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OUR WOMEN’S ISSUE Part 1: History, Health & Mixed Messages

REAL ESTATE ‘MATTAPOISETT IS SPECIAL’ As is This Magnificent Waterfront Home New to the Market

PLANNING A VACATION? Check Out Long Island for an Unmatched Adventure

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Extraordinary Waterfront Estate Enjoy dazzling views of Buzzards Bay from this passionately restored seaside residence. Classic elegance sets the tone with beautifully proportioned rooms, fireplaces, porches, hardwood floors . . . Rolling lawns meander to the water's edge where you find a private white sandy beach, sunsets, and cool summer breezes.

Offered at $3,850,000.00.

Contact Roberta Burke 508.498.3285

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Extraordinary Waterfront Estate, minutes from Padanaram Village.

Distinctive manor home on nearly 30 acres, overlooks rolling fields to the water. A landmark property offering guest house, pool, pool house, tennis court, stable, barn and direct harbor frontage with dock potential. Offered at $5,495,000 Contact Will Milbury at 508.525.5200.

Extraordinary oceanfront compound with deep water dock offers a magnificent main residence; pool house with living space; carriage house with gym, billiards room and kitchenette...an unparalleled oceanfront landmark estate! Offered at $7,950,000.

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WESTPORT Classic Westport cape with a twist offers a million dollar view!

Enjoy breathtaking sunsets right from your own deck over the Westport River. Welcome to a summer paradise complete with an inground pool, deeded water access including a community dock, float, kayak storage and a quaint waterfront picnic area.

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SOUTH DARTMOUTH Rambling Royal Barry Wills designed mid-century home set on over three park-like acres in one of South Dartmouth's most desirable neighborhoods. The heart of the home is an expansive great room with cathedral ceiling, fireplace, dining area and sliders to the deck overlooking the rolling lawns with views of Padanaram Harbor and Buzzard's Bay. Over one of the garages is a charming studio apartment with Two-bay attached garage, greenhouse, gardens...association beach, dock are but a minute's stroll. Perfectly located just outside of quaint Padanaram Village with its shops, restaurants, market, and yacht club! Offered at $2,195,000.

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Exceptional South Dartmouth Offering

Rare opportunity to own a mixed-use commercial property with direct harbor frontage in the heart of Padanaram Village. Offering includes two commercial units and seven residential spaces on over one-third of an acre. Excellent investment opportunity with a myriad of development options! Offered at $2,495,000 Contact Will Milbury at 508.525.5200 or Sarah Meehan at 508.685.8926

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Set on high above the harbor, replete with rolling lawn, stone walls and dazzling sunsets, this Antique Gothic Revival offers 2,800 +/- s.f. of beautifully renovated space while maintaining all the charm of yesteryear. Offered at $1,575,000.

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Frank Lloyd Wright inspired, this home seamlessly integrates indoor and outdoor living on a luxurious single level, overlooking Wild Pepper Farm's pond and hills and offers gardens, Koi pond and putting green. Offered at $2,495,000.

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Enjoy ocean views and spectacular sunrises overlooking Buzzard ‘s Bay as well as deeded access in this exceptional 2,128 sq. ft., 3 bedroom, 2 .5 bath home . . . walk-in ready for year-round or summer living. Offered at $839,900.

Contact Gillian Barnard 617.799. 3917

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he days are getting longer, temperatures continue to rise, and expectations stir for the beginning of spring.

Families are shopping for wardrobes and will be dressed for the occasion; Easter will be here soon.

Children, fulfilling the time-honored tradition of hunting for hidden eggs, bunnies, and chocolate, will fill the air with laughter, and display their excitement.

Beautiful bouquets gifted among families and loved ones instill a sense of hope and satisfaction that tradition is always in style. Progressive ideas of judging and eliminating

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someone else’s values or an attempt to ‘cancel them’ have no place here.

April rings in the season and invigorates people and communities.

Though we know the future is uncertain, even at the best of times, collectively, we will carry on and comfort those around us with unbridled optimism.

This month we showcase extraordinary homes for those interested in moving up or out of where they find themselves.

Luxury, convenience, or accessibility to the ocean are some amenities that attract homebuyers to our pages.

With the sizzle of International Women’s Day passed, we decide to go beyond the issues of rights, equality, and reproduction and swing our focus to specific struggles women face beyond the hot-button issues many in the media cling to and use as bait.

Foremost is respect; we

honor women with this issue; we discuss their relevance in modern society and delve into the mixed messages they face in establishing an identity.

Also, this month, we address their health and emotional wellness and explore their relationships; you may be surprised at the unvarnished results of our findings.

We then round out the month with our “Travel” section with a trip to Long Island, New York; it’s a location perfect for a day, weekend, or extended stay for a ‘Girl’s Trip Away!’

As we close in on our 18th year of publishing and 216th issue, we are proud to be one of the few magazine companies that have kept to its promises, and we are thankful for your loyalty.

Every month of the year, we strive to entertain, excite, and lead you to opportunities because life is to be lived every day!

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Women, Travel, and Real Estate headline the month, and with spring around the corner, it’s time to start planning

Our Women’s Issue is a tribe to success and acknowledgment of their challenges.

Part I explores health, relationships, and troubling mixed messages

It’s okay to dream; it may be the only peace found today

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30 BLURRED LINES What parents don’t know is hurting their children. It’s time lyrics are analyzed, videos are rated, and kids are protected from unscrupulous entertainers and celebrities

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An important home in Mattapoisett comes on the market. Learn its history and consider stepping up and enjoying an old-world lifestyle

46 THEATRE Community involvement restores, preserves, and runs a historic playhouse; The Patchogue Theatre thrives by drawing audiences far and wide

49 EASTER TREATS Do you know who made the first chocolate Easter Bunny? We do, and now you can gift a replica to friends and family for the holiday

32 LIVING WELL

38 INTIMACY

Toxic Beauty; The price women pay for looking good—is it a form of abuse?

Is he holding you back? Women aren’t letting it happen and fly the coup more often than men

40 TRAVEL Experience the thrill, excitement, and beauty of Long Island; it’s an eye-opening experience

44 STAGE Broadway visits Bellport, Long Island; Clue, starring Sally Struthers, opens at The Gateway to rave reviews

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US Sailing Releases Results of Investigation of the Summer’s 52nd Newport Bermuda Race Tragedy

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The celebration, held on Liberty Island, only included two women, and it wasn’t women’s rights leader Lillie Devereux Blake or any of her 200 friends and supporters who chartered a boat and sailed past the dedication while raising a sign that conveyed their feelings and beliefs, “American women have no liberty.”

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oday’s women are complex, engaging, and fiercely independent. History continues to be made by women who shatter ceilings, run universities, and open businesses with passion and determination like never before.

We say their efforts continue because it was precisely on October 28, 1886, when the women’s movement metaphorically sent a shot across the bow of America as President Grover Cleveland honored a gift from France—The Statue of Liberty.

The celebration, held on Liberty Island, only included two women, and it wasn’t women’s rights leader Lillie Devereux Blake or any of her 200 friends

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and supporters who chartered a boat and sailed past the dedication while raising a sign that conveyed their feelings and beliefs, “American women have no liberty.”

This effort was only one of Blake’s

Stanton produced a document much like the Declaration of Independence, adding, “…men and woman should be created equal and have life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.” Additionally, the script included 12 resolutions supporting women’s rights, some of which were used as a roadmap for women’s suffrage.

many ‘notorious’ protests of the era — this and other events laid the foundation for future change.

The first large-scale inkling of dissatisfaction by half the population was recognized in 1848, when two ‘radical females,’ Elizabeth Cady Stanton and Lucretia Mott, hosted the first women’s rights convention in Seneca Falls, New York. Attendance swelled to more than 300—nearly all women, whose message sounded irrational for the time; they wanted to be treated as individuals and not subservient to men.

Their platform targeted education, employment, and the right to vote. But, their demands went further; they included access to the political process and the equal right under the Declaration of Independence, that; “…all men are created equal, and that they are endowed by their

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Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.”

During the second day of the convention, Stanton produced a document much like the Declaration of Independence, adding, “…men and woman should be created equal and have life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.” Additionally, the script included 12 resolutions supporting women’s rights, some of which were used as a roadmap for women’s suffrage.

Women faced unmitigated challenges for centuries prior; few, if any, were educated, and fewer made it to college. They couldn’t own property, and any financial treasure they may happen upon had to be turned over to their husbands.

Some might recall a hypothesis about the 1692 Salem Witch Trials, where over 200 people were tried, with 20 executed; ironically, some were single women possessing money and land. Some scholars propose that these women may have been falsely accused of using ‘devil’s magic’ so they could be stripped of their wealth and never be heard from again.

Unbeknownst to many, the original suffragists were white; however, in 1851, a woman of color, Sojourner Truth, a former slave, was lifted to prominence and became a civil rights advocate.

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disband the event. Causing her to become outraged, Truth made up an impromptu speech, “Ain’t I a Woman,” where she questioned why she didn’t have similar rights to men. This remarkable course of events is considered the first speech where gender

More recently, the field has enlarged, and women’s rights have expanded worldwide; though seemingly fitting under one tent, it’s far from true. No one would argue rights, respect, and equality for everyone; however, the conversation has splintered into political division and has expanded into differences about values, lifestyles, morality, ethics, and gender reassignment.

These issues and many more are filling the pale of classifications that some believe should determine how womanhood should be identified.

and racial discrimination came together as a public conversation.

Frustration continued to grow, and in 1917 protesting women organized and set up picket lines at the White House.

Violence ensued; demonstrators were

struck and injured, arrested and jailed, treated to horrific conditions, and left to eat maggot cover food.

Efforts continued to make the country more aware of gender dystopia, with one of the most high-profile proponents for change during the 60s-70s—Gloria Steinem, an activist in the Women’s Liberation Movement.

More recently, the field has enlarged, and women’s rights have expanded worldwide; though seemingly fitting under one tent, it’s far from true. No one would argue rights, respect, and equality for everyone; however, the conversation has splintered into political division and has expanded into differences about values, lifestyles, morality, ethics, and gender reassignment. These issues and many more are filling the pail of classifications that some believe should determine how womanhood should be identified.

Unfortunately, there appears to be an undermining of the progress and benefits fought for and preserved by many. At face value, the rubber hits the road when multiple generations—all with a voice— collide and cannot discuss the next steps.

This month only scratches the surface by keeping to the big picture; we hope to show strength, contemporary issues that add to the confusion, and discuss women’s health as a first step.

We invite our audience to share their thoughts, ideas, and suggestions for paving the road ahead. H

Impressions

sleeping cats lie Did you know that cats and kittens Disappear once they’re asleep?

It only seems like they’re beside you Curled up in a furry heap Or stretched into a lazy shape That sprawls across the kitchen floor But vacant skin is all that’s left When feline spirits start to soar

BY PEET NOURJIAN

If we could see through kitty’s lids And gaze into those agate eyes The glow would steal our consciousness With powers that can hypnotize As secrets of a thousand years Attract us to an inner light A star to help us navigate Enchanted dreams aboard the flight

Impatient fingers from above Poke through the cosmic interlude Arousing him from drowsy depths Because we’re in a playful mood He tries his best to humor us In payment for his bed and bowls But cats live for the chance to sleep And chase the romance in their souls. H

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Home

A Sanctuary with Pedigree THIS MAT TAPOISET T COMPOUND IS THE ULTIMATE PRIZE

BY STEVEN CHAN

As for today— there is an opportunity that may not appear for generations. Perhaps, the most iconic and magnificent home found on the shores of the SouthCoast is available for a family interested in contributing to its legacy.

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f you’re a sailor, you’ve admired this home as you enter Mattapoisett Harbor. Those who have lived in the Ned’s Point area or spent a summer in the historic and quaint town have marveled at its architectural beauty. As for today—there is an opportunity that may not appear for generations. Perhaps, the most iconic and magnificent home found on the shores of the SouthCoast is available for a family interested in contributing to its legacy.

Our feature home, steeped in controversy during the late 19th century, has endured every force imaginable; family disputes, hurricanes, and the good fortune to be passed along by conscientious owners who understand its historical significance.

5 Shipyard Lane was originally built across the roadway in 1830; known as the Thomas H. Soule house, it was moved to its current location in 1881. At the time, some interesting renovations were made, and the new property was named the Bacon/ Lothrop “tower house.” Odd to think such a name would be derived, but it seems the owner purposefully constructed a third floor to block her brother’s view from his home across the street. Such intent caused another name—not so proper—to be bequeathed to the property; it was known by local society as “spite tower.”

This initial change wasn’t the only remodeling over the centuries; additions and improvements were made as needed.

As recently as 1992, the house was placed on a new foundation and completely renovated.

Such efforts to preserve the iconic beauty continued with a newly designed kitchen and other modern upgrades in 2011.

The dramatic views of Buzzards Bay and the Elizabeth Islands unearth the modernday attraction of this incredible estate. Its rolling lawns gently caress the water’s edge, where a private white sandy beach provides breathtaking sunsets and cool summer breezes reserved for a special family.

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The dramatic views of Buzzards Bay and the Elizabeth Islands unearth the modern-day attraction of this incredible estate. Its rolling lawns gently caress the water’s edge, where a private white sandy beach provides breathtaking sunsets and cool summer breezes reserved for a special family.

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It is an incredible home and property, with five fireplaces and refined crafting; it asserts a unique blend of character, design, and architectural details that adorn the inside and out; the setting and vibe are casual living with an upscale flair.

The quintessential Cape Cod Colonial-styled home has evolved into a grand six-plus bedroom seaside residence, with beautifully proportioned rooms adorned with wainscoting and fine millwork, fireplaces, and porches— perfect for entertaining—plus hardwood floors that set the tone for classic, luxurious living.

Bright and airy, this level of comfort vies without comparison; the first-floor open concept includes a kitchen/family room, formal dining room, living room, powder room, and bedroom with full bath, complete with a washer and dryer.

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The milieu is reminiscent of a grand and privileged past; to have the opportunity to experience a Sunday morning breakfast nestled on one of the decks while reading a favorite periodical—a gentle breeze touching your cheek, is an unmatched experience few understand.

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The milieu is reminiscent of a grand and privileged past; to have the opportunity to experience a Sunday morning breakfast nestled on one of the decks while reading a favorite periodical—a gentle breeze touching your cheek, is an unmatched experience few understand.

The fabulous opportunity to live in one of the most prestigious enclaves along the coast awaits; 5 Ship Yard Lane in Mattapoisett, Massachusetts, ‘Is Special,’ and can be yours for an asking price of $3,850,000. H To plan a tour of the home and grounds or for additional information, contact Roberta Burke of Milbury and Company, 304 Elm Street in South Dartmouth and 790 Main Road, Westport, at 508-498-3285, 508-997-7400, or roberta@milburyre.com.

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he title of this feature, “Blurred Lines,” by chance, has the same name as a 2013 hit song and video by Robin Thicke, who was challenged by Marvin Gaye and Bridgeport Music who claimed Thicke infringed on their copyright of the single “Got to Give It Up” from 1977. Gaye and Bridgeport won the case for $5.3 million in damages. (Remember these dates; there will be a ‘pop quiz’ later).

What made the tune so famous was the suggestive lyrics, the partially dressed women (topless in the uncut version), and what appeared to be lecherous—fully dressed men ogling

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them. But, what sent the playlist soaring was the star of the tape; none other than model and actress Emily Ratajkowski, who was just 21 years of age at the time.

Years later, Emily Ratajkowski went public regarding sexual harassment on-set but was also quoted saying, “[it] had been so empowering and… it felt so great.” Some claimed the banned music video was a tune about seduction and nonconsensual sex; here are samples of the lyrics; they have been pulled randomly for illustrative purposes.

Tried to domesticate you But you’re an animal Baby, it’s in your nature (Meow)* Just let me liberate you (Hey, hey, hey)

I know you want it (Hey) I know you want it I know you want it You’re a good girl (Hey, hey) I know you want it But you’re a good girl (Ah, hey) The way you grab me Must wanna get nasty (Ah, hey, hey) What do they make dreams for When you got them jeans on? (Why?) What do we need steam for?

You the hottest bitch in this place One thing I ask of you Let me be the one you back that ass up to (Come on!)

Go from Malibu to Paris, boo (Yeah) Had a bitch, but she ain’t bad as you (Uh-uh, ayy) So, hit me up when you pass through (Oh) I’ ll give you something big enough to tear your ass in two Nothin’ like your last guy, he too square for you He don’t smack that ass and pull your hair like that (You like it) So I’m just watchin’ and waitin’ For you to salute the true big pimpin’ Not many women can refuse this pimpin’ I’m a nice guy, but don’t get it confused, get pimpin’ (Everybody get up) Shake your rump Get down, get up Do it like it hurt, like it hurt What, you don’t like work?

Hey! (Everybody get up) You’re a good girl (Everybody get up) I know you want it (Hey) I know you want it I know you want it *(In the video, in a close-up, Ratajkowski mouths “Meow”) After review, in combination with the video, it seems like a stretch to call this display of sexual harassment, misogyny, and gender discrimination “empowering.”

According to Billboard magazine, “‘Blurred Lines’ topped the Hot 100 for 12 consecutive weeks, making it the longest-running single of 2013; gave [Thicke] his first top 10 hit in the US, and grossed $54 million.”

In hindsight, after receipts were totaled, it seemed to be time to address the flack in the wake of the controversy.

We’ve all heard the phrase, ‘It’s easier to apologize than ask permission.’ Well, here’s what Thicke said in an interview with the Daily Star, “…the song was ‘mostly throwaway fun,’ ” and “…it was inspired by him and Williams (associate

singer and songwriter) being in love with their wives, having kids, and loving their mothers.” Really?

But critics like Ann Powers for National Public Radio had this to say about the least offensive chorus, “I know you want it, objectifies women and condones rape.”

Most recently, Ratajkowski was at it again, showing off her most valuable assets while attending the Vanity Fair Party Oscar’s after-party on Sunday, March 12, 2023, where she squeezed into what is popularly called a ‘naked dress.’ Little was left to the imagination, with some media outlets photoshopping her effort ‘to free the nipple’ publically, 10 years after her launch to stardom because of the “Blurred Lines” video.

Of greater interest, or perhaps concern, Ratajkowski, in her nowforgotten book (released in November 2021), My Body claims the video was fun to do, and she felt safe because there were women on the set. But, to the surprise of many, she added that she didn’t make waves—at the time— over claims the ‘wife loving’ songwriter groped her breasts, unabashedly stating, “I would not be where I am today.”

Turning back to the song “Got to Give It Up,” lifted from Marvin Gaye (1977), let’s take a moment to pull some of his lyrics.

I used to go out to parties And stand around ’Cause I was too nervous, baby To really get down Move your body Ooh baby, you dance all night To the groove and Feel alright Baby, just party High and low Let me step into Your erotic zone Ooh, move it up

Turn it ‘round All the young ladies are so fine Geez, movin’ your body Easy with no doubts I know what you thinkin’, baby You wanna turn me out, hey Keep on dancin’ (baby, ha, like a lady, lady) You got to give it up Let’s dance, and shout That’s what it’s all about, get down Interestingly, Gaye’s take on a similar effort appears paltry compared to Thicke’s.

Now for the quiz; how many years did it take for American culture to go from being flirtatious—but respectful, to derogatory, vulgar, and sexist toward women?

Women made positive strides, gained stations throughout the 80s, and continued to attain their planned objectives. But, something went ajar, and the achievements they should be proud of, are now being wholesaled for wealth and fame.

What’s disappointing, and should be addressed, is how and why some in a money-hungry generation—influenced by social media—who never did the hard work of fighting for women’s rights (while claiming to be feminists)— are selling their dignity and sexuality.

While undermining those they influence by setting poor examples, they continue to broadcast a contradictory message about womanhood to the millions of women trying to break the chains that restrict their advancement socially, educationally, and economically.

As we watch, they sip Cristal and fight to stay relevant before the up-andcoming newbies eclipse their starlight, and they drift into lonely isolation. H (Next month, in Part II, we’ ll examine how women build their identities and the mixed messages that shape them).

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WHY YOUR BEAUTY PRODUCTS MAY BE HARMING YOUR HEALTH

BY ROB SAINT LAURENT, M.ED

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n 2018, the US was regarded as having the world’s most lucrative beauty and personal care market, worth nearly $90 billion. The lion’s share of that revenue is being made by a small group of multinational corporations that have dominated cosmetics manufacturing for roughly a century: Proctor & Gamble, L’Oréal, Unilever, Estee Lauder, Shiseido, and others.1 According to recent news reports, researchers at the University of Notre Dame have found that over half of cosmetics sold in the US and Canada likely have toxic levels of an industrial chemical linked to cancer, reduced birth weight, and other health disorders.2, 3 This is despite the Food and Drug Administration (FDA’s) legal requirement for cosmetics to be safe for consumers when used in accordance with labeling instructions, or in an expected manner.4 FOREVER CHEMICALS

Aside from approval of color additives, no government verification is needed for cosmetics in the US. Companies can largely sell them based on their safety claims. Even with stricter regulations, the FDA lacks the resources for proper oversight of countless imported products.1 Not surprisingly, experts say this lack of oversight disproportionately affects women, especially those from disadvantaged backgrounds.

Skin and hair care, makeup, toiletries and deodorants, perfumes, and oral cosmetics are the primary categories of cosmetic products. Of these, eye products were most popular in the US in 2020, with mascara leading the pack; facial cosmetics were second in profitability; and lipstick was also popular.1 Described in the journal Environmental Science & Technology Letters, Notre Dame researchers tested 231 common beauty products in the US and Canada. They found that nearly 60 percent of eye products and foundation, and nearly half of mascaras and lip products, had elevated levels of fluorine— a key element of polyfluoroalkyl substances, or PFAS. These compounds are known as “forever chemicals” for their ability to remain for years in the human body and centuries in the environment. These are the same chemicals used in a myriad of other consumer products, such as non-stick frying pans and carpets.2, 3, 5 Elevated fluorine was defined as a minimum of 0.384 micrograms per square centimeter of product applied to a piece of paper.

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COSMETICS WITH HIGH FLUORINE LEVELS3 COSMETIC TYPE

TOTAL PRODUCTS TESTED

PERCENT WITH HIGH FLUORINE

All lip products

60

55%

Liquid lipstick

42

62%

Foundations (liquids, creams)

43

63%

Concealers

11

36%

Other facial products (blush, bronzers, etc.)

30

40%

All mascara

32

47%

Waterproof mascara

11

82%

Other eye products (liners, shadows, etc.)

43

58%

In the first extensive screening for PFAS in North American cosmetics, 52 percent of the 231 products showed high fluorine levels—a signal of PFAS presence. Of these products, 29 were further examined for PFAS. Between four and 13 PFAS compounds were found, yet only one product listed PFAS under the label ingredients.

The FDA explains that PFAS are used in cosmetics such as eye and facial makeup, lipstick, nail polish, shaving cream, and lotions to smooth and condition the skin, making it look shiny, or for product consistency and texture. Some PFAS may also be present unintentionally, as from impurities in raw materials.

Example PFAS ingredients used in cosmetics are polytetrafluoroethylene (PTFE), perfluorononyl dimethicone, perfluorooctyl triethoxysilane, perfluorodecalin, and perfluorohexane.6 There are over 4,000 PFAS chemicals and the researchers say none are beneficial to human health, with studies linking PFAS to cancer and low birth weight, for example.

MORE THAN NICE NAILS

Besides PFAS, it’s been known for some time that nail polish also harbors other potentially harmful chemicals like triphenyl phosphate (TPHP), a suspected hormone and reproductive system disrupter used mainly as a flame retardant and plasticizer.

TPHP is often found in nail polish ingredient lists. Still, a 2015 joint study by Duke University and the Environmental Working Group (EWG) aimed to shed light on its concentration in nail polish and the level of human exposure after application. Published in Environment International, the researchers found TPHP in amounts ranging from 0.49 percent-1.68 percent by weight in eight of 10 nail polish samples—two of the eight failing to list TPHP as an ingredient. There was generally more TPHP in the clear versus colored nail polishes. EWG says the chemical was likely added by manufacturers as a plasticizer for increased durability and flexibility.7, 8 Strikingly, after female participants applied a coat of polish, levels of diphenyl phosphate (DPHP), a metabolite of TPHP, increased almost seven-fold in urine samples after just 10-14 hours.

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The route of entry into the body was proven to be dermal when painted acrylic nails attached to gloves were used and DPHP levels were significantly lower.9 EWG senior scientist and study co-author Johanna Congleton, Ph.D., MSPH commented, “It is very troubling that nail polish being marketed to women and teenage girls contains a suspected endocrine disruptor. It is even more troubling to learn that their bodies absorb this chemical relatively quickly after they apply a coat of polish.” 9 Nail polish brands with TPHP include, for example, Revlon, Maybelline, Sally Hansen, Milani, Wet N Wild, SpaRitual, and Nuance by Salma Hayek.8 HIDDEN HEALTH RISKS

In the quest to look good, toxic makeup may not be top of mind. Nonetheless, it’s important to consider since product ingredients get absorbed through the skin and can enter the bloodstream. Additionally, powders can be inhaled and lip products ingested. We can also consume excreted toxins through drinking water.

COSMETIC INGREDIENTS TO AVOID10, 11 INGREDIENT

HEALTH RISK

Benzophenone-type ultraviolet (UV) filters

A type of UV light filter that can disrupt hormones and tied to endometriosis

Carbon black

Possibly carcinogenic in humans (used for coloring in eye makeup and lipstick)

Formaldehyde (and chemicals releasing formaldehyde)

Potential allergic reactions, eye and lung irritation, and have been linked to cancer in lab animals (hair smoothing treatments that contain keratin may be potentially hazardous)

Lead

Toxic buildup can impact every organ system (found in the illegal color additives kohl, kajal, al-Kahal, surma, tiro, tozali, and kwalli)

Mercury and thimerosal

Nervous system, kidney, and fetal harm (may be found in skin lighteners) (thimerosal also has mercury and may be found in cosmetics as a preservative)

Parabens

Mimic estrogen and may lead to breast cancer (found as a preservative in many cosmetics)

PFAS

Possible increased risk of cancer, immune and hormonal disruption, and fetal harm

Phthalates (may now be replaced with TPHP)

Can lead to hormonal imbalance and may be tied to breast cancer via estrogen disruption

Talc

Possible asbestos contamination

Toluene

Potential neurological and fetal harm (may be found in some nail polishes and treatments)

Triclosan

May affect thyroid, promote antibiotic resistance, and lead to skin cancer

This list is not exhaustive, but represents chemicals not already prohibited and restricted by the FDA of which experts remain wary.12

AVOIDING TOXIC MAKEUP

To find healthy cosmetics, consumers need to know what to look for and this is largely determined by skin type and preferred formulation. Like food, reading the ingredients label is essential. Don’t rely on natural-looking packaging or buzzwords that can disguise bad content. Like food, ingredients are listed from highest volume to lowest. Preferable ingredients include, for instance, jojoba, almond, or rosehip oil; moisturizers such as aloe or hyaluronic acid; and protectants like niacinamide (vitamin B3) and retinol (vitamin A). Experts say to avoid products with lengthy ingredient lists, stick with basic whole food ingredients, and look for organic certification or products certified by a reputable organization that supports non-toxic products. Lessening exposure to cosmetics can also lower risk of adverse effects.11, 12 For helpful resources, consumers can look to Cosmetic Ingredient Review to learn more about ingredients and their safety.

For product ratings and to search for healthy alternatives, EWG’s Skin Deep®, Cosmetics Info, and CosDNA are valuable databases. Consumers are encouraged not to rely on one database and to compare results.

(FDCA) of 1938. The FDCA only gave the FDA authority over contaminated or misbranded products. Aside from approval of color additives, no government verification is needed for cosmetics in the US. Companies can largely sell them based on their safety claims. Even with stricter regulations, the FDA lacks the resources for proper oversight of countless imported products.1 Not surprisingly, experts say this lack of oversight disproportionately affects women, especially those from disadvantaged backgrounds. To protect women’s health and the public at large, stronger regulation is long overdue. H 1. Statista Research Department. (2022, November 17). Cosmetics Industry in the US – Statistics & Facts. Statista.

2. CBS News. (2021, June 15). Half of US cosmetics contain toxic chemicals, study says.

3. Temming, M. (2021, June 15). Many cosmetics contain hidden, potentially dangerous ‘forever chemicals.’ Science News.

4. US Food & Drug Administration. (2022, February 25). Potential Contaminants in Cosmetics.

5. Whitehead, H. D., Venier, M., Wu, Y., et al. (2021, June 15). Flourinated Compounds in North American Cosmetics. Environmental Science & Technology Letters, 8(7), 538-544.

6. US Food & Drug Administration. (2022, February 25). Per and Polyfluoroalkyl Substances (PFAS) in Cosmetics.

7. Mendelsohn, E., Hagopian, A., Hoffman, K. et al. (2016, January). Nail polish as a source of exposure to triphenyl phosphate. Environment International, 86, 45-51.

8. Environmental Working Group. (2015, October 19). Nailed: Endocrine Disruptor In Nail Polishes Gets Into Women’s Bodies.

9. Ibid. Duke-EWG Study Finds Toxic Nail Polish Chemical in Women’s Bodies [Press release].

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While makeup continues to evolve, it’s important to realize the FDA hasn’t updated its regulations for the cosmetic industry since the enactment of the Food, Drug, and Cosmetic Act

11. Sissons, B. (2019, December 16). Are some makeup ingredients toxic? Medical News Today.

12. Stokes, V. (2022, February 28). How to Steer Clear of Toxic Makeup Ingredients. Healthline.

13. Kaufman, A., Rauenzahn, B. & Chung, J. (2021, May 1). Does Cosmetics Regulation Need a Makeover? The Regulatory Review.

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Couples of previous generations are recognized as unicorns, a label placed upon them because of their attachment longevity.

It isn’t unusual to witness couples celebrating 50, 60, or even 70+ year anniversaries. When asked about the secret of staying together, at least one partner in the relationship will use comic relief to identify how they remained in these marathon marriages.

Still, the unspoken truth is that for generations, women followed tradition, which included courting, marriage, having children, and life-long devotion—happy or not!

During these times, wives strived to imitate the sterile households they viewed on black and white television sets, while husbands—considered the breadwinners—had free reign and complete independence; such unaccountability often led to conflict and threats of divorce by the male members of families.

Women were often chained to their homes and responsibilities; they couldn’t leave because of childrearing and a lack of independent control over finances; they were left hopeless and had to adhere to a power struggle created and practiced by their husbands for years.

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Much has changed; recent research shows that today, women initiate divorce more so than men; they are responsible for 70 percent of suits filed. Such results beg the question, why has the pendulum swung in the opposite direction and to such an extreme?

While growing up, modern women had plenty of time to watch their mothers and fathers interact. In unhappy marriages, these moms told their daughters they don’t have to tolerate physical or emotional abuse and not to settle for unacceptable behavior in a relationship.

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he mystique and grandeur of Long Island can be intimidating to travelers from New England and other locales often mired by provincial lifestyles. And while it’s one of the nation’s most interesting and exciting tourist destinations, constantly battered with incredible stories and colorful rumors filling the tabloids—most often during the summer season—here’s some advice, only believe half of what you hear because that’s part of the attraction!

Like many vacation spots with similar landscapes, tasteful culinary experiences, and expansive shorelines, the Island’s diversity, resourcefulness, and pride, make it a journey to remember and cherish.

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The 120 x 23-mile strip of land extending into the Atlantic Ocean from New York City and sitting off the coast of Connecticut is an amalgamation of different neighborhoods. Depending on how you travel, your experience will vary; more about this in a bit.

Long Island’s proximity to the Big Apple results in the infusion of a metro-type lifestyle within the confines of a vastly different environment; it’s the reason the ‘tony playground’ attracts stars, celebrities, and those with high expectations— it’s one of the best upscale destinations on the east coast!

A positive vibe permeates much of the Island; like a refreshing mist coming off the ocean, the anticipation of discovering so many one-of-a-kind experiences found throughout the urban, rural, and coastal chic landscape is thrilling.

Touring the villages and hamlets while peeking into shops, galleries, and boutiques, tourists are pleasantly surprised to find well-informed owners, artists, and designers, many of whom bring knowledge and discerning taste from New York City, Paris, Italy, and beyond.

Sharing similar interests is refreshing, and listening to new and different perspectives on various topics is incredibly satisfying.

Events and attractions are widespread across the archipelago; nearly every day, a concert, Broadway-quality productions, wine tastings, and dozens of entertainment venues host star attractions. And, of course, a hike or stroll along the dozens and dozens of beaches that create the Fire Island National Seashore is a must!

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Getting There: Trains, Planes & Automobiles

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You’ve heard the stories about the Long Island Expressway-495 (LIE); yes, they’re true; running about 70 miles from the Queens-Midtown Tunnel in NYC to Riverhead, it’s known for congestion, erratic drivers, and pavement faults. The only people using this method are forced to, or have never used it. It can be exhausting, and the reason so many vacationers seek alternate routes.

TAKE TO THE SKY & FLY

For the reasons above, helicopters, commercial carriers, and charter flights are often seen overhead. It

makes clear sense if you are in a rush or can afford the luxury and convenience of air travel. A word to the wise, it’s often best to land close to your destination; some flights land near the City at JFK or LaGuardia, resulting in having to use the LIE after all.

Your best bet is to fill a plane with friends or family and make the flight part of your vacation experience.

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The Long Island Rail Road (LIRR) runs between Penn Station and Grand Central and delivers passengers to multiple stations on the way to three major destinations; Port Jefferson, Greenport, and Montauk. It takes an

hour to two, depending on how far out on the Island you plan to go. It isn’t expensive, but they are known to fill quickly, so prepare your trip accordingly.

conditions is 1 hour 15 minutes and 1 hour 20 minutes, respectively. The cost is reasonable, and you can usually work on your tan before arriving at port.

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Two great ways to get to Long Island include ferry service provided by The Bridgeport & Port Jefferson Steamboat Company and the Cross Sound Ferry, New London, C.T. to Orient Point L.I. Each service walk-on passengers, private vehicles, and commercial traffic between the mainland and the Island every day and run late into the evening. From port to port, estimated travel during favorable

Book Early is the motto when considering a trip to Long Island; whether a beach house rented for tens of thousands per week, to small motels to crash with friends, you won’t find many vacancies when the sun begins to shine.

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Long Island is known for its eclectic choices and fine dining options; still,

it never seems there are enough, and reservations are HIGHLY recommended. Other options include visiting one of the 70-plus vineyards on the North Folk; many have delightful lunch and evening menus. And, of course, ask around; some of the bestkept secrets can be garnered by someone who calls the Island home; they know the finest chefs and kitchens.

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Stage Clue, Starring Sally Struthers, Arrives at The Gateway Stage in Bellport, Long Island

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ritics describe the essences of Clue as “Laugh Out Loud Funny,” — The New York Times; “A Breezy Night of Pure Entertainment,” says TheatreMania; and “A Comedic Delight,” boasts BroadwayWorld.

Scot Allan, Director of Development & Public Relations for The Gateway, shares his thoughts and experience; “It is incredible to have such a legend as Sally Struthers, a television icon and superstar, on our stage. She is a fearless comedian, and it is wonderful to watch the risks she takes every night. The whole cast embodies each role to perfection, and the audience is rolling in the aisles with laughter; we are so lucky to have such a team gathered for this show.”

Clue, inspired by Hasbro’s murder mystery board game and based on the 1985 Paramount movie, is a laughterto-tears, fast-paced comedy, combining intrigue, mayhem, and slapstick.

The marrow of the ‘Whodunit’ tale includes a luxurious but secluded mansion where staff, guests, and others interact at an inexplicable dinner party with unforeseeable events on the menu.

The action begins when the Host, Mr. Boddy (Travis Murad Leland), is found dead—and his body goes missing, leaving those in attendance suspects of foul play. Quickly, it’s decided action must be taken, which results in the characters, Wadsworth—the Butler, played by James Taylor Odom; the Cook (Amy Persons); the Maid (Traci Bair); Miss Scarlett (Emily Brockway); Professor Plum, (John Long); Mrs. White, (Jennifer Byrne); Mr. Green, (David Engel); Mrs. Peacock, played by Struthers; Colonel Mustard (Christopher Seiler); and the Telegram Girl, (Maggie May), to determine; “Who did it, Where did it happen, and What weapon was used,” and of course, what personal secrets they all hide.

The Gateway is a superb venue for

this type of action-packed performance; its size and seating arrangement makes it easy to see every move and nuance, allowing for an honest assessment.

Opening night is always a thrill for actors and the audience, and when the ensemble took the stage on March 17— to a packed house, so came the unexpected slips and malfunctions.

But, unless you were paying perfect attention, you missed the few mishaps because, with confidence and grace,

It is incredible to have such a legend as Sally Struthers, a television icon and superstar, on our stage.

She is a fearless comedian, and it is wonderful to watch the risks she takes every night. The whole cast embodies each role to perfection, and the audience is rolling in the aisles with laughter; we are so lucky to have such a team gathered for this show.

variation from the script was neatly incorporated into the initial presentation.

One frightening moment occurred when a rotating set appeared to become dislodged from the track above; it looked like it would tumble, with disastrous results—but it didn’t. Odom was noticeably concerned and pivoted as it rocked. He gently closed the door found at the base—appeared to steady the wall with quick and gentle precision, then without missing a beat, he redirected the audience’s attention to center stage.

Odom showed clarity and judgment for

the unexpected, endurance for a rigorous performance, and impeccable timing; his responsibility to maintain momentum throughout the evening was admirable and satisfying.

One of the highlights of the performance was when he demonstrated his wit and memory by recapping—in perfect detail, the personalities, dialogue, events, and secrets of each character. His monologue was captivating and long-lasting. As the theater emptied, people continued to discuss his talent and stage presence.

An extraordinary feat with the pressure of doing a first rendition, Odom gave his all, pouring his heart into supporting and guiding his fellow players.

As for the star of the evening, Sally Struthers was brilliant in her role as Mrs. Peacock. Playing a religious, harddrinking, knows-the-ropes, ‘Bell-of-theSouth,’ she had the audience roaring; her talent, timing, and hammertoe made her a most lovable character. Stunningly, she still has that innocent charm accompanied by a subtlety of opinions, making this the perfect role for her to assume.

Struthers is a big draw and will significantly contribute to the success of this production; she dovetails perfectly with a cast of professionals who, in combination, make a team that keeps the audience laughing and will always be remembered and followed.

Clue is the perfect ending to the season and worth your time for the laughs and excitement. Now the players have an established, working rhythm; we can only wonder what greatness will come with other performances for the remainder of the month.

Clue opened Friday, March 17, at The Gateway in Bellport, Long Island, and runs until Saturday, April 15. Tickets are available through the box office by calling 631-286-1133 or visiting the thegateway.org.

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Long Island’s Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts Continues to Make History

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he venues are packed with exuberant audiences, the players are psyched to be performing, and the people of Long Island communities are grateful for the restoration and preservation of their iconic theatres; they’re idyllic stories that need to be shared.

One historic playhouse worthy of recognition is the Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts (PTPA); for over 100 years, the Village of Patchogue has had a stage at the center of its community, bringing life and entertainment to its streets.

Opened initially as Ward & Glynne’s Theater in 1923, it was the home for silent films, the best of burlesque, the antics of vaudeville, and notable musical performances. Known for attracting the best talent, the Patchogue hosted Broadway productions while drawing names to the small village like Bette Davis, Eddie Foy and the Fabulous Foys, The Paul Whiteman Orchestra, The Marx Brothers, John Philip Sousa, and Rose’s Royal Midgets.

Hard to comprehend that during the theatre’s early years, admission was only 40 cents for adults and half-price for children.

But, even with such reasonable prices, the Great Depression

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One historic playhouse worthy of recognition is the Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts (PTPA); for over 100 years, the Village of Patchogue has had a stage at the center of its community, bringing life and entertainment to its streets.

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changed the equation. Glynne, who operated the facility, sold it to Prudential Playhouses, Inc. Shortly after the purchase, vaudeville’s era ended with the film companies making headway into a new industry. With updated sound equipment, the Patchogue became a significant player for first-run films on Long Island.

In 1958, the grand theatre had a fire in the lobby; it was redecorated and designed simply and austerely, with much of the ornate décor covered with plywood, drywall, and wallpaper.

From this point forward, the Patchogue Theatre operated as a movie house; then and in 1982, the ground floor was divided into two theatre screens with the addition of a ceiling to extend the balcony level for a third screen.

Essentially, this butchering of a classic theatre resulted in a triplex, only surviving until 1987 when it finally closed. The combination of an economic recession and opening a 12-screen multiplex theatre nearby was no match for the playhouse.

The Patchogue Theatre remained empty and stagnated for eight years until October 1994, when an investigation by Village officials and business leaders learned the original décor had been preserved under the coverings installed in the late 50s.

Finally, in 1996, three local businessmen raised funds to purchase the run-down theatre while the Village of Patchogue applied for grants to renovate and restore the venue to its former glory.

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doors opened again; its first performance was in December 1998.

Although the Village of Patchogue owns the historic venue, the staff and volunteers of the PTPA manage the house, under the leadership of a volunteer board of directors, through a community-based 501(c)(3) nonprofit arts organization.

PTPA leases the building from The Village of Patchogue and covers the entire cost of operating the facility, including programming, without any taxpayer subsidies, something many other communities would be wise to model.

Since 2004, the Patchogue Theatre has maintained a worldclass sound system, Broadwaycaliber lighting and rigging, plus additional spacious seating with better sightlines. Installed by McHugh Institutional Furnishings in the winter of 2016, the new footprint debuted that spring when they launched another spectacular opening on April 2 featuring The Chapin Family.

The 854 orchestra and 252 balcony seats create an intimate yet, an economically viable concert hall with over 1100 ‘best seats in the house’ atmosphere.

Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts is the largest theatre in Suffolk County and has enjoyed an incredible run; from viewing the crowds filling the place night after night, it’s no doubt this is the diamond of East Main Street. H The Patchogue Theatre for the Performing Arts is located at 71 E. Main Street, Patchogue, Long Island. The box office is open Wednesday to Sunday from noon to 6 p.m. and can be reached at 631-207-1313. For upcoming events and to purchase tickets, visit patchoguetheatre.org.

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