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Advertising in South County Magazine has truly been a blessing! As a one-woman show, it s a very secure feeling to know that I don t need to find the time to knock on doors” (to add more clients) because my ad placement generates enough for me to continually grow my business " - Stephanie Frisch, Insurance 101


"As local business owners and professionals we are so lucky to have South County Magazine to reach our target customer through advertising and share our business 'stories" and philosophies through the editorial opportunities Working with South County Magazine couldn't be easier I was helped every step of the way - from the photography, writing and design - AND ALL AT NO EXTRA COST Since participating, my business has tripled - a significant return on my advertising investment Advertising with South County Magazine is simple, straight-forward and most importantly it works!"
- Victoria Vannini, Howard Jones Salon, Dana Point
Having built my business on word of mouth in the 40+ years I have been teaching piano, I was a little nervous about the process and cost of advertising in a print publication But I couldn t be more pleased with how easy the South County Magazine staff made it for me - they really took the time to understand the message I wanted to convey, provided guidance on the best design ideas to communicate that message to potential clients and offered so many 'extras' that I didn't expect - and at no additional cost like complimentary ad design and an editorial feature on my business There is no better vehicle for marketing your business to the local community than South County Magazine " - Irene Bressler, Tots & Keys, San Clemente

"Working with South County Magazine has truly been a success With running a family owned business they really help us bring out that aspect of our company Jody is always there to help us with the layout and we are so happy to be working with them!" - Ambiance Home Collection, Mission Viejo
"Thanks to South County Magazine and their tremendous staff our business has reached heights we never thought possible within our first year of being open! We constantly gain new quality clients due to our advertisement and we are all ver y happy!? - Liana Brown, Wig Wag Dog Grooming, San Juan Capistrano


"When I initially participated in South County Magazine hoping to increase awareness of my product I had no idea the impact it would have! I couldn't be happier with the tremendous exposure and great response " - Kathy Dahl Crifasi, Hipzbag, San Clemente
"Our participation with South County Magazine has helped take our business to the next level South County Magazine has become an integral part of our marketing campaign - Nicole Howard and Cara Fraser, Align Pilates Center
"The results of our advertising placement in South County Magazine has been amazing!" - Ruth Weiss, Coastal Consignment, San Juan Capistrano


"My first thought about South County Magazine is that the magazine staff are the nicest most thoughtful, professional business people you could meet Mix these attributes with the niche geographic demographics the magazine targets, makes South County Magazine a must for any advertiser looking to grow and connect with the communities the magazine serves " - Ivar E. Roth DPM/MPH, Concierge Podiatry
My participation has already far exceeded my expectations and has been better than any other magazine advertising I ve done I feel the Community Publications team really cares about helping me grow my business They were extremely fast in creating my ad design, very easy to work with and I ve found them to be people who do what they say they will, which is exactly the type of business relationship I am looking for in a marketing partner " - Jonny Coates, Talega Window Washing


Juris Bunkis, M D , F A C S
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Sontag, D.C. C. Lawrence "Larr y" Thomas
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Business Showcase:
Preferred Kitchen and Ba th 20
Health & Beauty: A Q & A with Juris Bunkis, M.D., F.A.C.S. 22
Paradise Automotive Ser vice 24
Explore Soka University 26








Pila tes Ma t vs. Pila tes Equipment Classes 34
Hallo ween Around South County 36
Something this big has ha ppened since 1966 36
American Cancer Society "Road to Recover y" Program 38
Dea th and Taxes 40

Answering the Evolving Challenges Facing the "Smaller" Business 12
Spotlight on: Junqie's 16
Breast Cancer and Genetic Testing 18



Corpora te Syndrome 42
Spotlight on: Collective Habit 44
Kelly, Help! A Q & A with Kelly
Klaus , LMFT 50
Pets of the Month 54
Dining Director y 56


Dining Out: Choya Japanese Cuisine 60
Turkey Trot: A Runner's Routine 62





One of my all-time favorite things to do is get a mocha and go boutique shopping I’m especially happy if I can find one of those shops that sell vintage, antique, botanicals, clothes, jewelry, soaps, candles and all of those little goodies that put you in that fun buying/decorating mood! I happen to know about the cutest 500 square feet of boutique space in San Juan Capistrano, and that’s Curiosity@Conservatory Boutique.
by Heather Evans
Beth Carney, owner of Curiosity is perhaps the sweetest and funniest gal you’ll meet She’s creative, down-to-earth and a smart businesswoman In fact, she’ll be launching a new line of pure ingredient soaps launching in September. She has a keen eye for buying and is privy to items left over from model photo-shoots, Hollywood estates and those must have times you just, um must have! I, in particular, am in love with her botanical selection Her prices are also fabulous! “There is something for every budget,” Beth says “I love when people enter my store and find just what they’re looking for and maybe something they didn’t even know they needed,” she laughs. “I enjoy this business because I’m a people person and love my customers I love meeting new people but I’m proud that most of my customers have been coming here for years, and we’re on a first-name business!”
Curiosity also has many one-of-a-kind items. “We feature many talented artists and their work,” says Beth “I also have fun, fresh items coming in constantly from the estates of music and film stars ” I couldn’t stop drooling over the new and used cottage furniture, and small touches of cute items everywhere. Among the cuteness were some amazing highend jewelry, art and decorations. It was such a great afternoon of shopping. Even thought it’s a tiny boutique, I was happily lost for over an hour
Connect with Beth by stopping by the boutique at 31761 Camino Capistrano in San Juan Capistrano or call (949) 240-9100.



by C. Lawrence “Larry” Thomas
I began the process of writing this article by, of course, Googling. I wanted to do a piece on the challenges facing the smaller business. I wasn’t thinking of a “new” business and, in my mind, “smaller” could be pretty substantial; say $3 to $5 million in annual revenue


searched “challenges facing small businesses” and was surprised at the number of articles I found. As I read them, I discovered that they were published from 2008 until today The challenges mentioned have evolved from “raising capital to survive” in 2008 to “finding the right employees” in 2013 That evolution is hear tening (our economic outlook is improving) and frightening (when will business be fun again?).
The lesson, it seems, is to learn to adapt to the ever-changing business environment How do we do that? Here are a few ideas
Read and learn all you can about the current economic conditions and where the exper ts think the economy is going Focus on the economic facts and try to separate the emotion of politics from the consideration of the facts Politically we all have our biases that influence our thoughts, but if we are planning, we must be realistic As someone once said “it is what it is ” I would add to that “not necessarily what we want it to be ”
Talk to your peers in town. Get their take on what is happening. That may be through the Chamber of Commerce, the Downtown Business Association, or some other such group It might be an ad hoc group you build yourself It might be through your service club (Rotary, Kiwanis, Lions, or Exchange) Make this a habit, not a one-time thing Most everyone is anxious to share this knowledge Realize that the situation is in a constant state of change and requires constant attention to understand it.
Build a team of experts to help you You need relationships with a taxation expert, a financial planner, an attorney, and a banker Share with them and be open You might circulate financial statements monthly or quarterly with your team Realize that there is a balance between minimizing taxes and being “bankable ” Ask for their advice You might get them together, share your plans and needs, and discuss strategies to get you where you need to be, jointly.
None of us can do it all ourselves, by ourselves. We all need some form of assistance (professional and informal)
Independence Bank just had (on September 22nd) our 9th birthday I can assure you that we have relied on our customers, paid advisors, dedicated professional employees, and many other sources of information to weather the storms of the past few years.
As a result, we are financially strong, growing, providing some of the best banking service available, and looking forward to helping our customers continue their success As we say, “that’s the power of Independence ”
C. Lawrence “Larr y” Thomas is First Vice President and South County Regional Manager of Independence Bank. The South County Regional Office is located at 32291 Camino Capistrano, Suite A in San Juan Capistrano. Larr y can be reached at (949) 373-1578 or visit www.independencebank.net












Can you count on one hand how many times you have started and cancelled a gym membership? It seems as though every January, the gym star ts sounding like the place to be – if not for the fun, then for the results that most of us are ultimately happy to idealize rather than realize. But maybe, just maybe, our lack of consistency is less a symptom of weak willpower and more about environment and convenience Maybe if you loved your fitness center, you’d love getting fit.
Renaissance ClubSport Aliso Viejo is not your everyday gym It’s a
world-class fitness club, full-service spa and boutique hotel combined, one of only two facilities like it in the world It’s a fitness resort, where local individuals and families can enjoy a lifestyle of wellness while finding opportunities to connect with other health-minded people in a comfor table atmosphere.
At Renaissance ClubSport, you can come to sweat and burn using a sea of the newest exercise and weight machines, two pools and a splash park, multiple ball courts (including basketball, racquetball and squash) and a lineup of group fitness classes that is second to none But Renaissance ClubSport has set itself apart from other fitness centers by aiming to truly be a destination for its members, going on the philosophy that if members enjoy being there, they’re going to get the health and fitness results they’re looking for
A constant stream of events, such as poolside barbeques and family movie nights, provide fun and entertainment, and they take the conversation from the grunts in spin class to lasting friendships in the real world.
"At Renaissance ClubSport we strive to be on the cutting edge of the industry," says Director of Hotel Operations Marco Rongen. "We are always looking to stay ahead of the competition no matter what it takes, through our cutting-edge technology and IT depar tment, our state-of-the-ar t fitness equipment and the latest and greatest in the food and beverage industry Our 'Live Healthy concept is pushed out through the entire com pany’s food and beverage outlets. We offer protein shakes in our cafe that have been nutritionally balanced and approved by our in-site, corporate nutritionists We offer salads with the freshest locallysourced ingredients and meals that have been de signed by our Elite Personal trainers We hos nutrition classes for our club members and on sit consulting."




A pillar of the Renaissance ClubSport experience is its family focus, with something exceptional for every member of the family The 7,000 square-foot childcare facility is where kids (six weeks to twelve years old) play, learn and stay active while parents are free to get their daily workout or relax in the spa. This service (three hours per day free with family membership) is an absolutely crucial piece of the puzzle for some parents, allowing them an invigorating escape in their day To keep little bodies busy and healthy, an abundance of kids programs are available, such as swim lessons and all types of spor ts groups. When kids turn twelve and are ready to discover their own fitness path, Renaissance ClubSpor t offers a cer tification program called “Teen Fit” that educates them on the safest, fitness equipment and adult classes


There are countless ways to work out at Renaissance ClubSport, with an abundance of the latest cardio, circuit and weight training exercise equip-
ment available. Defy your personal limits with the help of one of the many cer tified enaissance ClubSport personal trainers.
f course, as any member can attest - at Renssance ClubSport, "there’s more to life than e burn."
We offer our club members an up-scaled soal setting Our unique programming is secd to none You'll enjoy live bands on Friday ghts while the kids are in Kids World You can e the entire family to Taco Tuesday poolside just work out and enjoy a great meal afterrds in our restaurant designed by our Elite sonal Trainers and approved by our on staff ritionist Chuck Rudolf "
at you’ve read here only scratches the surface of what Renaissance ClubSport has to offer its members, who tend to rave about their fitness club as their second home. Renaissance ClubSpor t is more than a fitness facility; it’s a community
Want to see if Renaissance ClubSport is right for you, without making an immediate commitment? It’s easy (and fun!). Join current Renaissance ClubSport members on a Friday night for live entertainment, or make a visit on a Tuesday evening for Taco Tuesday at the on-site Citrus Fresh Grill, or bring the whole family for a Family Fun Thursday (where kids eat free). Simply connect with one of the friendly and knowledgeable Renaissance ClubSport membership sales representatives to set up a visit, preview classes and attend a special event, by calling (949) 502-0121.



by Heather Evans

I’m not going to stand there with my hand up saying, “Hi, my name is Heather, and I’m a vintage clothes addict,” because the truth is, I run the meetings My life outside of writing is vintage, and I’ve been considered an expert on the subject. This job forces me to divulge my favorite hidden shopping spots: sad but true. My evil boss asked me to go vintage shopping for work one day when she introduced me to this store Can you imagine the audacity of my job? All jokes aside, I’m talking about Junqie’s Vinage Boutique in Dana Point

When it comes to wearing vintage, people generally have two thoughts 1 It’s for Halloween only 2 It’s the best-made, most flattering apparel this side of personalized tailored wear
y . It’s awesome enough if you score a vintage dress at a shop, but Junqie’s takes it to another level. “We bring in new items daily, and a lot of it comes from Hollywood and famous estates,” says "Ms. JunQie," Owner Heide Morris, who has occupied three Dana Point storefronts since 2008 and is 'excited' to be back in Junqie's original, flagship location "We pay cash for vintage every day "
Now, this is the moment in time when bargain hunters feel like flipping the page. Hold on. I have to tell you, I first fell in love with this place because Junqie’s prices are amazing. I found a 1960’s blue psychedelic satin shift dress for… $5. No lie. They’ve got everything from the 1920’s to 90’s, and some fun stuff in-between I did find a men’s cat-print vest that made me laugh, however Vintage shopping isn’t always sexy Marilyn Monroe stuff!
The coolest thing about Junqie’s is that they have rental service for special events, and they have vintage Halloween costumes. They even have vintage children’s clothing. When I was visiting, a woman was being sized for a party gown. (Yes, Junqie’s has their own tailor). I guarantee that woman’s gown will make her most striking woman at the party. There’s something about vintage wear that just defines class
They have live music on Sundays, and sale racks out front daily. They have an amazing selection of jewelry and sunglasses (I bought three pairs and don’t judge! I told you I had a problem), not to mention incredible hats
Be warned: shopping for vintage isn’t like regular shopping You have to love a good hunt and a better bargain Once you find the size best for you, I guarantee you’ll feel sexier just by seeing your fitted self in the dressing room mirror Just promise me this much- don’t buy up all the good stuff and don t forget who taught you about vintage







WHAT IS MENOPAUSE?
3,500 women enter menopause ever y day in the United States. Menopause is identified as no menstrual cycle for 12 months, but symptoms can be as long as 15 years before the cessation of menses.
WHAT IS PERIMENOPAUSE?
Perimenopause is a highly individual experience. When and how it begins, and how long it las varies widely. Perimenopause, the five to seven years leading up to menopause, is a natural transition in a woman’s life between the ages of 40 and 55.
WHAT IS MALE ANDROPAUSE?
Once it was known as a man having a “Mid-Life Crisis.’’ If you are a male over 40, you may be experiencing this condition which now has a medical name - andropause. Approximately 25 million men experience this condition which can be defined by its nickname “ADAM,’’ which stands for Androgen Decline in the Aging Male. FEATURED ON OPRAH

❍ Decreased Work Performance
❍ Decrease in Cognitive Function
❍ Loss of Memor y or Concentration
❍ Sad or Grumpy “Grumpy Old Man Syndrome’’
❍ Depression
❍ Irritability, Anger or Bad Temper
❍ Feelings of Being Over Stressed
❍ Anxiety or Ner vousness
❍ Decreased “Enjoyment of Life’’
❍ Decrease in Sex Drive
❍ Erectile Dysfunction
❍ Weight Gain
❍ Decrease in Muscle Mass
❍ Decrease in Strength
❍ Decrease in Endurance
❍ Fatigue
❍ Loss of Height
❍ Deterioration in Sports Ability
❍ Falling Asleep After Dinner
❍ Stiffness & Pain in Joints & Muscles
❍ Hot Flashes
❍ Memor y Lapses
❍ Insomnia
❍ Anxiety
❍ Irritability
❍ Loss of Sexual Interest
❍ Painful Intercourse
❍ Urinar y Leakage
❍ Bloating
❍ Burning Tongue
❍ Snoring
❍ Lower Back Pain
❍ Aching Ankles, Knees, Wrists, Shoulders & Heels
❍ Weight Gain
❍ Night Sweats
❍ Mood Swings
❍ Lower Back Pain
❍ Depression
❍ Migraine Headaches
❍ Vaginal Dr yness
❍ Vaginal Itching
❍ Osteoporosis
❍ Fatigue
❍ PMS
(Pardon My Screaming)
❍ Sore Breasts
❍ Gassy
❍ Hair Loss
❍ Hair Growth on Face



Q:
I’ve heard a lot about breast cancer genes and wonder, should I be tested?
A: What you have most likely heard about are BRCA1 and BRCA2 genes These are human genes that produce tumor suppressor proteins, which are proteins that help repair damaged DNA and consequently help ensure the stability of the cell’s genetic material If either of these genes do not function correctly then they may not sufficiently repair DNA damage that occurs in the cell. As a result, cells may develop changes that ultimately lead to cancer. Specific mutations of the BRCA1 or BRCA2 gene may be inherited and those mutations may greatly increase a woman’s risk of developing breast and or ovarian cancer in addition to other cancers including fallopian tube cancer Men can also inherit harmful BRCA1 or BRCA2 mutations and they too can be at increased risk of breast cancer as well as other cancers such as prostate cancer Both genders with BRCA1 or BRCA2 mutations will be more likely to have cancer of the pancreas
Together, mutations of BRCA1 and BRCA2 genes comprise approximately 20-25% of hereditary and about 5-10% of breast cancers overall. Breast cancers associated with genetic mutations tend to develop at younger ages than breast cancers that occur sporadically. A harmful BRCA1 or BRCA2 genetic mutation may be inherited from either parent Each child of a parent who carries a mutation in one of the genes has a 50% chance of inheriting the mutation
In general, a woman’s lifetime risk of developing breast and or ovarian cancer is greatly increased if she inherits a harmful mutation of either the BRCA1 or BRCA2 gene About 1 in 8 women in the general population will develop breast cancer as some point during their lives. Recent research shows that approximately 55-65% of women who inherit a harmful BRCA1 mutation and around 45% of women who inherit a harmful BRCA2 mutation will develop breast cancer by age 70 years In nearly half of families with multiple cases of breast cancer and in up to 90% of families with both breast and ovarian cancer, their disease is caused by harmful mutations in BRCA1 or BRCA2
Fortunately, harmful BRCA1 and BRCA2 genetic mutations are very uncommon Most experts agree that genetic testing in individuals who do not have cancer should only been done if the individual has a strong family history of certain patterns of cancer. These patterns include having several family members diagnosed with breast and or ovarian cancer, or if there is a single family member with more than one occurrence of breast cancer or with both breast and ovarian cancer, or if there is a male member of the family with breast cancer
If you are concerned that you may have the mutation or are unsure of your family’s medical history I would suggest that you talk to your doctor about a referral for genetic counseling. A genetic counselor will discuss genetic testing with you in great detail and help determine if you are a candidate for screening. Often patients with breast cancer undergo screening for the genetic mutations in BRCA1 or BRCA2 so if any of your family members have breast cancer it may be wise to inquire as to whether or not they have been screened because the results of their screening will also greatly influence whether or not you should be screened


by Jody Robinson

You can get anything you want in life if you'll just help enough other people get what they want." - Zig Ziglar, author and motivational speaker
This is the underlying philosophy upon which David and Julie Allen built their Lake Forest-based business At Preferred Kitchen and Bath, the Allens and their team “ think like homeowners” asking themselves "Knowing what we know, what would we do if we were spending our own hard earned money on this project?" and "If we were the client, what would we want to know and how would we want to be treated?"
“We don' t think like contractors or salespeople even though we are both, says David “It star ts with the attitud of the owners, which becomes the com pany culture and inevitably guides the day to day actions We have attracted to our small firm a wonderful family of designers and craftsmen which in turn help our clients imagine what they want and then make it a reality. Are we perfect? Hardly, but you don' t need to be perfect to be "Best in Show ”
we could do better, which would improve people's remodeling experience and provide us a good living.”


In 2003, David and his wife Julie saw an opportunity to bring their interests and skills together in interior design and renovation. David brought over 40 years of experience in construction to the business, while his wife had worked for years in clothing design and manufacturing
“We believed the Orange County market was ready for a remodeling company that thought and behaved differently,” says David “Many companies had operated here for a long time and had become complacent regarding the way they served homeowners. We believed
far, the couple’s concept seems to have ved them well Their full service inter design and remodeling firm, specialng in kitchen and bathroom remodels, s not only survived, but thrived in day’s challenging economic climate.
s you work with us you will see that we e committed to helping you get what ill make you happy and not just selling ou a bunch of stuff to make a buck,” ays David “We have invested extenively in computers, software and dislays so that you can get as clear a picture as possible what your kitchen or bath will look like before you spend one ed cent ”
David and his team of professionals understand that when you decide to remodel your kitchen or bathroom, you are paying for more than just cabinets, counters, and fixtures. You are paying for designing, planning, scheduling, communicating and installing - a total remodeling experience culminating in a rewarding outcome or finished product
Happy customers like Joe and Sheri DiPrima of Mission Viejo attest to the “Preferred” experience by saying that "I could tell after meeting you, Julie, that Preferred Kitchen & Bath was the way to go You were very helpful in some decisions we weren't sure about but you were never pushy. I have to say the whole process could not have gone more smoothly. Also, we found the workers were polite, knowledgeable and best of all - cleaned up every night before they left We would definitely recommend Preferred Kitchen & Bath to anyone thinking of a kitchen remodel Thanks again for all your help Our kitchen is perfect & I love cooking in it "



Star ting with this, the October 2013 edition of South County Magazine, Drs. Forsberg and Bunkis will be regular contributors to an ongoing "Cosmetic Surgery" column, addressing industry trends, reader questions and more
Question: "Botox does wonders for my frown lines but I’m not particularly fond of the shots. Also, Botox does not work very long on me – my dermatologist told me that I built up a resistance to the Botox, but I have to get another set of shots every 3 months if I am to keep my lines away. Can you do plastic surgery on these lines and make them go away?"
- J.L., Corona del Mar
Answer: We’d like to make a couple of comments. First of all, Botox is a very effective muscle paralyzer and works almost always by weakening the muscles into which it is injected You are not unusual in seeing the results fade away after about three months
We have performed thousands of similar injections and find that the effects of Botox rarely last longer than what you have experienced. Botox injections are very useful for someone wishing to look their best for a special occasion, but many patients dislike repeated injections on a permanent basis Interestingly, 85% or migraine headaches have their trigger point in this area, and these folks will see their migraines disappear for the 3 months that the Botox is working



The same muscles that cause these frown lines between the eyebrows, called the corrugator and procerus muscles, can be surgically removed with a minimally invasive procedure called an endoscopic brow lift This approach is similar to what an or thopedic surgeon does when he looks into a knee or shoulder with an arthroscope, or a gynecologist does when looking at internal organs with a laproscope through an umbilical incision The approach is minimally invasive, yet accomplishes the same result as the older forehead lift which entailed making a long cut across the entire scalp




Pre & Post Brow Lift: 79 year old with severe frown lines on her forehead and between the brows, marked facial wrinkling and relatively minor neck laxity that were improved by an endoscopic brow lift as well as a lower lid blepharoplasty, facelift and full face resurfacing - all done in one four hour operation. The after photo shows her appearance two years later at age 81. Your results may vary.
If you have any specific questions about cosmetic procedures, your best bet would be to see a qualified plastic surgeon to review your options.
In the endoscopic brow lift, a few stab wounds are made behind the hair line, allowing the instruments to be inser ted. The tissues are freed from the bone, the muscles sculpted, and the brows usually raised a few millimeters The brows are fixed in their new position with a bioabsorbable device called an Endotine The incisions are rarely perceptible after healing has taken place. Healing from this minimally invasive procedure is quick and there are no tell tale signs of surgery. Occasionally, a brow lift will be performed as an isolated procedure, but more commonly it will be combined with an eyelid procedure or a standard face lift Have a question for Dr. Bunkis? Email bunkis@ocps.com, call (949) 888-9700 or visit www.orangecountyplasticsurger y.com to view
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by Heather Evans
photography by Allan Lat

I’m going to start by not saying anything, but instead direct you to this rave review:
“I never write reviews, ever, but my experience at Paradise Automotive was so good that I felt the need to let people know about them Easy Comfor table. Friendly. Honest. Genuine. Those are not words you would generally hear when describing a used car lot, but that was my experience with the staff- even the owner of Paradise Automotive Group. Hands-down the best car transaction I have ever made ” - Kyrsha, Oak Park, CA


Back in the day, trust was earned through knowing the business owners and your overall experience with them These days, it’s all about what people are saying before trust can be earned, and the folks at Paradise Automotive Group certainly impress with their reputation. Here’s why.
It used to be that Paradise Automotive sold the best, gave the best deals, and of course- beat out all of the competition with their stellar customer service That was amazing enough Nowadays, they’re becoming known for something else, and that’s their service department
John Paradise (sales-side owner) was meticulous in his search for the best mechanic to own and operate the service side of Paradise Automotive. He found it in Teera Saivichit, former Master Tech of Family Toyota “I worked with Teera when I worked for Family Toyota years ago,” said John “He had quite a name for himself, and was even selected by Toyota for a full sponsorship to Cypress College, a major accomplishment. I had to have him running my service station. I told him he could own it entirely himself and build it anyway he liked. That’s how much I believe in him and his work For three years now, he’s been operating our service department and we never tire of hearing customers tell us that their experiences with him and service are number one ”
Their expansive, 18-bay service area is impressive. Previously located in Mission Viejo, Paradise Automotive Service moved to San Juan
Capistrano roughly three years ago, when the oppor tunity for expansion arose. “We built this service station from scratch,” says Teera “We were inspired by the concept that we wanted this to be a luxury service- a repair shop with class. Getting your car repaired can be an irritating experience, so we created a space in which people can relax and hang out We have big screen televisions, leather couches, refreshments and an inviting vibe. People enjoy it so much they come to visit even when they don’t have a car in need of repairs!” he aughs
When I asked him about his switch from Master Tech to becoming a business owner, Teera grew serious. “It was hard to leave Family Toyota,” he said. “I worked there for 14 years. But when John offered me this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to own my own service shop and work alongside him, I couldn’t let it pass me by There are too many mechanics willing to take your money and leave you with a car that still needs work. When I set up my goals and expectations, the first thing I started with is fair labor. I wanted to hire the best of the best and pay them accordingly But I also wanted to offer clients lower labor rates Many companies charge a lot more than us Some charge less, I’m sure But you are guaranteed our guys are happy to work here and take pride in what they do. I’m also pleased to tell you that we have an in-house transmission specialist He’s extremely talented ”
And speaking of online, their positive Yelp reviews tell you they’re doing something right “That’s the kind of positive business I had in mind,” says John “Perfect synergy Me in sales and Teera in service I couldn’t have found a better guy for the job.”
Stop by Paradise Automotive and meet Teera and John in person. Don’t forget to congratulate Teera on his new engagement to Lindsey Gracio, Paradise office manager “I’m so happy for these two,” says John “Lindsey’s a great girl, and she keeps us in check,” he laughs
“Absolutely stop by,” Teera adds “We’ll show you what superior service and great prices really mean at Paradise Automotive ”



Rose is the consummate professional who is experienced, knowledgeable, passionate, patient and caring. He easily beats the competition by knowing more, caring more, spending more time and doing what it takes to assure complete customer/client satisfaction He short-changes no one because he possesses deep professional pride and cares about ‘getting





Did you know that we have one of the top seven liberal arts colleges on the West Coast right in our own back yard? US News & World Report’s Best Colleges 2014 also ranks Soka University in the top 50 national liberal arts colleges. Key ranking factors are SUA’s 9:1 student/faculty ratio (average class size of 12!), its high graduation rate (92%) and its strong record of graduates’ admission to prestigious gra schools (including Harvard, Yale, UC Berkeley and Oxford ) Soka University also ranked 5th in the nation as a Best Value school among liberal arts colleges – because of the generous financial aid packages made available to students based on need, merit or athletics. Admitted students whose parents make $60,000 or less may receive a full tuition scholarship, with additional scholarships available to higher incomes
If you
terested in a college with lots of personal attention and study abroad for ALL students included in the tuition, take them to Soka University’s Lions Roar Student Campus Days on either Oct. 19 or Nov 9 for a tour, faculty and financial aid workshops and a free lunch at Soka Bistro. You can register online at www soka edu/lionsroar Soka also offers tours M-F at 10 am and 2 pm Reservations may be made at www soka edu/tours And did you know that you can have lunch or dinner at the Soka Bistro? Dinner is just $10.75 for all you can eat!


No kids? Check out the beautiful 1000-seat oka Performing Arts Center with over 45 ttractions coming this year See the full alendar atwww performingar ts soka edu nd pick out your favorite chamber group, rchestra, violinist (Midori is coming!), dance roup, acrobats, opera or jazz!
Need exercise? Soka University’s Millennium Trial is a one-mile loop with stunning vistas over Aliso and Wood Canyons Wilderness Park – and it’s open to the community from 6:30 am until dark. You can bring Fido (on a leash and with your blue bags for pick up) and enjoy a special outing.
Take some time and explore Soka University soon – the library, art gallery and track are also open to you 9-5, M-F Enjoy!




McCool Flowers is moving just a couple of minutes away to its new location at 31721 Niguel Rd, Suite A in Laguna Niguel this Fall The award-winning floral shop has been serving South Orange County for 18 years and is open 7 days a week
For more info, (949) 488-7988 or visit www.mccoolflowers.com
On Saturday, November 2 starting at 4 pm, enjoy food, drink, discounts and drawings for great prizes from the merchants of Mercado Village, including Randall Scott Jewelers, Coastal Consignment, Cafe Mozart and more!
Mercado Village is located at 31952 Camino Capistrano in San Juan Capistrano.
5th Annual "Throwing the Dogs a Bone" Golf Tournament benefiting The Ark of San Juan and Lionel's Legacy
This fun fundraiser includes 18 holes of golf at Talega Golf Club, range balls, a box lunch, drink tickets and a donation to the pet charities The format will be four man scramble, best ball. And prizes will be awarded. The event is scheduled for Thursday, October 10 at Talega Golf Club.
For more info, call Steve at (949) 378-6428.

















































































The pilates method can be broken down into two distinct forms: One, a mat class, and two, an equipment session. Joseph Pilates, the creator of what we call pilates today, created both these curriculums of movement to mindfully return the body back to its youthful form
Mat classes are done on the floor with a mat, using bodyweight and gravity to give resist-
by Nicole Howard and Cara Fraser
ance The mat repertoire is geared towards developing core strength and spinal articulation The flow of a mat class focuses on exercises that take the spine through flexion, extension and the various ways it rotates Through this focus a surprisingly full-body workout is achieved
The equipment in pilates is in reference to the apparatuses invented by Pilates. The three most common apparatuses are the Reformer, Cadillac, and Wunda Chair. The apperatuses use springs and a pulley system to give resistance. In an equipment session specific muscle groups are targeted through this pull of the springs and gravity, creating a well-rounded full-body workout
How to choose which method is right for you? To start with, both will achieve an overall gain of strength, flexibility, and muscle control The beauty and versatility of pilates, whether on an apparatus or on a mat, is that it is for everyone. Both methods can be rehab focused or a sweat-dripping, butt-kicking workout. Mat classes tend to be more accessible, being offered in pilates and yoga studios, as well as gym settings They tend to be in the $15 dollar per session range The equipment session typically takes place in a proper pilates studio with instructors that specialize and are certified in using and teaching on the apparatuses It is common to have a private session or do group classes on the apparatus ranging between $30 and $90
If you choose mat or equipment, consider starting at the fundamental level with a highly qualified instructor. By starting at a fundamental level will help achieve a grounded foundation and knowledge on body alignment, allowing you to excel in both methods If budget allows, consider doing both methods Mat and equipment sessions compliment each other well, and with dedication will return you to that youthful form






Fall Harvest Festival
October 19, 2013 10:00 AM - NOON
Festival will have Family Games, Pony Rides, Ar ts & Crafts, Balloon Twisters and DJ Entertainment. Wear your costume to walk through the costume parade! Parade begins at 10:30 am.
Canned Food Drive
Bring THREE canned food items and be entered in an oppor tunity drawing to win a prize. Canned food will be collected and distributed to those in need here in Orange County
LOCATION:
Grand Park - at Aliso Viejo Town Center, near Aliso Creek Road & Pacific Park Drive
INFO: 949-243-7750
Halloween Fair and Haunted House
Dates TBD - call for info
Soka University will have booths for children, haunted house for young teens (recommended for age 10 and over), games, activities and performances for all to enjoy!
The Haunted House will be held on the first floor crypt of the SUA Recreation Center and the entrancing fee will be $5 at the doomsday door. All proceeds benefit SUA student clubs.
LOCATION:
Soka University, Recreation Center 1 University Drive
INFO: 949 480 4000

October 26, 2013
6:30-8:30 pm
Don’t miss out on Doheny’s most festive event of the year! Bring your family and friends to celebrate Halloween in a fun and safe environment with good ole fashioned spookiness, ar ts and crafts, a fun zone, and an array of educational booths
There is no charge for admission; however, a
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by Stephanie Frisch
Something very important happened in 1966 that was so big, it changed how our society took care of its seniors and how people looked at their futures and growing old It was the introduction of Medicare. It’s taken 47 years to come up with something as big as that transition to our nation’s healthcare, but now it’s here. The Patient Protection and Affordable Care Act, “lovingly” referred to by some as “Obamacare.”
Health insurance will now be guaranteed issue and underwriting will be a thing of the past People with health issues will no longer pay more for their coverage, and smokers won’t pay more than non-smokers Subsidies to offset the premiums and help with co-pays will be available to those in lower to low-medium income brackets and will happen “real-time” so you don’t have to wait for a reimbursement at the end of the tax year The subsidy will be based on your income for the upcoming tax year and adjustments will be made to your tax bill if you make more that you thought you would and will work in your favor if your income declines
It’s impor tant for people, especially those currently without coverage or paying obscene amounts of money for their current plan due to health conditions to be aware of the initial enrollment period deadline; December 15th, 2013 to start January 1st. That’s when the new Insurance Marketplace plans go live across our country. If you miss that date, you still have the month of January, February and March (up to March 15th) to obtain coverage under the Initial Election Period that ends March 31st, 2014.
It’s been very rewarding for me to make phone calls to clients and run preliminary numbers that show them saving hundreds of dollars a month for some People in their 20’s and 30’s that graduated from college right when the market crashed and still haven’t hit their earning potential that have been risking living uninsured, will now have great coverage that is extremely affordable due to the federal subsidies they’ll receive Mature adults rounding the corner to 65, that have been living uninsured for awhile due to how high their premiums got when they turned 60 and have been forced to “look forward to 65” because at least then then they’ll have good coverage at an affordable price will now not be put in that “surreal” predicament
Enrollments will be quick and painless in the “new insurance world” but you should still utilize my free services for selecting and enrolling in your new plan. The newly structured “metal level” plans still can be confusing for most and you want to make sure to select a plan that your doctor(s) participates in and ensure that any medications that you take are in the formulary of your new plan as well.
Stephanie Frisch is the owner of Insurance 101 and is an independent insurance broker dedicated to helping others make “educated decisions” about their insurance choices when it comes to Medicare, Long-Term Care Planning, The Health Insurance Marketplace-Covered California and Life Insurance. For answers to your questions, or an in-home, no-fee consultation, call (949) 351-2443





Because getting to treatment should be the easy part. You can give back by volunteering to drive cancer patients to treatment Every day, hundreds of cancer patients need a ride to and from treatment, and some don’t have a way to get there.
Volunteer drivers of the Road to Recovery program give cancer patients encouragement and suppor t while donating their time and the use of their vehicles
The American Cancer Society coordinates the free program from recruitment to screening to training volunteer drivers
The Road to Recovery program saved my job,” Christine Payette, cancer urvivor and Relay For Life par ticipant of La Palma said “When my mother was diagnosed with cancer, I had just started my job,” she added
Because Chris was new at her job and unable to take days off, she turned o the American Cancer Society’s Road to Recovery® program to help drive her mother to cancer treatment.
To become a volunteer driver, you must have a valid California driver’s license You must also have a safe, reliable vehicle, proof of automobile insurance, good driving history and be in good health
Funds raised for the American Cancer Society save lives and create more birth-

days in your community by helping people stay well, by helping people get well, by finding cures and by fighting back



You don’t have to watch The Walking Dead to see a zombie, just head to Zia Jewelry Famed jeweler Alyska Gutzwiller is usually found busy at her workbench sizing a ring or creating a beautiful one of a kind design


But on her days off, Alyska transforms into one of the walking dead Yep As a zombie, Alyska has been spotted walking the streets of Hollywood or San Diego with other zombie enthusiasts in her custom made attire and costume makeup. She has also appeared in TV commercials and as an extra in zombie movies
So the next time you are at Zia, don’t shriek in horror if you see a bloody severed arm on the jeweler ’s workbench. It’s just the work of Alyska – the Zombie Jeweler of San Juan Capistrano.



Zia Jewelr y is located in historic San Juan Capistrano at 31761 Camino Capistrano in SJC. For more info, call (949) 493-1322 or visitwww.ziajewelr yonline.com


by Donald A. Hunsburger, Esq.
Will Rogers once said that the only difference between death and taxes is that death doesn't get worse every time Congress meets At the risk of contradicting an American icon, in some cases, Congress has allowed Death Taxes to get better, rather than worse
Ever since President Ronald Reagan signed the landmark Kemp-Roth Tax Cut (popularly known as the Economic Recovery Tax Act of 1981) into law, families have employed a common practice in their estate plans: The A-B Trust. This trust design allowed moms and dads to save their kids a bushel full of estate taxes by dividing the family treasure at the first death into one share for each parent, basically making sure that many estates that would otherwise have been taxed could go to the next generation without any payment to the government
When planners first began using the split involved with A-B Trusts, the “exemption” or “estate tax free” size of an estate was only $225,000. This meant that by using the A-B split, a couple could pass $450,000 to their children without additional tax planning- a fact that clearly pushed most people to the point of establishing a trust with this “divided house” approach; many people had estates larger than that amount and needed not only to maximize the benefits of their exemptions, they needed to employ other planning techniques as well to avoid taxes at death
By 1987, the tax exempt amount of an estate had risen to $600,000, which combined for a couple at $1.2 million, so that most Californians who owned any real estate still needed to “double down” on their trust plans to keep estate taxes at bay Over the years the value of our estates which could pass to our beneficiaries without taxes continued to rise, until the year 2011, when the tax free estate level rose to $5 million, or $10 million for a couple
For a couple with combined assets less than $5.25 million (the 2013 “Tax-Free” amount), there is a real need to consult their planning counsel. Simply put, while the benefits of having a “split” done on the estate of a family which has assets above $5 25 million at the first death are still significant, couples with assets unlikely to reach or surpass that amount should reconsider having the automatic or mandatory split built into their trusts Why? Simple– the process of dividing the estate at the first death is indispensable if there is a tax benefit (Since Estate Tax rates have floated between
35% and 65% since 1982) to be gained from the split, yet a family whose assets do not reach that amount may have no tax benefit from dividing an estate at the first death
If the couple’s estate amount is within the tax free levels (less than $5 25 million in 2013), they should think seriously about whether they desire to split their estate at the first death. Unless there is a nontax reason for the split, such as earmarking the first-dying spouse’s estate among the children of multiple marriages, the initial fees for the split should make most couples reconsider what they want their trusts to require at the first death.
These costs and extra work at the first death include asset appraisals, accounting, legal work, the ongoing costs for separate income tax returns for the deceased spouse’s “B” trust, along with ongoing accounting issues and unnecessary restrictions on the survivor’s access to funds in the “B” trust All these issues combine to make many people hope to avoid the division if there is not a tax motive for it at the time of the first death.
In spite of all these concerns, most planners still advise caution in dealing with the changes in a couple’s estate plan. Some planners recommend leaving an option to elect at the first death not to divide the estate at the first death This approach makes sense if the trust also includes language allowing the surviving spouse to take advantage of the deceased spouse’s exemption amount later on. This optional process is called “Portability,” and it makes it possible at the first death for the survivor to elect not to do a division of the trust at that time, but instead for the survivor to file an estate tax return at the first death and claim the deceased spouse’s exemption amount (his or her $5 25 million tax free amount) for later use in the surviving spouse’s tax planning.
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1. What’s the difference between what a doc tor of podiatr y does and what a pedicurist does?


Ivar Roth, DPM: There is a large gap in care between what a pedicurist does and a doctor of podiatry does In the state of California a pedicurist cannot use a scalpel or any instrument that can result in the cutting or penetrating of the skin or work on any foot or toes that have an infection. At least 50% of the population has a fungus nail infection or fungus infection of the feet. War ts, (which look like corns) are also a virus infection of the skin While a podiatrist can work on these conditions, the average person who seeks these services doesn’t want to make a doctor visit to have these problems taken care of. This is partly due to the fact that many of these services aren’t covered under insurance and this would be a very expensive way to handle corns, callouses or fungus nails Add to this the HMO environment and a doctor just does not have the time to effectively treat these problems because they are time consuming and thus a less than effective job is performed
2. If someone wants a pedicure, but has these common infections or viruses, what’s left for them to do?
Dr. Roth: Enter what I call the podiacuristTM This means becoming a Californian licensed pedicurist who has trained under me to develop their professional podiatry skills I teach them to use a scalpel and other instruments to deal with infected or hardened nails and thick callouses Think dental hygienist for the feet The podiacuristTM is an employee of my podiatry office and can provide these services under my license. To ensure the highest quality of work possible, all work is checked by a podiatrist at the conclusion of the service
3. Is there anything like this in existence?
Dr. Roth: Not until now This is a new concept that I’ve developed after dreaming and planning for over 20 years. This is a self-realization that premium foot services are not offered anywhere, let alone in a safe, clean and supervised environment performed by specially trained personnel (pictured are Brian and Gina who have a combined 30 years experience)
PodiacuristTM services are half the cost of what you’d pay by going to a doctor It's the best of both worlds - a podiatrist will treat any conditions and the podiacuristTM will pamper your feet in a way that you can feel safe about, all in a luxury 5-star spa setting. We are currently offering these services - call to schedule an appointment with Brian or Gina
C O N C I E R G E P O

In the advent of computerized work, instant information, social media and texting, we’ve become exposed to physical stresses that can adversely affect our health Unbeknown to us, involuntary biomechanical changes occur in our bodies when engrossed in our technology devices upon extended sitting and even while standing.
A consistent group of signs and symptoms have been identified in relation to these stresses It is called Corporate Syndrome (CS) In simple terms, Corporate Syndrome is a pattern of muscular imbalances caused by repetitive or prolonged use of computers, tablets or cellular phones Furthermore, CS can present itself in the upper body and lower body
by Dr. Boris Del Cid, B.Sc., D.C.
The specific classifications are: Upper Crossed Syndrome (UCS) and
Signs include for UCS, rounded shoulders, forward carrying of the head, neck and trapezius muscle tension and stiffness. Symptoms may include, neck pain, headaches, wrist pain, tingling sensations to the hands and fingers, rotator cuff problems and accelerated arthritic changes of the cervical spine
For LCS, signs can be comprised of tightness of hamstrings, hip flexors, and Ilio-tibial band, in addition to, weakness of the abdominals, gluteus maximus/medius, oblique’s, and vastus medialis /lateralis Accompanied by symptoms such as, low back pain/stiffness, sciatic neuritis (sciatica), disc problems, and accelerated arthritic changes of the lumbar spine
An imbalance of Tight vs. Weak opposing ("crossed") muscle groups can cause postural problems that may result in neuro-musculo-skeletal conditions The sooner these conditions are identified the better, regardless of how young or old you are Remember the lack of “pain” does not mean that everything is “O K ” In fact some of the most insidious diseases and conditions, never give you a “pain” warning.
Mention South County Magazine for a complimentar y assessment of Corporate Syndrome/UCS/LCS. Connect with Dr. Del Cid and Dr. Sontag by stopping by their offices at 33159 Camino Capistrano in San Juan Capistrano or call (949) 488-0016.



Brainwave Optimization was a Godsend The process was so soothing, it was as if my brain was getting a massage and clearing all the stress and anxiety that was holding me back from moving forward with my life
The experience has changed my life in a way that is difficult to put into words I sleep through the night, no longer with thoughts and worries keeping me awake, I don’t have the anxiety attacks that were literally taking me over I look at life so differently with so much more peace, and passion for life Thank you Mary for the added touch of healing through the process of the special gifts you have to help others see who they truly can be - H W , Laguna Niguel (actual client testimonial)






There’s a lot of people who are addicted to what goes on at 28985 Golden Lantern, Suite B-106 in Laguna Niguel Its so bad people don’t even want to talk about it Some say it’s a collective habit I guess that’s why they had to name the place that
by Heather Evans
designer blouses, skirts, jeans and accessories, all affordable Dry your eyes and keep reading
A consignment/exchange boutique, Collective Habit carries new and gently worn clothing and accessories for women. They even help the fashion-challenged, as owner Ashley sets up displays that Vogue would be lucky to have in their magazine They have current and classic pieces, and the best part is you experience that delicious shoppingin-a-friend’s closet feeling. You don’t have to worry about getting into a fistfight at South Coast Plaza over a good deal At Collective Habit, everything is a great deal

I’m sorry, are you not paying attention? Are you still crying over that too small designer dress you won’t donate to thrift, but know in your heart you won’t wear? I’m trying to help you! There’s a place for that dress at this clothes-orphanage called Collective Habit, and they have clothes in your size searching for good people like yourself I’m talking
Listen, little grasshopper! Here’s what you need to do. Make an appointment to bring in your gently worn clothing or accessories You’ll meet Ashley and her hubby Mitch They’ll appraise your swaddle with care, and after deciding what they’ll take, they’ll give you either 30% of the price they’ll sell it for or the closest thing to a treasure chest of gold bars: the choice between cold hard cash or 50% in-store credit.




in spite of all these concerns, most planners still advise caution in dealing with the changes in a couple’s estate plan. Some planners recommend leaving an option to elect at the first death not to divide the estate at the first death. This approach makes sense if the trust also includes language allowing the surviving spouse to take advantage of the deceased spouse’s exemption amount later on
What does this amount mean for couples? Basically, the question of whether to cause a trust to include a division of assets at the first death is an issue which is, in some cases, a matter that involves more than just tax or financial issues For example, two couples, each with an estate of exactly $5.25 million at the time of doing their trusts could come to different conclusions about whether to require a split of the estate at the first death or whether to simply allow the surviving spouse to make an election at the first death whether or not to divide the estate
The first couple might be young, with each in work areas where they expect the estate to grow significantly every year. This husband and wife might be concerned that an early death of one spouse after the estate has grown even just slightly might give the surviving spouse too much opportunity to share an estate with a future spouse, perhaps to the detriment of the couple’s children This concern has motivated many spouses over the years to require a split of the trust at the first death even when the estate tax could be avoided without dividing the estate in two.
Another couple with the same size estate might be more advanced in age and might have little concern for growth of their estate since their assets are focused on income producing investments for their retirement. These two might also share a goal of keeping the post retire-


Bankruptcy is when a court declares that a debt no longer exists or the court is asked to approve a plan to reorganize debts
Chapter 11 reorganizes a corporation or other business entity
Chapter 13 reorganizes debts for individuals or married couples
Chapter 7 wipes out debts (most bankruptcy cases are filed under Chapter 7)
Major changes ef fective 10/17/05 make it harder to get a discharge under Chapter 7, but an experienced attorney can guide you through the process
ment, post first-death costs down for the surviving spouse This, along with the concern of avoiding administrative costs for the surviving spouse, might allow them to decide to allow the surviving spouse to file an Estate Tax Return at the first death, which elects to claim the deceased spouse’s Estate Tax Exemption for use later on. These older couples often know that which ever one survives, the primary concern will be for the trust assets to go to the couple’s children, so that post first death control issues seem less relevant in the decision making process
Another five or ten couples of similarly sized estates might come to even different conclusions about how to adjust their trusts in light of the increase in the Estate Tax Exemption amounts. This is because the issues which each estate needs to consider will change from one household to the next for reasons completely unrelated to the tax dollar limits involved, such as concerns for special needs family members, grandchildren issues, and a host of other concerns Families of larger and smaller means also need to revisit their trusts because the tax free estate numbers have shifted the consequences of trust language which has not kept up with the changes in the tax law.
One thing is true for all families who have trusts: the failure to examine your estate distribution language now can cause your families to endure problems later that could be removed with simple document changes that would allow the use of improved provisions of Estate Tax Law.

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donation of one non-perishable per person is greatly appreciated Don’t’ forget to dress up those little ones!
LOCATION:
Doheny State Beach, picnic sites A and B
INFO: 949-496-6172

A Ghostly Affair
Dates TBD - call for info
Laguna Hill's Ghostly Affair includes ghoulish snacks, exciting games, face painting, Halloween crafts, tons of prizes, and plenty of opportunities for great pictures - so don' t forget your camera! Dress up in your favorite costume and join the fun!
LOCATION:
Laguna Hills Community Center & Spor ts Complex
INFO: (949) 707-2680

Haunted Trails
October 24-26
Small groups will experience a year of "Hol-iDaze" and the horror that unfolds. Keep your eyes peeled open for Little Red Riding Hood, Hansel & Gretel and Rapunzel wandering in and out of the mazes and tents that groups will be escor ted through Wear comfor table walking shoes, and come dressed in "street clothes", as the monsters are dressed up for the holiday, and YOU will be our guest!
This is a VERY SCARY event and not recommended for children under 8 years of age $10 per entrance
LOCATION:
Crown Valley Community Park
29751 Crown Valley Parkway
INFO
949-362-4351 x 1


















Q & A with Kelly Klaus, LMFT
Question: My ex is always changing the time or date we had originally agreed to in the divorce agreement with regard to the visitation of the children How do I keep things consistent so I can make plans?
- Pat, Mission Viejo
Answer: As important as it is to have consistency and structure with children’s lives, life is in a constant state of change More important is the damage done to children when they hear or feel they are a burden to their parents when they hear them arguing over whose turn it is to have them. It is normal to feel vindictive or spiteful when one parent has plans to do something fun without the children and force the issues about time/date obligations, especially when you may be looking forward to a break from the kids It is in the best interest of the children to be flexible even if it feels one-sided. If you have specific plans, you may want to have a backup such as other family members or trusted friends. Have a backup plan if it was not your weekend and now find yourself parenting again. Ensure that children at any age are not able to hear the conversation with the other parent, never make your opinions or unhappiness with the parent who interrupted your plans known to the children
Suggestions for non-custodial parent activities:
Children need quality parent time, not a camp director Don’t overcompensate and feel you have to make every weekend more spectacular than the last
• Libraries often offer free reading and movie hours
• Airports, lakes and shopping malls are fun for outings
• Camping or visiting local farms
• Visit to a beach or museum
• Start a hobby or collection together
• Check your local city tourism office for idea
• Watching a movie at home together with popcorn or make your own Sundaes
• Invite your child’s friend once in a while
Find activities that build relationships. Children have their own cycles, phases and stages!





Shiva is a 1-1/2 year old Siamese mix. Cool and calm, she is always ready for a nice nap by your side or perhaps an intriguing bird watching session at the window She is a great little cat and would make a beautiful addition to any home.






This charming little lady is Sparkle and as her name would suggest she has a dazzling personality She loves running in the yard with her dog friends or trotting along beside the volunteers for a leisurely stroll Always there to greet you with a happy grin, she wants nothing more than snuggle in your lap
And at only 2 years old, Sparkle is a lively bundle of joy perfect for a loving family









Looking for a petite furry friend? Whopper may be small but he definitely isn’t lacking anything in character With his little squeaks and happy squeals, he lets you know just how excited he is to see you He will scamper over for a quick pet and also enjoys being held Throw him some fresh veggies and he will be your friend for life.











Julie is the epitome of sweetness, sociability, and fun all rolled up in one cute little package You’ll often find her at the door, waiting for you to come in and play She is almost 2 years old and when she isn’t batting around her toys, her favorite activities seem to be rubbing up against your ankles and lazing in your lap














Every Sunday through Thursday from 5 pm to close, Fiano's features an amazing array of delicious entrees at only $12 each. Signature dishes include the Pasta Fiano (penne pasta, blackened chicken, asparagus, tomatoes, mushrooms in a rose sauce), grilled Ahi, beef tenderloin, blackened chicken with wild mushroom risotto and Fiano's Mix Paella which arrives chock full of shrimp, mussels, chorizo, fresh herbs, tomatoes and peppers in a saffon broth Fiano's Restaurant and Bar is located at 31781 Camino Capistrano in historic San Juan Capistrano For more information, call (949) 481-8300

Choya Japanese Cuisine in Dana Point Introduces many Happy Hour specials from 3 pm to 5 pm daily including Sapporo Draft (16 oz) for only $3! The recently opened restaurant is already expanding - with a second eatery scheduled to open soon at 25612 Crown Valley Parkway in Ladera Ranch Choya Japanese Cuisine is located in Ocean Ranch at 32545 Golden Lantern. For more information or reservations, call (949) 488-0933 or visit www.ChoyaJapaneseCuisine.com

Brio Tuscany Grill features Live Latin Music with Santiago every Wednesday evening Fridays feature a rotating schedule - live music with Bacon Strip Smackdown on Sept 6 and 20 and Above 7 (70s, 80s, 90s Dance, Rock and Current Hits) and Saturday nights kick the weekend into high gear with The Cellar Dwellers on Sept 7, the Three Mustaches on the 14th and 21st and Locals Night Live Music and Dancing on the 28th Brio Tuscany Grill is located at 24050 Camino Del Avion in Dana Point For more info, call (949) 443-1476 or visit www briorestaurant com










































Celebrating the September Release of South County Magazine at Mission Grill
Our editorial team often jokes that if we weren't in the publishing business, we'd pursue a second career as event planners. Our monthly magazine release parties are so much fun to coordinate and provide such a wonderful opportunity for us celebrate with our advertising partners and editorial contributors!




This party was held at Mission Grill - on the expansive, casual covered patio directly across the street from the historic Mission San Juan Capistrano. Menu selections include burgers, burritos, tacos, salads and more! And yes, there was ine and yes, it flowed. And to make the festivities even more .. well, festive ... ission Grill offers live entertainment every weekend What could be better?
eedless to say, we at South County Mag had a great time and we hope you all did as well. There’s nothing like putting business aside at the end of the day to enjoy our time together as friends in this great community. If you didn’t have a chance to make it, don’t worry, you’re invited to our next event!
Thanks for reading South County We pour our hear ts into every issue and we’re continually grateful for all of your business and support Until the next party happy reading! - South County Magazine


















by Jody Robinson
For the first, the barbecue short ribs and assorted sashimi is a great way to try a little of everything - from land and sea Love noodles? Try the seafood or vegetable udon, the chicken stir fry noodle, which arrives chock full of tender white meat chicken and a rainbow of vegetables. Can't decide between the sushi and sashimi? Try the Chirashi Don which tops fragrant rice with assor ted sashimi - tuna, salmon, yellowtail, shrimp, albacore and sweet egg

eing half Japanese, I'm always on the hunt for fresh, flavorful Japanese dishes So I was par ticularly excited to see Choya Japanese Cuisine open in the Ocean Ranch Center in Dana Point. And even more so once I sampled the menu offerings, which range from nigiri sushi and sashimi to "combo bento," noodle dishes and donburi (rice bowl dish) to free range chicken, lamb chop and salmon filet - literally something for everyone



The sashimi is served as cold, thick cuts of tuna, salmon, hamachi (yellowtail) and fresh from the sea uni (sea urchin) There are so many tempting signature roll options, you'll hard pressed to pick ust one of two. But you can't go wrong with the Golden Lantern Roll made crab and shrimp and topped with tuna and salmon.












Whether you’re a seasoned jogging long-distance specialist or a newly initiated slow-paced courier, special TLC to your body’s health is a must In preparation for the 36th annual Dana Point Turkey Trot, race-day sponsor CLIF Bar polled its team athletes and nutritionists to put together the top five runner nutrition tips
1. Caffeine. Typically given a bad rap, caffeine, taken in moderation, will actually help improve your performance on a run. Caffeine gives you the extra boost, keeps you clear of that “batteries are draining” feeling and helps you enjoy the activity Moderation for most runners sits between two to three cups of drip coffee per day, but keep in mind that every body is different.
Drink fluids early and often. Water is important, but when your runtime totals more than an hour, include electrolyte drinks that have sodium as the main mineral player – this will keep your body and emotional state at full efficiency
3. Carb Up. Carbohydrates should make up about 2/3 of each meal Choose carbohydrates that are high in fiber, such as wheat bread, pasta, bran cereals, oatmeal, CLIF Bars, potatoes and popcorn.

2. Stay Hydrated. Hydration is the trickiest part of fueling running as every cell in your body thrives on fluid Your hydration mantra:

4. Powerful Protein. Protein is necessary to repair and rebuild muscle Approximately 1/3 of each meal should contain this powerful prop. To help counter the wear and tear of training and racing, rebuild with foods like grass fed beef, antibioticand-hormone-free chicken, low mercury fish, lentils, cheese and soy
5. Meal Planning. Eat frequently and eat a variety of foods Make sure you eat three meals each day and two or three healthy snacks in between. This will help prevent energy highs and lows throughout the day and make you more energized for training runs.



