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COVER The branding of businesses and people with ‘Product Placement’

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WELCOME People, businesses, and institutions build communities; learn about those who shape our lives

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IMPRESSIONS The ignorance of oppressing women is front and center this holiday season

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HOME Stepping into the past at Westport Point

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INTIMACY The many messages contributing to ‘male toxicity’

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LIVING WELL Poisoning of the public; how food manufacturers manipulate what you eat and contribute to a shortened life expectancy

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SPECIAL REPORT The 2023 Newport Bermuda Race was fraught with tragedy, but the public has the right to know and learn the findings. We share the US Sailing investigation and report

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WRITTEN WORD SouthCoast Author Dr. Mel B. Yoken Yoken pens new book, A History of Letters: Memorable Quotes From a Moribund Art

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SPONSORSHIP BayCoast Bank and its effort to improve communities through educational opportunities and experiences are producing results

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ART AFFAIRS The Yale Center for British Art in New Haven, Connecticut, is the perfect holiday journey

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TRENDING At a time when some US citizens are embracing socialism—with the fringe element promoting communism, we speak to a woman that has first-hand experience with the fear, terror, and poverty these political ideologies cause

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NEWS Accurate information that you won’t find anywhere else

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GIFT GUIDE There’s still time to find outstanding gifts for the one’s you love

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FIELD TRIPS Places to go & things to do for the holidays

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Celebrating The Holidays

Introducing the Authors of Egypt’s Golden Couple: When Akhenaten and Nefertiti Were Gods On Earth

Know That The Billionaires Of TV’s Shark Tank Didn’t - Plenty!

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Newport Mansions Light Up the Coastline & Spirits This Season

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Remarkable Growth and Contributions to a Network of Communities

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Cover Recognition for Community Involvement:

— A New Formula for Shaping Brands & Identities —

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dvertising and marketing are fuel for the media, and while time has altered its characteristics and efficacy locally, regionally, and nationally, what was once reserved for conglomerates is now available to specific markets with messages tailored to targeted audiences.

In the quest to support our client’s particular interests, we have tried to create unique opportunities that project an image by focusing on components of their business that yield identification, branding, and most importantly, authenticity.

Understanding that companies have exciting and valuable stories to share, such knowledge created curiosity, causing us to introduce a new media vehicle to benefit our supporters and readers.

You may have noticed product placement on our covers in recent months, it wasn’t a quick or easy decision, but it made good business sense. It has been an inspiring journey, creating significant interest. Designing subtle and tasteful magazine covers, supported by editorial content, meets our objective to integrate sponsors and our four publications; it’s been a success.

BayCoast Bank has a fascinating history, one worthy of recognition; beyond that, the story of the Bank’s community involvement and support of groups and individuals is vital to understanding and embracing their commitment to public interest.

Competing with the news and its everchanging narrative, BayCoast doesn’t get enough credit for its many contributions, so we’re pleased to tell one small story about an institution with many chapters.

Working with Robert Bergdoll, Senior Vice President & Chief Marketing Officer, his team at BayCoast Bank, and the many managers and employees has been a satisfying experience.

We learned much about the Bank’s philosophy and how the people drive the company’s mission and put it into practice; this project didn’t fall into place; the driver was the spirit and vision of the Bank’s leadership.

We urge you to read our sponsor’s story to comprehend that BayCoast isn’t just a bank; it’s your neighbor, friend, and possibly your next employer.

Best of all, it is a valuable asset that supports the vulnerable and underserved who can now climb the ladder of success and participate in creating a better world.

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This month we’re proud to introduce Viktorija Ulfer, a music educator, loving mother of three successful children, and now, a professional model.

Ulfer, was chosen for our covers because she possesses ingenuity, an excellent work ethic, and unquenchable persistence. Her outstanding qualities became evident when she donned highly efficient winter attire while the mercury pushed to 80˚F in mid-November. Over two days, involving countless hours of set design and wardrobe changes and posing for nearly 800 photographs at four locations, our model didn’t voice

discomfort or usher a complaint; she actually went beyond expectations and contributed to the success of our efforts in post-production!

We hope to see Viktorija Ulfer return to our pages soon; she was delightful to work with and made our ‘Holiday Covers’ most memorable.

As for the future, we’re always seeking men and women looking to make their debut; experience or not, we keep an open mind and provide training and support for those hoping to become a cover model. If you’re interested or know someone who might be, please let us know; from what we’ve been told, it isn’t easy, but it is empowering.

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Welcome

HAPPY H LIDAYS!

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here is something special about approaching the season where celebrating comes naturally to many. Yet, interestingly, it has been quite noticeable that people have been genuinely excited and began an early display of enthusiasm. It could be specific to the socioeconomic conditions, maybe geopolitical and the climate here at home, or better yet, an appreciation for our way of life and those we share it with daily.

Recently, we found an extraordinary level of politeness, cordiality, and friendliness by many while going about ordinary routines. Holding doors, a nod, or the start of a conversation causing a smile or sometimes a hardy laugh—all from strangers!

By now, we would see spikes in retail, a clamoring at the liquor and grocery stores, yet the pace is slow, and there isn’t a rush to buy everything in sight. The lack of luster for purchasing could be related to an unusual but appreciated summer-like weather at the beginning of November. It’s doubtful sales records will be broken this year, but inspiration seems to be off the charts.

It would be nice to believe this will be a holiday season of family and community coming together to put differences aside, extend goodwill, and spread holiday cheer. And, even if the effort isn’t returned, knowing you tried to be friendly and outgoing results in warm feelings.

These thoughts resonate with us, so we decided to focus this issue on the many individuals and businesses that make living fun in the coastal regions of the northeast.

Of particular interest are familiar names; we lead off with a financial institution that has grown considerably and is now one of the largest employers in the areas they serve. BayCoast Bank has been a good friend and a reliable neighbor for many individuals and families. Whether you’re an employee, customer, or benefactor of the Bank and affiliates, its services, products, and contributions have been woven into the fabric of communities, improving them for all.

Also intriguing is a review of Dr. Mel B. Yoken’s new book, A History of Letters: Memorable Quotes From A Moribund Art. Whether for the self-enjoyment of written words or a perfect gift for the curious who will be fascinated by a list of the most important and influential people of our time who 12 | DECEMBER 2022 | NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA

penned personal letters to Yoken, it is worth a serious look.

Our “Trending” feature hosts a heartwarming tale of a woman born and raised in Eastern Europe under communist rule. She eventually left the oppression and suspicion of the Soviet occupiers but shares the lifelong impression left upon her and her family. Her love of freedom found in America is exhilarating, but she also tells of her apprehension about our current course.

Please take the opportunity to light a fire, partake in your favorite beverage, and read through our pages; there is something for everyone during this unique holiday season. Feel free to share your thoughts and ideas once you finish reading.

From all of us, we wish you the best and hope for great success in 2023. H

Impressions

FACE VALUE

BY PEET NOURJIAN

Those female faces made to hide Whenever they appear outside Are members of the human race And have a right to show their face It’s not a radical request Refusal shouldn’t mean arrest But without eyes, a mouth, and nose They’re just fabric from head to toes Floating like ghosts on Halloween That private world of the unseen Kept from an opportunity To join the world community Of men and women, boys and girls Dark hair, blonde hair, buzz cut, curls We laugh, we frown, we cry, we grin Draw those curtains and let us in.

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Home

This month’s feature home is high above a picturesque harbor, carved from one of New England’s most desirable coastal locations-Westport Point.

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THE HISTORIC VILLAGE OF

WESTPORT POINT

BY STEVEN CHAN

A distinctive property centrally located at the top of Westport Point, the antique Gothic Revival offers nearly 2,800 square-feet of beautifully renovated space while incorporating a sense of yesteryear.

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his month’s feature home is high above a picturesque harbor, carved from one of New England’s most desirable coastal locationsWestport Point. Known initially as Paquachuck, named by the Native Americans who lived, fished, and planted crops in the area, there’s a calm and serene feeling which engulfs all who visit or make a residence.

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ALERT: PLEASE BE ADVISED THE ACCOUNT OF EVENTS AND EFFORTS BY CREW MEMBERS TO SAVE THEIR SKIPPER IS VIVID AND COULD BE TROUBLING TO SOME READERS.

t the request of the Bermuda Race Organizing Committee regarding the tragedy that occurred during the running of the 52nd Newport Bermuda Race in June 2022, the US Sailing, the national governing body for sailing in the US, delivered their findings on events leading up to the untimely death of participant Colin Golder while aboard the Morgan of Marietta (MOM).

The investigation determined that on the afternoon of Sunday, June 19, 2022, Colin Golder, owner and skipper of a Centurion 42, went overboard. He was not wearing a harness with tether nor a personal flotation device that complied with the race’s safety requirements.

The vessel’s crew had followed all procedures for a man overboard emergency and pulled Golder to the boat as soon as possible and connected him to a Lifesling. Colin lost consciousness while attached to the Lifesling, only to die shortly after.

It appeared the MOM crew had problems pulling Colin onto the deck at first but was finally successful.

After extensive interviews with those aboard during the tragedy, the panel of six sailors appointed by US Sailing learned that the conditions were dangerous, with waves reaching heights of 12-18 feet. The rolling caused the boat, traveling at 8 to 10 knots, to drop into the swells and heel at angles of about 15 degrees.

INVESTIGATION FINDINGS

According to the report, “At approximately 1215 EDT, [shipmate] Douglas was at the helm of [the vessel]…Colin was seated in the cockpit on the starboard side, forward…[another shipmate], Popolizio, was seated behind him on the starboard side, and [shipmate] Edmonds was sitting to [the] leeward. Douglas, Popolizio, and Edmonds were all wearing PFDs and were clipped in using their tethers. According to many members of the crew, it was standard operating procedure for [the vessel’s] crew members to wear PFDs, harnesses, and tethers at night and in conditions like those described above. Indeed, based on a photo of MOM at the start of the race, Colin was wearing a PFD. Despite these unwritten standards, Colin was not wearing a PFD and was not clipped in at the time of the incident. He was

wearing a pair of salopettes, an offshore foul-weather jacket, and sneakers.

At approximately 1225 EDT, a large wave hit MOM. The wave washed over the crew, easily burying MOM’s rail.

Edmonds was tethered to the boat on the leeward side. He reportedly got hit by the wave and ‘had the impression of being underwater’ for a period of time. This was a different type of wave from the typical spray the crew experienced in the time leading up to the incident. According to multiple crew accounts, and the expedition log on the boat’s computer, this wave washed Colin over the top of the leeward lifelines and into the water.

The report continued, “With Colin overboard, the crew quickly initiated a person overboard (POB) response. Douglas assigned Popolizio the role of being the spotter, and she maintained eye contact with Colin in the water. Douglas called out that a man was overboard to the watch below. Popolizio hit the POB button on MOM’s Raymarine chart plotter, located on the steering pedestal. Edmonds readied the Lifesling on the port side and also served as a spotter for Colin. Edmonds kept his eyes on Colin from the time he realized Colin had fallen overboard until he was reconnected to the boat. Douglas tacked the boat, backwinded both sails, and executed a quickstop (sic) maneuver.

Once the off-watch crew were (sic) alerted of a POB, they put on PFDs and came up on deck. While no crew member could provide an exact estimate of timing, it appears they were able to do so within a minute or two. Once the offwatch crew came on deck, they threw two Type IV cushions overboard in order to create a debris field. They then dropped the jib, and one of the off-watch crew members started the engine. As the boat returned to Colin, it passed him to windward, Edmonds deployed the Lifesling, Douglas tacked the boat back over and brought the Lifesling around Colin.

This entire process took four to five minutes from the time Colin was washed overboard. According to crew accounts, the boat never got more than 300 yards away from Colin during this process. Within three minutes of Colin falling overboard, MOM’s recorded speed was between zero and three knots.”

“Colin made contact with the Lifesling and was alert at the time he did so. He swam to the Lifesling, proceeded to put the Lifesling on under his arms without any issues. He was not talking at this point, nor did anyone on the crew hear Colin talking after he fell overboard. Once Colin was con-

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AFTER EXTENSIVE INTERVIEWS WITH THOSE ABOARD DURING THE TRAGEDY, THE PANEL OF SIX SAILORS APPOINTED BY US SAILING LEARNED THAT THE CONDITIONS WERE DANGEROUS, WITH WAVES REACHING HEIGHTS OF 12-18 FEET. THE ROLLING CAUSED THE BOAT, TRAVELING AT 8 TO 10 KNOTS, TO DROP INTO THE SWELLS AND HEEL AT ANGLES OF ABOUT 15 DEGREES.

nected to the boat via the Lifesling, Edmonds proceeded to slowly pull him back to the boat and verbally expressed concern for keeping his head up and out of the sea state. Some crew members report being able to make eye contact with him during this time. Edmonds’ original plan was to bring the Lifesling to mid-ship and bring him back on board. However, during the process of bringing him back to the boat, Colin appeared to lose consciousness and his face went into the water. Edmonds was very concerned about the amount of time Colin’s face was going to be in the water and brought him to the swim platform in order to get Colin’s face out of the water as soon as possible. Multiple crew members stood on the platform and raised Colin’s head out of the water as they attached MOM’s jib halyard to the Lifesling. At this point, Colin’s skin was blue, and he was unresponsive.

While trying to raise Colin’s body on the jib halyard, the halyard chafed aggressively and began to shred. Eventually, Colin slid out of the Lifesling, and crew members were unable to retain a grasp of him. He was floating face down near the boat and believed by the crew to be dead at this point. The crew of MOM then attempted to seek help from others outside the boat. They initially had some trouble unlocking the boat’s Iridium G.O. system because it was paired with Colin’s cell phone, and they did not have the unlock code. They contacted other competitors via radio, who helped establish a relay to the United States Coast Guard.

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body, awaiting assistance from the Coast Guard. Approximately an hour later, the crew learned that the Coast Guard would not be coming, and they renewed their efforts to retrieve Colin’s body from the ocean. The crew found the Lifesling ineffective because Colin was unconscious and unable to maintain his position in the device. The crew tried to use a drogue, wrapping it around him and pulling it up.

This failed. Next, the crew tried to hoist Colin’s body using the straps of his salopettes. This also failed. Finally, after at least two hours of effort, the crew secured lines around various parts of Colin’s body, and using the main halyard, hauled the body on deck. The crew zipped Colin’s body into MOM’s No. 3 genoa bag, lashed it to the rail, and began heading for the boat’s home port of Perth Amboy, New Jersey.

At this point, the crew had been able to make contact with Sabina Golder, who asked the crew to deliver the boat to Perth Amboy. Douglas served as de facto skipper during the delivery. MOM and her crew returned to port on Wednesday at approximately 1600.

The boat was met at the dock by the local police department and coroner, as well as several US Customs officials. According to the medical examiner’s report, the cause of Colin’s death was ‘drowning.’

This panel consulted with an independent medical expert, Dr. Jo Larkin, who supported this conclusion.”

KEY CONCLUSIONS MADE BY THE RESEARCH COMMITTEE FOUND:

1. The conditions existing at the time of the incident clearly warranted use of a PFD combined with a harness and tether, and to be clipped in while on deck.

2. Watch members were equipped in this manner. Some were even ‘double tethered’ to keep themselves as close as possible to the boat.

3. Failure to wear/use a PFD, harness, and tether proximately caused the POB incident.

4. The crew did not pressure [their skipper] to wear a PFD, harness, and tether in these conditions.

Had he been wearing a PFD, harness, and tether, it is highly unlikely that he would have been washed overboard.

5. The evidence suggests that Colin died due to drowning. This is the conclusion reached in the medical report provided – a conclusion that was confirmed by Dr. Larkin.

6. We find that the crew of MOM acted properly with respect to the recovery of Colin’s body, given the difficult circumstances that existed.

We commend them for the skill and bravery that they demonstrated.

We believe that the offshore sailing community can learn many lessons from this incident and offer the recommendations below toward that end. Sailors should wear PFDs, harnesses, and tethers when on deck in inclement weather and when conditions otherwise warrant.

7. We believe this incident would not have occurred had Colin been wearing a PFD, harness, and tether, and was in fact tethered to the boat.

While this account is difficult to read, a decision was made that the value of sharing the findings and recommendations of the US Sailing investigation could save lives.

Our heartfelt condolences and prayers are with the family of Colin Golder. We also wish to express admiration for his crew and their bravery.

Finally, we encourage the sailing community to adhere to all safety recommendations prescribed by the US Sailing organization. H

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credits towards a college degree, along with valuable career experience. This partnership with BCC provides an innovative approach to scholarship and apprenticeship efforts for those underserved or underrepresented.

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and Chief Diversity Officer at BayCoast Bank. “The program also supports BayCoast Bank’s commitment to a diversified banking workforce as well as a shared vision of fostering a college-going culture in our region.”

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E V E R Y T H I N G TO K N O W A B O U T T H E

Yale Center for British Art

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drive or ride on the train to New Haven, Connecticut, is enjoyable and educational.

There you’ll find a museum designed by American architect Louis I. Kahn (1901– 1974) for the purpose of archiving and presenting Paul Mellon’s (Yale College, Class of 1929; 1907–1999) extraordinary gift to Yale University.

According to Mellon’s bio, “After attending the Choate School in Wallingford, Connecticut, Paul Mellon studied at Yale (1925–29), receiving his BA in 1929 and developing a keen interest in English literature. Taking his mother’s advice, he then traveled to England to pursue a second degree at the University of Cambridge, where he was a student at Clare College, graduating in 1931. At Cambridge, he developed a passion for horses, especially fox hunting, which led to his first acquisition of rare British sporting books.”

Upon graduating from Cambridge, he spent time in England only to return to the states. Employed for a brief period

by Mellon Bank, it seems he wasn’t satisfied with the opportunities afforded him, so he joined the army as a cavalry soldier, making his way up to the rank of major, where he served the Office of Strategic Services in England.

Mellon was a prolific art collector, as was his second wife, Rachel (Bunny) Lambert Lloyd. Over time they became involved with The National Gallery in Washington, DC, the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts, the Yale Center for British Art, and many other deserving art institutions.

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a collection, and endowments. He also supported Yale’s residential colleges, including Schools of Medicine, Divinity, and Forestry & Environmental Studies.

Mellon once described himself; “I have been an amateur in every phase of my life; an amateur poet, an amateur scholar, an amateur horseman, an amateur farmer, an amateur soldier, an amateur connoisseur of art, an amateur publisher, and an amateur museum executive. The root of the word ‘amateur’ is the Latin

word for love, and I can honestly say that I’ve thoroughly enjoyed all the roles I have played.”

Fast forward to the end of 2022, the Yale Center for British Art remains fascinating. Through January 22, 2023, an exhibition of paintings by Njideka Akunyili Crosby (Yale MFA 2011) will grace the galleries. A press release announced that this is the third and final show in a series curated by Pulitzer Prize-winning author Hilton Als. Unique to this

showing is the ability to enjoy Akunyili Crosby’s “figurative compositions in close proximity to numerous examples of 18th and 19th century British portraiture.

Within this context, her work emerges as part of this longer tradition while providing a fresh appraisal of that history.”

The museum presents six works by Njideka Akunyili Crosby; upon the exhibition’s conclusion, the works will travel to the Huntington Library, Art Museum, and Botanical Gardens in San Marino, California, and will be on view from February 15 through June 12, 2023.

A review of the exhibition explains: “Als and Akunyili Crosby selected works from The Beautyful Ones, the artist’s ongoing series of intimate portraits of Nigerian children, including members of her own family. The title references a classic 1968 novel, The Beautyful Ones Are Not

Mellon once described himself; “I have been an amateur in every phase of my life; an amateur poet, an amateur scholar, an amateur horseman, an amateur farmer, an amateur soldier, an amateur connoisseur of art, an amateur publisher, and an amateur museum executive. The root of the word ‘amateur’ is the Latin word for love, and I can honestly say that I’ve thoroughly enjoyed all the roles I have played.”

Yet Born, by Ghanaian author Ayi Kwei Armah. Published in a year of worldwide civic and social unrest, Armah’s book comments on the challenges of revolution, address the unfulfilled political promises of the postcolonial African nation-state, and looks ahead from a place of lost hope. The YCBA exhibition will also feature the painting The

Beautyful Ones Are Not Yet Born Might Not Hold True For Much Longer (2013), a precursor to the series that anticipates the arrival of a new generation of children free from the corruption and self-interest depicted in Armah’s novel.

Using acrylic paint, textiles, collage, and photocopy solvent transfers, the artist creates a substrate of images culled from Nigerian pop culture magazines, commemorative printed fabrics, personal family albums, and her own photography. These fragments, which can include fashion models, dictators, or family portraits, are carefully pieced together in layers rich with Nigerian and American culture and politics.

Akunyili Crosby is a leading contemporary artist whose work offers critical perspectives on postcolonial history, experience, and transnational identities.

Born and raised in Nigeria, she came to the United States in 1999 to attend the Pennsylvania Academy of the Fine Arts and Swarthmore College before obtaining an MFA from Yale University. Now based in Los Angeles, Akunyili Crosby has been the subject of acclaimed solo exhibitions in both the United States and the United Kingdom, notably at the Baltimore Museum of Art, the Modern Art Museum of Fort Worth, and the National Portrait Gallery, London. In 2017 she was awarded a MacArthur Fellowship Genius Grant. H Admission to the Yale Center for British Art is free. Visit 1080 Chapel St, New Haven, CT 06510, 203-432-2800, or britishart.yale.edu for more information.

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Trending

NOWHERE TO HIDE; GROWING UP UNDER COMMUNIST RULE A True Account of Living in Fear & Poverty

BY NATALIE SIMMONS

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T

he Soviet Union’s control (1940-1991) over sovereign states was dissolved after years of annexation and dominance over people who cherished their history, dialects, and visions for freedom.

Return to normalcy did occur, but the wounds inflicted on generations of Eastern Europeans will leave them scarred forever. Adding to their plights and disturbing memories is the war in Ukraine; Putin’s actions stir up new fears and anxiety in those who know what it is like to be controlled and repressed.

We met a woman born and raised under the dark cloud of communism; she explained that after 25 years of oppression and “walking on eggshells,” her personality is filled with apprehension and concern. Adding to her bewilderment, she feels the United States is following a dangerous path in accepting and removing the stigma of radical ideology and a move toward socialism.

For our interview, our guest requested privacy—she has family living overseas

and remains concerned that something she says could endanger them at a future date. To oblige, we will not use her given name, image, or country of origin.

Here is the result of our discussion.

NEMEDIA: Welcome, Zana; nice to have you here today.

Zana: Thank you, it is a pleasure to meet you.

NEMEDIA: To get started, please share where and when you were born.

Zana: I was born in 1969 in a country adjacent to Ukraine, but don’t wish to be specific.

NEMEDIA: That’s okay. At the time, your country was under the control of the Soviet Union—correct?

Zana: Yes, it is true.

NEMEDIA: I have a simple question that gets straight to the point; what was it like to live under communist rule?

Zana: Well, as a child, you grow sheltered from the outside; everything

appears okay for certain time. But then, you grow, you begin to notice things and question why life is how it is…

NEMEDIA: How so?

Zana: By the time you go to school and meet other children and learn about their families, you start to question how you living. I remember many children didn’t question what they saw, but for me, I wondering why there was nothing in stores, the food was not always available— and wasn’t good. I found it strange parents standing in line for toilet paper while others did not; it was confusing at my age.

I recall never seeing vegetables, forget about that, maybe four times a year we could buy them, and only in summer, we might be able to buy bananas—but rare. It wasn’t right, and I knew this not supposed to be this way.

NEMEDIA: Tell me more about shopping in your country.

Zana: Oh! Like I said, nothing there, and when things available, they poor quality and ugly—everything.

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NEMEDIA: Did you ever have a chance to speak your mind or offer an opinion?

Zana: Ohhh nooo…to this day, my mother only listens, talks very little, and I have hard time telling my thoughts; it is something you grow up with and can’t stop doing.

NEMEDIA: Tell me about where you lived.

Zana: We lived in the city in apartment, but not like here. Two families have house, but we share a kitchen in the center of it. This is for everyone; no one has own kitchen.

NEMEDIA: Why was that?

NEMEDIA: Was it like this for everyone?

Zana: No! Not right. Some people had things, you could tell, but they had to know someone and pay extra.

NEMEDIA: The blackmarket?

Zana: No, not really; it was the same stores selling, but they hide things, and if you know someone, you could get things, but you had to pay more. Good meat, clothes, extras, cost lots of money.

NEMEDIA: So, it sounds like a twotier system; either live and accept the way of life or pay more for what we take for granted in this country.

Zana: Yes, yes, it was hard to find extra money because you always being watched. We live poor, but sometimes find a way to buy good things, for like a party. It wasn’t right in my eyes.

NEMEDIA: Zana, tell me about your social interactions growing up.

Zana: Humpf, parents always tell kids not to talk to anybody, don’t say things to people you don’t know. Rule was if someone ask you something—a stranger—you don’t answer.

NEMEDIA: What effect do you think this has had on you?

Zana: Is crazy. Everyone afraid to say anything; you had to keep talking about things that don’t matter.

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Zana: Russians build this system; they have separate bedrooms and entrances, but the kitchen is in middle, it is very big. They do this so people can sneak on you; they can listen to your conversations and get information.

NEMEDIA: It sounds like a gathering place, and families were forced into them so they could eavesdrop.

Zana: Yes, yes, you could never say serious things because government would question you about other people. The KGB could be in your house and you not know because they come to a party and you don’t know them.

allow to say anything about our country, we could only sing about the Soviet Union and say how great it was. You can be arrested if you talk against Russia when people around.

NEMEDIA: What other restrictions were forced on you?

Zana: We could speak in our native language, but when you go to school, you had to learn Russian language from first grade, and of course, you read about how Russia always wins and how great it is.

NEMEDIA: Do you have other memories?

Zana: We had a very good education, but you only learn what they want you to learn, and lots of rules. For example, you could go to school and learn, but you are told the direction you had to follow. Some parents would work extra hours and get money to send kids to small special schools to learn things like art and music, but not many could afford this luxury. Also, if you didn’t join the communist party and wear a star on your clothes, you would never be selected to go for more school, (college), independence was never rewarded.

NEMEDIA: Did you feel like you were under constant surveillance?

Zana: Oh yes, because people are afraid of government.

NEMEDIA: What freedom did you have?

Zana: We could travel, at 16 you get passport, and you can go inside Soviet Union, but if you travel, they want to know why you going and who you seeing. Then, those people can be asked why you visited and what you did together.

NEMEDIA: How did this all affect you?

Zana: I said to myself as I get older, I never want my kids to grow up like this, and I would leave if I had the chance. No one should have to deal with that life.

Growing up, we want to celebrate our country and sing songs about it and learn our history, but we couldn’t. We not

I had friend who didn’t wear the star, and when he was to graduate and go for more school, he was told by his teacher he must decide if he would join the [communist] party, and if he didn’t, his life would not be good; no more school, no job or a bad one. So, at last minute he wore a star.

My mother had a good job at the factory, but she couldn’t go sometimes to

places or parties because if she is seen, she would lose work; she was a manager of people, and it is hard to get that work.

She could never be seen at church, so I went with my father.

that can’t be trusted; they will be the one to report you. Because of this, we always had to be quiet and not talk too much.

NEMEDIA: Tell me, were there visible signs of wealth between people? And if so, how was it identified?

NEMEDIA: Please tell me about getting information from the rest of the world.

Zana: Well, we have only few newspapers, and they not tell the truth, so my grandma and me would listen to American Voice broadcast from Washington and hear about everything in our language.

I spent many years with grandma because my parents-all parents-work long hours to survive and provide for the kids.

NEMEDIA: Did you feel safe growing up in the city?

Zana: Yes, when the Soviets were around, little crime, but when they left, it changed.

There was vacuum, and people like mafia moved in and took control. If you had a business, you had to pay so you didn’t get burnt down, and as a woman, you needed protection. I had a cousin who wasn’t part of the gang, but he knows people. If ever I have a problem, I mention his name, and everyone flies away (laughing).

I also remember it dangerous at night; after theater, you had to run to bus, it wasn’t safe when dark. There was always the fear of men pulling the girl into a car and drive away.

NEMEDIA: Human trafficking?

Zana: Oh yes, it happens; people disappear.

NEMEDIA: Other memories?

Zana: No, everything was plain and the same—all gray. The only people that look rich were Russian politicians, of course they were; like here (laughing).

NEMEDIA: Zana, what do you think about the political climate here in the US? Zana: Yes, Gorbachev (the last Soviet Union Leader), if not for him, we still not be free; we still be occupied. He had an open mind.

What happened was things were opening up, countries was changing. The government didn’t like it, and while I was student, my friend had a cousin went to a protest for freedom. They sent tanks to keep control, and the guy stood in the street—he wouldn’t back down; what do you think they did?

NEMEDIA: Stop?

Zana: No! They run him down and kill him in the street. I was watching TV and see reporter telling what she sees and how soldiers were coming; they showed pictures, and then she screams and poof, she off the air. She was never seen again.

NEMEDIA: What bothered you as you got older, living under strict oversight—I mean, being under control?

Zana: (Laughing) Rules, rules, rules, rules, everything was rules; it shapes you, and now I hate rules. (smiling). You don’t have freedom. As a child, we had to wear red scarf; if you didn’t—no exception, you get in trouble. (Laughing) we would walk home and rip it off!

One important thing that we were taught that saved us. We were told that no matter what group of friends you have, there will always be one person

Zana: I love this country; I have been here for 25 years, but it has changed a lot and not better. People change and protest; they have it good, but they still not happy. So many of them don’t know what it is like, what I came from. If they saw it, they would not do this. Any form of control, restriction, or suppression is bad for people. And taking people’s money they work for and giving it away (frowning) is ridiculous.

NEMEDIA: You mean taxation?

Zana: Yes, all of it, like where does it all go? No one looks poor in the country; they have no idea how bad it can be when you controlled.

NEMEDIA: In closing, what do you like most about America?

Zena: Everything; you feel differently here; you can travel and do what you want, you can say things and not worry.

People here are warm…

NEMEDIA: Are your people cold?

Zana: (Sheepishly) Yes….(laughing).

NEMEDIA: What do you attribute that to?

Zana: It is from living in harsh conditions, not just the weather, but the tough life we must endure; it lasts generations— it shapes your outlook.

You must understand the leaders have all the money and choice, but they leave nothing for the people. This is what I saw growing up, and we rebelled against it.

NEMEDIA: Thank you for sharing your story.

Zana: My pleasure. H

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Intimacy

THE PROBLEM WITH

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MEN & WOMEN

BY ANDREW AARON, LICSW

n discussions about gender and the differences that cause problems, the term “toxic masculinity” describes how some expressions of maleness promote aggressiveness, domination, and subjugation.

The voice of the “MeToo” movement quickly grabbed the public’s attention by acknowledging the shocking frequency of sexual and physical abuse of women, especially in relationships of unequal power. Their message was focused on male aggression and insensitivity, claiming that it has always been a problem.

Women contributing to the headlines were most vocal about the insensitivity, blatant disregard for female worthiness, aggressive violations, and career manipulations that hung over their lives.

It should be noted a majority of the accusations targeted some of the most high-profile and successful men in society; still, everyone has a story to tell- the problem is not isolated, but rather, prolific.

In defense of the male population, most men are kind and caring and have become more sensitive to women’s needs and rights. Still, the problem remains a legitimate concern due to toxic tendencies that continue to take hold.

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Several factors coalesce to form harmful masculine attitudes throughout life. A primary cause is biological; males produce high testosterone levels, which depresses emotional awareness, causing a reduction in relating interactions and an increase in task orientation.

Secondly, male socialization initiates young men into the “man code,” which rejects any hint of femininity, vulnerability, and sensitivity that could be associated with weakness.

As every child begins life as a female, male ego development includes the need to prove he isn’t female, whereas the counterpart doesn’t possess a similar condition. Strength and power are central to the masculine ideal; as a result, men are unaware they sometimes relate to women through power and strength, only to turn women off.

A final factor influencing males is their negotiating a transition, which female children do not make. Male children must reject identification with their mothers from whose bodies they are born to transition to a masculine identity.

Shifting away from the mothers is a critical phase that may be instrumental in developing masculine toxicity.

Fathers instill self-acceptance and

confidence in a developing male through love. An absent or abusive father weakens masculine self-esteem. If the relationship with the mother is not loving or supportive, especially at the time of separation, he is likely to have negative feelings towards women, causing inner pain after puberty and greater sexualization towards them.

Growing up with these influences, a male will attempt to bolster his weak sense of self by dominating women.

Can this problem be solved? Only gradually. On a large scale, genders are interdependent; healthy masculinity requires healthy femininity, and vice versa.

Women deserve to live in a safe and loving world. The most significant influence on men is healthy and strong women.

At the same time, messages can be found throughout the media proclaiming women desire protection and security.

It’s been found that women search for a mate based on these specific attributes; they search for larger and more powerful partners that will possess skills or potential and satisfy instinctual survival tendencies, sometimes at an emotional or physical expense.

But the most apparent and conflicting evidence of misogyny and abuse is found in pop-culture and contemporary music.

The sexualization of females through clothing, lyrics, and dating rituals has had the opposite results when reaching men. The dual messages are confusing to most astute, leaving the question, why do women, who make up a large population of our society, allow youth indoctrination and the reinforcement of negative thoughts and behaviors to others?

We believe society values women and mothers, supports their health and wellbeing, and allow them to produce strong, confident, secure, and loving men. Perhaps it is time to view the larger problem, stop scrutinizing individuals, and look at the industries that perpetuate stereotypes. H Andrew Aaron, LICSW, is a sex and relationship therapist who practices in the New Bedford Seaport.

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THE ROAD TO OBESITY; A PUBLIC HEALTH CONCERN BEING IGNORED Highly Processed Food Are Less Expensive, But At What Cost?

BY ROB SAINT LAURENT, M.ED

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W

e are what we eat, goes the adage, and based on current trends, this truism portends a bleak future for the US. Starting well before the pandemic and more recently because of the spike in food prices, consumption of ultra-processed foods has been steadily increasing across all segments of American adults, irrespective of age, gender, ethnicity, education, and income. Researchers from New York University say between 2001 and 2018, consumption of ultra-processed foods rose from 53.5 percent of calories to 55 percent. Comparatively, our consumption of minimally processed foods declined significantly, going from 32.7 percent of calories to 27.4 percent of calories, while our intake of processed culinary ingredients went from 3.9 percent to 5.4 percent and our intake of processed foods stayed steady at roughly 10 percent of the calories we ate.1 Startling, this change in diet took place during a time when the country was pushing to eat more healthy, under promotions related to farm and sea to table consumption, and the call for shopping at farms and producers!

The study was based on dietary analysis of nearly 41,000 Americans over the age of 19 from the ongoing National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (NHANES) project The researchers say their findings fill a gap in the understanding of how much ultra-processed food Americans actually consume.

Meanwhile, children are also part of this trend. A recent study

by Tufts University found that ultra-processed foods comprised two-thirds of youth diets in 2018. Between 1999 and 2018, ultra-processed food consumption rose from roughly 61 percent to 67 percent among kids, while their consumption of whole, unprocessed foods fell about 5.5 percent, from 29 percent to 23.5 percent. The findings also came from an analysis of NHANES using dietary feedback from nearly 34,000 children and teens aged 2-19. The rise was again consistent for both genders and across all age and socioeconomic levels, with the greatest rise seen in non-Hispanic Black and Mexican American kids.2 PROCESSED FOODS AND YOU

When talking about processed foods, it’s important to remember there are different levels of processing that affect nutritional quality. According to the US Department of Agriculture, any

food that’s been modified from its natural state in any way is considered a processed food. This includes cleaning, milling, cutting, pasteurizing, cooking, canning, etc., as well as any added ingredients, like preservatives and flavorings in the form of salt, sugar, and unhealthy forms of fat. Virtually all foods in the supermarket are processed to some extent, so it’s helpful to know the difference between the processing categories.3 It is widely believed that ultra-processed foods are formulated to promote cravings, overeating, and repeat purchases.3 PROCESSED FOOD CATEGORIES 3 MINIMALLY PROCESSED FOODS

Fresh fruits and vegetables, whole grains, legumes, meats, dairy

PROCESSED COOKING INGREDIENTS

Plant, seed, and nut oils, whole grain flour and pasta

PROCESSED FOODS

Minimally processed foods with added salt, sugar, and/or fat, such as some canned fruits and vegetables, cheeses, fresh bread, and canned fish

ULTRA-PROCESSED FOODS

Processed foods that also include added flavors, colors, and preservatives to increase shelf life and palatability, and are typically absent of fiber and nutrients, such as cookies, sugary drinks, breakfast cereals, chips, some frozen foods, fried foods, and deli meats

Pulitzer Prize-winning investigative journalist Michael Moss discusses how this happens in his 2013 New York Times bestselling book Salt Sugar Fat: How the Food Giants Hooked Us. In the book, Moss describes how the US has become one of the world’s most obese nations. At the time, 300 corporations reigned over America’s food supply with some 60,000 supermarket items lurking throughout the middle aisles. These processed products are based on three ingredients: salt, sugar, and fat, carefully crafted to overtake the brain’s self-control mechanism and promote overeating.4

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We know that over time, eating too many sugary carbohydrates can lead to insulin resistance in which the body’s cells are not able to properly metabolize blood sugar. This includes brain cells where, under normal circumstances, we experience a posteating rise in dopamine (a principal feel-good chemical) from insulin that helps signal a feeling of satiety or fullness. Science has revealed that insulin resistance impairs this process, as high sugar intake has been linked to low dopamine release in the brains of insulin-resistant people, causing them to overeat.5 Functional MRI research has shown that formulating foods with sugar and fat activates the brain’s pleasure centers just like cocaine. Manufacturers add enough sugar to reach a “bliss point” of maximum taste. This short-circuits the brain’s reward system and causes the consumer to crave more sugar, which readily converts to body fat and can lead to diabetes.4 The saturated fat in processed foods also has a specific purpose in providing “mouthfeel,” or a sensation of dryness and gumminess with moisture release, and it can be freely added to foods for better allure. And while salt isn’t something we’re born liking, we’re coaxed into liking it from about the age of six months, and then develop a craving for it.4 Diets high in these ingredients have been linked to poor health, increasing risk of heart disease, obesity, and high blood pressure.3 One large study showed that consuming 10 percent more highly processed foods was linked to more than a 10 percent increase in cardiovascular disease, coronary heart disease, and cerebrovascular disease.6 In another large study, eating over four daily servings of highly processed food was linked to higher all-cause death.6 Consuming excessive added sugar regularly is associated with compulsive overeating, obesity, type 2 diabetes, metabolic syndrome, and inflammatory diseases.3 The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) reports that some 96 million American adults were prediabetic in 2019, or had higher-than-normal blood sugar, though not yet high enough to be deemed diabetes.7 Moss says highly processed food reaches the brain faster than drugs and alcohol, which predisposes us to addictive behavior.

We’re naturally drawn to these high-calorie foods, since for much of our history, this was a means of self-preservation.8 DOES WEIGHT GAIN MATTER?

During the pandemic, weight gain became an accepted consequence of isolation. However, in an age of calorically high, nutrient-depleted foods and low physical activity, gaining weight can have negative health consequences.

While processed food is linked to weight gain, research has shown that weight gain can lead to chronic disease. In The Journal of the American Medical Association, a study of health data from nearly 120,000 health professionals showed that weight gain of just one to two pounds per year from early adulthood to middle-age led to obesity. Women gained an average of nearly 28 pounds over 37 years; men averaged roughly 21 pounds over 34 years. This weight gain was linked to increased risk of type 2 54 | DECEMBER 2022 | NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA

diabetes, high blood pressure, cardiovascular disease, and other chronic diseases, as well as death.9 Weight gain of just 11 pounds over several decades significantly increased risk of chronic disease and death, while greater weight gain was linked to even higher risk and lower chances of healthy aging.

In 2017, 41.9 percent of American adults were obese.11 BREAKING UNHEALTHY EATING PATTERNS

Weight gain can sneak up on many of us and we could use some practical tips, such as those in the table below.

BREAKING BAD EATING HABITS 11 BAD HABIT

SOLUTION

EATING JUNK FOOD

Experts say the key to weight loss is to set aside favorite foods as special treats to be enjoyed in moderation

MINDLESS EATING

Eat from smaller plates, never eat from containers

NIGHTTIME EATING

Brush your teeth after dinner, wait 10 minutes for cravings to pass, eat small if hunger persists

ENDLESS SNACKING

Keep only healthy snacks available, like hummus, carrots, yogurt with low added sugar, almonds, etc.

SKIPPING BREAKFAST

Prepare a healthy breakfast that can be eaten on the go, like whole fruit, yogurt, hardboiled eggs, and smoothies

EMOTIONAL EATING

Find an alternative outlet for stress, such as taking a walk or calling a sympathetic friend

EATING TOO QUICKLY

Put down the fork between bites, chew thoroughly, take smaller bites, drink water throughout the meal

NOT SLEEPING ENOUGH

Establish a routine, going to bed and waking at roughly the same times each day; be sure the room is dark; avoid screens at least one hour before bed

For people living with a tight budget, eating healthy is still doable. Meals can be planned by adapting recipes to fit one’s needs, using common ingredients, and making meals that can be frozen to last the week. Shopping can be done with a list to reduce impulse buying and added trips for forgotten items. Fruits and vegetables can be purchased frozen or canned without added corn syrup, sugar, salt, and fatty sauces. Store brands can be chosen over select brands.12 WHAT DOES HEALTHY EATING LOOK LIKE?

There is solid evidence that a Mediterranean style of eating is

an effective approach to “cardiodiabesity,” or the syndrome of obesity, cardiovascular disease, and type 2 diabetes.13, 14 DAILY SERVINGS

Vegetables, fruits, whole grains, bread, beans, pasta, nuts

VARIABLE AMOUNTS

Olive oil

SEVERAL TIMES EACH WEEK

Fish and seafood

DAILY TO WEEKLY

Eggs, cheese, poultry, yogurt

MONTHLY OR SMALL AMOUNTS

Red meats, sweets

That said, not all carbohydrates are created equal; whole grains like oats, barley, and brown rice are healthy, since they’re high in fiber and digest slowly so you feel satiated longer and do not spike your blood sugar and insulin hormone that can promote obesity, insulin resistance, and diabetes.

For people at risk for diabetes and who need to lose weight, lowcarb eating is also a proven option. H

MEDITERRANEAN DIET BASICS

With grocery lists available online, the Mediterranean Diet is grounded on eating whole foods. It’s critical to avoid or minimize highly processed foods and added sugars, especially sugary drinks (soda, fruit juice, sugary energy drinks, etc.) and high fructose corn syrup. Americans consume, on average, about 92 grams of added sugar each day, yet the recommended upper limit is 21 grams per day for women and 38 grams for men. Even if a packaged food is advertised as low in salt, sugar, or fat, it’s usually higher in the other two ingredients when examining the label.4

1. Juul, F., Parekh, N., Martinez-Steele, E., et al. (2022, January 11). Ultra-processed food consumption among U.S. adults from 2001-2018. American Journal of Clinical Nutrition, 115(1), 211-21.

2. Reynolds, S. (2021, August 24). Highly processed foods form bulk of US youths’ diets.

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3. Harvard T.H. Chan School of Public Health. (n.d.). Processed Foods and Health.

4. Pogue, J.M. (2014 July). Salt Sugar Fat: How the Food Giants Hooked Us. Baylor University Medical Center Proceedings, 27(3), 283-84.

5. Brookhaven National Laboratory. (2013, June 10). High Sugar Intake Linked to Low Dopamine Release in Insulin Resistant Patients [Press release].

6. Smith, J. (2020, May 14). How do processed foods affect your health? Medical News Today.

7. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (n.d.). Prevalence of Prediabetes Among Adults.

8. Davies, D. (Host). (2021, April 26). Cheap, Legal, and Everywhere: How Food Companies Get Us ‘Hooked’ on Junk [Radio broadcast]. In Briger, S. & Chaloner, T. (Producers), Fresh Air. National Public Radio.

9. JAMA. (2017, July 18). Weight Gain From Early to Middle Adulthood Linked to Increased Risk of Major Chronic Diseases, Death [Press release].

10. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (n.d.). Adult Obesity Facts.

11. Everyday Health. (n.d.). 9 Bad Eating Habits and How to Break Them.

12. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. (n.d.). 6 Tips for Eating Healthy on a Budget.

13. Franquesa, M. Pujol-Busquets, G., Garcia-Fernandez, E., et al. (2019, March).

Mediterranean Diet and Cardiodiabesity: A Systematic Review through Evidence-Based Answers to Key Clinical Questions. Nutrients, 11(3), 655.

14. D’Innocenzo, S., Biagi, C., & Lanari, M. (2019, June). Obesity and the Mediterranean Diet: A Review of Evidence of the Role and Sustainability of the Mediterranean Diet. Nutrients, 11(6), 1306.

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he media, political representatives, employees, and affiliates, recently attended a pair of events that signified important changes to a bank recognized for its commitment and easy access to consumers in multiple communities across state venues.

On Wednesday, October 26, 2022, bank officials held a ribbon-cutting ceremony on the lawn in front of their newest location, 601 Hope Street, in Bristol, Rhode Island. The stately historic building was also where guests and members of the East Bay Chamber enjoyed refreshments at a Business After Hours gathering.

The festive afternoon was well attended, evident by the crowd showing support for BayCoast’s newest Rhode Island location.

A second inaugural ribbon cutting event was launched on Thursday, October 27, 2022, at BayCoast Bank’s River’s Edge branch in Fall River, located at 20 Turner Street, a short distance from Battleship Cove and Heritage State Park.

The morning gathering attracted community members who appeared delighted by the bank’s commitment to offering local residents access to highly desirable financial products and services, with the convenience and personalized attention only found with community banking.

Under the leadership of Nickolas Christ, President & CEO of BayCoast Bank, the financial institution has enhanced neighborhoods from Stonington,

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Connecticut, to Plymouth, Massachusetts, and Northborough, located in MetroWest.

Not too long ago, it was believed that community banking would be lost forever, but we’ve witnessed a resurgence

and a commitment to expand in areas where services are needed the most. H

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It’s Not Too Early To Plan For The Westminster Kennel Club Dog Show

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merica’s second-longest continuously held sporting event will be held May 8-9, 2023, at the USTA Billie Jean King National Tennis Center in Flushing Meadows–Corona Park in Queens, New York City.

This historical event is the centerpiece of Westminster Week. The 2023 canine celebration also marks the 10th Anniversary of the ever-popular Masters Agility Championship.

America’s Dog Show will again attract top-winning dogs from across the country for this iconic event. In addition to the 10th Anniversary of the Masters Agility Championship, the 2023 schedule includes the 8th Annual Masters Obedience Championship, Junior Showmanship, 200+ Breed competitions (for Champions only), 7 Group competitions, concluding with Best in Show being crowned in the center of Arthur Ashe Stadium.

“As we march towards our 150th Anniversary in 2026, the Club is excited to bring the dog show to a venue that has always celebrated world-class athletes, and these champion dogs are no exception,” said Westminster Kennel Club President Darrell W. Crate. “The sprawling complex will give spectators a truly memorable experience as they meet thousands of purpose-bred dogs that each have a rich history and background.”

Additional family-friendly events are held throughout Westminster Week and will be announced soon. Tickets for all Westminster Week events will be on sale in early 2023.

“This is an incredibly unique and prestigious event that we’re thrilled to host at our venue,” said Danny Zausner,

2022 Best in show winner — Bloodhound, Call name: Trumpet

2022 Reserve best in show winner — French Bulldog, Call name: Winston

Chief Operating Officer for the USTA Billie Jean King National Tennis Center.

“After hosting All Elite Wrestling each of the last two years and the Fortnite World Cup in 2019, the USTA Billie Jean King National Tennis Center is increasingly becoming a marquee event destination for non-tennis related events. And the sight of dogs roaming the grounds at the home

of the US Open is certain to put a smile on everyone’s faces.” H For more information on events and ticket purchases, visit westminsterkennelclub.org.

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SOL Mexican Cocina To Open In Boston in 2023

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perience Restaurant Group’s beloved Baja-inspired restaurant concept expands to the East Coast at Boston’s Prudential Center.

Offering award-winning dishes, handcrafted margaritas, and live music, the company is going full-spirit in capturing the attention of hub diners.

As a leading operator of casual, polished casual, and fine dining Mexican restaurants, the new location in Boston will add to the city’s thriving culinary scene with its fresh, inspired take on coastal Mexican cuisine.

Boasting an expansive patio, steps away from Copley Place and the Prudential Center at 116 Huntington Avenue, SOL Boston will be the ideal location for guests to enjoy delicious fare before a game, concert, or night out in the lively Back Bay neighborhood.

Randy Sharpe, CEO of Xperience Restaurant Group, is excited to break ground in New England and introduce SOL’s unique and unduplicated flavors in an upscale atmosphere. “It was a natural decision to bring SOL to Boston, given the city’s diverse culinary offerings and Bostonians’ appreciation for approachable, upscale dining, immersive ambiance, and indulgent cuisine.”

With over 5,800 square feet and 200 seats in the main dining room, SOL Boston will quickly become a hot-spot destination for social gatherings. The 30-seat patio will serve as the main draw during the warmer months, immersing locals and visitors in Back Bay’s bustling scene while enjoying SOL’s hand-crafted bites and margaritas.

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organic and seasonal dishes made fresh daily, with over a dozen fresh house-made salsas they’re known for creating.

The beverage program features SOL’s celebrated hand-crafted margaritas along with other spirit-based cocktails curated to pair with coastal-inspired dishes.

Additionally, the restaurant will feature over 80 of Mexico’s finest mezcals, tequilas, and a new Cristalino.

Some favorites to look forward to include, Grilled Sweet Corn, carved tableside with butter, lime, chiles, cotija cheese, and chipotle drizzle; Taco

Vampiro comprised of a double tortilla, cheese, serranos, carne asada, guacamole, pico de gallo, chipotle sauce, and cotija cheese. Then there is the mouthwatering Spicy ‘Popcorn’ Cauliflower Taco, deepfried in spicy beer batter with creamy coconut-avocado salsa on a corn tortilla with pico de gallo, shredded cabbage, onions, cilantro, and lime is to die for!

SOL curates complex, flavorful dishes made from scratch at locations in Scottsdale, AZ; Playa Vista, CA; Newport Beach, CA; Irvine, CA; and Denver, CO; the new Boston location will surely be a hit. H

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Highlighting the same glamorous couple we featured under our four titles; New England Monthly, REVEAL Connecticut, 401 Ocean State, and our original lifestyle publication, SOCO magazine, in October of this year, the newspaper’s digital version was able to dig-down into topics (more than we had space for) about their lives, even to broach the subject of the couple’s dating history and subsequent marriage.

The paper also included comments from distractors, thus giving them a platform and allowing the disparaging of the two educators. It appears three, yes, a gaggle of enemy combatants had their 15 minutes of fame by sharing the following thoughts: The author writes, “But the Darnells’ flamboyant style has rubbed some archeologists and historians the wrong way.

One article penned by three academics for the website Hyperallergic described their [Darnell’s] Instagram as ‘narcissistic and ridiculously colonial.’ It accused the Darnells of peddling a ‘white-supremacist’ type of vintage Egyptology.

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“It’s very problematic,” said Monica Hanna, an Egyptian Egyptologist who teaches in the country. She finds the Darnells’ “practice of cavorting through ancient temples in clothes from an era

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when Egypt was struggling to extricate itself from the violence of British colonial rule—and when Western nations scrambled to extricate as much of Egypt’s treasures and riches as possible—particularly disrespectful.”

Wow, it’s incredible how white supremacy snuck into one of the most exciting and entertaining social media forums; the thousands upon thousands following (and liking) Collen’s postings must be shocked to learn they are enablers of racist imagery!

It gets more debased as the article continues; Hanna simultaneously calls for the violation of expression and free speech!

“It’s not only trying to reenact a historic (sic) period, it’s also [saying] that such colonialist times can come back and can be re-lived,” Hanna said. “It is a cheap photo op that also has ethical implications. I think no one can pretend that it’s not. They should not be allowed in that space.”

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“I think if you’re going to practice Egyptology in the year of our Lord 2022, you can’t pretend that it’s 1922,” said archeologist Sarah Parcak. “It’s harmful to our Egyptian colleagues. It’s harmful to the public. And also, we’ve moved on—1922 was 100 years ago! Science and archaeology is (sic) about looking forward while you’re looking backwards (sic). We’re using lasers and X-rays and cutting-edge technologies; I’m using satellite imagery. Why are we looking backwards (sic) as to the way the field was 100 years ago?”

Methinks, the lady doth protest too much.

So there we have it; interpretation, judgment, and the delivery of punishment; banned them immediately, for they don’t understand nor deserve any recognition—after all, they are only Yale graduates and scholars—how dare they. H NEW ENGLAND NEWS + MEDIA | DECEMBER 2022 | 59

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n conjunction with Highclere Castle, Foundation Cigars has announced and released a highly collectible, specially blended smoke, commemorating the 100-year discovery of the tomb of King Tutankhamun. It was the famed archaeologist Howard Carter, the 5th Earl of Carnarvon of Highclere Castle, who was instrumental in the expedition and reveal.

The Highclere Castle Senetjer—aptly named for it is the ancient Egyptian word for “incense,” which translates to “of the gods,” comes in a presentation box, a replica of the storage boxes discovered within Tutankhamun’s tomb.

A custom-designed scarab representing the Egyptian god, Khepri was the symbol of rebirth and incorporates the equivalent of a modern-day monogram representing the name Tutankhamun.

“This year, we celebrate the 100th anniversary of my Great Grandfather’s discovery of the Pharoah Tutankhamun’s, [and] to celebrate the centenary of this amazing find, we have created the Senejter blend, which is a homage to the cigars enjoyed by my family in the roaring twenties,” said George Herbert, 8th Earl of Carnarvon.

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“When you open this box, you will see ‘wonderful things,’” says Nicholas Melillo of Foundation Cigar Company. The cigar incorporates a 7th priming Habano Ecuador wrapper with a Brazilian Mata Fina binder, with filler tobaccos specially selected and aged three years from unique lots just for this blend.

Single cigars are $33.00, and boxes retail for $396.00. H To place an order, visit tobacconistofgreenwich.com/product/ highclere-castle-senetjer/. Supplies are limited.

Just In Time For The Holiday Season

French Vintor Georges Duboeuf Introduces Beaujolais Nouveau and Beaujolais Nouveau Rosé for 2022

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f you’re planning a holiday wine tasting dinner, or require an impressive hostess gift, you will appreciate the most tasteful and value-intrinsic gifts available.

These wines are made from Gamay grapes, originated about a century ago as a fresh and easy drinking wine produced by locals to celebrate the end of the harvest season.

The Georges Duboeuf Beaujolais Nouveau and Beaujolais Nouveau Rosé are a celebration for this year’s crops, bottled just a few weeks after harvest; these wines are considered to be a preview to the vintage to come.

As of November 17, Georges Duboeuf Beaujolais Nouveau ($14.99) and Beaujolais Nouveau Rosé ($15.99) wines will be available at national retailers, including Whole Foods, Total Wine, Costco, and Trader Joe’s; or online at totalwine.com. H

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Three gift bottles per customer are available to purchase at highclerecastlegin.com. Supplies are limited with only 2,000 cases produced, and at only $99, they will go fast.

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or the first time, the fun extends around the entire estate this season. Stroll a half-mile-long path glittered with thousands of holiday lights while friendly gnomes point the way and music fills the winter air. Walk through a dazzling 50-foot-long tunnel of light! See illuminated snowmen, reindeer, and many more sparkling surprises. Peek into Santa’s Workshop inside the Children’s Cottage, and be sure to get a family photo at the Van “deer” bilt selfie station!

The mansion’s facade will be lighted up and adorned with a tree of lights in ever-changing colors.

Six new fire pits will light the way and help visitors stay warm and festive. The back terrace will have warming stations and adult beverages, including hot chocolate with liqueur, apple cider with bourbon, wine, and beer.

Open Thursday through Sunday evenings until December 23, 2022; then daily, December 26 — January 1, 2023, 4:30–6:30 p.m. Advanced ticket purchases are suggested.

Sparkling Lights tickets will be for a specific date and time, with admission every 30 minutes, and include an interior tour of The Breakers.

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A GILDED HOLIDAY SEASON

THE BREAKERS, MARBLE HOUSE & THE ELMS DRESSED FOR THE HOLIDAYS A Newport tradition continues with Holidays at the Newport Mansions! There’s nothing like seeing these spectacular Gilded Age houses in all their festive finery, glittering with gold and sparkling with silver.

Throughout each house, ornately decorated Christmas trees, garlands, wreaths, and fresh floral arrangements are designed to complement the décor or theme of each room.

As always, the 15-foot-tall poinsettia tree in the Great Hall of The Breakers—made up of 150 poinsettia plants—will provide a perfect holiday photo opportunity. New this year, the Music Room of The Breakers will host a vignette of mannequins elegantly dressed in Gilded Age fashions. H Open daily, 10 a.m. – 4 p.m. All properties are closed Christmas Day. Properties close at 3 p.m. on December 24. For more information, visit newportmansions.org.

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his holiday season should include a day of shopping at the sales-tax-free Foundry Artists Association’s 40th annual Holiday Show & Sale in December.

The unveiling of Rhode Island’s premier holiday art event begins on Thursday, December 1, 5–9 p.m. at the historic Pawtucket Armory, 172 Exchange Street, Pawtucket, Rhode Island.

THE SHOW AND SALE WILL CONTINUE TO BE OPEN FOR TWO FULL WEEKENDS:

Friday, December 2 and 9, 12–8 p.m.

Saturday, December 3 and 10, 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.

Sunday, December 4 and 11, 10 a.m. – 6 p.m.

As a well-established and anticipated show and sale, patrons will be able to meet over 65 professional local and regional

artists producing distinctive, high-quality work.

The areas of the artists’ expertise include fine art and crafts, using mediums of glass, wood, paint, sculpture, metal, and fiber. There will also be a host of mixed media, jewelry, ceramics, and photography.

Other highlights include a silent auction of items donated by the Association’s artists during the first weekend. Proceeds support the New Urban Arts in Providence, whose mission is to create a welcoming community of high school students and adult mentors to share space, skills, and resources to inspire creative expression. As with its previous shows, the Foundry Artists Association will continue to collect canned goods and cash donations for the R.I. Food Bank throughout the event. H Admission and parking are free, with handicap access available at the entrance of the building; handicap facilities onsite. Major credit cards are accepted on all purchases. For more information, visit foundryshow.com or go to facebook.com/foundryshow.

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ynnelle Morgan, the Marketing Manager for Louisville Tourism, sent us a message and invitation to share with you; she wants you to know that the Bourbon City is open and excited to see you!

“With all the shimmering lights, rooftop IgLOUs, and holiday home tours, there’s no better time to explore Louisville than in December. Here’s my list of enchanting events and holiday experiences.”

IgLOUs, 8UP Elevated Drinkery & Kitchen November 2022 – February 2023 Cozy up this winter in your private heated igloo on the 8th rooftop bar of the Hilton Garden Inn Downtown. This outdoor winter wonderland features eight fully enclosed igloos with themes ranging from Diamonds & Fur to flannel Winter Lodge.

Lights Under Louisville, Louisville Mega Cavern November 11, 2022 – January 2, 2023 This one-of-a-kind underground holiday light show will take you on a 30-minute drive through a portion of Louisville Mega Cavern’s 17-miles of underground passageways. The event features more than 900 lit displays and over four million points of light.

White Christmas, Derby Dinner Playhouse November 16, 2022 – December 31, 2022 Based on the timeless classic, celebrate the holiday season with a musical performance full of dancing, laughter, and some of the

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most popular holiday songs ever written, White Christmas, at one of the oldest and largest professional dinner theatres in the country.

Also playing at Derby Dinner Playhouse (November 19, 2022 – December 23, 2022), younger theatre fans will enjoy Santa Claus The Musical and the jam-packed fun that ensues when Santa decides to retire and some of the elves aren’t thrilled about the new person in charge.

Fête De Noël, Paristown November 19, 2022 – December 28, 2022 Paristown’s Fête De Noël (“Festival of Christmas”) is a 6-week winter holiday festival featuring Louisville’s only authentic outdoor ice skating rink. Shop, eat, and drink your way through the Winter Holiday Village. Enjoy special holiday movie nights, karaoke, a Spirits of Scrooge Escape Room, and ornament decorating at historic Stoneware & Co. Winter on the Farm, Locust Grove December 12, 2022 This new event includes elements of past Christmastide events, with first-person interpreters sharing the tales of free and enslaved residents at Locust Grove in 1816 with “Unfolding the Story.” Discover how the farm prepared for the winter with food preservation demonstrations in the outbuildings and learn how the family planned for gatherings. H For more information or to make travel arrangements, visit gotolouisville.com.

DAY TRIPPING!

Catch a fast, fun, safe trip to beautiful Cuttyhunk Island on board the M/V Cuttyhunk!

• Depart from New Bedford’s historic waterfront; a short walk to downtown New Bedford’s many restaurants, boutique shops, museums & galleries.

• Enjoy the gorgeous views of Buzzards Bay as you make your way to the laid back island of Cuttyhunk.

• Friday Night Sunset Cruises! Breath taking scenery, comfortable accommodations, not to be missed excursion.

www.cuttyhunkferryco.com 66B State Pier, South Bulkhead New Bedford, MA 508.992.0200

WEATHER NOTE: IF SEVERE WEATHER IS PREDICTED, IT IS ADVISABLE TO CALL IN ADVANCE OF DEPARTURE FOR POSSIBLE SCHEDULING CHANGES. 508.992.0200 RESERVATIONS ARE REQUIRED FOR ALL PASSENGERS AND FREIGHT To get a ticket you must have a reservation through our online reservation system. No charge for children 2 years and younger. The office must be notified at time of ticket purchase about each child 2 years and under that will be traveling with you in order to accurately count all persons on board the vessel. Dogs, on leash, are welcome at no charge.

For non-web or special group payments and for check, cash or different form of payment, please email reservations@cuttyhunkferryco.com or call 508.992.0200.You can leave a message and your reservation will be held.

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