Evince Magazine November 2012

Sylvia Josey: Re-Selling Your Stuff & Kid’s Stuff Page 6

Leadership Southside @ Brewfest Calendar Clips Page 14

Salon 101: Finding the Look You Want Page 21

Mandy Matherly Stowe: Listing Ideas @ IdeaList

November 2012

Photo by Michelle Dalton Photography

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Editor’s Note

Being able to see things as they should be rather than as they are describes an idealist and it also characterizes Mandy Stowe, who is pictured on the cover. She is part of a local group that is helping elevate ordinary ideas to the level of extraordinary accomplishments.

Read about this endeavor, IdeaList, on page 3, and then give them a call with your ideas.

Retaining our idealism is easy according to Linda Lemery— help others and encourage their growth. Read about her experience with assisting a former student on page 19 and the bright spot it created in her life. It would be hard to disagree with Linda’s reflections after reading Sylvia Josey’s story on page 6. A teacher once encouraged her to reach for the stars, but made her write a business plan that kept her feet firmly planted on the ground.

That combination has resulted in success for almost two decades.

Want to see what an ideal downtown would look like? Check out Mac Williams’ page 11 story on the demolition of the Downtowner Motel and the vacuum that now needs to be filled. You’ll see the drawing that was created on the evening of the Block Party showing ideas for creating the ideal space in downtown Danville.

Another group of idealists can be found in the picture of Leadership Southside on page 14. These young professionals believe local residents are living in an ideal area. They realize that in some ways, we already possess the best life has to offer, but it is often overlooked because it has become commonplace. Their project, www.lovesouthside.org, reminds us of the beauty and excellence in Southside Virginia.

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Editor’s Note

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Mandy Matherly Stowe / Listing Ideas @ IdeaList

by Joyce Wilburn Danville Photographers

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She Said He Said / Giving Thanks

by Dena Hill & Larry Oldham

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Returning to the River Dr. Lee Wayland

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Sylvia Josey / Re-Selling Your Stuff & Kids’ Stuff

by Joyce Wilburn

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Credits: Hair & Makeup: Katie Mosher; Skin Care: Catherine Adkins; Nails: Janelle Gammon; Genesis Day Spa & Salon, 695 Park Avenue, Danville

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Second Thoughts Well Done, My Good and Faithful Servant

by Kim Clifton

10 Spotting Exceptional Customer Service

by Laura Collie 11 A Vacuum in Need of Filling

by Mack Williams

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14 Calendar Clips 16 Calendar 19 Reflecting Forward / Idealism within Realism Creating Bright Spots on the Canvas

by Linda Lemery 20 In an Ideal World All People are Healthy

by Dave Gluhareff 21 Salon Visit 101 / How to Have a Pleasant Visit and Find the Look You Want

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uring the last two years, Danvillian Mandy Matherly Stowe graduated from James Madison University, moved back to her hometown, married the love of her life, enrolled in graduate school and started a business. For most people, those achievements might take a lifetime, but not for this idealist-- and there’s more. On September 15, 2012, she and a group of visionaries created IdeaList – a community forum for making positive things happen.

“IdeaList spawned from the community read of Switch,” she explains, referring to the Chip and Dan Heath book about changing a community’s future. “I was asked to put together a group of young leaders who could be a think tank to figure out where the biggest gap was in our community and how to fill it,” continues the ambitious young woman. The group of nine, ranging in age from late teens to mid-30s and guided by the advice from seasoned professionals, decided that there was a void for local residents between having an idea for community improvement and knowing how to execute it. “We want to help people complete projects.

For example, we can polish a grant application so it has a better chance of being accepted or assist someone with a proposal for investors so the project can go to the next level,” says Mandy and then adds with conviction, “We’ll tell them what to do to make things happen.”

Knowing how to transform ideas into reality comes easy to Mandy because of a very special mentor.

“At age 14 while I was a student at Galileo High School, former United Way Director, Patrick Jinks, made me his project,” she says with a laugh, remembering the volunteer tasks he gave her. “He put me in charge of the Day of Caring, a huge annual event. The first year I found door prizes; the second year I did a little more and the third year I ran the entire community service project for 300 people,” Mandy says. Learning those organizational skills led to a three-year stint planning and organizing birthday parties at the Danville Parks Recreation & Tourism community centers and

Mandy Matherly Stowe

Listing Ideas @IdeaList

by Joyce Wilburn

by Joyce Wilburn

Photos by Michelle Dalton Photography.

starting the first Lego BuildOff for the city.

From those experiences grew a business plan that resulted in the opening of Southern Event Solutions—an event planning service she has operated from home since last April. “I’ve planned weddings, princess and pirate parties, fundraisers and corporate events,” she says with satisfaction while sitting in the storefront office of IdeaList on Main Street.

Looking around the small attractively decorated space in River City Towers (the former Masonic Building), Mandy expounds on the mission of IdeaList, “Bring us the ideas you talk about for improving Danville and maybe we can do something about them or help you to develop them. I believe that if you’re not part of the solution, you’re part of the problem.” Her voice softens with sincerity as she issues a public

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invitation, “We have an open door and welcome all people and all ideas.”

The door is open; the invitation extended. Mandy and the other self-proclaimed idealists are waiting for you to add to Danville’s idea list. There is only one entity not invited to this venture and that is made known by a sign at the entrance that proclaims, “Leave your negativity at the door.”

• For more information, visit www.DanvilleIdeaList.org.

• IdeaList, 437 Main Street, is open by appointment by calling 434.334.8324.

• IdeaList needs more volunteers and members. Membership dues range from $10 for students to $250 for patrons.

• IdeaList advisory board includes: Larry Oldham, Joey Faucette, Lee Vogler, Monica Karavanic, Melissa Charles, Tim Hilliard, Dianne and Ron McMahon.

• IdeaList leaders are: Mandy Matherly Stowe, Justin Ferrell, Lee Robertson, Matthew Bell, Travis Hackworth, Nathan Sheets, Meredith Sheets, Bobby Roach and April Allison.

• For more info about Southern Event Solutions, an event planning service, visit www.southereventsolutions.com or call 434.334.8324.

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Local historians, Clara Fountain and Gary Grant, are compiling what they hope to be a complete list of Danville photographers dating back to the 1850s. Clara writes: This picture of a crowd at Ballou Park was taken by R. P. Garrett. We don’t know the occasion. Maybe a reader can enlighten us. If you have information about this picture or know the names of past or present professional photographers who should be added to the list of 83 that has already been created, contact Clara at 434.793.8006. For the working list visit the Danville Historical Society website danvillehistory.org and click on the History tab.

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by Dena Hill & Larry Oldham

Giving Thanks This month, we share our thoughts about the things we are both thankful for, and hopefully, we will bring to mind some of the things for which our readers will be thankful.

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WE are thankful that we live in America where we have the freedom to choose the one we want to lead our country.

In other countries, voting is a violation, whereas in the United States, it is a privilege.

WE are thankful for a government that does not tell us how many children we can have or what gender is superior.

Our laws are made by us, voted by us and changed by us.

WE are thankful for food, to be able to go to a grocery store and choose whatever we can afford to eat without worrying about disease.

WE are thankful for our families and the freedom of being with them whenever we choose and having them in our lives daily, especially for grandchildren. We have just experienced a grandchild for the first time and she is beautiful, healthy, and thriving.

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WE are thankful for our health, the medical facilities that we have in our community and the doctors, nurses, and other health care professionals, who work 24-7 to make our lives better and keep us healthy.

WE are thankful for our high school friends who meet regularly and whose friendships have stood the test of time.

WE are thankful for each other and for a wonderful marriage

Photo by Michelle Dalton Photography.

WE are thankful to have the opportunity to work, to open our own businesses and work in a capitalist society without the oppression of being made to do things we don’t want to do.

WE are thankful for our religion and the freedom to love God openly, attend any type of church, temple, or place of worship that we choose and worship the way we want to without government interference. Our church family is an immeasurable tower of strength and support for us.

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WE are thankful for all of you who wish us well, tell us how much you enjoy our way of putting a little levity into your lives and being a part of our lives. We sometimes feel like you know us better than we know ourselves Happy Thanksgiving!

He Said / She Said can be found in Showcase Magazine.

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Construction site of the new YMCA at the corner of Riverside Drive and MLK Bridge.

Returning to the River

The Rebirth of a River City

by Lee Wayland When William Byrd II gave the Dan River its name during his survey of the Virginia-North Carolina Piedmont area in 1728, it was a pristine, scenic river teeming with native flora and fauna. The Dan is about 200 miles long and 200 million years old and flows through Patrick, Pittsylvania and Halifax Counties in Virginia and Stokes, Rockingham and Caswell Counties in North Carolina before merging with the Staunton River and becoming the Roanoke River, while adding the Mayo, Smith, Sandy, Bannister and Hyco Rivers along the way. Its watershed covers nine Virginia and North Carolina counties.

One of the most fordable points on the river in Halifax County (later Pittsylvania County) was Wynne’s Falls named for William Wynne, a justice for Brunswick County, who had received a grant for 2,000 acres of river land on the south side of the Dan in 1738 and later built a home near the ford in 1753. On the north side of the river, John Cargill of Cornwall Parish in Lunenburg County had received a grant for land in 1761 and had sold 303 acres to Joshua Worsham of Bristol Parish in Dinwiddie County. Joshua’s son, Thomas, was very active in the development of the area which eventually became Danville.

Tobacco had already become an important crop in the region, but early planters were forced to transport their harvest to Lynchburg or Petersburg for mandatory inspection by state officials before

it could be sold. In October 1793, 15 prominent citizens including Thomas Worsham petitioned the General Assembly to establish a tobacco inspection warehouse at Wynne’s Falls, which resulted in a charter being granted to erect the warehouse. The Legislature further directed “that 25 acres of land, the property of John Barnett, adjoining Wynne’s Falls on the south side of the Dan River be laid off in lots of half an acre each with convenient streets and establish a town by the name of Danville.”

Tobacco still needed to be transported to markets farther east.

Without adequate roads, the Dan River became an important means of transportation. The Roanoke Navigation Company was established to build locks around the falls at Danville and extend the routes that could be reached by flat bottomed bateaux in both directions. The Dan River thus became an important means of transportation of goods.

Although the Roanoke Navigation Company fought vigorously against it, the first railroad, heavily promoted

by Whitmell Tunstall of Pittsylvania County, made its way from Richmond to Danville on June 19, 1856.

Railroads eventually spelled the death of the Roanoke Navigation Company and the use of the Dan River as a means of transportation. Railroads became an increasingly important means of transportation during and after the Civil War. After the war, slaves were free but

unemployed and farmers and tobacco processors and dealers were quick to begin utilizing them as low-wage employees. Beginning in the 1880s, textile mills were constructed along the Dan River employing mostly white workers and using water power from dams and canals along the river to power their equipment. When the land adjacent to the river and the power available from it became exhausted, a new textile company was formed and sought to establish plants just west of the city. This move was opposed on the grounds that it would pollute the river, but the quest for profit overrode environmental concerns and the new mills and a large dam to support them were built. With the coming of widely available electric power the river was no longer an important power source.

As predicted, waste from the mills polluted the river that flowed red, green, blue or black depending on the dyes being used.

Also in the late 1800s, City Engineer, Charles Ballou, constructed a sewage system. Privies adjacent to houses were removed and typhoid was almost eliminated, but sewage was discharged directly into the Dan River without any treatment. Thus, the Dan River became the sewer for the city until after the mid-1900s, when a large sewer line was laid under

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the bed of the river that led to a modern sewage treatment facility.

By the early 2000s, the Dan River had recovered and had become once again a scenic river and began to be recognized as such by state agencies. The Dan River, over a period of 200 years, had gone from a scenic river to a source of transportation, a source of power, a city sewer and back to a scenic river. Danville’s major industries had gone from tobacco to textiles to technology. Homes and businesses have begun facing the rejuvenated river rather than facing away from it and the city, along with the river, has begun to experience a rebirth.

• The new YMCA will be the first building to face the Dan River in over 100 years once it is completed. See a drawing at www.ymcadanville.org or visit 810 Main Street.

• Construction of the YMCA has started at the corner of Riverside Drive and the Martin Luther King Bridge. Extensive site work is needed at the six-acre site along the Dan River. It will continue into the beginning of 2013. At that point, the building will begin to take shape.

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Sylvia Josey remembers the moment almost two decades ago when she decided to open a consignment boutique for children on Piney Forest Road.

“I had three kids within five years and looking around the house one day I realized that I already had my beginning inventory,” quips the Chicago native.

Before that epiphany and prior to marriage and the arrival of three children, Sylvia lived in Washington, D.C. She moved to Danville in 1979 to get away from the hustle of a big-city and to enroll at Danville Community College. “I had friends in the area and wanted to establish residency here so I could pay in-state tuition,” says the frugalminded owner of Your Stuff & Kids’ Stuff Consignment Boutiques.

Sylvia explains how her career evolved, “When I was in my final class at DCC, our seminar project was to invent an imaginary business and I chose a children’s consignment shop. I had to do all the leg work for starting the business- locating a physical space for it, learning what kind of license I needed, finding out the cost of fixtures, rent and other things.”

Sylvia’s teacher, who was also a mother, loved the concept and saw the store as fulfilling a vital community need. She urged Sylvia to start a business. “I had no intention of ever opening a store,” Sylvia says, noting that she was single at the time and had no interest in children’s clothing. Earning an associate’s degree in merchandizing management with summa cum laude honors in 1981 opened doors for a career in retail—first as assistant manager of a retail store in Nor Dan Shopping Center and then from 1982 to 1992 as manager of the shoe department at Frances Kahn.

After the birth of two children and while pregnant with the third, the inventory for a consignment store started accumulating and Sylvia’s career focus changed. Soon, the decision was made to take her college project from the drawing board to reality. There was one final step, however, before making the leap. Sylvia explains, “Growing up in D.C., I frequented a little consignment store named Kid’s Stuff in my neighborhood. When I decided to open a store, I called the

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Re-Selling Your Stuff & Kids’ Stuff

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owner in Washington and asked if I could spend the day with her learning how to run it.” The owner agreed and not only shared her expertise but also the name of the store. “She allowed me to use the same name for my store because our locations were not close,” Sylvia recalls.

Danville’s Kid’s Stuff opened in August 1993. When Sylvia’s family started to outgrow the children’s store, she opened a store for adult consignments in 2002 and named it Your Stuff.

Looking back over the circumstances that led to owning a successful business, Sylvia comments, “I was a middleincome mom struggling to have the things I wanted. Going to yard sales, I saw a lot of secondhand children’s items that were just like new because children outgrow them so quickly. I knew we could raise the standard of living with a nice consignment shop that sold affordable baby equipment and clothes.”

According to one of Sylvia’s toughest critics, her oldest daughter Maggie, the Danville store is the best in the nation.

She has toured with the

National Association of Resale Professionals to some of the nicest consignment stores in the country. After shopping in Scottsdale, Arizona; Palm Beach, Florida; Dallas, Texas and St. Louis, Missouri, Maggie proudly told her mom that of all the consignment shops she visited, Your Stuff & Kid’s Stuff was the best. Although Maggie might be a wee bit prejudice, her opinion was confirmed when DCC recently inducted Sylvia into their Small Business Hall of Fame for achieving significant entrepreneurial success.

Sylvia Josey, DCC student, received an A in her seminar class, but more importantly, Sylvia Josey, owner and entrepreneur, received an A in life. Congratulations!

• Your Stuff & Kids’ Stuff, 1083 Piney Forest Road, is open Monday through Saturday from 9:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m.

• For more information, visit www.yourstuffkidsstuff.com or phone 434.836.1450.

• Access Maggie’s secondhand shopping blog at 2ndhandknowledge. wordpress.com

Photo by Michelle Dalton Photography.

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Giving Thanks In the spirit of the season, Averett has much for which to be thankful including: Our Alumni Because of you, Homecoming (October 19-21) was a spectacular success. Averett welcomed many alumni back to campus for tailgating and football against Christopher Newport. In addition, the Homecoming Hometown Party rocked the Community Market with The Pizazz Band; and we welcomed prospective students on campus during Cougar Preview Day. We look forward to welcoming new and old Averett folks every fall, and these connections are one more thing for which we are grateful.

Your Support On October 25, we publically launched our first comprehensive capital campaign. Averett wants to ensure the Big Dreams and BOLD FUTURES of our students are realized; and to do this, we have an ambitious vision. Our $25 million goal will help to provide our students with state-of-the-art facilities including a new sports stadium and track, sports medicine institute, tennis courts, and fine arts center; life-changing scholarships; expansion of our signature academic programs in business and teacher education, aviation, equestrian, health sciences, sports medicine, and autism; service learning opportunities; as well as the tools and technology needed for success as they leave our classrooms and begin their careers.

We are both excited and challenged to meet our $25 million goal moving forward! Those who have already stepped up to pledge their financial support of our campaign have our fullest gratitude. Over the coming months, you will undoubtedly hear more about our capital campaign and how you can help. We would love to discuss with you how your investment can make a real difference in the lives of current and future Averett students. Each and every gift will make a difference. If you would like information on how to donate, please call (434) 791-5654 or visit our website at www.averett.edu/campaign.

The Community We Serve Besides Pilgrims, pumpkins and turkey, November is bringing world experiences to Averett and our community: November 1 launches our theatre and music department’s production of “Chicago,” which is choreographed by artist-in-residence, “Broadway” Brad Bass. Get in the holiday spirit November 27 at 7:30 p.m. as Averett Celebrates Christmas with a service of lights, readings and carols featuring the Averett Singers in Pritchett Auditorium. Later, gather your children and grandchildren for Christmas story readings, December 11 at 7:00 p.m. in our Student Center. Hot chocolate and gingerbread cookies will be served, and Santa will pay a visit. These programs are free and open to the public.

As you begin this holiday season, Averett wishes you blessings from all of our grateful students, faculty and staff.

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attention when I had a chance to spend a few days last summer with Alicia’s two youngest. I noticed that he was never without his Duke tee shirt or lanyard. “I wear these because Duke took care of my mom,” he explained.

Ben has Alicia’s loyalty to family and friends. He doesn’t forget who matters.

And then’s there’s tiny Charlotte. No five-year old should know the word cancer and it pulled at me when she said at dinner that her mom had it. Later at poolside, a Hawaiian entertainer was teaching the hula to the guests.

Charlotte ran to get in line with all of the grown-ups. She is best described as joy with feet. Charlotte is Alicia’s reminder that, in life, we should always find time to dance.

At age 40, Alicia Riddle packed her bags for Duke University Hospital to fight adenocarcinoma/ stage 3A (non-Smokers’) lung cancer. She was supposed to have been on her way to San Francisco to celebrate her 15th wedding anniversary.

It’s complicated to explain how a Greensboro resident, Eden native, preschool teacher, sister to five, and mother of four came into my life. What matters more is how she changed it.

Most of us would wallow in self-pity or be paralyzed in fear if we heard the diagnosis Alicia received two years ago. Alicia Dyan Pace Riddle wasn’t most of us. When things were the darkest, she kept a note pad and recorded 100 blessings that she’d received while battling cancer. She didn’t just stop and smell the roses. Her list planted more for us to find.

In this season of Thankgiving, I want to herald the memory of a woman who was thankful when there seemingly wasn’t anything to be thankful for. But she found reasons. Her notes weren’t pious or superficial. They were honest and real. Even though she was thrown into a medical whirlwind, Alicia stayed anchored and took nothing for granted. “The bathroom floors were clean at Duke today,” I read from her list. That meant her jeans would stay clean while she kneeled to pray in the stall. “With so many people bringing food, I’m glad my front porch got fixed.” Sick or not, a woman wants her house to look good when company comes.

As I flipped through the pages, many of her notes made me smile. “My mom’s cooking,” “Reconnecting with my old high school friends,” or “ice cream.” Others made me cry.

“Four people started going to church because of me,” and “Praying daily with my husband, Scott.”

Jeremiah 29:11 (For only I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord. Plans to prosper and not harm you. Plans to give you hope and a future.) became known as Alicia’s Prayer. It was sewn onto pajamas by a friend, turned into a commemorative necklace by a jeweler, but mainly served as the spiritual guide for her family.

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Second Thoughts

by Kim Clifton ©2012

Well Done, My Good and Faithful Servant I can only imagine the range of emotions she experienced when she went from complete healing to “there’s nothing more we can do,” in just a matter of months. She and Scott never gave up and empowered their prayer warriors not to give up, either.

Alicia was probably 90 pounds soaking wet, but she made such a difference in this world. A college scholarship has been established at Morehead High. Team Alicia Riddle set a national record in the Free to Breathe lung cancer awareness rally.

Businesses in Greensboro adopted her and donated proceeds from sales to this organization.

But mostly, Alicia’s greatest legacy is her children. Thousands attended her visitation and funeral, but she had the most impact on the four precious ones you see in these pictures. All share her beauty, but each shares unique traits with their mom.

Elizabeth, a cross country runner,

not only has her mom’s twinkle in her eye, she has the energy and spunk that Alicia used to fight this battle.

Katherine, an artist and athlete, once sold stacks of pictures she’d colored in order to raise money for Haitian earthquake victims. Within her, beats the same charitable heart of her mother. Ben’s shy smile and eagerness to please first caught my

There’s one last thing about Alicia I need to tell you. Her list of 100 is actually only 98. I don’t think it’s because she ran out of blessings to record. I think she left them blank on purpose to give us room to write two more and the inspiration to begin our own. That’s what good mothers do. They pave the way. They show you how to live.

And sometimes, they have to show you how to die. But most of all, they show you how to give thanks... even if it’s just on a simple yellow legal pad.

Join Team Alicia Riddle and Alicia’s Pool Pals on November 10 at the Free to Breathe rally in Greensboro.

Family portrait courtesy of Ken Sykes Photography. www.kensykesphoto.com

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November 2012 To encourage exceptional customer service, the Business Development Committee of the Danville Pittsylvania County Chamber of Commerce and Evince will recognize those who give it. When you experience exceptional customer service, tell us about it in 300 words or less.

Include your name and phone number. Email your story to joycewilburn@gmail. com or visit www.dpchamber.org; click What’s New - Customer Service Award Nomination.

Spotting Exceptional Customer Service

by Laura Collie

I would like to nominate Randy Bowles of Checkered Pig BBQ & Ribs, 155 Crown Drive, for the Exceptional Customer Service Award.

I have never met Randy in person, but he is great at what he does. I was planning an outdoor meal for family and friends to celebrate our son’s graduation from the University of West Virginia. I called the Checkered Pig and talked with Randy. I just told him how many adults were attending, how many children would be there and what I would like to serve. Without hesitation, he told me what portions I needed to buy and what time to pick it up, so it would be ready to serve at the time we were going to eat our meal.

When I arrived, the staff at Checkered Pig had everything ready. The food was outstanding. Randy probably didn’t realize how he helped our family make a special memory and saved me a lot of stress. He deserves this recognition. I am sure he has helped others, who without his help, would not know where to start planning food for an event big or small.

Thank you, Randy.

Evince Magazine

A Vacuum in Need of Filling

by Mack Williams For some months, I have passed by the sites of two simultaneous occurrences: Walgreens construction at the corner of South Main and Stokes Streets and the old Downtowner Motor Inn’s destruction at the corner of Main and Union Streets.

Despite the saying that it takes longer to build than to destroy, the rates of both seem to have closely approximated each other-Walgreens appearing to be in final readying touches, while the vacant Downtowner lot now waits for its street-level polishing from trucked-in, smoothed-out soil.

Years ago, my young family sometimes stopped to eat at the former location of Domino’s Pizza on the corner of South Main and Stokes Streets, where pharmaceutical prescriptions will soon be filed and filled. The old Domino’s building departed some

years ago, but nature abhors a vacuum and so does a city, hence Walgreens South Main-Stokes genesis.

In the municipal vice versa, something goes up in one place, while in another, something comes down. If nature and city planners abhor a vacuum, then so does the man on the street, who must often pass that cavity. The recent Downtowner Block Party solicited community ideas to provide an appropriate filling. The void is beginning to be filled with ideas for its future, poured like liquid concrete, but for now, the physical space really isn’t empty. On clear, and even partly cloudy days, that ground is filled with something long absent from there—sunshine! *The drawing created at the Block Party is on display in the window of 527 Main Street.

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Harvest fiction by Telisha Moore Leigg

H

er wrist knocked sharply on the worn wood frame of my frontporch-screen door and her eyes came into me like black bone piercing through the wire; that was how I met the 18-year-old woman in front of me, Tim’s little girl, home from her first break from college.

My fingers gripped the handle of my door as both my feet and tongue tangled; then my own eyes went to her left wrist, still raised, to those faint lines like broken chokeberry vines. It’s one thing to hear about hurt, but to see the seal of it, well, I couldn’t move the first time I saw her scars from where she cut.

“My daddy here?” she tells me, not really asking. I nod stepping back, trying to think fast, but nothing comes. I want to say to her, Girl, what you doing down here looking for your daddy? I can’t. She is more welcome to him than me, ain’t that right? Still, I want to say please go away, ‘cause it’s Thanksgiving, ‘cause I done pieced together this happiness for me and mine this day. My home—the landlord could tell you is not really mine, and my man, Tim, your daddy, he’s not really mine either. ‘Cause he really belongs to you.

He holding with guts and grief to what he and I done already busted and broke. But, in the end, I don’t get to say nothing.

Tim comes from the kitchen and nearly drops the plate he was snacking from. He is suddenly light, happy, so when Tim sees me watching his little girl through the screen door, sees my lack of welcome, he don’t like it. He goes and opens the screen, pulls her sleeve down over that left wrist. He don’t want me to see that damage.

“Darla, let the girl in, why don’t you,” he snaps to me. “Boy,” he says to Cameron, my middle child gawking, “close the door, letting the heat out. (frantic to Laurel) Everything okay? (at her nod) Come on in; have a seat.”

Laurel sits, but doesn’t take off her jacket.

How can I say, before Tim, I done lived my life like a dog chained from water? When we got together, suddenly it rained, and I turned up my head for the trickle. I’m sorry his wife left him ‘cause of me. I’m sorry for his boy, shot and gone. I’m even sorry for this girl/woman shooting fire from her eyes on me, but I won’t let him go. Even a little joy is still joy. I go to the kitchen.

I move the turkey in the aluminum deepdish cooker from the old oven to the kitchen

table, the same turkey I got up since 3:00 a.m. to check. For a second, I lean back against the small pantry door, blink back any bliss I was planning to hold. Nothing good can come from this Thanksgiving.

The kitchen table is small and looks smaller when I add the extra seat. Tim, he sits between us. Tim, he smiles with tears in his eyes, at her visit/ambush. He squeezes my hand when she takes a bite of turkey. And all I think, my hands smoothing the new amber tablecloth I spent 30 minutes picking out from Target, was how young the child was-- just 18. I think about my life then and how I had been at 18; I had been loud, popping gum at the club, lonely, already leaving Tyrion—my oldest—then four, at home with my mother so I could find some love that didn’t leave. And what I learned since then is that they all leave. We eat. We eat in silence, forks clinking, the children subdued, Tyrion my oldest gone God knows where, only Kondra, my baby girl, daring to speak to Tim’s Laurel.

“Can I have some of that?” Kondra asks Laurel, meaning the potatoes. Laurel looks right through me as she passes them. More silence.

I don’t care Laurel’s mother sick and they put her someplace to heal her head and heart.

I don’t care that I may be some part of that, because long ago, I got over shame of how I got what I got. Folks done to me and didn’t say howdy-do about it. I keep telling myself we pull out the dirt what we slaved in and when I get mine, I’ll take mine. Still, when alone—and mostly I’m alone, I know break-bad truth. My love’s an empty wine bottle floating down a flooded creek.

Tim and Laurel go sit in the living room, leave us castaways in the kitchen. Laurel, she courting him with forgiveness. “Mama, who she?”

Kondra whispered, 9, pigtails still in Afro puffs.

She was a little awed by the slender college girl sitting in our living room. “Shhh,” I say.

Tim goes onto the back porch for a smoke and Laurel goes with him, takes a cigarette from his front pocket pack. Tim lets her smoke beside him. “Anybody know you here? Your mama she still...there?” Tim’s voice dies down like an ember smothered by rain, his still-got-love for his ex wafting in my house. Laurel shakes her head no. I tell Cameron to go turn on the game. I go back to myself, my children, deep in hurt until they come back in. “Who she, Mama?”

Kondra whispers again from the hallway, but all hear it over the game. The girl looks at me with quiet, drained eyes-- eyes taking in the crack in the plaster beside the wood stove. She don’t

Laurel’s eyes keep on to my children, their too clean neatness. She looks at me looking at her, finally a smile and I feel hopelessness stalking me. “I thought you was Tim’s girl?”

Kondra says both sassy and scared. She’s heard Tim say that, but I wonder now if I’ll ever hear it again. I jerk Kondra’s arm into the living room and we are all sitting, nerves and hate and tension like sleet melting down.

Tim’s divorce was nothing. Clarisse, the ex-wife he still loved, was no threat, nothing to put a wedge in his heart. But this girl was his heart, especially since his boy dead. Here is something live he can salvage and secure.

Now Laurel takes off her jacket and I see more lines, more scars; she’s warrior strong with no thought to stop. “You staying for a while?” Tim has his heart in his throat, can’t look at his baby girl, slowly moves his arm to rest over her shoulder. But I see her flinch.

That girl means me harm, wants my throat between her teeth. I think she thinks my time with Tim is ready for harvest; the sickle ready to cut and this one knows how to cut. I swallow back the rest of hope.

“Yeah, I’ma stay...Daddy.” Laurel smiles bitterness talking to him, looking to me. And Tim can’t see it, while I see it’s both of us she hates. When she came to my door, I didn’t see her full strength, but she’ll make me feel it. It’s one thing to hear about hurt, but to see the seal of it, well again here in my living room I can’t move. I see the knife no one else sees...in her head...moving toward my heart.

The author welcomes your reactions at telishamooreleigg@gmail.com.

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Calendar Clips Clip it. Post it. Do it.

For more activities, see the calendar on page 16-17.

Friday, November 2 – Friday, December 7 Artist Harry Aron @ The Danvillian Gallery

Harry Aron’s latest works are inspired from commissioned tattoo designs.

Some of the designs are iconic in nature and historic in reference, such as the American bald eagle and tribal designs. The pieces can be considered Pop Art or Neo Japanese in style, mostly realistic, done with watercolor and enamel on paper. Aron is a VCU graduate with 35 years of continually refining and working his craft both as an acclaimed tattoo artist and a fine art artist. The opening reception is Friday November 9, from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at 210 North Union Street. Gallery hours are Fridays and Saturdays from 1:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. or by appointment. Call 434.972.1860 for more information or to make an appointment. (submitted by Wayne Dobson)

Saturday, November 3 Danville Symphony Orchestra Fall Classical Concert

The DSO kicks off its 21st season with Indian Summer under the direction of Peter Perret. A highlight will be Tchaikovsky’s Violin Concerto in D, featuring young violin artist Colin Laursen. The program will also include Brahms Symphony No. 2 in D and Frederick Delius’ composition, On Hearing the First Cuckoo in Spring. This concert is free to the public. The downbeat is promptly at 8:00 p.m. at George Washington High School Auditorium, 701 Broad Street.

For a full 2012-2013 schedule of concerts, visit www.danvillesymphony.net. (submitted by Mary Franklin)

Tuesday, November 6 – Friday, December 14 Desegregation of VA Education (DOVE) Exhibit

On Saturday, November 10, from 3:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at the Danville Museum of Fine Arts & History, 975 Main Street, stories will be recorded about personal experiences of desegregation, which officially began on February 2, 1959 and continued through the early 1970s. Letters, photos, fliers and posters can be donated to DOVE or will be scanned for the digital archives. The final resting place for the exhibit will be the Virginia State University archives in Petersburg. The exhibit in Danville is sponsored by AARP, Danville Alumnae Chapter of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, the Danville Historical Society and the Danville Museum of Fine Arts & History. For more information, visit www.lib.odu.edu/specialcollections/dove/index.htm or call 434.724.2124. (submitted by Paula Smith)

Saturday, November 10

Leadership Southside @ Brightleaf Brewfest

Starting at 3:00 p.m., Leadership Southside will be distributing information about this leadership program sponsored by the Danville Pittsylvania Chamber of Commerce and their special project, the development of a website:

www.lovesouthside.org, at the Brewfest. The mission of this employer-sponsored group is to foster community pride by raising awareness of positive attributes of the region through an online resource of community events and places to visit.

The 5th Annual Brightleaf Brewfest will be held from 3:00 p.m. to 8:30 p.m. at the Community Market, 629 Craghead Street. Over 100 different beers will be available for sampling. Enjoy live music, browse great vendors and taste delicious food. This is a 21and older event. Purchase tickets at the Danville Welcome Center, 645 River Park Drive. Phone 434.793.4636 for more information or visit www.brightleafbrewfest.com. (submitted by Laura Daniel)

Wednesday, November 14

Death of a Pinehurst Princess

In his recent book, author Steve Bouser delves into the lingering mystery surrounding the 1935 death of the newlywed adopted daughter of hotel magnate, Ellsworth Statler. The sensational demise of youthful Statler hotel heiress, Elva Statler Davidson, in the quiet North Carolina resort community of Pinehurst made headlines from coast-to-coast in the mid-1930s. Bouser will discuss his book at the Wednesday Club, 1002 Main Street, beginning at 3:45 p.m. Coffee is served beginning at 3:15 p.m. The meeting is open to the public. (submitted by Nancy Kaylor)

Friday, November 16 – Sunday, November 18 Smoke on the Mountain

The Little Theatre of Danville, the area’s oldest incorporated performing arts organization, continues the celebration of its 65th season with this foot-stomping blue grass/gospel musical featuring guitar, fiddle, piano, banjo and a variety of homemade instruments.

The setting for the play is 1938 at the Mount Pleasant Baptist Church in Mount Pleasant, North Carolina during the last years of the Great Depression. The play is about a Saturday night gospel sing featuring the Sanctified Sanders Family Singers in their first night back in five years. Pastor Oglethorpe, a young and enthusiastic minister, has enlisted the Sanders family in his efforts to bring his tiny congregation into the modern world. Opening-night jitters combined with the disdain of the church’s chief benefactors, three spinster sisters, keep the evening on the verge of chaos. Between songs, the family members tell stories about their personal trials of faith that often border on the hilarious.

There is a cast of seven: Madalyn Mohamed, Elizabeth Goodman, Tom Saunders, Michael Carter, Douglas Adams, Danya Zuniga and Alan Holt; the audience is the congregation. The show is directed and produced by Alice Saunders.

Tickets are $15 and can be purchased by calling 434.792.5796 or before each performance, if available. Shows are at 7:30 p.m. on Friday and Saturday; 2:30 p.m. on Sunday at the former Main Street United Methodist Church, now the Piedmont Preservation League, 767 Main Street. Visit www.danvillelittletheatre.org. (submitted by Alice Saunders)

Saturday, November 17 Chatham Concert & Reception

The Chatham Concert Series, a program of Chatham First, opens the season with Fun for Clarinet, Strings and Piano at 7:00 p.m. at Emmanuel Episcopal Church, 66 North Main Street, Chatham.The concert features Pittsburgh Philharmonic’s Principal Clarinetist Alex Jones with the everpopular musicians of the Rainier Trio: Kevin and Bryan Matheson on violin and viola and Brenda Wittwer, piano.

An hors d’oeuvre reception will follow the performance, allowing concert-goers to mix with the musicians. Admission: by donation. For more information email kstrings1@hotmail.com. (submitted by Susan Paynter) (Continued on page 15)

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Monday, November 26 – Friday, December 21 Decorating the Trees for a Cause

Local non-profit organizations are invited to decorate trees in the lobby of the Institute for Advanced Learning & Research, 150 Slayton Avenue. Visitors vote for their favorite tree by donating money to the group that decorated the tree.

The winner will receive its own donations plus 25% of all additional monies raised, with the remaining organizations realizing 75% of what they collected.

Interested organizations should contact Ellen Bass at 434.766.6743 or ellen. bass@ialr.org for more information as soon as possible. Space is limited. The Institute Conference Center will host a free, public open house to showcase the trees on Tuesday, December 11 from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. The lobby is open for viewing the trees Monday through Friday from 8:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m. until December 21. (submitted by Chris Horne)

Upcoming Saturday, December 15 A Christmas Carol

The Children’s Theatre of Danville will present the Charles Dickens Christmas favorite at the beautiful, historic and fully-renovated, North Theatre, 629 North Main Street, beginning at 3:00 p.m. Tickets are $6.00 per person for adults and children ages two and older. Tickets can be purchased at Karen’s Hallmark in Piedmont Mall or by mail. Send a check to Children’s Theatre of Danville, P.O. Box 2522, Danville, VA 24541. Your tickets will be mailed to you.

Remember to include your address and phone number on your request. For more information, call 434.489.8953. (submitted by Colette Polsky)

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November Calendar Ongoing

Guided Walking Tour – Millionaires Row, The Secrets Inside. www.danvillehistoricalso ciety.org. 434.770.1974.

Thru November 3

Rocks to Racing Exhibit – Life in the Ordovician. Virginia Museum of Natural History (VMNH) – 276.634.4185.

Thru November 11

Carson Davenport Exhibit – Featured are oils, watercolors, lithographs, etchings, and woodcuts from the 40+ year career of artist and educator Carson Davenport. Danville Museum of Fine Arts and History (DMFA&H) – 434.793.5644.

Thru November 30

Open Registration for Youth Basketball League. YMCA – 434.792.0621.

Lady Astor Rose Exhibit.

Langhorne House – 434.791.2256.

Through January 27

Through the Eyes of the Eagle Exhibit – Inspired by the wisdom of traditional ways in tribal communities, these stories explore the benefits of being physically active and eating healthy foods. Danville Science Center (DSC) – 434.791.5160.

Thru May 5

Playing with Time Exhibit – Use time manipulating tools to explore nature from the growth and development of plants and animals to era-spanning geologic events.

DSC – 434.791.5160.

November 1

Bob Ross Painting Class. 9am. Piedmont Arts Association (PAA), Martinsville – 276.632.3221.

Bingo Madness – Bingo with different themes each month. 4pm. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Central Europe Tour Info Meeting. Jut’s Cafe, AU. 6:45pm. 434.770.3285. www.averett.edu/studyabroad. Click on Alumni & Friends Tour. See ad page 13.

Dan River District Cub & Boy Scout Roundtable – For scout leaders, parents or those interested in scouting. Includes the Dan River District Executive for Boy Scouts of America State of the District address.

7-8pm. St. Luke’s UM Church. 434.710.4408.

November 1 (thru 4)

Chicago. Averett. See ad page 8.

November 1 (thru 29)

Curiosity Corner – Make crafts, play games and have fun. Ages 3-5. TH 9:30am12:30pm. Coates Rec. 434.797.8848.

Twilight Trail Time Trials - Competing only against yourself, this is a great way to improve time and build endurance for longdistance, competitive or fun runs. 5:307pm. Anglers Park. 434.799.5215.

African Dance – Learn the art of African dance. TU 6pm. City Auditorium.

434.797.8848.

Kuumba-West African Dance – Live drumming and energetic dancing.

TH Kids, 6-6:30pm; Adults, 6:30-7:45pm.

City Armory. 434.797.8848.

Bluegrass Concert. TH 7pm. Community Center, Chatham – 434.432.3115.

November 1 (thru 30)

Art Exhibit – Sappony Art: Strength.

Reception 11/3, 2-3:15pm. Kirby Gallery, Roxboro. 336.597.1709

November 2

First Friday Art Walk. 5-7pm. Studio 107, Martinsville – 276.638.2107.

Big Night Out Gala – Black tie optional gala with live music, heavy hors d’oeuvres,

an open bar, and door prizes benefiting Big Brothers Big Sisters of Danville Area. 7-11pm. Gentry Farm & Saloon.

434.792.3700.

Mountain Heart Concert – acoustic music that showcases superlative musicianship and exciting live performances. 7:30pm.

The Prizery – 434.572.8339.

November 2 (thru 30)

Story Time – Share stories and songs with a theme. Ages birth-5. 11am. Danville Public Library (DPL) – 434.799.5195.

November 2 (thru Dec. 7)

Harry Aron Art Exhibit. Danvillian Gallery.

See story page 14.

November 3

Speakeasy – Danville Historical Society.

8pm-midnight. Halloween or 1930s era costume contest, live jazz band, dessert bar, champagne toast, silent auction. secret location. $25 per person/$45 couple 434.334.8324.

Louie Fields 5k Run/Walk, Fun Run & Breakfast. 8am. YMCA – 434.792.0621.

Give Thanks for Smiles Fundraiser – Stop putting off that dental work and get it done at a substantial discount with proceeds benefiting God’s Storehouse.

8am-1pm. 4 locations of Danville Dental Associates. 434.822.0500.

Intro to Grant Writing. 9am-12pm.

AU Riverview Campus. 434.791.7189.

Story Lab – Listen to stories while doing something creative with a special theme and art medium. Ages 5-9. 10-11am. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Dirty Dan Dash – A merge of urban adventure racing with a crazy mud run.

10am. Crossing at the Dan. 434.799.5200.

Turkey Trot 5K Trail Race. 10am.

Mayo Lake, Roxboro. 336.597.7806.

DRBA’s First Saturday Outing – Hyco River. 10am. 540.570.3511 or 276.694.4449. www.danriver.org.

Bob Ross Painting Class – Yosemite.

10:30am–3:30pm. Ballou Park.

434.797.8848.

National Game Day. Games of all kinds.

11am. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Wine & Roses, Paws & Noses – Wine festival with live music, games for dogs, a pet photographer and dogs available for adoption. Benefits the Animal Welfare League. 1-6pm. Tomahawk Mill Winery. 434.251.0557.

An Evening of Jazz – Move and groove to the smooth sounds of jazz vocalist, Janice Price. Refreshments served. 6pm-8pm.

Ballou Rec Center – 434.799.5216.

Antiques & Heirlooms Fundraiser.

5-8pm. Halifax County Historical Society.

434.753.2137.

Fall Classical Concert – Danville Symphony Orchestra. See story page 14.

Ricky Skaggs & Kentucky Thunder Concert. 8pm. Caswell County Civic Center. 336.694.4591. www.ccfta.org.

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Karate Class. TU 5:30-7:30pm. Community Center, Chatham – 434.432.3115.

Landscape and Night Photography.

6-8pm. The Artisan Center – 276.656.5461.

Belly Dancing Class. TU 6-7pm. Community Center, Chatham – 434.432.3115.

Sewing Classes – Learn how to use a needle and thread, make simple alterations or clothes. TU 6:30-8:30pm. Coates Rec Center. 434.797.8848.

Xbox Kinect Bowling Tournament – Winners each week will go on to the finale on 12/1. 11am. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Leadership Southside @ Brightleaf Brewfest. See story page 14.

Bright Leaf Brew Fest – 100 different beers, live music, great vendors and delicious food. 3-8:30pm. Community Market. 434.793.4636.

SoVA Wine Fest – Wines from 12 Virginia farm wineries. Berry Hill. www.sovawinetrail.com.

Magic of the Masters Close-Up Magic Show. North Theatre. See ad page 20.

November 6 (thru 28)

November 10 & 11

combined with dance moves. M 8-9pm.

Pepsi Building. 434.797.8848.

November 6 (thru 27)

Koates Kids Pre-School Program – Different themed activities introduced each week through events, games, arts, and crafts. Ages 3-5. T/W 9:30am–12pm. Coates Rec. 434.797.8848.

November 6 (thru 29)

Cardio Step Class – Up-tempo, high energy class. TTH 8:45-9:45am or 12-1pm.

City Auditorium. 434.797.8848.

Baby Boomer Style Work Out – Incorporate walking, cardio activity and weight training into a fitness routine. TTH 9-10:30am. City Auditorium. 434.797.8848.

Ladies, It’s Time to Work It Out – Incorporate walking, cardio activity and weight training into fitness routines designed for women. 10am-12pm. City Auditorium. 434.797.8848.

November 6 (thru Dec. 14)

Desegregation of VA Education (DOVE) Exhibit. DMFAH. See story page 14.

November 7

Senior Bowling Tournament. 10am12pm. Riverside Lanes. 434.791.2695.

ABC Pre-School Storytime. 10:30-11am.

Person County Public Library. www.personcounty.net.

Art 101 – A program getting started in basic art. 3:30pm. DPL – 434.799.5195.

November 7 & 14

Homeschool Wednesdays – Life Sciences Ecosystems/Habitats (11/7), Organism’s Interactions with Environment (11/14). Ages 6-9 & 10-15. 10-11:15am & 3-4pm. VMNH – 276.634.4185.

November 7 (thru 28)

Art with Flo – Wet-on-wet technique. Weds.

Location/times vary. 434.797.8848.

Wednesdays for Wees – Storytime for ages up to 5 years. 10am. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Belly Dance Classes. W 6:30pm. Pepsi Building. 434.797.8848.

November 8

Holiday Living Show – Arts, crafts, food & more. 9am/1pm. Halifax County High School. 434.579.3450. www.halifaxbusinesswomen.org.

November 10 (thru Jan. 12)

PAA Exhibits – Works by Virginia Foothills Quilters Guild & The Art of the Quilt. PAA, Martinsville – 276.632.3221.

November 11

Showcase Magazine Bridal and Wedding Expo. See ad page 18.

November 13

Diabetes: Not So Sweet – Talk about Type 1 and Type 2 diabetes, information on what is healthy for a diabetic diet, including choices and substitutions. 6:30pm. DSC – 434.791.5160.

November 13 & 14

Curious George Visit. 10:30am & 4pm. Person County Public Library. www.personcounty.net.

November 13 (thru Dec. 11)

Basic Quilting. 5:30-8:30pm.

The Artisan Center – 276.632.0066.

Ceramic Glaze Techniques. 5:30-8:30pm.

The Artisan Center – 276.632.0066.

November 14

Polliwogs & Science Stars – Learn about treasures and secrets hidden below the Earth’s surface, from sparkling minerals to erupting volcanoes. Ages 3–4, 1–2pm. Ages 5–7, 3:30–4:30pm. DSC 434.791.5160.

Death of a Pinehurst Princess.

Wednesday Club. See story page 14.

November 14 (thru Dec. 12)

Intensive Glass Slumping Techniques.

5:30-8:30pm. The Artisan Center – 276.632.0066.

November 15

November 5 (thru 21)

Bingo. Times/locations vary. 434.799.5216.

Broadband Communities – Municipal Fiber Networks. Institute for Advanced Learning and Research. www.ialr.org.

Library Bingo. 11am-2pm. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Winter Landscape Maintenance. 6:30pm.

DPL – 434.797.8848.

Adult Book Bunch Meeting. 12-1pm.

Person County Public Library. www.personcounty.net.

Charlie Brown Thanksgiving – Watch the holiday special and have toast, popcorn, pretzels, and jelly beans. 4pm. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Sky Watchers – Taurus the Bull, Hyades star cluster, Pleiades, the constellation Cassiopeia and the slim lunar crescent.

Nightfall. DSC – 434.791.5160.

November 5 (thru 26)

November 9

November 15 (thru Dec. 6)

November 5

Anime Club – Come watch anime, talk manga, and enjoy things Japanese. Ages 12+. 4-6pm. DPL– 434.799.5195.

Medicare Open Enrollment. 1-4pm.

Ballou Rec Center – 434.799.5216.

Belly Dance Classes. intermediate, 5:30pm, beginning 6:45pm. Pepsi Building.

434.797.8848.

Boogie Monday – Mambo. M 7-8:30 pm.

Ballou Rec Center – 434.799.5216.

Dancing in Heels – A touch of vaudeville

Senior Movie Day. 11am. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Homeschooler Program. 11am. Person Co. Public Library. www.personcounty.net.

Sky Search – Explore the stars and planets. Learn the parts of a telescope, discover the key to recognizing famous constellations and more. Ages 6-12.

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November 8 & 9

The Return - Beatles Tribute Band.

North Theatre. See ad page 20.

November 10

Fall Yard Sale. 6am-2pm. Coates Rec. 434.799.5150.

Holiday Craft Bazaar. 8am-2:30pm.

Brosville UMC. 434.685.3140.

Surviving the Holidays – Five free program for anyone experiencing grief and loss this holiday season. 11/15Commonwealth Home Nursing & Hospice, 1:30pm, Fairview UM Church; 11/15-Liberty Home Care & Hospice Services, Hampton Inn, Gretna; 11/17-Legacy Hospice of the Piedmont, 10-11am, YMCA, Danville;

Evince Magazine 11/20-Very Reverend Cleon M. Ross, 79pm, St. John’s Episcopal Church, Halifax; 11/27-Halifax Regional Hospice, 1-3pm, Halifax Regional Hospital, South Boston; 12/6-Hospice of Memorial Hospital, 2pm, Memorial Hospital of Martinsville. Cancer Resource Center of SV– 434.766.6650.

AU Singers Christmas Concert – A service of lights, readings and carols for the Advent and Christmas season. 7:30pm. Pritchett Auditorium, Averett. 434.791.5600. See ad page 8.

November 16

Beginning Swimming Adventures – Designed for children who have no prior swimming experience, or who are just learning to swim. Classes feature water games, floating and basic swimming strokes. Ages 6-12. TU/TH 3:30-4:15pm.

YMCA. 434.799.5215.

Just Everyday Women Walking by Faith.

11am-1pm. Mary’s Diner.

Bake Sale. 11am-2pm. Wednesday Club.

1002 Main Street.

Fall Youth Dance – Music and light refreshments. 7-9pm. Coates Rec. 434.799.5200.

November 16, 17 & 18

Smoke on the Mountain. Little Theatre of Danville. See ad page 13 and story page 14.

November 16 (thru 26)

Averett University Sports. See ad page 8.

November 16 (thru Dec. 1)

The Adventures of Tom Sawyer – A musical adventure based on Mark Twain’s classic story. 7:30pm/3pm. The Prizery – 434.572.8339.

November 17

Danville Area Humane Society Sale – Purchase 2013 calendars, raffle tickets for Christmas wreath, sweatshirts, hoodies, and various animal related items. 7:30am–3pm.

Danville Community Market. 434.799.0843.

Holiday Bazaar – Browse over 80 vendors selling handmade gifts, arts and crafts, unique holiday items, homemade baked goods and more. 8am–2pm. Danville Community Market. 434.797.8961.

Family Movie Matinee – Movies, popcorn and lemonade while watching Madagascar 3.

10:30am. DPL – 434.799.5195.

Southside Writers. 11am. Westover Church of God. editoradams@gmail.com.

Chatham Concert Series – Fun for Clarinet, Strings and Piano. See story page 14.

Who’s Bad. Kirby Theater. See ad page 18.

November 17 & 28

Movies at the Kirby – Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner (11/7); Hotel Rwanda (1/28). 7pm.

The Kirby Theater – 336.597.1709.

November 18

Taste of The Holidays. 6-8:30pm.

The Prizery – 434.572.8339.

November 19

Book Share – Share your favorite books and take home a new one. Snacks and books provided. 4pm. DPL – 434.799.5195.

November 19 (thru Dec. 11)

Art with Judie – Learn how to paint with oil or watercolor. M/TU - Times vary. Ballou Annex. 434.797.8848.

November 27 (thru Dec. 20)

November 28

Doodle Bugs – Life Science Theme: Plants. Ages 3-5. 10am & 3pm.

VMNH – 276.634.4185.

Guest Speaker – The Director of Archaeology and Landscapes of Poplar Forest, Thomas Jefferson’s retreat, will discuss the process of rediscovering the details needed to restore the landscape.

3:45pm. Wednesday Club. 1002 Main St.

November 29

Campus Open House & Festival of Trees.

Carlisle School, Martinsville. See ad page 10.

Upcoming Events December 1

Downtown Danville Christmas Tree Lighting. 4:30pm. Main St. @ MLK Bridge.

Christmas Parade. 5pm. Downtown South Boston. 434.575.4208.

Miss Black Teen Virginia. North Theatre.

See ad page 20.

December 6

Youth of the Year Dinner. Chatmoss Country Club. www.bgcbr.org.

Jingle on Main. Roxboro. See ad page 18.

December 6 (thru 29)

Art Exhibit – Jubilation Extravaganza.

Reception 12/6, 6-8pm. Kirby Gallery, Roxboro. 336.597.1709.

December 7

First Friday Art Walk. 5-7pm. Studio 107, Martinsville – 276.638.2107.

Christmas Concert. Person County Community Chorus. Roxboro.

See ad page 18.

Roanoke Symphony Holiday Pops Spectacular. 7-9pm. Martinsville HS Auditorium. PAA, Martinsville – 276.632.3221.

The Church Sisters. North Theatre.

See ad page 20.

December 8

Riverview Rotary Christmas Parade.

6pm. Main Street, Danville. 434.793.4636.

November 20

December 8 & 9

November 20 & 21

December 10 (thru 26)

November 21

December 12

November 24

December 13 (thru 16)

Alzheimer’s Support Group Meeting.

6pm. Emeritus at Danville – 434.791.3180.

Thanksgiving Storytime. 10:30-11am.

Person County Public Library. www.personcounty.net Thanksgiving Craft – Decorate a snack bowl for Thanksgiving treats. 3:30-4:30pm.

DPL-Westover – 434.799.5195.

Bluegrass at the Rives. 5:30 pm - Pot Luck Band; 7 pm - Concert begins. Rives Theatre. 276.638.7095.

Coming Home – A Cabaret starring Danville native, Brad Bass, star of Broadway’s Wicked, Memphis and Jersey Boys. 8pm.

Union Street Theatre. 434.791.4747.

November 24 (thru Dec. 29) The Magic of Christmas Show. North Theatre. See ad page 20.

November 26 (thru Dec. 21) Decorating the Trees for a Cause.

Institute for Advanced Learning and Research. See story page 15.

November 27

What the Craft? Book Club – November’s craft is Creepy Creations. Ages 10+. 4-5pm.

DPL – 434.799.5195.

40th Annual Holiday Tour. Danville Historical Society. 1-5pm. See ad page 18.

Chrismon Tree Viewing. Times vary.

Ascension Lutheran Church – 434.792.5795.

Moscow Ballet’s Great Russian Nutcracker. 7:30-9:30pm. GW Auditorium.

Danville Concert Association – 434.792.9242.

Amahl and the Night Visitors. 7:30pm/ 3pm. The Prizery – 434.572.8339.

December 14, 15 & 16

The Gospel According to Scrooge – A musical. 7pm/5:30pm. Free. Westover Baptist Church. 434.822.2302.

December 15

A Christmas Carol. North Theatre.

See ad page 20.

Simply Sinatra Christmas. 7:30pm.

Kirby Theater, Roxboro. 336.597.1709.

December 21

Santa Visit. URW Community Federal Credit Union. See ad page 17.

A Hometown Christmas. 8pm.

Caswell County Civic Center. 336.694.4591. www.ccfta.org.

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Reflecting Forward Idealism within Realism: Creating Bright Spots on the Canvas

by Linda Lemery I recently had dinner are partly driven by Ideal: A with a friend at a local increasing experience, restaurant. Our waiter growth, maturity, standard of was a former business and the weight of perfection. communications responsibilities. The student I’d taught bright spots aren’t several years ago. In gone, or aren’t even Idealism: The that class, I’d spent fewer, really; they’re practice of a lot of time talking just sometimes forming ideals about entrepreneurial masked by the spots endeavors. that are less bright. and living Presentation under their assignments were I’ve also come to influence. designed to yield believe that we don’t general plans that have to be content students could build with the bright spots -- Webster’s on in the future. that are already on New Collegiate One assignment was our canvases. We can to share a passion put more there, at our Dictionary and how it might discretion. It takes be channeled into a more time and more lucrative business venture. energy to create our own and the route can be circuitous. What are I remembered his presentation, the more common bright spots? and while the waiter was still there, Having children, learning about I shared with my dinner companion the world, being friends, honoring how impressed I’d been with his religious beliefs, achieving goals, work. The student mentioned that having fun ... some of these are he had a group of friends who were childlike, some are more mature banding together after graduation concepts, some bridge the gap in a few months to start a business between the two. And some bright based on that presentation. I asked spots are created, like having had him about prices and then told him the privilege of investing in a young to bring me one of the finished college student with an assignment items and I would buy it. My friend that tied course content and his was so intrigued that she said she creative passion to a possible would buy one, too. business venture and eventually seeing his plans coming to fruition.

What’s my point here? When I was As a human being living in reality younger, I had vague notions of but leaning toward idealism, for defining an ideal world through me, seeing this kind of growth in mental pictures. An ideal was a young person represents one of represented by a child skipping life’s best bright spots. Touching through a flower-covered meadow. lives and encouraging growth in The sun was shining, the colors others seems to me to be a form were bright, and the environment of idealism grounded in reality: an was fresh, clean, and light. The adult idealism, if you will. child’s face was clear, unlined, and carefree. On the other hand, the Life is a collection of small real world in my head at that time moments, a balance of light and was an adult working at a job to pay dark. Maybe helping others is part the bills. The colors varied, with of how we adults retain bits and some bright spots, and some not pieces of the idealism of childhood. so bright. The environment was Living up to an ideal seems to shift pleasant but a bit worn, as if many our lives a tiny bit more toward the had traveled that way before. light.

Obviously, I grew up as an idealist.

Now that I’m an adult with adult responsibilities, I understand that the changes in environment -between the child’s and the adult’s landscape in the analogy above --

About the Author: Linda Lemery llemery@averett.edu is Circulation Manager at Averett University’s Mary B. Blount Library in Danville. She welcomes your comments.

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In an Ideal World All People Are Healthy

by Dave Gluhareff MFS,CFT-ISSA In an ideal world, everyone would take care of themselves and others and have better health. We should take care of our bodies, the temples that God gave us, and help ourselves so we can help others. We have been equipped with a fascinating machine called the human body and we need to preserve it. My goal as a fitness trainer has been to improve people’s lives for the better and also lead by example. After I lost 100 pounds, I wanted to help others lose weight and deal with all aspects of the process-- physical, emotional, mental, psychological, and spiritual.

Yes, I do touch lives because God is working through me and allowing me the chance to help people by being a good listener, who is not judgmental, by giving advice if needed, by praying with them and for them. I have always led with my heart and feel it has been my guide

these past 16 years of being in business. I am passionate about my work and feel blessed everyday to do the work I do and experience life with the clients, friends and family I am around.

Being healthier doesn’t depend on socioeconomic levels or race or anything else but will and drive. I always say, “Weight don’t discriminate!” We have to be serious about making positive healthy changes and adhering to exercise, nutrition and rest to obtain our goals. I’m not selling a product; I’m selling a way of life.

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Evince Magazine

Salon Visit 101 How to Have a Pleasant Visit and Find the Look You Want

by Katie Mosher Sometimes visiting a hair salon for the first time can be frightening and intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be that way. Having your hair or makeup done should be fun. Here are a few pointers to help you feel more confident in the stylist’s chair and to achieve the results you want: Make an appointment for a free consultation before the cut/color/ style appointment. I can’t stress how important a consultation is to achieving the desired results. This gives you and the stylist a chance to become acquainted and discuss what you like. Bring pictures of hair styles that appeal to you. The stylist will advise you if they are doable. If you don’t have pictures, don’t worry, the stylist will provide hairstyle books and fashion magazines.

Consultations are usually free, but ask to be sure.

Arrive 15 minutes before your appointment. You might need to change clothes or complete an information form.

Be prepared to change your clothing, if receiving a chemical service. A cape or wrap will be provided. During your hair or makeup services, your stylist should show you products and styling aides.

Use these products to maintain your new style and/or color.

Turn off your cell phone or put it on vibrate. This not only shows courtesy for the other clients but will allow your stylist to concentrate on

you. Stopping a service while you talk will make your appointment run late and will conflict with the next person’s scheduled appointment.

Call if you are running late or need to cancel. If for any reason you need to change, reschedule, or cancel your appointment, please notify the stylist immediately. Good stylists have a waiting list and this time could be spent with another client.

Leave children at home. We treasure our small clients, however, to ensure a relaxing and safe atmosphere for all clients, only children receiving services are permitted in the service area. In addition, if your child is under the age of 12 and is not receiving a service, please make childcare arrangements or she/he may wait in the reception area with a supervising adult.

Show Gratitude. Tipping is always at the discretion of the client. It is customary to leave a 15-20% tip depending on the level of satisfaction.

In the end, time spent in the hair salon should be fun. Don’t let the hustle and bustle intimidate you.

Salons are always busy, especially on Saturdays, but that doesn’t mean you have to be in a rush. Don’t be scared to ask for exactly what you want from your hairstylist. Just be clear and concise and you’ll be sure to receive the desired results.

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Book Clubbing A review by Diane Adkins

How Children Succeed: Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character

by Paul Tough

Paul Tough has written many times, movingly and effectively, about the lives of children in marginal situations.

In his latest book, he explores the newest research about what qualities children need to develop in order to have a successful life. Using a storydriven style, Tough shows that childhood stress, which has a profound impact on a child’s later success, can be overcome when caring adults intervene.

One of the most interesting things about this work is Tough’s challenge to our cultural thesis that success follows those who score highest on standardized tests. Studies that follow children through years and decades of their lives show clearly that it is not this indicator that matters the most. Instead, skills that are connected to character—skills such as curiosity, conscientiousness, optimism, grit, self-control, perseverance—these are the true predictors of success throughout life.

Even more exciting is the research that shows that these traits are not something that must be learned as a child. The book traces the lives of several young adults who have faced incredible challenges at home and yet, with the help of a mentor, develop those non-cognitive skills connected to what Tough calls performance character and turn their lives around.

This is a profoundly optimistic book precisely because it proves that character is malleable and positive changes can happen when transformative help is provided. Children can learn the non-cognitive skills that allow them to face and conquer difficulties, to strive for a goal, to achieve a better life. Tough’s conclusion is also a challenge because it makes clear that all of us can help influence the development of character skills in children. He shines a light on places where this reversal of a negative outcome has been achieved, and says he has a “feeling of admiration and hope when I watch young people making the difficult and often painful choice to follow a better path, to turn away from what might have seemed like their inevitable destiny. . . . [But] it’s not enough to just applaud their efforts and hope that someday, more young people follow their lead. They did not get onto that ladder alone.

They are there only because someone helped them take the first step.”

• The Pittsylvania County Public Library, Chatham, will be hosting a discussion of the book Redirect by Timothy Wilson on Thursday, November 8, at 4:00 p.m. in the library’s meeting room, 24 Military Drive. Redirect is this year’s community read selection.

• For more information, visit www. pcplib.org. or phone 434.432.3271.

Send information about what you or your book club is reading to joycewilburn@gmail.com.

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Thanksgiving Memories

by Annelle Williams

With fall in the air and November in full swing, my thoughts turn to Thanksgiving and the special meals my grandmother prepared over the years. We literally went over the river and through the woods for our Thanksgiving feasts. I remember it being colder back then. Many times when the house was full with family, the kids slept on pallets on the floor.

My sister and I would go to sleep on a soft pile of blankets with a thick quilt to keep us warm. By the time we woke in the morning, we could hardly turn over from the weight of the new quilts that had been spread over us during the night.

Daddy usually hunted early in the day leaving before we were up, but returning with his dog, Bo, in time for turkey. The children always ran out to greet the hunters when they returned. Coming back into the house there was a rush of warmth from the kitchen—and delicious aromas of roasting turkey, rising yeast rolls and the unmistakable sweet smell of fresh persimmon puddings cooling on the counter. We liked the persimmon pudding cold, so Mama Nell put it into the refrigerator to cool while we ate. Then we cut little slivers and topped them with whipped cream. The puddings disappeared quickly, even though there were other desserts to be eaten.

If you are fortunate enough to know the location of a good persimmon tree, make persimmon puddings this Thanksgiving and see how quickly they disappear.

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Mama Nell’s Persimmon Pudding 2 cups persimmon pulp* 1 stick butter, melted and cooled 1⁄2 cup corn oil 1 cup white sugar, 1 cup dark brown sugar, packed 4 eggs, beaten 2 cups self-rising flour

1 cup evaporated milk 1 teaspoonful vanilla 1 teaspoonful cinnamon dash of cloves and nutmeg 1 cup chopped pecans (optional) 1 cup shredded coconut (optional) whipped cream

Preheat oven to 350°. Add the melted, cooled butter and corn oil to both cups of sugar and stir until mixed. Add eggs and mix well. Alternate adding flour and milk until combined. Stir in vanilla, persimmon pulp, cinnamon, cloves and nutmeg. Fold in pecans and/or coconut, if desired. Divide batter between three loaf pans greased generously with corn oil. Bake for about 30 minutes until pudding is set, but not overcooked. Cool in pan. Turn out onto foil paper. Wrap and store in refrigerator. Serve cold. Top with sweetened whipped cream. *Persimmons will turn your mouth wrong side out, if you try to eat them before they’re ripe. Mama Nell always told us to wait until after the first frost to gather them. They should be orange and soft to the touch. It takes a lot of persimmons to make 2 cups of pulp. Rinse the persimmons gently and remove any debris. Let them dry. Then either use a pulper to separate the skin and seeds from the pulp, or force through a sieve or strainer. You can freeze the pulp and then thaw completely when ready to make pudding.

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