carts

Outdoor weddings can be enhanced with the addition of trendy food trucks. These restaurants on wheels can inject burgers, sandwiches, international delights, crêpes, noodles, and so many more flavors into a wedding.

High-end options

Couples may want to give guests a taste of the lavish with olive oil and vinegar tasting stations, whiskey bars, French hors d’oeuvres, Kobe beef sliders, lobster tails, risotto stations, and more.

Childhood favorites

When it comes time for dessert, some couples opt to avoid or downplay wedding cakes in favor of something simpler. A cookieand-milk bar, doughnut holes, soft pretzel stations, pie pops, or dessert shot jars push creativity and sweetness to new levels. Doit-yourself dessert stations, such as s’more-making and ice cream sundae stations, also can be big hits.

Couples are increasingly feeling less beholden to traditional wedding reception menus as they look to infuse their personal tastes into the foods they plan to serve their guests. Many catering managers and chefs welcome the chance to work with couples looking to create unique reception menus.

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How to handle seating wedding guests Receptions may be big or small, lavish or casual. But regardless of their size or style, receptions all share a common element: They will require couples set up seating arrangement for guests.

Even though assigned seating isn’t mandatory, selecting seats for a sitdown dinner makes things simpler and reduces confusion. Some reception venues may even require assigned seating so that catering staff can service tables accordingly.

Seating guests can be tricky, but employing a few strategies can make the process go quickly and smoothly.

Use a seating chart A seating chart, whether it’s venuespecific or one couples make themselves, is essential. If you using a self-made chart, inquire with the venue about the shape of tables, how many guests each table can seat, and the location of tables around the space.

• Start with the wedding party table.

Couples can ease themselves into the task of seating by doing the easy tables first.

The primary one is the wedding party table. This traditionally can be a dais or a sweetheart table flanked by the wedding party. According to Martha Stewart Weddings, the table should be centrally located and the wedding couple should sit in the middle.

A male-female pattern follows on either side of the couple, consisting of the ushers, bridesmaids, best man, and maid of honor. If much of the wedding party is already married, couples may opt to have

the wedding party sit with their spouses instead of at the dais.

Organize family tables Tables for parents, grandparents and immediate family members of the bride and groom also are high priority. Both families can be combined at one table, or they can be separated into two tables.

These tables should be the closest to the bride and groom.

Consider mobility issues Next seat guests who have specific needs at tables. Elderly guests may want to be away from the band, deejay or speakers. Guests in wheelchairs may need an accessible seat near the exit.

Get some help Enlist the help of parents to seat their friends and extended family members.

Parents may know best who gets along and who should be separated.

Seat dancers near the dance floor To encourage dancing, place guests who tend to be lively close to the dance floor so others can see them getting up to dance and join in.

Couples can use apps, lists or selfmade charts to plot their reception seating arrangements. Create place cards or a central chart so guests can find their seats promptly and easily.

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12 wedding tricks add ease to planning and fun Brides and grooms understandably feel a little stress when planning their weddings.

Adding to the pressure is the fact that, according to a WeddingWire.com report, the average couple in their 30s spends $32,000 on their wedding. That is a lot of money riding on one day.

But planning a wedding can be even more fun than it is stressful, especially for those couples who employ a few tricks of the wedding planning trade.

Fake the cake. Save some money 1. by asking the bakery cake artist to decorate a foam-tiered “mock” cake for

pictures and display, and serve guests from an inexpensive sheet cake in the kitchen.

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and renting something more trendy, such as limos built upon sports cars. SUV-based limos are still popular, with Hummers, Escalades and Navigators offering the wow factor.

Vintage cars For that A-list look right out of a classic movie, stepping out

of a vintage vehicle creates red-carpet moments. Dream cars for this type of glamorous arrival and departure include Rolls Royce, Bentley, Aston Martin and others. Many private companies rent classic vehicles. Couples also may contract with those who attend classic car shows.

Water transport Couples celebrating by the ocean, a lake or a river can make

a grand entrance aboard a vessel. Water taxis, pontoon boats and even sleek speedboats may be the transportation of choice.

The Knot says that couples spend around 6.5 months researching their wedding day transportation options and will make their decision and a reservation five months before their weddings.

The more exotic the transportation option, the earlier couples should make their decisions to ensure they can book their first choice.

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addresses. Print out two sets of labels: One for addressing the invitations and the other to address the thank-you cards.

RSVP tricks: Number the back of RSVP cards and correspond 3. the numbers to the guest list. If one or more responses is illegible, refer to the number to figure it out.

Embrace inexpensive decor. Dollar stores and craft stores are 4. great places to find inexpensive decorative items. Empty wine bottles can be painted or glazed to serve as vases. Candle lanterns can be picked up at low cost at many retailers.

Create an email address. To have all of the wedding5. related details in one place, create a separate email address exclusively for wedding correspondence.

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Make a photo clothesline. A clever and inexpensive idea 10. is to pin photos of the couple to a string, cataloguing how they met and their time together leading up to the wedding.

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Weddings can be expensive and stressful; therefore, couples can use all the tips they can to corral their expenses and tame their nerves.

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honeymoon destination TIPS FOR CHOOSING A

Once couples have tied the knot, hit the reception dance floor and thanked their friends and family for joining them, their thoughts might start looking ahead to their honeymoons.

Statistics vary in regard to how much couples spend on their honeymoons, but those heading overseas can expect to pay thousands of dollars on such getaways.

Couples planning their honeymoons want to get the most for their money while also ensuring their first trip together as newlyweds is as memorable as possible.

The destination couples choose can go a long way toward making that happen, and couples can consider various factors as they work together to choose a locale for their honeymoons.

ACTIVITY LEVEL

Some couples might want their honeymoons to be filled with activities, while others might prefer more low-key trips spent relaxing at seaside resorts.

Couples can discuss which types of trips they prefer and be willing to compromise if their desires differ.

TRAVEL

Some couples may prefer to travel throughout their honeymoons, while others may want to stay at the same resort for the duration of their trips.

Couples who want to travel may find a backpacking trip to Europe is a romantic way to indulge their sense of adventure, while those who prefer something more quiet may find a beach resort more to their liking.

BUDGET

Budget is a strong consideration for many couples as they plan their honeymoons. Because honeymoons can be expensive, couples who don’t want to sacrifice on their first trip together as a married couple can begin planning their trips early, even looking for ways to cut costs on their ceremonies and receptions if their honeymoons are a bigger priority.

When planning their honeymoons, couples also can take steps to save money.

For example, delaying a trip until a few months after the wedding can help covers get back on their financial feet and enjoy their dream getaways. Couples visiting resorts also may want to opt for all-inclusive packages, which can provide great value, particularly on food and beverages.

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Never forget the day Various ways to preserve wedding memories

Couples’ wedding days are momentous occasions, and couples want their memories of the day they tied the knot to endure long after the final guest has departed. Weddings can be amazing, but they only last a few hours. Memories can be forever if they are effectively documented. The following are some ways for couples to permanently memorialize their wedding days.

• Dry the bouquet. Wedding bouquets can be freeze-dried and/or chemically preserved so that the colors, textures and the volume of the blooms can appear just as vibrant as they were on couples’ wedding days. After preservation, the bouquet can be displayed.

• Create a custom locket. Brides can wear a piece of their wedding gown day after day with a custom necklace or locket. All they need to do is trim a small piece of the lace or other embellishment from the gown and enclose it in the locket. Jewelry designers also may be able to convert a section of the gown pattern into metal through a casting process.

• Have guests sign the label. Purchase a

special bottle of wine or champagne and ask guests to sign the label or the bottle itself.

Store the bottle until a special occasion, such as a memorable anniversary, and then toast to a happy marriage.

• Make a cake replica. Ask an artist to make a miniature replica of the wedding cake out of pottery. Put the clay cake out for display or ask for it to be made small enough to serve as a Christmas tree ornament.

• Teddy bear transformation: Have tuxedo fabric or wedding gown material turned into a keepsake teddy bear. Bowman Bears produces such bears, which can be passed down to future generations.

• Create bouquet jewelry. Encapsulate favorite wedding flowers into a resin pendant, bracelet or earrings.

• Frame the invitation. Display the wedding invitation in a beautiful frame with custom matting.

• Revisit the site. On their anniversaries, couples can visit their ceremony site or have brunch or dinner at the venue where the reception took place. Take an “after” picture

to display with the “before” shot from the wedding day.

• Make an invitation ornament. Cut the wedding invitation into strips and place it inside of a hollow glass ornament. Seal the top and hang with a ribbon.

• Design a greeting card scrapbook. Turn all of those special handwritten messages and well-wishes into a scrapbook so that memories can be revisited time and again.

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