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Patrick Ruocco Cooking with Robert Irvine Page 7

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Editor’s Note

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Editor’s Note

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Sarah Latham Inviting Others to Learn, Explore, Enjoy

by Crystal Gregory

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She Said He Said / Who Let the Dog Out?

by Dena Hill & Larry Oldham

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Dr. Jeff The Family Vet Love Heals

by Dr. Jeff Smith

Learn, Explore, Enjoy. If granite could talk, that’s what the monuments pictured on the cover would command you to do.

Because stone doesn’t speak, Sarah Latham has volunteered to be its voice on page 3 and tell about the area’s newest gathering and information area.

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Progressing to the Next New Workout

by Ciji Moore

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Patrick Ruocco Cooking with Robert Irvine

by Joyce Wilburn

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Second Thoughts / Thanks for the Memories

by Kim Clifton

Did you notice Patrick Ruocco on the front cover? He enjoyed being a contestant in a Food Network culinary competition, but he isn’t allowed to reveal the outcome of this venture. His story on page 7 will whet your appetite for watching Restaurant Express starting this month.

10 Spotting Exceptional Customer Service

by Mark Gignac

These individuals are making progress toward community and personal goals. How? Linda Lemery thinks the only way is Step

by Step. See page 21. If you aren’t making progress in your exercise routine, fitness guru Ciji Moore advises you to quit! Startling but true. Read more on page 6. Are you a new mom or dad? Progress to you means something totally different than it did in the BB years (Before Baby). Commiserate with another new parent, Britta Petrich, on page 24. Then sit back and read two book reviews by Diane Adkins about how one city progressed and another failed when their reasons for existence changed. What did they do differently? Discover the secret on page23.

When you aren’t cooking Annelle Williams’ delectable recipe on page 25, I challenge you to learn more by reading the next 20+ pages; then explore more using ideas from Learn, Explore, Enjoy on the corner of Sutherlin Avenue and Magruder’s Alley. When you are finished, pat yourself on the back and enjoy the progress you have made.

Editor Joyce Wilburn (434.799.3160) joycewilburn@gmail.com Associate Editors Larry G. Aaron (434.792.8695) larry.aaron@gmail.com Jeanette Taylor Contributing Writers

Diane Adkins, Wayne Alan, Meagan Baker, Rachel Boyd, Cara Burton, Kim Clifton, Michael Edwards, Mark Gignac, Crystal Gregory, Dena Hill, Judith Hodnett, Telisha Moore Leigg, Linda Lemery, Jerry Meadors, Ciji Moore, Kathleen O’Hare, Larry Oldham, Susan Paynter, Britta Petrich, Betty Ann Smith, Jeff Smith, Joyce Wilburn, Annelle Williams

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18 Calendar 20 Where Can I Find an Evince?

21 Reflecting Forward / Making Progress Step by Step

by Linda Lemery 22 Why Save Old Buildings

by Rachel Boyd 23 Book Clubbing / Why the Garden Club Couldn’t Save Youngstown The Transformation of the Rust Belt by Sean Safford & The Unwinding: An Inner History of the New America by George Packer a review by Diane Adkins 24 Making Progress as a Parent

by Britta Petrich 25 Around the Table / Holiday Brunch

by Annelle Williams

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Photo of Learn, Explore, Enjoy by Michelle Dalton Photography.

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Holbrook Presbyterian; and the Historical Societies of Danville, Pittsylvania County, and Caswell County and many individuals collaborated on this project that will officially open this month.

Sarah Latham Inviting Others to Learn, Explore, Enjoy

by Crystal Gregory Photos by Michelle Dalton Photography

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magine greeting neighbors from the graceful front porch of a restored Victorian home. For years, this idyllic image absorbed Sarah Latham’s imagination. She spent hours researching opportunities, remote and conceivable. Finally, with her husband’s retirement, the time was right; her search started in earnest. On the Internet, Sarah spotted two Victorian houses for sale in a totally unfamiliar place, Danville, Virginia. She convinced husband Dan to take a just-for-alark excursion and despite initial disappointment – both houses had been sold – fantasy was on its way to becoming reality. In January, 2004, the Lathams purchased a dilapidated Victorian house at 840 Main Street.

Their home, recently recognized

by This Old House magazine for its contribution to the revitalization of Danville, has become more than the fulfillment of a dream; it is serving as a starting point for more projects. The entire city’s architecture fascinates Sarah. For her, homes, churches, warehouses –in fact, all structures – are “the city’s genealogy.” Without words, they tell “what Danville has been.”

As President of the Danville Historical Society, Sarah is helping the silent architecture tell its story in many different ways. On Tuesday, November 12, she will emcee the DHS’s latest endeavor: the unveiling of Learn, Explore, Enjoy. It’s a small plaza on the back lawn of the Danville Museum of Fine Arts and History that will become a gathering and information area for area residents and visitors to the historic district.

The shady circular area at the

corner of Sutherlin Avenue and Magruders Alley has been paved with recycled cobblestones. Granitetopped curvy benches on one side of the circle lead the eye to granite blocks holding information signs.

Visitors to this sculpture-garden setting can read the signs for facts on local history and attractions in Danville, Pittsylvania and Caswell Counties and then browse through brochures and rack cards. Starting from this gathering place, visitors can explore two neighborhoods, Millionaire’s Row, constructed by the tobacco and textile tycoons, and the Holbrook-Ross Historic District, developed by the African-American professional community in the late 1880s. Large brass tobacco leaves embedded in the sidewalks mark the historic trail from Sutherlin Avenue to Main Street, Holbrook Street and Broad Street.

The vision for Learn, Explore, Enjoy began when Historical Society Board Member Fred Meder approached Joyce Wilburn, another DHS Board member, about embedding trail markers in the sidewalks along the route of the walking tour she leads.

Joyce wanted a simple sandwichboard to let passersby know that tours were being offered. With the generous support of the Danville Regional Foundation and other donors, their ideas grew and Sarah’s enthusiasm propelled it along. Fred designed and supervised the creation of the gathering/information area and the installation of the trail markers. At the same time, DHS Board Member Paula Smith, who enjoyed playing in the Holbrook-Ross neighborhood during her childhood, worked with a group of volunteers to help create the narrative for a self-guided tour booklet and a guided tour of that district, There’s a Story Here.

The many facets of Learn, Explore, Enjoy gained wide-spread support.

Many groups, including Averett University, the Danville Museum of Fine Arts and History, the Danville Preservation League, Preservation Virginia, the City of Danville, two African-American sororities, Delta Sigma Theta and Alpha Kappa Alpha; two churches, Calvary Baptist and

As Sarah prepares for the unveiling of Learn, Explore, Enjoy, she and Dan can sit on the front porch of their house a short distance away and take satisfaction in the knowledge that the carpenters, plumbers, electricians and painters have finished renovating the Latham’s historic home. But the work of preserving the past is never done. The DHS President wants others to join her in learning more, exploring the area, and enjoying our history.

• The unveiling of Learn, Explore, Enjoy is open to the public and will begin at 12:30 p.m. on Tuesday, November 12, (11.12.13) on the back lawn of the DMFAH, 975 Main Street.

A dessert reception will follow.

For more information, visit www.danvillehistory.org or call 434.799.2323.

• The Wednesday Club will present a program given by Sarah Latham, Today’s Danville Historical Society - Saving the Past and Dreaming for the Future on Wednesday, November 13, at The Wednesday Club, 1002 Main Street, starting at 3:45 p.m. The event is free and open to the public.

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SHE SAID

by Dena Hill

Who Let the Dog Out? Lately I have noticed that you are not paying enough attention to our beloved dog. She loves you very much and I need you to show her more attention and affection. While we are at work every day, she sits by the window anticipating our arrival. I know she is lonely because she cuddles up beside me, licks my leg and will not go out to do her business. I know that after being in the house all day she has to go to the bathroom, but she is so lonely that she will not leave my side until I have given her a half hour of stroking and loving.

dog more a part of my daily life. I promise I will strive this year to let Sophie out more often, make sure she is happy and make sure she knows how much I love and appreciate her. Matter of fact, let’s not invite our kids over for Thanksgiving this year. Let’s just tell them that we have other plans and we feel our pet needs more of our love and our attention.

I would like to suggest that we invite all the neighborhood dogs and maybe even some of the cats to come to our house for Thanksgiving dinner with Sophie. We will do it up right. Hire a dog band to play Thanksgiving music Who Let the Dogs Out; How Much is that Doggie in the Window?; Hound Dog; Walking the Dog; Me and You and a Dog Named Boo and even The B--ch Is Back.

We could have a special meal brought in or we could cook them a meal using those dog recipes you have been collecting or we could just go all out and buy them steak dinners from Outback.

She said He Said

It takes two to raise a poodle. I am doing all the work and you are just letting her needs go. I know that she is my dog and that I owned her before we were married, but marriage is more than just cuddling and kissing. We have to make sure that Sophie feels like a part of our family also. I Yes, I can just don’t think see where our you are doing dog has been your share. This Photo by mistreated and is the season of I feel terrible Thanksgiving and Michelle Dalton Photography. about it. Should I want her to feel we buy them all Thanksgiving presents like she has something to be thankful for or maybe just wait until Christmas and this year. I am asking you to show her plan a big party for them? Do you want more attention, take her out more often, to move Sophie into our bedroom and let walk with her and make her feel like she is her have our bed? We could move into more a part of your life. If you can do this her room and sleep on that new bed you and show me you care I will be more thankjust stuffed and covered for her. Do you ful to you this year, if you get my drift. think she would mind? I am so thankful that you have reminded me of my lack of care for your dog. This will really give me HE SAID something to be thankful for this year and

by Larry Oldham hopefully she will be thankful that we are I feel remiss that I overlooked my duties thankful that she is thankful. as your partner in life by not making your

He Said / She Said can be found in Showcase Magazine.

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Karen Cross loves Danville’s new zip line.

Photo by Michelle Dalton Photography.

Progressing to the Next New Workout

by Ciji Moore Education & Outreach Coordinator, Get Fit Dan River Region Staying physically active is very important, but enjoying your workout is equally significant.

There are many ways to move your body, but all workouts are not created equal. You must be careful when choosing what to do. Many times I’ve done something to stay physically active, but absolutely did not like it and after a few weeks I stopped. There are plenty of options when it comes to physical activity. Why do only one thing when you can explore your options and challenge yourself? There are two ways to know when it’s time to drop a particular workout:

It bores you.

Your daily routine now bores you to death and you dread doing it. Easy solution: quit and come back later. Find something that you always wanted to do and replace the boring routine with that-no matter how crazy and adventurous it might be. Most times gyms can be boring. I love going to the gym; I am a member of one and it’s great, but I’ve seen people run on the same treadmill, use the same machines, listen to the same music. Everything is

monotonous. How long can you really do that? If you feel you need a break from the normal, then do something different.

It becomes too easy.

Your routine isn’t challenging you anymore and you’ve hit a plateau. A challenge improves your fitness level and instills a sense of accomplishment.

Never become stuck in a routine; always try to switch it up from time to time.

Remember to find out what works for you and enjoy it to the fullest. Try something as crazy, fun and freeing as zip lining (Trust me you will love it.) or something as relaxing as kayaking (It’s a great upper body workout). Maybe you want to put together a kickball team with a group of friends and relive your childhood from grade school recess or play a fun game of pickleball.

Whatever you do, enjoy it.

Remember, you never want to stop moving your body. Once you’ve realized your routine has become boring, don’t be afraid to progress into the next new thing.

Evince Magazine with the remaining seven one step closer to their dream. That continues until only one is left.

The ending to this story won’t be known until December when the winner is revealed. But like all good hard-to-believe-this-isreally-happening-to-me fairy tales, Patrick is confident that regardless of where he is, he will be cooking happily ever after.

• The series premiere of Restaurant Express is Sunday, November 3, at 9:00 p.m. on the Food Network.

• To read more about Patrick, visit facebook and search chefpatrickruocco.

Patrick Ruocco (second from right) looks to the sky moments before the competition begins.

Patrick Ruocco

Cooking with Robert Irvine

by Joyce Wilburn Once upon a time, an aspiring chef from Danville, Virginia, took a chance and wound up on the Food Network’s newest culinary competition, Restaurant Express, with Robert Irvine. How did he do it?

what he was really feeling. “It was the experience of a life time, something I will never forget,” confides the young man who received a lot of on-the-job training at restaurants in Danville, New Orleans and Los Angeles.

Ringgold resident, Patrick Ruocco, explains that his journey began with a serendipitous meeting in 2005. “I worked backstage on one of the plays that Jerry Meadors brought to the North Theatre and met someone from Los Angeles who said I should be on the Food Network,” he says and then laughs. “I can be entertaining while I cook. I like to dance and sing in the kitchen. I feel that if I’m happy, the food is happy.”

Filming started in late May. “The seven-week show tested my food knowledge, ability to be a chef, and every aspect of the restaurant industry—marketing, sales, identifying the target market, everything about the business,” says Patrick. Although he isn’t allowed to reveal anything about what happens, a media release states: In the premiere episode, Robert Irvine welcomes nine chefs and aspiring restauranteurs to Las Vegas as they board the Restaurant Express bus. Right away the contestants realize there are only eight beds on the bus. The contestants must pitch themselves and their dream restaurant concepts to Robert.

One chef’s vision comes up short and that person is left behind as the journey begins. For the next challenge, the competitors must create a restaurant with $500 and be ready to serve 250 hungry people in six hours. The challenge is all about profit and the bottom three earners will have to face Robert in a review. The second contestant is sent home

Fast forward to 2013 and Patrick receives an email from his L.A. friend that the Food Truck Show is holding auditions. The married dad of a six-year-old continues, “I didn’t get that job, but a month later they called me back to audition for Restaurant Express.”

When the phone call came with the news that he would be one of nine people competing for an opportunity to help launch and become the executive chef of a restaurant just minutes away from the Las Vegas Strip, he played it cool. “I acted like it didn’t matter,” he says, belying

• Patrick is currently a server at the Golden Leaf Bistro, 215 Craghead Street. Visit www.goldenleafbistro.com.

He also does private catering and is available as a personal chef. He is offering “A Chef at Your Home Meal for Four” in exchange for a minimum donation to www.michellesplace.org to support women with breast cancer and their families.

Call 434.483.8784 or email patrickaruocco@gmail.com.

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with bear hugs for the women and hearty handshakes for the men.

he resolved that sticking his feet in it was close enough.

“He’s up,” I whispered to Robert very, very early that Saturday morning. I knew Roger and Karen wouldn’t be because we still had quite a while until dawn. “I’ve got this,” I told Robert, who needed the extra rest. Walking down the hall, I noticed the steam on the bathroom mirror and his towels carefully hung out to dry. His bedroom was so worthy of military inspection that the only thing missing was a quarter to bounce off the spread. He sat waiting for everyone to join him for breakfast. It made no difference that the moon was still on duty; his day had begun.

It’s been a long time since I’ve seen him this happy and this connected.

Later, while the others dressed for dinner, we sat on the balcony and talked. He talked about how much he missed my mother-in-law. He talked about how he loved to go dancing on Friday nights with his friends. He talked about how he’d enjoyed the beach. I’ve been in this family since I was 16 years old and I can’t count the number of evenings I’ve sat on a porch with him at day’s end. That night he was the person I used to know. It felt good to visit with that R.L. again.

“How about we all head down and watch the sun come up,” Robert suggested after the others finally got going. This day just keeps getting better, I sighed as I went to change.

I love everything about going to the beach except actually going to the beach. If they’d vacuum the sand away and pour cement down to the shoreline, I’d like it a whole lot better.

The beach and R.L. hit it off so well that not only did he watch the sun come up, he practically stayed until it set. After all the planning, the water was entirely too cold for a swim, so

Thanksgiving usually comes in November, but we had ours early.

There was a magic in the sea breeze that blew the clouds away, if only for a day. Not only did R.L. recall good times from the past, he gave us good times to remember for the future. I’m grateful my reluctance fell on deaf ears or else I would have cheated everyone of this experience, especially R.L. Memory Lane gets harder and harder for him to travel... unless it’s covered with soft sand and sea shells.

by Kim Clifton ©2013

Thanks for the Memories When you’ve lost your wife, overcome a heart attack, survived bladder cancer twice and had thugs practically burn down your house, asking to swim in the ocean for your 86th birthday really isn’t too much to ask, although I thought it was when I first heard my father-in-law mention it last September.

Even though Robert’s brother, Roger, and his wife, Karen, provided us with a free weekend at a resort condo that would make Donald Trump salivate, I groaned knowing we’d have to drive more than five hours to Sandbridge, Virginia, for the equivalent of one day at the beach.

We’d arrive well into the night on Friday and leave at the crack of dawn on Sunday.

My first reluctance was the packing required for such a short time. How long I’m gone means nothing to my toiletry kit since one day or one month requires the same amount of bottles and sprays. Men can take shortcuts. Women can’t. So while I need a suitcase, laptop portfolio and garment bag, Robert can get by with

putting on a ball cap and sticking a toothbrush in his pocket.

(I need to pause here to make sure that what comes next isn’t misunderstood. It’s such a slippery slope that I was hesitant to publish this column and wouldn’t until I received approval from everyone, including R.L. I do not want to appear insensitive nor imply complaint, judgment, or frustration. It just is what it is.)

My second hesitation was that we were going somewhere we’d never been. I worried how R.L. would react, since he isn’t always the person he used to be. Most times he’s fine; however, some days he’s more forgetful than others. When that happens, his mind plays tricks on him to the point that the song and dance don’t go together, such as the time he went to work before remembering he’d retired 25 years earlier. R.L. has always been the life of the party, never having met a stranger. Nowadays, to him, most people are strangers. Even so, whether he remembers a name or not, he’s always thrilled for the company

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Spotting Exceptional Customer Service To encourage exceptional customer service, the Business Development Committee of the Danville Pittsylvania County Chamber of Commerce and Evince will recognize those who give it. When you experience exceptional customer service, tell us about it in 300 words or less. Include your name and phone number. Email your story to joycewilburn@gmail.com or visit www.dpchamber.org; click What’s New - Customer Service Award Nomination.

by Mark Gignac I would like to nominate Redd Lipscomb for the Exceptional Customer Service Award. Since I started working downtown in July 2010, Ms Lipscomb has been the manager of the Fas Mart at 1016 Goodyear Boulevard. She always wears a smile, offers a warm greeting and has been a pleasure to deal with over the years. In addition, much of the staff at this location displays the same friendly attitude and I assume they take their lead from the manager.

This store not only serves the local community but frequently serves travelers who exit off the bypass for gas. For these reasons, I highly recommend Redd Lipscomb for recognition. She really does a great job representing Danville.

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Evince Magazine his lips, had to know the dead boy’s best friend would be somehow foul. So, not in anger but not with love, Colby Keen, that broke-home, busted-knuckle, quiet boy, in his mother’s old Honda Accord, pushed a white strap from a caramel shoulder a little too low, kissed the edge of a collar bone.

He knew she didn’t really like it. “Talk to me,” he would say. “Tell me what’s wrong,” and he would hold her tighter, sensing both her bones and hope for the future fragile, hollow like a bird. Laurel didn’t shudder or flinch away, but she didn’t lean in. Like some star sanding its edges with the night, even in his arms, she always stayed far away.

Dead Boy fiction by Telisha Moore Leigg

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ne hour before the wedding and Colby Keen stood at the altar. He held a garment bag with the black rented suit. He thought what good was truth really; you couldn’t hold it or make your fortune from it. If hungry, you couldn’t eat it, and if you could, it would just be a rock in your belly. Those who kept themselves pure and clean, maybe they had use for it. But Colby Keen couldn’t do that....hadn’t done that. Now it was all too late. Eighteen years old and he felt like he knew just too much of too little of the world, and what knowledge did pull forth just seemed to damn him. He went inside.

Ten minutes later, G. (Garfield) Watkins and Rodney Gless both stared at Colby Keen in his rented, black tux. All three were in the Carolyn Lithow-Starks City Park bathroom 30 minutes before his wedding to Laurel Knox would begin. The light there was missing one bulb of two in its iron fixture.

The room was windowless and dim.

“Man, this trip too deep,” G said his piece while pacing in his groomsman tux. He pulled at his collar. A good kid with good grades and good family, G didn’t like controversy, didn’t like the unspoken dark. His father warned him about that quiet Colby Keen, and here Colby was just adjusting his ivory vest in the midst of subterfuge. G, also 18, and going to Howard in the fall, stared at Colby while tracing with his fingertip the Rick Wuz Here graffiti knifed into the bathroom stall door and only half painted over. “This bull, right? Your girl cute and all but...damn, man.” Colby said nothing. G looked again at Colby Keen as if he expected a different answer, like the secrets of a shot and a dead, missing teenage black boy, the dragging sadness of that same boy left in a dumpster long after his death. And as close as G was to Colby Keen in school, knew him since third grade, he suddenly thought of all their separateness, how blond buzz-cut, blue-eyed Colby was an unparallel universe of his own. And being a friend of Colby Keen and all Colby’s secrets scared G. “Shut up, G. U-Stupid,” Rodney said.

Rodney came from the same side of nothing as Colby, just two streets over on Harp Boulevard and he said his comment with bravado, but even Rodney didn’t want to go there to that subject. Rodney, too, had walked by the dumpster on that street, wondered how long the dead boy had been there before anyone knew, had speculated how much Colby Keen saw and didn’t tell.

Colby Keen never turned from the mirror.

Looking at him, Rodney realized that bravery is constant choice and just then Rodney didn’t feel brave. Nobody would talk about the dead boy; it was as if he was standing at the edge of the door, at the edge of light, still a little back and to the side among them. Still dead but standing among them.

“Man, forget y’all,” G said as he wiped his hands on his pants and swung through the outside metal door. Inside, Colby Keen became calmer still waiting in front of the polished metal that served as glass in front of the sink. Rodney, said, his brown eyes earnest, “Now Big Claude dead, you gone tell? ... ‘bout..you know,... make it right?”

Colby Keen touched his boutonniere with his pinky and thumb, finger-testing its softness.

“Come on, Rodney.” Rodney took that for a yes, believed what he wanted. Colby let him. And they left the dead boy there in that bathroom, that dead boy’s unspoken weight between them.

Colby Keen believed nobody really wanted truth, did they? Truth was always dying.

The boy was gone long before he actually left. Colby Keen knew this. And if the boy was going to go anyway, running a bad way anyway, why couldn’t Colby Keen have what that dead boy couldn’t keep?

After her brother died, Colby Keen noticed that Laurel never asked him where they were going when they went out to the drive-in movie, and she always ate what he could afford, never asked for anything different.

Weeks, months ago, he wanted to tell her about that empty field by Rowman’s Bridge that used to be a ball field; the ring Big Claude always wore; that tire iron in the backseat; how Marbelline Street boys couldn’t meet his eyes. He wanted to tell her of his gut-clenching longing for absolution that couldn’t come. So many times he wanted to tell Laurel just some of it. Sitting there all those evenings with the family as they looked for the dead boy, knowing he wasn’t coming back, was betrayal of a kind. Colby Keen knew that he knew how bad evil and broken grace could be, how wretchedness was really the meat and potatoes of the world. Yeah, Colby Keen wanted to be lifted lighter in right and truth and he needed help, so more than anything, he wanted his love, his Laurel, to ask, to grill him until he fell into defeat, but she never did.

Two days before the wedding, at the drive-in again, still she never asked him anything, although she had to see truth holding at

“What can I do?” or “We are going to be all right?” His voice would deepen, move into regret, and he would tell her a little bit. “I didn’t know, Laurel, or I would have told him not to go...but..I didn’t think...” And then she would flinch, pull away. “Liar,” even her pores seemed to scream. She would watch the drive-in movie screen then, her boring eyes burnt into the picture while tears slid down her cheeks. And Colby Keen would think he could tell her in that moment about Big Claude, about the fear, the apartment door closing, and her dead brother not yet dead walking down Colby’s steps toward his own end. Instead, in a fever, in the front seat, he kissed her eyelids, her mourning cuts that sleeves didn’t hide, tried to mold her hurt into a crown. She had to know by now. Still, in the front seat she let him touch her, but wouldn’t let him love her. And why should she?

The author welcomes your reactions at telishamooreleigg@gmail.com.

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Calendar Clips Clip it. Post it. Do it.

For more activities, see the calendar on page 18-19.

Saturdays in November Lady Astor Rose & Exhibit

The Lady Astor RoseTM will be offered as a gift when a tax deductible $20 donation is made to the Langhorne House during November. The rose was cloned at the Institute for Advanced Learning and Research from one of the few extant rosebushes presented by Lady Astor to the Danville community in 1922. A signed certificate of provenance is provided to every donor.

The rose bushes are available at the House and also by calling 434.791.2256.

The Langhorne House, birthplace of Lady Astor located at 117 Broad Street, is open on Saturdays from 2:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. Admission is free. Also, the House features an exhibition on the tobacco heritage of the region with a focus on Chiswell “Chillie” Dabney Langhorne, father of Lady Astor and creator of the famous historic tobacco auctioneers’ chant. (submitted by Jerry Meadors)

Friday, November 1 All Stories Eve

From 6:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. listen to the tales of the night as you stroll on the grounds of the Sutherlin Mansion at the Danville Museum of Fine Arts & History, 975 Main Street.

Professional storytellers will be located along the walkways. Bring a chair or blanket to sit on during this free family-friendly event.

Costumes are welcomed. For more information, visit www.danvillenuseum.org or call 434.793.5644. (submitted by Cara Burton)

Friday, November 1 –Saturday, November 2 Houdini Festival

The North Theatre will host some of the country’s top sleight of hand experts for an intimate show of closeup magic on Friday.

Saturday there will be a display of Houdini memorabilia, viewings of two of his famous movies, plus lectures and demonstrations.

The Halloween attraction, Houdini’s Haunted House in the theatre’s basement, will be open.

Saturday evening there will be a stage show featuring some of America’s top magicians and variety performers. Tickets are $75 for magicians and $55 for the general public. Tickets for individual events may also be purchased.

Students and children are half price for the Saturday night stage show. To reserve tickets, call 434.793.SHOW (7469) or visit www.TheNorthTheatre.com The Historic North Theatre is a beautifully restored 500 seat vaudeville theatre with a full balcony located at 629 North Main Street. (submitted by Wayne Alan)

Friday, November 1 – Sunday, December 1

Alphonza Clark & Donald Smith Exhibits

Alphonza Clark perfected his craft while serving as an illustrator for the United States Air Force and later at Averett University. Portraits of long-time George Washington High School teacher and former Mayor Ruby Archie and the founders of the NAACP are just two of his oil paintings on display. A youthful Muhammad Ali, replete with his symbolic butterfly and bee, stands poised to deliver a knock-out punch in another painting. His largest work, also an oil painting, reads like a visual diary of the Civil Rights Movement. Although Clark’s

paintings in the exhibition are not for sale, prints of Civil Rights Struggle are available.

The mural of Danville landmarks that Donald Smith completed his senior year at George Washington High School still graces the wall outside the school library. Voted outstanding defensive back in his high school district, Smith went to Liberty University on a football scholarship. Drafted immediately out of college, he played for both the Dallas Cowboys and the Toronto Argonauts before realizing that his passion for teaching outweighed his love of the game. He returned to his hometown where he now teaches at Gibson Elementary School and coaches at GWHS. His paintings and the accompanying texts display his respect for family and tradition, a profound religious faith and a commitment to his community, as well as his love of sports. Working primarily in colored pencils and pastels, many of his original works of art and prints are for sale.

For more information, visit the Danville Museum of Fine Arts & History, 975 Main Street, call 434.793.5644 or visit www.danvillemuseum.org.

Saturday, November 9

Where Do My Prayers Go Book Signing

Local author Stephi Lee will be signing books at Karen’s Hallmark on the upper level of Danville Mall starting at 11:00 a.m. The Oral Roberts University graduate wrote Where Do My Prayers Go? for her son who wanted to know more about his prayers and God. The book is suitable for ages three through six, but the bright colors and everyday themes in the 32-page hardcover book make it enjoyable for all. Stephi will also be signing books at Chatham Hall on Tuesday, November 12, at 6:00 p.m. For more information, visit www.wheredomyprayersgo.com.

Wednesday, November 6

Storyteller Fred Motley

Danville native and master storyteller, Fred Motley, will present stories from Here, There, and Everywhere at the Wednesday Club, 1002 Main Street, starting at 3:45 p.m. For more than 30 years, Fred has been professionally active performing, directing and giving workshops at festivals and colleges with special emphasis on African-American stories. Every February since 2000, Fred has organized the Danville Storytelling Festival held at the Danville Museum of Fine Arts and History. He says, “It is a humbling privilege to be a Griot, a Western African storyteller.” The program is free and open to the public. For more information, call 434.793.7432. (submitted by Betty Ann Smith)

Friday, November 15

Early Registration for Spring to Green

The Danville Master Gardeners will host this fourth annual horticultural symposium at The Institute Conference Center, 150 Slayton Avenue, from 8:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. on Saturday, February 1, 2014. Speakers include: Brent Heath, a third generation bulb grower and co-owner with wife Becky of Brent & Becky’s Bulbs in Gloucester, Virginia; Marie Butler, Landscape Coordinator for the 53-acre Virginia Zoological Park; and Mark Blevins, County Extension Agent for the NC Cooperative Extension Service in Brunswick County, North Carolina. Experience a fun day of learning about many aspects of gardening.

Cost is $40 before November 16. For more information, call 434.799.6558 or visit www.danvillemastergardeners.org. (submitted by Judith Hodnett)

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Education Station How to Handle a “Poor” Report Card Tips for helping your children when they are struggling to get Good Grades It’s that time of the school year again – report card time. While many students will come home with good grades, others would rather stuff their report cards deep into their backpacks than show them to their parents.

As parents, you want your child to do well in school, so what do you do when your child’s report card doesn’t reflect his or her academic potential?

Children get frustrated and upset when their report cards show they are not reaching their potential. Report cards are information on their current classroom performance, and you want to be sure you create an environment where your child and teacher are comfortable sharing this information.

Sylvan Learning, the leading provider of tutoring to students of all ages, grades and skill levels, offers the following tips for parents on how to deal with a “poor” report card: 1. Set expectations. Not every child will earn all A’s, but that doesn’t mean your child should strive for less. Talk with your child now and explain that you won’t be upset if he doesn’t bring home all A’s - but that you will be upset if he doesn’t try his hardest and doesn’t ask for help.

2. Communicate with your child. Don’t wait until report cards are issued to talk with your child about school and grades. With online access to grades and weekly folders, you can be well-equipped to discuss what is leading to that report card.

3. Set goals for improvement with your child. If your child is currently a C student -then setting a goal of getting all A’s may not be reasonable. However, creating an improvement goal for each subject will help her work toward an attainable level for each class.

4. Establish a personalized study plan with your child. Your child should keep a schedule of all classes, assignments and key dates (e.g., project deadlines, big exams, etc). As part of that schedule, he should include specific time for studying, projects and extracurricular activities. The more comprehensive the schedule, the more efficient your child will be in completing his homework and the better he’ll do in school.

5. Seek outside help. Some children may need additional attention that can’t be provided in school. Speak with your child’s teacher about tutoring or supplemental education providers to help your child work towards better grades in school.

6. Praise your child’s successes. Praise your child for what she is doing well, whether it’s a specific academic subject or an extracurricular activity. If your child is not doing well in English, but loves to read the latest Twilight book, show her the connection between the two. Focusing on a good grade and the work they do to earn that grade may encourage the same habits for the subjects that aren’t looking so good at that moment.

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Saturday, November 16

Solo/Duo Piano Recital

Husband and wife team Xak Bjerken and Miri Yampolsky will play a solo/duo piano recital at Moffett Memorial Baptist Church, 1026 North Main Street, starting at 7:30 p.m. Both are veteran soloists with major orchestras around the world, avid chamber musicians who have performed at Tanglewood, Ravinia, and Spoleto, and faculty members in the music department of Cornell University. Their program will include Schubert’s A Major Rondo for four hands; Pulitzer-prize winning composer Steven Stucky’s Allegretto quasi Andantino (Schubert Dream) based on the A Major Rondo; a solo performance by Bjerken of Schumann’s Papillons; a solo performance

by Yampolsky of the Fantasias, Op. 116 by Brahms; and the Brahms Waltzes for four hands. Tickets are $15 for adults, $10 for students.

Visit www.danvilleconcert.org or call 434.792.9242 for tickets. (submitted by Kathleen O’Hare)

Sunday, November 17 From Broadway to Opera

This program features tenor Scott Williamson, Director of Opera Roanoke, and acclaimed soprano Amy Cofield Williamson singing favorites from Broadway musicals and opera. The voices of Williamson & Williamson will be accompanied by the Classic Strings Duo of Kevin & Bryan Matheson and pianist Judith Clark. The 3:00 p.m. concert at Emmanuel Episcopal Church, 66 North Main Street in Chatham, will be followed by a reception. Admission at the door is by donation for the musicians. For more information contact kstrings1@hotmail.com. (submitted by Susan Paynter)

Friday, November 22 – Sunday November 24 The Best Christmas Pageant Ever

Everyone Productions presents this play based on a book written by Barbara Robinson. It tells the story of Imogene, Claude, Ralph, Leroy, Ollie, and Gladys, six delinquent children surnamed Herdman. They go to church for the first time after being told that the church offers snacks. Despite protests from other church members, they are given roles in the Sunday School’s Christmas play, in which they tell the Christmas story in a nonconventional fashion. The show will be presented at the Danville Museum of Fine Arts & History, 975 Main Street, at 7:00 p.m. on Friday and Saturday and 2:00 p.m. on Sunday. Tickets are $12.00 for adults; $10.00 for children. There will be a reception of cookies and punch on opening night following the show. For more information, call 434.792.6357. (submitted by Michael Edwards)

Friday, November 22

Deadline for Decorating the Trees for a Cause This program organized by the Institute for Advanced Learning and Research, 150 Slayton Avenue, raises money for local charities while bringing the community together in the holiday spirit. Last year 40 trees decorated the atrium area and raised $7,300 for local charities. Visitors vote for their

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favorite trees by donating money. Viewing of the trees is open to the public Monday through Friday from 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. from Monday, December 2 through Friday, December 20. For more information and to register a non-profit organization, call 434.766.6766 or visit www.ialr.org. (submitted by Meagan Baker)

What’s Happening in the Pittsylvania County Public Libraries READING PROGRAMS: • Preschool Early Literacy Programs: Mother Goose on the Loose—Chatham, each Monday morning at 11:30 a.m.; Wednesdays for Wees: Chatham, Gretna, Mt. Hermon and Brosville/Cascade, 10:00 a.m. every Wednesday morning • Family Story Time: Mt. Hermon, November 7, 14, and 21, 4:00 p.m.

• Read to Wrangell and Friends: Children are invited to read to a therapy dog; Chatham: Wednesdays, November 6 and 20, 4:00 p.m.

• Second Thursday Book Discussion Group: Thursday, November 14, 4:00 p.m., Chatham; call 434. 432.3271 or email info@pcplib.org for information.

WRITING PROGRAMS: • Nanowrimo [National Novel Writing Month]: Chatham, throughout November; contact branch for details.

HEALTH PROGRAMS: • Diabetes Education: Brosville/Cascade, Fridays 1, 8, 15 and 22, 11:00 a.m. until 1 p.m. Registration requested; call 434. 685.1285.

• Blood Pressure Checks: Gretna: Mondays from 10 until noon; Mt. Hermon Tuesdays, 2-4 p.m.; Brosville, Thursdays 10 until noon; Chatham Thursdays 1-3 p.m.

VETERANS WEEK PROGRAMS: • History Research Center and Library, Chatham: Every morning at 11:00 a.m. from November 12 through 16 a film will be shown of a local veteran talking about his experiences in service. The films were created as part of the national Veterans History Project of the Library of Congress. The Pittsylvania Historical Society and the library system are partners in this project. For information email info@pcplib.org or call 434.432.8931.

FILM PROGRAMS: • Movies in November: Saturday, November 2, Monsters University, 10:30 a.m., Mt. Hermon; November 5, The Croods, 3:00 p.m., Brosville/Cascade; Thursday, November 7, Monsters University, Gretna, 3:30 p.m.; Monday, November 18, Chatham, 5:30 p.m.—movie to be announced

ART AND CRAFT PROGRAMS: • Rubber Band Loom Bracelet, Friday, November 1, 3-5:30 p.m., Brosville/Cascade; • Re-use It Tuesdays Craft Class: Gretna, Tuesday evenings November 5, 12, and 19 at 6:30 p.m.

• Knitting: Monday, November 4 and 18, 6:30 p.m., Mt. Hermon; Thursday, November 7, 10:00 a.m., Brosville/Cascade • Crochet: Tuesday, November 5, 12, and 19, 10:00 a.m., Brosville/Cascade; Wednesday, November 13, 1:00-3:00, Chatham • Art Class: Tuesdays, November 5 and 19, 4:00 p.m., Chatham • Recycled Art Drop-By Craft, Friday, November 15, 10 a.m. until 5 p.m., Mt. Hermon • Holiday Lights Workshop: Saturday, November 9, 10:30-11:30 a.m., Chatham • Fall Craft workshop: Thursday, November 21, 5:30-7:30 p.m., Brosville/Cascade • Holiday Mesh Wreath class, Gretna, Thursday, November 14, 6-8 p.m.; Tuesday, November 19, 11:00 a.m., Brosville/Cascade; Saturday, November 23, 11:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m., Chatham History Center Building. Registration required and there is a cost for materials. Call for more information.

GAMING PROGRAMS: • LEGO Club, Mt. Hermon, November 9, 10:30 a.m.

• TEEN Wii Night: Thursday, November 21, 5:00-7:30 p.m., Chatham • International Game Day 2013: Chatham: Saturday, November 16, 10:00-11:45; Gretna: Saturday, November 16, 10 a.m. - 11:45 a.m.; Mt. Hermon: Saturday, November 16: Family Games 10:30-1:30; Teen Games 2:30-4:30;

SCIENCE PROGRAMS: • Science Club, Tuesday, November 19, 6:30-7:30 p.m., Chatham ALL LIBRARIES ARE CLOSED MONDAY, NOVEMBER 11; THURSDAY, NOVEMBER 28 THROUGH SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 30. All branches will close at 5 p.m. on Wednesday, November 27.

For information about any of these programs, email info@pcplib.org, call your local branch library, or visit www.pcplib.org.

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November Calendar Ongoing

Guided Walking Tour – Millionaires Row & Holbrook Street. 434.770.1974. www.danvillehistory.org.

Ballou Book Swap - Take a book or two to read and leave a book or two to share. F 9am-5pm. Ballou Rec. Center 434.799.5216.

Friday Night Dances - Live music by the City Limits Band. Ages 50+.

F 7:30-10:30pm. Ballou Rec. Center 434.799.5216.

Tai-Chi Day Classes - Increase strength, balance, flexibility and progress at your own pace. M 11:15am-12:30pm. Ballou Rec. Center. 434.799.5216.

Boogie Mondays - December is the Mambo. Learn new dances, make new friends and have loads of fun. 7-8:30pm.

Ballou Rec. Center - 434.799.5216.

Prime Time Fitness - Low-impact aerobics workout with a mix of various fun dance steps. MTH 9:30-11am or 5:30-7pm. Ballou Rec. Center. 434.797.8848.

Get Moving with Chair Exercises – Low-impact class ideal for adults 50+.

MTH 11:30am-1pm. Coates Rec. Center.

434.797.8848.

Hand and Foot Social - Play, socialize and enjoy refreshments. TU 2-4:30pm.

Ballou Rec. Center. 434.799.5216.

Sewing Classes – Learn how to use a needle and thread, make simple alterations or even clothes. TU 6:30-8:30pm. Coates Rec Center. 434.797.8848.

Zumba Classes - Hypnotic Latin rhythms and easy-to-follow moves create a one-of-akind interval training fitness program. TTH 7-8pm. Coates Rec. Center - 434.797.8848.

Cardio Step Class – Up-tempo, high energy class. TTH 8:30-9:30am. City Auditorium. 434.797.8848.

Baby Boomer Style Work Out – Walking, cardio activity & weight training designed for older adults. TTH 9-10:30am. City Auditorium. 434.797.8848.

Ladies, It’s Time to Work It Out. TTH 10am-12pm. City Auditorium.

434.797.8848.

African Rhythms by Nguzo Saba – Learn West African dance technique to live drumming. W 6-7:30pm. Pepsi Building.

434.797.8848.

Mommy & Me Fitness - Safe and effective workout for moms, babies, toddlers and preschoolers. TH 1pm-2pm. Coates Recreation Center - 434.797.8848.

Ballou Jammers - Acoustic musical jamboree. Bring a stringed instrument or just listen. TH 3-5pm. Ballou Rec. Center.

434.799.5216.

Tai-Chi - Increase strength, balance, flexibility and progress at your own pace. TH 6-7pm. Coates Rec. Center. 434.797.8848.

Kuumba-West African Dance Co. – Live drumming and energetic dancing that helps raise cultural awareness, uplift and provides a great workout. Must pre-register. TH Kuumba Kids 6pm; Adults 6:30pm-8pm.

City Auditorium. 434.797.8848.

Through November 7

DMFAH Exhibit - David Dabbs: A Retrospective. This exhibit presents a popular Danville artist’s paintings and sculpture, some whimsical and some demure. Danville Museum of Fine Arts & History (DMFA&H) – 434.793.5644.

Through November 8

Fahrenheit 451 Essay Contest – Essay contest focusing on themes explored in Ray

Bradbury’s dystopian novel, Fahrenheit 451 in 500 words or less. Categories: Seniors (62+); Adults (31 – 61); Young Adults (18 – 30); and High School Students. Piedmont Arts Association (PAA) – 276.632.3221.

Through November 15

Early Registration for Spring to Green Horticultural Symposium. See page 14.

Mapping Local Knowledge – Danville, Va., 1963: The Movement, The People, The Stories, an exhibit by Emma Edmunds and photographer Tom Cogill. Blount Library, Averett University. 434.791.5690.

Through November 25

AU Senior Art Show – Works by Kathleen Moore and Jordan Bay. See ad page 8.

Through November 30

PAA Exhibits - Weight of the Ribbon, It’s All Greek to Me and Making a Splash.

PAA – 276.632.3221.

Through December 1

DMFAH Exhibit - Paintings of Donald Smith & Alphonsa Clark Exhibit. DMFA&H – 434.793.5644. See page 14.

Through April 5

Dinosaur Discovery – A walk-through maze, consisting of a series of dinosaur murals on the inner-walls, dinosaur specimens and interactive elements and dozens of real dinosaur fossils. Virginia Museum of Natural History (VMNH) – 276.634.4141.

Through May 10

VMNH Exhibits – Stories from Skeletons: Hard Evidence & Nano exhibit. VMNH – 276.634.4141.

Through May

DSC Exhibits - From Here to There explores the science of how things move by land, sea and air. Participants will lift, launch and levitate with hands-on exhibits that make gravity, friction, and the laws of motion fun; Blood Suckers focuses on the biological wonders of creatures that eat blood -through encounters with live species and interactive exhibits. Danville Science Center (DSC) – 434.791.5160.

November 1

Singing at Ballou - Karaoke - Sing or just listen and enjoy. 2-3:30pm. Ballou Rec. Center. 434.799.5216.

First Friday Art Walk. 5-7pm. Studio 107, Martinsville. 276.638.2107.

November 1 & 2

Houdini Festival. North Theatre.

See page 14.

Houdini’s Haunted Basement - This is not your standard haunted house with just chainsaws and gore. It is a theatrical and interactive experience with Hollywood special effects and illusions. 6-11pm. North Theatre. 434.793.7469.

November 1, 2 & 3

Little Shop of Horrors - A floral assistant becomes a sensation when he discovers an odd plant... that thirsts for blood! Directed

by Ray Pearce. 7:30pm/3pm. Kirby Theater, Roxboro - 336.597.1709.

William Shakespeare’s Macbeth – This production brings Macbeth into the age of jazz where the kingdom is a speakeasy complete with its own house band. The monochrome designs of the show create the illusion of a black and white film with gangsters fighting to rule this kingdom.

Presented by Danville Center

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Stage. 8 pm. Old Main Street Methodist Church - Downstairs Meeting Room. www.danvillecenterstage.com.

November 1 (thru 22)

Preschool Story Time – Share stories and songs with a set theme. Ages 3-5.

11-11:45am. Danville Public Library (DPL) – 434.799.5195.

November 1 (thru 27)

Pittsylvania County Public Libraries Programs. See page 17.

November 1 (thru 30)

Art Exhibit – Sappony Art from the Sappony tribe. Reception 11/1 6-8pm.

Kirby Gallery, Roxboro. 336.597.1709.

November 2

Saturday Garden Forum – Preserving our native woody plants and Lessons Learned from a Poet’s Garden presentation and book signing. 8am. South Boston - Halifax County Museum. 434.476.2147.

Westwood Stew – Prepared by Stewmaster Garrett with fresh meats and vegetables. All proceeds will be used to fund projects and activities for Westwood students. 9am-1pm.

Westwood Middle School. 434.797.8860.

DRBA’s First Saturday Outing. 3-mile paddle on Dan River. Meet at Newton’s Landing. 10am. 336.627.6270. danriver.org.

Maker Lab – Different theme and art medium each month. Ages 5-9. 10-11am.

DPL – 434.799.5195.

Bob Ross Painting Class - Complete a painting, Poinsettias, in one day. 10:30am– 3:30pm. Ballou Annex. 434.797.8848.

Dirty Dan Dash – 3.7 mile race spread throughout the City of Danville featuring a combination of obstacles, trail running, road running and mud pits. 1-5pm. The Crossing at the Dan. 434.799.5200.

DSO Fall Concert – The DSO will be joined by the Greensboro Philharmonia and will present Tchaikovsky’s Serenade for Strings and Symphony No. 1 Titan by Gustov Mahler. 8pm. GWHS Auditorium.

Danville Symphony Orchestra – www.danvillesymphony.net.

November 2 (thru 26)

Averett Sports. See ad page 8.

November 2 (thru 30)

Lady Astor Rose & Exhibit. See page 14.

November 4

Welcome to Medicare - Information to make smart choices about health care plans. 11am-12:30pm. Ballou Rec. Center.

434.799.5216.

Anime Club – Come watch anime, talk manga, and enjoy things Japanese. Ages 12+. M 4-6pm. Danville Public Library (DPL) – 434.799.5195.

November 5

Bob Ross Technique Workshop – Holiday Glow. 3:30pm. PAA – 276.632.3221.

Cooking for One (or Two) - Enjoy familysized meals without fridge-sized leftovers.

Learn how to shop, prepare and enjoy home-cooked meals on a healthier, smaller scale. Lunch included. 11am-12:30pm.

Ballou Rec. Center - 434.797.8848.

Ballou Choir Rehearsal – Join the choir and share talents. Performances at various locations. Male vocalists especially needed.

Five performances per month. Ages 50+.

11:15am-12:30pm. Ballou Rec. Center 434.799.5216.

African Violet Club - Learn about garden tending, pest control and more at this meeting which includes a covered dish meal. 12-1:30pm. Ballou Rec. Center 434.799.5216.

Genetics in Genealogy – Learn how to find ancestors and cousins with DNA. Officers elected for the 2014-2015 term.

5:30pm. DPL Auditorium. 434.799.5195.

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Tours on Tuesdays – Parents are invited to attend an informational school meeting.

Prospective students are invited to shadow a student in a classroom. 9-10am. Sacred Heart School. www.sheartschool.com

November 6

Storyteller Fred Motley. Wednesday Club.

See page 14.

Senior Bowling Tournament - Exercise, make new friends, have fun. Have BP and BMI checked while waiting to bowl. 10am12pm. Riverside Lanes - 434.791.2695.

November 6 (thru 27)

Wednesday Friends - Bring a lunch and enjoy a special activity or speaker. W11am1:30pm. Ballou Rec. Center. 434-799-5216.

November 7

Hands-Only CPR Can Save Lives Learn how to perform Hands-Only CPR. This is NOT a CPR certification class.

6-9pm. Glenwood Community Center 434.797.8848.

No Gold Stars – Author Barry Koplen shares stories of his days as the only white teacher in segregated Sterling Jr. - Sr. High School, Rev. Jesse Jackson alma mater. His talk will focus on tensions in Greenville during the late ‘60s, and the unsung heroes of the Civil Rights era -- including his courageous students. 6:30-8pm. DPL. 434.799.2323. www.danvillehistory.org The Collingsworth Family Concert - All proceeds go to the Halifax County Cancer Association. 7pm. Halifax County High School. 434.470.3283.

November 7 & 8

AARP Smart Drivers Class - This class refreshes driving skills and is designed for those over 50. 12-4pm. Ballou Rec. Center.

434.799.5216.

November 7, 14 & 21

Twilight Time Trials – Runners cover a 5K course while bikers ride a five-mile section.

5-6:30pm. Anglers Ridge. 434.799.5215.

November 8

Night Hike & Campfire Stories - Take a short hike then gather around the fire for roasted hotdogs and marshmallows. 6-8pm.

Anglers Park. 434.799.5215.

November 9

Book Signing Event – Over 20 different local authors. See ad page 19. Where Do My Prayers Go? See page 14.

Bright Leaf Brew Fest – Choose from over 100 different beers, enjoy live music, browse great vendors, and eat delicious food. 3- 8:30pm. Danville Community Market. 434.793.4636.

Night at the Senior Theatre - The Wesley Senior Theatre Troupe of Martinsville will perform two short comedies. 6:30-8:30pm.

Ballou Rec. Center. 434.799.5216.

November 9 & 10

Holiday Living Show - Arts and Crafts Festival. Sponsored by the Business Women’s Association of Halifax County.

11/9-9am-5pm; 11/10-Sun 1-5pm. Halifax County High School. 434.579.7941.

November 10

Veterans Parade. 2pm. Intersection of Broad and Main Streets and end at Galileo School on Ridge Street. 434.836.0745.

Classic Movie – Smoke Signals. 3-4:30pm.

Kirby Theater, Roxboro. 336.597.1709.

November 11 (thru Dec. 3)

Art with Judie – Learn how to paint with oil or watercolor. M/TU - Times vary. Ballou Annex. 434.797.8848.

November 12

Reynolds Homestead/Reynolda House Trip - Travel to Virginia and North Carolina

Evince Magazine to tour these homes and enjoy shopping at Reynolda Village. 7am-5pm. Ballou Rec. Center 434.799.5216.

Unveiling of Learn, Explore, Enjoy.

DMFAH. See page 3.

Dementia vs. Depression Seminar Learn to spot the difference in this educational workshop. 2-3:30pm or 5:307pm. Ballou Rec. Center. 434.799.5216.

Railroading in Danville – Lecture using Danville as focal point for photographic rail records, then spanning out in several directions. 6:30pm. DSC – 434.791.5160.

November 12 (thru Dec. 10)

How to Make a Photo Collage – Class using Adobe Photoshop. 5:30-8:30pm.

The Artisan Center – 276.656.5461.

November 12 (thru Jan. 3)

Danville Art League Juried Show – Works by the region’s best artists will be on display DMFA&H – 434.793.5644.

November 13

Today’s Danville Historical Society Saving the Past and Dreaming for the Future. Wednesday Club. See page 3.

Polliwogs & Science Stars – Learn about winter sky constellations and create a constellation to take home. Ages 3–4, 1–2pm. Ages 5–7, 3:30–4:30pm. DSC 434.791.5160.

Become a Hospice Volunteer - Free training class by Liberty Hospice. 3-4pm.

Ballou Rec. Center. 434.799.5216.

November 13 (thru Dec. 11)

Advanced Quilting Techniques - Open lab for the experienced quilter with idea and technique assistance. 5:30-8:30pm. The Artisan Center. 276.656.5461.

November 14

Senior Movie Day - Parental Guidance.

11am. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Brain Picnic - A lunch and learn program featuring Museum Treasures - programs, exhibitions and history of the Danville museum. 11:30am-1:30pm. Ballou Rec. Center. 434.799.5216.

Teen Movie Night – Popcorn and lemonade will be served while watching GI Joe: Retaliation. Ages 13+. 2-4pm.

DPL – 434.799.5195.

Science Talks – Nuts about Squirrels: Insights from North America’s Most Familiar Rodents. Dr. Nancy Moncrief, VMNH curator of mammals, will describe past research on eastern gray squirrels and eastern fox squirrels and discuss plans for future investigations. 6-7pm. VMNH. 276.634.4141.

Sky Search – Explore stars and planets, take a tour of the solar system on the Science on a Sphere, locate the North Star while making a star chart to take home, examine the parts of a telescope and how to properly use one and discover the key to recognizing famous constellations. Ages 6-12. 6-8pm. DSC – 434.791.5160.

Thirsty Thursday Quiz Night – Live Trivial Pursuit where teams compete to be champion of trivia in categories such as popular culture, general and Danville history. Seating is limited, so plan to arrive early. For adults 18+. 7-9pm. Jake’s on Main. www.danvillehistory.org.

Fahrenheit 451 – Aquila Theatre in an innovative and modern of Ray Bradbury’s visionary parable of a society gone awry.

7pm. Martinsville HS Auditorium. PAA – 276.632.3221.

November 14 (thru 17)

Arts@Averett – Musical Theatre Cabaret.

See ad page 8.

November 14 (thru Dec. 19)

Intermediate Stained Glass - Students will further develop their skills in stained glass techniques including cutting glass, foiling, leading and soldering. 5:30-8:30pm.

The Artisan Center. 276.656.5461.

November 15

Just Everyday Women Walking by Faith.

11am-1pm. Mary’s Diner. 434.793.1075.

Senior Fashion Show - Enjoy the latest trends in senior fashions and light refreshments. Clothing provided by Goodwill and other area thrift stores. Gift bags donated by the Danville House. 24pm. Ballou Rec. Center. 434.799.5216.

Shakespeare on Trial - Guilty or not guilty? That is the question – posed to you,

the jury. Writer Bill Shakespeare encounters four of his own most famous characters upclose, personal, and ticked off. In this highly energetic and funny play, he must defend his own writing as the four challenge him to write in a modern way. 7:30pm. Kirby Theater, Roxboro - 336.597.1709.

November 15 (thru 30)

The Man Who Saved Christmas – Heartwarming musical comedy based loosely on the life of the inventor of the Erector set, A. C. Gilbert. The show is set in 1917, tells the story of what happened when the government attempts to ban the sale of toys before Christmas in order to concentrate American industrial resources toward the War effort. Times vary. The Prizery. 434.572.8339 • www.prizery.com.

November 16

Preppers Survival Saturday - Learn basic survival techniques and skills. 10am-12pm.

Ballou Nature Center. 434.799.5215.

Brain Cancer Fundraiser – Penny Social to benefit brain cancer patient who need help to pay medical bills and transportation.

1-3pm. www.danvillevaevents.com.

Michael Abbott Memorial Scholarship Fundraiser - Food, door prizes, entertainment, exhibitions, and more.

5-7pm. River Oak Church of God. 434.203.0081.

Bjerken/Yampolsky Concert. Danville Concert Association. See page 17 and ad page 20.

November 17

From Broadway to Opera. See page 17.

Ring of Fire. Caswell County Civic Center.

See ad page 4.

November 19

Natural Nutrition - Cooking class that introduces juicing, eating to heal, tastings, eating and preparing raw foods and using fresh herbs and herbal teas to bolster health. 11am-12pm. Ballou Rec. Center.

434.797.8848.

Tech Petting Zoo – Hands-on learning with a few of the latest gadgets on the market. 5-6:30pm. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Holiday Basket Extravaganza - Gift baskets in a vast range of themes that make wonderful gifts for all genders and ages. Refreshments/cash wine. Proceeds benefit Smart Beginnings Martinsville-Henry County. 7pm. PAA. 276.403.5963.

White Oak Mountain Quilt Guild Meeting - Meeting, program, fellowship, show & tell. 7pm. St. Luke’s United Methodist Church. 434.334.4756.

November 19 (thru Dec. 19)

Swimming Adventure for Beginners – Kids can learn how to swim and have fun in the water through classes that teach strokes, water games and floating positions.

TTH 3:30-4:15pm. YMCA. 434.799.5215.

November 20

Wee Storytime – Dance, sing, listen and have fun. Ages up to 2. 10-10:45am. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Intro to Genealogy – Basic methods in genealogical research. 11am-1pm. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Turkeys at Westover – Create a turkey treat jar. Ages 6-10. 3:30-4:30pm. DPLWestover – 434.799.5195.

November 21

Senior Citizens Club Meeting - Monthly meeting and covered dish luncheon. Ages 50+. 12-1:30pm. Ballou Rec. Center.

434.799.5216.

Sky Watchers – Observe three constellations that make a family: Cassiopeia (the Queen), Cepheus (the King), and Andromeda (their daughter) and try to see the Andromeda Galaxy, and Venus.

Nightfall. DSC – 434.791.5160.

November 22

Deadline for Decorating the Trees for a Cause. See page 17.

November 22 & 23

Handmade Holiday Market - Unique hand-crafted gifts for family and friends made by local and regional artisans. 11/22 4-8pm; 11/22 9am-2pm. The Artisan Center. 276.656.5461.

November 22, 23 & 24

The Best Christmas Pageant Ever.

See page 17.

November 23

Holiday Bazaar - See what Danville Crafters, bakers and artisans have to offer.

8am-2pm. Danville Community Market.

434.797.8961.

Holiday Open House – Vintages by the Dan and Chestnut Lane. 12-5pm. See ad page 25.

Family Days – Soul Street Dance Party.

Performance and a dance workshop for kids and teens. Sidewalk chalk, crafts and snacks. 2-4pm. PAA – 276.632.3221.

Holiday Open House – Uptown merchants kick off the holiday specials. Enjoy refreshments throughout the day. www.martinsvilleuptown.com.

Christmas Parade – Through uptown Martinsville. 5:30pm. www.martinsvilleuptown.com.

November 27

Researching African American Ancestors.

11am-1pm. DPL – 434.799.5195.

November 28

Turkey Day 5K. Martinsville. See ad page 20.

Upcoming Events

December 2 (thru 20)

Decorating the Trees for a Cause - View the beautifully decorated trees displayed throughout the Institute’s Atrium and help support local causes and charities. 12/10Open House. Enjoy refreshments and live entertainment. 5-7pm. See page 17.

December 3

Averett Celebrates Christmas.

See ad page 8.

December 6

Christmas Glee Pancake Supper – An evening of entertainment and unlimited pancakes served with sausage or bacon, coffee, tea, or juice. Proceeds benefit the Danville Center Stage Company Scholarship Fund 5-7pm. First Baptist Church Fellowship Hall. www.danvillecenterstage.com.

Home for the Holidays. Caswell County Civic Center. See ad page 4.

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December 6, 7 & 8

Holiday Show – This family holiday presentation with Broadway music is back by popular demand. Donations accepted for the Northern Pittsylvania Food Bank.

434.656.3637.

December 7

Holiday House with the Sutherlins – Children will be lead on a guided tour of the mansion. 10am-12pm. DMFA&H – 434.793.5644.

December 7 & 8

Optima Batteries ChumpCar World Series – Twin 7-hour Races. VIR. 434.822.7700. www.VIRnow.com.

December 8

Roanoke Symphony Holiday Pops – Timeless favorites and new music.

Broadway star Joy Lynn Jacobs will join the symphony in celebrating the holiday season. And, the audience can join in the fun with a sing-along. 7pm. Martinsville HS Auditorium. PAA – 276.632.3221.

December 12 (thru 22)

Forever Plaid Tidings – This new show that offers the best of Forever Plaid is filled with Christmas standards that have all been Plaid-erized. Times vary. The Prizery.

434.572.8339 • www.prizery.com.

December 14

Zoso - The Ultimate Led Zeppelin Experience formed in 1995 to perform the most accurate and captivating Led Zeppelin live show since the real thing. 7:30pm. Kirby Theater, Roxboro - 336.597.1709.

Riverview Rotary Christmas Parade – This year’s theme is Christmas Movies. 610pm. Downtown Danville. 434.793.4636. www.playdanvilleva.com.

DSO Holiday Concert– The DSO will be joined by the Danville Area Choral Arts Society singers. Donations of food or cash for God’s Storehouse. 8pm. GWHS Auditorium. Danville Symphony Orchestra – www.danvillesymphony.net.

December 14 & 15

Holiday Walking Tour. See ad page 6.

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Piney Forest Road Area Commonwealth Pharmacy ERA Holley & Gibson Realty Co. Mary’s Diner Piedmont Credit Union

Memorial Drive Frank’s Pizza Gingerbread House

Franklin Turnpike Area Medo’s Ruben’s Too Village’s Pizza

Other Danville Welcome Center on River Park Drive

In Chatham Area Chatham Community Center Chatham Health Center ChathaMooCa Frank’s Pizza Pittsylvania County Public Library

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Reflecting Forward Making Progress Step by Step

by Linda Lemery This month of Thanksgiving, I am thankful for the food on my table and the people with whom I share it, but I continually ask myself: Why am I so clueless when listening to their conversation at dinner?

It begins with wireless networks.

My son’s taking a wireless networks class and I have no idea what he’s talking about as he throws around technical terms. He has this sniffing software on his laptop computer and he either walks or drives around detecting networks, and then he and my husband hash out the implications of network numbers and encryption or lack thereof as a conversational appetizer to dinner. Since I’m technology-challenged, the biggest oral contributions I make during the salad course are, “You did what? And with what? And why was that again?” Even when they distill the language, I don’t understand the answers they give me. Because the guys speak mathese and computerese at dinner, I’m like a conversational rock climber looking for a handhold on an increasingly sheer rock face.

I’m just trying not to fall off the cliff.

In the time it takes me to clear the salad bowls and then cook salmon sandwiches for the three of us, the guys transition from the encryption implications into a discussion of the P versus NP problem related to encryption, and now I’m completely at a loss because I don’t know what P versus NP is or why it’s important. The guys are just too mathified, and the conversational atmosphere of dinner mathiness is too rarefied to break it down into something I can understand.

After dinner, injury is added to insult. There’s only one television show I watch: Elementary, a modern take on Sherlock Holmes and sidekick Watson. What’s the focus on Elementary one recent evening? The P versus NP problem.

Unbelievable! Evidently P versus NP is so well known that it’s even on network television. Why haven’t I heard of this? Do I live with my head in the sand?

The next day I decide to rectify my ignorance on P versus NP by consulting my golden resource, Wikipedia. I understand the

introductory paragraph but not the rest of the article, so I try a different search. It turns out P versus NP is one of seven royally perplexing math problems called the Millennium Problems, six of which are unsolved. The Clay Mathematics Institute is offering $1,000,000 to anyone who solves a millennium problem. To date, the only one that has been solved is the Poincaré Conjecture and the man who solved that one declined the monetary award. I don’t understand mathematicians. At this point, I think that’s abundantly clear.

Although I’m still clueless regarding P versus NP, I’ve made progress here and elsewhere by leaning on Wikipedia. We use the tools we have. Regardless of sphere of influence and scope or practice in which we all work and play, we make progress step by rudimentary step and we pick our problems.

Collectively, our city is making great progress eliminating urban blight. Our downtown district is looking better and better with each completed construction project.

Individually, regardless of discipline or interests, we make progress incrementally over time, whether it be with our wireless network course or knotty problems in our professions or even resolving issues where we volunteer. It’s particularly tough for us when we’re trying to understand something that’s a real stretch and way outside our disciplines. But we’re all making progress in some area, even if it’s elementary, even if the huge discipline problems and their solutions are beyond us, even if our scope of operations is salmon sandwiches rather than P versus NP. And ultimately the people around us make that progress possible, through synergy built by listening, discussion and the mad scramble for understanding. As I continue to battle my cluelessness, I am so grateful for relationships and the chance to try and understand. We have so much to be thankful for.

Happy Thanksgiving.

About the Author: When she’s not frantically searching Wikipedia for answers, Linda Lemery, llemery@averett.edu, works as Circulation Manager at Mary B. Blount Library at Averett University. She welcomes your comments.

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My mother worked in the office of Durham Hosiery at 525 Lynn Street for over 20 years. I don’t remember my first visit there because I was only two months old, but I can recall so many other times I went through its front door--the same door that employees passed through for over 100 years.

In 1998, when the last sock was made and Durham Hosiery closed, over 350 people lost their jobs. Some of those employees had worked there for over 40 years; one had celebrated 64 years there. They were the last of thousands who had made a living making the same thing, on that same street, in that same building.

This structure is more than a building. It is a symbol of an historical way of life that helped to create Danville. My mother has told me that when she worked in this building , she could feel the past; she felt as though she knew the people who worked there before her. Sometimes, she and I would imagine what the street looked like in 1905 with horses and buggies out front waiting for the mill whistle to blow. I could almost see the men in their overalls carrying their tools and the women in their long dresses

weather is not good. A sports physical therapy office could be in part of the building for those with injuries. Maybe the Tobacco Textile Museum that was formerly on Lynn Street could reopen. With the closing of Dan River Mills and Durham Hosiery a whole way of life has disappeared and will only be remembered in books and museums.

Why Save Old Buildings?

by Rachel Boyd and aprons, heading home to fix supper, tired after a long day of work on the knitting and seaming machines. The building makes these visions almost come to life.

We don’t travel by horse and buggy anymore and there is no longer a mill whistle. Times and buildings change. I’m sure that socks will never again be made in the Durham Hosiery Building, but I do feel that the building could serve a new purpose and keep the history there alive. It is a large, well-built brick structure that could be used for a variety of purposes such as offices, apartments, a business or a combination day care center and children’s recreation center for the parents of youngsters in the nearby apartments, condos and townhouses.

How about one level being used as an exercise/recreation center, like a gym for kids only? Another floor could be a dance studio or a gymnastics school making good use of the open space. The area would be especially safe for children with the emergency response center being built across the street. Another option would be housing for the elderly or handicapped. The building has two elevators, so all the floors could be used. Once again, having the emergency response center next door would be great for residents.

A different option would enhance the Riverwalk that is nearby.

The building could become a combination exercise/biking facility. Bikes could be stored or rented there and used on the trail. There could be walking and running tracks inside for when the

There are so many stories within the Durham Hosiery walls waiting to be told. For example, a Mr. Evans was the CEO when the plant was sold the last time. He had worked there since he was 15 years old, climbing his way up the career ladder from rag boy to oiler to become a fixer like his father. After military service in Korea, he returned and became a supervisor. At this same time, my Great-Aunt Helen worked in the office. She was much older than he and had worked there all her life. On that first day as supervisor, she met him at the door and handed him a box containing a dress shirt and tie.

She told him that now that he was a boss, he needed to dress like one so everyone would respect him and his job. He wore a shirt and tie every day thereafter.

My mother loves to tell the tale about when there was no air conditioning and all the windows in the three-story building were left open in the hot summer months. A young male walking on the sidewalk below the windows was hit on the head with a splatter of tobacco juice and spit. He started cursing and looked up to see which man he was going to punch in retaliation.

Instead he saw a curly-haired woman with snuff in her mouth.

They met and eventually married and celebrated over 50 years together. My mother showed me that window. I want the building to stay and be re-purposed so that one day I can show it to my child—and then the stories of our past will continue to be told and not forgotten.

Note: Danville Hosiery was known as the Spencer property and was purchased by Danville Knitting Mills in 1905 for $8,500.00. In December of 1938 an addition was built by P. L. Anderson Construction on the rear of the building at a cost of $25,000.

The business was sold to Durham Hosiery sometime in the 1970s and then to Kentucky Derby Hosiery in 1998. The closing of the mill after 100 years on Labor Day 1998 was reported on national news.

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Book Clubbing A review by Diane Adkins Director of the Pittsylvania County Public Library System

Why the Garden Club Couldn’t Save Youngstown*

by Sean Safford

The Unwinding: An Inner History of the New America

by George Packer

I started reading Safford’s book while I was in the middle of The Unwinding by George Packer and that was a happy coincidence, because Packer’s book draws on Safford’s work and puts flesh on the bones of the data recounted there.

Safford compares the cities of Youngstown, Ohio, and Allentown, Pennsylvania, as they faced the crisis of the loss of the steel industry in the early 1980s. Allentown rebounded in part by creating inclusionary networks, whereas Youngstown remained fragmented. Allentown found a way to coordinate economic development across the region; Youngstown did not.

Safford points out that a key to successfully navigating the global economy relies in part on reconstructing the scaffolding of our civic lives, our sense that we are part of one another’s stories. For Safford, it is important that we are able to make connections to others in our communities whose experiences perhaps do not overlap our own. “The key implications for policy makers are to ... develop strategies for forging closer ties across the most strategically important disconnects in their community.” (p.

139) Instead of circling the wagons, especially in times of distress, Safford reminds us to look outward, beyond the artificial divisions, many of our own making, and invite the participation and ideas of many and diverse people.

Packer’s book recounts stories of people in communities of distress as well as those who have done quite well financially during the globalization of the economy. Dean Price, who has owned several convenience stores as well as a biofuel operation in the Martinsville area, is part of Packer’s story. So is Tammy Thomas, a resident of Youngstown. Packer’s book reads like a novel, but one in which we are all part of the story. Reading both of the books is a rich experience, one that will invite the reader to think about the strategies and stories therein for some time to come. *Karl Stauber, president and CEO of the Danville Regional Foundation, writes in the Register & Bee Op/Ed Who says we can’t come back?

(October 6, 2013 page A11) that this is his favorite book on community revitalization. He challenges everyone in the community to see the possibilities for the Dan River Region and to make sure this region does “make it back from the crash” and become a place of opportunity for all.

Send information about what you or your book club is reading to joycewilburn@gmail.com.

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In two months I will celebrate my son’s third birthday, or my third anniversary as a parent depending on how you interpret it. I have a son and a daughter, born in January 2011 and January 2013, respectively.

Becoming a mother was a total identity change. Gone was my nonchalant lifestyle with freedom to plan my weekends around personal interests. Exercise schedules and casual outings often planned on a whim with friends took a backseat to parenting responsibilities. Life became a series of diaper changes, roundthe-clock feedings and foggy thought processes.

When my little boy was six months old, I started a family blog as a platform to share our lives with family and friends from afar. Prior to having children, I worked in an academic setting where writing was a part of my daily existence.

Starting a blog gave me a fun, low-stress venue for sharing anecdotes about motherhood and other musings. I quickly realized I no longer had to abide by the stringent requirements

to my husband and me to call the shots based on our personal attitudes, values, and beliefs.

Our decision-making process is built upon a progression of daily experiences as the little people looking up at us rely on our ability to develop a style that works for our family.

These are the little people who changed one woman’s identity.

Photo by Carrie Steil Photography, www.carriesteilphotography.com

Making Progress as a Parent

by Britta Petrich of academic writing ďŹ lled with empirical data and parenthetical citations. I was free to establish my own style with newfound creative freedom.

I soon discovered that much like writing, parenting is a continuous evolution of stylistic choices over time. Countless parenting books and magazines exist, but it is up

More experienced parents may say it becomes easier over time, or they may say it never gets easier. As a fairly new parent, I believe every day as a parent is progress. Every day is a new day to add new bits of information to my parenting stylebook. Every day is a new day to teach my children a new lesson. Every day is a new day to grow from mistakes.

Every day is a new day to laugh when progress is brought to a halt like a bad grade on a paper.

As I have made the intellectual shift from academia to the role as mommy to two little people, I am convinced that small bits of progress over time will help mold my little people into big people.

Britta Petrich is a stay-at-home mom. To follow her blog, visit brittasbanter.wordpress.com.

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Holiday Brunch Made Easy

by Annelle Williams

During the holidays—yep, I just used the H word for the first time this year—our house is filled with lots of friends and family. My favorite crowd pleasers are soups and casseroles that can be prepared ahead of time. Another trick I use is to serve brunch, combining breakfast with lunch and letting that hold us until dinner. I serve the traditional breakfast casserole that keeps everyone going until supper, although I’m lightening it up a bit this year with turkey sausage, sautéed vegetables and much less cheese. And there’s a new favorite recipe for Huevos Chilaquiles Verdes I’m adding to the menu.

We always reserve one brunch during the holidays for the toast, cheese grits, bacon, tomatoes and egg special. My daddy was the breakfast chef at home and the meal didn’t vary. The cheese grits, bacon, sliced tomatoes and toast were ready when we straggled into the kitchen, sometimes one at a time. It was, “Good morning, Papa,” hugs, and then Daddy would say, “How you want your egg?” I never knew until my daughter married and her new husband answered, “scrambled” that I realized I could have my egg some way other than fried sunnyside up or over-easy. Previously, the question merely had to do with doneness.

When Andres answered, “scrambled,” without even a blink, Daddy produced a beautiful scrambled egg. Now, the How-You-Want-Your-Egg Brunch is our favorite meal with good memories of a happy holiday tradition.

Huevos Chilaquiles Verdes (adapted from Cuisine at Home) Makes 4 servings. This recipe makes plenty of sauce for more—just increase eggs and chips to the number you need. Make chips, sauce and onions ahead and reheat while cooking eggs, if time is imperative. canola oil, enough to fill a heavy pot with 2-3 inches of oil tortillas--2 eight-inch flour tortillas per person or 4 smaller soft corn tortillas per person 2 cups salsa verde (I used store-bought.)

1⁄2 cup shredded Colby cheese, plus 1/3 cup for garnish

1 cup chicken broth 2 T chopped fresh cilantro, plus extra for garnish 1⁄2 sweet yellow onion, thinly sliced 4 large eggs 4 T sour cream 8 strips of bacon fried and crumbled (2 strips per person)

Heat 3 inches canola oil in heavy deep-sided pot over medium high heat to 375°. Cut tortillas into eight triangles and cook in batches not overcrowding pan. This should take about 3 minutes per batch, until browned and crisp. Remove to sheet pan covered with paper towels. Lightly salt.

Combine salsa verde, chicken broth and 1⁄2 cup of shredded cheese in a saucepan over medium heat. When well-combined and heated through, turn heat to low.

Transfer two tablespoons of oil from pot to a sauté pan and heat over medium heat.

Add onions and cook until beginning to brown. Remove onions to bowl and set aside.

Clean pan with paper towel. Add 2 tablespoons of oil to pan over medium-high heat.

When oil shimmers, break eggs into pan. When eggs are set, lightly season with salt and pepper, add 1⁄4 cup water to pan; cover with lid; reduce heat to medium and cook to desired doneness. For soft eggs, cook only a minute or two.

Spread chips over serving dish. Drizzle all chips with sauce. Top chips with eggs and garnish with onions, cheese, bacon, sour cream and cilantro. Serve with more sauce on the side.

For more pictures and recipes, visit my blog: http://aroundannellestable.blogspot.com.

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The Averett Cheerleaders come from around Virginia and other states. They pose with AU President Tiffany Franks, #41Kevin Bryant, and Buddy Rawley, VP for Institutional Advancement before the homecoming game. Front row: Kelsey Flowers (Hopewell), Brooke Cassady (Bassett), Samantha Williams (Gretna), Breanna Jones (Blairs), Norah Holloway (Poquoson), Jordan Sodman (Ruffin, NC). Back row: Alexia Parker (Eden, NC), Kayla Wilson (Arnold, MD), Amanda Whitlow (Roxboro, NC), Jennifer Whitlow (Roxboro, NC), Hilliary Parrish (Danville), Mercedes Keys (Washington, DC), Eboni Allen (Hopewell), Monti Gould (Smithfield), Destiny Montanez (Davie, FL), Keira Fields (Elizabeth, NJ).

Evince Photographer Von Wellington was at the Averett University homecoming game on September 28th and at the Danville Pittsylvania County Chamber of Commerce Trade Show on October 10th.

Whether it’s business or pleasure, he finds people who are enjoying what they do. Look for him and his camera during November and always be ready to smile.

To learn more, visit www.vonwellingtonphotography.com or call 434.770.3553.

AU Ambassador Joe Franks and AU President Tiffany Franks enjoy talking to AU mascots Rett and Ave (Together they make Ave-Rett.)

Kimberly Matthews, Youth/Program Coordinator at the Brosville/Cascade Library, Christy McCune of Debbie’s Staffing, Ritha Ferguson, Account Manager at Debbie’s Staffing and Pattie Deshazor socialize before visiting numerous booths at the Trade Show.

Janis Chenery with Gold Star Mortgage Service and Bob Chenery of Wilkins & Company Realty chat with Bob Branam of Branam Photography and Sandra Hicks, Life Enrichment Director at Emeritus of Danville.

Danville Pittsylvania County Chamber of Commerce Program Director, H. Lynette Lawson shares a laugh with the Chamber President, Laurie Moran, before the presentation of awards at the annual Trade Show.

Anna Jones and Boots Booton, recruiters for Adecco, talk with Thomas Messinger, Admissions Counselor at Hargrave Military Academy.

Checking out the buffet table are: Bill Sgrinia, Danville Parks & Recreation Director, and Karen Sgrinia from Commonwealth Home Nursing & Hospice, Lesley Tucker with Piedmont Shopper and Darie Wyatt, Regional District Manager with Peace Haven Home Care Services.

Amber Williams and Nora Soyangco from the office of Drs. Alabanza and Falgui talk with Jill Meade, Major Accounts Manager at Century Link (center).

These ladies promise “Your Right to Royalty Care” at Prince Charles Home Health Care Agency in Blairs. Dressed like royalty for the Trade Show are: Melissa Walton, Quality Assurance Nurse; Lucille Jones, Staffing Coordinator; Tashunna Bauldwin Lindsay, Registered Nurse Administrator; and Roslyn Fitzgerald, Office Manager.

Peter and Jo Ann Howard enjoy meeting friends, tasting good food, and visiting the booths. Peter is an independent insurance agent and is affiliated with Cambridge Investment Research, Inc.