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BLASTING AHEAD ... PREPARE TO BE ANNOYED! A Message from the President

DISCIPLE OF ALL NATIONS Sharing Principles of Biblical Governance with World Leaders

ALWAYS IN SEASON Life-Long Value of Cross Country and Track & Field

LOVE & LAUGHTER The Legacy of Mark Reighard

EVERYDAY MIRACLES Experiencing God’s Miraculous Power to Change Lives

REFINING CHARACTER The Crucible Experience

HOMECOMING 2019 Lasting Impressions

THE WORK OF FOSTERING JOY One Family’s Calling

ANNUAL REPORT 2018-19 Update

AND GOD MOVED Doug and Margaret Eaton

FROM TRAGEDY TO TRIUMPH Overcoming Life’s Challenges

INTO AND POURING OUT 40 POURED Serving From the Heart

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Blasting Ahead... Prepare to be Annoyed!

HIS BLINK ING ME S S A GE on a highway sign in Missouri appeared to be the work of a clever construction company concerned about the reaction of frustrated motorists as they navigated delays on a road being rebuilt. Though I saw the sign years ago on the way to an SNU Board of Trustees retreat, I’ve never forgotten those words, and I have often wondered if similar warnings should be posted in advance of experiences that can best be described as challenging. Roller coaster rides, prescription medicines, some movies, and even an item or two on a restaurant menu offer warning labels about what you might experience or be subjected to if you choose to participate or ingest. Universities offer no such advance notice, but I am wondering if they should. Research suggests that the first day in college ranks high on the list of most stressful days. Can I compete academically? Will I find a friend? Is this degree going to help me achieve my dreams of a career? Do I have what it takes to finish what I started? These are only a few of the hundreds of questions that may enter students’ minds as they embark on their higher education voyage.

Character – Culture – Christ Spend any amount of time at SNU and you will hear or see this motto. Our catalogues, prospective student materials, and alumni magazine are just a few of the many places where this appears. In recent years we have added some action phrases: Refining Character, Creating Culture, Serving Christ. These concepts are not new. An ad in the 1928 Arrow yearbook stated: “Bethany-Peniel builds character. Character has eternal values.” Whether it is building or refining, the implication is clear. Character is a work in progress, or process, and the university experience fosters an environment where women and men can develop their potential for God’s glory. Helen Keller offered a powerful insight about this process: “Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved.” Sounds like a refining process to me – and maybe one that should come with a warning label. Even more than Keller’s words, I love what the Apostle Paul wrote: “We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation.” ROMANS 5:3-4 (NLT)

Southern Nazarene University remains deeply committed to preparing leaders with the strength of character to serve wherever God leads and in ways that impact and influence our world for good. We are confident in our hope! 

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“CHARACTER CANNOT BE DEVELOPED IN EASE AND QUIET. ONLY THROUGH EXPERIENCE OF TRIAL AND SUFFERING CAN THE SOUL BE STRENGTHENED, AMBITION INSPIRED, AND SUCCESS ACHIEVED.” HELEN KELLER

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DISCIPLE OF ALL NATIONS BY ANNA DER BY SHI R E ( ' 90)

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he nearest town boasted a population of fifty. When Jim started school he “was the first grade.” He was raised in a godly home where his parents were “appliers of faith, consistent in their personal lives; noble, beautiful holy lives.” He learned early that “faith comes out in your hands.” “I knew I was raised by godly parents, but didn’t realize how blessed I truly was…At age nine, I felt an anointing.” Dr. Jim Garlow explains his early call to ministry. He identifies the roots of his faith as “the DNA of my upbringing.” With the family farm only 20 miles from Miltonvale Wesleyan College (later Oklahoma Wesleyan University), he began preparation for full-time ministry by completing an Associates of Arts Degree. Jim transferred to SNU as a senior and was immediately drawn into the community. It was the fall of ’68 when Prof. Richard Howard “took me under his wing,” Dr. Garlow remembers with gratitude.

JIM GARLOW & ROSEMARY GARLOW SPEAKING AT CONGRESS IN COSTA RICA

Even though Jim was an incoming senior he refused to remain an outsider. He made a goal to meet as many people and retain as many names as possible. He found he could memorize the names and faces of about six people at a time. So every meal he purposefully sat with a new group and put to memory eighteen new names and faces per day. By the end of the first semester he knew the entire student body! The original plan was to attend SNU for his final year of college and move on, but he stayed on for a master’s, supervised by Dr. Forrest Ladd in Research Methodology. He remembers that as a changing point. “I was energized and altered a great deal. New academic horizons and vistas expanded with an enlargement of vision.” At the close of the year he was completing his master’s work and was asked to stay at Chapman Hall through the summer. His study was concentrated on two biblical terms: the Greek agape, and the Hebrew chesed. Both terms mean love. However, it was more than higher academia he experienced. Garlow describes his master’s theses as “not academic; it was spiritual.” It went beyond the study of language, “It was the love of God.”

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SPEAKING AT NATIONAL PRAYER BREAKFAST IN UKRAINE Dr. Garlow continued his educational pursuits and was eventually brought back to serve at Bethany First Church as Minister of Lay Development under Ponder Gilliland for four years. He, like so many of us, knows there is “something about Bethany and the university that really warms my heart.” There is a very tender place and “intense warm spot in my heart” for the college and community. In 1983, Pastor Garlow was once again drawn to the region where he founded and lead Metroplex Chapel in Fort Worth, TX as senior pastor for a hugely successful eight years of ministry until he was called to Skyline Wesleyan Church in San Diego, California. His influence took a super charge as he led John Maxwell’s legacy church through a multi-million dollar, twentythree year building program. In the middle of his ministry to Skyline, Dr. Garlow was placed on the battlefront of the nation’s greatest moral test of the young 21st century. Pastor Jim Garlow was seen as the face of Proposition 8, the California attempt to block the legalization of gay marriage, by the press. He is credited with the mobilization of thousands of pastors and churches in California and around the nation: “It was a massive campaign. For one-and-a-half years it took every ounce I had.” By November 2008, over 50 million dollars was raised to support the campaign for marriage. 8

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“I WAS ENERGIZED AND ALTERED A GREAT DEAL. NEW ACADEMIC HORIZONS AND VISTAS EXPANDED WITH AN ENLARGEMENT OF VISION.” The entire nation was propelled to participate through donations and prayer. On Election Day, over 100,000 people were working at various precincts and 33,000 were gathered in San Diego’s Qualcomm Stadium on the day of the election for a day of prayer. The nation was stunned when Proposition 8 passed with 52.3% of California voters agreeing to a state constitutional change that would stand in defense of marriage between one man and one woman. The influence of biblical Christianity was tested and came through the flames of heated opposition with Dr. Jim Garlow blazing the way. It was during Dr. Garlow’s fight for Proposition 8 that his wife, Carol Garlow, began her fight against ovarian cancer. She was known as a powerful woman of prayer, leading and training groups in the discipline. In 2005, Carol and Dr. Garlow co-authored God Still Heals: Answers to Your Questions about Divine Healing. In that same year she was named “Woman of the Year” at the California State Capital. After a six-and-half-year battle with cancer

and 42 years of marriage, she passed away at age 62. “Everybody you preach to has a broken heart,” Jim remembers Prof. Shelton telling all the “preacher boys” on the second floor of the religion department. It was later he learned that Professor Shelton had lost his wife to cancer and was speaking from his own broken heart. Years later those words were a source of comfort and truth. Of those who say the loss of a spouse is equivalent to losing half of yourself, Dr. Garlow shared that “95% of me was gone. I was like an empty shell.” Through that tremendous loss Garlow says that God restored the “pieces of my life.” His most recent book, God Will See You Through This, is Dr. Garlow’s reality, not a trite saying. “The God who was lifted up at SNU will see you through.” After 49 ½ years of full-time pastoral ministry, the restoration of Dr. Garlow’s energies was shifted. Dr. Garlow admits he always had a passion for government, but he received validation during one college semester he spent with Loren Gresham, a young professor teaching his first year in the political science department. In 2014, Garlow launched the website Well Versed, dedicated to “bringing biblical principles of governance...to government leaders, young adults & you!” Well Versed started with a weekly Bible study for members of Congress in Washington BRIDGE.SNU.EDU/ALUMNI

“I CAN HEAR PROF. SHELTON’S VOICE, ‘THE WORD OF GOD APPLIES TO LIFE AND CIVIL GOVERNMENT. HE ESTABLISHES NATIONS’.”

PRESIDENT OF BRAZIL – JAIR BOLSONARO D.C. along with a separate study for young Congressional aids. This led to a once-a-month study at the State Department. In 2017, Well Versed began hosting weekly Bible studies at the United Nations in New York. Since that time members of the Well Versed team have been privileged to meet privately with 91 of the 193 United Nations Ambassadors. “Well Versed goes into the U.N. to bring the message of the love of God, and hope for the nations,” Dr. Garlow explained concisely. In 2018, doors opened for Well Versed to co-sponsor a Torah (Hebrew Scriptures) study with Jews and Christians, led by Rabbi Yeuda Glick, in the Knesset—the Israeli Parliament. Dr. Garlow is especially amazed with the work the Lord is doing in Israel through Well Versed and also through Schindler’s Ark, the ministry of Rosemary Schindler Garlow, his wife since 2014. As a descendant of Oskar Schindler, Rosemary is an important voice and advocate who bridges support between Christians and Jews, and the United States and Israel. By way

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Dr. Jim Garlow is the Founder and CEO of Well Versed, Inc. He is an author, communicator, commentator, historian, cultural observer, and has served most of his adult life as a pastor. Garlow is heard daily on over 800 radio outlets nationwide in his one-minute commentary called “The Garlow Perspective,” and has appeared on numerous national TV shows on NBC, ABC, CNN, Fox, MSNBC, CNBC and Comedy Central. Garlow has done over 1,300 radio, TV, and print interviews—national and local— covering a wide range of topics: historical, theological, political, religious liberty, marriage and family issues, and cultural trends. He graduated from Drew University (Ph.D. in historical theology), Princeton Theological Seminary (Master of Theology), Asbury Theological Seminary (Master of Divinity), Southern Nazarene University (B.A. & M.A.), and Oklahoma Wesleyan University (A.A.).

of explaining the success of the work in Jerusalem, Garlow says, “God is blessing us because we are blessing Israel,” referring to Genesis 12:3. “I can hear Prof. Shelton’s voice, ‘The Word of God applies to life and civil government. He establishes nations.’” Garlow continues, “We see the value of the Word in the underpinnings of every government issue.” Dr. Garlow describes his faith as “coming out of my hands,” as he goes to world leaders and shares biblical principles of governance. When asked what are the goals he is pressing toward, he says, “to finish strong in humility and purity; to honor all the vows I have made to my family, God, and the church. I am trying to walk through the doors the Lord opens and be a steward of what strength I have left and walk faithfully before the Lord. I am eager to hear, ‘well done.’” 

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Always in Season U BY AN N A D ER BY S H I R E (‘ 9 0)

nlike other sports, ross country & track and field student-athletes can compete recreationally or professionally at various races around the state, country and world as long as the desire to run compels. “Even if you hang up your competing shoes you can still pick them up from time to time and run competitively,” Coach Billy Miller tells of his personal love for the sport after 22 years as the Head Coach of the SNU cross country program.

“INDIVIDUAL GOALS ARE BOUND TIGHTLY TO TEAM AND COACH ACCOUNTABILITY. WHEN PERSONAL CHARACTER AND DISCIPLINE GOALS ARE MET THE MISSION OF THE TEAM IS ACCOMPLISHED.’.”

Cross country & track and field are individualized team sports. The long stretches of personal athleticism and endurance are challenging on an individual basis. Yet each runner is part of the team where one’s personal endeavor boosts team performance. Each year these SNU athletic teams begin with three essential goals: first spiritual, second academic, and third athletic. “This is not just a quote,” Coach Billy Miller emphasized, “This is the action of the entire department.” Individual goals are bound tightly to team and coach accountability. When an individual meets personal character and discipline goals then the team is accomplishing its mission. The team program supports personal development with the core principle, Challenge makes you stronger. “SNU is a sculpting line, not an assembly line.” Coach speaks of his department, “I have students who are not the fastest, but as they progress in life skills they become great leaders.” Coach Miller and his staff of coaches invest

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BILLY MILLER countless hours with their student-athletes over the course of the students’ academic careers. “Over the years that a student is on the team, we have the opportunity to see all of the ups and downs, and have seen it all.” Miller expresses with fervency, “We see the fruits of the labor when students come to critical places and decisions. We get to mentor them and have the joy to guide them.” “Students tell me all the time, ‘SNU is just different.’” Coach Miller affirmed. “Our mission and value has always been to work with the students to set short term and long term spiritual, academic, and athletic goals.” He continued. “We wouldn’t be who we are without all three.” “Being part of SNU has helped me grow personally as a husband, and father, and coach,” Coach Miller testifies of the influence SNU has on his life, “And I have seen how SNU has grown my family.” He affirmed, “SNU is true to it’s calling of making disciples. As a coach I get to share my testimony, spiritual values, and goals. That has always been a draw for me.” Coach Miller quotes Dr. Newman, “ ‘A great team is a group of interdependent people committed to a common mission who choose to cooperate in order to achieve exceptional results. We celebrate the diversity of our team by working together for a cause with eternal consequences.’ This is a perfect description that encompasses our team.” Coach Miller instructs the SNU cross country & track and field students in their sport and in their faith. Each run is a solo endeavor of personal discipline and long stretches of isolated effort. But when supported by a team with group goals and guided by leaders who map a road for success, they are not alone. Cross country, like Christian character, is unique. It is individual. It is a team. It is life-long. It is always in-season. 

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Billy Miller is in his 22nd season at Southern Nazarene University and his 16th season as the head coach of the SNU track and field program. Under Miller, the Crimson Storm cross country and track teams have produced 15 of the 22 National Champions, 39 of the 82 All-Americans, and 162 of the 182 Scholar-Athletes. Coach Miller is grateful to the assistant coaches who have contributed to the legacy of SNU cross country & track and field. Derek Lane 2005-Present Mercedes Miller 2017-Present Adam Ergenbright 2014-2017 Ed Forester 2005-2017 Thomas Brooks 2009-2013 Joel Dougherty 2005-2009 Braden Smith 2018-Present Coach Miller enjoys and appreciates the support of his wife Amber & four children, Colin, Aidan, Austin, and Kaylee. SNU MAGAZINE | WINTER 2019-202 11

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During the past fifty years, many aspects of Southern Nazarene University have changed—but not the presence of Dr. Mark Reighard or students’ love for him. While he is not the only professor who has dedicated many years to SNU, Dr. Reighard’s musical abilities, huge heart, and quirky sense of humor have enabled him to have a unique impact on many. This impact not only spans decades, but also reaches across disciplines. Indeed, one would be hard-pressed to find an SNU alum who does not adore this gifted pianist. 12

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here Dr. Reighard (who, despite his retirement, still teaches a few classes) goes, echoes of laughter follow. As young men and women file into the Sawyer Center wearing caps and gowns, “Pomp and Circumstance” briefly gives way to the Star Wars theme under Reighard’s nimble fingers. Commencement attendees exchange winks and elbow jabs, making sure no one misses the lighthearted moment in the midst of the momentous occasion. Similarly, his concerts blend stand-up comedy with masterful piano concertos. Reighard first discovered his talent for comedy when, as a student at SNU (then BNC), he performed a silly version of “Somewhere Over the Rainbow.” The crowd went wild, and crowds have been going wild since. Laughter is a big part of Reighard’s life, but he also has serious moments and intense times of intercessory prayer. He cares deeply for students. Zach Sutton (’17) commented, “Dr. Reighard has served as a mentor in my life in several ways. He started out simply as my piano teacher and professor. Soon he was not just a teacher of music, but a spiritual leader and best friend.” Often, Zach’s lessons with Dr. Reighard involved less time at the keyboard and more time discussing Zach’s relationship with Jesus. Reighard would ask if Zach had spoken with God lately and what God had shown him. He also took a genuine interest in Zach’s life, from his family and friends to his future career. Dr. Reighard has found great joy in this ability to connect with students. “There are so many wonderful times I remember of teaching classes, teaching piano, counseling students, or praying for them,” he shared. Personal connections have also allowed Reighard to be part of the catalyst for change and growth in students. He shares that students must be willing, though. When asked whether he believes SNU lives up to its desire to be a crucible, a place of transformation and change, Reighard responded, “I believe

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that SNU certainly has the people and Christian heritage that can help transform a life, but I have taught long enough to realize that it also is in the will of the person. I have seen students who do little to strengthen or discipline themselves and they waste their years here. But there have been others, some who have had rough childhoods, who have come through victorious as they walk out of our halls. I know one graduate in particular who came from a terrible background of poverty, family suicide, and abandonment, who is now working on a master’s degree and is the worship leader at a large church. So yes, transformation does happen, but again it resides in the heart and will of a person.” The transformation is not only for students. Dr. Reighard has felt himself shaped and changed by his years at SNU. He says, “As I have taught, counseled, or prayed with another person, I have found that I am being changed also. The impact of Christian education is the wonderful sharing that takes place between professor and student, and that contains a beautiful refining and learning aspect for me as well as the student. My legacy is that I still have many communications with former students who in turn impacted (and still impact) my life.” Sutton believes Dr. Reighard exemplifies what SNU stands for. “He treats everyone with dignity and respect, no matter their background or lifestyle. His love of Christ is extremely evident and at the forefront of his everyday life. His ability to relate to and understand multiple generations of people defies boundaries and expectations.” Sutton continued, “Considering Dr. Reighard has taught at SNU since 1969, the number of lives he has renewed and transformed is beyond comprehension. I am so very thankful that SNU allowed me to become associated with him. This is where, in my opinion, SNU does its job to the utmost; not just providing opportunities educationally or professionally, but bringing people together and forming lasting, lifelong friendships.” 

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hree years ago, Alex Da Silva had no idea the way God was about to change his life. At that time, he was living in Brazil with his parents and little brother, attending a Nazarene church, and he realized his dreams of playing professional soccer for Brazil were unlikely. Every morning at 5:00 he’d arrive for his shift at a toy factory, and every evening he’d stay up late teaching himself English. Alex was able to pass the International English Language Testing System (IELTS) exam and began seeking scholarship opportunities with NAIA accredited schools in the U.S. Although he received many offers, no one could provide enough scholarships for Alex to afford to enroll. “One day I woke up earlier than usual and went to a little hill above my house to pray. ‘God, if this doesn’t work out, what am I going to do?’” Things began to look up for Alex after his pastor wrote recommendation letters to send to Christian colleges. Before long, he was scouted by soccer coach Neil Cagle from Southwestern Christian University, who immediately contacted him and requested that Alex consider SCU. “He offered me a better scholarship, but I still couldn’t afford it. Then God made something happen.” In what could only be described as a “God moment,” Alex’s family was informed that ten years prior while his dad had been playing pro-soccer in Switzerland, portions of his income had been saved and were never transferred back to the family upon their return to Brazil. “Ten years later, this money just showed up to bring me here. That was one of the craziest days of my life. My mom cried. I cried. Everyone cried!” Alex enrolled at SCU and quickly became active at Bethany First Church of the Nazarene. He began thinking more about his future, and he felt a stronger pull towards ministry. “I felt God was calling me to something bigger than just soccer.”

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Around that time, SNU soccer coach Trevor Harmon convinced Alex to come to SNU. In addition to a great athletic scholarship, Alex qualified for several academic scholarships through the SNU Fund. With his professors’ help, he was able to craft a new degree plan: sports ministry. He now attends both sports management and theology classes, and his hope is to provide evangelical opportunities to athletes that he may work with in the future. In addition to academics and sports, Alex works four different jobs throughout the year. He assists at BFC’s afterschool program, babysits, and spends evenings at the local basketball and soccer leagues. “It’s a privilege to be here, a privilege to work. My parents can focus on my little brother, and that makes me happy. I’m in the United States, getting a degree in another language, able to preach in another language, able to work.” While talking about how his SNU experience has changed him, Alex said, “I want to plan and know what’s going to happen tomorrow, and since I got here, I don’t know anything and that drives me crazy. That’s what’s been changing a lot for me here…being confident that I can rely on God. I just want to remind people that God still makes dreams come true. Miracles still happen, they are just different. We might not see God opening the sea anymore, but we see God taking a guy from a country where there was no hope of achieving anything and brings him to a new country and opens doors. I have opportunities because people have donated to this school. They are keeping this school alive to receive us. Through all these people, God still does His miracles, just in different ways, and they are a part of that miracle!”  BRIDGE.SNU.EDU/ALUMNI

“MIRACLES STILL HAPPEN, THEY ARE JUST DIFFERENT. WE MIGHT NOT SEE GOD OPENING THE SEA ANYMORE, BUT WE SEE GOD TAKING A GUY FROM A COUNTRY WHERE THERE WAS NO HOPE OF ACHIEVING ANYTHING AND BRINGS HIM TO A NEW COUNTRY AND OPENS DOORS.”

SNU is committed to ensuring every student, regardless of their background, receives an education that allows them to develop leadership traits and positively impact not only the local community, but the world as a whole. Alex reminded us that when we give to the SNU Fund, we are part of the miracle of making sure we can continue to provide these impactful opportunities to our students. Please help us reach our goal of $450,000 by the end of June 2020 so our students can experience a Christian education and become stronger servants of Christ. Annual gifts of $1,000 or more qualify you for a President’s Circle membership. Thank you for your willingness to become a part of the miracle of giving Alex and many others unique opportunities to seek God first and impact the world around them. Give online at bridge.snu.edu/give or use the inserted envelope. SNU MAGAZINE | WINTER 2019-202 17

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SNU is more than just a school. The administration, staff, and faculty want this place to be a crucible–a place where transformation happens. To this end, they strive to create “an intentional educational environment in which our students and employees alike engage in refining experiences that challenge us to become better.”

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“I’m more confident in who I am and who the Lord has called me to be. I have also grown to be healthier in the way I live out every aspect of my life.” BRI MORROW

“I have been shaped to view the world as a gift, which has strengthened my capacity for compassion and empathy toward others.”

“I have learned that people are more important than the task in front of you.” JULIA GLIDDEN

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tudents testify that SNU’s excellent professors and staff make a difference not only academically, but also in refining character. The men and women who work at SNU are strong role models who genuinely care for the students. Daylan Hawkins shared, “Dr. Jim Fizgerald is someone that loves others unconditionally, and finds ways to put them in situations which allow them to thrive.” Spencer Jornod adds, “Ricky Spears pushes me every day to be the best musician that I can be. He 20

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has shown me that he cares, and that has made me want to care for others.” Melana Rangel of Newport, Rhode Island has been similarly influenced. When asked about someone who has impacted her at SNU, she responded, “Dr. Forsberg is so kind and loving and represents Christlike behavior everywhere he goes. I can always count on him to be real with me and inspire me to be a better me. I see how giving and kind he is to others that he does not even know, and it encourages me to do the same, because that is what God

does for us.” The way professors and staff invest in students has an impact that reaches far beyond the classroom. “Since coming to SNU I have been surrounded by faculty and staff who have continually and intentionally poured into me,” shares Rebecca Morris. “They help me know my worth.” The SNU community is another factor which contributes to transformation. Rebecca adds, “The community here is like none other. SNU feels like home and the people here feel like family. I have had the opportunity to meet BRIDGE.SNU.EDU/ALUMNI

““My professors challenge me constantly to exude professionalism in every aspect of my life. ”

“I’m more who I’m meant to be.” RUDY ROCKET

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“I definitely have been so much more open to getting to know new people and not being afraid to do so.The community at SNU really helped encourage me to feel like I could.” OLIVIA LINDSLY

so many amazing people.” Because of the positive atmosphere, students are encouraged to participate fully. Olivia Lindsly says, “I definitely have been so much more open to getting to know new people and not being afraid to do so. The community at SNU really helped, encouraging me.” As new students find their places within the school, they realize what Macie Nantze realized. Students here “are quick to love.” What is the end result of SNU’s “intentional educational environment”?

For many, SNU becomes a place where God’s voice can be heard. Noah Terry has experienced clarity which will guide him into the future. He comments, “I’ve realized that God’s call on my life is real and I’ve had many people affirm it.” Being sure of God’s call is a powerful place of beginning for college students. Bri Morrow says of her time at SNU, “I am more confident in who I am and who the Lord has called me to be. I have also grown to be healthier in the way I live out every aspect of my life.” SNU truly is serving as a crucible–a

place where people, experiences, and learning combine to bring about beautiful transformation. Student Brittany Jenkins sums it up: “My mind has been opened through education and experience to see the world, people, faith, God, and my own self in new ways that have radically shifted the way I interact with and participate in all aspects of life.” 

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asting Impressions, the theme of Homecoming 2019 at Southern Nazarene University, came to life throughout the campus as alumni from across the decades gathered to share memories and create new ones. Through laughter and tears, they celebrated all the lasting impressions SNU made on their lives, shaping them and the world around them. A very special tradition opened the weekend’s events as the excellence of ten students, chosen by their peers, was highlighted at a special Homecoming Coronation Chapel. As parents shared humorous, endearing, and intimate memories of their children, the crowd in the packed auditorium could hear the love and pride in each parent’s voice. Applause erupted throughout the auditorium as Josiah Evans and Emma Wright were crowned as Homecoming King and Queen. Focusing on the lasting impressions of the people and places that make SNU so special, Friday afternoon provided events and spaces for reconnection: alumni were encouraged to tell their stories of BPC/BNC/SNU during the College Memories Project, and the Block Party provided a time for students, faculty, staff, and alumni to reconnect over local food, the Sound of the Storm band, and entertaining games. Inside the R.T. Williams Library was a presentation by current students, faculty, and staff expressing the lasting impressions still being made at SNU, setting a tone of remembrance and celebration that continued into the night. 22

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HOMEC “THE EXPERIENCE WAS DESCRIBED AS, ‘HUGGING, GREETING, CONVERSING, SINGING, AND PRAYING TOGETHER, WHICH CONFIRMED EVERYTHING WE COMMITTED TO DURING THOSE FORMATIVE EXPERIENCES AND YEARS’.”

Flooding to the Sawyer Center after the Block Party, fans cheered on the SNU women’s and men’s basketball teams. The spirits in the Sawyer Center were high; the pep band continued to entertain the crowd, while the student section was so loud it left many students voiceless the next day. While the fans urged on the Crimson Storm, alumni met on the track above the court to reconnect and pick up right where they left off, decades before. The Class of 1969 celebrated their 50th reunion, with Wes Smith (‘69) saying, “That reunion served as a great reminder that connections and affections are deeper and stronger than anyone has the capacity to explain.” Ann Jetton, another graduate of 1969, described the experience of gathering in the midst of the chaos of the basketball game: “Standing in the upper lever of the Sawyer Center, above the activities of the basketball game below us, reminded us of the cloud of witnesses who are continuing to cheer us on until the ‘final buzzer.’” Saturday was packed with events where alumni celebrated the lasting impressions of classmates, beloved former faculty, and staff, as they gathered to remember how their time at SNU formed their shared connections and created a lasting impact. The classes of 1969, 1994, and 2009 marked milestone reunions this year, seemingly picking up right where they left off 50, 25, and 10 years ago. The Class of 1969, in particular, shared an overwhelmingly meaningful reunion with around 100 of their members attending the

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event. The room was full of people, laughter, joy, and sometimes, tears, as the group reconnected and shared the lasting impressions of SNU. The experience was described as, “hugging, greeting, conversing, singing, and praying together, which confirmed everything we committed to during those formative experiences and years.” The bonds of faith and friendship were strong across the room, and left a lasting impression of gratitude and resolve to “finish strong” as Jim Garlow’s benediction brought to a close a most memorable gathering. Annette Gunter (‘94) shared a similar experience at her reunion, saying, “Our 25 year reunion was a sweet time of laughter and reminiscing about wild pranks, long talks in the dorms, and professors and classes that left a lasting impression.” These times of renewing friendships and sharing was mirrored in other gatherings throughout the day, from the Class of ’09 up through the legacy group of alumni who celebrated their “beyond fifty years” together. A beautiful fall afternoon brought the alumni together with students, faculty, staff, and the community to pack the stadium for an exciting Crimson Storm football game. The SNU marching band, The Sound of the Storm, performed their Latin-infused set “Latin Nights” during halftime while the pom and cheer teams followed the set with a halftime routine. BRIDGE.SNU.EDU/ALUMNI

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Homecoming 2019 was capped off with the Main Event: the Miles of Jazz orchestra under the direction of SNU School of Music Professor Ricky Spears, featuring SNU’s own Dr. Jim Graves. This throwback 40s swing band featured songs from artists like Count Basie, Frank Sinatra, and Nat King Cole, keeping the packed crowd tapping their toes and singing along with the talented musicians from SNU, who were joined by metro-area alumni standouts to make up an amazingly entertaining group of musicians. But the highlight of the Main Event, as always, is the recognition of alumni selected to receive the Outstanding Alumni Award. This year’s recipients were recognized for their exceptional reflection of Character, Culture, and Christ, embodying the values of SNU. Professor Jeff Seyfert was honored for his service and commitment to SNU throughout his career. Carolyn Jaggers was recognized for faithful and impactful service in the classroom, her church, and as a volunteer at SNU, while SNU’s Softball Coach, Tere Webber, was highlighted for her commitment to making a difference in the lives of students and student-athletes across the years. The SNU Alumni Association Board presented its final award of the evening to Rod and Dr. Mary Eskridge, whose lives were described as living examples of how SNU’s lasting impressions transform and continue to shape lives long after their student years. Each of these outstanding alums invested their lives in others through teaching, coaching, serving, and giving back to SNU, their churches, and their communities. Homecoming 2019 was a special time of sharing memories of those Lasting Impressions

from college days. Each sporting event, luncheon, reception and gathering was filled with connections—with old friends, current students, former and present faculty, and university leaders. Homecoming reminds us again that SNU is not just a campus of buildings; the people transformed on that campus make SNU a place of Lasting Impressions. 

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The Work of BY CYNDI L AMB (‘74)

hen Justin and Sarah (Meeks) Oberndorfer left their stable middle-class homes and set off as eager freshmen to attend Southern Nazarene University, they could have never imagined the lives that lay before them. Four years later, after the couple had married and Justin graduated with a marketing degree, they went immediately into youth ministry at a newly-planted church in the Greenvale neighborhood of Oklahoma City—an area with high crime and low income. As Sarah finished her law degree, the couple not only worked at the church, but also moved into the neighborhood with its burned-up cars and boarded-up homes. While serving at New Life Community Church (a partnership between SNU, Bethany First Church, and the Oklahoma District Church of the Nazarene) Justin said, “Every youth we met had tremendous needs. On a daily basis we encountered poverty, fatherless children, substance abuse, mental health issues, and the trauma that instability creates in the lives of the young. It broke our hearts and God began to use these experiences to shape us.”

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“IT’S NOT THAT WE FOUND A MISSION; IT’S MORE LIKE THE MISSION FOUND US.”

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LEFT TO RIGHT: ADALYNN, SOPHIE, SARAH, JOY, JUSTIN, JACKSON AND NAOMI OBERNDORFER

Fostering Joy Justin likes to say, “It’s not that we found a mission; it’s more like the mission found us.” The couple later moved on to another church plant in Norman, Oklahoma. Generations Church had a totally different socioeconomic make-up than New Life, that included both the wealthy and the impoverished. Despite the differences, Justin and Sarah soon realized many of the needs were the same. They still found kids—or, perhaps it’s better to say, kids found them. Kids often showed up at their house seeking refuge from abusive home lives or just the comfort that the loving couple could provide. While living in Norman, the Oberndorfers were first licensed into foster care. A homeless teenage girl in her junior year moved in with them. Keyana lived with them for the next two years

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CLOTHING CLOSET PROVIDES CLOTHING, TOILETRIES, SHOES, AND DIAPERS TO AN AVERAGE OF 25 FOSTER CHILDREN PER MONTH

and they were able to see her graduate from high school and move into transitional housing to begin her adult life. Eventually the couple moved again–this time to the Kansas City area. During this season, as their own biological family grew to four children and they faced a medical crisis with their oldest son, they were forced to put fostering on hold. Sarah found herself discouraged and questioned God about the direction of their lives. “I thought he had led us into this work, specifically through Isaiah 6:8, ‘Whom shall I send? And who will go?’ But I didn’t see how that was really going to happen with a houseful of our own children. Then I discovered Isaiah 8:18, ‘Here am I, and the children the Lord has given me.’ I realized that God hadn’t just given this calling to Justin and me, but to our whole family.” Sarah explains, “We ultimately had to believe this was the right thing for all of us. We wouldn’t be doing this if we thought it wasn’t good for our family. Overall, my children feel like it’s something they get to do too. It’s changed their perspective of the world.” It’s been ten years since the couple first became licensed foster care parents. Whether it’s for one night or for long term, they have provided a safe haven for countless children including three yearold Joy, who they recently adopted after having been in their home since birth. As Justin and Sarah began to navigate the foster care system and learn many difficult lessons, 30

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VOLUNTEERS HELP PACK UP SUITCASES OF CLOTHING FOR FOSTER FAMILIES

“FOSTERING ... LIKE OUR SPIRITAL LIFE ... IS A LONG OBEDIENCE. NOTHING ABOUT IT IS EASY OR FAST. A DAILY CALL TO THE LEAST OF THESE ... AND WHAT GREATER NEED DO WE ENCOUNTER TODAY ... THAN A HOMELESS CHILD?”

they saw two great needs. Foster families needed more training and they needed more support. In Kansas, 50% of families who begin fostering quit after 10 months. Fostering Joy is a ministry they developed to further equip parents for the challenges they’re facing and to equip churches to come alongside these families. While the Oberndorfers acknowledge that not everyone is called to be a foster parent, they do believe there is something everyone can do to help with this national crisis. Currently there are 38 churches in the Fostering Joy network. Even with the creation of Fostering Joy, the Oberndorfers continued to have a nagging sense of “if only we could do more….” If only they had more space to take extra children or sibling groups. If only they could locate and centralize all the services available for children. If only families weren’t alone and isolated as they tried to love the abused and neglected. If only so much time and energy wasn’t wasted driving. From these thoughts, God put an idea and dream in their hearts of making a better way: a multi-family, foster care village. For the last two years, Justin and Sarah have watched in awe as this dream has unfolded despite the tremendous obstacles they have encountered including zoning complications and financial hurdles. Recently the Leavenworth County Commissioners approved a redevelopment of 54 acres to become Joy Meadows–a neighborhood designated for foster families living in independent homes, yet in a community of like-minded friends. The BRIDGE.SNU.EDU/ALUMNI

84 TREE ORCHARD AT JOY MEADOWS

THE GARDEN WILL BE READY FOR AGRICULTURAL THERAPY THIS SPRING

property offers free space for children to play and explore, an equestrian facility, gardening plots, an orchard, and the beauty of nature. Besides providing affordable housing for families with multiple foster children, the site will host a center for therapeutic services, tutoring, behavioral support, private lessons, and extracurricular activities. Justin believes that fostering–like our spiritual lives—is a long obedience. Nothing about it is easy or fast. From the extreme lows of watching a child self-harm to the simple success of a child finally able to sleep through the night, it’s the daily direction of faithfulness, a daily call to the least of these…and what greater need do we encounter today than homeless children? To the Oberndorfers it’s actually quite simple.

“It is God’s mandate on our lives…and we could do nothing else.” 

To learn more about Joy Meadows, go to www.joymeadows.org.

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Southern Nazarene University

Annual Report 2018-2019

“My mind has been opened to see the world in new ways.” BRITTANY JENKINS

FRESHMEN SOPHOMORES

328

268

ENROLLMENT

1,063 Traditional Students

Seniors

Freshmen

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242

Non-Traditional Students

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Traditional Student Profile RESIDENTAL STUDENTS

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308 FEMALES

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389 MALES

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Professional & Graduate Studies

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US Student Origin by State OK 623 TX 282 KS 26 AR 24 CA 14 WA 5 CO 6 LA 15 AZ 5 MO 5 HI 4 NM 4 IL 2 IN 3 OH 5 SC 3 FL 4

Ethnic Background

American Indian: 90 Asian: 25 Black or African American: 303 Hawaiian/Pacific Islander: 3 Hispanic: 279 Native-American: 1 Non-Resident Alien: 41 Two or more Races: 173 Unknown: 33 White: 1281

Residential Residential: 66% Commuters: 34%

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Financial Aid Sources (Traditional)

Undergraduates Received Need-Based Grants

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Endowed Scholarships

Federal Pell Grant SEOG Oklahoma’s Promise OTAG OTEG General Endowments Church Departmental Outside Scholarships SNU Need-Based Grant

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University Budget Summary July 1, 2018 - June 30, 2019

REVENUE Student Tuition and Fees.................$25,592,797 Auxiliary Enterprises............................ 7,052,843 Gifts and Grants.................................... 5,043,185 Sales/Services of Ed Depts.....................784,835 Net investment income........................ 2,461,686 Rental and other income................... 11,621,299 Total

“I am more spiritually strong and more loving.” MYLES ANDERSON

$52,556,645

EXPENSES Educational and General................$ 34,580,324 Auxiliary enterprises........................... 14,463,382 Fundraising activities................................954,758 Total $49,998,464 FINANCIAL STATEMENT 2018 2019 Total Assets $141,410,385 $143,695,894 Total Net Assets 80,397,543 82,955,724 Without Donor Restrictions 36,646,329 37,271,011 In Endowed Scholarships With Donor Restrictions 43,751,214 45,684,713 Were Awarded Total Liabilities 61,012,842 60,740,170 Total Revenue 49,711,033 52,556,645 Total Expenses 47,124,466 49,998,464 Net Income 2,586,567 2,558,181 SNU Fund

$1,071,466 $345,208

GIFT REVENUE Trustees, Foundation Board, Faculty and Staff...........$ 47,134 Alumni..................................................................................955,699 Parents.....................................................................................24,884 Friends...................................................................................439,657 Churches and Religious Organizations.........................1,354,067 Corporations and Businesses (with Matching Funds).....337,939 Foundations............................................................................24,097 Bequests................................................................................320,144 SNU MAGAZINE | WINTER 2019-202 35

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AND GOD MOVED BY C OUR TN E Y MAR QUE Z (‘ 01 )

ON THE WAY TO THE ROCK (HARMON SCHMELZENBACH’S ROCK)

DOUG & SANDILE MASILELA AT MAKHWEYA CHURCH OF THE NAZARENE

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The couple who walks through the doors of the SNU Library and Coffeeshop

are unassuming and have smiles and handshakes for all they meet. Doug and Margaret Eaton, clad in their SNU gear, are returning to the campus where they met, graduated, and started their life together more than 50 years ago. “I heard him give a speech when he was running for student government,” recalls Margaret. “I remember thinking he was the kind of guy I’d like to know.” Though Margaret was a year ahead, Doug had noticed her, too. He recalls that even though their first interaction was a bit rough, she agreed to go out with him. “She was a cheerleader and they were selling calendars to help raise funds. I made some smart-aleck comment and she was quick to let me know that they’d worked very hard on those and were very proud of them. I went right back to my room and looked up her number.” But in this origin story of Doug and Margaret’s marriage, you can also see the hand—and sense of humor—of God at play. These two are quick to note that God brought them together as complete opposites, but that together they complement each other. “Doug’s middle name is adventure. He’s always ready to try something new. Always ready to say yes,” notes Margaret. “I tend to look at and think about all the details.” Those years of saying “yes” and the experiences they had as their family moved around the United States, in a way, prepared them for a big “yes” that God asked of them two years ago when they applied to be on-site coordinators in Eswatini, formerly known as Swaziland, in southern Africa. Along with all the books, personality tests, and other preparations they undertook as part of their training to become missionaries, they were praying, fasting, and listening for answers only God could provide. “I was worried about a lot of things,” recalls Margaret. “And one day a peace swept through me. All the things I’d been worried about didn’t matter anymore.” They both quickly added that there are other things that have taken their attention and prayer time—things like helping the pastors of Eswatini get the resources they need, the lives of children who are being cared for by Project Canaan, and the dreams of the staff at Raleigh Fitkin Memorial Hospital (RFM) to care for those with diabetes, asthma, and other noncommunicable diseases. And if you spend even a short amount of time with the Eatons, their passion for this “yes” in their life comes through. “We are not the same people we were two years ago. Our time in Eswatini has been so much more than filling a need,” reflects Doug. “My very image and understanding of God has been refined. God alone, with the direction of the Holy Spirit, can do the things we’ve seen. We were often powerless to make something happen, but we prayed. And God moved.” With two years in Eswatini behind them, they are dreaming of so much

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more work they can do there as they partner with the pastors, lay people, and medical teams they’ve come to serve alongside. “We hope to help build a shelter for young women because all the others are full and it is such a need,” explains Doug. “We also are working with RFM on their dream of a non-communicable disease clinic.” As we parted the SNU Library that day, Proverbs 27 came to mind, particularly verse 19: “As water reflects the face, so one’s life reflects the heart.” Doug and Margaret have served to sharpen each other over the years. Now their hearts are reflected in their work and driving their dreams for the future in Eswatini. “My understanding of Philippians 4 has deepened. We must not worry, but trust God,” reflected Doug. “Now we realize we are joining God in His work, not seeking his help to do ours.” 

THE SABELO DLAMINI FAMILY WITH THE EATONS

You can follow the Eaton’s journey by going to Facebook and searching Eaton Swazi Journey.

DOUG AND MARGARET WITH SKHUMBUSO

EATON’S CONNECTING WITH SNU STUDENT

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From Tragedy to Triumph BY K EL S I E S T ELTIN G

When Twyler Earl was seriously injured, she thought her dream of earning a doctoral degree was behind her. However, she shares how God’s plan ended up being bigger than her own.

TWYLER EARL

his past August, Twyler Earl sat in the first class of her Doctor of Education in Administration and Leadership class. Only a year prior, she didn’t know if she’d make it through the night. “I was walking across the street and got hit by a truck,” Earl explained. “When I woke up in the ICU at OU Medical Center, I was told that I had two collapsed lungs, a broken sternum, and broken ribs. It was only after a comprehensive evaluation that I learned I had suffered more than 10 fractures and/or breaks from neck to ankle.” After a major surgery on her femur, which was broken in three places, she said she knew that a long stay in the hospital and an even longer journey of recovery was ahead of her. Even with her health at a critical point, Earl understood that her sense of meaning was bigger than her suffering. Earl said, “After going through something as traumatic as that and surviving it, I felt like God was telling me, ‘I have more for you to do.’” Although married now, Twyler was a single parent of two for more than 10 years, and her education had been placed on the back-burner as she tended to their needs and the demands of keeping a household running. Still, her desire for more

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learning, more credentials, persisted: “I had always thought I was going to go back to my doctorate, but I kept putting it off,” she explained. Those worries went deeper than financing the degree. Like many adult students, Earl said her hesitation stemmed from several areas. She was unsure of beginning a second career after age 40; also, she was concerned about finding time for coursework while working a full-time job. Sometimes, however, we get a sign we can’t ignore, along with persistent nudges. “While in the hospital, my son visited me, and he questioned what I thought God had in store for me,” Earl said. “I told him God was working in the waiting.” Nearly a year after her accident, she visited her son in New York City, and he insisted that there was no reason to wait anymore. Now was the time. When she reminded him of her fears about being too old, he said, “No mama, if anyone can do it, it is you. You’re never too old. It’s never too late to go back, and [my brother and I] will be the ones there when you finish this.” Still, because her checklist for the ideal program seemed impossible, she needed a few more holy nudges in the right direction. She expressed her need for an educational setting that accommodated her recovery process, as well as one where it would be safe to discuss her faith journey. “I’m just not at a place in my life where I want to censor my conversations. I want to talk about what God did.” Around that time, one of Earl’s friends shared on social media that she had enrolled in a doctoral program at SNU. When Earl reached out, her friend said, “SNU is where you’re supposed to be.” That day, Earl contacted SNU and asked for more information, only to discover applications were due in less than a week! “Little did I know that

“WE SHARE IN CELEBRATING THE BIRTH OF CHILDREN, GRANDCHILDREN, AND WEDDINGS, AS WELL AS MOURNING LOSSES. IT’S AMAZING.”

when God says, ‘It’s time,’ it’s time,” Earl said. Applying was a seamless process; each of her letters of recommendation, transcripts, and other forms were submitted not only on time, but early. Receiving her acceptance letter was just another sign she was where she needed to be. Reality didn’t settle in until the first night of class when Earl said she realized just how far she’d come. “I was crying in my car because I never thought this part of the journey would happen,” Earl said, “much less after going through what I went through. I just never thought this would be possible.” Now, Earl is three months into the program and feels she has found not only a university that meets her needs, but also a second family. “Our class has a group chat going with daily affirmations, and support for each other. We share in celebrating the birth of children, grandchildren, and weddings, as well as mourning losses. It’s amazing.” Adult students at SNU take classes in cohorts, meaning the students begin and end the program as a group. When she graduates alongside her classmates, Earl said she desires to be a Dean of Students and “help students line themselves up to where God wants them to be.” After everything Earl has been through, and is still enduring, we are honored to have her at SNU and eager to see what she can accomplish regardless of age or injury. “If God has brought me to this, I know that I am supposed to walk through it,” Earl said, “I can’t imagine what He’s up to in the next chapter of my life.” 

To read more of Earl’s story, you can follow her blog at https://www.deeply-rooted-faith.com/

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Poured Into and Pouring Out BY CHER YL CR OUCH ’91

here does a job search expert who is wellknown for coaching, mentoring, and motivating, go when he wants to take his own game to the next level? James Wall chose to attend SNU. The 2016 grad of SNU’s PGS (Professional and Graduate Studies) program says SNU helped him “add tools to his already-full toolbox and increase his options.” Because he was over fifty and the first male in his family to finish college, Wall had moments when he was not sure it would be possible to go back to school. Still, he desired a degree. He spent time praying about and researching several schools. He even walked each 40

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"SNU HAS IMPACTED EACH AREA OF MY LIFE.”

campus he was interested in, ultimately deciding SNU was “the clear choice by far.” At SNU, he sensed the presence of God on the campus, and he appreciated the priority given to chapel. The small class sizes were a plus, allowing him to connect with professors he says demonstrated “a deep commitment to education and a deeper commitment to the spiritual growth of each individual.” As a student, Wall was able to grow in areas where he already excelled. His professors poured an even stronger sense of purpose into him that prompted him to refine his long-term plans and goals. The Christian values that were practiced and discussed in his classes and conversations with peers and professors provided a strong academic and spiritual foundation that he has used to change people’s lives. Wall’s time at the university impacted him so much that he has chosen to reinvest in SNU. He serves as a member of the SNU Alumni Board, which he says is, “one area where I could immediately give something back to a school that has given me so much.” He is excited to play a role in supporting SNU’s vision for the future and hopes to leave the school even better than he found it. He’s giving back in other ways, as well. Recently, Wall visited campus to participate in the School of Business’s “Chat with the Execs.” It was a blessing for current students, who will soon be joining the job market, to learn from him. He offered tips about landing and keeping their dream jobs, encouraging them to network with each other and with SNU alums who want to see them succeed. He also gave them tips on preparing for the future, setting up LinkedIn accounts, and excelling in interviews. Wall says, “SNU has impacted each area of my life. It is a firm part of everything I do and think. Now I have come to realize that my personal mission, passion, and purpose is to really make a difference in the lives of everyone I touch.”  BRIDGE.SNU.EDU/ALUMNI

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Al u m ni Ne w s & Up date s

PROFESSIONAL UPDATES SETH CARLEY (’13) recently accepted a job at Peak Vista Community Health Centers in Colorado Springs, CO. Seth is a Family Nurse Practitioner.

ERIN GOODIN (‘01) has been named President and CEO of OKC City Rescue Mission. Goodin has more than 21 years experience in non-profit work, primarily in the accounting field. MICHAEL SLIMAK (’69) PHD, was conferred in 2018 with the Presidential Rank Award for

KAREN ECHARD SAMS (’99), a third-grade

Distinguished Service as a member of the

teacher in Weatherford, TX was recently

US Government’s Senior Executive Service.

honored as 2020 Texas Teacher of the

This is the highest honor bestowed on

Year by the Texas Association of School

civilian government employees for sustained

Administrators.

extraordinary accomplishments exemplifying the highest

TOMMY GODDARD (’10) recently accepted a position at Liberty University in Lynchburg,

standards of service to the public. He is in his 42nd year of service with the US Environmental Protection Agency.

VA as Assistant Director of Athletic Bands,

SNU ALUMS, CLAY MILFORD (‘14),

working with the marching band, pep band,

CHAD DOROUGH (‘07), MAKAYLA

indoor drumline, etc. Goddard says, “This is

SHONAMON (‘19), AND LIBBY

a ‘dream job’ of mine and I am very excited

FREES (‘18) are members of the

for this new opportunity.”

worship band Royal Company.

SCOTT HALL (’87) Express Jet Airlines announced Captain Scott Hall as vice president of flight operations. Hall will be responsible for ExpressJet's 1,300 pilots and will serve as the FAA Director of Operations. KAREN GARBER-MILLER (’92) On August 6, Park University in Parkville, MO appointed Karen Garber-Miller, Ph.D., as Dean of the College of Education and Health Professions. Garber-Miller will oversee the University’s School of Education and the School of Behavioral and Health Sciences, which includes the departments of nursing, social work, and psychology and sociology. MARK KILGORE (OL 206) 2006 has completed his new book "Sweetheart Love Poems": an enlightening collection of “from the heart” poems dedicated to the “girl next

The group recently released their fourth original song, “Jesus It’s You”. The song is also their second song released after signing with Dream Label Group. Royal Company was the featured worship band this past summer at NYC. C. DALE GERMAN, (’69) published two books, available on Amazon.com @ C. Dale German. Goodbye My Darling, Hello My Dear is about infertility and adoption. On Bricktown Canal is about the year Dale drove Water Taxi boats on Bricktown Canal in OKC and OKC’s urban development. ADRIAN HUNTER, ('12) State Farm Insurance Agent; was recently named to Forbes 30 Under 30 List recognizing the brightest and most innovative from across the world.

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JOI M. MOSELEY (‘15) Recently received her degree in law from Southern Methodist University in Dallas, TX and passed the Texas Bar.

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FAMILY ADDITIONS Kaiden Michael Barton – Born 5.2.2019

Ollie Brack Stelting – Born 9.4.2019

Parents MICHELLE (LUEHRING) (‘15)

Parents TYLER (‘16) AND DANNAH (WHITE)

AND DAVID BARTON

(‘17) STELTING

Ryder Lee Lackey – Born 7.3.2019

Daniel Allen Jackson – Born 10.1.2019

Parents JONATHAN (‘13) AND LINDSEY (WILLIAMS) (‘13) LACKEY Lyla Del Diffee – Born 8.17.2019 Parents GAGE (‘16) AND KAYLA DIFFEE

Parents KIRK AND RACHEL (GRAVES) (‘04) JACKSON Evelyn Shay Tucker – Born 10.2.19 Parents CHRIS (‘17) AND MADISON (RUSNAK) (‘17) TUCKER

Ryan Grace Cox – Born 8.24.2019 Parents PHILIP (‘10) AND ERIN (FITZGERALD) (‘11) COX

Vanessa Jane Anikienko – Born 10.3.2019 Parents GREG AND LISA (HOLLOWELL) (‘08) ANIKIENKO

Boyer Tod Mosshart – Born 9.3.2019 Parents BRACK (‘07) AND AMANDA

Esther Joy Davis – Born 11.21.2019

MOSSHART

Parents FOSTER AND BRIANNA (SHAY) (‘17) DAVIS

Luke Jerome Rodebush – Born 9.22.2019 Parents PHILIP (‘94) AND KATY RODEBUSH

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Al u m ni Ne w s & Up date s

MARRIAGES

IN MEMORY

EMMA GUNTER (‘16) married THOMAS

DR. PHILLIP E. WASHBURN (‘58)

WHITMORE on April 12, 2019

12.2.1936 - 11.11.2018 Sapulpa, OK

SARA PITTS (‘16) married CLAY

MARY LOU (SELLS) BOND (‘57)

MILFORD (‘14) on May 25, 2019

11.28.1934 - 4.5.2019

KATELYN LAMB (‘14) married CALEB

ARJORIE VIOLA WEAVER (‘40)

SWANIGAN (‘14) on July 6, 2019

DR. WESLEY D. TRACY (’58) recently married DONNA COLENE (ADAMS).

Edmond, OK

9.17.1919- 5.26.2019 Dallas, TX MILDRED “MILLIE” AKIN SCHUNEMAN (‘47) 9.16.1924 - 6.8.2019 Medford, OK REV. BOBBY RAY LINDLEY (‘55) 8.3.1934 - 6.24.2019 Oklahoma City, OK JOY (GASSETT) BROWN (‘75) MA (‘94) 10.2.1953 - 7.1.2019, Oklahoma City, OK

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REV. RONALD PERRY DECH (‘71)

ADELINE (PRUESS) OWENS (‘51)

MM (‘00)

3.31.90 - 9.26.2019

2.21.1949 - 7.2.2019

Olathe, KS

Oklahoma City, OK MARVIN A. PETERSON (‘49) 12.20.1922 - 8.12.2019

ROBERT D. CORY (‘64) 7.7.1939 - 10.24.2019

Yukon, OK

Oklahoma City, OK

DARWYN A. COODY (‘50)

CAROLYN ANN BARLOW

7.12.1926 - 8.12.2019

1.17.1938 - 10.31.2019

Bethany, OK

Yukon, OK

FLOYD KEITH FARROW (MHR 14)

ROXIE ANN (MOORE)

12.23.1951 - 8.25.2019 Bethany, OK

WESSELS (‘45) 1.24.1923 - 11.6.2019 Olathe, KS

MICHAEL WAYNE STEPHENS (‘79) 4.28.1954 - 8.29.2019 Oklahoma City, OK

MARILYN D. (LAKE) WATKINS (‘58) 9.24.1936 - 11.13.2019 Oklahoma City, OK

GARY GENE HORTON (‘75)

DR. F. WAYNE STARK (‘61)

7.18.1951 - 9.12.2019

12.25.1939 - 11.24.2019

Bethany, OK

Ft. Scott, KS

OLEN DEE MCCLAIN (‘59)

DONALD KEITH MADDOX (‘59)

9.30.1930 - 9.25.2019 Oklahoma City, OK

12.22.1937 - 11.24.2019 Oklahoma City, OK

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Congratulations

to the Winter 2019 Graduates

WINTER COMMENCEMENT SPEAKER GREG HALL ’93

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