A CLEAN HOME IS A HAPPY HOME

Fall represents a season of change. It is a moment we equate with calming colors, coziness and comfort—when green leaves evolve into beautiful hues of red, yellow, and orange. And although seasons change, the atmosphere of our homes should remain the same—pleasant, peaceful and polished. Most people have well-worded doormats that greet guests as they approach the front door. What awaits them upon entering the house is unknown. Will they feel the welcoming warmth of a gentle soul? Are they entering a home where the Holy Spirit resides? Or…are they being ushered into Hell’s Kitchen?

We all know someone whose home is merely a showcase—a place to display their valuables, or where enjoyment is forbidden. Guests are only allowed to “look, but don’t touch.” The owner seems more concerned about the fingerprints on the mirror than the footprints walking through the door. It’s difficult to relax around untouchable items and safeguarded sofas. I imagine the only song played in the house is MC Hammer’s “Can’t Touch This” (Luke 12:15). LOL.

On the opposite end, there are people that see their homes as a refuge—a dwelling place for God, where the spirit of hospitality is freely ushered in. An abode where family, friends, and even strangers, can enjoy a beautifully fall-themed home embellished with earth tones, wreaths, and pumpkin-scented candles. Where hot chocolate is served, and lattes are plentiful. Now that is living!

BY TRISHA MITCHELL

Many of us are familiar with the TV show “House Hunters.” In numerous episodes, couples are looking for a larger home, convinced they need more space. It’s baffling— because they actually have plenty of space! All they need to do is declutter, thereon appreciating what they already have. Luke 16:10 explains that those of us who are faithful with little, will also be faithful with much. Meaning, God will bless us with more when we show Him our handling of what He has already given us.

Recently, I came across a quote by Fiona Apple. It read, “Home is where my habits have a habitat.” Immediately, I was reminded of the women’s dressing rooms at the department store. Have you ever entered a women’s dressing room, and witnessed clothes thrown all over the floor? I have—more times than I’d like to remember. The first thought that always comes to mind is, “I wonder what the inside of their house looks like?”

It’s pitiful when people disregard a store’s property by tossing merchandise on the floor rather than placing it back on the hanger. But perhaps it’s what they are accustomed to: disorder, disarray, disrespect and disaster. Unbeknownst to them, Jesus takes this type of behavior personally (Matthew 25:40). Lailah Gifty Akita said, “When your environment is clean, you feel happy, motivated and healthy.” I agree. It’s much more enjoyable trying on clothes when we don’t have to hang up what someone else left on the floor.

As Believers, our homes should not only “appear” peaceful. Rather, the presence of

God should be felt upon entry. Perceiving the smell of pumpkin spice is nice, but discerning a Divine autumnal atmosphere is better (Ephesians 5:2). I’ve visited homes wherein the walls were adorned with all types of scripture and crosses. Yet chaos and commotion were rampant between the studs. The Spirit of the Lord was not in the place—He is not comfortable in homes that lack hospitality and warmth. Neither am I.

God gathers in rooms full of love, laughter, and possibly, neatly laundered closets. So… the next time you’re trying on clothes in a dressing room, remember to place them back on the hangers… tidily. (1 Corinthians 14:40). The store security is watching you, but God is surveying you as well (Proverbs 15:3). In 1 Corinthians 14:33, we learn that “God is a God of order.” And since He is our example, it is our responsibility to maintain a sense of order in every aspect of our lives. 1 Corinthians 2:10 expresses that the Spirit searches diligently, exploring and examining everything. I believe our closets are included.

As we approach a new season, may we keep a pleasing aroma in every room of our homes and hearts, so that others sense God’s presence and look forward to visiting (2 Corinthians 2:15).

Y’all be blessed!

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