Simple Truths: The Dash (New Cover)

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Linda Ellis & Mac Anderson

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Copyright © 2017 by Linda Ellis and Mac Anderson Cover and internal design © 2017 by Sourcebooks, Inc. Sourcebooks, the colophon, and Simple Truths are registered trademarks of Sourcebooks, Inc. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form or by any electronic or mechanical means including information storage and retrieval systems—­except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical articles or reviews—­without permission in writing from its publisher, Sourcebooks, Inc. This publication is designed to provide accurate and authoritative information in regard to the subject matter covered. It is sold with the understanding that the publisher is not engaged in rendering legal, accounting, or other professional service. If legal advice or other expert assistance is required, the services of a competent professional person should be sought.—­From a Declaration of Principles Jointly Adopted by a Committee of the American Bar Association and a Committee of Publishers and Associations All selections are copyright to the contributors.

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Dedicated to the life of John William Hicks, the Dash between JUNE 12, 1930–­JULY 5, 2004.

Dad, I ’ll love you forever.

—­Linda

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Contents 6 Introduction by Mac Anderson 10 The Dash by Linda Ellis 39 How Will You Spend Your Dash?

41 Slow Down 45 True and Real 49 Feelings 55 Anger 58 Appreciation 63 Love 67 Respect 72 Smile 75 Change 79 Making a Difference 86 The Story behind The Dash

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90 The Power of The Dash 92 The Punctuation to Focus On 96 Benji’s Dash 100 Uplift Those around You 102 Making the Most of Your Dash 106 The Dash Pact 110 Transformed by The Dash 115 Words Worth Their Weight in Gold 118 Inspiring Others to Live Their Dash 122 Making Your Dash Matter 124 A Dash of Reconnection 126 Changing the Lives of Those around You 130 The Power of the Present 132 A Dash of Forgiveness 136 A Dash Just Started

140 About the Authors

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remember it like it was yesterday. I had received a handwritten note from Anna Lee Wilson, a Successories franchisee from Evansville, Indiana, and at the bottom of the note was a postscript that read: “I know you have inspirational poems, and this is my all-­time favorite. It’s titled The Dash by Linda Ellis.”

Now, I can count on one hand how many times I’ve read something that stopped me in my tracks…words that bypassed the brain and went straight to the heart. This was one of those moments. I immediately thought… How could I use my talents to share these powerful, thought-­provoking words with the rest of the world?

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I contacted Linda Ellis, introduced myself, and told her how much I love her poem. She told me how, in one afternoon in 1996, she was inspired to write The Dash. Her life, she said, has not been the same since then. And it hasn’t been for anyone who has ever read her powerful words either!

That conversation sparked our publication of The Dash in 2005. Since we started Simple Truths, we’ve been blessed to publish more than 150 inspirational books, written by some of the best authors in the world. But of all the books we’ve created, none has had the emotional response of The Dash.

How do we know? Because we’ve heard from thousands of people all over the world telling us how The Dash has touched their souls and changed the way they think about life.

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That’s what this special edition of The Dash is all about. It’s to celebrate life! It’s to thank all those wonderful people for sharing how The Dash has made a difference in their lives and to inspire you to make a difference with yours.

I invite you to experience the power of Linda’s poem and the content of our original book. On page 90, you’ll be able to enjoy some of the wonderful stories submitted by our readers about the impact the poem has had in their lives. I hope they will inspire you to live your dash with passion!

Live with passion,

Mac Anderson Founder, Successories and Simple Truths

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{ The

Dash

By Linda Ellis

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read of a man who stood to speak

at the funeral of a friend.

He referred to the dates on the tombstone

from the beginning to the end.

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e noted that first came the date of birth

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and spoke of the following date with tears,

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but he said what mattered most of all

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was the dash between those years.

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or that dash represented all the time

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that they spent alive on earth.

And now only those who loved them

know what that little line is worth.

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or it matters not, how much we own,

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the cars…the house…the cash.

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hat matters is how we live and love

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and how we spend our dash.

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o, think about this long and hard.

Are there things you’d like to change?

For you never know how much time is left

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that can still be rearranged.

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f we could just slow down enough

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to consider what’s true and real

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and always try to understand the way other people feel.

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