Remembrance Service

The remembrance service holds a special place in our bereavement support work at Murdoch, thoughtfully coordinated by our Pastoral Services team.

Each year, approximately 600 people pass away within St John of God Murdoch, and the Pastoral Care team understands the immense impact of loss and grief on the bereaved. Their aim is to help people navigate through their feelings of loss and sorrow, ensuring that they do not feel alone on this difficult journey, while also striving to reduce the incidence of complicated grief.

With great care and sensitivity, a bereavement review is conducted for each passing under our care, drawing insights from nursing, social work, the hospice team, and pastoral services. In an effort to offer support during such trying times, we provide the next-of-kin with a handwritten sympathy card and an information pack detailing emotional and practical support resources. For those with identified complex needs, we extend the opportunity to receive additional assistance.

To foster a sense of togetherness and healing, Pastoral Care extends an invitation to attend a remembrance service, which is held approximately every two months.

The feedback received from those who have attended a service has been heartening and uplifting. Some have expressed that being surrounded by others who understand the pain of loss has been immensely comforting. The act of lighting a candle in remembrance has been particularly meaningful to many, and the opportunity to stop and remember their loved one with those who have shared a similar experience has been a great source of support.

"It was interesting how staff reacted to even being asked to wear a bag," Kate said.

"For some, it was instant anxiety. I asked staff to take a few minutes to consider how patients feel when they have a stoma."

The Pastoral Care team is truly grateful for the opportunity to offer this service, and it is their hope that these remembrance gatherings can provide a moment of reflection, peace, and healing during the difficult times of loss. Their commitment to supporting the bereaved remains unwavering, and they will continue to be there for people in their time of need.