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A tribute to the legendary Tina Turner: music icon and LGBTQ+ ally.

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CONTRIBUTORS The mission of Embrace Magazine is to unite LGBTQ+ and straight communities to live, work, play, and pray together. We also wish to provide a platform for LGBTQ+ people to have a voice and share their unique artistry. Therefore, our staff consists of two-thirds LGBTQ+ persons, and one-third straight persons within our 14-member staff.

MEET OUR CONTRIBUTORS

Jamie Ezra Mark

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Over his 25-year publishing career, Mark has amassed a vast magazine portfolio that includes national titles such as Weight Watchers, Arthritis Today, Digital South, Sensi, and Norwegian Cruise Lines’ Latitudes. His team at Em continues to design awardwinning publications, as well as brand and advertising strategies, for a variety of businesses.

best of U.S drag for his bestselling photography book Why Drag?

Published in 2016

by Chronicle books, it was described

by Sir Elton John as “the best fucking photography book in years.” Magnus followed this up with his second book Rainbow Revolution (2020). He has appeared as a guest photographer on RuPaul’s Drag Race and a guest judge on The Boulet Brothers Dragula. Magnus currently lives in West Hollywood.

Mark Chesnut Travel Editor (He/Him)

Magnus Hastings

Photographer (He/Him)

Award-winning photographer Magnus Hastings is best known for his work with Drag Queens and the Queer community.

Relocating from his home town of London to Los Angeles in 2011, he travelled across America photographing the

Mark Chesnut is a New York City-based writer, editor, and public speaker. The winner of the 2019 NLGJA Excellence in Travel Writing Award, he's the author of the new memoir "Prepare for Departure: Notes on a Single Mother, a Misfit Son, Inevitable Mortality and the Enduring Allure of Frequent Flyer Miles" (Vine Leaves Press, 2022). His travel writing has appeared in media including Fodor's, Forbes Travel Guide, HuffPost, the

Miami Herald, his blog LatinFlyer.com and the New York Times bestseller "1,000 Places to See Before You Die."

Steve Pafford

International News Editor (He/Him)

Steve Pafford is an English journalist, actor and author of the acclaimed book BowieStyle. Having trained from the floor up in UK music titles Q, MOJO and Record Collector, he’s had his work featured in a wide variety of British, American and Australian media including the BBC, CNN, The Independent and the New York Times. Steve divides his time between Australia and the south of France.

Danielle Olivani

Issues + Politics Editor (They/Them)

Danielle is a proud mom, community organizer/activist, and CEO of Lake County Pride Org.

Corp; an LGBTQIA+ nonprofit which seeks to improve the lives of Lake County youth through advocacy, education, and acts of service to the community.

She is a longtime resident of Lake County and currently lives in Mount Dora, Fla. She graduated from the Rollins College Paralegal Studies program and obtained her certification in 2017.

gay community. He later went on to edit, publish and write for several other gay publications. He has also hosted and produced hundreds of video segments from a number of gay pride festivals in the Southeastern US with Channel125.com and been a Pride365 Champion since 2019.

His latest project #GayBarchives is creating the world’s largest archive of the stories and logos of gay bars from our past. Information about this project can be found at GayBarchives.com.

Jeff Sanchez

Art + Culture Editor (He/Him)

Jeff Sanchez is a graduate of New York University and heads an entertainment publicity firm in NYC. He lives with his partner and two sons, splitting their time between Manhattan and Charleston, SC.

Art Smith

Bar History Editor (He/Him)

In 1986, Art was tapped to edit and publish the Atlanta Guide, a monthly magazine for the

Steve Rothaus

Contributing Writer (He/Him)

Steve Rothaus pioneered mainstream news coverage of LGBTQ+ issues. He joined the Miami Herald in 1985. Twelve years later, he launched an LGBTQ+ news beat at the Herald, widely considered the first of its kind at a mainstream news company.

Since retiring from the Herald in 2019, he has freelanced for that paper, the South Florida SunSentinel, Out South

Florida (OUTSFL) and other major news organizations.

Nile Fortner

Contributing Writer (He/Him)

For various publications and online platforms, Nile Fortner has worked as a South Floridabased community writer and multimedia journalist. Nile, who is a graduate of Florida Atlantic University, is also a writer for the Sun-Sentinel, New Pelican Newspaper, M.I.A. Media Group/ Legacy, and he’s also been a writer for SFLStyle, My South Florida Today, ComicAttack, and more. He is also a podcaster for BocaFirst, Cinephellas, and he contributes with a few others too. Nile is also a fan of movies and he’s a foodie. You may also find him being active on social media @Nile_Fortner.

Contributing Writer (He/Him)

Jack Lemnus is an undergraduate at the University of Florida and is currently a reporter for WUFT News. What drew him to journalism was a deep desire to illuminate the realities of underserved communities and engage hard conversations. A Clearwater native, he loves to fill his bookshelves and practice his Spanish while traveling Latin America.

Katie McCullough Mind Health Columnist (She/Her)

Katie McCullough, graduate of Flagler College, is currently teaching English Language Arts in Saint Augustine, Fla, specializing in gifted and exceptional education. Prior to attending graduate school, Katie plans to pursue her passion for writing while finding time to travel the world.

Cory Freeman

Donna Davis

Cory Freeman is a two-time first-place national bodybuilding champion, having won both of his firstplace titles, The Men’s Classic Physique Master’s Over 35 at the 2019 NPC Viking Championship and at the 2019 NPC Masters USA in his rookie year. Cory works as a physical therapist in the home health industry.

An interfaith minister and life coach, Donna Davis utilizes her life experiences to empower other people to overcome their struggles. Together with her wife, Norma, they manage Your Phoenix is Rising, a transformation coaching service focused on helping others rise from the darkness of despair and embrace their true Light Nature.

Donna and Norma raised three biological children and served

Body Health Columnist (He/Him)

Soul Health Columnist (She/Her)

owner and creative strategist behind A Great Idea (weareagi. com), a care and community brand communications studio. When not pushing pixels and building brands, you can find him doing grassroots organizing to advance social justice and queer liberation, studying for his MBA, or taking his puppies (and partner, of course) out to explore some mountain trails.

Shane Lukas

Website Designer and LGBTQ Resource Blogger (He/Him)

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as legal guardians to several teenaged friends of their children during their time of need. Donna is a Registered Nurse at Parralion HCA Shared Services and Performance Director at Centers for Spiritual Living Ocala. She studied RN at Rasmussen College and psychology at Florida Atlantic University.

Shane Lukas is the feisty ginger-haired

MEET OUR ADVISORY BOARD Justin Ayars (He/Him) Justin Ayars is a self-described recovering healthcare trial lawyer turned serial entrepreneur.

He has extensive experience in crafting compelling narratives that resonate with diverse demographics, helping businesses authentically engage new markets and cultivating communities through relationship-building and technological innovation. For five years, Justin ran a successful LGBTQ+ marketing, media and events company in the mid-Atlantic region, Q Media. Justin is now the Founder & CEO of EqualityMD, a comprehensive virtual ecosystem that provides the LGBTQ+ community with inclusive, personalized healthcare.

Located in Richmond, Virginia, Ayars represents an overall POV.

Herb Sosa (He/Him) Community activist, historian, preservationist and freelance writer, Herb Sosa is a founding member of, and currently serves as President and CEO of Unity Coalition/Coalición Unida, offering protection and promotion of Latino/Hispanic LGBTQ+ rights— the only organization of its kind in South Florida since 2002. Sosa brings over 20 years of corporate and not-for-profit leadership experience in the community. Previously Sosa was Executive Director of Miami Design Preservation League and the Art Deco Weekend Festival in Miami Beach. Sosa also is Publisher and Editor-In-chief of AMBIENTE Magazine, the first and only LGBTQ+ publication offered in English, Spanish and Portuguese. He and his husband reside in Miami, representing South Florida inclusion.

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Matthew Skallerud (He/Him)

Matt Skallerud, president of Pink Media, has been in the LGBTQ+ digital space for over 25 years now, first with GayWired.com and ShieWired.com, and now with Pink Media and the #ILoveGay network, helping companies reach their targeted LGBTQ+ demographic. In addition, Skallerud is the former Board Chairman of the International Gay & Lesbian Travel Association (IGLTA) and has served on the boards Travel Gay Canada (TGC) and the LAGLCC. He is actively involved with key national LGBTQ+ organizations including the NGLCC, Out Professionals and Lambda Legal, just to name a few. Located in Allentown, Pa., Skallerud represents an overall POV.

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I have always loved movies and television shows. Dramas, comedies, adventures.

I simply loved seeing stories told on screen.

That led to my fascination with Hollywood. I live for the glitz and glamor. And my guilty pleasure are award shows. I know we are not supposed to admit that, but I am not alone.

The Academy Awards, sometimes known as "the Oscars," on ABC, had approximately 20 million viewers in 2023, making it the awards event with the most viewers in the United States alone, according to statista.com. I tune in to the Golden Globes, Emmys, Grammys, and Oscars religiously every year.

To watch the actors, producers, directors, and yes, even writers, walk the red carpet as their elegant, best selves, then to realize the dream of walking onstage to receive their award and deliver their acceptance speech became a delight of mine, taking pleasure in the joy and accomplishments of others. It was something to fantasize about.

The fantasy of the extravagant lives of others that could surely never happen to me.

I had my first taste of the award ceremony allure in 2007 when I won my first Charlie Awards — two second place and one third — bestowed by the Florida Magazine Association (FMA). I was hooked instantly. Over the years I have entered three different Florida journalism organization competitions and three national ones. In total, as a writer and publisher, I have earned 249 awards, including (in chronological order): Minority Business of the Year (for Sotomayor Media Creations LLC, the parent company of Embrace by the Ocala/Marion County Chamber of Commerce now known as the Chamber and Economic Partnership of Metro Ocala), Journalist of the Year, New Business of the Year (for Embrace Magazine

by the Pride Chamber located in Orlando, Fla.), and Magazine of the Year, twice, by the FMA. I’m not going to lie, for me, the feeling of winning and walking to the podium while hearing the applause is intoxicating. Like my euphoric drug.

Imagine my astonishment when I received the news on January 17, 2024, from the GLAAD Media Awards via an email, “We are pleased to inform you that the nominees for the 35th Annual GLAAD Media Awards have been announced and your project has been nominated.

Congratulations!”

That was everything.

I have submitted entries to the GLAAD Media Awards before, the most visible and prestigious media awards for LGBTQ+ media be it fi lm, television, print medium or other, but never received a nomination. It seemed too lofty. Entries came from major media, from major cities. Not from a startup like mine, based out of smalltown Ocala, Fla. Then it happened. The email continued. “The GLAAD Media Awards ceremonies, which fund GLAAD’s work to accelerate LGBTQ acceptance, will be held in Los Angeles at the Beverly Hilton on Thursday, March 14, 2024, and in New York at the Hilton Midtown on Saturday, May 11, 2024.” This was an experience I never thought would happen to me, yet here it is!

I am nominated for Outstanding Print Article. My feature, “Heroism Overpowers Hate,” published in Embrace Magazine’s Heroes Issue in February 2023, chronicles how Rich Fierro, who is straight and an Army vet, and Thomas James, who is gay and a Navy vet, united together to take down the gunman at the LGBTQ+ nightclub, Club Q , in Colorado Springs, CO. Five people were killed and 17 others were wounded, but the quick-thinking heroic actions by Fierro and James prevented

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The 35th GLAAD Media Awards will be presented by GLAAD in 2024. It will reward 2023 movies, TV series, video games, musicians, and journalistic projects that inclusively, honestly, and truthfully portray the LGBTQ+ community and topics that are important to the community.

On February 5, 2024, GLAAD Media Awards followed up with the announcement on which categories would be awarded at which date and venue. It turns out my category will be awarded on May 11, 2024, in my native New York City. I started my writing career in NYC. This will be a full-circle moment. If I win, it will be my 250th media-related award. That would be pretty cool.

I am headed to the GMAs. Me. As a nominee, not a guest or spectator. I cannot wait.

Win or not, it is an honor to be nominated.

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further loss. Their intervention, placing their own lives at risk, prevented numbers reaching those of the Pulse nightclub shooting in Orlando, Fla. where 49 people died and 53 were injured.

This is the greatest honor in my media career. My thanks to the GLAAD Media Awards, to all our contributors, my family, friends, and LGBTQ+ community and colleagues who support me; but most of all, to Rich Fierro who granted me the interview and allowed me to share his story.

My in-depth, deep-dive report reached the level it has in large part thanks to Rich Fierro, who did not hold back. I asked for more details, and he delivered.

Four criteria are used to evaluate the honorees: "Fair, Accurate and Inclusive Representations" of the LGBT community; "Boldness and Originality" of the project; significant "Cultural Impact" on mainstream culture; and "Overall Quality" of the project. The selection process involves over 700 volunteers and voters for the GLAAD Media Awards. After that, the "Review Panel" certifies the results and determines the final recipient list using both their own "expert opinions" and the results of the vote.

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Increased representation is challenging stereotypes and fostering greater LGBTQ+ acceptance.

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elevision and movies have been a powerful force in shaping cultural perceptions and breaking down societal barriers. One of the most significant advancements in recent years is the increased representation of LGBTQ+ characters and storylines in Hollywood. This evolution has played a crucial role in challenging stereotypes and fostering greater acceptance and understanding of the LGBTQ+ community.

The transformation continues to gain momentum, with Hollywood making LGBTQ+ characters and storylines a vital aspect of modern media and cultural evolution.

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The portrayal of LGBTQ+ characters in mainstream media has come a long way from its early days, marked by stereotypes, discrimination, and invisibility. In the mid-20th century, Hollywood was heavily influenced by societal norms that marginalized LGBTQ+ individuals. Characters who were not heterosexual were either portrayed as villains or relegated to the shadows.

However, as the LGBTQ+ rights movement gained momentum, the late 20th century witnessed notable changes in how LGBTQ+ individuals were portrayed.

The groundbreaking 1969 Stonewall Riots marked the start of a cultural revolution, and the media slowly began to reflect this change. Shows like Will & Grace and films like Philadelphia started to humanize LGBTQ+ characters, challenging stereotypes and fostering greater acceptance.

Today’s Hollywood

Since the turn of the millennium, LGBTQ+ characters have become more authentic and multi-dimensional with Hollywood presenting a diverse range of LGBTQ+ characters.

Gone are the days of one-dimensional LGBTQ+ characters defined solely by their sexual orientation.

Today's television and film have made strides in rep-

Billy Eichner wrote and stars in Bros

resenting complex and fully developed LGBTQ+ characters. They have storylines, motivations, and struggles that go beyond their attractions. Characters have become humanized and their inclusion has fostered empathy, encouraging audiences to relate to and appreciate their experiences.

Recent movies like Love, Simon and series like Heartstopper and Glamorous have made waves for their LGBTQ+ representation. Based on Alice Oseman's popular webcomic, Heartstopper focuses on the budding relationship between two high school boys. Glamorous is a comedy series that stars Miss Benny as a gender non-conforming make-up influencer. Both shows address issues related to gender identity and expression, and both have been successful in reaching younger demographics which is helping to shape the attitudes and perceptions of future generations.

Transgender characters, non-binary individuals, and asexual representation have become increasingly visible in mainstream media. HBO’s And Just Like That…, Apple TV+'s Loot, and Netflix’s Never Have I Ever are just a few of the series to feature various identities within the LGBTQ+ spectrum.

Stories that center around LGBTQ+ characters and their struggles help to create empathy among viewers.

In fact, studies show that individuals who consume media with positive LGBTQ+ representation are more likely to be supportive of LGBTQ+ rights and equal treatment.

“As viewers become invested in the lives of these characters, they are more likely to understand the challenges gay people face and to stand against discrimination,” says Nick Davidson of Mr. Man, a popular Hollywood entertainment website for gay men. Each year, Mr. Man presents the Manatomy Awards, an award ceremony that recognizes the past year’s naked male achievements in film and TV. “Through compelling storytelling, television and movies have the power to shift cultural perspectives and reduce prejudice,” Davidson says.

Popular series that have incorporated LGBTQ+ themes in its stories include Elite, Euphoria, and American Horror Story. The MrMan.com executive

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Though highly sexualized examples, Davidson says it’s important that Hollywood see LGBTQ+ as sexual beings. “The community is not only about sex, but we don’t want to be seen as sexless either.”

By embracing sexuality, positive LGBTQ+ role models have emerged, including actors like Jonathan Bai-

ley, a British actor best known for his role in the Netflix series Bridgerton, and Jonathan Groff, known for his roles in The Matrix and as the voice of Kristoff in Disney's Frozen.

Both have played formidable heterosexual roles, in effect challenging traditional notions of casting and underscoring the fact that out actors can effectively portray characters of any sexual orientation. At the same time, neither has shied away from taking on gay roles. Bailey brazenly took on the lead role in ShowTime’s Fellow Travelers and Groff played a gay father in the M. Night Shyamalan thriller Knock at the Cabin. Groff also starred in the groundbreaking HBO series, Looking, which followed the lives of a group of gay friends in San Francisco.

The series offered a nuanced portrayal of LGBTQ+ characters and their experiences and addressed issues like relationships, friendship, and self-discovery.

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also points to HBO’s dark comedy-drama anthology television series, The White Lotus. It has had two wildly popular seasons, both featuring memorable gay themes. “The things they have done on that show could never have happened ten years ago!”, Nick Davidson laughs, referring to the first season’s salad tossing scene between Lukas Gage and Murray Bartlett and the second season’s surprise bedroom stunner between Leo Woodall and Tom Hollander.

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In recent years, more LGBTQ+ creators, writers, and directors have been breaking into the industry, ensuring authentic storytelling and increased diversity in LGBTQ+ narratives.

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The push for inclusivity extends beyond characters and into behind-the-scenes roles.

In recent years, more LGBTQ+ creators, writers, and directors have been breaking into the industry, ensuring authentic storytelling and increased diversity in LGBTQ+ narratives.

Comedian Billy Eichner wrote Bros, a film that scored high favorability with Mr. Man viewers, and as the first major studio release of a gay film, was a monumental film for LGBTQ+ representation. The film starred Eichner alongside out actor Luke Macfarlane, as two gay men in Manhattan who avoid commitment but are drawn to each other. It generated significant buzz for its unapologetic approach to the theme of gay friendship and masculinity.

Joel Kim Booster wrote and starred in the romantic comedy, Fire Island. Inspired by Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice, the story follows a group of gay friends who go on vacation to Fire Island, only for things to become complicated by classism and romance. It starred a who’s who of out actors including Bowen Yang, Matt Rogers and Margaret Cho.

There is no question that representation plays a significant role in advancing social change.

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Bilal Baig, a gender fluid South Asian Muslim, wrote and stars in HBO Max’s Big-hearted dramedy, Sort Of. Soon to release its third season, the series follows non-binary millennial Sabi Mehboob – the youngest child of Pakistani parents – as they navigate love, career, and family.

Amid fresh challenges and uncertainty, life is anything but simple for Sabi, who questions if they will ever have an uncomplicated “normal” love.

Last year, actress and trans activist Shakina Nayfack made their debut on the hit NBC drama, Quantum Leap, writing and directing an episode about a transgender teen who dreams of playing on her high school basketball team amid backlash from other parents and school administrators.

Ms. Nayfack wrote the character based on, in part, her own life story, and in part the story of two dear trans friends who took their lives in their early years. "The idea that this show went into the world and that trans kids and their families were able to see themselves on screen, and that people who felt conflicted were able to have an empathetic understanding and a heart opening-moment… it just really felt transformative," Ms. Nayfack told E! News.

There is no question that representation plays a significant role in advancing social change. It has a ripple effect, influencing public opinion, policy, and even sparking conversations within communities.

It extends far beyond U.S. borders, too. Television and film have a global reach, and the positive impact of LGBTQ+ representation in Hollywood is felt worldwide.

As we look to the future, it is evident that there is still much work to be done but it’s important to recognize that many Hollywood actors, directors, and industry professionals are using their platforms to push for change. Their influence and activism are contributing to anti-discrimination protections and progress in all areas of equality.

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he term platformer is used to describe a subgenre of action video games in which the core objective is to move the player character between points in an environment. Interestingly, it also fairly describes how young artists today use online platforms like Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, Spotify, and others to advance their visibility, thus marketability, in their artistic industries.

Those in the LGBTQ+ artistic community have adapted the trend, but many use it not only to promote themselves or their work, but to represent the LGBTQ+ community in a positive light, thereby impacting LGBTQ+

visibility and acceptance in the performance arts.

They impact how stories are told and how characters are portrayed on screen and onstage.

Organizations like GLAAD Media follow the adage said by British theater director and producer, Marianne Elliott, “If you can’t see it, you can’t be it” referring to the need to have women in positions of power to elevate all women. The same is true for the LGBTQ+ community.

Embrace Magazine collaborated with world renown photographer, Magnus Hastings, to capture several artists from various fields who have used their social media platforms creatively and successfully, elevating LGBTQ+ presence in their fields, while elevating themselves.

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Recording artist, dancer, aerialist, choreographer, and content creator, Rico TV, is the winner of “Gogo for the Gold” streaming on Apple TV. Originally from Carson, CA, Rico currently resides in Koreatown, CA. After dancing professionally for a few years, Rico felt he needed to expand his artistry, so he began creating music, got involved in fashion, and became more of an online influence rather than a traditional backup dancer.

“I’ve danced everywhere from clubs to huge stadium arenas, as well as every type of commercial job you could think of,” Rico said. “My favorite performances were with the Jonas Brothers, Avril Lavigne…Beyonce.”

He began dancing professionally when he turned 18, and had an agent, following the traditional form of the commercial industry until the Covid pandemic struck, forcing the shutdown. “[Even before Covid] Whenever I did not have any gigs, I go-go danced,” Rico said. “Once Covid happened, that was what forced me to look outside of dance and into other areas… that’s when I started doing Only Fans. More online content, in general.”

The social media work is going so well, that is where his career is currently headed at the moment, although he also continues commercial work. “It’s working out a lot better than having a

traditional agent,” Rico said. “I just re-signed to an agency recently, and I notice how different it is from 10 years ago.”

“Basically, everything is online now,” he continued. “All the work that is available you can find normally on your own, you don’t really need an agent to find work nowadays. For me personally, I just find everything on my own.”

For Rico, using social media to find work is better than the traditional method because, as he says, “No one knows you and your art better than yourself.” With social media, he has more control. “It is really up to you as to how far you want to take things; how successful you want to be.”

Ten years ago, auditions were basically live competitions, to see who presented the best skills for the gig. Nowadays, producers review self-produced recordings.

“You have to create a mini production in order to be seen by certain talent scouts,” Rico said adding, “That is a little harder in that sense… when everything is very last minute, and things might not necessarily fit into your schedule.”

To achieve his goals, Rico is not motivated by money. “I want to bring happiness to my LGBTQ+ community and make my LGBTQ+ community proud,” he said. “I want to leave a legacy.”

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Pop/Dance musician Lyle Anthony is a dynamic male vocalist from Johannesburg, South Africa with a strong influence from afrobeats and soul music. Having won "Popstars” in 2010, the precursor to American idol, which also saw Nicole Scherzinger's success from Eden’s Crush and Girls Aloud, Anthony gained his first taste of fame. He performed with Shakira and Black Eyed Peas at the 2010 Soccer World Cup. Following that, Lyle was able to obtain a big record deal with EMI Records. He has since developed into a well-known performer across the world, sharing stages with renowned performers like Mariah Carey, En Vogue, and Thelma Houston, to mention a few.

Anthony’s global performances have led him to over 40 countries. He has appeared in major motion pictures, cruise ship shows, corporate occasions, weddings, Pride celebrations, gala events, and award ceremonies. He is a multidimensional artist that excels in music, acting, modeling, dancing, and social media impact in addition to his singing abilities.

Social media has played a role in his plans, especially during and post-Covid.

“Covid dramatically affected my plans,” Anthony said. Like many, Anthony turned to social

media to help promote new projects. He was able to release his ED “The Love Project” in 2021. He is currently preparing to create new music in the next few months. As before, he will utilize his vast social media platforms, particularly TikTok and Instagram, to reach fans and make new fans.

“TikTok has really pushed music for different kinds of visibility…able to do what Spotify and others cannot do — bring old music back and bring new audiences into the mix.”

When asked why it is better than traditional means, Anthony, stating first that he loves and respects the industry, replied, “I think A&Rs [Artists and Repertoire, the division of a record label of music publishing company responsible for scouting and overseeing artistic development] and the music industry are not what they used to be… A&Rs are looking for people with numbers, they are not looking for real talent.”

His increasing popularity on social media sites like TikTok and Instagram also enables him to motivate and promote change.

“I want to produce more music, especially in the African charts and Afrobeat charts, and become more well-known worldwide,” Anthony said. “Also to represent the LGBTQ+ community positively in every way that I can.”

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Born in Pasadena, Calif., and raised in Canada, Casandra James is an American Canadian actress and filmmaker best known for her role as Dr. Terry Randolph on the ABC soap opera General Hospital. Her character holds the distinction of being the first transgender character to be portrayed by an actual transgender actress in a soap opera. She also appeared in the first two seasons on the HBO Max queer series, “Sort Of.” Her first short as a filmmaker is entering the film festivals this year called, “Claude.”

“I have been a storyteller my entire life and it is not something I would say I chose,” she said. “It feels like a calling.”

Regarding modern-day platforms James said, “It is a brave new world, isn’t it? Social media and the internet are ‘musts’ for artists these days.”

She feels there are traditional vehicles that every actress and filmmaker must still continue to use, such as working with an agent, a publicist, and a public relations firm. “Interviews with magazines

are still necessary, although most are online now.”

“I use Instagram, that is my main platform,” James continued. At the moment, James has exceeded 32,000 followers on Instagram. “I use it in a very specific way, which is out of the usual expectation, I think.” For her, it is a curated window into her life. One where she is in control.

“Who doesn’t want to be commercially and financially successful? But for me, that is not a priority,” she added. “I want my online presence to have a degree of integrity that represents who I am as an artist and who I am as a human being.”

James is a proudly out transgender actress. She came out to her family late in 2015 and publicly in the summer of 2016. She began a medical transition in the spring of 2016. She is passionate politically about her community and is outspoken about visibility and diversity in the industry. “Much of my work is advocating for the trans community,” she said. “I wanted to create a safe space for people to share their experiences while educating others.”

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HEIDI LANGENFELD Comedian Heidi Langenfeld, born in St Paul, Minnesota, is renowned for her sharp and audacious humor. At the age of 18, she relocated to New York City to follow her goals. She admittedly struggled with that, but after working for many years as a flight attendant, she had a distinct viewpoint on the general population. She currently resides in Los Angeles and performs often at venues including The Ice House and Flappers Comedy Club, among others.

“I have always enjoyed making people laugh, ever since I was little,” Langenfeld said. “It’s been my favorite thing. There is no better high for me, especially when you have a big, full room… you feel it in your body.”

Admittedly dealing with anxiety and depression, as many comedians do, Lagenfeld uses comedy to cope. “I like to make difficult things funny,” she said. “To be my friend, you cannot be not easily offended.”

For Lagenfeld, making life’s difficulties relatable is a way to connect with others. Connecting with others in the comedy circuit is the traditional model for how comedians find work. “it is all about who you know,” Lagenfeld said.

“There is a lot of hob-knobbing that needs to be done, which I do not care for,” Lagenfeld admits. According to Lagenfeld, the traditional route requires comedians to attend and support other comedians’ shows, introduce themselves, and hang out after and try to meet producers.

“Usually when you start on a show, you get five minutes at the front, so you cold open a show,” Lagenfeld explained. “From there, if you are funny, other people will see [and support] you.” She added, “Going to open nights is a big thing, especially when you are starting out.” Once established, that happens less.

Social media changed the game.

“Now, a lot of bookers will look at your [social media] following, and if you don’t have a lot, they won’t take you seriously, or they won’t want to

book you, or they will give you less time,” Lagenfeld said. Sometimes, they will book the comedian on a less popular night, like a Monday instead of a Friday.

“Social media has become kind of a huge deal,” Lagenfeld said. “It’s about how many followers you have; it’s a big deal to make ‘Reels’ — put your comedy out that way.”

Lagenfeld posts her Reels on Instagram, and she is beginning to dabble on TikTok. “The traditional method of making it as a comic, I don’t believe it exists anymore,” Lagenfeld said. She used Matt Rife as an example. “He wasn’t anybody until he started posting Reels of himself doing crowd work, and he blew up. Then he got his Netflix special.”

He’s a prime example of someone who uses platforms successfully. “He was launched into superstardom essentially overnight,” she said.

“It’s kind of how it goes now.”

Taylor Tomlinson is another example. “I LOVE her!” Lagenfeld exclaimed. “She’s an example of taking her anxiety and stress… and making that so funny. She’s so smart with her words.”

To Lagenfeld, Tomlinson is an example of someone funny who also has a lot of followers.

“I don’t know which came first for her, but she is an incredible talent.”

Lagenfeld hopes to achieve the same success.

“I would like to make a living making other people laugh,” she said. “If I can do that, then that would be the biggest dream for me.”

Lagenfeld also wants to make a positive impact for the LGBTQ+ community.

“I talk about being a lesbian a lot,” she said.

“As a comic you have to talk about yourself and your experience, and that is my experience.”

Lagenfeld claims when she runs into people who have seen her act in public that is how she is remembered. “They don’t remember my name, they remember me as ‘the lesbian,’” she quips jokingly.

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Trend-setting go-getters who are paving the way for other LGBTQ+ content creators to influence social media, thus influencing how America and the world thinks.

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Hashtag Follow Tim

Coming from a blue-collar town in Pittsburgh, the now 38-year-old has over 162K and counting on Instagram. Sharing fitness motivation, baking, nature, and his home life, Cappelli originally began his Instagram profile in the pursuit of finding self-confidence.

“I never felt comfortable in the gym,” said Cappelli. “My reason was growing up I was surrounded by a lot of meatheads that didn’t make me feel comfortable. In helping me be me, I was inspiring other guys to feel comfortable and hopefully, feel themselves and that account grew.”

The LGBTQ+ community was an early adopter of the internet for a wide variety of reasons but one of the big ones is because the community is smaller and it’s harder to find information and entertainment that is representative of the culture and needs.

“With growing that account, I helped to grow a safe space for people,” said Cappelli. “Where people can feel free to be them[selves] with me. It then opened my eyes to posting more like my baking, gardening, and traveling.”

Homosexuality was considered a mental disorder until the 1980s, but even after the

“In helping me be me, I was inspiring other guys to feel comfortable and hopefully, feel themselves and that account grew.”

Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) reversed the claim, people who identified as part of the LGBTQ+ spectrum stayed secluded. Finding a community wasn’t easy as fear of discrimination and hate crimes was still very common. However, group meetings in secret and organizations providing safe spaces allowed for LGBTQ-identified people to gather and create a safe space for a community. With the rise of social media, the LGBTQ+ community was able to find different ways to use this as an outlet.

With the power of social media, Cappelli has created a safe space, with one of his goals being to share more travel-related content. Travel and tourist destinations that reach a demographic of gays that are uncertain of locations that may be LGBTQ-friendly.

“That’s how it was for me when it came to fitness,” said Cappelli. “I was uncertain what I was walking into. Traveling to certain places and wondering if you can take your shirt off and feel like you’re in your own backyard. It’s opportunities that have come full circle. My Instagram is a place where people can come and it’s a no-judgment zone.”

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ocial media content creators and influencers are a part of the daily media diet of swiping, scrolling and double tapping for many teens and adults.

Some see them as modern role models and entrepreneurs who have the potential to play an important role in the identity of their many viewers, followers, fans, and subscribers. The digital world works as a window into the lives of others and even places that were once unknown and cut off from the average person’s experience and knowledge.

But in the age of hashtags, one of the most beneficial contributions of social media has been its impact on marginalized groups; specifically, the LGBTQ+ community.

“I realized there was a community of men just like me,” said social media content creator, Timothy Cappelli. “My postings on Instagram really just helped me be me and that has helped others.”

Timothy Cappelli started on Instagram sharing fitness-related content. Before his Instagram days, Cappelli was dating someone who believed that Cappelli shouldn’t pursue social media.

“He said there was no way you could grow an account,” said Cappelli. “And I found a community that responded.”

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“Sixty-four percent of LGBTQ+ social media users reported experiencing harassment and hate speech, a much higher rate than all other identity groups. Users on Facebook experienced the highest percentage of online harassment. About 75% of those who experienced online harassment reported at least some of that harassment occurred on Facebook. Smaller shares experienced harassment or hate on Twitter (24%), YouTube (21%), Instagram (24%) and TikTok (9%).” – NPR “TikTok, for example, launched in September 2016, and by mid2018, it had already reached half a billion users. To put this in perspective: TikTok gained, on average, about 20 million new users per month over this period.” – Our World in Data “Use of OnlyFans exploded during the pandemic, going from 7.5 million users last November to 85 million now. This growth was spurred by celebrities. It got a 15% bump in traffic after Beyoncé referred to it in her remix of Savage in June – and while extra attention brought in consumers, it also attracted thousands of content creators.” – The Guardian

Hashtag Follow Jaime and Katie

Working in the fitness industry for almost 20 years, Jaime Filer is on a mission to help anxious LGBTQ+ women boost their confidence through fitness. As a certified trainer, Filer uses her Instagram platform shared with her wife, Katie Filer, to inspire, frequently sharing personal tidbits from their lives.

“I started my first diet when I was eleven,” said Jaime. “And it regressed very rapidly to the point where I was hospitalized three times in my teenage years after officially being diagnosed with having anorexia.”

She’d go to the gym for two to three hours a day, Jaime was also skipping classes in high school and college in order to get to the gym.

“I was lying to my parents and my friends about what I was eating,” said Jaime. “I was working out at the Jewish Community Center, working out anywhere and everywhere I could.”

Beginning to see muscles and bones that not so long ago seemed buried, Jaime eventually felt empowered and strong. The now 36-year-old who’s originally from Toronto,

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One of those locations is Axel Hotel, a South Beach hotel with a focus on the LGBTQ+ community. The largest LGBTQ+ hotel chain in the world now has a location in Miami, Florida with sophisticated, luxurious, and calming rooms with nods to Art Deco.

Axel also has a lively gay bar with a colorful dance floor, gym, hammam, beach house, and swimming pool on the hotel grounds.

Cappelli, the 2020 award-winning Gay Travel Award content creator, attended Axel’s Influencer Takeover, an event from July 2023.

“I struggle with the term influencer,” said Cappelli. “I don’t look at Instagram as a fulltime thing like some other people do. But being in Miami and helping to support an environment was nice, and it made me realize there are a lot of great influencers out there.”

People usually hate the term “influencer” – and it’s understandable. People don’t want to feel like they’re being swayed by something or someone other than their own thoughts. Influencers in social media are people who have built a reputation for their knowledge, entertainment, and expertise on a specific topic. They regularly create content about a niche interest and continuously post about that topic online.

Creating content and trying to curate entertaining media that sometimes features experiences, products, and services.

With consistency and high-quality content comes a large following of engaged people who pay close attention to their views.

This distinction is doubly important when talking about influencers from marginalized groups.

Before the rise of social media, many media outlets didn’t provide representations of the LGBTQ+ community, if at all. As LGBTQ+ people understood the power of social media, the LGBTQ+ community had an understanding and purpose of a strong bond and community. They understand the importance of social media. These social media influencers and outlets show how people are dressing, where they’re going, and how they can interact.

Those who did not yet know how they could present themselves comfortably can now be exposed to a whole world of possibilities. They can connect, follow, be inspired, and even further push the boundaries of LGBTQ+ culture by sharing themselves. Social media is a powerful tool for the LGBTQ+ community; it has the power to bring a whole community together and provide influence.

Influencers play an important role in our community because they create, curate, and distribute information that not only upholds our community but builds our culture.

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Ontario and now living in Florida, Jaime’s fitness became therapy, part of a balanced life.

“It was no longer about what I saw when I looked in the mirror,” said Jaime. “But rather how heavy are the weights that I was lifting.

As I gained more confidence, I then thought to myself, ‘Why doesn’t everybody feel this way?’”

Starting her Instagram in 2012, Jaime now has over 120K Instagram Followers.

Even meeting her alongside her equally badass wife, Katie, functional health coach, through Instagram.

“The algorithm worked its magic, and she was on a weight loss journey,” said Jaime. “I showed up on her Discover page and we started chatting and six years have gone by since then.”

“When I slid into her DMs back in 2017, I had to double message. I assumed she got tons of direct messages all the time, but I knew I needed to get her attention. Now, we use the platform not only to meet other like-minded people around the world, but to impact the LGBTQ community through our online health business.” added Katie.

With consistent posts and being authentic, Jaime and Katie have built a trusting community of physically and mentally healthy go-getters.

“Our followers get insight into our lives every day,” said Jaime. “Whether we’re having a day where we’re struggling with body image, or anxiety, or motivation, we let our followers know we’re struggling but will come out the other end okay.”

“We get messages all the time about how seeing what we eat, how we manage stress, and how we balance work and social life helps people in their own journey. Those messages make us so happy and keep us going.” added Katie.

Even though the dog-moms of two are here to help people who are struggling, social media can sometimes bring online critics seeking to provoke.

“We get messages all the time about how seeing what we eat, how we manage stress, and how we balance work and social life helps people in their own journey.”

“Two of the last couple of Reels we’ve posted have gone viral,” said Jaime. “And all we’ve done is take some of that vitriol and venom that’s been spewed at us because of the way we look or the fact that we’re in a lesbian relationship.”

She overlayed the negative comments over the video of her kissing Katie, working to reverse it back onto the internet trolls.

However, Jaime has also received positive comments and she’s also written, ‘Get Out of Your Head and Into the Gym’, an e-book she wrote with Katie discussing the struggle and fear of going to the gym.

With their growing social media success, Jaime and Katie would one day like to run several retreats throughout the world and bring the LGBTQ+ community together with a focus on mental and physical health.

“I feel like we’ve picked the right platform for us,” said Jaime. “While we still do show up on TikTok, YouTube Shorts, and Threads, that’s not where the bread and butter of our attention goes. Either way, we’re thankful to engage and motivate.”

Hashtag Safe Space

“It’s such a different playground now,” said Cappelli. “Now there’s Only Fans, TikTok, and I was fortunate to start when I did and to be found by that community.”

Don’t just take his word for it, the researchers at GLSEN discovered that “Despite experiences of bullying and harassment online, LGBTQ youth indicated the Internet is also a space that offers safer opportunities to express who they are, find peer support and gain access to resources not necessarily available in person.”

With that in mind, Cappelli also creates content with his brother, Giuseppi Cappelli. After their father had a heart attack ten years ago, Timothy [Cappelli] moved back home after working in production in California. Giuseppi, who has Down Syndrome, was left alone.

“My dad even wrote songs about my brother,” said Timothy Cappelli. “They were inseparable. My dad was a television performer, and my brother’s world was over.”

Returning home, Timothy began making content with his brother and the Cappelli brothers became content creators together.

Timothy would also like to see more content creators and influencers with special needs who can bring awareness, while also traveling, being foodies, and finding their social media niche.

“I love making content with my brother,” said Timothy Cappelli. “Whether it’s in-person or online, I’m a confident guy who loves to love and I want to leave a positive imprint.”

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Coming out as gay in 2016, Rickey Thompson has found widespread success since being on Vine. Thompson, who also appeared on the cover of the Gay Times in 2019, is an accomplished performer, whether on the stage of a comedy club, on the set of a film, or on the runway of a fashion show.

With a strong sense of humor, Thompson has migrated over to Instagram often posting humorous videos – Videos that have led to Thompson having over six million followers on Instagram. Posting content about life, career, and interest has led to Thompson latest and most successful project. Starting from the small screens of cell phones, Thompson has now hit the big screen.

The internet personality hit the big screen with his film debut ‘Good Mourning’, starring Machine Gun Kelly and Megan Fox. ‘Good Mourning,’ which is directed by Kelly, may be Thompson’s big screen debut. However, he has also appeared in Donald Glover’s television series, ‘Swarm’.

LA Times Bestselling author, Black, queer, bisexual, and Muslim. Is there any category Blair Imani doesn’t make a grand statement in?

Helping readers navigate information and have an understanding on race, gender, sexual orientation, and more, her book ‘Read This to Get Smarter’, works as a way to help readers become more well informed on a variety of topics. All in order to reach genuine empathy and compassion as a modern person.

As an activist in Black Lives Matters advocacy, Imani is a forthright authority on race relations, feminist and queer studies, intersectionality, and American history.

With informative yet perky and vibrant posts, Imani has gained 586,000 Followers on Instagram.

The purpose of “fighting the good fight” and spreading knowledge, has gained the attention of the younger generation. She continues educating people about progressive thinking and how history and culture affect policies and events today.

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BLAIR IMANI Gonia is a queer drag queen environmentalist building a community for LGBTQ+ folks, allies, and the planet. Begun in 2018 with a drag show as the character “Ginger Snaps”, Wiley created the character, Pattie Gonia. Wiley’s activism content spread through TikTok and Instagram and what started as a fun drag costume on a hiking trail turned into a platform of over 570,000 followers on Instagram.

Bringing people together through environmentalism and discussing topics such as climate change, has led to Wiley co-founding a non-profit called “The Outdoorist Oath’. Wiley has also worked with The North Face for their 2022 ‘Summer of Pride’ series.

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Simply the Best A tribute to the legendary Tina Turner, remembered not only for her profound impact on music, but for her efforts to elevate LGBTQ+ fans to the forefront.

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hen Tina Turner passed in May 2023, there was, in the title of a song that kicks off Queen Of Rock ’n Roll, an exhaustive new collection of her work, a “whole lotta love” for the bewigged woman who powered an incredible career spanning seven decades. But that should come as no surprise: her influence was so pro-

found it helped pave the way for women in rock, and it’s indubitably the case that musical history would be all the poorer without the record-breaking achievements of this legendary lady.

Born Anna Mae Bullock in November 1939 Nutbush TN, Tina’s story is like that classic song: river deep, mountain high – a tale of ambition, talent, desire; dependencies, violence, and despair. In other words, it’s the usual showbiz tattle, right?

STEVE PAFFORD is an English journalist, actor, and author of the acclaimed book BowieStyle. Having trained from the floor up in UK music titles Q, MOJO and Record Collector, he’s had his work featured in a wide variety of British, American, and Australian media including the BBC, CNN, The Independent and the New York Times.

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Not quite.

Blessed with a timeless spirit and effervescent energy, this is a woman who overcame insuperable odds, bursting from cotton-pickin’ poverty and the confines of an abusive marriage to first husband Ike Turner, a malevolent Mississippian who, to give him his due, is regarded as being responsible for the first ever rock ‘n’ roll record, 1951’s Rocket 88.

Fronting the infernal Ike & Tina Turner Revue, Tina was an R&B star from the 1950s till the 1970s.

While Turner was adored for her fiery voice, with its bluesy inflections and soaring vibrato, the music — from the incendiary cover of Creedence Clearwater Revival’s Proud Mary to her self-written Nutbush City Limits — was only one element of her influence; equally significant was her gutsy take on the image of the female pop star, with her tight skirts and wildcat shimmy-shaking routines evoking a stormy romanticism. There was danger in her voice as well as vulnerability. Not an easy combination to pull off.

After years in the wilderness, by 1983 her label EMI-Capitol considered Tina too dated and, crucially too old to make a return, a mere club act on the ‘chicken in a basket’ cabaret circuit. Compar-

atively, Aretha and Cher, three and seven years her junior, were in the doldrums, although Diana Ross, five years younger than Turner, had maintained her stardom by never being away, thus she’d been playing to arena sized crowds and carried them with her wherever she went.

However, Tina Turner knew her audience. In 1982 she did something extraordinary by performing at the inaugural Gay Games hosted in San Francisco, when other artists wouldn’t. The tournament marked a watershed moment for LGBTQ+ athletes and sports stars globally, and this iconic ally to the queer community was there to see us through it.

Not only that but in 2000 — i.e. two years before The Netherlands became the first country to enshrine marriage equality in law — Tina voiced her support for same-sex unions, saying, “I think that men marrying men, and women marrying women, is a wonderful thing. I think that it’s God’s blessings on them, that’s what I think.”

Talking of trailblazing swingers, when the great Dame, David Bowie, casually mentioned to the label he was off “to see my favorite singer tonight”, the bosses, anxious to keep their new star signing happy, teamed her with ultra-modernist studioheads Heaven 17 on a gleaming soul-meets-synths redo of Al Green’s Let’s Stay Together. A huge hit in Britain, it was this ‘electro-soul’ approach which Annie Lennox would take to another level with Eurythmics, and one that, sadly, Turner didn’t pursue.

The dramatic, bravura transformation demanded an album be cut immediately. Recorded in just two months in London, the all-conquering Private Dancer album landed in 1984, and buoyed by a string of radio-slaying singles, it went on to worldwide sales of over 20 million.

Now that’s one way to make a comeback.

That a middle-aged black woman from Tennessee could enjoy such a huge renaissance was a profoundly positive moment in music history, not to mention the biggest and most improbable comebacks in the history of showbiz that unlikely to be bettered Suddenly she found herself competing with a coruscating quadrumvirate of East-ish Coast chart-slayers Michael Jackson, Madonna, Prince and Bruce Springsteen. Acquiring the status of solo megastar with a string of hits (What’s Love

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Got To Do With It, We Don’t Need Another Hero, The Best to name just three) and triumphant tours that resulted in Tina becoming the first female performer to sell out football stadiums across the globe before La Ciccone jumped on that pointy bra’d bandwagon.

The record-breaking relaunch assured, Tina continued to smash records and help remove the glass ceiling of what women in pop music could achieve, and her Break Every Rule tour is still the biggest series of concerts, by attendance, for a female artist ever, bringing in almost 4 and a half million people.

In 1988 came the crowning glory, when Tina entered the record books for the solo artist with the largest paying audience in history with a crowd of over 182,000 people in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. On a personal note, Tina remains the only artist to have recorded with my two favorite Brit acts, Bowie and Pet Shop Boys, and sing a Bond theme (the majestic GoldenEye, written by Irish rockers U2). For context, Lulu, the Scottish minstrel who penned I Don’t Wanna Fight, Tina’s

last US Top 10 hit in the US, only ever managed two of the three, as did ole Madge.

In the 2000s the now semi-retired singer battled a stroke, cancer, and a kidney transplant, so it was understandable she retreated with her second hubby Erwin Bach to her grand villas in the South of France and Switzerland, occasionally putting in a cameo appearance on the opening nights of Tina, the musical of her life story currently touring the world. No matter. Tina Turner’s legacy as one of the great singers of all time is unassailable, a symbol of so many things — sex appeal, resilience, empowerment, and a unique vocalist that infused her songs with so much personality she could elevate even the most pedestrian pop into something special.

From tears to triumph, the power of Tina’s story is one of the most heartening comebacks ever: overcoming adversity, breaking down age and race barriers to become the female performer to sell more tickets than any, and one of the biggest selling artists in music history. Simply the best inspiration to women and men everywhere.

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Located in the western Pacific Ocean about 100 miles from the coast of southeastern China, Taiwan is a self-governing island that measures about 245 by 90 miles. Also known as the Republic of China, the island maintains an often tense relationship with mainland China. But for LGBTQ+ travelers, there’s a lot to love.

In 2019, Taiwan became the first — and only — destination in Asia to legalize same-sex marriage, and in 2023, full joint adoption for samesex couples was approved. To see just how welcoming the island can be, my husband and I spent two weeks exploring, timing our visit to coincide with yet another example of the island’s inclusivity: Taiwan Pride, which claims to be Asia’s largest pride celebration.

Taking place on the last Saturday of October in the capital city of Taipei, Taiwan Pride attracted around 175,000 participants in 2023. The biggest component is a massive parade, complemented by a festival with live entertainment and more than 120 vendors and exhibitors. The Ximen district, the city’s most popular neighborhood with LGBTQ+ locals and visitors, also becomes especially festive during this time of year.

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High Speed Rail (THSR). Here are some of my top finds in three of the biggest cities.

What to Do in Taipei As Taiwan’s capital and primary gateway for international visitors, Taipei is the island’s cultural and economic hub. For an awe-inspiring introduction to the sprawling metropolis, ride an elevator to the sky-high observation decks at Taipei 101 (No.45, City Hall Rd., Xinyi District), a 1,667-foot skyscraper that was the world’s tallest building when it opened in 2004.

Additional must-see attractions in Taipei include the National Palace Museum (No. 221, Sec 2, Zhi Shan Rd, Shilin District), which has one of the world’s largest collections of Chinese art, and the Chiang Kai-shek Memorial Hall (No.21, Zhongshan S. Rd., Zhongzheng District, which is dedicated to the memory of former president Chiang Kai-shek. Lungshan Temple (No. 211 Guangzhou St., Wanhua District), a beautifully

ornate temple complex built in the mid 1700s, is another noteworthy site.

After dark, the city’s legendary night markets come to life, offering countless opportunities to shop and sample inexpensive local cuisine (including daringly named items like stinky tofu).

The Ximen Market is one of the most popular, especially among LGBTQ+ travelers, since it’s located in the neighborhood with the highest concentration of queer bars, shopping and dining.

Indeed, you could easily spend a lot of time in Ximen. A variety of open-air LGBTQ+ bars are spread around the Red House (No. 10 Chengdu Rd., Wanhua District), a historic building that dates to 1908 and now houses interesting shops and exhibits.

Additional LGBTQ+ nightlife options include Locker Room (No. 34 Neijang St., Wanhua District), which attracts all genders with its lively drag and go-go boy performances, and Commander D (No. 36, Section 2), which attracts a

LEFT: Photos from Taiwan Pride 2023 event.

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mostly male clientele with its basement bar vibe and backroom. Many gay men also head to the Emperor Spa (No.42-1, Ln 402, Xingyi Road, Beitou District), one of several hot springs facilities tucked into the hills just outside the city. While not specifically LGBTQ+, it attracts a largely gay male clientele.

Accommodations in Taipei: We stayed at Hotel Resonance (No. 7 Linsen S. Rd, Happy Village), the first Tapestry Collection by Hilton property in the Asia Pacific region. This stylish hotel, which opened in 2020, features amenities like a free minibar and free laundry room. We also stayed at Hotel Cho (No. 119 Kunming St., Wanhua District), which exudes a vintage vibe near the Ximen district nightlife and shopping.

Architectural Wonders in Kaohsiung Fans of art, architecture and culture should consider a visit to Kaohsiung, Taiwan’s third-largest city. Its magnificent waterfront is graced with

eye-catching architectural landmarks, including the Pier-2 Art Center (No. 1, Dayong Rd, Yancheng District), a group of former shipping warehouses that have been repurposed to house shops, art studios, bars and restaurants. Nearby, a short ferry ride whisks visitors to Cijin Island, where they can stroll the beach, rent a fancifully decorated electric cart and walk through the Tunnel of Stars, an illuminated passageway that leads to a lovely ocean view.

Also topping the list of attractions in Kaohsiung is Lotus Pond, a body of water that’s dotted with uniquely colorful religious sites, including the Dragon and Tiger Pagodas, the Zuoying Yuandi Temple and Spring and Autumn Pavilions.

On the outskirts of the city, Fo Guang Shan Buddha Museum (No. 1 Tongling Rd, Dashu District), the largest Buddhist monastery in Taiwan, which is home to the tallest bronze sitting Buddha statue in Asia.

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When transiting the city via the Kaohsiung Metro (also called the KRTC), be sure to stop at the Formosa Boulevard Station, which often ranks in listings of the world’s most beautiful subway stations. Its main focal point is the Dome of Light, a colorful work by Italian artist Narcissus Quagliata that tourism officials describe as the largest illuminated glass dome in the world.

Accommodations in Kaohsiung: We stayed at Hotel Indigo Kaohsiung Central Park (No. 4 Zhongshan 1st Rd., Xinxing District), an attractive property with a great rooftop bar. On the higher end is the InterContinental Kaohsiung (No. 33 Singuang Rd, Qianzhen District).

Engaging History in Tainan Taiwan’s oldest city, Tainan was founded in 1624. Top historic sites include the Anping Fort (No. 82, Guosheng Rd.), which was built between 1624 and 1634 by the Dutch East India Company, the Anping Tree House, a former warehouse now overgrown with Banyan trees, and the Anping

Guanyin Temple, which was built in 1590 and predates the founding of the city.

Several noteworthy attractions are in the West Central District, including Chihkan Tower (No. 212, Section 2, Minzu Rd.), built in 1652 by the Dutch, the Tainan Confucius Temple (No. 2 Nanmen Rd., West Central District), which dates to 1666, and the Tainan Art Museum (West Central District).

While there are plenty of LGBTQ+-friendly bars in Tainan, there’s only one specifically gay bar: R9 (No. 732, Section 1, Ximen Rd, West Central District), a small-but-comfy place that features karaoke.

Accommodations in Tainan: We stayed at Hotel Hua (No. 218, Section 3, Jinhua Rd, West Central District), a reasonably priced and comfortable hotel that’s located a few minutes by Uber from major attractions. For a more upscale experience, consider the Shangri-La Far Eastern, Tainan (89 Section West, University Rd.).

TOP: Formosa Boulevard Station BOTTOM: Photos from Taiwan Pride 2023 event.

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WITH ITS SUN-KISSED ATMOSPHERE AND WEALTH OF SHOPPING DESTINATIONS, GREATER FORT LAUDERDALE IS A SHOPPERS' PARADISE.

tival dedicated to celebrating the bear community. This event draws bear enthusiasts for a week-long extravaganza filled with themed events, beach parties, and the iconic VIP Bear Cruise along the picturesque Intracoastal Waterway. While Bear Week is a cornerstone event, the region keeps the celebration alive year-round. From the vibrant Stonewall Pride (June 15), a colorful celebration of diversity featuring lively parades, street vendors, and captivating live performances, to enlightening educational seminars and captivating art exhibitions, Greater Fort Lauderdale hosts a wide range of events catering to diverse tastes and LGBT+ interests.

Known as the LGBT+ capital of Florida, this region is celebrated for its dynamic blend of cultures and unwavering commitment to embracing every individual.

Whether wandering through its bustling, rainbow-colored streets of Wilton Manors or basking in the tranquility of its sprawling 24 miles of sun-kissed beaches, Greater Fort Lauderdale offers a sense of belonging that profoundly resonates. Here, every street corner, every smile, and every sunlit wave seems to whisper a warm welcome, making it a place where diversity isn't just accepted – it's celebrated.

Embrace the Vibe with Alexander Star

The spirit of inclusion in Greater Fort Lauderdale shines through the music of Alexander Star, an Emmy®nominated local songwriter. His anthem, "Laudy Dayo," is more than a song. It's a musical embodiment of the area's ethos - "everyone under the sun." This soulful soundtrack reflects the diverse cultures that make up Greater Fort Lauderdale, weaving a rich narrative of a welcoming destination. As you explore this beautiful and culturally rich area, let the infectious beat of "Laudy Dayo" be your invitation to join in the vibrant life of Florida's most welcoming destination.

Dive into Celebration: Bear Week and Stonewall Pride

Each year, Greater Fort Lauderdale takes center stage with Lauderdale Tropical Bear Week (March 5-10), a fes-

Culinary Delights, Vibrant Nights

Greater Fort Lauderdale's culinary landscape is a rich tapestry of flavors and atmospheres, offering a smorgasbord of dining and nightlife options that cater to every palate. In the heart of Wilton Manors, the vibrant "Island City and gayborhood,” hundreds of LGBT+ owned and operated businesses offer a rainbow-welcoming embrace. For those seeking elevated views with their dining, the rooftop bars in the area provide a perfect blend of handcrafted cocktails and stunning cityscapes, making for an unforgettable night under the stars. If hidden, intimate spots are more to your liking, the local speakeasies offer a charming throwback to the prohibition era, complete with classic and innovative drinks in a cozy, secretive ambiance.

FOR MORE INFORMATION about this inclusive beach playground that celebrates everyone under the sun, follow @VisitLauderdale or explore VisitLauderdale.com/lgbt

Unleash Your Inner Shopaholic

Greater Fort Lauderdale is not just a destination; it's an adventure waiting to be discovered. For those with a spirit of exploration, the region's natural wonders offer endless opportunities. The crown jewel of this outdoor paradise is the Everglades, a sprawling, majestic wetland teeming with unique wildlife and lush vegetation. Embark on an eco-tour to navigate through this mesmerizing landscape, where the whispers of nature tell ancient tales, and each corner reveals a new, breathtaking vista.

With its sun-kissed atmosphere and wealth of shopping destinations, Greater Fort Lauderdale is a shoppers' paradise. From the renowned Sawgrass Mills Mall, ranked among the largest shopping centers in the United States, to the trendy and boutique-filled lanes of Las Olas Boulevard, this region offers an extensive array of options to fulfill your shopping desires.

For the fashionistas who stroll through the elegantly curated boutiques, the savvy bargain hunters who unearth hidden gems, and those who leisurely wander, reveling in the delight of unexpected discoveries, Greater Fort Lauderdale offers a vibrant tapestry of shopping experiences to enrich your day.

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Explore the Wild Side: Alligators, Manatees, and Panthers, Oh my!

Beyond the call of the wild, the area's beachfront promenades beckon for strolls under the Florida sun, where the rhythm of the waves sets a serene soundtrack to your wanderings.

Immerse yourself in Greater Fort Lauderdale's warmth, fun, and excitement. Here, visitors are welcomed, every moment is cherished, and each experience is crafted to ensure your stay is unforgettable.

WITH A VIBRANT COMMUNITY SPIRIT AND ACTIVITIES TAILORED TO DIVERSE TASTES, GREATER FORT LAUDERDALE IS A COMMUNITY THAT GREETS VISITORS WITH OPEN ARMS.

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The cultural vibrancy of Greater Fort Lauderdale is just as compelling. The region is a melting pot of arts and culture, boasting an array of galleries, theaters, and museums. These cultural havens offer a deep dive into the region's rich heritage, showcasing everything from contemporary art to historical artifacts.

Each venue is a portal to the past and present, offering a vibrant celebration of the diverse tapestry that makes up this unique community.

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The area's culinary offerings range from intimate cafes where you can savor a quiet moment to vibrant eateries serving a global array of dishes. Seafood lovers will delight in waterfront restaurants where the day's catch is always fresh, and the views are as captivating as the flavors.

As the sun sets, the neighborhood transforms, with the energy of bustling nightclubs and bars coming to life. Whether you're looking for a gourmet dining experience, a lively night out, or a quiet evening in a chic café, Wilton Manors is where every visitor can find their niche and indulge in Greater Fort Lauderdale's diverse, inclusive spirit.

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A Convention to Remember IGLTA celebrated its 40th anniversary global convention in San Juan with record attendance.

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he International LGBTQ+ Travel Association (IGLTA) wrapped up its largest convention in its 40-year history with over 700 attendees from 36 countries and territories. The IGLTA Global Convention's return to the Caribbean for the first time since 1985 was nothing short of historic. The event was a testament to the growing importance of LGBTQ+ tourism in the Caribbean, and it was a chance for attendees to learn about the latest trends in the industry and network with professionals from around the globe.

Discover Puerto Rico was a key partner in the success of the 40th Anniversary Global Convention. Their generous support and expertise helped create a truly memorable event for attendees.

“IGLTA’s 40th Anniversary Global Convention was a resounding success, and a showcase for the resilience, creativity and diversity of the LGBTQ+ travel community," said IGLTA President/CEO John Tanzella. “We could not be more proud of our return to the Caribbean to celebrate the importance of global LGBTQ+ travel and tourism.”

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SEEN “Discover Puerto Rico alongside our on-Island partners were honored to host the prestigious IGLTA convention here on our beautiful Island.

Inclusivity has been a strategic pillar of our DMO since its inception in 2018 and celebrating IGLTA’s 40th anniversary convention in Puerto Rico is a testament to our values in action. The team at Discover Puerto Rico has worked for more than two years to bring this extraordinary event to life, and we are thrilled to have helped IGLTA surpass record attendance at this year’s conference,” said Leah Chandler. Discover Puerto Rico’s Chief Marketing Officer.

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• IGLTA Foundation Think Tank at Casa Bacardi, where global C-Suite thought leaders discussed the future of LGBTQ+ travel and hospitality in the Caribbean.

• Women in Leadership Networking Reception: Prior to the Opening Reception the women and nonbinary attendees of the convention gathered for their largest event yet to network and connect, hosted by Booking.com.

• IGLTA Foundation’s Voyage Fundraiser raised over US$100,000 to support the foundation’s work in promoting LGBTQ+ inclusive travel.

The funds will be used to support research, education, and leadership initiatives.

• The IGLTA Pride Party celebrated the LGBTQ+ community in the host destination, with proceeds from the event supporting the 2023 Pathfinder Award recipients, True Self Foundation and Waves Ahead Corp Puerto Rico.

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IGLTA’s 2024 Convention is set for October 23-26 in Osaka, Japan. The convention will be followed by Osaka Pride, October 26-27 to enhance the LGBTQ+ travel experience.

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Victory Will Be Ours LGBTQ+ Victory Institute 2023 LGBTQ+ Leaders Conference in our nation’s capital.

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ver 600 LGBTQ+ elected officials, leaders, and advocates from across the world came together for the 39th Annual International LGBTQ+ Leaders Conference in Washington, DC. The conference included three days of networking and skills building as LGBTQ+ candidates and campaign managers strategize the year ahead in our movement for equality.

LGBTQ+ Victory Institute hosted the 2023 Conference at the JW Marriott in Washington, DC, November 30 to December 2, 2023. Activities included: Elected Officials Summit, One-Day Candidate & Campaign Training, Political Appointments Training, Victory Congressional Intern Orientation, and Convention Delegate Training.

Plenaries included: Back in the Political Playbook: LGBTQ+ Issues and Candidates in the 2024 Elections; Emulating Our Opponents: Countering the Global Anti-LGBTQ Movement;

SEEN and “We’re Still Here”: LGBTQ+ Indigenous Leaders and the Continued Fight for Equality.

Evening receptions included the Opening Global Reception; Leading in Color Party; David Bohnet Leaders Fellow Reception; Victory Congressional Intern Dinner; NextGen Reception; and Women Out to Win Reception.

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risten Lovell’s path to co-directing an HBO documentary did not begin at a fancy Manhattan film school, but in a part of town once called The Stroll, where thousands of down-on-their-luck youths like herself sold themselves for food and shelter.

“When it's freezing, when it's dead of winter in New York City, you have no more morals. You're gonna just do what you need to do to survive. And a lot of us were stuck on survival mode,” Lovell said during a recent stop in Fort Lauderdale to promote her current movie, The Stroll, which won a U.S. Documentary Special Jury Award at the 2023 Sundance Film Festival.

At 17, Lovell ran away from her hometown of Yonkers, New York, and stayed in a Midtown homeless shelter, where she came out as a trans woman.

She spent the next 10 years on the streets, working The Stroll. In 2005 at age 28, Lovell participated in a documentary on homeless LGBTQ youth “because it became a thing, you know.”

“At the time, I was a little older than some of the young people featured. One of the girls, I sheltered her because she decided she was gonna do sex work and she’s gonna be on the streets,” Lovell said. “A lot of kids come out to New York City, and they have big New York City dreams, but New York City is not going to allow you to have that dream. Especially then. There were no opportunities whatsoever.”

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Lovell, however, did find her way out. She got a job and worked 10 years at Sylvia Rivera’s Place, a New York City shelter and service provider mostly for LGBTQ youth.

She began auditioning for acting jobs and later met and befriended director Flavio Alves. Lovell tried out for an upcoming film he was making and instead of hiring her as an actor, he brought her onboard as a co-producer of 2019’s The Garden Left Behind.

“I learned so much about filmmaking, about the process of filmmaking, about being with the director as a producer and watching every step of the process,” Lovell said.

During that year before the Covid pandemic, Lovell conceptualized a documentary about her, her friends and their years on The Stroll.

An HBO rep contacted her by email, said the network was interested in the project and asked for preview footage.

“We submitted the sizzle reel and then, like two weeks later, we got the green light and each girl was on board. It was a fantastic journey. They weren't overbearing. They gave us full reign to do what we want, and it was beautiful.”

The Stroll was screened in January 2023 at Sundance and premiered June 23 on Max. “The reception of the film has been amazing. I get messages almost every other day – particularly from younger people who were born after 9/11 and don't even know what that is – thanking us for the history lesson,” Lovell said.

“It empowers them now because of what their struggles are today with anti-trans legislation and all that stuff,” she said. “This is their fight now, but [the film] gives them a reminder that

everything that is happening now – drag bans – they’ve tried before.”

In October, Lovell and several of her Stroll costars attended a screening followed by a Q&A at the Stonewall National Museum & Archives in Fort Lauderdale.

A large audience filled the museum. “It was a very emotional response. A lot of crying,” Stonewall Executive Director Robert Kesten said. “What moved them to tears? How hard their lives were.

What they had to do to survive.”

Kesten said it’s important for all LGBTQ people to know about Lovell, her friends and other queer folk who survive by living on the streets of America.

“Without their stories, we’re not telling the history of our community,” he said. “If anything, our community should be extraordinarily sensitive to the people whose stories make up our history because we’ve been excluded for so long.”

The Stroll co-star Carey Smith agrees.

“Our experience is a very unique situation. The

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story is a very important story that needs to be told. I don’t want us to ever be erased. I was all for telling my story,” she said. Even though I’m not a sex worker anymore – I work at a nonprofit organization in Brooklyn – it was important for me to tell this story.”

Smith said her participation in The Stroll was for “all the girlfriends I’ve lost on 14th Street. A lot of them drug overdoses, HIV/AIDS. … I lost, personally, probably about 150 girlfriends. Through violence, murder.”

After years working The Stroll, Jamaican-born Smith finally had enough.

“I was tired. I was drained. I was on drugs. I was on crack cocaine. I was at my wit's end. I committed crimes. And I deliberately committed those crimes because I wanted a way out, which I don't care if anybody judged me. They weren’t in my shoes. And I committed those crimes because in my mind I wanted a judge to mandate me to a drug program.

“I wanted to just get my shit together. So that was the only way I knew out of The Stroll. I committed two robberies, and I got locked up and I went to prison for six years,” said Smith, a trans

woman now in her early 40s. “I got clean. Anything in life I've done, I take seriously. And when I did sex work, I took it seriously.”

The Stroll – located in Lower Manhattan’s now-gentrified Meatpacking District of upscale restaurants, boutiques and hotels – is today unrecognizable to Lovell, Smith and their friend, Elizabeth Marie Rivera.

Born in Brooklyn and raised in Southern California, Rivera returned to the Northeast in 1997 at age 18 to live with an aunt in Patterson, New Jersey.

Rivera soon ended up in a New York homeless shelter, where she transitioned. In 1999, she befriended a trans woman who worked The Stroll.

“She asked if I would be interested in accompanying her,” Rivera recalled. “I asked why and she said ‘I need someone to look out for me.’

“It intrigued me. I don't think it necessarily frightened me. It intrigued me because of the courage that it took the girls to go out there and do what they were doing.”

At times, working The Stroll was fun and “felt empowering,” she said.

“Being able to connect with the girls. Being able

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Most times, however, working The Stroll was demoralizing and dangerous.

“Kristen and I would occasionally go out together. I remember there would be nights where it'd be pouring rain or it'd be snowing, and how upset I would become to have to come out into the freezing cold, and to stand out there for hours and not have any action going on because it's not busy due to the weather. And you've got no money. It was just one of those things where I felt kind of tortured in the sense of feeling like, there's gotta be a better life for us. This can't be it.”

Rivera worked The Stroll for three years.

“There were girls out there working way longer than I have,” she said. “You weren't really given a choice. It was the only place that we could go to do survival sex work. There were times where you just had to pick yourself up and you had to endure.

Push you through it.”

Rivera’s breaking point came one night after meeting a young john. “He was a cutie and I thought, you know what, I did good tonight, I deserve to have a little bit of fun.”

She got into his car and he pulled up to a nearby hospital.

“Two other individuals jumped into the back of the car and all three of them assaulted me and robbed me,” Rivera said.

“My instinct was to run to the ER lobby. And as soon as I ran in there, the security guard immediately told me, ‘You can't be in here, you have to leave.’ I said ‘I just got assaulted, I just literally got physically assaulted.’ And he said, ‘No, you can't be in here, you gotta go, you gotta go.’ And I just looked at him and just told him, ‘Fuck you.’ I turned around and I remember just walking back to The Stroll, crying.”

Today, Rivera has “a day job” and also does sex work on the side – and on her own terms.

“I didn't feel victimized. I became a dominatrix,” Rivera said. “You know, it was my way of transitioning from The Stroll. I took myself off the street and into a closed, controlled environment that I ran and call the shots in.”

What does stroll mean in slang?

To walk the streets as a prostitute.

LEFT TO RIGHT: Kristen Lowell, Carey Smith, Izzy, and Elizabeth Marie Rivera.

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An interview with comedian, screenwriter, and author, Curtis Chin.

ast year Curtis Chin -- filmmaker, comedian, scholar, and TV writer among many other achievements -- published “All I Ever Learned, I Learned in a Chinese Restaurant.” The memoir focuses on his life growing up in his family’s restaurant in 1980s Detroit. Chin, who lives in LA with his husband, stated this isn’t necessarily a book about food.

“I was the one family member who didn’t know how to cook.”

Chin, a founding member of the Asian-American Writer’s Workshop in New York City, has been very busy since the memoir came out last October. By the end of 2023 he racked up over 60 appearances related to its publication.

Sebastian Fortino: What do you have coming up this year, what’re you looking forward to?

Curtis Chin: I’ve got a lot of touring in May, for Asian-American Heritage Month. In April there’s a ceremony happening in Michigan.

My book just got selected as one of the notable books of Michigan.

SF: How often do you get back to Michigan? Is your family still there?

CC: My extended family is still there; my immediate family is all in the Bay Area. Because of the book I’ve been going back almost monthly for the last year. I’ve been getting a lot of invitations from colleges, libraries, and even organizations.

My book has really been embraced by Michigan.

SF: Is there any one aspect of the book that grabbed the attention of readers?

CC: It’s different for so many people. It’s not only people in Michigan that embraced it. A lot of people [are] interested in food, too. Obviously, it’s a restaurant so I talk about food. But there’s this whole world called food studies. Not just examining food as a recipe, but food as it impacts culture. I didn’t know there was this whole field of study.

Since then, I wrote a piece for Bon Appétit which got selected for best American food writing. There’s a TV show called America’s Test Kitchen. They hired me to produce a podcast about one of the dishes in my book.

This is one of the lessons I learned growing up.

As a kid I wanted to be in the kitchen. Everybody seemed to have so much fun making food. You get to be so creative, right? But I was always sent to the dining room to set the table. I hated that growing up. So, I tried to be as good as I could as a waiter, as front of house, as I could. Sometimes we have these places we want to be but maybe there are other places we need to be.

SF: That’s a beautiful answer. You can be part of the food process without cooking.

CC: Serving food is so much a part of it, too, right? It’s about the meal, eating, you can be a great facilitator for that experience.

SF: You received your BA in Creative Writing.

Was your decision to get into this major considered controversial for your family?

CC: There’s a whole story about that. When I was in college, Amy Tan’s “Joy Luck Club” had just come out. Mom got it in her head that her story was worthy of a novel too. She’d chase me around the restaurant, dropping all these stories from her childhood.

SF: On memoir writing: Some writers have been criticized for their memoirs not being 100% accurate.

CC: Memory is difficult, right? An hour from now we each could have different memories of this conversation. When writing a memoir, you try to be as truthful as possible. But there’s an asterisk to that.

SF: Do you think traditional Chinatown neighborhoods are endangered? Or do you think the vibrancy and need is still there?

CC: I hope they remain viable! Because immigrant communities are important to America. Oftentimes that’s where the immigrants will go. They bring energy, and new ideas to our country. To me, preserving these communities isn’t about being nostalgic. It’s about building America’s future. So, a Chinatown is a great place for immigrants to get assimilated. I would hope that they survive.

SF: As the novel takes place during a dark time in the city’s history, what was that like coming out to family in that era?

CC: I actually don't come out to my family in the book, just to a few friends and co-workers.

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SF: With your writing do any mentoring for young queer Asians? Or is it just you “being there,” as an out gay man of Chinese heritage that has an impact?

CC: When you write a book and put it out into the world you don’t know the impact it has. Now with touring, it’s interesting to me and it’s happened a few times, I would say its young Asians, some of them are queer. I get emails from gay readers saying, “Oh my God, I related so much to the book.”

But, more importantly I get young Asians from working-class families facing a lot of the same struggles I did. You know, balancing working in a family business, having a social life, being your own person. Young Asian-Americans are sometimes the last person to come up to me, and talk

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“So, I tried to be as good as I could as a waiter, as front of house, as I could.

Sometimes we have these places we want to be but maybe there are other places we need to be.”

— Curtis Chin

to me, wanting to share they’re fighting with their parents. They’re just not happy with their lives, they might start crying, they’re just struggling. I try to be as compassionate as possible. I tell them to be compassionate to their parents. Because oftentimes we think we have struggles only we are going through, but you’d be amazed that maybe your parents are going through these same things or have gone through them.

SF: What else is going on this year? Are you doing a new memoir or follow-up or thinking about it?

CC: I’d love to! This spring I’ll be doing another 60 or 70 events. I’m already getting invitations for fall. In terms of non-publicity stuff: I have a little freedom now. The writer’s guild strike did affect me. I was in project development with one of the big entertainment companies. I’m working on a spec script, hoping to sell the book as a TV film series.

If you haven’t yet read this wonderful memoir published by Hachette Book Group, or wish to keep up with Curtis Chin, head to CurtisFromDetroit.com for the latest updates.

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What’s Up Danny?

An interview with actor, comedian, and podcaster, Daniel Franzese.

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t’s been two decades since Daniel Franzese appeared as out gay teenager Damian in the original Mean Girls film. At one time the actor tried to leave the legacy of that character behind. For 10 years now, he has come to embrace the film, his fans, and just how groundbreaking the role was.

He also explains why you won’t find him among the cast of the Mean Girls musical which premiered in January.

But, there’s so much more about the self-described “Hollywood busy” actor, writer, director, comedian, and activist. Embrace asked “what’s up” with Franzese. He promises there’s lots in store for 2024.

Sebastian Fortino: So, of course the first question I have to ask: it’s the twentieth anniversary of Mean Girls. How does that feel? What perspective has it given you as a performer?

Daniel Franzese: I think it’s a wonderful experience to see something that you worked on twenty years ago still remain current. The fans keep it alive – I love the fan art and the memes.

The thing that’s been the most surprising and life-changing for me has been the cultural significance of the Damian character. At the tenth anniversary it was clear to me that it meant a lot to queer people to be seen in that light, in a movie.

SF: I know there was an MG II, but it didn’t seem any of the original cast were in it. If there were plans to do a “Mean Girls 2024” would you return to play adult Damian?

DF: It was a straight-to-video kind of like money-grab type thing. All of us have said if the situation was right, we would return, it just depends on the situation. There was an opportunity to have us in the musical but…they didn’t call us. So, who knows? They actually called, said expect another call, and never called again. So, I’ve been Mean Girled by Mean Girls.

SF: To loosely quote the movie, that is so not “fetch.”

SF: Why do you think the film became such a cult classic? Do you think the film has held up over the past two decades?

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DF: It’s held up and been a cult classic because it resonates with women. Especially because it’s based off Rosalind Wiseman’s 2002 book “Queen Bees & Wannabes”. It really did describe “girl world” and the culture of being a girl. In a way that was not brought out in the open before. In fact, the name, the term, mean girls has been used in psychology, documentaries, and other media to describe the behavior that happens among teenage girls. And that came from our movie.

SF: Damian was a flamboyant, gay student.

Were you privately out at the time? I heard it was “cathartic” from an interview you did.

DF: I was out privately at the time but not publicly. I was paranoid about being out publicly. I kind of took a leap with the character. At the time I was thinking since so many straight people were playing gay people that I thought I could get away with it—if I followed it with a really straight character after. But, after playing the character, since the movie got so big, I was just receiving gay roles and they weren’t as progressive as Damian was. It was hard to play exploitative roles after. Damian has had international impact. I hear fans from countries where being queer is repressed, saw Damian and knew they could have an out life in America.

SF: Were both the role and the fallout afterwards cathartic for you?

DF: I mean, I don’t know if the fall out was cathartic. The fall out was stressful. The role itself, around the tenth anniversary when I finally came out of the closet, sort of was very healing. Because I began to really receive and accept what the fans were saying about the movie. Where for years I had been trying to move away from it.

SF: How does your background, your heritage, and personality inform your work?

DF: Yes, I try to infuse myself whenever I can. if it’s gay, Italian, or chubby I’m in! I’m trying to find ways to represent parts of me that I didn’t see. I did a movie “CTRL ALT DLT” directed by Kit Williamson [known for Eastsiders & Mad Men] with Jason Priestly, Mena Savari, and Cheyenne Jackson. The character had an “American last name.” I asked, “Can I give him

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an Italian name? He’s a film professor at the high school. Why can’t he be Italian? They were like, ‘Sure, no problem.’” That was a way for me to just—you know—a young Italian American kid might watch this and think, “Oh, he has an Italian last name. Maybe I could be a film professor too.” Seeing yourself represented helps so much. I like to represent my community whenever I can, because I think under-represented in the queer community are Italians.

SF: Now that you’ve been out in the public for a decade—what changes have you welcomed?

DF: I just try to use my voice and be as loud and proud and fully myself as possible. I try in everything I do to be authentic and transparent, and loud about issues. I learned to become an activist, and a public speaker. It’s helped me embrace who I’m really supposed to be.

Daniel was excited to share that he’s got a lot going on this year. This summer he’s dropping a second album. In addition to Kit Williamson’s “CTRL+ALT+DEL” he’ll appear in “Hollywood Heist” by actor-director Mike Hatton, with Nick Cannon, and Mickey Rourke.

Like to laugh? You’ll want to check Daniel out in ‘House of Laughs’ a queer-centric standup produced

by World of Wonder. Go to WhatsUpDanny.com to learn about all things Daniel.

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• From Daniel’s website: Yass, Jesus! is a faith and sexuality affirming comedy podcast that believes you don't have to pick between gay and God. • Both men survived so-called conversion therapy.

• Daniel & Azariah Southworth, host a podcast discussing Christianity through an LGBTQ+ lens.

• The award-winning podcast has over 200 episodes.

• Past topics include “Queer Saint Betty White,” the hotly-debated concept of “Slut Shaming”, & “Chosen Family.”

• Daniel & Azariah--who formerly had a spot on a certain conservative Christian TV channel--believe the bible and its stories are relevant in the lives of LGBTQ+ people today.

• Baked Bible Stories, the hosts get stoned, share a bible story, and according to Daniel, “Have fun with it.”

• The show is funny and engaging for believers and non-believers alike. The tone is often irreverent in terms of queer humor but always respectful of Judeo-Christianity.

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She’s a Lover An interview with ‘The Voice” and “AGT” singer, Sarah Potenza.

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ince her season eight appearance on NBC’s “The Voice,” where she won a vote from all four judges, Sarah Potenza has been making strides as an out bisexual performer.

The Rhode Island native, singer, and fashionista now makes her home in Nashville.

Sarah caught up with Embrace while she was at her makeup table somewhere in California prepping for a show. Her warmth was expressed by many responses beginning or ending with “I love that.”

Sebastian Fortino: I read you’re based in Nashville, and you identify as a loud-mouthed, proud Italian American. That’s quite a combination or do you think it’s a contrast?

Sarah Potenza: It’s so different there. It’s the south. I remember when I first went out there I remembered seeing Italian food in the ethnic aisle. There’s not a lot of food options for Italian food. After being in Chicago for 10 years I was very used to the food being like fire. In Nashville, Italian food isn’t great. I mean, if you want fried chicken or barbecue, you’re in a great spot, but…

SF: You also identify as bisexual.

SP: I do!

SF: What are you working on right now? Are you writing music right now, working on an album?

SP: I am! I’m working with the producer named David Aude. He worked with Bruno Mars, and he lives in Nashville too. And we are working on some new music, originals as well as some covers. They’re really fun and familiar but totally reimagined.

SF: I love the fact that you write your own music, and you do covers.

SP: I love that too; I think there’s room for both.

SF: I saw the video of “Their Loss” which you did with Melody Walker. When did you shoot that? That was really wonderful! Was this something you wrote alone or with someone?

SP: Thanks. We shot that summer of 2023. My friend Melody and I just got together and wrote songs, we just had a really good time writing together. It turned into a fun project so we shot that video together for it. Also, I was on America’s

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Got Talent and for whatever reason they cut me from the show. So, I had my pity party, then we wrote the song.

SF: Is she music and are you lyrics type of thing? Or… SP: Both. We just work together on everything.

We sit around and shoot the shit and have ideas together. It’s really like the best idea wins and we just get together. We have fun and work on stuff.

That’s how it goes down.

SF: That’s great. I didn’t accomplish much during the pandemic. The only thing I learned was that I can’t knit. I tried. They make it look so easy!

SP: You were like, “I don’t know how to do it!

Those crafty bitches!”

SF: Ha! From what I can tell from that track is that it furthers and continues to empower other performers, and especially women. So, this empowerment in your songs has that always been at the core.

SP: No, no. It hasn’t always been at the core. It started with my Monster album. I started to think about body positivity. It was always my original idea to go for what I considered to be empowered.

It’s become really different for me since I came out. I have a girlfriend now, and it’s a very different lifestyle than living, even as a bisexual woman you’re still living a hetero-style lifestyle if you’re with a man. A lot of mental health stuff. I am in a program for the adult children of alcoholics and dysfunctional families [for more information visit AdultChildren.org]. That’s really helped me a lot.

It’s an anonymous program but I am outing myself. It’s been really transformative for me.

SF: When you do covers--does body positivity, empowerment--do these themes influence your choices in covers? Or when you cover songs is that a separate reality?

SP: It used to really come into play big time for me. Although lately for me music is about what other people experience. Whereas before, I might not sing a love song…I might pick some-

thing more empowering, now, for me, everything is empowering. It’s just empowering to be a 43-year-old woman and a size 18 in the music business and to be able to sing. To be a woman in the music business is empowering. To tell people about yourself in general. Just to be an entertainer is empowering.

SF: So, you just sing for fun sometimes?

SP: Yeah, sometimes, just for fun. This is a really great song. And I wanna sing it.

SF: How do you feel about your early-on comparison to Amy Winehouse and Adele. Was this an honor or a burden, given their place in music history?

SP: I feel so honored by it. I like a challenge.

But I love that. I don’t think it was a burden or a complication. I worked with it.

SF: How is Nashville, a typically Country-Western town, but for the past few years we’re seeing more diversity coming outta there. I mean, Dolly Parton has always embraced diversity.

SP: Love her too!

SF: And now we have Little Nas X who is a great example of empowerment who had a hit country song.

SP: I think my music has always been that way, understanding. Bringing enthusiasm. People really like when a songwriter has something to say. So, it’s been pretty cool. I mean, I don’t dabble in that Country scene at all. I am excited to see with this next project with this new producer Dave Aude. I am excited now to make music that’s fun, that people wanna dance too.

For 2024 Sarah says she is touring throughout the year. Head to SarahPotenza.net to keep up with tour dates, releases, and lots of amazing photos celebrating her signature style.

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According to the NGLCC website description of their program’s initiatives, the NGLCC and the Grubhub Community Fund “have come together to provide vital assistance to LGBTQ+-owned and allied restaurants, cafes, bars serving food, and other eating establishments.” The initiative trickled down to all local chambers of the National LGBTQ+ Chamber of Commerce (NGLCC).

Each local chamber notifies their members of the available grant. In this case, the Pride Chamber, under the direction of then interim president/ CEO, Thor Falk, and chairperson, Denise Meritt, informed the qualifying restaurant members of the grant. Five members each received $5,000 from the Grubhub Community Fund, thanks to the NGLCC initiative.

According to the Grubhub website, the Community Fund was established in 2020 to assist restaurants that were hit with other hospitality businesses the hardest by the pandemic of Covid-19. “The Grubhub Community Fund has given more than $65 million to Charitable organizations and communities worldwide.”

Among the four recipients in Orlando in 2023 were: Hamburger Mary’s Bar & Grille, Se7enbites, Savoy Orlando, and Hungry Pants. All have attended the luncheon held in their honor except for Hungry Pants, which has since, unfortunately, closed.

Here are the three businesses who participated in the luncheon: Hamburger Mary’s Bar & Grille

Owner(s): John Paonessa and Mike Rogier Business Location: 110 W. Church Street, Orlando, FL 32801 Contact Information: Johnpaonessa@gmail.com / 954-608-0782 / Hamburgermarys.com/Orlando

Business Description: Hamburger Mary’s Bar & Grille has been a staple in the Orlando community since 2008. We serve some of the best burgers in town but are equally known for our top-notch entertainment.

We pride ourselves on being a safe space for the LGBTQIA+ community and have won many awards over the years for our contribution to the community.

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Owner(s): Chef Trina Gregory Business Location: 617 N Primrose Dr, Orlando Fl 32803, In The Milk District Contact Information: Info@se7enbites.com / 407-2030727 / www.se7enbites.com

Owner(s): Brandon Llewellyn Business Location: 1913 N Orange Ave, Orlando, FL 32804 Contact Information: 407.270.4685 / brandonsavoyorl@gmail.com / www.savoyorlando.com/

Business Description: Our business specializes in Southern Comfort Food and Nostalgic Baked Goods with a modern twist!! We love taking family recipes and making them for the masses! We have award winning Chicken & Waffles and can’t wait to fill your pie hole!

Business Description: Established in 2004 and located in downtown Orlando, Ivanhoe Village Neighborhood, Savoy Orlando provides a safe and welcoming space for everyone to gather and celebrate with a stylish interior and chic ambiance that appeals to a diverse crowd. In

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Source: Savoy Orlando website and ivanhoevillage.org

In addition to the recognition of the restaurant recipients of the 2023 NGLCC Community Impact Grant Awards, the Pride Chamber luncheon also held a special presentation in recognition of 2023 Transgender Awareness Week and National Entrepreneurship Month, with a $1,000 grant presented to Jessica Dawson, co-founder of FISK Mobile Tipping. Like each of the NGLCC Community Impact Grant Awards recipients, Dawson was provided a chance to present her business concept.

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55th Degree, Inc.

Owner(s): Majority stakeholder – Jessica Dawson Business Location: Orlando, Florida Contact Information: Jessica@55thdegree.com / 321231-5926 / www.fiskmobile.tech

Business Description: The team at 55th Degree, Inc. are working tirelessly to bring something that is needed to assist our friends and family in the service industry. FISK: Mobile Tipping might have been a dream, but we are so close to making that dream come to life. Assisting others is why we are here, and designing something from scratch to assist the people who need assistance finding the path to financial freedom keeps us motivated. The passion has been there since the beginning, and I won’t stop until the dream has been fulfilled. I dream big, plan, strategize, and we will execute no matter what!

What Grubhub Community Fund Means to Them “The Grubhub Community Impact award was very special to us, as it recognizes the work we have done for the community and also our lawsuit filed against the State of Florida for their law which is trying to erase the LGBTQIA+ community including drag performers and trans members.”

—John Paonessa, owner of Hamburger Mary’s Bar & Grille

“Not only am I overwhelmed with the generosity of Grubhub and this grant taking care of restaurants and their staff….. the entire staff is grateful for opportunities this extra money has afforded our little slice of heaven!”

—Chef Trina Gregory, owner of Se7enbites

What NGLCC and Their Program Initiatives Mean to Them

“The NGLCC has such an important job with their support of the LGBTQIA+ community, and their work on certifying LGBTQ+ owned businesses. We thank them for their hard work and dedication to the community.”

—John Paonessa, owner of Hamburger Mary’s Bar & Grille

“Always in awe of the work the NGLCC does on behalf of LGBTQ business owners I am proud to be a member of the community and so proud of the work our local chapter does for our beloved Orlando. Thank you will never feel big enough!”

—Chef Trina Gregory, owner of Se7enbites

What the Transgender Grant and the Pride Chamber Mean to Her

“Heartfelt gratitude isn't enough to express what you mean to me. In this world, LGBTQ+ businesses like mine need more than just customers – we need champions, and you are ours. Your unwavering support, fierce advocacy, and genuine connection have become a lifeline, not just for my business, but for my spirit. As a trans woman, knowing you have my back feels like the entire community surrounds me. You've helped us build a chosen family, standing strong and rising together.

Thank you for being the beacon of hope and the architects of a future where every LGBTQ+ business can thrive.”

—Jessica Dawson, Co-founder of FISK Mobile Tipping and owner of 55th Degree Inc.

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he NLGJA: The Association of LGBTQ Journalists unveiled something new — a name change. Known as the National Association of Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association (NLGJA) since 1990, then adjusted it to NLGJA: The Association of LGBTQ Journalists a few years ago, had made that final big leap and are now known as: The Association of LGBTQ Journalists (NLGJA since 1990). The reveal was made at the 2023 National Convention held September 7-10, 2023, at The Loews Philadelphia Hotel in Philadelphia.

For Embrace Magazine publisher John Sotomayor, the convention was his first as a national board member.

The National Convention featured a Career & Community Expo, more than 40 breakout and plenary sessions, and many opportunities to connect and network. Topics included: “Covering the Club Q Shooting Responsibly,” “Going the Extra Yard: The Art of Multimedia Storytelling,” “Covering LGBTQ+ Issues in Red States,” and “Beyond the Breaking News: Covering LGBTQ+ Communities and Spaces.”

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The Pre-Convention Warm Up Happy Hour was hosted by the Philadelphia Chapter of NLGJA and was held at the Pen & Pencil Club. Founded in 1892, the Pen & Pencil Club is the oldest press club in continuous operation in the country and a Philadelphia Institution. The annual Stoli Friday Night Out took place at TABU, one of Philadelphia’s premier gay bars, celebrating 10 years of Stoli and NLGJA and the launch of Stoli’s new global campaign, “Spirit of Change.”

The NLGJA: The Association of LGBTQ Journalists Excellence in Journalism Awards were established in 1993 to foster, recognize and reward excellence in journalism on issues related to the LGBTQ community.

The highest individual awards, Journalist of the Year, and the Sarah Petitt Memorial Award for the LGBTQ Journalist of the Year, have been awarded to Ari Shapiro, radio journalist at National Public Radio, and Victoria A. Brownworth, a journalist, writer, and editor, most notably for Philadelphia newspapers, respectively.

For the complete list of award recipients, visit www.nlgja.org/blog/2023/07/nlgja-the-associationof-lgbtq-journalists-announces-2023-excellence-injournalism-award-recipients/ For the complete list of Board of Directors, visit www.nlgja.org/about/board-of-directors/

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Off the Chart First time conference Unleashed LGBTQ+ 2023 in Dallas, TX was a huge success.

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nleashed LGBTQ was a first-of-its-kind conference and entertainment festival that created a space for brands, artists, and LGBTQ+ professionals to connect that took place at Gilley’s in Dallas, Texas, from September 22 - 24, 2023. Some of the most prominent names in the LGBTQ+ community partook in special panels, keynotes, workshops, screenings, performances, and engaging showcases throughout the weekend.

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Headliners for the show included: • Antoni Porowski | Emmy-Award Winning Show Queer Eye (Netflix), Host and Executive Producer of Easy-Bake Battle (Netflix), NYT Bestselling Author of Antoni in the Kitchen & Antoni: Let's do Dinner.

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• Dyllón Burnside | Emmy Award-Winning Show Pose, Emmy-Award winning PBS docuseries PRIDELAND, Golden Globe nominated limited series MONSTER. GLAAD & HRC award recipient • Indya Moore | Emmy Award-Winning Show POSE, Saint Laurent Cosmetics, Aquaman and the Lost Kingdom • Billy Eichner | Co-writer and Star of Bros (Universal Pictures), Billy on the Street, The Lion King (Disney), American Horror Story (FX), Difficult People (Hulu) • Brian Sims | Former Penn State Rep., LGBTQ+ Advocate & Speaker, Managing Director of Government Affairs & Policy at Out Leadership, Board Member at Campus Pride & GLSEN • Stacey Stevenson | CEO of Family Equality, Co-Founder of The Changists (Law Firm

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Consulting), LGBTQ+ Activist, Speaker, Mother of Two Zach Herrin | Professional Stock Car Racing Driver for NASCAR, Member of the Founding Class of the North American Expansion of Racing Pride Jayzen Patria | Host of the Lead With Your Brand! Podcast, Personal Branding expert and Diversity & Inclusion Thought Leader Naomi Green | Transgender Rights Advocate, Vice-Chair of the Allocations Committee of the Ryan White Planning Council of the Dallas Area, Business and Development Consultant for Crush Limits, Adjunct Professor of Marketing for Lone Star College Daniel Franzese | Mean Girls (Paramount Pictures), Ru Paul's Drag Race (MTV), Looking (HBO) Ashley Brundage | President & CEO of Empowering Differences, Author of Empowering Differences, Transgender Advocate, Former DEI Vice President at PNC Bank, Mother Matt Skallerud | Founder & President of Pink Media, Host of #iLoveGayToday, former President of IGLTA, Award-Winning Online Marketer connecting businesses to the LGBTQ+ consumers.

• LaMecia Butler | Program Manager of Supplier Diversity at Meta • Dr. Carlton Thomas, Gastro-Intestinal Medical Doctor, Social Media Sensation, Contributor to Men's Health Magazine, LGBTQ+ Consultant to the White House & the CDC • Brad Pritchett, Award-Winning Marketing Executive, Chief Experience Officer at DMA (Dallas Museum of Art), Host of The Good, The Brad, & The Ugly podcast “We are so proud of the diverse array of talent we’ve brought on to partake in this monumental event that will celebrate the LGBTQ+ community like never before,” said Wesley Smoot, Founder of Unleashed LGBTQ. “It takes a unique group of talented, accomplished, and empowering voices to come together and bring the Unleashed LGBTQ vision to life. From A-list actors, athletes, celebrities, entrepreneurs, industry experts, thought leaders and more, it’s amazing to see how many different brilliant minds [were] under the same roof at Gilley’s to celebrate how far our community has come.”

The three-day interactive event aimed to bring the LGBTQ+ community together through thought-provoking conversations, endless entertainment, and educational workshops to celebrate

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the brilliance, innovation, and ground-breaking efforts taking place in the LGBTQ+ world.

Additionally, Unleashed LGBTQ partnered with the iconic Alamo Drafthouse to host screenings of new LGBTQ+ content from streaming services, movie studios, and television networks.

Unleashed LGBTQ, LLC is proud to have received support, endorsements, and/or grants from the following organizations: DTPID (Dallas Tourism Public Improvement District), Visit Dallas, North Texas LGBT Chamber of Commerce, NLGCC (National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce), and IGLTA (International Gay & Lesbian Travel Association).

Other partners included Gilead Sciences, iHeart Media, equalpride, The Advocate, Pink Media, iHeartMedia, Virgin Hotels, Out Magazine, Dallas Voice, OUT North Texas and Virgin Hotels.

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Forever Strong, Unapologetically Queer The National LGBTQ Taskforce turned 50 in style.

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n its milestone 50th Anniversary year, The National LGBTQ Task Force hosted its 27th annual Gala at the Miami Beach Convention Center, on Saturday, October 14, 2023.

The Gala’s theme, Forever Strong, Unapologetically Queer, spoke to the organization’s determination in uplifting the LGBTQ community and creating spaces for queer people to be their full, authentic selves.

The event was attended by over 700 people, and raised over $750,00 (to date) for the Taskforce and local South Florida organizations. At Midnight, attendees celebrated the official anniversary of the National LGBTQ Task Force at the Afterglow Ball with a champagne toast.

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Luxury is not to be Forgotten in the World of Design.

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The Power of Shared Experiences: LGBTQ+ Friendships in the Workplace

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hen I first began teaching, it was at a traditionally conservative middle school. When I first started that job, I was nervous about how I would navigate this career as a queer person in Florida - a place where social and political attitudes are sometimes at odds with my own, especially of late.

There were tears when I was asked to remove my postcard-sized pride flag from behind my desk, there were awkward stumbles through personal questions, and any college friends with similar identities and experiences had all moved away. I felt alone and confused when I wanted to be open and authentic. Being part of a marginalized group can be a lonely and isolating experience, especially through transitional times in our lives. For many of us, the power of shared experiences and understanding through friendships can provide a sense of belonging and acceptance. However, as time went on, I adjusted - as we all do - to my new environment and was actually quite happy.

Enter Sarah: the new coworker - who happens to be a lesbian. She and I immediately bonded, becoming fast friends. I quickly realized the difference it made in my quality of life to have someone in the same community alongside me in the day-to-day. Her arrival made me feel seen and understood in a way I did not know I needed. McKinsey & Company conducted research showing “stress increases when a person experiences ‘onlyness,’ or being the only one on a team or in a meeting with their

given gender identity, sexual orientation, or race” and “LGBTQ+ women are also twice as likely as straight women to feel as though they cannot talk about themselves or life outside work” (2020). Without realizing how comfortable I was in settling for my current workplace dynamic, I was missing out on the joy of working with someone like Sarah. It taught me pride, it taught me the power of inclusion, it taught me how cathartic it is to have someone who shares your identity and experiences in a professional setting. Sarah’s presence brought a newfound sense of camaraderie and a deeper understanding of the value of diversity and inclusion.

Tolerance is not enough. You deserve to be embraced and celebrated.

KATIE MCCULLOUGH, graduate of Flagler College, is currently teaching English Language Arts in Saint Augustine, FL, specializing in gifted and exceptional education. Prior to attending graduate school, Katie plans to pursue her passion for writing while finding time to travel the world.

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ave you ever found yourself not sure how to get back to your fitness routine after taking a long break? Over the past 12 years I have rarely missed any days at the gym. I found myself in this situation recently, though. I ended up undergoing a simple outpatient surgical procedure that had a few complica-

tions during the recovery. This left me out of the gym and not exercising for close to 8 weeks.

I was focused and committed to allowing my body the time to heal, but that came at the cost of the physique I had built over the course of many years. The time eventually came for me to safely return to exercise but found myself not as confident or excited to get back to my previous routine. I knew my body couldn’t handle what I was doing before. Luckily my soon to be husband is very encouraging and reminded me that I am a rehabilitation specialist at my day job. I already have the tools to get back to it, and that is what I want to share with you today.

Set realistic expectations: Understand that your body may not be at the same fitness level as it was before. Set realistic and achievable goals, considering your current physical condition. This may involve starting with lighter exercises and gradually progressing as your strength and stamina improve.

Begin with gentle exercises: Initiate your return to fitness with low-impact exercises that place minimal stress on your body. Walking, swimming, or stationary cycling are excellent options to rebuild cardiovascular endurance without straining your healing body.

Focus on flexibility and mobility: Incorporate stretching and mobility exercises to enhance flexibility and range of motion. This helps prevent stiffness and reduces the risk of injury as you reintroduce more demanding workouts into your routine.

Strength training: When incorporating strength training, use lighter weights initially and perform higher repetitions.

Focus on mastering the proper form to prevent undue strain on your healing areas. Gradually increase the intensity as your body adapts and becomes stronger.

Listen to your body: Pay close attention to how your body responds to exercise. If you experience pain, discomfort, or unusual fatigue, it's essential to scale back and reassess. Pushing too hard too soon can lead to setbacks in your recovery.

As you return to your previous routine you will find a lot of the anxiety that comes along with this process diminishes as you stay focused on doing what is right for your body and return to consistent workouts.

CORY FREEMAN is a two-time first-place national bodybuilding champion, having won both of his first-place titles, The Men’s Classic Physique Master’s Over 35 at the 2019 NPC Viking Championship and at the 2019 NPC Masters USA in his rookie year. Cory is a physical therapist practicing in acute inpatient rehab in a hospital setting.

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Entertain Self-love

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o matter where you go in 2023, you will hear all about the self-love craze. There are countless books on the subject. Lots of podcasts and TED talks. As a nurse and minister, I have found that selflove is an act of love for others. We cannot “give from an empty cup”. Put “your mask on then help others”.

Lots of wise sayings are out there around self-love.

However, who is this self that I must love and why does she deserve it? I have made mistakes in my past. I have not been “safe to walk in the corridors of my mind” according to Mary Morrissey. It took some deep diving into my own consciousness. I had to discover this Self through workshops and lots of soul searching.

What I found was the wonder of my own creation. I could love the creation and perfection of God easily. It was through meditation that it dawned on me that this perfection that is my creation is not influenced by anyone.

Science is trying to duplicate the perfect conditions for life to occur but alas, it just cannot be predicted. This real-

ization showed me that there was a bigger force at work. That perfect moment that my mother and father’s DNA collided to bring about me. It’s pure magic and only that which creates can pull it off.

That self that I now love is the gratitude for the moment that I was created.

Any act of self-love is me acknowledging my creation moment. I am caring for the gift of my life. I have been given the ultimate gift. I get to walk, talk, breathe, and enjoy all that is around me using my five senses. I may not process the world like my straight brothers and sisters, but the perfection of me is still untouched or influenced by anyone but Divine Creative Source. I don’t care if anyone has an issue with me or my sexuality.

I am grateful to life and will entertain love for myself. Now that I have learned to love myself, I can now give and accept love from others. Everyone is a perfect magic moment touched only by Divine spark.

Jesus said to let that spark shine for all to see. Self-love is the polish that helps me to shine. I invite you to do some selflove and polish up your spark.

Blessings on your day!

An interfaith minister and life coach, DONNA DAVIS utilizes her life experiences to empower other people to overcome their struggles.

Together with her wife, Norma, they manage Your Phoenix is Rising, a transformation coaching service focused on helping others rise from the darkness of despair and embrace their true Light Nature. Donna and Norma raised three biological children and served as legal guardians to several teenaged friends of their children during their time of need. Donna is a Registered Nurse at Parralion HCA Shared Services and Performance Director at Centers for Spiritual Living Ocala. She studied RN at Rasmussen College and psychology at Florida Atlantic University.

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